Sermon
Don't Worry, Be Happy!
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Isn't that a great song? I remember when that song first came out on that old,
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and I have a confection to make. I thought it was pretty stupid.
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But it has a pretty catchy tune and pretty catchy lyrics, and soon everyone
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is singing it or whistling it, and you can't get it out of your mind.
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And I guarantee you, as you go home from church today, because we didn't play
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the whole song all the way through.
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You're going to go home, well that, you're going to play it at home,
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but you're also going to go through home with that song in your mind,
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and you're going to be dealing with it all week long because it hasn't been resolved.
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That's what happens when you have songs in your mind. They go through and they
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keep going, and if you stop a song in the middle of it, your mind has to finish it.
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And so that's what's going to happen this week. you're going to go through and
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you're going to be in the supermarket behind somebody who has 12 items in the
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10-item or less checkout aisle and you're going to be saying, don't worry,
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be happy, or something like that.
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I hope that's what you're saying. It's a catchy tune in the lyrics,
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and it's also been used on television commercials, not so much anymore.
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The song was first written and performed
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by a virtually unknown artist by the
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name of Bobby McFerrin almost immediately became a number one song on both the
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American and the Canadian pop artist chart lists and here's the beginning lyrics
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of the song as he was saying here's a little song I wrote you might want to
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sing it note for note don't worry be happy don't worry be happy in every life.
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We have some trouble, but when you worry, you make it double.
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Don't worry, be happy. Don't worry, be happy. And so it goes on.
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And then if the song wasn't enough, Bobby went on and wrote a book with another 200 verses.
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It's a cute song. We're not going to sing it all.
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But not a completely new concept. Paul tells the believers in the city of Philippi
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the same thing 2,000 years ago.
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Let's read that scripture in chapter four of Philippians, chapter four through nine.
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It says this, rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again, rejoice.
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Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near.
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Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation by prayer and petition
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and the emphasis is mine, not in the scriptures,
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with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.
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And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts
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and your minds in Christ Jesus.
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Finally, brothers, this is
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a scripture that I would encourage you to memorize, Philippians 4 verse 8.
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Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble,
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whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable,
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if anything is excellent or praiseworthy, think about such things.
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Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me or seen in me,
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put it into practice and the God of peace will be with you.
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So did you catch the phrase in verse 6? It said, do not be anxious about anything,
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but in everything by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving.
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Present your request to God.
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Thank you, Lord, that I got the cold and flu.
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Now take it away. Something like that. Anyway, a paraphrased version would be
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something like this. Don't worry about anything.
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Instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need and thank him for all that he has done.
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In that scripture, Paul is basically saying, don't worry, be happy.
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But it's a lot easier said than done. And we need to remember that when Paul
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was writing these things, he was oftentimes in prison.
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He was being beaten and scourged and even stoned,
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And here he's writing a phrase With all of this, be thankful and give your petitions
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to God Even though millions of copies of Bobby McFerrin's record Were sold around
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the world It didn't seem to have a major impact on how people live,
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Sometimes we think, great, as if I didn't have enough to worry about,
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Now I have to worry about worrying That's amazing.
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The book of Philippians is the 11th book in the New Testament and was written
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by Paul while he was under house arrest in Rome.
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It was addressed to all God's people in Philippi who believe in Christ Jesus
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and to the elders and deacons.
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If we look at a map in the back of your Bible, if you have maps in the back
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of your Bible, you will discover that Philippi was situated in present-day Greece,
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which at that time was called Macedonia.
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In fact, many people today still call that area, their home, Macedonia.
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By the way, do you know that the owners of the family restaurant in Richmond
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Center are Macedonians?
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They don't call themselves Greeks, they call themselves Macedonians.
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This church was actually started, this church in Philippi was actually started
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by Paul and was the first Christian church in Europe. The letter was written around A.D.
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62, and the reason it was written was to thank the Philippians for their giving
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and to urge them to greater unity among the brethren.
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The main theme of the letter was encouragement of peace and joy.
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First thing, and I want you to note this morning, is that the word that Paul
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used for worry in the Greek, in the New Testament,
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is the same one that Jesus used in the Sermon on the Mount, and it actually meant an anxious worry.
