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Titus 2:1-10

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  1. As Nicholas mentioned, we are in Titus chapter

    Titus 2 chapter mention

  2. 2 today, getting back to our study of Paul's

  3. epistle or letter to Titus. And though our exposition

  4. today is focused on verses 1 through 10 of Titus

    Titus 2 chapter mention

  5. chapter 2, I will begin our reading at chapter

  6. 1 and verse 16. This is God's holy, inspired,

  7. and inerrant word. They profess to know God.

  8. But by their deeds they deny him, being detestable

  9. and disobedient and worthless for any good deed.

  10. But as for you, speak the things which are fitting

  11. for sound doctrine. Older men are to be temperate,

  12. dignified, sensible, sound in faith, in love

  13. and perseverance. Older women likewise are to

  14. be reverent in their behavior, not malicious

  15. gossips nor enslaved to much wine, teaching what

  16. is good. so that they may encourage the young

  17. women to love their husbands, to love their children,

  18. to be sensible, pure, workers at home, kind,

  19. being subject to their own husbands, so that

  20. the word of God will not be dishonored. Likewise,

  21. urge the young men to be sensible. In all things,

  22. show yourself to be an example of good deeds

  23. with purity and doctrine, dignified, sound in

  24. speech which is beyond reproach, so that the

  25. opponent will be put to shame, having nothing

  26. bad to say about us. Urge bond slaves to be subject

  27. to their own masters in everything, to be well

  28. -pleasing, not argumentative, not pilfering,

  29. but showing all good faith, so that they will

  30. adorn the doctrine of God our Savior in every

  31. respect. Let's pray. Gracious Heavenly Father,

  32. we come before you as your people today. thankful

  33. for your word. As we open the scriptures, we

  34. ask you to use them to bring clarity where there

  35. is confusion, conviction where there is sin,

  36. and strength where there is weakness. Shape us

  37. not only to confess the truth, but to live it.

  38. Lord Jesus, our head and our savior, be honored

  39. among us. Conform us to your image and guard

  40. us from hypocrisy. Make us a people whose lives

  41. adorn the doctrine of God and bear witness to

  42. the power of your gospel. Holy Spirit, do the

  43. work of illuminating our minds and softening

  44. our hearts. Produce in us the fruit of sound

  45. doctrine. Train us in godliness. Guide and correct

  46. us when we are confused and out of order. Cause

  47. us to reflect the beauty of the truth we profess.

  48. These things we ask in the mighty name of Jesus.

  49. Amen. You may be seated. I suppose I'll begin

  50. by stating the obvious. We live in a time when

  51. voices are everywhere. There is no shortage of

  52. opinions, and there is no shortage of folks who

  53. love to air their opinions. YouTube, Facebook,

  54. X, formerly Twitter, podcasts, cable news, radio.

  55. People are constantly speaking. You may have

  56. noticed that. People are constantly, to use a

  57. very popular term, influencing. And the reality

  58. is that many of those voices belong to false

  59. teachers. Some of them are quite obvious. They

  60. preach a different gospel and deny essential

  61. truths. Thus, they are exposed by what they say.

  62. But others are far more subtle, and in some ways,

  63. because of their subtlety, they are more dangerous.

  64. Because now there is a growing number of voices

  65. who say many of the right things. They talk about

  66. truth. They talk about order. They love to talk

  67. about family values. You'll even hear them discuss

  68. the ways in which we can save Western culture.

  69. All of those things sound good, do they not?

  70. They talk about morality. They even talk about

  71. God. Some of them claim the name of Jesus Christ.

  72. They claim his name for themselves and mention

  73. their Christianity on a regular basis. However,

  74. their lives tell a different story. Oftentimes,

  75. these same folks have speech that is coarse and

  76. vulgar. Their tone is harsh and combative. Their

  77. relationships are marked by constant conflict.

  78. Some of them seemingly desire to have public

  79. conflict. Some of them almost seem to enjoy constant.

  80. There is little evidence among them of humility

  81. or holiness in their lives. They want to influence

  82. people, but the fruit they produce is poisonous.

