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Growing Old Isn't for Sissies (Guest Speaker Larry Webb)

Pleasant View Baptist Church - Bettendorf

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  1. I want to thank you as a congregation for welcoming Drew

  2. and Louvian and Aria and Micah. Thank you for accepting them.

  3. This is almost a surreal moment for me, as I wasn't sure if and

  4. when Drew would become a lead pastor and shepherd his own

  5. congregation. But Drew's more patient than his

  6. father, and he waited for God's perfect timing.

  7. And then God brought all this together and we couldn't be more

  8. grateful, Drew mentioned. We're from West TX.

  9. Texans have the unfortunate reputation of being

  10. braggadocious about everything being bigger and better in

  11. Texas. I heard about a Texas rancher

  12. and an Iowa farmer that met at an agricultural convention.

  13. The Texas rancher said to this Iowa farmer, he said, how big is

  14. your spread? And the farmer said not not that

  15. big, big enough, no more than 100 acres.

  16. This Texas rancher said, are you serious?

  17. That's nothing, 100 acres. I have so much land I can get in

  18. my truck in the morning and drive from sunrise until sunset.

  19. And at the end of that time I still will have not gotten to

  20. the end of my land. This Texas rancher said that's,

  21. that's, that's OK. He scratched his head.

  22. The Iowa farmer did and said, I know exactly what you mean.

  23. I used to have a truck like that myself.

  24. Anyway, you can always tell a Texan.

  25. You can't tell him much, but you can always tell a Texan.

  26. Please turn in your Bibles or open up the Bible app on your

  27. phone to Joshua chapter 14. I am preaching from the newer

    Joshua 14 chapter mention

  28. edition of the King James translation.

  29. If you're using something else, I am certain that it will be

  30. much the same. This morning we're addressing

  31. the subject of age and aging. I read about a woman that sat in

  32. the waiting room for a first time appointment to see a new

  33. dentist. She noticed his diploma from

  34. dental school that had his full name, and she was surprised to

  35. see that because she remembered a tall, handsome, athletic boy

  36. with that same name from her high school from her high school

  37. graduating class long ago. She thought, could this possibly

  38. be the same guy I had a crush on in high school?

  39. But she immediately dismissed that idea when she met the

  40. dentist. He was a short, balding,

  41. wrinkled, pudgy old man. She thought that this man was

  42. much too old to have been in her class, but she couldn't contain

  43. herself. She just had to ask.

  44. So after they had spent some time together, she asked, Did

  45. you happen to attend Morgan Park High School?

  46. He smiled and said, Yes, I did. I was a Mustang.

  47. She asked. And when did you graduate?

  48. He said 1959, She responded, 1959.

  49. Then you were in my class. He paused, looking at her more

  50. closely. Said I was in your class.

  51. And what was it exactly that you taught?

  52. Aging happens, and from a medical perspective, aging is

  53. the alternative to death. So unless we're anxious to die

  54. soon, then aging is a good thing.

  55. Aging is a blessing from God. The percentage of older people

  56. in the US population is increasing at an exponential

  57. rate. This is 2025, and there are now

  58. 73 million of us aged 65 and older.

  59. That's almost one fifth of our entire population.

  60. And then there are 6.4 million of us that are 85 and older.

  61. Actually, the fastest growing demographic right now are people

  62. aged 90. Plus we have some widows in our

  63. congregation that are 90 and more than 91 is 95 and she still

  64. drives. Not sure that's a good idea.

  65. On a global scale, there are 1 billion people over age 65.

  66. Japan is aging so fast that adult diapers are out selling

  67. baby diapers. the United Nations is estimated there are now some

  68. 316,000 centenarians. Centenarians are people aged 100

  69. and older. And now there's a new

  70. demographic level called super centenarian.

  71. That's people 110 and older and there are live and now an

  72. estimated 300 and Fort Fort 450 super centenarians people.

  73. That's craziness. Caleb is one of my favorite

  74. biblical characters. Our oldest grandson is a Caleb.

  75. He is a second year electrical engineering student at

  76. California Baptist University. His father and our second son is

  77. a Joshua. So we have a Joshua and a Caleb.

