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Bargaining With God (Jake Enns)

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  1. One summer day, some families wanted to go blueberry picking.

  2. The one family had a few younger children who were too young to

  3. help and so they were dropped off at a babysitter.

  4. There was one young little boy, maybe aged 4 or so.

  5. He was not happy at having to stay with the babysitter and he

  6. put up a lot of resistance. Verbally he fussed and

  7. complained, but to no avail. He was little, he had no power.

  8. His words of protest fell on deaf ears.

  9. He had to stay at the babysitter.

  10. The babysitter was an older girl, mature, and she tried her

  11. best to calm him down, to bargain with him, offering him

  12. candy and what not, to get him to comply.

  13. I don't want candy, I want to go blueberry picking, he

  14. complained. But he had to stay.

  15. Nothing to be done. Sometime later that morning,

  16. maybe mid morning toward lunch, the young boy came up to the

  17. babysitter. The girl says, Now I would

  18. already want the candy you wanted to offer me earlier.

  19. The bargaining cards were not with him, they were with a

  20. babysitter. Too often in life we forget to

  21. hold the cards and so we do that.

  22. And so our sermon title this morning is bargaining with God.

  23. You ever done that? Ever pray something?

  24. Lord, if you will, then I will. If you will do this for me, then

  25. I will do that for you. Ever done that?

  26. I'm not saying it's sin to bargain with God in that sense.

  27. But what if the promises we make are wrong?

  28. What if the promises we make are not thought through well?

  29. And we thought, oh, what did I promise?

  30. We're continuing our sermon series this morning in the book

  31. of Judges. And in the next few sermons,

  32. we'll be covering longer portions of Scripture, so we'll

  33. be skipping some parts. Last Sunday, we finished the

  34. life of Gideon and his son Abimelech.

  35. When Gideon died, Abimelech came on the scene and we learned that

  36. he wasn't very bad leader, a very evil man.

  37. He had a very tragic end. Well, after Abimelech, there's a

  38. man named Tola, and then there's Jair.

  39. Very little is mentioned. They only have a few verses, and

  40. so we will skip those leaders. In today's passage, we find the

  41. people of Israel again in a time of idolatry.

  42. And the main character of the story this morning is a man

  43. named Jephthah. And in today's scripture we will

  44. find quite a bit of bargaining going on.

  45. One commentator that I read mentions there's five different

  46. episodes of bargaining happening from chapter 10, verse 6 to

  47. chapter 12, verse 7. Bargaining with God is something

  48. that many people did in the Old Testament.

  49. People still do today. But for instance, I'll mention

  50. one in the book of Samuel, chapter one, we find the story

  51. of Hannah praying in the temple. She's childless and saying to

  52. God, if you will give me a son, I will dedicate him to you.

  53. And God blessed her, gave her a son, and she dedicated him to

  54. the Lord. That's not sin, that's not

  55. wrong, but we have to be very careful when we make promises to

  56. God. What kind of promises do we make

  57. and are they honoring to Him? On what do they all imply?

  58. So let's begin reading this morning out of chapter 10, verse

  59. 6 in your Bibles to the end of verse 16, and we will go all the

  60. way through chapter 12, verse 7 towards the end beginning of

  61. chapter 10, verse 6. Then the children of Israel

  62. again did evil in the sight of the Lord and served the Bales

  63. and Astaroths, the gods of Syria, the gods of Sidon, the

  64. gods of Moab, the gods of the people of Ammon, the gods of the

  65. Philistines. They forsook the Lord and did

  66. not serve Him. So the Lord anger of the Lord

  67. was hot against Israel, and He sold them into the hands of the

  68. Philistines and into the hands of the people of Ammon.

  69. From that year they harassed and oppressed the children of Israel

  70. for 18 years, all the children of Israel who were on the other

  71. side of the Jordan in the land of the Amorites in Gilead.

  72. Moreover, the people of Ammon crossed over the Jordan to fight

  73. against Judah, also against Benjamin and against the House

  74. of Ephraim, so that Israel was severely distressed.

