Sermon
A Pattern for Doing Church (Part 2)
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Well, if you have your Bibles, look with me to Acts chapter 2, and we're going to look at verses 41 through 47,
Acts 2 chapter mention
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continuing the message we began last week, finishing it up today.
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And for those of you who couldn't be here last week, let me just go back and play a little bit of catch-up
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for just three or four minutes to bring us all up to speed.
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Here's what we saw last week.
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Jesus has come, lived, died on the cross.
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Three days later, He's risen from the dead.
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He, 40 days after that, ascends into the heavens.
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Before He does, He commissions His church to take the gospel into the world.
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He gives them instruction.
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He's seen them in Judea.
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He's seen them down in Galilee.
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He tells them to go back to Jerusalem.
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He goes back with them.
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And there He tells them to remain in Jerusalem because in a few more days, the Holy Spirit of God is going to come.
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And so they meet together in the upper room where they had observed the Last Supper, and they begin to pray.
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There's not just the 12.
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There are 120 in number.
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They replace Judas as the 12th apostle, and then they begin to pray.
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And they pray for 10 days until Pentecost comes, 10 days following His ascension into the heavens.
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At Pentecost, it's a wild, wild time.
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They are praying, and suddenly there's the sound of a rushing mighty wind.
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We likened it last week to that of the sound of a tornado, if you've ever been through one of those.
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There's no wind.
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There's just noise.
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It brings out the people of the city, and even those who are in this room and they're praying,
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they suddenly experience the coming of the Spirit who descends in the likeness of a giant tongue of fire.
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The tongue of fire divides into many cloven tongues of fire and rests upon the heads of believers,
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and the 120 believers are instantaneously baptized and dwelt of the Spirit of God.
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They go out into the streets of Jerusalem.
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A crowd is gathering, people from all over the world, not just the residents of Jerusalem,
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but those who have come for the Passover and those who have stayed for Pentecost,
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and they begin to listen as these believers begin to prophesy and say things in languages they've never studied.
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Some skeptics in the crowd begin to say, hey, these men are drunk with wine.
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Peter defends them, says, no, it's early in the morning.
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That's not the case.
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What is happening here is what was predicted by the prophet Joel when he said young men would dream dreams
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and old men and old women would prophesy this is of God.
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And then he goes to the Psalms and he begins showing them that Jesus was the Christ.
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Preaches a powerful message and basically in the end says this,
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All of you here today are witnesses of what I'm telling you that we have rejected God's Son,
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and many of you here in this crowd have personally had a hand in putting him to death.
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You're responsible for killing the Messiah.
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But we all know, we cannot deny, that God raised him three days later from the dead.
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But the Spirit of God fell on those who were listening and many were pricked in their heart, the Scripture says, to their very soul.
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They came rushing to Peter and said, Peter, what can we do to be made right with God?
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And Peter looked at them boldly and said, you need to repent of your sin, repent of what you've done.
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You need to repent of all your sin.
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You need to believe on the Lord Jesus Christ.
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And if you really mean business with God, come and receive the mark of a believer, which is baptism.
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Three thousand that day.
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Are you ready for that?
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Three thousand that day came and became a part of this assembly.
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It says they were added to the church.
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It doesn't mean they were added to some role.
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We talked about that last week.
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It means they were adopted into the family of God there in Jerusalem.
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Now, here's the million-dollar question, the one that we're attempting to answer in this two-part sermon.
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And that is, where do we go from here?
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You're one of those 120 and 3,000 come forward.
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What do we do now?
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In the past, we've had Jesus at our side.
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Now, His Spirit is in us through the Holy Spirit, but it's near them.
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And they're seeking to learn how to follow Him.
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Where do we go from here?
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Nine things they did.
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Four of them we pointed out last week.
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I want to point out an additional five today.
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For those of you who weren't here, let me just hurriedly run through what those first four were.
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Right out of the gate, they baptized all those who followed Christ.
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And I want to tell you, they baptized them by immersion, I believe.
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The word means to die, to dip into something.
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I think they took them to a local river, and there they baptized them just as Jesus had earlier been baptized.
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I want to tell you, I think Baptists ought to be unapologetic about how we choose to baptize.
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I hope we will never give in to the thinking, well, it's just a symbol.
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The means of baptism, the method of baptism doesn't matter.
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Because in my estimation, it does.
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Is it a difference of having heaven and hell?
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Of course not.
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But it is significant because the way we baptize by immersion clearly sends a message to those who observe.
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That's the reason I believe, likewise, in public baptism the way they practiced it then.
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Here's what happens.
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It says, when a person is baptized, they're demonstrating outwardly, we believe in the death, burial, and subsequent resurrection of the Lord Jesus.
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As we carry a person on the water and bring them up out of the water.
