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Titus 3:1-11

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  1. Our passage today for exposition is Titus chapter

    Titus 3:1–11

  2. 3, verses 1 through 11. Please follow along silently

  3. as I read aloud. This is God's wholly inspired

  4. and inerrant word. Remind them to be subject

  5. to rulers, to authorities, to be obedient, to

  6. be ready for every good deed, to malign no one,

  7. to be peaceable, gentle. showing every consideration

  8. for all men. For we also once were foolish ourselves,

  9. disobedient, deceived, enslaved to various lusts

  10. and pleasures, spending our life in malice and

  11. envy, hateful, hating one another. But when the

  12. kindness of God our Savior and His love for mankind

  13. appeared, He saved us, not on the basis of deeds

  14. which we have done in righteousness, but according

  15. to his mercy, by the washing of regeneration

  16. and renewing by the Holy Spirit, whom he poured

  17. out upon us richly through Jesus Christ, our

  18. Savior, so that being justified by his grace,

  19. we would be made heirs according to the hope

  20. of eternal life. This is a trustworthy statement.

  21. And concerning these things I want you to speak

  22. confidently, so that those who have believed

  23. God will be careful to engage in good deeds.

  24. These things are good and profitable for men.

  25. But avoid foolish controversies and genealogies

  26. and strife and disputes about the law, for they

  27. are unprofitable and worthless. Reject a factious

  28. man after a first and second warning, knowing

  29. that such a man is perverted and is sinning,

  30. being self -condemned. Let's pray. Gracious Heavenly

  31. Father, we come to you this morning thankful

  32. for the mercy and kindness you've shown to us

  33. as sinners. The kindness that you've shown to

  34. us as sinners through your Son. We praise you

  35. that though we were once foolish and disobedient

  36. and enslaved to sin, you did not leave us in

  37. our corruption. Rather, you saved us according

  38. to your great mercy. Lord Jesus, we thank you

  39. that your gospel not only saves sinners, but

  40. it transforms lives too. Lord, cause us to lead

  41. lives worthy of the doctrine we profess. Make

  42. us peaceable, gentle, humble, and ready for every

  43. good deed. Holy Spirit, please accompany the

  44. proclamation of your word and apply its truth

  45. to our hearts this morning. Renew our minds.

  46. Guard us from divisiveness and produce within

  47. us unity, holiness, and love that reflects your

  48. transforming power. In all of this, may Jesus

  49. be honored, may his church be strengthened, and

  50. may your grace be made known. These things we

  51. ask in his holy name. Amen. Please be seated.

  52. We are approaching the end of our study in the

  53. book of Titus. Lord willing, next week we will

  54. finish things up as we take care of those last

  55. several verses at the end of this letter written

  56. by the Apostle Paul to his true child in a common

  57. faith, Titus, who, as we know, is serving, ministering

  58. on the island of Crete where he is setting things

  59. in order, appointing elders, doing the business

  60. of the church. Titus is indeed a churchman. He

  61. is a man who is about the business of God, who

  62. has been commissioned, if you will, by the Apostle

  63. Paul, and I guess we could say also by the Lord

  64. Jesus Christ. As we come into chapter 3, Paul

  65. is continuing the same great concern that's run

  66. throughout this entire letter. At this point,

  67. you probably feel like every time I say it, that

  68. I'm beating you over the head, but it is so consistent

  69. a theme throughout the letter that I believe

  70. it bears repeating each time we discuss it. From

  71. the very beginning of Paul's epistle to Titus,

  72. he has emphasized that sound doctrine must produce

  73. godly living. Many of you may be like me. I can't

  74. help but think that many of you probably are

  75. a lot like me. And repetition is probably something

  76. helpful for you because if you are like me, you

  77. tend to need repetition in order to learn. So

  78. again, I say sound doctrine must produce godly

  79. living in believers. We've noted the difficulty

  80. of this assignment for Titus. We've noted it

  81. multiple times. That, of course, as he's serving

  82. these churches that are scattered in, around,

  83. or about the island of Crete, that they were

  84. surrounded by a corrupt and disorderly culture,

  85. that there were false teachers who, as Paul puts

  86. it in verse 11 of chapter 1, were upsetting whole

  87. families. Many of them, as Paul says in verse

  88. 16, also in chapter 1, many of them profess to

  89. know God, but by their deeds, They deny him.

  90. They are disqualified, not necessarily because

  91. of what they say, though certainly some of them

  92. were saying things that obviously disqualified

  93. them. But to drive the point home, Paul makes

  94. sure we understand that they are disqualified

  95. because by the way they were leading their lives,

  96. they were denying God. Honestly, the world around

  97. us today isn't much different. We live in a culture

  98. marked by outrage, hostility, division, slander.

