Sermon
"It Is Not the Critic Who Counts..." | August 3, 2025 PM
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Welcome to the Liberty Baptist Sermon Archives.
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The message you're about to hear was preached at Liberty Baptist
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Church in Easton, MA. You can find out more about us
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or contact us at my libertybaptist.org or just look
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us up on Facebook. And now we hope that this
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message from God's Word will be a blessing to you.
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Would you? Please turn your Bibles to
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second Samuel chapter #6 some of you saying, Pastor, this is
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moving pretty quickly. We could do without AC more
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often around here. And the answer is what we do
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without the AC around here about 10 months out of the year.
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But it just happens to be these two months.
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That is a little bit of a problem.
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And I do want us to give priority to the Word of God this
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evening. So I do know that when you're
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warm, you're tired. When the pastor's preaching,
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there's hot air coming out that makes you even warmer, and then
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the sermon goes on. You could be even more tired.
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Who knows? So we just want to get right to
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the word of God this evening and hope it will be a help to you.
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Now, I've quoted this several years ago here at Liberty, but I
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do think it's important for me to present to you again tonight
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as a way to introduce our message.
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It was a speech that was given back by Teddy Roosevelt in the
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year 1910, and it was part of a speech that has commonly been
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called the man in the Arena. And he said this.
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It is not the critic who counts, not the man who points out how
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the strong man stumbles or where the doer of deeds could have
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done them better. The credit belongs to the man
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who was actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and
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sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs, who come
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short again and again because there is no effort without error
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and shortcoming. But who does actually strive to
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do the deeds? Who knows great enthusiasms, the
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great devotions? Who spends himself in a worthy
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cause? Who at the best knows in the end
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the triumph of high achievement? And who is at the worst, if he
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fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his
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place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither
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know victory nor defeat? And in many ways, the first 7
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words of this speech are the most important.
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It's not the critic who counts. And I love that whole speech,
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the idea that without moving forward, there is no moving
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ahead as far as you might make mistakes sometimes, but at least
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you need to try to move forward the best that you can.
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But I will say that this issue of criticism, being a critic,
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someone not who notices things and has discernment.
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Remember we talked about discernment on Wednesday night.
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It's good for a Christian to have discernment, but a level
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beyond Bible believing discernment, but rather critics
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and being a critic. Critics are loud, critics are
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attention seekers, critics are fault finders.
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And worst of all, critics are always right in their own mind.
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So tonight we're going to find that David is going to be
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confronted with a bitter critic. And here's the worst part of it
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all. David's worst critic at this
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moment in time is his own wife. And so we're look at David
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dealing with this issue of getting the Ark of the Covenant
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back to Jerusalem where it belongs after the issue last
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week with the new cart. But we find that as wonderful as
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this day was, there was room still for a critic to try to
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take David's joy and bring it down.
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So you can remain seated. But we're going to read here in
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Second Samuel chapter 6 verse #12 And it says, and it was
2 Samuel 6 chapter mention
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told, King David saying, the Lord hath blessed the House of
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Obed Edom and all that pertaineth unto him because of
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the ark of God. So David went and brought up the
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ark of God from the House of Obed Edom into the city of David
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with gladness. And it was so that when they had
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bare the ark of the Lord, let me try that again.
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And it was so that when they that bear the ark of the Lord
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had gone 6 paces, he sacrificed oxen and fatlings.
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And David danced before the Lord with all his might.
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And David was girded with a linen ephod.
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So David, all the House of Israel brought up the ark of the
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Lord, was shouting, and with the sound of the trumpet.
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That sounds like a great time, doesn't it?
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And this time it was all within the Lord's will.
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But verse 16, as the ark of the Lord came into the city of
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David, Michael, Saul's daughter looked through a window and saw
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David leaping and dancing before the Lord.
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And look at this, she despised him in her heart.
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And they brought in the ark of the Lord, and said in his place,
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in the place of the midst of the Tabernacle, that David had
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pitched for it. And David offered burnt
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offerings and peace offerings before the Lord.
