Sermon
Faith Through Life's Seasons | Greg Branch
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Well, it is good to be worshipping again this
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afternoon. It's good to see everyone that's
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here. And as I announced this morning,
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we're going to talk for a little while this afternoon on faith
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through life seasons. And by this, I'm talking about
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from all the way from the young ones who were just old enough to
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understand a little bit of what I say today.
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I'm going to put it in the front.
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So if we lose their attention, that'll be all right, all right,
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we'll deal with it all the way through the different seasons of
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life. We're going to start with
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Hebrews 11 and one where it says now faith is the substance of
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things hoped for and the evidence of things not seen.
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The outline we're going to cover is children.
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When I say children in this first aspect, I'm talking about
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those who you're under your parents authority, you're still
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living at home, you know, mom and dad get to tell you what to
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do. What does faith look like for
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someone in that age group? It exists.
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We know it exists. There's examples of it.
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I won't spend time on that at this point.
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But anybody that's of this age that they understand, they
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understand they have faith on some level.
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Our children at very young age 5-6 started talking about one to
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be baptized very young. They they're getting this.
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They have a level of faith. But I would say at those ages we
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talked to them, they didn't understand sin.
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They just knew they believed in this God and they knew they,
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they trusted what was around them.
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That grew until the point they were making decisions for
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themself that they wanted to commit their life to God and
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they knew they needed him. But these children we're talking
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about, you're under your parents authority.
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You live at home, you know, they get to tell you what to do.
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Young men and women. Now, for this, I don't actually
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have a parenthetical explanation, but this is
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basically any number of young people up until you're married
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and you have your own home. Sometimes these young people are
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still living at home. And in a way, mom and dad get to
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say what to do. After all, they got to pay the
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bills. And so you can't tick them off
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too much. But at the same time, you've got
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freedoms. You can go out, you can go drive
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somewhere, and they're not going to know what you're doing.
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Faith is important in this season of life when mom and dad
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maybe still have some pretty serious influence in your life,
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but they can't really enforce it all the time.
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Marriage. Now you've got your own home.
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The perfect and the painful. Both seasons of perfect and
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painful need faith. Without it, they can be very
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disruptive. Raising children.
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The perfect and the painful raising children can be great.
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Raising children can seem like what in the world?
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How are we going to get through this?
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Faith is required in both those senses.
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The empty nest when the kids are all gone, you know, many when I
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was young, I thought, well, man, that's when faith is like
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coasting. And I've come to find out not
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only in my own life, but in the life of a lot of others, When
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the fam, when the nest becomes empty, faith sometimes is you
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face your greatest challenge when the load gets too heavy.
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This applies to every one of these groups.
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When you just don't think you can do it anymore.
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What is faith? What's the rule for faith there?
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And when the end is near, when I'm talking about the end, I'm
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talking about death, that when we get to the point that we
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realize it's happening, am I ready?
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How are we going to deal with this?
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Faith is important every one of these seasons of life.
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And so for a few minutes you're like, how are we going to cover
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all that territory in such a short amount of time?
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We got to concentrate back on Hebrews 11 and one faith.
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What is the word faith there? It comes from a Greek word,
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literally means persuasion or conviction of the truth.
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When I use this word faith, I'm saying it's something you are
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persuaded about. You are convicted.
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It's right. I told you this morning,
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everybody that has ever lived on the face of this earth,
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everybody that lives right now, has ever lived throughout time.
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They lived by faith. Even the atheist, everybody
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lives by faith. They are convicted, they are
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persuaded by something that they can't prove.
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Sometimes they'll say they're going to stand behind science,
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but you keep chasing them down that rabbit hole of what they
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call science and they get to something that depending on the
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generation you're in. When I was at the peak of it, it
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was dark matter and that was their word for saying they knew.
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When they look at all the energy in the universe, they can still
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only find 10% of the amount of energy needed to create what
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exists in this universe. They need more energy and they
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find it in dark matter. And you know what that is for
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them? It's in a parallel dimension.
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Now the Christian says, we've been telling you all along
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there's a parallel dimension. There's a God there.
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It's not dark matter, It's the light.
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Light and darkness even in this realm is over it.
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Faith, it's what you believe in. It's what you're persuaded
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about, what you're convicted of. It's the substance comes from a
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Greek word literally means to set under.
