Sermon
What's Next?: Flipside 20th Anniversary Legacy (with JD Pearring)
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So this morning you are in for a treat and it is my privilege
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to have with us this morning a dear friend of mine, JD pairing.
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You met his wife, already introduced his wife, Lori.
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She's going to leave that seven primal questions for us
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in a few weeks that you need to be a part of that,
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but JD is you want to come up here, JD?
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JD is the lead.
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You've heard me talk about Excel Leadership
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Network, the church planning group, JD and Lori lead that.
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JD started that with Lori invited us to be a part of it.
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It has been the joy, one of the joys of my life and the joy of
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our church to get to partner underneath you and your leadership.
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You and Lori and plant in churches all around the world.
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I met JD in 2004.
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Schill and I were in Wisconsin going through the remember that honey
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going through Wisconsin.
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And Shelly told me, she said, I don't know if you can plan a church,
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but a JD says you can, then I'll believe it.
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And so, with you, which just what I needed to hear
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from, from JD and the team too.
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And so from that moment on, God started this relationship
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and this partnership, this kingdom work that we've been able to partner
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with you and under your leadership.
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JD, you, I love you.
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I love your wife.
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JD loves JD and Lori. Love the Lord. They love each other.
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They love their kids. The kids are walking with the Lord.
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God is taking them all around the world doing kingdom stuff.
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Hard work for the kingdom and I so appreciate the fact
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that you are here with us.
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Setting up what's next for the next 20.
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Please understand I can't say enough about this man
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and and Lori, how much I love you and admire you.
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Thank you for your investment in me,
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your investment in the kingdom, your investment in this church.
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You are very dear and special in my world.
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And I love you.
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So tell us what's next.
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All right.
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It is such a privilege
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and a real honor to be here with you on 20 anniversary.
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Happy birthday. Happy anniversary.
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Happy whatever.
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And, Carl asked me months
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ago, will you come at the 20th anniversary party?
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And I've been thinking about it ever since and just trying to.
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It's kind of hard figure.
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What do you say to people who are doing amazing job?
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I've been thinking through thinking
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I was like, I go this direction, I go this direction.
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When, finally
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just the other day, I said, I think I'm going to do all three sermons.
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I have the hat, so I got three for you.
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Two are really short.
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The other ones are not.
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And, let me just start with here's the first message from God.
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Thank you.
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Thank you so much.
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Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you.
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You guys have just been amazing.
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Not only the, you know, the top donor to excel network, but partner in ministry.
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You've helped start about 800 churches
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in the last 20 years, and you've been the top giver to that.
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Churches all over Cuba, 125 plus churches.
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Mexico 50 plus all over the United States, Austria, Uganda.
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Where else are we?
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Nicaragua, Guatemala, the Dominican Republic, all sorts of places.
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You guys have just been amazing.
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And you don't you don't know the number of people that you've touched,
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and you probably don't have any idea, excuse me.
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Of the number of churches that have seen what you guys have done
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and have increased their giving
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to missions and to church planting,
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so many here, well, that's what flip side is doing.
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Well, we need so thank you. There's
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it's passage in Philippians one that says,
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I thank my God and all my remembrance of you,
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especially because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day.
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It's tonight.
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So thank you, thank you, thank you means a ton.
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That's the first message pretty quick. Right?
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Second one is this.
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And don't miss this. This is the message from God.
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It came all the way from Elk Grove this morning to tell you this.
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You have a great pastor.
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You,
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As Carl says, I,
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I just think the world of Carl and Shelly.
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And when I met them,
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actually, before I met them, my first introduction to them was
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I was leading this church planter assessment center where we're going to see
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if they can start churches or not in Green Lake, Wisconsin.
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And before the candidates come in, before the couples, before the church
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planters come in, we have a little meeting of staff,
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and then we ask whoever brought them to give us just a little insight on them.
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And the person that brought Carl and Shelly said, oh yeah, he's
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in there
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pastoring a large church in, Orange County,
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and they're going to move and plant a church in Fresno.
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And I thought, it's got to be something terribly wrong here.
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Right? Who left?
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Who leaves Orange County to, anyway?
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Fresno.
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Then I met them and I thought, wow, these are incredible people.
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Young, good looking.
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Carl had this incredible head of hair.
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No, no, no, he didn't never did see anybody.
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Ever seen a picture of Carl with hair?
