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  1. Well, I'm really excited to tell you tonight

  2. that some recent research has in fact shocked

  3. the medical community. The diagram before you

  4. represents what we always thought we knew about

  5. both the circulatory system and the digestive

  6. system. How they were these separate things,

  7. right? For decades we assumed that, you know,

  8. when you ate something it went down your esophagus

  9. into your stomach and meanwhile your heart pumped

  10. blood throughout your body but these were separate

  11. organs and they were separate pathways. Well,

  12. groundbreaking research. has discovered something

  13. amazing. In fact, it's located in the recent

  14. issue of the scientific journal Apatitis, the

  15. international journal of misplaced longings.

  16. It was reported there that there actually has

  17. been discovered a direct connection between the

  18. digestive system and the circulatory system between

  19. the stomach and the heart. Look at this. Researchers

  20. have discovered the existence of a large pipe,

  21. a large tube that they're calling the cardiogastric

  22. canal that actually connects the stomach directly

  23. to the heart. Now, why we didn't realize this

  24. earlier, I actually just don't know. I can't

  25. say. But there it is. plain as day for all to

  26. see on this very realistic looking diagram, right?

  27. And its presence has actually once and for all

  28. confirmed what we all had thought, right? That

  29. there is a connection between our hearts and

  30. our stomachs. There's a connection between our

  31. desires and our appetites. Now in some instances,

  32. an irregularity can take place with the cardiogastric

  33. canal. What can happen is it can lead to something

  34. they call confused craving pathway. And it happens

  35. when the hunger in your stomach and the desire

  36. in your heart start to get confused with each

  37. other. The heart is longing for something, but

  38. you start eating instead. And if left unchecked,

  39. it can turn into what they call full -blown CMAS,

  40. chronically misaligned appetite syndrome. And

  41. you guys, you can read all about it, like I said,

  42. in the journal, Appetitis. In fact, if you'd

  43. like to subscribe to Appetitis, you can subscribe.

  44. There's quarterly publications, and it's $200

  45. a year. And after the service, I'd be happy to

  46. sign you up, if you would like. Well, this is

  47. very important information It's especially important

  48. tonight as we are wrapping up our teaching series

  49. Which has been on the seven deadly sins the seven

  50. deadly sins. We've looked at pride We've looked

  51. at envy and sloth and greed and lust and wrath

  52. and now tonight we come to gluttony gluttony

  53. is all about the confusion and the connection

  54. between our hearts longings and our stomach's

  55. appetite. Most people, when they think of gluttony,

  56. they just think of the stomach, right? They picture

  57. somebody at a buffet going back for their third

  58. plate, or they picture somebody going through

  59. the drive -thru, getting the super -sized combo

  60. meal, and that is definitely part of it, right?

  61. The word gluttony, the Latin word gluttony, actually

  62. comes from the word that means to gulp down,

  63. right? So yes, gluttony is all about what we

  64. eat, why we eat, how we eat, when we eat. The

  65. ancient monks, though, who gave us the seven

  66. deadly sins in the first place, they actually

  67. showed that gluttony has a number of different

  68. symptoms, five different symptoms. And we're

  69. going to go through these, and just people, if

  70. one of these hits close to home, do not feel

  71. bad, because I'm sure that you are in very, very

  72. good company. The first symptom of gluttony is

  73. called eating hastily. And that's just eating

  74. too quickly, right? It's like you can't wait

  75. to eat. Before anyone else has sat down at the

  76. table you're already halfway through your meal.

  77. It just smells too good. It looks too good. You're

  78. having dessert and they've barely finished their

  79. salad, right? Because gluttony always puts the

  80. food on the table. above the people around the

  81. table. It becomes more about consumption than

  82. community. So eating hastily, eating quickly

  83. is a form of gluttony. Another symptom of gluttony

  84. is eating sumptuously. This is eating that only

  85. wants the very best food, the fanciest fare,

  86. the most expensive food, even if we can't really

  87. afford it. Now I just want to say, of course,

  88. nothing wrong with a great meal. A wonderfully

  89. prepared meal can be a real gift, and chefs are

  90. gifted and skilled and deserve to be paid for

  91. every bit of work they do. But gluttony demands

  92. that level of food at every meal. You know, mac

  93. and cheese isn't enough unless it's, you know,

  94. mac and cheese with truffles and very expensive

  95. exotic ketchups, right? So eating hastily, eating

  96. sumptuously, the third symptom of gluttony according

  97. to the ancient monks is eating excessively. This

  98. is, of course, the one most of us think of when

  99. we think of gluttony. It's just eating too much.