  99. It's amazing. If you look at YouTube, what passes

  100. as reporting nowadays? Some wild and completely,

  101. utterly... Unsubstantiated accusations that simply

  102. pass and we allow them to pass without any real

  103. tangible evidence. Slander is everywhere. Arrogance

  104. is everywhere. And selfish ambition seems to

  105. be the motive behind most of it. People are increasingly

  106. combative. Everything. is a fight. Many people

  107. are angry. They are constantly offended. Or,

  108. if they are not offended, they're in search of

  109. the next thing about which they should be offended.

  110. Amen? This has become patently obvious to us.

  111. No doubt, I would say, social media has probably

  112. heightened our awareness of these issues. But

  113. I will say to you that these issues have been

  114. for sinful, fallen humanity since the beginning

  115. of time. People seem to feel overwhelmingly that

  116. they need to speak harshly. I confess, sometimes,

  117. as I, I guess you would say, practice rhetorical

  118. skills. Sometimes it seems like the more fired

  119. up I get, the better I can hold people's attention.

  120. You might argue that that's true. And I know

  121. that not everyone gets as impassioned, using

  122. careful words here, as impassioned as I do at

  123. times, but I have noticed that the more harshly

  124. I speak, the easier it is for me to command others'

  125. attention. And I think this says something about

  126. all of us. Unfortunately for you, not just me,

  127. but all of us. We tend to enjoy controversy.

  128. Do you catch yourself, though you might not be

  129. in the midst of the controversy, do you catch

  130. yourself wanting to be in the perimeter? Wanting

  131. to make sure you know what's going on? I believe

  132. it's the book of Proverbs that refers to those

  133. words that are like dainty morsels that go down

  134. to our innermost parts. We seemingly, all of

  135. us, but certainly in the world, we seemingly

  136. enjoy harsh speech. We enjoy seeing someone get

  137. called out. We enjoy controversing. And this

  138. is something that's very obvious in the public

  139. sphere because it's basically all we do anymore.

  140. Our politics have degraded to the point of merely

  141. being about soundbites, about owning someone.

  142. There's a very famous political commentator.

  143. I think his organization is experiencing a little

  144. bit of financial difficulty now. But he's famous

  145. as a conservative on the right, and he's known

  146. for owning. The libs. Yeah. That's what it seems

  147. to get our attention because in the world today,

  148. our goal is to be the most bombastic. And our

  149. politics over the last, oh, let's say, 10 or

  150. 11 years have really, really degraded and proven

  151. this out to us. And unfortunately, what has happened

  152. is the church has become part and parcel to this.

  153. Many people in the church, many genuine Christians,

  154. God -fearing believers have fallen prey to this

  155. issue, this concern. We might even argue that

  156. it is a cultural or societal disease. We all

  157. have the tendency, the propensity toward these

  158. things. But I tell you, the church is not. to

  159. imitate the spirit of this age, to borrow Paul's

  160. language from 2 Corinthians, because the grace

  161. of God has changed us. Not the grace of God will

  162. change us. Certainly there is a process of sanctification

  163. that's taking place in every one of us as the

  164. Spirit is working within us, as we're being conformed

  165. to the image and the likeness of our Lord Jesus

  166. Christ. Certainly there is a progressive element

  167. to this, but in the same breath as Christians

  168. we must realize we have been changed by God's

  169. grace. We are no longer the people we used to

  170. be. We shouldn't look. and act like the world

  171. around us anymore. And that does not mean you

  172. have to dress like people from the Victorian

  173. era. It doesn't mean that you have to be different

  174. for the sake of being different, but it does

  175. mean that as the Bible prescribes us to be different,

  176. we should obey and honor that prescription. The

  177. grace of God has changed us. God's grace has

  178. changed how we think, and how we speak. It has

  179. changed how we live. It has changed how we treat

  180. others, how we treat others in the world, and,

  181. mind you, how we treat one another in the church.

  182. So here's Paul really beginning to wind down

  183. this beautiful pastoral letter to his true child

  184. in a common faith. And he's instructing Titus

  185. to remind believers how the gospel of grace should

  186. shape their lives. It's interesting. The gospel

  187. of grace. The idea is that God does all of the

  188. work. There is no meritorious work on our part.

  189. None of us have done anything to achieve it.

  190. We understand it. We know what we believe about

  191. the doctrine of justification by faith. We know

  192. what we believe about having faith in Jesus Christ

  193. alone, according to God's grace, which he has

  194. lavished upon us, his free gift. And yet when

  195. we read through a book like Titus, which you

  196. can do in really a matter of minutes because

  197. it's so short, we see that grace changes us and

  198. our lives should evidence that change. And then

  199. we see. The fact that we are called to engage

  200. our will and to work toward these things while

  201. all the same time realizing it's because of God's

  202. grace. I heard a preacher say one time, anything

  203. good I do is because of God's grace. Anything

  204. bad I do is because of my own sinful flesh. Seems

  205. almost unfair, doesn't it? Wouldn't you love

  206. to be able to take just a smidge, just a bit

  207. of the credit? Sometimes I talk to my kids, and

  208. I might be disciplining them in some way, or

  209. maybe instructing or admonishing them in some

  210. ways, and then they might try to justify themselves

  211. by saying, well, yeah, Dad, but I did do this,

  212. right? And I'd love to say that it's only children

  213. who do those things, but... I'm known to do that

  214. myself. We'll soon see, he says, that grace should

  215. change us both publicly and privately. Grace

  216. should change us. Grace has changed us and is

  217. continuing to change us as we engage in the civic

  218. arena, as we engage in our interpersonal relationships.

