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Life in God's Love

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  1. My name is Richard. Good morning, Good morning. I am

  2. one of the pastors here. I overseen membership and assimilation.

  3. So if you don't know me, hopefully you'll get to

  4. know me soon. Oh. We've got ushers here with Bibles, bulletins, pens.

  5. They were just dutifully waiting. Fantastic job, guys. If you

  6. need a Bible, bulletin or pen, please see them. They

  7. would be happy to help you out with those things.

  8. I also want to say, if you haven't filled out

  9. a connection card, go ahead and take just a minute

  10. during the service to fill that out sometime before, you know,

  11. before the service ends. We would love to know that

  12. you're here. You know, if you're a member, you know, hey,

  13. we do this every week. We fill this out. We

  14. let them know we're here by name. But then also

  15. if you're not a member, it's a great way for

  16. us to know how we can pray for you. Whether

  17. you're a member or not, let us know how we

  18. can pray for you. We have a team of men

  19. and women who genuinely love to come before God and

  20. say I pray for my brother in this way, I

  21. pray for my sister in this way, in this way

  22. that they're needing help. And then if you're somewhat new here,

  23. please come to the step one table after the service.

  24. There's some men and women there who would love to

  25. hear a little bit about you and then hopefully tell

  26. you a little bit about us. Welcome you into the

  27. life of this church body. All right, I think that's

  28. all those things you are loved. Okay, good job. That's

  29. how we close every service that we have, and so

  30. often when we say that, the next thing to do

  31. is to be dismissed. Happy to remind you of that

  32. every Sunday. It's not just our way of telling you

  33. you are dismissed, although you are dismissed, not right now,

  34. but when I say it later. And I can't speak

  35. for anyone else, but when I say you are loved

  36. for me, it is me wanting to remind you of

  37. God's love for you. The fact that He loves you

  38. is not meant to be a minor footnote, just kind

  39. of at the end of our lives. But it's meant

  40. to define who we are. It's meant to be an

  41. actual motivating factor for how we live our lives. And

  42. who better to talk to us about God's love than

  43. the apostle, the apostle John John, he loves love. If

  44. you take the first two books that bear his name,

  45. or at the Gospel of John and First John, that

  46. accounts for about one third of the times that the

  47. word love is actually used in the whole New Testament,

  48. and the passage that we're going to read in First

  49. John four this morning, he actually says it thirty times,

  50. he crams it in thirty times, he nouns it, he

  51. verbs it. John loves love. And as we'll see this morning,

  52. John loves God, and John loves the love that God

  53. revealed in Jesus, and he'll end up using love here

  54. and First John to actually distinguish who is of God

  55. and who is not. Five times in his gospel, John

  56. refers to himself as the disciple whom Jesus loved. He

  57. walked with Jesus for three years, and he saw him

  58. model this love perfectly day in day out, And he

  59. was there when Jesus taught about love, right before going

  60. to the cross and putting that love on display. So

  61. when John is talking to his readers about love, he

  62. is not talking from just theory. He has seen this

  63. lived out. He's talking from firsthand observation. Now, right now,

  64. if I were to say, where does the Bible talk

  65. about love the clearest, he'd probably be like, oh, one

  66. Corinthians thirteen, Right, that's the love passage. But maybe after

  67. the sermon, maybe you'll think about First John if you

  68. haven't been with us. We're wrapping up a three week

  69. mini series on the Book of First John. We didn't

  70. cover every passage, but it's centered on the verse one

  71. John five thirteen, where he says, I write these things

  72. to you who believe in the name of the Son

  73. of God, that you may know that you have eternal life.

  74. John gives three tests that are meant to bring clarity

  75. to seeing the false teachers and seeing who they were,

  76. and then giving assurance to those who actually remained in

  77. the church, who remained in the faith to say that

  78. you have eternal life. Two weeks ago we looked at

  79. the fact that we can have confidence that we have

  80. eternal life if we have a right relationship with the

  81. truth of who Jesus is. First John two twenty one

  82. says I write to you not because you do not

  83. know the truth, but because you know it, and because

  84. no lie is of the truth. Last week we saw

  85. the we can have confidence that we have eternal life

  86. whom we have a right relationship with sin, and if

  87. we live in the light. Chapter three, verse nine says this,

  88. no one born of God makes a practice of sinning,

  89. for God's seed abides in him, and he cannot keep

  90. on sinning because he has been born of God. In

  91. First John, these these there are three big truths that

  92. show who is of God and who is of the devil.

