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Beyond Sunday Ep 19 (The Effects of the Ressurection)
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All right. So welcome to be on Sunday an
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extension of the preaching ministry here at LEMCI Am,
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Pastor Jonah Chitty, joined today by Pastor Joe Penner as
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always. And today we have a special
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guest. We have Anthony Fair, the one,
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the only Anthony Fair. Is there another Anthony Fair?
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Probably. There is.
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So I lied to. Everybody, yes, OK.
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And I don't think he goes to this church, but he's from the
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community anyway. OK, so this the one of two
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Anthony Fairs is here joining us today and it's good to have you
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here. Anthony is one of our youth
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leaders for senior youth, right? I got that right for senior
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youth. We're excited to have you here.
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So we're going to be talking a little bit today about your
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ministry. Also.
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We're going to talk at first, I think we're going to talk about
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Pastor Jake's sermon. Pastor Jake preached a sermon.
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Joe preached a sermon from First Corinthians chapter 15.
1 Corinthians 15 chapter mention
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You left off on verse 19, I think, right?
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So he picked up in verse 20 and went all the way down to 3433 is
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an incredible verse. Do not be deceived.
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Bad company corrupts good morals.
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So I'm sorry I'm bad company most of the time for you, Joe.
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I might corrupt you, but yeah. So it's a very good passage.
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Continuing Paul's really, really in depth overview of the
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resurrection. So yeah, what are your guys
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thoughts about the sermon? Yeah, I, I thought he was sort
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of building off of, you know, my sermon the week before mine was
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the importance of the resurrection.
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And he's beginning to talk about some of the effects of the
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resurrection. And so I know first, the first
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one that he talked about was that death was conquered.
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And so because of Adam, all men have sinned.
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But through Christ and his victory, through his, his death,
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his burial, his resurrection, he actually defeated death.
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And so death was conquered. And so his second point was that
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Jesus resurrection in rain meets the end of all earthly rain.
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And so whether we like it or not, it's, you know, the, the
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rulers and the kingdoms of this world will have to subject
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themselves to Christ, you know, whether they want to or not.
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And so he said in sort of in that point, it's not a matter of
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if, but when that Jesus is the true ruler and judge.
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And I've, I've maybe you guys have heard this before, but I've
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heard people say this before that when people accept Jesus is
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their Lord and Savior. And it's sort of like that's
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it's a nuance in the wording, but it's not that like you
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accept Jesus, it's like Jesus is Lord.
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Right. Or somebody said like make
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Jesus. That's what it is.
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Yeah. And like, yeah, yeah, right.
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Like you can make Jesus anything, Yeah.
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And you're it's just whether you come to realize that truth or
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not. But like Jake said, it's not a
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matter of if, but when. And then his Third Point was
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that Jesus resurrection means complete unity and perfection
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restored. And I, I sort of like how he, he
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talked about the two different sides of Jesus.
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Not that we talk about two different sides.
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It's really the complete fullness of God and, and his
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perfect nature. But, you know, sometimes we can
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overemphasize the judgement and the, the harsh realities that
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are in Scripture of, of God's justice and judgement, but then
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we forget his gentleness and his compassion and those and his
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love and those sorts of things. But we have to, we have to
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realize that it's, it's not like 5050 or 252525.
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It's like God is 100% just, he is 100% holy and 100% righteous
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and compassionate and righteous and all of those things.
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And so I thought it was helpful for him to talk about the, the
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different realities of who God is in, in his perfect state.
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And so, yeah, he sort of talked about what we become is evident
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by what we follow. And this idea that you know,
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what we, what we believe and, and how we live sort of proves
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what we believe. Yeah, I think.
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Does that come out in the? Does that come out near the end?
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Of the Yeah, yeah, that was close to the end, yeah.
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It hits on that verse that I mentioned at the beginning when
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I was reading it there. And like, yeah, you like, if not
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like, I think he's picking up on this idea that Paul's talking
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about in verse 32 about like, if, you know, if the
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resurrection isn't true, if the dead aren't raised, then let's
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eat, drink because tomorrow it's all over, right?
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Like a nihilist attitude, like, yeah.
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And that's just not that's not the right way to go.
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And so I think he picked up on that and that bad company
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corrupts good morals is such a good like it's a proverb.
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It's in quotes in the CSPI. Don't know what it is in the ESV
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as a quote, like a popular saying or something like that.
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But like it makes me makes me of garbage in garbage out
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mentality. Like if you put a lot of garbage
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in your brain, that's what's going to come out.
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So Anthony, how'd you how'd you feel about this?
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Yeah, yeah. Do you guys talking about that?
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Reminds me of a conversation I had once with a boss of mine a
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few years ago, and I brought this up at youth too.
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Actually, we were just studying the book of job, so we were
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talking about. Is it job or job is?
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Job job for sure, no doubt we were talking about job and just
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suffering and the, the world's view on suffering.
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And I remember a conversation I had with my boss.
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He, he explained to me that the reason he doesn't, you know,
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believe in, in Jesus is because of the, the suffering that goes
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on around the world. And like, how can there be a God
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if, you know, children are being killed, mothers are being killed
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and all that. And I just brought up the point
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that it's interesting that people often don't even use
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their own suffering to, to discount, you know, the
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existence of God. They use other people's other
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people's suffering. Meanwhile, in those in those
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areas, that's probably where you see the strongest, strongest
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faith and relating that to the sermon.
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It's. I'm trying to remember where I
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was trying to go with this point but.
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It makes it seem meaningless, right?
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Like, well, if if God is truly good and God is truly all
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powerful and that's this was sort of the reasoning of of
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someone who doesn't believe in God, right?
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If God is all powerful and God is good, why is there suffering
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since? OK, there go the.
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Part. The part that you were saying
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let us eat and drink for tomorrow we will die is like,
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yeah, if, if I also don't think there's a God that exists that
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promises only peace and only, you know, a good life.
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Like if, if that's the God that he's discounting.
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I agree that God doesn't exist like our our God.
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He does allow suffering and ultimately it's always, you
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know, to fulfill his plan and his goal.
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But I just think, yeah, like it's, it goes back to that point
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about it's not a matter of of if, it's when people will, will
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realize that Jesus is, is raining.
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And that's, yeah, that's kind of the point I was trying to make
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with that. No, it's good.
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I think like it too. Like you talk about suffering,
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like would it be like a really? I don't know if life would be
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even worth living if you didn't have something to like, to like
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compare good to right? Like in my mind, it's like good
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and evil are two different things, right?
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And but like, you don't know what good is unless you've
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experienced some kind of like suffering some kind of pain to
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understand the opposite of it. And so like, you know, that's
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the old thing saying you don't really know how good you have
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it. You know, you start complaining
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about everything you like in your life.
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And you realize if you start to compare yourself towards, you
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know, other other people who suffer more, it's like, you
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realize, man, I really have it really good.
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And so, yeah, I think that God for, for God to say, for, for
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there to be like a, this vision of a God who would not allow any
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suffering, to me that almost seems even more like horrible.
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I don't know. It's like, not that not that we
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want suffering to be like a primary thing.
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We always obviously we want to be gone.
