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The Necessary Things

Reaching Hearts SDA Church

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  1. Dear having Father, we are grateful for a right now,

  2. righteousness good enough for the judgment day and every day

  3. of our lives. If we will allow Jesus to do

  4. his work in us. So Father may self be out

  5. of the way, may hearts be surrendered. The preacher included,

  6. as we look for the necessary things in your word

  7. in Jesus' name, Amen. Henry David Throw left his complicated

  8. caterd world in early America to live a few days

  9. in a cabin to get the stress out of his life.

  10. And I did the same thing. In fact, number of

  11. years ago. Our my son Donald raised five thousand dollars

  12. so we could build a cabin on some property of

  13. the grandpa I had in northern Virginia and northern Tennessee.

  14. And I spent an entire month building a cabin with him.

  15. And it was like tension all over the place. I

  16. wanted straight lines. No, Dad, we don't have to be

  17. so st But it was like finally got up. It's

  18. almost perfect, but it is very much a place that

  19. we go from time to time to relax and get

  20. the stress out of our lives. David Throw did that,

  21. and that cabin has long gone. But some of the

  22. ruins of it is still there. But when he got done,

  23. he wrote some books on philosophy that have made world history,

  24. and they're part of American history. And I don't want

  25. to read all his books, but I want to focus

  26. on one statement he made. He said, simplicity. Simplicity. Simplicity.

  27. I say, let your affairs be as two or three

  28. and not one hundred or a thousand instead of a million,

  29. count half a dozen, and keep your accounts on your thumbnail. Simplify, Simplify.

  30. Is that good advice? Yeah? I think so. Terry Gillimet's,

  31. an author and anthologist of many great quotes, had this

  32. to say. It resonates with Henry David throw. She said,

  33. don't feel guilty about saying no to the non essentials

  34. in life. Simplicity is simply saying yes to joy, but

  35. saying no to and then she lists them creatively, overmuch, overwhelm, overdoing,

  36. over having, over being. These are not essential. You can

  37. say no to those things. I think that's good advice too.

  38. And the Christian life, every one of us needs to

  39. find the essentials, to know the difference between what God

  40. really wants and what really doesn't matter. What gets in

  41. the way of the essentials, and sometimes we accept burdens

  42. in our lives that God does not place on us,

  43. and those burdens affect our walk with God. And God

  44. remove the non essentials so we can have the necessary things.

  45. It's possible to load ourselves down with any and everything

  46. and think that God is telling us to do it

  47. when he's really not saying to do it. And when

  48. the complicated takes over the simple, the clear, the profound

  49. truths of God's word in our lives, it's so easy

  50. to lose a relationship with God because we've gotten bogged down.

  51. So I want to help you this morning by looking

  52. at Act fifteen to focus on the word of God

  53. and to see how we can lighten the load in

  54. your experience. The prophet Micah shared his burden for the

  55. essentials of a walk with God. Turned with me to

  56. Micah six, seven and eight. Will the Lord be pleased

  57. with thousands of rams, those are sacrifices, with ten thousands

  58. of rivers of oil? Shall I give my first born

  59. from my transgression, the fruit of my body for the

  60. sin of my soul child sacrifice? Look what he says

  61. verse eight. He has shown you a man and you

  62. can write a woman too, what is good and what

  63. does the Lord require of you? But to do justice,

  64. to love, kindness, and to walk humbly with your God.

  65. That is real religion. Those are the essentials in the

  66. Old Testament, with all the rules, with all the theology

  67. of the sacrificial system. God said, Look what I'm really

  68. trying to get at are the essentials justice, love, kindness,

  69. humble relationship with God. That's all I want out of you. Really,

  70. And yet we can make it so complicated. We can

  71. make ourselves the center of our relationship with God. We

  72. can focus on how smart we are, but not how

  73. wise the Lord is. Whereby we get off track. God

  74. would rather have a kingdom of justice, love and kindness

  75. than a kingdom full of critics, petty rules, browbeaters, virtue

  76. signaling and imposition on others, especially the new and the week.

  77. Elder Ryan Muster, how many have you got a blessing

  78. out of Elder Ryan Muster's message last week? It was awesome,

  79. Praise God, humble man of God. He's not a pastor.

  80. He's a layman who ministers across the country to young people.

  81. And he's a certified counselor and we were blessed at

  82. reaching hearts by his message. Ryan, if you're watching online,

  83. I want you to know that God be praised. Oh.

  84. I quoted Matthew eleven thirty to show us that God

  85. does not put heavy burdens on people. So I'm piggybacking

  86. his message a little bit here. Turn to Matthew eleven

  87. twenty eight, the great invitation of Jesus Come to me. Now,

  88. he doesn't say come to the church, even though the

  89. church is important. He doesn't say come to a theology.

  90. He doesn't say come to perfection. He just says, come

  91. to me. Friends, do you realize that everything you need

  92. in life is wrapped up in a relationship with Jesus

  93. Christ that is liberating. Come unto me, not just the elect,

  94. not just the perfect, all who labor and are heavy laden.

  95. And I will give you rest. That's the Greek word

  96. for sabbath rest verse twenty nine. Take my yoke upon

  97. you and learn from me. For I am harsh, I'm arrogant.

  98. What what's to say? I am gentle and lowly in heart,

  99. And you will find an a pus A sabbath rest

  100. for your souls is the Greek language for my yoke

  101. is easy, and my burden is we say it with

  102. me light friend. God does not place a heavy backpack

  103. full of burdens on the new believer as that person

  104. is baptized. He doesn't say, all right, you better shape

  105. up in a hurry, or you're not gonna be okay. No,

  106. he doesn't do that. The yoke of God is the

  107. law of God, and it's a good law full of justice, mercy, love, kindness, patience.

