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Spiritual Health Check-Up: How’s Your Heart

Pickens First Baptist Church

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  1. Here we are at the beginning of a new year, first Sunday of a new year.

  2. A lot of people have resolved to get in better physical condition.

  3. And that's good.

  4. Now, I don't want to point any fingers or anything like that.

  5. But a lot of us, and I'm one, we do need to get in better physical condition.

  6. And it's not just someone who's overweight.

  7. You can be, you know, appear to be in good shape and still not really be all that healthy.

  8. We need to be more health conscious.

  9. And at the top of our list, we need to take better care of our heart.

  10. You know this. It's no secret.

  11. Heart disease is the leading cause of death in both men and women in this country and really in the world.

  12. It is wise for us to pay close attention to the condition of our heart.

  13. That organ, this beating inside of our chest right now.

  14. But that's not the only heart we need to be concerned about.

  15. I want you to look with me.

  16. It's going to be on the screen.

  17. I want you to look at a passage, Proverbs chapter 4.

    Proverbs 4 chapter mention

  18. And it is a great example of how the Bible talks about the kind of heart that every Christian needs to be concerned about.

  19. Look at it.

  20. Proverbs chapter 4, verse 23.

    Proverbs 4:23

  21. He tells us,

  22. Keep your heart with all vigilance.

  23. For from it flow the springs of life.

  24. The ESV, English Standard Version, New American Standard,

  25. they're being more literal in trying to convey exactly how the Hebrew states it.

  26. The NIV is concerned about being accurate for sure.

  27. But the NIV puts it a little bit freer like this.

  28. Above all else, guard your heart for everything you do flows from it.

  29. On this first Sunday of the New Year,

  30. we need to understand that God considers guarding our hearts

  31. to be one of the top priorities,

  32. or should be one of the top priorities of our lives.

  33. Think with me.

  34. Look at the passage.

  35. One of life's top priorities for us should be

  36. guarding, protecting who we are on the inside.

  37. What the Bible calls our heart.

  38. You see, the condition of our heart

  39. affects everything about us.

  40. If we took the time to really just interact with one another this morning,

  41. sit down face to face,

  42. have a conversation with one another in depth

  43. about some substantive things,

  44. we could figure out

  45. the condition to a certain extent

  46. of each other's heart.

  47. You see,

  48. the condition of our heart

  49. affects our attitude.

  50. It affects our words.

  51. It affects our actions.

  52. The attitude of our heart

  53. affects the kind of relationship

  54. that we have with God.

  55. It reflects

  56. the kind of relationship

  57. that we have

  58. with other people.

  59. what's going on inside us,

  60. the condition of our heart.

  61. It affects our own well-being.

  62. Psychologically,

  63. emotionally,

  64. and to a certain extent,

  65. physically.

  66. The importance of this kind of

  67. heart health

  68. that I'm talking about

  69. will become

  70. more clear

  71. as we look at what Solomon

  72. and other biblical writers

  73. have to say about it.

  74. So I want you to pay close attention this morning.

  75. First Sunday of the new year,

  76. we're focusing on something

  77. that God makes clear,

  78. and it'll be even clearer to you

  79. as we go through this.

  80. God wants you and me

  81. to make

  82. protecting,

  83. guarding our hearts

  84. one of the top priorities

  85. of our lives

  86. every day.

  87. I want us to pray together

  88. and ask God

  89. to help us to really focus,

  90. take this seriously,

  91. and listen and learn

  92. how we can do this.

  93. Okay?

  94. Let's pray.

  95. Dear God,

  96. help each one of us

  97. in this room right now

  98. to see

  99. that through this book of wisdom,

  100. through this wise man,

  101. Solomon,

  102. you are giving us

  103. some of the most important

  104. and helpful counsel

  105. we could ever receive.

  106. Help us to understand that,

  107. to take it seriously,

  108. and to put forth the effort

  109. every day

  110. to guard our heart.

  111. In Jesus' name we pray.

  112. Amen.

  113. Let's think.

  114. What does it mean

  115. to guard our heart

  116. above all else?

  117. The first thing

  118. we need to be clear about

  119. is what this word heart

  120. is referring to

  121. in this passage,

  122. and in a lot of places

  123. when it's used like this,

  124. hundreds of places actually

  125. in the Bible.

  126. A lot of people think

  127. that when you talk about

  128. guarding your heart,

  129. doing something with your heart,

  130. you're just talking about

  131. your emotions

  132. and your feelings.