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But like, like what we experience here, I think on
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earth, like in, in, in the midst of the fall, What will that make
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heaven seem like to us? We'll see the opposite, the
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complete opposite of it. We'll be like, yeah, this is
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amazing and we will be overcome by, you know, an all satisfying
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God. So yeah, it's good.
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Yeah. And then and I think for for us
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as Christians, I mean, we see this in our own lives that you,
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God can grow you in ways and suffering that I'm not.
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I don't say to say that he can't when things are good is not the
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right way to say it, but I think you understand what I'm saying.
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It's like when, when things are, if everything just always goes
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perfectly, then you know, there's ways in which you can't
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grow. I I've used this example before
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of like your kids. If if your kids, if your kid
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just always gets what he wants, What does that kid turn into?
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A spoiled brat? A spoiled brat exactly.
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But this is sort of like, well, if we just got everything we
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always wanted and everything went perfectly, we would be
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spoiled rotten brats. That's exactly what we would be.
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And I think God uses suffering, he uses hard times, he uses
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difficulty and death, even in sickness and those sorts of
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things to refine us and shape us.
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And it leaves you like there's the already in the not yet
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there's this idea that there's there's something that still is
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yet to be fulfilled that we're waiting for that's better than
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it is here. And I think the suffering, the
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hardship, you know, that they leave us longing for that, for
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that better, that better thing that's yet to come.
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For sure, and I think if you view, you know, suffering from
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from God's point of view is, is he he is willing to lose, you
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know, 100 physically speaking, if, if that will lead 1 to
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eternal life. Like if if you think about it
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that way, like we would all agree that that's that's worth
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it. Like if, say those hundred are
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all saved, but he has to lose all 100 of them just to gain,
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you know, one more for eternity. That's that's worth it.
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Like that's. Yeah.
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It's an easy, easy choice. Man, you just made me think like
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before when you were talking about your boss, you're having
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conversations like that. That's a heavy conversation.
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I have like with a boss employee relationship.
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So that that's pretty good. That's a pretty good
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relationship we got there. Yeah, yeah, He he was very open
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to to talking about. I didn't make very good points,
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I'll admit. Like I I thought of all this
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after, but during I was like, yeah, OK, I didn't have very
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many great points, but it it at least kind of gives you
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something to think about. Gives you something to think
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about. Also gives you like an
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opportunity, like, to think about like, how can I, how can I
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weave some of this into conversations in the future?
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How can I be, like, sensitive to this in his life?
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And when we go in, when he's going through something, how can
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I speak truth into it? It's good.
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Yeah, it's really good. People are going through so
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much. And the fact that someone was
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willing to open up says a lot about you.
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It says that, you know, hey, he recognizes that you are a
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believer. And even if we are criticized,
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Joe Joe's talking about criticism a lot.
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Even if we are criticized, sometimes people criticize us
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because they recognize something in us that's different, right.
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So like, maybe you're moved the holes in the golf course to the
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wrong spot. They maybe they think you're
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like, I don't know, like just someone who's like mean or
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whatever. And it's like trying to do them
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wrong. But now they recognize something
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in you that they that they that they don't have a lot of times.
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And that's just people reaching out that way.
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So. Yeah.
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Yeah. Well, I sort of a question that
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Jake asked towards the end of his sermon was, has the
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resurrection affected my life? And that's sort of been like
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when I was for my sermon too. It's like, OK, well, what does?
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Because mine was heavy on the resurrection as well.
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It's like, well, what does the resurrection, how does that
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really affect us, right. Like what's the application, you
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know, how does it change how we live?
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And I think that's a really good question to ask.
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We sort of had a question come in from a listener, right?
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Yeah, about similar, similar along that same vein.
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Well, it was, yeah. And so this, this person was
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just mentioning that, you know, all this time we've like, so the
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last three sermons we've really been emphasizing the gospel.
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And you know, you touched on the resurrection quite a bit in your
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sermon. And then Jake and my sermons
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were both like 100% on the resurrection.
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And I guess I even realized this for myself that I, I guess I've
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been sort of neglecting the resurrection too.
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But that's what this person is saying that, you know, I talk
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about the fallen nature, I talk about our sin.
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I think about that often. And then I often talk and think
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about how Jesus died for our sins and took our place and
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emphasizing that part. But then it's almost like we
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don't really talk about the resurrection, or it seems to be
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like an afterthought, or we're not actively thinking about it.
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We talked about last week, you might be embarrassed to even
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bring it up. Right?
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Like, exactly. Oh, you believe.
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You believe that guy came back to life.
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So yeah, exactly. Right.
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But it is a it is central to the gospel.
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Like, I mean, we have to, we have to believe that Jesus rose
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from the dead. Otherwise, I mean, that's Paul's
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whole point in this whole chapter, that otherwise our
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faith is completely meaningless. But this person asked the
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question, how do I how do we emphasize the importance of the
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resurrection more? And what is a What's the best
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way to bring it up and share it in conversations with
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unbelievers? That's a good question.
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I think like I think going back to that verse at the at the end
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of Jake's passage 32 talking about like if the dead are not
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raised, then let us eat, drink for tomorrow, we die.
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I think to me when I read that, like, I don't know, in my flesh,
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I think, yeah, it sounds like a great, great life.
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Just do whatever I want to do and then it's over.
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But really, it's a hopeless life, right?
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That seems like to me like, oh, yeah, that's like a nihilism and
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it's hopeless. And the resurrection, the, the
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way we bring it up is like this is like Jesus died for sinners.
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We've we found that out at the very beginning of chapter 15.
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We found it out way before that. But Paul like hammers that point
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home, right. And then he talks about being
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raised, that the, the being raised part, Christ being raised
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from the dead is where our hope in, in salvation comes.
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Like that is the that what pastor, pastor Jake was talking
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about the defeat of death. He he defeated death.
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You know, death is dead, like, which is, you know, weird to
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say, but like, and when his heart started beating on the
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third day, he had conquered death.
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And therefore, because of that, we can live with, like, this
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hope that this isn't all there is.
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Like, we can live with this hope that this suffering that we
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experience is going to end. There will be something on the
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other side. I may never see the end of my
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suffering, you know what I mean? But like, yeah, eventually we
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will. Yeah, And just like, you know,
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Christ was the first fruits, he was the the first to be
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resurrected, we're invited to now join in that and like we
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have an opportunity to be resurrected as well.
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Like that's where the hope is because, you know, if we share
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Jesus dying on the cross for someone, somebody who doesn't,
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who doesn't believe in Christ, they're going to say, well, I
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didn't ask him to do that for me.
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What does that do for me? But the resurrection is where
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like, OK, well, that's maybe the biggest fear of of humankind is,
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oh, I don't I don't want to die. Like where where am I going to
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go? We have the answer or the Bible
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has the answer to that, that question.
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Like we have an opportunity to to live after this life.
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Yeah, that's good. Yeah.
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And I think just including that, you know, to the question about
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like, how do we include this in our like when we talk with
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people? I would say probably the first
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and most practical thing would just be like it you should just
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include it in your gospel presentation, right?
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Like if you're going to be sharing the gospel with people.
