Sermon
Ephesians 5:18
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And my text for tonight is, and we need this 5 verse 18.
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! And do not get drunk with wine, for that is the votary, but be filled with the Spirit.
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This is not a temperance sermon, alright?
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I think the Bible, when it talks about alcohol, talks about moderation rather than total abstinence.
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I'm not going to talk about wine or beer tonight.
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But there is a contrast here.
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See what it says?
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Do not get drunk on wine, but be filled instead.
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Filled with the Spirit.
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That is the text.
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Steve Jobs was the founder of Apple.
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And he died 10 years ago this year.
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He was a creative genius, really.
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And he said this, he said, when I was 17, I read a quote that went something like this.
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If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you will almost certainly be right.
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Well, that was true for him, wasn't it, 10 years ago?
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But it made an impression on me, he said.
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And since then, since those 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and I have asked myself,
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if today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I'm about to do today?
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And whenever the answer has been no for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.
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Well, what do you need to change tonight?
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How do you want to live the rest of your life?
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My question is that Steve Jobs asked.
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What do you need to change?
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And how do you want to live your life?
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Look what it says in these verses.
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Look carefully then how you walk.
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Not as unwise, but as wise.
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Making the best use of the time because the days are evil.
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Don't be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is.
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Do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit.
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Two things from the little paragraph.
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First point is really short.
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And the second point is very, very long.
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First thing is a contrast.
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Second thing is a command.
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So firstly, let's look at the contrast.
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Verse 18.
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Do not get drunk with wine, but be filled with the Spirit.
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Now there are some people that take him to be saying,
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and you sometimes hear this in Christian circles.
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They take him to be saying that being filled with the Spirit
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is like being drunk with wine or beer.
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Or whatever your poison is.
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But that is not what he's saying.
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Paul isn't making a comparison here.
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Paul isn't making so much of a comparison, but drawing a contrast.
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And it's a very sharp contrast.
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Now being drunk and being filled are not the same thing.
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There are similarities.
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There is a comparison.
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So you remember, don't you, on the day of Pentecost?
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We're told that the ascended Christ, Jesus Christ, gave the gift of the Holy Spirit.
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And we're told about that at the beginning of Acts 2,
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that they were filled with the Spirit, and people thought that they were drunk.
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Do you remember?
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And Peter had to say to them, listen, it's only 9 o'clock in the morning,
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the pubs aren't even open.
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And we're not drunk.
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This isn't drunkenness.
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But the very fact that people could think that they were drunk
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means that there is some kind of comparison.
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But it's only very fleeting.
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I suppose you could say that both the drunk and the Spirit-filled person
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are under the influence, aren't they?
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And that is where the comparison ends.
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And the contrast begins.
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Dr. Martin, I'll tell you in his series on Ephesians,
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talks about the stimulus of the Spirit.
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I don't agree with everything he says about the Holy Spirit in those volumes.
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But listen to what he says.
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He's writing both as a doctor and as a pastor.
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And he compares and he contrasts the two states of drunkenness
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and being filled with the Spirit.
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He says wine, alcohol, pharmacologically speaking,
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is not a stimulant, it's a depressant.
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Take up any book on pharmacology and look up alcohol
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and you'll find it's always classified as amongst the depressants,
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not the stimulants.
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First of all, it depresses the highest centres in the brain.
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They control everything that gives a man self-control, wisdom,
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understanding, discrimination, judgment, balance,
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the power to assess everything.
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In other words, everything that makes a man behave at his best and highest
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takes away that.
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What the Holy Spirit does is the exact opposite.
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The doctor says,
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if it were possible to put the Holy Spirit into a textbook on pharmacology,
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I would put him under the stimulants,
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for that is where he belongs.
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He really does stimulate.
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He stimulates every faculty.
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The mind, the intellect, the heart and the will.
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Now I think you can see that very clearly in this paragraph.
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There's so much in this little paragraph.
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We could put a whole series of sermons on it.
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But there is, you can see it almost at a glance,
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this startling contrast between being drunk
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and being filled with the Spirit.
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Just look at these verses in a moment.
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You see the drunk, he staggers around all over the place.
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He doesn't know where he is.