  133. Well, that's not true.

  134. It's more than that.

  135. When Solomon

  136. and the other biblical writers

  137. use the word heart,

  138. like we see here,

  139. he's talking about

  140. the depth of our being.

  141. He's talking about

  142. who we really are

  143. on the inside.

  144. Look at how Chuck Swindoll

  145. describes it.

  146. He says it refers

  147. to our inner being,

  148. our seat of consciousness,

  149. our core of decision making,

  150. the center of our mind,

  151. our emotions,

  152. and our will.

  153. When the Bible uses

  154. the word heart like this,

  155. when Solomon says

  156. guard your heart,

  157. he's talking about

  158. who you are

  159. deep down.

  160. He's talking about

  161. guard your thoughts

  162. and your attitudes.

  163. Guard your desires

  164. and your feelings.

  165. All of this.

  166. It's comprehensive.

  167. Now, I want you to note

  168. this is not just something

  169. that we can take casually

  170. because the Bible

  171. doesn't take it casually.

  172. Note what we're told to do.

  173. We're going to look

  174. at several things here

  175. in this one first half

  176. of the verse.

  177. The ESV,

  178. what I'm reading

  179. and what's on the screen,

  180. says keep your heart.

  181. The New American Standard

  182. says watch over your heart.

  183. And several translations

  184. like the New International Version

  185. say guard your heart.

  186. Solomon is saying to us

  187. this morning,

  188. keep a close eye

  189. on your heart.

  190. Watch it like a hawk.

  191. Guard it.

  192. Protect it.

  193. That's not all he says.

  194. Look at how we are instructed

  195. to guard our heart.

  196. It says with all vigilance.

  197. New American Standard says

  198. with all diligence.

  199. NIV above all else.

  200. God considers our heart

  201. to be crucial

  202. to our well-being

  203. in so many dimensions.

  204. listen.

  205. Guarding our hearts,

  206. our thoughts,

  207. our desires,

  208. it is vitally important

  209. if we really want to

  210. please God

  211. and live in close fellowship

  212. with Him

  213. and enjoy

  214. healthy relationships

  215. with other people.

  216. Let's think about

  217. this idea of guarding.

  218. What are you guarding

  219. right now?

  220. I would say

  221. that most everyone

  222. in here,

  223. when you left home

  224. this morning,

  225. you made sure

  226. you locked

  227. your house up.

  228. I know one man,

  229. not in this church,

  230. he is so consumed,

  231. obsessed

  232. with guarding

  233. his house.

  234. He's got all kinds

  235. of security cameras

  236. and everywhere he goes,

  237. including church

  238. every Sunday morning,

  239. he's sitting there.

  240. People think

  241. he's reading the Bible

  242. with his smartphone.

  243. He's watching

  244. his house.

  245. He's guarding

  246. his stuff

  247. and I'm not

  248. making that up.

  249. That's a fact.

  250. You probably

  251. locked your car.

  252. That's good.

  253. Wise.

  254. If you've got money

  255. in some kind of

  256. financial institution

  257. and you do anything

  258. with it,

  259. you take care of it,

  260. manage it mainly

  261. online,

  262. that,

  263. your money's

  264. password protected

  265. at least

  266. in two different ways.

  267. Even if you don't

  268. bank or do

  269. things online,

  270. you don't leave

  271. your bank

  272. passwords just

  273. lying around

  274. where anybody

  275. and everyone

  276. can come in

  277. and see it,

  278. do you?

  279. We protect

  280. our money.

  281. Let's think about

  282. something even

  283. more important.

  284. If you have

  285. children at home

  286. or if you have

  287. children like

  288. grandchildren,

  289. nieces and nephews

  290. that come into

  291. your home,

  292. don't you try

  293. to protect

  294. them?

  295. You don't let

  296. your little

  297. children just

  298. turn on the TV

  299. and watch

  300. whatever they

  301. want to watch,

  302. whatever's there,

  303. do you?

  304. Surely not.

  305. You don't let

  306. your children

  307. just have

  308. absolute free

  309. access to

  310. anything under

  311. the sun they

  312. want to look at

  313. online.

  314. You don't leave

  315. guns just out

  316. in the open,

  317. a loaded gun

  318. just where they

  319. can walk by

  320. and look at it,

  321. play with it,

  322. or anything like

  323. that.

  324. Things that we

  325. value, we

  326. guard, we

  327. protect.

  328. All of us do

  329. it.

  330. We are right

  331. now in some

  332. way familiar

  333. with what Solomon

  334. is saying here

  335. about we're

  336. guarding children.

