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Real Discipleship

Pickens First Baptist Church

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  1. You have to be a disciple in order to make disciples.

  2. You can't make disciples if you aren't a disciple.

  3. And the president just got all over that and I thought,

  4. man, this might make a good sermon, so I got a sermon about it.

  5. Being is more important than doing.

  6. A lot of times we do things as Christians

  7. and yet we're not really Christian in our doing of the things we do.

  8. Being has to precede doing.

  9. And a person has to be a disciple before we can make disciples.

  10. And at the core of our mission of this church,

  11. of all Southern Baptist Church, of all evangelical churches,

  12. the core of our mission is the Great Commission.

  13. But the Great Commission is more than just evangelism.

  14. In fact, the theme of the Great Commission is discipleship.

  15. And a disciple is someone who follows a teacher

  16. and learns from that teacher.

  17. Jesus gave us the mission to go and make disciples,

  18. which means we've got to be disciples.

  19. The word disciple, depending on what translation you use,

  20. disciple or disciples occurs 261 times in the New Testament.

  21. The word Christian occurs three times.

  22. And the first time it occurs in the book of Acts,

  23. it is a term of derision.

  24. It says they were first called Christians at Antioch.

  25. Little Christ.

  26. It was a term to embarrass them.

  27. A term of derision.

  28. Well, Western civilization, this civilization we've grown up in,

  29. was shaped and influenced by discipleship.

  30. Well, not Christian discipleship,

  31. but the teaching of the Greek philosophers.

  32. Socrates had a disciple named Plato.

  33. Plato had a disciple named Aristotle.

  34. And through their disciples,

  35. that Socratic method of teaching,

  36. where you ask questions in the teaching,

  37. that method of teaching invaded Western thinking.

  38. But because of the Greek philosophers

  39. who had disciples that disseminated their message,

  40. then it influenced the whole world.

  41. So when Rome became the power,

  42. then Rome, even though they had conquered the Greeks,

  43. Rome became Hellenized because of the influence

  44. of the Greek philosophers.

  45. Discipleship is a powerful force,

  46. but it doesn't just sprout up automatically.

  47. It takes time.

  48. It takes moments.

  49. It takes days.

  50. And it takes years.

  51. It's following the course and sticking with it.

  52. There are different kinds of discipleship in the world.

  53. Some good, some bad.

  54. Some Christian, some not.

  55. But the only discipleship that will change the world for the good

  56. is Christian discipleship or following Jesus.

  57. Dr. Albert Mohler and Dr. Ed Stetzer

  58. has given us three words that describe church today.

  59. What kind of people are in church today?

  60. And they say one group is called the cultural Christians.

  61. They're lost.

  62. Another group is called congregational Christians.

  63. They're lost.

  64. And another group are what they call convictional Christians.

  65. Those are the disciples.

  66. Those are the ones that are truly born again.

  67. Mark in chapter 4 describes four types of soils.

  68. Three of them were false.

  69. One of them was good soil that produced many fold.

  70. Then you come to Luke chapter 9

    Luke 9 chapter mention

  71. and Luke has four responses too.

  72. And three of those are false.

  73. I want you to look in Luke chapter 9

    Luke 9 chapter mention

  74. and beginning in verse 57.

  75. As they were going along the road,

  76. someone said to him,

  77. I will follow you wherever you go.

  78. And Jesus said to him,

  79. The foxes have holes,

  80. the birds of the air have nests,

  81. but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay his head.

  82. And he said to another,

  83. Follow me.

  84. But he said,

  85. Lord, permit me first to go and bury my father.

  86. But he said to him,

  87. Allow the dead to bury their own dead.

  88. But as for you,

  89. go and proclaim everywhere the kingdom of God.

  90. Another also said,

  91. I will follow you, Lord,

  92. but first permit me to say goodbye to those at home.

  93. But Jesus said to him,

  94. No one after putting his hand to the plow

  95. and looking back is fit for the kingdom.

  96. The picture that's before us in these scriptures

  97. are Jesus on his way back to Jerusalem.

  98. And as he's making his way back to Jerusalem,

  99. understand he's in transit.

  100. He's on the move.

  101. And as he goes along the way,

  102. there are crowds of people that gather.

  103. They'd heard about his teaching.

  104. They'd heard about his miracles.

  105. They were curious.

  106. So they gather along the roadside.

  107. And as he's journeying along the way,

  108. he encounters these three people.

  109. And there are three responses to the gospel.

  110. The fourth one coming in verse 62.

  111. Three responses to the gospel

  112. that's false discipleship.