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It also says, this person being baptized has died to their sin.
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They no longer exist.
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They are a new creature in Christ.
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It also says, just as Jesus was baptized of John, I choose to be his disciple.
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I want to follow in his example.
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So, they immediately baptized those 3,000 who came and became a part of the church.
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Second thing they did was this.
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They began to disciple those who were new to the faith.
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You got 120 people who have walked with Jesus during his earthly ministry.
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3,000 who just become believers.
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They couldn't just turn these folk loose on their own, send them back to their native lands without knowing more about Jesus.
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And so, they began to meet on a daily basis.
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And they talked to them about all that Jesus did.
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All that Jesus said.
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All the correcting that Jesus ever did with his disciples.
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They immersed them in the teaching of Jesus.
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They discipled them.
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Thirdly, they worked hard to build a strong partnership.
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That word fellowship that we use so often,
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I'm afraid that we have equated that with cookies and ice cream and Cokes
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in a time of what we call fellowship.
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The Greek word was the word koinonia.
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It means they literally became partners.
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That's why I know when it says they added them,
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they didn't think of themselves as having just joined a religious club.
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We're a part of this religious institution that is meeting here in the heart of Jerusalem.
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That's not how they thought.
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They thought we're embracing a new way of thinking.
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We're embracing the Lord Jesus Christ.
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And that is the common denominator among all of us,
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is we share faith in the person of the Lord Jesus Christ.
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They literally became partners.
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A fourth thing they did was this.
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They partnered together in prayer.
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And listen, as they prayed,
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I mean God did bona fide miracles.
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Now, you listen to a lot of folk, including preachers, I'm sad to say,
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talk about miracles today.
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And they used that word so loosely,
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it's just about lost all meaning.
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We will call reaching a high attendance goal a miracle.
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What was a miracle?
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We had 500 in Sunday school today.
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That's not a miracle.
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Clemson has 85,000 every Saturday in the fall.
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You understand that?
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You can draw a crowd by just doing some pretty good publicity,
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by getting on the phones and calling your friend.
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Nothing wrong with that.
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But just understand, that's not, is it a good thing?
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Yes.
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Did God have his hand in it?
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I believe he did.
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Is it a miracle?
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Well, of course not.
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This building that we're constructing out here,
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the front of your church,
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it's going to be gorgeous.
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And God has provided the means.
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Is it a miracle?
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No.
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Construction company's doing that.
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You understand?
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We're paying for it.
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It's not a miracle.
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It's a good thing.
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It's a godly thing.
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Is it a miracle?
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It's not a miracle.
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I want to tell you,
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a miracle is when God does something
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that no human being can possibly,
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in their right mind, take credit for.
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It's something so supernatural
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that any who look at that say,
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boy, I don't know how to explain that.
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Even if they don't believe in God,
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that's unexplainable.
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But, man, something happened here
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that's beyond the normal.
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It's beyond the realm of explanation.
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And I'm telling you,
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God did bona fide miracles.
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Men who were lame got up and walked.
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People speaking in languages
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they've never understood or studied,
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that's a miracle.
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It's a miracle how the gospel
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of the Lord Jesus Christ spread
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in that first century.
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And here's what verse 43 and 42 and 43 tell us.
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It uses the imperfect tense in that verb
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that fear kept coming upon them.
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And what it means is this.
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The more they prayed,
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the more God did.
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And the more God did,
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the more they stood in awe of God.
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And the more they stood in awe of God,
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the more they prayed.
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And the more they prayed,
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the more God did.
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And it became a wonderful cycle.
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And I'm telling you,
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more than anything else,
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that's what's holding our churches back
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from being more successful
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in evangelism today than anything else.
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We don't witness the power of God
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the way we once did.
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And I believe that's attributable to the fact
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we don't pray as we once did.
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Well, let's move on.
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You've caught up with me now
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where we are in our message.
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The fifth thing I want you to see is this.
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They were incredibly generous
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in sharing what they had
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to meet the needs of congregants
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in their assembly.
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You look at verse 44 and 45.
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Now, all the believers were together
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and had everything in common.
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Let that sink in for a minute.
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Now, all the believers were together
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and had everything in common.
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And when we read that,
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sometimes we're tempted to think
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that means they were in one spirit
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and one accord like we read about
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in Acts chapter 1.
Acts 1 chapter mention
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Well, it indicates that a little bit,
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but that's not nearly the essence
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of what it's saying.
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Look at verse, the same verse
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or the next verse.
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So they sold their possessions and property
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and distributed the proceeds to all
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as anyone had need.
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Can you get your head around that?
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Have you ever been a part of a church
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where that kind of thing was taking place?
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I know you're a part of a generous church,
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but can you imagine this level of generosity?
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And let me tell you what drove them to do that.
