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What Can You Do to Make Daniel Heeringa Successful

Pickens First Baptist Church

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  1. Look at your watch. It's late. It's 11.06, so we're going to get out of here about 1 o'clock.

  2. No, I'm going to preach about 30 minutes, and I'm going to be done, but we will be a little bit late, and that's okay.

  3. I got up about 4 o'clock this morning because during the night I just wasn't comfortable with the message I planned.

  4. So I abbreviated it and cut about four points out of it. It had 10 points, believe it or not.

  5. So you're still going to get a bunch, but it's not really a sermon.

  6. It's just things that 40, 50 years of being a pastor have taught me that I thought would be helpful to you to know about Daniel Herring coming in

  7. and helping you to make him successful as your next pastor.

  8. But the Lord also put something else in my heart that I had just planned to share with you very, very, very briefly,

  9. but I really feel led to tell you more about that, and so I'm going to do that at the end.

  10. So you're getting two messages this morning for the price of one, okay?

  11. But I promise you I'm going to be done in about 30, 35 minutes.

  12. If you have your Bibles, look quickly to Titus chapter 1, verses 7 through 9,

    Titus 1:7–9

  13. and I'm not going to preach this passage, but I do want to read it this morning.

  14. I'm just going to talk to you today about how you can make your next pastor very, very successful.

  15. But in Titus 1, verse 7, Paul writes these words to Titus,

    Titus 1:7

  16. For an observer, for an overseer, rather, as God's manager, must be blameless, not arrogant.

  17. You hear that? Not arrogant.

  18. Not quick-tempered, not addicted to wine, not a bully, not greedy for money,

  19. but hospitable, and loving what is good, and sensible, and by that he means loving what is sensible,

  20. and loving what is righteous, and loving what is holy, and loving what is self-controlled,

  21. holding to the faithful message as taught,

  22. so that he will be able both to encourage with sound teaching,

  23. and to refute those who contradict it.

  24. I'm going to tell you, that's a big, big job.

  25. To be a pastor and to do it right, to be honest, is just something you cannot do on your own.

  26. It just requires more of you than you're capable, any human being's capable of doing.

  27. And so he's going to need God's help, and he's going to need your help.

  28. And I'd plan to tell you 10 things that you could do to help him,

  29. but as I look back over it, you're going to figure some of this out on your own.

  30. And so I'm going to cut out those last four and tell you the six I think are most important this morning, okay?

  31. So here goes, and remember, I promised a book to whoever could guess the first point.

  32. I said that in a news article a couple weeks ago.

  33. So if you guessed the first point, I say the first point, you say,

  34. that's what I put on my list, preacher.

  35. Then you come see me.

  36. I've got two books here at the front that I'm going to give you, and you can have them.

  37. I'm not thinking anybody's got this down, but maybe you do.

  38. I hope I give those books away, okay?

  39. You ready?

  40. Here goes.

  41. Tell him your name until he tells you to stop.

  42. Tell him your name until he tells you to stop.

  43. Anybody think of that?

  44. I didn't think so.

  45. But if any of you want two books, I still got them on the front,

  46. and you can come get them after the service is over, okay?

  47. They're yours to take home.

  48. Tell him your name until he tells you to stop.

  49. I got a real problem with the way I see some guys today pastoring,

  50. where they get the mentality they're the CEO,

  51. and their job is to come to the pulpit and deliver these wonderfully orchestrated messages,

  52. but then they don't see you again for seven days.

  53. I really believe being a pastor means you've got to know the folk,

  54. and I know that's what Daniel Herringup believes,

  55. and he wants to know you.

  56. I want to tell you something.

  57. At Brushy Creek, we had 3,300 members when I left,

  58. and I wanted to know every one of those 3,300 members,

  59. and I've got to be honest with you.

  60. I wanted to know.

  61. I liked them.

  62. I loved them.

  63. In fact, out of 3,300 members, and I'm here today so I can say this,

  64. I liked everybody but one guy, right?

  65. And I just didn't like him.

  66. I really didn't.

  67. I had a hard time believing Jesus liked him.

  68. I know he loved him.

  69. But I just didn't like him.

  70. But most everybody I not only liked, I loved,

  71. and I wanted to know them.

  72. But I want to tell you something.

  73. I can't know everybody unless you at some time meet me

  74. and tell me your name and let me get to know you.

  75. For me to know you, you've got to get to know me,

  76. and I've got to get to know you.

  77. So tell me your name, tell me your name, tell me your name,

  78. and one day he'll say,

  79. you don't have to tell me your name anymore, Christine.

  80. I know your name.

  81. It's Christine.

  82. And you can stop telling him your name.

  83. Now here's just a quick addition to that.

  84. I know everybody hates this.

  85. Wear name tags.

  86. Beginning next Sunday for about five or six weeks,

  87. put on a name tag.

  88. Now somebody said, I don't like those little name tags.

  89. I ain't going to wear no name tag.

  90. Everybody knows me.

  91. No, they don't.

  92. That's why when you ever meet anybody in the hall,

  93. have you ever had somebody,

  94. and every time you see them, they say,

  95. hey, bud, how you doing?

