Sermon
I Will Be A Unifying Member (Jake Enns)
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Thank you worship. Team for leading Us in those
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very fitting songs. Last Sunday.
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Pastor Joe started us off on a, the first term of a six-part
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series title. I will be.
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I am a church member. And it's basically a very tiny
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little booklets, this booklet. And it's but an hour's worth of
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reading or so, give or take. And but the outline of that Book
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of Jonah, I read the book and we feel so strongly about these
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principles and this outline, we decided, you know, what?
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We believe we should adopt this for our next sermon series.
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Not the route preaching. This book we're giving an
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outline. You have those outlines in your
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seats there, but to just follow this and explore through the
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lens of scripture. What is a church member and what
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does that mean? For us as we call ourselves,
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Christians. Tom Rainer, explores through the
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lens of scripture. What?
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God, not just once, but demands and expects of us.
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You see people often know, they're not right with God in
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this world. They know, they need to repent.
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They know, they need to get ready for eternity.
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They need to heed the message to the pain.
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Okay. You know what, I'm going to do
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that, I'm going to get baptized enjoying the church and then
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after that's done, you know. Okay got that done.
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That's out of the way. Now I can go on with life.
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That's not true. That is only the starting point.
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That's the launch point when we become members of Christ's body
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as Believers. There's way more than just, I
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got my name in a church register.
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Okay, now I'm a member we as Believers belong, first and
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foremost to the body of Christ. We belong to him, so remembers
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of that body, but it's far more intricate.
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We also belong to each other. We call that membership.
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We become accountable to each other.
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We hold each other. Other accountable, we even
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confront one another. We encourage one another, we
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pull for each other, we have each other's back last Sunday.
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Pastor, Joe preached on the topic of a functioning church
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member. Imagine a non-functioning church
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member Just as Anna sports team, there are a non-functioning
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member sometimes. Sometimes a person joins a team,
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whether it's volleyball. Baseball hockey, soccer, you
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name it, but they don't show up for practice.
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They don't even attend nevermind play.
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And when the team loses, oh, well, It's interesting how
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people view membership, what their thoughts are on it for a
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lot of people and Joe touching this last Sunday, I'm just kind
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of repeating some of the stuff. It's like a benefit membership
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is a benefit? As in, here's what the church
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will do for me once I join and some of that is true, there is a
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benefit to being a member because let's say there's a
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there's a there's a loss in the family.
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There's maybe there's a there's lots of income people rally
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around people who Fall short or there's somebody sick, somebody
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passes away. There's there's value in being
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members, but there's accountability and
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responsibility that goes with it years ago.
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I was a pastor's lunch meeting, and it was an interesting
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meeting in the fact that we got on the topic.
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I don't know how he got on it, but was a topic on membership
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and we were pastors from different denominations.
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And so on this one, Pastor commented on how at one time in
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his life he was an associate pastor of the church that he
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attended that he was pastoring and he was in the unenviable
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task of following up on church members, who were no longer
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attending and hadn't attended for a long time.
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And so they told him the leadership told him to, you need
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to write letters and contact. These people and see if they
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still want to remain members. And this Pastors in this group
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of us passed its sharing. And not always remember what he
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said to us. Other pastors that he says, I
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never received so much hate mail, my life verbatim, that's
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exactly what he said. He said some of these people in
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the one for his one particular member had not been in the
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church for more than 20 years and the response.
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This member said, how dare you question my membership?
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For all intents and purposes. This person was a complete
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stranger but yep, Once Upon a Time many decades ago I was
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baptized here so I'm a member Joe ended his sermon last Sunday
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by mentioned the term Rainer mentions that generally
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speaking. This is not across the board and
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I want to say, we may be the exception, I hope so.
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Not one third of members in the church are biblical members the
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rest. Maybe Benchwarmers may be
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functioning may be partially, who knows?
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But the point is we should be biblical functioning members.
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This morning, want to continue this series and sermon number
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two, I'm a church member, but I want to ask us this morning
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before we dig in how functioning.
