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Choose Your Table Wisely | April 15, 2026
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Welcome to the Liberty Baptist Sermon Archives.
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The message you're about to hear was preached at Liberty Baptist
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Church in Easton, MA. You can find out more about us
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us up on Facebook. And now we hope that this
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message from God's Word will be a blessing to you.
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Turn to your Bibles, please. The First Corinthians chapter
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#10 First Corinthians chapter #10 this evening in the Word of
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God I. Don't know if you noticed over
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the past. Week or so that there was a new
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story about the NFL coach from the New England Patriots, Mike
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Vrabel, and a reporter for The New York Times slash The
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Athletic named Diana Rusini. There were some photos that were
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taken of the two of them. These are two married people, by
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the way, married to other people, I guess I should say, to
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be clear about that. And there were photos of them
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holding hands. There were photos of them
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hugging. There was photos of them alone
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in a hot tub together. And these were put right on
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front page of I believe it was the New York Post.
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Now, Mike Vrabel said about these things.
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He said these photos show a completely innocent interaction
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and any suggestion otherwise is laughable.
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This is what he said. Now, I'm not here to pile on
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either Mike Vrabel or Diana Rusini, but I would say this,
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that what is being portrayed in those photos isn't laughable at
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all. That it's very natural for us to
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be able to look at those photos and to see intimacy between two
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people and to assume that because there is closeness,
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there is also affection between 2:00 that are so close.
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Now, I didn't ask my wife this question because, well, I don't
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have to ask my wife this question if she would be
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bothered if I held another woman's hand and hugged another
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woman and just jumped in a hot tub with another woman.
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You know what? Because I'm a normal person, I
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don't have to ask my wife what she thinks about that, because I
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know what she thinks about that. It would be crazy, to be honest
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with you. I don't need to ask her to know
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I shouldn't do it because I don't want to do it.
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Because my affinity, my intimacy.
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Is with my wife, my beautiful wife.
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Diane, this is what I understand and this is what we know, that
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there's an association that's there.
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And because of that association, we assume that there's intimacy
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because probably there is. Say, pastor, are you here to
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preach on current events tonight?
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And the answer is no, I am not. But I do believe there's a very
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real application to what we see here tonight in First
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Corinthians chapter #10 Paul's going to bring this message home
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to the Corinthians in tonight's passage.
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And that's. This Don't dine with the devil.
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Don't sit down and have closeness with Satan and his
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minions. That when you are close to him,
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when you are in his proximity, it can only be assumed that you
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have a closeness with him. That as believers, we ought not
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to have. Don't cozy up with the devil.
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Don't dine with the devil, however you want to say it
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tonight, But the title of my message is this.
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Choose your table wisely, and hopefully that'll make sense
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here in just a moment. Choose your table wisely.
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Now, we're going to try this evening to cover the rest of the
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chapter, but we're just going to read the first few verses to
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start, and we'll continue reading them as we go along.
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So look at verse #14 First Corinthians. 10 where it says
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this all right, I got 1 already, but thank you.
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Oh, that's that's nice. Thank you.
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I say super hydrated here. That's nice.
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This one's cold and that's good. All right, I'll put that one
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down there. All right.
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Thank you, Kaylee. All right.
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All right, First Corinthians 10/14 take 2 Here we go.
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Wherefore, my beloved or my dearly beloved, free.
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Let's try that again. Not free.
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It's. What am I doing, Jay?
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So wherefore, my dearly beloved, flee from idolatry?
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I speak as to wise men. Judge ye what I say.
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The cup of blessing which we bless, is it not the communion
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of the blood of Christ? The bread which we break, is it
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not the communion of the body of Christ?
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Now we'll stop right there for a moment as we get into the
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message this evening. Now last week we saw that Paul
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was using examples from the Old Testament to show that the
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issues of the Old Testament were still very relative to the
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people of Corinth. Remember we saw that in the
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first several verses. Remember, it says that you
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should not lust. And then it said neither be
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idolaters, neither commit fornication, neither, neither,
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neither. And all Paul was doing was
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taking issues that the Israelites dealt with in the Old
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Testament, and he was making application to the people of
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court that we saw last week. It's good to read the Bible.
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It's good to read the Old Testament.
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Why? Because the things we find in
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the Bible, the things we find specifically in the Old
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Testament, it's all as relevant today as it was back then.
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Because the issues of the heart really haven't changed.
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Change over human history. We're not as unique as we think
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we are. That's what we saw last week.
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And so Paul has been talking about don't do this, don't do
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this, don't do this. These are things we ought not to
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do. Israel didn't learn their
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lesson. The people Corinth finally did.
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Their learn their lesson, I believe when you read Second
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Corinthians. And then we have to learn this
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lesson as well. But now Paul is going to take
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what he had spoken about in these previous verses, and he's
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going to apply it to an issue that he's already spoken about.
