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  1. Hello and welcome to this week's episode of Trinity

  2. Sermons and Happy Thanksgiving! Even though there

  3. seems to be lots that we can be grateful for,

  4. for our family, for food, for housing, sometimes

  5. it's really hard to be thankful. There's also

  6. lots that seems to be going wrong. So what do

  7. we do in those times when it's really hard and

  8. we don't know how to practice gratitude? That's

  9. what Rob is going to talk to us a little bit

  10. about in today's sermon. is from 1 Thessalonians

    1 Thessalonians 5:16–24

  11. 5, verses 16 to 24. Be joyful always, never stop

  12. praying, and everything give thanks. This is

  13. what God wants you to do because of Christ Jesus.

  14. Do not try to stop the work of the Holy Spirit.

  15. Do not laugh at those who speak for God. Test

  16. everything, and do not let good things get away

  17. from you. Keep away from everything that even

  18. looks like sin. May the God of peace set you

  19. apart for himself. May every part of you be set

  20. apart for God. May your spirit and your soul

  21. and your body be kept complete. May you be without

  22. blame when our Lord Jesus Christ comes again.

  23. The one who called you is faithful and he will

  24. do what is promised. The word of the Lord. Two

  25. summers ago, our family took a trip to Prince

  26. Edward Island. And while we were at Prince Edward

  27. Island, our trip happened to coincide with the

  28. same time that Charlottetown holds its annual

  29. Big Fall Fair, which is called Old Home Week.

  30. And part of that event is that there is a whole

  31. bunch of horse races that happen at the end of

  32. this fair. So we hung out at the fair, but then

  33. toward the end of the night, we said, well, why

  34. not? Why don't we go? check out the horse races

  35. here at the fair. And so we stuck around, and

  36. in order to kind of make things a little bit

  37. interesting, I gave each of the kids a toonie.

  38. And I said that they could place very small bets

  39. on the horses. And again, I'm not condoning gambling

  40. in any way, shape, or form. But I said, you know,

  41. and what we generally did, I don't know, is there

  42. a slide there? Do we have a slide there, Liz,

  43. to get us started? What we did was we usually

  44. picked the horses that had like pretty good odds

  45. to win. You look in the program, oh, this horse

  46. is supposed to win two to one odds, right? And

  47. so we made pretty safe bets throughout the night.

  48. say that even though we picked the horses that

  49. were supposed to win, we still ended up losing

  50. most of the time. And it got down to, I mean,

  51. sometimes we won, but we got down to the end.

  52. Well, really, we were down to our very last toonie.

  53. And so we said, you know what, let's do one more.

  54. But this time, let's not pick a horse that, you

  55. know, is supposed to win. Let's pick one of the

  56. long shots. So we started looking to the program.

  57. It was the seventh race. We were flipping through

  58. and we found our horse. It was the number six

  59. horse. And the odds of it winning at the time

  60. were five to one, five to one. So we thought,

  61. oh, that's pretty cool. If we put $2 down on

  62. this horse and the horse happened to win, that

  63. means we'd get a payout of $10, which sounded

  64. pretty good. So that was a good idea. And plus,

  65. you know, we actually also really liked the name

  66. of this horse. The horse had this name, Counter

  67. Currency. counter currency we thought oh that

  68. sounds so so sweet right so so we went up to

  69. the voting truck and we put down our toonie and

  70. we said put it all on counter currency and printed

  71. out the little bedding slip and then we ran back

  72. to the track side right where the finish line

  73. is we want it we didn't want to miss a second

  74. of the action of this very last race now I want

  75. to tell you that I told you that counter currency

  76. Oh, by the way, it was actually harness racing,

  77. not like horse racing, harness racing. Counter

  78. currency started at 5 to 1 odds. But as people

  79. make bets and as you get closer to post time,

  80. the odds change. And there's a big scoreboard

  81. in the field that tells you what the odds are

  82. on your horse. Well, over the minutes that followed,

  83. counter currency went from 5 to 1 to 8 to 1 to

  84. 10 to 1 to 12 to 1, 15 to 1. When the race began,

  85. the odds... odds of counter currency winning

  86. were 15 to one, which meant two things. One,

  87. we're probably the only people in Charlottetown

  88. who voted or who bet on counter currency winning.