  219. and how we interact with one another in the church

  220. herself. The grace of God should transform how

  221. we live in society. It should change how we treat

  222. other people. And the grace of God should change

  223. us by causing us to be about the business of

  224. preserving the unity of the church. Our change

  225. lives. should demonstrate that we are citizens

  226. of grace. So let's start with verses 1 and 2

  227. here, where we see our conduct in society. Look

  228. back there with me again, if you would. Chapter

  229. 3 and verse 1, Paul writes to Titus here and

  230. says, Remind them to be subject to rulers, to

  231. authorities, to be obedient, to be ready for

  232. every good deed, to malign no one, to be peaceable,

  233. gentle, showing every consideration for all men.

  234. This is about grace and how it changes our conduct

  235. in society. Paul begins with this important reminder

  236. because Christianity does not produce... Oh,

  237. this is a good line. Paul begins with this important

  238. reminder because Christianity does not produce

  239. rebellious, lawless people. Now, everyone in

  240. this room, to my knowledge, is a law -abiding

  241. citizen. To my knowledge. Even I am. To your

  242. knowledge. There's more to this than just obeying

  243. the law. Isn't there? Now, honestly, my mind

  244. kind of goes back to the Sermon on the Mount

  245. where Jesus is talking about these things that

  246. they've heard they're not supposed to do, and

  247. then he says, but I say to you, if, right? And

  248. he gets to the intention of our heart, doesn't

  249. he? A lot of us, and I confess to you, this is

  250. true of me, are rebellious. We are. We may be

  251. obeying the letter of the law, but in our hearts,

  252. oftentimes, and even from the abundance of our

  253. hearts, oftentimes our mouths speak and tell

  254. us how we really feel. and demonstrate to the

  255. world around us what we really, truly think about

  256. authority. And mind you, the first verse here

  257. is specifically about civic government, the civil

  258. sphere, right? It's not to say that there aren't

  259. times when disobeying the law is required, and

  260. I'll talk about that in a moment, but Christians...

  261. should be good citizens. Have you ever thought

  262. about what that means? They used to teach civics

  263. in the public school. I remember when I was in

  264. grade school, we had a, I can't remember what

  265. it was called, but we had a magazine that we

  266. would do. I can't remember if it was once a week

  267. or how often we did it, but we would have these

  268. questions that were related to our duty in the

  269. civic arena. How we were supposed to interact

  270. as part of our social studies program when I

  271. was in school. We'd always end it with critical

  272. thinking questions. I loved it. I loved that

  273. kind of stuff. And it made you think about how

  274. you could be a good citizen. And here Paul is

  275. giving Titus a reminder that is specifically

  276. meant to be applied in the church setting to

  277. help the Christians who worship together week

  278. in and week out. who profess to know sound doctrine

  279. that is supposed to adorn their lives, right?

  280. To beautify this doctrine with the way they live

  281. their lives. And he reminds them to be subject

  282. to rulers, to authorities, to be obedient. Oh,

  283. man. Man. Subject. Don't call me a subject. Don't

  284. call me a subject. I have to be obedient? What

  285. am I, a child? Right? Tell me. Don't tell me,

  286. because we don't have time for everybody to speak,

  287. but I get the mic today. But think for a moment.

  288. Does that bother you? The idea of being in subjection

  289. to another man? The idea of obeying someone else?

  290. I'm an adult. I don't have to obey anybody. Right?

  291. I mean, down inside, it kind of makes you a little

  292. squirmish, doesn't it? I mean, especially in

  293. southeastern Illinois and southwestern Indiana,

  294. because this is an area of the world where we

  295. are individuals, right? Rugged individualism

  296. is the hallmark of the great American experiment,

  297. isn't it? It is. We think of our heroes like

  298. Teddy Roosevelt and the Rough Riders. I see some

  299. people shaking their head no. Politically speaking,

  300. yeah, Teddy had a few issues. We think about

  301. these things and it bothers us. But the fact

  302. of the matter is we should be respectful, peaceable,

  303. and useful citizens. You know, Our citizenship,

  304. temporarily speaking, is here. But we have an

  305. eternal citizenship to which we've been called.