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He can't walk in a straight line.
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That's what they used to do, didn't they,
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before random breath testing.
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You were asked to get out of your car.
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You kind of blew into a bag.
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And then the policeman said to you,
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can you walk in a straight line?
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That drunk person cannot walk in a straight line.
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But the Spirit-filled person, verse 15,
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knows exactly where he's going.
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He's careful how he walks.
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It says there in verse 15, literally.
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And then verse 18,
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drunkenness leads to debauchery.
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It says in our text, it talks about riotous living.
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We say, don't we, he's wasted.
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Totally wasted when he's drunk.
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But the Spirit-filled person, if you look at verse 16,
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is someone who is not wasted,
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but at verse 16 he makes the best use of time.
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And he makes the most of every opportunity.
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If one of the researchers,
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there are about three and a half million
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working days lost to alcohol and drugs.
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Can you see the contrast?
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There's no staggering all over the place.
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There's no wasted days for the Spirit-filled person.
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There's no muddle-handedness.
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There's a disciplined lifestyle.
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Look at verse 17.
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There's no hangovers.
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Alcohol confuses the brain.
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But the Spirit-filled person understands what the will of the Lord is.
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He's not muddling in his thinking.
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Or look at verse 19.
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This is what a Spirit-filled church looks like.
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I don't know if you've ever been in town where the pubs were empty.
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It doesn't happen.
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It happens so much in Ealing.
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But growing up in South Wales,
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you'd be in town when the pubs were closing.
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It used to be at 11 o'clock.
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And it's the exact opposite of verse 19.
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And so in church, we sing to one another,
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not drunken songs,
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not sluried speech,
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but we speak to one another
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and we sing to one another
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in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs.
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And that's what a Spirit-filled church looks like.
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You notice it in funerals particularly.
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I've seen loads of funerals.
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It's the sharpest contrast in the world.
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You take the funeral of a Christian and a non-Christian.
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And if you have to go to the crematorium
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where there are no Christians present
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and you have to press the button
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and the singing comes on over the CD
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and I am the only one singing,
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it's a pretty miserable affair.
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It drags you down.
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But you go into a Christian funeral.
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You go to the funeral of Tom Chapman,
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the minister of Surrey Chapel,
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where the church will be full
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and it might be a very tragic death
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in very tragic circumstances.
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But the singing of a Christian funeral lifts the Spirit.
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You've experienced that.
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There's such a contrast.
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Between the drunken songs
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and the Spirit-filled singing of God's people.
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And so look at this.
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You see, amongst the people of God,
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there's no staggering around.
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There's no staggering gate.
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There's no wasted days.
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There's no muddled heads.
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And raucous laughter and discordant songs.
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And verse 20, there's no regrets.
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For the drunk, there's always the morning after,
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the night before.
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There's the hangover,
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the hazy memory of what's been said and done.
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You're not quite sure,
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but the Christian,
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the man or the woman who's under the influence
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of the Holy Spirit,
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has no regrets.
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Verse 20,
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they give thanks always.
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And for everything to God the Father
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in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.
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That's the Christian life.
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That is the life controlled by the Holy Spirit.
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It is always giving thanks.
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For everything.
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Let me give you an example of this.
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I read this week of a Korean businessman.
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The man was in his 50s.
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He was obviously very unwell.
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He stood up to give his testimony.
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And this was his testimony
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before a crowd of 27,000 people.
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He said,
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I'd like to thank my friend.
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His speech was unclear.
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He could only just stand.
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He was a wreck, this man.
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He obviously had health problems.
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And he said,
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I'd like to thank my friend Parkinson
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for introducing me to Jesus.
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And he wasn't talking about Michael Parkinson.
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That isn't a superficial
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praise God whatever happens.
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No, that is a deep thankfulness.
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Isn't that?
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That is the Spirit's work.
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When things are not going right for you,
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always giving thanks for everything.
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No regrets because God is in control.
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The Spirit is at work.
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And no drunken brawls either.
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No bloody noses.
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No broken jaws.
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Instead, verse 21,
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submitting to one another
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out of reverence,
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of Christ.
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Isn't that what church life should be?
