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Change, Part 2 - Glen Osburn 11/7/04

Church of Christ - Bakersfield, Ca

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  1. Good to see all who are here tonight.

  2. Good to have many from Brundage here this evening as well.

  3. And I'm thankful that what we have to share this evening is

  4. from God and not from me, I'm so thankful for that because the

  5. word of wisdom and the word of men, does it really bring about

  6. being pleasing with God? But if we reflect our knowledge

  7. of his will, then we know what pleases him and we know how to

  8. please him. There are so many people who

  9. think if it pleases me. It must please.

  10. God and that's not necessarily the case.

  11. We find that we have to know God's Will and be familiar with

  12. it to know what pleases him and that is our desire to know what

  13. pleases are gone. One of the things we learned

  14. this morning that pleases our God is the need for us to change

  15. in some way, some aspects of our behavior and our attitudes.

  16. And most of all the the fact that the essence of the

  17. Christian Life Is Calling ourselves to not follow.

  18. Ourselves. But to follow him who died for

  19. us, that is to be imitators of Jesus Christ.

  20. We talked about acts 17, verse 30, this morning where God is,

    Acts 17:30

  21. commanding all men everywhere. That doesn't mean men gender.

  22. That means all mankind, all everywhere to repent, to repent

  23. that word. Repent means to change to change

  24. direction to change some aspect of our Behavior.

  25. God doesn't want us if we're good to be bad, he doesn't want

  26. just Change for change sake, speak.

  27. He wants us to be able to identify what part of our Lives

  28. is not conforming to the Life of Christ.

  29. And that's why we wrote this part of this passage on our

  30. board. This morning, the Bible says,

  31. it's the Christians purpose to be conformed to the image of the

  32. sun. We've read this from Romans 8,

  33. chapter verse 29. If you're taking notes, this is

  34. a very important. Verse in the scripture notice it

  35. says For Those whom he foreknew He also predestined to become

  36. conformed, to the image of his son.

  37. That is what our Christian life is all about.

  38. Now, this doesn't mean externally as we already talked

  39. about this morning, it doesn't mean that we're all supposed to

  40. wear robes and and, you know, like so many did in the 60s wear

  41. sandals and long hair and look like Jesus on the outside, it

  42. doesn't mean that we're supposed to be trying to perform Miracles

  43. like walk on water and and different kinds of things like

  44. that people who try to imitate Jesus externally.

  45. You missed the whole point. Jesus came here to be an exact

  46. representation of the father. Not Father's external

  47. attributes. This character his morality his

  48. ethics, his righteousness. That's what Jesus came and

  49. personified. That is literally lived out

  50. through his life. He was the exact representation

  51. of his nature. The Bible says, and whenever God

  52. calls us to follow, Jesus. It's not externally.

  53. It's that internal. The character of Jesus that

  54. we're supposed to meet him at 80, you know.

  55. But there's a lot of people who don't follow the character of

  56. Jesus don't act like Jesus, don't talk like, Jesus aren't

  57. interested in the same thing. Jesus is interested in yet

  58. there. How is that?

  59. So many people have this disconnect between living in a

  60. Christian country, or living it going to church.

  61. And they believe that that that makes them a Christian.

  62. Or they'll say I've been baptized as if just going in and

  63. out of water is all it takes to be a follower of Jesus Christ.

  64. No, my friends. No Bible more often 03:00 time.

  65. It's this morning. Uses the word disciple,

  66. disciple. Which means pupil, which means

  67. follower of Jesus Christ in the sense that he is a master

  68. teacher, and we are his students, we're supposed to be

  69. like him. The Bible says, we looked at

  70. that. Passage this morning, a

  71. disciple, excuse me, a disciple when he is fully trained, will

  72. be like his teacher. That's what we're supposed to

  73. become. Luke 6, and verse 40, a disciple

  74. when he is fully trained will be Like his teacher.

  75. So this idea of being conformed is the essence.

  76. This image is an external but inwardly, the Bible says, we're

  77. going to be like our teacher, not externally, but inwardly.

  78. We're supposed to have the heart of God, the mind of Christ, his

  79. compassion, his desire to obey and glorify his father in

  80. Heaven. That's what it's all about.

  81. And we're going to talk more about that tonight.

  82. I'm not going to re-preach this morning's sermon.

  83. That was just That was just the preview to bring us up to

  84. tonight a little bit. We talked about how God

  85. required. This isn't an option.

  86. God requires all everywhere to repent, acts 17:30, if we're

    Acts 17:30

  87. going to be a Christian, what aspect of our life does the

  88. word, repent, apply to, what aspects of change.

  89. Does God want to bring out it to us?

  90. Well, before we go into some specifics, please turn to

  91. Hebrews 2:12 chapter right quick and The twelfth chapter of the

    Hebrews 2:12

  92. Bible tells us that our transformation comes from the

  93. inside to the outside. As we noticed this morning, now

  94. with this little chart right here is really taken from

  95. Matthew 23, and verse 23, if you're taking notes where Jesus

  96. challenged the scribes and the Pharisees, you know, the

  97. Pharisees were obedient to God and a lot of things, but they

  98. did it heartlessly. They did it without any internal

  99. motivation. They tied me.

  100. Mint and come in the Bible says Dill mint and coming but he says

  101. it wasn't right. They needed to clean these the

  102. inside of the cup, they were like a whitewash, sup liqueur,

  103. the indeed outwardly, they peered pure and white.

  104. But inside they were full of dead, men's bones and all

  105. uncleanness. And he told them that was a

  106. false form of religion. God wants the real thing.