  337. another person,

  338. money, house,

  339. something.

  340. What Solomon

  341. is telling us

  342. here now,

  343. in no way

  344. is the Bible

  345. or would God

  346. minimize the

  347. importance of

  348. guarding your

  349. stuff, protecting

  350. the people that

  351. you're responsible

  352. for.

  353. That's important.

  354. But on top of

  355. that, above

  356. all else,

  357. guard your

  358. heart.

  359. Now let's

  360. think about

  361. that.

  362. Do you

  363. guard what

  364. comes into

  365. your mind,

  366. what comes

  367. into your

  368. heart, what

  369. comes into

  370. your life,

  371. what you

  372. think about,

  373. what you

  374. dwell on,

  375. what you

  376. desire?

  377. Do you

  378. guard it as

  379. carefully, as

  380. faithfully, as

  381. diligently as you

  382. do this other

  383. stuff?

  384. or these important

  385. people in your

  386. life?

  387. That's where we

  388. need to start

  389. at this point.

  390. That's how

  391. serious God is

  392. in telling us to

  393. guard our hearts

  394. above all else,

  395. with all diligence,

  396. with all vigilance.

  397. We cannot guard

  398. our hearts

  399. enough.

  400. Now,

  401. it may be that we

  402. don't guard our

  403. hearts like we

  404. should because we

  405. don't understand why

  406. it's so important.

  407. So let's answer

  408. another question.

  409. Why should I guard

  410. my heart?

  411. Why should I do

  412. it?

  413. Well, Solomon

  414. answers that

  415. question with the

  416. next phrase.

  417. Look at it.

  418. For from it flow

  419. the springs of

  420. life.

  421. That's how the

  422. English Standard

  423. Version and the

  424. New American Standard

  425. translate that.

  426. The idea is like

  427. this.

  428. Our heart

  429. produces a

  430. stream of water.

  431. To use that

  432. illustration.

  433. It's like our

  434. heart produces a

  435. stream of water

  436. that continuously

  437. flows out from

  438. us and into the

  439. lives of other

  440. people.

  441. The NIV says it

  442. this way.

  443. For everything you

  444. do flows from

  445. it.

  446. Here's the idea.

  447. Whatever is in

  448. our hearts,

  449. whatever we're

  450. dwelling on,

  451. whatever is

  452. concerning us,

  453. whatever it is

  454. we're focused on,

  455. that is having an

  456. effect on people

  457. around us.

  458. What's in our

  459. heart is flowing

  460. out from us

  461. and it's touching

  462. the lives of your

  463. family members,

  464. your friends,

  465. people you work

  466. with, people you

  467. go to school with,

  468. whether you're

  469. conscious of it or

  470. not.

  471. I want you to look

  472. at something Jesus

  473. said about how

  474. that which is within

  475. us flows out.

  476. He explained it in

  477. Luke chapter 6

    Luke 6:45

  478. verse 45 very

  479. clearly.

  480. Look at it.

  481. The good person

  482. out of the good

  483. treasure of his

  484. heart produces

  485. good and the

  486. evil person out

  487. of his evil

  488. treasure produces

  489. evil.

  490. For out of the

  491. abundance of the

  492. heart his mouth

  493. speaks.

  494. I want you to

  495. think about some

  496. of the conversations

  497. you've had this

  498. past week.

  499. Think about some

  500. of the conversations

  501. you've had with

  502. your family members

  503. there in your

  504. home.

  505. Both good and

  506. not so good.

  507. Think about some

  508. of the things you

  509. and your buddies

  510. have talked about,

  511. some of your

  512. friends have talked

  513. about.

  514. Think about some

  515. of the things,

  516. topics,

  517. attitudes that have

  518. come forth as

  519. you've talked with

  520. your co-workers.

  521. That which we have

  522. spoken of,

  523. been excited about,

  524. been angry about,

  525. that which we have

  526. emphasized this

  527. past week.

  528. It has revealed the

  529. condition of our

  530. heart.

  531. The attitudes we

  532. display, the words

  533. that we speak, are a

  534. good indication of

  535. how seriously we have

  536. taken this command to

  537. guard our hearts

  538. above all else.

  539. Now, I want to

  540. pause here for a

  541. moment.

  542. Think about what

  543. Jesus is saying in

  544. this verse, the

  545. first part of it.

  546. The good person,

  547. out of the good

  548. treasure of his

  549. heart, produces

  550. good.

