Sermon
The Divine Dementia Intervention
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Let's pray, Father God, we need Jesus because it's not easy to live
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for you. We're sinners by nature. Evil is in us, and so
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we need Christ in us. Help us to find the good example of Solomon
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in our lives. And Lord, as I speak to the youth of the
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church today, I pray that you'll give them holy spirit power to be godly
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people in their generation. Nothing less and thank you for the chross in Jesus's
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name. Amen. Now, the video on YouTube went viral with over ten
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million hits this last week. That's a lot in a week. An eighteen
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year old boy, Cameron Robbins was on Blackbird's Revenge Sunset Crews in the Bahamas
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Islands and he did something that he would never live to regret. He had
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just graduated from high schools having fun with his friends, celebrating life. They
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were getting drunk, swearing, partying, livit it up, irreligious, doing
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things, screaming out things young people often do when they feel like they will
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live forever and there are no consequences. Now, I used to do that
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kind of thing when I was younger. It's part of the DNA to just
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forget God in your youth. There's something about being young that makes you at
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times feel like you're never gonna die, that you just couldn't come to the
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end of your life early. He then took the challenge. You see,
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some of the young people said, well, look, why don't you jump
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overboard into the ocean there and see if you can get the buoy and just
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come back and you'll prove your brave. So he took the challenge of his
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friends. He jumped into the water. It was night. Someone had an
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iPhone video taking a picture of him, and when he jumped overboard to the
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night, that would be the last time he jumped anywhere. On that viral
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video, his friends are screaming at him to come closer to the buoy,
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but he seemed to swim away, and then the video goes dark and no
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one knows what happens because he sank, and no one knows how he sank.
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He was gone. Experts have speculated that sharks were there, that was
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shark infested water. As soon as they saw him with the lights coming down,
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they pulled him down and his life ended suddenly. Cameron's body was never
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found, and his moral service was recently held without a body. Cameron died
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like too many young people die today who do not remember their creator in the
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days of their youth, who think that it doesn't matter how they live,
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it doesn't matter what they do, that somehow they're all got all right.
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God's love covers them in a state of rebellion and they don't realize, No,
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it doesn't work that way. Now, I want to tell you,
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when I was fifteen years of age, I lived in a state of rebellion
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against God. I was actively involved in crime in my hometown. I would
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steal, I would stay up at night, I would vandalize, and the
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thrill of that I thought was awesome. Man, just the thrill of it.
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But when I hit fifteen, something in me clicked and I realized,
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if I go down this route road, I'm going to die like the man
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my friend John Paul killed. And if I hang around these friends that I
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have, my life will be forever altered. And the Holy Spirit began to
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work on me, and I made a life change at the age of fifteen
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that altered my destiny. God help me, and I'm very grateful for that.
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Cameron died, but he didn't do that. Now. Dementia hits people
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when they're older. How maybe you've noticed he hit sixty. You don't have
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quite the good memory you have when you were fifteen. Anybody here, I
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mean that neuroplasticity that makes your memory fly right doesn't work as well when you
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get a little older. I'll raise those hands higher again. Okay, I'm
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in a happy club here. Good, I'm grateful. I'm not alone now.
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No one wants to get dementia. Our memories aren't as good. But
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dementia's when it all falls apart and you can't remember hardly anything. People you
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love, people, you know what happened last week? He tends, it
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goes and you're in trouble. That's the case now. Many people to day
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don't realize it, but they're suffering spiritual dementia. They've come to the time
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of their life where they forgot God and they can't remember him anymore. They've
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left him out and that sweetness of God, that the presence of God in
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their life has left a vacuum and a void that only God can fill.
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Solomon was one of those rare people who turned to God when he got older,
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even though he had known God when he was younger, and he lost
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God in the Middle. Very often people don't do that. When Salomon was
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an old man, he had led Israel into idolatry. He had actually participate
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in child sacrific vice on the Mount of Olives. He had lost his way.
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The man who built the temple profaned the very mountain that Jesus would die
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on the Mount of Olives, which would become Gaalgatha. And so he lost
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his way. But in his old age, the Holy Spirit reached him.
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The preexist in Christ, the living Angel of the Lord, the Word of
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God found him, and he came back to God. He came back to
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God. And as he was writing, without the brilliance of his youth,
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but with the wisdom of having learned from his mistakes, he wrote down a
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book called the Book of Ecclesiastes, which is meant for a younger generation,
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so they won't mess up like he did. So let's look at it.