  113. I want you to look at the first one.

  114. An impulsive promise,

  115. but personal comfort

  116. was more important than Christ.

  117. This is like the seed that fell beside the road

  118. in Mark 4, 15,

  119. where it says when they hear,

  120. immediately Satan comes

  121. and takes away the word

  122. which has been sown in them.

  123. So here's a person.

  124. They hear, they see

  125. the word of Jesus.

  126. They immediately respond,

  127. but nothing else.

  128. So I want you to look at it.

  129. Emotional and impulsive.

  130. Look in verse 57.

  131. As they were going along the road,

  132. someone said to him,

  133. I will follow you wherever you go.

  134. Notice something very important about that.

  135. This person that responded to Jesus,

  136. Jesus did not call them.

  137. Jesus didn't say, follow me.

  138. Jesus didn't point them out.

  139. This person volunteered.

  140. And one of the critical issues

  141. in the Christian faith

  142. is that we need people

  143. who are surrendered,

  144. not people who volunteer.

  145. Because when you volunteer,

  146. you can volunteer for anything,

  147. but when you're surrendered,

  148. you're surrendered for all

  149. and all of you

  150. to the Lord Jesus Christ.

  151. So this person

  152. sees Jesus going by.

  153. He just says,

  154. just blurts out,

  155. Lord, I'll follow you

  156. wherever you go.

  157. Have you ever noticed

  158. that we have to be real careful

  159. about saying words like

  160. never and always?

  161. Lord, I'll follow you

  162. wherever you go.

  163. Like the man that told his wife,

  164. he said, honey, I love you so much

  165. I'd cross the blazing desert,

  166. I'd swim the sea,

  167. I'd fight off lines

  168. just to come and see you.

  169. She said, what time

  170. are you picking me up tonight?

  171. He said, I'll be there

  172. at 7 o'clock if it doesn't rain.

  173. We say a lot of things.

  174. This fellow says,

  175. Lord, I'll follow you

  176. wherever you go.

  177. Now this guy was likely a scribe.

  178. Important, educated,

  179. probably a wealthy person.

  180. A parallel verse

  181. in Matthew 8 and verse 19 says,

  182. and a certain scribe

  183. came and said to him,

  184. teacher, I will follow you

  185. wherever you go.

  186. Now for a lot of us

  187. in the Christian world today

  188. to get a celebrity,

  189. to get somebody that's rich,

  190. to get somebody that's

  191. powerful intellectually,

  192. then we won a trophy.

  193. We say, oh now,

  194. we've got somebody.

  195. But what we have,

  196. what we think we have,

  197. may be worse

  198. than having nothing.

  199. And this guy comes

  200. and he has all of this power,

  201. but Jesus is not

  202. impressed with that.

  203. This man had not

  204. counted the cost.

  205. He just blurted out

  206. something.

  207. It was impulsive.

  208. It was emotional.

  209. It was on the spot.

  210. He hadn't thought it through.

  211. He hadn't counted the cost.

  212. What does it cost

  213. to follow Jesus?

  214. Really?

  215. It cost everything.

  216. In fact, the Bible says,

  217. Jesus said,

  218. we've got to lose our lives

  219. in him in order

  220. to find our lives.

  221. It's a transformative process

  222. that's conducted

  223. by the Spirit of God

  224. inside a person

  225. who has surrendered,

  226. who has yielded

  227. everything to God.

  228. And that's just being

  229. an ordinary Christian.

  230. Well, Jesus gave a strong answer

  231. to this false discipleship.

  232. If you're looking at verse 58,

  233. Jesus said to him,

  234. the foxes have holes,

  235. the birds of the air

  236. have nests,

  237. but the Son of Man

  238. has nowhere to lay

  239. his head.

  240. Even though he looked

  241. like a prized convert,

  242. Jesus knew him

  243. like Jesus knows us all.

  244. And Jesus was saying

  245. something like this,

  246. have you really

  247. thought this through?

  248. Do you understand

  249. what you're really saying?

  250. That you'll follow me

  251. wherever I go?

  252. our desire

  253. sometimes

  254. to have

  255. more proselytes,

  256. more converts,

  257. more numbers

  258. can lead

  259. to fewer

  260. real disciples

  261. and more hypocrites.

  262. In Matthew 23

  263. and verse 15,

  264. the Bible says,

  265. Woe to you,

  266. scribes and Pharisees!

  267. Understand,

  268. they were the top level.

  269. They were the educated,

  270. sophisticated

  271. leaders of the Jews.

