Sermon
You Were Never Meant to Do This Alone
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Welcome to the Islands Christian Church podcast.
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Subscribe to hear a new episode every week.
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Thanks for joining us. So over the past few weeks in
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this, we've been in this series called make room, creating space
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for the life Jesus offers you. All right, we've been talking
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about, you know, what does that mean?
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And basically we've been talking about the Christian idea of this
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is a this is a doctrinal terms. If you're new to the church or
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new to the Bible, maybe you've never heard this before.
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And if you've been here the past few weeks, you've heard it
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because I've been saying it. There's this doctrinal term
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called sanctification, right? And you're like, oh, what does
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that word mean? So we're going to start with
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everybody saying it together. 123 Sanctification, all right.
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And so sanctification is this word that simply means it is the
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the work of the Holy Spirit. And when you become a believer,
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the Holy Spirit indwells you and it is the lifelong work of the
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Holy Spirit to form you into a person who resembles Jesus
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Christ. All right, So when you read the
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Gospels and you read this about you read about this amazing man
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named Jesus, what the Holy Spirit's doing, and you become a
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believer, he's actually forming and shaping you over your
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lifetime to be like Jesus, to resemble him.
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And we've been learning things in this series, like the fact
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that if you were a believer in Jesus, then God himself, the
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Holy Spirit governs your life. He's leading your life.
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And as he renews our mind and we set our minds on what's true
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about us, that you are adopted, that you are in the family, that
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that you are chosen, that God loves you, that he's for you.
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As you set your mind on those truths, then then you're the
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Holy Spirit's renewing your mind about what's true about you and
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you live into your identity. So Christian Christianity is not
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about white knuckling some moralism.
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I mean, we don't need another religion about moralism.
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We have enough of those. Christianity isn't an invitation
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to you to try harder. Christianity is an invitation
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for you to believe better, to believe what's true about you,
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that Jesus Christ has called you to himself, that he loves you,
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and that he's given you a new identity.
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I like to think about it this way, that when we become a
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Christian God, who is the creator because he is the
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creator, he's the only one who can be a recreator.
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And when you become a Christian, you are recreated, you are made
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new. The Bible says that if any
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person is in Christ, new creation has come.
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Like this is what's true of us. And this is the idea of, of
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sanctification. And so, but this raises an
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important question and this is what we're going to talk about
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today. This is great, Stephen.
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Sanctification is great. Maybe some of you are beginning
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to reflect on this and, and meditate on these ideas over the
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last few weeks. And, and here's the question
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that we want to wrestle with today and we want to talk about
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today. If this change is happening
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inside of all, all of us that are believers, where, where do
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we see the evidence of this? In other words, where do we
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actually see our changes lived out?
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What can I point to? You know, what can I say?
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Look, look, this is some evidence that I'm seeing
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sanctification happen in my life, right?
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And so the New Testament shows us something that is quite easy
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to miss, especially as Americans, because we are
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extraordinarily individual. We are individual thinkers.
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We, we, we are pull yourself up by your bootstraps.
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We are, I mean, we are the, the, the, the people who went West
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and, you know, went into the frontier like this is the, this
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is who we are as Americans. But the New Testament make
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something very make something very clear that is easy for us
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to miss and that is this the Spirit, the Holy Spirit changes
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us personally. He does, He changes us
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personally, but he forms us collectively.
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So he changes us personally, but he forms us in community.
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He forms us collectively and that's kind of our big idea
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today. So if you're a note taker, you
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write that down. Now the life Jesus gives us, the
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sanctification that the Holy Spirit's doing in your life, the
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new creation that you are becoming, that you have become
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and are becoming, that life was never meant to grow in
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isolation. God intends for our new life to
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grow in community with other believers.
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In other words, the Spirit does not just form a new person, he
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forms a new people. Like this is the message of the
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New Testament. It's not just that, hey, get
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saved, go off to heaven in the by and by.
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Aren't you glad you became a Christian?
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Now the message of the New Testament is we come to Christ.
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He forms us and shapes us into this new creation.
