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A Wise Man with an Ax to Grind | February 15, 2026 PM
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Welcome to the Liberty Baptist Sermon Archives.
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The message you're about to hear was preached at Liberty Baptist
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Church in Easton, MA. You can find out more about us
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or contact us at my libertybaptist.org or just look
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us up on Facebook. And now we hope that this
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message from God's Word will be a blessing to you.
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If you would please turn to Second Samuel chapter #15 Second
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Samuel chapter #15 as we continue our March through
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Second Samuel. And once again we see David on
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his flight from Jerusalem. Absalom is on the chase, and
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we're actually going to go backwards by just a few verses
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because I want to make mention of a gentleman of whom we have
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talked about very briefly, but I want to be the focus of this
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evening's message. That's a gentleman whose name is
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Hit the Felt. Now, I've said this many times
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before here at Liberty. If you've been here any amount
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of time, you've heard me say this, but well, I'm going to say
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it again whether you've heard it or not.
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And that is this truth. It's not found in the Bible, but
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certainly I think it is biblical truth.
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You understand what I mean? It's not that this is necessary
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found in these words in the Bible, but it's certainly
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something that is extracted from general biblical truth, and
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that's this. Bitterness is the poison that
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you drink expecting someone else to die.
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I've always loved that. Bitterness is the poison you
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drink expecting someone else to die.
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The thought of drinking poison, waiting for someone else to
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perish, when the whole time it's actually causing you to rot from
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the inside and out, is exactly what bitterness does to the
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soul. But yet we always think that
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we're the exception. We always think that we are
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immune to that immutable truth. And tonight we're going to look
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at a man named Ahithophel, who allowed bitterness to be able to
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rage within his body to the point that in the eventuality of
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what takes place in the scriptures, he takes his.
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Own life now this might. Seem extreme and certainly to be
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able to take ones own life is extreme, but a hithafel has a
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thought process that takes place that if he had given it to the
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Lord, could have been held in check and allowed God to take
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vengeance and allowed God to be the one who was the avenger of
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souls, then he could have been relieved of that.
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And who knows how different his life could have been.
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But bitterness is something that you find throughout scripture
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that has caused great trouble and great heartache to the
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people of God. I always think of Naomi coming
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back from Moab after she has had her sons die and of course her
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husband died before that. She comes back to Bethlehem.
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Judah, who does she have? She has Ruth, and as she comes
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back, the people of Bethlehem, Judah, gather around her and
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they say, Naomi, where have you been?
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It's so good to see you. And what does she say?
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She says, call me no more Naomi, but call me Mara, for the Lord
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hath dealt very bitterly with me.
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And the word Mara in Hebrew simply means bitter.
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She changed her name from sweetness to bitter.
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That's what Naomi did. Job, three different times in
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the book named after him, talked about the deep bitterness of
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soul that he had. And while certainly there were
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many great things that were taken away from him by Satan,
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but through the permission of God, yet there was a deep found
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bitterness that had to be solved by the fact that God comes in.
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And what does he say? Do you know where I was?
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Do you know where I am? Do you know what I can do?
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And when all of a sudden Job looked at God for who he was and
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looked at his bitterness for what it was, He came to the
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place where he says, I am but dust.
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And I just give myself completely and totally to you.
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Even Jeremiah, the weeping prophet in Lamentations One
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verse 4, looks at the conquered city of Jerusalem, the desolate
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city of Jerusalem, and says this, that the people are in
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bitterness at their lot, which is ironic because their lot in
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life was only because they had gotten away from God.
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It was never God's desire to be have Jerusalem as a desolate
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place, but they had gotten so far from the Lord that this was
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something that God said would be a possibility for hundreds and
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hundreds of years if they were to stray away from that which
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God had commanded. So anytime we find the word
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bitterness or the thought process of bitterness in the
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Word of God, it is always sinful and unprofitable.
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But here's the question now, why do we keep going back to the
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well? If we know the well is poisoned,
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then why do we keep going back to the well of bitterness?
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And you might say tonight, Pastor, I don't deal with
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bitterness. And my answer would be, Oh yeah,
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well, then you deal with lying. Think about that for a moment,
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because each and every one of us in certain situations of our
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life deal with the issue of bitterness.
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And you say, well, Pastor, that might be true, but time heals
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all wounds. And my response to that is time
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does not heal wounds. Time just makes wounds go back a
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little bit deeper and a little bit further.
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What truly heals the wounds of the soul, truly heals the wounds
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of the heart, is giving those to God and allowing Him to do the
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work that only He can do in our lives.
