Sermon
What Do You Pray For?
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What have you been praying about this week?
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I'm going to assume that just about everyone in this room,
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we have prayed at least once this week.
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Well, what specifically have you asked God to do in your life
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or in the life of the people you pray for?
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Now, from my observation,
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from what I've heard as a pastor for many years,
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and I'm going to say a lot of you know this,
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being in prayer meetings, being in Sunday school,
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most Christians make physical health,
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physical needs their top priority in prayer,
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or at least their top priority when it comes to
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making a public prayer request or praying publicly.
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Why is that?
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Why do we mostly pray about, at least publicly,
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physical things?
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Well, sometimes it's very obvious
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that we need to pray about physical health and issues.
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COVID-19, for example,
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that has been a central focus of many people's prayers
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over the last 10 months.
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And if you haven't prayed about this,
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I don't understand you.
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I cannot imagine how any Christian has not
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been praying that God would bring about
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an end of this pandemic.
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I know a lot of you are like me.
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I have prayed that my family members
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and this church family would be spared,
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that we would not come down with it.
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If we did, we would not, you know,
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have any serious or long-lasting effects from it.
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It's natural for us to pray about some physical health issues,
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matters, physical needs at times.
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I mean, who wouldn't?
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But at the same time, we need to understand,
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that is not the biblical focus of prayer.
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The Bible does not make physical needs
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the priority of prayer,
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either by instruction or by example.
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Jesus taught us about how to pray.
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When Jesus taught, this is how you should pray,
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He said, in effect, that our priority
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should be to focus on God,
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to honor Him,
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to seek His will,
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and to ask for help
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to live in a right relationship with Him
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and other people.
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That's why there's such a strong emphasis
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on forgiveness,
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and especially on forgiving other people.
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Now, when you read the prayers of the apostles
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in the New Testament,
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and I'm thinking specifically of Paul,
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their top priority
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is for Christians
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to honor God
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and seek to grow spiritually
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in their prayer requests.
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Now, I want to reemphasize.
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I am not in any way saying
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that it's wrong,
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that it's unimportant
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to pray about physical needs.
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It is not.
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In fact, Jesus did teach us
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to ask for our daily bread
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in that model prayer, didn't He?
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And when He was talking about
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praying for our daily bread,
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He wasn't talking about
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literally just bread,
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but daily necessities.
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Paul sometimes
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asks Christians to pray
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for His safety
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or for His deliverance.
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So,
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don't take what I'm saying here
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at the beginning wrong.
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It is not wrong.
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It is good.
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It is healthy.
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It is normal
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for you to pray
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for physical situations,
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health,
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needs,
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in your life,
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in the life of people
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that you know and love
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and care about.
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But most of what we see
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in the New Testament
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about prayer
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is that spiritual needs
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take priority
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over physical needs.
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And we need to apply that
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to ourselves
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and how we pray
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and then how we pray
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about other people.
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Paul provides us
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with a great example
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of this kind of prayer
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in Philippians chapter 1.
Philippians 1 chapter mention
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I want you to turn with me
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if you would
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because I'm not going to put
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all of these verses
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on the screen at this time.
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We will look at them
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individually
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a little bit later on.
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Let's look at
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Philippians chapter 1
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verses 9 through 11.
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I only referred
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to this last week.
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We didn't get into it at all.
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We're talking about
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how to make the best
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of the bad situation.
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And one of the ways
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we need to,
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one of the things
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we need to do is pray.
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Well, now we're going to look at
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how we should pray.
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Look at this.
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Philippians 1, 9.
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And it is my prayer
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that your love
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may abound more and more
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with knowledge
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and all discernment
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so that you may approve
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what is excellent
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and so be pure
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and blameless
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for the day of Christ,
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filled with the fruit
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of righteousness
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that comes through
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Jesus Christ
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to the glory
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and praise
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of God.