  89. And secondly, if counter currency were to win,

  90. then we would take home a whopping purse of $30

  91. based on our $2 bet. Of course, we didn't have

  92. much hope. We didn't have much hope. Here's a

  93. shot of the girls. This is after the first lap.

  94. Now there's two laps on this half mile track.

  95. So this is these little horses coming around

  96. after the first lap. And I'm going to zoom in

  97. to show you where counter currency is. Counter

  98. currency there. Running dead last as predicted.

  99. No surprise. No surprise. And obviously not a

  100. lot of thankfulness. Thinking of Thanksgiving.

  101. Not a lot of gratitude at this moment in our

  102. hearts. But just when we were getting ready to

  103. rip up our bedding slip. Just when we were getting

  104. ready to call it a night and get out of there

  105. before the traffic. I got to tell you something.

  106. Something happened. I don't know what it was.

  107. The planets aligned. The universe shifted. The

  108. fates smiled on us. don't know but something

  109. happened that no one could have predicted counter

  110. currency started to make her move she moved from

  111. the seven position dead last to the six position

  112. And then she moved from the sixth position to

  113. the fifth position. And then now they were getting

  114. onto the far side of the field. Again, the last

  115. lap, we couldn't really see so well what was

  116. going on, but we could hear the announcer. The

  117. announcer, counter currency. Advancing on the

  118. outside, it's counter currency. Now in fourth,

  119. I can still hear the name. And then as they rounded

  120. the final bend and they were in the home stretch,

  121. I realized, oh my gosh, this is going to be amazing.

  122. We're going to make history. I pulled out my

  123. camera and I said, we got to catch this amazing

  124. finish. And I'm going to show you that finish

  125. right now. And I want to just apologize in advance

  126. for my ridiculous screaming. I got way, way too

  127. carried away in this moment. But here is the

  128. finish. It was an unbelievable moment. That little

  129. horse that no one believed in, true to her name,

  130. went against the current and came out on top

  131. of the field. And here's a picture of counter

  132. currency in the winner's circle. And as you can

  133. see from the look on Petra's face, there was

  134. a lot of joy. There was a lot of gratitude. There

  135. was a lot of thanksgiving. She asked me not to

  136. dwell on this slide too long. So I'm going to

  137. move to the next slide. But the point is, we

  138. ran up to the voting truck afterwards. And, you

  139. know, we placed our little betting slip down

  140. there. And they gave us $30 of cold, hard cash.