  306. And perhaps we should keep our eyes on it. Now,

  307. we're not called to blind obedience. Here's the

  308. caveat. And everybody starts to kind of, whew,

  309. that was getting a little intense. We're not

  310. called to blind obedience in all things. The

  311. witness of Scripture is very clear about this

  312. because there are times when we must, in the

  313. words of the Apostle Peter, Acts chapter 5, where

    Acts 5 chapter mention

  314. we must obey God rather than men. And amen to

  315. that. Amen to that. The apostles, if you remember,

  316. have been arrested. They've been released. They

  317. go out as soon as they're released and they start

  318. doing exactly what the Jewish authorities had

  319. told them not to do, which was preaching the

  320. name of Jesus. And so they drag him back in and

  321. they're like, hey, guys, you're going to make

  322. us guilty of this man's blood. You're going to

  323. have the whole city turned against us. Quit this.

  324. And what's Peter say? We have to obey God. We've

  325. been commanded to tell the world about Jesus.

  326. And in this instance, disobeying authority is

  327. absolutely necessary. The same principle is seen

  328. in the Old Testament. You guys can probably think

  329. of a few examples. I can think of three that

  330. happen in the book of Daniel. His three friends,

  331. Daniel and his three friends, very first thing

  332. that happens when they go into Babylonian captivity,

  333. the king wants to what? Feed them really good,

  334. rich food that's not healthy, and they know it's

  335. not. And these are disciplined men who want to

  336. honor God, even in the mundane things, such as

  337. what they eat. And they refuse. In chapter 3

  338. in Daniel, of course, one of the most famous

  339. Bible stories any of us has ever heard, Shadrach,

  340. Meshach, and Abednego. What do they refuse to

  341. do? They refuse to bow before and worship the

  342. image of Nebuchadnezzar, right? And of course

  343. they face the consequences for that, don't they?

  344. And God delivers them from those consequences

  345. miraculously. So Daniel himself in Daniel chapter

    Daniel 6 chapter mention

  346. 6, when he was told to pray to no other name

  347. except for the king, what does he do? He leaves

  348. his window open and he prays. Notice carefully,

  349. though, these acts were not rebellion for rebellion's

  350. sake. They were not driven by political outrage.

  351. They were not driven by personal preference.

  352. They were not driven by pride or arrogance. These

  353. instances occurred only when earthly authorities

  354. directly contradicted the clear commands of God.

  355. That's the consistent biblical principle. for

  356. us to consider because we do have a caveat here,

  357. yet we also have a qualification. Christians

  358. submit to governing authority unless commanded

  359. to do what God forbids or unless they're forbidden

  360. from doing what God commands. Ordinarily, Christians

  361. are to be marked by respectful submission, not...

  362. a rebellious spirit. If people know you as a

  363. rebel, I would venture to guess your life is

  364. not adorning the doctrine of God. If people see

  365. you as a rebel, as someone who will do what he

  366. wants to do when he wants to do it, and no one

  367. will tell him otherwise, if that is your modus

  368. operandi, if that is your MO, you might consider

  369. changing your ways, Christian. Now, I'm not saying

  370. you shouldn't be individualistic, and I'm not

  371. saying you shouldn't be self -sufficient. I'm

  372. not even suggesting that you shouldn't be your

  373. own man or woman. But you need to do those things

  374. with a view toward what God has commanded in

  375. Scripture. remembering that you are under authority.

  376. And if you are not under the authority of your

  377. civil government, if you are constantly stepping

  378. out from under that authority, you must remember

  379. also that you are stepping out from under the

  380. authority of God because he himself ordained

  381. civil authority. Christians should be marked,

  382. as I said, by respectful submission and not a

  383. rebellious spirit. Even when we disagree, Even

  384. when rulers are flawed, we have nothing but flawed

  385. rulers in the United States of America and in

  386. the state of Illinois. And for those of you who

  387. reside in Indiana, I know you think that you're

  388. so much better because you're a red state, but

  389. I have to tell you, your leaders are quite flawed

  390. as well. Very flawed. Extremely flawed. Even

  391. when the culture around us is increasingly...

  392. hostile to biblical truth, Christians should

  393. be marked by respectful submission. This is especially

  394. important for us to remember in our current cultural

  395. climate. Many people today have cultivated a

  396. spirit of perpetual outrage and defiance. Amen?

  397. But Christians are called to display wisdom,

  398. humility, restraint, and trust. I love this line.

  399. And you know, of course, it seems I would. I

  400. wrote it. Christians are called to display wisdom,

  401. humility, restraint, and trust. Now get this,

  402. because most of you in this room are Calvinistic,

  403. most of you are Reformed Baptists, and trust

  404. in God's sovereign authority over all earthly

  405. rulers. I confess to you there are things happening

  406. now. at the hands of people that I voted for,

  407. for the exact opposite reasons of what they're

  408. doing, and it is tempting for me to sit around

  409. and badmouth those people constantly, to remind

  410. everybody, yeah, I voted for him, but I don't

  411. agree with what he's doing now, right? It's easy

  412. for us to think in those terms. It's easy for

  413. us to operate in that way. But if we truly believe

  414. God is sovereign, that God is in control even

  415. of the president of the United States or the

  416. governor of the state of Illinois, that's tough.