  107. He wants us to clean the inside of the cup and the outside will

  108. be clean. Also as we notice this morning

  109. we must worship God in spirit and in truth John 4, verse 23,

    John 4:23

  110. and 24. Well, here in Hebrews 12

  111. chapter, notice what it says. In verse 1.

  112. He In this passage, he's talking about fixing what we're supposed

  113. to do in order to run the Christian race.

  114. Notice? Therefore, since we have so

  115. great, a cloud of witnesses surrounding us let us and he

  116. begins to talk about the change. He says, let us lay aside every

  117. encumbrance. Here's some change.

  118. There are some things in our life that are encumbering us

  119. that are hindering us from running the Christian race from

  120. being successful at the image of Jesus and getting it into our

  121. hearts and our minds. And so one of the things that

  122. we've got to do in order to bring about change, I'm not just

  123. going to get up here and say change and not talk about how to

  124. do it. It's easy to tell somebody stop

  125. it. Parents mothers do that to kids

  126. all the time, but sometimes you have to tell your children what

  127. to do, instead of what you're telling them to stop doing, you

  128. have to tell them how to be constructive instead of

  129. destructive. And so, he says here.

  130. First of all, here's what I want you to do.

  131. I want you to lay aside every encumbrance, if you're having a

  132. difficult time following Jesus Christ, maybe it's because you

  133. haven't laid aside incumbrances laid aside things that are

  134. hindering you from being what You need to be.

  135. You don't, nobody is born, just imitating Jesus.

  136. I listened to a sermon one time that was so helpful to me in my

  137. Christian Life and brother Linwood Smith still preaches.

  138. It it's called why rivers are crooked.

  139. Why are rivers crooked? Because often they take the path

  140. of least resistance. That's why rivers are crooked.

  141. They take the path of least resistance.

  142. Why are people crooked same reason?

  143. A lot of times it's easier to just go with the flow instead of

  144. sometimes. Go against the environment is

  145. telling us, we need to do or be or what they want us to do,

  146. who's in control of your life? Are you in control?

  147. Are you going with the crowd? You like to be proud.

  148. I'm in control. That's why I go with the crowd.

  149. That doesn't make any sense at all.

  150. I remember in the late 60s, early 70s boy that dates me.

  151. I'll tell you that right quick. How I wanted to have long hair

  152. and musicians I wouldn't have some longer I want to add Y and

  153. I said, Dad, I want to be an individual just like everybody

  154. else. That makes a lot of sense.

  155. You want to be an individual and the reason why you're feeling

  156. pressure to wear long hairs because everybody has it, that

  157. doesn't make sense. But a lot of times, that's what

  158. happens in our lives. We want to be an individual just

  159. like everybody else. Is that the what it is, God

  160. tells us that there sometimes whenever we have to go against

  161. the flow, whenever we're going to have to stand up, and we're

  162. going to have to be different, because that's what Jesus would

  163. do if he was here. Notice he says here lay aside

  164. every encumbrance and the sin which does so easily entangles

  165. us and let us run with endurance.

  166. The race that is set. Before us notice verse to fixing

  167. our eyes on Jesus the author. You know, if you fix your eyes

  168. on, anybody else, you're going to be disappointed somewhere,

  169. sometime you're going to find hypocrisy, you're going to find

  170. inconsistency, you're going to find somebody who fell short,

  171. you're going to find somebody who's human, but when you fix

  172. your eyes on Jesus, then there's no disappointment there, no

  173. disappointment at all. How many times have you talked

  174. to? Somebody who's quit the church

  175. because of salt, 1 sub brother, or sister?

  176. Did somebody in the church is a hypocrite.

  177. Somebody in the Corrupt correctly, and so they'll quit.

  178. And I'll go to the Masjid who you Worship in, you Worship in

  179. the church or him about the church.

  180. Who are you looking at, where your eyes focused?

  181. My friends. If you look at other people in

  182. church here and I'd be disappointed but stop it.

  183. God didn't tell you to focus on them.

  184. He said focus on him fixing our eyes on Jesus.

  185. That's supposed to be the one you're supposed to be measuring

  186. yourself do and comparing yourself to not other people.

  187. Not other people. You'll always, if you compare

  188. yourself with the other people, you know, what's going to find,

  189. you're going to be disappointed, some and you're going to become

  190. arrogant because you're better than somebody else.

  191. And it's all not going to work the righteousness of God.

  192. God does it say don't compare yourself among yourselves.

  193. If you do, you're not wise, he says fix your eyes on Jesus.

  194. Now, that is the one we're all supposed to be following.

  195. He's the one we're supposed to be following.

  196. I don't care if you're better than everybody else church are.

  197. You better than him? Are you coming up and measuring

  198. yourself to his stature of maturity?

  199. Are you coming up to his character?

  200. Are you coming up to his morality?

  201. Are you, do you have his heart? Do you have his eyes?

  202. That's the question. I don't care how better, how

  203. much better you are than anybody else in the church.

  204. How fewer times you sin than anybody else?

  205. That's not the point. It is not the point.

  206. We're not here to worship the church.

  207. We're here to worship Him. Who purchased the church?

  208. So fix your eyes on him. That's the point.

  209. Then you won't be disappointed. Then you won't lose.

  210. You won't lose your enthusiasm. Because Jesus always always

  211. inspires me, and always should inspire you fix your eyes on

  212. Jesus. Notice the Bible tells us,

  213. there's something happens. Whenever we do this, please go

  214. to Romans 12 chapter. In Romans 12 chapter notice what

  215. he says here, Romans 12, starting in verse 1.

