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  1. Welcome to the Liberty Baptist Sermon Archives.

  2. The message you're about to hear was preached at Liberty Baptist

  3. Church in Easton, MA. You can find out more about us

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  5. us up on Facebook. And now we hope that this

  6. message from God's Word will be a blessing to you.

  7. If you would please turn to Second Samuel chapter #15 Second

  8. Samuel chapter #15 as we continue our March through

  9. Second Samuel. And once again we see David on

  10. his flight from Jerusalem. Absalom is on the chase, and

  11. we're actually going to go backwards by just a few verses

  12. because I want to make mention of a gentleman of whom we have

  13. talked about very briefly, but I want to be the focus of this

  14. evening's message. That's a gentleman whose name is

  15. Hit the Felt. Now, I've said this many times

  16. before here at Liberty. If you've been here any amount

  17. of time, you've heard me say this, but well, I'm going to say

  18. it again whether you've heard it or not.

  19. And that is this truth. It's not found in the Bible, but

  20. certainly I think it is biblical truth.

  21. You understand what I mean? It's not that this is necessary

  22. found in these words in the Bible, but it's certainly

  23. something that is extracted from general biblical truth, and

  24. that's this. Bitterness is the poison that

  25. you drink expecting someone else to die.

  26. I've always loved that. Bitterness is the poison you

  27. drink expecting someone else to die.

  28. The thought of drinking poison, waiting for someone else to

  29. perish, when the whole time it's actually causing you to rot from

  30. the inside and out, is exactly what bitterness does to the

  31. soul. But yet we always think that

  32. we're the exception. We always think that we are

  33. immune to that immutable truth. And tonight we're going to look

  34. at a man named Ahithophel, who allowed bitterness to be able to

  35. rage within his body to the point that in the eventuality of

  36. what takes place in the scriptures, he takes his.

  37. Own life now this might. Seem extreme and certainly to be

  38. able to take ones own life is extreme, but a hithafel has a

  39. thought process that takes place that if he had given it to the

  40. Lord, could have been held in check and allowed God to take

  41. vengeance and allowed God to be the one who was the avenger of

  42. souls, then he could have been relieved of that.

  43. And who knows how different his life could have been.

  44. But bitterness is something that you find throughout scripture

  45. that has caused great trouble and great heartache to the

  46. people of God. I always think of Naomi coming

  47. back from Moab after she has had her sons die and of course her

  48. husband died before that. She comes back to Bethlehem.

  49. Judah, who does she have? She has Ruth, and as she comes

  50. back, the people of Bethlehem, Judah, gather around her and

  51. they say, Naomi, where have you been?

  52. It's so good to see you. And what does she say?

  53. She says, call me no more Naomi, but call me Mara, for the Lord

  54. hath dealt very bitterly with me.

  55. And the word Mara in Hebrew simply means bitter.

  56. She changed her name from sweetness to bitter.

  57. That's what Naomi did. Job, three different times in

  58. the book named after him, talked about the deep bitterness of

  59. soul that he had. And while certainly there were

  60. many great things that were taken away from him by Satan,

  61. but through the permission of God, yet there was a deep found

  62. bitterness that had to be solved by the fact that God comes in.

  63. And what does he say? Do you know where I was?

  64. Do you know where I am? Do you know what I can do?

  65. And when all of a sudden Job looked at God for who he was and

  66. looked at his bitterness for what it was, He came to the

  67. place where he says, I am but dust.

  68. And I just give myself completely and totally to you.

  69. Even Jeremiah, the weeping prophet in Lamentations One

  70. verse 4, looks at the conquered city of Jerusalem, the desolate

  71. city of Jerusalem, and says this, that the people are in

  72. bitterness at their lot, which is ironic because their lot in

  73. life was only because they had gotten away from God.

  74. It was never God's desire to be have Jerusalem as a desolate

  75. place, but they had gotten so far from the Lord that this was

  76. something that God said would be a possibility for hundreds and

  77. hundreds of years if they were to stray away from that which

  78. God had commanded. So anytime we find the word

  79. bitterness or the thought process of bitterness in the

  80. Word of God, it is always sinful and unprofitable.

  81. But here's the question now, why do we keep going back to the

  82. well? If we know the well is poisoned,

  83. then why do we keep going back to the well of bitterness?

  84. And you might say tonight, Pastor, I don't deal with

  85. bitterness. And my answer would be, Oh yeah,

  86. well, then you deal with lying. Think about that for a moment,

  87. because each and every one of us in certain situations of our

  88. life deal with the issue of bitterness.

  89. And you say, well, Pastor, that might be true, but time heals

  90. all wounds. And my response to that is time

  91. does not heal wounds. Time just makes wounds go back a

  92. little bit deeper and a little bit further.

  93. What truly heals the wounds of the soul, truly heals the wounds

  94. of the heart, is giving those to God and allowing Him to do the

  95. work that only He can do in our lives.