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Am I, how functioning are you? And I will concede and say there
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are people who are not members are far more dedicated and
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involved than some, who are members and, for various
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reasons, they cannot or have not taken member, I acknowledge
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that, but by and large, we have to belong.
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How are things going? How is it working out?
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This morning's title is I will be a unifying church member I
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will be a unifying church member.
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The whole concept of being a member of the body of Christ is
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deeply rooted in this concept of unity and so we want to expand
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on that this morning. Explore it.
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What is it that keeps Unity alive?
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What is it? That keeps Unity?
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Strong and healthy? Jesus has a word for it.
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Will start digging into these PowerPoint.
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Slides, first one is John 13:35. Jesus Says, by this, all people
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will know that you're my disciples.
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If you have love for one another to keywords if love Love builds.
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Unity love sustains unity in the body of Jesus Christ in the
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church. Love and unity are a must.
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They cannot be optional. Tom Reina writes these words.
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He says, when you become a Christian, God expects you to be
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a part of his church. But when you become a part of
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his church, he wants you to be a unifying presence there that
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state that a bit more strongly, he demands that you become a
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unifying. There for a church to be United,
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members, must be United and we must understand what that is.
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So that's the first point we must understand Unity.
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What is Unity? I'd like to go back to the
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analogy of sports to illustrate this.
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A little bit. Sports teams are made up of
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individual players with each player having their individual
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strengths abilities and skills sets and so on.
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So they're placed strategically to different positions.
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In the team. How to play for instance,
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baseball, not everybody is a picture.
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Not everybody is a good catcher or the same catcher.
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We have different teams or on a hockey.
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Some certain people play one position.
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Certain people play another position but all play
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strategically. So the team can play well and
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hope to win. It's a team effort.
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Sometimes, unfortunately, when a team has done well and they've
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won a game, all the attention goes to the one particular
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player that's a for hockey instance.
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One particular player, sure that the next outstanding player
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plays exceptionally well, but what, if he was the only one on
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the hockey team? What if she was the only one
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playing, there would be no game. And that's what can happen,
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sometimes. We must keep this principle of
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unity and togetherness and consideration, not just in
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sports, but even in the church, The more unify, the team is the
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better. They can play in the better,
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their chances. But as I said sometimes the
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Temptation is to just focus on one individual, it's a team
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effort, the team gets the credit, there's no room for self
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focus in unity, not in sports, not in work, not in marriage,
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and not in church years ago. I was part of a men's breakfast,
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one time and the Men's breakfast.
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I don't remember who the speaker was, but there was a young man
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younger than I. And he was the son of a pastor
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and his Pastor was a good pastor, I say, and And he was a
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good guy and he and I got to talking and I said to him.
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So what do you want in life? What do you hope to?
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Where do you hope to do? And he says, oh, I says I'd like
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to be a speaker speak in front of thousands of people. and I
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thought, Okay, is that really your goal is?
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What's the what's the, what's the driving force?
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And I didn't. It was a lot of guys around.
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I didn't want to start probing and picking on him but I thought
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to myself, okay. Is he willing to walk the path
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of the cross that gets him to a point where he will be
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influencing a lot of people or is he just expecting to be
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jumped from here to there? I don't know.
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And I'm not saying this to be hard on him, but obviously, and
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from what I could see, he did not have experience, he was
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naive and it would just be Great to speak in front of thousands
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of people that's shallow because then the focus would be on him.
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To be recognized, notice mentioned, you know, that's not
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what we should be after. So, we must evaluate our own
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motives our own lives. Our own Focus.
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Where is it? I think this passage that they
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worshiped even read just before one of the song between one of
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the songs and Philippians chapter 2 is a powerful passage.
Philippians 2 chapter mention
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We can be very self-focused and that destroys Unity to be
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ignited church. We must be other focused self
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oaken's weakens team effort weakens any Organization, no
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matter where it's not just church, but Everywhere.
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You see if there's Unity, there's Common Ground, sameness
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of purpose, sameness of Direction.
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Unity means were one last week in and I were not here by the
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way. So the reason I know about last
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Sunday sermon cuz I watched it last Sunday and I were not here.