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This is going to hold you up. This is something that's going
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to support things. It's a foundation or a thing put
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under things hoped for. Now this word hope here is not
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like hope as in well, maybe I don't know, I hope it happens.
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This is hope as in an earnest expectation literally means to
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expect or to trust it's going to happen.
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That's this hope. It's not Maybe I just kind of
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hope. So this is, this is my hope.
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This is where I am placing my trust.
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Your faith, your conviction is the foundation that supports
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your expectations. Whatever you expect out of life,
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that's because of faith. Now, sometimes we learn it
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through repetition. It's like I know that if I fill
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my gas tank up or my diesel tank on my truck, I'm going to make
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it about 300 miles. I have faith that's going to
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happen. I have faith I can get back on
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the highway and go again. It's I expect it.
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It's happens over and over. People do it all the time.
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That is this kind of hope. It's something you expect.
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Your faith is the conviction or the foundation that supports
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whatever you expect. Faith also is the evidence of
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things not seen. Again, it's the exact same word,
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faith, which means things you're persuaded about, things you're
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convicted of. Evidence comes from a Greek
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word, means proof. This word is only used one other
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time in the New Testament. And so I'm going to take the
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time real quick to point it out to you.
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It's Second Timothy 316 or yeah. All Scripture is given by the
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inspiration of God. It is profitable for doctrine,
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for reproof, for correction, for instruction and righteousness.
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This word reproof is the exact same Greek word that's used.
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It's called proof in Hebrews 11 and one this, I don't know about
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you. This resets my understanding of
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what Scripture is good for. I kind of have set that as in
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reproof as being something to fix.
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It's a proof. Now when things get proven to
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us, we do fix it when it says, look, I can prove to you that's
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what we commune the way we did this morning.
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It's because of the Bible and we see it and you say, OK, I'm
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going to do it. Sometimes that means fix
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something. Sometimes that just simply means
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to prove it. Faith, this persuasion, there's
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conviction, is the proof we have for things not seen literally,
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things you can't look at to look at figuratively to understand
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this is really important as we get into the seasons of life.
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Our conviction, whatever we're persuaded out, will prove what
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we cannot understand. We'll prove things we can't look
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at. We just expect it's going to
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happen, and it's an earnest expectation.
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Your faith, your conviction is the proof for what you cannot
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look at or understand yet. How does Hebrews at 11 O1 apply
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to children? When you're at home, you're
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still telling mom and dad tells you what to do.
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I'm going to give you a hint as to how you can find out if you
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have faith in God's Word or not. Ephesians 6 and one says,
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children, obey your parents and the Lord, for this is right.
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Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment
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with promise that it may be well with you and you may live long
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on the earth. What child does not want to live
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long? What child wants to just die?
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I know some children that have been older on the child spectrum
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that we're embarrassed to death, but we want long lives, we want
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healthy lives, we want good lives.
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If you're a child, if you understand anything that this
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lesson is about right now, honor your father and mother, obey
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your parents because that is the first commandment that God ever
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gave to man under the old covenant, the 10 commandments
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that also came with the promise that it would be well with you
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and you may live long on the earth.
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Jesus, what a wonderful example of what to do as a young child.
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At 12 years old, he went to the feast of the Passover, the one
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we talked about this morning. He went there, the whole family
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went there. They went there and then when it
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was over, they were headed home. Do you remember they went a
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day's journey before Jesus parents realized he wasn't
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there. Now I've talked about this in a
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previous lesson. I won't go into all the details,
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but I can understand how somebody gets left alone.
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I told you this morning we had a huge family, the Butler site.
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We, we had people left in town because you just assumed they
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were in another truck. They were with somebody else.
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Jesus parents went a day's journey before they realized he
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wasn't there. They have to go another day's
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journey to get back to Jerusalem.
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The scripture says after three days they found him.
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And where did they find him? In the temple.
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He was listening to them. He was asking them questions.
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He was answering their questions.
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And his parents marveled at that.
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Do you remember that? What did they marvel at?
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Oh, you're so good. We need to just leave you here.
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This is where you belong. No, they said hers.
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Mother Mary said your father and I have sought you soaring.
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Where have you been? And what Jesus say, don't you
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want me to be about my father's business?
