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Assured - Checking for a Pulse | Wade Branch

Church of Christ - Bakersfield, Ca

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  1. Good afternoon, everybody. It's great to see our crowd and

  2. I'm excited to study with you. I think the only thing better

  3. than listening and studying God's Word is talking about

  4. yourself. And I know I get a lot out of

  5. this. So thank you for being patient

  6. with me as I develop as a teacher and as I go through the

  7. process of explaining the word to you.

  8. Maybe it's helpful for you, maybe it's not, but it's, it's

  9. sure helpful for me. So thank you for being such a

  10. good audience all the time. And I'm looking forward to our

  11. study and 1st John, as we continue on into Chapter 3.

  12. And I've given the the title assured checking for a pulse.

  13. And that is checking for a spiritual pulse.

  14. That is the theme of this book or this letter is assurance.

  15. It's giving people assurance who are facing disagreement or

  16. facing controversy from others outside maybe having doubts

  17. within. And he's giving them insurance

  18. and He's showing them ways they can know and have joy and have

  19. full joy and do not be dissuaded by other people in their faith.

  20. And this letter is as a whole about assurance.

  21. But I think today we're especially going to focus on

  22. assurance. We've been through the purposes

  23. several Times Now, so I don't think I need to rehash those.

  24. We're just going to start reading in a couple verses

  25. before chapter 3 and 1st John 2 where we left off last week or

  26. two weeks ago. It says there in first John 2

    1 John 2:24

  27. verse 24. Therefore let that abide in you

  28. what you heard from the beginning.

  29. If what you heard from the beginning abides in you, you

  30. also will abide in the Son and in the Father.

  31. And this is the promise that He has promised us eternal life.

  32. These things I've written to you concerning those who tried to

  33. deceive you. But as the same anointing

  34. teaches you concerning all things and is true and is not a

  35. lie, and just at His, just as it has taught you, you will abide

  36. in Him. And now little children abide in

  37. Him, that when He appears, we may have confidence and not be

  38. ashamed before Him at His coming.

  39. If you know that He is righteous, you know that

  40. everyone who practices righteousness is born of Him.

  41. That's where we left off, and we're going to start in verse 1

  42. of chapter 3. Now He goes on to say behold or

  43. check this out, look at this, admire this, what manner of love

  44. the Father has bestowed on us, that we should be called

  45. children of God. Therefore the world does not

  46. know us because it did not know him.

  47. As I understand this word in manner, other people translate

  48. it and it's translated a little bit more aggressively and a

  49. little bit more. He's it's like he's reaching out

  50. to find where does this come from?

  51. Where is this manner of love? What kind of love is this?

  52. One translation said? What kind of foreign love are we

  53. witnessing? It's a foreign out of this world

  54. love that we would see and learn from the things that God has

  55. given to us. What kind of love is this?

  56. The writers say in amazement, in awe of the kind of love that we

  57. would be called his children and the world does not know us

  58. because it doesn't know because it did not know him.

  59. Verse 2 beloved, now we are children of God.

  60. He starts this next stop by stating a fact and as we get

  61. into these, these considerations of assurance, He's stating it

  62. like it's a fact. He's stating it assuredly and

  63. not like if we are of him, he's saying we are children of God.

  64. And he says it has not yet been revealed what we shall be.

  65. But we know that when he is revealed, we shall be like him

  66. for we shall see him as he is. So he's kind of recalibrating

  67. and reminding us of the reality we're in.

  68. Remember, we say that pretty often our our spiritual minds

  69. are always a focus issue. So we study.

  70. Even if you know something, even if I know something, it's a

  71. matter of focus. And he says it has not been

  72. revealed what we shall be. Sometimes we get so used to

  73. being in our lives, in the mundane or in the regular or in

  74. our limitations that that's all we see.

  75. But he's reminding us that we're in a stage right now and it's in

  76. a stage of not yet. It's in a stage of not yet being

  77. revealed. But there's going to be a time,

  78. he says, that we are going to be something else.

  79. It has not yet been revealed or opened up to us, but we know

  80. that when he is revealed, on that day when Jesus comes out

  81. and greets us and where we go to meet him in the air, we're going

  82. to be like him. He always, the gospel writers

  83. always leave a sense of we don't know yet.

  84. They do not seek to fully explain every detail.

  85. And I find that to be, you know, sometimes it's kind of off

  86. putting. Like I just wish God told us

  87. more about and often it's something along the lines of

  88. heaven because you try to describe heaven and it's like,

  89. well, there's not that much that we're that we have to say about

  90. it. There's, there's kind of hits

  91. dropped here and there, but we don't have the full picture.

  92. And that's what he says here. He leaves kind of a carrot

  93. hanging out there. We don't even know what it's

  94. going to be yet. And that's what hope is.

  95. Faith is the substance of things hoped for.

  96. But another scripture says that we don't hope for what we

  97. already have. And so we've always got this

  98. thing in our minds that says we don't even know how good it's

  99. going to be yet, but we know we're going to be like him.