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Yeah. Talk about sin, talk about our
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fallenness, talk about how Christ died for our sins.
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But then don't forget that he rose from the dead, which proved
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that he had authority to do what he did.
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He proved the authority to forgive sins and be the
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sacrifice for. Sin and his authority over
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everything, right? Yeah, exactly.
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That's a really good point. Joe and so like you, that
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actually is the you, you actually haven't reached the
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climax of the story until Christ has risen from the grave, right?
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And so you, you sort of like otherwise you're just leaving
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Jesus in the grave, so to speak. You know, he's he's stuck there
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in the grave, having paid for our sin.
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It's like, you know, like some guy, you know, took my place in
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my crime and so he's in jail for me.
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You know, like that's that's not it, right?
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Like he died and then he rose from the dead.
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And he's actually like, like you said, he has all authority in
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heaven and earth. And so that's like the
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completion of the story, like you said, Anthony, that we now
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have hope that goes beyond the grave, right?
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That's why we have hope that we'll raise.
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We'll be raised from the dead to be in heaven.
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Yeah, I, I pastor Jake Moon is in a certainty to really good
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job of like, like talking about the disciples and like how they
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felt like it was over, you know what I mean?
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And like the resurrection happened and like proof that it
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wasn't over. Like about like if, if if Jesus
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had not risen from the dead, then those guys just would have
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been like, so I, I saw when I was preaching through that, I
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was thinking, you know, that's, that's something to think about.
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Like the disciples are just hanging out, like all hope is
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gone, right. And then I, I love he brought up
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the first fruits thing when Pastor Jake referenced
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Leviticus. Maybe we should go and preach
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through Leviticus soon. It'd be a lot of fun.
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It'd be a lot of fun. I think we'd learn a lot.
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We'd understand more of this sacrifice.
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The sacrificial system that that was set up in in like the Jews
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had is what Jesus fulfilled. And so for us to not like to
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neglect that would be detrimental to us as Christians
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and believers. But I think it's very important
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for and Pastor Jake did a great job referencing back talking
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about like why we why the first fruit matters?
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Why did Paul talk about that? Like it he's not just a first
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fruit type, You know, this, he's the first of many.
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He's, he's like the best of all of us.
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Like, you know, he, he's died of human life.
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But he he did it and and he did it first.
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And so, yeah, I just thought it was really good that he brought
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that out. Yeah.
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Yeah, yeah. And it's just like, I mean, the
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resurrection is, yeah, I, I like we talked about this last week
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already. I and and I just didn't even
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realize for myself, like in the moment, like how vital this is.
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And like I to sort of sympathize with the listener's comment that
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man, I feel like I've sort of done the same thing too.
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It's like you talk so much about Jesus death for sin that you
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don't emphasize enough his resurrection.
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And I just, yeah, I I've just been so blessed to to really
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slow down in this, this portion of the letter and hitting on all
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these topics and on all these subjects and just really being
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able to emphasize the resurrection.
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It's been really, really, really good.
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I think it's one of the things that expository preaching does.
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It allows you to not skip over like things that you may may
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hit. You know, we, we would probably
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if we were just going to preach the sermon one off in First
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Corinthians, we might have chosen, I don't know, any of the
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1st 7 chapters to hammer home all those talking about the sin
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of the Corinth, the church in Corinth and all that stuff.
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And like, don't be like Corinth. But then Paul, like preaching
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through the whole book has given us an opportunity to like preach
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this whole council, which has been really fun.
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So. Yeah, and people don't even
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realize how long we've been in it.
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I know I, I said in my sermon last week that we've been in
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this book for like 7 months. And I was talking with somebody
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the other day who was referencing something that they
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had remembered that you had said it, Jonah.
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And they're like, I think it was in Ephesians or something like
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that. It was a few months ago.
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I'm like, Nah, I was, it was still First Corinthians.
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And it's funny because I could remember it too.
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I think it was somewhere back in like 10 or 11 or something.
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It was about the Lord's Supper. But anyway, I just was.
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Like, that wasn't even that long ago, really.
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I'm like, yeah, that's funny. We've been here for a while.
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Yeah, for sure. You're talking about the.
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Did you have a point? I'm sorry.
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I'm going to cut you off if you had something.
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To no, yeah, I was just going to kind of reiterate what Joe said.
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I was very convicted to of how little I think of the
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resurrection and some thoughts that kind of came up for me were
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like, what role does my doubt of the of the salvation play and
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why I don't talk about it more like is it is it because I'm
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scared to be laughed? It's pretty easy to argue that
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somebody died for me, but it's it's kind of a whole nother
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thing to say. Like I believe that he rose from
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the grave like it's. Right.
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What? What role does doubt play in in?
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That well, I think it's natural to doubt that, right, like or to
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even have like thoughts, questions about it, honestly,
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because it's so rare. Like like we don't see, we don't
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see resurrections anymore. Like we see resuscitations,
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right? We see like people who are
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revived in hospitals after being like, quote UN quote, dead for
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for minutes. That's a resuscitation.
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It's not like a a resurrection, like, like Jesus was dead for
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three days, Lazarus was dead for days.
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Jairus's daughter was dead for maybe minutes, maybe.
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I don't know. It doesn't say those things that
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the pastor Jake mentioned in his sermon.
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It's so rare. So it's I think like, that's for
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me. That's that's where I come to
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like, yeah, it is weird. I mean, you think about this
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like the supernatural aspect of it is, is strange.
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And so I think it's natural to have like good healthy doubt.
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Well, I don't know that it's all like, and realistically
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speaking, is it any more unrealistic than than saying
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that he died for the sin of all mankind?
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You know, like that's, that's pretty like wild too, right?
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You know? Who, who, who has the authority
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to forgive sins but God alone, right?
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And so that's basically like that's also very, very rare and
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strange. I feel like maybe it's just
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something in our mind that like we just, I don't know where.
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I It's the physical nature of it.
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I think. I, I think that's what that's
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what causes us to, to like, make it like bigger in our mind than
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the other. Yeah, yeah.
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Because the one in all reality, the one proves the other right?
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Like, and what I mean by that is so yeah, we, we even if we say
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all the time that Jesus died for our sin, I mean, that's OK.
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The resurrection proves that. So it's like sort of to Paul's
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point, it's like if the resurrection isn't true, then
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still he just died. And so it still means nothing.
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And so the resurrection actually proves that he had the authority
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to forgive sins by way of being the sacrifice because of his
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resurrection. And so I, I think, I think it's
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just probably a mental shift that needs to happen in our
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mind. But I get what you're saying
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about the doubt because, you know, at the end of the day, we
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can't, none of us can prove that it happened, right?
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I mean, we can't, we can't go back in time and know for sure
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That's, and I think there's an element of that that's just
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faith. And the reason we doubt is
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because faith is exactly that. It's faith.
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It's like it's not seeing, it's believing even though I don't
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see. And so it's having the faith to
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believe in. And I, I think I've been talking
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with people about this recently. I don't know if it's if we've
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said it in the podcast or if it just came up with a
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conversation, but I, I think some people think that's a cop
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out for Christians to say, oh, it just takes faith.
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Because an atheist would say, well, yeah, that's just an easy
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cop out to say, well, it takes faith.
