Sermon
Song 1v15-2v7
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Well, please head in your Bibles to page 560, to the Song of Solomon, or the Song of Songs, as we have the title on the beginning of the book.
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! The Song of Songs on page 560. And we read earlier from verse 15 to 2 verse 7.
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I look and stare so deep in your eyes. I touch you more and more every time. When you leave, I'm begging you not to go.
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Call your name two or three times in a row. Such a funny thing for me to try to explain how I'm feeling, and my pride is the one to blame.
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Because I know I don't understand just how your love can do what no one else can. You've got me looking so crazy right now.
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Your love's got me looking so crazy right now in love. So said the great poet, Beyonce.
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Or how about this? Every time you look at me, my heart is jumping. It's easy to see.
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Loving you means so much more than anything I ever felt before.
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You drive me crazy. I just can't sleep. I'm so excited. I'm in too deep.
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Yes, that was Britney.
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What is the difference between those songs and this song here?
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I mean, apart from the fact that this song is much older, and all the flower and animal imagery we have here,
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they're not all that far apart, are they? At least in the bits that I quoted for you.
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And that in itself is worth noting.
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This is a song that shows us a man and a woman who are madly and deeply in love with each other.
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The first half is them talking to each other.
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You can see the he and she.
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And then the second half is her talking to her friends about him.
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And this pair are crazy in love.
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And yet we find this song in the Bible.
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It's a song given to us by God himself.
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And more than that, what section of the Bible are we in?
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This is in the midst of all the wisdom books.
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This beautiful song, this song of songs, the best song, is trying to teach us some wisdom.
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I should have checked more carefully probably, but I'm just assuming that wasn't part of Beyonce's or Britney's agenda when they wrote their songs.
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So how can this passionate love song between a man and a woman teach us wisdom?
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Well, to figure it out, we need to go on a few field trips.
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We're going to go to four different places to learn four different lessons.
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And hopefully we'll come out the other end a bit wiser.
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So, we'll need to go to the art gallery to learn that this is it.
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Then we need to go to the battlefield to learn that this is not always it.
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Then we need to go to the gym to learn that this is not it.
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And then the temple to learn that this is it.
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What are we on about?
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Well, let's start off by going to the art gallery to learn that this is it.
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As we arrive at the art gallery, we see this beautiful picture of love and marriage as God imagined it, as he designed it, as he created it.
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And when you look at it, you think of all the reviews that you've read of this painting.
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And you see that it's clear that it's been massively underrated.
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This is better than how most Christians describe it.
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This is better than how the scientists describe it.
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It's better than how the culture describes it.
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It is just stunning.
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Now, when you look at this picture, you realize that we have massively dismantled what marriage really is.
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We have taken it apart.
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And I'm not just talking in terms of changing the legal definitions of who can marry whom, or in terms of watering down the standards for divorce.
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That is just part of it.
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It goes far deeper.
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We have taken it apart bit by bit.
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I have a bit of a running joke with my mother about a politician called Sir Malcolm Rifkind.
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If you don't know who he is, you don't need to worry.
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I'll just tell you that he's a rather posh, straight-laced, serious man.
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And one night, years ago, he was on television, probably news night or question time or something like that.
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And my mother just said she'd always wondered how Malcolm Rifkind speaks to his wife.
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Because he's just such a serious-looking man.
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So she does a rather funny impression of how she imagines he would speak to his wife.
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Hello, my darling.
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One loves you all very much.
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And that might be totally unfair to Malcolm Rifkind.
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I don't know.
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But I think a lot of us can tend to think that the Bible is a bit like that.
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So here are two people who have fallen madly in love.
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And then along comes the Bible.
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And just sort of goes all Malcolm Rifkind on them.
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It's all very well.
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It's all very good that you want to be together.
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But we need to organise a legal ceremony for you.
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And here's the contract to sign.
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And you have to promise to stick together for life.
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And here are the rules.
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And here are your duties.
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And as long as you do this and that.
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And do help each other in these ways.
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You're good to go.
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And just try not to enjoy it too much.
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I think that's how we think the Bible says it.
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And some people's belief that the Bible is like that.
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Is because some Christians are like that.
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The Church Father Augustine.
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Having been quite sexually immoral before his conversion.
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Went so far as to say that the ideal way to go was a celibate marriage.