  272. Because you travel about

  273. on sea and land

  274. to make one proselyte

  275. and when he becomes one,

  276. you make him twice as much

  277. a son of hell

  278. as yourselves.

  279. Folks,

  280. the issue

  281. for the Southern Baptist Convention,

  282. the issue

  283. for the South Carolina

  284. Baptist Convention,

  285. the issue

  286. for the church

  287. of Jesus Christ

  288. is not numbers,

  289. it's people

  290. who are disciples.

  291. One of the things

  292. that's happened

  293. to us

  294. as Southern Baptists

  295. over a long

  296. trajectory of time

  297. is that we have

  298. counted so many noses

  299. that we've come

  300. to see our importance

  301. in our numbers.

  302. And we're coming

  303. to find out

  304. that our numbers

  305. are more alive

  306. than we thought

  307. they were.

  308. On any given Sunday morning

  309. in any,

  310. just about any

  311. Southern Baptist church,

  312. there will be

  313. less than 50%

  314. of the members

  315. that actually

  316. attend that church.

  317. That doesn't sound

  318. like New Testament

  319. Christianity.

  320. Oh, there are reasons

  321. why people may not

  322. be in church,

  323. but what if a person

  324. doesn't come?

  325. If at all,

  326. if Jesus calls us

  327. to be his disciples,

  328. that means we follow him,

  329. we learn from him,

  330. but if we vacate ourselves

  331. from the gathering

  332. of his saints,

  333. what are we going

  334. to learn?

  335. How are we going

  336. to follow?

  337. How are we going

  338. to together

  339. make an impact

  340. in the world?

  341. A profession,

  342. a profession of faith

  343. without a connected

  344. relationship

  345. with Jesus Christ

  346. is false discipleship.

  347. A person can be

  348. plugged into a church,

  349. plugged into a ministry,

  350. do all these kind

  351. of things and yet

  352. be lost,

  353. not be a real disciple.

  354. There was a time

  355. in the major

  356. metropolitan areas

  357. of our country,

  358. still is,

  359. people live out

  360. in the suburbs

  361. on the outskirt,

  362. would ride a train

  363. into town.

  364. There was these

  365. three gentlemen,

  366. businessmen,

  367. that lived in the city

  368. and they rode a train

  369. into town every day

  370. for their work,

  371. ride it back late

  372. in the evening.

  373. They did that

  374. for about 20 years.

  375. One day they go

  376. to get on their car,

  377. they go in their

  378. same seat,

  379. they would sit there,

  380. drink their coffee,

  381. read their paper,

  382. chat on the way

  383. into work.

  384. This time they go in,

  385. they sit down,

  386. nobody else is on the car.

  387. The porter comes

  388. through and he says,

  389. gentlemen,

  390. you can't sit in this

  391. car today,

  392. you can't take this

  393. car.

  394. They said,

  395. yes we can.

  396. Because some of us

  397. are geared in such a way

  398. when somebody says

  399. you can't do something,

  400. what do we do?

  401. We say,

  402. I'm going to do it.

  403. So that's what they did.

  404. No, we're going,

  405. no I'm sorry sir,

  406. you can't ride this

  407. car today.

  408. And one of them

  409. just gave the fellow

  410. peace of his mind,

  411. which is always a bad

  412. thing because we

  413. probably need to keep

  414. as much as we can.

  415. So he said,

  416. sir,

  417. we've been riding

  418. this car,

  419. this seat,

  420. we've been doing

  421. this for 20 years

  422. and we're going to

  423. do it this morning.

  424. Now go on your way.

  425. Porter said,

  426. okay,

  427. all right.

  428. I just thought you

  429. might want to be

  430. connected to something

  431. that's going somewhere.

  432. The car was in

  433. for servicing.

  434. That's the thing

  435. about the church,

  436. about Jesus Christ,

  437. about what we say

  438. is the relationship

  439. with Jesus Christ.

  440. We've got to be

  441. connected to him.

  442. If we're not

  443. connected to him,

  444. we're not going anywhere.

  445. We're not making

  446. disciples because we

  447. aren't disciples if

  448. we're not connected

  449. to him.

  450. Well, the second

  451. response,

  452. traveling along the

  453. same road is a

  454. casual response that

  455. was second to the

  456. desire for personal

  457. riches.

  458. If you look in

  459. verse 59,

  460. and he said to

  461. another,

  462. follow me.

  463. Notice the

  464. difference.

  465. This time Jesus

  466. spoke.

  467. This time Jesus

  468. took the initiative

  469. and he said,

  470. follow me.

