Sermon
Fan the Flame
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Did you do anything to prepare for the Arctic blast we got in the middle of last week?
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Well, I heard the weather forecast and I lift the pilot light in my gas logs.
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And on Tuesday night and Wednesday night, I fired them up.
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I enjoyed the warmth.
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I enjoyed seeing the fire burn.
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Well, I've been thinking about a different kind of fire ever since our men's ministry dinner, supper, whatever it was that Rick cooked.
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He did a good job, by the way, last Tuesday night.
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Boy Scout brought a great message on the importance of every Christian,
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making sure we keep the spiritual fire burning brightly in our lives every day.
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He was talking about maintaining a close relationship with Christ in terms of a spiritual fire.
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Well, that got my attention.
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It really did.
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I have thought about the kind of spiritual fire that is really burning in my life right now.
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And I've thought about what kind of spiritual fire is burning in the lives of our church family.
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It really got my attention.
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I've thought about it off and on some this week.
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You know, if we are Christians, when we were saved, here's what happened.
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God did a supernatural work called regeneration or the new birth.
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He gave us the desire to acknowledge our sin and separation from God, to turn from our sin, change our mind about the way we're living, repent.
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He caused the light to come on.
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I'm talking about He enabled us to see by faith that Jesus Christ is His Son.
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And He came into this world to die on a cross as our substitute, pay the penalty for our sins.
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When God saves us, He does this work in us to give us such a desire to turn from our sin, to trust Jesus.
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He puts His Spirit in us when He does this, to live with us forever.
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Every Christian is indwelled by the Holy Spirit.
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Now one way to describe this, this work of God when He saves us, is that God's lit a spiritual fire in our soul.
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Now, if you are a Christian, you know what I'm talking about.
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You may not have ever thought about it exactly this way.
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But if you're a Christian, you know that whenever it was God saved you, He did a work in your soul, heart, life, however you want to describe it.
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He lit a spiritual fire.
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Now, nobody in this room is going to pretend that there's always been a burning, bright, warm spiritual fire in our lives.
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So let's just all be honest.
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If you're a Christian, is the spiritual fire within you right now more like a pilot light?
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A pilot light in my gas logs.
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When it's lit, there is fire.
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But you've got to go over to the fireplace.
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You've got to look down and see that little bitty flame.
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And there may be some Christians in this room.
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You know that the Spirit of God lives within you.
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You know you're a follower of Jesus.
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But for whatever reason, the fire is burning very, very dimly right now.
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Or would you say that by the grace of God, the fire in you right now, spiritually speaking, is a roaring blaze?
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People who know you, they see the Lord in you.
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They even feel the warmth of His love when they're around you.
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That may be some people's experience right now.
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And you thank God if it is.
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Or it could be that right now, you're not really a pilot light, but you're not a blazing fire either.
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You're somewhere in between.
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Well, this message this morning is designed just like that message on Tuesday night.
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To cause us all to think about what kind of fire is burning right now.
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And to help us do that, I want you to turn to 2 Timothy chapter 1.
2 Timothy 1 chapter mention
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2 Timothy chapter 1.
2 Timothy 1 chapter mention
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And what we're going to do is look at how the Apostle Paul had to encourage Timothy,
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a dedicated, committed Christian,
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leader.
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But Paul had to encourage him
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at times
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to fan
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the fire,
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fan the flame that was in him
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because it wasn't burning bright enough.
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2 Timothy
2 Timothy 1 chapter mention
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chapter 1.
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Let me say this.
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I'm interrupting the series
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on our stewardship
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of time now.
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We're talking about our stewardship
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in life of our time, talents, and treasures.
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Last week, we began the part about time.
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We're going to continue it next week, Lord willing.
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This week, today,
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I want us to think about
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the spiritual fire
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if
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it is burning
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and how brightly it's burning in our lives.
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2 Timothy 1, beginning in verse 3.
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Paul is writing
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to Timothy.
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This is a letter from Paul to Timothy.
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I thank God whom I serve,
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as did my ancestors,
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with a clear conscience,
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as I remember you constantly
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in my prayers night and day,
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and as I remember your tears.
