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The Ultimate Sign of Peter's Maturity | August 17, 2025 AM
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Welcome to the Liberty Baptist Sermon Archives.
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The message you're about to hear was preached at Liberty Baptist
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Church in Easton, MA. You can find out more about us
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message from God's Word will be a blessing to you.
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Second Peter chapter #3 Second Peter chapter 3 in the Word of
2 Peter 3 chapter mention
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God, if you would, and when you have found that, if you would
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put your ribbon in Galatians chapter #2 if your Bible happens
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to have one of those newfangled ribbons that are out there now,
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that would be a good thing to turn to Galatians chapter 2,
Galatians 2 chapter mention
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'cause we're going to go over there in just a few moments, but
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we are in Second Peter chapter #3 as we've marched through
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first and second Peter over the last couple of years.
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And you can see that, boy, we are really, really close to the
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end. In fact, so much so that by the
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time we are done with the message today, we will only have
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one verse left in Second Peter. So Galatians chapter #2 is where
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your ribbon will be. But then turn to Second Peter
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chapter #3 and that's where we will start today.
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But Speaking of all those things and finishing up the series and
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all that, we're not just really finishing up the series.
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In many ways, we're finishing up Peter's life, aren't we?
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I mean, because these are the final words that have been
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inspired of the Holy Spirit. And the shadow of death is
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looming across the pages here as we're in this last chapter.
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And the shadow of death is in the shape of an upside down
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cross because history tells us that is how Peter will die, That
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he was told that he was to be crucified, but desired not to be
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crucified in the way that Jesus was because he did not believe
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himself to be worthy, to be sacrificed in the way that Jesus
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was. And so crucified up died down is
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what history tells us that he was.
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And we've seen Peter now for a long time, haven't we?
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We've seen him from the Gospels when he was a rough and tumble
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fisherman. We saw him when he was the
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disciple who had the foot shaped mouth, you know, the one that
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always said the wrong thing at the wrong time.
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It's one of the reasons why so many of us, we feel like we
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identify with Peter so much because of how erratic he was
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and how he said things that he usually regretted later.
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And so we saw him in that way in the Gospels, turned into almost
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elder statesman by the time you get to the book of Acts and his
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life changes as the Holy Spirit really doesn't work within his
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life. And then through first and
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second Peter, you see a growth and a maturity in him that never
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could have fathomed, that you never could have imagined when
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you first read the Gospels and were introduced to this
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character named Peter. Well, here in today's message,
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as we look at these final verses, well almost all of the
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final verses of the book of Second Peter, I want us to look
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at perhaps the greatest sign of spiritual maturity in Peter's
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life. You say, well, well, what could
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that be, pastor? Was it the fact that he preached
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so powerfully in the book of Acts compared to his denial of
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Christ in the Gospels? You might say it was his
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boldness that we find later on in his life compared to the
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brashness that he exhibited before.
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You could say maybe it was his leadership that he exemplified
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as the church began to grow compared to his impetuousness
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when we first found him in the Gospels.
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There's a lot of different things that you could look at,
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but perhaps my answer to this morning from God's Word is one
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that could be surprising to you. And the fact of Peter's
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maturity, the fact that we see that Peter has grown over the
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years compared to the man that we first met in the Gospels, is
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this. Are you ready that he was able
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to get along with others? The fact that we can see Peter's
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spiritual maturity is exemplified here in Second Peter
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chapter #3 in these final closing verses was that he could
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get along with others. And then maybe if I could add
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something to it, it would be this.
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And then he enjoyed it because many of us can get along with
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others, but we do it with teeth grit and fists clench.
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Boy, it's quiet this morning. Let me tell you, I'm already
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seeing it is so quiet this morning.
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And there's sometimes it's because you're tired and
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sometimes because, you know, oh, I think he's talking about me.
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Well, listen, I'm not trying to talk about you and I'm not
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necessarily trying to talk about me.
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It just may be the Holy Spirit reminds us that although we know
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that we're supposed to be Christians, other Christians,
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and that we're supposed to be the right type of church member
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with other types of church members, getting along with
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Christians isn't always the easiest thing.
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And by the way, it might just be that we're not the easiest ones
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to get along with all the time either.
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And so as we look at these verses, I want us to look at
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spiritual maturity in the light of Peter's life and the fact
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that one of the ways that we know that he has grown so much
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is the fact that he got along with others even when things
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were difficult, and he learned to like it.