  551. Now, I'm sure

  552. there's people in

  553. this room, you're

  554. thinking, well, I

  555. thought the Bible

  556. only talked about

  557. our hearts being

  558. evil.

  559. And may have

  560. come to your mind

  561. a verse like

  562. Jeremiah 17, 9.

  563. Look at it.

  564. The heart is

  565. deceitful above

  566. all things and

  567. desperately sick.

  568. Who can understand

  569. it?

  570. Jeremiah is

  571. pointing out how

  572. we are all born

  573. with a sinful

  574. nature.

  575. How sin has

  576. corrupted everything

  577. about us, the way

  578. that we think.

  579. Sin causes us to

  580. be selfish and

  581. self-centered.

  582. Think more in

  583. terms of how I can

  584. live life.

  585. my way to

  586. please me instead

  587. of God's way to

  588. please him or

  589. even to please

  590. other people.

  591. There is much

  592. evil about us and

  593. our hearts in no

  594. way are pure because

  595. we're born with a

  596. sinful nature that

  597. taints, that

  598. corrupts, that

  599. poisons every

  600. aspect of our

  601. lives to some

  602. degree, not

  603. totally, obviously.

  604. But what I want

  605. us to understand is

  606. what Jeremiah says

  607. in 17.9 about the

  608. heart being deceitful

  609. above all things,

  610. that's not all he

  611. says.

  612. I want you to look

  613. with me at

  614. Jeremiah 31 verse

    Jeremiah 31:33

  615. 33.

  616. He describes how

  617. one day God's

  618. going to do a new

  619. work in people.

  620. He's talking about

  621. the new covenant,

  622. the New Testament

  623. times.

  624. Jeremiah is looking

  625. forward to the day

  626. when Jesus would

  627. come, the Messiah

  628. would come, he

  629. would come and

  630. save people through

  631. his death and

  632. resurrection.

  633. He would send

  634. back into heaven,

  635. he would send

  636. his Holy Spirit

  637. and this is

  638. something that was

  639. going to be in

  640. the future,

  641. Jeremiah prophesied

  642. about.

  643. Look at it.

  644. I will put my law

  645. within them and I

  646. will write it on

  647. their hearts and I

  648. will be their God

  649. and they shall be

  650. my people.

  651. The heart, just

  652. like Jesus says,

  653. there's good in it

  654. and there's evil in

  655. it.

  656. Wayne Grudem,

  657. great Baptist

  658. theologian, he

  659. does a good job of

  660. explaining how a

  661. Christian's heart can

  662. produce good things

  663. as well as the evil.

  664. Look at some of the

  665. things he says.

  666. He says several

  667. verses in the New

  668. Testament speak in a

  669. quite positive way

  670. about the condition of

  671. our hearts.

  672. If we've been born

  673. again, there is a

  674. goodness to them that

  675. has to be protected.

  676. That's why Solomon

  677. says, guard your heart.

  678. Look at what Grudem,

  679. he cites some New

  680. Testament passages.

  681. Look at Romans 5, 5.

  682. God's love has been

  683. poured into our hearts

  684. through the Holy Spirit

  685. who has been given to

  686. us.

  687. When God saves us, when

  688. God does this work of

  689. regeneration, he puts

  690. his spirit in us and you

  691. can even think, he puts

  692. his spirit in our heart,

  693. in our inmost being.

  694. And then the verse says

  695. God's love has been

  696. poured into our hearts.

  697. So if God's love has

  698. been poured into our

  699. hearts and the spirit

  700. indwells us, there is

  701. good within every

  702. Christian.

  703. Look what else he says

  704. in Romans 6, 17.

  705. You have become

  706. obedient from the heart

  707. to the standard of

  708. teaching to which you

  709. are committed.

  710. Grudem is pointing out

  711. here in this passage

  712. that Paul thinks some

  713. of these Christians,

  714. they're truly loving God

  715. and obeying God from

  716. their heart.

  717. They're genuine.

  718. Some Christians have

  719. this idea, God's never

  720. satisfied with me.

  721. God can never be

  722. pleased with me.

  723. Well, that's wrong.

  724. We can know God and

  725. love him, have a close

  726. relationship with him

  727. where he accepts us

  728. because of our being

  729. united to Jesus.

  730. And he is pleased with

  731. us when we obey him.

  732. Look at one more.

  733. 1 John 3, 21.

  734. Beloved, if our heart

  735. does not condemn us, we

  736. have confidence before

  737. God.

  738. Now, Grudem goes on to

  739. say, however, that's not

  740. the whole New Testament

  741. story.