  96. And tonight we're looking at a wise man, well, a man who's

  97. supposed to be wise, Ahithophel, And we're going to see how he

  98. fits into this process of Absalom trying to take over the

  99. Kingdom, how he ends up taking over his life, and then why he

  100. ended up taking his own life because of the root of

  101. bitterness. We plead standing for the

  102. reading of God's Word. Second Samuel chapter #15 We'll

  103. begin reading in verse #7. The word of God says an Absalom

  104. sent for Ahithophel the geilonite, David's counselor

  105. from his city, even from Gilo, while he offered sacrifices.

  106. And the conspiracy was strong for the people, increased

  107. continually with Absalom. And there came a messenger,

  108. David, saying, the hearts of men of Israel are after Absalom.

  109. Now drop down to verse #30. 2. And it says, it came to pass

  110. that when David was come to the top of the mount where he

  111. worshipped God, behold Hushai the architect came to meet him

  112. with his coat, rent, and earth upon his head.

  113. Unto whom David said, If thou pass this on from me or with me,

  114. rather than thou shalt be a burden unto me.

  115. But if thou return to the city, and say unto Absalom, I will be

  116. thy servant, O king, as I have been thy father's servant

  117. hitherto, so will I now also be thy servant.

  118. Then mayest thou for me defeat the counsel of Ahithophel?

  119. Now do you see why we just introduced Who's shy?

  120. Because who's shy? Instead of going with David out

  121. in the wilderness, David says, Who's shy?

  122. You go back to Jerusalem. I want your counsel to defeat

  123. the counsel of Ahithophel, this counselor of mine who turned

  124. against me. And verse 35 says, And hast thou

  125. not there with thee Zadok and Abiathar, the priests?

  126. Therefore it shall be that what things so ever thou shalt hear

  127. out of the King's house, thou shalt tell it to Zadok and

  128. Abiathar the priests. Behold, they have there with

  129. them their two sons, him as Zadok's son and Jonathan

  130. Abiathar's son. And by them you shall send unto

  131. me everything that you can hear. So who shy David's friend?

  132. And I like that term. He was David's friend, came into

  133. the city and Absalom came into Jerusalem.

  134. Now you may be seated this evening.

  135. Who shy is an integral part of what we're going to see here

  136. this evening and how Ahithophel is going to try to become a

  137. trusted counselor of Absalom. He is not just someone who was

  138. caught into that which takes place where.

  139. Remember those 200 men who came with Absalom to Hebron?

  140. They didn't know what's going on.

  141. Ahithophel came into this eyes wide open.

  142. We could even put it this way. He was a Co conspirator in the

  143. overthrow of David there in Jerusalem.

  144. So we're looking at Ahithophel. We're going to see how Shy

  145. figures into the mix. We're going to see why a hit the

  146. fell thought it was wise to take his own life, and we'll see why

  147. this all took place in the 1st place.

  148. Heavenly Father, I pray to be with us this evening.

  149. Help us as we get into Your word.

  150. Certainly our minds may be on a meeting that is to come, but

  151. again, I do just ask that you help us to be involved in your

  152. word at this time, this juncture.

  153. This is what you've called us to do.

  154. It's what you've called me to do.

  155. And so I pray that you'd help us to be able to learn from you and

  156. certainly to be able to pluck out this root of bitterness that

  157. might be within us as the Holy Spirit reveals it to us.

  158. And we do ask it in Jesus precious name, Amen.

  159. I Hit the Fell was a man in scripture whose star burned

  160. brightly, but it burned out very quickly.

  161. In fact, you'll only find Ahithophel in chapters 1516 and

  162. 17 of Second Samuel, as well as the complimentary passages and

  163. 1st Kings that also speak of this very issue as well.

  164. His name, Ahithophel means the brother of a fool or that

  165. companion of a fool. And it seems like this man who

  166. was a wise man tried for his whole life to live that name

  167. down in this essence of saying this, I'm not a fool.

  168. I'm not a companion of fools. So I'm going to try to be a wise

  169. man. And certainly he did achieve

  170. that to some level because it says in verse #12 the very first

  171. verse that we read that Absalom sent for a Hithophel, the

  172. Gylonite, who David's counselor. So at some point in David's 40

  173. year reign, here is a Hithophel who is adjoining himself to

  174. David. He has proven himself not to be

  175. the brother of fools or the companion of fools.

  176. He has proven himself to be somewhat of a worthy counselor.

  177. But when it was time for Absalom to have the trumpet blown, when

  178. it was time for the conspiracy to be unveiled, Ahithophel was

  179. right there by Absalom side. He wasn't David's counselor.

  180. He wasn't David's friend. In fact, that's why I think it's

  181. so interesting that who shy is contrasted as said being David's

  182. friend. Ahithophel was no friend of

  183. David through actions or through his thought process.

  184. Here is Ahithophel. When the moment comes, he says

  185. to Absalom, I will be with you. But through all of this, again

  186. we see Absalom, the son of David, who's rebelled and is a

  187. attempting to overthrow the king and his Kingdom.

  188. And there's a hithafel right by his side.

  189. Again, not someone who's taken by surprise, but as a Co

  190. conspirator. Now you might say this a pastor,

  191. we're really building a whole verse off of or a whole message

  192. off of that one verse that we just read verse #12 where it

  193. talks about Absalom sending for a hithafel.

