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Patience For When The Goalposts Move | May 4, 2025 PM
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Welcome to the Liberty Baptist Sermon Archives.
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The message you're about to hear was preached at Liberty Baptist
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Church in Easton, MA. You can find out more about us
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or contact us at my libertybaptist.org or just look
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us up on Facebook. And now we hope that this
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message from God's Word will be a blessing to you.
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Second Samuel and chapter #2 is where we will be in the Word of
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God this evening. And I'm thankful that we have a
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word we can trust. We talked about that this
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morning. I'm thankful that in a world
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where nothing seems to make sense, it's the Word of God that
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is truth and that is our anchor. And we're going to look to that
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very word this evening to help us to deal with the issue of
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patience. And the title of the message is
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patience for when the goal posts move.
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Patience for when. The goal posts move.
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You know, to me one of the more interesting proverbs that you
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will find in, well, the book of Proverbs would be Proverbs
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chapter 13, verse 12, which says this hope deferred maketh the
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heart sick, but when the desire cometh, it is a tree of life.
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Now that verse basically means this.
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When you are waiting for something and it's delayed, it
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hurts. It causes some emotional
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distress that causes some emotional pain and we can
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understand that because there are many times in life where we
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think something is going to be a certain way or something is
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going to happen at a certain time period, but yet it is
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delayed out of no fault of our own and sometimes maybe doesn't
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even take place at all. A man waiting for a long promise
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promotion ends up feeling defeated when the position is
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given to someone else. A child waiting for their
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birthday finds out that they're not going to be able to have the
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party that they wanted to have on the day of their birthday.
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And I think that's pretty much been all of our children every
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year for the last several years. But the idea is 8.
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Your birthday's, we're going to give you a little bit of cake
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today. But you know, that stuff that
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we're going to do, we're going to have to do it at a later
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date. Hope deferred.
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Make it the heart sick, a patient praying for healing, or
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a patient waiting for a procedure to take place that's
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told it's not coming. At the time play, at the time
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frame that you thought it would be coming, that can cause a
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great amount of distress. A family saving for a home
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thinks they have enough, but then the market changes and all
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of a sudden what they thought they had wasn't enough.
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A missionary, we've seen this before, haven't we?
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Where missionaries thought they were going out to the mission
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field and then something like a, you know, a COVID happened and
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all of a sudden a country that was open to the gospel is now
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closed. They're not giving visas any
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more to missionaries. And we've had our own
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missionaries like the Mallards that we support here who thought
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they were going to Australia and now are in Poplar Bluff, MO.
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And I don't know about you, but I can't think of two places that
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are much different than Australia and Poplar Bluff, MO
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Amen. But things change in life, don't
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they? We think it's going to be one
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thing and it ends up being something else.
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And one of the ways that we commonly put that is someone is
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moving the goal posts or life as move the goal posts.
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And the thought process of that is this.
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If you're playing football, you know where the end zone is, you
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know where the goal posts are if you have an idea of how far you
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need to go because that distance is fixed, isn't it?
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It's 100 yard field, It's a 10 yard end zone.
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And then there is a goal post to follow unless you're playing
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Canadian rules football and for some reason they thought about
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putting the goal posts right in the middle of the end zone.
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That doesn't seem very smart to me all things considered.
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But could you imagine thinking I've got 100 yards to go, I've
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got to go from end zone to end zone to score.
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And then you get about 90 yards and they said, oh, by the way,
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we've extended the field, it's another 20.
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And then you go that 20 and say, oh, by the way, can't score yet.
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You got to go another 30. That's called moving the goal
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posts. You think you're going to get
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where you're supposed to go and all of a sudden it's a little
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bit further. It's a little.
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Bit more out. Of reach so let me ask you this
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question and I think I know the answer but let me ask it anyway
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because I you know this is kind of what preaching is I'm going
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to ask the question make you think about it for a second how
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do you respond when the goal posts move in life now if you
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raise your hand that's what I thought OK that's nobody all
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right we don't do well with it do we when we think something is
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going to happen at a time in which it's supposed to happen we
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are OK with that but then when the time frame is switched.
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It kind of causes some problems. Doesn't I remember mentioning
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that surgery this morning that I had four years ago?
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I remember when I was given a surgical date in early April and
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I was told that the surgeries have was about 3 weeks away.
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And I'll be honest with you, I was happy about that because I
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just wanted to get the procedure done.
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So I started calling the preachers that were going to
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fill in for me. I said I got the date now will
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you do this week and will you do this week and you take care of
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this week. Had to fill up two months, as
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you remember, of pulpit supply because I was going to be out.
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And then about a day later that same office called me and said,
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hey, by the way, remember that date we gave you?
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We're going to have to move it by about a month and a half.
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And I just wanted to reach through that phone.
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And anyway, we'll stop right there.
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But anyway, it, it wasn't kind because I thought I, I, I just
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took care of all the stuff and now I've got to do it.
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Now I've got to think about this for an extra month and 1/2 on
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top of everything else that's going.