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Would you please stand for the reading of God's Word?
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And second, Peter chapter #3 we'll begin in verse #14 and
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we'll actually read into verse #18 the final verse, but we'll
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stop short of finishing the book.
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The Bible says this. Wherefore, beloved, seeing that
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you look for such things, be diligent, that you may be found
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of Him in peace, without spot and blameless.
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An account that the long-suffering of our Lord is
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salvation, even as our beloved Brother Paul also, according to
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the wisdom given unto Him, hath written unto you, as also in all
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his Epistles, speaking in them of those things in which are
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some things hard to be understood, which they that are
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unlearned and unstable, rest, as they do also the other
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Scriptures, unto their own destruction.
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Ye therefore, beloved, seeing ye know these things before, beware
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lest ye also being LED away with the error of the wicked, fall
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from your own Steadvatis. And we'll end with these first 4
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words of verse #18. But grow in grace in light of
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always seen. Paul is going to end, or Peter,
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rather, is going to end this epistle with an appeal to grow
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in grace. And we'll look more at that last
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next week or the next time we are together in our set text.
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But I do want us to consider that everything we're going to
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see is because Peter has learned to grow in grace, so he's able
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to show some spiritual maturity to others as well.
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You'll be seated. Let's pray together.
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Heavenly Father, do pray to you be with us here today.
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Help me as I present your word to be able to present it in such
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a way that's understandable that it's helpful.
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Lord, help us as we deal with others.
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And it's not always easy. And Lord, we're not always easy
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to be dealt with. And so I pray that you help us
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to learn to grow and to be able to be the church that you have
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called us to be. And we do ask it in Jesus name,
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Amen. Well, what's interesting here is
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we look at Peter's life as we see that Peter is now going to
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mention Paul in these final words of his epistle.
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And again, we've recognized the last several weeks that when you
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get to the end of someone's life or you get to the end of
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someone's record of testimony, that the final things they say
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speak volumes about them and it speaks volumes about what's
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important to them. So the fact that Paul is
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mentioned by Peter in our text here is 1.
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Not a mistake because well this Bible that we have in front of
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us is inspired by the Holy Spirit.
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But I believe it is Peters very heart to be able to mention
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Paul. And when he mentions Paul he
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mentions them in some pretty glowing terms doesn't he?
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He speaks very high of Paul. We know first of all, he speaks
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highly of him because in verse #15 he calls him this, our
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beloved brother are beloved brother.
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Now remember, sometimes we call people around here brother or
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sister. And it's a reminder that we find
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in the Word of God that the brethren that when they were in
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church, that when they were around other believers
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oftentimes called each other brother and sister.
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And by the way, it's not some kind of weird cultish thing.
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It's just the idea is that when you get saved, you got a new
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family. When you get saved, we're not
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saying you replace your old family, but we're just saying
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this, that you have gained a new family in Christ.
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I'm thankful for the family that I have in Christ here at Liberty
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Baptist Church that many times are closer to me than my own
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blood family. I don't have much family to
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speak of. What I have is extended family
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and fairly extended family. But what's left is my father
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and, and really well, I have an uncle and an aunt that live a
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little bit away, but I'm an only child.
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And so I don't have a lot by way of family, but I have God's
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family and I'm thankful for God's family.
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So I'm thankful to call brothers and sisters in Christ that.
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Yes, you are. And so here is Peter saying our
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beloved brother Paul, that he's not just calling brother, but
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he's beloved. And listen, we may have brothers
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and sisters in Christ here, but we don't always call them
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beloved. Let that sink in for a second.
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Yeah, that's how some of you want to say that, but you
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couldn't. All right.
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But, but, but one man had the boldness that nobody else did,
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right? We don't always call him
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beloved, but he says, no, they are my he's my beloved brother.
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And he acknowledges the wisdom that was given unto him.
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He says Paul is beloved. He's my brother, He's wise.
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There's wisdom that has been given unto him.
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And then in verse #16 he says there's been some detractors.
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There have been some people who have tried to twist the
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scriptures that he's written. And he acknowledges that Paul's
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writings are the Scriptures. I think that's an important
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thing for us to realize that here is Peter who is talking
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about the copies of the Word of God that have been made and
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disseminated throughout Asia Minor that time and beyond.
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And here is Peter saying that those copies of the Word of God
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have been preserved and they're the scriptures.
