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James 4:1-10 | Faith Works: The Book of James (with Jeff Stemple)
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Well good morning.
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Flip side.
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Good to see you guys in church.
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I'm glad you made the decision to come this morning.
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Last Sunday, last day, really, of June.
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Glad that you're here.
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Hey, if we have not met before. My name is Jeff.
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I'm on staff here at flipside.
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One of the pastors serving alongside Pastor Carl,
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who is away at a church in Colorado this weekend.
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If you've heard us talk about the Excel Leadership Network.
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you maybe have heard that mentioned in one of your Bible studies,
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or maybe you hear from a platform on Sunday.
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we are heavily invested in Excel
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because Excel is heavily invested in identifying high level leaders,
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sending them out to plant churches, equipping them to do ministry
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all over the world.
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Really, that map in the back of the church gets overlooked a lot.
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That has these little pins.
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There you are. That map has these little pins in it.
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Those are all church plants that we've either,
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done the planning ourselves or we've helped facilitate that.
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There's even because that's just a map of the United States.
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There's even some that aren't in the US that we've helped plant.
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and we've identified leaders to send out to help, do ministry at those churches.
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So Pastor Carl is with one of those churches
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that is also a part of Excel Leadership Network in Colorado,
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helping them facilitate some of their ministry that they're doing.
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There.
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But in the meantime, that means that, we get to hang out.
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I'm really stoked about the time we get to spend here this morning.
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It's been a long time. I'm trying to talk to my wife.
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Last night, I was trying to remember the last time,
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I got to share the word with you on a Sunday, and we couldn't remember, so
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I'm excited.
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I'm hoping you'll be encouraged by what we're going to talk about here today.
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we've been in this series over the last.
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Oh, gosh. It's been a lot of weeks.
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Seven, eight, nine weeks.
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where we're going through the book of James and the series is called
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Faith works.
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We're talking about the fact that faith does work.
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It's not just an idea or something that's just sort of out there that maybe
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you try to understand every now and then and who knows how far you'll get.
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Faith actually does work.
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It makes a difference.
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James talks in his book all about how that happens,
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but how our faith works, that sort of the gear works behind it.
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That was the that was the premise behind that.
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That graphic there is it's constituted of certain things
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that makes it all work together.
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And that how the faith we claim
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to have will actually be shown by our works.
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James says it's a big deal.
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It was interesting when, if you've ever looked into the Bible
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theologians, if you've ever looked into the canonization of Scripture,
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why the 66 books that are in the Bible are there
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that James almost didn't make the cut because it was so,
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what the church leaders felt was far away
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from, salvation by faith alone.
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Because James talks, James talks so much about works and how, the things
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we do, the action we take is going to be it's going to prove our faith.
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It's a book.
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We talked about this.
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It's a book full of teaching that's really easy to understand.
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But it's really difficult to live out.
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It's really difficult to understand, but it's really or it's really,
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easy to understand, but it's really difficult to live out.
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I always tell people, most of them,
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high school students, it's.
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You probably heard Carl talk over the last semester.
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what started out as sort of a stopgap ended up being the entire semester.
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Pastor Carl and I co-leading our junior high and high school program.
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We have both done youth ministry before, but, we had to kind of kick the tires.
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We were a little rusty.
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And to see and to do, you know, kind of co-lead that was so awesome.
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And it's so
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interesting to see,
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when students start to when things start to click,
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when, when faith based things or the Bible things of the Bible start to click,
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they get that little glimmer in their eye and they start asking questions.
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And one of the first questions they ask is the or.
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They make a statement saying, I hate to read,
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but I'm no, I'm supposed to read the Bible.
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So where do I start?
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And a lot of times, especially with kids, I'll say start in the book of James.
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It's short, but it's really, really easy to understand.
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And it's kind of a bait and switch because they soon figure out, yeah,
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it's really easy to understand, but it's really difficult to live out.
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It's really big
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on what I call Bible fundamentals, really big on fundamental things.
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You talk to Carl, he'll talk about sports, fundamentals
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of sports, fundamentals of football.
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it's easy to discount fundamentals
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or say I've got it or I've got it good enough.