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And tonight we're looking at a wise man, well, a man who's
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supposed to be wise, Ahithophel, And we're going to see how he
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fits into this process of Absalom trying to take over the
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Kingdom, how he ends up taking over his life, and then why he
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ended up taking his own life because of the root of
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bitterness. We plead standing for the
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reading of God's Word. Second Samuel chapter #15 We'll
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begin reading in verse #7. The word of God says an Absalom
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sent for Ahithophel the geilonite, David's counselor
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from his city, even from Gilo, while he offered sacrifices.
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And the conspiracy was strong for the people, increased
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continually with Absalom. And there came a messenger,
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David, saying, the hearts of men of Israel are after Absalom.
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Now drop down to verse #30. 2. And it says, it came to pass
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that when David was come to the top of the mount where he
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worshipped God, behold Hushai the architect came to meet him
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with his coat, rent, and earth upon his head.
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Unto whom David said, If thou pass this on from me or with me,
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rather than thou shalt be a burden unto me.
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But if thou return to the city, and say unto Absalom, I will be
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thy servant, O king, as I have been thy father's servant
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hitherto, so will I now also be thy servant.
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Then mayest thou for me defeat the counsel of Ahithophel?
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Now do you see why we just introduced Who's shy?
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Because who's shy? Instead of going with David out
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in the wilderness, David says, Who's shy?
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You go back to Jerusalem. I want your counsel to defeat
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the counsel of Ahithophel, this counselor of mine who turned
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against me. And verse 35 says, And hast thou
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not there with thee Zadok and Abiathar, the priests?
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Therefore it shall be that what things so ever thou shalt hear
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out of the King's house, thou shalt tell it to Zadok and
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Abiathar the priests. Behold, they have there with
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them their two sons, him as Zadok's son and Jonathan
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Abiathar's son. And by them you shall send unto
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me everything that you can hear. So who shy David's friend?
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And I like that term. He was David's friend, came into
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the city and Absalom came into Jerusalem.
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Now you may be seated this evening.
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Who shy is an integral part of what we're going to see here
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this evening and how Ahithophel is going to try to become a
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trusted counselor of Absalom. He is not just someone who was
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caught into that which takes place where.
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Remember those 200 men who came with Absalom to Hebron?
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They didn't know what's going on.
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Ahithophel came into this eyes wide open.
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We could even put it this way. He was a Co conspirator in the
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overthrow of David there in Jerusalem.
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So we're looking at Ahithophel. We're going to see how Shy
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figures into the mix. We're going to see why a hit the
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fell thought it was wise to take his own life, and we'll see why
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this all took place in the 1st place.
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Heavenly Father, I pray to be with us this evening.
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Help us as we get into Your word.
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Certainly our minds may be on a meeting that is to come, but
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again, I do just ask that you help us to be involved in your
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word at this time, this juncture.
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This is what you've called us to do.
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It's what you've called me to do.
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And so I pray that you'd help us to be able to learn from you and
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certainly to be able to pluck out this root of bitterness that
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might be within us as the Holy Spirit reveals it to us.
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And we do ask it in Jesus precious name, Amen.
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I Hit the Fell was a man in scripture whose star burned
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brightly, but it burned out very quickly.
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In fact, you'll only find Ahithophel in chapters 1516 and
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17 of Second Samuel, as well as the complimentary passages and
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1st Kings that also speak of this very issue as well.
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His name, Ahithophel means the brother of a fool or that
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companion of a fool. And it seems like this man who
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was a wise man tried for his whole life to live that name
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down in this essence of saying this, I'm not a fool.
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I'm not a companion of fools. So I'm going to try to be a wise
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man. And certainly he did achieve
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that to some level because it says in verse #12 the very first
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verse that we read that Absalom sent for a Hithophel, the
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Gylonite, who David's counselor. So at some point in David's 40
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year reign, here is a Hithophel who is adjoining himself to
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David. He has proven himself not to be
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the brother of fools or the companion of fools.
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He has proven himself to be somewhat of a worthy counselor.
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But when it was time for Absalom to have the trumpet blown, when
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it was time for the conspiracy to be unveiled, Ahithophel was
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right there by Absalom side. He wasn't David's counselor.
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He wasn't David's friend. In fact, that's why I think it's
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so interesting that who shy is contrasted as said being David's
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friend. Ahithophel was no friend of
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David through actions or through his thought process.
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Here is Ahithophel. When the moment comes, he says
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to Absalom, I will be with you. But through all of this, again
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we see Absalom, the son of David, who's rebelled and is a
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attempting to overthrow the king and his Kingdom.