  93. These tests are not to be are They're not meant

  94. to be independent, but they're actually connected. And if you

  95. don't recall from week one, John writes very symphonically, which

  96. means that he will stay to the theme, he'll kind of

  97. move away from that talk about something else, and then

  98. he'll go back and talk about it again with some

  99. with some variations. So though we will be reading First

  100. John four seven to twenty one, today we will follow

  101. John's big idea as he develops some throughout the whole book.

  102. Today we're going to be looking at how we can

  103. have how we can be assured that we have eternal

  104. life when we have a right relationship with love. We

  105. can be assured we have eternal life when we have

  106. a right relationship with love. We'll see that this love, sorry,

  107. that this right relationship isn't independent of God's love, but

  108. it's actually based on God's love and is meant to

  109. be lived out in response to God's love. That's the

  110. title life in God's Love. If you haven't yet, please

  111. turn with me to first John four seven to twenty one.

  112. This will be a good representative symphonic passage today. This morning,

  113. we'll have a couple of sub points in each section,

  114. but we will see what God has to say about

  115. love in two big pieces. First, we will let God

  116. define love, and then in the second we'll see how

  117. we are to live in a response to his love.

  118. So point one, God is love. Point two love In response.

  119. John wants us to see that God's love is the

  120. foundation for the love that we are meant to live out.

  121. But Loot's start by reading first John four seven to

  122. twenty one. Beloved, let us love one another, for love

  123. is from God. And whoever loves has been born of

  124. God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does

  125. not know God. Because God is love. In this the

  126. love of God was made manifest among us. That God

  127. sent his only son into the world so that we

  128. might live through him. In this is love, not that

  129. we have loved God, but that He loved us and

  130. sent his son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved,

  131. If God so loved us, we also ought to love

  132. one another. No one has ever seen God. If we

  133. love one another, God abides in us, and his love

  134. is perfected in us. By this, we know that we

  135. abide in Him and he in us, because He has

  136. given us of his and we have seen and testify

  137. that the Father has sent his son to be the

  138. savior of the world. Whoever confesses that Jesus is the

  139. son of God, God abides in him, and he in God.

  140. So we have come to know and to believe the

  141. love that God has for us. God is love, and

  142. whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides

  143. in him. By this is love perfected with us, so

  144. that we may have confidence for the day of judgment.

  145. Because as He is, so also are we in this world.

  146. There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts

  147. out fear, for fear has to do with punishment. And

  148. whoever fears has not been perfected in love. We love

  149. because He first loved us. If anyone says I love

  150. God and hates his brother. He is a liar. For

  151. he who does not love his brother whom he whom

  152. he has seen, cannot love God whom he has not seen.

  153. And this commandment we have from him, whoever loves God

  154. must also love his brother. This is God's word. Before

  155. we get to our part in this right relationship with love,

  156. we need to see it not based on our definition

  157. right as we might want to define it, but with

  158. how God defines it. And with that we'll see point

  159. one that God is love. God is love. John proclaims

  160. this incredible truth explicitly twice, once in verse eight and

  161. once in sixteen. This is not the only character quality

  162. of God, right, but there are only a few places

  163. that we get this kind of in depth information where

  164. they're so explicit about God's character who he is. God

  165. is Love. Let's get into what that looks like. The

  166. first way we see God being love worked out in

  167. this book is that God is love defined. Right. God

  168. is love defined. Everything that God says, and is and

  169. does is done out of a heart of love. Now,

  170. there are a couple different Greek words that we translate

  171. into love, so it's not every time you see the

  172. word love in the New Testament. But every time that

  173. we talk about God's love, and every time John uses

  174. love here in First John, he's talking about this word agape.