  78. Let's read some background to these comments on Caleb, Joshua

  79. 14, starting at verse 6. Then the children of Judah came

  80. to Joshua at Gilgal, and Caleb the son of Jofana the Kinnazai,

  81. said to him, You know the word which the Lord said to Moses,

  82. the man of God, concerning you, Joshua and me, Caleb and Kadish

  83. Barnia. Verse seven.

  84. I was 40 years old. This is Caleb speaking.

  85. I was 40 years old when Moses the servant of the Lord, sent me

  86. from Kadish Barnia to spy out the land, and I brought back

  87. word to him as it was in my heart.

  88. Verse 8. Nevertheless my brother, and who

  89. went up with me, me and the other spies made the heart of

  90. the people melt. But I wholly follow the Lord my

  91. God. It is estimated that 2 million

  92. plus Israelites had left Egypt and a journey to the edge of the

  93. land God had promised them. That land was called Canaan and

  94. the people stopped just outside Canaan at a region called Kadish

  95. Barnia. From Kadish Barnia, Moses agreed

  96. to send 12 men on a reconnaissance mission into

  97. Canaan. Those men were instructed to

  98. investigate the condition of the land and more specifically to

  99. bring back some of the grape harvest to demonstrate that

  100. lands fruitfulness. That happened per those

  101. instructions. And so it's no coincidence that

  102. the modern day Israeli Ministry of Tourism has as its logo to

  103. men carrying an enormous cluster of grapes hanging from a pole

  104. beneath between them. Those spies were also instructed

  105. to determine the strength and fortification of Canaan cities

  106. and people. The 12 spies all agreed on the

  107. desirability of the land but disagreed on what to do. 10 of

  108. those spies brought back an exaggerated negative report and

  109. said it would be impossible to conquer Canaan.

  110. The argument was there are giants in Canaan and we're

  111. grasshoppers compared to them, we cannot do this.

  112. But Joshua and Caleb disagreed and said to the others, no, God

  113. told us to invade Canaan and we can do this.

  114. Well, the problem was the people listen to the bad report from

  115. the 10 spies and so rejected Caleb and Joshua and even wanted

  116. to stone them in order to punish the people.

  117. Stubborn disobedience. God pushed pause and God put a

  118. hold on the movement to invade the Promised land.

  119. He forced the entire nation to wander in the wilderness region

  120. until that entire first generation of Israelites that

  121. had left Egypt died off. Only Joshua and Caleb and the

  122. emerging generations would be permitted to enter Canaan.

  123. Notice verse 9. So Moses swore to Caleb on that

  124. day, saying, Surely the land where your foot is trodden shall

  125. be your inheritance and your children's forever, because you

  126. have wholly followed the Lord my God.

  127. Verse 10. And now this is Caleb speaking.

  128. Behold, the Lord has kept me alive as He said these 45 years,

  129. ever since the Lord spoke this word to Moses while Israel

  130. wandered in the wilderness. And now here I am, this day, 85

  131. years old. That's an abbreviated background

  132. to this text. Now let me extract from this

  133. narrative 4 principles about AG principle.

  134. One advanced stage doesn't mean we have to think old getting

  135. older. Advancing age doesn't mean we

  136. have to think old. Verse 11 notice, Caleb said.

  137. And yet as yet I am as strong this day as on the day that

  138. Moses sent me. Carefully notice, he said.

  139. And yet I am as strong this day as on the day that Moses sent

  140. me. Just as my strength was then, so

  141. now is my strength for war, both for going out and for coming in.

  142. From personal experience, the first half of life was a piece

  143. of cake, but the second-half has been more difficult.

  144. Old age is not for sissies. Caleb had a mindset to handle

  145. AG. Caleb essentially said he felt

  146. as strong at 85 as he did at 40. Imagine that he felt as strong

  147. at 85 as he did at 40. That might have been wishful

  148. thinking, but it wasn't old thinking.

  149. Unlike Caleb, I have lost some fitness and strength.

  150. I used to pinch an inch and now it's grab a slab.

  151. I used to lift more weight than anyone in the gym and now I sit

  152. in the tub, pull the plug and fight the current.

