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It's Not About My Desires or Preferences (Jake Enns)

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  1. We're continuing our series of sermons on the theme of, I'm a

  2. church member what the Bible has to say about belonging to the

  3. body of Christ. It's based on this little book,

  4. I'm a church member by Tom rainy.

  5. And the, the ideas, the thoughts, the themes that he

  6. has. They are so solid and rooted in

  7. scripture. Joe, and I decided pastor Joe

  8. didn't. I decided we were going to do

  9. this as a sermon series. And so we continue with this.

  10. And so this morning's sermon number three, and the title is,

  11. It's not about my desires are preferences, and I'm not a mind

  12. reader and I don't know what people's hearts and minds are

  13. but few of you might just throw, okay, I might as well leave

  14. because that's what I came for. I don't think so, but the fact

  15. of the matter is, when people look for a church, they look for

  16. very different things. There are people who come to a

  17. church that's in there. Looking for a church to go skirt

  18. shopping. They look mainly, what's there

  19. for my children? What does this church offer my

  20. children? That's the core driving Factor

  21. when they look for a church for other people.

  22. It's what's the music? Like that's the core.

  23. Driving fact, I don't like the music where I came from and it

  24. was not good music and it was poorly done.

  25. I don't like I'm going to church where there's good music.

  26. Music is important to me. For some, have somebody else?

  27. It's the preaching. I want a church that has good

  28. preaching. I want to church that has this

  29. style of preaching, or that style of preaching, or maybe

  30. less preaching or for others yet.

  31. It's I want to feel at home. I just want a place where I feel

  32. welcome people embrace me. Are these things wrong?

  33. No, they're not, they're not bad.

  34. In fact they're good things. Most most times.

  35. But what are they driven by? That's the question.

  36. And then there are some people who've moved away from one

  37. Community to another Community, maybe for work or whatever.

  38. And they just look for a church. They want to call home.

  39. That's it. And these things are not sin,

  40. are not sin. They just are It's surface stuff

  41. preference based, but there's other things that we need to

  42. touch on as well. Core beliefs practices Doctrine

  43. and here, it gets more sensitive because it gets very deep and

  44. heavy. It's weighty What does this

  45. church believed about God for instance or about heaven?

  46. Hell, eternal life for some people.

  47. These are very very big and they should be and get their slanted

  48. or they're tilted, they're not even be said that whatever.

  49. And then the discussion becomes, not so much preferences, but

  50. what's true? And Truth should be a

  51. preference, right? And here, we've become so very

  52. different. We all know and we all believe

  53. this that there are negotiables in church and non-negotiables

  54. but we can't always decide on what's negotiable.

  55. It's non-negotiable and we don't have time this morning to go

  56. into detail list every single negotiable and every

  57. non-negotiable aspect of church. We just don't have the time but

  58. here's a few non-negotiable beliefs or truths.

  59. Jesus is the son of God. It's truth.

  60. It's really Reality, not some good profit, not some good

  61. preacher. Not some good man.

  62. He's Jesus is the son of God. Another truth is he died for

  63. Sinners. He physically gave his life for

  64. the sins of the world. He lay down his life for his

  65. sheep. He says he rose from the dead,

  66. is another one. He came out of the Tomb, he's

  67. alive. He was seen by numerous people.

  68. His ministry was attested to by many people tested to the

  69. resurrection. Another one is a bit more fluid.

  70. We would say it's not but people would, how do you interpret?

  71. This is supposed to love everybody.

  72. Everybody everybody even my enemies, my enemies at no point.

  73. Ever is a Christian allowed to operate from the platform of

  74. hatred. We as Believers say that and

  75. another one is moral Integrity. All our actions should be done

  76. from a foundation of moral Integrity, first, honor, God and

  77. serve Humanity. And God has moral standards,

  78. right? And wrong that are not

  79. negotiable. Reality is not fluid and

  80. changeable, according to a different, people would like it

  81. to be. They're not multiple truths for

  82. the same reality and this is especially true when it comes to

  83. how we live life and it gets controversial because we don't

  84. agree. And then there are some very

  85. simple basic things. Like, how many times a week,

  86. should we meet? Is that negotiable or

  87. non-negotiable? Doesn't matter.