  194. And the answer is no. Again, we're going to find him

  195. in three different chapters. And what I kind of want us to do

  196. this evening is to do a little bit of, well, Bible

  197. investigation. I want us to get our Bibles

  198. ready to be able to go through a few chapters and try to

  199. diagnose. Why was this man so bitter, you

  200. say? Well, was he bitter?

  201. Well, yes, because he turned on David.

  202. He turned on the king. But why would he have acted in

  203. such a way? Again, I've kind of given you a

  204. little bit of the ending of his life, that he will take his own

  205. life. But why would he go to extreme

  206. measures? And you might even question it

  207. even more when you see the chain of events that takes place that

  208. caused him to take his life in the 1st place.

  209. So the first place I want us to go is to chapter #6 So why don't

  210. you go to Second Samuel? Chapter #16 will go to verse #20

  211. and as you do so, I'm gonna ask you a question.

  212. Do you remember the 10 concubines that David had left

  213. behind in Jerusalem as he evacuated Jerusalem with his

  214. group of followers? Do you remember that I made

  215. mention of the fact that that was kind of a foreshadowing that

  216. that was something that was going to come back to haunt

  217. David? Remember that the concubine

  218. system was basically licensed mistresses.

  219. This is what they were. It was not the fact that this

  220. was what God's plan was for David, but there they were

  221. nonetheless. And the fact that they are

  222. recorded in the word of God was not that God was approving this

  223. activity, but was just giving us the facts of the matter.

  224. Now it's going to come into a very, very stark here in just a

  225. moment in verse #20 of chapter #16 Now David has now again gone

  226. his way into the wilderness. We're going to continue to meet

  227. some of these people, this merry band of men that I've told you

  228. about before, some that are very happy to meet David, some that

  229. are cursing David. Some of them are happy, some of

  230. them are not. But we get to the place in verse

  231. #20 where the attention leaves David on his flight out of

  232. Jerusalem and then goes back to Absalom, who now is back in

  233. Jerusalem. And he's realized it's one thing

  234. to want the throne of the king. It's another thing to actually

  235. sit on the throne and have people follow you.

  236. Because now he's gotten the place where he is sitting in the

  237. throne. But he still looked at as kind

  238. of a pretender. There are people who still have

  239. not truly followed what he is and what he's trying to do

  240. because of his rebellion. And look at where it picks up in

  241. verse #20 it says then said Absalom to Ahithophel, Give

  242. counsel among you what we shall do.

  243. Hey, Apithophel, Absalom says, what should we do next?

  244. I want to cement myself in leadership here in the Kingdom.

  245. What should be done? Verse 21 and Ahithophel said to

  246. Absalom, go in unto thy father's concubines.

  247. Now I'll just stop right there and understand that in our King

  248. James Bible, you understand the language of when it says go in

  249. unto your concubines or your father's concubines.

  250. You understand that he's talking about having a physical

  251. relationship with all ten of these women.

  252. You say, why would he say something like that before we

  253. even go any further? Why would he say something like

  254. that? Because in that time, in that

  255. period, and the way this was looked at, that they were looked

  256. at as possessions of the king, where would be a place that we

  257. could understand that? Do you remember when Abner was

  258. looking to the concubine of Ishbosheth?

  259. Then Ishbosheth found out about this and he says, are you trying

  260. to take over the Kingdom? And Abner says, what do you

  261. think I am, some kind of dog? In fact, I'm going to go to

  262. David and all that took place. We're going to find out later.

  263. As we go into First Kings. There's an issue with this with

  264. Solomon as well as his half brother tries to attempt to take

  265. the Kingdom by taking one of David's other concubines named

  266. Abhashag. These are all things that take

  267. place. And So what is Absalom being

  268. told here by Ahithophel? He's saying you take those ten

  269. women, you take them and prove to the people you are the real

  270. king because you got the King's women.

  271. He said that's a twisted way of thinking.

  272. It absolutely is a twisted way of thinking, but there's a

  273. twisted man. That's who Absalom is.

  274. And if you want to know how twisted AB Ahithophel is, he

  275. says, don't only just go into these women, but look at what it

  276. says after that which he had left to keep the house.

  277. And all Israel shall hear that thou art abhorred of thy father.

  278. Then the hands of all that are with thee shall be strong.

  279. So they spread. Absalom intent upon the top of

  280. the house, and Absalom winning unto his father's concubines in

  281. the sight of all Israel. You say pastors 8 Does that mean

  282. what I think it means? It means what you think she

  283. means. Why you want to prove to

  284. everybody? You want to prove to everybody

  285. that he was the man in charge. What a vile and despicable man

  286. he was. But who is the vile and

  287. despicable, and who is giving him the counsel to do so?

  288. Ahithophel, look what it says in verse 23.

  289. The counsel of Ahithophel which he counseled in those days was

  290. as if a man had inquired at the Oracle of God.