  153. I actually sat in a rocking chair this past Tuesday but I

  154. couldn't get it started. And each morning I wake up, what

  155. doesn't ache doesn't work. I admit I'm old, but I don't

  156. think old because unless we die, we cannot avoid the inevitable

  157. ageing process. So we should learn to adjust to

  158. ageing. Aging isn't a choice, but our

  159. attitude toward aging is. From a biblical perspective,

  160. aging and old age is a blessing from God.

  161. Consider some examples of that. Genesis 25 verse 8.

    Genesis 25:8

  162. Then Abraham breathed his last and died in a good old age.

  163. Notice old age is described as being good.

  164. Abraham breathed his last, and died in a good old age and old

  165. man and full of years. First Chronicles 29, verse 8 So

    1 Chronicles 29:8

  166. he David died in a good old age full of days.

  167. Job 42 verse 17 So Job died old and full of days.

    Job 42:17

  168. Proverbs 16 verse 31. The silver haired head, meaning

    Proverbs 16:31

  169. the hair on an older man's head that often turns Gray, is a

  170. crown of glory. Now personally I think hair is

  171. overrated, but that's probably just me.

  172. Titus one and verse 5. Paul said to Titus appoint

  173. elders in every city. God specified that the highest

  174. governing group in the church should be elders, and that

  175. original word meant someone of advanced age, an older and

  176. mature man. Titus 2 verses 3 and 4

    Titus 2:3

  177. encourages quote older women to teach younger women.

  178. Problem is, it's extremely difficult to find a woman that

  179. actually admits to being an older woman.

  180. Exodus 20 verse 12. This is the 5th commandment.

    Exodus 20:12

  181. Honor your father and mother. And why would God tell the

  182. ancient Israelites to do that? That your days may be long.

  183. The blessing God promised His obedient covenant children that

  184. honored their parents was old age.

  185. Moses described aging as something desirable and a

  186. blessing. Leviticus 19 verse 32 stand up

    Leviticus 19:32

  187. in the presence of the elderly and show respect for the aging.

  188. Age is something to be respected and something to be honored,

  189. something other cultures understand.

  190. China legislated a recent law that requires adult children to

  191. visit their parents and not to do.

  192. That can result in punishment ranging from fines to jail time.

  193. And that's also the similar emphasis in Korea and Japan.

  194. In the United States, not so much.

  195. In our culture, the aged are often abandoned in convalescent

  196. and nursing homes. Now don't misunderstand that I

  197. understand because of serious health problems the aged, it

  198. happened to my mother, the aged need special 24 hour care and I

  199. understand that. But I've been and I visited

  200. convalescent homes for the past half century often.

  201. I ask does anyone come to see you?

  202. And their response is no, no one.

  203. The older generation should never be abandoned and never be

  204. ignored and neglected. According to the 5th Commandment

  205. in the Decalogue. That is not how we honor our

  206. parents. God has placed a premium on

  207. aging. We should accept advancing age

  208. as a blessing and a gift from God, and we should determine to

  209. appreciate and celebrate our longevity and not just endure

  210. it. Aging is 10% what happens to us

  211. and 90% how we respond to it. There might need to be some

  212. adjustments in order to accommodate the aging process.

  213. I have a General practitioner, medical doctor, and I also have

  214. six medical specialists because aging often includes health

  215. problems. That's part of it.

  216. So aging might require us to make some adjustments, but age

  217. doesn't mean we're done. I read AT Shirt that said I'm

  218. retired but not expired. Older generations might struggle

  219. to keep up with emerging generations.

  220. In some sense, especially in technology, our grandchildren

  221. know more about our phones than we do.

  222. If I have a phone problem, I call our oldest grandson and

  223. he'll explain. Walk me through it.

  224. But remember something. As long as we that are older are

  225. alive, as long as we that are older are alive, we're still

  226. leading. We're still leading because we

  227. are aware of the emerging generations have never been

  228. youthfulness is so naive. Emerging generations consisting

  229. of baby Busters, Generation X. Our son is a Buster.

  230. Millennials, Generation Y, and especially now members of the

  231. Generation Z, the Zoomers, and now the most recent generation

  232. is AA, consists of children born from 2010 to 2025.

  233. But emerging generations have the mistaken notion that old

  234. people have always been old and that they themselves are never

  235. going to get old. That's called self deception.