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Let's get on to something more fun or something more complex or something
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more, lively.
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I don't want to.
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I don't want to camp out in the fundamentals.
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I've got enough of it.
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I always know when I come across a musician
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who who's who's short circuited their fundamentals.
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Maybe they haven't practiced with a metronome,
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or they'll practice their scales at some point, you get to a song or.
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And Carl talks about this on the football field,
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like with field awareness, at some point you get to a spot where you realize
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we need to go back and we need to work on the fundamentals,
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because either it's been a long time or we just skipped over that part when we
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went over to, to begin with.
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So that's the temptation with James
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is to read some of these things and think, I've got it, or I've got a good enough.
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I've got a lot of it.
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Maybe I don't have that, but I've got I've got enough of it.
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As we read through James,
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he gives really good concrete examples of stuff that we can relate to.
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That's a lot of times why I tell people to start with you.
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It's very relatable.
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You'll be able to relate to it.
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Stuff that happens at work,
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stuff that happens in our relationships at home, stuff that happens
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in our relationships, with with different groups of people.
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There have been times where I've read through passages of James
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and people's faces pop into my mind.
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Conversations I've had where people have said things,
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or maybe they haven't said things that I hope they would say.
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And I think back, you know, as I'm reading,
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these passages out of the book of James, I'm those those conversations
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and those scenarios just come right to the forefront of my memory or my or my mind.
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It's almost as though James or God says, really,
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through the pen of James, I'm going to make it so relatable.
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When you walk away from this, it's really up to you.
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It's really up to you
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as to what you're going to do with it and what you're going to do about it.
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There's a verse of Scripture that talks about how some of the things of God
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are so obvious that it leaves men without excuse.
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Some of the things when you see, when you experience them
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or you see them, it's
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so applicable and relatable to your life that it leaves you without excuse.
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Really, the ball's in your court as to whether or not
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you're going to do something with it or about it.
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A lot of times the Bible's been around, people,
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you know, think the Bible has been around for so long.
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they can say things like, I didn't grow up in church,
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nobody uses words like that anymore.
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It's not even my parents can say they understand what that means.
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James is not like that.
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There's no real loopholes we can get.
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No, you know, cop outs we can take in the book of James.
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He doesn't give us that luxury or convenience.
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So we've been talking about some things,
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well, we have an anchor verse, really.
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There's this anchor verse that we have for the whole series, and it comes in
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the first chapter of James.
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He says, do not merely listen to the word,
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the Word of God, and so deceive yourselves.
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But we're going to read these four words in italics out loud on the count of three.
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Ready, go!
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One, two, three.
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Do what it says.
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Do what it says, James says.
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Don't merely listen to it.
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Because what happens when you just merely listen to it?
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You lie to yourself.
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Would you guys agree?
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We can sell ourselves on some pretty crazy stuff.
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I have sold myself on some things where I'm like, what was I thinking?
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He says.
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When you merely listen to the word, you lie to yourself.
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You deceive yourself instead.
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Or in addition to do what it says.
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We've talked about what to do
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when we face trials and troubles.
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We've talked about what to do when we actually get
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to a point where we can acknowledge that we lack wisdom.
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For some of us, just getting to that point is a challenge.
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But what James says, great, you're there now.
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What do you do?
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What do you do?
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Do you just sit and stew and go, yeah, I blew it.
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I need wisdom
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on onward, onto the next thing.
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Now, James says there's something you're supposed to do about that.
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He talks about what do we do when we're tempted
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to think more of ourselves than we ought to, or than we should?
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What do we do with things like
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favoritism that all of us fall into the
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into the trap of having sometimes.
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And Carl talked about those two laws, the royal law and the freedom, the law.
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If you were here that he dove deep, that we on those two laws.
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James talks about how do we approach things like
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what I'm doing right now, teaching the word, what to expect
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when when you do that, and how we need to think twice
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about that.
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We talked about what do we are, how do we approach or
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what do we do with this idea of taming the tongue?
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A lot of so interesting hearing a lot of your stories.
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When that Sunday was over and you tried to put that into practice
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during your week, oh my gosh, I can't take my tongue.
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It's got a mind of its own.