  96. Man, good to see you, friend, neighbor.

  97. Because they don't know your name.

  98. If I ask any of you in the congregation right now

  99. to stand and tell me the 15 people nearest you,

  100. a lot of you go, uh-oh.

  101. In fact, I think I'm going to do it.

  102. No, I'm not going to do that.

  103. You'd be embarrassed because you think,

  104. man, I see all these folk,

  105. and I know them by face,

  106. and I know something about them,

  107. and I really do care about them,

  108. and we have conversations,

  109. but I don't know their name.

  110. You know what happened?

  111. You saw them, and you spoke to them,

  112. and you spoke to them,

  113. and you spoke to them,

  114. and you spoke to them.

  115. They told you your name somewhere and all that,

  116. but you forgot it,

  117. and then they kept seeing you,

  118. kept seeing you,

  119. and then you'd been here so long,

  120. you forgot to ever say,

  121. hmm, I don't know your name.

  122. Would you tell me your name?

  123. So it's going to be good for you.

  124. Wear those name tags,

  125. and see everybody's name,

  126. and begin to memorize names,

  127. and let him see your name,

  128. and know who you are.

  129. So tell him your name

  130. until he tells you to stop.

  131. Here's the second thing.

  132. Pray for him every day.

  133. Boy, there's nothing you can do

  134. for your pastor better than to pray for him.

  135. When I say pray for him,

  136. I want to tell you what I mean by that.

  137. I don't mean to have a list of names,

  138. because a lot of folk kind of do this,

  139. and they pray for their families,

  140. all their family members by name.

  141. By that I mean they just kind of call their names

  142. in passing,

  143. and they've got some missionary things,

  144. and they pray about those things,

  145. and they just run through this laundry list

  146. as quickly as they can.

  147. I'm not talking about that.

  148. If you're going to pray for them that way,

  149. pray for them just one day a week.

  150. But when you pray for them,

  151. really pray for it.

  152. And by that I mean this.

  153. Put yourself in Daniel's shoes

  154. and think about what is it like

  155. to be the new pastor

  156. at Pickens First Baptist Church.

  157. He's leaving Houston, Mississippi.

  158. He's wanting to come here,

  159. but I'm telling you something.

  160. He's sad over leaving those people

  161. in Houston, Mississippi.

  162. And you want him to be sad,

  163. because he loved those folks,

  164. and he wants to say goodbye to those folks,

  165. and he's going to have heartache,

  166. and his children are,

  167. and his wife is.

  168. And they're coming here,

  169. and they're looking for a new house.

  170. How many of you tomorrow,

  171. somebody comes to you and says,

  172. you've got 30 days to get out of your house.

  173. You've got to sell it.

  174. You've got to go find one another time.

  175. You've never been to Harley.

  176. Have you looked for a house lately?

  177. Man, there has a cat.

  178. It's going to take a miracle for him

  179. to come in here and find something in short order

  180. and buy that house and move into it.

  181. So pray.

  182. That's some of the stuff he's going through.

  183. He's going to take a daughter out of high school

  184. and put her in a high school here in Pickens,

  185. and she knows some of the kids here.

  186. She was here 15 years ago,

  187. so she knows everybody she knew when she was two.

  188. What could be the adjustment in that, right?

  189. So pray for them,

  190. and he's going to come in,

  191. and he's going to want to preach the best messages.

  192. Man, I've done dropped some money on the floor.

  193. I don't ever leave money on the floor, Brian.

  194. Cheers.

  195. Yeah, I believe that.

  196. I believe that.

  197. Good luck getting that out of my pocket.

  198. I'm just telling you,

  199. they need your prayers.

  200. They're thinking about a lot of stuff.

  201. He's thinking about messages he wants to preach

  202. because he wants to come and make a good first impression,

  203. and he's trying to decide what do I need to preach,

  204. and you pray for him.

  205. Pray God will wake him up in the night

  206. the way he did me last night

  207. and just say,

  208. Daniel, here's what you need to preach,

  209. that he'll have a burning passion to preach God's word,

  210. that he'll do his very best in these early days

  211. as your pastor here.

  212. So pray for him.

  213. Thirdly,

  214. when you hear an idea you don't like,

  215. and I really love this point,

  216. when you hear an idea you don't like,

  217. remind yourself of two truths.

  218. How many of you ever hear an idea you don't like?

  219. A lot of you have lived your life that way, right?

  220. You ain't never liked nothing.

  221. I mean, a lot of people,

  222. it don't matter what the idea is,

  223. I just know right off the bat,

  224. I'm not going to like it, right?

  225. Now, a lot of us are different.

  226. We like certain things,

  227. and then other things we don't like necessarily.

  228. Have you ever done this?

  229. No, I just don't like that music.

  230. I wish they'd do this.

  231. I like it when they do this,

  232. but I don't like it when they do that.

  233. I like it when he preaches this kind of message,

  234. but man, I don't like it

  235. when he preaches that kind of message.

  236. Or I can understand our church doing that,

  237. that's a good thing,

  238. but eh, I don't like it when we do that.

  239. Two things you need to remind yourself of.

  240. You ready for this?

  241. And this is good not just in church,

  242. this is good everywhere.

  243. First of all, tell yourself this,

  244. it's not all about me.