  417. It's a hard one, isn't it? But if we believe

  418. he is sovereign over all things, then we can

  419. still submit so long as they're not commanding

  420. us to do something God forbids or forbidding

  421. us from doing something God commands. I say all

  422. of that to you knowing that I may be the worst

  423. offender of the bunch. Ordinarily, Christians

  424. must live in subjection to legitimate governing

  425. authorities because authority itself has been

  426. established by God. We mentioned this earlier.

  427. And of course, your mind probably goes immediately

  428. to Romans chapter 13, right? Every person is

    Romans 13 chapter mention

  429. to be in subjection to the governing authorities

  430. for there is no authority except from God. And

  431. those which exist are established by God. Therefore,

  432. whoever resists authority has opposed the ordinance

  433. of God. and they who have opposed will receive

  434. condemnation upon themselves. Who's going to

  435. punish you? I mean, ultimately, who's going to

  436. punish you for disregarding that authority? It's

  437. actually not them. The condemnation that we'll

  438. receive upon ourselves, it's very much implicit

  439. here, but it's clear God is going to punish us.

  440. We will face... We will face circumstances that

  441. God in his sovereignty will bring about in order

  442. to correct us. Even in a place like Crete, which

  443. was known for disorder and moral instability,

  444. believers were called to display godliness publicly

  445. by obeying legitimate authority. And even today,

  446. Christians, we must do the same. Notice also

  447. in verse 1, Paul says believers must be ready

  448. for every good deed. The Christian life, it is

  449. not passive. We are not merely avoiding evil.

  450. We must pursue that which is good. We're not

  451. simply avoiding evil, but we're supposed to pursue

  452. goodness and godly living. Matthew 5, 16, Jesus

  453. said, Let your light shine before men in such

  454. a way. that they may see your good works and

  455. glorify your Father who is in heaven. Verse 2,

  456. Paul addresses the Christian speech and attitude

  457. toward others. And this really cuts directly

  458. against the spirit of our age. The world thrives

  459. on slander and public humiliation. It rejoices

  460. in constant outrage and division, but the church

  461. is supposed to be different, not weak. Not compromising

  462. on truth. And certainly in broader evangelicalism

  463. and in the mainline denominations, we have seen

  464. such compromise. That has happened, right? But

  465. we should be peaceable, gentle, and considerate

  466. of everyone, showing consideration for all men,

  467. as Paul words it here. Philippians 2 .14 -15,

  468. do all things without grumbling or disputing.

  469. That's a great one to give your kids as a very

  470. simple memory verse if you ever want to use that

  471. one. Do all things without grumbling or disputing

  472. so that you will prove yourselves to be blameless

  473. and innocent, children of God above reproach

  474. in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation

  475. among whom you appear as lights in the world.

  476. Do you want to be a light in the world? I want

  477. to be a light in the world. I do not want to

  478. fade into the shadows. Right? I want to burn

  479. brightly, and then one day, by God's grace, I

  480. want to burn out. James 1, 19 through 20. This

  481. you know, my beloved brethren, but everyone must

  482. be quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to

  483. anger, for the anger of man does not achieve

  484. the righteousness of God. Yelling and screaming.

  485. even if it's just in all caps in a comment thread

  486. on YouTube or Facebook or wherever else you kids

  487. go, is not what God wants. That anger does not

  488. achieve the righteousness of God. This is deeply

  489. practical for us. Right here and right now, this

  490. is practical for us. It applies to our lives.

  491. How do you speak to people? Whether you're online

  492. or you're person -to -person, face -to -face.

  493. How do you speak to or about your co -workers?

  494. Not just when you're with them, but when you're

  495. talking with someone else. How do you engage

  496. in political discourse? How do you interact with

  497. difficult people? I don't know how many of you

  498. have public -facing jobs. But that is one area

  499. that can be kind of hard sometimes. And I think

  500. about the way I have talked to and the way I've

  501. talked about some people in the course of doing

  502. business, and I feel pretty convicted. And I

  503. want to set those things aside. Because what

  504. I've noticed over time is that when I allow those

  505. things to constantly rile me up, I'm only hurting

  506. myself. You know what? The gospel of grace should

  507. visibly shape the Christian's conduct. It should

  508. fashion our conduct in society by changing how

  509. we interact with authority. It should train us

  510. to be at peace with those who are around us,

  511. to be gentle with our speech and in our deeds.