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We're at a marriage Retreat. And the theme was Oneness unity
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and marriage is extremely important.
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It doesn't matter in what dynamic we find ourselves is
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whether it's church or work with, but Unity is a important,
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especially in marriage. One of the biggest principles in
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life, is this concept? If we're going to do anything
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together, no matter where we're at.
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But especially also in church, things like marriage work,
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wherever Unity is always a very core Central pillar.
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It has to be that has to be Oneness.
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Last Sunday, pastor, Joe talked about the parts of the body.
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He used the distraction of Corinthians where Paul talks
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about the body, body parts function in Harmony and unity.
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If one part stops working. The other part suffers the whole
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body suffers and may even die. If the lungs say, we're not
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going to breathe anymore. Well, how's that going to work?
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You see sometimes Church to start in a community.
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There's a lot of energy. There's love.
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There's Goodwill together in this, enjoy as the church grows
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and starts to expand. This is one is starts to be
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contagious. The church grows people love
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each other. Sinners come to repentance to
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get. Baptized joined the church and
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it spreads. And the community becomes a
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healthy well-balanced functioning community.
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That's beautiful. When that happens.
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Let me repeat what I said earlier for the body of Christ
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to function in this world, Unity is not optional.
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It is an absolute must and it doesn't happen by accident by
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chance we must work at it. So we can ask ourselves.
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Do we maintain Unity? The opposite is disunity of
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divisiveness. You see divisiveness contention
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nobody needs training in that, that happens all by itself.
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Just watched little kids play. They never took a course in
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fighting and arguing and bickering and complaining and
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when they never take courses in there but they just do it
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naturally. Even I don't do it naturally,
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oh, but I would never be divisive.
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Let's ask ourselves this question.
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How would life be in whatever you're in whether it's church or
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marriage or work? How would life be if everybody
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did as you do? Everybody would speak as you
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speak, everybody was ready and willing as you are.
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How would things be then? There.
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Yes, there are people in churches, even in churches for
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selfish gain, at the expense of others, the Bible warns us
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against that, but Paul is a very positive writer.
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He says, in 1st Thessalonians 5 verse 11, he writes these words.
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Therefore encourage one and other, there's that Unity
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principle and build one. Another up again, the unity
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principle just as you are doing, you're doing it, great.
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But keep going, keep going. This is a reminder for us how we
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are to work towards unity and keep the unity.
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This idea Of building. One, another up is huge.
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It's a very serious thing. Unity is maintained when we
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build up the other building up the other.
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Let's let's think about that building up the other.
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When unit is present, there's loyalty, there's a desire for
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togetherness. And we don't do things
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selfishly. As a church.
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We say we have the message of Hope for this world.
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We say we bring the message of love but let's go back again.
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John 13, verse 35. I'm going to repeat this verse
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by this. All people will know that you
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are my disciples. If you have love for one another
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If this truth is kept in principle and lived out in our
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hearts and minds and our lives will be honest with each other
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will want, what's best for the other will speak truth, even if
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it means sometimes confronting we will suffer with.
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And for one another, we will not act deceitfully or evil towards
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another. We will love one another.
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We will do our best to add to the unity to maintain the unity
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Paul writes in Ephesians chapter 1, verse 15 to 16.
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These words he writes for this reason because I've heard of
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your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love toward all the saints.
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I do not cease to give, thanks for you.
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Remembering you in my prayers, he had started that church was
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doing well. He was encouraged.
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These people were faithful, loving, one, another.
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Let's look a bit later on in the passage and 4:1. 23.
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Paul writes I therefore a prisoner for the Lord urge you
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to walk in a manner. Worthy of the calling you have
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been called to which you've been called with all humility and
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gentleness, with patience bearing with one another in love
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eager to maintain the unity in the spirit in the bond of Peace.
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This church at Ephesus was doing what churches should be doing.
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See the bottom line is the fruits of the spirit that Paul
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mentions here. They're at their best.
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Asked and bring their greatest blessings when they grow in an
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environment of unity and Oneness.
