Sermon
The Balance of Liberty and Love in the Christian Life - Sunday Evening - October 13, 2024
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Hello and welcome to the Middletown Baptist Church podcast,
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where we are proclaiming the truth to the world.
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My name is Pastor Josh and I want to thank you for listening to
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this podcast.
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I hope that this podcast can be a blessing to you and strengthen
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you in the word of God.
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Now come along, let's look into the Bible and see what God has
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for us here today.
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We'll go ahead and get into the word here this evening.
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Now, how many of you had a really, really big lunch and you're
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ready for a nap?
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Oh boy, this is going to be a tough one.
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Then we are going to be getting into tonight a very complex
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issue within the church, and that is the relationship between
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our christian liberty and freedom and offending other brothers
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and sisters.
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Okay.
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And you would say, well, what?
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What are you talking about?
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As Christians, we have freedom, we have liberty.
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Let me ask, this is gonna be more of a teaching session, okay?
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Tonight it's gonna be a little bit different, so I hope you're okay
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with that.
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It's not gonna be as preachy as much as it is teaching because
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it's a necessity to teach through this.
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These are the topics that are not always brought out in church.
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Sadly enough, these are issues that sometimes get skipped over when
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we are looking at other more popular, easier to preach passages.
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But we're in the book of acts.
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You can go ahead and get ahead of me and get to acts, chapter 15.
Acts 15 chapter mention
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We are right in the middle of the Jerusalem council.
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Now, I know it's been a couple weeks.
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I know we had the McCluskeys here last week.
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I know we had a fifth Sunday before that.
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So it's been two whole Sunday nights since we've talked about this.
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And so I'm going to catch you up with what the Jerusalem council
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is and what we can learn from it.
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Okay?
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So this is a topic that we're gonna be talking about this evening
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that is sometimes glossed over or it's over emphasized on one side
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or the other.
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As Christians, do we live now under the law?
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Let me see, yes or no?
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Do we live under the law?
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No.
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We're thankful for that.
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Amen.
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Right?
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Guess what?
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You cannot keep the law.
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None of us can keep the law.
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Now do we throw out the law and say the law means nothing to
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us?
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No.
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There are things that we can learn from the heart of God in instituting
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the law, but there is something called abusing our liberty
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and offending another brother.
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We're going to talk about what the outcome of that would be within
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the church, specifically within the Jerusalem council.
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So let me catch you up with this.
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There's this church in Antioch that had Jews and gentiles as believers.
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And so they were fellowshiping together, they were worshiping together.
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And ultimately everything was going smoothly as best it could.
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And then there were some people that came from Jerusalem.
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That started to tell the people that everyone there had to
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be under the law of Moses.
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So to be a believer, to be a Christian, they had to adhere to
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circumcision, which meant this was the gateway to get into the faith.
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So you had to do that.
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You had to be marked by the law of Moses to become a Christian.
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And you had to keep the law to continue to be a Christian, to receive
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the grace of God.
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So they were preaching faith plus works, faith plus the law.
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And you can go back and look at that there.
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In the early part of acts 15.
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And certain men which came down from Judea.
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This is verse one, taught the brethren and said, except ye be circumcised
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after the manner of Moses, ye cannot be saved.
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And so there is the issue of salvation.
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Okay?
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So to come into the family of God, you must be circumcised.
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You must be part of the law of Moses.
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And be under the law of Moses like they had been for thousands
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of years.
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Okay?
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Then we see later on in verse five, it says.
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But there rose up a certain sect of the Pharisees.
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Which believed, saying that it was needful to circumcise them.
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So to get into the family of God, you had to follow the law.
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But then it says here, and to command them to keep the law of Moses.
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And so that speaks to, after they're saved, to follow the law
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of Moses.
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Or they would not be in God's good grace.
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And so there was this conflict.
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Because they had heard from Paul and from Barnabas.
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That it's by faith and faith alone.
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And now they're hearing that it's faith plus the law.
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So now they have to figure this out.
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So we have what's called the Jerusalem Council.
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All these people meet there in Jerusalem, and now they're going
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to have this council.
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And we see the first person talking here.
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It's Peter, verse seven.
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And when there had been much disputing, so there was a lot of
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conversation, there's a conflict.
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Some people believe this.
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Some people believe this.
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They're disputing.
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Then it says here, Peter rose up and said unto them, men and brethren,
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ye know how that a good while ago God made choice among us.
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That the gentiles by my mouth should hear the word of the gospel
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and believe.
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And God which knoweth the hearts, bear them witness, giving
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them the Holy Ghost even as he did unto us.
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And so Peter is the first one that steps up and says, no, God has
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said the gentiles can come in by faith and faith alone belief.
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That is the standard, just as it is a standard with us.
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Then he goes on to something very interesting here.
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He says that this is the same holy spirit that you have, that the
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Gentiles have.
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And he says, and put no difference between us and them, purifying
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their hearts by this is verse nine by faith.
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And so Peter is emphasizing salvation by faith alone.
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We're going to get to the importance of that here in a few
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moments.
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But then he says in verse ten something very interesting now, therefore,
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why tempt ye God to put a yoke or a burden upon the neck of the
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disciples?
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That's not just the twelve disciples.
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That's the followers of Christ, which neither our fathers
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nor we were able to bear.
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So Peter's essentially saying this.
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We weren't able to keep the law to save us.
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Our fathers weren't able to keep the law to save us.
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Why would we expect the gentiles now that are accepting Christ
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to keep the same law?
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We can't.
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That's something that God has not expected from them.
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And so we see that verse eleven, but we believe that through
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the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, we shall be saved even as
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day.
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Peter gives this great statement here at the Jerusalem council
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about salvation by faith alone, by God's grace, not by works.
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And so we see what happens here in verse twelve.
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The multitude kept silent.
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So they're thinking about what Peter just said and gave audience
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to Barnabas and Paul.
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So they're hearing the testimonies of these gentiles coming
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to Christ.
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And then it says, verse 13.
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And after they had held their peace, James answered, saying, men
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and brethren, hearken unto me.
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And so this is where we're gonna pick up now.
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James is going to add on to what Peter has said.
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Now who is this James?
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This is not the apostle James.
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The apostle James, as we already know, has been martyred by
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Herodore.
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So this is not the apostle James.
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This is James, the half brother of Jesus.
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This is James that wrote, and most commentators will believe that
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this is James that wrote the book of James.
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He was at this point in time a leader in the church at Jerusalem.
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So he holds a lot of weight.
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He holds a lot of authority.
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Now we don't believe that he holds authority above the word of
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God.
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That's a whole other teaching, and we don't need to get there right
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now.
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But there is no man that holds authority over the word of God.
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It's the word of God as our sole authority in faith and practice.
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So James is just discerning by the spirit here.
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And ultimately we know that they don't have the canon of scripture
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completed.