  742. James warns Christians

  743. about some things that

  744. can go wrong in their

  745. hearts.

  746. Now, look at this.

  747. Look at both sides of

  748. the story.

  749. If you have bitter

  750. jealousy and selfish

  751. ambition in your

  752. hearts, do not boast

  753. and be false to the

  754. truth.

  755. James is just pointing

  756. out the reality.

  757. As a Christian, we can

  758. still have bad attitudes.

  759. We can be bitter.

  760. We can be jealous.

  761. We can have nothing but

  762. selfish ambition.

  763. We want to run over

  764. everybody.

  765. We want to be better

  766. than everybody.

  767. We want to put people

  768. down.

  769. We want to walk on them

  770. if necessary.

  771. We can do that.

  772. We do that sometimes.

  773. When our heart is filled

  774. with sin and selfishness.

  775. James is saying it.

  776. Look out.

  777. Verse 4, chapter 4, verse

  778. says, purify your hearts.

  779. He says, you double-minded.

  780. Sometimes our hearts are

  781. not pure.

  782. A lot of times they're not.

  783. Isn't that right?

  784. Grudem continues.

  785. So, even though the New

  786. Testament talks about our

  787. hearts as having been

  788. cleansed when we're born

  789. again, James says you can

  790. have bitter jealousy in

  791. your heart as a Christian.

  792. You can have selfish

  793. ambition.

  794. And you can be double-minded.

  795. And so, while our hearts

  796. aren't perfect, there is a

  797. goodness in them by Jesus'

  798. work within us that needs to

  799. be protected and guarded.

  800. Keep your heart with all

  801. vigilance because it can go

  802. astray.

  803. Let's come back to what we

  804. looked at a moment ago.

  805. We need to make, every one

  806. of us need to make guarding

  807. our heart our highest

  808. priority, one of the highest

  809. priorities in our lives.

  810. Because the condition of our

  811. heart determines how we

  812. think, how we speak, how we

  813. act.

  814. And Jesus makes that painfully

  815. clear in His explanation of

  816. the source of some of our

  817. sinful attitudes and words

  818. and actions.

  819. I want you to look at what

  820. Jesus said in Mark 7.

  821. For from within, out of the

  822. heart of man come evil

  823. thoughts, sexual immorality,

  824. theft, murder, adultery,

  825. coveting, wickedness, deceit,

  826. sensuality, envy, slander,

  827. pride, foolishness.

  828. All these evil things come from

  829. within and they defile a

  830. person.

  831. We don't like to think about

  832. this, but we need to.

  833. The truth is, if we have

  834. problems with selfishness,

  835. with lust, with greed, with

  836. gossip, and all these kinds of

  837. things, it's because those are

  838. the attitudes and the feelings

  839. that's within us.

  840. That's where it comes from.

  841. That's not all that's in us,

  842. within us we're Christians.

  843. We've seen there's some good

  844. things that God has done in us.

  845. But we cannot deny the truth

  846. about sin in our heart when it

  847. comes out so clearly, so loudly

  848. in our words, in our actions, and

  849. in our attitudes.

  850. Now, we don't always mean all the

  851. things that we say.

  852. Sometimes we say hurtful things,

  853. painful things.

  854. Sometimes we mistreat another

  855. person, not because we really have

  856. a problem with them, but because of

  857. the problem that's going on inside of

  858. us.

  859. Sometimes our anger toward another

  860. person, it's not really about them,

  861. or what they have done or said.

  862. What happens, what they did or said

  863. triggered something within our

  864. hearts that caused us to erupt like

  865. a volcano all over them.

  866. You know, we're all good at playing

  867. the blame game, aren't we?

  868. I'm sure some of you in this room,

  869. I've thought it, said it.

  870. My parents caused me a, it's my

  871. parents' fault that I have the

  872. attitude I have sometimes to say

  873. some of the things that I say.

  874. Or it's that certain person.

  875. They just bring out the worst in me.

  876. They provoke me.

  877. They make me mad.

  878. No.

  879. No.

  880. Your spouse is not your problem.

  881. Your child is not your problem.

  882. Your parent is not your problem.

  883. Your friend is not your problem.

  884. They may trigger some emotions.

  885. They may trigger some desires,

  886. some feelings, some attitudes.

  887. But what's coming out of your mouth,

  888. what you are demonstrating with your life,

  889. it comes from within.