  88. I think it does but not the same for everybody.

  89. Should we should meet more often than less often?

  90. We should meet more than less. How often should we meet bouts?

  91. Not prescribed what language should Church be hmm depending

  92. where you go? What kind of song should we sing

  93. upbeat Lively or kind of slow, and whatever?

  94. How long should the sermons be 20 minutes?

  95. The shorter, the better. We can just go on and on about

  96. this. And our sermon this morning want

  97. to look at a few points to bring perspective to what is important

  98. Point. Number one is this, our desires

  99. and preferences must be servant. Based servant focused. the first

  100. thing we must understand as members of the body of Christ

  101. and more specifically members in a church where members for the

  102. purpose of serving This is huge when it comes to church, no one

  103. should have the mindset. I will join this place.

  104. I will join this group to see what they will do.

  105. For me, will read this passage later on, but Jesus says, he

  106. came to serve not to be served. This is a truth.

  107. Something we must understand and embrace and put into practice In

  108. scripture, we find a lot of things that are solid truth and

  109. we're told not to deviate repeatedly, especially in the

  110. Old Testament. We find how God instructed the

  111. people of Israel to stay true to the teachings.

  112. They had received and if they would deviate, they would suffer

  113. consequences later on. In the New Testament, we find

  114. numerous times. But to remember, to hold to the

  115. teachings that we have been given and of course, not

  116. everyone agrees on everything and it's not always clear black

  117. and white. We know that but Nothing is

  118. certain my preference cannot be me.

  119. Your preference cannot be you see, it's amazing how people go

  120. to church shopping, not with the idea.

  121. What can I bring? It's more.

  122. What will they do for me? Maybe here I will find whatever

  123. and these things may not in and of themselves be wrong, but the

  124. motive out of which they come are self-focused, We should come

  125. to church like Lord. What do you want me to bring?

  126. What do you want me to offer? How do you want me to serve?

  127. You see folks selfish mindsets never bring peace or joy?

  128. You see some people go to church shopping like to go vehicle

  129. shopping has to have a certain features and certain Accessories

  130. and the vehicle shopping. Like I want a high-end luxury

  131. vehicle for low base model price, Church shopping happens

  132. that way too. Sometimes customer goes to

  133. dealers lot and starts telling that it is a sales man.

  134. What he wants to buy how much the price should be and it

  135. starts at an impossible place and eventually they negotiate

  136. themselves to a what they can get along with what they.

  137. Well, I'll throw this and I'll throw that and if you okay, with

  138. this up the price a bit, now we can have an agreement.

  139. If that's how we do Church shopping, that's all backwards.

  140. When it comes to where we go to church, and how we go to church,

  141. and why we go to church, and why we remember in the church, it

  142. has to be servant focused time Ray Turner's book puts it this

  143. way? He says, as a church member, my

  144. motivation should not be to get my preferences to the top of the

  145. list. Yeah, the do what I say I'm

  146. supposed to be last, not first. I'm supposed to be a servant

  147. instead of seeking to be served. When it comes to church, if

  148. we're Christians, we will not try to create a church or shop

  149. for a church that will cater to us or I could take this to be

  150. conformed to my image. Want to customise design Taylor.

  151. Make it just for me my preferences, we need to

  152. seriously ask ourselves this question.

  153. As individual members, what are our motivations?

  154. We must remind ourselves. We do not want to be selfish.

  155. We do not want to be self, preference, driven people.

  156. We want to be members, who look for ways to connect to serve and

  157. contribute. We want to be members looking to

  158. where we can add and what was being offered and done in the

  159. church where we can grow be plugged in.