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So James is here, is explaining this teaching and this
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thought process.
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And so he says, men and brethren, hearken unto me.
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Simeon hath declared how God at the first did visit the Gentiles.
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He's talking about Peter here to take out of them a people for
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his name.
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And to this agree the words of the prophets as it is written.
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After this, I will return and will build again the tabernacle of
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David which has fallen down, and I will build again the ruins
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thereof.
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And I will set it up that the residue of men might seek after the
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Lord.
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And all the Gentiles upon whom my name is called, saith the Lord,
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who doeth all these things known unto God are all of his works
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from the beginning of the world.
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And so essentially what we see here is he's quoting the prophet,
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saying, this was a prophecy that is now being fulfilled, that
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God is going to engraft in the gentiles into the family of Goddesse.
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So he says, hey, this was already told to us that we don't
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need to be shocked about this.
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So he says, this is God's plan coming to pass.
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Wherefore my sentence is that we trouble, not them.
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So what James says, is this the same thing Peter says, don't
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trouble them with something more than what God expects from them.
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Don't trouble them with the law.
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If the law is not what saves us, don't expect them to do something
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to add on to their salvation.
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Now, we need to stop here, and we need to say this.
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Okay?
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None of us struggle with keeping the law of Moses.
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I don't think any of you read through the ten commandments or all
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613 commandments and say, well, you know what?
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We all need to keep that, or none of us are saved.
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I don't think we struggle with that.
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But sometimes what we end up struggling with is things that we've
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been taught by tradition that we think has to be added to have
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someone completely saved or to be growing in their faith.
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And so what we see here is Peter and James.
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And all of scripture tells us that if we add anything to the gospel,
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if we add anything to our faith, if we add anything to the
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grace of God, we're adding something that doesn't need to be
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there.
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That's the yoke of bondage.
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Now you're going to say, where are you going with this?
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Where I'm going with this is sometimes we can abuse this liberty.
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We're going to talk about that here in a few moments because James
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is about to say they're free to not be under the law of Moses,
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but there are some things that they need to do.
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You say what?
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He's contradicting himself.
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He just said that they're only saved by grace through faith.
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But now he's going to give them some guidelines.
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Well, we're going to talk about what these guidelines are here
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this evening.
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So he says, verse 19, wherefore my sentence is that we
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trouble them not, which from among the gentiles are turned to
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God.
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So don't trouble the gentiles that have turned to God.
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Don't put a stumbling block in front of them.
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Don't put a rock of offense in front of them.
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If they're trying to follow God, let them follow God.
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Don't give them something that.
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That we think is so important.
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Verse 20.
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But that we write unto them that they abstain from pollution
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of idols and from fornication and from things strangled and from
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blood.
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Say, what is he talking about here?
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Well, essentially what happens here is that James, this is, again,
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the half brother of Jesus, he says that there are some things that
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we would call them, quote unquote, rules or guidelines that
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the gentile Christians should live by.
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These were not rules that the Gentiles must follow in order to
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be saved or keep being saved.
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These were rules that would build harmony with the jewish people
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and the Gentiles, the jewish Christians and the gentile Christians.
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And so if the gentiles were to eat meat, sacrifice to idols, that
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would offend.
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If the gentiles ate the meat, it would offend the Jews.
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Right?
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And so there was something for the gentiles to do to not cause an
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offense with the Jews.
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And so that's what he's telling them here.
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And so, yes, they should abstain from fornication.
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They should abstain from the pollution of idols.
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But then we see this idea of them eating certain types of things,
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like they can't eat this meat that's strangled meat sacrificed
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to idols.
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This way of living was a very pagan way.
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And the four rules were essentially this.
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They should abstain from food polluted from idols.
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They should abstain from sexual immorality.
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They should abstain from meat of strangled animals and of that
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blood of those animals to not eat that blood.
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And so the instructions were not intended to guarantee salvation,
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but to promote peace within the early church.
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So I want you to think about it this way.
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Could these individuals actually eat meat sacrifice to idols?
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We're gonna dig into that here this evening.
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We're not gonna finish this complete message.
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This is a two parter.
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I can guarantee you that.
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But we're gonna see in other passages of scripture that Paul says,
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meat sacrifice to idols in and of itself isn't evil.
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Go ahead.
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You can do it.
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If it doesn't offend your conscience, do it.
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But then we see somewhat of a contradiction here.
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James says, don't eat meat sacrifice to idols.
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So what is he talking about here?
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Well, he's not talking about salvation.
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He's not talking about sin.
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He's talking about offending our brother.
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He's talking about offending someone within the church and going
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away.
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That would be in my purview as a Christian to live out, but it might
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offend my brother.
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And so we're going to dig a little bit deeper into that here
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tonight.
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And he says here in verse 21, for Moses of old time hath in every
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city them that preached him being read in the synagogues every
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Sabbath day.
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And so I want to dig a little bit deeper into this thought process.
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But what I want you to think about here tonight is the concept
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of unity.
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Do we as christians, have freedom to do certain things?
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Yes, we do.
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Does anything that you do negate the grace of God in your life?
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Can you sin and lose your salvation?
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We don't believe that.
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I don't believe that we can sin and lose our salvation.
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I believe in the eternal security of Jesus Christ.
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I believe that if we sin, we are still in his grasp.
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We still have eternal destination.
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So you have the freedom to exercise whatever you want in your
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life.
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But we're gonna look here in a couple of different passages in the
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New Testament about how there's danger in living out my liberty
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completely, fully, and not caring about others around me.
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And so we're gonna see that the whole heart of the Jerusalem
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council was first to figure out how individuals can come to Christ.
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Is it by faith, or is it by faith plus works?
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But then the secondary issue was the unity of the fellowship when
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you have two different types of people, the Jews and the gentiles.
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And so I want you to go to a couple other passages that deal with
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eating meat sacrificed to idols, because that's the big issue
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here for the people, whether or not they were going to eat this
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meat or where they weren't, because if they said they're saved
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by faith alone, James just says, no, you can't do these things.
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And so there's an issue here, and some people would call this a
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contradiction, because there's some passages in the New Testament
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that say you can eat meat sacrifice to idols.
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There's other passages in the New Testament that warn against eating
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meat sacrifice to idols.
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Oh, there you go.
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There's a contradiction.
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No, because we're talking about unity here.
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We're talking about the difference of my freedom in my salvation
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and my discernment in how to deal with other christians.
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And then the big issue is the conscience.
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The Bible speaks of offending conscience, and then also the Bible
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says about how I can be a stumbling block to another brother
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or sister in Christ.
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So first Corinthians, chapter eight.
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Let's go over to one corinthians, chapter eight, because
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we're going to dig deep into this topic this evening.
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I don't know how much we're going to accomplish, but we're gonna
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get through as much as we can here this evening.
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So let's think about this idea of meat sacrifice to idols, because
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that's in context what's being talked about.