  216. Therefore, I urge you Brethren by the mercies of God, to

  217. present your bodies, a living and holy sacrifice, acceptable

  218. to God, which is your spiritual service of worship or reasonable

  219. service is what the King James says, and believe it or not, the

  220. original Greek is pretty accurate on this which is your

  221. reasonable or rational service very accurate, New American

  222. Standard didn't do good on this one.

  223. I'll tell you the truth. Both ways.

  224. It means reasonable or rational service.

  225. Notice? What it goes on to say and do

  226. not be conformed to this world. But be transformed, how?

  227. By the renewing of your mind. Oh, there's how I bring about

  228. real and Lasting change become transformed.

  229. He says by the renewing of your mind.

  230. So that you may prove that is demonstrate, you can demonstrate

  231. for absolute proof, you prove that which is good and

  232. acceptable. Whenever we transform our minds,

  233. then we are transformed to be conformed to the image of.

  234. I don't Mean that to be a tongue twister but we're transformed

  235. into conforming by the renewing of our mind.

  236. How do we get our mind? How do we make sure that we have

  237. the proper image up here? My friends, there is no way to

  238. be transformed into the image of Jesus Christ.

  239. If you don't know him, if you don't know him, you can know a

  240. lot of facts about him but did not know him.

  241. You may know a lot of facts about the president.

  242. That doesn't mean you know him, you know, him intimately.

  243. You understand how he thinks and how he feels There's a in the

  244. Greek, there's a, there's a difference between what they

  245. call experiential knowledge and just external knowledge and it's

  246. sometimes difficult to get into our language.

  247. But there's a difference between knowing about somebody and

  248. really understanding someone are knowing someone and that's what

  249. the Bible's trying to say here. You can be transformed by

  250. getting the knowledge of Jesus Christ into our hearts and into

  251. our minds. That's how we're really changed.

  252. That's how change comes about, and as We ask ourselves as we

  253. continually examine ourselves every Lord's day not only just

  254. that but we examine ourselves as we partake of the bread and

  255. drink of the cup. But as we day-by-day examine

  256. ourselves to see whether we're in the faith as we day by day

  257. our humble, before the word as we read it, then that message,

  258. then those words get into a hearts and into our minds and it

  259. transforms us. We become ones who understand

  260. and know God. By the Revelation that he gave

  261. us. That's how we come to know him.

  262. That's how we know. Jesus Christ, there are many

  263. Christians who haven't got a clue about how Jesus Christ

  264. lived. They call themselves Christians

  265. and they don't think they don't Focus.

  266. They don't fix their eyes on Jesus.

  267. How can such a thing be? Well, as we talked about this

  268. morning, Doing good. Just doesn't automatically make

  269. us good. In Matthew the 23rd chapter,

  270. they were doing good by tithing dill and cumin, but the point

  271. is, is that didn't make him good.

  272. God said they were dead. And so a lot of times getting

  273. good, external habits and having a good relationship, a good

  274. relationship with everybody. We think we'd be, we think we

  275. must be pleasing to God when God knows within our hearts that

  276. maybe we are not right with him. We talked this morning about the

  277. church at laodicea and Revelation, Third chapter, how

  278. that they thought they were rich and increased with goods and

  279. have need of nothing but God said you don't, you know, you're

  280. poor and blind and naked you haven't got a clue how I view

  281. you as opposed to how you boo view, you They thought they

  282. didn't need anything, but God said that they did.

  283. Well, we need to be able to identify what it is in our life

  284. that needs to change. And so, let's go on, I promise.

  285. All my introductions aren't going to be this long as we go

  286. on down, but we do have to focus.

  287. We do have to get the concept here.

  288. That's what we're going to try to do this week is talk about

  289. real authentic, Christianity. Not a form of it, not a form of

  290. godliness. But the real thing, what is the

  291. real thing? Please turn to Colossians if you

  292. will, no Me, I want to go to Colossians, but first, I want to

  293. go to Ephesians Ephesians 4:22, please turn over to Ephesians 4

    Ephesians 4:22

  294. and there's a few verses that I really want you to write down

  295. and this is one of those passages.

  296. I want you to write down, Ephesians 4 and verse 22,

  297. because here he specifically gives us a list of things were

  298. supposed to put on and take off or we're supposed to get rid of

  299. lay aside. We've already talked about how

  300. Hebrews 12 tells. Us to lay aside some

  301. encumbrances, but now we get a list of those encumbrances, we

  302. get a list of things specifically, to get out of our

  303. hearts and out of our lives. But notice what he says here in

  304. Ephesians the fourth chapter, we're going to assert well.

  305. Let's go to verse 17, to make sure we got the context.

  306. This I say our firm together with the Lord that you no longer

  307. walk just as Gentiles walk in the futility of their mind,

  308. being darkened in their understanding excluded from the

  309. life of God because of the ignorance that is in them.

  310. That's what we've just talked about.

  311. They're excluded because of the ignorance that is in them

  312. because of the hardness of their heart and they having becomed

  313. callus have given themselves over to sensuality.

  314. For the practice of every kind of impurity with greediness.

  315. Just a side note here, the word greediness doesn't mean that

  316. he's talking about money here in this.

  317. Passage the word greediness means somebody who is insatiable

  318. are unsatisfied and contextually probably the word should be

  319. translated. In other words, they've given

  320. themselves over to kind of every kind of impurity with with a

  321. desire for even more is what he's trying to say and other

  322. Words there is there is no satisfaction.

  323. They're never full there. Never satiated.

  324. In other words, every sin leads to a desire for more and more

  325. sin in. There's never a barrier at all

  326. in their lives. That's what he's talking about.