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It's always a sign
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of the Spirit being at work
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in church life.
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To put others first
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are not a me first attitude.
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It's not like kids,
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me, me, me first.
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So many churches are like that,
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isn't it?
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What can I get out of things?
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Staying away from church
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so people will chase you.
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But no one said,
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how can I serve the body
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submitting to one another?
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I could go on.
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No broken homes either
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because of the way the chapter continues.
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Verse 22 and 23.
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And we get examples,
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don't we,
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in the rest of Ephesians 5
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of what spiritfulness looks like
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in the home
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between husbands and wives,
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what it looks like
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between parents and kids,
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and what it looks like
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in the workplace.
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When the Spirit is in control,
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there's no broken homes,
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there's no domestic violence.
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There's no abused children.
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That's what the,
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what the chapter is telling us.
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It's such a difference,
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isn't it?
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It's such a contrast
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between being drunk with wine
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and being filled with the Spirit.
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It's a contrast,
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not a comparison,
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and it's sharp.
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And it's really worth
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meditating on that this week.
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To get a picture of what it means
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to come under the influence
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of the Holy Spirit.
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But the main point
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I want to make to you tonight
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is the command
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to do not get drunk on wine
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which leads into debauchery.
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and say,
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here's the positive command.
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Instead,
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be filled with the Spirit.
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And I want you to see
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it's not so much
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of an experience
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as a command.
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Listen to this testimony.
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We were in a constant
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state of worship.
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They were the happiest days
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of my life.
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We were floating,
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swimming in the feeling
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that we were about
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to enter eternity.
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We had no doubts.
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Does that sound like
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somebody
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who is filled
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with the Spirit?
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They are the words
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of a Muslim suicide bomber
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who failed in his mission
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when the bomb didn't explode.
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He'd been taught
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that the first drop of blood
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to be shed during jihad
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would wash away
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his sins instantaneously.
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And he would face
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no reckoning
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on the day of judgment.
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And he was high.
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High as a character
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on such an experience.
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But it sounds very similar,
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doesn't it,
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the way some Christians talk?
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Is that what Paul means
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when he says
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be filled with the Holy Spirit?
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Now it's interesting
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that there are different words
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used in Acts and Ephesians.
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And we don't always
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appreciate that.
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The Eskimo
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has 47 different words
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in their language
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for snow.
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When it snows,
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it doesn't mean
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it's snow
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in Eskimo land.
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It snows
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in lots of different ways.
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And for us,
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it's just white and cold
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is that snow.
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But for the Eskimo,
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there are all these
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different ways
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of understanding
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what snow is.
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So for example,
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they might have a word,
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let's call the word
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fluff fluff.
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Which means,
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you know,
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that kind of really
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light,
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powdery kind of snow
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that floats
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softly to earth.
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You know?
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Christmas card snow.
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Generally covers everything
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with a pristine
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12-inch blanket
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of dazzling white.
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It's perfect
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for photographs.
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Or they might have
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another word
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for snow
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called
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screaming freezer.
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which means,
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you know,
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the bitter kind of snow.
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The driven,
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horizontal,
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freeze your eyebrows
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off kind of stuff.
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That howls for days
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and buries everything
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on the suffocating
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avalanche of white death.
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Do you see the difference?
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You might say,
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it's snowing today.
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But you need to know
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the difference
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between the two.
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The words you're going
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to use
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if you're going to
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go out on it.
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Isn't it?
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And so when the Bible
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speaks about being
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filled with the Spirit,
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it does use
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two different words
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to describe it.
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There are two words.
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And just because
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Gethin works for us
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everything,
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so I'm starting to use
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Greek lots.
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It's not.
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I've just read
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Don the Cloud.
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Alright?
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One word is
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pluroo.
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Pluroo.
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And the other word
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is pimpleni.
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They're different words.
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of being filled
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with the Spirit.
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In the Acts of the Apostles,
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when it describes
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the church being
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filled with the Holy Spirit,
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the word is
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the pimpleni word.
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But when Paul speaks
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here in Ephesians
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of being filled
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with the Spirit,
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he uses
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the pluroo word,
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which is a different word.