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Before we do, let me go to the person of Billy Graham. Billy
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Graham once shared with the world why he held a firm confidence for the future.
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Billy Graham is one of the greatest of angelists the world has ever seen.
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Like John Wesley, millions of people accepted Christ to the minister Billy Graham.
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Mark Finley followed Billy Graham and Russia at the Kremlin and worked off of
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his great as to open up that eastern part of the world to the three
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third Angels message. So Billy Graham has a meaningful legacy, and he said
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this, I'm not going to heaven because I have preached to great crowds or
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read the Bible many times. I'm going to heaven just like the thief on
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the cross who said, in that last moment, Lord remember me. Now.
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That takes humility. He didn't say, well, I'm a great preacher,
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I know how to move the crowds. Now he says, no,
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I'm a sinner like the thief, and I want God to remember me.
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How many of you are in that club you want God to remember you?
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Okay? Solomon offered the Divine Dementia intervention Ecclesiastes for the next generation so they
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would not forget God and friends, if you don't forget God, God will
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not forget you. Did you hear me? If you're in the business of
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latching on to God, God will latch onto you and you will be saved.
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Ecclesiastes twelve, Verse one, Remember now your creator, and what does
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the tech say? And what days the days of your youth before the difficult
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days come? Now, how many of you can say the difficult days have
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started? Anybody in that club you bend over, Oh that hurts, or
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you run with you're fishing with the kids, and I'm sore, they're not.
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I've noticed I can't work for eight hours on end without having to take
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two days to recover. So before the difficult days come and the years draw
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near, when you say I have no pleasure in them, Psalm is not
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writing here to older people. He's writing his book for a younger generation that
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doesn't know what it's like to get old, lose God in your midlife,
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and come to the end and feel everything falling apart. He's writing to the
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youth who think they'll live forever, who are strong forever, who have the
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same gifts forever, who think they will always be that way, and they
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don't realize that a time is going to change in their life. The New
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King James version calls the older days the difficult days. The Revistandard version agrees
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with the Hebrew in verse one, and it translates it the evil days.
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The Hebrew literally reads the days of the evil. That's what old age is,
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the days of the evil. Not moral evil is meant here, but
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a time when life is hard, the time when life seems bad because you
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aren't pulling it off like you, where you're struggling to get the illness and
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weakness. The Greek septuigent translation uses the word for bad, which can also
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mean malice, suggesting the days when you regret life because it's hard, and
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you regret the days you have to put up with. The musical artist Roy
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Clarks sang the song Yesterday. Now. Roy Clarks one of the greatest guitarist
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to ever live. That's just a fact. Talent flowed through his hands like
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few people have. And he was famous for one song more than any other.
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He was on Heehaw and other things on television. But he wrote,
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he didn't write the song, but he captured it the best Yesterday when I
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was young, and he was that old when he sang it. He wasn't
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old at all. He was a younger man. He turned that song into
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a hit song. It's really philosophy and music. The lyrics, it's philosophy
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of music. It has been sung by many, but not as well as
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Roy Clark. It starts with the lyrics here it is yesterday when I was
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young. You can almost hear it, yesterday when I was young. It
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starts that way. The taste of life was sweet like rain upon my tongue.
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I teased at life as if it were a foolish game, the way
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an evening breeze would tease a candle flame. The thousand dreams I dreamed,
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the splendid things I planned. I always built a last on week and shifting
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stand. I lived by night and shun the naked light of day. And
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only now I see how the years have gone away. And then he ends
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his song this way. There are so many songs in me that won't be
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sung. I feel the bitter taste of tears upon my tongue, and that
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time has come for me to pay for yesterday when I was young. That's
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very sad. That's how Solomon felt he was paying for yesterday when he blew
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it when he was younger. Solomon Verse two continues while the sun and the
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light, the moon and the stars are not darkened, and the clouds do
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not return after the rain. What does that mean? Well, the sun
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and the moon are things you see with your eyes right And if you go
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out today, they say, if you expose yourself to the sunlight, it's
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good for your brain. It fights dementia. We senior citizens. By the
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way, have you ever gone to a thrift store and someone says, they
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don't ask you, are you a senior citizen? They say, you're a
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senior citizen. Have ever happened to you. It happened to me last week.