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I long to see you
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that I may be filled with joy.
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I am reminded of your sincere faith,
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a faith that dwelt first
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in your grandmother Lois
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and your mother Eunice,
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and now I am sure.
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He's talking about I'm confident.
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Not a guess,
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but I'm confident
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dwells in you as well.
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For this reason,
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I remind you
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to fan into flame
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the gift of God
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which is in you
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through the laying on of my hands,
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for God gave us
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a spirit not of fear,
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but of power
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and love
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and self-control.
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Does the fire
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of Christian faithfulness
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need to be fanned
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into a flame
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in your life
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right now?
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Think about it.
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Sometimes,
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in all of our lives
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as Christians,
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sometimes the fire
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is low.
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Maybe the flicker
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of a pilot light.
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Sometimes,
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the light is just not,
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the fire is not
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what we know
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it ought to be,
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what it has been
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in the past,
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what we want it to be today.
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And so,
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even in faithful Christians,
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sometimes we need
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to fan the fire,
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fan the flame.
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That was true
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about Timothy.
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Paul met Timothy
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on his second mission trip.
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It's recorded
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in Acts chapter 16.
Acts 16 chapter mention
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We see from
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the New Testament record
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in Acts
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and in some of Paul's letters
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that they had
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a very close relationship.
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Paul considered him
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to be like
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a spiritual son.
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Paul was Timothy's mentor.
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And Paul had
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a lot of confidence
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in Timothy.
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He sent Timothy
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sometimes to be
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his representative
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to another church.
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He had confidence
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in Timothy's ability
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to be a faithful
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Christian leader.
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He even gave him
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the responsibility
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of leading the church
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at Ephesus
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and dealing
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with some hard issues
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for a period of time.
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Both 1 and 2 Timothy
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in the New Testament,
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two letters,
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1 Timothy,
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2 Timothy.
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Both were written
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to this young man
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when he was still
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at Ephesus
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leading the church
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there.
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Timothy was not
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nearly as strong
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a leader
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as the Apostle Paul was.
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Paul knew it
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and he knew him well.
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That's no knock
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on Timothy.
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It's just who he was.
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And so sometimes
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as you read
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through these letters,
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sometimes you see
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Paul having to
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encourage Timothy.
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Sometimes he's
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having to
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prod him along.
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Sometimes he just
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basically giving him
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a list of instructions.
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Sometimes Timothy
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had to be told,
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remain faithful,
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be strong,
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hang in there,
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fulfill your
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responsibilities.
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If you have any doubts,
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read 1 and 2 Timothy.
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You see this.
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And now what we're
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looking at this morning
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specifically,
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verse 6,
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for this reason,
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I remind you
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to fan
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into flame
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the gift
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of God.
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Now,
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if Paul
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had to say
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that to Timothy,
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being the man
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that he was,
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mentored,
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trained,
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equipped
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by Paul,
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how much more
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do we need
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to hear that
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at times?
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And this may be
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the very time
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that you need
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to hear this
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as well.
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But,
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before we go
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any further,
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why would Timothy
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need to hear this?
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Why?
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Why do we
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let the fire
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that God lights
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in us
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as a Christian,
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that sometimes
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blazes brightly,
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why do we
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let it go out?
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Why does it
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get dim
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at times?
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Well,
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no doubt
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there's a lot
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of reasons
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and if the fire,
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the spiritual fire
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of faithfulness
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is not,
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you know,
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blazing up
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in your life
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right now,
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you think to yourself,
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why?
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What are some reasons?
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Identify the reasons,
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that's important
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before you can
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find the solution.
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For some people
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it may just be
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the busyness of life.
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You may not have
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really thought about it
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right now,
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but you're just
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so pulled
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in different directions.
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So many demands
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on your time,
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you never intended
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for it to be,
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but when you're
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confronted with this
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question this morning
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about the fire,
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the spiritual fire
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of commitment
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in your life,
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you know,
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you have to admit,
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it is not nearly
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as glowing
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as it used to be.
