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The Reality Of Fear

Grace Fellowship Church

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  1. When was the last time that you were afraid?

  2. What was the last thing that you were afraid

  3. of? And we can think of kind of funny things,

  4. but we can also think of more serious things

  5. in life. The front row. So what is the last thing

  6. that you have been afraid of? Even today, how

  7. has fear occupied your mind? How has fear manifested

  8. itself in your mind? Even today, even within

  9. the last hour, I dare say that there are some

  10. in this room who possibly were... dealing with

  11. fearfulness even before coming to worship this

  12. evening. We read in 2 Timothy, the Apostle Paul

  13. writing to young Timothy, we read these words,

  14. For God has not given us a spirit of timidity,

  15. but of power and love and discipline. The true

  16. spirit of Christianity is not one of fear, timidity,

  17. or cowardice. The true spirit of Christianity

  18. is a spirit of power, love, and discipline. And

  19. what he's teaching us there is that God has given

  20. us power or strength to face difficulties. God

  21. has given us a love that is outward looking,

  22. that compels us and drives us to others to embrace

  23. hardship or things that might be fearful for

  24. the sake of others. But it also teaches us that

  25. the Christian can control their minds in order

  26. to deal with the fear at hand. Let's go ahead

  27. and pray. And then we'll start our message. Father,

  28. we come to you tonight and we thank you this

  29. evening for the many good things that you have

  30. given to us in life. We thank you that we can

  31. come together and worship. Father, we thank you

  32. that we can come together and laugh and fellowship

  33. and encourage and strengthen one another. Father,

  34. we thank you most of all that we can come together

  35. and worship you. Lord, that we can come together

  36. and hear from your word, that we can hear from

  37. you. Lord, bless our time as we consider what

  38. it means to understand fear and what it means

  39. to overcome fear as believers in Jesus Christ.

  40. I ask a special blessing upon these messages,

  41. Lord. I ask these things in Christ's name. Amen.

  42. Fear is one of the most universal realities in

  43. existence. It transcends age, culture, personality,

  44. social status, and even historical period. It's

  45. present everywhere. Every human being, in one

  46. way or another, has been afraid, and experiences

  47. fear in their life. Some fears are outward and

  48. visible. They're obvious and clear. Others are

  49. hidden deep within the heart. Some fears come

  50. suddenly in moments of crisis, while others quietly

  51. linger in the soul, unseen over long periods

  52. of time. Fear may arise through suffering, uncertainty,

  53. guilt, danger, loneliness, rejection, persecution,

  54. sickness, failure, or the approach of death.

  55. Whether it is acknowledged openly or remains

  56. unseen, in the heart, fear is a prevalent aspect

  57. of life in a fallen world. And I would even say

  58. that fear is something that is propagated and

  59. encouraged on social media platforms. It is something

  60. that the world seeks to enhance and expand to

  61. obtain your attention. Scripture speaks frequently

  62. about fear. The Bible does not present fear as

  63. something experienced only by... weak people

  64. or immature believers, nor is it presented as

  65. a rare or isolated reality. Rather, fear is shown

  66. to be a common part of human experience, even

  67. among faithful believers. Abraham feared, Moses

  68. feared, David feared, the list goes on, and we'll

  69. consider some of those later. It's apparent that

  70. even strong and godly believers wrestle with

  71. fearfulness in their lives. Understanding this

  72. reality is important because the Christian is

  73. called to be courageous in faith, to be bold

  74. in faith, and not to be dominated and mastered

  75. by fear in their lives. Some imagine that fear

  76. itself automatically indicates spiritual failure,

  77. or sin. Others minimize fear altogether, treating

  78. it merely as an emotional weakness or personality

  79. temperament or personal flaw. Scripture, however,

  80. presents fear as a powerful reality that is connected

  81. to human weakness, the fall, sin, guilt, and

  82. unbelief in this world. To understand fear rightly,

  83. the first thing we have to grasp is this. Fear

  84. is universal. It is universal. Because all mankind

  85. lives under the effects of the fall. Since sin

  86. entered the world, suffering, uncertainty, weakness,

  87. pain, and death have become part of human existence.