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I don't think it's a cop out because I I think it's
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scriptural. You know, Jesus, God that
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literally says that in Hebrews. You know that.
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There's a whole chapter on people like.
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With the people who believed, right?
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Abraham got sent out and he went out not knowing where he was
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going, and he just chose to believe and he had faith.
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And Hebrews 11/6 actually says without faith it is impossible
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to please God. And so I think we just got to
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accept that that there's an element of faith that we just
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have to believe, even though we don't know for sure, but we
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stand on the truth of God's Word.
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Yeah, I was talking to, I was leading young adults the other
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night and we came up, we came across the text where Abraham
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and Isaac, I, he, Abraham is told to go sacrifice Isaac.
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And this idea that I've never, I didn't make this connection
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until recently. But like that, Abraham's faith
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in that moment was also a resurrection faith.
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So like this, our faith in in the promise, it's always been
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sort of a resurrection faith. But the reason it was because
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Abraham believed that God had the power to resurrect Isaac if
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he had gone through with the sacrifice.
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And we learned that in Hebrews. It's not something that we
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made-up. Hebrews 11 tells us that
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Abraham, his faith that God could raise from the dead is, is
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the reason that Abraham's listed in that that chapter of, of
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those people who are considered the most faithful.
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And so like, I think it's, it's important for us to remember
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that our faith has always been a resurrection faith, always been
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this idea that God can can do way more than we even like, can
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imagine and think about. So, yeah, it's good.
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We're talking about important things.
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And you've been, you've said this several times today, like
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how central the resurrection is to our faith.
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And then we had a question come in because in my sermon a couple
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weeks back, I said something about theological triage.
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And so we had this question come in from, from one of our church
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members asking like, what are the primary things like?
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So the triage for Albert Mohler, popular, popular resident, I
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think he came up with an article way back talking about like this
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idea of triage and, and thinking about like all the theological
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things in like in a framework so that you can kind of get your
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mind. How do we, how do we like
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fellowship with people who have different ideas about different
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doctrines than us? Like what is required for us to
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be able to like I just said this, what is required for me as
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a Baptist to come and be a pastor at a Mennonite church,
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right? Like that's, there's, there's
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certain things that I would have to like say, OK, these are
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things that that we have to be sure we agreed on.
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And then these are things we have room to to disagree on or,
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or, and to still work together. And so like the question was
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like, what are the primary things?
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So you said 1. So do you have any other?
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So he could he listed out like salvation.
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We have to believe that Jesus died on the cross for our sins.
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Basically the things in 15-1 to 11.
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Well, I, I know, like, I mean, you sort of, you sort of
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mentioned like, I don't know, we were talking a little bit about
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this before we started the podcast, but there are central
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things to our faith. But you sort of realize how
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many, I don't want to call them Gray areas, but just different
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beliefs there are right? And so.
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It's very narrow, like the primary thing.
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Tier 1 is very narrow. Yeah.
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And so there there's a book that I would recommend to anybody who
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would, who would want to read it before I right.
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It's called Finding the Right Hills to Die On by Gavin
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Ortland. And it's, it's really fleshing
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out this idea. I think the whole point is
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finding the right hills to die. Like don't die on a hill that's
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not worth dying on. You know, like there are certain
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issues that it's like we just have differing, we have
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different beliefs. And I think the mistake that
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some people make is they, they take some of those issues and
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they think they assume that their position is the correct
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position. And so therefore, anybody else
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who thinks differently is wrong. And that is wrong when you have
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two differing beliefs, let's say mode of baptism, like what
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baptism, you know, whether it's dunking or whatever, just use it
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as an example. There are two, 2, two or three
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different frameworks. Some people would say
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sprinkling's OK. Some people would say it has to
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be immersion. Some people would say, well, you
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can baptize babies or we should baptize babies.
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And so each of those people has a, they're looking at baptism
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through what they think is a biblically faithful lens.
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So those are three different ways of viewing baptism.
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And so I just, you don't hang your hat on that, right?
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And you don't make that like a. Yeah, don't hang your hat on it,
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but I had a conversation with a family member and they were
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they've been going to a Presbyterian Church to become
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members of a Presbyterian Church.
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They're baptized as believers, but they have children, right
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And so like that aren't that haven't been baptized yet.
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This church will allow them to wait until they are professing
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believers if that's their conviction, which I think is
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good. I think this is like this is
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like triage in action. Like if you conviction is that
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that you need to be baptized as a believer, like this pastor in
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this church has like said, OK, that's fine.
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We'll we'll baptize whenever they're believers, but like we
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were just discussing it made me laugh because like my, my wife's
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cousin said, yeah, I'm, I'm teen infant baptism now and we're
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like. Whoa, whoa, whoa.
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You can't, you can't just make that call us.
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They're like, anyway, it was a it was a funny, funny like
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instance of conversation about this.
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But I think like it's important for us to think about the
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primary. So the primary would be.
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I would. There's things that are
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essential for salvation, which are the Trinity.
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Like we, we have to have a triune God.
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We have to have Christ who who is fully God and yet fully man.
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Yeah, so we can't deny the divinity of Christ, right?
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And so the, the incarnation, right?
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Like that, that Christ was conceived by the Holy Spirit,
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things like that. Justification by faith alone,
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right? We're saved by faith, not by
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works. Things like that, The
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resurrection we've been talking about the authority of
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Scripture. Yeah, I think that's you.
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You brought that one up before Anthony in our conversation that
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like, what would you say that the Bible how where does the
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Bible fit in all of it? Isn't it like important or not?
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Yeah, it's. It's pretty important.
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It's yeah, it's the authority. It's it's yeah, it's true.
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It's it doesn't need to. Nothing needs to be added to it
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like it's it's profitable for teaching reproof everything.
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It's it is, it is the the thing. It is how God revealed himself
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to us. Yeah, like in a special way.
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It's the only way we know. God, right?
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We'll we would know him, the general and special revelation.
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But yeah, he's exactly right. It's the way that we know him,
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the way, you know, in the way we do.
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Yeah. So it may sound crazy, but yeah,
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I think I think you're right. So like the Bible being primary
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as far as the way that God revealed himself to us, we
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believe it's inherent. We believe it's totally
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profitable for all teaching and reproof.
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It is. It is the place to go to find
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out how we're supposed to live as Christians.
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It doesn't answer all the questions that we have as far as
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things go, but it gives us a framework in which we can live
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and we can we can guide ourselves.
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So I don't know man, that there. It's very narrow as far as the
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primary thing. It is and, and So what that
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means is that in other areas we can have differing agreements
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and still have fellowship. And one specific one that just
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came to mind is creation. Like you can believe that God
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created the world in six days, 24 hour periods.
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You can also believe that God created the world.
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And that phrase is very important in like ages.
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And we can still be have fellowship with one another.
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It's totally fine because the central part of that creation is
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that God created the world. Like we can't deny that God
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created the world. I also think you can't deny that
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that there was one Adam, one Eve.
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Like there was like there was one of each at the beginning.
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Those are things you can't deny about creation.