  327. But anyway, let's go on down verse 20.

  328. But you did not learn Christ in this way.

  329. I want you to notice that meant that the imagery that's being

  330. taught here. Instead of Christianity being

  331. the word named here. He says you didn't learn Christ

  332. in this way. Yes, That the essence of

  333. Christianity whenever we're talking about our manner of

  334. life, the way you and I live, and the way we act, the way we

  335. behave, and the way we have relationships, he uses that to

  336. say you didn't learn Christ in that way.

  337. Isn't that talking about all of Christian doctrine?

  338. Yes, he's using it as a synonym for all Christian doctrine.

  339. He says, whenever you've learned it, then you've learned Christ.

  340. Isn't that interesting? He says, but you didn't Learn

  341. Christ. In this way, notice what he

  342. says, if indeed you have heard of enema taught him just as the

  343. truth is in Jesus that in reference to your former manner

  344. of life. Oh, this was something before

  345. repentance or, as one brother said it was BC before Christ in

  346. my life, this was BC. He says, here's what it was

  347. before, Christ came into my life.

  348. He said, this is what I supposed to lay aside then Informer.

  349. Reference to your former manner of life.

  350. You laid aside the old self, the old self which is being

  351. corrupted in accordance with the lusts of Deceit.

  352. And other words, this was the kind of life you lived before.

  353. It was your former manner of life, it was a life which led to

  354. corruption. It was a life full of Deceit.

  355. Stop that you laid that aside whenever you became a Christian

  356. and that you be renewed verse 23 in the spirit of your mind.

  357. Now, that's not Holy Spirit there he's talking about the

  358. spirit of our mind. In other words, what kind of

  359. spirit aren't you? What, what is the spirit of your

  360. mind? What kind of attitudes do you

  361. have? You need to be renewed in that

  362. renewed, right here. Conform transformed by this

  363. renewal. Has and put on the new self.

  364. which in the likeness of God has been created in righteousness

  365. and Holiness of the truth, He says, this is the likeness of

  366. God, The New American Standard translates, this verse very

  367. well. This new self is in the likeness

  368. of God godliness. When was the last time we talked

  369. about that in our manner of Life?

  370. Oftentimes when we talk about Christianity, it's just whether

  371. we're saved or not, not whether anybody's living a Godly life or

  372. not how unfortunate, because that's not the way.

  373. The Bible talks about it. Whenever he talks about, you

  374. didn't learn Christ in this way, he's talking about God likeness

  375. godliness in our matter of life and he said, some people are

  376. unable to attain it because of the ignorance.

  377. It is in them, my friends, we need the word.

  378. We need to get that knowledge into our hearts and into our

  379. minds because only then can it transform us only then can we

  380. know what we need to do to conform to the image of Jesus?

  381. Only then can we conform to the path that Jesus would have

  382. turned and made the decisions Jesus would have made notice and

  383. that you put on the new self which in the likeness of God is

  384. being created in righteousness. No Lie is of the truth and then

  385. he makes a list. therefore, Laying aside falsehood speak.

  386. Truth. Each one with his neighbor for.

  387. We are members one of another. Okay.

  388. The first thing he really delineates here is as a

  389. Christian. If you're going to transform

  390. your life, the first thing you work on is the tongue.

  391. That's right. You laying aside lying, you put

  392. it out of your life, you've laid that aside speak the truth, each

  393. one of you one with another, where your members one of

  394. another, your parts of one another, you know, that is the

  395. hardest thing, whenever you work with people out in the world and

  396. you study with people as Frankie, probably knows whenever

  397. you study with people, a lot of times, a lot of times they're

  398. intimidated by the Christian Life.

  399. I know one guy who said, who told me he didn't want to be

  400. baptized right then he was a truck driver and Placerville,

  401. California. He said Glenn I can't come to

  402. church, I'm a truck driver. I use language all day that I

  403. can't use in the church. He said I would feel like a

  404. hypocrite coming to the church with my mouth the way it is.

  405. I said listen you give Jesus your heart and the mouth of come

  406. with it, you know. And and he later on a year later

  407. he told me it's amazing. I never thought I could have

  408. quit cussing. I never thought I could have

  409. quit swearing like I did but he said it's amazing.

  410. I don't have to think about it anymore.

  411. I just try to follow. Jesus in my, in my life and it's

  412. amazing and I said, that's right.

  413. That's how it works. That's how it works.

  414. You don't do it all at once and you don't get well before you go

  415. to the doctor, those who are well, do not need the physician

  416. but those who are sick. And I'm here to tell you, if

  417. your sin sick even though no matter what your habits are, no

  418. matter how much you've lied, it may be easier for you to lie

  419. than tell the truth. But don't give up.

  420. If you want to come to Jesus you come and you bring it to him and

  421. you start laying it aside every time it puts itself on you know

  422. you lay it aside. You maybe unconsciously putting

  423. on those old dirty clothes that you once laid aside and every

  424. time you recognize it, you put it on, take it off, lay it aside

  425. again, put it down, get rid of it.

  426. But that's what he says here. These telling Christians he's

  427. telling Christians, delay, aside lying.

  428. Evidently there were some Christians had trouble with it.

  429. Members, one of another, he had to tell Christians to stop

  430. lying. Did you ever think of that?

  431. Yeah, that's what happens sometimes.

  432. Sometimes we have to be consciously aware and force

  433. ourselves to tell the truth. All the time.