  100. All of this letter is centered around unity with the Father and

  101. closeness with the Father and being sons of the Father and

  102. daughters of the Father. And we have assurance and

  103. comfort in the fact that however this turns out, we're going to

  104. be one with him, not just in our location, but even in our

  105. presence, in our state of being. He will always be Lord of the

  106. Lords over us to where we're not in the same level as him, but we

  107. are going to be in state and a glorified body, and we will see

  108. Him just as he is. You know, I think we all have a

  109. great longing inside of us that is to be seen and to be

  110. understood. You know, we see that most often

  111. in children. I think most obviously like they

  112. always want attention. They want to be seen.

  113. They want to be they, they even step out and do something

  114. outlandish in order to get attention.

  115. Sometimes we want to be seen at a core level and understood.

  116. The problem with us as adults, as we understand that as our

  117. sense of being seen increases, our risk increases and we are

  118. vulnerable. And when more people see more of

  119. us, that's risky because we know what we are and we know our

  120. faults and we know our shortcomings and we know the

  121. deep secrets and we know the dark and we know the weaknesses.

  122. So it's hard sometimes to have full vulnerability with other

  123. people and to feel comfortable in that.

  124. We feel our greatest sense of comfort in our spouses maybe,

  125. and that's where you were meant to find that sense of they're

  126. going to they see everything you are and they see everything that

  127. you all your warts and all. And yet you find comfort in the

  128. closeness that they understand you deeply and that they

  129. continue to love you anyway. In theory, we know that's what

  130. God is for us, right? We know that at the core of it

  131. all, God sees everything we do from the time we go wake up to

  132. the time we go to bed, and we know that He still loves us and

  133. that is so comforting to us. But there's going to be a day

  134. where it's not just A1 sided knowing, where it's not just God

  135. knows me, I know God knows me, but I have kind of a hard time

  136. seeing him all the time. There's going to come a day

  137. where we are going to see Him for who and what and everything

  138. that He really is. And I don't know about you, but

  139. that encourages me that if I'm going to see that one day, and

  140. that's going to be the climax of my earthly existence and the

  141. climax of my exaltation is to see Him as He is, that makes me

  142. want to see Him more now. That makes me want to look into

  143. Him. I don't know my Bible up here.

  144. I was going to pat my Bible. I want to look into Him more,

  145. and I want to know Him more, and I want to see Him more clearly

  146. and to show love for Him. Just like that day when I'm

  147. looking forward to, I'm supposed to be looking forward to this

  148. day when I see Him just as He is, I want to see every bit of

  149. it I can. Now when we are raised

  150. incorruptible, we're going to see Him just as He is.

  151. Verse 3. And everyone who has this hope

  152. in Him purifies himself just as He is pure.

  153. So we should all be living with this hope of seeing the

  154. glorified Jesus and being next to him in a glorified state

  155. ourselves. And that hope should be living

  156. in US. And if it is, it causes us to

  157. purify ourselves. And any faith that does not

  158. respond with a self reflection and purification because of it

  159. is not as he's going to say, it's not a real faith.

  160. And this is what happens when it's really inside of you.

  161. He purifies himself just as he is pure.

  162. You see Jesus and you see that hope of Jesus and say, hey, if

  163. I'm going to him, I better start purifying myself.

  164. Because God cannot have evil in his presence.

  165. It has an action. Don't let go of the hope, this

  166. hope. Don't let go of the hope amidst

  167. the mundane, amidst the grind, amidst the hard against the

  168. lonely, amidst all the things you deal with.

  169. Don't let go of this hope. Whoever commits sin also commits

  170. lawlessness, and sin is lawlessness.

  171. And you know that he was manifested, He was made evident

  172. to take away our sins. And in him there is no sin.

  173. You know, sometimes we think of it like, I'm not lawless like so

  174. and so is lawless. I I just committed a sin and I

  175. have sin in this area. But he says sin itself is

  176. lawlessness. I am lawless in a regard when I

  177. sin. And it doesn't matter if it

  178. wasn't 15 things, if it was one thing, it was lawless on my part

  179. to commit a sin, to have a heart that was wrong.

  180. He says that sin is lawlessness and sin is just that.

  181. And you know that He was manifested to take away our

  182. sins. So he is separate from this

  183. lawlessness and does not want to be in the presence of it.

  184. Verse 6, Whoever abides in him does not sin.

  185. Whoever sins has neither seen him nor known him.

  186. This is one of the most re explained verses I think maybe

  187. in the New Testament. And it's often times to try to

  188. assure people who are new in the faith who read this and go,

  189. wait, what if if I sin, he says I have no clue who he is.

  190. Well, that's not really what the verbiage means.

  191. These verbs are in present tense action, active oriented.

  192. The NIV words it a little bit more clearly.

  193. It says no one who lives in him keeps on sinning.

  194. No one who continues to sin has neither seen him or known him.

  195. The the key here is it's a pattern of behavior and it's a

  196. pattern of life. And it is a decision you're

  197. currently making to do one thing or another.