  75. And the children of Israel cried out to the Lord, saying, We have

  76. sinned against you because we have both forsaken our God and

  77. served the bails. So the Lord said to the children

  78. of Israel, did I not deliver you from the Egyptians and from the

  79. Amorites, from the people of Ammon and from the Philistines

  80. also the Sidonians and Amalekites and Mayonites

  81. oppressed you, and you cried out to me, and I delivered you from

  82. their hand. Yet you've forsaken me and

  83. served other gods. Therefore I will deliver you no

  84. more. Go and cry out to the gods which

  85. you've chosen. Let them deliver you in your

  86. time of distress. And the children of Israel said

  87. to the Lord, We have sinned due to us.

  88. Whatever seems best to you, only deliver us this day, we pray.

  89. So they put away the foreign gods from among them and serve

  90. the Lord, and his soul could no longer endure the misery of

  91. Israel. Let's pause there.

  92. Notice the prayer in verse 15. We have sinned due to us.

  93. Whatever seems best to you, only deliver us this day.

  94. We pray. They're bargaining.

  95. They're praying. Do as you see fit.

  96. What's the first thing we notice here?

  97. Surrender, the first thing that has to come into place if we

  98. want to come on to God's side, we have to surrender.

  99. We have sinned. Do to us whatever seems best to

  100. you. Only deliver us this day.

  101. We pray. That's desperation.

  102. See, they are now where they should have been before they

  103. started worshipping idols. Before we look at how bad their

  104. situation was, let's look at back again what had happened

  105. that made it so bad. So let's go back to verse 6.

  106. It tells us in verse 6 they did evil in the sight of the Lord

  107. and served the bails #2, the Ashtaroths.

  108. And each of these nations that mentions here had their own

  109. group of gods. The gods of Syria, the gods of

  110. Sidon, the gods of Moab, the gods of Ammon, the gods of the

  111. Philistines. They forsook the Lord, did not

  112. serve him. Seven different God groups are

  113. mentioned here. They had completely, totally

  114. immersed themselves in the cultures around them.

  115. Most likely there was not one idol they did not embrace.

  116. They blended in well. You know how it worked well in

  117. the first little while? Probably until it didn't.

  118. Why 7? Why 7 different groups?

  119. Again, going back to some commentators that you say that

  120. the number 7 is often used as a symbol of completeness in

  121. Scripture. So basically saying there's

  122. nothing they didn't do, they did it all.

  123. They had fallen perhaps to the lowest that this that they had

  124. ever been. We do not find the children of

  125. Israel ever having fallen lower than they were at this point.

  126. And as we go through the story of Judges, we find toward the

  127. end, it gets really, really, really bad.

  128. It was worse now than it had been.

  129. It was going to get worse yet down on.

  130. But let's go to this story today.

  131. So the cycle of oppression began again.

  132. They embraced all these idols. And in time, it went badly.

  133. For 18 years they came under oppression.

  134. But you know, something in their minds, they remembered.

  135. They knew they had not forgotten.

  136. They had forgotten God, but not forgotten.

  137. They cried out to who? The God they rejected.

  138. It's interesting how people conveniently brush God aside in

  139. life when it's to their advantage to brush him aside,

  140. only to later beg him. Get Me Out of this mess that I'm

  141. in. Please rescue me.

  142. You know what they do after God says Nope, I'm not going to

  143. rescue you. You go cry to those gods you

  144. worship. You go after them now you know

  145. what they do. We're 16.

  146. So they put away the foreign gods from among them.

  147. They clean house. They serve the Lord and God.

  148. True to his character, his soul could no longer endure the

  149. misery of Israel. He's always a God of compassion

  150. and mercy whenever people surrender.

  151. But he holds the cards. They ended the idol worship.

  152. They ended it. Did they just somehow now

  153. realize it was wrong? No.

  154. They knew all along it was wrong.

  155. But it was attractive, it was tempting, and they fell for it.

  156. They knew exactly what they'd done, and before they could

  157. expect God to rescue him, they had to do something.

  158. The lesson here is this. For 300 years by now they had

  159. been a nation in Canaan. They knew what happened before

  160. they had the history. But it's so tempting and this

  161. will work. The lessons of history were not

  162. gone. They knew them.

  163. God reminded them. And now God says, I'm not going

  164. to rescue you. But then they repent, then they

  165. change, they surrender. You know, isn't it amazing how

  166. people know the right thing to do when they get desperate?

  167. There's always this thing when children disobey.

  168. They don't know exactly what Mom and Dad instructed, what mom and

  169. Dad said. And then when they get caught,

  170. then they bargain, then they want mercy.