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I went to a thrift store and I like to say, well,
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I'm a senior citizen, and they say, well, we know that's not
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a good thing to feel. You know, well, when the sun and
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moon are darkened, when your eye sight gets bad and you can't see as
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good as you used too, those are bad days this year. That has
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happened to me to a small extent. I've had hard time reading right now
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unless I close my right eye. I read by closing my right eye.
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It's not fun. I don't have cataracts, but it's something which creates a
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similar effect. Cataracts are like clouds in your eyes, and you get older,
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your eyes cloud up. They say it starts at sixty. By seventy,
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you gotta have surgery. Most likely a retina can fill you. Also
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in the optic nerve can weaken. The bright sun becomes dark for eyes.
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If you have neuropathy, can affect your eyesight. Floaters fill the eye.
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And I have a piece of tissue my right eye that broke away from the
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optic nerve nor the retina, and it just creates this blob in the middle
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of my eye, and it's blurry and darker. And they say, well,
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I might go away in a year and a half. If not,
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they got a lasers appet Now. I don't like the idea of lasers in
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my eyes, so I'm kind of enduring it for a while. Now.
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Solomon is caught on young people to remember the Creator when they had good eyesight,
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not just physicalized. Do you realize, as a young person you are
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able to perceive spiritual things. You are capable of moral clarity, and you
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can develop that while you're young. Jesus said, the eye is the lamp
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of the body. If the eye is sound, the whole body will be
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full of light. So we need sound eyes, We need sound spiritual perception.
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God has given every one of us the ability to have a correct spiritual
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insight and sound thinking. Based on the Bible. See this book. Yeah,
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maybe you have in your hand, take it out, Bible, Bible,
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you bring the Bible. Church, Do you realize that you can become
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as wise as God in some ways if you listen to God through the Bible,
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that your brilliance can be opened up by the study of the Bible,
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that you can have clarity, You can speak to issues as God would if
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you study God's thoughts in the Bible. And so we have in this book
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the key to giving us understanding Proverbs three to seven. Do not be wise
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in your own eyes. Fear the Lord. And what is the fear of
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the Lord? Now? Okay, it is to do what depart from evil?
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Now do you guys? Is that projector on in the back? No,
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it's okay. Then I'll stick to my manuscript here. Sometimes they put
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the verse one right up in the back and it helps me so I look
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at the thing, so I don't have to look behind me. Now,
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we live in the pornographic age, when all you gotta do is take out
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your little device. You can look at any evil pornographic picture you want to.
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The statistics are this happens on a massive scale in our school systems that
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children. Young people are exposed of this by peers and others. It is
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perhaps one of the greatest challenges to our modern culture. You can go to
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the theater and watch the wrong stuff at home, it's easy to bring things
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into your mind and heart. Hollywood knows just how to put just enough good
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in something awful, so you'll endure the awful, and the awful will affect
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your character. Watching a little evil with a lot of good or viceversy,
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you think, wow, maybe it's okay. And yet people expose themselves to
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the F word. They expose themselves the images where there's too much skin,
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where the Lord's name is taken in vain, or the Lord has put down,
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religion is mocked, or spiritualism is embraced. So what Solomon would be
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saying to us today is use your spiritual and physical eyes to study your Bible.
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When your mind as bright as a young person, boys and girls,
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you should be in your time memorizing the Bible. You can memorize most of
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the New Testaments with that brilliant mind that God has given you before you hit
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twenty. To read the spirit of prophecy. When I was a young person,
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I used to take Sister White's books out, the five volumes of the
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Conflict series. And I was a janitor, and I'd be moving with my
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dusk mop back and forth and reading them. And I read the entire Conflict
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series. And they let me do it. At Fletch, your academy as
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a janitor, to grow in God by the study of nature and science.
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We got telescopes back here, probably about five thousand dollars of great telescopes.
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At Reaching Hearts, we can study astronomy, look up at the sky,
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the iryan nebula, and get to know the universe around Reaching Hearts. And
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you know, you know what else you can do. You can pursue the
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great thoughts of God, learn his character, his ideas, the philosophy of
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salvation as a young person. So Solomon is saying, remember your Creator,
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when your eyes are young, your mind is sharp, and when you look
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upon the world with wonder and awe, remember God. That's the golden time
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Verse three and Ecclesiastic swelve continues this good thought. In the day when the
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keepers of the house tremble, the strong men bow down, when the grinders
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cease, because they are a few, and those that look through the windows
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grow dim. A strong man guards his house. We all have a house.