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I want us to look at this
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as an example
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of the kinds of things
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that we need to be
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asking God for
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for ourselves
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and for the people
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in our lives
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that we really
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are concerned about
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and praying for
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on a regular basis.
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I'm talking about
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your family members,
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your friends,
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this church family.
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Let's look at it.
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First,
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pray for yourself
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and others
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to grow in love.
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First prayer request,
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pray for yourself
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and others
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to grow in love.
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Look at it in verse 9,
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the first part.
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And it is my prayer
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that your love
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may abound
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more and more.
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We need to
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make it a practice
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to ask God
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to help us
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to grow
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in our love.
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Now I want you
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to know that Paul
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does not ask
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for us
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to develop love
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and there's a reason
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for that.
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He's writing
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to Christians.
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He knows
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these Christians.
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You can read
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verses 3 through 8
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and see that
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he has a good
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relationship with them,
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he loves them
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and they love him.
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But Paul knows
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that people
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who are Christians,
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they've been born again
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by the Spirit of God.
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The Spirit of God
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lives within them.
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And the Spirit of God
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when he comes
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to indwell us,
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he plants
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what we could consider
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seeds of love
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within our heart.
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If you are a Christian,
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there is love
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within you
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by virtue of the fact
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that the Holy Spirit
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lives within you.
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So we don't have
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to pray
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for love
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if we're Christians.
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It is there.
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But what we do
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need to pray for
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is that it will grow
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more and more
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every day,
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abounding
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more and more,
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that it will mature.
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Now,
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note that Paul
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does not specify
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the object
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of our love.
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He doesn't say,
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you know,
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pray for,
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that we'll love God,
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love people,
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or whatever.
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He just says
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that our love
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will abound
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more and more.
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And so we can
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apply that,
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at least initially,
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broadly.
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We need to pray
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that we'll love
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God more.
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We need to pray
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that we'll love
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other Christians more.
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We need to pray
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that we'll love
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people in general
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more.
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You know,
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love is to be
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the defining characteristic
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of us
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as followers
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of Jesus,
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isn't it?
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It is the essential
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Christian quality.
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There's a strong
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emphasis in the New Testament.
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especially
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that we will love
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our brothers and sisters
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in Christ.
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I really believe
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that's what Paul
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is specifically
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thinking of
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as he writes this.
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There were some
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problems in this church,
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a lack of unity.
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There was some division.
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And we'll see
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some of that
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as we go through
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this letter
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over the next
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several weeks.
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This is surprising.
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But in chapter 4,
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Paul calls
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two women
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by name
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and basically
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tells them
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tone it down.
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Now you can imagine
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church gathering.
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There's two women there.
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And Paul calls them out
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for their lack of,
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for a better way
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to express it right now,
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loving one another
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as they should.
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They don't get along.
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You think you've had
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your toes stepped on
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by some preacher before?
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Never,
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most likely,
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have you had your name
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called
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and say to stop
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sinning like this
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publicly.
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But Paul did.
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So there are some problems.
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But overall,
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this is the best church
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that Paul has
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a relationship with.
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It's a positive letter.
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There's a lot of gratitude
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and love expressed.
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But he is emphasizing here
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our love
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for one another,
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brothers and sisters
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in Christ.
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It should be growing.
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Our relationship
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should be deepening
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is what he's talking about.
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Jesus said
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this kind of love
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would be the distinguishing
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mark
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of his followers.
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Look at this
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from John 13.
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By this all people
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will know
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that you are my disciples
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if you have love
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for one another.
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Now think about that.
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Jesus told his disciples
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all the things
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that he had taught them
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about how they should think,
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how they should believe,
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how they should live.
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The thing that should
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set you apart
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as uniquely
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as being my disciple
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is your love
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for one another.
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Your love
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for your brothers
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and sisters in Christ.
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John,
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the apostle,
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emphasizes this
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in his first letter.
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Look at it.
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And this commandment
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we have from him,
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whoever loves God
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must also love
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his brother.
