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The Love Challenge | Trinity Talks Podcast
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Hello, everyone, and welcome to this week's episode
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of Trinity Talks. My name is Kyla. I'm Britton.
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I'm still Bill. And we are here to wrap up our
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Advent conversation. Christmas is coming, folks.
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Oh, no. Yeah. I don't know if we feel ready for
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that or not. Theoretically, we've had four weeks
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to get ready. but I don't know. Spiritually.
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Spiritually. Yes. Yes. And that is a very different
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thing than logistically. Yes. Yes. Or commercially.
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Or commercially. Yes. Yes. Yes. But we have lit
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four Advent candles and all that is left on our
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wreath is the Christ candle, which of course
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doesn't get lit until Christmas Eve. And the
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fourth candle in our Advent candles in the Advent
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wreath is the candle of love, which is very nice,
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I think. Yeah. Yeah. And it's also, I guess,
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traditionally the Sunday where like one of the
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readings would be Mary's Magnificat. Yeah. And
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so like, I don't know. I feel like those things
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go well together in my mind because Mary's like
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talking about. like she's so mary the mother
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of jesus and like obviously there's a lot of
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love there between mother and child but then
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mary's magnificat this like song about the coming
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of jesus is all about like god's love coming
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and like yeah changing things i think so that's
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pretty cool receiving god's love responding to
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god's love yeah yeah it's pretty cool stuff um
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yeah so when you think about love um first before
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we get into like what that is like I don't know.
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What's like, do you have like a memory or like
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a feeling or like a thing that comes to mind
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when you're like, ah, that's love? Peppermint
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heart candies. Okay. So it's a very specific
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flavor. Yeah, I eat a lot of that during Valentine's
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Day. And if I can get my hands on it outside
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of that, then yeah. But that's like my visual
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representation of love is peppermint heart candies.
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Okay. But different from Valentine's Day love,
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which would be cinnamon. flavored oh no sorry
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it's cinnamon oh my goodness you're correcting
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me yeah my flavors are so off That's wild. That's
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disrespectful to the candy brand. Hopefully they're
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not sponsoring it. I like peppermint. Peppermint
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love candies. It's cinnamon. The little red hearts
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you're talking about. Those are cinnamon. Not
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peppermint. Maybe they exist. If they were peppermint,
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I would like them better. I'm not a big fan of
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cinnamon hearts. Oh, okay. Wow. Okay. Peppermint
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hearts on the fourth Sunday of Advent next year.
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Okay. Great. Love that. We're putting it out
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there. Yes. Yeah. Okay. What about you, Bill?
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Is there like a visceral like thing that's like,
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this is love? Yeah. I think when I think of love,
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I think of, I just think of moments of family
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and not even great moments. Just like all four
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of us driving in the car, you know, be driving,
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we're going somewhere, we're going somewhere
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as a family or I'm driving around dropping everyone
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off different places or something. It's just
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like family in action, family in motion, just
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all together, safe. Yeah, you know that. I mean,
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yeah, that's that's that's the deep, visceral
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kind of feeling of just, you know, wanting to
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take care of people and see people getting where
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they're going, not only on the day of the drive,
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but through life. Sure. And yeah, so that's that
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sense of. A family when the the recognition of
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it existing is a great thing. And the understanding
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of its absence and its effects is the negative
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thing. Sure. So if it's there, amazing. If it's
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not, then we miss it. Yeah, it's traumatic. Yeah,
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sure. Yeah. I think when I think about love sort
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of similar, there's no like, ah, this big moment.
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It's like, oh, no, like the little like cozy
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moments, you know, and just like being with the
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right people, like drinking a cup of tea. like
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last night like sitting on the sofa with my partner
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just like watching tv like just like chill you
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know this is love yeah and it sounds lovely we
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had an experience yesterday where um a friend
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of mine uh their two senior uh folks were in
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the area in my neighborhood so they came to to
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my house and they just sat with my wife and i
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and we just talked for like hours in trinidad
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they call it a lime when you're just hanging
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out there's no end time or anything it turned
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into like a stop, turned into dinner. Uh, and
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I made this meal that is like very Trinidadian
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that I never made before. And I was able to give
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it to them and they had it. And, and that when,
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when they left, uh, I was just so overjoyed.