  83. It's not the fruit of the Spirit. It's not love,

  84. joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,

  85. gentleness, self -control. Instead, their lives

  86. are marked by the deeds of the flesh. And just

  87. because I think it's so helpful, turn with me

  88. to Galatians 5. We all know Galatians 5, 22 and

  89. 23, where Paul gives us the fruit of the Spirit,

  90. which I just mentioned. But oftentimes we forget

  91. about those deeds of the flesh, which Paul mentions,

  92. which precede the fruit of the Spirit. In verse

  93. 19, now the deeds of the flesh are evident, which

  94. are. And notice how... Some of these sins, in

  95. our own way of looking at them, seem rather minor,

  96. and others seem quite large. Now, the deeds of

  97. the flesh are evident, which are immorality,

  98. impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmities,

  99. strife, jealousy. Those aren't as big a deal,

  100. right? Outbursts of anger. Uh -oh. Disputes,

  101. dissensions, factions, envying. drunkenness,

  102. carousing, and things like these, of which I

  103. forewarn you, just as I have forewarned you,

  104. that those who practice such things will not

  105. inherit the kingdom of God. And then, of course,

  106. Paul, like I said, gives us the fruit of the

  107. Spirit. And, of course, this is all right in

  108. the middle of a whole section on the law. And

  109. he then says, against such things there is no

  110. law, when referring to the fruit of the Spirit.

  111. But for those who practice the deeds of the flesh,

  112. they will not inherit the kingdom of God. We

  113. might be tempted to think that a public scandal

  114. or that people who decide to strive with one

  115. another in public are not committing some form

  116. of sin. But the scripture seems rather evident

  117. here that that is... on par with idolatry and

  118. sorcery and carousing and drunkenness? At some

  119. point, you have to stop asking, what are these

  120. people saying? What you have to start asking

  121. is, what does their life reveal? As we move from

  122. Titus 1 to chapter 2, the Apostle Paul employs

  123. a juxtaposition, a contrast. that serves as a

  124. bridge between these two passages. In verse 16,

  125. he wrote what we just read. They profess to know

  126. God, but by their deeds they deny him. By their

  127. deeds they deny him. They profess to know God,

  128. but by their deeds they deny him. And listen

  129. to the description that he gives of these folks.

  130. being detestable and disobedient and worthless

  131. for any good deed. There's come a point in this

  132. sermon where I'll quote James, and a lot of people

  133. down throughout church history have tried to

  134. create a false argument between Paul, Mr. Justification

  135. by faith, and James, faith without works is dead.

  136. But when you read through the book of Titus,

  137. you can see that there's clear agreement. between

  138. these two apostles here paul is referring to

  139. the false teachers he called out in those previous

  140. verses we're not going to read them again but

  141. if you look back at the very end of verse 9 in

  142. chapter 1 and read all the way through verse

  143. 15 and of course even 16 which we just quoted

  144. you'll see that paul has really laid into the

  145. false teachers who were apparently creeping into

  146. the churches in crete who were seeking to make

  147. Issues out of the law that were not beneficial

  148. for these young congregations teaching what was

  149. false. While the false teachers Paul called out

  150. in Titus 1 may have said some of the right things,

  151. on their face, much of what they said about the

  152. law probably seemed right. It probably sounded

  153. good. It probably sounded like they were pious

  154. and holy. And I think that's partly why. Their

  155. teaching was so deceptive. But their lives, their

  156. lives proved something different. Their lives

  157. were inconsistent with their claims. Scripture

  158. reinforces this principle many times over. And

  159. I know that it will cost us a little bit of time.

  160. And Ashley saw how many pages of notes I had

  161. and gave me one of those looks. But I can't resist

  162. the opportunity to do this. Turn to Matthew chapter

    Matthew 7 chapter mention

  163. 7. Of course, you know Matthew 5 through 7. That's

  164. where we see the Sermon on the Mount, right?