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Now think about that.
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Sometimes we might think
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to ourselves,
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well I truly do love God.
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It's people I have
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problems with.
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I can say that too.
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But we can't
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accept that.
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John is issuing
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a command.
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Look at it.
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And this commandment
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we have from him.
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Whoever loves God
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must also love his brother.
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By describing love
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as a commandment,
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he's talking
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about it being,
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about love as being
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more an act
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of the will
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than a,
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what you'd call
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feeling of the heart.
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Christian love,
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when you think about
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what it is,
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it is not
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hallmark
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kind of love.
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It's not
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the,
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you know,
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the fuzzy,
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warm feelings
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that you see
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on the hallmark channel
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or in hallmark cards
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or anything like that.
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Now hopefully
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we have some
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healthy,
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appropriate feelings
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of love
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for people.
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But this
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is a commandment.
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We're talking
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about how we act,
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how we treat people.
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One of the best
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definitions I've ever
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heard of Christian love
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is seeking
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to meet
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people's needs.
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Now,
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that's why
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Paul prays
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that the Philippians
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love will grow.
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we need it to.
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It's an act
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of the will.
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It's not always
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how we feel.
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But I want you
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to note,
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it's not open-ended
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about our love
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growing more and more.
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He says that
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our love should grow
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in knowledge
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and discernment.
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Look at this.
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Ask God to help
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your love
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to grow in knowledge
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and discernment.
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Verse 9,
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it is my prayer
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that your love
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may abound more
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and more
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with knowledge
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and all discernment.
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Our love
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needs to be
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an informed love.
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We need to be
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growing in knowledge.
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James Boyce,
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the pastor
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and commentator,
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says that the word
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translated knowledge
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here always means
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spiritual knowledge
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when it is found
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in the New Testament.
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So here's what
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we need to pray.
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We need to pray
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for ourselves
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and for other people
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that we will grow
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in our knowledge
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of God,
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who He is,
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in our knowledge
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of His will,
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knowledge of His ways
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so that we might
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be able to obey Him,
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please Him,
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serve Him.
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Now,
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how are we going
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to acquire
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such knowledge
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of God?
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It's not that you
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strain and pray,
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Lord,
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help me to know
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You better.
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We study His word.
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See,
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God has revealed Himself
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as He wants us
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to know Him,
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His ways
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and His will
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in the Bible.
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And so if we're
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going to grow
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in our knowledge
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of God,
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of spiritual things,
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we've got to
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read and study
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the Bible.
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We should pray
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that God will help us
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through His indwelling
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Spirit,
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help us to understand
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what we read.
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It's not enough
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just to read the Bible.
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You know,
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if you do your,
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if you're doing,
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it is good to read
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through the Bible
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in a year.
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It is good to have
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a planned reading program.
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Don't misunderstand.
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But never open
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your Bible in the morning
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and just read it
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so you can say,
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I read it.
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Read the Bible.
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If you don't have time
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but to read
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a verse or two,
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read the Bible
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with a prayer.
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Lord,
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help me to understand
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what You are saying
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in this passage
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and how I can apply it,
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how I can do it,
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how I can obey You
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in it.
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So let me just ask you.
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Pause right here
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for a minute.
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Are you praying
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such prayers
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for yourself?
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God,
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help me grow
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in my love
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for You,
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for people.
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God,
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help me to grow
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in my knowledge
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of You
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and Your ways
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and Your will.
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Help me to know
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You better.
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Help me to know
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how to please You
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in just
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my everyday living.
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Are you praying
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such prayers?
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Are you praying
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those kind of prayers
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for the people
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that,
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let's just say,
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you pray for every day
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or you pray for regularly?
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Is that the kind of prayer
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you're praying
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for your children,
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for your grandchildren,
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for your parents,
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for good friends?
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don't just pray
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that they won't
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get sick.
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Don't just pray
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that they won't die.