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Anybody know one person?
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Anyway, I met them, and it's just an incredible.
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And then I found out.
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Okay, Orange County, but I was thinking Newport Beach.
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I was thinking Dana Point.
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Now they're in La Habra, okay?
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And they say, well, Harbor is not the armpit of Orange County.
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It's more like the crotch. But anyway, there's just like,
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and then they weren't going to Fresno,
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they're going to Madera Ranchos, which is, much different.
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Right. Much better.
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And so they're from the Central Valley.
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So that made sense.
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And they came through.
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There's probably 15 couples coming through with them there by far top
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as just top, top people.
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It was like, whatever they do, they're going to do great.
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So I got to meet them.
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And then I got offered this job to be the church
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planning director for this group of churches.
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It was full time.
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I said, I'm staying at my church as a pastor.
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I'll do it half time. Can I hire some people?
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I said, yeah, so the first person I can't, will you do this with me?
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And we started and we probably did 100 churches there. And,
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and then when we went on our own started Cell Network,
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he said, Carl, hey, first, first, first, like, how will you do this?
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We do it with us.
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And we've been partners ever since.
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In fact, he's gone to Ukraine.
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Here's what happened in the last few years.
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Up in Sacramento, been working with some Ukrainian people.
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You know, most of the people from Ukraine
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are in this country because of one church in Sacramento.
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Brought some somebody from Ukraine over, brought somebody else, brought
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somebody else, got an addendum to the, the immigration policy
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that said, if you're from Israel, you can come and be an automatic citizen.
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They got an addendum that if you
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come from Ukraine and are a Christian, you're an automatic citizen.
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They brought all these people over,
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send them all
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over the U.S., all these Ukrainian churches.
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But they were getting older and they're starting a younger
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church and say, Will you help us start the younger
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Ukrainian churches for the next generation?
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And we are working on that.
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And then last December they came and I said, you know, we're we're doing this.
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No, no, no, we want to go put this on pause.
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We want to go to Ukraine because it is opening
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that we have the possibility of planting over there
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and there such a revival of people coming to Christ.
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And we need some help.
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And will you come?
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And I thought, I don't want to go, but I think I know who wants to go
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and what I, I brought it up in a group setting.
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I didn't even get the sentence out.
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I was like, I'm going, I want to go.
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One of the front lines.
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We've been partnering. Carl is such a rock.
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Carl, you're such an influence.
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Such an amazing, amazing leader.
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20 years here and what this church has done, I just want to say thank you.
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And you've got a great pastor.
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So those are the first two sermons, right? There's.
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It's two short ones.
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Let's get into the long one.
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If we can.
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Oh, by the way, here's my wife's favorite picture of Carl.
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This was in Cuba one time we were there,
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like end of June to the 4th of July.
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And it was so hot and it was so muggy.
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And Lori just came to run and she's just laughing.
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Laughing like, what's going on? She said, Look at Carl.
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He is so hot that he's leaning with his hands
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like this because he couldn't do that because it would slip.
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So, he is a warrior.
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So this is the best picture we have of you.
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You got a great.
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You got a great pastor
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that's got.
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Here's the here's the the third message.
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It's been 20 years. Okay, great.
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What's next?
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What is next?
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You've done 20 years and you could sit back and say, hey, we did it.
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We made it. We we finished, you know?
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But what what is.
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And that's how do you stay in the game.
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How do you stay relevant?
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I was in Colorado this week at a retreat with a group of churches, good people.
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The same group of churches that sent Laura and I out to play our first church
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42 years ago.
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She was 12.
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I was 13.
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We're still David.
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She started then 42 years
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and,
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they approached me about a year ago and said, hey, would you help us?
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Our group has not started a church in over 20 years.
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What happened?
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Say the churches got older, they got.
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And they just they in mission drift and they lost their zeal
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and they weren't relevant. And we.
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So we started to work with them.
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Good news is, this week we, commissioned their first church planner.
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They had over 20 years.
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Yeah, it's great stuff. He's going to,
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Fort Collins area.
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It's going like crazy there, if you know that we're going to Town of Windsor.
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And that was exciting. But I was looking around.
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I'm seeing most of these churches are just old.
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They they kind of lost their mission.
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They probably had their 20 anniversary and then started going downhill
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because they they didn't know how to stay relevant.