  165. Famous passage of Scripture, those three chapters.

  166. And if you go to Matthew chapter 7, most of you

    Matthew 7 chapter mention

  167. probably are already guessing where I'm headed

  168. here. But in Matthew chapter 7, beginning in

    Matthew 7 chapter mention

  169. verse 15, Jesus says this. Beware of the false

  170. prophets who come to you in sheep's clothing

  171. that inwardly are ravenous wolves. You will know

  172. them by their fruits. Grapes are not gathered

  173. from thorn bushes, nor figs from thistles, are

  174. they? So every good tree bears good fruit, but

  175. the bad tree bears bad fruit. fruit. A good tree

  176. cannot produce bad fruit, nor can a bad tree

  177. produce good fruit. Every tree that does not

  178. bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the

  179. fire. So then you will know them by their fruits.

  180. Not everyone who says to me, Lord, Lord, will

  181. enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does

  182. the will of my Father who is in heaven will enter.

  183. Many will say to me on that day, Lord, Lord,

  184. did we not prophesy in your name and in your

  185. name cast out demons and in your name perform

  186. many miracles? And then I will declare to them,

  187. I never knew you. Depart from me, you who practice

  188. lawlessness. Oh man, can you imagine the heartache,

  189. the terror. Of hearing those words from the Lord

  190. on that final day. In James chapter 2. The brother

    James 2 chapter mention

  191. of our Lord argues that works must accompany

  192. genuine saving faith. That works must accompany

  193. genuine saving faith. In verse 17 of that chapter

  194. he writes. Even so faith if it has no works is

  195. dead being by itself. Even John. Whom we refer

  196. to as the apostle of love. Talked about this.

  197. He wrote about this. In 1st John. Chapter 2.

    John 2 chapter mention

  198. Let's turn there. 1st 2nd Peter. 1st 2nd 3rd

  199. John. You guys know where they're at. 1st John

    John 2 chapter mention

  200. chapter 2. Verses 3 through 6. By this we know

  201. that we have come to know him. If. We keep his

  202. commandments. The one who says, I have come to

  203. know him, and does not keep his commandments

  204. is a liar, and the truth is not in him. But whoever

  205. keeps his word, in him the love of God has truly

  206. been perfected. By this we know that we are in

  207. him. The one who says he abides in him ought

  208. himself to walk in the same manner as he walked.

  209. This is not merely about inconsistency. This

  210. is a matter of denial. Think back to verse 16

  211. there. They profess to know God, but by their

  212. deeds they deny Him. Having the right words with

  213. the wrong life is not sound practice. It is a

  214. denial, a repudiation of sound doctrine. Let

  215. me say that one more time. Having the right words

  216. with the wrong life is not sound doctrine. It

  217. is a denial of sound doctrine. Because what you're

  218. doing is claiming to know God. but denying his

  219. power in your life. In Titus chapter 2 and verse

    Titus 2 chapter mention

  220. 1, the juxtaposition, the contrast, comes into

  221. view, as Paul says, but as for you, speak the

  222. things which are fitting for sound doctrine.

  223. In other words, don't just produce people, because

  224. of course, obviously, Paul is speaking to Titus

  225. in this pastoral epistle as Titus is ministering

  226. to the churches on the island of Crete, a place

  227. where the gospel certainly shined brightly because

  228. it was such a hellscape, right? So he's giving

  229. him this admonition as a minister of the gospel,

  230. but as for you, speak the things which are fitting

  231. for sound doctrine. Don't just produce people

  232. who say the right things. Let me tell you, let

  233. me tell you. This is an easy trap into which

  234. we can fall. And we can do it very subtly and

  235. not even notice that we've done it. Don't just

  236. produce people who say the right things. Build

  237. a church where the doctrine is visible in people's

  238. lives. That phrase, but as for you, heightens

  239. our awareness of the contrast Paul is making

  240. at the outset of chapter 2. In chapter 1, you

  241. remember it's just been a few weeks ago, so it's

  242. not been terribly long. Hopefully it wasn't that

  243. forgettable. In chapter 1, we saw chaos, false

  244. teachers, and disorder. In chapter 2, we're going

  245. to see order, clarity, and healthy gospel -centered

  246. living. A church whose people are marked by godliness.