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And he is doing that to our community, to us as a collection
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of people, a family. He's, he has a new people that
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he calls his own. Now this is exactly what the
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apostle Peter is describing in the passage we're going to look
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at today. So if you have your Bibles, you
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can go to first Peter, we're going to be in chapter 2.
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If you have your smartphone, I don't know why I say smartphone
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like you have your phone. Who's not carrying a smartphone?
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Actually, I have a friend. Here's a flip phone.
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I'm super envious actually, but he never text me, which is I
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text him and he calls me. I'm like, I'm like, buy my phone
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actually. But if you go to your Bibles,
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the first Peter 2 or in your phones first Peter 2 on the
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Bible app. In this passage, Peter gives us
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what I believe is one of the most powerful pictures of what
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the church actually is as described in the New Testament.
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Because a lot of us have messed up ideas of what the church is.
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And so we don't really, most of us aren't actually reading, you
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know, Matthew through revelation to discover what the church is.
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Most of us are basing what we believe the church is on our
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experiences, what we see in the news, what we see in the media.
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I, I hear people all the time criticize the church who've
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never actually read what the church was intended to be.
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And so, yeah, the church can be broken.
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It can be messed up because I don't know if you know this or
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not. I'm here and so are you.
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So it's, it's a mess. The church is a mess because I'm
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a mess. And you're, you guys know you're
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a mess, right? OK, but just because we're a
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mess and because the church oftentimes can be seen as a mess
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and seen as broken because we're broken people.
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The New Testament describes something quite beautiful.
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And I think what we're the passage we're going to look at
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today is one of those passages that describes something quite
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beautiful. Now, just before the section I'm
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going to read in the end of chapter 1, remember, Peter's not
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writing chapters and verses. He's just writing a letter.
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This is just a letter by a guy named Peter.
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They really worked hard on the title, didn't they?
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First, Peter. So he's not writing big numbers
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and little numbers. Those were added much later,
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centuries later. He's just writing.
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And right before what we call chapter 2, he says something
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interesting. Peter says that as believers who
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are part of this church, we are to love each other deeply.
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I think about that. This community of people is
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called to love each other deeply.
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And he says the reason you're supposed to love each other
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deeply is because you've been born again.
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You hear that? Born again.
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Remember I said when you become a Christian, you get you become
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a new creation. That's Paul.
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That's what we read last week, Paul.
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But here's Peter saying something very similar at the
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end of chapter 1. We are born again by the living
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and enduring word of God. All right, So if you're like a
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critic of Christianity, don't really bind to church stuff,
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that's OK, man. We're glad we love it that
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you're here. Here's what's interesting about
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that. You believe in love even if you
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don't believe in God, because everybody, I've never met a
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person who's an atheist who didn't believe in love.
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And love is, I say this all the time.
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My kids almost mimic me and mock me a little bit.
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You know, love is one of those things you can't prove.
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You can't go out to the lobby and get a box of it and bring it
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in and set it on the table. But we all believe it exists.
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We believe that it's a faith claim.
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We believe it in faith. We believe we love our children
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and, and, and if I say we'll prove you love your children,
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like show it to me. Follow the science on love.
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Show me the science of love. Well, you can talk about
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evolutionary processes and chemicals and all these things
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that are happening in your brain for the continuation of the
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species that you don't eat your children so they will survive.
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And that's why you feel like you love them.
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OK, Well, that's not love, that's trickery, all right?
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That's that's not love. And so when you hear something
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like this, if you're a skeptic of Christianity that that the
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New Testament says, hey, you group of Christians love each
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other deeply, love each other deeply because you've been made
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new. You've been born again through
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the enduring word of God like God's, if that's talking about
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his spoken word, God has spoken over your life and made you new.
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And the evidence of that newness is that you love each other
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deeply. Now if you're not a Christian,
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you don't bind to the church stuff.
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Doesn't that sound at least somewhat attractive that a
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community of people their primary command, their number
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one command as a community is to love each other deeply.
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All right so from that foundation that call on us as a
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crit on crit as Christians, the church.
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Peter goes on to say this in verses one through 3 of chapter
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2. So love each other deeply.
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Verse one. Therefore rid yourselves of all
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malice and all deceit, hypocrisy, envy and slander of
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every kind, like newborn babies crave spiritual milk so that by
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it you may grow up in your salvation.