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But as far as the age of the earth, I don't really care if
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you think it's six days. I don't care if you think it's
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millions of years. But there are people who will
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make that a primary issue and they'll question my salvation if
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I say it's a long time, which is it's fine, but I I'm happy to
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have those conversations with people, but that's not
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something. Primary well, and I think that's
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that's like to your point, I think the whole point of
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theological triage is the ability to say I believe that
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you're a Christian. I disagree with that belief.
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And you know, I guess just to bring up a really contentious
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one, because I feel like this is one that comes up quite
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regularly here at our churches, the Calvinism and Arminianism,
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right? And so even me just saying that
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you know who, depending on who's listening you, you might have
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differing beliefs. You may have just gotten
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butterflies in your stomach. Don't worry.
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And, and, and the, The thing is, one of the things about this
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topic is when you hear those words, you ask 10 people what
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Calvinism is or Armenianism is, and you're going to get 10
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different answers. And so the first thing we have
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to do when we're having those sorts of conversations is we
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have to talk about terms and what we mean when we use those
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words so that we're talking about the same thing because
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everybody's heard it, taught differently and heard different
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nuances of it. But the point is like, we can,
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we can disagree on those things. Like our church is not a
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Calvinist or an Armenian church. Our we're, we're a church that
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believes the Bible is true. And those are just frameworks
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through which we see Scripture. And so it isn't about, you know,
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analyzing the details of each of those views, but it's
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understanding that those are frameworks through which we can
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see the Bible. And so we can have someone who
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is a Calvinist or someone who is an Armenian and we can have
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fellowship together because we say, I believe you're a
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Christian because you're baptized on the confession that
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Jesus Christ is Lord. You believe in the Trinity, you
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believe in the Bible, you believe in justification by
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faith. We just disagree on this, this,
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this work of salvation and, and how, how exactly it functions,
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but it doesn't change the essence of our faith.
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And so we can fellowship together.
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And I would say we do fellowship together.
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We have people who are in both camps in our church and that's
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not an issue that we're that's not a hill we're going to die
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on. You know, like we can fellowship
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together and we can praise God together because it doesn't, it
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doesn't change how we function. We still all believe that we
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have to witness and we have to share the gospel with people.
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And we still, we still all believe that we have to come and
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we have to worship. And so all those, it doesn't
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change the essence of your faith.
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And so I think I think those that's a really good example of
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one where it's like we can just, we can have differing beliefs,
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but still fellowship. Yeah, it's and it, it's good for
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us to be able to like recognize those things as secondary or
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tertiary. Thirdly, I don't know how you
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say it, tertiary is the word, but like trying to use a word
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that's smaller. But yeah, so like we have to
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recognize those and be willing to like say, OK, yeah, that is a
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secondary issue. And I'm getting really worked up
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about something that's secondary.
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And let's let's let's figure out where we agree.
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How can we fellowship, love each other?
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Well, because like that's that, that honestly, that is the
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biggest thing is like when someone makes this like a
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secondary or a third or tertiary thing, primary, then then like
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fists come out, right? You you put put up your
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defenses, your guard comes up, people get angry.
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Relationships and families are broken When you're making
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something that's not meant to be primary, primary things, bad
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things happen. And I think what's important to
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do when you're having those conversations is obviously to
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drop your pride. But also like I've heard going
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on the same issue, like Calvinism and Arminianism, I've
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heard both sides. I've heard people when they
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start arguing, they say, well, I'm not a Calvinist.
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I just I. Believe the Bible.
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Believe the Bible what they're were, and I've heard it on both
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sides. What they're doing by saying
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that is they're saying that you're not.
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You don't believe that someone else doesn't?
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Reading the, you're basically saying that they're not saved,
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which that's what we're getting at.
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Like it's not, that's not a salvation, it's not a primary
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issue. So you can't with those issues,
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you can't now go up to them and say that they're not saved.
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That's when it just gets contentious and you're not going
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to, you're not going to get anywhere.
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Like you have to give them the benefit of the doubt that they
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are genuinely reading their Bible and that's the conclusion
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they came to. And then you can argue from
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there what what you believe and you can talk through it that
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way. But if you're going to start
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there, you're you may as well not even that's true.
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Not Even so true. And there are times, you know,
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in, in certain secondary issues where it doesn't mean that it
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doesn't when two people disagree on a secondary issue, they can
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separate peacefully. And because it may affect, you
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know, like I, I would say, but let's say, for instance, like a
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woman being a pastor, you know, here at this church, we believe
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that pastors are to be called men.
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And so we wouldn't agree with a woman pastor.
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And that's an issue where, I mean, I can look at another
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church and go, you know, I, I think they're preaching a true
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gospel. I believe they're saved.
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I believe that they're people are growing in their faith in
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that church, But I'm not going to go to that church if a woman
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is a pastor because I don't think that's biblically
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faithful. And so, so there there's, I
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think that's sort of the point that we're getting at.
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We have to have some way of determining, OK, well, are you a
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Christian? And that's where the, the
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primary issues come in. This is this is the gospel, like
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a gospel issue. That's where that term comes
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from. This is something that's central
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to our faith in Christ. And here are issues that sort of
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that they begin to affect how we function and how we operate in
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the church. And there are times where that
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that is OK to separate. But I think you need to
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acknowledge that that they, they can be believers who think
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differently from you, which is important because you're going
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to be in heaven with a lot of people that you disagreed with.
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Yeah, for sure. And I think the secondary things
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like baptism is a secondary thing, but that would mean that
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I would have a hard time like joining a Presbyterian Church,
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even though I would consider myself Baptitterian, like in my,
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in my theology and the way that I believe the Bible works, I
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would have a hard time because they don't believe in believers
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baptism. You know, it's like a, they
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believe that they could baptize babies and then they're
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confirmed later in life, whether they are a believer or not.
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So I, I get it. But at the same time, it would
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be, it would hard, be hard for me to worship consistently and
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become a member of a church that way.
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Because if I become a member of that church, that means I'm
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going to agree on all of these things.
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So unless it was like the one that I was talking about earlier
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where they, they allow for you to have different views on
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secondary issues and they're they're OK with it.
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Yeah, I think it's, it's important.
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We don't need to make the primary or the secondary things
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primary. And I think it's important to
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note too, that those things are like, there are secondary issues
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that are very important and we should like work through them.
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But I think the only thing that we can do is we, we can look at
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the fruit of, you know, the people that believe those things
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like what are, what is their ministry leading to?
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Or what do those beliefs lead to them just slowly relaxing on
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more and more things. Because that's often what you
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see with with some of these things.
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They'll start maybe with something secondary, but then
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they kind of become more OK with just letting more things go.
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And it leads. But it's not that secondary
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issue that that was really the prime issue.
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It's that they kept going further.
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Right. So you have to just, you know, I
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think we all just have to be praying that if, you know,
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there's anything in our theology that we're wrong on, that God
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would help us through our reading to to realize that and
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to just continue growing. But not to.
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Yeah, to be ruining our relationships because of.
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Disagreement. Yeah, it's definitely not worth
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it to to blow up your family over secondary things.
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We got good examples like our professors you mentioned, like
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praying and asking God to reveal to you when your theology goes
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one way or the other. We have, we just have.