  890. It's a heart problem.

  891. It's your inner heart problem

  892. that is the source of all this

  893. Jesus says.

  894. Sometimes an explosion

  895. of anger,

  896. of profanity,

  897. of hatefulness.

  898. Sometimes it comes out

  899. because of the spiritual battles

  900. that are raging within us.

  901. The first thing that probably comes to your mind,

  902. mine too,

  903. is sometimes

  904. God's working in us,

  905. convicting us of a certain sin

  906. that we need to confess,

  907. we need to repent of,

  908. some things in our life

  909. that needs to change,

  910. and we just won't do it.

  911. But if we're really Christians

  912. and the Spirit of God lives within us,

  913. He's not leaving us alone.

  914. He's making our life miserable.

  915. He's putting the pressure on us

  916. to cause us

  917. to be so miserable,

  918. so uncomfortable

  919. that we will forsake it.

  920. We will seek God's forgiveness.

  921. We will repent.

  922. We will seek God's help

  923. to overcome it.

  924. And that may be what

  925. your problem is.

  926. It's not a problem

  927. with anybody in your life.

  928. It's you

  929. and your unwillingness

  930. to humble yourself before God,

  931. to admit the problem,

  932. admit the sin,

  933. and respond the way

  934. you know He wants you to.

  935. But on the other hand,

  936. it could be,

  937. it's not a bad thing,

  938. it could be that God's dealing with you

  939. about something

  940. that He wants you to do.

  941. And you know you need to do it.

  942. But you just won't.

  943. The best example I've known of this,

  944. I have a friend,

  945. many years ago,

  946. when he was an older teenager,

  947. his mother told this story.

  948. His dad was winding up

  949. a 20-year military career.

  950. This was a committed Christian family.

  951. The father,

  952. winding up his 20 years,

  953. going to retire

  954. from military service,

  955. and he was,

  956. God was dealing with him

  957. about him going

  958. into the preaching ministry.

  959. He was struggling

  960. over whether or not

  961. God was calling him to preach,

  962. and he really believed

  963. that he was deep down,

  964. but I don't know

  965. if he was really wanting

  966. to do it at the time,

  967. or make the commitment

  968. at the time,

  969. and there was a lot of frustration

  970. in his life.

  971. One day,

  972. this man,

  973. this faithful Christian man,

  974. in whom God's working,

  975. calling him to preach,

  976. 40-something years old,

  977. one day,

  978. he just erupts in anger

  979. and just explodes

  980. all over that older teenage boy.

  981. It's happened so much,

  982. and they know what's going on,

  983. and that boy looks at his dad

  984. and says,

  985. Dad,

  986. when are you going to surrender

  987. to God's call to preach

  988. so we can have peace

  989. in this family?

  990. And that was really

  991. one of the turning points.

  992. But what I'm saying is,

  993. it could be that God's

  994. working in your life

  995. wanting you to do something,

  996. to teach,

  997. to go on a mission trip,

  998. to do something

  999. that's very positive and good.

  1000. It's not a sin issue.

  1001. It's a sin because you're not

  1002. obeying him,

  1003. but it's a good thing.

  1004. And you're frustrated

  1005. because you just won't

  1006. trust God.

  1007. You won't get out

  1008. of your comfort zone.

  1009. You won't step out in faith.

  1010. And so it could be

  1011. that your whole problem

  1012. with your heart

  1013. is you just need to say yes

  1014. and cooperate with God

  1015. and move on

  1016. and do what it is

  1017. He's wanting you to do.

  1018. We need to listen

  1019. to Solomon's wise counsel

  1020. above all else.

  1021. Guard your heart.

  1022. Guard your heart

  1023. because what's going on

  1024. inside you

  1025. will flow like a river

  1026. from your heart

  1027. into the lives

  1028. of everybody around you.

  1029. You know, this may be,

  1030. this may help explain

  1031. why sometimes

  1032. we mistreat those

  1033. we are closest to

  1034. more than anyone else

  1035. in our lives.

  1036. It may be that we mistreat

  1037. people closest to us

  1038. because they can't

  1039. get out of the way

  1040. of what's flowing

  1041. out of our hearts

  1042. when other people can.

  1043. And that doesn't

  1044. excuse our behavior

  1045. but it may help us

  1046. understand it

  1047. a little bit better.

  1048. Let's answer one more

  1049. question very quickly.

  1050. How can I guard my heart?

  1051. Since Solomon tells us

  1052. to guard our heart,

  1053. we know we can.

  1054. God doesn't call us,

  1055. doesn't tell us

  1056. to do anything

  1057. that he won't give us

  1058. the ability to do.