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I say stuff that I don't want to say, and I don't say stuff that I should say.
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Trying to put that into practice.
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Really easy to understand, but really difficult to put it into practice.
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And then as recently as last week, we talked about how do we decipher
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between the two kinds of wisdom, the earthly or worldly wisdom,
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and then the wisdom that comes from heaven?
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So today, if you brought your Bibles with you,
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if you're old school like me and you have a Bible or,
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maybe you have it on your phone if you don't have our app.
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Our app has been completely revamped.
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All the slides I'm going to talk about here today are on that app.
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They have places where you can actually write notes to yourself.
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You can shuffle it around and order it the way you want to.
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And then at the end of it all, you can download it and take it with you.
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so whether you're old school like me and have a Bible
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or you have it on your phone, we're going to be in James chapter four,
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fourth chapter of the book of James.
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I'm going to read verses one through ten, and then we're going to go back
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and we're going to pick it apart because it.
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Carl I'm not going to say he teases me,
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but he talks about how I because you just loved it.
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You just love to camp out the details.
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Like, I don't love it. I just hate the alternative.
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But I look for patterns and I look for frameworks.
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And the most interesting pattern or framework in these first ten verses
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in the fourth chapter of James
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came to my mind, and I want to share that
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with you this morning, but I want to read it all first.
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So, Tom, I'm going to ask a follow along with me right there
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at the first verse he says, what causes fights and quarrels among you?
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It's a question. And then he moves on.
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If you're a parent, you've asked your kids stuff like this.
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Like, you know what?
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This is just for you, that I already know the answer to this.
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he says, what causes fights and quarrels among you?
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Don't they come from your desires that battle within you?
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You desire, but you do not have.
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So you kill, you covet, but you cannot get what you want.
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So you quarrel and you fight.
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You do not have because you do not ask.
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And when you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives
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that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.
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You adulterous people.
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Don't you know that friendship with the world means empty against God?
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Therefore, anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world
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becomes an enemy of God.
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Or do you think Scripture
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says without reason, that he jealously longs for the spirit?
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He has cause to dwell in us, but he gives us more grace.
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That is why Scripture says God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.
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Submit yourselves, then to God.
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Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
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Come near to God and he will come near to you.
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Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double minded.
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Grieve, mourn and wail.
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Change your laughter to mourning and your joy to gloom.
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Humble yourselves before the Lord and he will lift you up.
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So this passage comes in two halves.
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And those two halves like kind of like a book.
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You got the left side and you got the right side,
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and in the middle the spine or or the hinge
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between these two halves is is one word.
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It's a very interesting, very interesting way these verses are structured.
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But I want to talk about this, this left side, verses one through six,
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verses one through six, or what I call a scathing rebuke.
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That's just a fancy way of saying a bad scolding.
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If you were following along.
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When I was reading those, especially from the beginning,
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you might have been like feeling like a teenager who's being sat down
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and given a talking to.
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Where you just comes right out of the gun, but right out of the chute says this.
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What what
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what causes fights and quarrels among you?
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Don't they come from your desires that battle within you?
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You feel like you're being sat down and given a talk, like you've done
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something wrong, like you're being scolded.
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Here's the deal.
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If we're being honest and we're in church, let's be honest.
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Yeah.
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Most people then would you agree that you're most people
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and that I'm most people, most people, when they're asked that question
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right there.
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And this is why James moves on so fast.
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Because he's like a prayer.
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I want to hear the challenge here.
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It what causes fights and quarrels among you?
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Most people would say
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them, him or her.
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They back those people back there.
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They're the reason we're fighting.
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You're not going to believe what they said.
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You're not going to believe what they did.
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You're not going to believe that they didn't say what they didn't do them.
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They're the problem.
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If they would just recognize
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how right I am and how wrong they are, we would not have a problem
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if they if the whole world would just straighten up and fly right.
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We wouldn't.
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We wouldn't have a problem.
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Most people, if we're being honest, would say that.
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So interesting.
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We have our, high school group on Wednesday night
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and, you know, there's there's
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the first ten minutes where everybody's just kind of meandering around
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and filtering in and, and some, some high school students,
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will filter in and I can tell when they're having a bad day.