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If you go back to chapter #8 don't go back to chapter #8 but
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if you were to go back, do you remember we talked about the
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issue of me being offered to idols, about how that it was OK
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to all eat meat offered to idols.
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However, the issue really wasn't about whether you wanted the
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meat. The real issue was about your
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Christian brethren. That was what liberty is all
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about. And that Christian liberty is
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about. Well, I can, I can, I can.
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It's about making sure you're looking out for one another.
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And so Paul talked about that, but he's going to bring this
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back to a discussion here for the remainder of the chapter
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because really, there's some questions that still need to be
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addressed by the people of Corn that maybe they're unsure about.
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For instance, what happened when the meat that was offered to
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idols? Ended up getting sold wholesale
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and now they found it in a butcher shop.
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Was the meat in the butcher shop offered to idols or not?
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What do you do if you go to someone's house?
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Do you know if the meat they are serving you came from the temple
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or not? What's a person supposed to do?
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Well, they still had questions about what to do in these
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issues. And ironically enough, some of
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the questions that they're asking are pretty relevant to
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how we Live Today and some of the situations we find ourselves
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in, as well as we'll make application in just a few
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moments. But Paul's going to walk them
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through this issue through the remainder of the chapter.
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And there's three principles that are there that I think will
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be a help to us this evening. And the first is this.
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Number one, your table matters. You can write that on the back
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of your prayer bulletin #1 Your table matters.
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Now, we should probably take a second to dwell on verse #14
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because honestly, we could probably just preach a message
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just on verse #14 Wherefore, my dearly beloved?
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And by the way, Paul's going to say some hard truths, but
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there's no doubt that he loved the people of Corinth.
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I have circled in my Bible. My dearly beloved, you can have
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hard preaching and still be loved by the preacher.
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And this is what we see here. He's going to tell him some hard
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truth, but he still loves them. In fact, he loves them so much
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that he's going to tell them the truth.
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That doesn't mean the preacher has to be ugly about it, but yet
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here it is that he's going to talk to them about these issues.
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Therefore, wherefore, my dearly beloved, flee from idolatry.
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Now we saw previously Israel had a problem with idolatry, and we
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know from reading First Corinthians Corinth had a
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problem with idolatry. A huge temple of idolatry
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dominated life in Corinth. And would you say we have a
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problem with idolatry today? Idolatry is still an issue.
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By the way, I was reading this this week and I thought I wish
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the president would have read verse, verse #14 here.
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I'll just leave that there. This isn't political, but
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idolatry is idolatry. The Lord's not pleased with
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idolatry. It's easy to see idolatry in
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others, but it's not as easy to see it in our own lives.
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Is it idolatry? Idolatry is real today.
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First, John 521 says this little children, keep yourselves from
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idols. Amen.
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And that's a reminder for us here tonight as well.
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You say, well, pastor, I would never bow down to an idol.
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And who of us here would tonight?
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None of us would. But yet idols are something or
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is something, an idol is something that exalts itself or
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that we exalt to a place it ought not to be.
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You know, there are things that are obviously idols.
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You see a a golden Buddha statue?
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That's an idol. You see an icon of Mary?
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That's an idol. That's not a popular statement
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either today, but it is true. You'll tense on me right now,
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all right? But that's OK.
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He said. That's a, that's an idol, but
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there are things that aren't necessarily idols that are made
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into idols that we make them into because they're good and
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they're right in them of themselves in the right way, but
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yet can be made into idolatry. We'll talk more about that in
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just a few moments. Christians must keep themselves
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from idolatry today, Charles Spurgeon said.
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Flee from idolatry means you do not reason with it, you don't
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negotiate with it, you do not linger near it.
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You run. When I think of that word flee,
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I think of, of, of Joseph. When Potiphar's wife tried to
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get a hold on him, what did he do?
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He ran out. He didn't care if he had his
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code or nothing. He was going to get away from
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her. He was going to flee.
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And that's what we are to do with idolatry.
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Now over the next several verses, Paul uses a parallel to
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show what idolatry is verse #16 the cup of blessing which we
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bless. Is it not the communion of the
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blood of Christ, the bread which we break?
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Is it not the community of the body of Christ?
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Now the Catholic Church, the Lutheran Church, Catholics and
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many Protestants will teach that.
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That verse there shows that it's actually the body and blood of
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Christ that's received during communion.
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I was taught that through the Catechism when I was a Lutheran.
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But yet here that is not what Paul is communicating.
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That's why Jesus kept saying this do and remembrance of me.
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This do and remembrance of me. That's not what's being said
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here. Paul is talking about something
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that's deeper here, that when we are having the Lord's Supper,
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it's not just that we are having the Lord's Supper and it's just
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a remembrance of what Jesus did. And it is a remembrance, but we
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are having intimate communion with the.