  141. And we took that $30 and we went straight to

  142. Wendy's. Because there was a Wendy's with it.

  143. You could see it from the track. And we went

  144. over there. And we've shot the works. We blew

  145. it all on frosties and fries and stuff like that

  146. to celebrate our historic win. Now, what is this

  147. story even about? Well, for some reason, this

  148. week, as I was thinking about Thanksgiving, the

  149. name of that horse, counter currency, just came

  150. to my mind again and again and again. Because

  151. if you think about what does counter currency

  152. mean? It means going against the flow. And in

  153. a culture like ours, the currency of a culture

  154. like ours is, you know, power and wealth and

  155. influence. And to go counter to that, to be counter

  156. currency, is to move in the opposite direction

  157. of all of those things. And today on Thanksgiving

  158. Sunday, I want to suggest to you that is precisely

  159. what Christian gratitude is all about. gratitude

  160. runs counter to our culture. See, society runs

  161. this way, runs on comparing and competing and

  162. complaining and consuming. Society runs this

  163. way and says, you know, you don't have enough,

  164. you need more. Society wants to break us all

  165. down into winners and losers. But counter currency

  166. running counter gratitude runs in the opposite

  167. direction and gratitude says no no no we can

  168. be grateful and we can trust in god's grace giving

  169. us everything that we need now that kind of gratitude

  170. is actually pretty hard to come by when you think

  171. about it in our culture. It was also pretty hard

  172. to come by in Paul's culture. Paul, who wrote

  173. this letter to the church in the city of Thessalonica

  174. 2 ,000 years ago. People there in that city,

  175. they were not unlike us. They too were trying

  176. to get ahead. They too were trying to climb the

  177. ladder, trying to win the race. And in those

  178. days, in Thessalonica, there was this thing called

  179. the patronage system. And the patronage system

  180. basically worked this way. That if you wanted

  181. to get a job, or if you wanted to get a loan,

  182. or if you needed help in any way, then you had

  183. to basically suck up to the rich people. You

  184. had to suck up to the powerful people of your

  185. day. And so for that reason, gratitude wasn't

  186. so much. about being spontaneous it was about

  187. being very strategic right you might say oh thank

  188. you thank you thank you you're the greatest you're

  189. the best but what you were really trying to do

  190. is butter them up right you weren't you weren't

  191. that because they might give you a favor later

  192. on right you weren't necessarily feeling grateful

  193. in fact you were just trying to survive right

  194. and in those days life really was like a horse

  195. race if you were one of the few people in that

  196. culture who won then great you might be grateful

  197. but most everybody lost in those days and so

  198. real gratitude was pretty hard to come by it

  199. was the counter currency of that day as well

  200. now what i want to say is into that culture 2

  201. 000 years ago in thessalonica and into our culture

  202. in 21st century mississauga paul said some pretty

  203. radical words here's what he says he says rejoice

  204. when you win no let me read that again rejoice

  205. when everything works out for you no rejoice

  206. when you come in first place no he just says

  207. rejoice always Pray continually, give thanks

  208. in all circumstances for this is the will of

  209. God in Christ Jesus for you. In other words,

  210. Paul is saying, go against the current, go against

  211. the flow, rejoice, just rejoice, pray and give

  212. thanks. And what Paul is proposing here is this

  213. type of gratitude that isn't based on luck. It's

  214. not based on hard work. It's a gratitude that's

  215. not based on your accomplishments or what someone

  216. did for you, but it's based solely on the grace

  217. of God. It's a gratitude that does not come from

  218. what is happening around us. It's a gratitude

  219. that comes from what God has done for us. And

  220. that kind of gratitude, man, that kind of gratitude,

  221. you can live by that kind of gratitude. You are

  222. going against the current of culture. In fact,

  223. N .T. Wright says to live that way is almost

  224. to live in a whole new world, right? Christian

  225. gratitude isn't based on luck. Thank you. It

  226. is based on grace. And I mentioned N .T. Wright.

  227. He said this. He said, where was it? Where's

  228. my N .T. Wright quote? There it is. When Paul

  229. urged the Thessalonians to give thanks in all

  230. circumstances, he was calling them to live like

  231. a brand new world. It's a world where grace,

  232. not fate, not luck was in charge, and where gratitude

  233. replaced anxiety as the true source of faith.

  234. So listen, what that means is you don't need

  235. to wait for your luck to change in order to start

  236. being grateful. You don't need to win the race.

  237. You don't need to win the money before you can

  238. give thanks. You can give thanks right now as

  239. an act of faith, even if you don't have rich

  240. friends, right? Even if you don't have a good

  241. job, even if you're out of work, even if your

  242. girlfriend has left you, even if you're flunking

  243. out of school, that is okay. You can still give

  244. thanks. Why? Because you have grace and you have

  245. Jesus. Gratitude is not tied to the ups and downs

  246. of your life, to the wins and losses of your

  247. life. Instead, it is anchored to the faithfulness

  248. of God, which means this, that you can, in fact,

  249. be grateful even though you're running in last

  250. place. After that first lap, I have to tell you,

  251. I don't think that jockey looked particularly

  252. thankful. And when we were standing there on

  253. the sidelines there, we didn't feel particularly

  254. grateful in that moment. I know that we weren't.