  175. Now there's no textbook definition, but this is how C. S.

  176. Lewis thought of it, as a divine love characterized by

  177. sacrifice in pursuit of the good of another person. So

  178. those three parts of the definition of a gape love

  179. are going to be very important for us this morning

  180. as we move forward. Number one, it originates from God.

  181. Number two, it is an action at one's own cost.

  182. And number three, it is for the benefit of someone else.

  183. One of the most beautiful truths that we will look

  184. at today is that God has eternally been loving, unlike

  185. every other kind of lowercase g god who who presents

  186. presents himself. Those gods are are singular, right, But the

  187. God that is revealed in scripture presents himself as a

  188. god in three persons, the Trinity, as we call him.

  189. If the stories from all these other gods are true,

  190. then then there was a time before they were loving,

  191. because at some point eventually humanity came around it, and

  192. maybe then they become loving. But that's not the way

  193. love works. Right. Love cannot be directed inward. Love has

  194. to be shown outward, and so they cannot be eternally loving.

  195. But God was loving from all eternity past as John.

  196. As Jesus was praying in John seventeen, he brings up

  197. that the Father has loved him since before the foundation

  198. of the world. But before creation happened. God was a

  199. father who was for all eternity a loving God. It

  200. is at the core of who he is. It is

  201. at his foundational nature and character. And when he does create,

  202. to quote Michael Reeves, we see that creation is about

  203. the spreading, the diffusion, the outward explosion of that love.

  204. Think about how loving it was for God to create us.

  205. He did not have to do this, There was no

  206. obligation for it. He did it out of the abundance

  207. of his love. And then think about every covenant that

  208. God made with mankind. Think about his covenant throughout the

  209. Old Testament, to Adam to Noah, to Abraham to David.

  210. There was never anyone who had put God under their obligation.

  211. Zero of the covenants were made by man. Never. They

  212. never actually negotiated the terms of this covenant. To even

  213. say that would be crazy, right we can't hold God

  214. to something that he doesn't hold himself to. But out

  215. of his love he made these promises. Wayne Grudom says,

  216. although there may have been many additional details specified in

  217. the covenants that God made with man throughout the history

  218. of scripture, the essential element at the heart of all

  219. of them is the promise I will be their God

  220. and they shall be my people. Though our sin separated

  221. us from him, his heart has always been one of

  222. love towards his people the whole time. Everything God does

  223. he does in love. No no one activity has been

  224. defined by anything but his perfect love. And for all

  225. the agape love in the universe, we see in First

  226. John four seven that God is the source of all

  227. that love. John says, Beloved, let us love one another,

  228. for love is from God. Love is the character quality

  229. we get after him after we have received his love.

  230. But He is the fountain. He is the source. He

  231. is the wellspring from which all of our love comes.

  232. And since God is love defined and the source of

  233. all love, it it's really important that we look to

  234. Him to define what love actually is. I've got to

  235. remember those three parts from God. An action at one's

  236. own cost for someone else's benefit. Is this how we

  237. define love? Often we we let other sources define what

  238. love is. So we're going to spend just a minute

  239. looking at how how God defines love. First thing, love

  240. is an action. Love is not primarily a feeling. Now,

  241. we should have affectionate feelings towards those who we love,

  242. right who we are are acting in affection for. But

  243. love can't spring from our feelings because what happens when

  244. those feelings aren't there anymore? What happens when you say

  245. I don't love them anymore. That's a sand castle version

  246. of love. It may look great for a moment, but

  247. the moment the tide comes in, it's gone. And that

  248. is not God's love. God set his affection on us.

  249. He did not choose us when we were lovely. No,

  250. he loved us, and that made us lovely. He set

  251. his affection on us, and his love is the most

  252. sure thing in the universe. Romans eight thirty eight and

  253. thirty nine makes this eternally and abundantly clear. As Paul

  254. made a list of all the things that cannot separate

  255. us from God's love. What cannot separate God's people from

  256. his love? Death, life, angels, rulers, things present, things to come, powers, height, depth,

  257. literally anything else in all creation. Once he has set

  258. his love on you, it is impossible for you to

  259. be separated from that love. His love is an action,

  260. not a feeling, and he wants you to find rest

  261. in his love for you. It also means that he

  262. sets the standard for what is loving, and the fact

  263. that love means that something is for someone else's benefit.