  247. This is the core concept of our study, not only

  248. today, and I've mentioned this before, but throughout

  249. the entire letter. Sound doctrine is not merely

  250. correct thinking or proper understanding. These

  251. words carry the idea of health and sincerity

  252. of faith. Sound doctrine produces spiritual health,

  253. moral clarity, godly living. just as Paul wrote

  254. to Timothy in 1 Timothy 1 .5, another of the

  255. pastoral epistles. But the goal of our instruction

  256. is love from a pure heart and a good conscience

  257. and a sincere faith. So here's the primary principle

  258. of our study. Sound doctrine is not proven by

  259. how loudly or passionately it is declared. Rather,

  260. it is proven by how clearly it is displayed in

  261. our lives. Borrowing Paul's words from verse

  262. 10, which we'll handle near the end of the message

  263. today, and really using them to entitle the sermon,

  264. borrowing Paul's words there in verse 10, adorn

  265. the doctrine of God. Adorn the doctrine of God,

  266. beautify the doctrine of God, which we claim

  267. to believe. Our good deeds must adorn, they must

  268. beautify the doctrine of God and his gospel of

  269. grace in Christ Jesus. Now to demonstrate this,

  270. Paul structures the church in a very practical

  271. way. It's extremely helpful because we can identify

  272. to it. even these 2 ,000 years later. He moves

  273. through age and gender to show us that godliness

  274. is not an abstract concept. It is not ethereal.

  275. I love that word because it just makes me think

  276. of something that's just floating around. Godliness

  277. is not abstract. It is practical. It is lived

  278. out in every age and every stage of life. And

  279. Paul begins with older men in verse 2. Look there

  280. with me again. Older men are to be temperate,

  281. dignified, sensible, sound in faith, in love,

  282. in perseverance. The pattern of godliness and

  283. good deeds in older men. Older men, this is for

  284. you. I'm not going to count myself in that category

  285. just yet. The pattern of godliness and good deeds

  286. in older men should be marked by character and

  287. stability. I'm just kidding. I probably do fall

  288. into this category. They should be sober -minded,

  289. dignified, self -controlled, doctrinally and

  290. spiritually stable. They should exercise and

  291. exemplify these virtues for the benefit and edification

  292. of the whole church. Older men, do not forget

  293. this. It seems so weird to say this to a group

  294. of men who are all about the same age as me.

  295. You are here for the benefit of the body. You

  296. are meant to bring stability to this body. You

  297. have a purpose to serve. We should exercise and

  298. exemplify these values, these virtues. Paul writes

  299. in 1 Corinthians 16, 13, be on the alert, stand

  300. firm in the faith. Does anybody know the next

  301. line? Act like men. Be strong. There you go.

  302. For everybody who's worried about biblical masculinity,

  303. there you have it. If you're a man, you should

  304. be strong. Right? In 1 Thessalonians 5, 6 we

  305. read, So then let us not sleep as others do,

  306. but let us be alert and sober. Be strong, be

  307. alert, be sober. Older men bear the responsibility

  308. of guiding the church and remaining vigilant

  309. on her behalf. Sound doctrine with which the

  310. older men of the church have become so well acquainted.

  311. produces stability, not volatility. You get on

  312. a hobby horse with a particular doctrine, that's

  313. all well and good. There's certainly nothing

  314. wrong with getting excited about what Scripture

  315. teaches, both in principle and in precept. That

  316. is a wonderful thing. But even if you are right

  317. about your doctrine and you bring it into the

  318. church and you start... destabilizing the church,

  319. you better start questioning your motives. And

  320. it happens. It does happen. This is especially

  321. true in speech and temperament. I say this as

  322. someone who struggles in this particular area.

  323. He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty.

  324. Proverbs 16. The anger of man does not achieve

  325. the righteousness of God, James 1 .20. A lot

  326. of people love to say, but it's righteous indignation

  327. that I have. Zeal for your house, O Lord, right?