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I was just thinking about professors who say, yeah, I
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changed my view on this. They would say that in class I I
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had this view and I actually wrote this in a commentary.
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Ten years ago, but I don't agree with myself anymore and I've
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changed my my view and now I'm at, you know, that publisher's
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actually doing a revision on this commentary for to, to
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review, to revise this one point.
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This is very important to everything.
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Just like, you know, it takes a lot of humility.
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It does, Yeah, for sure to not just like dig your heels in
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well. And I, and I think this is an
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important conversation because you're never going to find the
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perfect church, right? Like I had someone asking me a
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question, some questions a few weeks ago about certain things.
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And, and I, I just said to this person, you know, you'll never
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find the perfect church. And, and if you want to find a
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church that's just legalistic about everything and has a
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million rules about everything that you need to be doing and
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not doing. And you're just never going to
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find a church that you agree with on everything.
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And This is why this conversation is so helpful
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because, you know, we think we're a biblically faithful
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church. And so we would encourage people
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to come here. We, we think that here at LEMC,
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you can grow spiritually. And we're, we're continuing to
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grow. We, we realize that we're not
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perfect, but we think that people can grow spiritually here
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at this church. And whatever church that is,
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even if it's another church in town or another church in the
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area that you feel like is good to go to, so long as you think
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they're rooted in the gospel and you think it's a place that you
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can grow spiritually. You see the ministries and the
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way they function, that they're rooted on the right things.
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You may, you're not going to agree with everything they
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believe or everything the pastor believes.
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If there's going to be somebody on the leadership team that
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thinks differently or whatever, you're going to have different
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beliefs, but you need to have some way to say, you know what,
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but this is a good, solid church.
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I may not agree with everything, but I think this is a place
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where I can root my family and we can grow.
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And so that's really where the rubber hits the road with this
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conversation where you're not going to find a perfect church
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and you know this, but it is a place.
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You can grow. Yeah.
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The reason, the reason Moeller wrote that article in the 1st
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place is he came into Southern Seminary and it was extremely
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liberal theologically. There were professors on staff
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that didn't believe in the physical resurrection at the
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time. And that's the kind of thing
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that like he had to like address on the front end.
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Like these are the core things you have to believe in order to
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be a professor here. So he fired a bunch of people,
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which caused a bunch of problems.
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But this is like what we have to, we have to make sure like
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you have to believe that the resurrection was real, like
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Jesus was physically raised. You have to believe that the
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incarnation was real, like Jesus was born to a virgin, like the
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virgin birth was true. Those are the, like you, these
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are things that you have the whole salvation story, the, the
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story of Jesus Christ as it's portrayed in the Gospels.
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Those are things you have to believe.
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You know, we have to believe that in order to be a Christian.
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Everything else is, I mean, really everything else we can,
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we can, we can talk about. And, and so I hope that was
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helpful conversation. I think it was for me anyway,
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just to talk about it some more for the, for the question that
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came through. I hope that was something that
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was helpful. Yeah, go ahead.
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Expository preaching kind of naturally helps a church stay on
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that path because churches who maybe pick their topics that
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they're talking about, they're going to pick topics that
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they're passionate about, they're naturally going to be
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swayed by their their bias about the.
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Body but. When you're just going through
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it, you have to deal with topics that you're maybe not sure of or
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and even for as a, as a listener of the preaching here, like it's
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made me have to to deal with issues that I hadn't thought of
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before because you're not just hearing the the classic sermons
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each year that are important. To the church leadership.
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You're you're just going through everything and you deal with it.
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As a yeah, that's true. And sometimes you just have to
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say, I think Pastor Jake said it this way.
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Sometimes you just have to say, I don't know and it's OK, right?
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It is OK. Like we have sometimes there
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just comes to a point where you like you, it's time to preach.
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And I haven't formed my view on this yet.
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And sometimes you either have to read over it or you have to just
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like, say, you know what? I, I really don't know.
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This requires more study. But Paul's general point is
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this. And I think he did a great job
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with that this week. It was what I'd like to hear
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more. Yeah.
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I mean, I think everybody wants to know.
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Like, that was a hard verse that he had to talk about.
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Like we were talking about earlier, the one about baptizing
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on behalf of others that are dead.
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I don't know. It's hard.
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What I would like to hear. Heard more.
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Yes. But I, I don't know that I'd
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have done any better. Like sometimes you just have to
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say, you know what? I don't know, this requires more
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study. 23 other people won't know either.
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So let's just figure out what Paul's really the big picture is
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and and go there. And that's what expository
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preaching does. It humbles you like that.
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Like when he's, when you were talking about that, I was
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thinking because before I was like, man, I really wish we
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could have gotten into that because I was like, I wanted to
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know, but it humbles you because I don't know what I would have
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said either. And don't pretend you know,
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because that's what exactly. I'm OK with you picking a
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position and saying, hey, I this is where I like leaned off the
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strongest. You've done that before, Pastor
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Joe, where you say, you know, there's room for like for us to
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figure this out. But right now in my thinking,
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this is what I think is the strongest thing.
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That's OK too. But I think that's that's what
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exposes, it humbles you. Well, and that's that's the
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hardest part about it, right, because like, you know, with
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this verse is it is it going to impact the way we live?
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I I don't, I don't know how much like baptizing, you know, people
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being baptized in the path bath the dead.
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I don't know. But when you come to other
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topics where I think that's where it gets really hard
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because I'm realizing that I'm having to say something about it
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and it may influence people in the decisions that they make,
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massive decisions they make in their life, right.
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And so there's. 450 adults that are listening on Sunday morning
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in person who you're influencing.
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Exactly. And so it's like you feel the
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weight of it, right? And it's, it's heavy.
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And so you, you want to do the best that you can.
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But I think at the same time, sort of like you said, like you,
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you want to be able to say something, right?
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You don't want to, you realize that it's your job, right?
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Right. And that sounds bad to say it
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that way, but God has called you to to shepherd and to lead.
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And so you want to do that as faithfully as you can.
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But we recognize that we're fallen and we're sinful, and we
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can be wrong. Yeah, and I, but I think like
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to, to Jake's credit, I think that the humility shown there
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like to say, I don't know the answer to this question.
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That's a big thing. Like it's and it's, I think it's
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important for a, for for us to project to our people is to say,
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you know what? We don't have every single
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answer. Like pastors are infallible.
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The word is, you know, is not. And so like, I mean, maybe I
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said it the wrong is we are fallible.
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Excuse me. And the word is infallible.
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So like we just have to take like I loved what he said.
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Like we can't build a theology on this one verse.
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Like we it would be very dangerous for us to say this is
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this is the the gospel truth when there is so much room for
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for conversation about it. Like what is Paul talking about?
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Is this something that that they were doing in court that we
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don't really have a clear picture about?
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And maybe that's helpful to decipher what issues are
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primary, because those issues that we set our primary, it's
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not hard to dig through the Bible and be like, OK, it's
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pretty clear what's right here. But when, when it's very
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unclear, then you know, God wouldn't leave us like his his
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word is good. It's complete like it's, it
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lacks nothing. He wouldn't leave us wondering
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on an issue that's. That's right.