  171. But now, having repented, you know, something that did not

  172. change the circumstances, that did not yet get them out of

  173. their situation, they still needed help.

  174. I've sometimes said this in the past.

  175. Nobody needs any help in messing up their life.

  176. We could all do that by ourselves.

  177. If anyone tries to tell us you mind your own business, who are

  178. you to judge me? But later, when life has fallen

  179. apart, then we want help. I'm sorry, can you help me?

  180. I did because and I didn't know. And excuses.

  181. When we finally realized excuses do not work, then the next step,

  182. hey, I know I was wrong, but I said sorry.

  183. I apologized. That's not repentance.

  184. That's demanding. If we do the right thing, we let

  185. down our guard. We simply say something.

  186. Look, I know I'm responsible. I sinned.

  187. I put myself at your mercy. Do to me as you see fit.

  188. Please rescue me this day. That's the prayer.

  189. They should have prayed a lot earlier.

  190. They had rebelled. They had worshiped idols.

  191. Their lives are in a mess now. They're getting ready to get rid

  192. of the mess now. They owned it.

  193. But that doesn't fix the mess. That doesn't get them out of the

  194. mess. They have their mess.

  195. They own their mess. Now they need to deal with it.

  196. Let's continue reading verse 17. Then the people of Ammon

  197. gathered together, the very guys who oppressed them.

  198. They gathered together and camped in Gilead, and the

  199. children of Israel assembled together and encamped in Mizpah,

  200. their idols. They had embraced them,

  201. worshiped them, and a bunch of others.

  202. Those very people had oppressed them.

  203. Now there's a mess. Now they're going to fight

  204. against them. A war was coming, verse 18, and

  205. the people, the leaders of Gilead said to one another,

  206. who's the man who will begin the fight against the people of

  207. Ammon? He shall behead over all the

  208. inhabitants of Gilead. They got rid of the idols.

  209. They're back to to godly worship the life they had behave

  210. themselves into. They now have to fight their way

  211. out. They're in a situation where

  212. it's only going to be a very painful way back to freedom.

  213. You see, it's like I've said in the past, you can dig yourself

  214. into a hole. You can't dig yourself out.

  215. You need help to get out. It takes a lot of effort here.

  216. They are oppressed. Now they're going to have to

  217. fight. In Chapter 11.

  218. There's a little small insert into the story.

  219. It's it's something that's kind of by itself just gives us a bit

  220. of a backdrop into the character of the guy we're going to talk

  221. about. Let's read 11 Chapter 1 now.

  222. Jephthah the Gileadite was a mighty man of valor, but he was

  223. the son of a harlot, and Gilead begot Jephthah.

  224. Gilead's wife bore sons, and when his wife's sons grew up,

  225. they drove Jephthah out and said to him, You shall have no

  226. inheritance in her father's house, for you are the son of

  227. another woman. Then Jephthah fled from his

  228. brothers and dwelt in the land of Tobe, and worthless men

  229. banded together with Jephthah and went out raiding with him.

  230. This story is just a tiny insert giving the backdrop of the

  231. leader that the people of Israel would end up calling to help

  232. them out of the mess that got themselves into says in verse 4.

  233. And it came to pass after a time that the people of Ammon made

  234. war against Israel. So here in verse 4, now we're

  235. back to the end of the story in chapter 10, the last part there.

  236. Now here in verse 5 and Chapter 11, it says, and so it was when

  237. the people of Ammon made war against Israel that the elders

  238. of Gilead went to get Jephthah from the land of Tob.

  239. They said to Jephthah, come and be our commander that we may

  240. fight against the people of Ammon.

  241. Now who holds the cards? Listen, we're 7.

  242. So Jephthah said to the elders of Gilead, Do you, did you not

  243. hate me and expel me from my father's house?

  244. Why have you come to me now when you're in trouble, in distress?

  245. And the elders of Gilead said to Jephthah, That is why we've

  246. turned to you again, to you now that you may go with us and

  247. fight against the people of Ammon and be our head over all

  248. the inhabitants of Gilead. You see the back and forth,

  249. verse 9. So Jephthah said to the elders

  250. of Gilead, if you take me back home to fight against the people

  251. of Ammon, and the Lord delivers them to me, shall I be your

  252. head? That's the card here.