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So get married and just stay friends.
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And don't enjoy it.
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But you'll find an equally cold description in the way scientists might describe marriage.
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It's just about pairing off and mating and perpetuating your genes.
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It's all sort of cold and clinical, isn't it?
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And then over on the other extreme of things.
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The culture presents love and romance as something that's only and exclusively to do with feelings and desires and passion.
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Love is love.
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It doesn't matter whom you love.
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Or how many people you love in a lifetime.
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Or how exclusively you love them.
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Or how long you love them for.
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Or the fewer rules and regulations, the better.
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Just go with the flow and do whatever you want.
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Pretty much everyone's definition of romance and marriage focuses on just one part of the picture.
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And then it ignores all the rest.
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But here's what we get when we look at this full picture.
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We get breathlessness at the beauty.
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It's especially true of the man.
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It's probably why he does so little of the talking here.
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She has taken his breath away.
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Our passage starts in 115.
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Behold, you are beautiful, my love.
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It's a bit of a Malcolm Rifkin translation.
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That little word, behold, at least in this context, is probably best translated,
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Wow!
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How beautiful you are!
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Now why exactly he says her eyes are like doves is not all that clear.
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So commentators will spend quite a while debating it.
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It's their job, to be fair.
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But while they argue, we can at least notice that he is just mesmerized as he gazes into her eyes.
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Her beauty blows him away.
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And she actually doesn't think she's anything that special.
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In verse 1 of chapter 2, she's not praising herself there.
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When she calls herself a rose, or better, an asphodel or a wildflower of Sharon.
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Sharon was this plain covered in wildflowers.
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And then she calls herself the lily of the valley.
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Meaning just another of the many little lilies, which are two a penny, in the valley.
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She's being self-deprecating here.
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But in verse 2, he is having none of it.
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She's like a lily among brambles.
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She is like no other.
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She's amazing.
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He hasn't got eyes for anybody else.
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When the day comes.
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When he sees her walking down the aisle.
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Whatever she may think of herself, and whatever anyone else thinks of her.
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To him, she is the most beautiful woman on the planet.
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And likewise for her.
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He's like an apple tree that totally stands out from the generic background of the forest.
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There's also delight in the differences.
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The way they complement each other here is different.
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You'll notice.
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They're not interchangeable partners in the partnership.
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The man and woman are distinct.
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And they play a different role in the marriage and in the role they play in the song.
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That it wouldn't make sense to swap a man for the woman.
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Or the woman for the man.
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While she's a lily among brambles.
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Like here's a tree among the forest.
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Sort of a similar idea.
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Similar feelings.
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But expressed in different ways.
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And we see them carrying different roles.
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There's a lot of passion in the practicalities.
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And she describes a lot of the practical details of marriage in this passage.
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When she says that their couch is green.
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Or better that their bed is verdant.
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And she's saying that there's cedar and pine holding up their house.
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She's not saying that they enjoy spending time together outside.
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As some commentators think.
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She's thinking about fertility.
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And how she'd love for their family to grow.
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How she'd love for them to have children.
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She's thinking about their relationship as a solidly built house.
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Long lasting.
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In verse 3.
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She sees him as an apple tree.
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That gives her shade.
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And provides sweet apples.
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She's talking about how he protects her.
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And provides for her.
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As she thinks of him being.
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Of being with him in the banqueting house.
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Or literally the house of wine.
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In verse 4.
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She's sitting under his tribal or his military banner.
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It's a picture of how she's submitting to him.
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It's a really beautiful and poetic way of saying what Paul would later say in Ephesians 5.
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Wives submit to your husbands.
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Husbands love your wives.
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But it is really worth noting that she doesn't first sing a great song about how delightful and gorgeous he is.
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And then just make a list.
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And I'd like for us to raise children together.
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And I'd like to be together for a long time.
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And I'd like for him to protect me.
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And to provide for me.
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And I want to submit to him.
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No, no.
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She is singing about all of that too.
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The whole thing together as a package is worth singing about.
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And it's largely because he takes responsibility to make it worth singing about.
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He makes sure that he's the kind of person that she would want to live with.
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When he protects and provides.
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He makes sure that what he provides is sweet and beautiful.
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And what it looks like for a husband to provide and to protect.
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Will be different for each couple.
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There will be different needs and different gifts and different talents.