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In this is what we call to be an influencer of unity in the
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church. We're to be such members in the
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church that people just know, we have the best interest for the
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church and for one another we give our best.
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Yeah, but it takes work. In a sermon like this, we could
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speak of so many things that are so important.
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But due to time restraints, we just narrowed it down to a few
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narrow line, will not look at all that we could look at but
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Tom Rainer puts it this way. He says, the next slide here,
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you have a responsibility as a church member your to be a
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source of unity. You're never to be a divisive
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force. You to love your fellow church
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members unconditionally while the same time.
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Well, that doesn't mean your agree with everyone all the
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time. It does mean you're willing to
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sacrifice your own preferences to keep unity in your Church
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Paul wrote to the Colossians, tell him how to live out the
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fruits of the spirit, and 3:12 and onward.
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Let's read that as well. Colossians, 3:14 above all these
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things put on love, which binds everything together in.
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Perfect Harmony, love is what binds.
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It's the bonding agent. In a way, I would just love to
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end the sermon here have prayer and go home would be great, but
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it wouldn't be fair, wouldn't be right.
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There's much more to be said in much that we can't cover in just
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30 to 40 minutes. That has to do with what not to
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do, what to avoid again, this could be very long, but one of
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the greatest things that distances people, that destroys
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relationships, that separates is when through our use of words,
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we create divisiveness. That's the next point.
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We must stay away from Gossip and - talk As much as I've just
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like, to avoid this part of this room, we can't, we have to deal
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with it. Leviticus chapter 19, verse 16,
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Moses wrote you shall not go around as a slander among your
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people. You shall not stand up against
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the life of your neighbor. I am the Lord.
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God had very clear warnings about how the people of Israel
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were to treat one another in the community, especially in their
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words not going around. Slandering one another.
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It's toxic. What is Gossip?
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Actually. It's sharing stories and
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information. Nation about another person in
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order to tarnish their reputation.
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It's like this. Hey, I don't like that guy.
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I'm going to tell you something. Hope you don't like him either.
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It's the opposite of Redemptive, it's the opposite of good.
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Will I know this gets tricky because there's there are times
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we'll talk about in a second here.
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There's times when we need to oppose any to warn others about
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false prophets and so on, we need to sometimes say things, I
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read a quote, this last week, it goes like this.
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The church always reads, collectively, what individuals.
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So personally I think that fits here, when I act divisive it
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toward another, it's contagious. How we talk about them, how I
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talk about another, how you talk about another, we either tear
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down or build up and when we do it affects the whole body.
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These are not empty words, words carry weight.
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In fact Paul writes about this in Romans chapter 1 verse 29.
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Paul writes these words he says and he's talking about the
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ungodly World in which we find ourselves and so on.
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And he says, they're filled with all manner of unrighteousness,
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evil covetousness is malice, they're full of Envy, murder
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Strife, deceit, maliciousness their gossips, slanderers haters
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Haters of God insolent, hottie, boastful, inventors of evil
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disobedient to parents, foolish. Faith was heartless.
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Ruthless at the end of verse 29. He says he uses the word
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gossips. This all comes from the same tap
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from the same bucket. And it much of it comes from the
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tongue time, rain or rights again.
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He says, few things can destroy the unity of the church like
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gossip a unified churches. Powerful gossip, tears, apart
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that. Unity and renders our church
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powerless. It's like separating the bonds
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that hold it together, the Apostle James and his letter had
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something to say about the use of the tongue.
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He says James 3 Verse 6 and the tongue is a fire.
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Our world of unrighteousness, the tongue is set among our
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members thinning. The whole body setting on fire
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the entire course of life and set on fire by hell.
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I know this sounds depressing, I'm aware of that, but it's
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necessary that we look at this and evaluate ourselves that stay
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away from this and take inventory and see where we're at
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in our walk with Jesus and see if we have some work to do here.
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At this point, some might be wondering what this, this
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doesn't mean that I cannot should not ever say anything.
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No, it's not what it means, but here's what it does mean.
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Our words should never bring dishonor to God.
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It should always be something. God would want to hear it.
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Should never be false. Don't spread false stuff.