  100. It's drinking too much. And often, for no particular

  101. reason, you're just bored or maybe you're sad

  102. or maybe you're a procrastinator. You open the

  103. fridge, you don't really know why, but you just

  104. eat and eat and eat. Why do we do that? The fourth

  105. symptom of gluttony is eating greedily. And this

  106. is when food actually starts to become territorial,

  107. right? Now you eat with possessiveness. You're

  108. looking around the table. You're eyeing the food.

  109. You're trying to figure out if there's enough

  110. for everyone. You want to get the biggest piece.

  111. You're guarding your fries like they're gold,

  112. right? You're darting. You're hoping people don't

  113. take too much and not leave enough for you. It's

  114. greedy. It's territorial. But the fifth symptom

  115. of gluttony is eating daintily. Now, this one

  116. might actually surprise you. It's actually not

  117. about eating too much. It's about just getting

  118. too fussy and too picky about what we eat. Oh,

  119. this isn't hot enough. Oh, I like my poached

  120. eggs not that runny, or no, now they're too runny,

  121. and so on and so forth. Oh, I asked for my toast

  122. to be triple toasted. Not once, not twice. Triple

  123. toasted. What part of triple toasted don't you

  124. understand? I don't want a lot, they say, but

  125. I want it just. so So we eat too fast too fancy

  126. too much too selfishly too picky Meanwhile Jesus

  127. asks us this question is not life more than food

  128. All these symptoms they point to the same problem.

  129. We're trying to feed an appetite in there, right?

  130. But is that appetite is that desire coming from

  131. our stomach or our heart remember? They're connected.

  132. What makes us do this? Well, there are a few

  133. underlying conditions I'd like to point out.

  134. Again, you can read all about these in Appetitis,

  135. but the first condition, the first condition

  136. that causes us to behave this way when it comes

  137. for food is what we call a relational rupture.

  138. Gluttony happens when we neglect the people connection

  139. with food. Eating was meant to be something that's

  140. done by community, in community. Eating brings

  141. us together. Eating is how we get to know each

  142. other and form relationships. Gluttony, though,

  143. makes the food on the table more important than

  144. the people around the table. In fact, who needs

  145. them anyways? They're just going to eat more

  146. of what I could have, right? And so gluttony

  147. actually distracts us. distracts us from the

  148. presence of people. And here's the flip side

  149. of that is food sometimes distracts us from the

  150. absence of people. We're lonely. We want people,

  151. but we can't have people, but our stomach says,

  152. well, you can have food. And so we eat. The messages

  153. all get confused. When we forget the people and

  154. focus just on the food, something sacred is lost

  155. in the act of eating. The conversation is gone.

  156. The laughter is gone. The connection is gone.

  157. You know, there are places in our world where

  158. they still to this day, they eat slowly. It takes

  159. a long time for them to have a meal. It's communal.

  160. It's a relational event. There is actually a

  161. movement called the Slow Food Movement that is

  162. trying to reclaim this idea of that food, eating

  163. food is more about people. But we live in a culture

  164. that is speeding up, not slowing down. We rush

  165. through meals like there are pit stops, right?

  166. It's purely utilitarian, our eating. We just

  167. want to get something in us and keep on going.

  168. No eye contact, no conversation, just consumption,

  169. right? Now, where is the relationship, I ask

  170. you? When you've got one hand on the wheel, another

  171. on a burger, another, your chicken nuggets in

  172. your armpit, and your dipping sauce between your

  173. legs. It's pretty impressive if you can pull

  174. that off, I must say. But... You're totally disconnected

  175. from people. Now, I think actually if somebody

  176. from another century were to come and watch us

  177. eat, they would say, what is wrong? What's wrong

  178. is there's a relational rupture. That is the

  179. first underlying condition of gluttony. The second

  180. underlying condition of gluttony is spiritual

  181. amnesia. Gluttony happens when we just forget.