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Maybe joyous candle I'm referencing, but like
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there was this. like this feeling of kinship
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that I had with them. And it was, yeah, there
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was some, we couldn't pinpoint it. We were trying
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to figure out why is it this house feels more
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bubbly since they left. And I think it was just
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that sharing together that time, which is over
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Christmas, we do, right? We spend so much time
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with family and friends and just getting a bit
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of that in our home was. was joyous for people
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that acts of service is a, is a, is an expression
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of love. So it's, yeah, it's no surprise that
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when you're had the opportunity to, to show your
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love to your friends and family, that it felt
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good. It felt beautiful. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I
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think like love. It naturally sort of sort of
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comes hand in hand with Christmas, at least for
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for a lot of folks, not for everybody, for sure.
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But, yeah, there is as we think about getting
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closer to this Christmas season, as we think
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about getting together with friends and family
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and that like relaxed time. Like, yeah, love
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is is what comes to mind there. So then we think
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about these different aspects of love is when
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we think about love in like a biblical sense,
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is it? sort of the same as some of these things
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that we've just been describing? Are there some
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differences between like how we are talking about
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love and the way that the Bible talks about love?
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Yeah, I think like if I come back to my example,
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like something about that felt like there was
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this bubbliness. It's like a feeling. I'm confident
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as the evening wore on, it probably faded a little
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bit and I got tired and went to sleep and I forgot
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about it. But I think love in the Bible is like
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agape. And agape love is like a principled love.
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It doesn't sway with the seasons or with emotion,
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but it's there. It's steady. It's consistent.
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And I think that's the kind of love that God's
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calling us into, not necessarily one that moves
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with our emotions. Those things are a part of
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our life, but it's something consistent and solid
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and principled. Yeah. So it's like, I think it
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can be like some of those feelings sometimes
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do accompany like a biblical love, but it's also,
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you're right. Like something that's a little
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more sort of solid. Yeah. I guess. Yeah. I think
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our expression of love, uh, is a facet of, of
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God's love. Um, the, uh, it's, uh, like Brett
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was saying, it's not as, uh, you know, it may
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not be as, as permanent or as consistent or as,
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you know um uh always um uh they are accessible
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as as human love but it is uh it is our It's
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our expression. It's God's love flowing through
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us. So God's love is the perfect love. And in
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the Advent season where that love is God sending
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Jesus as the gift to the world at Christmas,
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there's no greater love than that. God for so
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loved the world that He gave His only begotten
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Son, right? That is the kind of... full and perfect
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love that, um, um, that God makes available to
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us. Uh, and then there's the, and then there's
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our expression of that, that love, which is,
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which is, you know, our, it's our human love,
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but it's, but it's a, it's a divine love that
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flows through us. And I think that's different.
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Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Like the, the source of that
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love is God first, not us first. Yeah. And there's
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a, there's a trans transformative element to
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that too, that, uh, that we're God's love flowing
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through us. Uh, it, it, uh, changes, uh, what
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we do and how we act. Um, and, uh, and, and also,
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you know, changes us from the inside out. Yeah.