  471. But the man said

  472. to the Lord,

  473. permit me first to

  474. go and bury my

  475. father.

  476. So he made a

  477. special request.

  478. And we're always

  479. doing that,

  480. seems like,

  481. with the Lord.

  482. Lord,

  483. I'll do this,

  484. but.

  485. You ever

  486. bargained with

  487. God?

  488. Anybody here ever

  489. bargained with

  490. God?

  491. Lord, you get me

  492. out of this spot,

  493. I'll do anything.

  494. I remember when I

  495. was a kid,

  496. when I was growing

  497. up, we didn't have

  498. a lot of money,

  499. so I didn't,

  500. Brian, I didn't go

  501. to the dentist very

  502. often except when I

  503. had a pain.

  504. And I had some pain,

  505. I went to the dentist

  506. and he said,

  507. you've got cavity.

  508. I said, oh,

  509. that doesn't sound

  510. good.

  511. And we're going to

  512. need to fill it.

  513. He said, I'm going to

  514. drill it, you want

  515. a shot?

  516. And I said, I was

  517. so afraid of needles,

  518. I said, no, I don't

  519. want a shot.

  520. He said, what?

  521. I said, no, I don't

  522. want a shot.

  523. You want me to

  524. drill it without a

  525. shot?

  526. I said, yeah.

  527. So he proceeded

  528. to drill.

  529. And I grabbed, I

  530. mean, my knuckles

  531. were white and back

  532. then you didn't even

  533. have Tylenol, you

  534. had extra strength

  535. et cetera.

  536. And every time I'd

  537. leave the dentist,

  538. and I had about

  539. eight cavities over

  540. a period of a

  541. couple of years.

  542. And then I go

  543. in one day and I

  544. say, I'm going to

  545. have a cavity.

  546. He said, okay, you

  547. ready?

  548. I said, I think I

  549. want a shot.

  550. And he said, he

  551. looked at, he said,

  552. what?

  553. I said, yeah, I think

  554. I want a shot.

  555. So he gave me a shot

  556. and then he started

  557. to drill.

  558. And I'm telling you

  559. the truth, I didn't

  560. feel hardly anything.

  561. It was a great

  562. experience.

  563. It wasn't as good as

  564. when I was in the

  565. recovery room recently

  566. and I heard somebody

  567. moaning.

  568. I heard somebody go,

  569. oh, oh.

  570. Then I noticed, every

  571. time I heard somebody

  572. moaning, I could tell

  573. my lips were moving.

  574. It was me.

  575. And this beautiful,

  576. beautiful, intelligent

  577. Nigerian nurse came

  578. over and she said,

  579. Mr. Gray, do you want,

  580. are you having pain?

  581. And I answered, oh.

  582. And she said, on a

  583. scale of one to ten,

  584. what did you say your

  585. pain is?

  586. And I said, oh.

  587. And then she gave the

  588. name of the drug.

  589. Doug, I know you know

  590. what it is.

  591. Daladin.

  592. Daladin, yeah.

  593. I can't ever remember

  594. that.

  595. She said, I'm going to

  596. give you some Daladin.

  597. She said, it's five times

  598. more powerful than

  599. morphine.

  600. I said, okay.

  601. And she gave it to me.

  602. And listen, the

  603. world changed.

  604. Didn't last long, but

  605. the world changed.

  606. But here's what I'm

  607. trying to get at.

  608. I didn't try to bargain

  609. with God this time

  610. around.

  611. I think I'd grown

  612. enough.

  613. But when I was a

  614. kid, I'd pray.

  615. I really would pray

  616. before I'd go in the

  617. dentist.

  618. I'd sit there and I'd

  619. pray, dear Lord, don't

  620. let me have a cavity.

  621. If you won't let me

  622. have a cavity this time,

  623. I'll serve you.

  624. I'll do whatever you

  625. want to.

  626. And then sometimes I

  627. wouldn't have a cavity.

  628. And then I'd, of

  629. course, renege on my

  630. promise.

  631. And other times I

  632. would have a cavity.

  633. And I'd feel like,

  634. well, you know, God

  635. let me down.

  636. Childish to bargain

  637. with God.

  638. Because God doesn't

  639. make deals with

  640. anybody.

  641. That's why we are to

  642. call him.

  643. And that's why he is

  644. known as the Lord

  645. Jesus Christ.

  646. He is God.

  647. We don't make deals

  648. with God.

  649. Well, this fellow had

  650. this special request.

  651. And it sounds like a

  652. good one.

  653. Let me bury my father

  654. first.