  1059. Well, Solomon describes

  1060. some of the ways

  1061. that we need to guard

  1062. our heart,

  1063. how we can,

  1064. in the remainder

  1065. of this chapter,

  1066. verses 24 through 27.

  1067. But right now,

  1068. I want to just look at two

  1069. as we wind this message up.

  1070. One way to guard our heart

  1071. is to keep it pure.

  1072. Don't pollute your heart.

  1073. It could be that there's people

  1074. or a person in your life

  1075. whose presence,

  1076. whose influence,

  1077. it really pollutes your heart.

  1078. And what you need to do

  1079. is you need to recognize that

  1080. and move away from them.

  1081. Don't let them be a part

  1082. of your life.

  1083. Or if you can't help it,

  1084. they may live close to you.

  1085. You may have to work with them.

  1086. If that's the case,

  1087. what you need to do

  1088. is to consciously recognize

  1089. that person

  1090. is a bad influence

  1091. on me.

  1092. And so I'm going to be

  1093. on guard constantly

  1094. and not let them

  1095. corrupt my heart.

  1096. Don't admire them.

  1097. Everybody else may.

  1098. Don't admire them.

  1099. Don't follow their example.

  1100. Let their attitudes

  1101. and let their words

  1102. become offensive to you.

  1103. Don't let them

  1104. have the wrong kind of influence

  1105. on you.

  1106. And maybe you know

  1107. that there are other factors

  1108. that pollute your heart.

  1109. Certain types of movies

  1110. or TV shows

  1111. or internet websites

  1112. or books

  1113. or music.

  1114. You know,

  1115. you know what

  1116. helps you

  1117. to be a better Christian,

  1118. helps you to love God more,

  1119. to think of Him more,

  1120. to want to do His will more.

  1121. You know what helps you

  1122. to want to love people

  1123. and be patient with people

  1124. and serve people more.

  1125. And you know what

  1126. causes you

  1127. to not even think about God.

  1128. You know what causes you

  1129. to be rebellious,

  1130. to have an attitude,

  1131. to separate yourself

  1132. from God's people,

  1133. to separate yourself

  1134. from godly people.

  1135. I don't know what

  1136. it might be for you,

  1137. but you know

  1138. what it is for you.

  1139. God,

  1140. guard your heart

  1141. from anything

  1142. that hinders you

  1143. from having a close

  1144. and growing relationship

  1145. with the Lord

  1146. and having healthy relationships

  1147. with the people in your life

  1148. that you should have

  1149. healthy relationships with.

  1150. You know,

  1151. anyone who writes

  1152. on this subject

  1153. of guarding our heart

  1154. or growing as a Christian,

  1155. they're going to stress

  1156. the importance

  1157. of personal Bible study

  1158. and prayer.

  1159. And that's sort of a given.

  1160. There's absolutely

  1161. no substitute

  1162. if we're going to

  1163. guard our hearts

  1164. from spending time

  1165. with our Lord,

  1166. developing a growing

  1167. close relationship

  1168. with God

  1169. by talking to Him

  1170. on a regular basis

  1171. in prayer,

  1172. by listening to Him

  1173. as we read His Word

  1174. and He's talking to us,

  1175. and then putting it

  1176. into practice.

  1177. Not just getting up

  1178. in the morning

  1179. and having devotion,

  1180. but learning to live

  1181. in a conscious awareness

  1182. of God's presence,

  1183. learning just to talk

  1184. to Him

  1185. as we just go down the road,

  1186. as we live life,

  1187. learning to think about

  1188. the truth of His Word

  1189. like what we're looking

  1190. at this morning.

  1191. Guard your heart.

  1192. Guard your heart.

  1193. I want to encourage you

  1194. right now

  1195. to examine your heart

  1196. and determine

  1197. what condition it's in.

  1198. To do that,

  1199. I want you to think

  1200. about your overall attitude

  1201. toward God.

  1202. What do you really

  1203. think about Him?

  1204. How do you think about Him?

  1205. What's your overall attitude

  1206. just toward life?

  1207. Toward the people around you?

  1208. Toward your spouse?

  1209. Toward your children?

  1210. Toward your parents?

  1211. What's your overall attitude

  1212. toward the people

  1213. you work with?

  1214. Toward your job?

  1215. Toward school?

  1216. Toward school?

  1217. Think about the conversations

  1218. you've had this past week.

  1219. Think about

  1220. the way you have spoken

  1221. to people

  1222. in your home

  1223. and at work.