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It conveys a sense of anxiety. When your child walks to school,
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you may be concerned about his or her safety on the way there. That's not a problem.
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But if you become consumed with that worry to the point of not being able to
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function, then you have a problem.
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My mom could not stand it while we were on the road going home.
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She would call us numerous times on the way.
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I mean, this is after I'm, you know, like old, like, you know, 40s and 50s.
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She would still call to make sure we were okay. And we had to call her the minute
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we got home to let her know we made it safe and to let her know we did have
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our clean underwear on in case something happened and we had a car accident
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or whatever. You know, you have to have that.
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So that wasn't in my notes.
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But if we're consumed by worry, it's a problem.
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There's a world of difference between concern and anxious worry.
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I would suspect that Paul is going back to stories that he'd heard about Jesus'
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teaching on the Sermon on the Mount to rationalize this concept of not becoming
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tied up in knots of worry.
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So that's where we will go as well. And it's in Matthew that Jesus spent 10
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verses explaining why we should not worry.
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So these verses are almost accompanying what Paul wrote in Philippians,
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and maybe Paul wrote in Philippians to accompany what was written In Matthew,
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it says this, Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life,
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that you will eat or what you will eat or drink, or about your body, what you will wear,
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is not life more than food.
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Oh, let me think about that. Yeah, I guess so. And the body more than clothes.
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Look at the birds of the air. They do not sow or reap or store away in barns,
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and yet your heavenly Father feeds them.
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Are you not much more valuable than they?
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Can any of you, by worrying, add a single hour to your life?
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And why do you worry about clothes? See how the clothes of the field grow?
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They do not labor or spin, yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor
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was dressed like one of these.
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If this is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow
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is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you, you of little faith?
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So do not worry, saying, what shall we eat, or what shall we drink, or what shall we wear?
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For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them.
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But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.
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Therefore, do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.
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Each day has enough trouble of its own.
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So the first lesson we are going to see in all of this is worry is needless, useless and useless,
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dangerous. Jesus starts by talking about the most basic concern of mankind,
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and we talked a week or so ago about the wants that people have,
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the different wants that people have and needs in people's lives.
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Jesus starts about talking the basic concerns of mankind, the need for food, clothing, and shelter.
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Now, these aren't frivolous concerns. You might be able to run around naked
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and live under a tree in the outbacks of Australia, but in our part of the world,
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that just isn't a good option.
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Notice it's an option, just not a good one.
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And so Jesus starts by getting right down to where the rubber meets the road.
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He doesn't start by saying, don't worry about where your next car is going to come from.
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He says, don't worry about where your next meal is going to come from.
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He doesn't say, don't worry about whether you have Air Jordans to wear.
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He says, don't worry if you don't have anything to wear.
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Now, that's not to say that we shouldn't be concerned with the material things
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of life or with providing for our families, because Scripture also says that
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he who does not provide for his family is an infidel,
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an unbeliever, or somebody who's falling short of all things.
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But let me ask you this, will worry provide those things that we need?
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Not at all. A wise man once said, worry is like a rocking chair.
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It gives you something to do, but you ain't going anywhere.
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Worry is essentially wasted energy, energy which could be used a lot more productively somewhere else.
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Years ago, I worked for a short time as a self-employed sales representative
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for advertising specialties.
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Now, if I'd been paid a salary for my sales, it wouldn't have been so bad because
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I could have taken the time and safety with the safety net of salary to build
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up a clientele and build repeat sales over time.
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But since I was totally commissioned, if I didn't sell anything now, Nancy and I didn't eat.
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Worry and anxiety caused me
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to drive hundreds of miles in search of that hint of a promise of a sale.
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In a few months and hundreds of dollars of debt later,
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I had to hang that venture up, discovering that it would take three years or
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more to build up a clientele large enough to have a successful living.
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Successful enough business to live on for the two of us.
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Years later, when I was an insurance and investment sales representative,
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I was given a book of business and a draw of a salary to start out with to build
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my book of business over time.
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In that, I had the comfort of being able to build a business while still being
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able to eat, which was nice.
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By that time, we had two daughters, and they liked to eat too.
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But anxiety can drive us to do things we wouldn't normally do.
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And so Jesus begins by drawing a couple of examples from nature to illustrate his point.