  255. But gratitude isn't something you wait to feel

  256. after you win. It's something you practice when

  257. you're still in last place. Because Paul says,

  258. he says, give thanks in... all circumstances

  259. now we need to talk about that little preposition

  260. in he does not say give thanks for everything

  261. but he says give thanks in everything it's it's

  262. not like we're supposed to celebrate and give

  263. thanks for all the bad things that might be happening

  264. to us but right in the middle of them There is

  265. lots to be thankful for, and that is a very big

  266. difference. And I want to say, let's be honest,

  267. there's plenty of things in our lives and in

  268. the world today that we are not thankful for,

  269. right? We are not thankful for sickness. We are

  270. not thankful for job loss. We are not thankful

  271. for heartbreak. We are not thankful for loneliness.

  272. We are not thankful for family conflict. We're

  273. not thankful for this, you know, broken world

  274. that we see. But Paul says we can still give

  275. thanks in those moments, right in the thick of

  276. them, because even there, God is present and

  277. God is at work. After one lap, you know, counter

  278. currency was dead last. You could just feel like

  279. the energy fading. I felt the energy fading.

  280. But she kept running in last place. And there

  281. are people here today who feel like they're in

  282. last place. Some of you feel like you're financially

  283. in last place. You're trying to stretch your

  284. paychecks and it just don't stretch anymore.

  285. Some of you feel emotionally in last place. You're

  286. just exhausted emotionally. right? Some of us

  287. feel relationally like we're in last place. We're

  288. carrying with us hurt or rejection or something

  289. like that. Some of us maybe even feel spiritually

  290. like we're in last place. We can't remember the

  291. last time that we felt close to God. And if you're

  292. honest, this whole language about gratitude is

  293. the wrong language for what you're feeling right

  294. now. Paul is not asking you to pretend to be

  295. happy. Gratitude certainly does not ignore the

  296. real problems that we are facing. But it opens

  297. our eyes to see that God is still at work in

  298. the middle of all that. So Paul is not saying

  299. fake it. He is saying, can you find God in it?

  300. You know, Eugene Peterson wrote this little book.

  301. In this book, he says this. He says, the mature

  302. Christian is not thankful for suffering, but

  303. thankful in suffering because he knows that God

  304. is not yet finished with the story. So you see,

  305. this is, I think, very fascinating. Being grateful

  306. in difficult times is not denial. It's actually

  307. defiance. It fights against the current. If faith

  308. and gratefulness is a way of saying, I may not

  309. be winning the race right now, but God is still

  310. with me in the race. I may be running in last

  311. place, but God's love, God's love has not fallen

  312. far behind me. It is choosing to see God's hand

  313. in the hardship. It's choosing to see God's grace

  314. in the grind. It's choosing to see God's mercy

  315. in the mess of our lives. And maybe that is why

  316. the early church clung so much to this verse.

  317. Because life for them was definitely not easy.

  318. They faced persecution. They faced poverty. They

  319. faced pressure. And Paul wanted them to know

  320. that gratitude is not reserved for the winner's

  321. circle. It is for the faithful people in the

  322. midst of the struggle. And I can almost picture

  323. some of those early Christians gathering in homes

  324. with so little material blessings, and yet there

  325. they were giving thanks that God, not giving

  326. thanks for what they were suffering, but giving

  327. thanks that God was near. And what they were

  328. doing is they were learning a lesson that we

  329. too need to learn, and that is that even in last

  330. place, God is still running the race with us.

  331. Even in last place, the race isn't over yet.

  332. I guarantee you after that first lap, a lot of

  333. people were ready to tear up their slips on a

  334. counter currency. There were lots of cheers for

  335. the horses that were leading. There were not

  336. many cheers for the horses that were behind.

  337. And certainly I think we were the only family

  338. cheering for counter currency. Why were we cheering?