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They didn't know how to look at what is next.
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So so how do you stay relevant? How do you stay in the game?
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How do you make the next 20 years better than even the last 20 years?
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What a look at a passage in Scripture from First Corinthians chapter nine.
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And this will kind of set the pace.
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I think there's like five suggestions, tools in that passage
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on how to handle the next 20, how to stay relevant.
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Here's the passage, just might be familiar to you.
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First Corinthians nine, the Apostle Paul's writings.
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Oh, I am free and belong to no man.
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I make myself a slave to everyone.
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When you here last week,
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when the apostle Carl told us about.
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It's not servant, it's slave to us.
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You're a slave. Remember that?
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Okay. See, you got that.
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Good job.
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I make myself a slave to everyone.
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To when? As many as possible. To the Jews.
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I became like a Jew
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to when the Jews, to those under the lot became like one under law.
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Though I myself am not under the law.
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So as to when those under the law, to those not having the law,
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I became like one not having law, though I am not free from God's law,
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but under Christ law, so as to when those not having the law,
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then it concludes for the week I became week two, when the week
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I become all things to all men, so that by all possible means I might save some.
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So how do we handle the next 20?
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How do we stay in the game?
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How do we not get into mission drift?
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How do we make a difference in the next couple decades?
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Five ways.
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Number one, understand your role.
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Understand what you're called
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to understand your role as a servant.
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According to Carl, that's not correct.
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As a slave, you understand
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what you're your role is.
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And we miss this.
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Sometimes in churches, we get caught up.
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We think it's about us.
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We get 20 years.
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We think, oh, great, we can relax now.
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But Paul says, no, I'm a slave.
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I'm a servant.
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That's my role.
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You talked about the Charlie Kirk deal.
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What's my role with people who disagree with me on that?
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What's my role with the people who are doing stuff
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and against what I feel like is, you know, God's law?
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My role is a servant.
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I role, as is our neighbor, posted something
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on social media yesterday about this.
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It was like, oh no. And I wanted to go.
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And actually, you know what I did?
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I was like, wait a minute, what's my role? My role
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is to be a servant.
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That's that's our job is to serve.
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Paul says, I talked about the rights we have as Christians, as a person.
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I've never used any of these rights.
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And I'm not writing this to suggest that I want to start now.
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It's not about us.
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Statistics say that 90% of American churchgoers
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think the church is for them.
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That's not what Scripture says.
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There's a great quote.
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The church is the only cooperative society in the world
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that exists for the benefit of nonmembers.
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It's not for us.
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This is a picture of the guy who said it.
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By the way, I don't have his name up there.
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Good looking guy.
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But anyway, it's not for us.
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And then I Like This by Dave Browning.
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His book Deliberate Simplicity
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a big part of a pastor's job, and I think Carl does as well,
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is to keep the church swimming upstream, because the natural current
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takes us to a place of inward focus.
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We buy new chairs not so that we will get more comfortable,
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but so our neighbors and friends will be when they finally arrive.
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We pick songs not with just our ear and mind,
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but for those who are about to come.
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Our role is as a servant.
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I grew up in a tradition
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that was just so caught up in ceremony
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and ritual and traditions they didn't care about.
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Well, it was all about them.
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And I ran away from the church.
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I ended up in a drug fraternity at UCLA,
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didn't know it was a drug fraternity until the day I moved in.
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And it was, but I came to Christ there and in that fraternity was kind of weird.
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We had a rule, because there was 40 guys living in one place,
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and there was just one washer and one dryer, clean operated.
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And so we had this rule that if you had your stuff in the washer
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and it was done, you better get out of there,
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because if somebody got there before you
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washer dryer, it was fine for them.
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In fact, encouraged for them to take your clothes and scatter them
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wherever they may be. You might have to wash them again.
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That was just what we did.
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Sometimes you walk in there, they'd be sticking to the ceiling, all that.
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So what that was for I my clothes.
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It's a fraternity, right?
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I come in
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and there's something in the washer so that, Well, I give the guy some time.
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Came back a little while later, still there.
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And I'm getting ready
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to just fling these things, and I just turn my life over to Christ.
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And I thought, okay, maybe I shouldn't do that,
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put it in the dryer, use my own quarters.
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And he came back to change. He still on it.
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So I and just something I don't even do to the day I folded the clothes
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and I took him out to his room,
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talk to us, gave him the clothes, and, he didn't say anything.