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But however he protects and provides.
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The way he does it makes her want to sing.
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And the reason it's such a joy for her to submit to him.
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To sit under his tribal banner.
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Is because his banner over her is love.
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Husbands and fiancés and all potential husbands.
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What banner do you want to fly over your families?
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Is it control?
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Is it popularity?
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Is it success?
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Or is it love?
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For those who know you and your family best.
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Could they look at you and say,
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There goes a husband and a father.
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Whose banner over them is love.
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A man who protects and provides and loves.
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So we've gone to the gallery.
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And we've seen that this is it.
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This is what God designed.
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It is a beautiful, holistic, robust picture.
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It's rich and beautiful through and through.
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But of course we can't all live in art galleries.
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So we need to spend some time at the battlefield.
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To learn and acknowledge that this is not always it.
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So at the battlefield we learn this is not always it.
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This beautiful picture shows the design for love and marriage.
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And yet there is a sense in which this picture is out of reach.
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In different ways for each and every one of us here.
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But out of reach nonetheless.
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It's an area of our lives that is a battlefield one way or the other.
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For some this is out of reach.
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Because while you think God hasn't particularly given you a gift for singleness.
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That is where you find yourself.
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And it's been a long time of waiting.
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Maybe for some of you.
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You don't even feel particularly capable of wanting this.
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When you think of love and romance.
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You find yourself tempted to desire things that God has forbidden.
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Or even though you are attracted to this vision of marriage.
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You're still feeling tempted to seek pleasure and fulfillment elsewhere while you wait.
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For some of us it feels out of reach because we see it in the past.
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Through the pain of bereavement or the tragedy of divorce.
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And it can be a battlefield for those who are married.
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That may be facing the difficulty of not seeing the family grow as you'd wish.
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With maybe the pain of infertility and loss of children.
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Or maybe just simply the days when it just feels like a bit of a fight.
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To keep those beams and rafters up.
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To keep them in place and to keep loving each other each day.
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Sadly for others it is much worse than that.
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Where instead of a place of happiness and delight.
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And provision and protection.
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The home has become the danger to be protected from.
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The Office of National Statistics.
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Reported that between March of 2016 and March of 2017.
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In England and Wales.
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About 1.9 million people.
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Aged between 16 and 59.
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Experienced some kind of domestic abuse.
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About two thirds women.
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About one third men.
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So it is worth noting.
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If anyone here is going through that.
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Please do seek help.
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From the police.
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From the elders here.
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From trusted friends.
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If you're the person being reached out to.
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Do believe what your friend is telling you.
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There's a whole range here isn't there.
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Of ways in which this picture is out of our reach.
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Ever since Genesis 3.
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This is out of our reach.
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And maybe can touch a more nerve.
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And actually in the passage.
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We see the woman facing something of a struggle.
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Herself in verse 5.
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She says she's sick with love.
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Now we might assume that this means.
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That she just swoons at the sight of him.
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But in the ancient world.
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To be sick with love.
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Was always to do with someone being absent.
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Not present.
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She's sick with love.
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Because he's not there.
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She misses him.
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Like crazy.
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This section of the book.
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Is likely describing the time.
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Before they get married.
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With them getting married at the beginning of chapter 4.
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And so the Christian Standard Bible.
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It's a recently revamped translation.
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Which I think does a really good job.
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With this passage.
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In places like verse 6 for example.
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It says.
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May his left hand be under my head.
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And his right arm embrace me.
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Which I think is a better way of seeing it.
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He's away at the moment.
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And she's waiting.
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And so here she's turning to her friends.
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To help her get through it.
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To sustain her with raisins.
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And refresh her with apples.
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Waiting for him is really hard for her.
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So she turns to friends for help.
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I think that shows us the importance of not facing the battle.
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Whatever the battle is for you alone.
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Whatever particular pains and struggles are.
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We don't need to face them alone.
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Just as she turns to her friends.
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We needn't pretend like our lives are all completely peachy.
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And we can and we should.
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Look to one another for help.
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And for sustenance.
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And refreshment.
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And there's obviously an appropriate level of discretion.
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In how we talk about this area of our lives.
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But it is a significant part of our lives.
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That is public.
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And worth being open about.
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And seeking the support of friends for.
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And for living wisely.
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In our different particular circumstances.