  108. God's law is God's character written out on paper. Jesus says,

  109. my yoke is easy, my burden is like Christ came

  110. to reveal what the law is, who God is at

  111. the Jerusalem Council in Acts fifteen. The Holy Spirit had

  112. a good burden for the new Gentile believers in anyone

  113. and beyond. God's burden was to help them see that

  114. the Christian life should not be a bunch of rules.

  115. The Christian life should be a focus on Jesus en

  116. joy in the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit cared for

  117. those new gentile believers who were baptized into Christ. The

  118. Holy Spirit was not pleased with these new babes in

  119. the faith being burdened, bogged down, bothered by false teachers,

  120. perfectionistic theologies, scruples and practices like circumcision, and other things

  121. rules and impositions that the Book of Hebrews says were

  122. imposed until the time of Reformation would come that God

  123. had not imposed for these new believers in the Apostolic era.

  124. As the Gospel went to the world, God was there

  125. to liberate those cultures, not to heavy burden them up.

  126. Circumcision was the judaizer's bottom line rule to prove with

  127. a sign, the sign of circumcision, that you were a Christian.

  128. But it was actually a very bad test for anyone

  129. with any common sense in the church because no woman

  130. in the church could pass the test. Only boys were

  131. circumcised into Judaism. To say you cannot be saved without

  132. being circumcised was silly from the beginning. Baptism was a

  133. better sign for new believers and calautions too. Paul makes

  134. it very clear that baptism is the sign of what

  135. it means to come into Christ, his death, his burial,

  136. and his resurrection. Circumcision was a prophetic type that pointed

  137. forward to the death and resurrection of Christ. It was

  138. fulfilled at the cross according to Calautionans too, so Baptism

  139. is a better way of letting people know you're a believer.

  140. How many of you been baptized into Christ? Raise your hand.

  141. I am happy I was baptized in the Christ. How

  142. many you're happier baptized in the Christ? You made both hands.

  143. Do you realize what happened to your baptism? You passed

  144. from death to life. You passed into a relationship with

  145. Jesus Christ. Your sins were pardoned because of the cross

  146. of Christ. And when God declared Jesus not guilty in

  147. the resurrection. When you come out of the waters, God

  148. declares you not guilty because of the death, the burial,

  149. and the resurrection, the perfect life of Jesus. Baptism is

  150. the sign that we are a believer. Christ said, whoever

  151. is baptized and believes will be saved. The one who

  152. does not believe will be condemned. So being baptized is

  153. tantam out to believing in the Gospel. When all the

  154. arguments were heard from the Judaizers who wanted disciples of

  155. the Law of Moses instead of Jesus, Peter and James

  156. both spoke up in behalf of these new gentile believers

  157. who needed the necessary things. Peter affirmed the first and

  158. most important truth of all in the Apostolic Gospel that

  159. saves us and changes us. The Gospel of God Friend

  160. is the gospel about Jesus. Paul says that in Romans one.

  161. But it is also the gospel that demonstrates that He

  162. died for our sins. He was buried to take away

  163. our sins. He was raised for our justification, which means

  164. our legal acquittal, not guilty anymore, because of Jesus. Now,

  165. you may have come to church and you may have

  166. felt deep inside that you can't make up for those

  167. past sins in your life. You're struggling with stuff right now,

  168. and you feel condemned of God because you're in the struggle.

  169. Dear heart, if you're in the struggle right now, you

  170. are not condemned. You're in a relationship with God and

  171. the Cross of Christ and the resurrection covers you by

  172. faith in your struggle to overcome because Christ has already

  173. overcome for you. The objective victory of the Cross is yours,

  174. so you don't have to lose your heart and be

  175. discouraged and lose your way in life. Thank God for

  176. the Apostolic Gospel. And so the circum party was really going.

  177. After all of that, Baptism was the better way. When

  178. all the arguments were heard from the Judaizers who wanted

  179. disciples of the Law of Moses instead of Jesus, Peter

  180. and James both spoke up in behalf of these new

  181. gentile believers who needed the necessary things, not the other stuff,

  182. and Peter affirmed the first and most important truth of

  183. all in the Apostolic Gospel that saves us. Look at

  184. Acts fifteen seven to eleven two actually seven two eleven.

  185. And after there had been much debate, Peter rose and

  186. said to them, brethren, you know that in the early

  187. days of God made choice among you that by my

  188. mouth the gentile should hear the word of the Gospel

  189. and believe verse eleven. And we believe, but we believe

  190. that we shall be saved. How what does it say

  191. in your Bible through the grace of the Lord Jesus,

  192. Just as they will now. The problem with coming up

  193. with a theology of the Gospel at the end of time,

  194. the claims that suddenly we know what the Gospel is.

  195. Nobody got it right until some final generation gets it right,

  196. is that it denies what Peter is saying we are

  197. only saved by the grace of Christ. We don't get

  198. into heaven because we're good people. We get into heaven

  199. because we're God's people, because we believe in Jesus. We've

  200. been baptized into Jesus. We are found in Christ on

  201. judgment Day, and we do not hide from the reality

  202. we have sinned. But we fall at the feet and

  203. we throw our crowns at the one who died for

  204. us on Calvary's cross. Christ is our hope and glory.

  205. And so Peter said here what he preached at Pentecost.

  206. The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ will save us

  207. all by faith. That's how we get there. Peter affirmed

  208. that we are saved by the grace of God. No

  209. one gets to heaven friend in any other way than

  210. Jesus' way. Jesus died for our sins. Jesus was buried

  211. to take them away. Christ was raised for our justification.