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He just took them.
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And, Anyway, I don't remember that really what was on.
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But three months later, he comes knocking on the door.
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I'm there with my friend, the two Christians in this 30s
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banging on the door.
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It's late at night.
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What's up? Because I need Jesus.
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This happened a number of times, by the way,
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and I need Jesus. He came in is like.
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So we prayed with him.
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He gave his life to Christ. And we're hanging out in front of.
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What was it?
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Was it was it, you know, something that we had said?
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Was it the Bible study we're leaving was at the team meeting we had all the
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brothers were, I get my testimony, and Rick gave a little sermon.
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What was it? And he said,
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remember that time you folded my clothes?
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How was it?
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It's amazing.
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Our neighbor is a Christian now.
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He comes to church every Sunday,
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and he said, you know, for 22 years,
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Lori brought cookies
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for him on my doorstep every Christmas and Easter.
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And the first few years I brought him back.
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And then I started throwing them away.
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And now I'm a believer
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because of Lori and her serve it.
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It's not about us.
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It's about us taking the role of servant.
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And it's not our job to to set people straight.
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It's not our job to tell people where they're wrong and to get upset with them.
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It's our job to just be a servant, and that's our role.
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And if we keep that role, we will keep
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being effective for the gospel.
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So understand your role.
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Secondly, understand your audience. Who are you dealing with?
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Who are the people?
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Do we understand
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these people?
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Well, you know, we've got these, echo chambers that we're in
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and we look at other people and we just think they're crazy now.
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They're just regurgitating what they're hearing in their echo chamber.
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And how are we going to minister that to them if we don't
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understand them, if we don't take time to actually
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listen to them?
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Guy went in for a job interview.
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The questions was, where do you see yourself in five years?
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And his answer was, I would say, my biggest weakness is
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listening.
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Right, right.
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I don't like it when Lori
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says to me, are you even listening to me?
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I think that's a really strange way to start a conversation.
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There's a barber in our town,
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barber in our town, who just got arrested
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for selling drugs on the side.
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And, I was just amazed because I've been going to this guy for three years.
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I had no idea he was a barber.
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That's not true.
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That's not true.
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I don't do drugs, and my wife cuts my hair.
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But here's the thing.
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We don't.
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We miss it. We miss.
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We don't understand it.
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We don't take the time to go.
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What is really happening with these people?
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What is going on in their lives
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and just getting to know who they are. You.
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When you go to these different countries, it's easy
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because you got to put yourself in that realm.
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You go into Ukraine, you realize in Ukraine it's a very clear
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the men are on one side, the women are on the other side.
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I found this out because I was doing this Ukrainian event
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and I was a pastor's wife.
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So what if I gave her a side hug? I'm not even a hugger.
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But you know, I do the side hug thing.
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And then I realized, you don't do that.
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Got to know your audience.
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So who are you dealing with? What are the people that you're
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you're talking to?
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What are they feeling? What are they sensing?
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Why are they coming from where they're coming from?
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God has put, you know, 8 to 15 people on the front rows of our life.
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And he's just saying, hey, you go love.
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These people know your role, our role with them is not to just jam it down.
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That's a role is to be a servant.
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We need to know and understand.
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That's our role and we need to understand who they are, where they're coming from.
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The more we listen, the more effective we're going to be.
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So I would just encourage you, how do you make the next 20 years effective
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gets another people? Why?
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Why are they thinking like that. And,
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you know, take that angle talking to them about Jesus.
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Paul says, yes, I try to find common ground
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with everyone doing everything I can to save
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some.
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Third, understand the times.
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Understand our
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culture, our situation where we are right now.
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First Chronicles 1232.
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As it goes through, as it's talking about the, the different people,
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it says the men of Isaac understood the times and knew what Israel should do.
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We need to understand the times.
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Things are different.
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Your 20 year anniversary.
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It's not 2005 anymore.
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I was doing some study on 2005,
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just how different it was in 2005.
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Guess what happened?
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YouTube became public.
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YouTube went
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on. YouTube started in 2005.
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Today it's the number two search engine in the world.
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2005 one of the most effective companies in our country.
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Blockbuster video.
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There's only one Blockbuster Video left.
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It's in bend, Oregon.
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If you ever get a chance to go visit it, pass.
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It's just it's just like the old ones.