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Now listen, sometimes the reason kids don't obey their parents is
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because they don't we, they don't think Mom and Dad
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understand. They don't get me.
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They don't understand I need to do this and I can't do what they
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say. If ever a kid, if ever a child
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had parents that didn't understand and had pure motives,
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it was this. Jesus at 12 years old, he wanted
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to be in the temple. He wanted to be in Jerusalem
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hearing them, asking questions, answering their questions.
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Is that what happened? Luke 251 says.
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Then he went down with them and came to Nazareth and was subject
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to them. But his mother kept all these
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things in her heart. Jesus is a child, exemplified
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what it's like to obey your parents, to honor your father
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and mother at a time. He was fast and talking about a
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prodigy. They knew he was, the people
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knew he was, but he still humbled himself and he went home
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and he was subject. Do you have faith?
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We decide as children whether we have faith in God's will on this
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at all. What about young men and women?
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Timothy also speaks to this, or Paul did to Timothy.
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Let no one despise your youth, but be an example to the
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believers in Word, in conduct, in love, in spirit, in faith, in
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purity. Don't let people despise your
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youth. Now I didn't realize we didn't
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talk about whole Timothy was, but he's clearly talking to
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someone who's young and how the young should look at this.
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Early adulthood presents a lot of opportunities and
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temptations. Look, when when you finally
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realize nobody might actually give or catch you, you get some
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choices. These don't go way away in life.
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If if you're young and you think I'm just going to sow my wild
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oats, look, this doesn't go away.
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If you think you're going to do it while you're young and then
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you're just going to grow out of that, you need to meet some 60
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year olds. I know until you decide to walk
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in faith, you're not stepping away from it.
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This is a pattern we start as children.
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If you haven't started it, then do it in early adulthood.
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If you kept it, just keep going through it if you did before.
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Our faith, our conviction is what insulates us from bad
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choices when we can't see the harm in.
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And you insert the blank. Been around long enough for
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people that have said this Blank is filled in a lot of different
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ways, whether it's sexual purity, whether it's the kind of
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things we're ingesting and taking sobriety away from our
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bodies to taking a little money out of the the cash register
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where you work. People say, I just don't, I
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don't know. I can't see how it's really
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going to hurt anybody. Faith then becomes your
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conviction that insulates you from such a bad choice.
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Do we believe it? Do we not?
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You see, it's really simple. When we started this out, you're
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like, oh, how are we going to cover all that material?
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It's by putting our faith in God.
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Our faith and our conviction will need to be the proof for
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what? We can't look at what we can't
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understand yet when we can't see what's so wrong about whatever
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it is when we read the Bible, our faith has to say, but I'm
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going to do it anyway because that is what the Bible says.
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How do we place this in this section?
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I want to take marriage and raising children together.
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I realize a lot of married people never have children and
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they're fine with that. But most of the married people I
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know have children, and so I'm going to put them together
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because they offer a lot of the same circumstances.
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How do we deal with marriage and raising kids?
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The perfect and the painful fact is there are times when things
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are going great in marriages, in raising kids and people slip
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into worldliness and sinful choices.
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Been around long enough in the church and dealt with enough
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marriage problems. Sometimes they happen to people
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who's like, how in the world could you could this happen what
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everything looked perfect in your family and they'll say it
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was had no financial problems, had no real issues, but whatever
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this thing was came in this sin. It was like we behave like we
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don't need God. See things can getting going so
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smooth for people. They're like, I don't need God.
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I got a great life. So like I'm in some third world
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country where I can wonder where I'm going to eat next and I
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really need God. It's amazing that sometimes when
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things are so good, people can become disconnected from God and
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faith suffers. There are times when things are
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going horribly bad. Times when people slip into
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world in this and lose confidence in God.
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Thinking of one situation I had to deal with right now in which
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it it got to the point in this relationship because what seemed
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right was not happening, what seemed like God should be doing
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and the answer to all their prayers never happened.
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And because of the devastation inside to the answer being no to
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their prayer, it was almost like they behave like they don't need
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that kind of God. If God's not going to let me
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have XYZ, if God's not going to answer my prayer when I need
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this and it's just right, then I don't need that kind of God.
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That's what it seems like. Why would we take either of
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those positions? I submit it as simple as our
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faith, our faith, our conviction will need to be the proof for
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what we can't understand yet for what we can't look at when life
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has situations and look the scriptures are clear about
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marriage. We take a vow for marriage.