  198. It's really pretty straightforward.

  199. We know, and we can corroborate that with plenty of other

  200. scriptures we've already read in First John that says whoever

  201. says he has no sin is a liar. So we know that this is not

  202. saying that we've never sinned before, clearly, because there's

  203. other scriptures to make that clear.

  204. He's saying a pattern of life. Now I do want to give that

  205. comfort, but I also don't want to get away from the the point

  206. that he's making. So the point is direction, not

  207. perfection. But we do need to, to look into

  208. this a little bit more. I think for our own honesty.

  209. Only you and only I know what our direction is.

  210. You might think you know somebody, but only you really

  211. know only oneself. Like the scripture says, only

  212. man knows the heart hearts within him unless he reveals it

  213. to someone else. Only you know where your heart

  214. is and where your direction is. And if we are living in sin,

  215. then it doesn't matter what the past was.

  216. We are not living for him now. I think we have to look at this.

  217. If you're going to, if you're going to actually evaluate

  218. yourself, take a situation, think about a temptation you had

  219. recently and think about how you responded to it.

  220. Maybe there's fifteen other things that you just cruise

  221. right through and have no problem with those temptations.

  222. But maybe there's one or maybe 2 where you notice that there's a

  223. temptation happening. Think about how you respond to

  224. it. If you respond to that thing

  225. that gets you and you disregarded what you know is

  226. right and you shirked off what you know what to be right, and

  227. you just went on doing what you felt like doing, then you could

  228. find a place in your heart where there is habitual sin that

  229. you're choosing to live in. So maybe take stock and I'm

  230. going to just throw this in there and this next part you can

  231. completely ignore if it doesn't work for you.

  232. But I find that I sometimes need a tough love.

  233. I was talking to my brother this week and he was himself working

  234. through the stages of he's becoming a mature enough

  235. Christian to where he's trying to counsel somebody else who is

  236. working through sin. And so you have these kind of

  237. double layers of people who are working through sin.

  238. The person who was talking to me was saying I'm trying to help

  239. them, but I myself still struggle with sin and, and he

  240. was trying to help him. Maybe it was some of the same

  241. things that the other person was trying to get help overcoming.

  242. And he's like, I, I can't really do all this.

  243. I can't have all my burdens and, and continue to help someone out

  244. with with their burdens. And I, I, you know, I, I try to

  245. give as much consolation because there's always a phase of

  246. affirming people giving consolation.

  247. You're trying. That's what matters.

  248. And if you need to hear that, if you need to hear you're trying,

  249. keep up, that's great and trying and doing your best is all God

  250. asks of you. But there comes a time where our

  251. mindset can say I'm trying, I'm trying, I'm trying and pretty

  252. soon is it really true? Is it really true that just

  253. because I feel some sort of angst that I'm really putting

  254. effort into my faith, just because I feel that

  255. cognitiveness dissonance, like negativity when I'm trying to

  256. fight against sin, it doesn't necessarily mean you're fleeing

  257. sin. That's what the apostles tell

  258. us, flee from sin. And so I told him something that

  259. I need to hear, and maybe someone in here needs to hear

  260. it. If you don't like the way this

  261. is worded, please disregard it because it's, it's not for

  262. everybody. Sometimes you have to suck it up

  263. and move on from a sin. We can tell ourselves, I'm

  264. struggling with that. I'm struggling with this, but

  265. something makes it click one day and says you can't anymore.

  266. You can't afford. There's people who need you.

  267. There's people who who need your guidance, who need your

  268. leadership, who need your example.

  269. And you can't continue to struggle with this.

  270. You can't continue to just kind of say, oh, I'm trying to get

  271. rid of this sin. I'm pushing it away as hard as I

  272. can. Sometimes you need to draw a

  273. line for yourself and say no. And somebody needs to tell us to

  274. suck it up and move on. Get rid of that thing, get rid

  275. of it completely. I had in sports, this was, I

  276. know the sports really helps me understand this concept because

  277. I was a hard worker in sports and and I tried to lead the team

  278. I was on with my work ethic. You know, we would always have

  279. weight training in addition to our practices.

  280. And so I tried to do my best in there, but I had days where I

  281. was being a Sissy and we all have that where you're just,

  282. you're just, I'm trying and I'm feeling weak.

  283. And one day I was supposed to be the one leading the other group

  284. and I was having that, that mental whining going on, you

  285. know, like you're, you feel like I'm dragging today.

  286. And the coach who does not normally have to say anything to

  287. me, called me some things that I'm not going to repeat in here

  288. and lit my fire. He called me out for being a

  289. Sissy, in other words. And I needed that because after

  290. he said that I had all the motivation in the world.

  291. And I started working harder then and every day after that.

  292. Then I started to feel a sense of like, I don't feel like it

  293. today. I thought of that and it made me

  294. work hard. Now, I didn't live in fear of

  295. his criticism. It wasn't a negative thing.