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A lot of different reasons,
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but there's two
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in Timothy's life
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that we see in Scripture
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and so that's where
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I want us to focus
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our attention this morning.
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Number one,
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he had some physical problems.
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Timothy dealt
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with physical illnesses
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at times
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and Paul instructs him
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on how to deal with it
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in 1 Timothy chapter 5.
1 Timothy 5 chapter mention
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He says,
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no longer drink
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only water,
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but use a little wine
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for the sake
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of your stomach
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and your frequent ailments.
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Now Paul's not encouraging him
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to go out
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and become an alcoholic.
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He is saying,
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use wine
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for the sake
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of your stomach
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and your frequent ailments.
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Paul knew Timothy.
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He knew that he had
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stomach problems
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that evidently
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caused him
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not to be able
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to function
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or function well
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at times.
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And so,
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here's the solution.
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You got a problem?
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There is a legitimate,
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helpful way
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to take care of it.
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Paul's saying,
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do it.
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We don't know
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why he stopped,
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but Paul's telling him now,
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take care of yourself.
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Do what you need to do
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to be in better
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physical condition.
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Now,
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before we go any further,
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I want to say something
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to make this real clear.
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I know
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that people have
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physical illnesses,
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problems,
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problems that prevent
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them from doing
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a lot of things
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they would like to do.
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There may be times
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in your life
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when there is a physical
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issue going on
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and you just cannot
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do what you want
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to do,
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what you've committed
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to do,
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and it's legitimate.
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So,
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I'm not trying to inflict
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guilt on someone
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who has this kind
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of problem.
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But some problems,
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some issues
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that we deal with,
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they just make us
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feel bad.
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They may
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cause some pain.
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They may
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make us a little bit
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weak.
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But the truth is,
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we can deal with it.
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Truth is,
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there's a lot of things
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that happen to us
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in life,
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we just gotta learn
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to suck it up and go.
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That is,
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what can be sucked up
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and gone with?
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We live today
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in a very soft world.
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You don't have to tell
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many people
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to take care of themselves.
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They go overboard
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in taking care of themselves.
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But in a day gone by,
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more people,
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Christians and otherwise,
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just had the mentality,
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you do what you can do,
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even if it is
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in the midst of difficulty.
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One of those men
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was John Calvin.
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One of the most
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influential Christians
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who has ever lived
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was John Calvin.
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Most people in this room,
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you're familiar
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with the Protestant Reformation.
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One of the most
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important events,
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God breaking into history
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in the history
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of the world.
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The two most well-known
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and leading reformers
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were Martin Luther
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and John Calvin.
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Calvin lived a very
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productive life.
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He wrote many books
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on the Christian life,
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on theology,
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the deep things of God.
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He wrote a commentary
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on just about every book
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of the Bible.
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Not all,
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but just about every book
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of the Bible.
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He preached numerous times,
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most weeks,
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and multiple times
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on Sundays.
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He corresponded widely
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with people.
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One of his greatest influences
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was through his written correspondence.
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He was also very involved
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as a civic leader
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in the city of Geneva.
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Calvin did more
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than anyone I've ever known.
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Accomplished more
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than anyone I've ever known.
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I want you to look
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at how he did all this
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in the midst of dealing
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with multiple illnesses.
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Look at this.
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He was plagued
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with constant headaches
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which hardly ever left him.
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The pain was so intense
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that many nights
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he could not sleep.
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He also had some kind
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of disease of the trachea
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which,
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when he spoke too much,
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caused him to spit blood.
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Several attacks of pleurisy
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prepared the way
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for consumption
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of which he finally died.
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He had acute hemorrhoids,
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the pain of which
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was unbearably increased
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by an internal abscess
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that would not heal.
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He had gallstones
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and kidney stones
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in addition to stomach cramps
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and wicked intestinal influenzas.
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To top it all off,
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he had acute arthritis.
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In one of his letters
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to a friend,
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he said,
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if only my condition
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were not a constant
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death struggle.
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Now,
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what I've just read
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about Calvin
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is widely known
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by people
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who read him,
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historians.