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Now that you have tasted that the Lord is good.
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And here's our first idea this morning.
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If you're a note taker, you ready the Spirit, the Holy
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Spirit grows us together. He grows us together.
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Peter begins by listing several sins in verse 1.
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He says, you know, rid yourselves of these things,
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malice, deceit, hypocrisy, envy and slander.
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Now these are these all sound like things we should get rid of
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in our lives. Do you think our nation let me
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ask you this here. Do you think if just Congress
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rid itself of malice, stop there.
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If if Congress rid itself of malice, deceit, hypocrisy, envy
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and slander, would your life be better?
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Yes. Yes, if there if no one lied, no
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one slandered another that were in the halls of government, how
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would it be for the weak of our nation?
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How would it be for the poor of our nation?
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And how would it be for the wealthy of our nation?
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This is this is a picture that we all desire without even
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understanding why we desire it. Yeah, I would love a community
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to exist without malice and deceit and hypocrisy and envy
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and slander. Now, notice about these sins.
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These aren't private sins. You know, this isn't like
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Peter's listing out, hey, you know, stop doing this bad thing
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and stop doing that bad thing that you're doing in private.
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No, these are relational sins. These are things that damage
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trust and destroy community. Peter is saying because you have
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been born again, because you're a new creation, because you
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belong to Christ, you now relate to each other differently.
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You respond to each other differently, you react to each
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other differently. These types of relational sins,
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malice and envy and hypocrisy and these types of relational
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sins, they can no longer survive in a community that is shaped by
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deeply loving each other. They can't be in that.
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In other words, when we deeply love each other, these things
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are run out of that community. They are because to love each
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other deeply means I can't have malice for you, and I certainly
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would never deceive you. And I won't put on a fake front
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for you and be a hypocrite. And I won't envy when something
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good happens to you. I will celebrate.
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I will rejoice with those who rejoice.
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Why? Because I love you and because I
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love you. I would never slander you.
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Even if you told me some deep dark secret that you are so
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ashamed of, I would not respond by putting it in the street.
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I would respond, loving you deeply.
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Doesn't this sound like a great community?
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Doesn't this sound like something you'd want to be a
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part of? Now here's the deal.
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Authentic faith is revealed most clearly and how we treat other
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believers. And I have been a part of some
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churches and I've seen some stuff.
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Have you guys ever seen some stuff?
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Have you guys ever seen some stuff?
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Like we're, we're like believers Now, I'm not talking about non
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believers. I'm not.
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I'm talking about the House of God.
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The people of God will turn on each other and burn each other
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to the ground in a second. And what Peter is saying is that
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genuine rebirth, new birth, being born again is revealed
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most clearly in how you treat members of your family, the
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family of God. And then Peter gives another
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command. He says like newborn babies,
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craves pure spiritual milk so that by it you may grow up in
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your salvation. Now there's something
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interesting in the language here.
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I want to mention very quickly the word crave.
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He's kind of carrying this idea of a baby who's hungry anybody.
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I have four children. So they were I had two babies at
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one time. Marianne had two babies at one
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time, and I was raising these two babies with with her.
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And when they were hungry, these little teeny tiny babies could
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wail and scream and yell like nobody's business.
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Do you know why they were craving?
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They were craving some food, all right.
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They were craving their Mama. And So what this text is saying
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is that we want so badly to be mature in our faith, to be more
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like Christ, that we crave deeply pure spiritual milk, that
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we want the things of the Spirit to be true of us.
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And we desire it. We crave it.
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And that's also something very interesting in this text.
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He says, like newborn babies crave spiritual milk.
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So that by it you may grow up. You may grow up.
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The word you, YOU, everybody say YOUYOU.
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The word you in English is a bit of a problem.
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Do you guys know this? The word you in English is the
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same word whether it's singular or plural.
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You guys know that. But that is not true in Greek.
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And then what? This was what this was.
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Well, this was written in it was Koine Greek, and they had a word
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for plural you and a word for singular you.
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And so that this you here is is plural.
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It's not singular. So there there's this is
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interesting to me because what Peter is what when we read this,
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we read this as individuals like individualize.