  88. Fear is a reality for every person because every

  89. person lives in a broken and fallen world. Ecclesiastes

  90. describes life in the fallen world as marked

  91. by uncertainty. Man does not know his time. Like

  92. fish caught in a treacherous net and birds trapped

  93. in a snare, so the sons of men are ensnared at

  94. an evil time when it suddenly falls on them.

  95. Ecclesiastes 9 .12. Human beings cannot control

  96. the future. Human beings cannot guarantee safety.

  97. Human beings cannot secure perfect health and

  98. fitness. They cannot make absolute provision

  99. in their life or others. They cannot guarantee

  100. relationships that are unbroken. They cannot

  101. guarantee life itself. Tomorrow is not promised

  102. to you and it is not promised to me. Sickness

  103. comes to those who never expect it. Bankruptcy

  104. strikes those who never wanted it, never longed

  105. for it, never thought about it. We lose loved

  106. ones suddenly out of nowhere. These realities

  107. create vulnerability, and vulnerability often

  108. exposes and produces what? Fear in the life of

  109. God's people. Even those who appear confident

  110. and courageous are not free from it. That's important.

  111. Maybe you have this individual in mind. They're

  112. strong. They're firm. They're like an oak tree.

  113. They don't move. They don't go to the right.

  114. They don't go to the left. They've never changed.

  115. They're infallible. They're inerrant. They've

  116. never feared in their life. No. That's not a

  117. reality. Every single person has been afraid

  118. of something. Whether it's suffering, While others

  119. fear rejection, maybe some are afraid of failure

  120. and others the appearance of failure or the appearance

  121. of weakness. Others fear loneliness, instability,

  122. shame, death, judgment. Some fear the future

  123. or abandonment or the idea of loss of control.

  124. Fear manifests itself differently and in a variety

  125. of forms from person to person. How does fear

  126. manifest itself in your life? How does it show

  127. its ugly little head, we could say, in your heart?

  128. How does it manifest itself in your thinking,

  129. in your heart? There are even specific seasons.

  130. which make people especially prone to fear, such

  131. as sickness, war, persecution, financial hardship,

  132. a variety of things. A brief summary of history

  133. reveals that people do, in fact, understand the

  134. nature of fear to some degree. And why do I say

  135. that? Because entire nations have leveraged fear

  136. for profit, motivation, and for different agendas.

  137. Isn't this why nations have used propaganda in

  138. times of war? Fear and to bolster confidence

  139. and courage? Isn't this why newspapers have leveraged

  140. certain headlines? Because they understand that

  141. fear can be played upon. They understand that

  142. fear can be manipulated. Tyrants and monarchs

  143. use threats to persuade the masses. Legal systems

  144. utilize fear in dealing out penalties and fines.

  145. Humanity understands the reality of fear to some

  146. extent. Young children know this. Isn't this

  147. why they so often or sometimes try to jump out

  148. and scare their moms or their dads with snakes?

  149. Whatever it might be, fear is a universal reality.

  150. Among all people, everywhere, for all time, and

  151. something for which everyone always needs a remedy.

  152. If you are here today, you have fear that needs

  153. to be remedied. If you are present, you have

  154. fearfulness in your heart that needs an antidote.

  155. Now we also must understand that fear entered

  156. the world through sin. The Bible teaches that

  157. fear, in its sinful and tormenting form, entered

  158. the world through the fall of man. Before sin

  159. entered creation, Adam and Eve lived openly,

  160. freely, and transparently before their maker.

  161. There was no sinful... tormenting fear in their

  162. hearts. There is no alienation between God and

  163. man. There is no dread of judgment or condemnation.

  164. There is no fear of death. Before, there was

  165. no fear. After the fall, there was fear. Immediately

  166. after sin enters the world, Fear follows the

  167. fall. When God called to Adam after the fall,

  168. he responds, I heard the sound of you in the

  169. garden and I was afraid because I was naked.