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I read where
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some people said
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that Calvin was,
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he was sometimes
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hard to deal with.
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He was irritable a lot.
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Wouldn't you?
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But Calvin
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was used by God
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in a tremendous way.
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But all that he did,
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he worked through pain,
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discomfort,
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dealing with multiple
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physical issues.
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He left a lasting mark
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on the Christian church
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in the midst of all this
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and in a relatively short life
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of 54 years.
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It's hard to find
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someone like that today,
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isn't it?
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We live in a world
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where people are soft
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and they use
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the least little problem
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as an excuse
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to avoid fulfilling
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their responsibilities,
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to avoid work,
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to avoid fulfilling
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their commitments
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to friends,
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to family,
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in the church.
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Now again,
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I want to emphasize,
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some people are truly
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disabled
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and unable
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to live
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a physically demanding
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life.
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And if that's you
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at times,
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don't feel guilty.
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Don't feel guilty
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for what you cannot help
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and it's serious.
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It prevents you
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from doing things
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you really want to do,
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fun things,
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as well as things
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you might not want to do
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that are more
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of a responsibility.
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But many people
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are too quick
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today
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to give in
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to physical problems
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and to refuse
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to just work through
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minor pain
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and discomfort.
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What we all need
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to understand,
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God calls us
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to serve Him
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with the gifts,
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talents,
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and abilities
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that He gives us
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both in the world
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and in the church
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and God's call
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is not limited
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to just serving Him
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on the days
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when we feel great.
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God's call
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is not limited
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to just the times
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when everything's
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going our way
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and we have no aches
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and pains
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or things like that.
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God calls us
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to be faithful,
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for you to be
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a faithful husband,
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father,
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wife,
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mother,
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child,
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student,
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worker,
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worker in this church.
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Even on the days
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that you don't feel
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real good,
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on the days
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that you'd rather
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just be sort of
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taking it easy,
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sitting back
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in your easy chair.
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God calls us
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to be faithful
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to Him,
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to the responsibilities
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of life
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that He has given us
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and sometimes
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that means
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we've got to deal with
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and work through
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some pain
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and discomfort.
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You know,
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sometimes God
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uses us
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specifically
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our weaknesses
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instead of our strengths.
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That's what Calvin
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discovered in his life.
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You know,
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you might think,
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well,
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what could Calvin
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have accomplished
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if he'd have been well?
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he may not have
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accomplished half
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as much as he did
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because God
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used him
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in those kind
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of situations
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the way it did.
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That's what the
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Apostle Paul learned.
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Calvin,
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no doubt,
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took comfort
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from what Paul said
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in 2 Corinthians
2 Corinthians 12 chapter mention
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chapter 12.
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See,
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Paul had some kind
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of problem
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called what he called
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his thorn in his flesh.
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Some people think
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he may have been
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poor eyesight.
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Some people think
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he may have battled
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malaria off and on
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throughout his ministry,
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throughout his life.
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Well,
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Paul understood
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his weaknesses,
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that thorn in the flesh,
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and I want you to look
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what he did
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in relation to God
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about it.
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He says,
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three times I pleaded
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with the Lord
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to take it away from me.
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But he said to me,
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my grace is sufficient
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for you,
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for my power
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is made perfect
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in weakness.
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God chose
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for Paul
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to have to deal
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with whatever
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that thorn was,
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and God
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was going to use him
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in that particular
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weak situation
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for greater glory,
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for greater good.
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Paul's life
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was not one
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of fun
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and feel good,
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but God gave him
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the grace
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to work through
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the pain,
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the suffering,
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and be the effective
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man of God,
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servant of God,
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writer of Scripture,
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missionary evangelist
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that he was.
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I want to emphasize
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here to today's parents,
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grandparents,
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teachers,
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influencers,
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influencers of children.
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Children need to learn
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that just feeling bad
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is not an excuse
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to stay home
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from school
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or church
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or not fulfill
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your responsibilities.
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If I make somebody mad,
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so be it.