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Pray that they will
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truly grow
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if they're Christians
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in their love
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and in their knowledge
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of God
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and His ways
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so that they can
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live their life
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in such a way
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as to please God.
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God,
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that's what all of us
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need to be doing
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on a regular basis
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when it comes
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to how we pray.
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We're also,
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notice here,
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we're to pray
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for ourselves
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and others
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to grow in our ability
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to express Christian love
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in our relationships
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with others.
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I'm just throwing this in.
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This is not actually
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a part of the text.
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What I'm doing
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is applying this.
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I sort of got ahead
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of myself.
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God is not impressed
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with us just having knowledge.
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It's not enough
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to read the Bible
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to be able to quote it.
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God wants us
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to be able to understand
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and put it into practice
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in our lives.
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Now,
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we're talking about love.
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In 1 Corinthians chapter 13,
1 Corinthians 13 chapter mention
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Paul describes
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what love looks like
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when it's practiced
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among Christians.
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I want you to look at this.
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Love is patient and kind.
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Love does not envy
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or boast.
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It is not arrogant
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or rude.
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It does not insist
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in its own way.
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It is not irritable
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or resentful.
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It does not rejoice
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at wrongdoing,
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but rejoices
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with the truth.
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Love bears all things,
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believes all things,
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hopes all things,
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endures all things.
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Are you asking God
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to help you
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to love like that?
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Are you asking God
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to help you
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to be more patient
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with certain people
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in your life?
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Are you asking God
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to help you
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to not be irritable
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and a grouch
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and just a negative person?
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Are you asking God
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to not gloat,
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to not feel good
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when someone
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that you really don't like,
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something bad happens to them?
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Do you ask God
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to help you
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to rejoice
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with those who rejoice?
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People who get a promotion
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even above you.
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People who excel
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at sports.
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Are you asking God
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to help you
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not to be resentful,
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not to be jealous,
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but to genuinely rejoice
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with the good fortune
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of your brothers
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and sisters in Christ?
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That's the kind of love
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we need to be praying
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that we will be growing in.
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If we really understand it,
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if we have this kind of knowledge,
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we need to be putting it
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into practice.
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Are you helping
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your children,
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people you have influence over,
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are you helping them
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to develop and grow
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in that kind of love?
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Are you modeling,
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look at it,
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are you modeling it,
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putting forth the effort
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to help your children,
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whoever,
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people in your home,
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people in your Sunday school class,
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people you work with,
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are you helping them
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to see
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this is what Christian love
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looks like?
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Our love needs to be growing
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in knowledge,
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practical knowledge,
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we put it into practice,
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and our love also needs
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to be growing
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in discernment.
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That means we need to know
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how to apply love
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in different situations.
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Sometimes discerning love
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will require us
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to exercise tough love.
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You know, being loving
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is not just having a smile
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on your face
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and just thinking,
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don't rock the boat.
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Whatever goes, goes.
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If I came in here
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one Sunday morning
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and I said,
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we've been making
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too much of the Bible.
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It's really just
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an old book
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written by a lot
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of old people.
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There's some good ideas here,
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but mainly
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it needs to be updated.
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Let's just forget it.
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As a member of this church,
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you need to exercise
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tough love and fire me.
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If a Sunday school teacher
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does that,
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they need to be fired as well.
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It is not loving
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to just let anything go
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as a parent.
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It's not loving
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to allow your young child
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or teenager
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to be disobedient,
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disrespectful
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to you
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and your home.
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Christian love
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should compel you
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to take action,
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to not allow it.
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Take control.
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Exercise discipline.
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That's part of your
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God-given responsibility.
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That's what God
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wants you to do.
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And in the long run,
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that'll be what's best
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for your child.
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Sometimes,
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Christian love
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requires
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us to do hard things
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because tough love
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is needed.
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But then on the other hand,
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if we're going to be discerning,
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sometimes
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our love
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is going to be real,
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give that person
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the benefit of the doubt,
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gracious.