  264. We all have friends and family who say loving me

  265. means approving of everything I do and celebrating me for

  266. who I am. But does God say that that is

  267. the definition of love? Let me ask this. Is it

  268. loving to tell someone? To warn someone that they have

  269. a malignant tumor? It won't make them feel good, but

  270. that is the most loving thing you can do for

  271. someone in that moment, in that situation. To do otherwise,

  272. that's malpractice. Is it loving to warn someone that they're

  273. walking apart from God, that they're harboring sin in their heart,

  274. that they're treasuring that sin? Now, loving someone means not

  275. approving of what God doesn't approve of. We need to

  276. be careful. These conversations need to happen in love right.

  277. We need to exemplify love, and how we have these conversations.

  278. Love is humble, it is patient, it's kind, it's everything

  279. that First Corinthians thirteen says it is. So do it

  280. in a winsome manner. Right, do not be offensive in

  281. your speech, be loving, but have heard conversations. Do love

  282. as God defines love, and directing our hearts away from

  283. our own natural desires, away from our own lusts, away

  284. from our own idols, is always going to be the

  285. most loving thing we can do. So ask yourself, am

  286. I calling things love that God doesn't call love? Am

  287. I letting God define love and then seeing it in

  288. that way and seeking to love in that manner. So

  289. God is love, and we looked at how, oh how

  290. God is love defined. The second way we see this

  291. worked out is that God is love's perfect example. God

  292. is Love's perfect example. First John four nine puts it

  293. this way. In this the love of God was made

  294. manifest among us. That God sent his only son into

  295. the world that we might live through him. Jesus coming

  296. into the world put God's love on full display. And

  297. John is very clear to say that. He doesn't say

  298. that the wrath of God was made manifest in Jesus. Coming,

  299. or the holiness of God, or the omniscience of God,

  300. or any other of his attributes. It was God's love,

  301. God's self giving, sacrificial love that acts on behalf of

  302. the recipients. John uses the words we and us and

  303. are here in these passages because we are the recipients

  304. of God's love, of God's life defining love. This isn't

  305. a new idea that John is trying to communicate here

  306. in this passage. He also wrote John three sixteen right,

  307. which is the most famous verse in the whole Bible,

  308. gets held up on signs at Super Bowls and during

  309. the World Series. But have you ever thought about how

  310. it starts. It starts with God and his love. For

  311. God so loved the world that he gave his only son.

  312. We didn't compel him with our amazingness. It wasn't that

  313. we earned Jesus coming. It was done out of his

  314. love for us, for lost humanity. He came after us,

  315. He pursued us, He initiated the restoration of this broken

  316. relationship that we had. And if there was any question

  317. about which direction this love originally flows from, he clears

  318. it up in verse ten in this is love, not

  319. that we have loved God, but that he loved us

  320. and sent his son to be the propitiation for our sins. Man,

  321. there's that word propitiation again. If you weren't here a

  322. couple of weeks ago or native refresher, propitiation means that

  323. God the Father sent Jesus, God the Son, to satisfy

  324. the rightful wrath against our sin and moved us from

  325. being under God's judgment to being under his favor. And

  326. this offer is still open to us today. Right. John

  327. three point sixteen ends with that whoever believes in him

  328. should not perish but have eternal life. Jesus is God

  329. incarnate and came to put God's love on display. That

  330. love was demonstrated not just in his coming to earth,

  331. but in his sacrificial and substitutionary death so that we

  332. could have eternal life with him. And if you're here

  333. today and you don't know, you don't love this message,

  334. then you need to understand that today his arms are

  335. open wide to you. We want to share the good

  336. news of the Gospel with you. So if you have

  337. questions about this, maybe ask the person you came with

  338. or go to the Step one table. We'd be happy

  339. to talk to you more about this good news. So

  340. so far we have seen that God is love and

  341. that God defines love and he's the perfect example of it.