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They're just wearing it.
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They either don't care or they don't have the tools to mask it yet.
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And they're just wearing it.
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And I'm like, I don't know that I even want to ask them,
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because there's going to be a fire hose that comes back at me.
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But every now and then I go, what's wrong?
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And I just brace myself, you're not going to believe what my teacher said.
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I can't believe this.
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Some of the principal again, my mom, my dad, they won't let me have my phone back.
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I've.
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They've had my phone for five months and it's all out there
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that the the world is the problem.
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I'm not the problem. They're the problem.
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Would you guys agree?
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We can act like teenagers sometimes.
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But James says, hold on a second
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before you start shooting from the hip, blaming everybody else.
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I would like you to, for just one moment entertain the idea that these
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these quarrels and these fights come from right here.
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They come from within you.
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James says. Let's just start there.
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Let's just maybe entertain that idea that these fights and quarrels,
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they come from things that for whatever reason, you've decided
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you can't live without, or maybe that you're entitled to.
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James says.
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That stuff, it battles within you.
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He says, forget about everybody else.
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You can't even get this stuff squared away in yourself.
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And you think bringing somebody else
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into the equation is going to help sort it out.
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These desires, they battle within you, they change minute to minute.
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You wake up one morning and all of a sudden, oh, like,
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I can't live without that.
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When? Yesterday.
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What was that? I couldn't live without
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James.
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As they battle within you.
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And then he really starts to pick this apart.
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Verse two, he says you desire, but you do not have.
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So you kill rights, you covet, but you cannot get what you want.
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So you quarrel and you fight.
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He says these unfulfilled desires, they lead us to kill.
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No pretty severe word.
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And I think we can all think of times where maybe we've heard of this,
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this happening.
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Somebody wants something so bad they commit murder.
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But more often than not, this killing is what I call relational death.
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Relational death, the death of a relationship,
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the death of a dream, or the death of an opportunity,
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the death of a potential to mature or develop character.
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James says.
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These desires that battle within you, they kill the short circuit.
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These things,
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the short circuit, the work God is trying to do in your life.
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And and there's a death that suffered.
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Second half of verse
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two, you do not have because you do not ask.
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And when you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives
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that you may spin on what you, that you may spend, what you get
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on your pleasures.
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It's tempting to think, oh, all I need to do is ask.
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I mean, by the way, Scripture does say ask and you will receive.
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Knock and the door will be open for you.
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It's not what James is talking about here.
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It's very tempting.
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Think, oh, all I need to do is ask. I'm going to do that.
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Kind of like a genie.
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I mean, he's going to grant me three wishes.
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I want a hot girl, a hot car, and three more wishes.
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James says.
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That's not what I'm talking about.
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And it's almost like he says, and I knew you were going to go there.
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So let's talk about what that means.
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When you do ask, you don't receive because you have the wrong motives.
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Your heart's not in the right,
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your heart's not in the right place, and it's all about you.
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Therefore, you still don't receive because you've got this battle
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going on inside of you.
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My first semester,
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sorry, my first, youth ministry semester was just junior high.
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That's all I did. I hung out with junior highers.
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It was the craziest, smelliest time of my life.
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And I dug up this idea at this point, and I want to share it with you.
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It had been a long time ago.
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When I was preparing for today.
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I thought, I haven't seen that a long time, so I dug this up.
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We went through a series like this back then, and I and I asked them this
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when you're really praying
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about something, you really, really want to ask two questions.
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Who is this going to help and who is this going to hurt?
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Who is this going to
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help, and who is this going to hurt?
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This can be a game changer right here
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with those desires that battle within you.
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Who is this going to help and who is this going to hurt?
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One of the things we talk about in leadership
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all the time is there's no way to please everybody all the time.
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That is true.
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But just asking this question right here helps you sort through saying,
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you know what? That's all me.
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That's just me.
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And that's serving me and my desires
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and my idea of what I think or how I think things should be.
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This decision I'm praying about, who's it going to help
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and who's it going to hurt.
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He goes on in verse four
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back, you adulterous people, don't you know what friendship
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with the world, that friendship with the world means enmity against God.