  160. Point. Number two, is our desires and

  161. preferences. Must be truthful.

  162. Focused. Paul wrote to a young, Pastor

  163. named Timothy, some instructions, and how he was to

  164. serve as a pastor of the Church of Ephesus.

  165. I was supposed to lead that church and toward the end of a

  166. second letter to Timothy. Paul gets that letter gets quite

  167. fiery or quite hot. Paul is reminding Timothy of the

  168. seriousness of scripture and how important it is to stay between

  169. the lines. So it's because stay on track,

  170. stay in stay focused on the right.

  171. Destiny Tom Rainer and his book talks about a survey that was

  172. done and he points out how in that survey that showed where

  173. the real focus of many churches is the focus of many churches,

  174. may be on a lot of things, but not on the mission of Jesus

  175. Christ. I'll read some of these, they're

  176. not in your, in the paper. They hand out here, but I'll

  177. read some of these. He talks about worship Wars,

  178. fighting amongst themselves and are we should worship this very

  179. know. We should worship that way.

  180. And having just this constant meetings about stuff that have

  181. no Eternal value at all, and then the focus on facilities and

  182. how we how the facilities look sure, it's important.

  183. But is that main focus program driven church services at all

  184. about events relationships, are that's another that side thing,

  185. then the financial aspect of it all, where's the money go?

  186. And where is it? Where is it being spent?

  187. And how is it being being allocated?

  188. And so on, then it extreme demands for?

  189. I need to be taken care of. I want my pastor to take care of

  190. me. This entitlement Minds at all.

  191. About my needs, my wants my desires and really very little

  192. next to no concern about spreading the gospel at all, and

  193. then there's anger and hostility, they don't do it my

  194. way and they did it wrong. And I'm upset.

  195. And I don't like it and just this, all this Evangelistic

  196. apathy doesn't don't really care.

  197. I know this sounds discouraging and I some of you may feel.

  198. It can just go to something else.

  199. This is too bad and I'm not saying we're guilty of all of

  200. it, but there's a real need to keep focused.

  201. On what is Jesus want me to be as a follower of him?

  202. What's he want me to do? Paul's teaching to Timothy in

  203. his letter, Paul reminds him, that he should stay with, what

  204. he learned. Not just that, the environment,

  205. with who was in Timothy, had learned made a huge impact on

  206. him. And second Timothy chapter 3,

    2 Timothy 3 chapter mention

  207. Paul warned Timothy of hard times, that would come in the

  208. last days. Paul says, and people would not

  209. care about anything except what they wanted.

  210. Just what they wanted, people who do not care about truth.

  211. They would care about their desires and their preferences

  212. that would rule, that would be the platform from which they

  213. would operate, No Matter What God Says, what God wants?

  214. We will shape and form this to what we want.

  215. Let's begin reading, second Timothy chapter 3, verse 1.

    2 Timothy 3:1

  216. He says understand this in the last days, there will come times

  217. of difficulty for people. Will be lovers of self.

  218. Lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive disobedient.

  219. Leading to their parents ungrateful.

  220. Unholy verse 3, heartless and unappeasable.

  221. Let's stop for a second. You can never please these

  222. people. It's always about the next

  223. thing. It's always a moving target.

  224. Continue reading slanderous without self-control brutal.

  225. Not loving good treacherous. Reckless swollen with conceit

  226. lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God having the

  227. appearance of godliness. But denying its power avoid such

  228. people Paul says better to avoid such people and when they become

  229. church members and sometimes they do it spells trouble.

  230. He does say they have an appearance of godliness but it's

  231. not real continuing in verse 6. Paul writes for among them are

  232. those who creep into households and capture weak women burden

  233. with sins and let us treat various passions.

  234. Always learning and never able to arrive at a knowledge of the

  235. truth. Let's stop there again, these

  236. have education letters behind their names but no knowledge of

  237. the truth. And this is not just women.