  296. It was I don't have to stay in a mindset that allows myself to

  297. perpetually whine and gripe about what I'm doing, even if

  298. it's hard. And I learned a different

  299. mindset because of that. And I think spiritually I need

  300. that sometimes. And certain people have told me

  301. certain things where you're like, you're right, I don't have

  302. to stay in the sin. I have a choice whether I walk

  303. away from it or not. And I have a choice whether I

  304. draw boundaries for myself and further increments away from

  305. that so that I do not go near that.

  306. So maybe you need that, maybe you don't.

  307. But whatever the case is the, the always the answer moving

  308. forward is you need to focus on right now.

  309. What are you going to do now? If you struggle with habitual

  310. sin that's past, what are you going to do now and make your

  311. decision now to follow God And if you have things maybe that

  312. you're dealing with things that make it a call like that just

  313. feel overwhelming. You're like, I I'm just stuck.

  314. That's often times where you need help.

  315. You need somebody's help and that's OK.

  316. Talk to somebody, say I need you to help me bear these burdens

  317. and so fulfill the law of Christ.

  318. The Bible says carry, have someone else help you carry your

  319. burdens. That's fine.

  320. That is doing your best. Soliciting the help of other

  321. believers is just fine. OK, so no one who lives in him

  322. keeps on sinning. We make a pattern.

  323. We make a new path to not continue in sin.

  324. Verse 7. Little children, let no one

  325. deceive you. He who practices righteousness

  326. is righteous just as he is righteous.

  327. He's don't, don't make it overcomplicated.

  328. People can make it about everything that it's not.

  329. If you listen to some religious discussions, it's all about

  330. everything except for what are you doing?

  331. And he says don't let anybody deceive you.

  332. Don't deceive yourself. Don't deceive anybody else.

  333. Don't perpetuate this lie. That is against the fact that if

  334. you are practicing righteousness, you are

  335. righteous. It's sometimes that simple.

  336. But he who sins, verse 8, is of the devil, for the devil has

  337. sinned from the beginning. The line is clear.

  338. But remember, this doesn't just mean, oh, if you practice

  339. righteous and you do all the right things, then then you're

  340. holy and better than everybody. But remember, righteousness,

  341. true righteousness, is the right heart too.

  342. So no one could criticize this sentence and say, well, that's

  343. how you get a bunch of high haughty people.

  344. Well, no, because the right heart is absolutely at the

  345. center of righteousness. So there's no room for criticism

  346. of the Scripture there. There is no righteousness

  347. without righteous motive. The brass tacks.

  348. Maybe there's people who had the anointing we studied last time

  349. and they said, no, it's this, it's that about the anointing.

  350. No, it's who practices it for this purpose.

  351. The Son of God was manifested that he might destroy the works

  352. of the devil. Whoever has been born of God

  353. does not sin, for his seed remains in him and he cannot sin

  354. because he has been born of God. There's another concerning

  355. phrase. Wait, it says you can't sin.

  356. See, they said it's impossible. It's a generalized statement.

  357. If you have God's Spirit living in you, it counteracts the evil.

  358. And so it's a very general, you don't have to make this as as

  359. specific as it's impossible to sin.

  360. It's that sin is going against the new life, the new heart, the

  361. new everything that God is putting inside of you and

  362. working in you. So you can't continue to live in

  363. sin because of that. God's working in you in a way

  364. that you can't. Two things don't go together.

  365. It's like oil and water. Oil and water don't mix.

  366. It's kind of like a general statement he's making because

  367. those two things do not go together.

  368. Those who are born of God have a totally different approach to

  369. life. Verse 10 In this, the children

  370. of God and the children of the devil are manifest.

  371. This is a pretty big deal. He just drew a hard line in the

  372. sand. Whoever, whoever does not

  373. practice righteousness is not of God, nor is he who does not love

  374. his brother. There's a lot of social media

  375. these days and there's a lot of media that connects people in

  376. Word from a long way apart. And one of the hard things about

  377. that is people. You, you can hear people from

  378. all over saying different things and you have no idea who they

  379. really are. So I encourage all of us to try

  380. to live more closely in the circles where you actually

  381. communicate and not live in these far off circles where you

  382. don't really see people's actions because it can be really

  383. confusing. And you by the Bible says by

  384. their fruits, you shall know them.

  385. So when you're listening to somebody, you're talking to them

  386. and you're trying to better understand them and, and, and

  387. God's plan and everything, it can be confusing if you don't

  388. see the whole life, But when you see their fruits, it's going to

  389. make certain things. You're going to understand God's

  390. plan. You're going to understand how

  391. to understand people, how to, how to hear people, because

  392. there's people all over the world who claim one thing.

  393. There's how many mega preachers have we heard about who mega

  394. church preachers who were living double lives the entire time.

  395. Focus on our circles and we can have relationships that prove

  396. the law of God and that maybe disprove other things and make

  397. it more clear for us God's plan and God's ways when we focus on

  398. the people who are around us. Nor is he righteous who does not

  399. love his brother. He's given us more tests.

  400. Remember throughout this letter he say this is how you know.

  401. This is how you know, and this is one of the tests.

  402. If you do not practice righteousness and if you do not

  403. love your brother, you are not of God.