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And it's like father's last name, where the letters are reversed.
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What does it mean?
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Therefore, anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes
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an enemy of God.
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That's what he's talking about.
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He says, when we do these things talked
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about in the first three verses,
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when we're ruled by our desires, when we have this battle
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that goes on within us, he's saying we become unfaithful people,
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or what the old Testament calls covenant breakers or idolaters.
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The desires come from a place that longs to be like the world.
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And when we when we have those desires,
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we put these desires in the place that was only meant to be filled by God.
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And therefore he uses the word adulterous.
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The love of the world,
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friendship with the world
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was interesting.
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We talked about this in youth ministry one time, and somebody,
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one of the kids said, hold on a minute, I know enough Bible
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to know the most famous verse in all of Scripture, John 316.
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It says, For God so loved the world.
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God so loved the world.
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But this is telling me
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the almost what I think the exact opposite, the student said.
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I said, that is a great point.
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Let's talk about that.
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There are two different ways or two different angles
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to approach this idea that we need to talk about.
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When God says he loves the world,
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he's talking about his people, his creation,
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that have always really been rightfully his.
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And he wants to redeem that creation.
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He wants to redeem those people.
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That's what it means when it says God.
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So for God, so loved the world,
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but we as his people, as that creation,
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we are not going to love the world like that.
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If left to our own desires, we will not love the world like that.
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We will love the world for what we can get out of it,
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if left to our own desires, will love the world for what we can.
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Just just milk it dry
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that sinful part of the
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earth, or what's called the flesh
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that keeps us running in circles,
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chasing things after, chasing after things that will never fulfill us.
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That's why he uses that strong language
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of adulterous people.
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And then finishing out
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this first section, verse six,
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verse six says, he gives us more grace.
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God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.
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So things are starting to look up a little bit.
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I love this scripture, never gives us a scolding
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and then says, now go to your room and good luck figuring that out.
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Scripture always gives us hope.
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It never hangs us out to dry.
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It always gives us hope.
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And verse six starts
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to hint at the solution.
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Talking about how even after all the stuff that we've just
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the first five verses, even after all that breaking down the problem like we have.
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Second, James says, I'm going to need to just really break
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this problem down so you know exactly what I'm talking about here.
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After all of that,
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we have God's grace.
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You hear us talk about it all the time.
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His undeserved favor and blessing.
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James says it's still present and it's still available.
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But the real description of the solution is one word.
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It's that hinge.
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We talk about that these two halves swing on the antidote to falling victim
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to all the stuff we've talked about verses one through five
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comes in the very first word of verse seven.
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You may have I flick to it, prematurely up there.
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I got to warn you, it's a word that everybody,
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if you're a human, you hate this word.
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Do not try to tell me you like this word.
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You do not like this word.
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None of us do.
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Some of us hate, hate, hate this word.
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It's got negative connotation.
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So much so that some of us don't like to say it.
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But we've just gotten the scolding. So we've.
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We've got a thick skin by now. Right?
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Somebody say it first word in verse seven.
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Submit.
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throw up in my mouth.
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We hate this word, you guys.
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It's a horrible word.
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We human beings hate it.
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We Americans really hate this word from America.
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And this country was founded on people who would not submit.
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We wouldn't even have our country if people submitted.
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Many of us
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would rather break before bend by submitting.
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Just don't do it. A lot of us would say, no way.
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I'm not submitting.
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Or maybe you catch us on a good day and we go.
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I'll submit they're there, but never there.
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Saw what happened when my mom submitted a saw.
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What happened when my sister submitted to her
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coach saw what happened when my brother submitted to his teacher.
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No way. nope. Not going to do it.
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I'm going to use the platform as a confessional right now,
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one of my guilty pleasures is, mixed martial arts fight, UFC.
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UFC fight.
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My. I'll be watching them on my phone, and my wife will come.
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By God, are you watching a garbage again?
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I'm like, oh my gosh, this guy's getting the crap beat out of him.
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How much blood can come from one guy's nose?
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And the thing, the one of the things
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I love about mixed martial arts fight
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is that one of the things that differentiates it
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from a boxing match is you can win one of those fights by submission.