  342. But that's not where it ends for us. John says

  343. that God's love is the power generator that we have

  344. with love in our lives. Verse eleven says, beloved, if

  345. God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.

  346. We are not meant to be the termination point for

  347. this love. It is meant to flow through us, all right.

  348. We are meant to be conduits of his love, not cubs.

  349. And this is ultimately where John points us to our

  350. to our assurance of salvation. This week, we can be

  351. assured we have a right relationship with Uh, that we

  352. have eternal life when we have a right relationship with love.

  353. So what's the right relationship with love? We we love

  354. in response. That's a second point this morning. We love

  355. in response. As we have been changed by God's love,

  356. our nature, our character who we are changes as well,

  357. and now we reflect we we mirror God's love. In

  358. this mini series, we've talked about how knowing the truth

  359. leads to walking in righteousness, and this leads to our

  360. assurance of salvation. In the same way. John sees love

  361. in the same direct connection to our assurance of salvation.

  362. Four verses seven and eight says, beloved, let us love

  363. one another, for love is from God. And whoever loves

  364. has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who

  365. does not love does not know God, because God is love.

  366. John directs our attention to the fact that for God's children,

  367. we will reflect God's character. Like I said last week,

  368. at our core, every person will reflect their Father, whether

  369. they are a child of God or not. And John

  370. is saying that we cannot. We can't love God and

  371. not reflect his life changing love to others. One hundred

  372. percent of his children will be changed. So in this

  373. point we'll focus on the two loves that Jesus says

  374. are the greatest loves, the two greatest commandments, right, loving

  375. God and loving others. John has a whole lot more

  376. to say, but we're not going to be able to

  377. get to that this week, or we're going to focus

  378. in on those two. The first way we show love

  379. in response to God's love is by obeying his commands.

  380. It's by obeying his commands. Now you might be like, oh, man,

  381. I thought this was going to be a sermon on

  382. love to talk about obedience. For well, now I get

  383. to quote Josh, who's quoting Tony Stark when he says

  384. is it too much to ask for both? In his Gospel,

  385. John records Jesus himself connecting obedience and love in John

  386. chapter fourteen, where Jesus says, if you love me, you

  387. will keep my commandments, and then a few verses later

  388. he goes on to say, whoever does not keep my word, oh, sorry,

  389. whoever does not love me does not keep my word.

  390. So when we get to First John, as John is

  391. faced with trying to clearly lay out who is from

  392. God and who is not, he is writing these things

  393. so that he could strengthen the church in what is

  394. true about God's love. He writes about this in chapters two,

  395. chapter three, chapter five. He writes about this all over

  396. the place. But in chapter two he says this, and

  397. by this we know that we have come to know

  398. him if we keep his commandments. He wants them to know.

  399. He wants them to have biblical confidence and assurance that

  400. they know that they are in him, and he points them,

  401. with no ambiguity, says, by this we know again, John

  402. is laying it out in black and white, and know

  403. that we have been changed by him if we keep

  404. his commands. But then on the other side, He's also

  405. very very clear, very black and white about this about

  406. what the false teachers are saying in chapter two, verse four.

  407. They claim to have special knowledge from God, and yet

  408. their lives showed otherwise. And so he says, whoever says

  409. I know him but does not keep his commandments as

  410. a liar and the truth is not in him. I

  411. don't think I could come up with more damning words

  412. than those for the false teachers. There is no doubt

  413. in John's mind that if someone claims to know God

  414. to follow God and he does not do what God says,

  415. then he doesn't actually know God. John and Jesus say

  416. that it's not just someone's words alone that should give

  417. them assurance of their salvation, but that it's their words

  418. accompanied by a lie life that demonstrates that they know God. Now,

  419. to be clear, trying to keep God's commands cannot save you, period.

  420. This is what the Pharisees did, and he called them

  421. children of the devil. But all who know God will

  422. love him. They will obey him in response to his love.

  423. It won't be done perfectly. Right. We talked about this

  424. last week, and this isn't perfect obedience. But what's the

  425. pattern of your life? What is the practice of your life?