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It's our head, it's our life, it's our home. But when
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he's old here it's hard to guard the house. When you are young,
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you have the best energy in life to guard your house, your mind,
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your life. Use that youthful energy and strength to resist evil and live for
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Jesus Christ. Before you get older. You know it's easy to give in
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to the world, isn't it. How many things it's easy to give in.
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Yeah, it takes a young boy and a young girl of courage to
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stand up and say, I'm going to be a Christian no matter what.
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I don't care if all my peers do this. If Jesus wants me to
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do that, I'm going with Jesus. I don't care how much pressure I
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get from this. That another thing. I'm going to stand for the Lord
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in my life. Proverbs four twenty three. Here is the text. Keep
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your hearts with all village vigilance, for from it flows the spring of life.
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So don't believe anyone who would tell you that you don't need to be
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careful in the choices you make in life. You do. Every choice you
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make shapes your character. Who you hang out with, who you watch,
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what you read, what you say and sing. They affect who you are,
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who you will become, and what you choose the value in life.
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It shapes you for the future, for good or evil. Let's go to
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verse three of Ecclesiastes twelve. And the strong men bow down when the grinders
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cease, because they are a few, and those that look through the windows
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grow dim. Strong men get back aches, and they stooped down in their
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latter years, and no one remembers that they could run a race and win
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it. Now, do we have any track experts here? Used to run
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in high school? Oh, if you're afraid to even say, aren't you
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how maybe you ran the mile? Okay, you ran the mile? How
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maybe won the mile race at your high school? Well? I did.
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I was the fastest to Fletcher in running the mile and the four forty the
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quarter mile race. But you know, if I got out there today and
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try to run that race, I'd look pretty pitiful, it really would.
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Those days are gone. Then the grinders here are teeth that fall out of
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your out you know, take your teeth going here, grind right, So
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the grinders here are the teeth that fall out of your mouth, so you
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can't eat well anymore. And the grinders that look through the window of your
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mouth grow dim because teeth get rotten, and they no longer have the beautiful
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white look they had when you were young. And then so that your young
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smile, of your youth is God. And so what he's saying is,
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remember the time when you smile and everybody like looking at your teeth. Those
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days are going to pass. It won't always be that way. They didn't
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have dentists back then. So friend, praise God with those teeth, lips
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and tongues of yours, and eat and drink for the glory of God in
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the door that is your mouth. That's what he's saying. Ecclesiastes twelve four
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continues. When the doors are shut in the streets and the sound of grinding
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is low, now your eyesight will fail you in later life, and you're
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hearing can also go. And that's what he's focusing on here, not the
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loss of sight, but the loss of hearing. When the doors are shut
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in the streets and the sound of the grinding is low refers to the ears
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that can no longer what they used to hear, or ears that hear in
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a different kind of way. Scientific empirical studies have shown hear me out here
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that people who attend loud rock concerts and musicians who performed for many years and
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these concept SARTs lose large portions of their hearing over time. Did you know
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that music that is over eighty five decibels will cause a hearing loss? Rock
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concerts often hit decibel ranges of one hundred, one hundred and fifteen decibels.
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Sister White referring to this kind of problem that came into the churches after eighteen
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forty four, where it was nothing but like a show, and she writes
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about we should avoid display. She called that a synagogue of Satan. And
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so we live in a time when much of this is at present in our
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modern culture. It doesn't sink with good Bible instruction. She encountered this kind
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of thing like many of the early abdence did shortly eighteen forty four, and
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the Holy Flesh Movement and those early Avenists faithful the Bible opposed in their writings
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and use of scripture this kind of worship because they wanted the next generation to
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worship and to praise God with their minds and hearts in perfect harmony with Heaven's
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atmosphere, in Heaven's blessing. And it's easy to forget our roots in this
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matter. So choose your music well so your hearing won't be lost. Make
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choices that preserve that part of you that you need for the rest of your
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life. Learn to appreciate the best music that will save your ears. Honor
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God and help save your soul too, Adapt to learn and grow. God
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didn't make your ears to be ruined by the noise of the world offers instead
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of the sweet praises that angels appreciate and participate in. In one of her
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places, she says that we should model the music, and she describes it
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that angels will come into because they will bless us and they will not depart
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if we are sacred in our context. And I look at verse four.