  170. So I hid myself, Genesis 3 .10. This is the first

  171. explicit mention of fear in the scriptures. Adam's

  172. fear arose from sin, guilt, and unbelief. The

  173. one before whom Adam once walked freely, he now

  174. is the one that Adam is afraid of and he runs

  175. away from. He hides himself. This moment reveals

  176. something really, really helpful about the nature

  177. of fear. It reveals that fear is not primarily

  178. something that's superficial. or even external,

  179. outside of us or at the surface. But the fear

  180. is something that is theological and spiritual.

  181. Fear is connected to the broken relationship

  182. between God and man. Something that's brought

  183. about as a result of sin. The fall introduced

  184. guilt before God is judged. Shame upon the conscience,

  185. corruption in the heart, judgment upon creation,

  186. suffering in the world, sorrow into human experience,

  187. and mortality, and ultimately, what? Death. Fear,

  188. therefore, became woven into the fabric of creation

  189. and existence because humanity now lives in a

  190. world under the judgment of God, and men are

  191. rebels before their maker. Now, there's a third

  192. thing we have to understand if we're going to

  193. grasp the reality of fear. And that is that fear

  194. exists because humanity is finite and weak. Fear

  195. is also connected to human weakness and finiteness.

  196. Human beings are creatures. Human beings are

  197. not God. Human beings do not possess infinite

  198. wisdom. Human beings do not possess infinite

  199. power and knowledge or control. We cannot see

  200. the future. You cannot see the future. We cannot

  201. control outcomes. No matter how hard a person

  202. wants to carnally manipulate or work a situation,

  203. human beings do not have the ability to control

  204. outcomes. Human beings cannot eliminate suffering

  205. and make perfect ease. We cannot prevent death.

  206. No matter how hard the world tries, death will

  207. always come to them. We cannot govern providence.

  208. That's because we are creatures in this world.

  209. We are part of the created order, brothers and

  210. sisters. We are not God. This limitation is part

  211. of our creatureliness. Humanity was never designed

  212. to function independently from God. Fear often

  213. intensifies when people become deeply aware of

  214. their inability to control circumstances. Things

  215. such as illness and suffering and whatever else

  216. reveals to them that they are weak, that they

  217. are needy, that they are a creature. The Psalms

  218. interact with this reality a great deal. David

  219. says this, when my anxious thoughts multiply

  220. within me, your consolations delight my soul.

  221. Psalm 94, 19. Think about those anxious thoughts

  222. multiplying within him. This multiplication of

  223. anxious thoughts reflects the reality that David

  224. is a creature. He is feeble. He is finite. He

  225. is frail. It reflects the reality of human weakness

  226. in a world filled with uncertainty. Scripture

  227. never presents believers as naturally fearless

  228. people. Rather, the people of God are repeatedly,

  229. time and time again, shown to be prone to fear,

  230. as those who are learning to trust God. in the

  231. midst of difficult situations. That's what the

  232. Bible presents regarding the people of God. John

  233. Calvin has a great statement. He says, we are

  234. not iron. Now, it's short and sweet, but what

  235. a great statement. What does Calvin mean when

  236. he says, we are not iron? Well, he means this,

  237. that we are not impervious. to trials. We are

  238. not unaffected by hardship. We are not machines,

  239. brothers and sisters. We are people with affections.

  240. We have feelings and emotions and affections

  241. and longings. We are creatures made by God. Believers

  242. wrestle with anxiety. Believers wrestle with

  243. confliction in their soul. They wrestle with

  244. struggles in their hearts. Christians have to

  245. deal with anxiety and stress. Why? Because Christians

  246. are still weak, needy, and finite. That doesn't

  247. change when you become a Christian. Christians

  248. are still weak. They're still needy. And they're

  249. still... finite creatures. Now we also have to

  250. understand the fourth thing, and this is that

  251. fear is not limited to the ungodly. There may

  252. be the temptation to think, well, it's the sinners

  253. who don't know Christ that struggle with fear.

  254. It's those outside of Christ that don't know

  255. Christ that wrestle with these realities. Scripture

  256. teaches that fear is experienced by believers

  257. and unbelievers alike. It is not limited to the

  258. wicked or the ungodly. Even faithful, godly men

  259. and women struggle with fear. Abraham feared

  260. Pharaoh and lied concerning Sarah. Isaac feared

  261. the men of Gerar and lied concerning Rebecca.