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These people who had come to know Christ,
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many of them were from other parts of the world.
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That's the reason there was a need
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for this miracle of tongues.
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And so as they had come together for Passover
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and now Pentecost,
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and now they received Christ as Savior,
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these who had been with Jesus recognized
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we can't send them back to their homes
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unless they know more about the gospel.
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And so they immersed them
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in the teachings of Jesus.
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And these folk didn't immediately return home.
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And after a period of time,
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their resources ran out.
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And so what they did was they said,
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hey, we need to help these people out,
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these fellow believers out.
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These people have become a part of our family.
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We are inseparably linked to them
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and tied to them.
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They're partners with us in Christ.
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And so some had some real estate.
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They went and sold it.
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Some had some homes or some possessions.
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They sold them.
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And they brought the money
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and they laid it at the apostles' feet,
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the next few chapters tell us.
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And they then distributed it
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to people in the congregation
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however they needed it.
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Now, some folks have mistakenly said
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this is a picture of what communism looks like.
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And that's why we ought to be communist.
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That's absolutely false.
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This is not a picture of communism at all.
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It is a picture of Christianity at its best.
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Understand the differences in this in communism.
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Communism says,
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I'm going to give you five
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and you'll have five
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and you'll have five
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and you'll have five.
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At least in theory, that's what they say.
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It never really works out that way.
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But we're all going to take what we have
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and spread it out
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and everybody will have five
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and we'll all be equal
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and we'll all have equal concern
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for everyone in the world.
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But if you want to see a true picture of communism,
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look at the Ukraine right now.
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That's a picture of what communism looks like
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where Putin says,
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you know what?
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We have might and might makes us right.
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And because we can take what is yours,
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we will.
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And we'll take as much of it
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with no regard for you or your people
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or the sanctity of life.
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We'll just take whatever we desire.
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That's communism.
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You understand that?
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And what you see here is exactly the opposite.
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It is a spirit of generosity
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born by people's gratitude
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for what Christ has done for them on the cross.
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where God changes our heart.
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And material things are no longer the benchmark
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by which we measure the success of our lives
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because we know there's life after this life.
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So do we use material things?
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We do.
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Is it okay to have material things?
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It is.
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But do we just invest our whole life in that?
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Of course not.
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We recognize this is a tool that God has given for us
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to help others and to spread the gospel.
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I'm going to tell you,
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if you want to be a New Testament church,
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a solid, good New Testament church,
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be known by your generosity.
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Man, I was fortunate.
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I pastored only two churches in 40 years,
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and both of them were generous, generous churches.
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They were generous when they had a little,
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and they were generous when God had blessed them,
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and they had more.
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I hope you'll always endeavor to be a generous church.
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Now, let me just say a personal word here,
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and I'm not going to dwell on this,
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but I just want to tell you something.
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I've been looking at your budget,
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and I want to first of all commend you
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for exceeding your Lottie Moon offering
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and for doing well in the campaign
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to build this new addition to your building.
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But two weeks ago,
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I was looking at how far we've fallen behind
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in our budget receipts to date,
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and we were about 60,000 two weeks ago,
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and I saw where today you've closed that gap
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and you're only 50,000 behind,
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and man, that's great.
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Can I tell you something?
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It won't be long.
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You'll have a full-time pastor.
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Don't put the burden on him
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of having to find a way
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to close that gap.
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Can I just be honest with you?
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If I were coming as your pastor
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in the days to come,
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I would want to do this in my first year.
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I don't know what he'll do,
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but I suspect whoever you get,
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this will be their agenda,
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to come in in that first year
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and simply preach the Scripture
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and get to know you and love you
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and not have to make hard, critical decisions,
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especially about my...
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In fact, if I came as your pastor,
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I wouldn't want to talk about money
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for a whole year
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if I could get out of it
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because I'd want to build credibility
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with you where you trusted me
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and you knew that, okay,
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it's okay for him to do that.
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He's proven himself.
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Don't make him come in
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and ride out of that,
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have to deal with financial issues.
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Right now, you're not paying
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a full-time pastor
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and you're not paying
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a full-time youth minister,
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and I'm telling you,
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if a full-time pastor was here
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and a full-time youth person were here,
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that pastor would have
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some difficult decisions
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to make financially going forward.
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So don't put him in that position.
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Just take that off the table.
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Say, you know what?
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Between now and Easter,
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let's really try to close this gap
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so that it's not as significant
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as it is now.
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There's a sixth thing,
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don't you see they did?
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They were faithful
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in getting together for worship.
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Look at verse 46 for a moment.
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And allow every word to sink in.
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And every day.
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Everybody say that with me.
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And every day.
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They devoted themselves
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to meeting together
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in the temple complex.
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Every day.
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Every day.
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You know what that means?