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And if we look back at this beautiful picture.
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Even for those that are happily married.
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There isn't always this sense of excitement.
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Is there?
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And as C.S. Lewis points out in Mere Christianity.
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It doesn't really make sense.
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To want it to be like this all the time.
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He says this.
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If the old fairy tale ending.
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They lived happily ever after.
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Is taken to mean.
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They felt for the next 50 years.
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Exactly as they felt the day before they were married.
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Then it says.
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What probably never was.
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Or never would be.
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True.
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And it would be highly undesirable.
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If it were.
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Who could bear to live.
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In that excitement.
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For even five years.
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What would become of your work.
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Your appetite.
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Your sleep.
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Your friendships.
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So if this is something.
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Beyond all of us.
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One way or another.
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And not even realistic.
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Or desirable.
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For our whole lives.
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Then surely there must be something more to this song.
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And so we've got two more places to visit.
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To figure out what's going on here.
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Next place is the gym.
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Where we learn that this is not it.
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The gym where we learn that this is not it.
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When you go to the gym.
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Each exercise or each piece of equipment.
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Will be more or less similar.
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To activities that you do in real life.
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Work with it.
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So on one end.
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You can get a step machine.
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Which is like climbing steps.
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And the movement there.
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Involves very much the same as climbing steps.
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Or if you get an erg or a rowing machine.
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What you do on that.
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Is very similar to what you do when you're rowing.
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And yet on the other end.
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You've got weight machines.
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That get you moving and lifting.
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In ways that you would never move and lift.
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In normal life.
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And yet they're useful.
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Just to keep you generally fit and healthy.
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But also just to strengthen.
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All kinds of bits of you.
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That will be useful in everyday life.
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And the sum of songs is actually like.
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Both of those ends.
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At the same time.
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So on the one hand.
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You can glean all it has to say specifically.
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About love and marriage.
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And there is a lot to learn there.
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And on the other hand.
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As commentator.
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And my former professor actually.
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Ian Duggett.
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He points out.
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At its core.
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This is a book that's all about.
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About desire.
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It's a book about desire.
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It doesn't matter.
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When you first.
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Said the words.
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I want.
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Or however you say it.
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In your mother tongue.
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You have been expressing the fact.
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That you want.
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For even longer.
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Than you've been able to speak.
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The youngest baby.
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May not be able to articulate.
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What he or she wants.
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But they can make it pretty clear.
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That they want something.
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Can't they?
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That we find ourselves.
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Find in ourselves.
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A capacity for wanting.
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And think about how much wanting you do each day.
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How often do you think.
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Or say.
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I want.
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On any given day.
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That we are just non-stop.
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Wanters.
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Aren't we?
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So it makes sense.
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That we should.
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Have a book.
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That gives us wisdom.
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How to handle this.
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This feature.
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This capacity.
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To desire.
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So more fundamentally.
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Than being a love song.
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The song of songs.
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Is a guide.
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To wise wanting.
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And where better.
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To give us a clear.
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Lesson.
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In wise wanting.
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Than in the area.
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Of our earthly lives.
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Where we want.
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Most strongly.
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And desire.
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Most deeply.
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So what does the passage.
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Teach us about that?
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Well first of all.
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Simply from seeing.
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How this delight.
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And desire.
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And pleasure.
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Is so joyously celebrated.
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That we can see that.
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Desire is a good thing.
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It is God who made us.
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To be wanters.
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Our ability to want.
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Was his idea.
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From the beginning.
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Now not everyone.
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Believes this.
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Buddhism for example.
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Is all about.
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Disagreeing.
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With this.
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Idea.
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Buddhism has.
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Four noble truths.
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The first noble truth.
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Everything.
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Suffers.
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The second noble truth.
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The cause of suffering.
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Is desire.
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Third noble truth.
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Of Buddhism.
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To stop suffering.
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Stop desiring.
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Fourth noble truth.
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Follow the eightfold path.
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To learn.
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To stop suffering.
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Ellis Potter.
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Who.
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Is a former.
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Buddhist monk.
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Who came to faith.
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Through the ministry.
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Of Francis Schaeffer.
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He gives this.
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As an example.
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Of how this all works out.
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If I have a toothache.
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And I desire.
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That the pain will stop.
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And it does not stop.
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I suffer.