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And it carries
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a different sort
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of nuance to it.
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In the Acts of the Apostles,
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it was a dramatic
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coming down
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of the Spirit.
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Narrative
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is not
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normative.
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What I mean by that
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is the book of Acts
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is a distinct time
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in redemptive history.
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We mustn't look
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at the book of Acts
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and think,
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oh, I tell you what,
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Peter had a handkerchief
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he sent around the place
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to heal people.
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Poor Levy,
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let's get his handkerchief
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and set that around.
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That's not what it's like.
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And the words did
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all kind of
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dramatic things.
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And the word
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that is used there
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is complaining.
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And people were empowered
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for particular acts
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of ministry
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and so on.
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But the word
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that Paul uses here
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is a different word
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altogether.
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Be filled with the Spirit,
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he says.
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Now let's think about
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what this means.
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What does Paul mean here?
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Four really
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simple points,
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four Ps.
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Number one,
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it's a passive command.
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It's a passive command.
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So,
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does he say
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fill
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with the Spirit?
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Or does he say
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be filled?
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There's a difference.
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A really important difference.
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Let's go back
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40 years,
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you know,
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you wanted to fill up
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your car,
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you go to the garage
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and there's a little
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man or woman
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who walks out
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from the little booth
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in the garage
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and you don't even
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have to get out
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of your car
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and you wind
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your window down
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and you say
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fill her up,
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please.
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You sit in your car
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and somebody
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would fill
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your petrol tank
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for you.
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It would be wonderful,
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wouldn't it?
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Those days are gone.
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It would do itself now.
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But in those days
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it was filled
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for you.
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Well,
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it is the Holy Spirit
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who fills you.
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He is the one
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who does the filling.
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Paul is not saying
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to you tonight
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fill yourself.
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He is saying
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be filled.
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Can you see the difference?
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Let me try and illustrate it
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again in another way.
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There is a command
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in the Bible
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to love.
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If you are a Christian
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you are to love
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your fellow Christians.
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You are to love
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your enemies.
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And so on.
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That is a command
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for something
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for you to do.
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But if I say to you
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be loved
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that is a different
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command, isn't it?
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That is a passive
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command.
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That means there has
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to be someone
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out there
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who is going
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to love you.
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And you have to be
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open to that love
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and to receive
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that love.
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To be prepared
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to be on the
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receiving end of it.
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And that is what
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Paul is saying here
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about the Holy Spirit.
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He is not saying
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do this
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and do that.
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Do this
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and do that.
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Press this button.
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Go to this meeting.
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Attend that conference.
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And hey,
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presto,
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you will have an
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experience of the
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Holy Spirit.
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That's not what he's
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saying.
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He's saying be filled
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with the Spirit.
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Be open
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to the Holy Spirit
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taking control
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of your life.
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That's what he's
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saying.
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To be on the
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receiving end.
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It is passive.
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And so I want to
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ask you and myself
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and us as a church,
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how open are we
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to the Holy Spirit?
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How willing are we
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for the Holy Spirit
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to take over
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our day-to-day
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lives?
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How much do we want
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that to happen?
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Jesus said in the
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Beatitudes,
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he said,
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Blessed are those
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who hunger and
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thirst for they
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shall be filled.
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Those who hunger.
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One of the things
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I began to pray for
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us as a congregation
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more than anything
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else is we would
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be hungry.
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And we would be
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thirsty.
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Blessed are those
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who hunger and
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thirst.
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So isn't it
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true,
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as A.W.
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Tozer said
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somewhere,
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that everyone is
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as full as they
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want to be.
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Everyone is as
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full as they want
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to be.
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He uses this
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illustration,
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he says,
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you see a
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Mercedes-Benz
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or a BMW
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and you want
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that.
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You see the
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pro-shirt or you
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watch the advert
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and you dream
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about having a
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Mercedes or a
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BMW.
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And then you
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see the cost
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or the price.
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And you forget
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about it,
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don't you?
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I'd love a
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MacBook,
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you know,
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an Apple MacBook.
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And occasionally
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I dream about it.
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And I see the
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cost.
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And you forget
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about it,
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don't you?
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Any sane person
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would forget
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about it.