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Listen, most of us don't react well when life doesn't go the
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way we want it to go. Now here's David.
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Do you think? David's life has gone the way
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that he expected it to go when he was sitting in the pasture.
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The answer is no. Do you think he was ever sitting
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in the pasture with visions of grandeur of someday becoming the
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king of Israel? No, but yet God met him there
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and he was anointed king. But yet from that point on, did
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anything that followed after that go according to plan?
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Well, the answer is still no, because it wasn't an easy road
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to the throne, was it? No, it was.
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Saul all of a sudden has this jealousy issue with him, and
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then Saul wants to kill him. And then he's on the run for
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about 15 years and he's not sure when he's ever going to be able
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to ascend to the throne. And now he's found out that Saul
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and his best friend are dead. And so because of that, listen,
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we know that he had sorrow. Remember, why waste your tears
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on soul? We saw that a few weeks ago and
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we talked about David truly lamenting the loss of Saul, even
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though Saul had done great harm to him.
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Because there was something that was was was taken care of inside
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of David's heart and life that was able to help him to look at
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this with the proper perspective.
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Again, not with rose colored glasses, but looking at the full
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perspective as God had led him through his life.
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And so all this has happened, but through it all, guess what?
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David's going to finally ascend the throne.
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It's been about 15 years, give or take, but he's finally going
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to make it to the throne. What could go wrong?
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Well, it just so happens that David's ascent to the throne
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isn't what anyone thought it would be.
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And in fact, it's like something that came out of a movie script
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or a made for TV script where a character that no one's ever
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heard of just all of a sudden appears a distant relation to
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Saul. Well, not distant by blood, but
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distant in the sense that we've never heard of him, we've never
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seen him before, and all of a sudden he's elevated to the
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throne that David's supposed to be on.
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So what do you do when hope deferred makes the heart sick?
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What do you do when you expect one thing and life hand you
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something else? David responded with patience.
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Now, it doesn't make a whole lot of sense to be honest with you
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from our perspective, but I think David can teach us some
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lessons this evening to help us to learn and when life doesn't
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go the way we want it to go. And let's be honest, I'm 42
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years old. If you'd asked me years ago
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would I be where I am at 42, I had no idea.
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I would not have said 20. Yeah, I'll have a major surgery.
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We'll have these children. We'll do all this.
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I'm not even saying good or bad. I'm just saying just nobody
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knows, right? Because the future is the
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future. But how do we?
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When life doesn't go the way we expect it or wanted it to go,
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David gives us the key. Will you stand please for the
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reading of God's Word? Second Samuel chapter #2 The
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universe #1 where it says. And it came to pass after this,
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that David inquired of the Lord, saying, Shall I go up into any
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of the cities of Judah? And the Lord said on him, Go up.
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And David said, Whither shall I go up?
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And he said unto Hebron. So David went up thinner, and
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his two wives also a hit of him, the Jezreelitis, and Abigail
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Nabel's wife, the Carmelite, and his men that were with him, did
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David bring up every man with his household.
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And they dwelt in the cities of Hebron.
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So they moved from Ziklag to Hebron, and the men of Judah
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came, and there they anointed David king over the House of
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Judah. That's good, isn't it?
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He's become king. But the House of Judah isn't all
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of Israel, is it? It's just one tribe of the
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greater 12 tribes which comprise the nation of Israel.
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And they told David, saying that the men of Jabish Gilead were
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they that buried Saul. And David sent messengers unto
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the men of Jabish Gilead, and said unto them, Blessed be ye of
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the Lord, that ye have showed this kindness unto your Lord,
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even unto Saul, and have buried him.
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And now the Lord show kindness and truth unto you, and I will
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require you, or rather requite you this kindness, because you
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have done this thing. Therefore now let your hands be
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strengthened and be valiant, for your master Saul is dead.
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And also the House of Judah have anointed me king over them.
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Now we'll not cover that here this evening, because you
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remember we saw at the end of First Samuel chapter 31 those
1 Samuel 31 chapter mention
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wimping men of Jabish Gilead who turned into valiant men, and how
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David gives them a commendation here for retrieving the body of
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Saul and the bodies of his sons after they were abused after
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death by the Philistines. But go to verse #8 everything's
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good here. But what's the next word?
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But so everything's not quite what we expect it to be, is it?
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But Abner, the son of Nur, captain of Saul's host, took
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Ishma Shaf, the son of Saul, and brought him over to Mahanam and
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made him king over Gilead and over the asteroids, over
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Jezreel, over Ephraim, over Benjamin, and over all Israel.
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Judah's soul son was 40 years old when he began to reign over
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Israel. It reigned 2 years.
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But the House of Judah followed David.
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And the time that Dave was King Hebrew over the House of Judah
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was six or seven years and six months.
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Why don't you be seated? Hey, David, you're going to be
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the king of Israel. Surprise.
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Here's this for Seth. He'll take 11 tribes and you can
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have one. How this happened?
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Why did this happen and how did David respond?
