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Grappling With Gluttony | The "S" Word | Trinity Sermons
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Well, I'm really excited to tell you tonight
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that some recent research has in fact shocked
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the medical community. The diagram before you
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represents what we always thought we knew about
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both the circulatory system and the digestive
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system. How they were these separate things,
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right? For decades we assumed that, you know,
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when you ate something it went down your esophagus
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into your stomach and meanwhile your heart pumped
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blood throughout your body but these were separate
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organs and they were separate pathways. Well,
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groundbreaking research. has discovered something
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amazing. In fact, it's located in the recent
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issue of the scientific journal Apatitis, the
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international journal of misplaced longings.
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It was reported there that there actually has
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been discovered a direct connection between the
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digestive system and the circulatory system between
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the stomach and the heart. Look at this. Researchers
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have discovered the existence of a large pipe,
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a large tube that they're calling the cardiogastric
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canal that actually connects the stomach directly
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to the heart. Now, why we didn't realize this
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earlier, I actually just don't know. I can't
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say. But there it is. plain as day for all to
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see on this very realistic looking diagram, right?
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And its presence has actually once and for all
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confirmed what we all had thought, right? That
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there is a connection between our hearts and
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our stomachs. There's a connection between our
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desires and our appetites. Now in some instances,
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an irregularity can take place with the cardiogastric
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canal. What can happen is it can lead to something
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they call confused craving pathway. And it happens
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when the hunger in your stomach and the desire
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in your heart start to get confused with each
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other. The heart is longing for something, but
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you start eating instead. And if left unchecked,
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it can turn into what they call full -blown CMAS,
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chronically misaligned appetite syndrome. And
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you guys, you can read all about it, like I said,
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in the journal, Appetitis. In fact, if you'd
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like to subscribe to Appetitis, you can subscribe.
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There's quarterly publications, and it's $200
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a year. And after the service, I'd be happy to
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sign you up, if you would like. Well, this is
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very important information It's especially important
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tonight as we are wrapping up our teaching series
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Which has been on the seven deadly sins the seven
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deadly sins. We've looked at pride We've looked
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at envy and sloth and greed and lust and wrath
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and now tonight we come to gluttony gluttony
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is all about the confusion and the connection
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between our hearts longings and our stomach's
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appetite. Most people, when they think of gluttony,
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they just think of the stomach, right? They picture
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somebody at a buffet going back for their third
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plate, or they picture somebody going through
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the drive -thru, getting the super -sized combo
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meal, and that is definitely part of it, right?
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The word gluttony, the Latin word gluttony, actually
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comes from the word that means to gulp down,
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right? So yes, gluttony is all about what we
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eat, why we eat, how we eat, when we eat. The
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ancient monks, though, who gave us the seven
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deadly sins in the first place, they actually
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showed that gluttony has a number of different
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symptoms, five different symptoms. And we're
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going to go through these, and just people, if
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one of these hits close to home, do not feel
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bad, because I'm sure that you are in very, very
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good company. The first symptom of gluttony is
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called eating hastily. And that's just eating
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too quickly, right? It's like you can't wait
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to eat. Before anyone else has sat down at the
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table you're already halfway through your meal.
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It just smells too good. It looks too good. You're
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having dessert and they've barely finished their
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salad, right? Because gluttony always puts the
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food on the table. above the people around the
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table. It becomes more about consumption than
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community. So eating hastily, eating quickly
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is a form of gluttony. Another symptom of gluttony
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is eating sumptuously. This is eating that only
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wants the very best food, the fanciest fare,
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the most expensive food, even if we can't really
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afford it. Now I just want to say, of course,
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nothing wrong with a great meal. A wonderfully
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prepared meal can be a real gift, and chefs are
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gifted and skilled and deserve to be paid for
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every bit of work they do. But gluttony demands
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that level of food at every meal. You know, mac
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and cheese isn't enough unless it's, you know,
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mac and cheese with truffles and very expensive
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exotic ketchups, right? So eating hastily, eating
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sumptuously, the third symptom of gluttony according
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to the ancient monks is eating excessively. This
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is, of course, the one most of us think of when
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we think of gluttony. It's just eating too much.
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It's drinking too much. And often, for no particular
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reason, you're just bored or maybe you're sad
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or maybe you're a procrastinator. You open the
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fridge, you don't really know why, but you just
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eat and eat and eat. Why do we do that? The fourth
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symptom of gluttony is eating greedily. And this
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is when food actually starts to become territorial,
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right? Now you eat with possessiveness. You're
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looking around the table. You're eyeing the food.