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don't allow
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your child
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to be weak
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because you are weak
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and you teach them
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to be weak
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and just give in
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to any minor ache
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or pain
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or not feel good
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or somebody hurt
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their feelings
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and things along
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this matter.
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don't allow
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your child
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to use such
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excuses
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to be lazy
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and or
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irresponsible
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which a lot
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of people
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will
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both children
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and adults.
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The best way
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to teach
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your children
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this is by
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example,
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by you being
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this way.
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When I was
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growing up,
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my mother
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at times
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had extreme
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migraine headaches.
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But I can probably
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count on one hand
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the number of times
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she actually
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went into bed,
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went to bed,
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got the room
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real dark
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and only came out
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to go to the bathroom
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to throw up.
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She battled
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those headaches
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for years.
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Got up every
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morning and went
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to J.P.
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Stevens Clemson's
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textile plant
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and worked
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all day,
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every day.
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Came home
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and worked.
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That was the
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model,
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example,
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she set for me.
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And I can remember
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one time as a kid
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saying something
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to her about,
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I don't feel good,
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mama.
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I don't want
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to go to school
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today.
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And I can remember
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it very well.
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She told me
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there's a lot of days
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I don't feel like
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going to work.
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There's a lot of days
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you're not going to
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feel like doing
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a lot of things
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but you just got
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to do it.
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My mother was
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a fine Christian
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woman,
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hard worker
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and she was
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sympathetic
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occasionally
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when you really
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needed sympathy,
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seriously.
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but she saw
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through the
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scams,
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the whining,
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the being
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weak.
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She just
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basically told you
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suck it up and
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go bud
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and that's what
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you need to do
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as a parent,
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as a grandparent,
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as a teacher.
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Oh,
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I know you'll
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get into it
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today because
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of these weak
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parents that
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don't support you
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as you're trying
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to help their
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children.
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Our hats ought to
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go off to every
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teacher in this
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building right now
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because of all the
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junk they have to
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put up with
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from parents
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who don't truly
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know their child
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and love their
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child and be
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willing to do
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whatever it takes
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for their child
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to be their best,
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Christian or not.
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But we as
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Christians,
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we need to set
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the bar high
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on what we are.
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We don't just
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give in to
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little weaknesses,
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but we truly
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seek to be
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faithful to the
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Lord, feel like
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it or not, and
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not let the fire
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grow out just
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because we're
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lazy, don't feel
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good, have a
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little ache and
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pain here or
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there.
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Paul told
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Timothy to deal
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with his
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treatable physical
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problems and not
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let it keep him
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from being faithful
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to God's call on
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his life.
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That wasn't
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Timothy's only
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problem.
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He was timid,
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shy, whatever
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you want to call
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it.
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So we're going
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to look at this
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under the category
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of personality,
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psychological,
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emotional issues.
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And again, let me
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say, I know there
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are psychological
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serious issues,
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mental illnesses.
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We're not talking
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about that in this
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point.
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Timothy was shy
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or timid.
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Look in 2 Timothy
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1, 7.
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For God, he's
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telling him, fan the
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flame.
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For God gave us a
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spirit not of fear,
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but of power and
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love and self
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control.
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Paul says things
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throughout this
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letter to encourage
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Timothy, assert
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yourself, boy.
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Be a man.
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Be a leader.
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Stand up.
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Speak up.
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Confront some
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people.
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Don't just let
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everything go.
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There's false
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teachers who are
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going to destroy
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the church.
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They're going to
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destroy the gospel
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among these people
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if you let them.
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And Paul was
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having to tell him,
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you be assertive.
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Don't let that
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happen.
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Paul even pointed
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this out to the
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church at Corinth
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and asked them to
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take care of
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Timothy.
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I want you to look
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at this.
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I want you to think
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about what this is
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saying.
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Paul is writing to
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a church and he
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says, when Timothy
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comes, see that you
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put him at ease
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among you.
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Maybe they were just
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mean people.
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Or maybe Timothy
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was so shy that he
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was easily
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intimidated.
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For he is doing
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the work of the
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Lord as I am.
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So let no one
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despise him.