  512. I once heard someone say, Dustin, you're a kind

  513. person. And it really actually kind of bothered

  514. me. For one thing, I thought, you're probably

  515. lying. You don't really feel that way. And I

  516. thought, you know, to me, I don't want to be

  517. a kind person. I'm a strong person. I mean, I'm

  518. not a big guy, but I have a big personality.

  519. I have a loud voice. I don't want to be kind.

  520. I want to be forceful. I want to be dynamic.

  521. Right? I can tell you, I look back on that. And

  522. that was the wrong attitude. To some extent,

  523. we should be kind. We should be generous with

  524. our attitude and our disposition toward others.

  525. We should show consideration for everyone. Some

  526. of us may not struggle with these things like

  527. others do. So to keep us from becoming self -righteous,

  528. In hearing these commands, Paul immediately reminds

  529. us who we once were. And he does so by describing

  530. our former condition in verse 3. Again, our former

  531. condition in verse 3. Look there with me again.

  532. For we also once were foolish ourselves, disobedient,

  533. deceived, enslaved to various lusts and pleasures,

  534. spending our life in malice and envy, hateful,

  535. hating one another. There are a lot of people

  536. in this room who have grown up in church their

  537. entire lives who have really never tasted the

  538. sinful, debauched lifestyle that some others

  539. in this room have. And I think that that is,

  540. number one, glorious and wonderful. And in the

  541. same breath, I think there's a danger to it because

  542. the tendency among people... who have never really

  543. dealt with truly sinful behavior in their lives,

  544. have a tendency to think that they've never really

  545. been sinful people. And that's why I think this

  546. is so helpful right here in the middle of this,

  547. what are we in, the last 15 verses of the letter

  548. that Paul brings it up. In case you're tempted,

  549. To think that you are somehow better. Let me

  550. remind you, Titus, and share this with your congregation.

  551. Paul is writing under the inspiration of the

  552. Holy Spirit. And I love the humility he shows.

  553. Because he doesn't say, you were once. He says,

  554. for we... also wants worth. For we also wants

  555. worth. It kills pride. It destroys spiritual

  556. arrogance and spiritual pride. Spiritual pride

  557. is a very real thing. Christians must never look

  558. at unbelievers as though we are naturally superior,

  559. and we must never compare ourselves to one another.

  560. He writes, we were. What's he say? What were

  561. we? Well, we were foolish. Boy, that hurts. Thanks.

  562. We were disobedient. We were deceived. Nobody

  563. deceives me. Right? We were enslaved to various

  564. lusts and pleasures. We were spending our lives

  565. in malice and envy. We were hateful and hating

  566. one another. This is the natural condition of

  567. fallen humanity. This is what sin has done to

  568. the human race. And apart from God's grace, we

  569. would still... Be like them. Paul writes in Ephesians

  570. 2, 1 through 3, And you were dead in your trespasses

  571. and sins, in which you formerly walked according

  572. to the course of this world, according to the

  573. prince of the power of the air, of the spirit

  574. that is now working in the sons of disobedience.

  575. Among them we too all formerly lived in the lusts

  576. of our flesh, indulging the desires of the flesh

  577. and of the mind, and were by nature children

  578. of wrath. even as the rest. Here's what you were,

  579. even if you've grown up in church, even if you've

  580. never tasted alcohol or smoked a cigarette or

  581. rolled a joint or whatever you want to say, you've

  582. never looked at perverted content on the internet,

  583. whatever. Pick your poison. You may never have

  584. done any of those things, but you, too, were

  585. once like them. 1 Corinthians 6 .11, we're reminded,

  586. Such were some of you, but you were washed, but

  587. you were sanctified, but you were justified in

  588. the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and in the

  589. Spirit of our God. Christian, never forget where

  590. God found you. Never forget where God found you.

  591. I may have shared this story, but it's probably

  592. been long enough ago you don't remember it. I

  593. heard a story of two young men who had been adopted

  594. into two separate families. And one of these

  595. young men was pretty proud and boastful, and

  596. it was in the midst of a class. I don't know

  597. if it was a college level or high school or what

  598. it was, but he stood up and he started bad -mouthing

  599. his parents who had adopted him. And the other

  600. young man sat there and listened to him, waited

  601. for him to finish, and then he stood up and said,

  602. You know, my parents aren't perfect. But I know

  603. where they came to get me. I know what they saved

  604. me from. And so I will honor them. Perhaps you

  605. should do the same. Don't forget where you were

  606. when God found you. Don't forget the condition

  607. you were in when God saved you. We... We're not

  608. saved because we were wiser. You and I were not

  609. saved because we were morally superior. You and

  610. I were not saved because we were more deserving.

  611. We were saved by the grace of God alone. And

  612. that really leads Paul directly into the theological

  613. essence, if you will, of this passage. It's in

  614. verses 4 -7 where he describes our gracious salvation.