  426. What is the dominant color on the painting of your life?

  427. Does your love for him demonstrated by your obedience to him?

  428. Say that you know him? The second way we show

  429. we love and response to God's love is by loving

  430. one another. There are other passages in the Bible that

  431. say that we need to love our enemy and that

  432. we need to love our neighbor. Right. John is not

  433. saying those are not true. Those are absolutely true. But

  434. John is making a very specific point here. He's not

  435. telling the church to love just people in general, but

  436. he's talking about specifically, how are we showing love to

  437. those within the church, loving the brothers, loving one another.

  438. He's emphasizing what Jesus said in the Gospel of John

  439. chapter thirteen, A new commandment. I give to you that

  440. you love one another. By this, all people will know

  441. that you are my disciples. If you have love for

  442. one another. Jesus says that loving one another is a

  443. distinguishing marker for his disciples. So as John is again

  444. talking to this church, trying to distinguish who is of

  445. God and who is not. He brings up this in

  446. fifteen different verses over chapters two, three, and four. No,

  447. don't worry, We're not going to go through all the

  448. places where he brings us up. But I want to

  449. encourage First. John's not a long book, so this week

  450. read through First John. Right. See how John talks about

  451. these things. He's so clear. He uses this very stark language.

  452. Listen to how to how emphatic John is in chapter four,

  453. verses seven and eight, Beloved, let us love one another,

  454. for love is from God. And whoever has been born

  455. of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love

  456. does not know God. Because God is love. So because

  457. love is from God, and because we have been born

  458. of God, that we have gone from being in Adam

  459. to being in Christ. Like we saw last week, we

  460. show that we have been changed by God's love by

  461. showing that same love and exhibiting it to others. John

  462. couldn't be clearer that this is how we show that

  463. we have been born of Him. Now, John has plenty

  464. of things to say in the positive, but I do

  465. just want to quickly run through some of the negative

  466. statements that John says as he sets up this contrast, right,

  467. he shows that there's no room for indifference. Right, that

  468. anything that is not of love is actually of hate.

  469. One John two nine. Whoever says he is in the

  470. light and hates his brother is still in darkness. Chapter two,

  471. verse eleven. But whoever hates his brother is in the

  472. darkness and walks in the darkness, and does not know

  473. where he is going because the darkness is blinded his

  474. eyes three point fifteen, Echoing Jesus in the Sermon on

  475. the Mount, everyone who hates his brother is a murderer.

  476. And you know that no murder has eternal life abiding

  477. in him three seventeen. But if anyone has a world's

  478. goods and sees his brother in need, yet closes his

  479. heart against him, how does God's love abide in him?

  480. In Chapter four, verse twenty, if anyone says I love

  481. God and hates his brother, he is a liar. For

  482. he who does not love his brother, whom he has seen,

  483. cannot love God whom he has not seen. See when

  484. Jesus saves us, yes, he reconciled us to God. But

  485. he also reconciled us to one another as well. Yes,

  486. God saves us individually, but now those individuals, those who

  487. have put their trust in Him, are now one collective.

  488. We are now one body and have been united as

  489. the bride of Christ, and we've been born again to demonstrate,

  490. to actually reflect God's love and his character to those

  491. around us that we're in community with. If our loves

  492. don't show that love, if our lives don't show that love,

  493. then then John says that we are not in him.

  494. And this is actually one of the reason why we

  495. come together as local churches is to live out this

  496. one another ring. If you're here today, well, if you're

  497. here today as a guest, thank you for being here.

  498. But if you've been here for a while and you're

  499. here today, I want to ask you, where are you

  500. living out God's commands to love one another? How are you?