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You're trying to figure out if there's enough
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for everyone. You want to get the biggest piece.
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You're guarding your fries like they're gold,
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right? You're darting. You're hoping people don't
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take too much and not leave enough for you. It's
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greedy. It's territorial. But the fifth symptom
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of gluttony is eating daintily. Now, this one
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might actually surprise you. It's actually not
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about eating too much. It's about just getting
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too fussy and too picky about what we eat. Oh,
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this isn't hot enough. Oh, I like my poached
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eggs not that runny, or no, now they're too runny,
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and so on and so forth. Oh, I asked for my toast
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to be triple toasted. Not once, not twice. Triple
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toasted. What part of triple toasted don't you
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understand? I don't want a lot, they say, but
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I want it just. so So we eat too fast too fancy
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too much too selfishly too picky Meanwhile Jesus
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asks us this question is not life more than food
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All these symptoms they point to the same problem.
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We're trying to feed an appetite in there, right?
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But is that appetite is that desire coming from
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our stomach or our heart remember? They're connected.
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What makes us do this? Well, there are a few
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underlying conditions I'd like to point out.
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Again, you can read all about these in Appetitis,
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but the first condition, the first condition
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that causes us to behave this way when it comes
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for food is what we call a relational rupture.
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Gluttony happens when we neglect the people connection
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with food. Eating was meant to be something that's
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done by community, in community. Eating brings
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us together. Eating is how we get to know each
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other and form relationships. Gluttony, though,
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makes the food on the table more important than
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the people around the table. In fact, who needs
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them anyways? They're just going to eat more
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of what I could have, right? And so gluttony
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actually distracts us. distracts us from the
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presence of people. And here's the flip side
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of that is food sometimes distracts us from the
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absence of people. We're lonely. We want people,
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but we can't have people, but our stomach says,
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well, you can have food. And so we eat. The messages
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all get confused. When we forget the people and
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focus just on the food, something sacred is lost
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in the act of eating. The conversation is gone.
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The laughter is gone. The connection is gone.
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You know, there are places in our world where
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they still to this day, they eat slowly. It takes
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a long time for them to have a meal. It's communal.
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It's a relational event. There is actually a
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movement called the Slow Food Movement that is
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trying to reclaim this idea of that food, eating
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food is more about people. But we live in a culture
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that is speeding up, not slowing down. We rush
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through meals like there are pit stops, right?
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It's purely utilitarian, our eating. We just
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want to get something in us and keep on going.
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No eye contact, no conversation, just consumption,
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right? Now, where is the relationship, I ask
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you? When you've got one hand on the wheel, another
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on a burger, another, your chicken nuggets in
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your armpit, and your dipping sauce between your
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legs. It's pretty impressive if you can pull
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that off, I must say. But... You're totally disconnected
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from people. Now, I think actually if somebody
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from another century were to come and watch us
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eat, they would say, what is wrong? What's wrong
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is there's a relational rupture. That is the
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first underlying condition of gluttony. The second
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underlying condition of gluttony is spiritual
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amnesia. Gluttony happens when we just forget.
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Man, food is a sacred thing, right? In the Bible,
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food is not just fuel for our bodies. It is one
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of the most powerful spiritual symbols in the
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entire story of God, from Genesis all the way
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through to Revelation. Food, it doesn't just
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keep us alive. Food is how God teaches us. to
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live. Let me prove it to you. Look, the very
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first meal in the whole Bible, the first time
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anyone reached for a piece of food, Adam and
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Eve, they weren't physically hungry. They were
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just spiritually confused. Again, the connection
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that they took the fruit, not because their stomach
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needed it, but because their hearts were hungry
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for control. They were hungry for independence.
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They were hungry for knowledge. The apple They
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thought the apple would satisfy that hunger,
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but the real need was for God, something only
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God could fill. Fast forward. Now we have Israel.
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They're walking through the wilderness and they
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are hungry, right? They're very hungry in the
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wilderness. And the Lord says, I will... give
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you food and I will rain down manna from heaven
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but it was only enough just enough for each day
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and what was God teaching them he was teaching
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them to let go of their instinct to hoard food
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he was trying to retrain their hearts onto him
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this is the Bible has this rich rich sacredness
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about food. Or take about this, when Jesus was
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being tempted by the devil in the wilderness,
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the devil says, if you're really the son of God,
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turn these stones into bread. But Jesus refuses,
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not because food is a bad thing, but because
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Jesus would rather be hungry with God than be
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full without God. Okay, and then Jesus of course
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he didn't just he didn't just preach about food
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He he ate his way through the kingdom of God
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the son of man came eating and drinking We are
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told he just kept sitting at tables with all
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the wrong people and there were prostitutes the
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poor the outcasts These meals obviously were
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not about indulgence. It wasn't about filling
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a stomach. They were about invitation They were
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about creating community And then one more, just
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don't forget how the story of the Bible ends.