  404. Verse 11 For this is the message that you heard from the

  405. beginning, that we should love one another, not as Cain who was

  406. of the wicked one and murdered his brother.

  407. And why did he murder him? Because his works were evil and

  408. his brother's righteous. You know, if if you had cane

  409. side, maybe you have a long list of reasons why that dynamic kind

  410. of went sour. And it's kind of a toxic

  411. relationship. Sometimes people do that kind of

  412. stuff and they make it all complicated and muddy.

  413. He says it's this simple. His works were evil and his

  414. brothers were righteous. Now all he had to do was repent.

  415. It would have been fine in God's sight, but that's what caused

  416. him to lash out and anger. Verse 13 Do not marvel, my

  417. brethren, if the world hates you, don't be surprised.

  418. We know that we have passed from death to life because we love

  419. the brethren. So he's going to talk for a

  420. little bit about some things to do about loving the brothers.

  421. And I do believe, yes, we have a responsibility to all the world.

  422. We have a responsibility to anyone we might come in contact

  423. with in the world. But the things he's going to say

  424. are very specifically directed, I believe, at the brethren, the

  425. brothers and sisters in the body.

  426. And this is this is an intense call to action.

  427. So I, when I read this, I found myself more challenged than I

  428. have been in the past to honor you all and to honor my brothers

  429. and sisters in a way that maybe I hadn't realized the level we

  430. are called to. He says he who does not love his

  431. brother abides in death. Whatever, whoever hates his

  432. brother is a murderer. And you know that no murderer

  433. has eternal life abiding in him. By this we know love because he

  434. laid down his life for us. So he just said, love your

  435. brother. So what does it look like to

  436. love a brother? By this he laid down his life

  437. for us. And we also ought to lay down

  438. our lives for the brethren. That is a radical way of looking

  439. at the world in every circumstance.

  440. What is the best thing I can do for you?

  441. What is the best thing I could do for you?

  442. What is the best thing I can do for every person in my life is

  443. particularly the brethren up to the point of dying for them.

  444. Most people do not need you to die for them.

  445. I don't know anyone in my life right now that would need me to

  446. die for them. I don't know anyone that would

  447. get anything out of that. So we know that that's not

  448. required. It's kind of like when Jesus

  449. said, you know, he said, you know, there he was washing their

  450. feet and, and they said, well, they washed my whole body.

  451. He's like, you don't need that. You don't need me to wash your

  452. whole body because only your feet are dirty.

  453. You don't need to go around and dying for people because that's

  454. not what they need. People need you to lay down

  455. their life for them in many ways, whatever that requires.

  456. I heard an analogy given one time.

  457. They said, imagine your whole life, everything you had to

  458. give. Maybe that giving is physically

  459. or maybe it's your effort. You have $100 to give in your

  460. life. God does not give us $100 bill

  461. because you'd walk out, hand them that person, maybe die for

  462. them, and you'd check your bill and you walk right out and

  463. you're done. But instead, God gives us a

  464. whole lot of pennies. He gives us bags and bags and

  465. bags of pennies and he says lay down your life for them.

  466. If you're going to give everything you have to those

  467. around you and to the world and to your brothers, that $100, you

  468. got to do it 1 penny at a time. And that is exhausting just

  469. thinking about that hand out a lot of pennies.

  470. It's exhausting, but it's what's needed.

  471. The one by one action of goodness and love is what Jesus

  472. has called us to, and it's the example that he left because he

  473. died at 3033. He died after living a lot of

  474. life. He didn't just pop in and pop

  475. out. He gave everything day after

  476. day, exhaustion after exhaustion.

  477. You know, that's why many extremist Muslims have died in

  478. the world, because they have in the Quran, it says that if you

  479. die for the holy war, the jihad, if you die in the middle of

  480. that, you have a free pass to their heaven.

  481. That is that mentality. Hey, give me one shot.

  482. I'll do it. I'll be done and I get in, get

  483. out. Three minutes of bravery can

  484. give you an eternity in in your paradise, right?

  485. Well, we know that that's, that's a human way of thinking.

  486. It's easy way out, really. He calls us to every single day

  487. give pennies of that $100 to the point that we have given all and

  488. service to the people around us. And this, his picture I actually

  489. got was, was actually a real picture.

  490. They found this guy, his name was John Reyes and he was in LA.

  491. He had, he had been going through his father's, his late

  492. father's things. And he went into the crawl

  493. space, into the house and found 1,000,000 pennies.

  494. And that was about $10,000 worth of pennies.

  495. So funny little, it doesn't really apply to the analogy

  496. we're talking about right now, but it does take patience and

  497. consistency to give what God has given us.

  498. And in this sense, we lay down our lives for the brethren.

  499. I like that picture. As you think about someone

  500. coming and bringing something and laying it down in front of

  501. somebody else humbly, maybe with a head bowed down, imagine doing

  502. that to the person you're sitting across from or next to

  503. or down the road from you. That is the mentality he calls

  504. us to specifically to our brothers and sisters that you

  505. would maybe to the person in here that you don't even know

  506. very well. Your responsibility is to bring

  507. your life and to lay it down in front of them, whatever that

  508. means, whatever they would need. And that takes intentionality

  509. that I have maybe not devoted as I should.