  236. So generations after us have to learn aging from us.

  237. David commented on that Psalm 71 verse 18.

    Psalms 71:18

  238. Now also when I'm old and Gray headed, oh God, do not forsake

  239. me until until I declare your strength to this generation and

  240. declare your power to everyone who is to come.

  241. To everyone who is to come means generations that would come

  242. after David. As older people, we've all made

  243. mistakes, we've all had regrets. We all wish we could have some

  244. do overs and that's not possible.

  245. But we can pass on our experiences to emerging

  246. generations, all of them. The good, the bad and the ugly.

  247. We can pass on those things to generations after us so that

  248. they can benefit from our experiences.

  249. There's so much we can learn from older people.

  250. Someone said aging is just mind over matter.

  251. If we don't mind, then it doesn't matter.

  252. Age is just a number. And that's because it's about

  253. attitude and Caleb have the right attitude.

  254. Principle 2. Aging should be seen as a

  255. challenge. Verse 12 Caleb said now

  256. therefore give me this mountain. Caleb is requesting a mountain

  257. give me this mounting in which the Lord spoke in that day, for

  258. you heard in that day how the Anakim were there and that the

  259. cities were great and fortified. It may be that the Lord will be

  260. with me and I shall be able to drive them out as the Lord said.

  261. Remember, at this juncture, 80, Caleb is 85.

  262. And notice he didn't. He didn't resign himself to a do

  263. nothing rock chair rocking chair existence.

  264. Most of his peers had already probably retired to Red Sea

  265. Condos. Not Caleb.

  266. He didn't go. Been there, done that, even got

  267. the T-shirt. Someone else can do it now.

  268. I'm done. I'm serious.

  269. I'm done. That wasn't Caleb.

  270. Caleb said Give me those mountains.

  271. Caleb said. Bring on those giants, let me

  272. out those fortified cities. Don't get me a Walker, people.

  273. Get me a sword. I'm not through here.

  274. That was Caleb. Some people stagnate in old age.

  275. Those people don't just get old, they get obsolete.

  276. I heard about a dynamic St. who suffered A cardiac arrest and

  277. died suddenly at age 83. But after she passed, her

  278. daughter was going through her things and found a note.

  279. Dated the night before she died and on that note, she had listed

  280. her personal goals for the next 10 years because she accepted

  281. aging as a challenge. Nola Ox was born in 1911,

  282. graduated from high school in 1929.

  283. She married and mothered four sons, 13 grandchildren and 15

  284. great grandchildren. She took her first college

  285. course in 1930. Now, 56% of all students that

  286. start college don't finish college.

  287. She wasn't one of those unfortunate statistics.

  288. Almost 8 decades after she started college, she graduated

  289. from Fort Hays State University where she earned a General

  290. Studies degree with an emphasis in History.

  291. She was 95. Princess Cruise Line heard about

  292. her and hired as a guest lecturer on a Caribbean cruise.

  293. She returned and decided to go to Graduate School.

  294. Nola earned a master's degree at age 98, the oldest Graduate

  295. School graduate ever to that date.

  296. And then once she turned 100, she said yes to another

  297. challenge and accepted a job as a graduate assistant.

  298. People, that's what I'm talking about.

  299. Nolan, I should add, didn't die till she was 105.

  300. As Drew mentioned, this past summer I turned 75.

  301. We've been married for 55 years, which boggles our mind.

  302. How did this happen so quick? 23 months ago, I accepted

  303. probably the most difficult task God has ever assigned to me, and

  304. that was to revitalize an older congregation.

  305. No one was younger than 62. God assigned me the task of

  306. revivaling that congregations, something that all the experts,

  307. denominational experts said could not be done.

  308. I brought in Dr. Jonathan Smith from Dallas.

  309. He spent 2 1/2 hours one Sunday evening with our people, as many

  310. as I could get there. And at the end of his

  311. presentation, and he is an expert on church revitalization.

  312. He's very, very knowledgeable. At the end of the presentation,

  313. he said, I'm so sorry, but this church is not a candidate for

  314. revitalization. You have money in the bank.