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We did a trip up there. I went in there.
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It's like silly. I'm trying to return this.
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And it wasn't rewound, and they give me a hard time, but,
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things have changed
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so much in in number one selling
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cell phone, 2005 Nokia.
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Anybody have a Nokia on you today?
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Anybody in here have a Nokia flip phone?
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Okay. You need to understand the times.
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If you still have a Nokia
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how about this in 2005,
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did you know that, gay marriage was not legal in California?
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It was not legal in the United States.
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20 years,
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2005 here in California,
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we had a Republican governor
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member, Arnold, things have changed.
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We don't have a Republican governor anymore.
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2005 years.
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The average cost of a brand new car was.
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You must have been here for service, right?
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$22,000.
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Maybe you bought a car in 2005.
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$22,000.
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And then today, do you know what the average cost of a new car is?
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$48,401.
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I believe that bestselling car,
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bestselling, vehicle,
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2005 Ford F1 series
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today bestselling vehicle, Ford F1 series.
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Some things don't change
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to 2005.
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There was an assassination attempt on George Bush in the country
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of Georgia.
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Some things don't change, but some things do.
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We need to understand the times.
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I'm sure what we're dealing with understand who these people are.
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The whole culture.
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Understand that you know, 2005, we were told kids
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aren't interested, you know, young people, they aren't interested in Christ at all.
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Now, in 19 to 29 year olds are coming to Christ like crazy.
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There's five
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churches in Worcester, Massachusetts, the northeast.
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Nobody's interested in the gospel, right?
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Five churches have contacted us and say, hey, we need your help
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because all of our churches have tripled in the last year
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and a half, and it's all 19 to 29 year olds.
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What do we do?
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Understand the times, understand what's happening.
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We need we need to kind of get out of our own little bubble
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and realize, well, it's been great.
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Oh 5 to 2025
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let's get ready for 2030, 2035, 2040, 2045.
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We have to understand what is going on around us.
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Doesn't mean we have to kind of give in to the culture.
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We're still in the world, but not of it.
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But we have to be aware.
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We don't have to get caught up in it.
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We don't have to succumb.
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But we do need to understand the times.
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If we're going to be, if we're going to be effective.
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Not a lot of people know this about me, but I'm a time traveler.
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The only catch is so far I can look travel through time, same rate.
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Everyone else is go.
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I like this quote.
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They are called for in times of change.
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Learners inherit the earth while the learner find themselves
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beautifully equipped to deal with a world that no longer exists.
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Why are those churches and Rocky Mountains dwindling?
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Why is it so hard?
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Because they are dealing
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with a world that doesn't exist anymore.
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And I look and
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most of the churches at that conference
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had not seen anybody come to Christ in their church in the last year.
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Most of them had not seen a baptism in their church in the last year,
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and they're wondering why.
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So I guess they're not good people, and they might even have understood the role,
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but they don't understand the people they're dealing with
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or the times we're living in.
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And we've got to adjust.
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We've got to be malleable.
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We've got to be new wineskins so that God can put
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his changes in us and we can serve other people.
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So get to number four.
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How to stay relevant.
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Understand the message.
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Or have you ever just got the wrong message?
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Seven years ago,
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we bought a refrigerator and it was going to be delivered
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the next day, and I took the day off of work and stayed.
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It was waiting for it to be delivered.
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This is back before cell phones and stuff and I'm waiting.
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And waiting didn't come, so I don't know what that's about, but,
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the next day I got this call from this guy,
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and he said, I think I have your refrigerator.
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Okay, I live down the street.
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So what's going on?
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He said, well, I'm at work in San Francisco.
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We were in the Bay area. It's I'm in San Francisco, I'm at work.
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The babysitter calls and leaves a message.
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The refrigerator is in the garage.
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So what?
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He raced home because he said, what is going on?
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You're supposed to be washing, right? Yes.
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And I put it in the fridge and delivered it there.
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They got the wrong message.
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And we go through life and we just miss it.
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My mom used to tell this story all the time,
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about to start a birthday party for a neighborhood kid.
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He was turning eight years old.
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She went down, she got the cake.
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He opens up the cake and he goes, couldn't.
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Good luck, Agnes.
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Mom got the wrong cake.
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She picked up the cake that was supposed to be for this girl
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who's going off to the convent to become a nun.