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And there's a hithafel right by his side.
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Again, not someone who's taken by surprise, but as a Co
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conspirator. Now you might say this a pastor,
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we're really building a whole verse off of or a whole message
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off of that one verse that we just read verse #12 where it
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talks about Absalom sending for a hithafel.
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And the answer is no. Again, we're going to find him
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in three different chapters. And what I kind of want us to do
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this evening is to do a little bit of, well, Bible
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investigation. I want us to get our Bibles
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ready to be able to go through a few chapters and try to
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diagnose. Why was this man so bitter, you
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say? Well, was he bitter?
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Well, yes, because he turned on David.
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He turned on the king. But why would he have acted in
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such a way? Again, I've kind of given you a
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little bit of the ending of his life, that he will take his own
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life. But why would he go to extreme
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measures? And you might even question it
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even more when you see the chain of events that takes place that
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caused him to take his life in the 1st place.
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So the first place I want us to go is to chapter #6 So why don't
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you go to Second Samuel? Chapter #16 will go to verse #20
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and as you do so, I'm gonna ask you a question.
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Do you remember the 10 concubines that David had left
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behind in Jerusalem as he evacuated Jerusalem with his
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group of followers? Do you remember that I made
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mention of the fact that that was kind of a foreshadowing that
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that was something that was going to come back to haunt
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David? Remember that the concubine
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system was basically licensed mistresses.
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This is what they were. It was not the fact that this
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was what God's plan was for David, but there they were
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nonetheless. And the fact that they are
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recorded in the word of God was not that God was approving this
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activity, but was just giving us the facts of the matter.
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Now it's going to come into a very, very stark here in just a
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moment in verse #20 of chapter #16 Now David has now again gone
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his way into the wilderness. We're going to continue to meet
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some of these people, this merry band of men that I've told you
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about before, some that are very happy to meet David, some that
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are cursing David. Some of them are happy, some of
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them are not. But we get to the place in verse
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#20 where the attention leaves David on his flight out of
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Jerusalem and then goes back to Absalom, who now is back in
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Jerusalem. And he's realized it's one thing
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to want the throne of the king. It's another thing to actually
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sit on the throne and have people follow you.
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Because now he's gotten the place where he is sitting in the
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throne. But he still looked at as kind
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of a pretender. There are people who still have
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not truly followed what he is and what he's trying to do
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because of his rebellion. And look at where it picks up in
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verse #20 it says then said Absalom to Ahithophel, Give
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counsel among you what we shall do.
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Hey, Apithophel, Absalom says, what should we do next?
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I want to cement myself in leadership here in the Kingdom.
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What should be done? Verse 21 and Ahithophel said to
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Absalom, go in unto thy father's concubines.
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Now I'll just stop right there and understand that in our King
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James Bible, you understand the language of when it says go in
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unto your concubines or your father's concubines.
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You understand that he's talking about having a physical
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relationship with all ten of these women.
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You say, why would he say something like that before we
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even go any further? Why would he say something like
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that? Because in that time, in that
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period, and the way this was looked at, that they were looked
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at as possessions of the king, where would be a place that we
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could understand that? Do you remember when Abner was
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looking to the concubine of Ishbosheth?
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Then Ishbosheth found out about this and he says, are you trying
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to take over the Kingdom? And Abner says, what do you
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think I am, some kind of dog? In fact, I'm going to go to
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David and all that took place. We're going to find out later.
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As we go into First Kings. There's an issue with this with
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Solomon as well as his half brother tries to attempt to take
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the Kingdom by taking one of David's other concubines named
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Abhashag. These are all things that take
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place. And So what is Absalom being
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told here by Ahithophel? He's saying you take those ten
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women, you take them and prove to the people you are the real
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king because you got the King's women.
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He said that's a twisted way of thinking.
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It absolutely is a twisted way of thinking, but there's a
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twisted man. That's who Absalom is.
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And if you want to know how twisted AB Ahithophel is, he
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says, don't only just go into these women, but look at what it
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says after that which he had left to keep the house.
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And all Israel shall hear that thou art abhorred of thy father.
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Then the hands of all that are with thee shall be strong.
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So they spread. Absalom intent upon the top of
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the house, and Absalom winning unto his father's concubines in
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the sight of all Israel. You say pastors 8 Does that mean
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what I think it means? It means what you think she
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means. Why you want to prove to
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everybody? You want to prove to everybody
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that he was the man in charge. What a vile and despicable man
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he was. But who is the vile and
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despicable, and who is giving him the counsel to do so?