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Lord, you know, I'm not trying to turn the the juice into the
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bread and something that it's not, but I'm saying the Lord's
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with us in the supper. That's why we call it communion.
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We're communing together and look at verse 17 for we being
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many or one bread. And one body, for we all
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partakers of that one bread. Behold Israel after the flesh.
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Are not they which eat of the sacrifices partakers the altar?
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And there he goes back to the Old Testament and says, isn't
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that true of Israel, that when they were giving of the
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sacrifice, they were partakers, and they would eat of some of
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the sacrifices as well which they gave.
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But then he says this. But I say that the things with
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the Gentiles sacrifice, they sacrifice the devils and not to
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God. And I would not that you should
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have fellowship with devils. You cannot drink the cup of the
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Lord and the cup of devils. You cannot be partakers of the
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Lord's table and the table of devils.
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Do you see the issue of the tables here?
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He says this. You can take of the Lord's
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table, you can have communion. I believe he's talking about of
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the communion table, but then also of just the communion we
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have of the Lord in general in our daily life.
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But then he says this, that if you are offering things that are
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to idols, if you are having things that are in fellowship
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with idolatry, it's not just that you are having the
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fellowship with that thing, you were having fellowship with the
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thing behind the. Thing say, OK, pastor, I don't
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know what you're talking about. Now, if someone was to bow down
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to something that was made of wood and it's called a deity,
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are they really worshipping that statue?
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No, they're really worshipping what's behind the statue, the
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false God. Who is really who?
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Satan. Fellowship of Devils.
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So what Paul is saying is this, when we partake in anything that
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has the hint of idolatry, it's not just a little thing.
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Just as much as we are a partaker of the Lord's table, we
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could end up being partaker of Satan.
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And that's what she says. I'm not teaching you're losing
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your salvation. That's not in the Bible.
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But the issue of fellowship is real, and you can be saved, and
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not in sweet fellowship with the Lord, but rather having
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fellowship with the one of whom you were saved from.
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And Christians that ought not to be to be at the table with
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Satan. He says you need to be careful,
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you need to understand what the stakes are here when it comes to
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the issue of idolatry. The people of of Corinth were
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still dabbling with those things that they had come from.
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They didn't think it was a big deal.
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They thought it made them cosmopolitan.
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They thought it made them open minded to live a little bit of
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the old life, but also to live in the new life as well.
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And really, Paul is saying this. Pick a table, because you have
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to be at one or you have to be at the other, and which one you
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are at is communicated to the people who are around you as
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well. Your choice.
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Matters who you fellowship with. Now I don't have time for us to
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read a time you can write this down.
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Galatians chapter 2 verses 11 through 14.
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Peter after he got saved. Boy, didn't he do so much better
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than the Gospels? You're just rooting for Peter in
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the book of Acts, and he does so well.
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There's really just one incident where you have to kind of
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scratch your head a little bit and think, Peter, what were you
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thinking? And that was an issue.
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Where Paul and Peter were dining together with Gentiles and Peter
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was sitting with the Gentiles and was enjoying fellowship with
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the Gentiles until. A group of Jewish believers came
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in and. Peter all of a sudden said.
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Look at the time, got up from the table, slowly scooted over
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to the Jews table. And sat down with them you know
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what happened? Confusion.
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Why? Well, because Peter wasn't at
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the table that he ought to have been at and he was sending a
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message by what table he was at. We're.
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Going somewhere with us, but the table you are sitting at sends a
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message to the people around you.
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And you have to be careful because what Peter did is just
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by standing up and moving to another table ended up causing
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other people to say, well, maybe Peter is right.
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And now everybody's trying to switch tables and confusion
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reigns. And Paul has to withstand Peter
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to the. Face the elder in the faith.
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The faith was withstood by the younger one in the faith because
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Paul was and. He had to tell him you did wrong
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by what you did and look at what you've caused here just by your
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simple action of getting up from the table you were at and moving
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to another table. What do we look at here tonight?
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The issue of this is dabbling with idolatry may seem harmless,
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but you're sitting at a table and having things in common with
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people you have very little in common with.
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And worst of all, there will be people who are watching.
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There will be people who will be looking.
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And because of that, we must make sure that we do right.
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When it comes to the issue of where we sit, and again, I'm not
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talking about physically being seated, although sometimes I
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guess that could be the case, but I'm talking about where
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we're seated in our heart. Are we having fellowship with
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the Lord? Are we having fellowship with
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idolatry? It just can't be one or it can't
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be both. It has to be one or the other.
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Second Corinthians 614 through 16 Be not unequally yoked
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together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has
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righteousness with unrighteousness?
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What community had light with darkness, And what conquered
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hath Christ with Belial? Or what part hath he that
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believeth with an infidel? And what agreement at the temple
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of God with idols for you, the temple of living God?