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But ultimately, we're talking about the freedom that we have in
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Christ.
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So, first Corinthians, chapter eight.
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And I want you to look at verse number four.
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Paul addresses food sacrificed to idols.
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Now, we can all agree, hopefully tonight, that idolatry
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is sin, that idolatry is wrong, that idolatry is something
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that we should not deal with.
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Okay, but what if meat is sacrificed to idols?
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What do we do?
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Well, Paul deals with that here.
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So he's not justifying idolatry.
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He's talking about eating meat sacrifice to idols.
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So, verse four, as concerning, therefore, the eating of those things
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which are offered in sacrifice unto idols, we know that an idol
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is nothing in the world.
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So what is Paul saying here to the teaching?
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In this teaching, he's saying, an idol is nothing.
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An idol's not real.
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An idol is made up of gold or wood.
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And so the idol in and of itself does not corrupt the meat.
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It's the action or the heart behind it.
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It's the worship of that idol that's a sin.
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It's eating that meat and saying, well, I'm partaking of this
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in the spirit of this idolatry.
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But he says, in and of itself, the idol is not a real thing.
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And so he says, consider those eating of the things sacrificed to
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idols.
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We know that an idol is nothing in the world and that there
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is none other God but one.
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So it says these idols are just nothing.
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There's only one God.
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For though there be that are called gods, whether in heaven or
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in earth, as there be many gods many, and lords many, but to
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us there is but one God, the father, of whom all are all things,
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and we in him, and one lord Jesus Christ, by whom all things,
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and we by him.
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We're gonna go all the way down here to verse number 13.
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HoWBEIt there is not in EveRy man that knowledge for some with
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conscience of the idol unto this hour eat it as a thing offered
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unto an idol.
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So he says, there are some people that eat it with that mindset
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of offering it to an idol, and they are sinning.
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Okay, that is wrong.
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And so he says so.
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And their conscience, being weak, is defiled.
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So he's talking about someone who has an understanding of this
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idolatry, and they're eating it with the understanding that that
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idol is in that meat and that meat is corrupted.
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He says, if they have offended their conscience, being weak, then
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they have sinned.
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But MEat commendeth us not to God, for neither if we eat, are we
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the better.
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Neither if we eat not, are we the Worse.
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But take heedless any means, this liberty of yours become a stumbling
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block to them that are weak.
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And so what does he say here?
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He says, it doesn't matter what you eat.
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It doesn't matter what you eat because meat is meat.
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But he says, if there is an individual who in their conscience
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is, this is a sin.
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We need to be cautious of that.
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We as a person need not be a stumbling block to somebody else
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in our freedom.
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We're going to get to that here in a few moments.
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A little bit more, he says, for if any man see thee which has
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knowledge, sit at meat in the idol's temple, shall not the conscience
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of him which is weak be emboldened to eat those things which
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are offered to idols?
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And though thy knowledge shall be the weak, shall the weak brother
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perish for whom Christ died?
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But when ye sin so against the brethren and wound their weak conscience,
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ye sin against Christ.
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So he says, yeah, you could eat meat sacrifice to idols on your
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own, and that's not a sin.
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But you take meat sacrifice to idols, knowing that that person is
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offended by that, knowing that person will lead back into sin and
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idolatry.
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You have now sinned against Christ because you sinned against
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your brother.
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So there's discernment there.
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Do you have freedom to eat the meat.
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Yeah, because the meat is one way.
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It's the same thing.
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Even if you sacrifice to an idol, it doesn't mean anything.
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But if your brother, who has a background in that pagan worship,
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eating that meat might mean that that's a lifestyle back into
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paganism.
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That is an offense.
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If you push them into that, oh, come on, eat some meat.
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It doesn't matter.
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You see, as a christian, we can exercise our freedom, but when
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we're pulling someone into a lifestyle that they were saved from
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and saying, hey, you have the freedom to do this, this isn't really
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a sin.
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You're now pulling them into a place of sin.
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You've offended your brother.
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Ultimately, you've sinned against the father.
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That's what it says there.
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You sinned against Christ.
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Wherefore, if meat make my brother to offend, I will eat no
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flesh while the world standeth, lest I make my brother
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to offend.
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He says, be cautious.
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This is what we talked about this morning.
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Be cautious of your testimony.
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I don't want to be a stumbling block to somebody else.
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And so ultimately, we see with what James is saying in the Jerusalem
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council is, hey, gentiles, don't eat the meat.
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Sacrifice to idols, you had the freedom to do so.
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But in the church, you need to seek after that unity.
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You eating meat to that sacrifice idol is gonna cause your
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jewish brother to stumble.
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So don't do it.
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Keep unity.
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So the thing is, is within our churches in America today, a lot
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of times what happens is the focus is me.
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What can I do, pastor?
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Am I allowed to do this?
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Can I do this?
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How much can I do?
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Do I have the freedom to do XYz?
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I can tell you, as a pastor, I get that question all the time.
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Is it a sin for me to then fill in the blanken?
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Sometimes it's very clearly in scripture.
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Yes, this is a sin sometimes in scripture.
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I can tell you, no, the Bible doesn't say anything about that.
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But I can tell you that that isn't the biggest question.
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The biggest question is me doing this.
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Is this going to offend another brother and hinder them in
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their spiritual walk or hinder the gospel to be presented?
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And so what Paul says here is, yeah, I could eat the meat.
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But verse 13, if meat make my brother to offend, I will eat no
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flesh while the world standeth, lest I make my brother
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to offend.
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And so he says, be cautious of how you deal with others, because
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I'd rather have unity than me just to exercise my freedom.
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And so what he's saying, is this.
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Having the right to do something doesn't mean that we should
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do something.
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Sometimes we have the right as a christian to have freedom, and
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there could be some, what we would call gray areas, and you might
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have the freedom to do that and do it.
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But if it's offending another brother, then that's where the issue
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comes in to.
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And so that's the whole idea of the issue with James speaking
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to those former pagans, those gentiles, to say, hey, be cautious
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of how you're dealing with the other jewish people within your church.
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I want you to go to another passage of scripture, just a couple
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pages over in first corinthians, chapter ten.
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First Corinthians, chapter ten, verse 23.
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This is a verse that I think is a verse that we all need in that
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next step in our spiritual maturity.
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Okay, let me tell you the question should not be, can I do
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this as a Christian?
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You can.
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Let me just tell you.
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If you sin as a Christian, there is God's forgiveness.
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There is God's grace.
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Romans chapter six, though, says this, why offend God's grace?
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Why abuse the grace of God?
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And so this verse is a verse I take a lot of people to because you'll
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hear a lot of people say this.
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Well, can I do this as a Christian?
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Does the Bible explicitly say that I cannot do this?
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I'll tell them no.
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But let me read this verse to you in verse 23 of one corinthians,
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chapter ten.