  238. By the way, men do this, too. Continue verse 8.

  239. Paul writes, just as Janice and jambres opposed Moses, Saudis

  240. men also opposed the truth. Men corrupted in mind, and

  241. disqualified regarding the faith, but they will not get

  242. very far for their Folly will be playing to all as as was that of

  243. these two men. Paul was describing here, a

  244. religiosity driven self-focused self, preference driven group of

  245. people always about them. Just look around at our culture.

  246. Look at social media. All-time self-focus all-time

  247. high. Just look how people behave in

  248. all areas of life, even in church.

  249. It's one thing to see selfishness in the world, it's a

  250. whole another level to see in the church and people making

  251. unreasonable demands on the church expecting.

  252. They can have the desires of selfishness and being God's

  253. grace will buy them, save them. I'm on my way to heaven.

  254. That's false. And you know what's even worse?

  255. Even worse than everything. I've said so far when pastors

  256. and Doris and cater to it, that's worse.

  257. Our job as pastors is to comfort the broken heal the wounded,

  258. preach Grace and kindness and love and Generals and the same

  259. time call to repentance rebuke. The Aryan called to turn back

  260. the wavered. For me, as a pastor person, I

  261. find this alarming the number of Pastors in North America, who

  262. can't change fast enough to keep up with the ever shifting values

  263. of culture to accommodate and braise and validate and affirm,

  264. every besotted sinful lifestyle, that's out there, and I don't

  265. need to go into detail to explain.

  266. This is a just come to our church.

  267. We do things here to make you happy.

  268. As long as it's legal. Look at verse 5 again, having

  269. the appearance of godliness but denying its power avoid such

  270. people Had a conversation with a pastor friend of mine years ago.

  271. He said this, he said when the pastor builds his preaching and

  272. teaching in the whims and preferences desires of Pleasure

  273. Seekers, the church is headed for trouble.

  274. Our conversation. This was in essence, what he

  275. said. Church members.

  276. We need to be aware if you're a follower of Jesus need to be

  277. aware the church exists to bring glory to God, by living out, the

  278. Gospel of Jesus Christ in the community, in which it finds

  279. itself. It's never about what can I get

  280. out of it. Someone once said, what you get

  281. them in with. You have to keep coming in,

  282. increasing measure to keep them. That's so true.

  283. When self-pleasure self desires when they're the point of

  284. reference. It's a sure sign troubles not

  285. far away. And in the end there's

  286. self-driven people and in the end they leave anyway because

  287. you know what? Don't meet my needs.

  288. I'm gone. Empty and lonely.

  289. Sure they need help but they're looking in the wrong way, you

  290. see? And this is why, and I can't say

  291. this emphatically. If this is why Paul focused on

  292. nothing but the cross of Jesus Christ, he writes about that.

  293. And second First Corinthians chapter 2 verse 1 and on,

    1 Corinthians 2:1

  294. because if a person comes to these under the cross that

  295. person's and then self and all its preferences and it's

  296. Cravings has crucified and that person is a keeper.

  297. But if person joins the church under the promises of the

  298. invitations of we're here to make you happy.

  299. We're here to please you the old 1990s, Burger, King slogan, your

  300. way right away. If that's the aim, nothing good.

  301. Can come of it. It's a moving goal post and it

  302. never stops moving. again the self-focus in verse 5 having the

  303. appearance of godliness, but denying its power avoid such

  304. people I confess I love looking at new cars.

  305. What the next new thing is that some automaker is producing.

  306. I like to window shop online, then you have this button, you

  307. go to build your own vehicle. I love building my own vehicle

  308. online. Amazing.

  309. What you can do, the features that are available.

  310. I never go to the price or I'll never go further because I don't

  311. want to pay anything so I just exit.