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As God has said, I will dwell in them.
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And walk in them. I will be their God, and they
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shall be my people. Don't be yoked together.
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When you're yoked together with that which is wrong, you know
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what's going to happen. You're not going to pull wrong
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in the right direction. You're going to get pulled in
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the wrong direction. Don't yoke up with it.
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They're polar opposites and God knows that your dining.
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Choices of today will dictate your direction tomorrow.
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Just a little bit of idolatry, elevating that above which it
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should not be in your life. Could end up causing grave
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consequences later. Again, you say, pastor, I don't
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worship and I don't bow down to anything.
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But I've said before, I believe the Scriptures make this clear,
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that pretty much anything that you have to, well, I shouldn't
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say pretty much anything that you have to consult with in your
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life before you do the will of God is an idol.
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Because if God says that we do it, well, God, I know you said
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it, but stop right there. Whatever your next appeal is, is
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an idol in your life. No, I'm talking to all of us
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here tonight. Because we all have these idols
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that need to be torn down. What I'm saying is those idols
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don't come without consequence because you sit at that table.
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Long enough with them it will dictate your direction.
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And look at Corinth. They gave themselves up to that
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which they got saved from, and they're a mess.
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And they're a warning for us here tonight as well.
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So what does it say your? Table matters.
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First of all #1 your table matters.
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But #2 your actions matter. Not just your table.
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It matters where you are seated, if you will, but also your
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actions matter. Verse #22 Do we provoke the Lord
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to jealousy? Are we stronger than He?
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Verse 23 All things are lawful for me, but all things are not
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expedient. All things are lawful for me,
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but all things edify not. Let no man seek his own, but
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every man another's well. Verses #23 and 24 here really
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set the tone. It says this, All things are
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lawful for me. Here's a question for you now.
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Are you ready? Are we free in Christ?
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Some of you think it's a trick question.
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It's not a trick question, I promise you.
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Are we free in Christ? Amen.
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Have we been free? We are free indeed.
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That's what Jesus said. We are free in Jesus Christ.
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But we've seen this before. Does that mean we are free to do
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anything we want to do? The answer is no, no, no.
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Now we have been set free to serve Christ, not to serve our
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flesh. That's what we see.
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And so Paul says all things are lawful for me, but not all
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things are expedient. Just because it's lawful for me
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doesn't mean it's a good thing. You know, I often hear people
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say something like this. Well, you know, the Bible
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doesn't say anything about it, so it's OK.
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That's their standard in the Christian life.
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And I understand that to a point.
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Why, why they would think that The Bible doesn't say it's
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wrong. So that means it has to be OK.
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But that's the that's the wrong way.
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I think that's the backwards way of thinking about it.
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Really it should be something like this.
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What's the benefit for me? And this question, what's the
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benefit for others around me as well?
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Isn't that what he says here? All things are lawful for me,
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but all things edify not. Not everything's good for me
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just because I can do it. Let no man seek his own, but
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every man another's wealth meaning this.
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Look out for the needs of others when you make this decision as
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well. Everything through the rest of
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the chapter is about that. That your actions should be able
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to be blessed to be able to bless other people in your life
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as well. It this would be like saying
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something. Like, well, as long as it's not
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illegal. It's good for me to do.
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That that's the equivalent of saying, well, as long as the
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Bible says doesn't say that you know it's wrong, then I can do
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it. Well, there's a lot of things
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that aren't illegal that you ought not to do.
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You know I can fill. Up my house with Twinkies and Ho
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Hos and snowballs and all those. Actually, it sounded pretty
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good. Now I think about right, Marsha,
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but organic. Of course it's legal.
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I could eat candy morning, noon and night.
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I could be like my son, eat candy in the bed.
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Right, AJ? Yeah.
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He likes that, doesn't he? I can fill myself with soda from
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morning to noon tonight. Hey, there's no law against it.
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Is that good for me? No, by the way, I've tried it.
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I can tell you it's not. Good for you, all right.
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That was most of my college experience right there.
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It's not good for you. You can do it.
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Nobody is going to stop you. What would we say in America?
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It's a free country. But just because you're free to
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do it don't mean you should do it.
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And the. Christian life, we often look at
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the actions that we take and say, well, as long as the Bible
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doesn't say I can't do it, I'm going to do it.
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Is that really the way to look at it?
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Is this going to benefit me? The word the Bible uses Edify.
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Is this going to help others engage in spiritual wealth?
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Will they be built up in their life by watching me do this or
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partaking it with me? Because if a younger believer
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watches an elder believer do a certain activity, they're just
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going to assume the Bible says it's OK because they trust you.
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And you're communicating through your actions that which is right
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and that which is not. So he says this, you're looking
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at it the wrong way. Your actions matter.