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That's what we'll look at here in just a moment.
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Heavenly Father, we do thank you for this evening.
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And again, we just ask that you be with the word as it's given.
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Help me to be able to be clear and my thoughts.
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Help me to be able to portray the word of God accurately down
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to the finest detail. Lord, it's your word.
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It deserves to be given in a way that is appropriate and it's
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helpful. I pray that we do just that this
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evening and help us all to have our hearts open when it comes
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this issue that have been patience when life doesn't go
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the way we expect it to go and we do humbly ask it in Jesus
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name Amen. Well, finally the opportunity
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has come for David to ascend to the throne and what I love about
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the beginning of this chapter. It says in chapter 2 verse one
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came to pass after this that David inquired of the Lord.
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This is a good thing isn't it? You'll remember that David had
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been away from the Lord for some period of time, but then after
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the issue of Ziklag and after his own men talked about killing
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him. Remember, David encouraged
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himself in the Lord. That doesn't again mean that he
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just needed and some encouragement, but that he
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literally gathered courage from his relationship with God.
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And then what did he do? He inquired of the Lord.
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That's in first Samuel chapter 30 verse #8 but we see that same
1 Samuel 30 chapter mention
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language here where David is inquiring of the Lord.
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Lord, what would you have me to do?
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By the way, what are we to do with our lives?
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Lord, what would you have me to do?
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My life is not my own. My direction is not my own.
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I have been bought with price. And so I'm going to glorify God
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in my body and in my spirit, which are gods.
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This is what we're told in the New Testament.
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And so here we see that David says, Lord, what would you have
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me to do? And so the Lord says, he goes to
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the city of Judah, and he says, where shall I go up?
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And he says unto Hebron. And then David went with his
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family, all of the other people that he had collected, those
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mighty men, his own mercenary band that he had assembled over
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these last several years. Now, Hebron is a very historical
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place in the Life and Times of the people of Israel.
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You've heard the nerd name Hebron before.
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You're not exactly sure where you've heard it.
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It's all over the Old Testament, particularly from texts before
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where we are in Second Samuel chapter #2 it was the place
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where Abraham built one of his altars as he was journeying to
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the Promised land, to the land of Canaan.
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Later on, it was the area where both Sarah and Abraham would be
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buried, as well as Isaac and Rebecca and Jacob and Leah all
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all of them will be buried in The Cave of Machpelah that was
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there in the city of Hebron. It was later on the book of
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Joshua. You remember Caleb, remember
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Caleb was one of the two good spies, the two that trusted the
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Lord when there were ten others who did not trust God.
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Well, Caleb said in his old age, he said, give me that mountain.
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He knew that there was a mountain that could be overcome
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and could be one for the Lord as long as there was someone who's
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willing to trust God. And Caleb says, listen, I've
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trusted God all my my life. I'm not going to stop now just
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because I'm 85 years old. Give me that mountain.
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And you know what? That mountain was Hebron.
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And then we get to his finding that Hebron is also a city of
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refuge. It was a place where fugitives
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could go to ensure that they had a fair trial.
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Hebron was a very historical place.
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But here's one of the most important parts of this issue.
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It lay within the boundaries of the tribe of Judah.
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Now which tribe is David from? He is from the tribe of Judah.
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So David is basically going back to, can we put it this way, his
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ancestral homeland. And he is going to go to this
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very historical place. And we find that when he comes
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there, his brethren are there. The people of Judah are all
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there. And in verse #4 it says.
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And there they anointed David. King.
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Over the House of Judah. So David technically is not
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anointed the king over all of Israel.
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He's just been anointed king over for his own tribe.
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Now that's an important distinction to make you you
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think that he would just become the king over all of Israel.
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But remember, there's still some disjointedness and there's still
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some old tribal bad feelings that go all the way back to the
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book of Judges. And you'll find that Judah is
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often at odds with the other tribes.
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And certainly that will be the case as I mentioned this morning
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with in Sunday school with Rehoboam and Jeroboam when the
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Kingdom split again and Judah was on its own.
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And then the other tribes, the other 10 tribes at least were to
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the north. And you kind of see some of that
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here in our text that David is the king of Judah, but he has
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not become the king of all of Israel yet.
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Now one of the reasons for that is this in verse #8 there was a
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man named Abner, the son of Nur, captain of souls host.
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Now who is this guy? Well, we could find out by going
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to going to a companion passage that he is the uncle of Saul.
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So this is a relative. He's not just a captain of his
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guard, but we find back in First Samuel he's also an uncle of
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Saul as well. And Abner just can't give up the
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fact that his. Family is no longer going to be
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royalty. He believes that his family
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should have some sort of royal influence.
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And so he decides, well, look, David may be the king of Judah,
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but he has to be the king of all of Israel.
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Listen, you other tribes, are we going to follow whatever Judah
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does? Are we going to allow Judah to
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dictate our future? And kind of stirs up some of the
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old animosities that were between some of the tribes.