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And as soon as David had made an end to the burnt offering and
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peace offerings, he blessed the people in the name of the Lord
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of hosts, and he dealt among all the people, even among the whole
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multitude of Israel, as well to the women of his men, to
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everyone a cake of bread and a good piece of flesh and a flagon
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of wine. So all the people departed
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everyone to his house. Then David returned to bless his
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household. And Michael, the daughter of
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Saul, came out to meet David and said how glorious was the king
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of Israel today, who uncovered himself today in the eyes of the
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handmaids of his servants, as one of the vain fellows
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shamelessly uncovered himself. Now, I was just reading that
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like I was reading the rest of the text, but I would probably
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imagine that if we could have heard or say it, it would have
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been something like this. How glorious was the King of
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Israel today, who uncovered himself today in the eyes of the
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handmaids of his servants, as one of those vain fellows
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shamelessly uncovered himself. I believe that she was speaking
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this very sarcastically because she didn't think it was glorious
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at all, did she? She despised what she saw from
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the window. And it says in verse 21.
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And David said unto Michael, It was before the Lord, which chose
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me before thy father, and before all his house, to appoint me
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ruler over the people of the Lord over Israel.
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Therefore will I play before the Lord, and I will yet be more
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vile than us, and we'll be based in my own sight.
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And of the main servants which thou has spoken of, of them
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shall I be had an honor. Therefore Michael, the daughter
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of Saul, had no child until the day of her death.
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And certainly this text has given us a lot of twists and
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turns, hasn't it? From the ark going towards
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Jerusalem to us, a touching the ark to us a dying, to the
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resumption of the ark towards Jerusalem, the great joy, and
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Michael ridiculing her own husband when he returns home.
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It's been ups and downs, ups and downs in chapter #6 but through
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it all, here at the end, it's the critic who were left with
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this impression of this woman named Michael, remember the
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daughter of Saul. And I want us to look at this
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issue tonight of criticism in this message that I've entitled.
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It is not the critic who counts. Heavenly Father be with us
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tonight. I do ask, and I know that this
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is not an optimal situation that we have this evening within our
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own minds to be able to be in a building that is as warm as it
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is outside. But I do pray that you would
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work through all of that because I do believe that you've given
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me this message and that we're here tonight for a purpose and
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for a reason. So I do pray that we would put
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aside anything else within our own selves to be able to listen
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to the Word as it's given or help me to know what to say,
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what to leave in a message, what to remove from the message for
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the sake of time so that I can best bring forth the things that
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need to be brought forth in the message tonight.
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But I do pray to be with us this evening.
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Lord, when we leave here tonight, may our first thought
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not necessarily be the situation within the building, but may our
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first thought be this, how good you have been to us tonight as
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you are always good to us and we ask it in Jesus name, Amen.
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I will say this is not a good sign when you start preaching in
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the sweat's already going down your back.
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All right, so we're just kind of try to do the best we can here
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tonight. Well, there's been a three month
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hiatus from what we saw in the message last Sunday night, and
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the parade is back on. The Ark of the Covenant is about
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to be transported back to Jerusalem as it's supposed to
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have been months ago, except the whole problem with the new cart
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and as I having touched the Ark of the Covenant and the breach
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of God's power being placed upon him.
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And verse #12 tells us that it's a glorious scene.
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Verse #12 And on it says that they brought the Ark of the
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Covenant out of the House of Obed Edom into the city of David
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with gladness. And that summarizes the day that
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there was great gladness. And may I remind you that when
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they did this, we have the corresponding passage in First
1 Chronicles 15 chapter mention
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Chronicles chapter 15 that tells us that they looked in the word
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of God and they found out that they weren't supposed to use a
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new card. That they were supposed to use
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staves. And that the Levites were
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supposed to take the Ark of the Covenant, take those staves and
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put it over their shoulders that no one was supposed to touch it.
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That no one was supposed to mimic the way the Philistines
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had carried the ark all those years ago.
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But now it's a time of and it was so great that as they were
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taking the Ark of the Covenant, every six steps that they took,
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they offered another burnt offering right there on the
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ground. It was David almost
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overcompensating, if you will, to be able to ensure that God
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would bless. And it was a way of David
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showing a repentant heart as well to show that, yes, Lord, I
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am now following Your word. Where I disregarded it before,
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it is now at the forefront in my mind.
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It's interesting in verse #14 it says that David danced before
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the Lord. Now I was thinking about dancing
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before the Lord here for you tonight, and I have a lot of
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problems with that. First of all, well, I don't
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dance. And #2 the dancing before the
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Lord that we see here is not the type of dancing that we would
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think of today. A lot of the things that pass in
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this world today for dancing is mostly lewd and suggestive.