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It's for life what man, what God has joined together.
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Don't let man put us under and yet some marriages, people like
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I cannot live the rest of my life like this.
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Now they're not being beaten at night.
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They're not being it's not like they're worried about their
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life. They're just not happy with this
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person that they thought they knew.
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Yes, you can. You can make it.
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God's not just looking to make you miserable the rest of your
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life. You know the greatest enemy to
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contentment that I know of Choice.
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If you get a smorgasbord of stuff set out, you can have the
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hardest time trying to decide what to get.
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This potluck this afternoon. I don't want to be just stuffed
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of everything, but I all these choices and I can't have them
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all. So what I want to, if you had
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just put out, here's some chicken, here's a green salad
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and here's a Key Lime Pie or that apricot cobbler, but just
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one of each. You just eat it, you're happy,
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you get all those choices. And now contentment is like,
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well, but I'm going to get this and I'm going to be full.
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But then I didn't get to have that.
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Life is kind of like that. I know people that got married
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and didn't like who they married, who who the person they
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married turned out to be. The only thing that caused them
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to really split up was they figured they had a choice in the
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matter and they just go find another.
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The Christian doesn't have that choice.
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Fascinating thing. Statistics will prove this out.
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If you will stick to the choices you made, if you will stick to
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the vow that you made, you will be amazed that when this doesn't
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turn out, when you just do what God says in faith that it's
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better than it ever was before. Focus on the Family has a lot of
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research on this. I can't do all this and we're
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not really set up as a brotherhood to do it, but
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there's research done on this of I forgot.
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It was 10,000 or 12,000 couples that were at the point of ready
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for divorce that went ahead and enjoying what their focus group
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was about on trying to re establish and save these
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marriages. Over 85% of the marriages, the
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people that went into it reported when it was over, they
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were happier about the choice they made on who they married
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than they were on their honeymoon.
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Do you know what their whole focus of that was?
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This is over and you're talking almost 10,000 people that said
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it's even better than it was back then.
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People that completed the program, they had a 99% success
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rate on those marriages lasting. You know what they did?
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There were three main things that they did.
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They said they started worshipping together and riding
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in the same car to worship services.
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Like what's that have to do with anything?
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I don't know, but I can guess. But you don't need my guesses
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right now. They started worshipping
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together, going regularly. I don't know how they defined
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regularly. I know how the Bible defines
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regularly. But they went to church and they
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rode in the same car. That was 1 #2 Yeah, I'm going to
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tell you. Read the Bible.
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They just got them writing, reading the same literature and
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talking to one another about it. They didn't even require it was
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the Bible. I'd tell you, if you're not
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reading the Bible, man, that's the key.
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They got them reading the same literature and talking to one
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another. Had to be religious and #3 they
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got them to get actively involved in their place where
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they were worshiping. With what's going on, almost
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100% said our marriage is now better than it was when we first
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were madly in love with each other.
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Because now you're surrounding, you're running around a purpose.
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What happens when these people that fall in love are falling
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apart? They're no longer doing this
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together. We're just doing life and
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there's somebody that we got to drag with us.
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I submit faith. Their conviction will have to be
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the proof for what we can't see. If you can't see a path to
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happy, then you're going to have to believe it's there and just
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keep doing the right thing. The empty nest.
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What is the empty nest? Some people may say, I don't
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even know what you're talking about.
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Empty nest syndrome is a real thing.
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Empty nest syndrome is the name used to describe the sadness and
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distress parents sometimes feel when their children move away
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from home. This can be immediate.
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It can also take years. You may say, ma'am, my kids
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moved away a long time ago, everything was fine and all the
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sudden he's just not the same person.
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She's just depressed all the time.
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She's sad. It could be.
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Empty nest syndrome symptoms are sadness, anxiety, grief,
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irritability, a sense of fear. This can be especially difficult
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when you enter marital conflict into the problem.
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You know what? Most studies, and this is on the
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social side of things, point to lack of purpose.
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You've had all these kids, you've raised the children,
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however many they were. You've been busy, but it was
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over 1. You just gave them all your
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time. You had all this.
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And then when they're gone, it's like, what is the purpose now?