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And it reminds us that God is in the business of preserving his
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scriptures. By the way, he still preserves
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the scriptures today. The fact that we can know that
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we have the word of God, that you don't have to worry about
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what you have in your hands today, that you can have hold of
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the very words of God inspired by the Holy Spirit and preserved
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throughout the generations. Isaiah 40, verse 8, the grass
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withereth, the flower fadeth, but the word of our God shall
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stand forever. And thank the Lord that we can
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know we have God's word. And so here is Peter and he's
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talking about Paul. He says he's beloved and he's my
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brother and he's wise. And he kind of comes to his
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defense and he says, there's these false teachers that are
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out there and they're twisting Paul's words and they're trying
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to take his words in the Scriptures and to make them into
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something or not. And Peter's devoting his some of
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his last words, the last part of his parchment, the last ink that
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he has to write here by the inspiration of the Holy Spirit
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as this way of talking about his beloved brother Paul.
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And I don't know what some of you were thinking this morning.
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You're thinking something like that.
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Well, big deal. So Peter knew Paul, Paul knew
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Peter, they were friends, they liked one another.
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What's the big deal about that, pastor?
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Well, the big deal about that was this, that Peter and Paul's
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relationship wasn't always rosy, that Peter and Paul didn't
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always get along. You say, well, where?
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Where could we find that in the Word of God, believe it or not,
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where your ribbon is? Galatians chapter #2 So turn if
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you would save your spot here in Second Peter chapter #3 but go
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to Galatians chapter #2 and I want to go pick it right up
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because you've already got it saved.
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Galatians chapter 2. Let's look at verse #1 It says.
Galatians 2 chapter mention
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Then 14 years after, I went up again to Jerusalem with
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Barnabas, and took Titus with me also.
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And I went up by revelation, and communicated unto them that the
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gospel which I preach under the Gentiles, but privately to them
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which were of reputation, lest by any means I should run, or
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I'd run in vain. Neither Titus, who was with me,
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being a Greek, was compelled to be circumcised.
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And that because of false brethren unaware is brought in,
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who came in privilege to spy out our liberty which we have in
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Christ Jesus, that they might bring us into bondage to whom we
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have placed by subjection. No, not for an hour that the
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truth of the gospel might continue with you, but of these
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who seem to be somewhat whosoever they were, it maketh
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no matter to me. God accepted no man's person,
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for they who seem to be somewhat in conference added nothing to
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me. Verses #1 through 6.
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And we'll stop right there. Introduce a great debate that
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was taking place in the church during that time.
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And that great debate was this was that obviously that when we
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look at the Gospels that the gospel was being being preached
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to the Jews that we find that very rarely were there gentiles.
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Sometimes there were Samaritans and there was a Syrophoenician
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woman, the Bible says, who would have been a Gentile, but for the
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most part that Jesus earthly ministry based in Judea would
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have been to the Jews. But it was never the fact that
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it was only supposed to stay with the Jews.
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Acts chapter one verse 8 tells us the gospel is to go to
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Jerusalem, Judea and to Samaria and yes, to the uttermost parts
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of the earth. Paul will write later on in
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Romans chapter one verse 16, he says for the power, for I'm not
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ashamed of the gospel of Christ for is the power of God and the
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salvation to everyone that believes to the Jew 1st and also
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to the Greek being the Gentile. And so the gospel had gone to
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the Jews first, but now Gentiles are getting saved.
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And by the way, they're getting saved in very, very large
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numbers. But that means that these
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Gentiles are coming into the church and they're bringing in
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with them their practices. They're bringing in with them
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their ways of living that are not Jewish ways of living.
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Well, the Jews, the males would have been circumcised For the
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Gentiles, that would not have been the case.
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For the Jews, they would have eaten in a way that we would
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call similar to kosher today, and to the Gentiles, they would
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not. And so there was this culture
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shock that was there within those local churches where the
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Jews had lived a certain way, the Gentiles had lived a certain
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way. And now they're coming in
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together and the Jews are saying this in the church.
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Well, if the Gentiles come in, shouldn't they live like the
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Jews? And the answer to that was this.
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Well, no, that's not the way they were supposed to live.
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They were supposed to live in Christ.
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That when Jesus Christ had died on the cross and his blood was
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shed, that the Bible says the veil was rented to in the
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temple, and that the old Sacramento way of living had
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been abolished because there was a new, better way of living in
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Jesus Christ. The perfect sacrifice. 1
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Sacrifice for all mankind for all time.