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We individualize it. We say, oh, I need to start
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craving pure spiritual milk so I can grow up in my salvation.
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And yeah, that's true. But that's not the heart of this
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text. The heart of this text is kind
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of in Savannah terms, more like this.
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Peter's basically saying crave spiritual milk so that y'all,
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y'all can grow up in your salvation.
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Crave pure spiritual milk so y'all can grow up, crave pure,
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crave the things of God so y'all can mature y'all.
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Now if you're not from down here, use guysans, right?
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Use guys. You guys can grow up, you know.
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And so this is that when we read the Bible, a lot of times these
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these YOU, these you, this is almost always plural.
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The emphasis is on the emphasis is on community, pursuing
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spiritual maturity together. Yes, the Spirit is at work and
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each of us personally, but he, the Holy Spirit is assuming
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something about you. He is assuming that we are
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living our lives among the people of God in community, a
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people who love each other deeply, who put away malice and
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deceit and hypocrisy. And he says in this community,
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all of you together crave the spiritual things of God.
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And then Peter ends this section with a beautiful phrase.
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He says this now that you have tasted that the Lord is good.
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And I love this because Peter assumes something about people
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in community together. Again, this is plural.
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Now that y'all have tasted that the Lord is good, he assumes
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something about us. And you know what he's assuming
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about us who are believers in community together, He's
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assuming that we don't just have academic knowledge about God,
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that we don't just have, you know, book knowledge about God.
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And those things are vitally important and we need those
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things. But he's saying it's not just
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that you've got information about God in your head.
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He's saying, no, you've tasted it.
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You've tasted the goodness of God.
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Now that's interesting to me that he chose those words
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because when you taste something that's good, what are your
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reactions in response? How do you re tend to respond
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and react? Like when you taste something
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really good? What do you, what do you?
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Is there anybody who's really expressive about good food?
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Anybody. Come on.
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What do you? What do you do if you taste?
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Yeah, Nate's up here. Nate can cook like nobody's
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business. I've had a steak this brother
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cooked one time. I put the thing in my mouth.
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I was like, whoa, Oh my goodness, like, I mean, I would
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all I would almost like my kids are growing.
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I might move into like his little extra apartment, garage
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apartment or something. Just live there.
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You know, you cook for me, right?
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You take care of me and I but I got to bring Marianne, so you
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got to cook for her too. But but you know, he cooked that
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steak. He cooked a steak or whatever.
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You know, that, that thing, you put that food in your mouth and
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you go and it's like all the taste buds are alive and
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everything just like fireworks going here, just like, you know,
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you just want more of this, you know, like, please clear the
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everybody move. I'm eating at all.
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You know, I was at a meeting yesterday and this lady had made
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a bring up, brought a pound cake.
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And, and so, and it was near the end and most people were gone
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and she cut a piece of pound cake.
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She gave me this little piece and this little, it was enough
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to make you mad, you know that. And I, I put that, put that cake
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in my mouth and I was like, that's so good, That's so good.
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And it was probably about 1/3 of the, you know, third of the cake
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there. She's like, we'll get you some
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more. So I reached over and grabbed
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the Saran wrap that was in. I wrapped it all up and handed
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her the plate and I literally walked out with the cake.
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She goes, you want it? I said, yeah, take this thing
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home. She goes, you can have it.
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But it was so good. And so the language that Peter's
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using here is this language of taste.
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You've you've tasted that the Lord is good.
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You, you, you've had an experience.
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You don't just have book knowledge.
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Book knowledge is important. You have to have that.
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But you've gone beyond book knowledge in the sense that
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you've actually experienced the goodness of God.
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You've you've, you've, you've tasted, you've, you've, you've
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had something happen inside of you that you can't deny.
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And and do you also notice, like when you eat Nate's steak, you,
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you really can't describe it either.
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You know, when you taste something really good, you're
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like, yeah, this is like, I mean, unless you're a chef or
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somebody like that, you're like, oh, it has this in it now, you
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know, But I mean, for us normal folks, we're like, I mean, I
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don't know, it's just amazing. Well, tell me what you taste.