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And and our family growing up, it was whenever there was a miscommunication,
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it was always good luck. Agnes.
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I think when
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we are talking to people about Jesus, they're saying,
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good luck, Agnes, because we miss it.
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We miss it. We just.
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I think we've messed up the message,
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and we got to be careful that we don't mess it up going forward.
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If you ask, why do people not go to church?
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I've been doing this informal survey for the last 30 years.
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Why people don't go to church.
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Number one reason to say the same.
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Some of the others have changed.
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Number two, reason why people in the United States say they don't go to church.
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Number two is everybody at church is a hypocrite.
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And I like to say, well, we always have room for one more.
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So, number three, reason why people don't go to church.
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Number three,
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pretty new.
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The church hates gays.
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The church hates the LGBT, whatever community.
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The church hates them, and we're known for hate.
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That's what we're known for.
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Number number four, reason
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people don't go to church.
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All I want my money.
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That's what we're known for.
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We're just known for
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the whole money stuff.
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Number five, reason why people don't go to church is it's sad
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and gloomy, and all they talk about is death.
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And I was in Colorado and at this conference
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with these churches, every, every song, the last stanza was about death.
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When we've been there 10,000 years, I've it's always about dying at the end of it.
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And is that our message?
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We're going to die
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and you're going to.
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Is that our message number one reason why people don't go to church
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hasn't changed in decades.
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The number one reason why people say I don't go to church is
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it's irrelevant.
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Does it make a difference?
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They're talking about issues that aren't even on my radar.
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They say 100 years old songs.
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They sit on 100 years old furniture and they use 100 years old
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I and vow and sign language.
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And it's just irrelevant to me.
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And I think works more relevant than Jesus.
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Paul says this.
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What's the message?
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It's the opportunity to preach the good news.
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It's about the good.
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We should be known for the good news going forward.
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Let's make sure we still are known for good news,
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for further good stuff and the gospel.
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Pretty clear.
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It's just as simple as A-b-c, right?
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And the the A is it's kind of the bad news.
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All has sinned and fall short of law.
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We've got we've all messed up.
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We've all blown it.
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We we've all just fallen short.
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We all have that sense of evil inside of us.
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Yes, we're created in God's
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image, but we're falling.
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And we have to admit that
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we have to be open about that.
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And we have to abandon
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the old, not just
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sick of our life, not just sorry for our life, but surrender
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where we just say, yes, I meant I need help.
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I can't do this on my.
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When I came to Christ, it was like, I'm tired of trying to figure this out
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on my own.
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I'm trying to work my tired of working my way to heaven.
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It's not working at all.
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That gets us to the bit to believe that Jesus gave us perfect life for me,
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it was crucified in my place, praying for each one of my sins,
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resulting in full forgiveness and reconciliation to God.
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God, through Jesus, offers full forgiveness.
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That's what we should be known for.
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Our favorite stories is in acts chapter 13, where Paul and Barnabas
Acts 13 chapter mention
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are, in this, in this church.
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And they ask him to, hey, give them talk to them.
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Paul gets up and talks
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and something happened to him that's never happened to me is right.
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After we got done, they said, we want you to give the same sermon next week.
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Nobody's ever asked me that.
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So I say, what?
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What was the sermon? Not.
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And then you look down the next week, it says almost the entire town.
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Almost the whole town came to hear what he had to say.
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So what was he talking about?
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And a bunch of people came to Christ.
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So what was his message about?
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If you look, his message was in this man, Jesus.
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There is forgiveness of sins.
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We all need forgiveness.
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Well, I understand the people next in your neighborhood,
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the people that just we all, we all get the whole forgiveness thing
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because we all need it to admit, believe.
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But then there's a C, which means there's a commitment
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that needs to be made.
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I met with a friend of mine, Don, for lunch once a month.
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We've been doing it for years.
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Just he's not a believer yet, but I'm just talk to him, he says.
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I get it.
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I gotta admit, I'm a sinner.
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That's another problem.
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I believe in Jesus, but it calls for a commitment.
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And I'm not a commitment guy.
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It's for living with his, girlfriend for years and years.
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He's not a commitment.
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You've got to be a commitment person.
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If we're a servant, if we're slave, we have to make that commitment.
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We we commit to follow Jesus every day and say, he does.
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I'm here for you. That's the good news and the good news.
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This will change your life. It's good news.
