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Counting the Cost

Pursuing Jesus - Memorial Baptist Church

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  1. Good morning, Vietnam! I'm going to have to cut

  2. that. I'm going to leave that in. You should.

  3. Oh, man. That's from Robin Williams. Robin Williams.

  4. The late, the great Robin Williams. Listen, so

  5. here's what I hate about whenever I start talking.

  6. What you hate about Robin Williams? What I hate

  7. about talking about movies I have not seen in

  8. a long time. Okay. Because my memories of this

  9. movie, incredible movie. Okay. It could have

  10. horrible language. And I just don't remember,

  11. right? But from what I remember about that movie,

  12. it was like a really good, like Robin Williams,

  13. he's a comedic guy, but it's more of a dramatic

  14. role. But it's a good movie. Have you seen that

  15. movie? No, I haven't. Really? No, I haven't.

  16. That's one I think you should add to your list.

  17. That's the what is going on. I saw a movie this

  18. weekend. Yesterday. Yesterday. I watched a movie.

  19. that is an American classic that I feel like

  20. I am more American than I've ever been because

  21. I had never watched this movie before. What movie

  22. was this? For the very first time in my life.

  23. Yeah. I watched Smokey and the Bandit. Smokey

  24. and the Bandit. Okay. Yeah. Okay. Have you seen

  25. this movie? No, I haven't seen this movie. So

  26. it's one of those movies that I have heard just

  27. in our culture. Okay. In the culture. I've heard

  28. referenced countless times. I thought I knew

  29. what it was about. I had no idea what it was

  30. about. Now that you finished the movie, do you

  31. know what it's about? Did you ever get to that

  32. point? Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. It was a 70s movie.

  33. So there was kind of a plot. Okay. And mainly

  34. it involved CB radios. Interesting. Like truck

  35. driving. I know what a CB radio is, Sean. You

  36. know, one of the interesting things... One interesting

  37. thing about coming to church here in Stanley

  38. County, coming from my background, is the things

  39. that people call stuff. There are different words

  40. for the same thing. It's English vocabulary,

  41. but it's different English vocabulary. It's regional

  42. differences, right? So the sandals that I'm prone

  43. to wear are called Chacos. It's the brand of

  44. sandals that they are, right? Every time I wear

  45. them in Stanley County, somebody will go, you

  46. got your Jesus shoes on. You know, you're doing

  47. what you can. So speaking of that, so like an

  48. actual illustration of that as well. Okay. It's

  49. like just one of those learning curves you get

  50. when you move to Stanley County. because when

  51. I moved here and I was learning all of the different

  52. areas around Norwood, my community, and I was

  53. very interested when I learned that there was

  54. an Aquedale here. What? Exactly. I was told very

  55. quickly, no, no, no, even though it is spelled

  56. Aquedale, it is it. Aquedale. Aquedale. It is

  57. Aquedale. So that was one that I got corrected

  58. very fast because I don't remember who I was

  59. talking to, but I remember referring to Aquedale

  60. to someone, and they looked at me like I was

  61. a foreigner because I was. Well, you've gotten

  62. your Aquedale on. There's somebody I was talking

  63. to as I was trying to get the dialect down that

  64. told me that their dad called it Ackydale. Ackydale?

  65. Ackydale. I'm not sure whether it was derived

  66. from, like, and you're saying the Q, Accudale,

  67. or if it's Accudale, A -C -K -Y -D -A -L -E.

  68. So the interesting thing is someone will have

  69. to brush me up on my Stanley County history.

  70. I believe from what I was told it was called

  71. that because there was an aqueduct running through

  72. that area or something like that. So it actually

  73. does have to do with water, and it really is

  74. aqua, but you don't pronounce it that way. Okay.

  75. You know what? That is good for me. That's good

  76. for me to know. Yeah, and you know what? This

  77. is good, because one of the things that I like

  78. about you, Ben, since you've been here, is you

  79. love to ask what you call culture questions.

  80. That is true. All the time. I mean, I don't even

  81. know if we've ever talked about this on the podcast.