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It says when one rises up at the sound of a bird and all the
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daughters of music are brought low, that's the future. When you get old,
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sounds that wouldn't bother you when you were young and suddenly startle you when
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you're old. How many if you've noticed that you get startled by a sound?
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No one's raising their hand. Well, I'll tell you what it is.
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When my dog barks, I jump out of my seat like this.
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He's now with my son and Tennessee smoke him go oh you know, and
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I go, what happens? I've noticed I didn't do that as much too
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many years ago. Familiar sounds can startle you and cause you to jump.
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Music plays a major role in our lives, especially when you're young. But
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it doesn't last forever, And so he says here, all the daughters of
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music are brought low. The best songs of one generation are soon lost and
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mean nothing to the next generation. The music convented by one generation is quickly
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forgotten by another, and the thought and thought of his quaint old or obsolete.
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Now. In contrast, the songs that really last from one generation to
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another are those songs that define the soul with clear Bible truth, clear moral
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virtue, songs that shape us to be better for God. Now we have
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in our hymnal songs that were sung in the Reformation, songs that were sung
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in the Second Great Awakening, because they have survived the centuries, and they
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have brought hundreds y eight thousands of people to Christ they still affect us.
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We can bring creativity to those songs, we can reinvent them in a way,
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but we should cherish them also. Songs that lift up the truth and
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drive it deep within our hearts, inspiring us to purity of life and greatness
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of character, that sharpen our characters for Heaven, our intellects for service,
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and that glorify God instead of our entertainment desires and the clamor for pleasure and
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self gratification. When we learn Heaven's ways, we will like God's instruction,
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and we will see our character's desires transformed by the renewing power of the Holy
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Spirit. It Psalms one hundred and forty seven, Verse one, David says,
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praise the Lord, for it is good to seeing what What does the
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tech say praises through our God? Now? What kind of music is proper
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praise music? Here? It's buoyant, happy music. Music shouldn't make a
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sad all the time. It should also up lift us because God wants a
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happy people praising Him. And then it defines it, for it is pleasant
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and praise is beautiful your heart. God wants us to praise God in a
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way. It's beautiful Now that has to be defined. It has to be
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discovery. Has we struggled with every generation, but it should be sought after.
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God wants us to seem pleasant, positive, beautiful praise music that is
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not like the din of noise. The role produces the modern rock cords to
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her time, and I'm gonna say it's not like the clangy classical music either.
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That's so high falutin you can't connect God with it. Neither of those
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work. He wants every generation to create this kind of music, and the
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keyword is to create new music for their generation. Artists should arise within the
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Christian Church who struggle with scripture, who write, who come together with music
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and God inspires them. He'll make it surviving, inspire future generations, and
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it may become their hymns if it comes together in the church through your creativity.
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So we should be open for young people to explore along biblical lines how
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to pull that off. It's a high bar Psalms one hundred forty nine,
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Verse one, praise the Lord, Sing to the Lord. And what does
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it say? A new song and his praise in the assembly of the saints.
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You know, young people, use your beautiful voices and harmony. Sing
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to glorify God. Don't be afraid to try, but don't mimic everything out
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there. Seek God's way and see what he can do with that. How
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many musicians do we have here? We have a guitarist at reaching hearts.
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I'm a guitarist, okay. How any songwriters are reaching hearts? I'm a
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song writer. I've written four or so songs on my guitar. You write
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songs, too, Daniel. You should bring some of that Christian music that
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you've worked with. I've heard one of your songs and share it with us,
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Daniel. But God wants a creative generation. Why before the daughters of
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music are brought low, before the music of youth ends, every generation must
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express themselves correctly. Verse five continues. Also they are afraid of height and
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of terrors in the way. How many have you ever climbed up in a
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ladder and afraid you'll fall off? No one's ever afraid to fall off a
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ladder. Look. I've had to climb up a ladder to clean the leaves
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out of the gutters of this place. I don't like doing that, and
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others have taken over that. Now it's scary. The terrors in the way,
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the terrors of the night. Solomon continues when the almond tree blossoms.
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Now, what's he getting at here? Almonds have white blossoms, and all
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men's look like eyes. So what's white with eyes? Your head of your
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hair? Your hair? Yeah, your head of hair. The Hebrew word
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shahade for almond is built off the Hebrew bird, meaning to see schacade.