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Or at least it can't. Yeah. Yeah. For sure. For
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sure. yeah i think the other thing that i think
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about like god's love and then like ideally our
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love is that like god's love just doesn't have
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a limit um and it doesn't have a limit on any
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one person it's not like okay if you do this
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this this and be like god will stop loving you
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or like after this amount of time god will stop
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loving you but also God's love doesn't have a
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limit on like, it's like width on like how many
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people it sort of extends to. And so then if
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our job is like followers of Christ, it's like
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live that kind of love. Then like our love doesn't
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get to have limits either, which is hard and
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scary. Hard? Yeah. I think that's why it's principled,
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right? So like the two greatest commandments
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is to love God and to love your neighbor. And
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I think what... what God is what's what's happening
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there is like you know sometimes your neighbors
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are not great yeah or there may be people you
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like have uh like problems with there could be
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deep conflict that is happening there and what
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God is asking you to extend in loving your neighbor
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is not something that's moving with emotion because
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emotion can move if I'm in conflict like when
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I was a kid and I was in conflict with my siblings,
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like, oh my gosh, like we didn't, I don't want
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to talk to this person. But love for what that
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means for me to love them is to know like, even
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in. I'm not loving you because of what you've
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done. Right. Just as God is not loving us because
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of anything that we've done. Sure. God is loving
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us because God is love. And for us, it's to remember
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that, to remember that when we as humans were
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not lovable, God loved us in the same way we
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are supposed to love others. Right. With that
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same type of expression. Yeah. Yeah. That's good.
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I was going to say something similar to that
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by saying, you know, that. Advent love is God
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sending Christ to us. And it transforms us. And
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then the next part of that is acts of service.
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Like Britt was alluding to. It can't just be
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a feeling. It can't just be that love inside
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us. It needs to flow out of us. And I was thinking
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of an analogy for this. The perfect vessel versus
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the broken vessel in terms of containing God's
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love in us. And I think we as humans are broken
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people. And I think a lot of us, in order to
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feel comfortable receiving love, feel like we
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need to be the perfect vessel that will hold
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God's love and contain it. And I don't think
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that's how God's love works. I think God's love
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is supposed to flow through us. I think it's
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almost like the design is as a broken vessel,
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as God's love is being poured into us, is seeping,
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is pouring out in the cracks all over the place,
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all over everything else. And as opposed to the
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perfect vessel that we think we're supposed to
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be, where we go, okay, God, I got enough love.
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I'm full. You can go away now. I'm great. Just
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saw me all by myself. I'm like, I'm content.
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There you go. And the, but it's, but it's, but
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in the broken vessel, you know, God is pouring
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his love and it's, and it just pours out onto
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all the other people around you, which I think
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that's the point. Sure. And then you're just
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going, you know, keep pouring God. It's coming.
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It's spilling everywhere. I'm not, I'm not full
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yet. Keep going. Keep pouring. Right. And we're
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part of that flowing of God's love into the world.
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So the call to action. was a super a huge part
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of the advent love and god's gift and yeah and
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and what we're meant to do with with the with
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that love and that sacrifice that christ has
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done for us yeah the other thing like i sometimes
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think about like the order that the candles are
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placed in i'm wondering you know who decided
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this and why and whatever but like love seems
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like a really good place to end it not not that
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like it's over but like to sort of put in this
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part of the sequence because to me i think about
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like okay hope is where we sort of started like
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yeah we need that first and like christmas is
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still a long way off so we need some time for
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hope and then like okay peace is like yeah like
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peace is the thing we're all hoping for and then
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joy it's just like you know a little levity in
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the middle and love as like i think of love as
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like the primary reason for Jesus coming, right?
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Like all of the other reasons that Jesus has
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come kind of fit under the like category of love.
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Um, and sometimes I think that we think of like,
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Jesus came to like die on the cross and this
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is true, but I don't think it's the only reason
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Jesus came. Right. And like that moment on the
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cross summarizes love, but like love, is present
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in like all of jesus's life i think right like
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in the way that he interacts with other people
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in the fact that like the son of god was like
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i'm gonna become a person now who like has limits
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and like will be hungry and like experience life
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like that i think of as a kind of act of love
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like yeah just like all of jesus Yeah. Well,
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I mean, certainly you've got hope. Yeah. You've
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got joy. You've got peace. Yeah. But I've heard
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from a very reliable source that all you need
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is love. Yes. This is true. The Beatles, the
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Beatles Bible. Yes. All you need is love. Yeah.