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I don't want it
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that much.
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Do I?
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If I wanted it
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that much,
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I'd make the
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sacrifice,
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I'd make it
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happen,
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but I don't.
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I'm not willing
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to make the
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sacrifices to pay
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the price to
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have it.
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It's probably
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a good thing.
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But the
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question is,
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how badly do
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you want to
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be filled
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with the
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Holy Spirit?
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And so many
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of us
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are Christians,
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we know the
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jargon,
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we know what
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we're supposed
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to say,
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but do we
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really want
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the Holy
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Spirit to
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take control
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of our
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lives?
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Do we
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want it as
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badly as we
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think we
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do?
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Are we
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prepared to
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pay the
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cost of
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that?
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Because there
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is a cost
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to it.
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We want
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it,
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but do we
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want it
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that much?
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And if we
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don't want it
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that much,
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are we
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going to
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settle for
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getting away
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with the
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bare minimum
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of what we
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can get away
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with and
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still be
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thought of
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as Christians?
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That is not
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being filled
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with the
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Spirit.
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You see what I'm
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trying to say?
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I'm saying it
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imperfectly, but
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we're as full
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as we want
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to be.
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Not as full
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as we think
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we want to
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be, but as
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full as we
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really want
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to be.
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And Paul
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says, be
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filled.
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It's a
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passive
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command.
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Allow the
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Spirit to
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fill you,
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he's saying.
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It's passive
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and it's
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plural.
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Do you
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notice it's
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a corporate
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command, it's
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a command
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for the
-
whole church.
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Americans
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would say,
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yawl, be
-
filled with
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the Spirit
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yawl.
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That is
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something that
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happens when
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Christians get
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together.
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The
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command is a
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plural command
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that's addressed
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to all the
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Christians.
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You have to
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see it in
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that context,
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it's when
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Christians get
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together,
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it's when
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Christians gather
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in the name
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of Christ.
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That is what
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this little
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paragraph is
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describing.
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It's something
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that takes
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place in the
-
context of
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worship and
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fellowship.
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You are
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making melody
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in your
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heart to
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the Lord
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and you're
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singing
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chalms and
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hymns and
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spiritual songs
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to one
-
another.
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And you
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see it in
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the context
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of the
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meeting for
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worship and
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fellowship,
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that people
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are filled
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with the
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Spirit.
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Now I
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think that's
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an important
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point.
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When they
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are submitting
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to one
-
another out of
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reverence for
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Christ, it
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is in the
-
context of
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Christians living
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together and
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worshiping
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together and
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fellowshiping
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together and
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speaking the
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Word of God
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to one
-
another.
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It's in that
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context that
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the Spirit of
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God comes.
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It's what the
-
old writers
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called the
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means of
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grace.
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Let the
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Spirit fill
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your hearts
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and lives
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protecting your
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imaginations.
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And if you
-
want that to
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happen, you
-
need to use
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the means of
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grace which
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God has
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given.
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Use, as
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someone has
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said, all
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the resources
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of the rich
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Christian
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tradition.
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It's poems,
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it's songs,
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it's liturgy
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to help you.
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This old
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preacher called
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Dr.
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Joeet,
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Joeet was a
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preacher in
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London and
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he tells him
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how he once
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went down to
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the coast of
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Tainmouth.
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He sat by
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an old
-
sailor, a
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man who
-
spent many
-
years on a
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sailing vessel
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and he
-
said, do you
-
know anything
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about the
-
wind?
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He said, yes,
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I know a lot
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about the
-
wind.
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Well, will
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you explain
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to me the
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phenomenon of
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the wind?
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I don't know
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what you mean.
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How do you
-
explain the
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wind?
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What do you
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know about
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it?
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Well, actually,
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I don't know
-
anything about
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the wind.
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But I know
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wind.
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I can hoist
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the sail.
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And I think
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that's the
-
point, is it?
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Do you remember
-
what Jesus said
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to Nicodemus?
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He spoke about
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the Holy Spirit
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and he says,
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the wind blows
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where it wills,
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you hear the
-
sound of it,
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but you can't
-
tell where it
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comes from or
-
where it's
-
going to.