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That those things were put away of the sacrifices of the bulls
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and the goats and the types of eating in those types of things.
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None of those were ever necessary to save a person
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anyway. That that wasn't what God was
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using those for in the 1st place.
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All of them were figures to point to a future redemption.
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And so here are the Jews that say, well, we've always lived
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this way. And here's the Gentiles who are
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coming into the church and they had this question about the
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Jews. Should the Gentiles live like
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us? And there's friction and people
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are not necessarily happy with one another.
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You find this in Acts chapter 6. You find Peter deals with it
Acts 6 chapter mention
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when God calls him to go talk to the Gentiles, and he has to put
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a vision in front of him so that he understands that, yes, it's
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OK to preach the gospel to a Gentile.
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And so for you and I, we don't think that's a big deal today.
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I look around and we see all different shades of color.
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We see people who talk different language and we realize, listen,
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listen, this is the way God intends it.
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I'll say that again. This is the way God intends it.
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That's the way heaven's going to be, Amen.
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That we're going to have different people's shades and
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different languages and different places, but yet that
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God has united us all through our commonality in Jesus Christ.
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And aren't we thankful for that? But they were struggling with
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this in a very different way with the Jewish and the Gentile.
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And there was this great debate, but then they came to a great
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decision. Come to verse #7 Look with me.
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It says this, but contrary wise, when they saw that the gospel of
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the uncircumcision was committed unto me as the gospel, the
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circumcision was unto Peter, For he that wrought effectually, and
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Peter to the apostleship of the circumcision, the same was
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mighty and me toward the Gentiles.
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And when James Cephus and John, who seemed to be pillars
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perceived that the grace that was given unto me, they gave to
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me and Barnabas the right hands of fellowship that we should go
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into the heathen and and they under the circumcision only that
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they would only they would that we should remember the poor and
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the same which I also was forward to do.
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So this great decision was this was they said, well, there's
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missionary work that needs to be done.
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There's people that need to hear in the great beyond.
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And So what they decided to do was that that Peter was going to
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have the realm of influence that he mostly was going to preach to
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the Jews and that Paul's realm of influence is he's going to
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mostly to preach to the Gentiles.
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Now to make clear, Peter preached Jews and Gentiles, Paul
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preached to Jews and Gentiles. Acts chapter.
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Well the book of Acts makes that abundantly clear.
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I'm not going to give you 1 chapter because the whole book
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of Acts makes that clear that they preach to everybody.
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Listen, if they had a beating heart and a sinful soul, then
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they were going to be preached to by either Peter or Paul.
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But we would say that Peter's fear of influence was going to
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be to the Jews and Paul's fear of influence was going to be
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more to the Gentiles. And they had decided on this and
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there would not be a problem. But they all came to the
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decision that, listen, we're all one in Christ, then we're going
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to come together in church, Jew and Gentile.
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And our identity in church is this Jesus Christ, not our
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ethnic or any other type of background.
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We identify in Jesus Christ. And so everything is great.
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Listen, Paul's got his sphere, Peter's got his sphere.
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They both are leaders in these early churches.
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And so everything seems to be going great.
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But there's not just this big decision, there's going to be a
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big debacle that's going to take place.
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There's a very big problem. Someone could check on that.
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That would be great. All right, that sounds, that
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sounds good. As long as someone saw in the
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building in half, all right, we're fine.
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So I was trying not to acknowledge what was going on,
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but I see everyone looking around.
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Everyone sit down. We're OK.
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We're OK, but we got people that are looking into it.
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All right, thank you. But it was a great debacle.
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What is that debacle? Well, here it is in verse #11
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But when Peter was come to Antioch, I was stood him in the
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face. That doesn't sound good, does
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it? When Peter was come to Antioch,
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I was stood into the face, because he was to be blamed for
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before the certain, before that certain came from James, and he
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did eat with the Gentiles. But when they were come he
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withdrew and separated himself, fearing them which were of the
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circumcision. And the other Jews dissembled
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likewise with him in so much that Barnabas also was carried
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away with their dissimulation. You say what exactly is
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happening here? Well, Peter comes to visit Paul
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and some of the others like Barnabas there in Antioch.