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But what we see here is just an exuberance in David's body that
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there is just such gratefulness and gladness in his heart for
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what the Lord has done, that what was on the inside just
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comes out on the outside. Now, we don't dance before the
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Lord today. There's a lot of different
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reasons for that. But I will say this, it's OK in
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church to at least be excited about church.
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It's OK during a message when the Lord speaks to your heart to
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at least show that from the inside, the outside.
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Listen, you won't get hurt if you raise your hand during a
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church service. They won't hurt you one bit, all
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right? If the Lord speaks to you
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through a message or through song or anything like that, you
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know, we're not talking about being wild and out of control in
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the House of God. First Timothy tells us that we
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ought to behave ourselves well in the House of the God.
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But at the same time, again, we're not talking about whipping
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ourselves up into an emotional frenzy for the sake of having an
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emotional frenzy. We're just talking about the
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fact that when God speaks to us, it could be a very moving thing
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and it's OK to say Amen. It's OK to say Hallelujah.
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It's OK to raise one hand. It's OK to raise both hands.
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All right? Don't believe it or not, the
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Bible talks about lifting up our hands in the book of Psalms.
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There's nothing wrong with that in and of itself.
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So here is David dancing before the Lord that says he was gird
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with a linen ephod. Now those were priestly
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garments. And this is important because
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David in his heart was not out there in his kingly robes.
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Because if he was out there in his robes, everyone would be
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able to identify David, right? Everyone on that parade route
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would have seen David and their eyes would have followed him.
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But what he wanted to do literally was just to blend in
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with the crowd. He wanted to be able to look
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like the other Levites that were there in the process of getting
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the Ark of the Covenant back. Why?
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Because the single and sole focus was to be the Ark, which
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meant this, the single and the sole focus was to be God.
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He didn't want to be the focus of attention there on that
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parade route. And so there he is in garments
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that were probably looser and garments that were much
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different than what he would normally wear.
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And that's going to become a part of what we're going to look
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at here in just a second. Well, we see that all of this
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takes place in the Ark of the Covenant, comes there into the
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city and verse #17 through 19 said that they made Burt
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offerings and peace offerings. Then when all that was done,
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they took of the meat and they took of bread and then they took
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of juice and they put it all together and David sent everyone
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home with doggy bags. That's how you know, they were
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Baptists all right, because they had a meal and they made sure
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everyone had something to take home with them when they were
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there as well, with this good potluck that they had there.
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And it was a great day. It was a glorious day by every
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metric, by any possible way that you would have looked at this
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day is that man? This was a great day.
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The Lord blessed. The Ark of the Covenant is here
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in Jerusalem. The Tabernacle has now been
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erected in Jerusalem as well, because remember, there's no
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temple yet. We'll see about that in a little
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bit more in the coming weeks. But the Tabernacle, that movable
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tent where God would meet with man, that has now been placed in
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Jerusalem, the city of David. And I mean, things are good.
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I mean, who could complain about something like this?
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Well, the problem is the critic always finds something to
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complain about. The critic always finds
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something that's wrong. And unfortunately for David, the
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critic lived within his own house.
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Look again at verse #16 where it says.
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And as the ark of the Lord came into the city of David, Michael,
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Saul's daughter, looked through a window and saw King David
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leaping and dancing before the Lord.
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And she despised him in her heart.
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It's amazing to me that she could look at her own husband.
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This is Saul's daughter. Remember to look at her own
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husband and see him joyful about the Lord's presence and joyful
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about what the Lord was doing in Israel.
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And the only emotion that could be invoked within her heart was
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this. She despised her husband.
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He comes home and she sarcastically greets him.
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Oh, how glorious was the king of Israel here this day who has
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uncovered himself. And I believe that this issue of
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uncovering itself really comes back down to the issue of him
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wearing the linen ephah that he was in different clothing than
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his normal rural robes. Rural robes would be luxurious
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and heavy and long, where a robe for a Levite would have been
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much lighter. And there's, it's very possible
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that David, in his exuberance, David as he's jumping up and
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dancing before the Lord, that he very well might have revealed
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himself briefly in a way that, you know, probably wouldn't have
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been a very good thing. But it was something that was
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inconsequential in the day and probably something that very few
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people, if anyone would have noticed.
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But Michael noticed, you know why?
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Because she wasn't looking at the Ark of the Covenant.