  315. You'll last longer than some, but you're not going to make it.

  316. Wow. But I said yes, ultimately yes

  317. to that assignment. And God is doing some miraculous

  318. things. Aging should be seen as a

  319. challenge. Principle 3.

  320. It's possible for our greatest achievements to come in our old

  321. age. It's entirely possible for our

  322. greatest achievements to come in our old age.

  323. Numbers 14, verses 2 through 4. God said that my servant Caleb,

    Numbers 14:2–4

  324. because he has a different spirit in him and has followed

  325. me fully, I will bring into the land where he went.

  326. Canaan and his descendants shall inherit it.

  327. So Caleb assisted his partner, General Joshua in invading

  328. Canaan, and in a series of light night lightning strike attacks,

  329. the major strongholds in that land were conquered.

  330. Caleb was a significant participant in that invasion,

  331. and at age 85, that turned out to be probably his greatest

  332. achievement. Anna Mary Robertson Moses,

  333. better known as Grandma Moses, had no formal art training but

  334. became a cultural icon after she started painting at age 76.

  335. Before she died, she painted some 1600 canvases, including 25

  336. paintings she completed at 101. She sold her first painting for

  337. $3, and in 2006 one of her paintings sold for $1.2 million.

  338. At age 59, the pitching phenom from the Negro Lick Leagues,

  339. Satchel Paige, started his last Major League ball game.

  340. He pitched for the Kansas City Athletics.

  341. The Athletics originated in Philadelphia, Philadelphia

  342. Athletics, then Kansas City Athletics, and then in 1968 the

  343. Athletics moved to Oakland and became the Oakland Athletics.

  344. And now in 2028 going to be the Las Vegas Athletics team just

  345. can't stay still. I don't know what's going on,

  346. but he pitched for pitched for the Athletics.

  347. The game was September the 25th, 1965 against the Boston Red Sox.

  348. Satchel sat in the bullpen in a rocking chair and a nurse

  349. massaged his pitching arm and served in coffee between

  350. innings. He pitched 3 scoreless innings

  351. and left the game to the crowd singing The Old Gray Mare.

  352. She ain't what she used to be. At age 64, prolific author

  353. Charles Swindell. He's authored more than 70

  354. books. I'm actually indebted to him for

  355. some of this material. But Charles Swindell at 64,

  356. started Stonebrough Community Church in North Dallas, Frisco,

  357. to be precise. Church is a mega church.

  358. Phenomenal facilities. Dr. Swindell retired this past

  359. fall at age 9090, but he turns 91 this month, and each morning

  360. he still goes to his office at Inside for Living, where he

  361. helps facilitate transmitting his sermons on more than 2000

  362. radio stations. At age 70, Benjamin Franklin

  363. became the oldest signer of the Declaration of Independence.

  364. Most people have the mistaken notion that Daniel was thrown

  365. into the lion's den and survived when he was still a teenager.

  366. Wrong. Most biblical historians would

  367. argue that Daniel was tossed into the lion's den at age 80.

  368. Billy Graham was the greatest evangelist in modern times.

  369. He preached his last crusade in Queens, NY. 3 consecutive nights

  370. of crusade. Each night the attendance was

  371. more than 80,000. Billy Graham preached his last

  372. sermon at age 86. These men and women had some of

  373. their greatest achievements in old age.

  374. Those people subscribe to the adage that it's never too late

  375. to do something significant. Principle 4.

  376. No matter how old we are, God still rewards spiritual

  377. commitment. No matter our age.

  378. No matter how old we are, God still rewards spiritual

  379. commitment. Verse 13 And Joshua blessed him,

  380. meaning Joshua blessed Caleb and gave him Hebron, and gave Hebron

  381. to Caleb the son of Geophonah as an inheritance.

  382. Verse 14. Hebron therefore became the

  383. inheritance of Caleb, the son of Geophonah the Kinzenite.

  384. To this day, because, notice, because he wholly followed the

  385. Lord God of Israel. I should mention that that

  386. mountain Hebron is also pronounced Hebron.

  387. Both are acceptable pronunciations.

  388. That last phrase he wholly followed the Lord God was used

  389. to describe Caleb six different times in the Old Testament.

  390. It's interesting. Biblical historians aren't

  391. exactly sure what the name Caleb meant.