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Ahithophel, look what it says in verse 23.
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The counsel of Ahithophel which he counseled in those days was
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as if a man had inquired at the Oracle of God.
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You say, what is the Oracle of God?
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Well, if you were to look at the breastplate of the high priest,
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it would have something called the Urim and the Thummim, the
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these, these special stones that were there where they would
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inquire of the Lord. And it's basically saying that
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is as if when Ahithophel spoke, they believed they was hearing
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from the Lord. That's how twisted, how far off
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they were from the things of God.
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So with all the counsel of Ahithophel, both with David and
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with Absalom, of course, his counsel with David would have
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been good for a time. His counsel with Absalom was
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not. But this is how they took it.
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They took it as if it was from the Lord.
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Ahithophel was unable to get to this place, or rather before we
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even get there. This is how bitter this man was
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as he is giving this advice that he has to know in his.
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Heart was wrong. He has to know within his heart
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as a wise man that what he is asking Absalom to do, the
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wickedness and lewdness of it and the public act itself in
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front of all the people of Israel.
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He had to have known how awful this was.
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But what would cause him to go to such extremes?
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What would cause him to be able to give such counsel?
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Well, let's continue on. Again, we're going to kind of be
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Bible investigators this evening.
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All right, let's keep going into chapter 17 and verse #1.
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It says, moreover, meaning this isn't done yet, this is
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continuing. There's continuing counsel given
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by Ahithophel. Moreover, Ahithophel said to
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Absalom, Let me now choose out 12,000 men, and I will arise and
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pursue David this night, and I will come upon him while he is
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weary and we candid and will make him afraid.
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And all the people that are with him shall flee.
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And I will smite the king only, and I will bring back all the
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people unto thee. The man who now seekest is asked
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if all returned so all the people shall be at peace and the
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and the saying please Absalom well and all the elders of
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Israel stop right there for just a moment.
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So Ahithophel is asked what should we do about David?
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David is on the run. But of course, Absalom
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understood that David was merely on the ropes.
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He hadn't actually been receiving the knockout blow as
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of yet. So what are we going to do about
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this issue? And Ahithophel says this.
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He says this is what I need. I need 12,000 men.
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I need a quick fighting force. We've got to get to it right
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now. If you let me have these men, we
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will go out. We will kill him.
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We will do it this very night while he's out in the desert,
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while he's out on his flight. Let's get him while he's on the
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retreat. Let's not let him be able to get
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to a place where he can dig in. Let's not let him get to a place
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where he can draw all reinforcements.
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He is at his weakest point right now.
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Let's do it. Let's get this taken care of and
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let's kill King David. But there's something
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interesting about what I just told you.
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I, I did say that, you know, let's do this, we'll do it.
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And maybe you thought that I was saying that Absalom was a rather
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hit. The fella saying Absalom, you go
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kill him. But do you notice what he says?
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In fact, I have this circle to my Bible.
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It says in verse #1 I will arise and pursue.
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Davis's sight. Verse 2 I will come unto him
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while he is weary. At the end of verse 2 I will
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smite the king only. Verse #3 I will bring back all
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the people unto thee. What is a Biathar saying?
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Is he? Saying that Absalom should go do
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it. Say no, he says, give me the
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word, give me 12,000 men and I'm going to kill him with my own
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hand this night. Do you see the depths of
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bitterness that this man is in? We don't even know why yet.
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All we know at this point is here is a man who was a Co
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conspirator spiritor with Absalom and Abiathar goes and
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gives him the counsel to do something wicked ungodly in all
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the sight of Israel. And then furthermore says David
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is on the ropes but he needs to be totally disposed of.
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And Absalom, you sit on the throne, you stay right there
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because I'll be the one to go. And this very night, I'll make
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sure he's dead and all of his men.
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That's with him. We'll be back here in Jerusalem
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and all pay the consequences. Now you ask yourself this
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question. What is going to happen next?
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Well, Absalom has this other counselor whose name was Who
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Shy? Remember him?
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David says. Who Shy?
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You go back and you speak for me in the King's chambers.
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They won't know that you're with me.
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They won't know you're aligned with me.
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But you go, and you give them the counsel that will help us
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out. And then once you do so, you
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tell Zadok the priest, and you tell him to tell his.
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Son, to be able to go out and give me the word.
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So we'll be prepared whatever Absalom does.