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She was staring a hole right into her husband and she saw him
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jumping around and dancing and being excited for maybe 1 brief
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moment because of the way his garments were and because the
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way he jumped up that he may have revealed part of his body
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that would not normally have been revealed.
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Again, we don't know how much that it is, the Bible doesn't
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reveal it to us, but this is all she could focus on.
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Oh how glorious you were basically saying this.
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Do you realize what a fool you made of yourself out there now?
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How sad is it to be excited about having a relationship with
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God? And maybe you've been in a
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situation like this before. You're excited about what God's
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doing in your life. You're excited about how he's
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grown you. You're excited about maybe you
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were away from him for a while and now you're back in your
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relationship with the Lord and someone comes up to you and
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says, really, you're going to church?
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Who do you think you are? You know what kind of life
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you've lived. Oh, don't worry, you'll stop
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going in a few weeks. You always stop going to church.
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How encouraging is that? Well, the answer is it's not at
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all. But it's the very thing that the
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critic does. Critics criticize.
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Now, before we continue, again, I want to be clear.
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Having discernment is important. There are absolutely times in
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the Christian life we are compelled to point out when
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something is wrong. Amen that there are times that
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we're not to to just ignore things that are going on that we
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are to confront them as believers.
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Listen. A church that is falling in
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false doctrine, yes, it needs to be addressed.
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A friend who is making poor spiritual choices, Yes, that
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needs to be addressed. A spouse who has done wrong to
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you, Yes, that needs to be addressed.
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A child that needs to have correction, yes, that needs to
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be addressed. But I believe there's a great
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difference between offering what we would call constructive
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criticism today and living the life of a critic who constantly
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feels a superiority to others and always feels a superiority
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of their ideas to other people. Listen, critics can be found
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anywhere. Can they be found in the church?
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Absolutely. They can be found in a spouse.
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They can be found in a grandparent.
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They can be found an employee. They can be found an employer,
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they can be found in either a customer or a consumer.
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And I will say this, we have to make sure that we are careful
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that we don't slip into the habit of becoming a critic even
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within our own lives. Discernment, yes, absolutely,
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that's biblical. To be able to judge righteously,
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it's a command. But to be a constant critic and
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to have an air of superiority about yourself and your ideas,
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nowhere is the Lord near that type of thinking.
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I see four things that I want us to be able to look at here this
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evening that are identifying marks of the critic.
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Right here in our text. There's four identifying marks
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of the critic. And the first is this.
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They always look down. They always look down.
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I don't think it's a mistake that Michael is looking from on
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high through her window down at David.
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Now, first of all, let's say this.
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Where should Michael have been in the parade?
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Where should Michael have been? She should have been excited
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that the Ark of the Covenant was coming into Jerusalem, but she
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wanted no part of it. I think that's actually pretty
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telling because it tells us a lot about the critics spiritual
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life that the critic doesn't have, the spiritual life that
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they think that they have. But there she is.
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She's in her window and she's looking down at David.
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Why wasn't she with her husband? Why wasn't she at the
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Tabernacle? Instead?
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She sat on her perch and she complained.
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But what did Jesus do? Well, Jesus had a different
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posture. He didn't look down on others.
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Rather, he said this, for I am meek and lowly in heart.
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He Himself, as we saw this morning, biblically took the
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form of a servant. Listen, the only time that Jesus
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looked down on somebody in His earthly ministry was when He was
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on the cross. The only time Jesus looked down
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upon someone, His earthly ministry, was when He was on the
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cross. Now listen, before you get too
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squeamish on me tonight, that doesn't mean he didn't identify
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other people's sin. He most certainly did.
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Quite the opposite. He most absolutely identified
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other people's sin, but he always identified it with a
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purpose to lovingly confront them with the truth.
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No, Jesus wasn't being a quote UN quote critic as a servant of
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the Lord When he saw that someone was in sin, when he saw
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someone needed correction, he brought it to them in love.
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Why to lovingly bring them back to God?
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When we have those situations where we need to talk to
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somebody about something, are we looking down upon them?
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No, what we realize is, look man, I am a Sinner saved by
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grace just like you are. I'm no better than you are.
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I'm just bringing something to your attention because God
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brought me through some things and I hope He'll bring you
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through some things and I want to talk to you in a spirit of
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humility. But that's not what the critic
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does. The critic always feels
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superior. The critic always looks down.