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And too many Christians fill their lives with the equivalent
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of empty calories. Is it allowed?
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Yes. Is it beneficial?
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No. Now that brings to verse #25
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look what it says. This whatsoever is sold in the
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shambles that eat. Asking no question for your.
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Conscious sake. Now you look at that word
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shambles, you say Solon, the shambles.
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I mean, what is that talking about?
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Now to look that up here, just for my own edification, to make
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sure I was looking at this clearly, but the word for
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shambles, there is an old English word that literally
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means the butcher shop. Now, that doesn't maybe make a
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lot of sense to us, but what would we say if something's
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falling apart? It's in shambles, right?
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It's kind of how I feel right now.
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You know, I just said that my my shirts in shambles, all right,
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because I didn't iron it like I should.
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And now I can't take my jacket off.
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Something's in shambles. It's falling apart if a animal
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has been taken apart. It's in shambles and the
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shambles would be a butchery that would take apart an animal.
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So that is a butcher shop. So that goes in line with the
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discussion that was on chapter 8 about meat that was being sold
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to idols. And so whatsoever is sold in the
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shambles that eat, asking no question for conscious sake, for
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the earth is the Lord's and the fullness thereof.
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But or if any Verse 27, if any of them that believe not bid you
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to a feast how you supposed to go whatsoever is set before you
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eat, asking no question for conscious sake.
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But if a man say unto you, this is offered in sacrifice unto
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idols. Eat not for his sake that showed
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it for conscious sake for the earth is the Lord and the
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fullness thereof. Now stop right.
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There's a lot of things going on there for just a second.
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But remember, we're talking about meat that's offered to
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idols. But now Paul is taking it out of
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the temple and this meat is now out in the open.
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You're going to the butcher shop and Paul says this when you go
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to the butcher shop, every time you go to the butcher, do you
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have to say this? Do you have any meat offered
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idols today? Because I don't want that.
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Could you do that? Could you live like?
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That probably not. They might not even know what
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was offered to idols and not at that point.
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It's probably all been mixed together.
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How would they know? And it could be that everywhere
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has some of that mixture there. And so because that he says you
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don't need to ask every time you go to the butcher shop if the
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meat has been offered to idols or not Why?
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Because the earth is the Lord's and the fullness thereof.
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Now this is important, you'd say.
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But that meat, it belonged to pagans.
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Well sure, the meat did belong to pagans, but Paul's point is
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who did it belong to before the pagans?
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This verse came to mind. Psalm 50, verse 10 for every
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beast of the forest. Is mine and the cattle upon a
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thousand hills? By the way, it still all belongs
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to him, even if the pagans think it belongs to them.
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It all belongs to him. Everything belongs to him.
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And so Paul says that don't don't worry about this.
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Don't, don't, don't stress about this.
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Don't don't fret about this in this instance, if you go to
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someone's house and they're an unbeliever when you go.
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Over to the house. Don't ask them.
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Was the meat that we're offering tonight the meat eating tonight?
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Was it offered idols if you're. Trying to win someone to Christ?
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Do you think this is probably the opening salvo that you
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should have in trying to explain them?
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Jesus Christ? Probably not.
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But what if they come to you and say, hey, we're having a dinner
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tonight? Boy, I tell you, we got a great
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deal. We got it at the market.
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It was offered to idols, and it's so cheap, you're not going
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to believe it. Well, at that point, it kind of
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turns on its head, doesn't it? OK, here's what you need to
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understand about this tonight. Because not about the meat, it's
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about the message. It's important.
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It's not about the meat, it's about the message.
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At that point when they told you it's offered idols, you are now
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complicit and you're telling them I have no problem with this
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and you need to be very careful. You say, pastor, does this have
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anything to do with us today? Man, got to give you an example
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from my point of view. First, imagine every time
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someone ties, I get a report from Ruth, which I do not get,
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but I said give me a report and on that report, I didn't know
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where everybody got all their money.
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It is so quiet. You have no idea.
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This is because you have no, you don't know where this is going.
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I know. Could you imagine?
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I do again, this is an illustration.
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We would never do that. Could you imagine the chaos that
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would cause to every week to try to figure out where everybody
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got their money from? Now, what if someone came to me
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and said this, pastor, I robbed a bank.
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I want you to have the money. You know, I'm giving it to God.
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Perhaps even to make their conscience feel better.
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My answer would be no thanks, Not interested.
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Why? Because the message of that
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would be I'm OK with what you did.
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See, that would never happen. Here's one, pastor, if I hit the
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lottery, we'll give you the money.
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Not now you won't. Why?
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Because the message that communicates from me to you is
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we need I'll gotten gain to be able to support the Lord's work.
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And that's not the message that I want you to have.
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I had people tell me that over and over again.