  392. Some believe it meant dog and undomesticated dog.

  393. But then most are convinced Caleb meant wholehearted.

  394. Wholehearted. Caleb had a whole heart for God,

  395. and that wholeheartedness fits this statement.

  396. He wholly, not partially. He wholly, completely, totally

  397. followed the Lord God of Israel. There's a sports line that reads

  398. leave it all on the field. Coaches tell teams, get out

  399. there and give this game everything you have.

  400. Don't hold back anything. Leave it all on the field.

  401. Caleb did that. Caleb demonstrated complete

  402. devotion, unreserved enthusiasm and unconditional commitment to

  403. God. That was Caleb at age 85.

  404. Has that ever been us at any age?

  405. Translated into two Testament language?

  406. Caleb illustrates that being a Christian is a 24/7 full time

  407. job. Being a Christian requires all

  408. of us and all the time, no matter how old we are.

  409. Convenient Christianity is unacceptable.

  410. Comfortable Christianity is unacceptable.

  411. Uncomfortable Christianity is unacceptable.

  412. God wants a Caleb wholeheartedness from us.

  413. Jim Elliott should sound familiar.

  414. He's quoted so often one of the five murdered martyr new

  415. missionaries in the Esquid Ecuadorian jungle in 1956.

  416. I have a good friend, a pastor friend, who spent a number of

  417. weeks there in that jungle with the formerly known as ACA

  418. Indians. And those missionaries were

  419. murdered in 1956. Jim Elliott said this.

  420. When it comes time to die, make sure that all you have to do is

  421. die. Meaning when it comes time to

  422. die, make sure there's no unfinished spiritual business.

  423. When it comes time to die, we are to be faithful to do all

  424. that God required from us, and so all we have left to do is to

  425. die. I'm part of the baby boomer

  426. generation, the stretch from 1946 through 1964.

  427. Together almost 77 million of us, twice the size of the Buster

  428. generation after us, and boomers are now retiring at a record

  429. pace. 8000 or more boomers retire each day.

  430. There are now more retirees than ever.

  431. Most people aren't aware, but retirement is not found in

  432. Scripture. In fact, retirement is a recent

  433. practice. Most historians trace retirement

  434. to Germany's Chancellor Otto von Bismarck, who pushed through a

  435. series of social changes in the late 19th century.

  436. He created a German system similar to our Social Security

  437. benefits that guaranteed a retirement pension to older

  438. people. I'm OK with the idea that we can

  439. require retire from our current employment, but from a biblical

  440. perspective, a Christian should redeploy after his employment

  441. has ended because God still requires commitment from us even

  442. in old age. Christians can retire from Ford

  443. Motor Company, retire from IV, retire from Bank of America,

  444. retire from the post office in the fire department, retire from

  445. the school district, retire from John Deere.

  446. That's fine, that's all fine. But Christians don't retire from

  447. being a Christian. The objective in retirement

  448. isn't to just visit our grandchildren.

  449. Now don't misunderstand that one reason we're here is because of

  450. our grandchildren. We have 4 grandchildren, 2 boys,

  451. 2 girls. They're all amazing and we miss

  452. them and they're one reason we're here.

  453. I've always said grandchildren are God's reward to parents who

  454. don't kill their children. And so we love to see our

  455. grandchildren, but that's retirement after retirement.

  456. Our objective should be more than that.

  457. Our objective shouldn't be to just better our golf score, or

  458. improve our tan, or just hunt and fish, or improve our

  459. pickleball game, or restore a classic car, or just RV

  460. ourselves until the wheels fall off.

  461. No, no, there are short term mission trips to be taken.

  462. There are ministries to be volunteered for.

  463. There are marriages to be salvage.

  464. There are people to be friend they were unsaved to be

  465. evangelized. There are people in pain to be

  466. counseled, children without parents to be mentored, the

  467. underprivileged to be fed and clothed, and on and on and on.