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Joy, happiness, salvation, I mean, and it's the same way when
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you know and taste the goodness of God, you it's hard to
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describe, it's hard to put into words.
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And the implication of this is that this experience of God's
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goodness and the growth that flows from it happens as we live
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together with the people of God. So yes, we grow in private
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disciplines, we pray alone, we read Scripture alone, sure, but
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the New Testament is clear. You ready?
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The Spirit changes us personally, but he forms us
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collectively. He changes us personally, but he
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forms us collectively. So Peter begins by showing us
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the Spirit grows us together. But Peter isn't finished with
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the picture just yet. Because spiritual growth is not
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only is not the only thing God is doing among us as his people.
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He's not just growing us. He's not simply growing us, He's
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also building something. And Peter shifts his metaphor,
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shifts his imagery in the next verse.
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He moves from the imagery of newborn babies growing on pure
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spiritual milk to the image of stones being placed into a
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temple for God to live in. Listen to what he says.
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This is about the church. Remember, this is about the this
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is Peter's description of us, the church.
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Verses 4 and 5 of chapter 2, it says, as you come to him, the
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living stone, rejected by humans, but chosen by God and
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precious to him, you also, like living stones, are being built
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into a spiritual house to be a holy priesthood offering
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spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God.
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And this leads us to the second idea.
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Peter wants to show us, you ready.
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The Spirit is building us together.
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So if the Spirit is growing us together #1 #2 the Spirit is
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building us together. Now, Peter's using construction
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language. And you got in construction
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here. You know, some of you are in
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construction. You get this.
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He's talking about construction language here.
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And he at the same time is using temple language simultaneously,
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construction language, temple language.
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He says Jesus is the living stone.
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That's the first thing he says as you come to him, the living
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stone. Jesus is the living stone.
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And later he would say he's the cornerstone of this building.
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So Jesus is the living stone. He's the cornerstone of this
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building. He says as you come to Jesus,
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the living stone, then God also makes you a living stone.
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He forms us into living stones, and then God places them
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together to build something. He's building something.
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Now think about a stone by itself.
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If a stone was out in the field by itself, it's laying there.
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It's just a stone. It's just something you really
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need to move so you can mow the grass, right?
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It's, it's in the way. It's serving no purpose.
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It's just sitting there. But when a builder comes along
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and a builder is looking for stones in order to build a stone
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building, then he picks up that stone and he begins to place
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stones next to each other and on top of each other.
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And he cuts stone and he shapes stone and he aligns stone with
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each other. And those stones become
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something entirely different than just a stone sitting in the
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field. Those stones become a building.
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They become a structure. They become, in this text
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context that Peter's talking about, they become a house.
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And Peter says that's exactly what God is doing with his
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people. He isn't just saving
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individuals, He's building something.
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He's taking our lives one by one and placing them together on
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Christ. Remember, Christ is the
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cornerstone. Peter would say later.
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He's taking our lives and he's building them one by one and
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side by side on the cornerstone of Christ in this structure that
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he's building with your life and my life as believers in Jesus.
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The structure that he's building is he calls it a spiritual
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house. Now in the ancient world,
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whenever the term spiritual house was written or said,
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everyone would have known what he was talking about.
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He was talking about a temple, a temple in, in an Israelite
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history, the temple with the Tabernacle in the temple plays a
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a big important role. And everybody kind of
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instinctively knows what a temple is.
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Even if you're not a religious person, even if you're not a
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Jesus person, even if you're not a Bible person.
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If I say, oh, what happens at a temple, what might you say?
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Worship happens at a temple, you might say.
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Service happens at a temple, you might say if there's an altar at
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a temple, depending on the type of temple it is, what else might
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be happening? Most temples in the ancient
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world had waltz. What else happening there?
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Sacrifice happening there, right, right.
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These things are these things are happening at So in in what
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did they believe? What did ancient people believe
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about their temples? It wasn't just a place to do
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these things. It was also the place where
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where their deity lived. It was their deity's home.
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It was built for their to house their deity.
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Now Peter says this is you got to catch this man.
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The church is a beautiful thing. Peter says that God is building
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you and I as believers into a temple, a spiritual house, a
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place where God dwells among his people.