  212. In the Greek it means our legal acquittal. Now I

  213. can relate to that. When I was a young person,

  214. anybody here had people. When you grew up, maybe you

  215. didn't fit in like you said. I was an introvert,

  216. and so I had a hard time fitting in, and

  217. I really felt the pang of condemnation. Oh you ever

  218. feel that when you're growing up? Anybody here, okay, two

  219. others here in the church, so I don't feel alone? Okay,

  220. all right, that's all right. And you know what, it

  221. is liberating to know that in Jesus I am accepted

  222. as if I had never sinned. Did you hear that?

  223. And if Christ does not rehearse my failings, why should

  224. we do that in the church. When God brings a brother,

  225. a sister, or person and need through the doors of

  226. the church, we should be going out of our way

  227. to help them feel what God has given us, the acceptance,

  228. the love, and the peace that comes from hearing from

  229. Jesus at the cross. Not guilty anymore. The resurrection is

  230. proof of that. So James was the last to speak.

  231. And James knew the gospel that goes to the world.

  232. Peter James, Paul, they were in agreement at the Jerusalem Council.

  233. He knew that God's word is for the whole world,

  234. and he affirmed clearly the importance of the Bible and

  235. the Sabbath. In the affirmation of the Gospel turned to

  236. Acts fifteen twenty one. Now many people, in fact, I've

  237. been in churches that worship on another day who claim

  238. that there's no evidence New Testament that the Sabbath is enjoined.

  239. Now that the Jerusalem Council we find that James says

  240. this to show that those gentile Christians throughout the world

  241. are real Christians because they're keeping the Sabbath day verse

  242. twenty one. For from early generations, Moses has had in

  243. every city those who preach him, For he has read

  244. every Sabbath where in the synagogues, And so Cornelius and

  245. others whould help to build the synagogues. Gentiles came to

  246. those synagogues, and He's saying, look, these are Sabbath keeping believers.

  247. And if they're Sabbath keeping believers, they're real Christians. Some

  248. people day say, well, if you keep the Sabbath as

  249. a sign of legalism, that wasn't that way for the

  250. early Church. James affirmed with the prophet Isaiah predicted that

  251. the New Testament Church would be a sabbath keeping church

  252. from all peoples of the earth. That one of the

  253. benefits of proper Sabbath keeping is that it brings people

  254. from different nationalities and ethnic groups together because the Sabbath

  255. was made for the human race, Jesus says, Now, look

  256. what Isaiah says in Isaiah fifty six, verse six and seven.

  257. And the foreigners who joined themselves of the Lord to

  258. minister to him, to love the name of the Lord.

  259. That means his law, God's name, God's law, same thing,

  260. to be his servants. Everyone who keeps the Sabbath and

  261. does not profane it and holds fast my covenant. Notice

  262. that God's covenant, his law, his name, is equivalent to

  263. keeping the Sabbath, because the Sabbath helps us to have

  264. a relationship with God, whereby God's covenant is with us.

  265. And here he says in the next verse, verse seven,

  266. these I will bring to my holy mountain. I will

  267. make them joyful in my house of prayer. Their burnt offerings,

  268. their sacrifices will be acceptable on my altar. For my

  269. house should be called a house of prayer. For what

  270. does the text say, all peoples, Now, how many of

  271. you are happy that this prophecy established the multi ethnic

  272. worldwide Apostolic Church? Are you happy about that? Now? Look,

  273. we're a people of prophecy. We believe that the longest

  274. time prophecy of the Bible Daniel eight fourteen, reached to

  275. eighteen forty four, and that's correct theology, it's correct Bible study.

  276. And the purpose of that event was to bring the

  277. Kingdom of God, the final kingo of God, through an

  278. investigative judgment heaven, but to raise up a people on

  279. earth like the app Stolic Church from every nation, kindred

  280. tribe and tongue that preaches the Everlasting Gospel to prepare

  281. the world for the coming of Jesus Christ. The First

  282. Angel's message of Revelation fourteen six and seven is very

  283. clear that that movement would proclaim the Everlasting Gospel. And

  284. then it quotes the Sabbath in the context. Why is

  285. the Sabbath so important in a gospel experience, We'll I'll

  286. tell you why. If you look into Exos twenty when

  287. God gives the ten Commandments, the reason he gives the

  288. Sabbath is because God created the universe in us. So

  289. the Sabbath affirms that God is our creator. But when

  290. you go to Deuteronomy five and the reason for the

  291. Sabbath is given in the second Giving of the Law,

  292. where Moses repeats it, which suggests that the ten Commandments

  293. may have been spoken twice at Mount Sinai. We know

  294. the Father and the Son were present on that holy

  295. mountain based on Exos twenty four. So, in essence, the

  296. reason given for the Sabbath in Deuteronomy five is that

  297. you were slaves in Egypt, and God redeemed you and

  298. he made you free. So the Sabbath is the bulwark

  299. against legalism. The Sabbath teaches us that we have been

  300. created by a loving God, and we have been redeemed

  301. and saved by a loving God. And so the Sabbath

  302. points to the Gospel. The Gospel with the Sabbath worship

  303. experience and the Apostolic Church anchored people into a long

  304. term relationship with Jesus. I will make this statement. I'll

  305. put the slide on the screen. The seventh day Sabbath

  306. is a faithful friend of the Gospel. Did you hear me?

  307. You want to affirm that by saying something to the Lord. Amen.

  308. The seventh day Sabbath is a faithful friend of the Gospel.

  309. The Sabbath truth teaches us that we are finished by

  310. faith as we rest in God at the beginning. Any

  311. of our journey in the Christian life. We are accepted

  312. at the beginning of the journey. Works follow sabbath rest

  313. in Jesus. In Hebrews, four good works are the fruit

  314. of a sabbath rest in Jesus. Because we are finished

  315. by faith before we start. We begin the journey with Jesus.