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And if we can grasp this, this can help us in a major way in our
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spiritual maturity.
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He says all things are lawful for me.
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This is Paul speaking here.
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He says all things are lawful, meaning I'm not bound by the law
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anymore.
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I don't have to follow the 613 commandments.
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I can eat whatever meat I want.
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I can do this.
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If the Bible doesn't explicitly say that it's a sin, I
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can do this.
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And even if the Bible does say it's a sin, I had the freedom to
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do it.
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Now I have to deal with the consequences.
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I can disobey my savior, but I had the freedom as a Christian, I
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can do what I want.
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I'm not gonna lose my salvation.
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But then he says this, but all things are not expedient.
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That means better, good for me, beneficial.
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Say it this way, I can do all things as a Christian, but not all
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things that I can do are beneficial to me and to others around
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me.
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This is huge because that's not usually our mindset.
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Our mindset is this.
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Well, I don't care what anyone thinks about me.
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I'm gonna do what I wanna do.
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I'm a Christian.
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I'm free.
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God's not gonna.
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God's the only one that can judge me, right?
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Yes, but all things are lawful for me.
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But not all things are expedient.
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Not all things are beneficial for me or for others around me.
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All things are lawful for me, but all things edify not.
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Meaning this.
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Some things that I do as a Christian, I can do, and I'm not
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gonna lose my salvation.
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God's gonna still love me, but it's not going to be beneficial for
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my spiritual growth, and it's not going to be beneficial to edify
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other christians around me.
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Think about that for just a few moments, because this is an area
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of the christian life that I think comes later on in our spiritual
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maturity.
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So, for example, and I don't want to go too far into picking out
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specific gray area items, but there might be something that you
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say, you know what?
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I have no problem doing this.
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I have no problem exercising this.
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And I can't see anywhere in scripture that says that this is
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wrong.
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Okay, fair enough.
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But if me doing this, is this going to help me in my spiritual
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growth, or is this going to hinder me in my spiritual growth?
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Well, possibly could hinder me.
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Well, then that's something that I don't need to necessarily
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do.
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There's another thing in the spiritual walk.
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Okay.
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This isn't going to hinder me at all, but it might hinder someone
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that I'm discipling or that I'm ministering to or that I have
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fellowship within the church with.
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And so it's not expedient to edify.
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And so here's the test that I would say for you to do within the
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church.
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Is this.
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Can I do this in the word of God?
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Is this a sin?
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Okay, that's your first step.
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What does the Bible say?
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The Bible says it's wrong.
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Just don't do it.
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The Bible doesn't speak specifically to this.
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Then what you do is you say, okay, is there a principle there?
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Okay, there probably is some element of a principle there, but
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if there isn't an element of sin or either an element of a principle
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in scripture, then we would say, okay, is this expedient for
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my spiritual growth?
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Is this going to build me up in Christ?
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And then the next question that I would ask is this, does it
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edify the other believers around me?
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If you check the boxes there, then do it.
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Live it up.
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Do what you want to do in that case you say what?
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I've never heard a pastor tell me to live it up.
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Well, if you do all those checks right there, then God has
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given you the go do it.
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And a lot of times, people are like, well, that's not good.
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I'm just telling you now.
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There's interpretation there.
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Okay?
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The interpretation would be, well, you know what?
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The Bible says this, but I don't mean it to say that.
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I don't think it says that.
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Well, that's where you get into some issues.
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Okay?
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Some people might say, well, I don't think the Bible actually says
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this.
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Well, you're misinterpreting scripture, and that's a whole other
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conversation for another day.
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But what I would tell you is, check the word of God.
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If the Bible says something about it explicitly, it is sin.
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But if there's something that we would consider to be a gray area,
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then you do that check of what verse 23 says.
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Is it expedient?
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Is it edifying?
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But then go on a little bit further there.
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In verse 24, it says, let no man seek his own, but every man another's
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wealth.
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Meaning this.
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I shouldn't be thinking about myself.
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I should be thinking about others in these decisions.
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Like, that's the big thing.
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Cause we're always thinking about ourselves.
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Like, what can I do?
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Am I allowed to do this?
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Can I.
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You know what?
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The gentiles.
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Okay, fast forward to when they go back to Antioch, because
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Paul and barnabas are gonna bring the message back to Antioch.
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Some of the gentile christians could be like, well, I can't eat
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meat sacrificed to idols.
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I can't eat the blood of these animals.
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Come on.
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I had the freedom to do that.
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No, it's thinking about others.
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And so that's what it says there in verse 24.
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Let no man seek his own, but every man another's wealth whatsoever
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is sold in the shambles that eat, asking no questions for conscience
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sake.
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So it's like, don't overthink it, okay?
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For the earth is the Lord's and the fullness thereof.
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If any man, if any of them that believe not, bids you to feast
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and ye be disposed to go whatsoever is set before you eat,
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asking no questions for conscience sake.
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And so going back to the meat.
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Sacrifice to idols.
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You go over to a gentile's house.
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They have meat there.
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Don't ask if it's sacrificed to idols.
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Like, just eat it.
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Okay?
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That's what he's saying here.
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But he says, but if any man say unto you, this is offered in
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sacrifice unto idols, eat not for his sake that showed it, and
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for conscience sake.
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For the earth is the Lord's and the fullness thereof.
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Conscience, I say, not thine own, but of the other.
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For why is my liberty judged of another man's conscience?
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For if by grace be a partaker, why am I evil spoken of?
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For that for which I give thanks.
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Whether.
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And then he goes on to this classic verse, whether therefore
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you eat or drink, or whatsoever you do, do all the glory
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of God, give none offense, neither to the Jews nor the Gentiles,
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nor to the church of God.
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So it goes back to the spirit of, am I offending another brother
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in this?
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Am I offending somebody else?
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And he says, hey, if nothing's mentioned, you have freedom to do
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it.
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But if something is mentioned, stop and make a decision, okay?
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Now, you know that's going to offend someone's conscience, so stop.
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You don't have the freedom to go forward.
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And so it goes back to that phrase, having a right to do something,
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quote unquote right.
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Or having the freedom or liberty to do something doesn't mean
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that we should.
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And I want you to think about this phrase here this evening.
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Liberty is limited by love.
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Liberty is limited by love.
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Do we have christian liberty?
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Yes, but that liberty should be limited by love.
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If I love my brother in Christ and I'm discipling him, and I know
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that this is going to cause him to fall back into a pita that
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he got saved from, I need to love him enough and love God enough
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to die to my liberty to say, you know what?
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I don't need to do that.
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I don't need to do that specifically in front of him so that
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I offend him to go back to that way of sin.
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And so love, in this case, is trumping our liberty.
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You say, don't we have 100% liberty?
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We do.
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But ultimately, we are to love our neighbor as we love ourselves.
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Isn't that what the Bible says, to love them?