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We're not going to take,
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we're not going to be
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easily offended.
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We're not going to take
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what somebody says
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or does
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to some kind of
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slight,
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whether they meant
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for it to be or not.
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Sometimes Christian love
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just requires us
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to keep our mouth shut,
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to not say anything,
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to not do anything,
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just to go on,
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give them the benefit
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of the doubt.
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That helps
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some
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many situations
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many situations
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among your friends
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at school,
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at work,
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in a church,
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even in the home.
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It's not always easy
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to know how love
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should respond.
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That's why we need
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to pray.
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That's why we need
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to pray that our love
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will be growing
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in discernment
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and that we will be
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willing to
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do what needs
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to be done.
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Sometimes the most
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difficult thing to do
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is to say something.
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Sometimes the most
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difficult thing to do
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is to not
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say something.
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So,
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this is how
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Christians should pray.
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Are you praying
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like this?
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For yourself.
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For your children.
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For other people.
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Maybe you know
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some people.
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They really need
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to have a more
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discerning love.
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Pray for them.
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Ask God to help
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them to see the need
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and to be able
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to grow.
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Paul's prayer
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requests in these
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verses really
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build on one another.
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The most important
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Christian quality
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is love.
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And so,
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Paul prays
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that it will
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always be growing.
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Growing in knowledge
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and discernment.
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And then the next
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request,
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build on that.
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Number two,
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pray for yourself
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and others
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to develop
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Christ-like character.
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That's sort of
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the heading
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for everything
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he says now
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in verses 10
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through the first
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part of verse 11.
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It seems
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that there are
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Christians
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who think
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that the purpose
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of salvation
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is to keep us
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out of hell
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and get us
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into heaven
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when we die.
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That's not true.
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God saves us
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for much,
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much more
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than rescue
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from hell
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and getting us
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into heaven.
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God saves us
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for the purpose
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of making us
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like Jesus.
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And we've looked
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at that
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and how many times
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over the years.
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It's in Romans
Romans 8 chapter mention
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chapter 8, 29.
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God is working
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in us
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to conform us
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to the likeness
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of his son.
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I want to read
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something.
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It's from Ephesians
Ephesians 1 chapter mention
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chapter 1.
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It's not on the screen
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because I didn't think
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about putting it in
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until it was too late.
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Ephesians chapter 1
Ephesians 1 chapter mention
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is in verse 4.
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Remember last,
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two weeks ago,
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we looked at
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Philippians 1, 6.
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And I referred
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to this verse
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and talked about
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how if we're Christians,
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that means God
-
has chosen us
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to be his children.
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God chose us
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because he wanted
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to choose us.
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All within him,
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nothing about us.
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He chose us
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before the foundation
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of the world.
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But I want to read
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this verse.
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Even as he chose us
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in him
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before the foundation
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of the world
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that we should be
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holy and blameless
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before him.
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God's intent
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when he saved
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you and me
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was to so work
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in us
-
throughout our lives
-
that we would grow
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and develop
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in Christ-like character.
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And as time goes on,
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we become more
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and more holy
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and blameless.
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That doesn't mean
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perfect.
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It means that we
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live a life
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above reproach.
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We seek to obey God.
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Those kinds of things.
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We need to think
-
of God as being
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like a father
-
who has many children.
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He's happy
-
that he's got each one
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but he's not just content
-
just to have
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all those children.
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He wants each child
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to grow,
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to mature,
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to be a good
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and productive
-
member of society.
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God,
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our Heavenly Father,
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he wants
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each one
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of us
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to grow
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and mature,
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to grow
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and develop
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holiness,
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purity,
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and to
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be a fruitful
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member
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of his family,
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of his kingdom.
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We need to pray
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to that end
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as Paul does
-
in these verses.
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Look at this.
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Number one,
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ask God
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to help you
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and others
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discover what is
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excellent.