  316. And Christ doesn't wait for us to get perfect to

  317. accept us. He accepts us the first day that we

  318. are baptized. James put forth his judgment on the matter

  319. as the last to speak. He had waited for Peter

  320. and for the others to argue out the points Paul

  321. and Barnabas, and then James spoke up Acts fifteen, verse nineteen. Therefore,

  322. my judgment is that we should not trouble those of

  323. the gentiles who turn to God, but should write to

  324. them to abstain from pollutions of idols, from in chastity,

  325. and from what is strangled, and from blood. Now Here

  326. James carefully from the Torah, the law of Moses, that

  327. is Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers, and Deuteronomy the Torah. He

  328. chose from that part of the Torah, that which was

  329. universal for both jew and gentile. Right there in there

  330. it's for the whole world. So we could isolate the

  331. three core areas of principle in our lives that define

  332. the necessary things, so that we would know the areas

  333. in which it matters to God to get it right

  334. with God. And here they are. Number one, to abstain

  335. from the pollutions of idols, which concerns the subject of

  336. spiritual defilement. Number two, to abstain from sexual impurity, which

  337. concerns sexual and moral defilement. Number three to abstain from

  338. food strained with blood, which concerns the defilement of the

  339. body through violations of the laws of health. Now let's

  340. look at these three areas a little bit together. Number one,

  341. to abstain from idols means spiritual purity in the Holy

  342. Spirit for the glory of God. I mean, there are

  343. things that can get in the way. I mean, if

  344. you ever had an eyel in your life, you just

  345. had to let it go so you could walk closer

  346. with the Lord. Don't go saying what it is, but yeah,

  347. we all have what we watch, what we admire in life,

  348. what we read, what takes our time the most, our entertainment,

  349. what we invest in can become an idol. If it

  350. is not right and good in the eyes of the

  351. Holy Spirit. The apostle John said in One John five

  352. point twenty one, little children, keep yourselves from idols, and

  353. that's good. Advice Number two, to abstain from sexual immorality

  354. means physical and personal purity, including the eyes in the

  355. Holy Spirit for the glory of God. Individual purity in

  356. the body of Christ affects our corporate purity in the

  357. Body of Christ. Now I'm gonna make a statement based

  358. on experience here. If a church leader is overcoming sexual sin,

  359. the whole body is burdened by his sexual sin because

  360. it hurts the whole body of Christ as a church,

  361. especially if he's a pastor or administrator. It also devastates

  362. the family his family. I was once fired for turning

  363. in my associate for sexual sin, for clergy sexual abuse.

  364. My whole staff was covering for him. My conference president

  365. covered it up and covered for it, and the executive

  366. officers did the same. The church languished behind the scenes

  367. because of this sin against the body. And when you

  368. are not repentant of these things, what psychology tells us

  369. is that you turn on the mirror that showed you

  370. the problem. You tried to break the mirror instead of

  371. change the behavior. And that's what happened to me and

  372. my wife and my children. We were attacked because we

  373. were a mirror. Now, those pastors tried to break us

  374. to make themselves look good. The Bible is very clear

  375. that we are called to sexual purity as Christians and

  376. what that goes for leaders in the church? Also? Am

  377. I right? Am I right on that sex before marriage

  378. is like throwing your treasure in the gutter. I speak

  379. to young people here. I can't do it better than Ryan.

  380. Ryan had a great interaction. Let sabbath on this God

  381. be praised Proverbs eleven twenty two. Like a gold ring

  382. and a swine snout is a beautiful woman without discretion.

  383. Now let me say this, it's even worse for a man.

  384. If a man has no self control and he takes

  385. advantage of a young girl, it's worse. I think before

  386. it's time and before marriage, sexual relations scar you in life.

  387. It's hard for you to communicate and trust someone in

  388. the future and for the other person also. And now

  389. there are people here who have messed up in that area.

  390. And guess what God does for you? What's the gospel?

  391. What does he do for your sins and Jesus when

  392. you're baptized, it means he pardons you. Right, doesn't mean

  393. you have to be thinking about every day. You can

  394. let it go. You can start a new life in Christ.

  395. But you need to be careful because you have a

  396. sinful human nature. But praise God, there's no condemnation for

  397. those who are in Christ Jesus Romans eight to one. Now,

  398. as physical affection increases before marriage, communication decreases before marriage.

  399. So if you want to mess up your courtship, just

  400. increase physical affection after marriage. As physical affection increases, communication increases.

  401. It's a good thing. That is why Solomon said in

  402. his book on Romantic Love, the song of songs do

  403. not arouse or awaken love until it pleases. Most of

  404. what Hollywood and the Internet media produced today pushes a

  405. person in the direction of immorality, of sexual sin, of adultery,

  406. of pornography, of the abuse of children. And the list

  407. is long. And I'm gonna speak to something here that

  408. may not make some of you happy. Do you realize

  409. that rock music does the same thing. I mean, all

  410. you gotta do is listen to rock musicians who will

  411. tell you that the rock music form is intentionally made

  412. to promote sexual promiscuity. Paul McCartney said that clearly he

  413. was in the Beatles. He's an expert on the beat,

  414. the rhythm, the motif of rock music. Now, I realize

  415. we live in a culture we have to adapt to

  416. some extent. God transforms our culture, but he will not

  417. take that which is profane and force it into the

  418. worship of the church. And we're living in a time

  419. when churches across the land have incorporated the form of

  420. rock music into Christian worship, whereby himnity is thrown out

  421. the door, and our young people are learning to go

  422. to church and hate hymns and love Christian rock music

  423. as if that's okay. Now, I'm going to tell you

  424. right now, I'm not a for that, nor is our

  425. church manual for that. That is against the beliefs of

  426. our denominational system. And so it's time, I think, to

  427. have a revival in our midst to get back to

  428. what is correct Biblical obedience for the sake of the

  429. salvation of our young people. And there's not a place

  430. for compromise here. In fact, I was reading The Church Man,

  431. you know it rightly says, after great studying the Bible,

  432. interacting with the spirit of prophecy, that rock music and jazz

  433. are not forms acceptable in worship in a Seventh day

  434. Adventist church. Do you know that it's in our church manual?

  435. But that's violated by philosopher king theologian types who think

  436. they're smarter than the world consensus of the study of

  437. scripture in the spirit of prophecy. Now, I'm not here

  438. to poke at anyone. I'm simply saying that our kids

  439. are not saved by integrating that into their experience. Now,

  440. there is contemporary music that has a place in worship.