  501. How are you living out your command to love your brother? Right?

  502. Maybe through your family, through a Christian neighbor, a Christian coworker.

  503. There absolutely are some relationships, but John is talking about

  504. the relationships we have within the church. He's talking about

  505. this as being the primary context for us living out

  506. this love. The local church is the perfect place to

  507. live out these one anothers, because there are plenty of

  508. one anothers in the Bible for us to live out,

  509. and there are plenty of opportunities to live those out

  510. within community, within this church body. And again remember those

  511. what is love from God? An action at one's own

  512. cost for someone else's benefit. Love requires action. Chapter three,

  513. verse say teen, Little children, let us not love in

  514. word or talk, but in deed and truth. It's just

  515. not possible to demonstrate this kind of love when you're

  516. not in community. You can't love the brothers and sisters

  517. when there are no brothers and sisters for you to love,

  518. to show love too. But it's not just that it's

  519. impossible to do on our own. John is also saying

  520. that we grow in our assurance of our salvation when

  521. we show love for one another. Chapter three, verse fourteen

  522. says this we know that we have passed out of

  523. death into life because we love the brothers. Whoever does

  524. not love abides in death. John is seeking to give

  525. the believers in his church assurance that they can know

  526. they are in Christ and something they can see and

  527. hold on to. And John is pointing to the truth

  528. of a chain life of this love as one of

  529. the fruits of a changed heart. My job here at

  530. this church. I'm employed to help guide people through the

  531. process of joining this church. But I don't just do

  532. it because it's my job. I do it because I'm

  533. convinced that being an active member of a healthy local

  534. church is the best thing for each and every Christian.

  535. This is the kind of place where God's love gets

  536. put on display, and I personally my life has been

  537. changed because of seeing this love and experiencing it. I

  538. grew up in a Christian home. I was saved at

  539. a young age. We went to church multiple times a week.

  540. We were involved, we served, and even when I was

  541. growing up, I wanted to be a pastor, But ironically

  542. I didn't actually love the local church. After high school,

  543. I moved across then to Indianapolis, and for the first

  544. time in my life, I had the opportunity to look

  545. for at church. I didn't know what to look for.

  546. I bounced around between a couple different churches for the

  547. first two years of living there. I would end up

  548. at whichever church I thought served me best at the time.

  549. I liked the Sunday school class here. I like the

  550. people that are here at church was like a spiritual buffet,

  551. and I was happy to just kind of pick and choose. Then,

  552. after two years of that, a friend invited me to

  553. the church that he had just joined and kept badgering me.

  554. So then I went one Sunday and I never left.

  555. That church was not perfect by any means, but it

  556. was my first experience with a really healthy church. The

  557. people showed genuine love. There were older godly men who,

  558. now that I look at, were probably the age I

  559. am now. I thought they were super old at the time.

  560. But these older godly men, they answered my questions about

  561. how to live out these things about and they actually

  562. wanted to disciple me. They wanted to invest in me.

  563. The preaching was clear and biblical. I was challenged to

  564. fight sin in a whole new way. My pastor gave

  565. me some of the books that we still give out

  566. here at Crossway at the Step one table. For the

  567. first time in my life, I started to love the

  568. local church. I saw that I had spent years just taking,

  569. just taking from my brothers and sisters. So I joined

  570. that church. I started serving, I started giving intentionally. I

  571. joined a small group. God had given me a heart

  572. that wanted to show love to others, to my brothers

  573. and sisters, and by his grace, he was helping me grow.

  574. I was growing way more than I had in the

  575. two years when I was just bouncing from church to church.

  576. They loved me well for twelve years as I was

  577. there going through Bible college and seminary. They loved me

  578. as I was, as I got married at twenty two

  579. and tried to figure out what that looked like, as

  580. we had kids, as I lost jobs plural and the

  581. other thousands of challenges that just come up in life.

  582. I didn't leave that church until we moved here in

  583. twenty twenty, and I can say that I would not

  584. be who I am without that church body. They invested

  585. in me. They helped me grow in a way that

  586. I never could have before. I before when I just

  587. treated church like a buffet line. For the first time

  588. in my life, they showed me what it meant to

  589. live out this God defined love. Why am I saying

  590. all this. I'm the product of a healthy local church

  591. that loved me well and taught me how to love

  592. my brothers. This conviction didn't come when I got the

  593. job here. I got the job here because I had

  594. this conviction I'm passionate about this because this is the

  595. kind of love that John wants us to have, that

  596. John wants for every Christian to have, and I want

  597. this for you. So, if you aren't a member here,

  598. we got a Step two class coming up in two weeks.