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And Antioch is a Gentile church, and so they're having a meal and
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they had to have been Baptist because they're having a meal
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together in the church. There's no doubt in my mind is
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the First Baptist Church, Antioch, because they're having
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a potluck and everyone's together and everyone's having a
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good time. And here is Peter.
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Now, what is Peter's sphere of influence?
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His sphere of influence was the Jews.
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Now he preached to Jews and Gentiles, but his sphere of
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influence was the Jews. And here he is at this potluck
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in this church in Antioch, and he's sitting with a bunch of
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Gentiles. But look at this.
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A group of Jews show up and they sit down at a different table.
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And Peter looks at them and whether it's embarrassment,
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whether it's shame, whether he feels like he is being peer
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pressured into it, he gets up from his table with the Gentiles
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and goes and sits with the Jews. Now why is that a big deal?
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Because in that moment he is showing the Jews that he's
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ashamed of the gentiles. He's showing the Jews that he
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does not stand with or sit with those gentile believers.
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So why is that a big deal? What could you imagine our day?
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Let's say we had a potluck around here and maybe 3 or 4
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homeless people came in. Now by you said what we do, if
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homeless people came in and we had a potluck, we would feed
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them. I mean, I don't even know what
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the question would be about that.
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And so they sit around a table and you're sitting at the table.
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But then maybe one of your friends comes in and you could
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see by the look on his face, he is not pleased that you would
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sit down with those homeless people.
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They've not cleaned themselves lately.
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They maybe aren't acting in a way that's socially appropriate
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with everyone else. And you look at your friend and
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you look at those homeless people and you say, guys, I got
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to go. And you walk up from the table
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and you leave. What message would you be
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sending? To the church, what message
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would you be sending to the other people?
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You'd say, you know, these people aren't valuable, but this
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person is. That's basically what Peter did
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here. He felt the peer pressure of
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these Jewish believers who came in and he walked up and said,
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well, guys, I'm, I'm done. And he walks away.
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He said, well, I don't see what the big deal is.
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The Bible says there was dissimulation.
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Do you know what that means? It was a mess.
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His friend Barnabas, Paul's friend.
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Barnabas got up and followed Peter.
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By the way, this isn't my message.
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But when you make decisions, other people will follow you.
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You think you're the only one that affects the decisions you
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make. When you make decisions, other
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people follow you, parents follow you, children follow you,
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grandchildren follow you, church members follow you, workers
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follow you, leadership follows you.
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You say that doesn't seem like it works like that.
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You'd be surprised. Your decisions are never made in
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a vacuum. And so Peter gets up and other
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people start getting up, and Paul says, hold on here a
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second. And the Bible says this.
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He withstood him to the face. Now, you don't have to really be
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a Greek scholar to know that withstood him in the face means
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this. They have words.
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They had words with each other, didn't they?
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Now, Paul didn't always act like that.
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In fact, in the beginning, during this great debate, it
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says that he met with the leadership privately, that he
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wasn't publicly going out and being a crusader.
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He was talking to the Jewish leadership privately, making
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sure that the Gentiles had the help that they needed.
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And so he was, he was fine working privately.
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But there are times that public sins call for public rebuke.
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Because if he did not stand for those Gentiles there in that
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moment in their own church, He knew that it was going to cause
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great harm to the cause of Christ.
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He knew there was going to cause great harm.
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And so he goes up to Peter and he stands up to him, and in his
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face he rebukes him. Now, I don't know about you, but
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I kind of wish that didn't stop there in verse #13 and 14.
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I wish we had the whole conversation written down, don't
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you? I want to know what Paul said.
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I want to know how Peter responded.
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But here's what I know. If this is Peter from the
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Gospels, they're throwing fists, man.
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If this is Peter from the Gospels, Paul may not have an
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ear anymore. This is, this is not a good
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situation. This isn't a good situation at
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all. But listen, Peter needed to be
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rebuked. He was wrong.
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And by the way, he was very wrong and Paul withstood him in
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the face. By the way, you can tell someone
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they're wrong in love. You can tell someone they're
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wrong without having a spirit of superiority or having a spirit
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of I'm a better person than you. The Bible even tells us that
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there are times that brothers and sisters in Christ, the book
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of James talks about this. We need to go one another to try
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to convince them and to help them and love them.
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If we do so, we gain a brother. And so here is Paul.