  441. I'm not saying there isn't, but it is transformed music.

  442. It is not music that mimics the kind of rock

  443. form that I'm talking about here, And we have to

  444. have spiritual discernment that know the difference. Most of what

  445. Hollymood promotes is self is destroying for our children and

  446. the like. God hates these things portrayed as pos culture.

  447. God also hates divorce, which is justified by many in

  448. the church. God makes that very clear in the Book

  449. of malachind. In the Book of Malachi, God calls them

  450. godly ministers to remember the wife of your youth, to

  451. not go hunting for new wives that are younger, prettier,

  452. and more fulfilling. You would think, many a man, now

  453. I'm gonna now switch gears here and go to the

  454. wife a little bit. I'm getting in trouble with you

  455. tomorrow this morning. But Acts fifteen put me in the mode.

  456. Many a man has been driven to discouragement as a

  457. husband because of an unconsecrated wife who has not figured

  458. out that their husband needs her love, her affection, her

  459. unhurried intimacy, and her admiration and respect. Am I right, gentlemen? Okay,

  460. there's a few amens. Most of you are fearful to

  461. affirm this. The wife that can't figure that out should

  462. not be prized when her discouraged husband falls into adultery

  463. and sexual sin. Even though there is no excuse for

  464. this in God's eyes. God will not justify it. It's

  465. a setup for it. Though there are men in the

  466. church today who are pure but whose wives make it

  467. very hard for them to stay pure. God didn't call you,

  468. dear heart, as a Christian wife, to be your husband's critic,

  469. to be his judge, to be his mother or anything

  470. like that. God didn't call you to remind him every

  471. day of all his faults, his failures, his little difficulties,

  472. his imperfections, the shortcomings in life. As a Christian wife,

  473. God has called you to love your husband, to respect

  474. him in spite of his faults, to empower him by

  475. love and nurture him. To lead you and your children

  476. as the spiritual leader in your family, in the community

  477. that in the sphere of God, his manhood can be

  478. holy spirit, baptized to rise to greatness for God and humility.

  479. A woman, a good godly wife, makes her husband. The

  480. husband cannot do this on his own. If you crush

  481. your husband's heart, his strong heart that God has given

  482. him as a man, don't be surprised if someone else

  483. steals his heart, who makes him feel more like a

  484. man and men of God. I speak to you now.

  485. I speak to you. God has not called you, as

  486. a man of God to be anything other than a

  487. pure man of virtue, a faithful man, a committed man.

  488. At every stage of your wife's life and yours. We

  489. live in a culture that diminishes the role of manhood.

  490. But friends, God would have you be a man of God.

  491. Irregardless of the culture. When she was young, your bride

  492. was young, she was pretty in the flower of her youth.

  493. You know, gentlemen that are married, can you affirm that

  494. by saying a hearty amen? Is that true? Come on,

  495. we don't have many people here today. I didn't hear it. Amen. Amen. Okay,

  496. it's healthy for you to affirm that. But when gray

  497. hairs start coming, I never will forget. Now, I'm not

  498. picking to my wife. She's beautiful. She's prettier today than

  499. when she was. I don't even look at the pictures

  500. of the past because I like the way she looks now,

  501. because I've grown in love with my wife more and

  502. more all the time. I love Diana. She doesn't have

  503. to be something she is. But I never will forget.

  504. Two incidents that happened that told me how important it

  505. is to a woman that she looked pretty. She noticed

  506. the first gray hair coming. Oh no, has that happened? Ladies,

  507. Come on, when the first gray hair come in the mirror,

  508. I'm on, it's my wife alone, on that no horrors be.

  509. And then another follows in time and another. Now I've

  510. noticed how many gray hairs I have? Man, I got

  511. them from all the stress of building the church and

  512. other things, and everyone forget the day she took a

  513. curlying iron and she accidentally burned herself all the way

  514. down the stat side of her face. And it looked

  515. like that would be a permanent beauty mark on my

  516. wife for the rest of her life. And when I

  517. told her, was this, and I meant it, Honey, don't

  518. have to worry about that. You don't have to cover

  519. it up with makeup or nothing like that. Let it be.

  520. Your face is beautiful to me. It's pretty. You are pretty.

  521. And I don't worry about your mother thinks, so anybody

  522. else thinks. Sometimes mothers can be a little hard on.

  523. Mother in laws can be hard on. I'm in bad territory, right,

  524. I have a great mother in law. So I don't

  525. know why I went there. But my wife took those

  526. met and by the way, it healed. But it had

  527. never healed. It wouldn't matter if my wife had radical surgery.

  528. It wouldn't matter, because she's beautiful. To me. I remember

  529. the wife of my youth, but I know the wife

  530. of my time, and the character she possesses much more

  531. important than the silly stuff of the world. And the

  532. Song of Solomon. Correct attraction is not ba on the

  533. beauty of the bride. It's based on the moral character

  534. and stability of the groom. And our culture has it

  535. all wrong. You have to be pretty, you have to

  536. be flawless to be loved. Nonsense talk. Uh, you know

  537. it's in time. They have children, Husbands, your wives ever

  538. have children? Aren't you proud that you have children? Your family?