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Matthew 6, verse 26, in which we read earlier, look at the birds.
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They don't need to plant or harvest or put food in barns because your heavenly father feeds them.
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And you are far more valuable to him than they are.
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Now, the problem here is the person who looks at this and stands back and says,
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great, I don't have to do anything but wait for God to provide me with all my needs and all my wants.
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I can sit here and God's going to bring the food to me.
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Well, let's recognize that Christ wasn't talking about working.
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He was talking about worrying.
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You don't have to watch a bird very long to realize that theirs is not a life
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of ease with building nests, hunting for food, and avoiding cats.
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But I would suspect that your average bird doesn't agonize over whether or not
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there will be another worm to catch tomorrow or whether he'll be able to find
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enough twigs and such to build a nest.
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Or whether he or she will be able to find whatever seeds are on the ground.
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They just go and look and get what they need.
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In the same vein, Jesus tells us in Matthew 6, verses 28 and 29,
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and why worry about your clothes?
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Look at the lilies of the field and how they grow. They don't work or make their clothing.
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Yet Solomon in all his glory was not dressed as beautifully as they are.
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So driving along the intercoastal highway in Florida and along the southern
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interstates in Louisiana and Alabama, if you've ever driven along those,
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you will see miles and miles of azalea bushes growing 8 to 10 feet high in the
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medians of the interstate. Has anybody ever been down there, seen those?
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It's really amazing to see all these things. Beautiful red blossoms bursting
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everywhere on those bushes provided accent to the Spanish moss that is just
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dripping from the cedar trees.
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One is truly amazed at the beauty that God has created, and yet this is not
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what Jesus is referring to in this passage.
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The lilies would not have been cultivated types of hybrids that we raise now
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in our nurseries and greenhouses.
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They were simply wildflowers that grew among the many types of colored wildflowers
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that grew in the wilderness of Israel.
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You mean the wilderness of Israel that's like a gravel parking lot?
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Yeah, the wilderness of Israel that's like a gravel parking lot.
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A wilderness where just enough grass and wildflowers and stuff peaks up at just
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the right time for the shepherd to lead his sheep to to be able to feed.
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Drive through the plains of our Midwest, especially out into Kansas and Oklahoma
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and some of those, and you will see many colors of wildflowers similar to what
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Jesus would have seen as he taught from the hillsides in Israel,
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growing along the sides of the roads and in the medians, wildflowers,
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just all kinds of different colors.
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Christ is drawing a lesson from nature. Christ is saying, look around you.
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Look at the beauty God has created, and yet those plants and animals don't worry about a thing.
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If we can conceive that and concede that God created everything around us,
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and if we can concede that God created us,
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then we should also be able to concede that the same God who created them created
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us, and he can take care of us like he takes care of them. You think?
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Christ came to the point in Matthew 6, verse 27, can all your worries add a
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single hour to your life?
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My wife read somewhere that if a man takes a 20-minute nap every day,
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he will live like 10 or 15 years longer.
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And she says, man, Tim, you're going to be immortal.
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Anyway, you see, worry is not only needless for a believer, it's also useless.
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Worry doesn't change anything, does it? everything that
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you worry about will fail and it'll
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fall into two categories it is either something you
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can do something about or something you can't
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do something about right so what
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is it if that's the case does it make
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any sense to worry about something
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that we can do something about no like
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the Nike commercial says just do it on the
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converse does it make any sense to worry
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about something that we can't do anything about the thing that you're worrying
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about won't go away if you worry and your worry isn't going to change it and
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because you can't do anything about it anyway why worry now don't ask me to
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repeat that because I don't think I can but anyway that's the thought.
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I mean, if our worrying is not going to change anything, why are we worrying?
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I've heard it said that worrying is like getting tangled up with a piece of
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steak that was so tough, the longer you chewed it, the bigger it got.
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It swelled up in your mouth until it was too big to swallow,
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too big to spit out, and you gag on it.
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Kind of like that guy who had a flat tire in a back road late at night and then
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discovered that his jack was missing from his car.
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And as he started down the long, dark road to a farmhouse that he saw in the
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distance, he got to thinking, what happens if there's been a lot of break-ins around here lately?