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What are we doing? People even begin to wonder if
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they know each other. And I would point you to Titus
Titus 2 chapter mention
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chapter 2 verses one through 5. Now this, I don't want to go on
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a lesson of this, but what you will find is that the older men
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and the older women are reminded that they have a purpose in the
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ministry of the church. Very specifically, the women are
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asked to teach the younger women, the older women, the
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younger women. One of the things is how to love
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their husbands. Interestingly enough, guys,
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we're never told to help teach people to love our lives.
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They're taught to teach to love us.
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You have a purpose, even when your kids are gone and you think
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I'm growing old or whatever it is.
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As we get older in life, the church needs us.
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The church needs you, you know. I know I have had young people
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at Oakdale tell me I almost didn't come tonight, but I
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thought, you know, Leon and Doty are going to be there.
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They'll name other older people. You may not know that you as an
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older person are the reason that some of the other people are
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here, just because they know you'll be here.
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You have a purpose now. I would really, as strong as I
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can, encourage you younger ladies to go and reach out to an
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older one and the older woman to reach out to let the younger
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ones know you're available because it's just not kind of
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where our culture seems to be in most places right now.
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There's always that fear of prying or that fear of trying to
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give advice where advice isn't wanted, but just try to offer
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your time to people. You are needed.
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The Lord needs you. The church needs you.
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Older men, everything that I just said could apply to that.
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Our faith, our conviction will need to be the proof for what we
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can't look at or understand yet. If in the empty nest phase of
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life we're saying what is my purpose?
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Faith is going to have to be the foundation that supports us
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through that. When the load's too heavy, any
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group can get to the point. You think you can't go far
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enough. I know you're on to me by now,
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but there are times in life that every direction we cannot see
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how it's going to work out. There is no way we see a path
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forward or a way that we're going to be happy.
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So I'll point you as we'll start to Romans chapter 5 in verse
Romans 5 chapter mention
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one. It says therefore, having been
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justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord
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Jesus Christ, through whom also we have access by faith into
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this grace in which we stand and rejoice in the hope of the glory
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of God. He says you're thinking past all
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this. You know, there are times in
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life we do that. The boys and I, we love to
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backpack. At first I think I loved it
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more. And I'd get home and I'd tell
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Rachel the boys did so good. You know, they were little.
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And now we get home and they're like, mom, Dad's doing so good.
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It's not as fun as it used to be the older I get, but I still
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want to do it. Why it hurts to breathe and walk
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up some of those mountains. And then I also know coming down
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may be hurt worse than going up did on the knees.
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Why do you do it? Do it for the time with them on
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the top of the mountain. Because there's nothing like it
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to me. Now.
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I can understand that on climbing and walking a path out
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in the middle of the wilderness. Surely I can get that when I
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think of this life as a mountain.
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Sometimes it's not fun. Sometimes we're just doing good
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to breathe and keep carrying the load because why in the world
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did I bring that? That is life.
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Sometimes we rejoice in the hope of the glory of God.
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Our faith, our conviction is the foundation of this hope.
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It's an expectation. I know what's there now.
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We have gotten where most of the times I want to go on the
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trails. I already know because I know
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what's at the other end. I know it's worth it.
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I used to like to go on any trail and just figure out and if
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it wasn't a good one, Oh well. Now I expect that I want to go
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somewhere. I expect to see something
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amazing. And not only that, don't answer
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yet. Don't buy yet.
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Not only that, we also glory in tribulations, knowing that
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tribulation produces perseverance, perseverance,
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character and character hope, he says.
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This process will produce hope. How is that?
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It's because some of you have already been through things in
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life that you didn't think you were going to make it through,
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and then you did. And you're here in this
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afternoon and you're like, OK, yeah, I've seen that happen
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before. You know what happens when we
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have success? The next time we face that same
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kind of deal, we're like, hey, remember it worked before we got
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success. There was a study they did with
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rats. I don't remember the name of the
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study. You can Google it and read the
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details of it, but they basically put rats in a VAT of
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water to see how long they live before they drowned.
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It was like a couple hours. And then they did another study
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where they did that again with a group of rats, but with another
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group of rats, at about the time they were given up and going to
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sink. They pulled them out, they dried
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them off, they fed them, let them recover, and they did put
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them in again. They found out the second time
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they lasted like about 6 hours before they were going to give
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up. They pulled them out, they dried
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them off, fed them, let them get all rested again, and they put
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them back in. They had rats that lasted over
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two days. Why?