  539. You gonna just keep your hands down, I'm on, husbands,

  540. raise your hand all right. Wives, you know you had children,

  541. but they need to recognize I had children. Well, then

  542. they get a little bigger when they had children, Yes

  543. or no, you just aren't responding much. They did and

  544. it looked beautiful. But then after children it was a

  545. little harder to keep that thin look, wasn't it. And

  546. they could feel awful about that. I'm gonna tell you

  547. right now. Being a little bigger, a little chubbier is okay.

  548. Hormones change in life. A little pudgy here and there.

  549. I noticed I'm fighting a little bit. Look. If all

  550. there is to your wife is her good looks, her

  551. perfect body, her youthful energy, God forbid that you should

  552. have ever married her in the first place. What kind

  553. of man are you? You hear me, God would have

  554. you love your wife because God loves you with all

  555. your problems. It's a sad thing when a woman who

  556. seeks to be loved, and a woman has a deep

  557. need to be loved, to be cherished by her husband

  558. or man. Now we all have different ways of doing it.

  559. I'm the intellectual type. I'm not into touchy touchy, but

  560. I cherish my wife. I try to do things. My

  561. wife got the new car first, then I got my car.

  562. My car is a better car. I've said, honey, you

  563. can have my car because I'd rather her go first.

  564. I mean that I drove it to church this morning.

  565. I'm no longer driving the rattle trap, but my wife

  566. isn't either, and she got the first car. Husbands, we

  567. must cherish our wives and our love language as best

  568. we can. God forbid that you have ever married her.

  569. If you choose not to do that, if she looks

  570. attractive or not, it doesn't matter. She is. One of

  571. the saddest things I've noticed is when a woman who

  572. seeks to be loved, who needs to be cherished by

  573. her husband or man of God, who is a man

  574. of God, they try to compensate by decking themselves out

  575. with jewelry and making and overdoing the makeup. You know,

  576. there's a difference between cosmos and chaos. The word cosmetic

  577. comes from cosmos. It means order. You know, a little

  578. cosmos is not a problem. Chaos is a problem. And

  579. sometimes chaos takes the place of cosmos because a person

  580. wants to look pretty, and that's coming because of bad messaging. Look,

  581. Daughters of Zion, sweet daughters of Sarah, you are pretty

  582. to God. You are beautiful to God. You are a

  583. lily of the valley. According to Jesus, you don't have

  584. to overcompensate to make that point in your life to

  585. your husband. If you're in the dating time of your life,

  586. you don't have to do that. You be true to

  587. the Lord, and the right godly man will find you.

  588. Peter tells us that the Daughters of Sarah and the

  589. Church in First Peter, don't dress this way to lure

  590. a man who can see the beauty of their outward appearance,

  591. but rather the hidden jewel of the heart. Be beautiful

  592. where it matters. Men of God, as husbands, God put

  593. you on earth to protect your wife, to guard her

  594. life for the future. And God puts your wife on

  595. earth to guard your heart. You said, what do I saying?

  596. Eve was taken from what bone that made the man

  597. the woman? Adam's rib right, that's right. What does a

  598. rib do? It guards the heart? That's right. A husband

  599. will fail or succeed based on the judgments of his

  600. wife because she guards the heart, the stiff stuff, the

  601. strong stuff, to guard the heart of her man, or

  602. to crush it outright. There are no reasons in life

  603. when your wife. There are reasons in life when your

  604. wife may be hard to live with. No Amen's men,

  605. please not for this one. But a man of God

  606. doesn't make it harder on her and his children, her

  607. children by destroying their family with infidelity because they're going

  608. through a growing time in their relationship. Fight for your family.

  609. Is a man of God, and as he should and would,

  610. guard your family. Show the consistency that is necessary as

  611. a man of principle. Protect your wife in an air

  612. of emotional change. Life is full of change. And remember,

  613. as God says, the wife of your youth. Adam first

  614. named his wife woman, and Hebrew it's the word eshaw.

  615. Say it with meha, It's just another word for ish.

  616. Man Esha is more of man. He named her the

  617. feminine word for man. Here is man, and here's more

  618. man eshah feminine man. But after he sin, God made

  619. a promise not to Adam but to Eve. In Genesis

  620. three fifteen, the first Gospel promises to the woman. And

  621. so Adam has no future unless he embraces his wife

  622. after that horrible fall. So what does he do. He

  623. renames his wife Eve, which in he remans life bah bah.

  624. It was no longer Adam and his wife, It was

  625. Adam and his life. James calls these compromises of fornication,

  626. adultery pollutions that mess up the life, the good life

  627. that God has for the family. Pornography is a pollution

  628. destroys the life. It's rampant. It's rampant in the church,

  629. it's rampant in our culture. And this is one reason

  630. why we need to have firewalls in the home that

  631. say no to most of what is produced by Hollywood.

  632. I'm sorry, but this Marvel movie mess that's out there,

  633. and the Magic of the Silver Screw, which is now

  634. on home and the Internet and the television, it will

  635. mess your family up, your kids up, if you don't

  636. draw a line and say no to this, and by

  637. all means, we shouldn't be showing these kind of movies

  638. in the church. Does no good for anybody. James calls

  639. them pollutions. Men of God. Don't sell your soul for

  640. a pot of porridge like Esau did. And if you

  641. have been struggling with pornography in your life at some point,

  642. guess what you were baptized into. Who come on Jesus.

  643. So if you're in Christ, there is therefore now no condemnation.

  644. Can you put that behind you without thinking about it

  645. all the time? Yes or no? Yes, start anew with Jesus.

  646. You're accepted as a repentant person. Number three. To abstain

  647. from defiling blood means purity of health and body for

  648. the glory of God. Who would want to eat a

  649. bunch drink a glass of blood for breakfast instead of

  650. orange juice pigmies do, They'll drain animals and drink the blood.