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And so I wouldn't want someone to offend me.
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I wouldn't want someone to bring me to a place of sin in my
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life.
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Now, let me pause here, okay, because I need to clarify something.
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This is not talking about someone doing something that you
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don't like, okay?
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Because a lot of times we pull this card out, if someone does something
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that isn't our preferential thing.
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Well, I don't like that you, you know, let me use something very
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vague.
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I don't like that you sit in this pew up here.
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Okay?
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That bothers me.
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Okay.
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Well, they're not sitting in that pew and offending your conscience.
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It's when you offend someone to a place of sin.
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Right?
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It's not just doing something that someone else doesn't like.
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And you go, well, you've offended me, brother, so therefore
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I want you to stop doing that.
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Okay?
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I don't like when you drink coffee around my presence, so stop
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drinking coffee.
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Well, it.
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How was me drinking coffee going to lead you to sin?
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If you can lay that out for me and you could explain to me my actions
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lead you to a place of sin, then as a brother, I have to respect
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that.
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But just because you don't like what someone's doing, you can't
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pull the card of saying, well, I'm the weaker brother, so don't
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do that in front of me.
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Well, what sin is this causing you to fall into what is appealing
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to your flesh by what I am doing?
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So there's discernment here, because we can't all walk around
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saying, well, I gotta exercise my preferences on this person.
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This is talking about the issue of sin being a stumbling block
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to sin.
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And so I want you to think about that when it comes to exercising
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the weaker brother card.
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Right?
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Well, I'm the weaker brother, so don't do that.
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Well, here's the thing.
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Maybe you are the weaker brother, but the concept must be
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that you are going into sin here and then is it?
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And this is how the unity works.
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You tell me that this is offending you.
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You tell me that this is leading to a place of sin, then I
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must respect that.
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In love.
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A passage of scripture that made me think about this is psalm
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133.
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Psalm 133.
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Verse one is a passage of scripture that speaks of this unity.
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And, folks, let me tell you that if there is one thing that we
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should seek after, obviously it's the gospel of Jesus Christ.
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But when we come to dealing with other people within the church,
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we see the heart of God.
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And the heart of God for fellow brothers and sisters in Christ
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is unity.
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If we don't have unity, we have to get to the root of that.
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And when we have brothers and sisters exercising liberty and offending
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other brothers and sisters to sin, we can't be unified in that.
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And so I must be willing to say, I will stop this if this is
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causing you to sin.
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And so, psalm 133, one, behold how good and how pleasant it is for
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brethren to dwell together in unity.
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That is a testimony to say we're dwelling together in unity.
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We don't have time to go there.
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But in Jesus high priestly prayer.
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In John 17, Jesus prays for the unity of the church.
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We see over and over again in the book of acts, unity is the heart
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of God.
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And so we go back to the Jerusalem council.
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Why would James give these four rules to the Gentiles?
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It was for unity.
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It wasn't for their salvation.
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Because go back to that acts passage.
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Okay.
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What is being decided in the Jerusalem Council?
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Is it morality?
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No.
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What's the core issue of the Jerusalem council?
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Salvation and sanctification.
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Right.
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Salvation, predominantly, do you have to be under the law of Moses
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to be saved?
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Okay, so then we see the rules that he gives.
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Those four rules, if you go back to them, pollution of idols,
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fornication.
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Now you would say, is fornication wrong?
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It is a sin.
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Yes, fornication is wrong.
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But do people that have fornicated, can they get saved?
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Yes.
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Okay.
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Yes.
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Sins are forgiven, right?
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If you come to Christ in faith, in repentance, your sins are
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forgiven.
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And so James is not saying, well, they have to be people that
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don't do these things to get saved.
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No, what he's saying is these are things that you seek after so
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that there can be unity in glorifying God in the way that you
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live a righteous life.
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Cause he doesn't list here.
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Don't lie to each other.
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He doesn't.
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I mean, we know lines of sin, but he doesn't list that.
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And so he's specifically talking about things that were pagan
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that would have offended the jewish people to the point where
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they would have fallen into the same path.
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And so what we can see here is that this is a desire for unity within
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the church.
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Now I want you to see Galatians chapter five.
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Galatians chapter five is another passage that deals with our
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freedom and our liberty.
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So our freedom and our liberty should be celebrated within our faith.
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We're not in a cult.
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You don't have to keep a list of hundreds and hundreds of rules.
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You can't lose your salvation.
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So we have this freedom, and we should be celebrating that, but
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not celebrating to the point where we exercise our flesh.
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So what happens within churches today, and really throughout
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all of history is that when we emphasize freedom and liberty, it
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becomes an occasion to the flesh.
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And then we mingle in sin within the church.
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And then we have a church that looks exactly like the world.
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Okay?
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Now does every church have to be a certain way?
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No, that's why we had the freedom to be the type of church
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that we're called to be.
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But what does Galatians chapter five, verse 13, say, galatians
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513 says, for brethren, ye have been called unto liberty.
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So you're called unto liberty.
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As a Christian, only use not liberty for an occasion to the flesh.
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There it is, but by love serve one another.
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So why is liberty given to us?
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Not so that we can exercise our flesh, but so that we can serve
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one another, so that we can have people within our church that
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are from different backgrounds and different cultures and different
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preferences and different mindsets, and we can be unified in
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that common purpose of the gospel of Jesus Christ.
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And so we can have freedom and liberty to be different.
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We can have freedom and liberty to extend ourselves to a
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place that maybe not everyone could go.
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So, for example, brother Tom might be able to minister to someone
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because of his freedom and liberty that I'm not able to minister.
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Because maybe we have a different background, a different
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upbringing, you know, maybe there's someone in the church.
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I won't pick an individual out because I don't want to pick any,
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you know, pick on anyone.
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But maybe we have someone that was saved out of a life of really
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dark, bad places, and they knew what it was like to be addicted
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to drugs, and they knew what it was like to be part of really
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bad things.
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And because God changed them and saved them, they now can minister
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to other people.
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And they have freedom to minister to people that maybe would
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never listen to me, okay?
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Because I come in, I've been in a christian home my whole life,
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and I grew up in church, and I go to someone and they're like, yeah,
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this guy doesn't know what he's talking about.
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He doesn't know what I've gone through.
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Well, maybe this fellow up here who has gone through all that
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struggle can go with his freedom and liberty and minister
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to somebody else and lead them to Christ.
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That's the beauty of our liberty.
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And so he says, our liberty is not there for an occasion of the
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flesh.
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I can do this.
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I had the freedom to do this.
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God never says, I can't do this.
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Yes, but is it an occasion of your flesh to exercise your freedom
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and your rights?
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Or is it to say, I'm gonna serve one another?
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Is it by love and service, or is it by an occasion of the flesh
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that we're exercising our liberty?
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So one last passage of scripture, then we'll circle back
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to the book of acts.