  510. That takes a level of focus and looking into needs, not being

  511. nosy but but looking out for others that I have not done

  512. before. But whoever has this world's

  513. goods and sees his brother in need and shuts up his heart from

  514. him. How does the love of God abide

  515. in him? He asked a rhetorical question

  516. like how is that you We've been talking about the the what

  517. manner of love verse one that the father has bestowed on us

  518. that we would be called children of God.

  519. We look at that and we say wow, and and he says, how could that

  520. love be in us if we don't respond to the needs of our

  521. brethren with this kind of love and sacrifice and love for

  522. others? That is a shocking level of

  523. responsibility and love. Verse 18 my little children, let

  524. us not love in Word or in tongue, but in deed and in

  525. truth. He specifies how this love

  526. happens. He says put it into action.

  527. He's not implying that words themselves don't have value.

  528. He is elevating how important it is that our love take tangible

  529. action for the people around us that we say we love.

  530. Sometimes what is needed is emotional support and maybe you

  531. talk a little bit, maybe you don't talk much at all and but

  532. communication, that's what they need.

  533. Maybe so he's not devaluing that, but the core of it is the

  534. deed. What is the deed that I'm going

  535. to do and what's the problem? Why is this such a big deal?

  536. Words deceive, actions reveal. Have you ever seen somebody

  537. doing something and been been been confused by it?

  538. Not really. I when I see somebody doing

  539. something, I feel like I understand exactly what they're

  540. doing. But I've been, I've been

  541. confused many times or deceived when someone says one thing and

  542. I don't get the same picture somewhere else.

  543. Words deceive and actions reveal, but you know who?

  544. You know what they really deceive and you know who they

  545. really reveal to. It's not as big of a deal maybe

  546. as other people, but the people that they really reveal and

  547. deceive to is us. Verse 19, He says, and by this,

  548. by the deeds that he just referenced, we know that we are

  549. of the truth in this conversation of assurance.

  550. If we are not doing deeds of good love, they would reflect

  551. laying down our lives to others. If we don't do that, he says,

  552. well, he says the counter. He says by doing this, by laying

  553. down your life for the brethren, you know that you're of the

  554. truth. That's how you draw confidence.

  555. That's how you start to realize, man, I, I'm doing this thing.

  556. When I first started my Christian walk, I wasn't really

  557. confident, You know, am I really cut up for this?

  558. Am I too far gone? Am I, am I too sinful for God to

  559. save? But now that I'm making some

  560. progress and I'm active and I'm doing the love of God, I'm

  561. starting to feel like God's right.

  562. I am doing it. I am impossible to save and I am

  563. doing this. Not that you're earning your

  564. salvation in any way, but he says by this kind of active love

  565. we know that we're of the truth and shall assure our hearts

  566. before him. God has a great role in teaching

  567. us, as we're going to see in a minute, and assuring our hearts.

  568. But the very clear distinction here is when you do good, you

  569. develop more assurance. And I know for sure myself

  570. that's the case. There have been times where when

  571. I did something for someone, I walked away feeling peace in my

  572. heart. Not, not glory for me, not pride

  573. in me, but peace. And the more I've gotten older,

  574. I've realized that peace is because I'm having confidence

  575. that hey, I am a biblical Christian.

  576. I don't have to wonder if this guy 2000 years ago really has an

  577. influence on me because I see it and I can see it in actions that

  578. are becoming tangible and that assures our hearts.

  579. Now I will add this. It may not be a quick fix.

  580. People have said it before and you've heard it.

  581. Doing, doing, doing, doing, doing more doesn't always solve

  582. every problem in your life. And I'm not implying that.

  583. I'm not saying if you just run yourself ragged doing good deeds

  584. that you're just going to all of a sudden be this frazzled at

  585. peace human. You're you're not you're you may

  586. still have other things that you're dealing with internally

  587. that need to get settled down and worked out to where you're

  588. at peace. But this is the general recipe.

  589. James too has some things to say about this.

  590. He says, what does it profit, my brethren?

  591. If someone says he has faith but does not have works?

  592. Can faith save him? If a brother or sister is naked

  593. and destitute of daily food, and one of you says to them, depart

  594. in peace, be warmed and filled, but you do not give them the

  595. things that they're needed for the body, what does it profit?

  596. That's also faith by itself. If it does not have works, is

  597. dead. You see that the saying did

  598. nothing, as he already told us in first John.

  599. But someone will say you have faith and I have works.

  600. Show me your faith without your works, and I will show you my

  601. faith by my works. There it is.

  602. There's that note of confidence. The Christian draws confidence

  603. by knowing that their works reflect who they really are.

  604. So much of the religious world, if I listen to a commentator,

  605. it's like they beat works completely out the door and and

  606. it's just discouraging. It's like, well, how do you know

  607. then? Well, it's just in your heart.

  608. It's like, well, I mean, there's there's nothing wrong with the

  609. idea that faith is working in you, but you don't beat works

  610. out the door to where people have no idea where they stand.