  245. Okay?

  246. When he comes out and he gives you ideas,

  247. here's what I think we ought to be doing as a church,

  248. here's some things we ought to start doing,

  249. some things we ought to stop doing.

  250. When you hear that idea,

  251. even if something in you says,

  252. yeah, that ain't gonna do nothing for me,

  253. I don't really like that,

  254. I don't think that's the direction we ought to go,

  255. remind yourself it's not all about you.

  256. You know what he's thinking about?

  257. He's thinking about the hundreds of folk

  258. who come to First Baptist Church of Pickens

  259. and how to help you to grow spiritually

  260. and sometimes you need things you don't necessarily want.

  261. But he's also thinking about people

  262. who've never darkened the door

  263. of First Baptist Church of Pickens.

  264. He's thinking about people who have moved here

  265. from other places and they don't have any friends.

  266. He's thinking about young people at time

  267. who are turned off to what they've seen in the church

  268. and he's trying to find a way to reach them

  269. with the gospel of the Lord Jesus.

  270. He's thinking at times about senior adults

  271. who've grown up angry with the church

  272. and they're really angry now at the church

  273. and how he can reach them for Christ.

  274. So right now I want you to do a little exercise.

  275. We're gonna do two of these things.

  276. I want you to say out loud,

  277. it's not all about me.

  278. Go ahead and say it right now.

  279. It's just not all about me.

  280. Because I want to tell you something,

  281. in the church we have this habit of thinking,

  282. it's about me and my friends and people who are like me.

  283. And everything that's done ought to be for me.

  284. I ought to like everything.

  285. And if it ain't gonna do me or my family any good,

  286. it's just not any good.

  287. That's just crazy.

  288. Here's the second thing you need to tell yourself.

  289. You need to tell yourself,

  290. not only it's not all about you,

  291. and this is really gonna be hard for some of you.

  292. You ready?

  293. I really love this one.

  294. I could be wrong.

  295. Now some of you have never said that in your life.

  296. Some of you have never even imagined that.

  297. But step out on a limb with me this morning

  298. and turn to your wife or your husband

  299. and say, you know,

  300. I could be wrong.

  301. Really, do it right now.

  302. I'm just trying to look at you guys and my wife,

  303. somebody you know.

  304. Jimmy's about to have a heart attack.

  305. I mean, you never heard that

  306. before coming out of your spouse's mouth.

  307. I could be wrong,

  308. but I want to tell you something.

  309. You could be.

  310. You really could be.

  311. So when you hear that idea,

  312. rather than just run up to him and say,

  313. I just don't like that,

  314. just go home and ponder for a little bit.

  315. Well, you know, maybe I'm wrong.

  316. Maybe the reason I'm like this is because

  317. I think it's all about me

  318. or maybe it's because I'm wrong.

  319. I'm wrong.

  320. Here's the fourth thing.

  321. Cut him some slack.

  322. From the very beginning

  323. and all through his ministry,

  324. cut him some slack.

  325. Show him some grace.

  326. How many of you need some grace?

  327. That's what we preach week after week

  328. after week after week.

  329. We need grace.

  330. Well, then live that way.

  331. Demonstrate grace to somebody else

  332. because I'm going to tell you something.

  333. I don't know Daniel real, real well.

  334. I've known him for a number of years,

  335. but I don't know him real, real well,

  336. but I know this.

  337. He's going to mess up.

  338. He's going to make some errors.

  339. He's going to sometimes err in his judgment.

  340. He's going to say things from the pulpit sometimes

  341. that may just not make any sense in the moment.

  342. You know what I said last week in the announcements?

  343. My wife came down

  344. and she was about to laugh herself silly

  345. after I made those announcements

  346. and she said,

  347. Billy Graham's dead.

  348. And I said, I know that.

  349. She said,

  350. well, you said he was preaching at noon today

  351. in the announcements.

  352. Picky, picky, picky.

  353. Franklin was preaching last Sunday.

  354. I don't know if you got to hear him or not,

  355. but not Billy.

  356. So you're going to mess up

  357. when you stand here and you talk enough

  358. and that's what preachers do.

  359. You're going to say some things

  360. you didn't intend to say.

  361. You're going to say some things

  362. the way you didn't intend to say them.

  363. And sometimes your thinking's just going to be

  364. messed up in the moment.

  365. And he ever suffered from anything like that?

  366. Well, cut him some slack.

  367. When I was a kid,

  368. you know my favorite ball player was

  369. a guy named Brooks Robinson,

  370. number five,

  371. Baltimore Orioles, third baseman.

  372. Some of the sports writers in his day

  373. nicknamed him Mr. Hoover

  374. because he was a vacuum cleaner.

  375. He won golden glove after golden glove

  376. after golden glove.

  377. I mean,

  378. he's considered the greatest third baseman

  379. of all time.

  380. But I want to tell you something

  381. about Brooks Robinson.

  382. He made in his career

  383. a staggering 263 errors.

  384. That's a lot of errors.

  385. But he played 23 years.

  386. 9,000 within 100 opportunities,

  387. 9,000 times the ball was hit to him.

  388. And 236 of those times,

  389. he either made a throw in error

  390. or a field in error,

  391. but somehow he erred.

  392. I don't know,

  393. but I would guess

  394. if Mr. Robinson was here this morning,

  395. we could ask him.