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You can cause a guy chokehold, armbar, whatever, tap out.
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I'm going to cause you so much pain.
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You're not going to get knocked out. You don't have a say over it.
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Then you don't.
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Conscious or a technicality? No.
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The judges decided that I'm going to cause you to lose the tap out.
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You're going to admit right here, now that you've lost
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and you tap out
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one more way.
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Our culture attaches negative attributes to this idea of submission.
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When you submit, it means you lost
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contest over.
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He goes home with the belt.
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I go home with a bruised ego, a bruised jaw, and maybe a consolation prize.
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But it says submit yourselves then to God.
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Submit yourselves to God.
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One more biblical thing that's countercultural.
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You know,
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this is so interesting.
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It says, submit what
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yourselves.
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There are some if you're a theologian or you like to
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you like to do Bible study type of stuff, that kind of weeds.
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There's a theme that weaves through the Bible, and
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there are some things that God calls us to do to ourselves
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when we talk about finances.
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One of the things when it talks about debt is God says, free yourself.
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It's not like God leaves.
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He abandons us and says, this is all you.
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He says, you're going to need to do
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what James talks about, though, and get some skin in the game.
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So it's free yourself like a bird
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from the hand of the Fowler, or a gazelle from the hand of the hunter.
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Humble yourself so that God can lift you up.
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And right here it says, submit yourselves
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to God.
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One more biblical thing that's countercultural,
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because what happens here is when we submit to God,
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that's where the winning starts, James says.
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That's where the winning begins.
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That's how we start to have victory over these things, like fights
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and quarrels and these desires that battle within us.
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James says, you want victory over that. Submit.
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Submit to God.
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Amen.
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That one word when use right here.
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It means if you if you ever do word studies, it means subordinate.
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Become a subordinate.
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Another word that doesn't really have positive connotations either,
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but it has this idea of I don't get to do whatever it is I want to do.
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I don't get to strike out on my own.
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I don't get to call the shots and make my own rules.
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I'm subordinate to someone bigger than me.
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I'm subordinate to something bigger than me.
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And it has this idea of a continual day
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after day process.
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I didn't just submit that plan when I was in college to God,
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and now I'm free to do whatever I want to do.
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Or now that I'm married, I don't have to do that submitting
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that I did back then.
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I'm continually working on this process of being subordinate to something
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that's bigger than me, and doing this, I start to win.
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It's crazy.
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It's counterintuitive, countercultural.
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He goes on to say, resist the devil and he will flee from you.
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Come near to God and he will come near to you.
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Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts.
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You double minded. Humble yourselves.
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There it is.
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Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up.
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Grieve.
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Morning wail. I skip. Verse nine. Grieve. Morning wail.
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Change your laughter to mourning and your joy to gloom.
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The problem with all of this, or the problem
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many times with all of what we just read, is this.
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We do the things it talks about after the submit part.
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Without the submit part.
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I talk to people all the time who will say things like,
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I'm just trying to resist the devil. He's coming at me.
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I read about his schemes and his plots and his ideas to destroy my life,
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and I'm just trying to resist
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trying to dig my heels in,
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pull myself up, up by the bootstraps and resist.
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Or they'll say, I'm trying to walk with God.
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I'm trying to stay close to God.
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But when I talk to to young people, I'm trying to stay pure.
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I'm trying to just not screw up, trying to have a pure heart.
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James would say to all that stuff, fantastic, great.
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But have you submitted?
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It all hinges on this one word submission.
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Talk to people
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all the time who have every reason in the world
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as to why they should not submit, submit in their finances,
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submit in their employment, submit in their relations.
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And here's the thing many of those reasons are really, really valid.
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Your boss may very well be a jerk.
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Your spouse may very well be
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being irrational and unreasonable.
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Talk to teenagers all the time.
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Your parents may very well be being overbearing and overprotective.
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Those reasons that you have for not submitting
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may be valid reasons.
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When I talk to kids, they'll say, you know, my parents are such jerks.
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They won't let me do this. They won't let me do that.
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The most interesting conversations I've had, especially with older teenagers
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that are just trying so hard
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that they still live at home, but they're trying to not live at home.