  262. Jacob feared Esau when preparing to meet him

  263. again. Joseph's brothers feared judgment because

  264. of their guilt concerning Joseph. Moses feared

  265. speaking because of his weakness and inability.

  266. Joshua feared the immense responsibility of leading

  267. millions of people. Gideon feared his own family

  268. and the men of the city. Manoah feared death

  269. after seeing the angel of the Lord. David feared,

  270. and he repeatedly wrote of it, the Psalms are

  271. full. of David's fearful confessions, brothers

  272. and sisters. Psalm 56 .3 says, When I am afraid,

  273. I will put my trust in you. That has the expectation

  274. that he will be afraid. Elijah feared Jezebel

  275. and fled into the wilderness after witnessing

  276. God's great power at Mount Carmel. The disciples

  277. feared storms, persecution, suffering, death,

  278. despite walking with the Lord Jesus Christ himself.

  279. Paul said, I was with you in weakness and in

  280. fear and in much trembling, 1 Corinthians 2 .3.

  281. We've only touched on a small number of the saints

  282. of old, brothers and sisters. We don't have the

  283. time to speak of them all. We could talk about

  284. Hannah, Eli, Elijah, Elisha, and we could go

  285. on and on and on. Time doesn't allow us to touch

  286. on all of them. The reality is that fear is a

  287. part of the believer's life, just as it is a

  288. part of the unbeliever's life. A simple lesson

  289. seems appropriate at this juncture. If you're

  290. here today and you struggle with some sort of

  291. fear, as a believer in Jesus Christ, if you wrestle

  292. with things in your heart that make you anxious,

  293. if you wrestle with things that make you afraid,

  294. listen well. You are not abnormal. You are not

  295. strange or deranged. And don't let anybody tell

  296. you that you are. You are not the weird one because

  297. you wrestle with fearfulness in your life. The

  298. truth is that the word of God testifies that

  299. fear is a common struggle in the saint's heart

  300. all throughout redemptive history. The experience

  301. of fear is not a novelty. in the Christian life,

  302. brothers and sisters. This is important to acknowledge.

  303. And why is this important to acknowledge? Because

  304. many believers do, in fact, wrongly assume that

  305. fear itself, the reality and the struggle of

  306. fear itself, proves spiritual failure or is evidence

  307. of spiritual immaturity. Yet scripture, repeatedly

  308. presents godly people wrestling with this reality.

  309. Learning to trust God in the midst of the valley,

  310. brothers and sisters. Learning to trust God as

  311. the darkness is looming, as it's going over them.

  312. It's not a novelty. Sinners living in a fallen

  313. world. Fear is a normative reality and experience

  314. for which there is a remedy, for which the word

  315. of God provides remedies. It is always needed

  316. in the life of the believer. It's guaranteed

  317. that if you go to one of the godliest people

  318. you know and you say, have you struggled? with

  319. fear in your life? They would inevitably say,

  320. yes. Fear is not a novelty in the Christian life.

  321. The difference we'll see is not the presence

  322. or the reality of fear, but how one relates to

  323. fear and how one responds to the reality of fear

  324. in their life. The last thing we have to consider

  325. is the reality of fear in the Christian life.

  326. So the issue is not whether believers will experience

  327. fear. They will. You will. I will. We all will.

  328. The issue is how believers respond to and remedy

  329. the fear that arises in their hearts. Believers

  330. are not instantly delivered from all difficulty

  331. and hardship upon conversion. Christians will

  332. face trials and suffering. Thus, they will experience

  333. fear in this life. Believers still have a remnant

  334. of sin. They're susceptible to backsliding, the

  335. effects of the fall, ignorance, and sin. Christian

  336. experience bears witness to this reality, that

  337. believers will face fear in their life. And the

  338. ultimate proof is that every believer still must

  339. face that one great enemy at the end of their

  340. life, the grave and death. But the difference

  341. is this. Though conversion doesn't remove all

  342. the difficulties and struggles, Upon conversion,

  343. the Christian's relationship to fear fundamentally

  344. changes because the believer now belongs to God

  345. through Christ and has been justified by the

  346. righteousness of Jesus Christ. They have been

  347. made new creatures in Christ. The truth is that...