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I want you to see Romans, chapter 14 with me.
Romans 14 chapter mention
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Romans, chapter 14.
Romans 14 chapter mention
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This is what I believe to be one of the clearest teachings on
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this idea of exercising our christian liberty and not offending
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our brothers in Christ and our sisters in Christ.
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Now, you would say, why are you talking about meat sacrifice
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to idols?
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Because that's what this passage is talking about.
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But for us, that's not a big issue.
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Like, if I go over to your house, I've been over to many of
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your houses or gone out to eat with you.
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I don't go, hey, guys, I need to know, is this meat sacrifice to
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bail?
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I don't ask that.
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Right?
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That's not an issue in our culture today.
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Okay.
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I don't think any of you are sacrificing, you know, going to the
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marketplace and buying meat sacrificed idols.
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I don't think that's the case.
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If it was cheaper, okay, I can understand, but I don't think any
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of us are doing that.
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But there's other things culturally that might cause us to
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stumble.
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There's other things culturally, and it might be different.
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Right.
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Different age groups, different backgrounds.
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And so what I want us to see here is, what does it say about this?
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He says, him that is weak in the faith receive.
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Yeah, but not to doubtful disputations, meaning receive those
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that are weak in faith, but don't lead them to a place of doubt.
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For one believeth that he may eat all things.
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Another who is weak eateth herbs, meaning some people might
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be convicted to eat anything they want, and that's okay.
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Other people might be convicted not to eat that meat and
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eat something else.
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Herbs.
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Let not him that eateth despiseth him that not eateth.
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Meaning you shouldn't despise the person that's different than
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you in this.
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Okay?
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And let not him which eateth not judge him that eateth.
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For God hath received him, so we're received into the family of
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God.
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So I can't sit over here and go, well, that person is exercising
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their liberty in a wrong way.
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Okay?
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If they're exercising their liberty in the confines of scripture,
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we can't sit there and judge them.
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Now, if they are sinning out and out, we can say, clearly that's
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a sin.
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But he's not talking about that.
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He's talking about these, what we would call gray area things that
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meet sacrifice to idols.
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Verse four.
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Who art thou that judgest another man's servant to his own
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master?
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He standeth or falleth.
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Yea, he shall be.
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Holden up.
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For God is able to make him stand.
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One man esteemeth one day above another, and another esteemeth
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every day alike.
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Meaning there are some people that look at one day and go, this
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is a holy day, and we need to honor it.
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And we need to do all these things.
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And there's other guides.
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That's like, every day is just a day.
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It's all God's days, right?
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And he says, what does he say here?
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What does he say here?
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He says, let every man be fully persuaded in his own mind,
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meaning you got to come up with that conviction on your own.
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You got to come up with that preference on your own.
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He that regardeth the day, regardeth it unto the Lord, meaning
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he can use that special day for the Lord.
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And he that regardeth not the day to the Lord, he doth not regard
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it.
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He that eateth, eateth to the Lord, for he giveth thanks.
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He giveth God thanks.
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And he that eateth not to the Lord, he eateth not and giveth God
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thanks.
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For none of us liveth to himself, and no man dieth to himself.
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For whether we live, we live unto the Lord.
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Whether we die, we die unto the Lord.
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Whether we live, therefore, or die, we are the Lord's.
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Meaning.
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Everything that we do, it's the Lord's.
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For to this end, Christ both died and rose and revived.
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And he might be Lord both of the living and the dead.
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But why dost thou judge thy brother?
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And why dost thou set at not thy brother?
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For we shall all stand before the judgment seat of Christ.
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For it is written, as I live, saith the Lord, every knee shall
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bow to me, and every tongue shall confess to God.
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So then every one of us shall give an account of himself to God.
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Let us not therefore judge one another any more.
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But judge this rather, that no man put a stumbling block or an occasion
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to fall in his brother's way.
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So he says again, the idea is not to judge someone.
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The idea is to not put a place of stumbling for another brother.
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Instead of me sitting there going, well, I can't believe that
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that person does that.
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No, I need to look into my own life to say, it's the classic example,
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what Jesus said about the plank in your own eye, right?
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Don't sit there and try to pick your brother's spec out when
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you got a plank in your own eye.
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He says, hey, no, don't be a stumbling block or an occasion to
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fall in his brother's way.
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I know, and I am persuaded by the Lord Jesus that there is nothing
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unclean of itself, but to him that esteemeth anything to be unclean
-
to him, it is unclean.
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Meaning if there's someone who's convicted by this, they're
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convicted by that.
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Let them be convicted by that but if thy brother be grieved with
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thy meat, now walkest thou not charitably, meaning if you just flaunt
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your liberty in front of them, you're not living charitably, you're
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not living in a kind way, you're not living in a loving way.
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Destroy not him with thy meat, for whom Christ died.
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Let not then your good be evil spoken of.
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For the kingdom of God is not meat and drink, but righteousness
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and peace and the joy of the Holy Ghost.
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For he that is in these things serveth Christ, is acceptable to
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God and approve to men.
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Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace and
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the things wherewith 1 may edify another.
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Do you see again what's happening here?
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It's that emphasis on edification.
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It's that emphasis on unity.
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It's that emphasis on peace.
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For me, destroy not the work of God.
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All things indeed are pure, but it is evil for that man who eateth
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with offense.
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It is good neither to eat flesh, nor to drink wine, nor anything
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whereby thy brother stumbleth, or is offended, or is made weak.
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Hast thou faith.
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Have it to thyself before God.
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Happy is he that condemneth not himself in that thing which he
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alloweth.
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And he that doubteth is damned if he eat, because he eateth not
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of faith.
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For whosoever or whatsoever is not of faith is sin.
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So you say.
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That's a lot of.
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I'm not going to be able to pick apart that whole passage, but
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essentially the thought is this.
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There are going to be people that have preferences this way.
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They're going to have people that have preferences this way.
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We need to walk in unity, but we need to look to the place of not
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allowing the other brother, the weaker brother, to stumble.
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So if there's something that I can do in my life, and I feel free
-
to do it, okay, you have that freedom.
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But the moment it becomes a place of division within the church,
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the moment it becomes a stumbling block for another person
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to sin, then you are sinning.
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Okay?
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So let me give you a real life example.
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We've got a guy named Joe, and we got a guy named Bill over here,
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okay?
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Joe is coming out of a life of paganism.
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Joe is coming out of a life of idolatry.
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Okay, I'm gonna forget these names.
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Bill is over here.
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And Bill is like, hey, I'm saved.
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And I love eating meat at the market, and I can get a better deal
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on the meat that was sacrificed to these idols.
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And Paul even said, this meat is free.
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This meat is good, we can eat of it.
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So which one's wrong?
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Well, neither one of them.
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They're both saved.
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They're both okay.
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They're both right.