  434. All the time, notice notice verse 20, verse 26, he starts

  435. out with some be angry and do not sin.

  436. Do not let the sun. Go down on your anger, on your

  437. on, your anger. Is that your problem?

  438. Perhaps, you're here it. You could say, you know, I'm

  439. angry a lot. Well, the first question needs

  440. to be as well. Is that following the image of

  441. Jesus? Are you behaving like Jesus?

  442. My friends? I want you to ask yourself for

  443. just a question. When you were raffle whenever

  444. you're angry whenever you're impatient.

  445. Are you acting like Jesus? You know like one guy told me

  446. one time it's not the parts of the Bible, I don't understand.

  447. That gives me problems. It's a parts I do understand.

  448. That's it. This is a real specific thing

  449. here, be angry, and do not sin, evidently some in Ephesus

  450. needed, to lay it aside. I'm asking you brother and

  451. sister, I'm not there in your home, which is often called the

  452. closet of secrets in, but I'll tell you what, if you don't

  453. practice the presence of Jesus Christ in your home, if you

  454. think, somehow you left him here, when you went home, you

  455. are sadly, sadly deceived. If you think Jesus is always

  456. someplace else whenever you got mad whenever you spoke that way

  457. whenever you acted that way. Whenever you spit in whenever

  458. you spewed whenever you lost your temper.

  459. Don't you ever think that? Oh Jesus just wasn't there.

  460. He was just covering it up. He was just embarrassed and

  461. turned away know he was there. And he said, listen, I

  462. understand what it is to be angry, but you be angry and sin,

  463. not do not let the sun go down on your wrath.

  464. Oh yes, God is righteously indignant.

  465. But God is always in control of his anger.

  466. Always, he never blows it, he never blows up.

  467. He never just lets it Fly and gives vent to all of his wrath.

  468. Wrath means uncontrolled anger. My friend's child abuse should

  469. never be in the church, but it is.

  470. I knew of a Christian one time that drop kicked his kids

  471. through the front screen door of his house.

  472. That's sad. You just got mad.

  473. I know of other men who have hit their wives.

  474. Fortunately, I've no other wives who have hit their men and I

  475. just want you men to be aware of a statistic.

  476. More often than not, men will beat up a wife, but more often

  477. than not, a wife will kill her husband.

  478. She doesn't mess around It's scary, it's scary.

  479. Whenever you get into counseling situations and you hear what

  480. happened? And you go.

  481. These people are both trying to be Christians, how can it be so

  482. out of control. So out of control is because you

  483. failed to practice the presence of Jesus Christ.

  484. We're going to talk more about that.

  485. This isn't coming week. We're going to talk about

  486. specific tools. We're going to come back, but

  487. tonight, I just want to give you some list.

  488. Why do I want to give you some lists?

  489. I have led you astray here just a little bit.

  490. I want you to pick something to work on this week.

  491. Oh yeah. Oh man.

  492. I hate Glenn's meetings. He gives us homework.

  493. That's right. Give you some homework because

  494. we're not going to go away and be forgetful.

  495. Here's we're going to be specific.

  496. Let's understand. God says specifically, this is

  497. something I want you to work on lay aside anger.

  498. Let's go on down notice what it says. do not give the devil

  499. opportunity, he who steals must steal no longer perhaps your You

  500. know, shopping for the new fall fashions without a checkbook.

  501. Five, finger discount. Perhaps you have a problem with,

  502. oh we're not going to call it stealing, or just kind of call

  503. it shoplifting and it's a game to see if we can get away with.

  504. There's some kids who think that that's nothing more than what it

  505. is. It's a game.

  506. It's not a game, it's stealing notice.

  507. When it goes on to say he is steals, must steal, no longer

  508. but rather he must labor performing with his own hands.

  509. What is good? So that will have something to

  510. share with him as need. Perhaps you need to get into the

  511. discipline of work. For what you acquire, verse 29,

  512. let no unwholesome word proceed out of your mouth.

  513. Unwholesome word, we all know what that is an unwholesome word

  514. is a word that doesn't have any any teaching in it.

  515. There's nothing beneficial in those words, they're just words.

  516. Usually slung as a weapon in a conversation.

  517. The Bible says let no unwholesome word proceed out of

  518. your mouth notice. If he goes on down, but only

  519. such a word as his good for edification, according to the

  520. need of the moment so that it will give Grace to those who

  521. hear husbands wives parents children.

  522. When you speak to your mom and dad are your words, edifying

  523. are, they truly giving Grace. Are they empowering?

  524. Your parents? Are they just telling off your

  525. parents? What are they?

  526. What are they? You know, I was so thankful.

  527. My dad there was six of us kids. I won't talk about what I know

  528. about Terrier, right. Tracy.

  529. But anyway, the whole point is, you know, it's hard.

  530. Taking care of six kids, especially when dad's up

  531. preaching and it was, it was often tough and difficult and

  532. The Bible says honor as well as obey your parents and it was

  533. awful tough. And oftentimes dad would say, do

  534. what I told you to do and we would go.

  535. But and he would say now look now, look, I understand, there

  536. may be some reason, some reason why you can't do what I'm asking

  537. you to do right now. And I'm going to practice the

  538. rule of giving you one shot. There may be something to bore

  539. part. The reason why the kid may be

  540. saying, but is because Mom told him to do something, I mean,

  541. there's a logical reason. Reason.