  615. Verse 4, but when the kindness of God our Savior

  616. and His love for mankind appeared, we just heard

  617. that word appeared in the previous study, He

  618. saved us not on the basis of deeds which we have

  619. done in righteousness, but according to His mercy

  620. by the washing of regeneration and renewing by

  621. the Holy Spirit whom He poured out upon us richly

  622. through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that being

  623. justified by His grace, we would be made heirs

  624. according to the hope of eternal life. Verse

  625. 4 gives us one of the most... Beautiful contrasts

  626. in Scripture. That word, but. But, when the kindness

  627. of God our Savior and His love for mankind appeared,

  628. what a glorious interruption indeed. We were

  629. lost in sin, dead in rebellion, enslaved and

  630. corrupted, but God intervened by saving us. And

  631. notice what motivated Him to save us. It was

  632. the kindness of God. Certainly, it's for His

  633. glory. But he's motivated by his kindness and

  634. by his love. Verse 5, we see the very heart of

  635. the gospel. He saved us not on the basis of deeds,

  636. which we've done in righteousness, but according

  637. to his mercy. Salvation is not earned. It is

  638. not deserved. Salvation is not achieved through

  639. human effort. Paul writes in Ephesians 2, 8 and

  640. 9, we know this because we talk about it all

  641. the time. For by grace you have been saved through

  642. faith and that not of yourselves. It is the gift

  643. of God, not as a result of works, so that no

  644. one may boast. We're saved by grace, by grace,

  645. not by works, not by works. There is no boasting

  646. in your salvation because you did not do it.

  647. There is no boasting because God alone, has done

  648. the work of saving you. He goes on in the remainder

  649. of verse 5 to describe salvation as being accomplished

  650. by the washing of regeneration and renewing by

  651. the Holy Spirit. He speaks of being born again,

  652. spiritual rebirth. Think of John chapter 3. God

    John 3 chapter mention

  653. does not merely improve people. Right? This is

  654. not a home improvement project. This is demo.

  655. and starting over with a brand new foundation

  656. and building up the whole house. He makes us

  657. new. 2 Corinthians 5, 17, Therefore, if anyone

  658. is in Christ, he is a new creature, right? The

  659. old things passed away, but behold, new things

  660. have come. By God's grace, the Holy Spirit renews

  661. the sinner from within, changing desires and

  662. affections, and He changes our behavior too.

  663. And you notice that there is a Trinitarian work

  664. that's taking place here, which is also beautiful

  665. to see and helps build up our faith. Oftentimes

  666. people struggle to defend the doctrine of the

  667. Trinity, but here it is clearly displayed. God

  668. the Father saves, the Holy Spirit regenerates

  669. and renews, and salvation comes through Jesus

  670. Christ our Savior and through Him alone. Verse

  671. 6 makes that absolutely clear when he writes,

  672. whom he poured out upon us, that's referring

  673. back to the Spirit, richly through Jesus Christ,

  674. our Savior. Next, Paul brings us to the result

  675. of our salvation, that being justified by his

  676. grace, we would be made heirs according to the

  677. hope of eternal life. Verse 7, this is who we

  678. are now. This is our position. It is our standing

  679. in Christ. We are justified, forgiven, we've

  680. been adopted, and now we are hope. filled heirs

  681. of eternal life. It's precisely why Christians

  682. live differently from the world around them,

  683. isn't it? At the very least, it's why we should.

  684. Because our conduct flows from this grace. Holiness

  685. is not the cause of salvation. We know this.

  686. We know this. Holiness is not the cause of salvation.

  687. But it is the fruit. of our glorious salvation.

  688. And it was brought about by the sovereign triune

  689. God. The gospel of grace creates a new people

  690. whose conduct adorns the doctrine of God, a new

  691. people whose lives are marked by godliness. So

  692. Paul finishes this section by pointing to our

  693. need for unity in the church in verses 8 through

  694. 11. Very quickly, this is a trustworthy statement

  695. concerning these things. I want you to speak

  696. confidently so that those who have believed God

  697. will be careful to engage in good deeds. These

  698. things are good and profitable for men, but avoid

  699. foolish controversies and genealogies and strife

  700. and disputes about the law, for they are unprofitable

  701. and worthless. Reject a factious man after a

  702. first and second warning, knowing that such a

  703. man is perverted and is sinning, being self -condemned.

  704. Verse 8 says that it's a trustworthy statement,

  705. and he tells Titus to speak. confidently about

  706. these things. Clearly, Paul expects Titus and

  707. us by extension to preach these truths boldly,

  708. consistently, and with authority. Why? So that

  709. those who believe God will be careful to engage

  710. in good deeds. There are a lot of Christians

  711. in a lot of churches around this country who

  712. are not engaging in good deeds and who are in

  713. a very real sense withering on the vine because

  714. their preachers don't speak the truth of God

  715. boldly and confidently. A lot of Christians are

  716. emaciated. They are withering because their preachers

  717. don't preach the truth. Doctrine and godliness

  718. belong together. We've seen it over and over.