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This white almond metaphor refers to the gray hair of your head where your two
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eyes are found. I cut my hair frequently because my almond tree is blossoming.
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Someone is falling out. How may if you have almond trees here,
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a few of you, Okay, yeah, The cure for that is baldness.
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You know, well, you've you've arrived. I guess they're a little
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bit right. I'm losing it here and here a little bit. Ladies,
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you can keep your gray hair, and it's fine. You're beautiful gray or
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not. Solomon continues in verse five when the almond tree blossoms. The grasshoppers
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of burden and desire fails, You will one day drag yourself along like a
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grasshopper on the ground with this burden. When you're old and no longer able
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to walk like you used to. You have a stick that looks like a
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grasshopper leg and use a cane as you walk a own. That's the picture
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here. And no matter how much you can fall in love when you are
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young, according to Solomon, when you get old, desire fails. The
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Hebrew word here for desire is derived from the Hebrew word for a cape berry,
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which was an aphrodisiac, a sexual desire booster. So you aren't attractive
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like you were. You'll realize that you look at the marriage says, I'm
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not a knockout like I was when I was fifteen. And you'll look at
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you, and you'll look at yourself as a man, my hair, and
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why would anyone want to love me? And very often women try to overcompensate
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for that rather than grow gracefully old. Viagra won't work, cape berry won't
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work, he says, desire fails. So remember God when you're young,
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when you fall in love with vigor, and let your mind in spiritual principles
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guide your desires to make good decisions. Use your youthful energy and service and
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praise, making a difference in your community in the world. Don't date to
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have a good time or feel good someone I want to go date so they
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can hug up and get all this good affection and smothered with kisses when they're
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fifteen to eighteen years of age. Have broad and clean relationships in the church,
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and from those wholesome friends in the church. Let God guide you to
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a life companion and keep yourself pure all the way in the midst of this
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evil age. Now, if you've messed up, or if someone has messed
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you up, you know what God forgives you. Make the choice. Now,
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I'm going to get it right from to day on, and that's when
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you start over with the Lord. God forgives. God directs your life.
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God makes you pure. Sagham Solomon, chapter eight, verse four. I
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charge you, o, daughters of Jerusalem, do not stir up or awaken
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love until it pleases. Now what does that mean? He says that a
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number of times in the book Song of Solomon. Here it is, and
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I'm talking to young people who are wanting to know how to have relationships.
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Here it's an inverse relationship. First before marriage, as physical affection increases before
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marriage, are you following me, communication goes down? Did you get that
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idea. As physical affection increases before marriage, what goes down communication. You
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mess up your ability to get to know that person and to communicate. When
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you're petting or kissing, hugging and all that, you're enamored with the feelings,
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but you're not communicating in it sabotages your ability to communicate. Now,
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if you want a successful life companion, you need to have good communication before
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you get married. So that's why the Bible says, don't do that,
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keep the affection down, don't go there and talk, so he be friends
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now after marriage, when you're married, After you're married, when physical affection
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increases after marriage is God is blessed it. Communication will increase and affection will
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enhance communication. So the other messag is up your ability to get it right
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after you're married. Holding hands after you're engaged, but nothing more than that
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until you're married makes a lot of good sense. Now, in I counseling
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with young people, I've set with a number of couples, many of them
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who are married here, and one of the very first things I'll say is
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stop this interaction where you're having you know, heavy PDA. It just messages
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you up. And then they start communicating right there in pre marriage counseling.
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And I've only had one couple in my entire experience divorce over the years,
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and I'm very grateful for that statistic. And I recommended that couple not married
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actually because there were problems there, so you won't regret it, and your
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future husband or life will not regret it either. Now, that goes against
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what you're going to hear a lot of people say, some of your peers
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and the like, But guess what, that's what God says. It works
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best. Make good choices that will help you find the right person and be
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the right person for them. So dressing provocatively, now I've seen this,
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and you know this can be boys and girls where they want to dress in
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a way to look like they're attractive and they use the word sexy. I
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want to look sexy and attractive. Why do you want someone marrying you or
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getting to know you because you look that way or because you're a good person.