  291. You say, what is the Oracle of God?

  292. Well, if you were to look at the breastplate of the high priest,

  293. it would have something called the Urim and the Thummim, the

  294. these, these special stones that were there where they would

  295. inquire of the Lord. And it's basically saying that

  296. is as if when Ahithophel spoke, they believed they was hearing

  297. from the Lord. That's how twisted, how far off

  298. they were from the things of God.

  299. So with all the counsel of Ahithophel, both with David and

  300. with Absalom, of course, his counsel with David would have

  301. been good for a time. His counsel with Absalom was

  302. not. But this is how they took it.

  303. They took it as if it was from the Lord.

  304. Ahithophel was unable to get to this place, or rather before we

  305. even get there. This is how bitter this man was

  306. as he is giving this advice that he has to know in his.

  307. Heart was wrong. He has to know within his heart

  308. as a wise man that what he is asking Absalom to do, the

  309. wickedness and lewdness of it and the public act itself in

  310. front of all the people of Israel.

  311. He had to have known how awful this was.

  312. But what would cause him to go to such extremes?

  313. What would cause him to be able to give such counsel?

  314. Well, let's continue on. Again, we're going to kind of be

  315. Bible investigators this evening.

  316. All right, let's keep going into chapter 17 and verse #1.

  317. It says, moreover, meaning this isn't done yet, this is

  318. continuing. There's continuing counsel given

  319. by Ahithophel. Moreover, Ahithophel said to

  320. Absalom, Let me now choose out 12,000 men, and I will arise and

  321. pursue David this night, and I will come upon him while he is

  322. weary and we candid and will make him afraid.

  323. And all the people that are with him shall flee.

  324. And I will smite the king only, and I will bring back all the

  325. people unto thee. The man who now seekest is asked

  326. if all returned so all the people shall be at peace and the

  327. and the saying please Absalom well and all the elders of

  328. Israel stop right there for just a moment.

  329. So Ahithophel is asked what should we do about David?

  330. David is on the run. But of course, Absalom

  331. understood that David was merely on the ropes.

  332. He hadn't actually been receiving the knockout blow as

  333. of yet. So what are we going to do about

  334. this issue? And Ahithophel says this.

  335. He says this is what I need. I need 12,000 men.

  336. I need a quick fighting force. We've got to get to it right

  337. now. If you let me have these men, we

  338. will go out. We will kill him.

  339. We will do it this very night while he's out in the desert,

  340. while he's out on his flight. Let's get him while he's on the

  341. retreat. Let's not let him be able to get

  342. to a place where he can dig in. Let's not let him get to a place

  343. where he can draw all reinforcements.

  344. He is at his weakest point right now.

  345. Let's do it. Let's get this taken care of and

  346. let's kill King David. But there's something

  347. interesting about what I just told you.

  348. I, I did say that, you know, let's do this, we'll do it.

  349. And maybe you thought that I was saying that Absalom was a rather

  350. hit. The fella saying Absalom, you go

  351. kill him. But do you notice what he says?

  352. In fact, I have this circle to my Bible.

  353. It says in verse #1 I will arise and pursue.

  354. Davis's sight. Verse 2 I will come unto him

  355. while he is weary. At the end of verse 2 I will

  356. smite the king only. Verse #3 I will bring back all

  357. the people unto thee. What is a Biathar saying?

  358. Is he? Saying that Absalom should go do

  359. it. Say no, he says, give me the

  360. word, give me 12,000 men and I'm going to kill him with my own

  361. hand this night. Do you see the depths of

  362. bitterness that this man is in? We don't even know why yet.

  363. All we know at this point is here is a man who was a Co

  364. conspirator spiritor with Absalom and Abiathar goes and

  365. gives him the counsel to do something wicked ungodly in all

  366. the sight of Israel. And then furthermore says David

  367. is on the ropes but he needs to be totally disposed of.

  368. And Absalom, you sit on the throne, you stay right there

  369. because I'll be the one to go. And this very night, I'll make

  370. sure he's dead and all of his men.

  371. That's with him. We'll be back here in Jerusalem

  372. and all pay the consequences. Now you ask yourself this

  373. question. What is going to happen next?

  374. Well, Absalom has this other counselor whose name was Who

  375. Shy? Remember him?

  376. David says. Who Shy?

  377. You go back and you speak for me in the King's chambers.

  378. They won't know that you're with me.

  379. They won't know you're aligned with me.

  380. But you go, and you give them the counsel that will help us

  381. out. And then once you do so, you

  382. tell Zadok the priest, and you tell him to tell his.

  383. Son, to be able to go out and give me the word.

  384. So we'll be prepared whatever Absalom does.

  385. And so Hushai understands that while Absalom is very pleased

  386. with what he's heard, that he can give him a different kind of

  387. counsel that will help David. Now listen, because it may not

  388. sound helpful at first. Verse 5 Then said Absalom, call

  389. now Hushai the Archite also, and let us hear likewise what he

  390. sayeth. And when Hushai was come to

  391. Absalom, Absalom spake unto him, saying, Ahithophel has spoken

  392. after this Manor. Shall we do after this saying,

  393. If not, speak thou? And Hushai said unto Absalom,

  394. The council that Ahithophel has given is not good at this time.

  395. You know we call that shots fired.

  396. He says. He says what Ahithophel has told

  397. you is not wise, and he's going to lay out the reason why.