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And the most interesting times in those conversations
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are when I look at them and I go, you're right,
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I no, I'm not used to being told that.
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What do you mean? I said, you're right.
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Your dad was wrong.
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Shouldn't said that.
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I shouldn't have done that.
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And they just kind of look at me.
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Puzzled, I said, but but consider this for a second.
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What if you're submitting?
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What if your choice to come under the authority of
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when they know you don't want to, when they know you don't want to?
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Was the thing
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that made this whole relationship turn around.
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What if your refusal to submit is actually achieving the exact opposite of what
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you really, really want just by that one choice to 2 or 2 not submit?
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You could cause this whole thing to turn around.
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The key thing to keep in mind here is we're not.
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We're submitting to God
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now, but the way that fleshes out we hate it
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because a lot of times it seems like we're submitting to a person.
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People are flawed and they're sinners, and they have these
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these faults that we know a past that we know about things that we
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and we have all these reasons
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that we shouldn't submit.
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But when we submit to God.
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Those people just become the tool
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by which he starts working.
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We see it all around here all the time.
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You'll never submit to a God you can't see until you first submit to a person.
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You can see,
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say this all the time with kids who are really struggling with parents.
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You'll never submit. I just,
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I just want to be with God.
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I said, okay, but you'll never submit to that God
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because you're refusing to submit to this parent.
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Now, I'm not saying stay in a truly abusive situation.
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That's not what I'm talking about here.
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But after prayerful consideration, if the if the answer keeps coming back to you,
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I'm not submitting.
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That's omitting. I'm not submitting the answer.
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It's pretty obvious.
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So the application this week, again, like we talked about,
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a lot of this stuff is real easy to understand.
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But when the rubber meets the road, it's difficult,
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difficult to put into practice
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comes in a two part question, actually, two questions that form a whole.
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Where in my life do I need to submit?
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And really answer honestly.
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For me, back in the winter
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of 2004, the place I really needed to submit was in my finances.
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And I knew it.
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And I'd known it for months and I was like, oh no.
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That thought would come into my head about getting my finances squared away.
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Start tithing. Nope. Can't do it
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because I was married and it wasn't just me.
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I was gonna have to make a phone call.
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Jen, I think we need to start tithing.
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What is it for you?
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Maybe it's your marriage.
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Maybe it's your relationship with your coworkers.
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Maybe it's your relationship with your coach, your team, your teachers.
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Where in your life?
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Where in my life do I need to submit?
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But I can't let us off that easy
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because it's one thing to identify the problem we talk about.
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we've got these younger youth leaders coming up,
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and we've kind of had to pass the torch to them in this regard.
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You're not allowed in youth ministry to gripe unless you have a solution,
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because you're a problem identifier.
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You're not a problem solver.
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We want problem solvers.
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We've identified the problem when you ask where
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and you answer, where in my life do I need to submit?
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You've identified the problem.
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But the second part is this what is the action that accompanies my submission?
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This is where it gets tough,
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because then you've got to make phone calls,
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and then you've got to sit down with pieces of paper,
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and then you've got to make really tough decisions
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and talk to people who are involved in those areas.
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One more way the book of James is so relatable.
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It's so good and easy to understand, but it's really difficult
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to put into practice.
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So that's my prayer for us.
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This week, is that we can take one more step as we go through the book of James,
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and getting closer and closer to putting our faith into works.
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I'd like to close right now by praying for us,
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and then we're going to continue on with the rest of our service.
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I'm really glad you came this morning.
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I hope you were encouraged. Let's pray.
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God, thank you so much for today.
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Thank you for your word that it does what you say it will do,
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and that is not return to you void that it goes out and it,
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cuts to the heart of the issues that we're dealing with.
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sometimes that cutting metaphor is not so much of a metaphor,
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because that's what it feels like sometimes.
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So if this, this, if this cut us this morning, God,
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I pray that you will help us to heal in the way you want us to heal.
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Give us strength, give us guidance, give us wisdom,
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help us to
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continue to walk out this life with you.
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We love you and we ask all these things in your name.
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Jesus. Everybody said Amen.