  655. Understand, that's a

  656. Middle Eastern expression.

  657. They would often say,

  658. I'll go this and I'll do

  659. that after I bury my

  660. father.

  661. What they meant was,

  662. especially if they were

  663. the oldest son, then they

  664. would make sure that they

  665. took care of the estate,

  666. they got the inheritance

  667. and all that stuff, and

  668. then they'd go on with

  669. that next phase.

  670. See, the issue here, it

  671. sounds like this man's

  672. father is dead.

  673. But you have to remember

  674. something.

  675. Number one is, the Jews

  676. did not embalm bodies.

  677. The Egyptians did.

  678. The Jews packed a body,

  679. wrapped it up with all

  680. those fragrances.

  681. You remember the

  682. resurrection of Jesus

  683. when the women are going

  684. to carry fragrances to

  685. put in the tomb where

  686. Jesus was.

  687. So the Jews, after a

  688. death, had a burial

  689. immediately.

  690. Second thing is, if this

  691. man had just died, he

  692. wouldn't be out on the

  693. street for Jesus to

  694. pass by.

  695. And the picture we have

  696. here is, this man's

  697. father had not died.

  698. He said, first let me go

  699. bury my father, meaning

  700. I'll follow you, Jesus,

  701. when I take care of this

  702. other stuff.

  703. And sometimes that's what

  704. we do, but disciples

  705. don't do that.

  706. They say, I'll follow Jesus

  707. when this happens, when this

  708. happens, when this happens.

  709. When I take care of this,

  710. then I'll follow Jesus.

  711. But there's an urgency

  712. about his call to our

  713. lives that we follow him

  714. wholeheartedly now and in

  715. the present.

  716. This man had a special

  717. request.

  718. He's like the seed that was

  719. thrown on the thorns in

  720. Mark 4, 18 and 19.

  721. He said, these are the

  722. ones who hear the word and

  723. the worries of the world and

  724. the deceitfulness of riches

  725. and the desire for other

  726. things enter in and choke

  727. the word and it becomes

  728. fruitful.

  729. And then Jesus in verse 60

  730. gave a shocking reply.

  731. He said to him, allow the

  732. dead to bury their own dead,

  733. but as for you, go and

  734. proclaim the kingdom of God

  735. everywhere.

  736. What was he saying?

  737. Let the spiritually dead

  738. bury the physically dead.

  739. He was saying that secular

  740. people, those without God,

  741. have different priorities and

  742. followers of Jesus and a

  743. follower of Jesus has the

  744. priority to follow and

  745. obey Jesus Christ because a

  746. disciple follows and learns

  747. from his teacher.

  748. So this man had a special

  749. request.

  750. Jesus said, let the dead

  751. bury the dead.

  752. The point is, the point

  753. Jesus made, there's nothing

  754. more important, nothing than

  755. our relationship with Jesus

  756. Christ.

  757. I don't know if this is a

  758. true story.

  759. Am I allowed to tell it at

  760. First Baptist Church?

  761. It's not true.

  762. It might be true.

  763. It might be true.

  764. When I was a boy growing up

  765. in the country church I grew

  766. up in, there was an

  767. evangelist came and Brian

  768. remembers this.

  769. We used to have meetings in

  770. the spring and in the fall.

  771. So this is one of those

  772. times that we had meetings.

  773. This evangelist came and, oh,

  774. he was powerful.

  775. And he told this story.

  776. And he said, one time there

  777. was this man that owned a

  778. farm and he had a really

  779. good bird dog.

  780. And a forecast was coming

  781. that there was going to be a

  782. big snow event.

  783. And this fellow decided, I

  784. think I'll go out this

  785. afternoon and I'll let my

  786. bird dog go and see if I

  787. can kill a quail or two.

  788. He takes this bird dog out

  789. and while he's out there,

  790. once he got deep in the

  791. field and all of a sudden

  792. it started to snow.

  793. And it snowed and snowed.

  794. And he said, I got to get

  795. out of here.

  796. He called his dog.

  797. His dog didn't come.

  798. Called his dog.

  799. His dog didn't come.

  800. And he's beginning to

  801. freeze.

  802. So he goes back and drives

  803. back to his house.

  804. Comes back out that night

  805. with his flashlight.

  806. Calls his dog.

  807. His dog doesn't come.

  808. So he leaves him.

  809. Morning comes.

  810. There's a big blanket of

  811. snow.

  812. He goes out to look for his

  813. dog again.

  814. He starts walking over his

  815. field and finally found his

  816. dog.