  398. Remember, he is giving counsel surreptitiously to be able to

  399. help David. And so who Shy says this?

  400. Verse 84 said who, Shy? Thou knowest thy father and his

  401. men, that they be mighty men, and they be chafed in their mind

  402. as a bear robbed of her whelps in the field.

  403. And thy father is a man of war, and will not lodge with the

  404. people. Behold, he is now in some pit or

  405. in some other place, and it will come to pass when some of them

  406. be overthrown at the 1st. That whosoever.

  407. Hereth it will say, there was a slaughter among the people that

  408. follow Absalom, and he also that is valiant, whose heart is as

  409. the heart of a lion shall utterly melt.

  410. For all Israel knoweth that thy father is a mighty man, and they

  411. which be with him are valiant men.

  412. Therefore I counsel that all Israel be generally gathered

  413. unto thee from Dan unto Beersheba.

  414. As the sand that is by the sea for multitude, and that thou

  415. shalt go to battle in thine own person, so shall we come upon

  416. him in some place where he shall be found, and we will light upon

  417. him as the dew falleth on the ground.

  418. And of him and all of the men that are with him, there shall

  419. not be left so much as one. Moreover, if he gotten into a

  420. city, then shall all Israel bring ropes to that city, and we

  421. shall draw it into the river until there be not one small

  422. stone found there. Now stop right there, you say.

  423. Whoa. If he's given counsel, that's

  424. helping David. I don't want this guy to help me

  425. out because it sounds like he's given counsel.

  426. It sounds much more extreme than even what Ahithophel says.

  427. Now hear what Hushai is what understands about David.

  428. He knows David is on the ropes. He know he knows David is in his

  429. flight. He knows David is disorganized.

  430. You know what? David needs time.

  431. He says don't go out tonight. He says, here's what you need,

  432. Absalom. He says if you go out tonight,

  433. David's upset, it's like a like a a bear that's lost its Cubs.

  434. You're not going to want to go out because they're going to be

  435. upset. They're going to be ready to

  436. fight you. What you need to do is you need

  437. to call from Dan, even under Beersheba.

  438. The idea when you hear that in the word of God from the north

  439. to the South, it's like saying from coast to coast here in the

  440. United States, at least from the opposite directions, but it's

  441. the same idea is that from everywhere in Israel that they

  442. are going to come. You call them and they will

  443. come. And who should I?

  444. Understand something that conspiracies usually only work

  445. in this type of setting, royal conspiracies.

  446. I've been reading a lot about the history of Scotland and it's

  447. amazing right now how they're all killing each other.

  448. I mean, it's just for hundreds of years, that's what they're

  449. doing. They don't like the king, they

  450. kill him and the next one that comes in who killed that king,

  451. they don't like him because he killed the Last King and they

  452. kill him too. And there's killing each other

  453. right and left. It's like that guy that I talked

  454. to about once that just went into the word of God.

  455. He just got saved. He got into the book of Judges.

  456. He says, pastor. I like the book of judges, but

  457. there sure is a lot of smiting. There's a lot of smiting that's

  458. taking place. And that's really here's what

  459. happens. You have to keep the group

  460. small. Why?

  461. Because there's a lot of people that still support the king.

  462. And So what who shy knows is this?

  463. If you make the call from Dan De Beersheba, there's going to be a

  464. lot of people that say, whoa, what?

  465. David, he's gone. Hey, let's go help David.

  466. He's our king. He's the one that killed

  467. Goliath. He's the one that's given us

  468. peace. He's the one that has taken the

  469. yoke of the Philistines and has overthrown it.

  470. He's the one that has restored Jerusalem.

  471. He is the one that has brought the Ark of the Covenant back.

  472. Let's go back to him. And what's going to happen is

  473. that there's going to be mass chaos with people that are going

  474. to be joining David and the people that are going to be

  475. joining Absalom. And it's going to even out the

  476. odds where right now, because they're on their flight, they're

  477. likely going to lose. But because they'll be able to

  478. have time to regroup, regather, to be able to get some.

  479. Resources together on even ground, Absalom has no chance

  480. against David, and he appeals to his vanity.

  481. Did you notice that? Because Ahithophel says I will

  482. go and I will smite him. But what does Hushai said?

  483. He said in the end of verse #11 and that thou shalt go to battle

  484. in thine own person. He says you go lead them

  485. yourself. And Absalom, that man who loved

  486. himself, he loved himself, he loved his hair, he loved

  487. everything about himself, he says.

  488. Yeah, we do need a glorious. Battle.

  489. Yeah, I do need to be the one to lead the battle.

  490. I like this. And what does the next verse

  491. say? It says in Absalom and all the

  492. men. Verse #15 Then said Hushai, Oh

  493. no, verse #14 I'm sorry. In Absalom and all the men of

  494. Israel, said, the Council of Hushai, The Archite is better

  495. than the council of Ahithophel, for the Lord hath appointed.