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He said, I can't let this go. I've got to tell you, Peter,
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right now, in front of these people, because you're causing
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great harm to this room. I've got to tell you what you've
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done here is wrong, and it is wrong in every degree.
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Now, listen, Peter and Paul were as different as people could
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get. If you wanted to find people on
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the opposites of the spectrum, it would be Peter and Paul.
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Paul was educated, Peter was not.
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Paul's writing style is more technical and Peter wrote more
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in a way that would be understood by the common man.
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Paul was a Pharisee. Well, we know Peter had very
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little regard for the Pharisees, didn't he?
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Paul lived with a socially elite at one point in his life.
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Peter was never considered one of the social elite.
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You know Peter walked with Christ, Paul did not.
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These are two men that were as different as different could be.
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And I would submit to you that here at the end of James or
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Janet James, Genesis, Galatians, there's the one.
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All right. I thought I'd get it on the
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third try here at the end of Galatians chapter #2 these two
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men could have been, you go your way and I'll go my way.
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You're my brother, but you're not a beloved brother.
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Now, do we know exactly what happened here after the rebuke
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took place? We don't.
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But I would say to you this this morning, and I believe this is
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true just by the way we see Paul or Peter rather take his posture
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in second Peter chapter #3 The fact of the matter was this that
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Peter had grown up enough to be able to take the rebuke and
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still consider the one who rebuked him a beloved brother.
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He said, well, Peter, Peter was like that right before.
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Do you read the Gospels? Him and John all the time were
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like this, well, I want to be the greatest.
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And Peter didn't like that. And then you got ready for the
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crucifixion, and they're still asking about who's going to be
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the greatest. And then you have after the
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crucifixion that Peter is running towards the the tomb and
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John is running faster and gets there first.
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And John stands in front of the tomb and Peter says, forget
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this, I'm going into the tomb. And then they go out fishing.
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Remember that. And then Jesus has this rebuke
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for Peter. He says, do you love me, feed my
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sheep. Do you love me, feed my sheep,
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Do you love me, feed my sheep. And Peter is just so heartbroken
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by the fact that Jesus is rebuking him over what had taken
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place just a few days ago when Peter denied Jesus Christ.
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And then Peter is given this proclamation, this prophecy
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about the remainder of his life. And Peter in this moment with
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Jesus, this intimate moment with Jesus, he looks at John and
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says, Jesus, but what about him? This is the Peter we're looking
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at. This is the Peter that we would
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expect in Galatians chapter 2, but it's not the Peter that we
Galatians 2 chapter mention
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get in second Peter chapter #3 Why, I would say to you is for
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this reason and this reason only, and I'm saying to the last
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four words of the book, but grow in grace.
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He grew in grace and in spiritual maturity.
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Something changed in his life. He realized this.
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He says part of being spiritually mature, part of
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growing is being able to get along with other believers.
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Hey, pastor, this is a very strange message for a church
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because maybe you think this, I've not been at church very
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long. But, I mean, part of the thing
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about church is that everybody loves each other and gets along,
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right? And my answer to that is, OK,
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well, is it supposed to be that way?
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Is it supposed to be that way? Is it that way?
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No. There's a story about 6 men who
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were stranded once on a desert island.
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Two were Jewish, two were Catholic, and two were Baptist.
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The two Jews got together and they founded the temple
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Emmanuel. The two Catholics got together
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and they established the Church of the Holy Name.
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The two Baptist form two different Baptist churches and
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thought over who was going to call it First Baptist.
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That is satire, but based totally on reality.
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Because when we are together as a family, what do families often
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do? Fight.
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We'll call it squabble to be nice.
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But they fight, don't they? Family has blood in common, but
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they still fight. They have experiences in common,
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but they still fight. And if we're not careful, as a
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church family, we have everything in common in Jesus
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Christ and we can still. Why?
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Well, because there are times people need to be corrected.
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They don't want to be corrected. There are times that sometimes
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people feel superior and they shouldn't feel superior.
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There are times people feel like they have a position of
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authority and want to hold that over other people.
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There are times that people get this idea that they want to be
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prominent or preeminent at the expense of the other people.
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There are 100 or 1000 different reasons that people can squabble
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and have difficulties in church. But here's what I know.
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That Peter who was once an impetuous man, Peter who once
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was at loggerheads at any given time with John, got to the place
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where once the Holy Spirit was truly in control of his life.