  817. Pointed.

  818. Frozen to death.

  819. So what's the point?

  820. To Jesus, to the church at

  821. Smyrna in Revelation 2.10.

  822. He said, be faithful unto death

  823. and I will give you a crown of

  824. life.

  825. And I know it's radical.

  826. I know it's not modern.

  827. I know it's not even popular.

  828. But what Jesus has taught us in

  829. the New Testament is there is

  830. nothing, nothing in this world

  831. more important than him in our

  832. lives.

  833. That's why he'll never

  834. disappoint us.

  835. Paul said in Romans, whoever

  836. believes in him will not be

  837. disappointed.

  838. When we give our life away to

  839. him and we find a new life, we

  840. will not be disappointed.

  841. Well, as we go on down the road,

  842. there's a third response.

  843. If you look in verse 61.

  844. Another said to him, I will follow

  845. you, Lord, but first permit me to

  846. say goodbye to those at home.

  847. Now, this is a conditional

  848. statement that depended too much

  849. on family relationships.

  850. I have spent over half, much

  851. over half of my ministry just

  852. doing marriage retreats and family

  853. life conferences and counseling.

  854. And I believe in the family.

  855. It's important.

  856. It's so important.

  857. It's more important than the

  858. church.

  859. And God ordained the family before

  860. he did the church.

  861. And the order is God, family,

  862. church.

  863. Here's the thing.

  864. If you and I have good, strong,

  865. godly families, we will have

  866. strong churches.

  867. But here you notice what he's saying

  868. is that the greatest relationship

  869. is with him.

  870. Not something that's temporary,

  871. but something that's eternal.

  872. Now, you'll notice this man said,

  873. I'll follow you, but first permit me

  874. to say goodbye to those at home.

  875. He's like the seed that fell on the rocky soil,

  876. that layer of limestone that was just

  877. underneath the soil.

  878. And when they would plant the soil,

  879. it would prop, grow up,

  880. but it couldn't sustain life

  881. because it couldn't develop a good root system.

  882. In Mark 4, 16 and 17,

  883. those who hear the word and immediately receive it with joy,

  884. and they who have no firm root in themselves,

  885. but are only temporary.

  886. Then when affliction or persecution arises

  887. because of the word,

  888. immediately they fall away.

  889. This man made a reluctant promise.

  890. I will follow you, but.

  891. Lord, make an exception for me.

  892. I'll follow you, but.

  893. Jesus knew his heart.

  894. He knew his mind.

  895. And he knew he was not fully committed.

  896. And he knew if he let him go home,

  897. and by the way, understand the context.

  898. Jesus is on the road.

  899. He's moving to Jerusalem.

  900. He's not going to camp out there for a few days.

  901. And this fellow said, let me go home and say goodbye.

  902. And back in the Middle East to do that,

  903. that might have taken him

  904. anywhere from a month to two months possibly.

  905. Let me go say goodbye.

  906. Why did he want to go home anyway?

  907. Well, John MacArthur says,

  908. he thinks he wanted to go home so he could raise money.

  909. So he could raise money for his mission

  910. because he knew the disciples didn't have any money.

  911. They had a small treasury bag.

  912. You knew who the treasurer was, right?

  913. Who was the treasurer of the disciples?

  914. Judas.

  915. So he's going home possibly to raise money

  916. so he can enjoy some kind of amenities

  917. when they're on the road.

  918. Now, Luke chapter 14, verses 26.

    Luke 14:26

  919. Jesus said,

  920. If anyone comes to me that does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters,

  921. yes, and even his own life cannot be my disciple.

  922. Now, there's no command here that God's telling us to go hate our family.

  923. That's not what he's saying.

  924. It's relative.

  925. It's in the context of relativity.

  926. And what he's saying is this.

  927. Your love for Jesus Christ has to be so strong, so real, so much a priority in your life

  928. that anything else, even the most important people in your life, would seem like hate.

  929. When the choice is to be made, the choice is made to follow Jesus.

  930. There are many parents that have been grieved and saddened, hurt, even though they were supportive,

  931. that their children said, I'm going halfway around the world to serve Jesus.

  932. And of course, they would want their parents to stay here, but they have a sense of calling.

  933. So they listened to the voice of God and not the reason of their parents.

  934. I remember when I was in journalism school, and I know this is going to shock some of you,

  935. at the University of South Carolina, I saw the paw up here the other day, Fred put up.