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So then, okay. When you guys think about like
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the life of Jesus and this idea of love, like,
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How did like, just like reflect on that? Like
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what is, how does Jesus's life like reveal God's
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love to us? Hmm. Are there ways that, yeah. Like,
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so like I said, I think the first thing that
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I think of is like Jesus's interactions with
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other people. Yeah. Just like first and foremost,
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they're like always based in a spirit of like
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love. Yeah. Yeah. I definitely see like the way
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that I think from the moment. Christ was born
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to the moment he died and was resurrected. The
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people he was surrounded by give us a picture
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of what salvation will look like and what the
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body looks like. I think that he was. He was
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there with his parents, but he was in a stable
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with a bunch of animals. Very humble, but also
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was visited by the wealthy and by the poorest
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of the poor, by those who were wise and by those
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who society would consider simple or unintelligent.
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everyone was in that mix. And I think that narrative
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continues or continued, uh, and it continues
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and it's, uh, and so, yeah, I think that's, I
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think that's one way. Um, cause I think what
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love pushes us to do is for us to one, um, be
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humble. Uh, two, I think for many of us be uncomfortable.
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Uh, sometimes it's cause it could be hard to
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love. Um, I've, I've worked in some conditions
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where, you know, there's people who are, who
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I don't want to love because they've, they've
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said mean things to me or, uh, they have a prejudice
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or discriminatory views of me. And, but I love
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them anyway. Um, because I know that that's what,
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that's what Christ has done. not just as an example,
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but has done to me. Um, so yeah, I think I can
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go on and on and on and on and on, but yeah,
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I think the people that God surrounded him, that
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Jesus surrounded himself with, uh, were a true
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example of what that love looks like in action.
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Yeah. Yeah. I think there, ultimately it's the,
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um, the sacrificial. uh, redemptive love of Christ
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on the cross. I mean, that's the, that is, um,
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uh, you know, everything, Jesus' life and ministry
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builds up to that. Uh, and so that is the, that
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is the ultimate expression of, uh, of God's love
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for us. Um, but I think, uh, I think like Britt
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has said is that, you know, the, we, um, uh,
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we experience, uh, or know, uh, love in a lot
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of the, day -to -day examples of Jesus' life
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and ministry, of caring for others, of looking,
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of, you know, recognize and lifting up the least
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of these, you know, healing their sins as opposed
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to their physical ailments, recognizing that
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it was, you know, their spirit and their heart
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that needed healing first, and then the bodily
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healing came second, right? So just demonstrating
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or experiencing that love on a day -to -day basis
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with his closest friends and with people that
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he ministered to. They're all great examples.
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Yeah. And I think that loving... The people who
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are hard to love is like, that also shows up
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in Jesus's life. Like he, he loves the outsiders,
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but he also in like one of the stories that I
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think about is when there's this rich young ruler
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who like comes to Jesus and he's like, Jesus,
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I really want to follow you. And Jesus is like,
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okay, so sell everything you have, give it to
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the poor and then come follow me. And the young
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man is like, I can't do that. And he walks away.
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what the gospels then say is like jesus looked
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at him and loved him and like even though this
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man couldn't make that hard choice even though
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he didn't ultimately turn around and follow jesus
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jesus looked at him and loved him right and yeah
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so it's like not about the choices that we make
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or don't make it's god just loves yeah it just
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is yeah yeah yeah and loving and like the understanding
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like while i know the person I'm in relationship
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with might not be in the place that I, or I believe
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that God wants them to go. Sure. I love them
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anyway. Yeah. And pray for them and love them
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into what God is calling them into knowing that
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God is doing a good work and that God can, we
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don't know the end of the story for the rich
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young ruler. Right. Yeah. But God loved him anyway.