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And before you know it, Abner digs up this guy named
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Ishbosheth and decides to make him the king of all the other
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tribes. They just kind of follow along
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with it, to be honest with you. Now, if you would say Pastor
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Ishbashaf, I don't think I remember him.
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When did we talk about Ishbashaf before?
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I would be able to tell you we've not talked about him
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before because up to this point, we've never seen this guy.
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Now, the last time we saw Saul's family, we saw him at the end of
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First Samuel chapter #31 and we saw Saul and Jonathan and two
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other sons died. There was no mention of
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Ishbashaf. So the question is, where'd this
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guy come from? Why do we just find him here
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right now? Again, he had three sons who
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died with him in battle. We saw that in First Samuel 31
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verse 6. There's no previous mention of
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Ishbosheth among the sons of Saul.
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So just from some reading that I have done, there are many who
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believe that he was either an illegitimate son of Saul or the
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son of a concubine. But he was not one of the, could
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we put it this way, one of his chosen sons that would have
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necessarily been next to the throne.
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But there's some issues with this guy, Ish Bashat.
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He's got some character flaws. The first would be this.
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Why isn't he dead? Hey, pastor, that's a very
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strange. Question to ask like.
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Why isn't he dead? No, no.
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Saul and his boys were out there in the field together.
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Saul and his sons were out there in battle, shoulder to shoulder.
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Listen, they were going to live together and they were going to
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die together. So I've got a question for you.
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Where's this guy? Why isn't he dead?
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Why wasn't he with the family? I think perhaps the answer would
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be that he wasn't on the field of battle that day, and maybe
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there's some issues with whether he was actually a valiant man or
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not. Now, I'm not just pulling this
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out of thin air. We'll find out when we go to the
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next chapter that he was not a very good man and he was not a
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very strong man. In fact, I believe Abner chose
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him for one reason and one reason only.
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He needed a puppet. He.
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Had somebody that he could pull the strings on a little bit.
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Abner was an older man again, the uncle of Saul, and he was
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looking for a young buck who just was looking for an
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opportunity. Hey, you got a little bit of
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royal blood in your son. Hey, Saul never really gave you
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a whole lot of heat, did you? He never gave you a whole lot of
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attention, did he? Well, he's dead, but you still
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do have some royal blood in you. I'll tell you what.
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You stick with me, you follow me, and I'll make sure you're
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the king of all the other tribes.
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And after time goes on, we'll get Judah on board, too.
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And Ishbasheth. Being a man of.
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No character I believe just went along with that fact.
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And here's the problem. David finally had his moment.
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Saul is dead. Wouldn't David naturally think,
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now I will become the king of Israel?
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Why wouldn't he think that? That was what he was promised
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all those years ago when he was out there in the sheep pasture
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and was called in to meet with his father and his brothers and
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with Samuel, and when nobody. Thought he was worth much of
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anything. God didn't look on the outward
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appearance. He looked on the heart, didn't
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he? And ever from that moment,
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listen, David wasn't looking for this, but it was thrust upon him
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by the very will of God. And so he devoted his life to
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following that which God. Had placed upon his heart and
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here's his time here's his chance this is it and he's
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denied again. He's king of a tribe, and now
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he's got not just this other king, but almost a splinter
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Kingdom and the inevitability of civil war hanging right over the
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top of them. So how did David respond when
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the goal posts move? How did David respond when, once
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again, he was denied that which he was expecting to receive
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within his own life? And my answer would be this.
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He seemingly responds with patience.
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Now, I'll be honest. With you for you to read second
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Samuel chapter #2 and even second Samuel chapter #3 You'll
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never find the word patience in those chapters, but I don't
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believe I'm reading this into. What we see here in the
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scriptures, it's the only. Way that you could possibly
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explain the posture in which he takes.
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Listen, Abner is going to continue to poke the bear
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through the rest of the chapter. Abner is going to continue to
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stir the pot through the rest of the chapter.
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And we know this about David. He is a valiant man.
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We know this about his men. They are strong men.
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And we know this about the men of Judah, that they are more
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numerable than any of the other tribes as far as being able to
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amass together an army. David very quickly and very
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easily could have dispatched Ishbosheth and then assumed the
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Kingdom by. Force, and maybe even feel
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righteous in doing so. After all, hey, this is what God
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told me. Who are you?
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To be able to take this, I will take it from you by force,
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because after all, it belonged to me.
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And I'm not saying. David was passive here.
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I'm not saying that that the issue of Christianity is just,
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hey, be passive, don't ever do anything and you know, the
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Christian life will just flow to you.
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That that's not my message this evening.
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I don't believe we see that anywhere in Scripture.
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But I will say this, that David was very restrained from what he
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could have done under the circumstances.
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Throughout Chapter 2, there's these events that take place and
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Abner continues to try to provoke David, and it's not
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David trying to provoke Abner. Now David will respond in force,
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and David will always get the upper hand, but yet David does
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not annihilate them, remember? These are his brethren.
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These are his brothers of the people of Israel.
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He wants to be careful if he's ever going to be their.