  339. It's because we were hoping. And we were believing

  340. that there was more to come. And that's what

  341. gratitude does. It cheers before the finish line.

  342. It says, God, I want to thank you right here.

  343. Not because I'm winning, but because you're still

  344. running with me. And God, I know that you specialize

  345. in come from behind wins. And God, you can take

  346. something that looks like a defeat and you can

  347. turn it into a victory. Now you might say, well,

  348. what do you mean by that? Well, look what Paul

  349. says. He says, give thanks in all circumstances.

  350. And then he says, for this is the will of God

  351. for you in Christ Jesus. What does that mean?

  352. Isn't that just Paul attacking on a nice sounding

  353. religious ending to a very famous piece of scripture?

  354. No, this is the reason you can give thanks in

  355. all circumstances because of Christ Jesus, right?

  356. Our gratitude is not grounded in luck. Or in

  357. circumstance, our gratitude is not like grounded

  358. in optimism. It is grounded in a person. And

  359. that person is Jesus Christ. So what that means

  360. is we don't give thanks to God because we think

  361. we're going to win in the end. We give thanks

  362. because Jesus already did. You see, the cross

  363. looked like complete defeat, right? The ultimate

  364. last place. I mean, this was, the crowd had stopped

  365. cheering a long time ago. The disciples had left.

  366. I mean, 15 to 1 odds. Jesus had a billion to

  367. 1 odds against him. It looked like his story

  368. was over. It looked like sin and evil and death

  369. were miles ahead of him. And if you were a betting

  370. person, you never would have put any money down

  371. on the crucified Messiah. But, like counter currency,

  372. God wins in ways that the world just doesn't

  373. seem coming. And three days later, God turned

  374. the scoreboard upside down and the tomb was empty

  375. and Jesus had risen from the dead. And that resurrection,

  376. it wasn't just like a comeback. It was a complete

  377. reversal, completely counter, completely counter

  378. to everything the world thought it knew about

  379. success and winning and power and all that. Tim

  380. Keller wrote that the resurrection means that

  381. the worst thing, which is what? Death, is never

  382. the last thing. And God's grace can turn even

  383. apparent defeat into victory. God's grace can

  384. turn the last place horse, the long shot, into

  385. a champion. What I want to say then is that the

  386. Christian life, I'm not just trying to propose

  387. that Christian life is about wishful thinking.

  388. But it's actually about resurrection hope. Because

  389. life doesn't always work out. We don't always

  390. win the race. Sometimes we don't even finish

  391. the race. Sometimes the marriage does not survive.

  392. Sometimes you lose the job. Sometimes the doctor

  393. calls and it is not good news. But resurrection

  394. hope believes that God brings life even out of

  395. death. Hope out of despair and victory out of

  396. apparent defeat. Gratitude, therefore, is not

  397. pretending that we've won, but it's remembering

  398. who has won. That's how we can give thanks in

  399. all circumstances because we know that... On

  400. our behalf, Jesus has already crossed the finish

  401. line. And that we are standing not in our winner's

  402. circle, but in his winner's circle as his followers.

  403. So I guess I just want to say that practically

  404. what that means is even though life for you might

  405. not feel like a victory, and if you're still

  406. in the middle of difficulty and pain, we can

  407. give thanks. When you... When you face grief,

  408. say, over the loss of a loved one, you can still

  409. whisper thanks because death doesn't get the

  410. last word anymore. And if you're facing failure

  411. or you're thinking about some of the regrets

  412. of your own life, you can still whisper thanks

  413. because grace is greater than all your mistakes.

  414. And if you're in the midst of uncertainty, you

  415. don't know where your life's going to go, you

  416. can still whisper thanks because... you know

  417. your ultimate future is secure in Jesus Christ.

  418. You know, when counter currency crossed the finish

  419. line, we started to just cheer like crazy, right?