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That's the first part
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of verse 10
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so that you may approve
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what is excellent.
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There's two key words here.
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The word approve
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means
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to put to the test,
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to find out,
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say,
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from experience,
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to discover.
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The word excellent
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literally means
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things that differ,
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things that make
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a difference,
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make a difference,
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the best things.
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The NIV
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translates this phrase
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so that you'll be able
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to discern
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what is best.
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What's your real
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desire for yourself
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as a Christian?
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How are you praying
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and asking God
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to work in your life?
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Now,
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you would never say this,
-
none of us
-
would ever say this,
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but do your prayers
-
sort of sound like
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your goal
-
is just to be mediocre,
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stay out of trouble,
-
stay healthy,
-
and don't go
-
overboard
-
with excitement
-
about being
-
a follower of Jesus.
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The way you pray,
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the kind of things
-
you pray for,
-
could it be
-
that's what
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it really boils down to?
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Or,
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do you pray
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that you will grow
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in your relationship
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with God?
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That you will really
-
develop Christ-like character?
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Do you pray
-
that you'll have
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a strong Christian influence
-
on other people?
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And are you praying
-
that for your children,
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for your grandchildren,
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for your friends,
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for the people
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that you really
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do care about
-
and you do pray for?
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You pray that
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for our church,
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our church family.
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We need to pray
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that we
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will discover
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from experience
-
that the best way
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to live in this world
-
is to love
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and serve God,
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to love
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and serve
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other people,
-
and not just enough
-
to get by,
-
but to excel
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at it,
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to seek
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to do
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our best
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to please
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God,
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to impact
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other people.
-
The next thing
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Paul teaches
-
about prayer
-
is this,
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ask God
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to help you
-
and others
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become pure
-
and blameless.
-
The phrase
-
in the last part
-
of verse 10,
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and so be pure
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and blameless
-
for the day
-
of Christ.
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To be pure
-
and blameless
-
is really talking
-
about
-
the inward
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and outward
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parts
-
of our lives,
-
our character.
-
pure
-
is something,
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a word
-
that can be
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translated
-
as sincere.
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It refers
-
to what we are
-
on the inside.
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Blameless
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refers to what
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we appear
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to be,
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how others
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perceive us,
-
both inward
-
and outward,
-
is what we're
-
talking about here.
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Another way
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to describe
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being pure
-
and blameless
-
is to be real,
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be genuine,
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be on the inside
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what you are
-
on the outside,
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be on the outside.
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Or put it another way,
-
Paul's teaching us
-
to pray
-
not to be hypocrites.
-
You know,
-
we pray for God
-
to help us to have,
-
we need to pray
-
that God
-
would help us
-
to have right motives
-
and then act
-
on those motives.
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I need to pray
-
that God
-
will help me
-
to prepare
-
and get up here
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and preach
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for the right reasons.
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You don't know
-
why I'm here.
-
Brian needs to pray
-
before he gets up here
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and leaves
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and sings like he did.
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God,
-
help me do it
-
from the right
-
kind of motives.
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You don't know,
-
I don't know
-
what his motives are.
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But God does.
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And we do as well.
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So we need to pray
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that way.
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God,
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help me to be
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pure,
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sincere,
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genuine
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on the inside
-
and on the out.
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You know,
-
another way to say this
-
is we need to ask God
-
to help us
-
to hate hypocrisy
-
and never
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allow ourselves
-
to be hypocrites
-
who don't practice
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what we
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profess.
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And you know,
-
by being here
-
this morning,
-
by being a member
-
of this church,
-
by coming to a worship service,
-
we are making
-
some kind of profession
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that we're Christians.
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We're God's people.
-
We've been born again
-
by the Spirit of God.
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We need to live like it.
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But we need God's
-
help to live like it.
-
So we need to pray
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for ourselves
-
and for the people
-
we care about
-
that we will
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grow in our love,
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in our knowledge,
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in our discernment,
-
and that we'll be
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the real deal.