  396. And we said,

  397. Brooks,

  398. tell me something.

  399. Did it ever cost the Orioles a game,

  400. one of those errors you made?

  401. And I'd be almost certain

  402. he would say,

  403. yeah.

  404. Yeah,

  405. there's a time or two

  406. that I blew the game.

  407. I allowed the winning run in

  408. because I bought something at third.

  409. But I want to tell you something

  410. I know beyond a shadow of a doubt.

  411. There were many times

  412. he made plays

  413. that saved games

  414. and put W's in the win column.

  415. Cut him some slack.

  416. He's going to make some errors.

  417. Cut him some slack.

  418. Fifth thing is this.

  419. Be low maintenance.

  420. Boy, that's a big one.

  421. He ought to send me $50 today

  422. for saying that.

  423. Be low maintenance.

  424. You know what a low maintenance

  425. member looks like?

  426. He's somebody who's here

  427. every time the doors are open,

  428. who just volunteers to do things.

  429. They walk across the parking lot.

  430. They see paper.

  431. They pick it up.

  432. They hear they're

  433. needing folk in the nursery.

  434. Nobody has to beg.

  435. They go and they volunteer.

  436. They're faithful.

  437. But they're also low maintenance.

  438. They don't expect a lot.

  439. They come because

  440. they want to be a part

  441. of something big

  442. and they're not thinking

  443. about what they get in return.

  444. They're thinking constantly

  445. about how they give

  446. to the kingdom of God.

  447. I'm not talking about monetary.

  448. I mean they're giving of themselves.

  449. They want to make a difference.

  450. When they have needs,

  451. you know what they do?

  452. They call the pastor.

  453. And they say,

  454. Pastor, here's what's happening

  455. in our family.

  456. Here's what's happened to me.

  457. I've been to the doctor.

  458. I've got this news.

  459. Pretty upset over it.

  460. Could you come pray with me?

  461. Or could you pray with me

  462. where you are?

  463. Or can I make an appointment

  464. to see you?

  465. I've got this problem in my life.

  466. They don't expect him

  467. to have a crystal ball

  468. where he looks out there

  469. and says, hmm,

  470. so and so's sick today.

  471. If they're sick

  472. and they need him,

  473. they call him.

  474. But I'll tell you something.

  475. Every time they get a splinter

  476. taken out of their hand,

  477. they don't need him.

  478. They have learned spiritually

  479. how to put on

  480. their big boy pants

  481. and go live life.

  482. This last week,

  483. and don't send me

  484. a get well card,

  485. I had an endoscopy

  486. and a colonoscopy

  487. and the three days

  488. of prep for that

  489. where you hang out

  490. around the bathroom a lot.

  491. And it's miserable.

  492. But I didn't call my pastor.

  493. I just hung out

  494. in the bathroom.

  495. You hear what I'm saying?

  496. There's sometimes

  497. I need to call him.

  498. When I need him,

  499. I need him.

  500. And if I know I need him,

  501. I'm going to call him.

  502. And if he can't come,

  503. he'll send somebody.

  504. And that's great

  505. because they can pray

  506. just the same as he can.

  507. But there are other times

  508. I don't need him.

  509. And when I don't need him,

  510. I'm not going to involve him

  511. because I know this.

  512. He's got hundreds

  513. of other folk out there

  514. he's trying to be

  515. a shepherd to.

  516. And I overburden his life

  517. when I ask him

  518. to do things

  519. that if I just put on

  520. my big boy pants,

  521. I could do it myself.

  522. You understand that?

  523. Everybody,

  524. that's yes and no.

  525. You got that?

  526. When I was passionate

  527. at Brushy Creek,

  528. I can say this now

  529. because they're not here.

  530. Almost everybody,

  531. they lived that way.

  532. They were low maintenance.

  533. But there was this one

  534. young couple

  535. and I'd been there

  536. just a short time

  537. and they called

  538. and they said,

  539. we'd like to come see you

  540. for marital counseling

  541. and they came

  542. and I tried to help them.

  543. Met with them

  544. four or five times

  545. and we worked through

  546. a real crisis.

  547. It was a real problem

  548. and they needed my help

  549. and I was glad to help them.

  550. And then about a year

  551. or two later,

  552. they called back

  553. and they said,

  554. we got another problem

  555. and they came

  556. and I helped them

  557. through that

  558. and that was only

  559. a couple weeks

  560. that we spent together

  561. and I helped them.

  562. And then another year

  563. or so passed

  564. and I began to notice

  565. that they'd call me

  566. about little things

  567. that to me

  568. weren't really

  569. of great significance.

  570. But I'd try to help them

  571. and so one Wednesday

  572. they'd call

  573. and I had a Bible study

  574. that met at six o'clock

  575. on Wednesday morning

  576. so I'd go to the church

  577. and be there early at six

  578. and it was one of those days

  579. where everything

  580. was just cram packed

  581. and so I didn't get

  582. to go home for supper

  583. and I knew I had

  584. prayer meeting that night

  585. and then afterwards

  586. I was going to go home.

  587. So it was about

  588. a 14 hour day,

  589. long story short.

  590. And they called

  591. about two o'clock

  592. and they said,

  593. could we see you tonight?