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But if I have.
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A toothache.
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And I do not desire.
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That the pain will stop.
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And it does not stop.
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I do not suffer.
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I am free.
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You see.
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The pain is there.
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But if I realize.
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That I have the pain.
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I don't suffer.
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My experience is not.
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I have pain.
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But pain is.
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But the truth is that.
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God made us to be.
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Wanters.
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And it is possible.
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For us to desire.
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Good things.
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And to enjoy.
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Good things.
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That is a wonderful gift.
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From God.
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If you know.
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The Torah.
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Theopatechism.
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That the chief end.
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Is to.
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Glorify.
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And.
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Enjoy him.
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But verse 7.
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I think.
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Is a really key verse.
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Where.
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The woman here.
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Gives us.
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Some particular exaltations.
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About some wise.
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Wanting.
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So verse 7.
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So note.
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First of all.
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She adjures them.
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By the gazelles.
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Or the does.
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Of the field.
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What on earth.
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Is that about.
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What can you learn.
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About wanting.
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From that.
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What does she mean.
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Is she just being a bit.
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Flowery.
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And poetic.
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Well she is obviously being.
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Flowery and poetic.
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And these are animals.
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That are used throughout.
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Licked to images.
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Or romance.
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And love.
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But there is something.
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More going on here.
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It's a bit of poetic.
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Word play.
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The word.
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For gazelles.
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In Hebrew.
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Is.
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Savot.
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Which.
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Sounds a bit like.
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Savot.
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That means.
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Armies.
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Or hosts.
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Some people use the phrase.
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In English.
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The Lord.
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Savot.
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That's what it is.
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The Lord of armies.
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Or the Lord of hosts.
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And.
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The phrase.
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Do's of the fields.
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Aliot.
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Hasadeh.
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Sounds a bit like.
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El Shaddai.
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They are both poetic ways.
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Of alluding to the Lord.
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To Yahweh.
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Whose idea.
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Was romance.
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And love.
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And marriage.
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And sexuality.
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It was Yahweh.
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Sabah.
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Ot.
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It was.
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The Lord of hosts.
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It was.
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El Shaddai.
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Lord Almighty.
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Which means.
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That he is the Lord.
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And master.
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Over all of our desires.
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Our desires.
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Are not our master.
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Our desires.
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Don't define us.
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That what we want.
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Is not the most important thing.
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In the world.
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The whole realm.
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Of love.
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And marriage.
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And sexuality.
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And the whole area.
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Of our wanting.
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More generally.
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Is to be humbly submitted.
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To the Lord.
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That means.
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That we can sin against God.
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In the way we want.
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That we can sin against him.
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In what we want.
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Or we can.
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We can put our desires.
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Above him.
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Or desire what he's forbidden.
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If you want to be married.
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That's a good thing.
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But that desire.
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Is not to be your God.
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That's not to be your master.
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It's to be desired.
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Under the lordship.
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Of the Lord of hosts.
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Do you want a nice job.
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Maybe.
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That is a good thing.
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But it is a desire.
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To be held.
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In submission.
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To God Almighty.
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Do you desire.
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Sexual gratification.
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Outside of marriage.
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Or sexual relationship.
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With someone of the same sex.
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Then.
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They are desires.
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To be confessed.
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As sin.
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We submit those desires.
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To the Lord.
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By repenting from them.
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By turning away from them.
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And that means.
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That if they're desires.
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To be confessed.
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And repented of.
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That does mean.
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That they are desires.
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That can be forgiven.
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But we are not.
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To mishandle.
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Our capacity.
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For wanting.
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We shouldn't abuse.
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Our God's given ability.
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To want.
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To be continued.
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Then if you look.
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At the end of verse 7.
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She specifically.
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Exhorts.
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Them.
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Not to stir up.
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Or awaken love.
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Until it pleases.
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Not until you please.
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Until you want.
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But until it pleases.
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Or until it is fitting.
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We don't let our desires.
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Take the driving seat.
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With God's help.
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We are to keep them.
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Under control.
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And we should acknowledge.
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That as good.
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And fantastic a thing.
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As the desire.
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And delights.
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Of romantic love.
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Are.
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As well as all kinds.
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Of good things.
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That we can have.
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Here on earth.
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There is a time.
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And a place.
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For each thing.
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The fact that sexual love.