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That's this as far as I know. And you, you, you said this
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earlier, Anthony was like, as far as I know, this, this hasn't
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brought up anywhere else. And so it's like it's, it'd be
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hard for me to like to say something like very
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authoritative on it, right? We have to remember this is also
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helpful for us to understand context.
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Like we need to understand that letters are written to a
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specific people, specific time for a specific reason.
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So he's addressing something that we may not be Privy to.
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So anyway, we're almost at 50 minutes, which is crazy.
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I wanted to ask Anthony. Anthony, you are leading our one
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of the youth leaders for our youth group.
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How's it been going? You got you got like 5 or 6 kids
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that are showing up on this on a random Friday night or.
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Yeah, we've got a few more than that.
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So last, like before this new school year, we were averaging
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around 4040 to 50 on a really busy Friday.
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That's a lot of kids. And since September, I think the
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first week we were back, we were close to 90.
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That's a lot more kids. 90 kids and so we've just seen, you
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know, a huge a huge jump in in numbers, a lot of new grade
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nines and even just people bring in their friends.
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So that's been interesting to navigate for sure.
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It was already a lot of kids and we already didn't have, you
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know, the enough leaders to to really pour into these kids.
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So to go and double that number, but really keep our leaders the
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same. It's been challenging, but it's
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also we're thankful that God has blessed the ministry with with
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these kids to to hear the gospel and that we can pour into.
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So it's, it's been challenging, but we're yeah, like I.
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Said So if you're an LEMC member or someone who attends here
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faithfully and you would like to serve in the youth group, I'm
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here and Anthony say we need more youth volunteers.
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Even bigger than that, we, we met with someone to sort of help
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us navigate these new numbers and we asked him, like, how do
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we, how do we get more leaders? Like what are we doing wrong?
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And he, he pointed out a verse in Matthew that just talks about
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how the harvest is plenty, but the workers are few.
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And we're urged to, to pray for, for more workers.
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And I was really convicted by that because I find it really
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easy to complain about a lack of leaders, but how often am I
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praying, praying for more leaders?
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So that's, I guess that's kind of my commitment to, to the
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church is that I'm, I'm committing to praying for, for
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more leaders. And all I would ask that, you
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know, our listeners would do is to be doing the same.
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But pray for if you feel a call on your heart, pray, pray about
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that. Ponder on that.
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And also, even if you don't want to help, just pray that there
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would be more help. Well, and the biggest thing that
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I maybe just to, to flesh out a little bit for people what, what
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would be required of them, because I think people want to
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know what's entailed, right? So you guys beat it on Friday
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nights. But I think the biggest thing
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that we guys are looking for is people who are willing to, to
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come to be there to help lead, but to build relationships,
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right? It's, it's not that they don't
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they, you know, they don't need people to lead devotions.
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You're not going to be asked to lead devotions.
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You're not going to, but basically just that you need
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help there or just keeping all the kids in check, but building
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relationships. And so like if, if, if you enjoy
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having conversations with like teenage age kids, high school
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age kids, right? Just getting to know them,
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talking to them, building relationships, having
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connections and just. Yeah, or if you wish you had
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someone like that when you were a teenager.
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Right, That's something to think about too.
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Like if, like if you enjoy it, that's one thing.
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Maybe I didn't. Maybe I don't enjoy it.
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I'm just saying I don't enjoy it.
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If I if I had that desire, like when I was a teenager, some
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older man like would be able to like give me wisdom.
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I could like I needed a mentor. I mean, there's no, I can't
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count many times in my mind I thought, man, I really need a
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mentor. I really need a mentor.
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And like, if you've ever felt like that, be that mentor for
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someone. So anyway.
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And I think it's, I know our evangelism team obviously goes
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out on Thursdays and maybe some people are, are kind of
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terrified of sharing the gospel with, you know, strangers.
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But I think this is a really good opportunity.
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Like these kids are choosing to come to church or maybe their
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parents are making them. But either way, they know what
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they're coming to. They are expecting to hear the
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gospel. So you're not going to have
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like, you can come and learn how to share the gospel with people
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who want it and who are are coming for that.
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Yeah, maybe they don't want it, but they at least they expect
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it, right? They're.
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They're not going to like be shocked if you go up to them and
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share the like. They're not going to, you're not
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going to get any crazy embarrassing reactions.
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The worst thing they're going to do is they're going to ignore
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you, whatever. So I think it's a really good
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competition, yeah. Yeah, although I think it
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approximately. So maybe I'll be worth so much.
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I just don't speak their language anymore.
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They speak English words and. I what are you?
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I mean, you're only like, you're only like 2323 and you don't
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speak their language. I they say words and I, I don't
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know. What they If he's 23 and he
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doesn't understand, Joe, you and I are.
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We're done. No, that's good.
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So I have a question for you about youth and maybe you've had
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time to think about this. I did prep you so you'd have
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some kind of idea of what I'm going to ask.
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Prep is a stretch I've prepped. In like 2 minutes before 2
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minutes before we hit record, you've had 50 minutes to think
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about this. OK, Like what is like, we can
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talk about all sorts of issues that teenagers face in our, in
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our current culture, But like, sometimes I think like we, we
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may be talking about things that they aren't really concerned
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with. Like maybe like there's a
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different bubble that they're in, you know what I mean?
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Like think about like the identity stuff and transgender
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issues, all those different things.
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And maybe they are important to our kids, but like maybe not.
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And so anything you are with them week in, week out as one of
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our youth leaders, what is like the like what you would say is
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like one of the biggest issues that that our youth here at LEMC
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are facing in their current life.
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Yeah. I would say there's there's
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obviously still those those typical issues that I think you
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would think of like for guys, you know, struggling with lust
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or pornography, like that's still that's still very, very
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prevalent. It's just it's a lot easier to
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get to now. So that's kind of a whole
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nother. Another thing to deal with.
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I think there is issues like identity is a big a big one, and
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I do think some of that is US putting them putting that on
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them. Like, I don't know if they would
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feel like that's their biggest issue.
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But I guess just a big thing that I've noticed is there's
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just so many distractions in in life these days.
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It's really hard to spend your time wisely.
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And especially as as young, young people, like it takes a
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lot of time to to build good habits and with how easy it is
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to get to your phone. And I think we just naturally,
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we all we need to be entertained these days like never before.
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And so it just seems like they struggle to just slow down and
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just be bored and desire, you know, reading their Bible rather
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than just going out and, you know, spending time with friends
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or whatever, which is like, I'm not going to act like that's not
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what I did when I was like, it's I'm not going to say that
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they're way worse off than we were.
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Like, I think you always look back and think, oh, I was never
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that that bad. But I think if you would really
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think about it like they're no worse off than than we were in a
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lot of ways. But I guess, yeah, the social
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media part and just fitting in with friends and and stuff like
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that, I think it's maybe a bigger struggle than than ever.
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What do you think? What do you think the answer is?
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As a parent like I'm you, you're a parent now too.
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I think it, it comes down to, I think family worship getting
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back to that, because I think if your goal, I'm kind of speaking
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to the parents here, if your goal in sending your kid to
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youth is that they'll get, you know, their weekly fill of the
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Bible and discipleship. I would urge you to rethink what
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you're doing at home because we have two hours, like there's not
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much we can do. They're going to fill their time
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with a lot more things throughout the week.