  651. Not a good thing, and blood was forbidden. God doesn't

  652. want vampire Christians in the church. I mean, vampirism is

  653. on the march, people trying to act like their vampires.

  654. I went to Staples store in Laurel Maryland. They attendant

  655. very nice person, but he had these vampire fangs he

  656. put on his face. He was dressed to look like

  657. a vampire. I guess he wanted me to notice that

  658. he was different. Yeah, he was different, but the sun

  659. was shining, so he wasn't a vampire. All that doesn't work.

  660. It was just him trying to look different. Look. God

  661. allowed the human race to eat clean meat after the

  662. flood to survive in a post flood world. Some have

  663. asked the question why does James not mentioned the distinction

  664. between clean and unclean foods in Acts fifteen. First of all,

  665. we must understand that nowhere in the Bible are unclean

  666. animals called legitimate food. It is an abomination to drink blood.

  667. In the Bible, no vampires are allowed. Also, unclean animals

  668. for food are also called an abomination by God. Let

  669. me show you. Turn to Isaiah sixty six. Now this

  670. is about the Second Coming. It's a verse in our

  671. Bible about the second Coming. Isaiah sixty six, Verse fifteen.

  672. Wait for the slide to get there, for behold, the

  673. Lord will come in fire. That's the second Coming, and

  674. his chariots like the storm wind to render his anger

  675. and fury his rebuke with flames of fire. Verse sixteen.

  676. For by fire will the Lord execute judgment, and by

  677. his sword upon all flesh. And those slain by the

  678. Lord shall be many. The world will be brought to disaster.

  679. Only those in Christ will be taken up go The

  680. next verse, those who sanctify and purify themselves to go

  681. into gardens, following one in the midst this is a

  682. demonic ritual that's described an ancient pagan ritual led by

  683. demons eating swine's flesh, and the abomination and mice shall

  684. come to an end together, says the Lord. Now Here

  685. swine's flesh, mice, abominable, uncle clean animals are connected to

  686. demonic worship in the groves. Now, who on earth would

  687. want to be eating food that symbolizes demon worship? Anybody here?

  688. And yet we live in a culture where that's the case,

  689. Where people will say, and I grew up on bacon,

  690. by the way, anybody had bacon as a child? I did.

  691. I was baptized at fifteen. I love the taste of bacon.

  692. Now this morning I had veggie bacon Morning Star Farm

  693. veggie bacon. Anybody here every eat morning Star Farm Vegeman.

  694. Now there's a brand out there that was great and

  695. they quit making it. It's not bacon. It tastes kind

  696. of different, but I do it. But boy, I just

  697. can't imagine putting a real piece of bacon on my

  698. plate anymore after reading that verse. It's associated. It's a

  699. symbol the unclean, the abominable, of demon worship, of these

  700. secret practices which were a cultic in the ancient world.

  701. In fact, an unclean bird in the book Revelation presents

  702. a demon. So don't go eating Kentucky fried vulture anytime soon. Okay,

  703. stick to the chicken clean animal. God does not condemn that.

  704. You can later become a vegetarian if God leads you

  705. that way, and I think he leads most people that way,

  706. not everyone. Some people for health reasons have to figure

  707. it out. But who wants to eat an unclean animal

  708. that represents a demon or his associated with demonic worship?

  709. Revelation eighteen one. Now this is the fourth Angel's message,

  710. Revelation eighteen verse one. After this, I saw another angel

  711. coming down from heaven, having great authority. The earth was

  712. made bright with his splendor. This is the last message

  713. of this world. Next verse, and he called out with

  714. a mighty voice, falling, Falling is babbling. The Great has

  715. become a dwelling place of demons. You see, an unrepentant

  716. religious system that rules the world by influence at the

  717. time of the end becomes a demonic religious system. Babylon

  718. a haunt of every foul spirit, a haunt of every

  719. every foul and hateful bird. So unclean spirits are symbolized

  720. by unclean birds that God says not to eat in

  721. the Old Testament. This is the last book in our Bible.

  722. Verse three. For all nations have drunk the wine over

  723. impure passion. Now I've been into certain homes for some

  724. Seventh day abt us. I've got this notion they can

  725. socially drink and it's okay. The Bible says, whoever that

  726. wine is a mocker, and whoever is deceived thereof is

  727. not wise. Of course, you know they'll get experts up there. Well,

  728. it really doesn't do anything to you. It's not a

  729. bad thing and all that. Well, the Bible says it is,

  730. and noticed state it's not just unclean animals that are

  731. associated with demonic activity. For all nations have drunk the

  732. wine over impure passion. When a person gets drunk, and

  733. I've been drunk in my life as a young person.

  734. God's not in control, the Holy Spirit's not in control.

  735. So the nation has become drunk. Wine is a symbol

  736. of the same problem. And the kings of the earth

  737. that committed fornication with her, there's the immorality aspect. And

  738. the emergents of the earth have grown rich with the

  739. wealth of her wantonness, idols wealth instead of God. Everything

  740. that Acts fifteen is talking about is germane. It is

  741. an issue at the time of the end, and John

  742. is saying, look, get out of that stuff. Verse four.

  743. Then I heard another voice from heaven saying, come out

  744. of her, my people, lest you take part in her sins,

  745. lest you share in her plagues. Next verse for her

  746. sins are heaped as high as heaven, and God has

  747. remembered her iniquities. Now, friend, knowing this does not mean

  748. we need to be hard on people, does not mean

  749. we need to browbeat them. It was an abomination for

  750. God's people to eat unclean foods in the Old Testament.

  751. It still is. Noah offered clean animals to God on altar,

  752. and they ate those offerings to survive in a post

  753. flood world, God allowed clean meat as food for his people.