  611. If you do it, you know it and you have peace.

  612. It's simple in that sense. You believe that there's one

  613. God, you do well, good for you. Even the demons believe and

  614. tremble. He goes on the same verse 26 For

  615. as the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without works

  616. is dead. Also.

  617. We talked about the beginning, finding a Christian pulse, the

  618. assurance of our spiritual life. Works are your pulse.

  619. Works do not earn you salvation, but it is indicator of whether

  620. you are alive or not. And you can't live without life

  621. and without action. So he goes on to say after we've

  622. kind of taken a tangent, but on the note verse 19 said, let's

  623. get our flow again. And by this we know that we are

  624. of the truth and shall assure our hearts before Him.

  625. For if our heart condemns us, God is greater than our heart

  626. and knows all things. There are kind of two sides of

  627. this coin. I think there's a maybe a more

  628. clear emphasis here. And I think the clear emphasis

  629. he's making is God is sure, even if you aren't, God is sure about

  630. your salvation and about your standing with Him.

  631. Even if you don't have confidence all the time in it,

  632. that is a great assurance. That is a wonderful piece that

  633. God knows you even when your heart may condemn you.

  634. Jeremiah 17 says this, but blessed is the one who trusts in

  635. the Lord, whose confidence is in him.

  636. They'll be like a tree planted by the water that send out its

  637. roots by the stream. It does not fear when the heat

  638. comes. Its leaves are always green.

  639. It has no worries and a year of drought and never fails to bear

  640. fruit. This is the NIV.

  641. The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure.

  642. Your heart can deceive you against truth and what's right,

  643. but it can also deceive you about your right standing with

  644. God. There are plenty of people, and

  645. I've experienced this, where my heart was condemning me when it

  646. shouldn't have and it made me lose peace.

  647. The writer Jeremiah says the heart is deceitful.

  648. Don't look at your heart like it's the gold standard.

  649. Sometimes you have to. And I've had to in my life by

  650. experience, pry away from the idea that my heart is really the

  651. guide, even if it would be more critical than Scripture.

  652. Sometimes we think, well, as long as my heart's more critical

  653. than God's Word, then I'm good, right?

  654. Well, not necessarily because you can live a tormented life.

  655. He says it is beyond cure. Who can understand it?

  656. Sometimes that's the way our minds work.

  657. Who can understand the way my mind is working?

  658. But God is greater than our hearts.

  659. First John says, verse 10 said I, the Lord, search the heart

  660. and examine the mind. That's the consolation from

  661. Jeremiah is that God really sees.

  662. And if you don't know where you stand, don't worry.

  663. God knows perfectly well where you stand.

  664. He searches your heart and he will know you.

  665. That's the greater reality. Something else to remember in

  666. the same conversation is personality follows you into

  667. your faith. So maybe you're somebody who's

  668. overly conscious as a general person.

  669. Maybe it's school. Maybe everything you do, you're

  670. like very conscientious about it.

  671. Some people fly right through the day and they don't.

  672. They're not too worried. They're I'm doing my best, but I

  673. don't need to get too hung up on anything.

  674. It's not a bad thing. It's just maybe they're more

  675. personality, your personality and who you are as a person is

  676. going to follow you in your faith.

  677. They're not separate. That's who you are.

  678. Just like we understand Peter was a kind of an audacious

  679. person and when he became in the Kingdom, he was audacious in the

  680. Kingdom, and sometimes for good and sometimes not so good, his

  681. faith followed him. Thomas, that's another one I

  682. thought of just off the top of my head where he was called

  683. doubting Thomas or Thomas. Why did you doubt?

  684. Maybe he was a skeptical person as it was.

  685. We we read about some of the more prominent figures, but

  686. there's all kinds of personalities below that

  687. threshold of audacious that exists that influence your

  688. perspective spiritually. So we have to learn to navigate

  689. our own personality. So how do we see reality?

  690. Here's how we see reality. James 1 is not really focusing

  691. on this topic, but it's a clue in there that I found really

  692. helpful in this study. James one verse 23 says for if

  693. anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he's like a man

  694. observing his natural face in a mirror.

  695. For he observes himself, goes away, and immediately forgets

  696. what kind of man he was. I'm not focusing so much on what

  697. James is talking about in context, but there he makes a

  698. reference about what scripture does.

  699. Get this. If anyone is a hearer of the

  700. word, hearing the word of God allows you to observe the

  701. natural face in the mirror. What's he saying?

  702. He says when you see God's word and when you study it, it shows

  703. you who you really are. It shows you reality, it shows

  704. you truth. Now he's saying, unfortunately,

  705. often times we walk away from it and forget reality about who we

  706. are. But I, I like that thought that

  707. we, we can stick with that, that if I want to see me, if I want

  708. to grow and seeing myself for what I really AM and what

  709. everything really is. Instead of being unconfident

  710. and, and, and whatever you might say over conscientious, continue

  711. to look into the word of God and stay with it because it will

  712. give you a clear pers, a clearer perspective on who you really

  713. are and how everything else really is like a mirror in front

  714. of your face. Don't let go of that, even when

  715. it's confusing. You know, no matter how long it

  716. takes, it took me a long time for some of these things.