  542. And so I'm thankful for my dad, he often said okay, if I asked

  543. you to do something, you get one but and that means but you had

  544. to make your words clear and concise because you only got one

  545. shot at it and you had to give an answer And then after that,

  546. the decision was fine, I understand, but, no, go do what

  547. I ask is. Do you know, that's often what

  548. needs to happen. Whenever you, whenever you have

  549. a relationship with someone, then it works that way because

  550. everybody understands the parameters.

  551. Well, so it is with God to, he doesn't say, don't blow out the

  552. Planters, Don't Break Down The Walls.

  553. I want you to let your words be edifying.

  554. Make sure they're helpful. If you're going to have a

  555. criticism, make sure you have a help.

  556. Suggestion, Let It Be edifying. Try to think of something

  557. beneficial to say. Mom, you're a great cook

  558. tonight. Supper was great.

  559. But, you know, at least give the compliment, let something good

  560. come out of it, if you will all our relationships and our

  561. transactions in this way, if we would obey these passages, how

  562. much things would be better. But guess what?

  563. And following Christianity, we're commanded to behave in

  564. this way. This isn't an option, these

  565. aren't just words. Yeah, while it's a great

  566. self-help. God says let no unwholesome word

  567. proceed out of your mouth. In other words, if you do it's a

  568. sin, that's what he's saying. If you do it's a sin you can't

  569. call yourself follower of Jesus Christ.

  570. If you let unwholesome word proceed out of your mouth, Jesus

  571. doesn't talk that way. How about that?

  572. Jesus doesn't talk that way. That's what we need to get back

  573. to is, how would Jesus handle this?

  574. Notice do not grieve the holy spirit of God by whom you were

  575. sealed for the day of redemption.

  576. Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be

  577. put away from you along. With all malice, now malice is

  578. that active ill will towards someone, but be kind to one

  579. another. Here's what we're supposed to be

  580. like Be kind to one another tender-hearted forgiving each

  581. other just as God in Christ. Has forgiven.

  582. You all. Look at the example, look at the

  583. example. Just as God for Christ's sake

  584. has forgiven, you does that list?

  585. Describe the way you handle disappointment, describe the way

  586. you handle problems. There's some putting off and

  587. putting on isn't there with our knowledge.

  588. Now we need to have a transform our lives so that we can be

  589. conformed to the image of his dear son.

  590. I want you to think about that list and I want you to write

  591. down what you're going to be working on.

  592. Yeah, I know I need to change. What are you working on?

  593. I haven't got a clue. That's not supposed to be the

  594. Christian way guys. We need to know what it is.

  595. We're working on when you're working on.

  596. A house. You don't just say, I'm working

  597. on the house. You have specific things in mind

  598. that you're going to do you have a list and that's what the Bible

  599. gives us. He says, here's what to put off,

  600. here's what to put on, I want you to think about these things.

  601. I want you to ask, not how they apply to others, but how do they

  602. apply to me? What am I working on?

  603. Let's go to Colossians 3 verse 8.

    Colossians 3:8

  604. This is another list right down this passage and look at it as

  605. your leisure and think about the things that brings about the

  606. changes that it needs to bring about in our life in.

  607. In the third chapter. Excuse me, Colossians 3.

  608. We're going to start reading verse 8, mmm.

  609. But now you also put them all aside anger, wrath, malice,

  610. slander and abusive speech. I thought we just quoted that

  611. passage. Well.

  612. Maybe God sometimes needs to repeat himself because we

  613. weren't listening the first time.

  614. Evidently this is a pretty important thing to put aside

  615. notice. Now, put them all aside.

  616. Put them all aside my friends. If you have this in your

  617. character, In order to imitate Jesus, you're going to have to

  618. put it aside. Are you known for your hot

  619. temper? Have you blamed it on your

  620. genetics, your Irish heritage? Have you blamed it on your

  621. mother or your father or your grandma?

  622. Well I'm just that way. God says you're not my way.

  623. You lay it aside, notice do not lie.

  624. One to another since you've laid aside the old self which its

  625. evil practices and put on the new self which is being renewed

  626. to a true knowledge. According to listen the image of

  627. the one who created him. It's being renewed into the

  628. image of God. God doesn't lie.

  629. And we're his children. How dare US law is your word

  630. trustworthy? That's what we need to have in

  631. Christ. A real duel verse 11 in which

  632. There's no distinction between Greek and Jew circumcised and

  633. uncircumcised Barbarian slave free man.

  634. But Christ is all and in all notice verse 12, so as those who

  635. have been chosen of God, holy and beloved put on a put on put

  636. yeah Circle that little phrase out there put on because that's

  637. what he wants us to do to add to our lives.

  638. That's a something he wants us to change and put on.

  639. A heart of compassion. Kindness, humility gentleness.

  640. And patience does that describe you?

  641. As a Christian, it's got to be what we're striving to put on.

  642. Because this verse tells us to do that, put on these qualities

  643. of spirit of heart, bearing with one another verse 13 for giving

  644. each other, Whoever has a complaint against anyone.

  645. Just as the Lord forgave you, are you a grudge holder?

  646. Are you somebody that's irreconcilable.

  647. I don't care if they said, I'm sorry.

  648. Really. That doesn't make you

  649. christ-like notice forgiving each other wherever it's because

  650. a complaint against anyone just as the Lord forgave you just as

  651. the Lord forgave you? So also should you Those of us

  652. who wears name beyond all these things.

  653. Put on, there's the keyword Circle it again, verse 14, put

  654. on love which is the perfect Bond of unity put on love.

  655. Yeah, What is love? It's active thinking of someone

  656. else's benefit, somebody else's welfare above your own.