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That means Sunday they gathered
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and they had worship
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and they prayed
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and they probably ended up
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with a fellowship meal.
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They got to get,
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they did some discipleship.
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And then of course on Monday,
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well they got together
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and they worship
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and they prayed
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and they fellowship.
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But then on Tuesday
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they got together
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and they worship
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and they prayed
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and they fellowship
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and on Wednesday
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they got together
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and they prayed
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and they fellowship.
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But now come Thursday
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they got together
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and they prayed
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and they fellowship.
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And then Friday
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they got together
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and they prayed
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and they fellowship.
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But Saturday
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they got together
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and they prayed
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and they fellowship.
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and then they did that again
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every day
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now
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we're not going to do that here
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and we can't do that here
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I don't want anybody to feel guilty about that
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because I want you to know
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the world that they were a part of
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is not like the world that you and I
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are a part of and that's not our fault
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we shouldn't feel guilty
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our world has changed
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I want to show you something
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Jesus came into Jerusalem 2,000 years ago
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on a donkey
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but at the turn
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the beginning of the 20th century
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man was still
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pretty much riding on beast
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of burden
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they were pretty much getting around on donkeys
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and on horses
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but in the last 120 years things have
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radically changed
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our world has shrunk
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in many ways but it has also expanded
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for us personally
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because now we have the ability to be here today
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and in New York this afternoon
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or to be in Europe tomorrow morning
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right
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and some of you
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you don't work the way they did then
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where they worked pretty much
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within a few hundred yards of their houses
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many of you work 5 or 10 miles from home
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and many of you work 50 or 100 or 1,000 miles from home
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some of you get in the car on Monday morning
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or on a plane Sunday afternoon
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and you're somewhere all week
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and you're back here on Friday
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and with your families on the weekend
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man our world has changed
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right
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and so
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we can no longer
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because of school
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and so anything
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we can't meet
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seven days a week
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but I want to tell you something
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we can be regular
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in our worship
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we can come together
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on a weekly basis
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and we can worship the Lord
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and praise the Lord
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and do discipleship
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even more than one day a week
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we can meet to pray
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and we can meet to fellowship
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and to do the work of the church
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but the big thing is
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there needs to be regularity
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in our worship
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in Hebrews chapter 10
Hebrews 10 chapter mention
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one translation
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puts that old verse
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that we all know by memory
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forsake not the assembling
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of yourselves together
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as the manner of some is
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here's how it puts it
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not staying away
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from our worship meetings
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as some habitually do
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in other words