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And so Hushai understands that while Absalom is very pleased
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with what he's heard, that he can give him a different kind of
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counsel that will help David. Now listen, because it may not
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sound helpful at first. Verse 5 Then said Absalom, call
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now Hushai the Archite also, and let us hear likewise what he
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sayeth. And when Hushai was come to
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Absalom, Absalom spake unto him, saying, Ahithophel has spoken
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after this Manor. Shall we do after this saying,
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If not, speak thou? And Hushai said unto Absalom,
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The council that Ahithophel has given is not good at this time.
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You know we call that shots fired.
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He says. He says what Ahithophel has told
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you is not wise, and he's going to lay out the reason why.
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Remember, he is giving counsel surreptitiously to be able to
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help David. And so who Shy says this?
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Verse 84 said who, Shy? Thou knowest thy father and his
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men, that they be mighty men, and they be chafed in their mind
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as a bear robbed of her whelps in the field.
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And thy father is a man of war, and will not lodge with the
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people. Behold, he is now in some pit or
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in some other place, and it will come to pass when some of them
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be overthrown at the 1st. That whosoever.
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Hereth it will say, there was a slaughter among the people that
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follow Absalom, and he also that is valiant, whose heart is as
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the heart of a lion shall utterly melt.
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For all Israel knoweth that thy father is a mighty man, and they
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which be with him are valiant men.
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Therefore I counsel that all Israel be generally gathered
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unto thee from Dan unto Beersheba.
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As the sand that is by the sea for multitude, and that thou
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shalt go to battle in thine own person, so shall we come upon
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him in some place where he shall be found, and we will light upon
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him as the dew falleth on the ground.
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And of him and all of the men that are with him, there shall
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not be left so much as one. Moreover, if he gotten into a
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city, then shall all Israel bring ropes to that city, and we
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shall draw it into the river until there be not one small
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stone found there. Now stop right there, you say.
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Whoa. If he's given counsel, that's
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helping David. I don't want this guy to help me
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out because it sounds like he's given counsel.
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It sounds much more extreme than even what Ahithophel says.
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Now hear what Hushai is what understands about David.
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He knows David is on the ropes. He know he knows David is in his
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flight. He knows David is disorganized.
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You know what? David needs time.
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He says don't go out tonight. He says, here's what you need,
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Absalom. He says if you go out tonight,
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David's upset, it's like a like a a bear that's lost its Cubs.
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You're not going to want to go out because they're going to be
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upset. They're going to be ready to
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fight you. What you need to do is you need
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to call from Dan, even under Beersheba.
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The idea when you hear that in the word of God from the north
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to the South, it's like saying from coast to coast here in the
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United States, at least from the opposite directions, but it's
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the same idea is that from everywhere in Israel that they
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are going to come. You call them and they will
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come. And who should I?
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Understand something that conspiracies usually only work
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in this type of setting, royal conspiracies.
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I've been reading a lot about the history of Scotland and it's
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amazing right now how they're all killing each other.
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I mean, it's just for hundreds of years, that's what they're
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doing. They don't like the king, they
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kill him and the next one that comes in who killed that king,
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they don't like him because he killed the Last King and they
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kill him too. And there's killing each other
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right and left. It's like that guy that I talked
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to about once that just went into the word of God.
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He just got saved. He got into the book of Judges.
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He says, pastor. I like the book of judges, but
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there sure is a lot of smiting. There's a lot of smiting that's
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taking place. And that's really here's what
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happens. You have to keep the group
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small. Why?
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Because there's a lot of people that still support the king.
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And So what who shy knows is this?
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If you make the call from Dan De Beersheba, there's going to be a
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lot of people that say, whoa, what?
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David, he's gone. Hey, let's go help David.
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He's our king. He's the one that killed
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Goliath. He's the one that's given us
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peace. He's the one that has taken the
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yoke of the Philistines and has overthrown it.
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He's the one that has restored Jerusalem.
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He is the one that has brought the Ark of the Covenant back.
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Let's go back to him. And what's going to happen is
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that there's going to be mass chaos with people that are going
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to be joining David and the people that are going to be
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joining Absalom. And it's going to even out the
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odds where right now, because they're on their flight, they're
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likely going to lose. But because they'll be able to
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have time to regroup, regather, to be able to get some.
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Resources together on even ground, Absalom has no chance
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against David, and he appeals to his vanity.
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Did you notice that? Because Ahithophel says I will
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go and I will smite him. But what does Hushai said?
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He said in the end of verse #11 and that thou shalt go to battle
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in thine own person. He says you go lead them
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yourself. And Absalom, that man who loved
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himself, he loved himself, he loved his hair, he loved
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everything about himself, he says.
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Yeah, we do need a glorious. Battle.
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Yeah, I do need to be the one to lead the battle.