  468. Christians never, never retire from being a Christian and doing

  469. all that God expects from us. Now notice Caleb's consistent

  470. commitment was first rewarded on earth and receiving that

  471. inheritance God promised him. Caleb had asked Joshua to give

  472. him a mountain inside Judah. Joshua blessed him, and that

  473. blessing acted as a sign that God had granted him that

  474. request. So God gave Caleb Hebron the

  475. mountain. Hebron was an important site

  476. because it is supposedly where the ancient Jewish patriarchs

  477. Abraham, Isaac and Jacob are buried, and according to

  478. rabbinical tradition, the first man, Adam, was also buried

  479. there. Although no one actually knows

  480. that Caleb wanted Hebron, and in compensation for his commitment

  481. to God, he inherited Hebron. That was his initial reward.

  482. God still rewards us here on this earth, our reward.

  483. He rewards us with financial and material assets.

  484. He rewards us with strategic personal connections.

  485. He rewards us with promotions and recognition.

  486. God still rewards us here, but those are only our initial

  487. rewards. Our greatest and most permanent

  488. rewards are reserved for us in heaven.

  489. Matthew 5, verse 12. Jesus said rejoice and be

    Matthew 5:12

  490. exceedingly glad, for great is your reward.

  491. And where is our great reward? In Heaven In Heaven, the

  492. organization ARAP, American Association for Retired Persons.

  493. That organization started sending me stuff at age 50.

  494. I go, man, this is ridiculous. I don't need this now.

  495. That organization suggests that most people after age 50 believe

  496. in life after death. That particular research project

  497. revealed that confidence in life after death increases with age,

  498. and that's because Ecclesiastes 311 reads that God has put

  499. eternity into our hearts. The sense that we have been

  500. created to exist forever is has been a part of all civilizations

  501. throughout human history. Astrophological evidence

  502. suggests that every culture, no matter how primitive, every

  503. culture, has this God-given an eighth sense of the eternal.

  504. There was this sense that our time on this earth is not all

  505. there is. In a grammatical sense.

  506. Death is not a period. Death is just a comma in the

  507. continuation of life. Death doesn't mean termination.

  508. Death just means a transition into the eternal.

  509. Famous German pastor, theologian and strong anti Nazi dissident

  510. Dietrich Bonhoeffer was executed by the Nazis just before the

  511. liberation. His last words were oh God, this

  512. is the end. But for me this is just the

  513. beginning. And that's because there's an

  514. infant amount more life on the other side of the grave than

  515. there is on this side. Breath brings us birth brings us

  516. into time. Death brings us into

  517. timelessness. That's the reason it concerns

  518. me. The contemporary Christianity

  519. seems to focus more on the here and now.

  520. We've all heard them. I'm not going to mention names,

  521. Joel Osteen, but we, we've all heard them say that you know the

  522. emphasis on being happier now, your best life now, having more

  523. here, having good health here, solving our problems here, being

  524. more blessed here, being more fulfilled here, being more

  525. successful here. People, have we forgotten that

  526. here stops at the grave? I read about someone that didn't

  527. understand that concept. He saved and hoarded as much

  528. money as he could throughout his lifetime because he had an

  529. unreasonable, unbiblical affection for money.

  530. Just before he died, he insisted his wife put his entire life

  531. savings into the casket with him.

  532. She was scheduled to receive sizeable life insurance

  533. benefits, so she was provided for after his death, but he

  534. wanted to see if he could be the one exception.

  535. The one exception to take his personal 6 figure bank account

  536. into the afterlife. His wife protested at first, but

  537. then reconsidered and promised him she would do that at his

  538. funeral. After the service, just before

  539. the casket was closed, his wife put a small box into the casket.

  540. The Mortuary staff then closed the casket, rolled it away.

  541. One of the wife's friends was aware of this man's strange

  542. request and she noticed what this woman had just done.

  543. And she said, wait a minute, you weren't foolish enough to put

  544. all that money into the casket, were you?

  545. She said. I promised my husband I would

  546. put his entire life savings into the casket with him.

  547. This friend is frantic and shocked.

  548. Seriously. Seriously.

  549. You mean to tell me that you actually put all that money into

  550. the casket? She said.

  551. Yes, I did. I wrote him a check for the

  552. exact amount here. Stops at the grave.

  553. So the older we get, the more focused on the eternal we should

  554. be. Bruce Wilkerson, famous author.

  555. His books have sold millions of copies and also founder of Walk

  556. Through the Bible Ministries and I've met him and spoke to him

  557. and have listened to him at different seminars.