  253. We see this going on, verse 10, And the elders of Gilead said to

  254. Jephthah, the Lord will be a witness.

  255. No more idle talk. The Lord will be a witness

  256. between us if we do not do according to your words.

  257. Notice the reference. They had not forgotten.

  258. They turned back to God. Now here's the reference point,

  259. verse 11. Then Jephthah went with the

  260. elders of Gilead, and the people made him head and commander over

  261. them, and Jephthah spoke all his words before the Lord in Mizpah.

  262. Now they're back on track. They got this agreement, they

  263. got the arrangement. Now it's going to work.

  264. See, back in the earlier years when the elders of Gilead, his

  265. brothers, rejected him and threw him out, it probably never

  266. crossed their minds. Oh boy, we may need this guy one

  267. day. We may have to go back to him.

  268. He was a man of valor who's very brave, very courageous.

  269. He had, he had, he had, he had. He's a very daring man.

  270. But now when the idol worship had got them in this mess and

  271. they had now repented and turned back to the Lord, it's enough to

  272. fight their way back to freedom. They have to.

  273. They already humble themselves. Now they go back all small and

  274. little. And you know what that points us

  275. to? To the next point here

  276. demonstrate humility. It wasn't easy to convince

  277. Jephthah. He had remembered, he had not

  278. forgotten, he reminds them. But the balance of power now

  279. rested with him. Just to recap, first the nation

  280. had rebelled, gone into idol worship, 18 years of oppression,

  281. life was a mess. They wanted God's help, God's

  282. reluctant to help. Then they totally repent.

  283. God then gets going with this. And so they begged God and God

  284. provides. But the man able and qualified

  285. to do the job, None other than Jephtah the rejected 1.

  286. He'd been treated very badly. But now when things are dark,

  287. can you help us? Jephthah had conditions, he has

  288. boundaries. Let's continue reading in

  289. Jephthah in Judges chapter 1110 eleven verse 12.

  290. Now Jephthah gets to work. Jephthah sent messengers to the

  291. king of the people of Ammon saying, what do you have against

  292. me that you've come to fight against me in my land?

  293. He's taking total ownership. He's the leader now, and he's

  294. going to start with conversation.

  295. He's the leader and verse 12 and on to down to verse 28.

  296. I won't read all of that. We have this exchange through

  297. letters, people bringing letters to the king of Ammon, The king

  298. of Ammon bringing letters back to Jephthah, and this

  299. conversation is going on. Jephthah is trying to reason

  300. with the king of Ammon to avoid war.

  301. He doesn't want war, war, but he's the leader now, so he will

  302. do what he can to avoid it. Nothing works in the end.

  303. King of Ammon is convinced, Nope, the land you took from us

  304. and it wasn't actually true. If you read the story, it's not

  305. how it happened. The king of Ammon is not honest

  306. and he's trying to convince Jeff that, yeah, you took my land.

  307. Jeff, this says, no, we didn't. We took what God gave us and we

  308. didn't actually take your land, somebody else's land.

  309. And the king of Ammon just wants it now.

  310. And then verse 27, Judges Chapter 11, verse 27 says,

    Judges 11:27

  311. therefore Jephthah is saying I've not sinned against you, but

  312. you wronged me by fighting against me.

  313. So Jephthah is taking this really personal.

  314. May the Lord the judge render judgment this day between the

  315. children of Israel and the people of Ammon.

  316. The die is cast. Whoever the king of Ammon did

  317. not heed the words Jephtah sent him.

  318. Well, now the next thing that we need to see what's important

  319. here. It's easy to talk.

  320. What is even heavier is when you actually need to do something

  321. and now the fighting will begin. So you have to have courage.

  322. First there was a surrender by the people and they had to

  323. humble themselves. Now it will take courage.

  324. It's easy to give way to fear in difficult times, but fear is

  325. something that just somehow doesn't have.

  326. He has courage. The king had insisted, Nope,

  327. it's my land, I'm going to take it.

  328. And Jephthah says no. And now the next step is battle.

  329. Let's read on to chapter Chapter 11, verse 29.

  330. We'll continue on. Then the Spirit of the Lord came

  331. upon Jephtah, and he passed through Gilead and Manasseh and

  332. passed through Mizbah of Gilead. And from Mizbah to Gilead he

  333. advanced toward the people of Ammon.