  936. But my mother used to tell people, I'd say, where's Rudy?

  937. And this is what she said, this is true.

  938. She said, oh, he's at the university.

  939. Because in her opinion, there was just one.

  940. So I go down there, I've been working for the Anderson Independent as a sports writer.

  941. I had won an academic award in journalism at Anderson University.

  942. I've been the editor of the paper at Anderson University.

  943. It looked like my career was set in journalism.

  944. So I go down there, and lo and behold, God calls me to preach.

  945. In Columbia, Davey, of all places, God calls me to preach in Columbia.

  946. I found, to this day, I don't know where it came from, I found a catalog from back then, Central Wesleyan College.

  947. Southern Wesleyan today.

  948. I scrounged up, and Brian, it was hard to come up with, I scrounged up $15, which was the application fee back then.

  949. Sent it in, got accepted.

  950. I come home, and I announce to my parents, God's called me in the ministry.

  951. I'm transferring to Central Wesleyan College and majoring in Bible.

  952. My mother cried.

  953. And my daddy said, son, don't you do that.

  954. You go and make something out of yourself.

  955. Like be a journalist.

  956. And today, if you look at Barnum and Pew and some of those things, two people that are at the very lowest in the level of trust by society are preachers and journalists.

  957. Wouldn't have made much difference, would it?

  958. I said, no, I'm going to do it.

  959. And so finally, he says to me, I'm not going to pay for it.

  960. They were paying for my college.

  961. He said, I'm not paying another penny if you leave there.

  962. I said, well, that's okay.

  963. Because I was still working for the Independent while I was in Columbia covering sports.

  964. I said, I'll make it work.

  965. Well, a few weeks later, I came home one weekend, and they were gone somewhere, but there was a plate on the kitchen table, and there was a newspaper clipping.

  966. And that newspaper clipping said, Central Wesleyan receives full accreditation.

  967. See, one of the things with her was, well, that school's not even accredited.

  968. And I'm 99.9% sure she didn't have a clue what that meant.

  969. But she had that cut out, and I thought, wow, because that takes a process.

  970. You know, accreditation takes time.

  971. I didn't know they were working on it.

  972. So then I go back and transfer and get all everything, and then I start in the summer because I had to have four semesters of Greek.

  973. So I got started in the summer.

  974. Anyway, to make a long story short, I had to make a decision over listening to my parents or listening to God.

  975. And I thought, by listening to God, it was going to be a tremendous struggle.

  976. But my dad came around, and he paid for a lot of my college the last couple of years.

  977. That's a miracle in itself.

  978. That's another story because this man was so tight, he would squeak when he walked.

  979. But I guess my point in all of this, and the point in this fellow, he's coming and he's saying,

  980. let me say goodbye to those at home.