  420. And that's what resurrection does. It gives you

  421. reason to celebrate. Paul begins that whole passage

  422. that Kevin read. He says, rejoice always. He's

  423. saying, if you really believe this, if you really

  424. know that God's goodness runs deeper than your

  425. circumstances, if you know that resurrection

  426. wins in the end, then your joy is going to be

  427. the natural overflow of all that. And so no matter

  428. what is going on for you today, today is a day

  429. of celebration. And not because all your prayers

  430. have been answered and not because all your problems

  431. have been solved. We already talked about that.

  432. But because Jesus is alive. Which means that

  433. hope is alive. And that is worth celebrating.

  434. I just want to ask you, how are you going to

  435. celebrate that today? You know, it's Thanksgiving,

  436. and normally we have these big Thanksgiving celebrations

  437. this weekend, which is great. I just want to

  438. tell you, your celebration does not have to be

  439. big and fancy. I mean, after Arwen, we took 30

  440. bucks and we went to Wendy's. And I still remember

  441. sitting there with Sally and the girls, and I

  442. just remember, you know, eating the fries and

  443. the Frosties and thinking, man, I'm so grateful.

  444. This is so wonderful. It wasn't fancy, but it

  445. was joyful. And that is something that gratitude

  446. does. Gratitude takes those ordinary moments

  447. of your life, just the ordinary moments, and

  448. makes them holy, makes them supercharged with

  449. joy. It turns the Frosties into a feast, right?

  450. It takes the little that you have and it makes

  451. it more than enough. And so maybe this Thanksgiving,

  452. you're not going home to carve a great big turkey.

  453. Maybe you're just going to be heating up leftovers.

  454. And maybe this Thanksgiving, the table's not

  455. going to be as full as you'd hoped. And maybe

  456. there are people missing from the table this

  457. year. And maybe your life this Thanksgiving doesn't

  458. look anything like you hoped it would look a

  459. year or two ago. But Thanksgiving, just remember,

  460. it's not about... extravagance. It's just about

  461. being aware of what you've been given. You don't

  462. got to compete with Martha Stewart, right, to

  463. celebrate Thanksgiving. All you need to know

  464. is what you've been given in Jesus Christ, and

  465. that is worth celebrating. Just in wrapping up,

  466. that's what we do when we come here to the table.

  467. uh every week i don't know if you guys know that

  468. the lord's supper was called the eucharist by

  469. the early church and the the word eucharist literally

  470. means thanksgiving and what we're going to have

  471. here does not look like much it's just a little

  472. bit of bread it's just a little bit of wine but

  473. what we're celebrating here is exactly what paul

  474. told us to do we are giving thanks in all circumstances

  475. You know, just think that it was on the night

  476. before Jesus' death, when betrayal was about

  477. to happen, when the odds were hopeless. He was

  478. about to be dead last, Jesus. He took bread,

  479. and he broke it, and he gave thanks. And then

  480. he lifted up a cup of wine, and he knew what

  481. that wine symbolized, and he gave thanks again.

  482. Jesus, gratitude in last place. There's this

  483. guy named Alexander Shmaimon who wrote this beautiful

  484. book about communion. And he said that the Eucharist

  485. is the revelation that life can be thanksgiving.

  486. That everything in creation can become communion

  487. with God. Your whole life can be Eucharist. Your

  488. whole life can be thanksgiving. Because when

  489. we live in Christ Jesus, when we see the world

  490. through resurrection eyes, then every little

  491. moment is an opportunity for thanksgiving. So

  492. today, let's be people who are grateful against

  493. the odds. People who celebrate even when we're

  494. in last place. Some of you, you're probably leading

  495. the pack. Others of us, we are limping behind.

  496. It doesn't matter whether you've got turkey and

  497. stuffing, whether you've got fries and Frosties,

  498. whether you're laughing or cheering or whether

  499. you got a bit of a tear in your eye. Thank God

  500. for what you have in Jesus Christ. Because he

  501. is running this race with us. And the race isn't

  502. over yet. And Jesus has already crossed the finish

  503. line. Thanks be to God. Amen.