  717. That's how we see reality. One last note on this idea,

  718. they, there's a study done by these two men, Dunny and Kruger,

  719. and, and they had, they coined this term the Dunning Kruger

  720. effect, which is a cognitive bias that when you are

  721. inexperienced at something, you overestimate your ability and

  722. when you're experienced at something, you underestimate

  723. your ability. That's pretty straightforward.

  724. You see someone who's like done something a couple times, like

  725. I'm feeling pretty good about it.

  726. They've only had a couple of isolated circumstances and their

  727. confidence levels may be higher than it should be.

  728. It's inflated, whereas people who have been doing something

  729. for a long time realize all the nuances of every skill and all

  730. the details that go into making good plans.

  731. If you're doing architectural drawings and figuring out design

  732. attributes of a building, there's so much nuance to

  733. someone who's really experienced, understands how

  734. good some people are, and they underestimate themselves

  735. sometimes. So there's a cognitive bias you

  736. may have maybe that influences this.

  737. Maybe the more you try, the more you realize your own weakness.

  738. And that's echoed in Romans. I'm not going to read the whole

  739. thing forsake of time, but Paul's basically saying when I

  740. started, when I saw the law of God, it showed me all the wrong

  741. inside of me and it showed me all my flaws and it it just made

  742. it worse. It seemed like it made the fight

  743. harder. It made it me feel like there's

  744. so much more sin to take care of.

  745. That's kind of what happens when God starts to work in me.

  746. He sometimes those things become revealed.

  747. Here's the assurance. When we have humble hearts,

  748. God's word will cut, and that's a good thing.

  749. But assurance is necessary. And that assurance comes from

  750. God knowing our hearts and from him encouraging us to do good so

  751. that our hearts fully see, hey, you're doing this thing.

  752. Now the negative side of this, just real quick, it's short.

  753. If even our hearts know if we're in the wrong, God says, trust

  754. me, I know there's no getting away from God.

  755. If even our hearts condemn us and we are truly and wrong, God

  756. knows even better than our hearts.

  757. So let's get the flow of what he said.

  758. My little children, let us not love in Word or in tongue, but

  759. in deed and in truth. And by this we know that we are

  760. of the truth and shall assure our hearts before Him.

  761. For if our heart condemns us, God is greater than our heart

  762. and knows all things. New stuff, here it comes,

  763. beloved. If our heart does not condemn

  764. us, we have confidence toward God.

  765. That is awesome. And whatever we receive from Him

  766. because we keep His commandments and do those things that are

  767. pleasing in His sight. So the flow of thought was, if

  768. you do right, that assures your heart.

  769. And when you assure your heart you have confidence before Him,

  770. and when you have confidence before Him, you ask Him for

  771. things and He gives them to you. That's awesome.

  772. When we have confidence before God because we're doing right,

  773. we ask things for Him and He and whatever we ask we receive

  774. because of the good that we show that we are on his side, that we

  775. are interested in his purposes and we want to we want his

  776. commandments to be at the forefront.

  777. We do those things that are pleasing in his sight and this

  778. is his commandment that we should believe on the name of

  779. his Son, Jesus Christ and love one another as he gave us

  780. commandment. You know what's funny is the

  781. commandment that they're obeying the whole time was the action,

  782. but he called it here. Believe on belief, on the name

  783. of the Son of God and loving one another.

  784. So if anyone wants to tell you, you know it's about belief and

  785. love. Yes.

  786. Well, how does he say you know you believe in you love by doing

  787. these good things. It's really pretty simple.

  788. The command to believe and to love is manifested in her

  789. actions as Jesus commanded us and that pleases him.

  790. Now He who keeps His commandments abides in Him, and

  791. He and Him, there's the unity and the closeness that you don't

  792. want to feel like Jesus was a long time ago.

  793. He's moved on from you. We're together in Him by this.

  794. We know that He abides in us by the Spirit whom He has given us.

  795. When I read this, I feel the tide waters calmly wash over

  796. reading this and we have great peace knowing that we can be in

  797. Him and we can be assured of that.

  798. And today you are not assured. He's given us a clear outline

  799. for Howard. Remember, John is a book of

  800. overview and and broad concepts. So we didn't flesh out every

  801. detail of what it means to be a complete Christian.

  802. That takes time, that takes understanding.

  803. And but you can start the walk by believing and hearing the

  804. word of God creates belief in US.

  805. And because of that belief, we respond with a repentant heart

  806. and we say, I'm going to change from doing my will and go to

  807. God's will. And we confess that Jesus Christ

  808. is the Son of God. There's no other name by which

  809. we may be saved under heaven by than by him.

  810. And we are baptized into Christ for the mission of our sins.

  811. And if you've already done that and you need to make it right

  812. and need to make something right with the brethren, we're happy

  813. to help you if there's anything we can pray for while we stand

  814. and while we sit.