  496. To defeat the good counsel of Ahithophel to the intent that

  497. the Lord might bring evil upon Absalom.

  498. By the way, this isn't my message.

  499. But you can't outsmart God. You can't out scheme God.

  500. And and Absalom thinks that he's gotten an end around to what God

  501. wants to do and he's not going to do that verse #15 then said,

  502. who shy unto Zadok, and do a hit by a Thor, the priests Thus and

  503. thus did I hit the fell counsel Absalom and the elders of

  504. Israel, and thus and thus have I counseled Now send quickly tell

  505. David saying, lodge not this night in the plains of the.

  506. Wilderness, but speedily passed over, lest the king be swallowed

  507. up and all the people that are with him.

  508. And what does he say? Get ready because the battles

  509. coming don't stop now because you need to restock and reload

  510. because it is going to come and it is going to come very very

  511. soon. What happens?

  512. Who Shy is now the trusted counselor.

  513. Abiathar is now on the outs. He was a man that was like the

  514. oracles of God, but now all of a sudden.

  515. He's on the outside now. I don't know if you've ever been

  516. in a situation before where you were maybe on the in crowd and

  517. the inside with a group of friends or whatnot, and then all

  518. of a sudden you were on the outside of that same group for

  519. something that you don't even know or maybe even understand

  520. why you're on the outside the first place by a Thor is

  521. thinking I'm like the oracles of God David now absolutely.

  522. They think I'm like the Urim and the Thummim and now he doesn't

  523. trust me. He doesn't believe me.

  524. I want you to drop down to verse #23 it says and.

  525. Then the Hiphel saw that his counsel was not followed.

  526. He saddled his ass, arose, got him home to his house, to a

  527. city. Put his household in order now

  528. and stop right there. Those all seem like a man who's

  529. pretty wise. What did he do?

  530. He got into his animal, he went home, he put everything in

  531. order. Here's a man who's got it all

  532. together. But then the next phrase says

  533. and hanged himself and died and was buried in the sepulchre of

  534. his father. What a contradiction.

  535. Here's a man of discretion. In fact, his last, well next to

  536. last act was to make sure that his family was taken care of.

  537. And then all of a sudden, he hangs himself and he's dead.

  538. And the story of Ahithophel is over now.

  539. Yeah. I mentioned to you just a few

  540. moments ago there's been times when you've been on the inside

  541. when then all of a sudden you're on the outside.

  542. I've been in situations like that before.

  543. It's pretty extreme for someone in that situation to say I'm

  544. just going to kill myself. I mean, does that seem like the

  545. reaction that one would take just because one of his counsels

  546. to the Rogue King? Was not taken.

  547. It seems like that's a very extreme reaction for a man who

  548. was just on the inside a day before.

  549. But now I was just told that day.

  550. No, no, I prefer Hushai's ideas more than yours in this matter.

  551. And he takes off and kills himself.

  552. What a contradiction. The idea of I'm going to take

  553. care of my family. I'm not I, I have enough thought

  554. process to be able to go and do these things, but then I'm going

  555. to take my own life. So in thinking about this.

  556. Text. I've considered this truth.

  557. You know, every bit of person has a reason.

  558. Every bit of person has a reason.

  559. We may not know the reason why someone else is bitter, We may

  560. not always understand completely the reason why we may be bitter,

  561. but I would say more often than not, we are very clear about why

  562. we were bitter at a person or group of people.

  563. Every bitter person feels justified in their bitterness,

  564. as if they're axed to grind as a special exemption to the

  565. immutable laws of the sinful nature of what bitterness really

  566. is. I have a reason to be bitter.

  567. Well, if you knew what. Happened to me.

  568. If you were there, if you were walking in my shoes.

  569. These are the things that people say when they are challenged on

  570. the bitterness of their own souls.

  571. There's no doubt this man was dealing with bitterness.

  572. But could we know what it is? How could we know what it is?

  573. Everything we know about them is found in Second Samuel 1516 and

  574. 17. Now I.

  575. Said that before, but it's only partially true.

  576. The reason why is because the narrative of Ahithophel is only

  577. found in 15-16 and seven. The narrative you understand the

  578. the actual accounting of his life, but there is another place

  579. where there is more information given about who.

  580. I don't know how many times do I say a Hithophel tonight, but

  581. it's not going to come out right.

  582. Every time I say it. There's a place where we can

  583. find all the information, or at least more information about

  584. Ahithophel which might be able to help.

  585. Us to pinpoint exactly what happened here and again we're

  586. going to be Bible investigators this evening.

  587. We're going to continue to work through our Bibles and before we

  588. get there, you ever get to one of those places in the Bible

  589. where there's lists of names and you say this is boring.

  590. I'm glad you're honest about that all right, Amen.

  591. That's OK because you're getting to those names like why why does

  592. God even put these in here? Why has God placed these names?

  593. And this one began that one and there's these group of men and

  594. they have reckoned under this and reckoned under that and

  595. you're like, I reckon I don't know why this here.