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Help him on his
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way in peace that he
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may return to me for
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I am expecting him
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with the brothers.
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Timothy was not a
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natural born leader.
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That's why Paul had
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to go to bat for
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him, encourage him,
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prod him like he
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did.
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Evidently, Timothy
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did not like being
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out front.
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Taking on the
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responsibility as a
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church leader to
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confront and
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correct people and
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issues.
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But God called him
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to do that as a
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church leader.
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And Paul had
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mentored him and
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prepared him and
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sent him to this
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particular church or
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group of churches in
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Ephesus to do this.
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The point needs to be
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made here that God
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calls us to step out
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of our comfort zones at
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times.
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I'm talking about in
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terms of our
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personality.
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He calls us to not
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give in to some
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personality or
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psychological,
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emotional weaknesses
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that we would cause us
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to naturally want to
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sort of stand back.
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not do what we're
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supposed to do.
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You know, the most
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well-known and
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respected and
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influential preacher of
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the 19th century was
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Charles Spurgeon.
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He accomplished a lot
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like Calvin through his
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preaching, his writing,
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starting in school,
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orphanage, lots of
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things.
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You know, he battled
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depression throughout his
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ministry.
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He was sometimes so
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depressed.
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He was bedridden and
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unable to preach.
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There were times,
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periods where he just
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couldn't get up and go
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for two out of the four
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Sundays of a month.
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He described the effect of
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depression that it had on
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him like this.
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My spirits were sunken so
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low that I could weep by the
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hour like a child, and yet I
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knew not what I wept for.
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I want you to understand
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what I'm saying here.
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Depression can be real.
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It can be devastating.
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This man that God used in a
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great way who did not want,
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he wasn't looking for an
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excuse not to do what he
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was called to do.
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There were times he was
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overwhelmed with depression
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and he could not function.
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And what compounded his
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depression sometimes, some of
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his biographers say, is he
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felt guilty for it.
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He battled real, what would
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be called today, clinical
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depression.
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That if he had been in our
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day, he'd have been treated
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with medication and other
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ways for that.
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That's one of the reasons why
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I'm pointing it out.
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He had some real problems.
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And it knocked him down at
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times.
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But by the grace of God, he
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never gave into it.
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He never gave up.
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He was knocked down at times,
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but by the grace of God, he
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didn't stay down.
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He came back time after time
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after time.
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It was a battle, don't
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misunderstand.
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A battle throughout his life.
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But he wouldn't give up.
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He refused to give up.
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Don't ever count yourself out
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because of your limitations.
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God uses imperfect
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people.
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God uses all kinds of people
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to accomplish his purpose in
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this world and in our church.
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And I want to, again, stress
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this to parents.
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Don't let your children use
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excuses like, I'm too shy.
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I get nervous in front of
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people.
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Or I just want to stay at home
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all the time.
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Don't let your children
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retreat into a world of
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unreality by playing video
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games all the time or spending
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hours a day on social media.
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Such unreality will not help
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them.
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But it will certainly hurt
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them.
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It will damage them.
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Your child, your grandchild,
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your, the children you have
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influence over, they need to
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learn to develop healthy social
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skills and where possible
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develop a healthy, active body.
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And they cannot do that inside
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all the time with their face
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buried in an iPhone, an iPad,
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a computer, or some other
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electronic gadget.
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And I want to say this and
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make people even more mad.
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If you're a parent, you are in
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or supposed to be in control.
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And you can take things.
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You pay for it, it's yours.
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It ain't theirs.
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We got too many weak kids today
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because we have too many weak
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parents.
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You don't have, if you were a
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parent, your goal was not to be
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their buddy.
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Sometimes you're going to be in
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their eyes so mean, you're like
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the devil himself.
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I don't mind the fact that I
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sprouted horns a lot with my
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boys.
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When they needed it.
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There are some hills worth
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spilling blood on.
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I spill too much blood on too
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many unnecessary hills.
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But there are some that it's
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worth the fight for your child's
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spiritual, emotional, physical
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well-being.
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So I want to encourage you, do
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what it takes.
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Don't bail them out every time
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they get in trouble.