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And so here's the thing. The temple for the God of
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creation is no longer made of actual brick and stone.
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It's no longer made of pillars and walls.
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The temple now of God where God lives is made-up of people,
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believers. God called you to himself, and
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he's building us together to dwell among us.
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We are the temple of God. Now, Peter's not finished with
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this picture just yet because he says that inside the spiritual
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house where God lives, which is us, we are the temple of God,
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our community, our family. God lives among us, he says
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inside that spiritual house. We so we're not only living
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stones, he says we are a holy priesthood.
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And maybe you grew up in a faith tradition where the priests were
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like a special class of people. They were the ones closer to
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God. They were the ones you kind of
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had to talk to in order to kind of get instructions from God.
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Well, the Bible teaches that everyone who comes to Christ is
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actually a holy, a set apart priest.
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You are a set apart priest for God.
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And so we are not only a living stone being built into a house,
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but we're also priests set apart by God to serve God and offer
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him sacrifices. And it's interesting that Peter
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says that the sacrifices you offer to God are acceptable not
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because they're good, not because you're good, not because
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you're holy, not because you give a lot of money away.
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The sacrifices that you offer to God as a member of his family
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are acceptable, he says, because of Jesus Christ.
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In other words, the salvation you've received through Christ,
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you have been made right with God.
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And so that everything you bring to God is acceptable to God
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because it is through Jesus Christ that you bring it.
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You know, Jesus said in Matthew once that he would build his
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church. Interesting words build, He
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would build his church. And Peter is showing us what
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that means. The church is not a building we
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go to. The church is a people in
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community being built together by Jesus, people who serve as
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priest, representing God to one another, serving God and serving
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each other. You see, we all have a very low
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view of the church. It's a place we go.
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We have a, you know, a preacher who got a big bald spot.
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I was trying to think of something to make fun of myself
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for, but we got a preacher. We got a, you know, people on
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staff. We got things going on.
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We have a very low view of the church.
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But Peter has a very high view of the church.
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He's a high view. The church is a community, a
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family of people where God dwells among them and in them in
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that family is a priesthood. It's it's a family of priests,
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holy priests set aside to serve one another and to serve him.
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This is the view of the church according to the Scriptures.
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Much better than a place you go on Sundays for an hour, an hour
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and 15 minutes, right? Wouldn't you agree with that?
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Much better. Now here's the deal, Steven.
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This is all good doctrine, by the way, if you want to learn a
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new doctrinal term, the term for the study of the church is
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called ecclesiology. So today we've been doing some
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good ecclesiology. It's good study of the church.
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We, we, we've been talking about what the church is.
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It's the, it's the, it's the people of God who, who grow
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together, who, who are in the, who are the temple of God and
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who are priests unto God like this is who we are some high
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view of the church. But Steven, this is great.
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It's theoretical. How do we get in?
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How do we get this into the practical?
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Like how do we actually, you know, you know, let this show up
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in our lives? I mean, if the Spirit is
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changing us personally, but he forms us collectively, how do we
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actually experience that in our church life?
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I'm going to give you 3 quick, simple ways that we can make
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room for this type of community. You ready real quick?
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Make room for consistent presence.
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Make room for consistent presence.
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Show up like God can't do anything with a stone that stays
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in the field. So there's a lot of value and,
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and in showing up among the family spiritual community forms
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when we regularly place ourselves among God's people,
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that means showing up for worship.
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That means being present in small groups, That means putting
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ourselves in environments where real relationships can grow.
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And I'm going to tell you, as a church, we're continuing to work
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hard as a leadership on creating more spaces where you can
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experience that kind of community where it can actually
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happen. And I'm excited because I'm
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going to share something about that right before we leave
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today. So #1 make room for consistent
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presence. Show up to things #2 make room
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for honest relationships. Peter begins the passage by
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saying rid yourselves of malice to seed hypocrisy, envy, and
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slander. Those are relational sins.
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And the opposite of those sins are honesty, humility, and deep
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love. And here's the thing where there
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are honest relationships, there is no need for hypocrisy.
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And Peter says this is what the church is.