  1224. Think about the kinds of things

  1225. you have talked about,

  1226. laughed about,

  1227. cried about,

  1228. been serious about,

  1229. been flippant and casual about.

  1230. Now,

  1231. what do those attitudes

  1232. and those words

  1233. reveal

  1234. about the condition

  1235. of your heart?

  1236. Does it reveal

  1237. that your heart's healthy?

  1238. It very well could.

  1239. Does it reveal

  1240. that it is

  1241. somewhat healthy?

  1242. Or as you just think

  1243. back about

  1244. just this past week,

  1245. do your attitudes,

  1246. do your words

  1247. reveal that

  1248. your heart

  1249. is very unhealthy?

  1250. What

  1251. what do you need

  1252. to do

  1253. to start

  1254. guarding your heart

  1255. above everything else?

  1256. What do you need

  1257. to start

  1258. or stop

  1259. in order

  1260. to protect

  1261. your heart

  1262. or make

  1263. protecting your heart

  1264. number one priority?

  1265. If you know,

  1266. then ask God

  1267. to help you

  1268. start doing

  1269. those things

  1270. right now.

  1271. Ask God

  1272. to help you

  1273. to just stay

  1274. focused on Him

  1275. every day,

  1276. to guard your heart

  1277. every day,

  1278. especially in those

  1279. situations where you know

  1280. it's going to be difficult.

  1281. Make it not just

  1282. a commitment

  1283. this morning,

  1284. make it a daily commitment.

  1285. Make it a

  1286. make it a part

  1287. of your relationship

  1288. with God

  1289. to seek His help

  1290. and to seek to

  1291. be obedient to Him

  1292. in such matters.

  1293. If you don't know

  1294. what you need

  1295. to do,

  1296. ask God

  1297. to show you.

  1298. Ask God

  1299. to make it clear

  1300. through His Word.

  1301. Here's something risky.

  1302. Ask people

  1303. that you know

  1304. who are faithful Christians,

  1305. who love you

  1306. and who will tell you

  1307. the truth,

  1308. ask them

  1309. what they see

  1310. in your heart

  1311. by living with you,

  1312. by being around you,

  1313. by working with you,

  1314. going to school with you,

  1315. playing,

  1316. doing all,

  1317. doing whatever.

  1318. Ask some people

  1319. that you trust.

  1320. If you don't know,

  1321. you wonder,

  1322. ask some people.

  1323. Based on what we're looking at,

  1324. what do you think

  1325. the condition

  1326. of my heart

  1327. is right now

  1328. based on what you see

  1329. in me,

  1330. based on what you hear

  1331. from me?

  1332. You know,

  1333. if you're not a Christian

  1334. more than anything else

  1335. this morning,

  1336. you need to understand

  1337. that your heart

  1338. is not right with God.

  1339. It's like what Jeremiah

  1340. talks about,

  1341. being evil,

  1342. maybe not the worst

  1343. you could be,

  1344. but

  1345. it's selfish.

  1346. It's

  1347. not godly.

  1348. And I want to encourage you,

  1349. if that's the case

  1350. and you want

  1351. God to change your heart,

  1352. admit to Him

  1353. this need,

  1354. truly repent of your sin,

  1355. change your mind about it,

  1356. put your trust in Jesus

  1357. that He paid the penalty

  1358. for your sins

  1359. when He died on the cross,

  1360. call upon Him

  1361. to save you,

  1362. to change you,

  1363. to purify you,

  1364. to give you a new heart.

  1365. Listen to the Lord

  1366. right now.

  1367. Ask Him how you need to respond

  1368. so that you can have

  1369. a more healthy,

  1370. spiritual,

  1371. inner heart

  1372. in 2018.

  1373. Let's pray together.

  1374. Dear God,

  1375. show us right now

  1376. what we need to do

  1377. to please you

  1378. in our response

  1379. and help us to do that.

  1380. In an attitude of prayer,

  1381. you listen to the Lord

  1382. and you obey Him.

  1383. Do what He's telling you to do.

  1384. If you would like me to pray with you

  1385. during this time,

  1386. I'll be here at the front

  1387. and I would love to do that.

  1388. But listen and obey Him

  1389. resolved by His grace.

  1390. You're going to

  1391. guard your heart

  1392. in 2018.

  1393. Above all things,

  1394. you respond with it.

  1395. His bowed, eyes closed,

  1396. attitude of prayer,

  1397. you respond as God speaks.

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  1411. in 2019.

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