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King. He knows he has to have the
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right posture, and he knows he has to have the right heart.
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It's hard to rule people in a Kingdom when they're all dead
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and he can't just kill them off. So what does he do?
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Patience. If I go to chapter 3 verse 9 as
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you do so, I'm going to switch this over here.
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It'll be like one of those modern churches this evening.
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I had my ripped jeans before I got here, but I decided not to
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wear those this evening. But it's it's mighty warm up
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here, so I hope you'll understand.
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Look at chapter 3 verse one. It says this.
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Now there was long war between the House of Saul and the House
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of David. Now how long was that war we
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just saw in the previous chapter?
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2 years. It's a long war between the
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House of Saul and the House of David.
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But David waxed stronger and stronger, and the House of Saul
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waxed weaker and weaker. So what is David doing?
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He's playing the long game. What is David doing?
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He is waiting patiently. Even though life did not deliver
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him what he expected it to deliver him, he decides it's
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still appropriate and it's good for me to wait so we can
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establish that. David, when he could have been
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upset, when he could have set Judah against the other tribes
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or started an all out civil war, he restrained himself with
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patience. You.
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Know what I think it's interesting that we come back to
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this issue of patients this evening.
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You may remember that I preached a message on patients back
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before Thanksgiving on a Sunday morning.
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The reason why, what is one of the things we were to add to our
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faith patients. And I remember at the time doing
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a little bit of research and I have all of my messages, all the
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files online, I have them stored there.
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And the best I could tell, out of about 13150 messages that I
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preached here at Liberty Baptist Church and I just get tired just
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thinking about that 13150 messages that I put together.
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I'd only preach one whole message on patients.
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So you have to forgive me that now I'm up to around 1400 plus
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and now this is 2 messages on patients.
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I would say one out of every 700 messages is probably not
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overdoing it on the issue of patients.
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Is it because it's something that we all struggle with?
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It's something that we all have difficulty with.
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So how did he show this kind of patience?
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Maybe we could put it this way. How did he manifest patience in
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what we see here in this text? I think there's several reasons
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or several things that he did. First of all, how did he do
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this? I believe it was because he knew
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what he was promised. He knew what he was promised.
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Did God promised him the throne of Judah?
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He did. But he promised him the throne
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of the other 11 tribes as well. He did.
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David was firm in that which God had promised him.
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David knew the Kingdom belonged to him and not to Ishbashaf.
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In fact, what's interesting is about it.
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You know who else knew that? Jonathan.
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Remember Jonathan said who would have been the next heir to the
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throne? He said this, Hey David, someday
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you're going to be king and I'll be at your side helping you.
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Jonathan was able to accept God's will.
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Do you know who else knew the next king of Israel will be
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David Saul? There were several times when
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Saul said David, I got to admit, even within the quietness of my
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own heart, if I'm really thinking about this right, I
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know God's made you the next king and not me.
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Yep, David knew what he was promised.
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So why would he fret? He knew that the promises of God
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were real. He was willing to be patient
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because he knew what God has promised.
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And let me ask. You.
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Does God follow through with His promises?
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Listen, I would almost be able to tell you this evening, you're
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allowed to be impatient if God's broken His promises to you.
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But if He hasn't, then we've got to be patient.
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Why? Because if God says it, He'll do
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it. You know who believed this?
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David's son Solomon. About 40-50 years later, Solomon
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would say this in First Kings chapter 8, verse 56.
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Blessed be the Lord that hath given rest unto His people
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Israel, according to all that he promised.
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Listen to this there hath not failed one word of all his good
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promise, which he promised by the hand of Moses.
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His servant Solomon, at the dedication of the Temple,
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surveys the history of Israel and he says this.
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We haven't been faithful to God, but God has kept every single
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one of His promises to us. And it wasn't just that He kept
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His promises to you in generality, He has kept every
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word of His promise. Listen, do you ever worry if God
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will keep your salvation? I don't know about you, but I
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don't worry on a daily basis or I don't even worry in general
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about the fact that boy, I know God wants to save it, but I hope
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He has enough power to save, to keep us all saved.
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I hope He has enough power to resurrect us all when the day
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comes. Boy, I hope.
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I hope he hasn't overextended himself.
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I've never thought about that, never concerned me one bit.
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Why keeps promises? But if he keeps his promises
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about our eternity, then they keep his promises that he's made
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to us in this life as well. David's willing to be patient.
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You know why He says I trust the promises of God.
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He promised I'd be the king. I'll be the king.
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So it wasn't just that he knew it was promised, but I also see
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this. He knew God was in control.
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He knew God was in control. You know, you can be patient
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when you know someone's in control.
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You can be patient when you know someone's control.
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That's general. That's true just in general, but
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it's even more so true with God. Listen, trusting in man is a
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fool's errand, but trusting in God is wise.
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Why? Because He is the one who has
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the levers of power. Listen, he's not the man behind
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the curtain. He's the eternal being that
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invented the curtain and everything else that we see and
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everything that we don't see. No, no, he's not just the one
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trying to manipulate the levers of power.