  596. God has a purpose to every word. God has a purpose to every jot

  597. and every title of the word of God.

  598. And you would be amazed. And This is why the book, this

  599. book is a book that you can study as your lifelong pursuit

  600. and still not uncover all of its riches.

  601. I want you to turn to Second Samuel chapter #23.

  602. You know what's amazing about the story of a hit The fell.

  603. We find it all here as we do our investigation.

  604. It's all in Second Samuel. Second Samuel chapter #23 start

  605. at verse #8 Second Samuel 23 verse #8 where it says this.

  606. These be the names of the mighty men whom David had.

  607. Stop right there. What is going to follow is a

  608. list of 37 men who are ranked by the order of their exploits.

  609. These are men who have done great things for God and have

  610. done those great things with the power of God.

  611. These are men who have followed David.

  612. We could say that they are his first and best lieutenants.

  613. And the list will start from verse 8 on.

  614. Now I want you to drop down to verse #34 And it says Elefle,

  615. the son of Hashabi, the son of the Makhathite, and then Elium

  616. the son of what's that next name?

  617. Ahithophel the Gylonite. Say pastor, What does that mean?

  618. Nothing yet. But what can we establish?

  619. We can establish that Ahithophel who we saw was a Gylonite in

  620. Second Samuel 15. This is that Ahithophel, that

  621. Ahithophel, that wise counselor, had a son.

  622. Who was one of the mighty men of valor.

  623. His name was elium now do not forget this.

  624. His name was elium. Now here's where we need to go.

  625. Second Samuel chapter #11 Now, if you already know where I'm

  626. going, just don't spoil it for someone else, all right?

  627. That's all I ask because the first time I saw this, I will

  628. tell you this, my mind went, because it makes so much sense.

  629. Why would a guy kill himself because Absalom didn't listen to

  630. him one time? How deep was this bitterness?

  631. Well, Second Samuel chapter #11 verse #1 say, Pastor, why are we

  632. this chapter? Why does this have anything to

  633. do with what's taking place? And the answer is has everything

  634. to do with what's taking place. They came to pass after the year

  635. was expired at the time when the kings go forth the battle that

  636. David sent to Joab and his servants with him and all

  637. Israel, and he destroyed the children of Ammon and besieged

  638. Rabba, But David tarried still at Jerusalem, and it came to.

  639. Pass in an evening. Tide, for those of you don't

  640. know. Now you do know what chapter

  641. we're in? Came to pass an evening tide

  642. that David arose from his bed and walked upon the roof of the

  643. King's house. And from the roof he saw a woman

  644. washing herself. And the woman was very beautiful

  645. to look upon. And David sent and inquired

  646. after the woman, and once said, Is not this Bathsheba the

  647. daughter of Ilium, the wife of Uriah the Hittite?

  648. Why did Ahithophel hate David so much?

  649. Because he was the grandfather of Bathsheba.

  650. Ahithophel was Bathsheba's grandfather and also David's

  651. counselor. Say well, how?

  652. Would they have been intertwined?

  653. How would we'll understand? She would have been with Uriah.

  654. Uriah would have been her husband.

  655. Why? Because he also was one of the

  656. mighty men. And so her father was a mighty

  657. man. She would have been around the

  658. other mighty men. I would imagine she herself

  659. would have found one of those mighty men to be her husband.

  660. And from that Ahithophel, who is not one of the ones who was

  661. counseled on that night. Ahithophel had to sit in the

  662. palace and watch his granddaughter in essence be

  663. forced and used by the king. To watch his granddaughter to be

  664. with child, to understand that her husband had to have had

  665. something befall him that was not natural.

  666. To see the woman, his granddaughter, lose that child.

  667. And then to watch somehow in some way for that woman to end

  668. up living with David and finding it some way, at some juncture,

  669. some level of peace in her life with David.

  670. While all along he watched her and watched David.

  671. And he did nothing but seethe in bitterness.

  672. So when there was a chance to knock off the king, he took it.

  673. When there was a chance to kill the king, he didn't want Absalom

  674. to do it. Why do you think he wanted to do

  675. it himself? I will, I will, I will, I will.

  676. It just smacks with someone who has deep rooted resentment

  677. against this man. And then when he realized that

  678. his counsel was not taken, he was wise enough to know that who

  679. shy's counsel would get Absalom killed.

  680. Now I'm on the outs with Absalom.

  681. Now I'm on the outs with David. My only goal in life, in my

  682. bitterness, was to get back. And David and I failed, and all

  683. I have left to do is die. It's a Bible investigation where

  684. all the pieces come into place. And you say there's no way that

  685. we can look at this and see it any other way.

  686. A man that was so bitter that had to sit in the palace and see

  687. the very essence of his bitterness in front of him every

  688. single day and never got it right.

  689. And in the end, the only thing that he could think to do that

  690. was left was the wisest, most foolish thing he could have

  691. done, which was to take his own life in his wisdom.

  692. He thought this was all I have left, but it was an utter

  693. foolishness that he came to that conclusion.