  334. Now let's pay careful attention to what happens here.

  335. Jephtah has some flaws of his own.

  336. Verse 30 And Jephthah made a vow to the Lord and said, if you

  337. will indeed deliver the people of Ammon into my hands, then it

  338. will be that whatever comes out of the doors of my house to meet

  339. me when I return in peace from the people of Ammon, surely

  340. shall surely be the Lords, and I will OfferUp as a burnt

  341. offering. Wow, let's read verse 30 again.

  342. If you will indeed deliver the people of Ammon into my hands in

  343. verse 31, then it will be that whatever comes out of the doors

  344. of my house to meet me when I return in peace from the people

  345. of Ammon shall be surely be the Lords, and I will offer it as a

  346. burnt offering. Did God tell him to do that?

  347. No, God didn't tell him to do that.

  348. He did that kind of as a bargaining with God.

  349. God never told him to do that and it would backfire.

  350. Well, let's continue reading Judges Chapter 11 verse 32 now

    Judges 11:32

  351. so Jeff that advanced toward the people of Ammon to fight against

  352. them and the Lord delivered them into his hands.

  353. The Lord did and he defeated them from a roar as far as

  354. minutes 20 cities and to Abel Karamim with a very great

  355. slaughter. Thus the people of Ammon were

  356. subdued before the children of Israel.

  357. So far so good. Verse 34.

  358. When Jephthah came to his house at Mizpah, there was his

  359. daughter coming out to meet him with timbrels and dancing, and

  360. she was his only child. Besides her he had neither son

  361. nor daughter. And it came to pass when he saw

  362. her, he tore his clothes and said, Alas, my daughter, you've

  363. brought me very low. You're among those who trouble

  364. me, for I've given my word to the Lord and I cannot go back on

  365. it. Let's stop there.

  366. Did he think this through when he made that promise?

  367. Did he think that the chances could be his only daughter would

  368. come out of the door? What was he expecting?

  369. Was he expecting an animal? One speaker listened to me to

  370. mention that the Israelites in those days, their houses often

  371. were built in a way. The animals and the people live

  372. in the same house, except the different ends are in the animal

  373. and was a bit lower than they were and where the people were

  374. at. So that could have been was

  375. expecting maybe a goat or a sheep, could have been, we don't

  376. know. We're not told what he was

  377. expecting, but we do know what he was not expecting.

  378. He was not expecting his daughter.

  379. That much we do know. You see, when we make promises,

  380. we need to be ever so careful to think through what we promise.

  381. So next point, promise carefully.

  382. God had not told Jeff to make that vow.

  383. And the story gets very complex. It's very difficult.

  384. Not everything is clear in this story and I won't read the rest

  385. of Chapter 11. But to summarize, his daughter

  386. was a submissive surrendered girl and she didn't ask to be

  387. spared from what her father had vowed to God he would do with

  388. her or to her. So she asked her father for

  389. permission to take a two-month leave and go with her friends

  390. and mourn her virginity because she would never marry and have

  391. children. It tells us in the end of

  392. Chapter 11, at the end of those two months, just that did to her

  393. as he had vowed to God. It's a tragic story.

  394. In studying this, what I found interesting is different

  395. commentators come to polar opposite conclusions of what

  396. actually did happen. They're commentators who, on the

  397. one hand, are fully convinced that Jephthah did in fact kill

  398. his daughter and offer her as a burnt offering on an altar to

  399. the Lord. Well, that's weird.

  400. That's strange, and commentators give their reasons as follows

  401. and the reasons they give why they believe that is human

  402. sacrifice was widely practiced in Canaanite culture, in the

  403. Canaanite countries, the idols that they had embraced, this

  404. would have been very normal. We read later on the kings of

  405. Israel did the sacrifice children to the God Molotch and

  406. so on. Human sacrifice was common or at

  407. least practiced, shouldn't say common, but it was widely

  408. practiced. Many did that, and the passage

  409. simply reads that way. So commentators say, well,

  410. that's what happened. Then there are those

  411. commentators who totally disagree and for the following

  412. reasons. Well, the Israelites knew the

  413. laws of God. Sure, they worshipped idols, but

  414. they were not stupid. They knew what Deuteronomy said,

  415. Deuteronomy 12, and there was a death penalty on sacrificing

  416. people, Jeff. They would have known that it

  417. was a capital offense. Leviticus 20 verse 2 talks about

    Leviticus 20:2

  418. that. It's a capital fence to offer to

  419. sacrifice human beings. And not only that, the the New

  420. Testament writer of Hebrews in Hebrews Chapter 11 verse 32

    Hebrews 11:32

  421. includes Jephthah in the Hebrew Hall of Fame.