  182. Man, food is a sacred thing, right? In the Bible,

  183. food is not just fuel for our bodies. It is one

  184. of the most powerful spiritual symbols in the

  185. entire story of God, from Genesis all the way

  186. through to Revelation. Food, it doesn't just

  187. keep us alive. Food is how God teaches us. to

  188. live. Let me prove it to you. Look, the very

  189. first meal in the whole Bible, the first time

  190. anyone reached for a piece of food, Adam and

  191. Eve, they weren't physically hungry. They were

  192. just spiritually confused. Again, the connection

  193. that they took the fruit, not because their stomach

  194. needed it, but because their hearts were hungry

  195. for control. They were hungry for independence.

  196. They were hungry for knowledge. The apple They

  197. thought the apple would satisfy that hunger,

  198. but the real need was for God, something only

  199. God could fill. Fast forward. Now we have Israel.

  200. They're walking through the wilderness and they

  201. are hungry, right? They're very hungry in the

  202. wilderness. And the Lord says, I will... give

  203. you food and I will rain down manna from heaven

  204. but it was only enough just enough for each day

  205. and what was God teaching them he was teaching

  206. them to let go of their instinct to hoard food

  207. he was trying to retrain their hearts onto him

  208. this is the Bible has this rich rich sacredness

  209. about food. Or take about this, when Jesus was

  210. being tempted by the devil in the wilderness,

  211. the devil says, if you're really the son of God,

  212. turn these stones into bread. But Jesus refuses,

  213. not because food is a bad thing, but because

  214. Jesus would rather be hungry with God than be

  215. full without God. Okay, and then Jesus of course

  216. he didn't just he didn't just preach about food

  217. He he ate his way through the kingdom of God

  218. the son of man came eating and drinking We are

  219. told he just kept sitting at tables with all

  220. the wrong people and there were prostitutes the

  221. poor the outcasts These meals obviously were

  222. not about indulgence. It wasn't about filling

  223. a stomach. They were about invitation They were

  224. about creating community And then one more, just

  225. don't forget how the story of the Bible ends.