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The critic is not a participant. They are just a surveyor and
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they are able survey what everyone else is doing wrong
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while they are doing listen to this nothing.
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The critic always looks down #2 I also see this.
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They missed the bigger picture. They missed the bigger picture
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back in verse #20 how glorious was the king of Israel today,
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who uncovered himself today in the eyes of the handmaids of his
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servants, as one of the vain fellows shamelessly uncovered
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himself. You know, she may not have
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actually noticed that wardrobe malfunction that David had for a
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few moments if she had actually been taking in the whole scene
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instead of just watching her husband with disdain.
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Again, what happened with David wasn't great.
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If he actually did uncover himself in some way, even if it
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was for a moment and most certainly would have been
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accidentally. We're not saying that that's
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good. I wouldn't suggest it was.
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I don't believe David would suggest that it was, but I would
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say this it also was a very small moment of a much greater
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day. The end result of the day, if
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you were to summarize it was not well.
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There was a big parade and David uncovered himself.
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I think the summary of the day will be this.
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It was a big day, and the ark of the Lord and His presence came
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to where it should rest in Jerusalem, and there was great
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gladness. You know, if you go through life
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criticizing every small thing, you will miss that which God has
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for you in your life. Listen, we have this problem in
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life, and here's one of the great problems of life that we
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have. We like to be right.
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I don't know about you, but I like to be right.
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If I'm at the traffic light and someone does something wrong, I
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want to be the one that's right. If I'm at the checkout line, I
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want to be right. If I'm dealing with someone in
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situations, I'm the one that wants to be right.
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And there's nothing wrong with doing things in a right way.
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But at the same time, if we're not careful, that can take us to
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a place where we become critics because when we perceive that
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other people aren't doing things right, then we miss, listen, we
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end up missing the big picture. Here's what I mean.
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You can criticize the checkout person.
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You could be rude to them because of the way that they are
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bagging your groceries or the way that they're handling things
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and you're just focused on that one thing.
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But are you missing the bigger picture?
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This is a sole. Let me ask you, if you criticize
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them, well, don't. Hey, don't put those together.
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What's the matter with you? Are you going to be able to hand
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them a track before you leave? Are you able to tell them about
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Jesus Christ? Maybe we've missed the big
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picture because we're so focused on something small.
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Nitpicking your spouse's habits. Comment and how they load the
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dishwasher, how they lead the Sox, how they maybe you comment
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that they don't load the dishwasher.
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Could be anything. You comment, you don't.
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You know, one of you likes the AC high.
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One of you likes the AC low. Anyway, we don't want to go
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there tonight, all right? But here, here's the idea.
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You can constantly criticize, but you know at what cost.
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Meanwhile, peace in the home fades and your chance to reflect
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Christ's love and your marriage starts to decline.
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Does that mean you just ignore things in the marriage?
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No, but you don't have a spirit of criticism.
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You even when you handle issues in the marriage, you do so in a
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way that the other spouse is glorified and most importantly,
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God is glorified. That you are being a servant.
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That you are being this Mike's not normally there, That you are
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being a servant to that other person.
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Why? Because you see the big picture.
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The critic can't see the big picture.
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You complain about your coworkers habits.
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You don't like the way that they fill out the spreadsheet.
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You don't like the way that they do their work.
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You don't like the way they handle things.
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You're constantly complaining about them.
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And again, listen, we understand there are times you have to take
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criticisms about a coworker to the proper channels.
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But I want to caution you. Are you just doing it because
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your pride has been wounded? Are you doing it because you've
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been annoyed? Have you really thought about
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the bigger picture, which is this?
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This is a soul that needs to be saved.
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They've seen me read my Bible on my break.
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They've heard me talk about church.
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I need to make sure that I'm thinking about this right.
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Listen, the critic always misses the bigger picture.
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Again, I'm not saying that you shouldn't handle things that are
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wrong. Have discernment, but in that
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discernment understand there is a bigger picture.
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Could we even put it this way? There is an eternal picture at
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play as well. The critic always looks down.
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They always miss the bigger picture #3 They always think too
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highly of themselves. They always think too highly of
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the Selms. Look at verse #22.
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David responds. Or rather verse number, No to
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verse #22 He said this. I will be more vile than thus,
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and will be based in my own sight, and of the maidservants
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which I was spoken of. Of them shall I be had an honor.