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The story of the Bible ends when there is a final
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feast. This is not a snack. This is not some
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kind of takeout container. This is a wedding
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banquet, the wedding supper of the Lamb, where
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we will all sit down and all of our desires and
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all of our hungers will finally once and for
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all be satisfied. Do you see how deeply spiritual
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eating is? how deeply sacred food is, but we
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look at food and we don't see anything spiritual
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about it. It's just grub, right? We're just bodies
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with stomachs and we need to put something in
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it. That is spiritual amnesia. We've forgotten
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the sacred connection of food. So so here we
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go. We've got our first condition is that we
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have separated food from relationship The second
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condition is we separate food from spirituality,
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but thirdly and perhaps most deeply gluttony
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arises through disordered desires That's when
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the old Cardio gastric canal Confuses us and
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we're not sure how we're feeling inside. We're
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not sure whether that desire we are feeling is
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actually for food or whether it's for God whether
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that is our stomach grumbling or whether that's
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our heart aching gluttony is not just a stomach
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problem it is a heart problem they're connected
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and of course we need food to survive but the
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thing we need most of all our deepest need is
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not for food it is for So that ache that you're
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feeling down there, that restlessness that you're
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feeling down there, that might not be emanating
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from your stomach, that might actually be coming
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from your heart. And what you're really hungry
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for is the love of God. Gluttony causes us to
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look for, to look to food for things that only
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God can really give us. Comfort and identity
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and... peace and all that stuff the heart and
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the stomach I'm telling you they're connected
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you got to read the journal now think about it
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think about I mean think about how many times
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that we eat why do we eat when we're not hungry
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that's it you know I don't know it's why do we
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try to use food in our stomach to soothe our
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soul it's that inner wiring it's connected that
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causes us to feed our bodies thinking it will
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satisfy the ache in our heart so Thomas Aquinas
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He said that gluttony is not sinful because food
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is bad. It's sinful because we love it in the
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wrong way. Food's meant to nourish us. We treat
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food like it's something that completes us. And
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when that happens, when all of those... underlying
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conditions come together, whether it's the relational
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rupture, the spiritual amnesia, and the disorder
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desires, the result can be one of the most dangerous
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of all disorders, and that is chronically misaligned
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appetite syndrome, or what the Bible calls idolatry.
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We make food an idol. Food gives us peace, not
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God. Food gives us comfort, not God. Food relieves
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my pain, not God. You know, Paul once talked
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about a group of people, and he said, their God
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is their stomach. When we obsess over food, when
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we plan our day around it, when we comfort ourselves
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with it, when we reward ourselves with it, food
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has become an idol, and our stomach is our God.
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When we find more joy in a good meal than in
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God's Word, More comfort in a hot dish than the
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Holy Spirit, more excitement about dessert than
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discipleship, then we're no longer just enjoying
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food, we're worshiping it. And food was never
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meant to bear the weight of our worship. It will
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always let us down. But we don't just worship
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it, we're enslaved by it. The glutton is not
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a free person, but a slave to their cravings.
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It's the same for all the deadly sins actually
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the real question it comes down to is who's in
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control Do we rule our appetites or do our appetites
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rule us? But good news good news according to
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the journal no according to the Bible There is
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a cure. There's a cure for the symptoms. There's
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a cure for the conditions. There's a cure for
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the disorder of gluttony. And what better place
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to discuss it than in a church. Why is that?
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Because if gluttony is worshiping the wrong thing,
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then the cure for it is not some new diet, but
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it's actually worshiping the right thing. Jesus
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said, I am the bread of life. And when he said
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that, he was offering himself as the one and
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only thing that will truly satisfy the cravings
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and desires of our hearts. He's offering himself
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as the true object of our worship. Jesus is the
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only one who can reach down deep into your disordered
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body and actually satisfy the hunger of your
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heart. And so I want to just end really practically
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and give you three prescriptions you can take
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away today to help you cure gluttony as ever
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it shows up in your life. Here is the first way
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to cure it. Say grace. Just say grace when you
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eat. I don't know if you say grace when you eat.