  981. Let me go back.

  982. And Jesus says, there's no relationship more important than your relationship with me.

  983. And then he gave this absolute truth in verse 62.

  984. Jesus said to him, no one after putting his hand to the plow and looking back is fit for the kingdom of God.

  985. No exceptions.

  986. And he goes back to a proverb that was very similar to this, Hesiod in 700 B.C.

  987. One of those ancient philosophers.

  988. And the proverb was something like this.

  989. You cannot plow a furrow looking backwards.

  990. Has anybody here ever plowed a mule or a horse or an oxen?

  991. Anybody?

  992. Anybody?

  993. Okay.

  994. What is the thing that a plowman wants to do?

  995. What's the goal?

  996. Straight.

  997. How do you plow a straight row?

  998. You look ahead.

  999. You can't plow a straight row looking backwards.

  1000. Proverbs.

  1001. That's what the proverb said.

  1002. That's what Jesus said.

  1003. I remember growing up, my granddaddy had a farm.

  1004. And he had a man that ran a farm for him.

  1005. And he had mules.

  1006. He had a little tractor, but he had mules.

  1007. And I watched this man year after year behind those mules.

  1008. Be plowing up ground, planting something.

  1009. Planting.

  1010. Doing these furrows or these rows.

  1011. And I noticed as he'd go along, he'd say, gee, gee, ha, ha, gee, gee, ha.

  1012. And I thought, that's just something you say to mules to get them to go.

  1013. But, you know, it was years later that I come to find out that gee meant turn right.

  1014. And ha meant turn left.

  1015. And he was making sure that he was keeping that row straight.

  1016. When they'd venture a little bit left, he'd say turn right, gee.

  1017. Or when they'd venture right, he'd say turn ha.

  1018. He was keeping the row straight.

  1019. The goal of a plowman is to plow a straight furrow.

  1020. And Jesus used that illustration, that proverb.

  1021. Nobody, nobody, no exceptions.

  1022. After putting his hand to the plow.

  1023. Lord Jesus, I give you my life.

  1024. And looking back, Jesus said, no one that does that is fit for the kingdom of God.

  1025. We keep on keeping on.

  1026. Hebrews 12, 2 says, looking to Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith.

  1027. Now, these are strong words from Jesus.

  1028. To be a disciple means to follow him.

  1029. To learn from him.

  1030. To obey him.

  1031. Being a disciple means that he's the most important thing in our lives.

  1032. And being a disciple means we will make disciples of other people.

  1033. And it's not just a matter of reading a verse, pray this prayer.

  1034. Okay, you're good.

  1035. See, we're famous for that in our churches.

  1036. We're famous for that.

  1037. Pray this prayer.

  1038. Say this verse.

  1039. Okay, now if you were to die, would you go to heaven?

  1040. I think so.

  1041. Okay, you're good.

  1042. I remember when I first started preaching, I went into this mobile home park.

  1043. And I went to this fellow.

  1044. I was all gung-ho about soul winning.

  1045. This fellow was in there.

  1046. And I went through the Roman road with him.

  1047. I said, now I want you to pray right now with me.

  1048. You're ready to trust Christ.

  1049. He said, okay.

  1050. And I asked him to pray.

  1051. And he didn't know how to pray.

  1052. So I prayed.

  1053. I said, just pray after me.

  1054. And he prayed after me.

  1055. And I thanked God for saving me.

  1056. And I looked at him.

  1057. I said, now if you were to die, where would you go?

  1058. He said, I don't know.

  1059. So I went through the whole thing again.

  1060. And I said, now if you were to die, right now would you go to heaven?

  1061. He said, I don't know.

  1062. I said, man, why did you pray to prayer?

  1063. He said, I thought that's what you wanted me to do.

  1064. I think a lot of times we fill our roles of our churches with people making responses because they're under emotional distress.

  1065. Because they want to be accepted by somebody.

  1066. Or because they think that's what we want them to do.

  1067. I had a disagreement with a pastor not too long ago.

  1068. Good, good friend of mine.

  1069. He said, you should always give an invitation.

  1070. He said, there should always be the sawdust trail.

  1071. You should always have an altar call.

  1072. I said, I don't think so.

  1073. He said, what are you talking about?

  1074. I said, sure, give an invitation.

  1075. But you don't have to ask.

  1076. I always ask people to walk down like there's something magic from walking from that place to this spot.

  1077. He said, no, I disagree.

  1078. I disagree.

  1079. I said, well then answer me this question.

  1080. How is it that the greatest Baptist preacher in the history of the English language never gave an altar call and won more people to Christ in that era than anybody else?

  1081. Charles Haddon Spurgeon.

  1082. He said, I don't know.

  1083. I said, did you know that they had a class and a woman led this class and she was strict?

  1084. And they had to go through.

  1085. It was almost like a seminary class and they had to give.

  1086. They had to show that they knew the stuff and their life reflected it.

  1087. And if they didn't, she would not say to the pastor, okay, they're good to become members.

  1088. They're good to be baptized.

  1089. Instead, she'd say, nope, they've got some more time.

  1090. But then you had a church that was packed out all the time and you had fewer members than you had attenders.

  1091. But today in the Southern Baptist Convention, we have a lot more members than we have attenders.

  1092. We've just reversed it.

  1093. But the answer to the dilemma, the cure for the problem is found in the Word.

  1094. It's watching what Jesus did on this road.

  1095. It's recognizing that you can't make disciples unless you are a disciple.

  1096. And the whole thing, and I'm done, the whole thing is this.

  1097. God does not need volunteers.

  1098. This mission, this life, is not about volunteering.

  1099. It's about surrendering.

  1100. And once you surrender to Christ, and that's what it means to give your life to Him so that you can lose it to find it.

  1101. When you surrender, when I surrender, when we surrender to Christ, then all those other questions are answered.

  1102. So no church that's full of disciples, people surrendered to Christ,

  1103. ever has to beg anybody to serve on any committee or in any capacity.

  1104. It's always full.

  1105. It's always a waiting list.

  1106. How many churches do you know like that?

  1107. The crying need of the hour for the church in America is to be disciples, to make disciples,

  1108. to get back to the seriousness of what it means to follow and learn from Jesus Christ.

  1109. Let me ask you in closing this morning.

  1110. Would you say, as you examine your life, would you ask yourself,

  1111. am I a volunteer or have I surrendered?

  1112. Am I a volunteer or have I surrendered?

  1113. Let's pray together.

  1114. Let's pray together.