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Because even a rat figured out that they could have hoped they
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were going to get rescued. They could hang on.
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Now, rats can do that. We can do that.
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No matter what we're going through, it'll be our faith.
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Our conviction becomes the foundation of the hope.
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Now hope does not disappoint because the love of God has been
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poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us.
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How does this work? There is a faith that surpasses
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understanding, the Scripture says.
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And according to the book of Romans, the Holy Spirit being
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poured out in our hearts has something to do with that.
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When the load seems too heavy, our faith, our conviction is the
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proof for what we can't look at or understand yet.
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Finally, as we bring these to to to a conclusion when the end is
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near, this lesson is it's a new one over the last year because
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there was one season of life that I really was not didn't
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feel equipped to even talk about.
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And that's the end. I've seen different people go
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through different seasons, but going through what we went
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through with mom was totally different.
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And it completed my experience with when the end is near in a
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lot of ways. Not completed that I'm there
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yet, not the completed that I think I can tell somebody all
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the right things. But here is the consistent thing
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every time, whether you have a long goodbye or you got a week
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to say everything you need to say, faith really comes down to
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the end. Romans chapter 8 verse 18 says,
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For I consider that the sufferings of this present time
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are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be
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revealed in US. I can't even compare what's the
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glory to whatever you're going through?
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That's that's lung cancer, that's anything.
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Nothing compares to the glory that would be revealed in us for
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we were saved in this hope. But hope that is seen is not
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hope for why does 1 still hope for what he sees?
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Think about that. You're like, well, I have hope,
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but I just need to see something.
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Well then it's not hope. You've seen it.
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This hope is this earnest expectation that's based on
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faith, not on something you can grasp.
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It's not hope when you see it. But if we hope for what we do
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not see, we eagerly wait for it with perseverance.
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This word perseverance means endurance.
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We will endure, and we will stay through.
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Likewise, the Spirit also helps in our weakness.
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Once again He brings the Spirit, for we do not know what we
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should pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself makes
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intercession with us, for us with groanings which cannot be
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uttered. Comes from a Greek word
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literally means unspeakable. The ESV says too deep for words.
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There are times that we get life.
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You don't even know what to pray for anymore as Cole prayed this
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afternoon and he says for there's some, we pray for
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health, but sometimes that's not the answer.
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And we now we don't know what to pray for.
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We want peace, we want comfort. Most of all, we want God's mercy
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and we want the peace that passes understanding that is
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this hope, this intercession. He says the Spirit makes
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intercession for us when we want to pray, but we don't know what
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to pray for. 2nd Corinthians 5 and 6.
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So now, so we are always confident, knowing that while we
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are home in the body, we are absent from the Lord, for we
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walk by faith and not by sight. When we're in this body, we're
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absent from the Lord. And he says, so in that case
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we're walking by faith, not by sight.
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We are confident, yes, well, please rather to be absent from
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the body and to be present with the Lord.
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Therefore we make it our aim, whether present or absent, to be
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well pleasing to him. He says he's come to the point
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that he realizes the end is better than what I have when I'm
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here in the body. Now, I got to admit there's
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times that's hard for Greg to imagine.
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I love my life. I love my wife.
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I love my kids. But now, if I'm real honest,
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I'll admit there's been times in that process.
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It's like, how can I do this today?
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Yeah, you can. How do I know I can?
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That's faith. How are we going to face that
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when we take something and we get to the end of life and say,
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I don't know how to deal with this?
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You're going to look back through childhood.
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You're going to look back when you were a young adult.
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You look at those years of the middle age and older, and you're
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going to think of all those times that you've seen God's
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will work even when your decisions were bad.
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Here you are today, even when you know some of the things that
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happened back then. Maybe you shouldn't even be
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alive today, and you are. That is all, equipping you for
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the hope you need for the end that there is hope, so that you
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can know that whether present here or absent from here and
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with the Lord, you want to be well pleasing to Him.
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For why we must all appear before the judgment seat of
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Christ, that each one may receive the things done in His
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body according to what He has done, whether good or bad.
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We know we will stand before the judgment seat of Christ.
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Somebody says, oh good, because Christ, he's merciful, He won't
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put anybody. Everything will be all good.