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Is beautiful.
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And joyous.
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Doesn't mean.
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That you let it control.
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It means that you keep it.
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In its rightful place.
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Within the bond of marriage.
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Where God has created it for.
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And so she's not saying here.
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Never ever want this.
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She's saying.
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Be wise and obedient.
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In how you want it.
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Want it in the context.
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Of the fear of the Lord.
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Which is of course.
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Where wisdom begins.
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So when you find yourself.
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Wanting something.
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Whether that is.
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A sexual desire.
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Or financial.
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Or you want power.
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Or popularity.
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Or a nicer house.
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Or better toys.
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Or more books.
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Or whatever it is.
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We are called here to ask.
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Am I wanting.
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Wisely.
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Am I confessing to God.
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The times when I desire.
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Sinful things.
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Am I acknowledging.
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That God made this capacity.
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For wanting.
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That I have.
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And that I should use it.
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For his glory.
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Is what I want.
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A good thing.
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Am I wanting good things.
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Wisely.
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Am I trusting God.
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To be wiser than I.
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In deciding.
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Whether I get it or not.
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Are there all kinds of questions.
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That wise wanters.
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Should ask.
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It's worth thinking of.
-
What those questions.
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Might be.
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So maybe that can be your homework.
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Or your lunchtime conversation starter.
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What questions.
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Do wise wanters.
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Ask.
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Ask.
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Well that's the lesson we learn.
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At the gym.
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This is.
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About more.
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About more than just love.
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And marriage.
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This is about wise wanting.
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But it's.
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If it's more about more than that.
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Then it is more about that.
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In another way as well.
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So for this fourth lesson.
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We need to go to the temple.
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To see that this.
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Is it.
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So what is it.
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When we go to the temple.
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To learn this lesson.
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Well as I mentioned.
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If you look at.
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Chapter one.
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Verse one.
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This is the song.
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Of songs.
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Means.
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This is the greatest song.
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Of them all.
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Just like.
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The holy of holies.
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Is the holiest place.
-
The song of songs.
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Is the best song.
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In the world.
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And.
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Not even the best.
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Purest.
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Most passionate.
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Marriage.
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In the world.
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Is worthy.
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Of the best.
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Of all songs.
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The only love.
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Worthy.
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Of the song.
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Of songs.
-
Is the love.
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To which the song.
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Together with all of the bible.
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Ultimately.
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Points us.
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It's giving us a glimpse.
-
Of how God.
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Loves us.
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And specifically.
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How Christ.
-
Loves his church.
-
This song.
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Points us.
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To a God.
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Who loves us.
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Deeply.
-
And movingly.
-
We see a God.
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Who wants to enter.
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A deep.
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Intimate.
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Relationship.
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With his people.
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We rightly.
-
See ourselves.
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Or should see ourselves.
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As just a wildflower.
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Of Sharon.
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With all of our sin.
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And all of our disordered desires.
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With nothing special.
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And yet.
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He chooses.
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Amazingly.
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To see us.
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As a lily.
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Among brambles.
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And he.
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Makes us.
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The love.
-
Of his life.
-
As I was saying earlier.
-
About how we've broken up.
-
The idea of marriage.
-
We've done at least as much.
-
To dismantle the.
-
The bible idea.
-
Of covenant.
-
It's a word that.
-
That's used to describe.
-
Our relationship.
-
With God.
-
Covenant.
-
Just sounds like.
-
Sort of a stodgy.
-
Theological.
-
Technical term.
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Doesn't it?
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We've made it into a bit.
-
Of a Malcolm Rifkind word.
-
And maybe you're here.
-
This morning.
-
And maybe you're not a Christian.
-
And all this.
-
Sounds pretty foreign to you.
-
Pretty foreign experience.
-
But well.
-
Maybe this is what.
-
You thought it was all about.
-
Just a sort of a stodgy.
-
Uptight relationship.
-
Where I keep the rules.
-
And he sort of reluctantly.
-
Let's me in.
-
Maybe you've even understood.
-
That the good news of Jesus.
-
Is all about him.
-
Offering us salvation.
-
But maybe you've thought.
-
That he just sort of.
-
Does it reluctantly.
-
He does his bit.
-
He does his duty.
-
And then he goes off.
-
To be where he really wants to be.
-
But just as we saw earlier.