  657. It first Corinthians 13 describe W.

  658. Love does, but real love is found a Philippians 2.

  659. Real love is described the find if you will in Philippians 2.

  660. Notice what Philippians 2 says here, if I can get there verse

  661. 3, Philippians 2 verse 3. do nothing from selfishness or

    Philippians 2:3

  662. empty conceit but with humility of Mind, Let each of you regard

  663. one another as more important than himself, Do not merely.

  664. Look out for your own personal interests, but also for the

  665. interests of others. This attitude in yourself.

  666. Which was also in Christ, Jesus. He hit it on the think of

  667. someone else's spiritual welfare, their welfare above

  668. your own, have this attitude yourself which was greist were

  669. called to imitate him. Have this attitude, how wouldn't

  670. it be wonderful? If everyone in the church had

  671. this attitude in themselves which was also in Christ Jesus?

  672. Although it's not just a great idea.

  673. It's the the idea it's what we're supposed to be working

  674. toward. We're really supposed to be

  675. caring for one another. And our spiritual welfare.

  676. That motivates our correction, it motivates our encouragement,

  677. it motivates our instruction. We actively try to encourage one

  678. another to love and good works. Do not merely look out for your

  679. own personal interests, but also for the interests of others.

  680. Let's look at another passage right quick.

  681. And we're just going to run down the Reeds, right?

  682. Real quickly if you would in Luke Luke the 12th chapter verse

  683. 22. Luke 12 verse 22.

    Luke 12:22

  684. And he said to his disciples for this reason, I say to you do not

  685. worry about your life as to what you shall eat, or what your

  686. body, what you should put on, is not life more than food and the

  687. body more than clothing. Consider the Ravens they neither

  688. sow nor reap. And they have no Storehouse or

  689. barn yet. God feeds them.

  690. How much more value are you than the birds?

  691. Which one of you by worrying can add a single?

  692. There is a time. We're here at The New American

  693. Standard rates, a single hour to his life.

  694. An if you cannot do a lie, even a very little thing.

  695. Why do you worry about other matters?

  696. Consider the lilies, how they grow?

  697. They neither toil nor do they spend but I tell you Solomon in

  698. all his glory was not arrayed like one of these.

  699. But if God, so clothes the grass of the field and which is alive

  700. today and tomorrow is thrown into the furnace.

  701. How much more will he clothe you?

  702. Oh you meant a lot of little faith.

  703. Do not seek what you will eat or what you will drink and do not

  704. keep worrying for these things that Nate's, the kingdoms of the

  705. world are the nations of the world eagerly seek, but your

  706. father knows that you have need of all these things.

  707. Listen, here's the culmination. But seek first or see, but seek

  708. his kingdom. And all these things will be

  709. added to you. All these things.

  710. What does he tell us to see? You know, so many times people

  711. spend their whole life on that, which will not Outlast it, but

  712. he says, your Christians. God knows that you have need of

  713. these things. Seek first, his kingdom.

  714. And all these things will be added unto you all these things.

  715. Isn't that amazing? Please turn to Matthew 6.

  716. Matthew the 6 chapter. Verse 25.

  717. For this reason, I do not say I say, I say to you do not be

  718. worried about your life as to what you shall eat or drink nor

  719. for your body. As to what you shall put on, is

  720. not life more than food and the body more than clothing.

  721. Here's that same thing found in Matthew, look at the birds of

  722. the air, they do not sow, nor reap, nor gather into barns, yet

  723. your heavenly father feeds them, you're not where you are, are

  724. you not worth more than they and who of You by worrying can add a

  725. single hour to his life. Why do you worry about Clothing.

  726. Notice he once again, challenges these these people, but no doubt

  727. verse 33, go down to verse 33. Listen.

  728. But seek first, his kingdom, if you were looking for the word

  729. first, it's because Matthew includes it in his gospel, but

  730. seek first, his kingdom, and his righteousness, and all these

  731. things will be added unto you. There's what we need to work on.

  732. Is seeking first the kingdom of God, and all these things, is

  733. that what we really have in our lives?

  734. Seeking first, the kingdom of God, and looking, everything

  735. else, as just supporting that, you know, some work in the

  736. gospel of the Lord of our kingdom, the kingdom of Our

  737. Lord, in the field of the Lord. And yet, they are known by men

  738. as as painters as Builders as mechanics and everything else.

  739. But you know, when you ask them what their life is about.

  740. Out or you ask their friends. What does that person live for?

  741. They don't want their life to be defined by how they make a

  742. living. They are not a painter.

  743. They are not a builder. They are not.

  744. They are a Christian and how they make their money is another

  745. thing. But their life is not what they

  746. do. Their life is what they are.

  747. They're following Jesus Christ, they're Christians.

  748. You know, how wonderful it is to meet people who, you know, live

  749. for something greater than how they make a living.

  750. Doesn't that challenge you? When you look at them and they

  751. say, well, they do this on the side but how why they live is

  752. for Christ. That's the whole point.

  753. That's where God wants us to be. He says seek first, the kingdom

  754. of God and all these things will be added unto you.

  755. Well, I didn't even get to my Last point tonight.

  756. So we're going to save it for tomorrow tomorrow.

  757. Come back and we're going to talk about the importance of

  758. goals, but I will tell you this. I do want you to do some

  759. homework tonight. I want you to go home and look

  760. at the scriptures. If you have a concordance, look

  761. at all those passages that say put off and put on, I want you

  762. to look because those are specific things that God wants

  763. us to do specifically what the word repentance means come back

  764. tomorrow night. Lord willing, and we're going to

  765. talk about how to bring about real change in your life.