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Be the parent.
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Be the one in charge.
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Whatever it is, however you can
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have the influence that you can
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have.
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Some Christians allow the
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spiritual fire of Christian
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faithfulness to die down because
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of their unwillingness to get out
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of their comfort zone.
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And they use personality,
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emotional, psychological issues
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as excuses not to be faithful.
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What does your spiritual fire
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look like right now?
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Is it a pilot light?
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Or is it a roaring fire?
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Or where is it in between?
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One more question.
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Will you ask God to help you to
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fan your fire of Christian
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faithfulness into a flame right
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now?
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Paul pointed out the key to
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fanning the flame into a real
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fire in verse 7.
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He says,
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For God gave us a spirit not of
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fear but of power and love and
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self-control.
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Timothy had God-given power.
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The word spirit there, look on
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the screen there.
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It's a little s.
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It may be a general reference to
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what God does in us to strengthen
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us, our spirit.
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I think it's more likely Paul's
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talking about the Holy Spirit there
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and that it should be translated
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with a capital S that for God gave
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us his spirit who indwells us as
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Christians and his spirit is not a
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spirit of fear but he is a spirit of
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power and love and self-control and
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will work that in and through us.
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The truth is whatever our gifts are,
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God supplies us with the power and
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ability to use them.
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Look at this verse.
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One of my favorite verses in all the
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Bible, for it is God who works in you
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both to will and to work for his good
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pleasure.
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If you're a Christian, there is a fire
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within you.
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Whether it be bright or not, there is a
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fire in you.
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That's the spirit of God working in you
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and he is the one who gives you the
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desire to be pleasing to God, to do
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God's will and gives you the ability
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to do it.
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When we use our gifts in the power of
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the Holy Spirit, we will not be
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crippled by fear.
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Paul says we'll serve God with power,
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love and control.
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I want to wind this up by something
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Tommy Lee, professor at Southwestern
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Seminary when I was there years ago.
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He does a good job of describing what
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it means for Christians to fan the
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fire of Christian faithfulness to a
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flame.
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Look at it.
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Because Timothy had genuine faith,
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Paul urged him to set it ablaze.
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The expression fan into flame describes
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the act of rekindling the embers of a
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dying fire.
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The command does not imply that Timothy
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had let his spiritual flame go out.
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It's an appeal for a continual, vigorous
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use of his spiritual gifts.
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Rekindling his gifts would involve
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fervent prayer, obedience to God's word,
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and demonstration of an active faith.
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If your spiritual fire is not a roaring
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blaze right now, I want to encourage you
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to go to God in prayer, spend time with
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him and his word on a regular basis and
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just ask him, fan the flame.
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It'll never happen if you don't spend time
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regularly, daily with the Lord in meaningful
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prayer, just talking to God, reading his word,
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listening to him.
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I want to encourage you also to find a
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Christian friend to talk about the things
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of God with.
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Pray for each other.
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Encourage each other.
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Challenge each other.
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Find a friend.
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Make a new friend to do this with.
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It could be you do it with your spouse.
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It could be you do it with an older child.
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Your parent.
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Find somebody.
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And then start using what God's given you.
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Your talents, your gifts, your abilities.
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In some kind of ministry that will truly honor
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God and help us as his church to serve his
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purpose.
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Ask God to help you know what you need to do to
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fan the flame of Christian faithfulness now so that it
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will burn more brightly this coming week.
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Let's pray together.
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Father, show us now how we should respond.
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Help us to see, to be certain, and then to respond that way.
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Father, if there are people in this room who there is no fire
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within them because they do not know you, they don't have a
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relationship with Jesus, help them to see that clearly, but to
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know if they will admit their need, turn from their sin and trust
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Jesus, call upon him to save them, that you will light the fire
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right now.
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You will change their life.
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Help them to do that.
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Let's just all, in an attitude of prayer, listen to the Lord and
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respond to him however he's speaking to you.
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If I could pray with you here at the front, I'd be happy to do
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that during these next few minutes.
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Let's just respond to the Lord.
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Thank you.