  594. I said,

  595. well, everything's taken

  596. and I don't have

  597. any appointments left.

  598. They said,

  599. well, could we see you tonight

  600. after prayer meeting?

  601. I said,

  602. well, is it really,

  603. really important

  604. because I've been here

  605. about 14?

  606. Yeah, this is important.

  607. We need to see you.

  608. Okay.

  609. So I met them in my office

  610. after prayer meeting

  611. and got there

  612. about eight o'clock.

  613. They come walking in.

  614. They got Slurpees

  615. in their hands,

  616. you know.

  617. They've been out to supper

  618. and they've gotten

  619. them something to drink

  620. and I hadn't eaten

  621. nothing all day

  622. and they sit down

  623. in the chair

  624. and I'm kind of just,

  625. you know,

  626. hoping this is really serious,

  627. you know,

  628. could take me out like this

  629. and so I said,

  630. well, tell me the problem

  631. and she jumps in.

  632. She says,

  633. I'll just tell you,

  634. it's a real problem for us.

  635. We're really just

  636. fighting back and forth

  637. over this

  638. and can't come up

  639. with a solution.

  640. What's the problem?

  641. She said,

  642. we need your help.

  643. Do you think we need

  644. a pontoon

  645. or do you think

  646. a ski boat

  647. would be better?

  648. Now, I'm not kidding you.

  649. I can't tell you

  650. what I thought.

  651. I want to say,

  652. get out of my office.

  653. I don't care

  654. if you get a john boat

  655. or a ski boat

  656. or a pontoon boat.

  657. I don't care.

  658. It doesn't matter.

  659. Do you understand

  660. what I'm saying in that?

  661. Now, I'm saying it

  662. in a funny way,

  663. trying to be funny about it,

  664. but I want to tell you something.

  665. Man, we need to hear that.

  666. He can't settle

  667. every little thing

  668. that comes along

  669. in your life.

  670. Be low maintenance.

  671. Go to him

  672. when you need him

  673. and go to him

  674. without hesitation

  675. because he'll want you

  676. to do that.

  677. That's what I wanted to do,

  678. but make sure

  679. it's a bona fide need.

  680. Lastly,

  681. let him lead.

  682. You've called him here

  683. to be your pastor

  684. and your shepherd

  685. and that means

  686. he's going to be a servant

  687. and if he's a good pastor,

  688. he's going to have

  689. a servant's heart

  690. and you don't need

  691. to tell him he's a servant.

  692. He'll know that.

  693. You don't need to treat him

  694. like he's your slaver,

  695. your servant.

  696. He's not your gopher.

  697. He's your spiritual leader.

  698. He's your shepherd.

  699. Let him be that.

  700. Let him lead.

  701. Sam Couch is sitting back here.

  702. Oh, there he is.

  703. I spotted him earlier.

  704. He and I have gotten

  705. to be buddies

  706. since I've been here.

  707. He's a mechanic.

  708. He works on big time equipment,

  709. tractors,

  710. all that kind of stuff.

  711. Been doing it all his life.

  712. I haven't been to his shop,

  713. but I'm certain

  714. he's got huge,

  715. massive socket sets

  716. and wrenches

  717. and every tool

  718. imaginable known to man.

  719. Robbie can tell you

  720. because he's pretty mechanical,

  721. but I'm not.

  722. Okay?

  723. But I do have

  724. a socket set.

  725. One of those

  726. $20 Kmart jobs.

  727. You know?

  728. My biggest socket

  729. is probably about an inch.

  730. And I tell you something,

  731. I had a lawnmower.

  732. I don't have one anymore,

  733. but I had a lawnmower.

  734. And I have changed

  735. the oil in that lawnmower.

  736. I have.

  737. I've changed

  738. the spark plugs.

  739. I've taken the wheels off.

  740. Can you imagine me

  741. going to Sam tomorrow

  742. and he's got a big

  743. Kubota tractor out there

  744. and says,

  745. Sam,

  746. I want to tell you something.

  747. You know,

  748. I've taken a lawnmower

  749. part before.

  750. Let me tell you

  751. what I think you need

  752. to do that tractor

  753. right there.

  754. Now,

  755. Sam's a nice fellow.

  756. He'd be polite

  757. and say,

  758. okay,

  759. Pastor,

  760. good.

  761. But he'd be thinking,

  762. you out your mind.

  763. And rightfully so.

  764. Now,

  765. I want to tell you

  766. something that may

  767. bust your bubble,

  768. but here's the truth.

  769. Calls you

  770. attend Sunday school

  771. and calls you

  772. own a couple Bibles

  773. don't mean you're

  774. going to know

  775. more about church

  776. than Daniel Herring

  777. is going to know.

  778. Do you understand that?

  779. You say,

  780. but I've been there

  781. a long time.

  782. Yeah,

  783. you may have been,

  784. but I want to tell you

  785. something.

  786. If he didn't know

  787. something you don't know,

  788. you wouldn't have

  789. called him as your pastor.

  790. You didn't need him

  791. if you can do

  792. everything

  793. that he can do

  794. and you know

  795. as much as he knows

  796. what you're going

  797. to waste your money

  798. calling him for.

  799. So let him lead.

  800. Do you understand?

  801. When he comes here,

  802. love him

  803. and pray for him

  804. and get to know him

  805. and let him get to know you

  806. and let him minister to you.