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See, so it sets you up for the wrong thing. So proactively
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dressing provocatively short skirts or pants or bus lines down, stuff that jangles and
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jangles to make you look like a Christmas tree. It doesn't help live modest,
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clean sincere lives now Peter and first Peter. Two, it was a
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three three all First Peter. He tells us that we that we the daughters,
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should be daughters of Sarah, who, like Sarah, the wife of
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Abraham, was beautiful in the ends, and that beauty just came out and
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was so obvious that it was marvelous. So we have a high example in
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the past. So as long and live as young person, and so we
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should young people. You should live as a young person mindful. The fact
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that one day you'll be old. Now, how made me feel like I'm
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speaking of the youth. You'll never grow Oh, I'm ab So you don't
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raise your hand. I had an older person to raise their hands. I
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don't feel like I'm growing old. Well, I can guarantee you. When
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I hit sixty, I felt like I'm growing older. Come on, you,
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dishonest folk. You know what I'm talking about, right, I mean,
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you got to be in the camp with me in a little bit.
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I felt like I'm getting older. I am getting older. I don't have
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the hair here as much. It's white all our way around a lot.
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I have that little backache. I mean, I'm not where heat says,
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I'll be maybe twenty years from now, but I'm getting there. So are
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some of you. Young people don't get the one day you're gonna get older,
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that you're laying a foundation for your old age right now. And the
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choices you make is youth. So respect your elders and the journey and the
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church. Those who have been before you have something to offer you. Don't
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ignore them. Solomon continues in verse five, for man goes to his eternal
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home and the mourners go about the streets. That one's not hard to figure
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out. One day you'll die, and people will cry over you for a
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little time, and then they'll move on in life. They'll go into the
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streets and they're gonna forget about you. So what matters is what you do
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with your life right now. Look at verse six, remember your creator.
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Before the silver court is loosed, or the golden bowl is broken, or
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the picture shattered at the fountain, or the wheel broken at the well.
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When you get older, your spinal cord can fail. When the silver cord
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is loosed, the spinal cord and your struggle with paralysis and loss of feeling
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can come upon you. Know this hit me in my early forties. I
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got out of bed. Now a church member who's not in church to day,
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I won't mention who they are called me at seven thirty in the morning,
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and I was in a guest room because I had to stay up and
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work on something. I'd fallen asleep there, and I jumped out of bed.
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I quickly turned to the door and I had the most intense pain I've
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ever had in my life, and I fell to the floor. My entire
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right leg was paralyzed over twenty years ago. Now before that, I used
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to run ten to twelve miles every other night. I was a long distance
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runner. And suddenly, with that pain, I could not even get up
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to stand. I dragged myself down the stairs. I had to. I
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had a backrack. I was able to pull my back out, and I
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went to the doctor's steroids a multi year journey to recover the use of my
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leg. I've never fully recovered it. I still have paralysis in my foot
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lower part. I can't raise my right heel, so if you see me
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sometimes I could trip easy. So I moved from running to fly fishing.
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So I walked through the stream, and I remember the days I used to
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run I like fly fishing, but I really I like running better, he
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says, when the golden bowl is broken, So the silver cord is your
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spinal cord is your ability to feel. When the golden bowl is broken,
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your bladder won't work, and is it used to now? When they my
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neurosurgeon took my disc out at L four L five, he told me you
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may lose control. I didn't, thank goodness, but that can happen later
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in life. And it gets worse when your picture is broken. You break
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your hip at the fountain, So he's given the picture of your body breaking
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down as you get older. And no one wants a bad fountain or a
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broken hip. It's embarrassing, it's shameful. Death follows, and so these
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frailies don't last forever. Verse seven. Then the dust returned to the earth
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as it was, and the spirit returned to God and gave it. In
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other words, one day you die like everybody else who came before you,
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and your life comes to an end. So why does he end his book
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this way? What does all this mean? The wise man is not speaking
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to older people, He's speaking to the younger generation. What is the cure
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for divine dementia, the decrease, the disease of forgetting God in your life.