  766. If you want to change your tongue, if you want to change.

  767. In your heart. If you have hatred, if you have

  768. Envy, if you have any of these attitudes, if you have wrath

  769. tonight. Oh yeah.

  770. Don't you know, I know people have problems.

  771. You might say well they have problems with love problems.

  772. They don't know how to love. Well, my some people come with

  773. that problem, but I'll tell you, I've had it.

  774. I've counseled with a lot of people have trouble with anger,

  775. frustration, frustration. They feel out of control.

  776. And so, what they do to get in control is they make everybody

  777. fear them? And they dominate through fear

  778. and it's not what Jesus would do if he were here.

  779. So today is fear the main attitude Pete, that people

  780. describe your home as Have you laid aside all of that, anger

  781. and Wrath? Or perhaps you're working on

  782. other things. Perhaps people don't think that

  783. going to heaven and seeking first.

  784. The kingdom of God is what you're all about, for where your

  785. treasure is, there will your heart be also, they see your

  786. heart in your car. They see your heart in somewhere

  787. else. They don't see it in heaven,

  788. they don't see you laying up. Treasures in Heaven.

  789. They see you get more emotional over.

  790. Something that happens to your car that over some brother or

  791. sister, who fell away, They see you getting more upset about

  792. some temporal thing rather than Eternal things.

  793. The real key to a transformed life.

  794. The real K2 athletic Christianity is someone who has

  795. fixed Their Eyes On Jesus. And recognize he is the

  796. embodiment of the mind of God In the Flesh.

  797. He is the exact representation of his nature.

  798. He lived righteousness. He Illustrated what it was to be

  799. Godlike. And being christ-like as being

  800. god-like. Now, you may want to act like

  801. God, but that's not being god-like.

  802. We're talking about being like our Father in heaven.

  803. And if there's a discrepancy, between what the Bible says, God

  804. is like And what you are. I are like, then there's where

  805. the change needs to begin. Stop accepting.

  806. Your shortcomings. Stop excusing.

  807. Your shortcomings and blaming it on your genetics.

  808. Blaming it on your environment, blaming it on your friends, your

  809. wife, your husband, your children, your parents.

  810. We love to excuse ourselves. But God says I will no longer

  811. accept excuses the times of ignorance.

  812. God wants winked at, but his now commanding all men everywhere to

  813. repent accepting 30, all that so tough, I'd rather have a form of

  814. godliness. It's easier to practice some new

  815. habits than to change old ones. My friends, God wants you to put

  816. off the old man had to put on the new one and that takes work.

  817. That takes effort. Come back tomorrow night.

  818. We'll talk about what specifically to do, but I want

  819. you to look over these verses tonight and I want you to write

  820. down something, you are going to specifically work on.

  821. I want you to ask yourself, how am I going to be measurably

  822. different next year? Next month than I am today, are

  823. you satisfied? If your self satisfied?

  824. Then you've got more problems. If you're say sure, I need to

  825. change but I have no clue where I pretty happy with myself then.

  826. Maybe we're like the church at laodicea more than we like to

  827. ever think we're rich and increased with goods and have

  828. need of nothing. Are you one of those people who

  829. are sitting there tonight going? Yeah, I'm humble.

  830. But I can't think anything I need to change.

  831. Sorry, it's not going to get it. We're going to have to need

  832. something specifically to work on.

  833. So please come back tomorrow with that in mind.

  834. And we're going to talk about how to bring about real change.

  835. In our life, we're going to talk about goal setting.

  836. We're going to talk about how businesses aren't successful

  837. without goals. We're going to talk about how

  838. Christians aren't successful without goals either.

  839. So come back tomorrow night. We're going to talk about tools

  840. for Real Change in our life. Come back be with us tomorrow

  841. night. Bring your friends.

  842. Bring your friends, won't you tonight?

  843. If you need to start off on your path of change, if you're fully

  844. aware that you made by looking into the word of God tonight

  845. that you have not laid aside the old self, we're going to call

  846. for a crucifixion. Right here, we're going to call

  847. for you to in faith. Repent of your sins Acts 2 verse

    Acts 2:38

  848. 38, that means put to death the old man lay it aside, do some

  849. active taken it off. We're going to ask you to take

  850. it off right now. Somebody's got to make that

  851. decision sometime when he going to do it.

  852. Why not now why? If you decide to lay aside the

  853. you do not have to be the same person when you leave this

  854. building that you were when you came here tonight, you don't

  855. have to be you. Maybe you don't have to be

  856. tonight. You can leave something dead in

  857. here. Bury it, you can bury it in a

  858. watery grave of baptism. If you're not a Christian, you

  859. can as Romans 6 says, you can take that old man and you can

  860. bury him and be United with Christ.

  861. And in the likeness of his resurrection be raised to walk

  862. in newness of life. Romans 6:3 66.

    Romans 6:3

  863. You could do that tonight but you must repent.

  864. You've got to put to death. God won't kill him for you.

  865. You've got to take it off, God's.

  866. Not going to rip it off your body.

  867. You got to take it off. You've got to lay it aside.

  868. My friends. A lot of people want to get

  869. baptized without repentance, will have friends that it with

  870. without repentance in our life. Like, we talked about this

  871. morning, you'll go in a wet Center, come out.

  872. Argo in a dry Center. Come out of wet Center.

  873. Repentance is the key. So tonight you've got to make a

  874. decision. You're no longer going to live

  875. that kind of Life. Have that heart, you have that

  876. more Ally. You're going to lay it aside my

  877. friend, you got to come and you've got to bring it and

  878. you've got to lay it at the feet of the cross.

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