  312. But you know, that stuff does not work in God's Kingdom.

  313. We can go window-shopping and what's available.

  314. Now what new tools of the made? What kind of fashion or clothing

  315. is out there? It's not sent to look at that

  316. stuff in the sense like, oh, they're making this new Gadget

  317. or this new device, this new car, this new truck, that's

  318. fine. But Christianity is not like

  319. that. It's not something that changes

  320. all the time. It is something continually

  321. constant, the message of the cross We live in a culture in

  322. time where everything is changeable to be modified

  323. teaching an honesty Integrity conditional on the situation at

  324. hand. People tell lies as easily as

  325. talking about the weather claiming.

  326. They're still Christians, immoral lifestyle practice

  327. anything. You name, / Christians, Changes

  328. easy as a set of clothes. Selfish personal preference and

  329. desires are not the point of reference from which Jesus runs

  330. this church. Paul wrote to the Corinthians

  331. that Jesus the head of his church.

  332. The church is Jesus body. We're her to serve God by

  333. shining as a light for his glory being assault in our community.

  334. If we continue on and and second Timothy chapter 2 verse 10, Paul

    2 Timothy 2:10

  335. points out to Timothy how heat Paul had lived his life and how

  336. he wants Timothy to follow him. Let's read second Timothy

    2 Timothy 3:10

  337. chapter 3, verse 10, you huh? However, have followed my

  338. teaching, he's talking to Timothy, my conduct, my aim, in

  339. my, in life, my faith, my patience, my love, my

  340. steadfastness, my persecutions. And sufferings that happened to

  341. me at Antioch at Iconium and at lystra what persecutions?

  342. I endured yet from them. All the Lord rescued me since

  343. you Timothy, you know this, you followed me, you've been a

  344. student and it had shape Timothy where was self preference and

  345. self desire. Even Factor in all of this.

  346. One thing Timothy knew about watching.

  347. Paul was, it's not about Paul and it's not about me, it's

  348. about God. It's about Jesus.

  349. Let's read this passage again, slowly.

  350. My teaching my conduct, my aim in life, my faith, my patience,

  351. my love, my steadfastness, my persecutions, my sufferings.

  352. Paul endured so much for the sake of the Gospel.

  353. Never ever one time, do we find Paul trying to wiggle his way

  354. around this? And although we'll just, we'll

  355. just take a shortcut here or we'll just modify.

  356. This will customize that? No.

  357. Being a church member is a servant matter.

  358. It's a truth matter. Let's do this is Paul's

  359. physical, time-bound Earth material.

  360. If he's only got one, he's giving it up for Christ.

  361. Paul's Walk With Jesus had been difficult.

  362. It had been challenging in real time.

  363. In real place with real people that he had not tried to modify

  364. and customize to make it easy for himself.

  365. He endured so much. Notice verse 12 on to verse 12.

  366. Paul writes, these words indeed. He says all who desire to live a

  367. Godly life in Christ, Jesus will be persecuted while evil people

  368. and Impostors Will Go On from bad to worse deceiving and being

  369. deceived. See this preference and selfish

  370. minded lifestyle there. He says in verse 14.

  371. But as for you, continue in what you've learned in a firmly,

  372. believed knowing from whom you learned it.

  373. If you join God's team, don't expect an easy ride on cruise

  374. control. Don't expect it.

  375. Paul had given Timothy, a solid start under some very good

  376. leadership. Things Timothy had learned from

  377. Paul were things, Paul wanted Timothy now to continue in.

  378. At this point. Some people might think well if

  379. that's church membership, count me out, you may not be a member

  380. here, but if you're believe you're the part of the body of

  381. Christ and still applies to you, and you might feel well that's

  382. just hardship and pain. You're partly correct for the

  383. flesh. It is not just God has times of

  384. rest, and renewal and rejuvenation for his Saints.

  385. And there's times when the persecution eases and there's

  386. times of rest and those kinds of things.