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David says this. He says, you say that I'm vile.
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He says, I'd rather be vile than be what you are.
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I'd rather be vile in my own sight and let others look at me
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and see me as a servant. David defends himself by saying
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he'd rather look vile in her eyes because his approval
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ultimately came from God and God alone.
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Michael's mindset was this. She goes.
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I would never demean myself in such a way.
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I would never be out in a parade like that with all the people.
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Listen, I literally think that she thought of herself as a
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Princess, and she was, in some ways, was she?
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She was the daughter of soul. Now, she was married to David,
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and she handled herself like a Princess.
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I wouldn't be out there. I wouldn't do that.
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I wouldn't dress like that. I wouldn't jump up and down.
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I wouldn't demean myself. I wouldn't look vile.
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But here's the problem. The critic forgets that God's
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calling upon the child of God is like our Savior, to be a
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servant, and a servant cannot think too highly of himself.
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Remember, let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ
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Jesus. Philippians chapter #2 The word
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servant is found 462 times in the Bible, or rather 462 verses
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in the Bible it's more. Sometimes it's listed twice in a
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verse. Paul, James, Peter and Jude all
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introduce themselves and at least one epistle as a servant
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of Jesus Christ. And we mentioned Jude before.
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Jude could have led with this. I'm the half brother of Jesus
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but it never even comes up in his epistle.
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All he mentions is I'm a servant of Jesus Christ.
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I'm a servant of my half brother.
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He was willing to look low upon himself.
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David not only wanted to be seen as a servant, but it shows here
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that he wanted to be seen as a servant to other servants.
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Again, verse #22 of the maid servants which thou has spoken
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of, of them shall I be had an honor.
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He says this, I want those other servants to see me the way I was
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today as a servant. The critic always thinks too
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highly of themselves. But the number four, I also see
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this, and perhaps this is the most important thing.
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Number one, they look down #2 they miss the bigger picture #3
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they think too highly themselves.
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And #4 the critics are barren. I don't know about you, but that
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last verse, verse #23 kind of stung a little bit.
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It seems like it's really harsh, doesn't it?
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Read it again. Therefore, Michael, the daughter
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of Saul, had no child until the day of her death.
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She criticized her husband. She had the spirit of criticism
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within her, and the judgment of the Lord was this, that she
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never had a child. Now, at first that seems like a
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very, very harsh penalty for what took place.
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But I do believe there's a greater principle that's at play
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here that God wants to teach us here tonight, even though this
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took place around 3000 years ago.
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And there's, there's one thing that I, I would give to you
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tonight. Well, there's two things you
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remember. 1, the AC was out. And two, is this.
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The critic lives a life of utter barrenness.
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The critic ends up living a life of utter bearlessness.
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They don't have their own ideas. They don't have encouragement to
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offer. They don't build anything of
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value. They don't have souls that
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they're able to lead to the Lord.
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They don't offer hope. They just perch there.
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They tear down at others like Michael at her day, at frowning
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at Davis dance. They're too caught up in scorn
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to grasp joy. They're too empty to join the
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song. And just like Michael, the
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critic is barren. And God uses Michael as a very
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graphic example that if you continue to live the critics
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life, if you constantly criticize, criticize and nitpick
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and feel above other people, better than other people,
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superior to other people, look down, miss the bigger picture,
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think too highly of yourself, you will live a Christian life
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of utter barrenness. And how sad is that?
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Well, Pastor, I've seen some things.
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Well, we've all seen some things.
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And the question is not whether we should ignore those things or
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not. The question is, will I handle
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it like a critic or will I handle it like Christ?
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I didn't say not handle it. Will I handle it like a critic
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or will I handle it like Christ? Perhaps the greatest critics
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you'll find in the word of God were those 10 spies that were
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sent out into the promised land. There were 12.
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Two of them made a good report, 10 came back.
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And what do they say? We can't do it.
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They won't go. And they criticized everything
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about the plan. They're too big, they're too
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strong. We can't do it.
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And they ended up influencing all of the people of Israel.
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Now listen to this. The critics were the ones that
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lived a life of utter barrenness.
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Why? They all died in the wilderness.
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They criticized and criticized and criticized and they died.
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Never seen the promise of God. How sad is that?
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Doesn't have to be that way. I've dealt with critics here or
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there within church life, and that's the way church life is.