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Then, and that's such a good word.
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And yeah, appreciate brother. And so, yeah, like we, we don't
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have the power to, you know, lead your, your children to
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Christ. Neither do you.
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But you do play a big role in what they're spending their time
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on. So if I know family worship is
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really hard to make consistent, but I, I think if we don't do
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that, we're yeah, we're not setting our, our children up for
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much success, I guess I would say.
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Yeah, I had just recently been on the road.
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I just got back last night and one of the most annoying things
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that happened on this trip, there were a lot of annoying
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things. I was in the car with my wife
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and our four kids for like a total of like 32 hours there and
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back, plus all the different like running around.
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I think like we lived in our car, but like one of the one of
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the ways. What do you do, Joe?
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If you're in the car for a long time, what do you what do you
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offer your kids as a way to pass the time?
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Looking out. The window Joe, you're being too
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you're trying to be too holy. Watch a movie, watch a movie.
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And so like we did that and I regret it because Ezra, our two
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year old, if I hear, I want to watch Spidey on your phone one
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more time, I want to watch Spidey on your phone.
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I want to watch Spidey on your phone.
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Like like he would wake up from a nap and say, like he would
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wake up the first thing he'd say, I want to watch Spidey on
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your phone. And I'm like, we did that to
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them. Like we did that to him his like
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we're programming him to your point to want like entertainment
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and to feel like every minute needs to be filled with
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entertainment. Your comment about looking out
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the window is what we did. Like you're thinking about what
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did your dad make you do? Like your dad?
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Like I can remember, like we had a a white Chevrolet station
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wagon with a red vinyl interior. And I can remember there were
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like 32 scenes between me and my sister.
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Like the only you know, you don't want to know.
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You want to know how I know that is because I counted them
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thousands of times because I was bored in the car.
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Like we need to learn to be bored, but we need to teach our
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kids that too. I think it's very like you hit
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on really something really good, like all this stuff.
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The reason our kids want to like dive into this, like what the
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world is saying to them is because that's who's disciple in
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there. We're allowing them to be
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discipled by their devices, by whoever controls the social
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media, which is not, they're not looking for out for their best
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interests. They're looking out to see if
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they can keep them on the device more and more.
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So, So like there's a whole bunch of problems like they're
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the kids see that, Oh, this is the way I'm supposed to act.
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This is this. I should, I should, oh, maybe I,
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I feel like I should be a girl. Whatever, you know, those
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things, they start to have those thoughts to creep in or this is
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what a woman should look like. And so they're, they're like
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their idea of what a wife or a girlfriend should be is twisted
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by this worldly view of like whatever the sexual revolution
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is telling them, right. And so man, I, I just like, we
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got home last night and I'm like, we got to start family
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worship back out. You know, we got I, I literally
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said that in that's why when you said that, I was like, I, I it
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was confirmation for me, like because I have to.
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Take ownership of the discipleship for my kids and my
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wife. Yeah, and myself in a lot of
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ways. But like, I think it's very
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important. If we don't disciple our kids,
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the world is going. To yeah, you see.
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What do we want to disciple the man?
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And somehow we're like you said about, you know, needing to be
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entertained. Somehow we're shocked when our
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kids fall into that. But then you look back and
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you're like, oh, that's I like, I gave that to them.
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I, why am I shocked that they, they want to watch TV all the
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time or they want to do this like exactly.
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Their thoughts are very malleable and they are like,
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they are going to take on take in a lot.
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Like they're not stubborn old people that won't change their,
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their mind like their kids. They, they're going to consume a
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lot. They're going to learn a lot.
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And it's up to you where they're going to get that from.
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And I think you, you want that to be you discipling them, you
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teaching them the word. Because if you don't, somebody
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else will. Their friends will their.
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Yeah, that's good. Yeah.
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That's very convicted folks who are listening, like if you've
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had any reservations about sending your kids to youth, like
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you should send them because they're going to get good
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quality teaching like from Anthony Fair and from from the
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other leaders. So dude, thank you so much.
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It's been a joy to have you with us today.
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Do you have anything you like today to share, Joe or no?
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Did I? Did you fail?
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Did. You fail.
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Oh. Man.
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Oh, you just got that new book. That I just brought you from the
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from the bookstore that you haven't.
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I haven't looked at it yet. No, I I don't have anything
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right now that I can think of. OK, I do have one thing that you
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could that that if you're interested in an Advent
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devotion, I just received one in the mail.
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I started it two years ago because today's the third day of
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Advent. It's called the God who is with
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us, 25 day devotional for Advent written by Ronnie Martin.
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It's excellent so far. I commend that to you, to you
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all. Oh, there's actually one.
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I I crossway just sent one out too for kids.
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So well, it's like for parents and kids, but it's the God, the
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devotions. 25 days worth and printable ornaments that like
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kids can color and hang on the tree.
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So you sort of learn the principle and then you color the
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ornament hanging on the tree. So it sort of gets the kids
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involved. It talking about family worship.
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It's actually be a really great resource.
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Is that available to everybody? Yeah.
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I'm pretty sure it was. Free.
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Yeah, free. Free is good.
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It's always good. If it's free, give me 3.
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You can have three I could like as much as you want.
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So very good. So we'll put those things in the
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show notes, links to those things.
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But yeah, so we started last week ending on prayer.
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Do you mind praying for us, Anthony, as we as we close out
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the podcast today? Dear Heavenly Father, I want to
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come before you and I just want to thank you for this day that
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you've blessed us with. I thank you for this podcast and
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for our church leaders that are striving to faithfully lead our
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church biblically. I thank you for their
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faithfulness to the Word and their willingness to take extra
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time during the week to give us even more material and help us
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really dig into our Bibles and understanding what what these
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texts mean. And I just pray that you would
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give them endurance and strength as they continue to do that and,
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and patience as they work through that.
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And I thank you for your son Jesus, who died on the cross for
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for us, he paid the penalty that we deserved.
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And he also defeated death and he was raised from the dead.
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And we are invited now to have relationship with you.
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We also will one day be resurrected.
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And even if if we're not, if there's non believers, they will
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be resurrected to but to death and we will be resurrected to
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life. And I just pray that that would
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give us a desire to share your gospel with, with anybody around
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us, wherever we might be at work, at school, that you would
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help us to take those opportunities to share the
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wonderful hope that we have in Jesus Christ, our our Savior.
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And, and just pray that you would bring up helpers for our
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senior youth. God, if there's anybody that's
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listening to this podcast that has been thinking about it, I
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just pray that you would continue to, to work in their
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hearts to, to answer that call to be obedient.
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And even if they're not going to help with youth, God that
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they're serving somewhere, that they're sharing the gospel
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somewhere and discipling people around them like you have called
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us to. So I just thank you again for
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this day. And I pray that you would go
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with us from here and throughout this week, that you would help
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us to dig into our Bibles and learn more about you and and
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your, your truth, greatest in your name, Amen.
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Amen. Thanks for joining us.
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We'll see you next week.