  348. often it's upon conversion that a person actually

  349. begins to wrestle with their fears. They don't

  350. just bow down to them anymore. Now they start

  351. standing up to them and they start fighting back.

  352. Whereas the unregenerate man just receives and

  353. accepts and takes the beating over and over and

  354. over. The believer fights back in the inner man

  355. when fear rises. Because the converted man or

  356. woman as a new creature in Christ, they can now

  357. relate and respond to their own sin differently.

  358. And they do. The great hope of the gospel is

  359. this. Though, yes, Christians do have to deal

  360. with fear, the work of Jesus Christ has already

  361. dealt with their deepest, most essential fears,

  362. regardless of their experience of fear. in this

  363. life. So do you know what I'm saying there? Regardless

  364. of your experience of fear in this life, Christ

  365. has already dealt with the deepest root and the

  366. deepest problems in your life in the gospel.

  367. He's already dealt with the fear and the source

  368. of the fear. The gospel itself addresses Humanity's

  369. deepest fears. Those deep troubles of heart out

  370. of which come so many other anxieties and issues

  371. of life. Fear of condemnation. Fear of abandonment.

  372. Fear of death. Fear of judgment. Yet, because

  373. of the gospel and the work of Jesus Christ, God

  374. is reconciled to his people and his people are

  375. reconciled to him. Sin has been pardoned and

  376. forgiven in Christ. Death has been conquered.

  377. Providence is governed by a loving father for

  378. his people. Nothing can separate believers from

  379. the love of God. Christians still experience

  380. fear, but they no longer face it in the same

  381. way. The Christian is no longer mastered by fear

  382. in this life as one reconciled to God through

  383. Christ. Those in Christ are no longer rebels

  384. before God. They have been given a new position

  385. before the Lord, a new ruling principle in their

  386. hearts and a promise of a future where fear will

  387. be non -existent and be no more. No matter what

  388. a believer must endure, the gospel remains true,

  389. brothers and sisters. Hallelujah. Amen. Yes,

  390. the believer must endure pain and hardship in

  391. this life, but that doesn't change the fact that

  392. Jesus Christ died for sinners. Yes. The believer

  393. must experience opposition and suffering and

  394. persecution in this life, but that does not alter

  395. the reality of Christ's atoning death and his

  396. powerful resurrection. Yes, the believer must

  397. face trials which will induce fear in your hearts,

  398. but that does not negate the truth that Christ

  399. has satisfied the wrath of God. Yes, the believer

  400. must wrestle with sin and corruption, but that

  401. can't change the fact that the Spirit of God

  402. dwells within you, brothers and sisters. Yes,

  403. the believer must endure to the end, facing trial

  404. after trial and many dangers, but this does not

  405. change the reality that Jesus Christ is reigning

  406. and he will return one day in glory and power.

  407. None of that changes based on your experience.

  408. of fear in this life. Because of the gospel of

  409. Jesus Christ, the Christian relates to fear in

  410. a radically different way than those who don't

  411. know Jesus Christ. God, in his grace, has given

  412. believers remedies for fear, which, because of

  413. his grace, aid them in overcoming that fear in

  414. this life. Fear is an unavoidable reality in

  415. a fallen world. The Bible speaks honestly and

  416. openly about this reality. Fear reveals the frailty,

  417. the weakness, and the instability of men. Yet,

  418. God does not leave us without hope and help in

  419. this fight. God in his word repeatedly addresses

  420. fearful, frightened people. God in his word repeatedly

  421. over and over gives hope to fearful hearts. To

  422. understand fear rightly, we must understand both

  423. its nature, its cause, and its effects. Only

  424. then can we begin to understand the remedies

  425. that God has given for fear. So tonight, we considered

  426. the reality of fear. Next time, we'll consider

  427. the nature of fear.