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It's a mystery,
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you can't
-
control the
-
wind.
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We can't
-
control the
-
Holy Spirit.
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we can't
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say the
-
Holy Spirit
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is coming
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down now
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in our
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meetings.
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That is
-
horrible when
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you hear
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people talk
-
like that.
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You can't
-
trick your
-
fingers and
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say,
-
wind,
-
come here.
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You can't
-
say,
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Holy Spirit,
-
come down
-
at this point
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in the
-
service when
-
the musicians
-
begin to
-
play the
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softly music
-
in the
-
background,
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the lights
-
go down and
-
everybody moves
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to the front.
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That is
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blasphemous
-
nonsense.
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You cannot
-
control the
-
Holy Spirit.
-
it.
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The wind
-
blows where
-
it wills,
-
but you
-
can hoist
-
a sail.
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You can
-
put yourself
-
in the
-
way of
-
the Spirit.
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Under the
-
means of
-
grace.
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You can
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gather with
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God's
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people.
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You can
-
put yourself
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under the
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preaching of
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the words.
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You can
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come to
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the Lord's
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table.
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You can
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be at the
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gathering of
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God's people
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to pray.
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you can
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sing songs
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and hymns
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and spiritual
-
songs and
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catch up
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with one
-
another and
-
speak God's
-
word to
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one another
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and submit
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to one
-
another out of
-
reverence of
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Christ and
-
the wind
-
will blow.
-
And you
-
will find
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that there's
-
wind in
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your sails
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in the
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Christian
-
life and
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so make
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use.
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You want
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the wind
-
in your
-
sails?
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Make use
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of the
-
means of
-
grace.
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Gather
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with God's
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people.
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It's a
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passive
-
command.
-
It's a
-
plural
-
command.
-
It's a
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present
-
continuous
-
command.
-
It's a
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present
-
continuous
-
command.
-
Can you
-
see it?
-
Literally
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go on
-
being filled
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with the
-
Holy Spirit.
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That's what
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it is.
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It's not a
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once and
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for all
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experience.
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Now how
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do you go
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on being
-
filled?
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How do
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you go
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on in
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the
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Christian
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life being
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filled?
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How do
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you go
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on with
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the wind
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in your
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sails?
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Let me
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say two
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things.
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And the
-
New
-
Testament
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really says
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two things
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about this
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and it
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couches
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them both
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in the
-
negative.
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Just go
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back in
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the previous
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chapter to
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chapters 4
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and 5
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in verse
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30 of
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chapter 4.
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Verse 30
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chapter 4.
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First half
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of Ephesians
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Paul is
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broadly
-
describing the
-
gospel.
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The second
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half of
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Ephesians
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he's
-
describing
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Christian
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lifestyle.
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And he's
-
explained the
-
gospel but
-
now he's
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going to
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show you
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how to
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live out
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the
-
gospel.
-
And so
-
in chapter
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4 verse
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30 he
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says do
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not grieve
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the Holy
-
Spirit of
-
God
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with whom
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he was
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sealed for
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the day
-
of redemption.
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Do not
-
grieve the
-
Spirit.
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Let me
-
illustrate this.
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Jeff Thomas
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my friend
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let me
-
quote you.
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He puts
-
it so well
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he says our
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relationship with
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the Holy
-
Spirit is
-
not like your
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relationship with
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a speed
-
camera.
-
Don't you
-
hate speed
-
cameras?
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That's my
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words not
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Jeff Thomas's.
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That camera is
-
not grieved if
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you do 35
-
mile per
-
hour in a
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30 mile per
-
hour zone.
-
It might be
-
situated in the
-
most beautiful
-
valley in
-
Wales but it
-
never takes
-
photographs of
-
sunsets or
-
lakes or
-
swans flying
-
across the
-
fields.
-
It simply
-
snaps your
-
car breaking
-
the speed
-
limit.
-
It is a
-
pre-programmed
-
machine and
-
he says your
-
relationship with
-
the Holy
-
Spirit is not
-
like that.
-
Then he goes
-
on to use
-
another
-
illustration.
-
He says your
-
relationship with
-
the Holy
-
Spirit is not
-
like your
-
relationship with
-
a cash
-
dispenser.