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Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And I think like, so then as
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we think about that, like it's, it's, one thing
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to sort of look at, okay, what did this look
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like in Jesus's life? But like, what does it
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look like for us to love the people who are hard
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to love? Um, and like, especially, I think it's
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one thing to sort of like love the people who
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are hard to love that. Like we don't need to
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interact with regularly and be like, ah, I love
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you. I'm going to like show compassion, like
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think the best towards you. And then, okay. So
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that's like one type of person. And then there's
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the other type of person who's like, I, interact
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with you on a regular basis and this is clearly
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a hostile relationship right like how do i love
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that person like what does that look like interesting
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well i think uh first and foremost by necessity
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i think we need to uh figure out how to love
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our friends and family of course we're around
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them all the time yes and the um and that might
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sound strange to say but i but i think i mean
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But when love is not just a feeling, but it's
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a discipline, right? It is like some of the other
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themes of Advent. We're saying that it is a gift
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of God, but it's also something that we can grow
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and develop in ourselves. And so sometimes, sometimes
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we need help to love the closest ones around
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us. And I think there's, there's another layer
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of relationships that a circle that goes out
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beyond there, which might be coworkers and, and,
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you know, people in the community and things
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like that, that some, some we like, some we don't
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like, but we're called to, we're called to love.
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So what does it look like to, to love them? So
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we kind of figured that out. And then I think
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there's I think there is another group of people
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that we might not necessarily associate with
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on a day -to -day basis unless we're involved
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in community programs and stuff, and that's the
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homeless and the hungry. And as the Bible says,
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the poor and the naked and the sick. And so I
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think that is also a group of people in our community,
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in our society, that we need to think about,
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oh, how do we show? How do we express our love?
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How do we express God's love through us to that
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particular people group? Is that about making
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a donation? Is that about showing up? Is that
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about helping as a group? Is that about helping
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as an individual, like volunteering with a group
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of people or volunteering on your own someplace?
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What does that look like? I think we're called,
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I think God calls us all to express love for
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the least of these among us. So our question
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is, what does that look like for us? What does
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that look like for me to do that? That answer
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is going to be different for different people.
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But I think it needs to have... our the our expression
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of god's love needs to have an element of that
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sure or it's not god's love in its fullness it's
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yeah it's something that's both like very practical
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and yeah extends to each of these circles as
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you were just saying it's a it's a selfless love
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it's a practical love and it responds to uh the
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needs of others in the community yeah yeah for
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sure for sure yeah yeah I won't be too critical,
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but like, not critical of you, but I'm just thinking
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about love and I'm thinking about like, it's
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very easy for us to. say, within our local communities
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that we're loving. But most of the people within
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our circles are people that are like us. We tend
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to be attracted to people that are, you know,
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like similar things, probably have similar cultural
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backgrounds and similar socioeconomic backgrounds.
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Like those are the things that like usually tie
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us together. Sure. So I often ask myself. uh
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when I look around and I think about like who
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who am I loving who who do I care for if I'm
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just caring for folks that are just like me um
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and there's we can have a whole conversation
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on demographics and how people like find themselves
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in physical spaces and all that because that
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plays a role in it but I think there's lots of
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opportunities where we intentionally leave out
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or find convenient ways to not love people that
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are not like us in various ways. And it's easy
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to do that. It's easy for us to like, you know,
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take the go transit. And as we make our way through
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the lines, just like ignore the people that are
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sitting there on the side. It's probably also
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easy for us to ignore people that have different
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like political views or ideologies and not extend
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love to them. I think the question for us truly
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is like, what is if love is not just this like
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cute feeling? um, or a convenient habit, then
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like, what does that principle love look like?
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What does it mean for me to show up and love
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people who I might deem hard to love? Um, or
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yeah, what does that look like? And I think that's
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a, it's an exercise that we're, as God reveals
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himself to us, we will learn more about that
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looks like. Um, yeah. So I, yeah, I don't have
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like an exact, like an exact answer to like what
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it, what it can look like, but I know what it,
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I know what's challenging. Um, but I know what
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it does for me when I start feeling like I just
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want to like throw people away and I don't want
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to extend love to them. Then I come back and
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I'm like, okay, well, I remember when I was.