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And what if that farmer hears me and thinks I'm a burglar?
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And what if he's bought himself a couple of pit bulls for protection?
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And what if when I arrive, he doesn't give me a chance to explain who I am.
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And when I knock on the door, he turns the dogs loose on me.
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Well, he got closer and the closer he got to the farm, the more he had convinced
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himself that the very worst thing that he was thinking about was going to happen.
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So when he finally got to the house, he beat on the door. And when the farmer
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answered, the guy shouted, didn't want your stupid old Jack anyway.
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And he stormed back to his car.
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Didn't help him at all to worry, did it? Not only is worry needless and useless,
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but it's also dangerous.
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Worrying is detrimental to your health. The two illnesses that most typify our
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American society today are ulcers and coronary disease,
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both of which have stress at their root.
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There are Christians who shun alcohol and tobacco because they're harmful to
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their bodies, and yet the very same people worry themselves into an early grave.
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Worry is not a harmless pastime. It will make you old before your time,
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and it'll kill you before your time.
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The second lesson we learn is that worry is blind.
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Those who teach history are fond of telling us that the one thing we learn from
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history is we don't learn anything from history.
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And that applies equally to our worries as well.
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If we don't learn anything from history, then we're doomed to repeat that same history.
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If we were to chart the various things that we worry about, we would discover
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that most of them are repeats.
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That's to say that we've already worried about them once or twice or three times.
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And if the truths were known, the things we worried about happening never happened
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in then, and they probably won't happen now.
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God didn't forsake us yesterday, and he won't forsake us today.
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God is faithful, and we only need to look at him at how he fulfilled our needs
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in the past and believe that he will fulfill our needs in the future.
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If we see what God has done, we can trust him for what he will do.
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That's just as simple as that.
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So I suppose that what we need to do is to look at all the things that we've
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worried about in the past and say, well, I've already worried over those things,
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so it's useless to spend any more time on them now. Forget it.
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God has been good, and there's no reason for us to suspect that he's going to change, right?
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He's the same today, tomorrow, yesterday, today, and forever.
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Jesus said, look around you and see how God takes care of the flowers and the
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birds, and then reflect on how much more important you are to him than they are.
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Realize that God loves you so much that he sent his only begotten son,
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Jesus, to die on the cross for you and for me and for us. And if he loved us
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that much, then he's not going to let us down now.
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And then the third thing we see is that worry, and this is a really tough one,
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worry is actually blasphemous.
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Now, we've heard that big word, blasphemous, and a lot of people say,
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what is that and all that? Well, let's go.
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So, worry is blasphemous. What is blasphemy? It is when we deny that God is
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who he says he is and say that he can't do what he says he can't do. It's as simple as that.
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If we deny who God says he is and say that he can't do what he says he can do.
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In other words, if we refute him in who he is, that's pretty blasphemous, don't you think?
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Christ says that it's the heathens who worry, and that's true,
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because to say that we need to worry is to say that we can't trust God to take
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care of his own children.
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And we've got the best father there is. And to say that God can't take care
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of his children is to commit blasphemy.
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Has God ever let you down?
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No. Has God ever failed you? No.
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And to begin to doubt him now is to ignore all that he's done for you and for me and for us in our past.
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Our friends, our family, even our earthly parents may disappoint us and let
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us down, but God never fails.
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One of your previous pastors here at the church back in 1980s was David Clarity. Was that 80s?
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70s and 80s? David Clarity was a pastor here years ago, and I knew him very well.
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He's passed away now, but David Clarity had an alcoholic father.
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And so when he became a Christian, it became very hard for him to say our Father,
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which art in heaven. He had a hard time.
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But David got to the point when he would pray he would start it out Father Dearest.
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He would call Father in heaven his dearest father, and it became such a thing
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to him, he meant what he said.
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He knew what it meant to have a real father, a father who had the best looking out for him.
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So Jesus gives us two solutions to worry. The first, he says,
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is to seek after the kingdom of God.
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It's funny how that keeps coming up. Jesus keeps coming back to this principle
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of putting God's kingdom first, and it works.
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Have you ever noticed that when you're busy, you're too busy to worry?
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Have you ever noticed that that same thing about keeping God's kingdom first
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is kind of referred to in Philippians 4, verse 8?