  807. But man,

  808. don't put a noose

  809. around his neck

  810. and say,

  811. you conform to our image

  812. of what it is

  813. to be a pastor.

  814. You lead us

  815. and we will follow.

  816. Now,

  817. I want to close

  818. by sharing

  819. something personal with you.

  820. I want to challenge you

  821. as I close.

  822. And I want to do so

  823. because when I retired

  824. a few years ago,

  825. I began to take stock

  826. of my life

  827. because the bulk

  828. of my life

  829. I know has come

  830. and gone.

  831. It has passed.

  832. And I began

  833. to evaluate

  834. the 50 years

  835. I've been preaching.

  836. And you might

  837. be thinking

  838. I arrived

  839. at one conclusion

  840. when in reality

  841. I arrived at another.

  842. From the world's perspective,

  843. the world would say

  844. I've been fairly successful

  845. because I pastored

  846. two churches

  847. and they did pretty well

  848. and they grew

  849. and we relocated.

  850. There's a list

  851. of buildings

  852. I could point to

  853. and say we built

  854. that and that and that.

  855. But I want to tell you

  856. something,

  857. when I looked over

  858. the balance of my life,

  859. I wondered this.

  860. Did I ever make

  861. much difference?

  862. Did I do much

  863. that really counted?

  864. And I like to say

  865. I think I did

  866. but in reality

  867. I don't really feel

  868. that way.

  869. A whole lot of times

  870. I think about

  871. boy if I had

  872. really

  873. just swung

  874. for the fence.

  875. If I really

  876. just

  877. had the faith

  878. I needed.

  879. If I really

  880. just listened

  881. enough to God

  882. what might

  883. have God

  884. done with me.

  885. I want to tell you

  886. about the two people

  887. and I'm not going

  888. to come back

  889. six weeks

  890. and say here's

  891. two more people.

  892. I thought about it

  893. a lot

  894. and I've said this

  895. to my wife

  896. and to some others.

  897. I don't know

  898. any two people

  899. who have done

  900. more with their lives

  901. than the two people

  902. I want to tell you

  903. about in the few

  904. minutes I still

  905. have left.

  906. Rusty and Betty

  907. Joe McClellan

  908. would you put

  909. their picture

  910. on the board?

  911. That was made

  912. last week.

  913. You won't believe

  914. it looking at them.

  915. They're 60 years old.

  916. They're models

  917. of fitness.

  918. That guy

  919. is just

  920. as fit

  921. as any human

  922. on the planet.

  923. They came

  924. to my church

  925. at Western Avenue

  926. when they were

  927. in their 20s.

  928. They'd both

  929. gotten out of college.

  930. She graduated

  931. University of Chapel Hill

  932. North Carolina.

  933. He finished

  934. at Davidson.

  935. He was a football

  936. player.

  937. They came

  938. to Western Avenue.

  939. She began

  940. to teach

  941. a singles class.

  942. They started

  943. dating.

  944. A few years

  945. later they got

  946. married.

  947. I did the ceremony.

  948. We became

  949. fast friends.

  950. She became

  951. our singles

  952. minister

  953. not a paid

  954. position.

  955. She just did

  956. it out of the

  957. goodness of her

  958. heart.

  959. By the time

  960. I left there

  961. hated to leave

  962. them, loved them

  963. to death, knew

  964. they were going

  965. to do something

  966. great with their

  967. life.

  968. She began

  969. to attend

  970. seminary some

  971. doing it

  972. long distance.

  973. Finally

  974. years later

  975. she gets

  976. her seminary

  977. degree.

  978. They feel

  979. the call

  980. to missions.

  981. They apply

  982. to the

  983. IMB.

  984. They send

  985. them as

  986. journeymen

  987. to Uganda.

  988. He owns

  989. a little shoe

  990. store in

  991. Statesville.

  992. It was then

  993. Long's family

  994. shoe store.

  995. His name

  996. is McClellan.

  997. It's now

  998. McClellan's

  999. shoe store.

  1000. He managed

  1001. that store.

  1002. Little

  1003. local mom

  1004. and pop

  1005. shoe store.

  1006. Nothing

  1007. big.

  1008. They go

  1009. to Uganda.

  1010. They served

  1011. two years

  1012. in Uganda.

  1013. They come

  1014. home.

  1015. But their

  1016. heart is still

  1017. in Uganda.

  1018. Now a lot

  1019. of folks I

  1020. know, in fact

  1021. a lot of folks

  1022. would say if

  1023. you went

  1024. there, took

  1025. two years

  1026. out of your

  1027. life, you

  1028. go to the

  1029. mission field

  1030. in Africa,

  1031. two years,

  1032. I mean, boy,

  1033. they are

  1034. heroes.

  1035. heroes.

  1036. But they

  1037. thought God

  1038. was leading

  1039. them to do

  1040. something bigger.

  1041. And they

  1042. began to

  1043. think and

  1044. pray and

  1045. began to

  1046. think because

  1047. of their

  1048. mission

  1049. experience,

  1050. how should

  1051. we be

  1052. doing

  1053. missions?

  1054. And they

  1055. wrote a

  1056. comprehensive

  1057. plan for how

  1058. missions really

  1059. ought to be

  1060. done.