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Now am I going to ask questions every time someone gives you
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say, oh, I see what it's supposed to be pastor, I should
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do it. I just need to tell you about
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it. No, that's not the heart of this
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message. The heart of it is it's not the
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meat, it's the message. Now, where does this apply in
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life? Oh, I don't know.
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Stores that are out there, do you shop at them?
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Do you not shop at them? Do you know if I didn't shop at
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ever at any stores that didn't support LGBTQ Plus, Prep,
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Planned Parenthood, all those things, I probably wouldn't
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shop. What do we do before I go to
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every store? Do I need to ask them, where do
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you invest your money in? Where do you donate?
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This is a principle you had to put in a practice for yourself.
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Say, pastor, are you going to give me a list of things I need
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to boycott tonight? Where in my ministry do you
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think that that's what I'm going to do to you tonight?
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I want to give you a principle that you have to put in place
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yourself prayerfully, because this is what he's telling them
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to do. You have to put this principle
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in place. But I want to teach what this
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principle is. So, you know, because this was
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helpful to me, every store do you go into?
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Well, before I know I need to make sure I check every donation
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that they make, what political party they don't donate to,
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plan, parent, blah, blah, blah, blah.
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You can't live like that. It's not even possible.
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And also you do want to go in places that are dark so that you
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can be a witness. So there is an element of that.
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But what if I have to go to a coffee shop?
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Well, I never have to go to a coffee shop.
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What if I go to a coffee shop and right out front there's a
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big rainbow flag? At that point, am I sending a
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message by going in that I'm OK with what they're doing?
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I think you are. And so when I see that, do you
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know what I do? I don't eat coffee that bad when
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there are stores that are openly promoting a lifestyle that's an
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abomination to God, as we saw Target do just a few years ago.
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Was it good when they were in your face saying we're going to
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promote an entire month for homosexuality?
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We're going to have clothing that kids can portray themselves
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differently than the way God created them in that moment?
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Am I going to walk in that store and buy anything I am not?
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Does that mean you shouldn't go forever?
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That's between you and the Lord. But in that moment, while
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they're sending a message, I'm sending a message.
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If I go in and shop and browse around all those other things
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while I'm looking at that, there's other companies,
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entertainment companies. Oh, let's just go ahead for
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Disney. I remember when the girls were
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kids, you put them in front of Disney stuff.
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You just knew that's what you're going to watch.
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It was OK, it was good. I remember the first time I saw
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something, and this is not Disney, but in Sesame Street,
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LGBTQ propaganda aimed at my 5 and 6 year old.
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We're done, Arthur. So what's Arthur?
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Isn't it a cartoon? They're like little anteaters
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and stuff. You know, that talk that's, you
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know, it was, you know, just normal stuff for kids.
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You know, it was all great until Arthur's teacher, male teacher
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married his boyfriend aimed at five and six years old.
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We're done. Now, has Disney done some things
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that have been pretty awful? They absolutely have.
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And there are certain things. It's just like, I don't want any
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part of that. But Disney owns about 18,000
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companies. And does that mean you cannot
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purchase from any Disney company at any time?
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That's between you and the Lord. But I will tell you this, I
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don't want to do anything that would cause a message to other
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people that I support unrighteousness.
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So it's really not about the meat, it's about the message.
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So, Pastor, I see this is what I got from the message tonight.
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Boycott Target. Boycott Disney.
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I've shopped at Target since I live in walking distance to
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Target. I hate it.
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It's way too convenient. I can walk there and I say, and
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if I walk there and walk back, I burn off the calories from the
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ice cream. No, I won't, unless I walk for
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two hours the way I eat ice cream.
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All right, I understand. Disney and I I have memories of
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that. I lived in Florida.
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We would go on field trips to Disney World.
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There's nothing, you know, going to Epcot.
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That's scientific, right? Not really, but that's what we
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did. I'm not telling you what to
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boycott tonight. I don't think it's my place from
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the pulpit to tell you as a church what you need to boycott.
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I will say this. If something is sinful, don't do
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it. That's the Bible.
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But if there's something that's kind of associated with that,
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you have to ask yourself this question.
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What's the message of me participating in something
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that's in its general sphere? And you pray on that, and you
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ask yourself this, How does this edify me?
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How does this edify other believers around me?
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That's what you have to ask yourself.
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You'll never hear me from the pulpit.
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Get up and say don't ever do this.
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Don't ever do this unless it says it in the Word of God.
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If it says in the word of God, you'll hear me say a lot.
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Don't do it because we're Baptists, we say don't a lot.
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Neither. Neither.
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Neither. Neither.
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It's one of our favorite words. All all joking aside, that's not
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true, but the idea is we do say thou shalt not quite a bit
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because the word of God says thou shalt not quite a bit and
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we don't apologize for that for the same time and issues of
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conscience like this. It's not about, well, what?
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What do I want to do you already?