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There's forgiveness there. That's what we need to be known for.
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That should be our message.
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We need to understand that our message is not about hate.
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It's not about hypocrisy.
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It's not about money.
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It's not about death.
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It's about the good news.
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We should be joyful.
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We should be, you know, people who,
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when other people see us, they go, hey, wow, there's something there.
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Understand the message. Want to make a difference?
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Let's hold on to the truth of the gospel.
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And then the last deal.
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How to stay relevant
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is to understand the goal.
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So my role,
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the other people, the times, the message.
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But then what's.
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What's the goal?
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You ever hit the wrong goal?
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Ever scored for the wrong team,
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right. Ever.
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Just kind of messed up that.
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Oh, you wanted me to do that.
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And I did this.
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We need to hit the goal.
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And it's this I have become all things to all mentioned
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that by all possible means, I might save some.
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Paul, you don't save them. Jesus saves them.
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Of course he knows that.
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But God has given us the ministry of reconciling people to him.
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He's put those people in your life, and the goal is for you to win some.
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The goal is the the people in our lives is probably not going to hear it
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from anybody else. And they're watching us.
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They're watching you.
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They're watching me, and they're they're wondering if
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if we get it, do we understand them?
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Do we understand the times?
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What's the message?
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Is it clear and our goal in life is simply.
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God use this to win some
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and going to the next 20 years, if we could just have this whole mentality
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that, hey, we're not done.
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We are servants
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and we need to understand the people around us,
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and we're going to listen to them
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and we're going to kind of try to get what's going on in the culture.
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We may not agree, we may not completely understand that.
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We may not know why, but we're going to try to
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understand the time so we know what to do, and we're going to have
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a clear message that cuts through all the other crap there.
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It gets so the people can hear it, and by all means,
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we might save some.
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And then Paul says, this
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I do all of this for the sake of the gospel
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that I might share in his blessings.
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Well, here we are today. We're sharing the blessings of the gospel.
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I get an opportunity to come up here, come down here.
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Sharing the blessings of it is just so amazing,
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such a privilege to be here and just see the blessings of the gospel.
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We get to share that we get to be partners.
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Do you not know that a race all the runners run
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but only one gets the prize run in such a way
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with urgency.
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Let's face the future with urgency.
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We want the next 20
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to be even more impactful
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than the last 20.
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Here's the challenge.
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What do you need to understand?
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We go through this. What?
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What's maybe. So I got to reframe my whole
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role thing because sometimes I just think it's about me.
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Sometimes the things about me showing other people that I'm right or wrong,
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no understand.
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Or maybe I just, you know what?
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I haven't taken the time to listen to why this person is doing
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the things they're doing and why they're not getting it.
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When I talk to them about Jesus, maybe it's this whole culture thing.
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I've been so anti culture that I've just stayed away.
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Instead of just saying, hey, I need to understand the times
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so so we can know what flip side should do.
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Maybe I've just been a little muddy
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with my message.
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I come off as more judgmental than good news
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or or
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or maybe I just need to step back and go, wow, you know,
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I've missed out on the goal.
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I missed shooting for the wrong.
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Instead of realizing, hey, the goal is that God would use me
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to to win some and continue to use flip side to win.
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So I'm so excited for your future.
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You've got a great leader.
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You're wonderful people, so generous.
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You're making a major impact.
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Keep it up.
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Thank you for the privilege of being here.
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Let me pray for you. God, thank you for these people.
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Thank you for this church.
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Thank you for Carl and Shelly
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and the staff here and the way that you have used them.
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Thank you for the leadership.
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We pray your protection around Carl and the team as they go to Ukraine
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and beyond, and the protection around us as well as we share the good news.
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God, will you just help us to understand our role
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and to enjoy the fact that we are your slaves
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and we're servants to these people around us?
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We help us to understand the the folks that we're dealing with.
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Show us those people in our sphere of influence
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that you're calling us to be
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the primary spokesperson for you, to them,
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God, we don't understand this culture, but you give us enough
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glimpse of understanding so that we can maneuver through it
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without just being thrown off our
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our game because of what's happening out there.
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Help us have clarity with the message that it's good news
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that God saved me, and he can save you to.
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And we just look forward to what's going to happen in the future.
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Pray for this church.
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Pray your blessing upon it.
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Christ name. Amen.
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Amen.