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I like this. And what does the next verse
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say? It says in Absalom and all the
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men. Verse #15 Then said Hushai, Oh
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no, verse #14 I'm sorry. In Absalom and all the men of
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Israel, said, the Council of Hushai, The Archite is better
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than the council of Ahithophel, for the Lord hath appointed.
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To defeat the good counsel of Ahithophel to the intent that
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the Lord might bring evil upon Absalom.
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By the way, this isn't my message.
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But you can't outsmart God. You can't out scheme God.
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And and Absalom thinks that he's gotten an end around to what God
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wants to do and he's not going to do that verse #15 then said,
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who shy unto Zadok, and do a hit by a Thor, the priests Thus and
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thus did I hit the fell counsel Absalom and the elders of
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Israel, and thus and thus have I counseled Now send quickly tell
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David saying, lodge not this night in the plains of the.
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Wilderness, but speedily passed over, lest the king be swallowed
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up and all the people that are with him.
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And what does he say? Get ready because the battles
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coming don't stop now because you need to restock and reload
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because it is going to come and it is going to come very very
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soon. What happens?
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Who Shy is now the trusted counselor.
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Abiathar is now on the outs. He was a man that was like the
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oracles of God, but now all of a sudden.
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He's on the outside now. I don't know if you've ever been
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in a situation before where you were maybe on the in crowd and
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the inside with a group of friends or whatnot, and then all
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of a sudden you were on the outside of that same group for
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something that you don't even know or maybe even understand
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why you're on the outside the first place by a Thor is
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thinking I'm like the oracles of God David now absolutely.
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They think I'm like the Urim and the Thummim and now he doesn't
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trust me. He doesn't believe me.
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I want you to drop down to verse #23 it says and.
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Then the Hiphel saw that his counsel was not followed.
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He saddled his ass, arose, got him home to his house, to a
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city. Put his household in order now
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and stop right there. Those all seem like a man who's
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pretty wise. What did he do?
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He got into his animal, he went home, he put everything in
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order. Here's a man who's got it all
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together. But then the next phrase says
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and hanged himself and died and was buried in the sepulchre of
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his father. What a contradiction.
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Here's a man of discretion. In fact, his last, well next to
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last act was to make sure that his family was taken care of.
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And then all of a sudden, he hangs himself and he's dead.
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And the story of Ahithophel is over now.
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Yeah. I mentioned to you just a few
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moments ago there's been times when you've been on the inside
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when then all of a sudden you're on the outside.
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I've been in situations like that before.
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It's pretty extreme for someone in that situation to say I'm
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just going to kill myself. I mean, does that seem like the
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reaction that one would take just because one of his counsels
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to the Rogue King? Was not taken.
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It seems like that's a very extreme reaction for a man who
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was just on the inside a day before.
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But now I was just told that day.
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No, no, I prefer Hushai's ideas more than yours in this matter.
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And he takes off and kills himself.
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What a contradiction. The idea of I'm going to take
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care of my family. I'm not I, I have enough thought
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process to be able to go and do these things, but then I'm going
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to take my own life. So in thinking about this.
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Text. I've considered this truth.
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You know, every bit of person has a reason.
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Every bit of person has a reason.
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We may not know the reason why someone else is bitter, We may
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not always understand completely the reason why we may be bitter,
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but I would say more often than not, we are very clear about why
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we were bitter at a person or group of people.
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Every bitter person feels justified in their bitterness,
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as if they're axed to grind as a special exemption to the
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immutable laws of the sinful nature of what bitterness really
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is. I have a reason to be bitter.
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Well, if you knew what. Happened to me.
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If you were there, if you were walking in my shoes.
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These are the things that people say when they are challenged on
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the bitterness of their own souls.
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There's no doubt this man was dealing with bitterness.
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But could we know what it is? How could we know what it is?
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Everything we know about them is found in Second Samuel 1516 and
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17. Now I.
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Said that before, but it's only partially true.
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The reason why is because the narrative of Ahithophel is only
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found in 15-16 and seven. The narrative you understand the
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the actual accounting of his life, but there is another place
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where there is more information given about who.
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I don't know how many times do I say a Hithophel tonight, but
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it's not going to come out right.
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Every time I say it. There's a place where we can
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find all the information, or at least more information about
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Ahithophel which might be able to help.
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Us to pinpoint exactly what happened here and again we're
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going to be Bible investigators this evening.
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We're going to continue to work through our Bibles and before we
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get there, you ever get to one of those places in the Bible
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where there's lists of names and you say this is boring.
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I'm glad you're honest about that all right, Amen.