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No, no, he is in control even when it looks like everything is
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not in control. Hebrews chapter one verse 3
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basically says this. If he's not in control for one
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moment, everything just in this universe falls apart.
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He just create it and leave it to its own devices.
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He's created it and he is intimately acquainted and
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involved with the very basic and the very large dealings of this
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universe. Listen, there's not an atom that
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moves without his understanding, and they're not Is the largest
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star which radiates heat and light of which he is not
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involved. And he takes care of everything
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in between. He's in control.
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Knowing that God's in control ought to bring patience to the
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life of the believer. Isaiah 46 verses 9 and 10.
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Remember the former things of old.
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For I am God, there is none else I am God, there is none.
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Like me declaring the end from the beginning and from the
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ancient times the things that are not yet done.
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Saying My counsel shall stand, I will do all my pleasure.
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Listen from time eternal to time eternal, from one end of the
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timeline to the other end of the timeline, and beyond each end of
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the timeline, because there is no end of the timeline when it
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comes to God. His counsel has always stood.
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He is in control. Nebuchadnezzar thought he was in
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control. Remember the king?
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And the more he tried to squeeze on to his Kingdom, the more
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things just kind of kept slipping through his fingers,
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didn't it? He thought he had Shadrach,
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Meshach and Abednego, but there was a fourth man in the fire.
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And he doesn't know how he got there.
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And they came out of the fire, and they didn't even smell like
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smoke. But then you get to chapter #4
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and Nebuchadnezzar gets a little bit proud of himself again,
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doesn't he? And God in his mercy tries to
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warn him. Brings a vision.
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Brings an interpreter of that vision, Daniel.
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He says this. If you don't get this taken care
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of, he says, you're going to have seven years of your life
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that are going to be gone. And that's exactly what
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happened. For seven years, he acted like
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an animal. You know what's interesting?
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Nebuchadnezzar was the king of Babylon.
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The. World power, anyone could have
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just walked into the palace and taken over, but somehow, some
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way, God had it as such that He retained control during all that
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time. And at the end of this
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experience, what does Nebuchadnezzar say in Daniel
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chapter 4 verse 35? And all the inhabitants of the
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earth are reputed as nothing. And he doeth according to his
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will in the army of heaven, and among the inhabitants.
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Of the earth none can say his stay, stay his hand, or say unto
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him, What doest thou? Nebuchadnezzar says.
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I thought I was big time, and I realize there's only one that's
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big, there's one that's truly great, and that's him.
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And in a moment he turned him into the mind and into the
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manner of an animal, but yet he still retained his throne.
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Listen, God could do that. What can't God do?
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God is in control. Should we be patient with a God
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who's in control? Should we be patient with one?
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Who? Knows what is going on and knows
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the end. From the beginning, David
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understood this. He knew God was in control.
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But I also believe. This he knew the time was on his
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side. We knew that time was on his
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side. Did we just see that in chapter
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3 verse one? What happened as time went on?
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He grew stronger and Ishbosheth grew.
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Weaker, you know, time is on the side of the believer.
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You realize that I know we struggle with time.
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I struggle with time in the sense that I feel like in my
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mind there's a ticking clock almost every second of the day.
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I feel the weight and pressure of time.
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I do. I don't know other people.
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Some people think time is more of a, you know, a construct than
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necessarily is a very real thing.
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It's kind of just an imaginary thing.
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But I feel time in a very acute way and it's good sometimes.
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And. It's also very bad at other
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times because as time goes on, you start to feel like things
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are slipping out of your grasp. And as days turn to weeks and
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weeks turn to months, and sometimes months even turn to
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years, you start to feel like what's going on here?
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What's going on in my situation? But here, what do we see?
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David knew time was on his side. You know what God said, He just
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needed to wait. Listen to God, a day is like
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1000 years and 1000 years is like a day meaning this.
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What does it mean to God? His purposes will take care of
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themselves. If he says it, he'll do it.
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And David says, listen, maybe we could put it this way.
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David said this. God told me what he was going to
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do. He didn't tell me when he was
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going to do it, so I'm just going to trust him.
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There's a lot of things God has told us in our life, and he
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hasn't told us when he's going to do it, but he's told us that
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he'll do it. Listen, he's not working on your
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calendar. He's not working on my calendar.
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He works off of his calendar and he doesn't always make us Privy
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to what's on his calendar. In fact, I've found more often
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than not, I don't know. I just had to trust that he
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doesn't lose track of time. God's never been up in heaven,
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said Whoa. And it went by so fast.
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Now he's acutely aware of every second of every minute of every
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day. You remember Elijah was kind of
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making fun of the prophets of Bay a little bit.
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He says, hey, where's your guy? Is he sleeping?
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Is he on vacation? Is he on a trip?
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He's missing your prayers. Listen.
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God's never missed one of our prayers.
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He's never missed any event that took place on this earth.
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Listen. God is acquainted with
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everything that takes place, and none of it catches him by
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surprise. David, new time was on his side.