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Verse 11 Knowing therefore the terror of the Lord, we persuade
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men. I'm assuming you're the Sunday
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afternoon crowd. I'm preaching to the choir, but
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just in case I'm not and you're here just because whatever
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reason you're right or you're just curious, but you know
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you're not ready. Paul told the church here we
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persuade people because the terror of the Lord's real Jesus
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says I didn't come to judge the world, but the very next thing
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he says was, but the words that I speak, they shall judge them
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in the last day because they're not my words.
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God gave me these words. Paul knew that and therefore he
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says we persuade men. Can you relate to one of these
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life seasons We've talked about children trying to figure out
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what next. What am I supposed to be focus
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on honoring your parents focus on his will parents if they're
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too young to get this right now, focus on teaching them to obey
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you and honor you. You're like that honor part's
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hard. I can make them obey, but keep
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working. Best advice I can give is don't
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give up. Young men and young women
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confused about your future, Keep your faith on the Lord.
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Your marriage is struggling today.
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I'm going to tell you the Lord's going to be the thing that keeps
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it together. You're raising children and it
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feels overwhelming. I'm going to tell you that's the
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Lord and your faith in Him. That's going to keep it
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together. Your nest is empty.
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You've made it through those things, but you've now feel like
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blank and dole and you don't know what to do with it.
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Focus on the Lord. He's going to make it work.
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The load is just too heavy and you don't think you can naked in
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any of these. Focus on the Lord.
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The end is near and your life is fleeting away.
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It's the same answer in every season of life.
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It's focusing on the Lord. Your faith feels so weak and
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you're like I believe, but it just feels insufficient.
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The last example I'll leave you with this afternoon is the
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father of the boy with a mute spirit, as it describes it.
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It sounds like to me he had grand Mal seizures.
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I'm not a doctor, but he came to Jesus in Mark Chapter 9 verse
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18, and he said whenever it seizes him, it throws him down.
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He foams at the mouth, he gnashes his teeth and become
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rigid. I got it work for me when I did
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a job in Oklahoma. This is what happened on one of
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our days. OK, so when I think about that,
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being one of my kids, I can't imagine the anxiety of a parent.
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They didn't know as much about this back then, this thousands
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of years ago. He's begging with Jesus to
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please heal his son. And he asked his father, how
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long has this been happening to him?
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He said from the childhood. And often he's thrown himself
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both into the fire and into the water to destroy him.
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You already know we like to camp.
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We had the kids up this last hunting season, the last week,
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and it was cold and snowed and we had this fire and it was all
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cool, right? Except everybody's paranoid.
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The kids run around the fire. Somebody just falls that way,
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right? This man's son has thrown
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himself into the fire when he's had one of these seizures.
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If you can do anything, have compassion on us and help us.
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And Jesus said, if you can believe, all things are possible
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to him who believes and immediately the father of child
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cried out and said with tears, Lord, I believe, help my
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unbelief. I can relate to that.
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When you're you're here on a Sunday afternoon because you
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believe on some level, but you, there's just another level of
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belief you know, you need. What I'm going to say is you
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keep coming on Sunday afternoon. You keep coming.
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Do not give up. It is a relentless pursuit of
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this faith, as Peter says, until the day dawns and the day star
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rises in your hearts and it will happen.
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It absolutely will happen. Does your faith supports?
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Does your faith support the foundation of your hopes?
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Is your faith the proof of what you don't understand?
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If it's not Hebrews 11 and six, we talked about it this morning.
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Without faith, it's impossible to please Him.
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We need to repent. Luke 13 and three.
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We need to be willing to confess him before men.
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Romans 10 and 10 and be baptized.
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That's how we put on Christ. As many of you have been
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baptized into Christ, have put on Christ Today, if you're a
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Christian, you've obeyed the gospel, but you sinned and you
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know that you need to to change things.
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That doesn't mean you have to be re baptized.
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You can pray to God. He's willing, He's faithful and
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just to forgive you and cleanse you of all unrighteousness.
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First John 18 and 9:00. But if you want the prayers of
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the church according to James 516, then we'll pray with you.
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We'll pray for you. We want to encourage you.
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Keep the faith no matter what season you're in or what season
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you're headed to. If we can be of assistive
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evening, won't you come as we stand and see?