  599. Sign up for it. Go to the step one table.

  600. If you have already been to step two, what are

  601. you waiting for? We want to welcome you in and

  602. in a very real way, we want to show you

  603. what it's like to love and be loved by this

  604. very amazingly beautiful and yet imperfect people, this church called

  605. Crossway Bible Church. And now in a similar way, if

  606. you are here today and you are a member of Crossway,

  607. my question to you is the same, right, how are

  608. you living out God's commandment to love one another? You've

  609. taken this step to join, that's great, But what does

  610. your interaction with the church body look like? Get here

  611. late and then just kind of run out as soon

  612. as the service is over? Are you or are you

  613. investing in relationships? Are you using your gifts to serve others?

  614. Are you on the lookout for how people need help?

  615. Are you helping people fight their sin? And if you're older,

  616. and if you look around this room, you might not

  617. think I'm older. But if you're older, honestly, I'm talking

  618. about anyone born in the nineteen hundreds. At this point

  619. you're considered older. Just accept Then, if you're older, are

  620. you looking for someone to disciple, to help grow, to

  621. pour into You might look at me and say, Richard,

  622. I don't know everything. That's fine. Start with what you

  623. do know. We're happy to help you grow in those things.

  624. But God can take what you do know and help

  625. grow you and grow others within this church. If you're married,

  626. are you looking for ways to fold in some of

  627. our incredible young adults into your family life? And as

  628. we love our brothers, something beautiful happens. Chapter four, verse

  629. twelve says, no one has ever seen God. If we

  630. love one another, God abides in us, and his love

  631. is perfected in us. That is, as Pastor John Stott says,

  632. the unseen God, who once revealed himself in his son,

  633. now reveals himself in his people. If and when they

  634. love one another, we have the privilege to be like

  635. Jesus in how we embody, in how we incarnate, in

  636. how we live out God's love to one another, a

  637. love that is from God, a love that is an

  638. action that one's own costs and for the benefit of

  639. someone else. There is no higher calling that we can have.

  640. There is no greater opportunity for us to experience and

  641. to help them experience life in God's love. Jesus says

  642. this in his in the Gospel of John, chapter fifteen.

  643. This is my commandment that you love one another as

  644. I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this,

  645. that someone laid down his life for his friend. As

  646. we as we wrap up this mini series on John

  647. on First John, I want to invite the band up

  648. as we as we consider what John has been saying

  649. in these three weeks. Right, it was centered on this

  650. verse first First John five thirteen. Right, that you may

  651. know that you have eternal life for some here. If

  652. you were unsettled by what John said, I want to

  653. encourage you to actually evaluate the state of your heart.

  654. This was just a diagnostic tool, right. This is like

  655. a cardiac machine makes no value judgments. It just reads

  656. what's going on. And if there's a problem, don't be

  657. mad at the machine. All the machine is doing is

  658. telling you what Sayah. Underneath I would encourage you to

  659. take a look at your heart. God has given us

  660. measurable ways to see if we are in Him and

  661. if we are not in him. His arms are open

  662. to you today his love. He is inviting you into

  663. a relationship with him if you found that your life

  664. doesn't match up, he says, here, don't wait to get

  665. it right before coming to me. Come to me and

  666. I will make you right. I will make you brand new.

  667. I will change you from the inside out. Hopefully, for

  668. most of you, this series gave you assurance of your salvation.

  669. That you were encouraged that you can know in God's word,

  670. from God's word, I am in Christ. But again, we

  671. don't look to the diagnostic tool for our salvation. That

  672. a cardiac machine doesn't make someone's heart beat. Don't look

  673. to any of the things we've talked about over the

  674. last three weeks to save you. To be your savior.

  675. We can't look to a right relationship with the truth,

  676. or with sin, or with love for our salvation. There's

  677. only one place where we can find our ultimate hope.

  678. What can wash away my sin, what can make me

  679. hold again? Nothing but the blood of Jesus