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And I will say this, the critics in a church often see things in
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other people, in the pastor. They see things, but they refuse
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to see things in themselves and they can't possibly think that
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there could be anything wrong in their life.
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What happens? They live Baron, a home where a
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spouse is a constant critic. A combatant instead of a
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companion is not a house where God is being glorified.
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So we have problems in our marriage then.
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Do we handle them like a critic or we handle it like Christ, a
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coworker who is constantly you're constantly criticizing
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the employees, the employers and and you know that if they would
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just listen to you for 5 minutes.
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This whole business would be straightened out.
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Could it be that God brought you there for such a time as this to
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be able to show them not the best way to run their business,
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but the best way to know Jesus Christ.
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And that might require you taking down the notch of the
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criticisms a few and instead showing Jesus Christ and maybe a
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bit of here's a word from this morning long-suffering.
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I'll be honest with you. Critics can get to me sometimes
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I try not to live in the past or what people say or what people
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have done, but but critics can get to all of us sometimes and
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and I have found this to be true.
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Remember George W Bush said you don't negotiate with terrorists.
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If I was to make a similar quote, it would be something
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like this. You don't negotiate with critics
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because no matter what you do to try to placate them, they're
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never happy. But I will say this, even in
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preparing the message this week. And This is why when a pastor
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has to get ready for a message, it's not just thus sayeth the
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Lord. It's got to go through my heart
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first because it was easy for me to think of people who have
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criticized me over the years and say, you know what?
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They need to hear this message. I hope.
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I hope they find it online. I hope, I hope they hope they
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rage watch our our services and I hope they find this one.
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And they know that I'm talking about them.
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And I thought that's probably not from the Holy Spirit.
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That's a spirit. All right, You know what the
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problem with thinking about critics is this, we always think
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of someone else. But the real issue is this.
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The critic that we need to worry about is the one you're looking
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at at the mirror because you may not have a life of criticism,
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but the spirit of criticism can with can live within us.
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Now I tell you it'll ruin a marriage.
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It'll embitter you with children, It'll embitter you to
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your grandchildren. It'll embitter you to extended
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family. It'll cause you to go from job
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to job to job or from a relationship relationship to
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relationship. And maybe you say why I don't
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have any long term friends. I just, I'm not finding, could
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it be that maybe the thing that is the same in all of those is
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you? Well, I have, I don't have
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criticism, I have discernment. Well, that's between you and the
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Lord. But I would tell you these will
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help you understand the difference between the two.
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Do you look down on others not participating, just looking down
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with disdain? Do you miss the bigger picture?
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Do you think too highly of yourself?
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Are you barren of spiritual fruit?
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It's a good sign that you are a critic.
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You know, Abraham Lincoln is revered as a president today,
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isn't he? I mean, who's going to say
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something negative about Abraham Lincoln today?
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But I will tell you this. I just mentioned a couple weeks
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ago, I was reading a history of Stonewall Jackson.
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And of course there's issues with the Civil War with with
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Abraham Lincoln in that book. And I really enjoy Civil War
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history quite a bit. And it's amazing to me that the
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the manner that Abraham Lincoln is beloved today was not the way
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he was thought of during the Civil War.
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Why? Our country had never come into
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a situation like that before, obviously.
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And everyone thought they had a better way than Abraham Lincoln.
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Some thought he was too soft, some thought he was too harsh.
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And no one seemed to agree. In fact, I would say this, no
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one seemed to agree on how great he was until he was dead.
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But Abraham Lincoln said something about critics that I
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think is very, very good. And he said this.
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He said I do the very best I can.
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I mean to keep going. If the end brings me out all
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right, then what is said against me won't matter.
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But if I'm wrong, 10 angels swearing I was right won't make
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a difference. He says it's not the critic who
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counts. I just need to move forward and
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do what I know is right, he says.
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And if I'm right, it doesn't matter what people say, because
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I was right. And if I'm wrong, it doesn't
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matter who tries to prop me up that I was right, I was still
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wrong. Just do right.
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And when it comes to the Christian life, listen, don't
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meddle with criticism. Just do right.
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The critic lives a life of utter barrenness.
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Thank you for listening to the sermon from the pulpit of
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Liberty Baptist Church. If this message was a blessing
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to you, or if there's any way we can serve you, please let us
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Or you can visit us this Sunday at 800 Washington St. in Easton,
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MA. May the Lord bless you as you
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grow in His Word.