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It's not about you in the sense that what do I get to do?
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Will it build me up? Will it build other people up?
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In the midst of the brouhaha at Target, there's a lot of unsaved
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people I'm trying to witness to here in Easton.
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What if they see me walk in there?
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What did that communicate to them that was on their side?
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You say, would somebody think that?
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I don't know, but it wasn't worth it.
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Not for something I could buy somewhere else.
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It wasn't what? What if I have to duck under an
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LGBTQ flag to get into a coffee shop because it's so proudly
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hung there and someone sees me walk in?
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What message that send, I don't know, but it's not worth a cup
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of coffee I was going to buy because it's about other people.
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It's about other people and making sure we're doing right.
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Your your actions matter and I want to communicate that I'm
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sitting at the right table. I I don't want pictures of me
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cozying up in a hot tub with sin.
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You know, I'm saying to show intimacy with sin.
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I don't want that because I don't want to be questions.
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So what do we do? Your your actions matter.
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How do we handle those things prayerfully and with thoughts of
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others? If the Bible says don't do it,
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don't do it. If the Bible doesn't say don't
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do it, that don't mean you should do it.
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You should pray about it. Be convinced in your own mind as
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to what God would have you to do, but err on the side of being
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an encouragement to other people.
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Why do we say that? Well, because #3 your motive
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matters. Your motive matters.
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Look at verse #28 Paul is anticipating some push back from
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the people of Corinth here. Kind of like maybe some of you
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were thinking right now. So he say, I don't know that
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everybody's going to be in line with this.
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And so he says, But if any man say unto you, this is offered in
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in sacrifice unto idol, Oh no, I'm sorry.
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Verse #29 conscience. I say, not thine own, but of the
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other. Now here's the what I would call
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the parentheses here. For why is my liberty judged of
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another man's conscience? For if I by grace be a partaker,
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why am I evil spoken of for that which I give thanks?
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It's almost like Paul is saying, if I it's OK that I do it, then
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why should someone have the right to be upset at me if I was
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OK to do it in the first place? And you can kind of squint and
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see where they're coming from. Paul.
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Paul, I hear what you're saying, but we're not doing anything
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wrong. We have liberty.
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So how do they have the right to get upset at us when we're not
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even doing anything wrong in the 1st place?
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How do they have a right to claim it's a stumbling block
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when they're not doing anything wrong?
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And that's when he gets to verse #31 Whether therefore you eat or
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drink or whatsoever you do, do all to the glory of God.
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Your motive is this. Not that I be praised, but
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whatever I do, God be praised. That's the motive.
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It's one of my favorite verses. I was a Christian School teacher
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for seven years. At the top of.
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Every year, the syllabus for my class, I would always put this
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verse. Whether therefore you eat or
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drink or whatsoever you do, do all to the glory of God.
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And I'll be honest with you, for a long time I had my thinking
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backwards about this. I'll remind you, we are every
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word Baptist. We believe every word in the
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Bible and every word matters, doesn't it?
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It doesn't say do all for the glory of God.
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I think sometimes that's how we think it is.
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Do all for the glory of God. Lord, I'm doing it for you.
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And there's nothing wrong with that.
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You should be doing your doing what you do in life for the
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Lord. You really should.
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But that's not what it says. It says do all to the glory of
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God, meaning this everything I do.
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I am directing it. Towards God.
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Everything I do, I'm directing it towards God so that I can
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direct. Other people towards God, and
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that's the motive and that's why I'm willing to give up certain
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things that I don't have to give up.
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Because everything that I do, I want to direct it to God so that
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I can direct other people. To God once you see what that
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verse really says. And not just fill in the blanks
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of what we think it says, it actually makes it more powerful.
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Imagine that man's words are as powerful as God's words.
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Whether therefore you eat or drink, whatsoever, do to all to
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the glory of God, give none offense.
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Neither do the Jews, nor the Gentiles, nor the Church of God.
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So. So what is he saying here?
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Don't do something that would cause someone in the church to
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stumble. Don't do something to cause the
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unsaved to stumble. You mentioned this a few weeks
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ago. Why don't I go into a paki and
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pick up a soda or a bag of ice? Because I don't need that bag of
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ice or soda so badly that will it take a chance that someone
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could think that I, as a not just a pastor, but as a
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Christian, doing something not to do?
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I'll be honest with you. I think the Bible's pretty clear
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about what it says about alcohol.
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But even if you don't think that's the case, this alone is a
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compelling argument to stay away from the stuff right here.
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Because I don't want to cause someone to stumble.
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It's not worth it for a drink or two.
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Well, I'm not going to get drunk.
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I would argue that could be the case in your life.
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I know many people that that's the case.
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But it's really not about that. It's about I don't want to put
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anything in someone's way where they say.
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What? I thought you were a Christian.