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worse off than I am now or more challenging in
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in my or critical of of individuals of myself
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and all these things and God loved me anyway
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and God used people to like those broken vessel
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pieces use those broken parts to flow love through
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me to me um so I think that's like as we remember
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where we were and where we are I think that can
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help us in just being just open to to loving
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people in a principled way. Yeah. Like as I reflect
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on like what both of you have sort of been saying,
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like, I think about there's like, maybe not one
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thing that we can say, okay, this is what love
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looks like. But I think there's a series of questions
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that we can ask ourselves, right? There's a like,
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okay, so like, who are we loving? And like, who
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are we maybe leaving out of that love? And we
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can ask ourselves, okay, like, how am I loving
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them? And am I loving them? in ways and at times
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where it just like feels convenient and easy,
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or am I still showing up when it feels hard or
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when it feels costly? Right. And like, I think
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the other thing is you were like thinking about
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these circles of people and like starting with
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friends and family. The thing that I reflected
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on was like, sometimes we can think we are loving
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our friends and family well, but they don't necessarily
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feel well loved. And I can see that. And so,
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maybe it's worth asking your close friends and
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family, like the people that you live with, Hey,
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do you feel loved? And like, I don't know, maybe
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that's a weird question to ask just like that
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out of the blue, but like find some way to like
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bring that about and be like, Hey, like what
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do I do that? Or what do I not do that? Like
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makes you feel cared for that makes you feel
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like you belong, whatever, however you want to
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sort of word that. Right. Well, that's that's
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why I think. Yeah. And that's why I think love
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is both a gift and a discipline. Right. Yeah.
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I think I think we are we are gifted. We are
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made to to love. And the but I but I think it
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also takes it also takes work. So I think I like
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you're saying you have you have your friends
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in your family and you express love to them.
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And I think that is that is. That is part of
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what's needed, but it's a very basic level of
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expression of love. I think as you grow in your
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understanding of faith and what love is and different
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kinds of love, then you grow and you develop
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to the point where you can not just... express
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generic love but you can but you you then uh
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understand that people receive love in different
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ways right and that it's not just the that one
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love that kind of love that that kind of makes
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that works for everybody and and so you begin
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again that's that's the work of of love in a
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relationship is right is understanding how they
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receive love and learning to show love in a way
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that that they receive even understand it yeah
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yeah yeah for sure for sure yeah yeah love is
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something like i feel like we like talk about
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it and we think i know what that is i know what
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that feels like but like it's complicated yeah
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and it's yeah yeah it's like it's something that
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you said bill where it was like um In Christ
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healing people, he healed their spiritual needs,
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their spiritual, their sins, and then also their
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physical needs. And I'm trying to connect how
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I got this, but the thought that's coming to
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me is like there's... God shows up in a particular
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way that meets our moment and meets our specific
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needs. So I'm not going to do the same thing
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for every single person. I'm going to do what's
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needed for that person in that time. And I think
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Christ was the greatest example of that, right?
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What we needed was a savior and we needed someone
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to be our substitute. Uh, Christ could have just
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said, well, I'm just going to sit back and I
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know what they need, but I'm not going to do
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it. But what he did was he came as a baby and,
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and lived as a man and died on the cross to,
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to pay for our sins. Um, so yeah, I think like
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what, what love really looks like is it's one,
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you have to be in relationship with people to
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know what their needs are, to know what their
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specific needs are and then, and then be that,
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um, in that way. my caution though is like don't
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like there's healthy ways to do that sure and
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there's unhealthy ways to do that don't lose
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yourself yeah so how can I show up in the way
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that I am uh that meets your need in that unique
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way um yeah yeah and I think like in the like
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thinking about healthy ways and unhealthy ways
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of doing that like sometimes the healthiest way
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that like I can show you love is actually to
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say Hey, Britain, I understand you have a need
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right now. Here's somebody who can like actually
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help you. Right. Like I don't have to be like
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the fix it person. Right. I can be like, OK,
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you need food. That doesn't mean I need to cook
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for you. Sometimes it does. But it could mean,
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hey, I'm going to help you get to the services
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that will give you the food that you need. Right.