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Real Christian community forms. When we move past surface level
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conversations. Hey, how are you, Jim?
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I'm good, Bill, how are things going?
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Well, you know, it's all good. When we move past the surface
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level conversations and we begin to share our lives with one
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another. We're not pretending anymore.
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We're not, you know, pretending that everything is OK.
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We're not performing anymore. But we're able to say to people,
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you know, I'm struggling, I need prayer right now.
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I need help. Or this one, I really messed up
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and I don't know who to tell that I messed up, but I need to
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tell somebody I messed up. Like we need a community where
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those types of relationships happen.
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So make room for honest relationships.
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The Spirit builds us together when we stop pretending and
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start walking honestly with one another and #3 make room to
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serve others. Peter says you are a holy
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priesthood. We are a holy priesthood
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offering spiritual sacrifices. In other words, the church is
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not just a place you go on a tent, the churches of people
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that we all serve together and we're serving God as we serve
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one another. The Spirit builds us.
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When we move from asking, hey, who's serving me?
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And we start asking, who am I serving?
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How am I serving? When we greet someone, when we
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serve in kids ministry, when we host a group, when we encourage
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someone who is struggling, those small acts of service are part
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of how God is building us together.
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So make room to serve others. Make room for presents, make
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room for real relationships, and make room for serving others.
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So here's the truth that Peter wants us to see.
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The Spirit changes us personally, but he forms us
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collectively. That is what he's telling us.
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The Christian life was never mean, never meant to be lived
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alone. And God is building something
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here. So let's make room in our lives
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for what God is building now as a church.
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I want to take this teaching seriously.
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If the Spirit is changing us personally but forms us
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collectively, then creating space for real community matters
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for us as a church. And that leads us to something
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exciting that I want to share with you today.
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Let me invite John La Mason back on the stage here to join me
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here for just a moment. Many of you know John because
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he's been serving faithfully in our worship ministry for the
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past four years or so. John stepped in during a very
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challenging time in our church, during a time of difficult
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season, and you've been quietly just blessing our church for
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four years. It's been amazing as you've
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served us. What some of you probably don't
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know about John is that he also served as a pastor earlier in
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his life and has years of ministry experience helping
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people grow in their faith. A lot of that is student
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ministry, right? Yeah, Yeah.
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And here's a little piece of Islands history that many of you
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may not know, and this may be news to you.
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John actually served as the pastor of Islands Christian
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Church for several years before I came here.
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That was quite a long time ago, right, John?
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That was quite a long time ago. Now.
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I've been here 14 years, but I love this part of the story.
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I think it's a really neat part of our story as a church that
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God brought John back into the life of this church for the
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season. I remember years ago when John
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first, four years ago when he first came here, started
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serving, I said, and I want to tell people, you used to be the
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pastor here and you said, I don't think we should say that.
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And I said, and then when I was writing these remarks to share
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this news, I said, man, John was so wise sharing it.
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Today is so much better over the past several months I've been
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praying really years, you know, how can we continue to help
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people connect to Jesus, But more importantly, I shouldn't
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say more importantly, but also the connect to each other part
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of our mission. And I asked John, hey, would you
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consider joining our team, you know, in a part time role
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helping us strengthen small groups and community life here
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at islands. And after some prayer and
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conversation with our elders, John said, yes, isn't that
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great? So so beginning right now, this
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moment, John will be serving as our part time small groups
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pastor, helping us create more spaces where people can grow in
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Christ together and live out the kind of community that we've
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just been talking about South John, before we head out this
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morning, I would love for everyone to hear a little about
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your heart. So would you just answer one
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question for us? What made you feel called to say
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yes to helping lead this part of our church?
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Well, the the short answer is this, that in all the years that
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I was a pastor, my very favorite part of ministry was not
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preaching on Sunday morning, wasn't playing guitar when that
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was necessary. It certainly wasn't going to the
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youth camp. That was hard.
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You're. Good at it though.
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But. It was small group environments,
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being in an environment where you're just in a circle of
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chairs with maybe, you know, 3-4, up to 12 people in a group
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and just being able to have conversations and being able to
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study the word of God with people in more of a give and
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take environment. That environment has always
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been, in my opinion, just so crucial.