  694. As we conclude tonight, you may think you have a reason for

  695. harboring the bitterness in your life, and I say that very

  696. carefully because it could be like a Hithophel.

  697. You have a very real reason to be angry.

  698. Did the Hithophel had a reason for righteous anger within his

  699. life? He did, but that righteous anger

  700. turned into bitterness did not do himself, David, or Bathsheba

  701. well. In fact, it ended up furthering

  702. the rending of the Kingdom and furthering the death of

  703. thousands of Israelites that shouldn't have died because

  704. Absalom never shouldn't even have sniffed that throne, let

  705. alone sit on it for a few weeks like a hit.

  706. The fell though the siren song of unbridled bitterness.

  707. It may sound beautiful, but listen to me when I tell you

  708. this. It will ruin your life.

  709. You could be bitter at a spouse for their treachery or bitter at

  710. an ex for their treachery. To be bitter at children who

  711. have not acted the way you wanted them to act.

  712. Bitter parents who've not treated you in a way that you

  713. think is fair. Be bitter to pastor who's called

  714. you out on sin, or bitter at a pastor who has unrighteously

  715. abused his authority. You could be bitter at a church

  716. member who seems to be slighting you.

  717. You could be bitter for 1000 different reasons here tonight.

  718. But can I tell you the story never ends well when you trade

  719. in bitterness? Hit the Fell was a companion of

  720. fools and he tried to live his whole life to prove everyone

  721. wrong, but he ended up showing that in the end he was a fool

  722. because he was a wise man with an axe to grind.

  723. My application is very simple tonight.

  724. It's very quick. It's not because I couldn't make

  725. it in 100 different ways, but it's because I believe the Holy

  726. Spirit's already making it in your heart right now.

  727. Whatever you are bitter about, whoever you are bitter about,

  728. you are not making the situation better.

  729. You are making it worse. And if you continue to traffic

  730. in this bitterness in your life, you will make bad decision after

  731. bad decision after bad decision where you get to the place where

  732. you say, well, there's nothing else that I can.

  733. Do than this and this extreme answer that you have may seem

  734. like the wisest answer of all. It's the most natural answer of

  735. all. It doesn't have to be taking

  736. your own life. It could be something that's

  737. just extreme in any other way and you're even convincing

  738. yourself and your flesh this is the wisest thing.

  739. This is the most natural conclusion I can come to.

  740. With everything that I've dealt dealt with and with everything

  741. that's happened to me and with everything that I've gone

  742. through. What other course do I have?

  743. And you'll make the wisest decision of your life.

  744. That's really nothing more than foolishness.

  745. Because it will seem like you're trafficking and wisdom, but yet

  746. your bitterness has only made you to play the fool.

  747. And you don't even know the difference between wisdom and

  748. foolishness. Because your bitterness has so

  749. blinded you. Your bitterness is so distorted

  750. your vision that you don't even know what you're doing is right.

  751. I'm sure a hit the fells thought to the very end.

  752. He was the smartest guy in the room, but he was a fool.

  753. Did he have a reason to be? To be angry?

  754. Righteously put me. In a hit the fells shoes.

  755. Again, we want to look at the Bible for what it is.

  756. It's not just a storybook. It's a life book.

  757. And as I look at myself and think of my daughter in a

  758. situation, even something like that, take the royalty.

  759. And stuff out of that that doesn't really comport with how

  760. we live our lives today. But in some kind of situation

  761. like that, I would think, I would think a lot of thoughts

  762. that would take me down a lot of different roads.

  763. But I will say. This when you allow bitterness

  764. to rule your life, you may look wise, but you'll end up a fool

  765. hit the fell, lived his life as wise until he was bitter and

  766. then lived and died as a fool again.

  767. I don't need to give example after example.

  768. Well, it could be this, it could be this, it could be this.

  769. Sometimes as pastors, it's important for us to give very

  770. specific application to help you to be able to hear the Holy

  771. Spirit speak in those specific areas.

  772. This is one of those. I don't need to because the Holy

  773. Spirit's already speaking to you about it.

  774. I know He is. I know I'm not trying to say I

  775. have some kind of extra biblical knowledge.

  776. I just know that because each of us deal with this in some way,

  777. form or fashion, that the Holy Spirit, because He is holy,

  778. wants to root that out to you right now.

  779. He wants you to leave at the altar tonight.

  780. He wants you to leave you at peace tonight.

  781. Bitterness is the poison you drink expecting someone else to

  782. die. And I hit the fell.

  783. All I could do was get back at David in the end.

  784. A few weeks later, I hit the fell's dead, Absalom's dead, and

  785. David is back on the throne. Seems to me like all of it took

  786. place for nothing, and that's a very definition of foolishness.

  787. Thank you for listening to the sermon from the pulpit of

  788. Liberty Baptist Church. If this message was a blessing

  789. to you, or if there's any way we can serve you, please let us

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  791. Or you can visit us this Sunday at 800 Washington St. in Easton,

  792. MA. May the Lord bless you as you

  793. grow in His Word.