  1061. And I'm

  1062. going to tell

  1063. you, all

  1064. the time as

  1065. Southern Baptists,

  1066. we don't do

  1067. it the way we

  1068. should do it,

  1069. just to be

  1070. honest with

  1071. you.

  1072. But they

  1073. mapped out a

  1074. comprehensive way

  1075. how real

  1076. missions ought

  1077. to look.

  1078. It ought to

  1079. be a holistic

  1080. approach that

  1081. you ought to

  1082. go and you

  1083. ought to

  1084. evangelize people

  1085. but you

  1086. ought to

  1087. also disciple

  1088. people.

  1089. And then you

  1090. ought to teach

  1091. them how to

  1092. live their

  1093. lives and you

  1094. ought to help

  1095. them to plant

  1096. crops.

  1097. You shouldn't

  1098. just give to

  1099. them but you

  1100. ought to help

  1101. them earn a

  1102. living and you

  1103. ought to help

  1104. them learn how

  1105. to live a

  1106. right life morally

  1107. and spiritually

  1108. and to be good

  1109. citizens and

  1110. earn a living for

  1111. your family and

  1112. how to get along,

  1113. how to have

  1114. water and

  1115. hygiene and all

  1116. those things.

  1117. And they

  1118. just incorporated

  1119. into a big

  1120. program and

  1121. here from the

  1122. states they

  1123. began a

  1124. ministry in

  1125. Uganda.

  1126. They found

  1127. some folks

  1128. they had led

  1129. to Christ and

  1130. they began to

  1131. disciple those

  1132. people and

  1133. began to hire a

  1134. few of them with

  1135. some bucks they

  1136. could get here and

  1137. there and they

  1138. began to lead

  1139. Bible studies and

  1140. they had jail

  1141. ministries and

  1142. over a period of

  1143. just a few years

  1144. they started two

  1145. schools in two

  1146. different villages

  1147. that are just

  1148. supreme educational

  1149. places.

  1150. and then they

  1151. had a jail

  1152. ministry and

  1153. they opened a

  1154. children's home

  1155. and they had

  1156. 12 kids come

  1157. to that children

  1158. home and they

  1159. took 12 orphans

  1160. off the street

  1161. and they raised

  1162. them until they

  1163. get college age

  1164. and then they

  1165. send them off to

  1166. college and they

  1167. teach people how

  1168. to plant crops

  1169. and they drill

  1170. wells.

  1171. It's amazing.

  1172. They started that

  1173. in 2008 and they

  1174. still do it out of

  1175. their home in

  1176. Statesville.

  1177. They go there

  1178. about three months

  1179. a year.

  1180. They'll take about

  1181. three trips there

  1182. and they stay about

  1183. a month at a time

  1184. and they oversee

  1185. that whole thing

  1186. from the state

  1187. side and it has

  1188. grown to where

  1189. they now raise

  1190. about five to

  1191. six hundred thousand

  1192. dollars a year

  1193. and sink it in

  1194. that ministry and

  1195. last year I'm on

  1196. their board of

  1197. directors.

  1198. I just went back

  1199. on and this last

  1200. year the report

  1201. was, you ready for

  1202. this?

  1203. You know how many

  1204. people they disciple

  1205. in a year now?

  1206. They disciple

  1207. five thousand people.

  1208. Every year they

  1209. come from the

  1210. Catholic Church,

  1211. they come from the

  1212. Lutheran Church,

  1213. they come from the

  1214. Anglican Church,

  1215. they come from the

  1216. Church of God,

  1217. the Pentecostal

  1218. Holiness, the

  1219. Methodists.

  1220. If they'll show up

  1221. they'll disciple

  1222. them and I'm not

  1223. talking about,

  1224. okay there were

  1225. five thousand

  1226. different people

  1227. who came two

  1228. times.

  1229. I'm talking about

  1230. five thousand

  1231. people who came

  1232. for a whole year

  1233. and they discipled

  1234. these people.

  1235. And so I was with

  1236. them a couple of

  1237. years ago and I

  1238. told them what I

  1239. told you.

  1240. I said, you

  1241. know, I've read a

  1242. lot of books about

  1243. great missionaries

  1244. but I've never

  1245. known anyone who's

  1246. done as much with

  1247. their life who said,

  1248. you know what, I'm

  1249. going to pull out all

  1250. the stops, however

  1251. God will use me, I

  1252. want to be used.

  1253. I said, I've never

  1254. seen God use anyone

  1255. the way he's used

  1256. you.

  1257. And my wife and I

  1258. began to pray about

  1259. it and the Lord put

  1260. it on our heart.

  1261. God, we've done so

  1262. little.

  1263. I said, I called her

  1264. one morning, I said,

  1265. what would it cost to

  1266. build a children's home

  1267. in Uganda?

  1268. She says, man, it's so

  1269. much cheaper here than

  1270. over there.

  1271. I said, it's going to be

  1272. about thirty-five

  1273. thousand is all it is.

  1274. And what would it cost

  1275. to operate it?

  1276. About fifteen thousand.

  1277. I said, really?

  1278. She said, yeah.

  1279. I called her back in

  1280. about an hour and said,

  1281. me and Regina have been

  1282. praying.