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Not taking away anything from Sunday morning.
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It's a, it's a very important part of what we do on Sunday
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mornings. But a small group environment is
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something that can just really help people go to the next level
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in their faith and in in building good friendships and
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building a good community within our church to help you in so
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many different ways. If you don't mind, I want to
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share one more thing. Sure, we throw this up.
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We got them locked down. They can't leave till I say they
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can't. So you guys are probably, you
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know, when you've read the the New Testament, you've seen these
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phrases a lot, right? Love one another instruct one
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another bear one another's burdens be kind to one another
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forgive one another submit to one another teaching and
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admonishing one another encourage one another, pray for
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one another as each of you has received a gift, use it to serve
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one another. This is all straight from the
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scripture, all about when we when, when the church was being
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established, it was about, hey, we want to help one another and
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it's all of us, not Steven, loving and admonishing and
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encouraging all of us, loving and encouraging and helping each
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other out. That's how the church works
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best. Yes, that's how the church
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works. Yeah, that's how the church
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works. That's how it works.
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And so to be in a small group environment allows us those
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opportunities to grow. I know that when we've just been
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meeting for three weeks and, and I'll tell you, there's probably
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been, I think we've had about eight or nine people each week
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in the group, including myself. And in three weeks, I've gotten
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to know those people really well, not just their names, not
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just where they work and you know who their kids are and, and
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what's going on. We've prayed for one another.
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What's going on? What can we pray for you about?
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That tells you a lot about a person and I learned about their
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musical taste. That's fun.
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They like to hit what's on your Spotify.
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You know those guys. You learn a lot about somebody
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from that and just spending time with people.
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Those environments guys are what I love the best.
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And here's the best part, when I've helped to start groups
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before and a lot of people come to group for the first time and
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they're like, I don't know what to expect.
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I don't know what's going on here.
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I'm kind of nervous and in the past three weeks, every single
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week, I've had somebody make the comment to the effect of I, I
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really liked this. Like.
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Like in surprise. So they were like, wow, this was
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like a lot better than I thought it was going to be.
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I had no idea it could be like this.
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So people were excited to be here.
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I've seen it where we've started groups before and I'd love to
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see somebody who feels they come to the group the first time and
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they feel like they don't know the word of God at all.
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They could never share that with anybody else.
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And then in just a short time, that same person is being
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encouraged and and pushed along to the point to where some of
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those people in that group are now leading groups.
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That's good and helping other people.
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That's what we want to see. That's why groups are my
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favorite thing to do you. Guys think he was excited about
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doing this role. It's going to be good, right?
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It's going to be good. I want someone to just say this
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is possible because of your generosity, like your support of
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this church's ministry, we're able to invest resources into
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the roles that make the biggest impact on the lots of people.
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So thank you for your generosity.
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Thanks for supporting the ministry here and what God is
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doing. Will you stand with me?
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I'm going to ask John to pray for us.
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And then if you want to come, you know, give John a little
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handshake or hug around his neck.
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I mean, he's been here for, you know, four years.
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But dude, I'm excited. I love the story.
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And I'm honored that you said yes.
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I'm honored that you that you are taking the risk because I
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know there's some there's some heartache there from just you
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know, some stuff. And and I'm I'm also proud of
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you and I'll do my best to serve you, love you, defend you, look
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out for you. And then I hope and know that
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you would do the same for me. Thanks you pray for us this
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week. Let's pray.
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Father God, we thank you for this morning.
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We thank you for the worship that we've had together.
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We thank you for the time we've had to remember every week that
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and hopefully every day the sacrifice that Jesus Christ made
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on a cross for us. God, we just we are so grateful
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for your word that challenges us and and pushes us to be in a
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community more than surface level and to be in a
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relationship not just with each other, but in a relationship
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with you God that is more than surface level.
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That God you invite, that you would even invite us into that
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kind of relationship is unbelievable.
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Thank God. I pray that we would never take
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that for granted and that as we leave this place, God, that we
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would share how much you mean to us and how much we believe in
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you. God, that we would share it in
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our words and in our deeds. As we go throughout this week,
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we pray this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, Amen.