  422. So did he kill his daughter? Some commentators say he didn't.

  423. Who's correct? There are those commentators who

  424. say that the Hebrew reading of the passage of the text could be

  425. interpreted differently based on how the wording is understood.

  426. I'll just let's put it on the slide here.

  427. Then it will be that whatever comes out of the doors of my

  428. house to meet me when I return in peace from the people of AM

  429. and I shall sure it shall surely be the Lords and and some

  430. commentators said the word or can be used as well shall surely

  431. be the Lords or I will offer it up as a burnt offering that

  432. makes that makes a huge difference there.

  433. So I'm not a Hebrew scholar. I'm not an authority on this

  434. question, but was does stand out as this Jeff that made a vow

  435. that cost him unnecessarily and put his daughter in a bad

  436. situation. Whether he killed her and

  437. sacrificed her or whether he dedicated her to the Lord for

  438. for temple service or House of God service.

  439. I will leave that open. But it's a vow he regretted, it

  440. says in verse 39, and it was. So at the end of two months, she

  441. returned to her father. He carried out his vow with her,

  442. which he had vowed, and she knew no man.

  443. At the worst, she was sacrificed as an offering, or at best she

  444. was dedicated for service in the House of God as a virgin.

  445. She could never marry. So whichever case that way that

  446. may have been, it was a bad vow should not have made it.

  447. And I won't claim either position here, but it does tell

  448. us make promises carefully. Well, these were not the end of

  449. Jeff, this problems. This was not the end of it.

  450. He had been rejected before. He had lived in the land of

  451. Tobe, did not live the best lifestyle.

  452. Worthless characters followed. He went raiding.

  453. That's not a good thing. The people of Gilead come to

  454. him. We need help.

  455. We've come back to God. We want help from the Ammonites.

  456. We need you. And he bargains and they bargain

  457. and they agree. And God gives the Ammonites into

  458. his hands and and he has this experience with his daughter.

  459. It's not a good experience. So now the lands in freedom,

  460. right? Problems not over yet.

  461. Let's continue reading. 12 verse one to three.

  462. Then the men of Ephraim gathered together, crossed over to Zephan

  463. and said to Jephthah, why did you cross over to fight against

  464. the people of Ammon and did not call us to go with you?

  465. We will burn your house down on you with fire.

  466. What's that all about? Read verse 2.

  467. And Jeff said to my people, and I were in great struggle with

  468. the people of Ammon, and when I called you, you did not deliver

  469. me out of their hands. So when I saw that you would not

  470. deliver me, I took my life in my hands and crossed over against

  471. the people of Ammon, and the Lord delivered them into my

  472. hand. Why then have you come up to me

  473. this day to fight against me when you think it should be

  474. better? Then there's internal problems.

  475. He had a hard life partly because how he was treated,

  476. partly because his own personality and not making good

  477. choices. Now again with other people

  478. messing around. But one thing these Ephraimites

  479. forgot or didn't think of, Jeff, there was not a man to be messed

  480. with. Remember, he was a man of valor.

  481. Things have gone well with the Ammonites, not with his

  482. daughter. Now the men of Ephraim are

  483. giving him a hard time telling him we're going to kill you,

  484. burn you alive. And here Jephthah does

  485. something. It's not judged, it's not right

  486. or wrong, it's not mentioned, but I question his, his, his

  487. path. Let's read verse 412, verse 4,

  488. chapter 12. Now Jephthah gathered together

  489. all the men of Gilead and fought against Ephraim.

  490. And the men of Gilead defeated Ephraim because they said the

  491. Ephraimites said, You Gileadites are fugitives of Ephraim among

  492. the Ephraimites and among the Monasites.

  493. The Gileadite seized the Fords of the Jordan before the

  494. Ephraimites arrived. And when any Ephraimite who

  495. escaped said, Let me crossover, the men of Gilead would say to

  496. him, Are you an Ephraimite? If he said no, then they would

  497. say, then say shibboleth, and he would say sibboleth, for he

  498. could not pronounce it right. Then they would take him and

  499. kill him at the Fords of the Jordan.