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I didn't want them to question that.
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I want to know what table I'm sitting at and I want to do
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everything that I can to make sure the glory goes to God so
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that I can help them come to know God.
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Verse 33, even as I please all men in all things, not seeking
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my own prophet, but the prophet of many that they be saved.
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And again, that goes down to motive.
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We're almost done here. It goes down to motive.
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I don't want my own prophet. It's not about me.
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I want to help somebody else because in heaven, at the
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judgment seat of Christ, we won't care a nickel about a lot
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of the things we care so much about down here.
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But we will care about those people that we influence for
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Christ, boy, that'll be huge. That'll be everything.
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So he says, make sure you value the right things.
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Make sure that you're looking for other people's profit and
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not your own. Let me let me go back to
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Galatians 2 for just a moment. Remember the the table that
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Peter sat at mattered because other people were LED astray
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because he sat at the wrong table.
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That's why we have to be careful.
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But do you know one of the people who was LED astray by
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that whole situation was none other than Barnabas.
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And Barnabas was a good man. Barnabas, you don't really see a
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crossword about him in the word of God.
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I mean, he and Paul kind of got at loggerheads at one point.
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They both had some pride in their life and the Lord used
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him. One went one way, one went the
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other, and the gospel spread. But I mean, Barnabas, his name
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literally meant the son of consolation, that he was one who
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encouraged people. And Peter, when he moved over,
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even caused a strong man like Barnabas to waver.
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That's what I'm saying tonight. This isn't just about trying to
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placate weak people, but strong people have weak moments.
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Strong people have weak moments. I never have a weak moment.
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Then you don't know yourself and someone needs to help you
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understand yourself. Because we all have situations.
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Our flesh is weak, the Spirit's willing flesh is weak, and that
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even within a body of mature believers, if we're not careful
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that we could in some action that was not thought out
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properly or prayerfully, we could end up communicating to
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someone else that something is OK.
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That's not OK. And So what do we do?
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We've got to be so careful. One person can make a
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difference. One person can cause a whole
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group of people to think something is OK.
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That's not OK in the eyes of God.
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But I'd also encourage you, one person who stands can do great
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help as well. Here's the Philistines 40 days,
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Goliath. Send me out a man.
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And the people of Israel, the people of God, are all hiding in
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their tents, including their king.
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Here comes David, a teenager's, a little boy, not little, but
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young enough, so not young enough to be in the battle.
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He comes out, he looks around, he says, is there not a 'cause
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he goes out with the help of God.
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The giant's dead. David comes up, hacks his head
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off. You want to talk about one of
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the things I'd love to see in instant replay in heaven?
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There's one of it right there. Hacks his head off and he's
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standing there holding the sword above his head, probably 2 hands
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all things considered. And all of a sudden Israel
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charges through the valley and now the Philistines are on the
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run. You know, they could have done
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that 40 days ago. God would have helped him, but
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took one man who was willing to stand up in the face of those
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who wouldn't, and it changed the course of the people of Israel.
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Yeah, one man can do great damage, but one man doing right
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can be of great help. One who says I'm not going to
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get involved in idolatry. I'm not going to think of
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myself. I'm not going to play as close
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to the edge as I possibly can without going over like it's the
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price is right. You know what I'm going to do?
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I'm just going to stick to this book.
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I'm going to stick to what the Lord has for me.
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I'm going to find things that are beneficial for me in my life
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and beneficial for the people of others so I can communicate to
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everyone that God gets glory in everything in my life.
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So I can give the glory to God to bring other people to God.
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Now, there's a lot of answers you'll have to work out for
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yourself tonight. These are things that you
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prayerfully will have to consider.
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I'm going to give you the answers.
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That's the easy way out. But I will tell you as your
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Christian liberty allows you pray on it.
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Think about others in your unique situations.
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If God says don't do it, listen, don't do it.
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There's nothing to pray about. You'll never hear pastor, they
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don't pray. But I will say it about this.
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If the law says do it, don't do it.
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Don't pray about it, just don't do it.
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Then you pray, ask God to give you strength to not do it.
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But Lord, is it still not right? It's not going to be right
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forever. You don't have to pray and ask
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the Lord if it's if it's still the same in his word.
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But there's some things that, well, how do we apply that in my
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situation with the people around me, that I have influence on the
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people I'm trying to win to Christ, that unique situation.
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You have to ask yourself this question.
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The principle is always the same.
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How does it affect me? How does it affect others?
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And can God receive glory? And can I bring other people to
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Christ by making sure I do the right thing?
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Thank you for listening to the sermon from the pulpit of
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Liberty Baptist Church. If this message was a blessing
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to you, or if there's any way we can serve you, please let us
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Or you can visit us this Sunday at 800 Washington St. in Easton,
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MA. May the Lord bless you as you
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grow in His Word.