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It should never be laced with hatred or malice towards someone
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else. It should always be for the
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intent of building up and protecting the body.
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Our first and foremost, focus is Lord, the Lord Jesus Christ and
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then our neighbors and everything should work around
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that work with that somebody at this point may be wondering.
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Okay, what about Sin? Should we expose that are just
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just just don't talk about it, just leave it.
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Somebody's the false prophet done, just don't talk about it.
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Somebody's going around and causing lots of Destruction.
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I just don't talk about it. Is that what this means?
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No, this is not what that means. So that's Point number 3, we
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must defend Unity We must defend Unity.
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It doesn't mean just shut up. If there's a false prophet, like
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Matthew writes, the wolf in sheep's clothing or we talked
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about several Sundays ago and the letter of Jude false
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prophets were were spreading false stuff or as Jesus writes
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in Matthew chapter 18. If somebody sins against you,
Matthew 18 chapter mention
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you gotta deal with it. You confront that person, tell
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him this is sin. What you're doing?
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If the person listens and repents great, if not take
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another one, repeat the process. If they don't, if they listen
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great, if not take the go to bring a ring, Bringing for the
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church. If you lessons, then consider
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him an unbeliever. There are times when we have to
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for the sake of the protection of the church confronts.
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In these talks about that, this all and is included in this
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whole concept of unity and they're actually stories and
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scripture. Believe it or not, we're this
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actually happened that we can draw attention from To defend
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the unity of the church takes sometimes doing difficult tasks.
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Paul wrote in his letter to Timothy.
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Second, Timothy chapter 4. He's writing Timothy a letter.
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He says this Alexander, the coppersmith, did me great harm,
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the Lord will repay him according to his deeds, beware
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of him for he strongly opposed, our message, ouch Paul.
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What are you doing? How's that going to help
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Alexander the coppersmith? Is he going to be drawn in by
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that? What's Paul doing?
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No, aleksandr was a man who was dangerous.
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He was dangerous to the church. He was, he was destructive.
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And so, Paul is saying to Timothy the pastor of emphasis
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is Young pastors be careful. Timothy this man is dangerous,
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Not only was it right for Paul to warn Timothy, because if he
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didn't, this man could have an influence that would destroy the
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church to keep silent. Would have been wrong at that
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point, there was nothing hateful from Paul towards Alexander
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know, Paul wanted Timothy to be aware to protect the church from
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the influence of This man, the Apostle John did something
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similar to John chapter 1 verse 9 to 10.
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He says, this first John 1 verse 9.
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I have written something to the church, but diotrephes who likes
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to put himself, first? Does not acknowledge our
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Authority. So, if I come out of bring up
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what he's doing talking, Wicked nonsense against us and not
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content with that, he refused to welcome, the brothers and also
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stops those who want to, who want to and puts them out of the
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church. Diotrephes is not a good guy.
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You got to be careful. He says to the church.
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What's going on here? Unity was at risk of being
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compromised, for the sake, of some selfish individual, who
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wanted to push his own way. Calling out evil is not sin but
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we must be careful how we do it. If there are people who appear
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to be followers of Jesus but are opposing.
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The gospel are destroying the church that can't be tolerated.
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as I was getting ready for the sermon and event came to my
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mind, that happened to me many years ago, was my first real job
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as a truck driver. I was hauling gravel for my boss
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and he was a pastor who was actually my pastor When they
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told me says that we got this contract, we're going to be
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hauling gravel for so-and-so and he mentioned who it was and I
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thought, oh, not them. Because these guys had a
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terrible reputation they were known as Crooks dishonest.
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Lying would steal from people. My boss had no idea who these
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guys were. What would I do?
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I didn't want my boss to get ripped off.
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So I just said to my heard some bad things about these guys.
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They're not trustworthy. You have to be careful.
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My boss did not want to hear that.
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I didn't blame him. It sounded like I was gossiping
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about these guys and Edward. It appeared that way too.
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I wasn't surprised. but I wanted him to avoid this Pitfall of
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losing money on this deal, he's responded to me very gently,
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nicely saying, well, perhaps, if changed my now, That was where I
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left it. I was good with it.