  387. But yes, the flesh has to go to the cross.

  388. That means our desires, our preferences.

  389. Go on it, too. The truth is, we will have peace

  390. in our hearts and souls and Minds.

  391. If we follow Jesus, he says, in verse 14, let's look at that

  392. again. But as for you, continue in what

  393. you've learned and firmly believe knowing who from whom

  394. you learned it, it's not. Hey Timothy.

  395. Hi, how would you like to lead? How would you like to serve what

  396. can we do for you? What kind of strategy you want

  397. to use? No, it's not like that at all.

  398. It's like the instruction manual has been written.

  399. The direction has been Yet, there's no negotiating on the

  400. map. There's no negotiating.

  401. The destiny and no negotiating, a message that's been fixed.

  402. Verse 15 and on Paul writes and how from childhood you Timothy

  403. have been acquainted with the sacred writings which are able

  404. to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus.

  405. All scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching,

  406. for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness.

  407. That the man of God, may be complete equipped for every good

  408. work. This kind of rules out every

  409. selfish ambition doesn't it? The Bible warns us against those

  410. kinds of things, she scriptures, not a list of suggestions and

  411. preferences and desires which we can shape and form to our own

  412. craving, not some non-negotiable ideas that we can work around

  413. and so on. This passage was for Timothy

  414. reminder to stay on track, not to deviate from what he'd been

  415. taught. Let me interject here.

  416. No, wherever do we find were to compromise on the truth.

  417. Never truth is not a preference. It's a reality.

  418. We had to recognize to embrace and accept and live out.

  419. We can adjust our lives to it but we can never customize it or

  420. tailor, make it to fit our desires and preferences.

  421. Truth cannot be changed to fit us, we can change to fit it.

  422. And yet, when it comes to truth, this is exactly where our

  423. culture has completely gone off the rails.

  424. I have my truth. You have your truth.

  425. They have their truth. We have our truth.

  426. And when that happens only a matter of time in the whole

  427. thing falls apart and as I said before, is there ever a time of

  428. confusion? Well, that's now our culture's

  429. become like a ship in the night adrift at Sea in the fog with no

  430. GPS. No Compass, no sense of

  431. direction. Just drifting along I don't have

  432. time to into it but honestly, our culture is literally lost

  433. What I find interesting is in, even in Jesus day, how the

  434. people of this time, especially religious leaders, they messed

  435. with him trying to get him to see, you know, what, how about

  436. this? How about that?

  437. At one point in time, the Pharisees came to Jesus and I

  438. won't read the scriptures. Takes too long.

  439. Matthew 19, and they had their own cultural preferences, their

  440. own cultural mechanisms, how they work with this and that,

  441. and one was the issue of marriage and hey, hey, Rabbi is

  442. it is, it, is it okay? For a man to divorce his wife

  443. for any never reason? It's Matthew, 19, Jesus, have

  444. you not read? The one who created the made

  445. them male and female. What did Jesus do?

  446. He was God in human form, yet, he focused on scripture on the

  447. written word. He was truthful focused, not

  448. culturally, Focus, not preference, Focus, not

  449. desirable. Well depends what you desire.

  450. Well then why did Moses and so on and on it goes but sadly they

  451. had missed the mark and here's where it gets and it's I could

  452. talk about whole slew of topics a whole slew of ideas.

  453. And here's the problem us, Evangelical Pastors in many

  454. cases, embrace it. Well, how do you feel about it?

  455. What would you like? No, if scripture is not guiding

  456. us than something shaky is. And this teaching, just we

  457. talked about false teachers some time ago, the falls into that.

  458. Again, let me just a personal preference and desire driven.

  459. Involvement is just a moving Target, never stops never ends.

  460. Always shifts to tell moves to destruction.

  461. So what is the way forward that leads to, right, living them?

  462. We must stand on the word of God and we must go to the Cross.

  463. We must surrender our life to Jesus.

  464. This includes our desires and our preferences.

  465. And before we look to the other while you should change, you

  466. should change. Let's look at ourselves.