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That's OK because you're getting to those names like why why does
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God even put these in here? Why has God placed these names?
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And this one began that one and there's these group of men and
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they have reckoned under this and reckoned under that and
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you're like, I reckon I don't know why this here.
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God has a purpose to every word. God has a purpose to every jot
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and every title of the word of God.
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And you would be amazed. And This is why the book, this
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book is a book that you can study as your lifelong pursuit
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and still not uncover all of its riches.
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I want you to turn to Second Samuel chapter #23.
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You know what's amazing about the story of a hit The fell.
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We find it all here as we do our investigation.
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It's all in Second Samuel. Second Samuel chapter #23 start
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at verse #8 Second Samuel 23 verse #8 where it says this.
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These be the names of the mighty men whom David had.
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Stop right there. What is going to follow is a
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list of 37 men who are ranked by the order of their exploits.
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These are men who have done great things for God and have
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done those great things with the power of God.
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These are men who have followed David.
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We could say that they are his first and best lieutenants.
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And the list will start from verse 8 on.
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Now I want you to drop down to verse #34 And it says Elefle,
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the son of Hashabi, the son of the Makhathite, and then Elium
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the son of what's that next name?
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Ahithophel the Gylonite. Say pastor, What does that mean?
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Nothing yet. But what can we establish?
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We can establish that Ahithophel who we saw was a Gylonite in
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Second Samuel 15. This is that Ahithophel, that
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Ahithophel, that wise counselor, had a son.
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Who was one of the mighty men of valor.
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His name was elium now do not forget this.
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His name was elium. Now here's where we need to go.
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Second Samuel chapter #11 Now, if you already know where I'm
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going, just don't spoil it for someone else, all right?
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That's all I ask because the first time I saw this, I will
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tell you this, my mind went, because it makes so much sense.
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Why would a guy kill himself because Absalom didn't listen to
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him one time? How deep was this bitterness?
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Well, Second Samuel chapter #11 verse #1 say, Pastor, why are we
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this chapter? Why does this have anything to
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do with what's taking place? And the answer is has everything
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to do with what's taking place. They came to pass after the year
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was expired at the time when the kings go forth the battle that
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David sent to Joab and his servants with him and all
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Israel, and he destroyed the children of Ammon and besieged
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Rabba, But David tarried still at Jerusalem, and it came to.
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Pass in an evening. Tide, for those of you don't
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know. Now you do know what chapter
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we're in? Came to pass an evening tide
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that David arose from his bed and walked upon the roof of the
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King's house. And from the roof he saw a woman
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washing herself. And the woman was very beautiful
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to look upon. And David sent and inquired
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after the woman, and once said, Is not this Bathsheba the
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daughter of Ilium, the wife of Uriah the Hittite?
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Why did Ahithophel hate David so much?
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Because he was the grandfather of Bathsheba.
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Ahithophel was Bathsheba's grandfather and also David's
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counselor. Say well, how?
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Would they have been intertwined?
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How would we'll understand? She would have been with Uriah.
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Uriah would have been her husband.
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Why? Because he also was one of the
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mighty men. And so her father was a mighty
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man. She would have been around the
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other mighty men. I would imagine she herself
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would have found one of those mighty men to be her husband.
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And from that Ahithophel, who is not one of the ones who was
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counseled on that night. Ahithophel had to sit in the
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palace and watch his granddaughter in essence be
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forced and used by the king. To watch his granddaughter to be
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with child, to understand that her husband had to have had
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something befall him that was not natural.
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To see the woman, his granddaughter, lose that child.
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And then to watch somehow in some way for that woman to end
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up living with David and finding it some way, at some juncture,
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some level of peace in her life with David.
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While all along he watched her and watched David.
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And he did nothing but seethe in bitterness.
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So when there was a chance to knock off the king, he took it.
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When there was a chance to kill the king, he didn't want Absalom
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to do it. Why do you think he wanted to do
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it himself? I will, I will, I will, I will.
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It just smacks with someone who has deep rooted resentment
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against this man. And then when he realized that
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his counsel was not taken, he was wise enough to know that who
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shy's counsel would get Absalom killed.
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Now I'm on the outs with Absalom.
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Now I'm on the outs with David. My only goal in life, in my
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bitterness, was to get back. And David and I failed, and all
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I have left to do is die. It's a Bible investigation where
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all the pieces come into place. And you say there's no way that
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we can look at this and see it any other way.
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A man that was so bitter that had to sit in the palace and see
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the very essence of his bitterness in front of him every
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single day and never got it right.