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And for a few days, I hauled load after load of gravel for
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these guys, and I thought, if my boss gets ripped off, at least
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I've tried after several days of hauling gravel for these guys,
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one morning, with boss comes out of the house, was it as I
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arrived for work. And he slowly and hesitantly
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said to me, says, now I know what you were trying to tell me
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the other day he was in for it now they were starting to deal
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with him. The way they did with a lot of
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other people, I was gonna get ripped off Off getting taken
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precaution. And I had problems had I done
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wrong by warning him. No, I had enough information
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about what the reputation of these guys were that, I needed
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to warn him so he would not become victim number, who knows
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how many That was a very small minor thing, that's just some
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money and maybe a business deal. But one of the greatest
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weaknesses of the church is it silence on sin?
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That's one of the greatest weaknesses of the church.
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Just be quiet. Don't talk about it.
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Just don't say anything. It's not your skin off, but it's
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not it's going off your back. There are people as we talked
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about when we went through Jude, who literally joined the church
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was selfish motives. Paul knew that and talked about
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Alexander, I don't know, Alexander was a member of the
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church, just the guy in the community trying to destroy the
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church or diotrephes. There are these people.
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So to deal with this concept of unity is very very delicate,
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it's very very sensitive and it behooves us to be in prayer and
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Devotion to God to make sure that our hearts are right with
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God. And what we want is to honor God
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The rest of the church and make sure that it stays pure.
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If we see the body of Christ under threat at risk of people
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who want to destroy it, we have to voice Our concern.
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There's a quote that's usually a credit to Dietrich Bonhoeffer
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and some say that he didn't make the quote, but regardless the
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quote is this and I don't know who wrote it silence.
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And the face of evil itself is evil.
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God will not hold us Guiltless, not to speak, is to speak, not
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to act is to act. What this comes down to.
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We must have unity in the church and live such lives that our
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lives speak for themselves? Can we be members like that?
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Can we be members are so focused on the unit and health of the
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church that it supersedes everything.
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What I mean with that is I'm more concerned that Jesus will
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be honored. His body will be blessed.
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Then that what people think about me to defend the unity of
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the church? I must put myself last and
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others first. As Paul doubt, Paul writes in
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Philippians chapter 2, verse 1 to 11, we heard that before the
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came up here. It means that I'm only concerned
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that Jesus honored, his church is blessed.
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His name is glorified, that's my desire.
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That leads us to point number four.
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In our sermon is we must forgive each other.
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How does forgiveness play a part in being a unifying member of
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the church, Tom rain, and his book mentions, how one time
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early in his life, he joined a small men's group who met
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regularly despres and Holub how much of a blessing.
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It was to him. It wasn't one of those meetings
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at one point. He came to an awareness of sin
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in his heart that was blocking him from praying.
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He was harboring unforgiveness to a teacher who in school had
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abused him. It was blocking him.
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He was struggling to forgive this teacher and he mentioned
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that in this prayer group. This what happened?
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I was abused and I can't pray and can't forgive and so on.
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And with the help of these guys who is able to break free from
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the bondage, he was able to Pray Again.
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You see, oftentimes what blocks our relationship with God is not
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even what we did. It's what the other guy did.
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And our response to it. No.
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The other guy can't keep me away from Christ, but doing something
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bad to me and me responding with evil, or with bitterness, or
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resentment will keep me away from him.
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You see, friends as hard as this sounds healing and unity will
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not start with your neighbor. It starts with you and me.
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I know it sounds hard, but you have no idea.
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Pastor what happened to me and what songs did to me and what I
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experienced you're right, I don't But if we're going to look
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for peace for healing for Unity, it won't happen by me fixing my
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neighbor. Or my family member or that
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parishioner or that Pastor, that staff member know that doesn't
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work. It'll happen by me.
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Coming to Christ receiving forgiveness.
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In togetherness, with other people who can help me and move
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on forgive that sin. Matthew 6:14.