  467. How selfish am I? How desired driven am I?

  468. And if you and I surrender to Jesus, if we get right with God

  469. that will not make the culture go away, it'll still be there

  470. but will put us into relationship with God and give

  471. us Direction, destiny. It'll give us peace and

  472. something solid to live by and will be a light in the dark and

  473. faltering world. Last Sunday, I ask this

  474. question, I'll ask it again. If everyone would do, is you do

  475. how would the church be? What kind of member am I are you

  476. years ago? And I were new in pastoral

  477. Ministry and there was a couple that came to our church.

  478. They had left a particular church and they could no longer

  479. attend for various reasons and it was maybe valid.

  480. I didn't dig into it too deeply, but it was very confusing after

  481. a little while. You see.

  482. They all of a sudden were starting to push us to become

  483. what they had left because it was comfortable.

  484. It was predictable. They were used to that but they

  485. don't like it the way it was done, but if you do that thing

  486. here in our church that would work, maybe let's let's change

  487. this to that so that we can have at least something that's we're

  488. familiar with. We didn't do that and they moved

  489. on and went elsewhere and I don't know where they are today

  490. or anything like that, but it was sad to see because Their

  491. hearts and Minds were yes, we it doesn't work here, but maybe if

  492. we go to a different church and change that church into this,

  493. then maybe it'll work again. It was all about desire and

  494. preference. It was not too much that was

  495. evil as it was totally selfish. These desires that they had were

  496. important to them. But they were culturally based

  497. and legalistically based and basically, hey, we come here and

  498. we want you to become what we were and are.

  499. And so on. I remember years ago as a public

  500. event, there was a speaker talking about how people move to

  501. Canada their people immigrate to Canada from different countries.

  502. They want a better life than want freedom.

  503. They want success what Canada offers is it but the strange

  504. thing is then a lot of these immigrants that come here and

  505. they want to change this into what they just left, which

  506. wasn't working, but hopefully we can Implement that here.

  507. Hopefully work here is that Doesn't work.

  508. You see the greater the self preference factor is the

  509. greater. The self desire factor is the

  510. harder it is for person to change at all.

  511. In any meaningful way. This is true everywhere and

  512. especially in church membership in an art.

  513. And what's strange is our time attending church is considered a

  514. right since. When is it a right?

  515. And you have to make me happy and if you don't, you're not a

  516. good church, here's the truth. If my desires and my preference

  517. are not based on the word of God service to Jesus Christ and if

  518. they're my desires, my professor more important than getting

  519. right with God than fellowshipping with Jesus

  520. Christ. Then I need to repent.

  521. There's many stories as I said before and I won't have time to

  522. go into them. But let me tell one story

  523. Genesis chapter 13 and 19 I have I won't read the scriptures.

    Genesis 13 chapter mention

  524. The Bible tells how Abraham and lot live close together.

  525. God richly bless these two men Abraham and nephew lot and

  526. eventually get the herds got so big to have to separate each go

  527. their own way because just there were two too many animals to

  528. feed in one. Local area, Abrams says about,

  529. you choose where you want to go, and I'll go the other direction.

  530. Lock chose from self. The land near the city of Sodom

  531. and Gomorrah and the Bible says it was a beautiful place, Lush

  532. grass green and city of Sodom Gomorrah have a very evil lot.

  533. Followed his preferences lot, followed his desires, And in

  534. math and Genesis 19 have the story, what happened?

  535. He lost everything his desires and preferences were his ruin.

  536. How many people do that today? And I could go expand.

  537. And that is why we must be so careful when we become a member

  538. of the church. Why am I joining?

  539. Why am I joining He's had a lot to say about people put

  540. themselves first and others. Last The last point I want to

  541. make is our desire. And some preferences must be

  542. self-denial focused. Am I a person who always has to

  543. have it about me my way or the highway?