  719. They are inseparable. Right belief produces right

  720. practice. Proper understanding brings about proper

  721. living. And Paul gives a warning to Titus in

  722. verse 9, but avoid foolish controversies and

  723. genealogies and strifes and disputes about the

  724. law. Now, I could really go off on a tangent,

  725. but I won't. And you're all like, thank you.

  726. I could go off on a tangent right here. Many

  727. of you guys in particular know exactly where

  728. that tangent would be headed because we talk

  729. about these things a lot. Avoid foolish controversies.

  730. and genealogies and strife and disputes about

  731. the law. These things destroy churches. Let me

  732. tell you something. Not every argument is profitable.

  733. That's a fact. That is a stone -cold fact. Not

  734. every argument, though it might be disguised

  735. as genuine concern, right? Though it may have

  736. the flavor, a robust theological discussion.

  737. Not every one of those arguments, not every one

  738. of those debates is a good thing. Because sometimes

  739. those arguments, especially when they're about

  740. foolish things, do nothing but hinder our unity

  741. as a church. Not every debate is good. Not every

  742. debate is godly. Some people simply love conflict.

  743. So they will argue about anything. Paul says

  744. these things are unprofitable and worthless.

  745. Then comes the difficult but necessary instruction

  746. in verse 10. Reject a factious man after a first

  747. and second warning. A divisive person is dangerous

  748. to the church. Division destroys fellowship,

  749. it destroys trust, and division destroys unity.

  750. Notice, however, that patience and grace are

  751. built into this command. First, there is a first

  752. warning. Then there is a second warning because

  753. the goal is restoration, much like Matthew 18,

  754. right? The goal is repentance and peace. But

  755. if someone persists in divisiveness, Paul says

  756. they must eventually be rejected or removed from

  757. the church, knowing that such a man, as Paul

  758. words it in verse 11, is perverted and is sinning,

  759. being self -condemned. Not because the church

  760. is harsh, not because the church is unkind, but

  761. because the church is worth protecting. The church

  762. is worth defending. So eventually, that patience,

  763. that grace, that rope that you're lending them,

  764. it runs out. And they have to be corrected. They

  765. have to be, in some cases, removed. Paul also

  766. wrote of this in Romans 16. Now I urge you, brethren,

  767. keep your eye on those who cause dissensions

  768. and hindrances, contrary to the teaching which

  769. you learned, and turn away from them. We might

  770. be tempted to think such a step is unloving,

  771. but Scripture clearly teaches the necessity of

  772. protecting the church from those who seek to

  773. divide us. You know, when we look at... Titus

    Titus 3:1–11

  774. chapter 3, verses 1 through 11, a beautiful picture

  775. of the fruit of the gospel emerges. We can see

  776. how the grace of God changes Christians and causes

  777. us to live rightly in society. We become peaceable,

  778. gentle, submissive. We become ready for good

  779. works. We're humbled by the grace of God because

  780. we're reminded of who and what we once were.

  781. We see that the grace of God saves us entirely

  782. by His mercy, not by our works or some righteousness

  783. of our own, but through Christ alone. And we

  784. can see that the grace of God produces a unified

  785. and godly, ordered church of people who are devoted

  786. to good works, of people committed to truth,

  787. of people who protect the peace, unity, and purity

  788. of Christ's body, lest we forget. We are the

  789. bride of Christ. I know many of you men can identify

  790. with this sentiment. I feel very strongly about

  791. my wife. And I will defend her purity against

  792. anyone. If I feel that way about my own wife,

  793. how should I feel about the church? Church, The

  794. world should see something different in us. We

  795. get to do this one more week. I've enjoyed this

  796. immensely. It has been sanctifying for me. I

  797. hope it's been beneficial for you and we'll wrap

  798. up next week. But the world should see something

  799. different in us. I think if you could just kind

  800. of... Make it all fit in one phrase. I think

  801. that's what I would say. It's simple. It's poignant.

  802. It's in common language. The world should see

  803. us differently. When we interact with them individually

  804. in our daily lives, we should be different. They

  805. should say to themselves when they get done talking

  806. to us, when they deal with us in a business transaction,

  807. when they see us at school. When we go and work

  808. on the assembly line or when we're talking to

  809. another farmer while we're waiting in the line

  810. at the elevator, whatever it is, those people

  811. should walk away from a conversation with you

  812. and they should say, wow, something is different

  813. about them. And when they see the witness, the

  814. corporate witness of our church, they should

  815. feel the same. We should be different. We should

  816. live in such a way that our conduct conforms

  817. to and confirms the doctrine we profess. May

  818. our lives bear witness to the transforming power

  819. of the gospel of grace in Jesus Christ our Savior.

  820. May we become citizens of grace who reflect the

  821. beauty, glory, and majesty of our great God and

  822. Savior, not only in our individual lives, but

  823. also here in His church.