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not just once in a while
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but often
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but encouraging each other
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and all the more
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as you see the day
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the day of Christ returns
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what it's talking about
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drawing near
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the writer of Hebrews
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is saying this
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listen
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I know you're busy
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and I know
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there are things going on
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in your world
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but don't get to the place
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that you forsake
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the assembling
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of yourselves together
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some have
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taken up that habit
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and they are habitually
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out of fellowship
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with the church
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do you hear what he's saying
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you need to assemble
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with other believers
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and that's true
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not just during times
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of heartache
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but in your everyday routine
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you need the fellowship
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of the church
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and I'm going to tell you something
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the fellowship of the church
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needs you
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we need you in the choir
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we need you in midweek prayer service
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we need you in the nursery
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they just desperately need folk
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down in the nursery
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all the time
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they need people
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in the children's department
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and in the youth ministry
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we need believers
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here at the church
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and believers need to be a part
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of the fellowship of God
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can I tell you
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the last few years
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of my ministry
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at Brushy Creek
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boy it broke my heart
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some things I saw happening
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and it wasn't just
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at Brushy Creek
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it was across the board
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I talked to so many pastors
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about this
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from about the year 2000
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attendance in church
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radically changed
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I'm talking about
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people's attendance habits
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changed
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from the way it was
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when I started
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in the 70's
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when I went to
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Western Avenue
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in the 70's
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you could count on this
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there were about 80%
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of whoever was in
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the congregation
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that attended
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almost every Sunday
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about 50%
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of that 80%
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about 40%
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of the whole church
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attended
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Sunday night
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Wednesday night
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anytime the doors
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were open
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but about 80%
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attended
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on Sunday morning
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you count on them
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being there
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next Sunday
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and next Sunday
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and next Sunday
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and next Sunday
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and they would miss
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two to three
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or four weeks a year
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and we call those
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active participants
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right
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we all knew
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what it was
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he's active
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in his church
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it meant
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he's there
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just about every time
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the doors are open
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he's there
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at least four
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or five Sundays
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out of the month
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occasionally
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he'll be off
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on vacation
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occasionally
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after work