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Do you remember that verse, the verse we said we were going to memorize?
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Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble,
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whatever is right, whatever is pure,
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whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable, if anything is excellent or praiseworthy,
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think about such things.
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You know, if we are following Christ, and if we are in the midst of seeking
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God's kingdom first, all of these things are going to be added to us.
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He keeps coming back to that phrase of putting God's kingdom first.
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As followers of Jesus Christ, our main objective is to be the kingdom of God here on earth.
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Did you know that? We are the kingdom of God.
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We're his princes and his princesses. We are God's kingdom here.
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And our main objective is to be that kingdom and to build that kingdom.
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No matter how noble the other pursuits of our life may seem,
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the major pursuit of our lives needs to be the building of the kingdom of God.
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The great thing is that when we make that a priority, we can be sure that God
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will be taking care of the details. The second thing that Christ tells us to
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do is to take life one day at a time.
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The rest of our life is enormous, but today has only 24 hours.
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And if we try to map out what's going to happen over the next 40 years,
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the next 480 months, the next 2,080 weeks,
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the next 14,560 days,
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the next 349,440 hours the next 20,966,400 minutes the next 1,257,984,000 seconds.
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Then you're going to get a little worried and you're going to go certifiably
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insane trying to map all of that out right so I know you've heard this saying before it goes like this,
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Yard by yard, life is hard, but inch by inch, it's a cinch.
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And that's the truth, because in Matthew 6, verse 34, Jesus said,
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So don't worry about tomorrow, because tomorrow is going to bring its own worries.
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Today is trouble enough for today.
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Deal with it one day at a time.
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Paraphrased, it means quit paying for something that hasn't happened yet.
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In the Talmud, the Jewish book of wisdom, it says, Do not worry over tomorrow's
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evils, for you know not what today will bring forth.
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Perhaps tomorrow you will not
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be alive, and you will have worried for a world that will not be yours.
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A guy by the name of Mark Lowry, I mean, some of you probably know who Mark
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Lowry is, a Christian musician or comedian and part of the Talmud.
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Catherband, said this, I don't worry because whether I worry or not,
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everything is either going to get better, worse, or stay just about the same, so why worry?
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The question that it all boils down to is this, does God care?
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In that passage, there's a phrase, the Lord is near.
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I don't know about you, but I know he cares for me. The past week in my private
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worship time, I've once again become overwhelmed with the amazing realization
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that even though God has millions of people to listen to at the same time,
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he is making note of each one's requests and acting on them.
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And even more, in the midst of all
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of those questions, he has the time to listen to me and to talk with me.
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The scripture says, cast your cares on him, for he cares for you.
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When we come to the realization that God cares for us, and while we may not
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be able to quit our worrying immediately, some of us worry about worrying,
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maybe we can at least limit our worrying.
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Maybe when worry and anxiety begins to creep in, we can think about what Paul
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wrote in Philippians chapter 4, do not be anxious about anything,
Philippians 4 chapter mention
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but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving presents your requests
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to God, and the peace of God with transcends all understanding will guard your
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hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
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Do you know why I think God didn't, or Paul didn't worry? It's because of what he knew.
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He had gone through so much of life, and he'd gone through so much turmoil that
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he knew that God was taking him through all that, and God could take him the rest of the way.
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He wrote in the second half of verse 5, as I repeated, earlier,
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he said, the Lord is near.
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Know, that's also in Psalm 23. Did you know that? The Lord is near. He is with me.
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Friends, despite what we think may be happening, despite the fact that you don't
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know what the future holds,
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despite the fact that the Packers lost last night and are out of the playoffs,
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that really doesn't make a whit in what this world is going to be.
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And I'm a Packer fan, but it isn't going to make a difference.
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What's going to make a difference is what are we doing for the kingdom of God. The Lord is near.
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I'm okay with that. How about you? Can you trust him?
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Heavenly Father, as we close this time in prayer, we ask that you would help
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us to put our trust and our faith in you.
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Help us to be on mission with you, building your kingdom.
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And now we ask that the love of God, the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ,
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and the fellowship of his Holy Spirit be with us now and forevermore as we go
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and serve a world that desperately needs Jesus.