-
That biblical marriage.
-
Embraces both.
-
That the passion.
-
And the practicalities.
-
Together as a whole.
-
And also as things to be celebrated.
-
And delighted in.
-
So also.
-
Our covenant with him.
-
Is an intimate.
-
Loving relationship.
-
And it's to be celebrated.
-
Jesus wants to be with his people.
-
He wants to gaze into our eyes.
-
He loves us.
-
Deeply.
-
It's not just words either.
-
By the power of his spirit.
-
He wants to grow this family.
-
As he adds more and more people.
-
To the church.
-
And as he builds the house.
-
His temple.
-
His church.
-
And he ensures that it will last forever.
-
Jesus protects us.
-
And provides for us.
-
Ultimately.
-
He protects us from the evil one.
-
Breaking our chains.
-
As he cried out from the cross.
-
It is finished.
-
Jesus provided.
-
The means of being brought back.
-
To God.
-
And he provides us all.
-
With resurrection life.
-
He brings us to the banqueting house.
-
To feed us bread and wine.
-
And he lovingly subdues us to himself.
-
And his banner over us.
-
Is love.
-
That is what it really means.
-
For him to enter into covenant.
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With us.
-
It's what it means to be a Christian.
-
The Bible's covenant history.
-
As boring as that might sound.
-
It's essentially.
-
It's a love story.
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It's the greatest love story.
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Ever told.
-
Celebrated by the greatest.
-
Of all the songs.
-
And we help each other.
-
As we wait for his return.
-
We are to refresh.
-
And sustain each other.
-
As we wait.
-
And actually.
-
Because of our different situations.
-
If we are wise wanters.
-
We can actually help each other.
-
Learn something.
-
About how to wait.
-
As we wait together.
-
Just some examples.
-
If you're married.
-
For example.
-
You can point us to the joy of knowing Christ.
-
And the eternal joy.
-
Of which your marriage.
-
And this song.
-
Is really just a whisper.
-
If you're single.
-
And you're happy with it.
-
This morning.
-
You can show us.
-
How Christ.
-
Not any earthly spouse.
-
Ultimately.
-
Is the greatest joy.
-
Of our hearts.
-
If you're single.
-
And yet.
-
Hoping.
-
And longing for marriage.
-
As you want.
-
Wisely.
-
You can learn yourself.
-
And also teach your brothers and sisters.
-
So much.
-
About.
-
More importantly.
-
To wait on the Lord.
-
To wait for his return.
-
Those of you facing all kinds of trials.
-
And losses.
-
As you look to Christ.
-
As you find comfort in him.
-
And hope in him.
-
As you see this song.
-
As a song.
-
That is still yours.
-
With Christ.
-
Christ.
-
Whatever your circumstances.
-
However weakly.
-
You feel you might be doing it.
-
You really are teaching.
-
Your brothers and sisters.
-
That to know him.
-
Is better.
-
Those of you dealing with.
-
With temptations.
-
To want wrongly.
-
As you find joy.
-
And love.
-
In Christ.
-
You will show your brothers and sisters.
-
How he is better.
-
Than any earthly pleasure.
-
And you can model perseverance.
-
And joy.
-
In his grace.
-
For you.
-
And there is all kinds of things.
-
That we can learn.
-
About this song.
-
And about Christ.
-
From our different perspectives.
-
And standpoints.
-
And we can refresh.
-
And sustain each other.
-
In that way.
-
As we wait for Christ.
-
Together.
-
Whatever our different circumstances.
-
Let's praise God.
-
Together.
-
Let's wait for him.
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Together.
-
Together.
-
With each other's help.
-
Let's sing together.
-
His forever.
-
His alone.
-
Who the Lord from me.
-
Shall part.
-
With what joy.
-
And peace.
-
Unknown.
-
Christ can fill.
-
The longing heart.
-
Heaven and earth.
-
May fade.
-
And flee.
-
First born light.
-
In gloom decline.
-
But while God and I.
-
Shall be.
-
I am his.
-
And he is mine.
-
That is our song.
-
I am his.
-
He is mine.
-
Martin Luther actually said.
-
That is.
-
That will be his one verse.
-
To explain.
-
Union with Christ.
-
I am his.
-
He is mine.
-
Let's praise God.
-
For such a privilege.
-
Thank you.