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And in the end, the only thing that he could think to do that
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was left was the wisest, most foolish thing he could have
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done, which was to take his own life in his wisdom.
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He thought this was all I have left, but it was an utter
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foolishness that he came to that conclusion.
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As we conclude tonight, you may think you have a reason for
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harboring the bitterness in your life, and I say that very
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carefully because it could be like a Hithophel.
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You have a very real reason to be angry.
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Did the Hithophel had a reason for righteous anger within his
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life? He did, but that righteous anger
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turned into bitterness did not do himself, David, or Bathsheba
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well. In fact, it ended up furthering
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the rending of the Kingdom and furthering the death of
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thousands of Israelites that shouldn't have died because
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Absalom never shouldn't even have sniffed that throne, let
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alone sit on it for a few weeks like a hit.
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The fell though the siren song of unbridled bitterness.
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It may sound beautiful, but listen to me when I tell you
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this. It will ruin your life.
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You could be bitter at a spouse for their treachery or bitter at
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an ex for their treachery. To be bitter at children who
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have not acted the way you wanted them to act.
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Bitter parents who've not treated you in a way that you
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think is fair. Be bitter to pastor who's called
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you out on sin, or bitter at a pastor who has unrighteously
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abused his authority. You could be bitter at a church
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member who seems to be slighting you.
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You could be bitter for 1000 different reasons here tonight.
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But can I tell you the story never ends well when you trade
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in bitterness? Hit the Fell was a companion of
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fools and he tried to live his whole life to prove everyone
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wrong, but he ended up showing that in the end he was a fool
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because he was a wise man with an axe to grind.
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My application is very simple tonight.
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It's very quick. It's not because I couldn't make
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it in 100 different ways, but it's because I believe the Holy
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Spirit's already making it in your heart right now.
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Whatever you are bitter about, whoever you are bitter about,
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you are not making the situation better.
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You are making it worse. And if you continue to traffic
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in this bitterness in your life, you will make bad decision after
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bad decision after bad decision where you get to the place where
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you say, well, there's nothing else that I can.
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Do than this and this extreme answer that you have may seem
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like the wisest answer of all. It's the most natural answer of
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all. It doesn't have to be taking
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your own life. It could be something that's
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just extreme in any other way and you're even convincing
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yourself and your flesh this is the wisest thing.
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This is the most natural conclusion I can come to.
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With everything that I've dealt dealt with and with everything
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that's happened to me and with everything that I've gone
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through. What other course do I have?
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And you'll make the wisest decision of your life.
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That's really nothing more than foolishness.
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Because it will seem like you're trafficking and wisdom, but yet
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your bitterness has only made you to play the fool.
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And you don't even know the difference between wisdom and
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foolishness. Because your bitterness has so
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blinded you. Your bitterness is so distorted
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your vision that you don't even know what you're doing is right.
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I'm sure a hit the fells thought to the very end.
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He was the smartest guy in the room, but he was a fool.
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Did he have a reason to be? To be angry?
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Righteously put me. In a hit the fells shoes.
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Again, we want to look at the Bible for what it is.
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It's not just a storybook. It's a life book.
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And as I look at myself and think of my daughter in a
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situation, even something like that, take the royalty.
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And stuff out of that that doesn't really comport with how
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we live our lives today. But in some kind of situation
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like that, I would think, I would think a lot of thoughts
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that would take me down a lot of different roads.
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But I will say. This when you allow bitterness
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to rule your life, you may look wise, but you'll end up a fool
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hit the fell, lived his life as wise until he was bitter and
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then lived and died as a fool again.
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I don't need to give example after example.
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Well, it could be this, it could be this, it could be this.
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Sometimes as pastors, it's important for us to give very
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specific application to help you to be able to hear the Holy
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Spirit speak in those specific areas.
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This is one of those. I don't need to because the Holy
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Spirit's already speaking to you about it.
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I know He is. I know I'm not trying to say I
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have some kind of extra biblical knowledge.
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I just know that because each of us deal with this in some way,
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form or fashion, that the Holy Spirit, because He is holy,
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wants to root that out to you right now.
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He wants you to leave at the altar tonight.
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He wants you to leave you at peace tonight.
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Bitterness is the poison you drink expecting someone else to
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die. And I hit the fell.
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All I could do was get back at David in the end.
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A few weeks later, I hit the fell's dead, Absalom's dead, and
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David is back on the throne. Seems to me like all of it took
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place for nothing, and that's a very definition of foolishness.
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Thank you for listening to the sermon from the pulpit of
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Liberty Baptist Church. If this message was a blessing
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grow in His Word.