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Some people do it religiously. Other people have
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never done it. Some are kind of embarrassed to
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do it. Some are too rushed around to do it, or
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you feel it's old -fashioned, whatever. But Saint
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Grace is just a simple way to remind us this
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food is a gift. This food is a gift. Like manna
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in the wilderness, it is meant to be received
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with gratitude, not grabbed with greed. Saint
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Grace reminds us we are needy creatures. We're
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not self -sufficient. Saint Grace reminds us
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the food comes from... God's hand. And I know
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this doesn't sound like much, but a quick prayer
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before you eat can actually turn that meal into
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worship. Right? And now the meal is not about
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worshipping the food, it's about worshipping
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the one who gave us the food. The food becomes
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a way to thank God, not to replace God. So that's
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the first thing we can do. Just say grace. The
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second cure... is practice fasting, right? We
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have been learning about fasting this Lent. Many
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of you took the fasting course, and if you did,
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then you will know that fasting isn't just about
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abstaining from food. It's actually about reordering
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our desires. Just as gluttony disorders our loves,
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when we fast, it reorders those loves. It reconnects
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things in the right way. In fasting, We decide
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on purpose we want to be hungry. Not because
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we're going to punish ourselves, but because
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we're retraining our hearts and we're going to
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eat. Not because we're hungry and not because
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we're bored and not because we're sad or stressed.
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We're not going to do that. Fasting, you know,
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says no, I am not ruled by my appetites. I am
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willing, in fact, to be empty in order to be
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filled with God. And here is the paradox that
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in fasting, we actually become more aware of
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the real hunger we have inside us, not for food,
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but for God. Fasting, therefore, becomes feasting
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on the love of God. So, finally, and this is
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where we were going the whole night anyways,
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the final cure for gluttony is something we're
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going to experience in just a few moments. Monday
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Thursday, we're going to come to this table that
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is going to totally reframe our hunger. This
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meal is called communion. Sometimes it's called
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the Lord's Supper. Sometimes it's called the
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Eucharist. But it invites us not just to come
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and consume food, but to come and commune with
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God and with each other. That night at the table,
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Jesus took bread. And when he had given thanks,
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he broke it, and he gave it to his disciples,
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saying, take it, it's my body. And then he took
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a cup, and when he had given thanks, he gave
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it to them, and they drank from it. This is my
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blood of the covenant, which is poured out for
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many, he said to them. Now sometimes people have
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asked, why do we have communion every single
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week here at Trinity Streetsville? It adds time
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to the service. The service could be 15, 20 minutes
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shorter if we didn't do communion. You're right,
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it takes time. Communion slows everything down
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and isn't that great. Because in a fast food
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culture, in a culture detached from community,
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in a gluttonous culture that says, I just need
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to be fed and I need it now, Jesus gives us this
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meal. Not as our own little private indulgence,
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not to satisfy our stomachs, it's not gonna fill
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your stomach, but to reorient our hearts toward
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the cross, to re -center our lives on his grace.
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And the more we hunger for this meal, the more
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it cures us. Communion, look, look what it does.
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Communion cures that relational rupture, because
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we eat together. This is not your own little
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private picnic with Jesus. It is a shared meal
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where everyone comes together and we are reconciled
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with each other as we gather around this table
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together. Communion also cures our spiritual
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amnesia. Do you know what Jesus said when he
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gave us communion? He said, do this in remembrance
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of me. I want you to remember. I want you to
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not forget the story of God, the story of who
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you are, the story of how much God loves you.
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And as we remember that story, as we remember
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Him, we're reshaped by Him. And communion, of
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course, Finally, it cures us of all those disordered
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desires. The Lord's Supper is a disciplined act
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of eating and drinking that teaches us how to
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desire rightly. That's the sermon in a sentence
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because here at this table, hunger gets retrained,
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appetites get realigned, idols get dethroned,
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gluttony says I need more, Eucharist says Christ
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is enough. At the table we learn that ache inside
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of us isn't for food. is for fellowship with
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the one who made us. So, that's it. Let's end
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this, though, by not being too hard on ourselves.
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It is really easy to confuse the craving for
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food with the desire for the love of God. It's
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that darn cardio gastric canal. You can read
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all about it, as I mentioned, in the journal,
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Appetitus. But tonight, we've seen the symptoms,
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we've understood the conditions, we've explained
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the disordered desires, and now we know the cures.
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Jesus. Doesn't want to leave us hungry. He's
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inviting us to this table tonight Not just to
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consume but to commune not to indulge but also
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to remember and not just to fill our bellies
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But to calm our restless hearts Guys, this is
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not just a ritual This is not just a symbol This
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is a cure This is a cure. So come with your hunger
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with all your disorders Come with your empty
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hands and your messed up cravings and be made
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whole at this table. Thanks be to God.