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That's what he's focusing on. This wise old man Solomon did not leave
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the question and answered for the young to figure out. He didn't want you
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to figure it out by the mistakes you would make like he had made in
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life. Look at Ecclesiastes twelve thirteen fourteen. If you have your bibles opened
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them, I have it on the screen. This is the focal point of
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the message. Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter. What does
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the tech say? Fear God? How fear of the Lord? And the
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Bible means to love the Lord? Dud drive me ten twelve, to love
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him and keep his commandments. That is the fear of the Lord. To
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turn away from evil is the fear of the Lord. Fear God and keep
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his commandments. For this is man's all. Do you see that their vice
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daniversion says the whole duty of man. So, young people and older people
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alike, we are called to be obedient Christians. Right everything we do adds
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in our relationship to God. Not legalists, loving faith filled obedient Christians verse
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fourteen. For God will bring every work into judgment, including every secret thing,
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whether good or evil. He knows we failed. The Bible says all
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have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. But nothing will be
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hidden. And you know God needs to see you in your younger years,
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confessing your sins to the Lord, thanking him for salvation, making good choices
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in your life, choosing to be a righteous man and righteous woman in your
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generation. And if you remember God when you are young, God remember you
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when you're old. So remember God in the days of your youth, before
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the evil days come, when your soul has no delight in them. Live
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for Jesus right now before you can't. When I was fifteen, before I
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came to Fletch your academy, I remember distinctly, as if it was yesterday.
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I had a good friend named Jeff, Jeff Hutt. I've prayed for
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him over the years. I haven't met him since I was fifteen. He
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led me into a lot of those bad activities that I was involved in before
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I became a Christian. I was baptized near the end of my fifteenth year
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into christ. I never looked back, but I remember going fishing with Jeff
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and Freeze Virginia. At the damn that was there was late at night.
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The fine morning, I would be with my dog Fang, I'd be going
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to fletch your academy. I was turning a new leaf in my life.
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I was no longer going to be a part of what I was doing.
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And as we were fishing there, we caught a big catfish, you know,
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nightcrawler. As we caught and we were talking together and I said,
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Jeff. I turned to Jeff and I said, Jeff, why don't you
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go with me to fletch your academy. Why don't we leave this behind what
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we've been doing, and let's start over. And Jeff turned to me.
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I'll never forget what he said. He says, Mike, you're a fool.
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He says, you're going to run your life. You're going to run
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your life. I've already seen what's happening you. You're making a choice to
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become a Christian. I said, yeah, I am. I'm making a
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choice become a Christian because I need a new life. And he said,
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you know what, he says, I'm not going to do what you do.
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He says, here's what I'm going to do. I'm going to join
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the New York Yankees. I'm gonna be a world class baseball player. I'm
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going to be a writer and an author, and I'm going to travel the
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world. And you're running your life. That's what you're doing. And I
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pleaded with my friend, come with me. Now. I had no idea
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what would happen to our life journey. After that, I went to Fletcher.
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I met my father who was praying for me. I discovered a family
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I never had. My life changed. I was baptized into Jesus Christ by
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Elder Donald Valmer, who's still my pastor, called me this week to pray
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for me. Lifetime connection established. I googled my friend. He's still there
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in that local town. I can tell by by the Facebook stuff that he
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has no place forgotten his life. He has a hardness to him and I
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hope he changes. But he didn't become the writer. He didn't join the
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New York Yankees. He didn't travel the world. I've helped author books,
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I've traveled the world. I'm a writer. And when we won the litigation
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for this church, I'll never forget what Judge tid has said. It's like
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a little league game going up against the New York Yankees and reaching hearts are
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national one. You know, God has a way of making us our lives
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turn out when we don't know what will be the outcome. I look back
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and I'm horrified to think what would have happened if I'd stayed in town with
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my friend Jeff. I'd have kept drinking, I'd have kept stealing, I'd
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have kept living an awful life. I don't know if i'd be alive today,
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And you know how I view that that's another life, another place.
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I praise God for the Church and for God's word. Young people, remember
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your creator in the days of your youth and make a difference. God bless
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you your Father. May you blessed every young person here today who in their
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hearts says I choose Jesus right now and Father, just before in this prayer,
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if that's what you have chosen, raise your hand. Everybody's eyes are
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closed, including mind, raise it the God and say, I choose you
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Lord. I want to be a man of God, a woman of God
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in my generation. I want to grow up and live right for the Lord
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and shine Father. You know the ones who raise their hands, you know
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the ones who need to But Lord save us, save our kids, save
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us for your future. And Christ comes in those clouds of glory. He's
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not coming for anyone left us than the totally committed person. So give us
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Christ with no legalism but faith, love, joy, peace, kind spirit
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towards others. And thank you for having loved us with love, joy and
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peace forgiveness in Jesus name, Amen,