  328. Well, when David felt zeal for the house of God,

  329. when Jesus turned over tables and whipped people

  330. and drove them out of the temple, that is righteous

  331. indignation. But being upset about something

  332. that is akin to doctrine or being angry with

  333. someone because they have offended you personally

  334. is not righteous anger. And again, I confess

  335. to you that is an area that I struggle with myself.

  336. To rightly adorn the doctrine of God, older men

  337. should serve as anchors. They should serve as

  338. pillars, as stabilizing forces in the church.

  339. This is a direct contrast to the false teachers

  340. in Titus 1 .11 who must be silenced because they're

  341. doing what? Do you remember that? Because they

  342. are upsetting whole families. The type of man

  343. who runs around upsetting whole families is not

  344. a man who is adorning the doctrine of God. You

  345. are not beautifying the gospel when you upset

  346. families. with your teaching. Similarly, Paul

  347. has directions for older women. That's in verse

  348. 3. Older women likewise are to be reverent in

  349. their behavior, not malicious gossips, nor enslaved

  350. to much wine, teaching what is good. Now there's

  351. definitely a direct connection between it and

  352. the following verses. But we're going to stop

  353. with verse 3 for just a moment and deal with

  354. older women. The pattern of godliness and good

  355. deeds in older women should be marked by mentorship

  356. and reverence. They should be reverent, self

  357. -controlled, guarded in speech, and actively

  358. discipling the younger women of the church. Looking

  359. at Ephesians 4 .29, let no unwholesome word proceed

  360. from your mouth, but only such a word as is good

  361. for edification according to the need of the

  362. moment so that it will give grace to those who

  363. hear. Some of these verses were pretty easy to

  364. think up because my mom used to really drive

  365. them into me as a young child and a young man.

  366. When there are many words, transgression is unavoidable.

  367. Where words abound, sin abounds. When there are

  368. many words, transgression is unavoidable. But

  369. he who restrains his lips is wise. Proverbs 10,

  370. 19. Godly living requires holy speech. and self

  371. -control. It requires holy speech and self -control.

  372. And don't think I did not feel conviction as

  373. I was writing these words down on this piece

  374. of paper, or typing onto my computer, and then

  375. onto a piece of paper. Godly living requires

  376. holy speech and self -control. Just as the Lord

  377. himself said, the good man out of the good treasure

  378. of his heart brings forth what is good, and the

  379. evil man out of the evil treasure brings forth

  380. what is evil. For his mouth speaks from that

  381. which fills his heart. Luke chapter 6. Older

    Luke 6 chapter mention

  382. women, you are not passive participants here.

  383. Your lives should be marked by godliness, not

  384. sitting around telling tales and sipping on wine.

  385. You are essential in the life of the church.

  386. You are essential in the life of the church as

  387. mentors, teachers, and encouragers. Next, Paul

  388. turns his attention to young women, verses 4

  389. and 5, so that they may encourage the young women,

  390. of course referring back to the older women there,

  391. so that they may encourage the young women to

  392. love their husbands, to love their children,

  393. to be sensible, pure, workers at home, kind,

  394. being subject to their own husbands, so that

  395. the word of God will not be dishonored. Here,

  396. with young women, we see the application of godliness

  397. in their lives. Notice older women and younger

  398. women, or young women, are linked at the beginning

  399. of verse 4. The older women, as I just mentioned,

  400. should be mentoring, teaching, and encouraging

  401. the young women. This implies that young women,

  402. deities, hear me for a moment. This implies that

  403. young women should be humble and gracious. Enough

  404. to be mentored, to be taught, and to be encouraged.

  405. Too often, young women tend to bristle when someone

  406. offers advice or counsel. Let this never be the

  407. case in young women who seek to adorn the doctrine

  408. of God with their lives. Ladies, humility will

  409. take you much further. than your pride. These

  410. older women have much to say and much experience

  411. upon which they can draw and they can be of a

  412. huge benefit and blessing to you. As you love

  413. your husbands and you love your children, hear

  414. them. Be humble enough to hear them. The pattern

  415. of godliness in young women is demonstrated by

  416. their behavior in the home. Their love is rightly

  417. ordered. Their primary concern is for their husband

  418. and for their children. They are self -controlled,

  419. they are pure, and they are faithful to their

  420. husbands and their children. There's no mention

  421. of their appearance. There's no mention, ladies,

  422. of a beauty regimen. Because they are not merely

  423. concerned with outward beauty, rather they desire

  424. to beautify the gospel with their godliness.