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occasionally
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he'll be sick
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but most all the time
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he's there
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then there was about
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20% of the congregation
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that are hit and miss
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they'd come one Sunday
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they'd miss the next
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or they'd come two Sundays
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and then they'd miss
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the next two
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or they'd come for a month
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and then you wouldn't
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see them for a month
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you know what I'm talking about
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right
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and then you had
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the third category person
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and that's the ones
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who showed up
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on Christmas and Easter
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they'd always come out
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the door and say
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pastor
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is that the only
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two messages
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you got
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well
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come more often
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maybe you'll hear
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something different
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you know
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but around the year
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2000
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we not only
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recognized
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that Americans
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have more
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disposable income
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they have more
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what they view
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as disposable
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time
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and what happened
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was this
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it got to be
-
okay
-
for folk
-
to miss
-
a couple
-
three Sundays
-
a month
-
and they could
-
go the
-
on vacation
-
and then next week
-
they might go to the lakes
-
they got a friend
-
that's got a lake house
-
they'll just go the way
-
or maybe
-
Wade just
-
worked hard this week
-
and we just need to sleep in
-
or I've got some yard work
-
I need to do
-
and it got to where
-
instead of
-
one or two groups
-
in the church
-
that 80% group
-
just disappeared
-
and
-
we redefined
-
what it was
-
to be active
-
people in their mind
-
think now
-
that active is
-
I show up a couple times
-
a month at church
-
I'm active
-
I've actually seen people
-
in times past
-
when I'm still a pastor
-
and I'd say
-
hey we missed you
-
the last couple of Sundays
-
and they'd look at you like
-
how dare you insult me
-
I'm active
-
I was here three weeks ago
-
you understand what I'm saying
-
the scripture
-
warns us
-
admonishes us
-
don't forsake the assembling
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of yourselves together
-
as the matter of some is
-
you know
-
it's important
-
that we be faithful
-
to our church
-
that that become
-
a priority in your life
-
and I want to tell you
-
especially why
-
those of you
-
in this room
-
who maybe have fallen
-
in that category
-
where you say
-
well we go about
-
every other week
-
or we go two out of three weeks
-
can I tell you something
-
your parents went more often
-
than that
-
for the most part
-
now some of you
-
may have come from
-
non-Christian homes
-
but
-
attendance has been declining
-
in terms of people's
-
habits of regularity
-
for the last 20-30 years
-
and I want to tell you something
-
you're going to live to regret
-
the time's going to come
-
when you see your children
-
leave home
-
you're going to find out
-
rather than come
-
once or twice a month
-
they're not going to come at all
-
because you're signaling them
-
it's okay
-
not to be faithful
-
in my attendance
-
it's just not that important
-
I can still love God
-
and I can still
-
you see what I'm saying
-
you don't want to do that
-
these people
-
they were faithful
-
in their
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attendance
-
to church
-
seventh thing
-
I want you to see
-
is this
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they got along well
-
and worked to protect
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the harmony
-
of their fellowship
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verse 46
-
the latter part of the verse
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and broke bread
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from house to house
-
they ate their food
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with gladness
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and simplicity
-
of heart
-
you know what that says
-
they got along
-
they liked
-
each other
-
you wouldn't meet
-
so often
-
and go to each other's
-
homes
-
and fellowship
-
and have your meals
-
and be involved
-
in that level
-
of discipleship
-
unless
-
you developed
-
a strong bond
-
with each other
-
these people
-
were friends
-
in and out
-
of church
-
they were their
-
closest associates
-
they were the ones
-
they were doing
-
life together with
-
and so as a result
-
man they protected
-
the fellowship
-
of their church
-
now you see that
-
in the epistles
-
of Paul
-
one of the churches
-
Paul liked
-
I believe the best
-
we had him here
-
right now in this state
-
he'd say Paul
-
of all the churches
-
you ever served at
-
which one you liked
-
the best
-
I don't know
-
which one he'd say
-
but he would tell you
-
one of the places
-
he liked the best
-
was the Philippians
-
they were good to it
-
and he wrote them
-
the book of Philippians
-
is about that relationship
-
but even in the midst
-
of this book
-
you know what he says
-
he said there are
-
two old girls
-
in that church
-
who man
-
they're fellow workers
-
with me in the ministry
-
and I love them both
-
but you know what I hear
-
I hear they're at odds
-
with each other
-
some of you go
-
and straighten that mess out
-
man don't
-
don't let them continue
-
to be at each other
-
work through that
-
to the Corinthians
-
a church
-
I think he probably
-
had a lot of problems with
-
he says hey
-
I hear
-
and I partially believe
-
it's true
-
because I'm hearing
-
so often
-
that there is actually
-
division among you
-
and he cites
-
some of the problems
-
and he says
-
you need to address
-
these problems
-
and you need to
-
discipline those folks
-
even if it means
-
putting them out
-
of the church
-
for the good
-
of the whole body
-
you need to do that
-
so this was
-
a tight-knit group
-
they loved each other
-
but I want to tell you
-
something
-
they weren't above
-
going to somebody
-
and saying hey
-
you know what
-
your life is drifted
-
away from the truth
-
and we need to call
-
you back
-
and you need to
-
repent
-
and if not
-
we're going to
-
practice church
-
discipline
-
in your life
-
and in our church
-
we have this notion
-
today
-
that to be loving
-
is always to be
-
gentle
-
but I'm telling you
-
to be loving
-
at times
-