-
We'll grow inwardly,
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develop in Christ-like character.
-
And we'll display that
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in all of our relationships.
-
There's one more
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Christ-like character,
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quality,
-
we need to pray for.
-
Look at this.
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Ask God to fill you
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and others
-
with the fruit
-
of righteousness.
-
The first part
-
of verse 11.
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Filled with the fruit
-
of righteousness
-
that comes through
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faith in Jesus Christ,
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what comes through
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Jesus Christ.
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We need to pray
-
that God would help us
-
to produce
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the kind of fruit
-
that comes
-
from having
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a right relationship
-
with Him
-
that is through
-
faith in Jesus.
-
Now the first thing
-
that might come
-
to your mind,
-
it does me,
-
the first thing
-
that might come
-
to our minds
-
when we say that word
-
fruit,
-
it's something like
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the fruit of the Spirit.
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Love, joy, peace,
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patience, kindness,
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goodness, faithfulness,
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gentleness,
-
self-control,
-
those kinds of qualities.
-
This prayer is not really
-
that we will develop
-
such fruit,
-
but that we will
-
demonstrate,
-
put it on display
-
in our lives.
-
We, you and me,
-
we need to ask God
-
to help us
-
to put love and joy
-
and peace
-
and these things
-
that are mentioned
-
into practice.
-
in the way
-
that we relate
-
to the people
-
in our homes,
-
at church,
-
at work,
-
at school,
-
every place
-
in our lives.
-
We need to specifically
-
ask that God
-
will help us
-
where we fail
-
the most.
-
Just think about it.
-
You know,
-
sitting here right now
-
or sitting at your home
-
reading the Bible
-
yourself,
-
you think about
-
the fruit of the Spirit
-
is love,
-
joy,
-
peace,
-
patience,
-
kindness,
-
and when you
-
sort of mellowed out,
-
chilled out,
-
just sort of sitting
-
back and reading
-
and thinking good
-
thoughts,
-
it's not hard
-
to be patient
-
in my room
-
by myself.
-
It's not hard
-
to have,
-
you know,
-
some kind thoughts,
-
be self-controlled.
-
People mess it up,
-
don't they?
-
people just bring out
-
the worst in us.
-
No.
-
People,
-
stressful situations
-
just help us to see
-
what's really on the inside,
-
how mature we are.
-
If you have a problem
-
with patience,
-
ask God,
-
Lord,
-
Lord,
-
help me.
-
Help me to desire this more,
-
to work on this more.
-
If you have a problem
-
with self-control,
-
pray about that.
-
Ask God to help you.
-
Now,
-
the people in your life
-
that you love,
-
that you know well,
-
you know where they struggle.
-
don't beat them up,
-
but pray
-
where they are weak,
-
where they struggle.
-
Ask God to help them.
-
Do what you can do
-
to help them.
-
We need to
-
ask God to help us
-
display the fruits
-
of righteousness.
-
And we need to be praying this
-
for other people
-
in our lives as well.
-
The final part
-
of Paul's request
-
is really
-
the end result
-
of everything else.
-
Look at this.
-
Pray for yourself
-
and others
-
to glorify God.
-
For the glory
-
and praise of God
-
this outends.
-
This is the ultimate
-
purpose of our lives,
-
isn't it?
-
We know that.
-
It's the goal
-
of everything that we do
-
to bring glory
-
and honor
-
and praise to God.
-
That means
-
this should be
-
the ultimate request
-
of every prayer
-
we pray
-
for ourselves
-
and for
-
other Christians.
-
Doesn't mean
-
it's always easy,
-
but it's what we should
-
pray for.
-
Are you praying
-
like this?
-
When you face
-
a major decision
-
in life,
-
do you pray
-
among other things,
-
Lord,
-
bottom line,
-
I want you to do
-
what will enable me
-
to most glorify you?