  425. Just as Peter writes, your adornment must not

  426. be merely external, braiding the hair and wearing

  427. gold jewelry or putting on dresses, but let it

  428. be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable

  429. quality of a gentle and quiet spirit which is

  430. precious in the sight of God. For in this way,

  431. in former times, the holy women also, who hoped

  432. in God, used to adorn themselves, being submissive

  433. to their own husbands. Just as Sarah obeyed Abraham,

  434. calling him Lord, and you have become her children

  435. if you do what is right without being frightened

  436. by any fear. 1 Peter 3. Paul writes in Colossians

  437. 3 .12, So as those who have been chosen of God,

  438. holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion,

  439. kindness, Humility, gentleness, and patience.

  440. The home is the primary school of godliness.

  441. And young women, you have the immense privilege

  442. and responsibility of being the teacher. Best

  443. of all, when the home is ordered rightly by a

  444. young woman who loves God. her husband and her

  445. children, when she adorns sound doctrine with

  446. godly living in these relationships, the word

  447. of God is esteemed. It is not dishonored, as

  448. it is in the homes and relationships of young

  449. women who refuse to lead godly lives. There is

  450. no shortage. If you'd like to test this out,

  451. I guess you can. I don't know that it would really

  452. be helpful. But there is no shortage of women

  453. online who love to tell you that they don't need

  454. a man, they don't want kids, and they're 38 years

  455. old, never been married, never had a child, playing

  456. with their cats on the side, and just enjoying

  457. their lives. Strong, independent women. And yet,

  458. so often, when you listen to them talk, they

  459. don't sound humble. They don't sound like they're

  460. at peace. They seem embittered. They seem angry.

  461. Next, Paul briefly focuses on young men. And

  462. this is really brief if you separate it from

  463. verses 7 and 8. But look again where Paul focuses

  464. on young men at verse 6 with me. Likewise, urge

  465. the young men to be sensible. It's brief, but

  466. honestly, I think it's the way it is for a reason,

  467. fellas. Young men who seek to adorn the doctrine

  468. of God are sensible. It's not the first time

  469. Paul's used that word here. But it is the only

  470. word he uses when he speaks directly about young

  471. men. Young men who seek to adorn. Are you seeking,

  472. young men? I'm speaking to you guys. Do you seek

  473. to adorn the doctrine of God with your lives?

  474. Because if you do, then you will be sensible.

  475. I was a young man once. Some people know. Thank

  476. God not all of you grew up with me. Sensible

  477. is probably not the word that most people would

  478. use to describe me from the ages of about 15

  479. to 18, maybe 19. Could be 20 or 21. until about

  480. the time Ashley came along. Then there was a

  481. rough couple of years of training, and I became

  482. more sensible by 2032. That word sensible carries

  483. the idea of self -control, sound judgment, and

  484. disciplined thinking. The word sensible carries

  485. the idea of self -control, Sound judgment and

  486. disciplined thinking. Young men, if you hope

  487. to adorn the doctrine of God, your lives must

  488. be marked by increasing discipline and growing

  489. maturity. A right understanding of the gospel

  490. and sound doctrine does not produce arrogance.

  491. It produces steadiness. So many young men in

  492. the world today are the opposite. They are brash.

  493. They are overconfident and they are reactionary.

  494. They lack wisdom to lead their own lives, yet

  495. speak as if they have authority. They're driven

  496. more by impulse, emotion, and cultural noise

  497. than they are by the truth. Scripture gives you

  498. a better pattern to follow. You are not required

  499. to figure this out in isolation on your own,

  500. young men. Don't attempt to do that. You're called

  501. to learn from the older men in the church, to

  502. observe their lives, study their conduct, follow

  503. their example. In doing so, you will grow to

  504. be temperate, dignified. Sensible, sound in faith,

  505. in love, and in perseverance. Young men, many

  506. of you desire good things in life. I guess I'm

  507. going to get a little pastoral here. Young men,

  508. many of you desire good things in life. A wife,

  509. a family, a home. I know some of you long. for

  510. leadership in the church and in your community.