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Listen. The time of our trials.
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Listen. You're going through a trial.
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Listen, time's on your side. God will bring deliverance.
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Hey, Pastor, I don't see how I'm going to get Deliverance out of
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this trial. Well, he may not have told you
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how, but He'll bring it to you. Hey, Pastor, this one's too big,
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this one's too deep. You know, to be absent with the
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body is present with the Lord, that for some believers, the
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deliverance is to be able to be with the Lord.
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You say, well, that's kind of, I don't like the sound of that,
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Paul. Like the sound of that.
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Paul knew he wasn't going to get deliverance from the thorn in
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the flesh, but even then God's grace was going to be sufficient
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for him. But he knew that one day he'd
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returned back to that 3rd heaven, and he knew that time
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was on his side. And in the meantime, what was he
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going to do? He was going to do as much As
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for the Lord as he possibly could because he knew that his
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time was short, but that someday his deliverance would be full.
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Time was on his side. This is the time of our life.
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Eternity is coming. What is our life?
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It's not a vapor. It's here one minute and it's
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gone the next time in world history.
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Well, may I remind you the time in world history, as time ends,
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God wins. When the countdown is made and
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the buzzer sounds at the end of this world as we see it, God
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wins. He didn't just win, He wins big.
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So time's on our side. It's easy to be patient when
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time is on your side, but we have to look at it through the
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perspective of what God's eyes and not our own.
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So that's how David showed. Patients, I believe through this
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time, but I want to ask you not just how David showed patients,
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but why could he do it? And this is where I want us to
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focus as we conclude tonight. Why could he show that type of
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patients? OK, That's how his patients
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manifested itself, right? We see that he knew what he was
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promised. He knew God was in control.
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He knew time was on his side, but how could he look at it like
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that? How could he get to a place
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where he could look at his life and he could look at his
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situation and he could look at another set back, not as a set
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back, but just as another event in the life that God had put him
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in and that God was in control. How could he get there?
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And believe it or not, I believe the answer is found in a
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different passage of Scripture. Would you turn, please to Psalm
Psalms 62 chapter mention
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chapter 62? You'll never guess who wrote
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this Psalm. Now, I cannot tell you that
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David wrote this Psalm right now.
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I can't say that. But I have to wonder if this
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song was written during this time or if David wrote this
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Psalm looking back upon this time in his life.
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I don't know. Psalm chapter 62.
Psalms 62 chapter mention
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You're going to see more of this type of posture from David right
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out of the chute, right in verse #1 truly, my soul waiteth upon
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God. From Him cometh my salvation.
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He only is my rock and my salvation.
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By the way, God wasn't just one of His rocks and His salvation
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ONLY. You find the word only in verse
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2, verse 5, verse 6, the word all in verse 8.
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Listen, he knew it was God alone.
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He only is my rock and my salvation.
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He is my defense. I shall not be greatly moved.
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How long will you imagine mischief against a man?
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He shall be slain, all of you. As a bowing wall shall you be,
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and as a tottering fence. They only consult to cast him
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down from His Excellency. They delight in lies.
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They blessed with their mouth, but they curse inwardly.
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Selah. My soul wait thou upon only upon
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God, for my expectation is from Him.
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Come back to that in a moment. He only is my rock of my
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salvation. He is my defense.
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I shall not be moved, and God is my salvation of my glory, the
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rock of my strength. My refuge is in God.
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Trust in Him at all times. He people, pour out your heart
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before Him. God is a refuge.
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For us, Selah, God is a rock. God is a refuge, God is
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salvation. He will not be moved.
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We see this over and over and over again.
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But then he says this, my expectation is from God.
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And listen, if you don't get anything else, get this tonight.
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Patience can only be achieved in our life when our expectation
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comes from God and God alone. Patience can only be achieved in
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our life when our expectation comes from God.
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And God alone, he says, my expectation is from God.
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Listen, when life doesn't go the way you expect it to go, it's
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OK, because my expectation comes from God.
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It doesn't come from my circumstances.
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It doesn't come from mankind. It doesn't come from the
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promises that were made to me. It doesn't come from any of
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these other entities. It only comes from one place and
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one place alone. My expectation comes from God.
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When your expectation comes from God, you could have patience.
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You can you can remember what God has promised.
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When your expectation is from God, you can remember that God
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is in control. When your expectation is from
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God, you can remind yourself that time is on your side when
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your expectation comes from God. And I want to end with this,
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this evening. I want to, I want to consider
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this for just a moment. And this is where the Bible,
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every word matters and the Bible, every letter matters.
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It's not just the words, it's the letters because I don't know
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about you, but I was even going through this as I was studying
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this week. I, I got to this chapter and I'm
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trying to put things together. And that's, you know, when
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you're preparing messages, you're, you're putting different
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passages together, different thoughts together and you're
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trying. And in my mind, I was
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remembering this verse and it, I knew it had something to do with
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our expectations coming from God.