  544. It's my preference. It, I'm not comfort with that,

  545. so I'm not going to do it. If it's biblically-based, we

  546. must serve. Jesus disciples were plagued

  547. with selfish motives and then Route 9, verse 46 to 48.

  548. This little passage here, there's an argument Rose among

  549. them as to, which of them was the greatest but Jesus knowing

  550. the reasoning of their hearts took a child and put him beside

  551. by aside and said to them, whoever receives this child in

  552. my name, receives me and whoever receives me receives him who

  553. sent me for, he who is least among you as the greatest Jesus.

  554. You want to know the definition of greatness forget about

  555. yourself, it doesn't mean that you think nothing of yourself.

  556. It just means don't put yourself at the top and these disciples

  557. they were bickering amongst themselves.

  558. Who's the who's the top guy? There was Pride involved, they

  559. were human. We're human, they needed to

  560. repent. Maybe we do too, but let's let

  561. this sink in in God's eyes. Who is the greatest person?

  562. The greatest person is the one who at the end of the day.

  563. It's forgotten about themselves and just just focus on serving

  564. your fellow neighbor. Tom returned his book rights.

  565. No quote this again. He says so if we approach church

  566. membership from the perspective of entitlement, we have it

  567. upside down. You always ask first, what you

  568. doing, you what you can do for your church, then you would have

  569. discovered the joy of being last.

  570. And if this is something that doesn't taste good, there's

  571. something wrong with our taste buds.

  572. Jesus himself said, Mark 10:45 for even the son of man came not

    Mark 10:45

  573. to be served but to not to be served but to serve and give his

  574. life as a ransom for many nobody ever served more than he did.

  575. There were people early on in Jesus day on Earth are they?

  576. Oh here's the Messiah. He's gonna he's gonna he's gonna

  577. make the economy great. He's going to set the Romans

  578. straight. He's going to kick them out of

  579. our land. We're going to be the place we

  580. were when King David was King and Israel.

  581. Maybe he's going to restore everything and they have this

  582. idea and Jesus said, no, it's not what it's about.

  583. They need more Enlightenment and the book of Acts chapter 2, we

    Acts 2 chapter mention

  584. find it, we won't go into that this morning.

  585. And today, we know the Church of Jesus spread in so many

  586. countries in the world and it's not stopping, and it may not

  587. look exactly the same, but there's one core Central truth.

  588. Jesus is Lord. We are his servants.

  589. The gospel is spreading. So are you a member of the body

  590. of Christ? Are you a member of the church

  591. locally? Are you a follower of Jesus?

  592. How well are you embracing it? How well are you serving?

  593. Let's ask ourselves. What kind of numbers are we?

  594. Are we sell focused, self desired driven, our Wee Ones who

  595. say, you know, your if this is glorifying to Jesus, I'm going

  596. with it. If this is honoring God, I'm

  597. with it. If this lifts up the name of

  598. Christ, I'm with it. Oh no, I want it my way.

  599. I feel better this way. May God help us.

  600. To be members of his body, who in healthy ways, add to the

  601. value of the body and living lives of helping one, another

  602. living and truth and Grace and denying ourselves for the sake

  603. of others. Let's pray.

  604. Lord, we know you're the Creator and sustainer of the universe.

  605. We are your creation created for Glory.

  606. Help us Lord Jesus in our lives to reflect your glory.

  607. Back to you, help us to do it in a way that the models what you

  608. did. When you walk this Earth, help

  609. us to love one. Another truly, maybe be

  610. attentive and careful not to follow the world to trap us and

  611. cause us to stumble. If there are people here, Lord,

  612. have not yet. Made that commitment.

  613. Not just come to you and faith. We pray that they will

  614. experience this. Grace, they will sense you

  615. drawing them and they will repent and they will return to

  616. you and experience New Life, Jesus name we pray.

  617. Amen.