  511. And those are good and right desires. Praise

  512. God that you desire those things. But before

  513. you can lead others, you must learn to govern

  514. yourself. To be sensible, you have to to exercise

  515. self -governance. Don't wait as late in life

  516. as what some of us older men did. Take advantage

  517. of the examples that are in front of you now.

  518. You need to be practical. You need to be reasonable.

  519. You should be guided by truth. Not emotion, not

  520. trends, not the noise of the culture. And I will

  521. grant you, you have a harder time ahead of you

  522. than I did at your age. You have a tougher row

  523. to hoe. Because the noise is everywhere now.

  524. In a very real sense, what I said at the beginning

  525. of the message, in the introduction, applies

  526. directly to you, men. Don't be shaped by the

  527. loudest voices online. Don't do it. Don't fall

  528. into that trap. Just because someone has a following,

  529. it doesn't mean they're worthy of being followed.

  530. You're not lemmings, right? Don't follow the

  531. pattern of men who speak much but live. Follow

  532. the example of godly, faithful men like the ones

  533. you see here, week in and week out. Speaking

  534. of examples, now Paul turns directly to Titus.

  535. The example of excellence, which is found in

  536. Titus himself as a minister of the gospel. Verses

  537. 7 and 8. In all things, show yourself to be an

  538. example of good deeds with purity and doctrine,

  539. dignified, sound in speech, which is beyond reproach,

  540. so that the opponent will be put to shame, having

  541. nothing bad to say about us. Titus, the man of

  542. God, is the pattern for the church to follow.

  543. He must have good deeds, pure doctrine, and be

  544. dignified in all things. His speech should be

  545. sound, above reproach, and unassailable. This

  546. is true of all ministers of the gospel who long

  547. to adorn the doctrine of God. In 1 Timothy 4

  548. .12, Paul writes to his true child in the faith,

  549. Let no one look down on your youthfulness, but

  550. rather in speech, conduct, love, faith, and purity,

  551. show yourself an example of those who believe.

  552. In Colossians 4 .6 we read, Let your speech always

  553. be with grace, as though seasoned with salt,

  554. so that you will know how you should respond

  555. to each person. The goal is not being right.

  556. but being beyond legitimate criticism so that

  557. the opponent will be put to shame having nothing

  558. bad to say about us, verse 8. This is how the

  559. minister, as an example of excellence in the

  560. church, adorns or beautifies the doctrine of

  561. God. This is why when a minister fails morally,

  562. it is such a big deal. He wants to preserve the

  563. preeminence and beauty of the gospel and sound

  564. doctrine. So he must live his life in a way that

  565. no one can malign due to his failures. To be

  566. clear, this portion is not intended for Titus

  567. only. Paul has in view other ministers of the

  568. gospel who will follow in Titus' footsteps. If

  569. someone claims truth but cannot control their

  570. tongue, or if they speak harshly, coarsely, destructively,

  571. or if they live in constant conflict, God does

  572. not excuse that as personality. That one cuts

  573. deep. It cuts real deep. Because there are a

  574. lot of things, even about myself, that I could

  575. say, it's just my personality. It's just how

  576. I am. God made me this way. I mean, if it weren't

  577. for the way I am, I wouldn't be who I am. You

  578. hear people say things like that all the time,

  579. right? But this is not... An excuse. Quite frankly,

  580. that pattern does not accord with sound doctrine.