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Matthew writes for if you forgive others, their
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trespasses, your heavenly father will also forgive you, but if
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you do not forgive others, their trespasses neither will your
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father. Forgive your trespasses, the
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prison of unforgiveness does not hold your adversary, it holds
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you. It holds me holds us, Tom rain
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or rights again on this matter, he says, unit in the church will
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not happen. If members have unforgiving
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hearts, too many times members of anger and hurt because of
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something another member has said, or done.
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Some members are angry and hurt at the pastor and staff because
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of something he should, they said, or did or failed to do?
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Nobody gets a past here. Nobody makes the grade,
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everybody needs Grace, maybe we need to ask ourselves this
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morning. Who do I need to forgive, who do
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I need to go to, until look, listen, what happened between us
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was wrong. I'm sorry what I did or I'm,
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I've accepted what you did, I forgive you, by the way.
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I just want to say something here.
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This can get very delicate especially if it's sexual abused
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or marital infidelity and all those kinds of things.
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I recommend don't go It Alone, talk to a trusted friend.
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Especially young people to adults, whatever the case may
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be. This is very delicate.
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Don't just generally not a good idea to go It Alone.
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There's so much here we could talk about our time is too short
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to do that, but the bottom line still is forgiveness must take
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place. Paul writes to the Colossians.
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He says put on then as God's chosen ones holy and beloved
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compassionate, Hearts. Kindness, humility.
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Meekness and patience bearing with one another.
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And if one has a complaint against another forgiving each
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other as the Lord has forgiven you.
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So you also must forgive. We need to be in a place where
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we're not ashamed or embarrassed anymore.
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Jesus isn't if Jesus loved you and me enough to die for us,
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then we should with joy Embrace this opportunity to become
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members of his church and to be members of his church to be
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unifying members of this church. When Pastor speaking on the
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topic of marriage. One day, he says it's a race to
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the Cross. See, who gets there first.
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It doesn't mean we all like the same kinds of food.
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We all like the same temperature, setting, Joe and I
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talked we talked about could be called The War of the the fans
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or the war of the thermostat. Maybe, you know, doesn't mean we
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all like the same things. It means we've all pull for each
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other, that's what it means. What kind of church is lem.
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See, are we a unified church? If you remember?
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Are you a unified member? And if you're not a member
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you're attending your this is your home church.
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Are you unifier? A unifying presence here?
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Let's look at this. This is four points in a row.
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We must understand Unity. We must stay away from gossiping
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- talk. We must defend Unity.
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We must forgive each other. By ourselves were weak fragile.
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I brought an object lesson this morning.
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I want to use here this morning to illustrate this a little bit.
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My wife has a bunch of shish kabob sticks, and so I thought
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I'd bring some of the church to show what happens when they're
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not together. See this stick by itself is very
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weak. Splinters like that has no
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Unity. Well there's nobody to be United
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with but this stack, I don't know.
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If I could actually break it. They're all together.
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They're bound together. They belong there, United.
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That's what happens individually by ourselves.
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This is what happens together. This is what can be.
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Let me ask ourselves this morning, Are we invited?
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Are you a unifying member? Are you Faithfully serving
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contributing energy time and resources to bring things
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together to pull together or off somewhere else.
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Doing my thing. I'm a member but hey, I don't
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know what goes on. I'm not plugged in, I don't
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really care either. There's all kinds of members,
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our job, as followers of Jesus Christ is to work together.
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Collectively functioning as biblical members unified in our
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faith, in our Direction, in our purpose, Oneness in Christ.
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And when attacks come we're strong, we don't get broke easy.
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May God give us wisdom Insight strength as we serve him as
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members of his body. That's pray.
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Thank you Lord for this opportunity to be together.
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This is only a very short little service when we think of what is
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still to come. When you take your church home
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from now till then as a very brief time, give us what we
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need. Lord to be a body that others
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want to join and become a part of help us together to be a
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tight-knit and bonded group of Believers where we live together
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work together. Serve together.
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Love each other in love and in unity.
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In Jesus name we pray. Amen.
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Serve together. Love each other in love and in
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unity. In Jesus name we pray.
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Amen.