is to be gentle
-
but at times
-
it's to say
-
we can't put up
-
with any foolishness
-
I raise my kids
-
on that principle
-
and I'm going to
-
love you
-
and as long as
-
I can be gentle
-
I'm going to be gentle
-
but I'm going to
-
tell you something
-
if I have to have
-
a firm hand with you
-
I'm going to
-
exercise a firm hand
-
because I'm going
-
to discipline you
-
because there's a way
-
I want you to turn out
-
and I don't want you
-
to be lawless
-
I don't want you
-
to be unruly
-
I don't want you
-
to be making trouble
-
all your life
-
for yourself
-
or for other folks
-
and so is their daddy
-
I discipline my children
-
and they love me
-
and respect me
-
for that
-
I want to tell you
-
I've been disappointed
-
at times
-
in the church
-
when I see
-
church people
-
sit back
-
and see somebody
-
in the church
-
who is unruly
-
who divides
-
who is
-
a sharp tongue
-
and leadership
-
in the church
-
and membership
-
in the church
-
just sits there
-
and never says a word
-
they think
-
they tell themselves
-
try to convince themselves
-
we're just being loving
-
we're just being patient
-
we're just being gracious
-
and sometimes
-
it's a matter
-
of being cowardly
-
before I left
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Western Avenue
-
I'd been there
-
about 15 years
-
and one of the last
-
couple three years
-
I was there
-
we were having
-
a business meeting
-
and there was this lady
-
who from the very start
-
of my ministry there
-
she didn't do it often
-
but about once
-
every year
-
18 months
-
she was going to say
-
something in a business
-
meeting that was crass
-
she was going to pick
-
somebody apart
-
sometimes it was staff
-
sometimes it was me
-
sometimes it was a deacon
-
in the church
-
but she would just say
-
something that just
-
had a barb to it
-
and when she would do it
-
well people would just
-
wince
-
you could sit on
-
people didn't like it
-
in the congregation
-
they were a harmonious church
-
and they didn't like that
-
but she would say
-
and one Sunday night
-
in a business meeting
-
she had some pretty
-
sharp words for me
-
and she said
-
what she said
-
and I didn't say anything
-
and we went on
-
the business meeting
-
and when it was over
-
I looked over at my wife
-
and four or five women
-
had come and gathered
-
around my wife
-
because tears
-
were streaming
-
down her face
-
she didn't like to see me
-
get beat up like that
-
and so
-
they were huddling
-
around her
-
and I went over to her
-
and said
-
you ready to go
-
and I heard one of these
-
women say to my wife
-
she said
-
I want you to know
-
call this lady by name
-
says we all take her
-
with a grain of salt
-
don't pay that
-
any attention
-
we know how she is
-
she's always been
-
she was that way
-
with the last
-
she just got to say
-
what she says
-
she prides herself
-
in her frankness
-
and her candor
-
and we don't take her
-
seriously
-
she just says
-
what she says
-
and then she said
-
we want you to know
-
we're always behind you
-
we've always got your back
-
my wife
-
it was out of character
-
for her
-
because I'm the one
-
who's more opinionated
-
but she looked that lady
-
in the face
-
and she said
-
that's the problem
-
there are times
-
I wish you were
-
in front of us
-
instead of behind us
-
you hear what I'm saying
-
you've been in those
-
meetings haven't you
-
where somebody said
-
something
-
you just knew
-
that's not
-
Christian behavior
-
that's not how
-
we should act
-
and I'm telling you
-
it would be a good thing
-
if in those moments
-
you went to that person
-
either publicly
-
or privately
-
depending on the situation
-
how bad it is
-
and say
-
you know what
-
we love you
-
we're not going to
-
tolerate it here
-
at First Baptist Pickens
-
that's not how we behave
-
that's not how the Bible
-
instructs kingdom people
-
to behave
-
and say
-
you can't do that here
-
if you're going to do that
-
you're going to have to
-
go somewhere else
-
because
-
we just can't tolerate that
-
they guarded
-
the fellowship
-
of the church
-
and I'm going to tell you
-
something
-
a church that doesn't
-
guard the fellowship
-
of the church
-
is a church
-
that one day
-
will be in trouble
-
if you think
-
harmony just happens
-
and unity just happens
-
you're mistaken
-
you've got to guard it
-
you've got to prize it
-
I hit my odometer
-
this morning
-
five miles
-
from the church
-
going that direction
-
on highway 8
-
because I'd noticed
-
this before
-
and I had my wife
-
who was in the dark
-
this morning
-
because of the time
-
moving back
-
I think I got them all
-
I'm not sure
-
but you know how many
-
churches there are
-
from just five miles
-
down this road
-
to this spot right here
-
there are either
-
16 or 17 churches
-
down that road
-
in a five mile distance
-
you think that's all
-
about missions
-
you think that's all
-
about spreading
-
the gospel
-
of the Lord Jesus
-
are you like me
-
are you a little bit
-
suspicious that
-
we just can't get
-
along one another
-
isn't that the case
-
you hear about that
-
old guy
-
he was rescued
-
from this island
-
and he'd been
-
missing five years
-
and when they got there
-
they said
-
hey we spotted you
-
by a plane
-
and we came back
-
to rescue you
-
and so they're
-
putting him
-
in the helicopter
-
to get him out of there
-
and this guy
-
who was flying
-
the helicopter
-
said
-
hey you got
-
three outbuildings
-
out here
-
what are these buildings
-
he said
-
well that's my house
-
okay well
-
what's that other building
-
he said
-
well that's where
-
I go to church
-
he said
-
well what's that
-
other building
-
he said
-
well that's where
-
I used to go to church
-
that's why you got
-
17 buildings
-
down this road
-
you understand
-
because
-
we don't take seriously
-
working out
-
our differences
-
and guarding
-
our harmony
-
and guarding
-
our unity
-
it's just easier
-
to pick up
-
and go somewhere else
-
I want you to see
-
an 8 thing
-
they were looked on
-
with favor
-
by the outside world
-
verse 47
-
8
-
praising God
-
and having favor
-
with all the people
-
that means just those
-
in the church
-
that's what we just
-
got through talking about
-
here he's talking about
-
having favor with people
-
outside the church
-
I just got to tell you
-
if you're the church
-
that God has called you
-
to be
-
and you're going to
-
stand on biblical
-
principles
-
the people in the world
-
are not always going to
-
like everything
-
you got to say
-
there are going to be
-
times that the world
-
is not going to like
-
your pastor
-
or your staff
-
or you
-
because of your
-
standing on abortion
-
or about
-
homosexuality
-
or about
-
transgender
-
situations
-
about alcohol
-
and drugs
-
and I could just
-
go on and on
-
and on and on
-
many people
-
when they hear
-
the word of God
-
preach
-
are going to be
-
offended by it
-
and they're going to
-
be angry with you
-
it's one thing
-
for them to be
-
offended
-
it's one thing
-
for them to be
-
angry
-
and it's another
-
thing for you
-
to give them
-
just cause
-
and some
-
believers
-
some ministers
-
they live such
-
unscrupulous lives
-
that when people
-
see them
-
on the outside
-
they discredit
-
their testimony
-
because they say
-
man that guy
-
comes in the
-
restaurant
-
and he's just
-
rude
-
he's just
-
he's just
-
rude
-
may that never
-
be said about
-
anybody here
-
at First Baptist
-
Church of Pickens
-
when I was
-
serving in
-
Statesville
-
there was
-
a time where
-
I was asked
-
to serve as
-
chairman of
-
this group
-
that was
-
going to
-
fight a
-
liquor issue
-
in our town
-
and I had
-
to go down
-
to the
-
chamber of
-
commerce
-
because the
-
guy who
-
was leading
-
the fight
-
for this
-
liquor thing
-
was the
-
president of
-
the chamber
-
in Statesville
-
North Carolina
-
and so when I
-
walked into his
-
office for a
-
preliminary meeting
-
he said now
-
you're the guy
-
at Western Amity
-
right
-
and I said
-
yes sir I am
-
and he said
-
the guy who
-
was your
-
predecessor
-
was Jake
-
Honeycutt
-
wasn't it
-
I mentioned Jake
-
a few weeks
-
ago to y'all
-
and he said
-
I said yes
-
and he said
-
you know
-
I don't know
-
if you know
-
this or not
-
but Jake
-
and I
-
locked it up
-
like you
-
and I
-
didn't
-
ready to
-
lock it
-
up
-
about 10
-
years ago
-
over the
-
issue of
-
liquor
-
and I said
-
yeah that's
-
what I hear
-
and he said
-
I'll tell you
-
something
-
even though
-
he and I