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Or I'm going to volunteer at the services that
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help you get the food that you need. Right. Like
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it's yeah, it's all about balance and like finding.
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each person's sort of role in that. I think.
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Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's love. Love. It's pretty,
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pretty cool thing. What's, what's love got to
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do with it? Everything. It's the whole candle,
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the whole point of Christmas. We're wrapping
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it all up in love. Um, yeah, but not just like
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a fluffy love. No. A love that like gets its
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hands dirty. I think, I think that's, I think
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that's a crux of maybe this whole thing is that
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we're, is that the love that we're talking about,
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and we didn't even joke about the fluffy love
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at the beginning and get down to like the serious
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love of God. But the, I think there is a, there
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is a difference between that kind of. you know,
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whatever else fluffy or the, the, or romantic
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love or the, you know, whatever. And the, and,
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and the kind of, of love that from God that we
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have, or that we're meant to have for, for each
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other, which. which I think translates into acts
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of service and is an essential part of our faith
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development, is receiving God's love and expressing
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God's love in others in ways that are meaningful
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to them and respond to their needs. Like we've
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been talking about this whole time. Yeah. Yeah.
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Love that shows up. Love that does the hard things.
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That's right. It can't just be a feeling. It
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needs to be present. It needs to be, it needs
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to show up. There needs to be action, thoughtful,
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caring, compassionate. Yeah. Yeah. I'll say the
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first step then is you need to recognize that,
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or we need to recognize that we, we must love
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everyone. And I think that. If I can, like there's,
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where was I? I was somewhere and someone told
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me they loved me. And I like look back, I'm like,
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I don't know if I would say that to you. Do I
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say it back? I'm not sure. But, and reflecting
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afterwards, like, no, I have, I don't have romantic
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love for this person. We barely know each other,
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but there is a love that I have for this individual.
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And it's the love of Christ. And I think if we
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can start seeing like everyone that we see. Yeah.
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I love you. Yeah. I don't love I don't love you
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because of what you did. Right. Or even who you
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are. Well, actually, yeah, because you're a child
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of God. Sure. But I love you because Christ loves
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you. Right. And yeah, I think that's if I like
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the shifting of our thoughts, like to say, like,
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I love you. I love you. And it's not because
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we spend all this time together because you got
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me really great Christmas gifts. I like Nikes.
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I like fruitcake. Okay. Okay. Good to know. Good
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to know. My mom makes a really good fruitcake.
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Oh, and you're going home. And I'm going home.
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And you're coming back. I see fruitcake in my
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future. But it's not because of all those things.
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No, not at all. No. I love you anyway. Thank
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you. It fluffs it up. It fluffs it up. Behind
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that fluff. Love's still there. Yes. Yes. Love
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and fruitcake. Yes. Yes. That's why Jesus came,
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right? That's right. Yes. So as we come to the
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end of this Advent journey, like I said, we started
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with hope. This like we need a thing to look
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forward to. And that thing is coming in Christ,
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has come in Christ, is coming again. We hope
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for peace. We get this like sense of like things
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will be well. We have this gift of joy. Like
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we get some delight in the midst of all of the
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craziness of life. And then we focus in on love.
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But like there is this moment of Christ coming
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that. meets us in our deepest, darkest places
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and says, love is there with you. And then calls
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us out of those deep, dark places to extend that
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love into the rest of the darkness. And like,
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that's Christmas, folks. It's pretty, pretty
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cool season. Love it. Yeah. Well, thank you for
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tuning in to this week's episode of Trinity Talks.
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Yeah, I pray that your Christmas season is a
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season filled with love. whatever that looks
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like for you, and that you are able to experience
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that deep sense of hope, peace, joy, and love
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that sits with us now and throughout the rest
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of our lives. We'll see you again next week.