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This guy over here that got out of the life of paganism, though,
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he's like, I can't eat that meat because that's going to take
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me back to a place that I used to be in.
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And I don't want to get back to pagan.
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I don't want to get back to idolatry.
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I can't.
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I don't.
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I'm going to abstain.
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Then he looks over at Bill over here and he says, bill, I can't
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believe that guy, bill over there is eating that meat.
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Sacrifice to idols.
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He's wrong for judging him and his freedom.
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But then let's say Bill comes over to Joe and says, we're in the
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market together.
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And he goes, hey, Joe, I got some meat over here.
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It's sacrificed to the idol.
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But you know what?
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Come on, you can do it.
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You can do it.
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And he eventually wears that brother down to the place of saying,
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okay, fine, I'll offend my conscience and I'll eat the meat.
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Fine, I'll do it.
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And so he's searing his conscience, and that's not a good
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thing to do, to push that off.
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And so now who's sinned?
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Well, if he eats of the meat, he's sinned because he's offended
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his conscience.
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And this guy who's persuaded him to eat the meat has now sinned
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as well.
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You see how that goes?
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So sometimes we can be on either side, because I've heard of
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a lot of christians saying, hey, come on, do this.
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There's nothing wrong with that.
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There's nothing.
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You gotta do this.
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Come on.
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To be a good christian, you gotta exercise your freedom.
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You know what?
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That is wrong.
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Don't offend someone's conscience.
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I know that with my kids, sometimes I'll say a certain thing
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to them, guys, we can't say that.
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We can't do that.
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And sometimes I might be doing something, dad, you said that word.
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You said that word.
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You shouldn't say that.
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And I'm not saying bad words.
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I'm saying words that just aren't.
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We don't want our kids to say.
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But sometimes I might say like, you know, you get it.
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And I don't wanna use any of those words tonight.
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Cause then they'll catch me on that.
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But you know, stuff like that, dad, come on.
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And like, as a Christian, I have the freedom to say those things.
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Right.
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It's not a curse word.
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It's not a bad word.
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Just words that we don't want to say.
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It's not.
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They're kind of crude.
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And so what happens is, like, then I'm offending my children by
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saying, oh, you know, I can do it.
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So you go ahead and do it.
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Right.
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I'm teaching them to not listen to that conscience that God
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has placed on their heart.
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Now, sometimes our conscience can be a moving target.
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Sometimes we can actually have a conscience.
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That's more than scripture, right?
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Oh, I can't.
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You know, and that's something that we deal with in discipleship.
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There's some people that have a conscience to do anything.
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Right.
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I can't do this.
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I can't say this, I can't do that.
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And the issue is that the conscience is not the Holy Spirit.
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The Holy Spirit is the guide.
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But ultimately, our conscience can be seared.
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It can be changed depending on our culture.
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And so what do we have to do?
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We have to base our conscience in the word of God and the guidance
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of the spirit.
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And so I'll say all that.
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To say this, we go back to acts 15, and we'll conclude with
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this.
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We see that James institutes these rules to allow the gentiles
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to walk in unison with the Jews, both Christians, so that they
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can have unity.
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And so what we can see here is that the issue of the Jerusalem council,
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even though we don't deal with meat sacrifice to idols, we deal
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with issues of is salvation and sanctification by the law or
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salvation and sanctification by faith.
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If it's by faith alone, then does it matter what we do?
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Yes, it still matters what we do.
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It doesn't save us.
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It doesn't keep us saved, but it does deal with that idea of walking
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in unity together.
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And so there are groups that declare that you must do this to
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stay saved.
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There's people that declare that you must do these things to
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get saved.
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But as christians, what we have to understand is that all of
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these arguments can be solved if we look at the truth of scripture
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and know that we have liberty in God's grace, but we limit our
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liberty for the sake of love.
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So are there things that I could possibly do in my christian
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walk that could offend a brother, even if I'm not sinning?
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Yes.
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So I need to be cognizant of that, and I need to love my brother
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enough to say, you know what?
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I'm not going to do that thing specifically in front of them.
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And as the Bible says, flaunt my liberty.
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Okay, now this is where a lot of churches are scared to deal with.
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I'm scared to deal with this because if I got up here and said
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to you guys, there's rules at this church, to be a member of Middletown
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Baptist Church, like I mentioned this morning, you got to
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do this, this, this, and this.
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Well, I've effectively now become your conscience.
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I've effectively now have tried to pull away the discernment
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and say, just do whatever I tell you to do.
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The problem with that is that's never what the Bible says.
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The Bible says for you, it's individual soul, liberty.
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All of us have the responsibility to discern what the
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spirit is calling us to do accordance to the word of God.
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And so we feed Silas right now, Silas does not feed himself,
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but Norah and Micah are feeding themselves.
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Micah doesn't sit down at the table like Silas and put his bib
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on and get to the table and just sit there like this and go,
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all right, dad, I'm ready.
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And I go feed.
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That's what Silas does.
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He opens up his mouth and we put the bottle in or we put the oatmeal
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in or whatever.
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But we would hope that as they get older, they can feed themselves.
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Now, Micah, I'm not gonna feed you, okay?
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He's gonna feed.
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I'm gonna cook for him and I'm gonna prepare it for him.
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But then there's a place where he becomes 20 and 30.
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Dad, can you come over to my house and cook me chicken nuggets?
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I'm going to say, no, son, you're an adult now.
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You're married, you have children.
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You can take care of that yourself.
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Do you see how there is that not independence, but God dependence
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in the Christian's life as well?
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So a lot of times it's like, what should I believe?
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I remember I went off to college, dad, what do I believe about
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this?
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And I remember my dad telling me, well, what do you believe?
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I don't know.
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I tell you what I believe, but what do you believe?
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And you need to know that thing.
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And so a lot of times as christians, we want to be spoon fed
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what's right, what's wrong.
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But the truth is, is there are going to be some times where we have
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to grow out of that babe stage and move to that teenager adult stage
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to say, you know what?
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I'm going to get more dependence on God and not another
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individual because you could come to me and say, well, pastor,
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should I do this and do that?
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Well, I don't know, in scripture, it's not a clear statement
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on that.
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So you're going to have to discern in the spirit and in the
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word how to deal with that.
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So, for example, should I go and do this?
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Well, did you do those checks?
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What's the word of God say about this?
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Well, there's nothing that the word of God says one way or the other.
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Okay.
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Is there a principle in scripture?
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Well, I don't see a principle in scripture.
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Well, is this beneficial expedient for your spiritual walk?
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I'm not sure.
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Is this going to help other christians in their walk?
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Oh, probably not.
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I could see this, this and this happening.
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Well, there is an issue there, and then we need to check that now.
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And I'm going to digress here in a moment.
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But I will say this on the flip side of this, you can live in
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fear of man and say, well, I can't do anything that God's calling
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me to do because I know that someone's going to get upset about
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this.