  581. There must be no filthiness and silly talk or

  582. coarse jesting named among you. Ephesians 5,

  583. 4. My brethren, these things ought not to be

  584. this way, James declares. Finally, Paul brings

  585. this even closer to home. By showing how ordinary

  586. daily conduct serves to adorn the doctrine of

  587. God, by treating everyday life as worship, verses

  588. 9 and 10. Urge bond slaves to be subject to their

  589. own masters in everything, to be well -pleasing,

  590. not argumentative, not pilfering, but showing

  591. all good faith so that they will adorn the doctrine

  592. of God our Savior in every respect. Even in ordinary,

  593. lowly roles, like work, authority structures,

  594. daily responsibilities. We should adorn the doctrine

  595. of God with holiness and godly living. Ephesians

  596. 6, 5 -8, Slaves, be obedient to those who are

  597. your masters according to the flesh, with fear

  598. and trembling in the sincerity of your heart

  599. as to Christ, not by way of eye service as men

  600. -pleasers, but as slaves of Christ. doing the

  601. will of God from the heart with goodwill, render

  602. service as to the Lord and not to men, knowing

  603. that whatever good thing each one does, this

  604. he will receive back from the Lord, whether slave

  605. or free. Colossians 3, 22 through 25, slaves

  606. in all things obey those who are your masters

  607. on earth, not with external services, those who

  608. merely please men, but with sincerity of heart,

  609. fearing the Lord. Whatever you do, do your work

  610. heartily as for the Lord rather than for men,

  611. knowing that from the Lord you will receive the

  612. reward of the inheritance. It is the Lord Christ

  613. whom you serve. For he who does wrong will receive

  614. the consequences of the wrong which he has done,

  615. and that without partiality. Adorning the doctrine

  616. of God, adorning the gospel, beautifying the

  617. gospel. means that we make it attractive in every

  618. way possible, even in the mundanity of life.

  619. We're not seeking to add to sound doctrine, and

  620. we know we can't contribute anything to our salvation.

  621. Amen? However, our desire is to accompany what

  622. we've received with godliness in our lives that

  623. magnifies and glorifies the doctrine of God.

  624. Otherwise, we nullify the gospel's effectiveness

  625. to us by leading lives that betray the gospel

  626. and prove us to be liars. Imagine a company,

  627. let's say they chose some virtue as the name

  628. of their company. Let's take something like,

  629. how about Integrity? It's on everything, right?

  630. It's on their website, it's on their vehicles,

  631. it's in all their branding. They're built on

  632. integrity. However, in practice, their communication

  633. is harsh, their employees cut corners, their

  634. contracts are a mess, there's conflict everywhere

  635. in the organization, and they don't stand behind

  636. their products or services which they sell. Eventually,

  637. you stop listening to what they say and start

  638. judging them by what they do. That is exactly

  639. what Paul is addressing here. Holy living is

  640. the result. Chapter 1, we saw sound doctrine

  641. defined and defended. In chapter 2, we're seeing

  642. sound doctrine displayed. Sound doctrine produces

  643. proper order and brings about godliness in the

  644. church. Again, we're not doing this to be saved.

  645. We're not earning our salvation by doing these

  646. things. Christ did that work for us apart from

  647. anything we have done. in and of ourselves, quite

  648. frankly, in spite of ourselves. However, we should

  649. live to adorn the doctrine of God because the

  650. grace of God has appeared. Verse 11, verse 12,

  651. instructing us to deny ungodliness. We'll get

  652. into that a little more next week. For now, however,

  653. I do want to leave you with this. And I really

  654. think everybody should contemplate this. We can

  655. love doctrinal precision and still neglect holiness.

  656. I'll never forget hearing of a homeschool mother

  657. who once said her children had gotten into sin

  658. as they grew up and left the home. And she said,

  659. we thought we did everything right. We had reformed

  660. theology. We did family worship. We thought we

  661. did it all right. Well, you can say all of the

  662. right things and still be neglecting holiness

  663. in your life. Amen? This is common among Reformed

  664. people. We can win arguments and still fail to

  665. adorn the doctrine of God. You can be right and

  666. still be wrong. It's not about being right. It's

  667. not about winning debates. So I'll ask two questions.

  668. Does your life make the gospel beautiful? Or,

  669. do you profess to know God, but by your deeds

  670. are you denying Him? Because sound doctrine is

  671. not authenticated by volume or visibility, but

  672. by the godliness it produces in your life.