  500. There fell at that time 42,000 Ephraimites and Jeff the judge

  501. is over six years. Then Jeff the Gilead died and

  502. was buried among the cities of Gilead.

  503. What a mess. What a mess.

  504. Back to Jeff the here these arrogant proud posturing of the

  505. men of Ephraim expecting special treatment, recognition and so

  506. on. Jeff, I did call you Jeff that

  507. says but you didn't come. Nothing to be done.

  508. What they didn't count on who was Jephthah his old character,

  509. Jephthah the Gileadite, who was he?

  510. A man of valor not to be messed with.

  511. That leads us to her last one. Beware of your old nature.

  512. It may get the job done, but not necessarily in the right way.

  513. The men of Ephraim had no right to threat threaten Jephthah when

  514. in reality he had done them no wrong.

  515. And they had no right in mocking the men of Gilead and calling

  516. them fugitives either. There's a lot more history here

  517. than meets the eye. But for our purposes this

  518. morning, obviously for the men of Ephraim, they did need to be

  519. taught a lesson. They picked the fight with the

  520. wrong man and paid dearly. Well, Jetha was having none of

  521. it. And true to his nature as a

  522. warrior, the men of Geddes followed him and 42,000

  523. Ephraimite men lost their lives. Was this God's will?

  524. I don't believe so, but God allows people to make choices

  525. and reap the consequences of their choices.

  526. And here the men of Ephraim chose badly.

  527. One could say, well, they had it coming true doesn't make it

  528. right. They lost thousands of men

  529. because of their stubbornness and arrogance and pride and

  530. Jephthah might have found ways better than to deal with them

  531. that way. We're not told.

  532. Proverbs Chapter 11 verse 2 says when pride comes, then comes

    Proverbs 11:2

  533. shame. Isn't that the case?

  534. But with the humble, there's wisdom.

  535. And this whole mess here, the people of Israel was so ugly.

  536. How much struggle, how much pain could have been avoided all

  537. these years if they never wandered away from God in the

  538. 1st place? All these cycles, this repenting

  539. and coming back, how much better to not have to repent.

  540. We'll never get out of repenting by the way, just let me tell

  541. you, we all need to always repent.

  542. But there's a difference in how we sin.

  543. Is it because we just didn't know something or we see

  544. something? OK, that's sin.

  545. I'm going to repent or I'm going to do this anyway.

  546. I remember having a conversation with a man many years ago.

  547. He was going to do something and I remember telling him I said

  548. that's wrong, I don't care. God made you and me in His

  549. image. He wants a relationship with you

  550. and me, but guess what? They're on His terms, not ours.

  551. He holds the cards. We don't.

  552. We can surrender ourselves, humble ourselves, become honest,

  553. transparent, watch our words, watch our steps, walk with Him.

  554. We can spare and save ourselves a ton of trouble.

  555. Maybe you're here today and you've behaved yourself into an

  556. oppressive situation, whatever that may be.

  557. You've done things that in hindsight shouldn't have done,

  558. that you never thought this would happen, or you're in that

  559. process right now. You know what I'm I know it's

  560. not right, but hey, I'm going to do it anyway.

  561. Watch out. Sin in the end never brings good

  562. fruit. And yes, God is patient, but

  563. remember, He holds the cards. You can try bargaining with Him,

  564. but in the end He will get the glory.

  565. But if we do it right, if we repent, humble ourselves, come

  566. to Him on His terms, maybe not perfectly, come on His terms, He

  567. will save us. It'll cost us everything we

  568. thought it would give us, our pride, our sin.

  569. But we'll be left with something better.

  570. We will have peace, joy, love when we walk, and surrender and

  571. humility in relationship with Jesus.

  572. May that be our goal this morning.

  573. Let's pray or we thank you for the story of Jephta.

  574. Not a pretty story. He had serious problems in his

  575. life. He was rejected, had his own

  576. issues, made decisions he shouldn't have.

  577. But Lord, you never gave up on him.

  578. And today he's in the Hall of Fame.

  579. Or there may be people here this morning who feel that they've

  580. made so many wrong choices, they have no hope a pray will touch

  581. their hearts and minds. But thank you for the promise in

  582. your word that you'll save us when we call you.

  583. Reach out to all who repent and believe, and if we do, we'll be

  584. saved. Or maybe take heed and follow

  585. your teaching. We pray in your name.