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You ever tried to please 100, 200 people at once?
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I have.
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Let me tell you how that goes.
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It doesn't go well.
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You could please maybe half, and if on a really good day, you
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can maybe please about 75%, but you're never gonna please 100
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people.
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So what do you do?
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We please God.
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And then you do your best to show love and grace to people.
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Well, you know, as a pastor, there's things that I could say to
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you, this is not wrong.
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And other people could say, well, you know what?
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I don't like that they do that.
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Well, is it, remember, is it a stumbling block to an offense of
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sin or is it something that you just don't like?
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Right.
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And then, so on the other side of things, as a christian, I need
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to be cautious that I'm not.
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Remember the judging.
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I'm not judging another person in their liberty just because I don't
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like what they're doing.
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If it's an offense to sin, then that's what Matthew eighteen's
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all about.
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Someone sinned against me.
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What do I do?
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I go tell that brother that he sinned against me, and I clearly
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explain how that was a sin and how that was an offense to me.
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Okay.
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And so then there's that process.
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And so we could go deeper into this.
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We're gonna stop for tonight.
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We're gonna come back with part two next week because there's
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more to this.
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Paul and Barnabas are gonna bring that message back to the church
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in Antioch and we'll decide, well, we'll look into it this way,
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we'll decide whether or not we go on to the next struggle, because
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shortly after this, what happens is that, guess what?
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There's more conflict.
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Paul and Barnabas are two guys have a conflict.
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So we got to deal with that.
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What do we do?
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Well, the Bible has the teaching on what to do in conflict,
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and I can't say that, you know, because a lot of times we exalt
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Paul to a place of almost sinlessness, right?
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We go, Paul is Paul, and he is.
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He's Paul's.
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Paul's an awesome dude.
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One of the guys that I want to talk to when I get to heaven, like
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many of the other people there, but Paul isn't perfect, and
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there's some issues with him and John, Mark, and Barnabas, and
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even later on, Peter and Paul.
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And, you know, so we're gonna get into that.
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And I think that's important to deal with, because when we're
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looking at unity and we're looking at these nuanced topics of,
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is this gonna offend a brother?
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These are real things that we gotta talk about, because what's
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gonna eventually happen, whether we mean to or not, we are
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going to have a conflict with another brother and sister in Christ.
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It's going to happen.
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So what do we do?
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Well, you know what?
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Historically, people have done well, let me get back in the old
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days, it was get the phone book out, but now it's, let me get
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on Google and see where the closest church is.
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Okay.
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We're going church shopping because these people have offended
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me.
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That's not the first step.
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Does God call people out of churches and move them other places?
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For certain reasons, of course.
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But where we have seen an issue is that there is a plethora
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of churches in the area.
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And when there's a minor offense that could have been fixed
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and a brother could be gained, there's, hey, we got to leave.
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We got to run.
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Now, thankfully, at Middletown Baptist Church, we have a lot of
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faithful people, and I'm thankful for that.
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There have been people that have come here for the right reasons.
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There have been people that have left Middletown Baptist church,
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I believe, for the right reasons in a good way.
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Maybe they're moving.
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Maybe God's calling their heart somewhere else.
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Maybe there's issues that can't.
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You know, maybe there's viewpoints that don't align.
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Okay, now I'm a little biased.
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I think Middletown Baptist church is awesome.
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I think it's the best church in town, and I want everyone to come
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here, but that might not be God's plan.
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That might not be God's plan for someone.
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Maybe someone else is better equipped than another body of believers.
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And so we have to be very cautious about conflict and not running
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from the conflict, but dealing with it in a very biblical, patient
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way.
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And I think that's what we talked about this morning, the endurance.
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And that's not easy.
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So I know that that was a heavy topic this evening.
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I know that's not a topic that we necessarily get up and cheer about,
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but it's a topic that we have to deal with because it's something
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that, at least in my years of the church, doesn't get talked about
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a lot.
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Right.
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We kind of just skim over this idea of offending a brother.
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And what does that even mean?
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We look at different things and we say, well, you know what?
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If I don't like it, then it's bad.
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The truth is, though, it's all about.
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It goes back to the.
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It goes back to the greatest commandment.
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What did Jesus say is, the first greatest commandment is to
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love God with all of our heart, soul, mind and strength.
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Okay, everything.
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And then he says, the second is like unto this, love your neighbor
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as yourself.
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All of these issues could be dealt with if we follow those two
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commandments.
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So it's not about following the law.
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It's following the greatest commandment of loving God and loving
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people.
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If we do that and follow the word, we're gonna be okay.
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We're gonna be okay.
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Are we gonna be perfect?
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No.
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But if you love God, you're not gonna sin against him.
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If you're really walking in love, you're not going to want to
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sin against him.
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And if you love other people like you love yourself, you're not
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going to sin against them.
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You know, when I sin against other people is when I start thinking
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about myself.
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All those passages of scripture that said, don't think
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about yourself.
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Think about others, don't think about your freedom.
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Think about the love that you have for other people.
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When I sin against other people is when I start thinking,
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hey, they wronged me, so I'm gonna do what I want.
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They offended me, so I'm gonna do what I want.
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They got me frustrated, so I'm gonna sin against them.
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Instead of thinking about their well being, I think about my
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well being.
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Well, that's the first step.
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That I'm wrong in church is not about me.
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I'm gonna give you a revelatory statement, and we'll be
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done.
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This is it.
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I know I keep saying that but I gotta say this, okay?
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We are at church, not for ourselves.
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This is not about us.
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This is not about me.
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This is not about you.
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This is not about a ministry.
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This is about Christ.
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Everything that we're doing is about Jesus, okay?
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We are beneficiaries.
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We are background characters in the story, okay?
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Sometimes I start to think that I'm the main character in the
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story.
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I'm the protagonist.
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I'm not the protagonist in the story of the gospel.
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I'm just a side character that's there to support the main
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character, and that's Jesus Christ.
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And so when we start thinking that we're the main character in
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the story, that's when we can get into a lot of conflict and a
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lot of issues and don't think about the unity.
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And so what Paul says is this, and I thank the Lord for this teaching.
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It's like this.
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If I need to die to something in my life, I will do that for the
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cause of the gospel.
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If I need to remove something from my life that's a stumbling block
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to another brother.
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I love my brother and I love Christ, and I love the gospel enough
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to say, I don't need to do that.
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I don't need to do that.
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We've got, and I'd love to talk to you about this more because
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I've got a lot of examples about this, but we've got people
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that will say, you know what?
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I can do this.
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I have the freedom to do this.
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Why is this a sin?
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It's not, but how is it beneficial?
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And I go back to that passage in one corinthians 1023, all things
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are lawful, but not all things are expedient.
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Not all things are edifying.
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If we just thought about that edification factor, so much more
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would be changed within our midst.
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So I will end with that here tonight.
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