  754. After the flood. There were seven pairs of clean animals

  755. that went into the ark, but only a pair of

  756. unclean animals went in. So if Noah's family had eaten

  757. or sacrificed one of those unclean animals, it would be

  758. extinct today. And don't go telling me eight dinosaurs. No,

  759. that's not why they're dead. They got wiped out. Then

  760. go on the arc. If they had sacrificed a rat

  761. to God, a rabbit to God, a swine to God,

  762. a vulture to God, a frog to God, a lizard

  763. or a snake to God. Now our little turtle day

  764. is off the hook. He's unclean, right, not a sacrificial animal.

  765. If they had put that on an altar, they would

  766. be gone today. There were only two of them, they

  767. would have been extinct. The principle of bodily purity prohibits

  768. a lot of things in our holy spirit walk with God,

  769. not just unclean animals and foods like this, alcohol, drugs, stimulants.

  770. I'm gonna add caffeine as a stimulant, and it's spoken

  771. of directly in the consensus of our world Church. It

  772. affects a person's spiritual capacity that has been demonstrated by

  773. scientific reasons. Search. Caffeine is a stimulant that has been

  774. linked to spiritual decline. Opioids like the kind that led

  775. my brother to suicide, tobacco, and any other addictive drug.

  776. We are to be controlled by the Holy Spirit and

  777. none of these. I have compassion for people who struggle

  778. with addictions. Why Because I have a family system in

  779. which addictive proclivity is there. It would be easy for

  780. me to go down that road. I struggled as a

  781. young person. I'm not browbeating here. Alcoholism killed my grandfather.

  782. I drank so much until I was baptized. I was crazy.

  783. I was on a pathway to self destruction. I planned

  784. with my brother to stop drinking. Stop drinking. He didn't,

  785. and the next time I met him he was hooked

  786. on opioids. The rehabs didn't work. He died with a

  787. gun to his head. Don't tell me this stuff is neutral.

  788. Don't tell me social drinking is okay. It doesn't work.

  789. Our children are precious, Our families are precious. We're to

  790. draw a line in love and teach our children, temperance

  791. in the church, not compromise and decline. In Acts fifteen,

  792. James isolates three key areas of our life. I'm going

  793. to review that must be under the complete control of

  794. the Holy Spirit. We cannot afford to lose the necessary

  795. things that will free us in life to take the

  796. burdens out. These are the things that matter. Number One,

  797. Spiritual purity means turning away from every idol in your life.

  798. Can you affirm that with the n Amen, yes or no?

  799. You with me yes? Number two, Moral purity means saving

  800. sex for marriage and being true to your wife or

  801. husband in marriage, and saying no to pornography in every form.

  802. Can we say affirm that with the Namen now we

  803. can do all things through Christ, who strengthens us. Can

  804. we not? Number three, Physical purity a body means guarding

  805. your health by saying no to anything that defiles you

  806. and by seeking the good foods and practices that honor

  807. God in your body to let the Holy Spirit know

  808. that you care, that you are a holy vessel for God.

  809. You can go beyond the baseline of clean and unclean foods.

  810. You can become a vegetarian, but you don't have to

  811. the Bible doesn't command you to, but you could seek

  812. the best for God in your life. Acts fifteen twenty eight.

  813. They wrote this in a letter to the church at Antioch.

  814. For it has seemed good to the Holy Spirit and

  815. to us to lay upon you no greater burden than

  816. these necessary things. That you abstain from what has been

  817. sacrificed to idols, from blood, from what is strangled, and

  818. from unchastity and chastity. If you keep yourselves from these,

  819. you will do well farewell. So when they were sent off,

  820. they went down to Antioch, and having gathered the congregation

  821. engation together, they delivered the letter. And when they read it,

  822. they rejoiced at the exhortation. Now I've been exhorting you

  823. based on Acts fifteen today, right or no, Yes or no?

  824. What would you rejoice in the exhortation today? How many

  825. rejoice in the Holy Spirit that we have been given

  826. the same exhortation so that we can live lives with

  827. the necessary things, not the other things. May God bless you,

  828. dear Heavenly Father. Some of us have messed up in

  829. our lives a lot, and we could feel real awful

  830. if it weren't for the cross, and maybe someone out

  831. there feels that way. Right now, Dear Lord, thank you

  832. that our sins are forgiven for his sake. You are

  833. not in the condemnation business. You are in the growing business.

  834. In Christ. We are accepted to become what you want

  835. us to be. Bless every person in this church who

  836. chooses Jesus Lord, with no fear. If you and your

  837. heart feel that you need to come to Jesus you

  838. have not been with him. I want to give you

  839. the opportunity right now as we are prayed. Raise your

  840. hand to Heaven, say Lord, I need to come home.

  841. I've been rebellion against you. I have not been obedient

  842. to you in my life. You raise your hand to God.

  843. God sees that. Now. Father God, I'm going to ask

  844. you that you will reach down through the Holy Spirit

  845. and communicate to that person's heart that they are accepted

  846. in Jesus as if they had never sinned, because they

  847. have appealed to you for a clean conscience, and that

  848. you will be with them as they grow. You will

  849. not browbeat them, you will not put them down. You

  850. will discipline, but you love them, and Father, I pray

  851. that you'll hold everyone here ready for the sudden coming

  852. of Christ. Help us not to be compromised Christians, but

  853. obedient Christians, not legalists, but loving obedient Christians. And thank

  854. you Lord for the Sabbath, which gives us the chance

  855. to experience a right now righteousness of rest in You.

  856. Bless your people as they leave this place. And Lord,

  857. forgive me for my longer prayer, but I wanted to

  858. pray for the people. Bless them in Jesus name. Amen, Amen,