-
went toe
-
to toe
-
and nose
-
to nose
-
and it
-
got hot
-
sometimes
-
he said
-
I hope
-
you're as
-
nice a guy
-
as he was
-
because he
-
said I'm
-
going to
-
tell you
-
something
-
I don't
-
have anything
-
but good
-
things to
-
say about
-
that guy
-
he said
-
man he
-
was a man
-
of character
-
and a man
-
who is gracious
-
and a man
-
who is loving
-
and I want to
-
tell you something
-
that's how it
-
ought to be
-
with every one
-
of us in
-
this room
-
we might have
-
to disagree
-
with somebody
-
we don't
-
ever have
-
to be
-
disagreeable
-
do we
-
we ought
-
to be
-
people
-
whose
-
lives
-
are found
-
in favor
-
with the
-
world
-
and then
-
there's
-
one last
-
thing
-
and I
-
close
-
they
-
partnered
-
together
-
in getting
-
out the
-
gospel
-
look at
-
verse 47
-
I love
-
this
-
and every
-
day
-
the Lord
-
added to
-
those
-
added to
-
them
-
rather
-
those
-
who
-
were
-
being
-
saved
-
can you
-
imagine
-
that
-
every
-
day
-
somebody
-
was being
-
saved
-
you know
-
there are
-
churches
-
right here
-
in Pickens
-
I'm not
-
making this
-
up
-
who in the
-
course of a
-
year
-
they never
-
baptized
-
anybody
-
all across
-
the state
-
of South
-
Carolina
-
there are
-
lots of
-
churches
-
that don't
-
baptize
-
a single
-
person
-
in the
-
course
-
of a
-
year
-
I know
-
without even
-
seeing the
-
records that
-
during these
-
two years
-
of COVID
-
fewer people
-
have been
-
baptized in
-
our Baptist
-
churches
-
than probably
-
in the last
-
hundred years
-
there's no
-
question that
-
COVID has
-
kept us from
-
being as
-
aggressive in
-
evangelism as
-
we were at
-
one time
-
but I'm
-
going to tell you
-
something
-
if this
-
becomes a
-
way of
-
life for
-
us
-
and we
-
just settle
-
in and say
-
you know
-
what
-
it's okay
-
that we
-
just minister
-
to our
-
own
-
and that we
-
not take
-
the gospel
-
out to the
-
nations
-
only take
-
them
-
we will
-
have
-
forfeited
-
our right
-
to be
-
called
-
church
-
we'll be
-
nothing more
-
than a
-
sacred
-
society
-
of secret
-
snobs
-
do you
-
understand
-
that
-
the church's
-
mission
-
is clear
-
cut
-
and that
-
mission is
-
to take
-
the gospel
-
to the
-
nations
-
as soon as
-
you're a new
-
pastor on
-
board I
-
hope you
-
quickly will
-
develop a
-
strategy where
-
you'll say
-
let's have a
-
strategy for
-
reaching
-
Pickens for
-
Christ
-
and then you'll
-
have a strategy
-
about how do
-
we influence
-
Pickens County
-
and Greenville
-
County for
-
Christ
-
and how do
-
we get the
-
gospel across
-
the state
-
and into the
-
nation
-
all 50
-
states
-
and how can
-
we be a
-
part of
-
bringing the
-
world to
-
Christ
-
how can we
-
give the
-
gospel to
-
the Ukraine
-
and to
-
Uganda
-
and to
-
places we've
-
never been
-
and may
-
never go
-
that's the
-
mission he's
-
given us
-
and if we
-
settle for
-
anything less
-
than that
-
we can be
-
good people
-
and having a
-
good time
-
and doing
-
some good
-
stuff
-
but I want
-
to tell you
-
something
-
you're not
-
a church
-
you're just
-
not a church
-
and I hope
-
you'll never
-
ever satisfy
-
to just be
-
a bunch of
-
good folk
-
who maybe
-
even love
-
the Lord
-
who are
-
looking
-
to him
-
to save
-
them
-
but have
-
no regard
-
for people
-
in the world
-
who don't
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know Christ
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let's bow
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together in
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prayer
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Father
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I pray this
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morning that
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you would
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convince us
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leadership
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staff
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members
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alike
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that this
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is the
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pattern
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that we're
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to follow
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we don't
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have to
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reinvent the
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wheel
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Lord
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we just
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have to
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get on
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board
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with what
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you've
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already
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told us
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in scripture
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we ought
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to be
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about
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and I
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pray God
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that we'd
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always hold
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this standard
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up before
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ourselves
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we'd go
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back and
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check from
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time to
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time and
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say are we
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doing those
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things that
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really the
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church is
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called to do
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are we getting
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out the gospel
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are we discipling
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the lost
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are we
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praying
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are we
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ministering
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are we
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sharing
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our goods
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with others
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please oh
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God
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I pray you'd
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make First
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Baptist Church
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Pickens the
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strongest in
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the days to
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come it's
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ever been in
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this wonderful
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history bless
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them give them
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souls for their
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labor it's our
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prayer in your
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name amen