  226. The story of the Bible ends when there is a final

  227. feast. This is not a snack. This is not some

  228. kind of takeout container. This is a wedding

  229. banquet, the wedding supper of the Lamb, where

  230. we will all sit down and all of our desires and

  231. all of our hungers will finally once and for

  232. all be satisfied. Do you see how deeply spiritual

  233. eating is? how deeply sacred food is, but we

  234. look at food and we don't see anything spiritual

  235. about it. It's just grub, right? We're just bodies

  236. with stomachs and we need to put something in

  237. it. That is spiritual amnesia. We've forgotten

  238. the sacred connection of food. So so here we

  239. go. We've got our first condition is that we

  240. have separated food from relationship The second

  241. condition is we separate food from spirituality,

  242. but thirdly and perhaps most deeply gluttony

  243. arises through disordered desires That's when

  244. the old Cardio gastric canal Confuses us and

  245. we're not sure how we're feeling inside. We're

  246. not sure whether that desire we are feeling is

  247. actually for food or whether it's for God whether

  248. that is our stomach grumbling or whether that's

  249. our heart aching gluttony is not just a stomach

  250. problem it is a heart problem they're connected

  251. and of course we need food to survive but the

  252. thing we need most of all our deepest need is

  253. not for food it is for So that ache that you're

  254. feeling down there, that restlessness that you're

  255. feeling down there, that might not be emanating

  256. from your stomach, that might actually be coming

  257. from your heart. And what you're really hungry

  258. for is the love of God. Gluttony causes us to

  259. look for, to look to food for things that only

  260. God can really give us. Comfort and identity

  261. and... peace and all that stuff the heart and

  262. the stomach I'm telling you they're connected

  263. you got to read the journal now think about it

  264. think about I mean think about how many times

  265. that we eat why do we eat when we're not hungry

  266. that's it you know I don't know it's why do we

  267. try to use food in our stomach to soothe our

  268. soul it's that inner wiring it's connected that

  269. causes us to feed our bodies thinking it will

  270. satisfy the ache in our heart so Thomas Aquinas

  271. He said that gluttony is not sinful because food

  272. is bad. It's sinful because we love it in the

  273. wrong way. Food's meant to nourish us. We treat

  274. food like it's something that completes us. And

  275. when that happens, when all of those... underlying

  276. conditions come together, whether it's the relational

  277. rupture, the spiritual amnesia, and the disorder

  278. desires, the result can be one of the most dangerous

  279. of all disorders, and that is chronically misaligned

  280. appetite syndrome, or what the Bible calls idolatry.

  281. We make food an idol. Food gives us peace, not

  282. God. Food gives us comfort, not God. Food relieves

  283. my pain, not God. You know, Paul once talked

  284. about a group of people, and he said, their God

  285. is their stomach. When we obsess over food, when

  286. we plan our day around it, when we comfort ourselves

  287. with it, when we reward ourselves with it, food

  288. has become an idol, and our stomach is our God.

  289. When we find more joy in a good meal than in

  290. God's Word, More comfort in a hot dish than the

  291. Holy Spirit, more excitement about dessert than

  292. discipleship, then we're no longer just enjoying

  293. food, we're worshiping it. And food was never

  294. meant to bear the weight of our worship. It will

  295. always let us down. But we don't just worship

  296. it, we're enslaved by it. The glutton is not

  297. a free person, but a slave to their cravings.

  298. It's the same for all the deadly sins actually

  299. the real question it comes down to is who's in

  300. control Do we rule our appetites or do our appetites

  301. rule us? But good news good news according to

  302. the journal no according to the Bible There is

  303. a cure. There's a cure for the symptoms. There's

  304. a cure for the conditions. There's a cure for

  305. the disorder of gluttony. And what better place

  306. to discuss it than in a church. Why is that?

  307. Because if gluttony is worshiping the wrong thing,

  308. then the cure for it is not some new diet, but

  309. it's actually worshiping the right thing. Jesus

  310. said, I am the bread of life. And when he said

  311. that, he was offering himself as the one and

  312. only thing that will truly satisfy the cravings

  313. and desires of our hearts. He's offering himself

  314. as the true object of our worship. Jesus is the

  315. only one who can reach down deep into your disordered

  316. body and actually satisfy the hunger of your

  317. heart. And so I want to just end really practically

  318. and give you three prescriptions you can take

  319. away today to help you cure gluttony as ever

  320. it shows up in your life. Here is the first way

  321. to cure it. Say grace. Just say grace when you

  322. eat. I don't know if you say grace when you eat.

  323. Some people do it religiously. Other people have

  324. never done it. Some are kind of embarrassed to

  325. do it. Some are too rushed around to do it, or

  326. you feel it's old -fashioned, whatever. But Saint

  327. Grace is just a simple way to remind us this

  328. food is a gift. This food is a gift. Like manna

  329. in the wilderness, it is meant to be received

  330. with gratitude, not grabbed with greed. Saint

  331. Grace reminds us we are needy creatures. We're

  332. not self -sufficient. Saint Grace reminds us

  333. the food comes from... God's hand. And I know

  334. this doesn't sound like much, but a quick prayer

  335. before you eat can actually turn that meal into

  336. worship. Right? And now the meal is not about

  337. worshipping the food, it's about worshipping

  338. the one who gave us the food. The food becomes

  339. a way to thank God, not to replace God. So that's

  340. the first thing we can do. Just say grace. The

  341. second cure... is practice fasting, right? We

  342. have been learning about fasting this Lent. Many

  343. of you took the fasting course, and if you did,

  344. then you will know that fasting isn't just about

  345. abstaining from food. It's actually about reordering

  346. our desires. Just as gluttony disorders our loves,

  347. when we fast, it reorders those loves. It reconnects

  348. things in the right way. In fasting, We decide

  349. on purpose we want to be hungry. Not because

  350. we're going to punish ourselves, but because

  351. we're retraining our hearts and we're going to

  352. eat. Not because we're hungry and not because

  353. we're bored and not because we're sad or stressed.