-
You feed in
-
your card,
-
you punch in
-
your number and
-
out comes the
-
money.
-
That's all it
-
does.
-
You can be
-
in the
-
foulest of
-
moods imaginable.
-
You can be
-
muttering and
-
complaining under
-
your breath and
-
shouting at your
-
children to
-
stay still.
-
But the cash
-
point is utterly
-
indifferent.
-
It will simply
-
give you what you
-
want if you
-
sufficient credit.
-
My relationship
-
with the cash
-
point is inert.
-
It's not like
-
that with the
-
Spirit.
-
He is a
-
living person.
-
We saw that in
-
the first thought,
-
didn't we?
-
That he is a
-
loving person who
-
grounds and
-
loves and
-
prays who can
-
be grieved
-
and blesses.
-
And if I
-
am not
-
maturing and
-
not loving and
-
not praying and
-
not witnessing and
-
not worshipping that I
-
should, then the
-
fault does not lie in
-
the breakdown of the
-
divine machinery.
-
It lies in our own
-
failure to maintain a
-
growing living
-
relationship with the
-
Lord who is the
-
Spirit.
-
Spirit.
-
Grieve not the
-
Spirit.
-
You know when
-
you've offended
-
your wife, don't
-
you?
-
You know when
-
you've offended
-
your mum or your
-
dad.
-
You know when
-
you've offended
-
your friends,
-
don't you?
-
There's a
-
cooling off in
-
the relationship.
-
There's a
-
distance.
-
There's an
-
atmosphere.
-
Well, it's
-
time to put it
-
right.
-
And Paul is
-
saying, go on
-
being filled with
-
the Spirit.
-
Let your
-
relationship with
-
Jesus, be the
-
same by the
-
Holy Spirit.
-
Be sensitive to
-
what offends
-
him.
-
Don't have a
-
mechanistic view
-
of the Christian
-
life where we
-
plug into this
-
or we plug into
-
that.
-
And then we'll
-
have the power.
-
Or we think, I
-
am justified.
-
And so it's
-
just all right.
-
And you kind
-
of have a
-
reformed
-
mechanistic view
-
of the Christian
-
life.
-
No, it's a
-
relationship.
-
With Jesus
-
through the
-
Holy Spirit.
-
Don't grieve
-
this gracious
-
willing guest
-
who's come to
-
live in your
-
life.
-
Don't offend
-
him.
-
And then the
-
other thing
-
the New
-
Testament says
-
is do not
-
quench the
-
Spirit.
-
1 Thessalonians
-
5.19
-
Do not put
-
on the
-
Spirit's
-
fire.
-
Do not
-
treat
-
prophecies
-
with contempt.
-
He puts
-
those things
-
together.
-
They're related.
-
You ever
-
been in a
-
situation, maybe
-
you've been
-
in a house
-
group, or
-
maybe it's
-
been outside
-
the church
-
altogether,
-
at work,
-
and you've
-
said something
-
in the Bible
-
study, and
-
somebody else
-
has taken a
-
massive jug of
-
cold water and
-
poured it on
-
it.
-
It's very
-
difficult, isn't
-
it?
-
You don't want to
-
say anything ever
-
again when that
-
happens.
-
You get terrified
-
the next time
-
there's a question
-
asked.
-
It's so
-
discouraging.
-
We need to be
-
careful, don't we,
-
when we speak to
-
each other.
-
in our Bible
-
studies or at
-
church on a
-
Sunday, that we
-
don't pour
-
cold water on
-
someone else's
-
contribution.
-
But do you
-
see what Paul
-
is saying?
-
Paul is saying
-
we can do
-
that with the
-
Holy Spirit.
-
Don't despise
-
prophecies.
-
What is
-
prophecy?
-
There's all
-
sorts of
-
madness about
-
what is
-
prophecy.
-
Prophecy is
-
speaking the
-
word of God.
-
That's what I'm
-
doing now.
-
When you share
-
the Bible with
-
someone, you are
-
speaking the
-
word of God to
-
them.
-
Don't despise
-
when somebody
-
is sharing the
-
word of God
-
with you.