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That even when a man like Paul would publicly withstand him, a
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man that he had nothing in common woman with, but he got in
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his face, he says, Peter, I love you, but what you did was wrong.
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That Peter not only took it, but he called that man at the end of
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his life, my beloved brother, a man of wisdom.
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And he says that some of you are messing with him and his
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scriptures and I want you to knock it off because he's my
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brother. It's a powerful thing.
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There's a lot of opportunities for churches to get in bad
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places with each other. Church members.
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I was reading an article by church researchers, name's Tom
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Rayner, and he put together 25 of the craziest things that he'd
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ever heard in his church research of why churches had
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fights. Now, I'm not going to read all
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25, but consider some of these here.
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Here's some highlights. An argument over the appropriate
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length of the pastor's beard. I've solved that for you all by
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being clean shaven. All right, A church dispute of
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whether or not to install stall dividers in the restroom.
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A church argument to vote to decide if a clock in the worship
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center should be removed. A 45 minute heated argument over
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the type of filing cabinet to purchase black or brown, 2-3 or
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four drawers. And it says here in parentheses
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that it took two meetings to figure out a big church argument
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over the discovery that the church budget was off by $0.10.
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Someone finally gave a dime to settle the issue.
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Business meeting arguments about whether the church had purchased
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a weed eater or not. Two different churches reported
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fights over the type of coffee. Now, that one I get.
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I mean, the others are crazy, but that, I mean, we got to take
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a stand, right? You know what I'm saying?
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An argument on whether the church should allow deviled eggs
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at the church because of the name.
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A disagreement over the use of the term potluck, instead
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suggesting the term pot blessing, like not using the
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word luck. An argument over which has the
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authority to buy postage stamps for the church.
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Some church members left the church because one church member
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hid the vacuum cleaner from them.
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It resulted in a major fight and split.
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For me, I'd say, well, I don't want to vacuum, I guess that's
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great. A dispute over whether the
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church should allow people to wear black T-shirts, since black
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is the color of the devil. An argument over whether fake
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dusty plants should be removed from the podium.
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You see that, you say? Those are some of the most
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ridiculous things I'd ever heard.
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And the answer is yes, they absolutely are.
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But I would also say to you this morning this if we were not
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careful, that we can take our own personal preferences,
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issues, and even sometimes very legitimate things that take
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place in the church, and we can turn them into things that God
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never intended them to be. Why?
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Because like the old saying goes, church is a great place to
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be a Christian. I'll let you chew on that for a
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second. Church is a great place to be a
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Christian. Meaning this We as Christians
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ought to act like Christians. We when we go in the House of
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God have to understand that we have different personalities,
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that we come from different walks of life that that that we
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have different jobs, different income levels, different
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families, different ethnicities, different abilities, different
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marital statuses, different upbringing is different
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everything. But yet even in those
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differences, that God has called us together to be brethren and
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sisters, that God has called us together to be 1 church, to be 1
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body, to get along in such a way that that God is honored and God
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is glorified. Can I tell you what the issue
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often times with church difficulties and the difficulty
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with church fighting comes down to 5 letters.
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PRIDE in the moment. Peter could have said, Paul, who
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are you to tell me off? Were you there with Jesus for
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three years? Were you there when He did the
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miracles? Were you there when he ascended
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into heaven? Were you there on the day of
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Pentecost? Listen, Peter could have even
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gone low and said something like this.
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Who was holding the coats when our brother died?
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Steven, who are you to say anything to me?
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Do you know who I am? Do you know what I've done?
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Do you know what we've sacrificed?
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And you come in the Johnny come lately after the 12 of us and
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then the eleven of us. We're together for three years
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and we're there in the establishment of the church.
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And now you come along and you're the one that everybody
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likes and you're the one that's going out everywhere.
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You're the one that's making all the news.
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You say, pastor, it doesn't say any of that in the Bible.
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Just use your imagination. This very well could have been
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said. These are real people.
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We're not talking about Bible characters.
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Bible characters are real people with real emotions.
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And Peter, in that moment could have cast it back into Paul's
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teeth and listen, the church could have been irrevocably
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harmed. The church at Antioch could have
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split wide open. You say that doesn't happen.
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It happens all the time when Christians won't act like
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Christians. Are there real things we have to
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hash out? Oh yeah.
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Listen, that was a real thing in Galatians chapter 2.
Galatians 2 chapter mention
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If Paul didn't address it, it would have caused a whole other
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host of problems because Jews and Gentiles are one in Christ.