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And so I found the verse and I looked it up and I was going
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through a little bit and I realized that it doesn't say
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that my expectations come from God.
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No, that there's no letter S there is there?
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Look at it again. OK, I may be crazy, but I'm not
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crazy about this. OK, it says this.
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It says verse 5 my soul wait thou only upon God, for my
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expectation is from him. If we were to say our
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expectations come. From God, it would almost be
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like this. Listen, you know, whatever
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happens in my life, you know, if I go to this church or if these
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things happen to me with my family or whatever happens in
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the workplace, listen, as long as I keep my expectations
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focused upon God and all these things, and that's good enough.
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And I'm not saying that's a bad thing.
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That's just not what it's saying.
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It's saying my expectation comes from God.
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And I looked up the. Hebrew word for expectations,
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the word tickva. Tickva and it literally means
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this. My hope and my anticipation
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comes from God. And this is where word studies
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are amazing. I'll be honest with you.
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That word tickvaw is not used many times in the Old Testament,
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but it also sometimes is used with this as a cord or a
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binding. You know, one of the places
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where this word tickvaw is used in the Old Testament is in Judge
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Joshua chapter #2 when Rahab placed a tickvaw, A scarlet
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tickvaw, outside of her, a little home on the wall in
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Jericho. And what was that?
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Well, it was a sign that she and her family were to be saved.
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But, but can I put it this way? It was her saying my expectation
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and my hope is in God and God alone.
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That rope is a is a binding. That it's taut.
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That it's tight. That that, that, that it's firm.
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It won't tatter. It won't break, it won't tear.
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That it's something that you can hold on to.
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He says this, my expectation, my tick ball comes from God alone.
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That's a lot better than just saying, well, you know, whatever
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happens in my life, I expect whatever God puts in my life and
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I'm OK with that. And again, not that that's bad,
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that's just not what it's saying.
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It's given us something a whole lot more powerful than that.
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Now, I've never been bobbing up and down in the sea before,
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thank the Lord. I've never been thrown overboard
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and I've never been overboard of a vessel before in the water.
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But I do know this without having had that situation happen
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to me before. I do know this, that if I was
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overboard and someone threw a life raft to me through a life
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preserver to me, and it was attached to a rope, listen, if I
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didn't grab that rope, probably die.
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You know, the water's choppy. You're going up and down and up
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and down. Listen, there's a reason they
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called a life preserver. You grab it so you can live.
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So if I was to decline it, if I was to say I don't need it, I
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probably perish there in the water.
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But if I was to grab it and I was to hold on to it, you know,
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we could argue the fact that perhaps I could stay in that
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water for quite a long time. In fact, maybe they wouldn't be
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able to pull me up right away because the water would be so
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boisterous and and the waves would be so high that it would
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be difficult to draw me up. But as long as I was holding on
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that rope, even if I had to wait for a couple hours, I still
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live. Why?
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Because you hold on to the tick ball in your life tonight.
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There's some things going on. You don't know why they're going
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the way they're going. You know why it's taking so long
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for God to do what you thought he was going to do a long time
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before. You don't understand why the
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family is the way it is. You don't understand why the
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finances are the way they are. You don't understand where the
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situation that should have just remedied itself a long time ago
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still is going and going and going, and it's like a gaping
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wound that that won't ever heal itself.
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You don't understand why it's going on.
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Where is God? Why isn't he doing what he's
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supposed to be doing? I just encourage you, hold on to
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the Tigva. Hold on to hope that God is who
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he said he is. Hold on to hope that God plays
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the long game and not the short game.
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Now I'll tell you this if. You hold on to that.
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You can last a lot longer than you think.
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As soon as you let go, drift. As soon as you let go, as the
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waves overcome you, as soon as you let go, you lose hope.
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But if you hold on to that hope, and by the way, that rope which
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is on the other side, He is, you can hold on a lot longer than
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you ever thought was possible. And maybe you don't have answers
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medically, but you can hold on. Why?
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Because God will see you through and maybe the family, it doesn't
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seem like it's ever going to remedy itself.
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It doesn't seem like they're ever going to come back to
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Christ. But listen, God will see you
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through. And you don't understand how on
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earth your finances are supposed to remedy themselves.
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And then you're supposed to tie it on top of that.
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And that's supposed to make things better when it seems like
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it's going to make things worthless, Hold on to the
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promises of God. He's not just your expectations.
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He's better than that. He's your expectation.
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Hold on to Him and you will find patience.
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That seems to. Pass all understanding why?
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Because when he's holding on to the other side of the rope and
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you trust in him, just like Rahab was saved.
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And by the way, it seems to me that maybe David was able to
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write that with Rahab being in his lineage.
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Maybe a good place for us to stop this evening.
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I'd say he's a good God to trust, isn't he?
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Thank you for listening to the sermon from the pulpit of
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Liberty Baptist Church. If this message was a blessing
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to you, or if there's any way we can serve you, please let us
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Or you can visit us this Sunday at 800 Washington St. in Easton,
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MA. May the Lord bless you as you
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grow in His Word.