-
Don't despise
-
prophecies because
-
you might be
-
pouring cold
-
water on the
-
Holy Spirit.
-
And if we do
-
that, well it's
-
no wonder, is it,
-
that our spiritual
-
ardour and
-
fervency dampens
-
down.
-
Don't quench
-
the Spirit's
-
fire.
-
So there's a
-
contrast or a
-
comparison.
-
It's a
-
command, it's a
-
passive command, a
-
plural command, a
-
present continuous
-
command.
-
Go on being
-
filled with the
-
Spirit.
-
If you want to
-
come under the
-
influence of the
-
Holy Spirit, then
-
you go to the
-
Bible, not
-
to the bottle.
-
It's very
-
interesting, isn't
-
it?
-
I'm running out
-
of time, but it's
-
really interesting.
-
Colossians chapter
Colossians 3 chapter mention
-
3, it's really
-
exactly the same
-
passage.
-
But instead, Paul
-
says there, instead
-
of saying being
-
filled with the
-
Spirit, do you
-
remember what he
-
says?
-
He says, let the
-
word of God dwell
-
in you richly with
-
psalms and hymns and
-
spiritual songs.
-
It's really
-
fascinating.
-
Instead of being
-
filled with the
-
Spirit, Ephesians,
-
he tells the
-
Colossians, let the
-
word of Christ dwell
-
in you richly.
-
See what he's
-
doing as you
-
compare those two
-
passages?
-
He's saying if you
-
want to come under
-
the influence of the
-
Holy Spirit, if you
-
want the Holy Spirit to
-
come to you, then go to
-
the Bible.
-
That's what you've got.
-
And not to the
-
bottle.
-
Let the word of
-
Christ enrich.
-
That's why we love the
-
Bible.
-
Let it furnish your
-
meetings.
-
Let it enrich your
-
conversations.
-
You cannot separate the
-
Bible from the Holy
-
Spirit.
-
He is the author of
-
Scripture.
-
And if you want to be
-
controlled by a person,
-
we might say, he's full
-
of so-and-so.
-
He's always quoting
-
him.
-
He's reading his books.
-
He's reading his
-
articles.
-
He's influencing his
-
thinking.
-
And if you want to be
-
full of the Spirit, he is
-
not a power to plug into
-
or anything like that.
-
He's not a cash machine to
-
dispense power.
-
If you want to be filled
-
with this person, the
-
third person of the
-
blessed Trinity, then you
-
need to be reading what
-
he's written.
-
And we ought to be
-
thinking his thoughts
-
after him.
-
So it's passive, it's
-
plural, it's present
-
continuous, and it's
-
powerful.
-
Let me end on this
-
point.
-
What does the Holy
-
Spirit fill us with?
-
What does it mean?
-
Do you remember that
-
episode in Isaiah chapter
Isaiah 6 chapter mention
-
6, in the year that
-
King Uzziah died?
-
I went into the temple
-
and I saw the Lord.
-
John tells us in 1241
-
that it was Jesus he
-
saw.
-
It's a great one for
-
children witnesses.
-
They've missed it.
-
It's very clear in
-
John 1241.
-
But the Lord whom
-
Isaiah saw in Isaiah
-
6 was Jesus.
-
And that makes sense
-
to me because you
-
cannot see God
-
except through Jesus.
-
And God makes
-
himself known in
-
Jesus.
-
And in the year that
-
King Uzziah died, I
-
saw the Lord high and
-
lifted up.
-
On the train of his
-
robe filled the
-
temple.
-
And above him were
-
the seraph, each with
-
six wings, with two
-
wings.
-
And they covered their
-
faces, and with two
-
they covered with
-
their feet.
-
And with two they
-
were flying and
-
they called out to
-
one another, holy,
-
holy, holy is the
-
Lord God almighty.
-
The whole earth is
-
full of his glory.
-
And that's what we're
-
talking about.
-
God is in his
-
temple.
-
His glory fills the
-
place of his
-
fullness.
-
That we have all
-
received.
-
And so go on being
-
filled with the
-
spirit says Paul.
-
Let's pray.
-
Let's pray.
-
Let's pray.