  1283. God's put it on my

  1284. heart, don't know exactly

  1285. how it's going to

  1286. happen, but I want to

  1287. build that children's

  1288. home and I want to

  1289. staff it for a year.

  1290. And I make that

  1291. commitment to you.

  1292. That was in June of

  1293. 2020.

  1294. COVID had hit.

  1295. I wasn't preaching

  1296. anywhere, but I thought

  1297. something will open up.

  1298. And I made a commitment

  1299. whatever I earn, I'll just

  1300. give back to that

  1301. ministry.

  1302. And so I did a funeral

  1303. here or there.

  1304. And I'd give that

  1305. money to that and then

  1306. we would just take out of

  1307. our savings in retirement.

  1308. We were given to it.

  1309. And then back in July of

  1310. this last year, you asked

  1311. me to come be your

  1312. interim pastor.

  1313. And the Lord opened the

  1314. door for me to do that.

  1315. And I asked the

  1316. leadership here, Brother

  1317. Mendel, instead of giving

  1318. the money to me, could

  1319. y'all just send it straight

  1320. to EWT?

  1321. And I'm telling you

  1322. this for a reason.

  1323. I have to pray for myself

  1324. but I want to tell you

  1325. something.

  1326. Here's what you've built.

  1327. It's completed now and

  1328. they're in the process of

  1329. painting it.

  1330. Isn't that great?

  1331. Twelve kids are going to

  1332. be in there.

  1333. And you had a major hand.

  1334. You paid for about half of

  1335. that house and the need to

  1336. take care of that.

  1337. And so here's my challenge

  1338. to you.

  1339. Oh, and I want to show you

  1340. the picture of the kids

  1341. that's going to live in it.

  1342. I did cute little kids.

  1343. That's just a few of them.

  1344. But your kids just like those

  1345. kids right there.

  1346. Those live in another house

  1347. they got right now.

  1348. But I'm telling you

  1349. something.

  1350. For years and years and

  1351. years and years to come

  1352. if Jesus tarries,

  1353. there are going to be kids

  1354. who don't have a mama

  1355. and a daddy who are going

  1356. to go out home and they're

  1357. going to get discipled and

  1358. there are going to be people

  1359. who love them and they're

  1360. going to go off to

  1361. university and they're

  1362. going to make something

  1363. out of their life and it

  1364. will make a difference in

  1365. eternity for them.

  1366. And here's why I'm telling

  1367. you that you're making a

  1368. difference in these

  1369. people's lives.

  1370. Continue to do that as a

  1371. church.

  1372. And I'm not talking about

  1373. this ministry.

  1374. You may choose sometime to

  1375. give this ministry or not.

  1376. But do this.

  1377. Do things as a church that

  1378. matter.

  1379. Stop just stacking chairs on

  1380. the deck of the Titanic.

  1381. Do things that matter.

  1382. Ask yourself, what can

  1383. Pickens First Baptist

  1384. Church do that will make a

  1385. lasting difference for the

  1386. kingdom of God and do it?

  1387. And then finally this, you do

  1388. that.

  1389. You could be a Rusty or Betty

  1390. Jo McClellan.

  1391. They put their pants on just

  1392. like everybody else in this

  1393. room.

  1394. And you could do that.

  1395. Right now God has given some

  1396. of you a vision and a dream for

  1397. what you could do here in

  1398. Pickens or somewhere else.

  1399. Don't abandon that dream

  1400. because it looks too big or

  1401. too hard.

  1402. Or how would I ever do that?

  1403. You pursue that.

  1404. You've got one life to spend.

  1405. Don't waste it.

  1406. Thank you for letting us come

  1407. and serve.

  1408. Let's pray together.

  1409. Father, thank you for this

  1410. opportunity you've given me.

  1411. Thank you Lord for how this

  1412. church has wonderfully supplied

  1413. the needs of these children

  1414. there in Africa.

  1415. I pray God that as Betty Jo

  1416. begins to staff that and as

  1417. they find all the children

  1418. who are going to inhabit this

  1419. new home, that you'd use it

  1420. for your kingdom's honor and

  1421. glory.

  1422. Bless Daniel Herring as he comes

  1423. here Father.

  1424. I thank you for him.

  1425. I think they've got a great

  1426. match.

  1427. And I pray Father that you just

  1428. use them in a mighty way to

  1429. preach the word here week in and

  1430. week out at Pickens.

  1431. For we ask it in your name for

  1432. your sake.

  1433. Amen.

  1434. Amen.

  1435. Amen.

  1436. Thank you for listening.

  1437. Amen.

  1438. Amen.

  1439. Amen.

  1440. Amen.

  1441. Amen.

  1442. Amen.

  1443. Amen.

  1444. Amen.

  1445. Amen.

  1446. Amen.

  1447. Amen.

  1448. Amen.

  1449. Amen.

  1450. Amen.

  1451. Amen.

  1452. Amen.

  1453. Amen.

  1454. Amen.

  1455. Amen.

  1456. Amen.

  1457. Amen.

  1458. Amen.

  1459. Amen.

  1460. Amen.

  1461. Amen.

  1462. Amen.

  1463. Amen.

  1464. Amen.

  1465. Amen.

  1466. Amen.