  558. Bruce Wilkerson's calls that the law of the unbreakable link.

  559. The law of the unbreakable link. Unbreakable link, meaning the

  560. uninterrupted link between the here and the hereafter.

  561. That law states our choices on earth have direct consequences

  562. in heaven. That law was illustrating using

  563. a dot and a line as on this poster and as on the note sheet.

  564. You have notice on the note sheet the dots and then the line

  565. beginning after the dot and then going off the edge of the page.

  566. The dot represents our entire existence on this earth from

  567. birth until death, and the line represents our eternal existence

  568. in heaven. The dot is finite, the land, the

  569. line is infinite. The dot almost never lasts more

  570. than a century, but the line lasts forever.

  571. Carrie was on the dot until this past Wednesday afternoon.

  572. Now Kerry is on that line and someday we will all be on that

  573. line. Please understand there is a

  574. direct connection between what we do on the dots during our

  575. life here and then what we experience on the line.

  576. That which we do on earth as on the dot is going to be

  577. recognized and then rewarded in heaven on the line.

  578. That means that the at this moment, we're all existing on

  579. the dot, but we were meant to live the line.

  580. We need to understand that this is an eternal perspective we are

  581. to have. We're existing on the dot, but

  582. we are to live and invest in the line.

  583. One of my all time favorite communicators was Howard

  584. Hendricks from Dallas Theological Seminary.

  585. Dallas Seminaries 1 of this nation's elite seminaries before

  586. his death in 2013. Doctor Hendricks taught at

  587. Dallas Seminary until age 86. All together, he taught more

  588. than 10,000 students throughout his sixth decade tenure there as

  589. a professor. One of the greatest

  590. communicators I've ever heard. Some of his students have become

  591. household names in evangelicalism.

  592. The influence he had on Chrysodom is incalculable.

  593. Doctor Hendricks and I heard him share this in person once,

  594. shared how he and a small group of men had been in a Sunday

  595. School conference at historic Moody Church in Chicago.

  596. At lunchtime, these men were eating at a small hamburger shop

  597. across the street and one of them noticed an older woman who

  598. couldn't find the seat, so these gentlemen invited her to sit

  599. with them. This widowed woman had ridden

  600. all night long on a Greyhound bus from Upper Michigan to

  601. attend this Sunday school conference.

  602. Now get this this woman was 83 and at age 83 she still taught a

  603. junior high boys Sunday school class.

  604. People, junior high boys are potential domestic terrorists.

  605. This woman came from a small congregation in a small Upper

  606. Michigan town. It's combined Sunday school

  607. attendance averaged 65, and 13 or more of them were in her

  608. class. She said to these men, I came to

  609. this conference for one reason, so I can learn how to be a

  610. better Sunday school teacher. At 83, she's investing in the

  611. line. Still investing in the line

  612. Wanted to be a better Sunday School teacher.

  613. At age 83, this woman was barely still on the dot, but she was

  614. still investing in the line. Listen carefully.

  615. After her tenure as a Sunday school teacher at that small

  616. church, 2222 of her formal pupils graduated from Dallas

  617. Theological Seminary and all together 84 of this teachers,

  618. former junior high students ended up in full time

  619. professional ministry. People that's investing in the

  620. line. And that's what we are called on

  621. to do and to continue to do and to continue to do and to

  622. continue to do until we're actually on the line.

  623. Let's bow our heads. I think I've gone over.

  624. I apologize, Father, I thank you for Caleb, for his example, for

  625. all of us. Even the younger people here

  626. should be able to relate to this because their desire is to get

  627. older. And I pray God that you will

  628. help each of us to, to learn these lessons from Caleb.

  629. Help us even though we're still on the dot.

  630. Help us to invest in the line. That's what you require from us

  631. and that is what we should give you out of gratitude for all

  632. that you've given to us. I do want to pray for Carrie's

  633. family during this time and her many, many friends.

  634. We're happy for her, she's with you, but we're sad for everyone

  635. who's been left behind. So I pray that you will comfort

  636. and encourage their hearts. Again, thank you for this

  637. opportunity to meet these dear people and to share your word.

  638. And I thank you in Jesus name, Amen.