-
As you think about
-
serving the Lord
-
here in this church
-
or somewhere,
-
do you pray,
-
Lord,
-
it's not about me.
-
What people say
-
or think about me,
-
help me to do
-
what I do
-
in a way that
-
will honor you,
-
bring glory to you.
-
and when you pray
-
for people
-
who are close
-
to you,
-
do you pray
-
that God
-
will use
-
them
-
for his glory?
-
Whatever that
-
may mean
-
and that may mean
-
that your child's
-
looking for a job
-
and if you pray,
-
Lord,
-
will you not just
-
let them have the job
-
but let them have the job
-
if that's what will most
-
enable them to serve
-
your purpose.
-
If that's what
-
will bring glory
-
to you the most.
-
See,
-
it's not always easy
-
to pray such a prayer
-
but it's how we're called
-
to live and pray.
-
Now,
-
in light of what we see
-
in Paul's prayer,
-
do you need to make
-
any changes
-
in the way
-
that you pray?
-
Let me say it
-
one more time.
-
Don't misunderstand.
-
We all need to pray
-
all kinds of prayers.
-
We need to be praying
-
about things related
-
to the coronavirus
-
for people to get well,
-
for the pandemic
-
to end.
-
We need to pray
-
for our country
-
especially this week
-
that there will be
-
a smooth,
-
peaceful transition
-
of power
-
on Wednesday
-
when President-elect
-
Biden
-
takes the oath
-
of office
-
and becomes actual
-
President Biden.
-
We need to pray
-
for widespread
-
repentance
-
in this country.
-
Reconciliation.
-
We need it.
-
prayer for our prayer.
-
But both the teaching
-
and the examples
-
in the Bible
-
clearly show us
-
that when we pray,
-
spiritual needs
-
need to take priority
-
over the physical needs.
-
We need to work on that
-
privately
-
in our private prayers,
-
but also publicly
-
as we pray in groups
-
here at church.
-
church.
-
There's no doubt
-
that praying
-
such prayers
-
will make a difference
-
in our lives
-
and it will make
-
a difference
-
in the lives
-
of the people
-
we care about.
-
And when we pray
-
the way Jesus
-
taught us,
-
the way Paul
-
models here,
-
it will make
-
a difference
-
in the number
-
of prayers
-
that we see
-
answered.
-
Let's pray together.
-
Dear God,
-
help us to see
-
right now
-
what changes
-
need to be made
-
in our prayer lives.
-
Father,
-
for some people,
-
convict them
-
of their prayerlessness,
-
of their failure
-
to pray regularly,
-
of their failure
-
to really believe
-
that prayer matters,
-
that it makes
-
a difference.
-
Father,
-
for people
-
in this room
-
who just about
-
exclusively pray
-
for physical things,
-
help them to see,
-
Father,
-
that their priority
-
is wrong.
-
Help them to see,
-
dear God,
-
that while they may
-
need to continue
-
to pray about everybody
-
and everything
-
they're praying
-
about right now,
-
they need to,
-
first of all,
-
focus on you,
-
your way and will.
-
They need to focus
-
on true Christian love,
-
growing in it,
-
becoming more knowledgeable
-
and discerning.
-
Lord,
-
help us all
-
to see that we need
-
to be praying
-
about the development
-
of Christian character
-
and that all things,
-
in all that we do,
-
we seek your glory.
-
So,
-
Father,
-
just show us,
-
help us to leave
-
here today
-
better equipped
-
to pray in a way
-
that will truly
-
please you
-
and make a difference
-
in our lives
-
and in the lives
-
of people we pray for.
-
let's just now,
-
all of us,
-
in attitude of prayer,
-
let the Lord speak,
-
listen,
-
obey Him
-
and respond to Him.
-
whatever you who
-
you or not.
-
I think you
-
willfox
-
verses
-
but in the 수가
-
of Israel
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high
-
until man
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vive
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ganz
-
.