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By the way, the Bible says we're of one blood.
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This whole idea. Well, well, this and that.
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And I come from here, I come from there.
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Listen to this. We all belong to the Lord and we
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might as well start getting along now.
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Amen. This whole idea of well, well, I
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come from here and I come from there and I do this and I do
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that. Listen, we were of one blood.
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We all have the same common ancestors.
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I think we all go back to Adam. We're all related somewhere.
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And so Paul had to put a stop to this.
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He was right what he did, but Peter was mature enough to be
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able to take it. He said this, Paul's a lot
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different than me, that we share almost nothing in common, but we
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share the only thing in common that matters, and that's Jesus
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Christ. And so because that he's my
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beloved brother, say, Pastor, why are you hitting this so hard
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today? Is there some problem that
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you're trying to root out? Well, I hope you know me well
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enough that there's a problem that need to be rooted out.
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It wouldn't be done from the pulpit.
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It will be done privately unless it was done publicly in a way
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that it had to be withstood publicly.
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But no, this is not a brush back pitch against anyone or any
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issue or, or something that I see is a problem here in Liberty
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Baptist Church. I don't at all.
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But I will tell you this, I am passionate about this for this
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reason. It only takes a little bit of
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dissension to take what God has done here and to totally ruin
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it. We have a beautiful spirit here
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at Liberty Baptist Church. I'll be honest with you.
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It's it's one of the most unique things I've ever seen as a
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church. We're not the biggest church in
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the world. I know that's a surprise.
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Some of you, we're not the biggest church in the world.
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We're not. But I'll tell you this, I feel
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like we're the most blessed church in the world.
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It's the kind of church where it's like, you know, it's, it's,
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it's getting times like, OK, the people you want to go, like you
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want to go and it's time to go home, right?
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And nobody wants to go home because they're fellowship with
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each other, enjoying being around each other.
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What a blessing that is it. I will never complain about
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that. That's a great thing.
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But be sure about this, the blessedness that we have here at
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Liberty Baptist Church, Satan despises.
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He despises it. And he will find any way to worm
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his self into this building, into this assembly, and to be
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able to take the blessedness that we have and turn it into a
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curse. So what do we need to do?
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We need to guard ourselves. And if we're to go back to
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Second Peter chapter #3 just go there quickly if you can.
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What do we see? Verse #17 yet therefore,
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beloved, seeing you know these things before, beware lest ye
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also being LED away with the air of the wicked fall from your own
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steadfastness. What are we supposed to do?
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Be steadfast. Don't.
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Don't be LED away by wicked intentions of others.
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Don't be LED away by the way the world handles things.
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How does the world handle things?
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It handles things with a buzz saw and that's why we have a lot
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of the problems we have out in this world.
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Why do we handle issues with the scalpel of God's Word, with the
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antiseptic of the Holy Spirit? And as we do so, what does God
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do? He blesses and he helps and he
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grows. But you cannot be this type of
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Christian unless you're willing to grow in grace.
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Well, they, they don't, they don't deserve.
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They don't deserve it. Well, that would be the very
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definition of grace receiving what is not deserved.
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Again, I'm not saying that problems should just be washed
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away like they didn't even happen.
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Stick your head in the sand. There's no problems here.
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No, no. That we handle them like
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believers and that we love one another.
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And that if you're the one that has the problem, Matthew chapter
Matthew 18 chapter mention
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18, you handle it in a godly way.
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If you're the receiver of the problem, that you receive it in
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a godly way and that in all of it, God would be glorified.
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I will tell you this. It is one of the true marks that
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you have grown as a believer. And of all these other things
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that Peter grew in his preaching, his boldness, his
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leadership, maybe the greatest mark of how much he grew was the
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fact that he took a brother who was stood in the face in public
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and rebuked him. And he said, that's my beloved
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brother. And you don't mess with my
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beloved brother because we both belong to Jesus Christ.
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So this week, as we add to our faith, let's be the type of
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person that can work well with others and actually enjoy it.
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Thank you for listening to the sermon from the pulpit of
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Liberty Baptist Church. If this message was a blessing
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to you, or if there's any way we can serve you, please let us
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know by contacting us at [email protected].
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Or you can visit us this Sunday at 800 Washington St. in Easton,
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MA. May the Lord bless you as you
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grow in His Word.