  354. We're not going to do that. Fasting, you know,

  355. says no, I am not ruled by my appetites. I am

  356. willing, in fact, to be empty in order to be

  357. filled with God. And here is the paradox that

  358. in fasting, we actually become more aware of

  359. the real hunger we have inside us, not for food,

  360. but for God. Fasting, therefore, becomes feasting

  361. on the love of God. So, finally, and this is

  362. where we were going the whole night anyways,

  363. the final cure for gluttony is something we're

  364. going to experience in just a few moments. Monday

  365. Thursday, we're going to come to this table that

  366. is going to totally reframe our hunger. This

  367. meal is called communion. Sometimes it's called

  368. the Lord's Supper. Sometimes it's called the

  369. Eucharist. But it invites us not just to come

  370. and consume food, but to come and commune with

  371. God and with each other. That night at the table,

  372. Jesus took bread. And when he had given thanks,

  373. he broke it, and he gave it to his disciples,

  374. saying, take it, it's my body. And then he took

  375. a cup, and when he had given thanks, he gave

  376. it to them, and they drank from it. This is my

  377. blood of the covenant, which is poured out for

  378. many, he said to them. Now sometimes people have

  379. asked, why do we have communion every single

  380. week here at Trinity Streetsville? It adds time

  381. to the service. The service could be 15, 20 minutes

  382. shorter if we didn't do communion. You're right,

  383. it takes time. Communion slows everything down

  384. and isn't that great. Because in a fast food

  385. culture, in a culture detached from community,

  386. in a gluttonous culture that says, I just need

  387. to be fed and I need it now, Jesus gives us this

  388. meal. Not as our own little private indulgence,

  389. not to satisfy our stomachs, it's not gonna fill

  390. your stomach, but to reorient our hearts toward

  391. the cross, to re -center our lives on his grace.

  392. And the more we hunger for this meal, the more

  393. it cures us. Communion, look, look what it does.

  394. Communion cures that relational rupture, because

  395. we eat together. This is not your own little

  396. private picnic with Jesus. It is a shared meal

  397. where everyone comes together and we are reconciled

  398. with each other as we gather around this table

  399. together. Communion also cures our spiritual

  400. amnesia. Do you know what Jesus said when he

  401. gave us communion? He said, do this in remembrance

  402. of me. I want you to remember. I want you to

  403. not forget the story of God, the story of who

  404. you are, the story of how much God loves you.

  405. And as we remember that story, as we remember

  406. Him, we're reshaped by Him. And communion, of

  407. course, Finally, it cures us of all those disordered

  408. desires. The Lord's Supper is a disciplined act

  409. of eating and drinking that teaches us how to

  410. desire rightly. That's the sermon in a sentence

  411. because here at this table, hunger gets retrained,

  412. appetites get realigned, idols get dethroned,

  413. gluttony says I need more, Eucharist says Christ

  414. is enough. At the table we learn that ache inside

  415. of us isn't for food. is for fellowship with

  416. the one who made us. So, that's it. Let's end

  417. this, though, by not being too hard on ourselves.

  418. It is really easy to confuse the craving for

  419. food with the desire for the love of God. It's

  420. that darn cardio gastric canal. You can read

  421. all about it, as I mentioned, in the journal,

  422. Appetitus. But tonight, we've seen the symptoms,

  423. we've understood the conditions, we've explained

  424. the disordered desires, and now we know the cures.

  425. Jesus. Doesn't want to leave us hungry. He's

  426. inviting us to this table tonight Not just to

  427. consume but to commune not to indulge but also

  428. to remember and not just to fill our bellies

  429. But to calm our restless hearts Guys, this is

  430. not just a ritual This is not just a symbol This

  431. is a cure This is a cure. So come with your hunger

  432. with all your disorders Come with your empty

  433. hands and your messed up cravings and be made

  434. whole at this table. Thanks be to God.