  82. I don't think we have. Just so for our Pursuing

  83. Jesus listeners here, this is something that

  84. Ben has become famous for in the office. Because

  85. there's many times where he will walk into anyone

  86. and everyone's office, and he will open the dialogue

  87. by saying, I have a culture question. That's

  88. true. That's true. But they're all good, and

  89. they all make sense because it is. Because you

  90. go from church to church. You go to a different

  91. church. You go to a different region. There are

  92. things that they do different culturally, and

  93. it's good to learn those things. Well, I'll tell

  94. you this. At our last Triple L gathering for

  95. our - Triple L. Triple L. That's right. That's

  96. right. I don't know if anybody - That's how they

  97. refer to it all the time. Triple L. But at our

  98. last Triple L meeting, the Josies - shout out

  99. to the Josies, brought some delightful desserts.

  100. Oh, shout out to the Josies and their desserts.

  101. As they have been prone to do. Yes. What Oren

  102. and Nancy made this time was homemade cherry

  103. ice cream. Now, I have never had homemade ice

  104. cream before. Wait. What? This was my first time.

  105. In your entire life? In my miserable little life.

  106. You've never had homemade ice cream? Your reaction

  107. is the reaction that 20 separate people have

  108. to be saying that. And it was a dollar at once.

  109. It was a chain. Like I was sitting at a table.

  110. This didn't happen in front of everybody. No,

  111. I was sitting at a table with Cornelia Hatley

  112. and a couple other folks. And I was like, man,

  113. this is so good. I've never had homemade ice

  114. cream before. And Cornelia goes, you've never

  115. had homemade ice cream before? And she called.

  116. somebody else to the table and she's like ben's

  117. never had homemade ice cream before and that

  118. person said you've never had homemade ice cream

  119. before and like they kept it was a chain it was

  120. like a phone tree like they kept calling over

  121. more people and finally i was like no i'm not

  122. cultured like you guys i'm working on it homemade

  123. ice cream and by the way delightful delightful

  124. okay church church church okay we're having a

  125. moment right now church here's i need your help

  126. right now i need i need some people to come make

  127. homemade ice cream in different flavors and bring

  128. it to Ben. Now, when you do that, I'm going to

  129. request some too. But I'm not doing this selfishly

  130. all the way. I feel like you're doing this selfishly.

  131. This man needs to experience peach homemade ice

  132. cream for sure. For sure. At least peach. That

  133. is like a summer tradition. Really? Peach homemade

  134. ice cream. So this isn't new for you either.

  135. No. Interesting. Yeah. Hey, you know what? I

  136. think there was someone in the church that had

  137. like a cookies and cream homemade ice cream.

  138. That was really good. If I remember, I can't

  139. remember, but, uh, all right, church, y 'all

  140. got to help me culture this guy. Well, so, so

  141. here, so counteroffer. Okay. The next, the next

  142. church gathering, the next time that we have

  143. like a potluck or something, like, I think that

  144. we should announce to all the folks at the church,

  145. like, like for desserts, bring your homemade

  146. ice cream. We can have a homemade ice cream competition.

  147. So I'm pretty sure. I want to be one of the judges.

  148. We can have the staff judge it. Yes. Yes. 100%.

  149. I'm behind this idea now. You know, but if you're

  150. going to do that, you're going to have a homemade

  151. ice cream competition. We're going to have a

  152. good prize. I don't know what that would be.

  153. Ooh. All right. We're going to have to think

  154. on that one. We have to think with them. Yeah.

  155. For the time being, are you ready to dive into

  156. a little bit of scripture, Sean? You know. That

  157. is why we're here. We're here to pursue Jesus.

  158. Through homemade ice cream. Through homemade

  159. ice cream. Listen, Jesus put us on this earth

  160. to enjoy some of the things of the earth, to

  161. enjoy. I mean, even like you look at the Psalms.

  162. Yeah. I mean, you look at the Psalms and the

  163. joy that they received from different parts of

  164. nature. Oh, taste. And see that the Lord is good.

  165. Man, you know. But like, if you think about it.

  166. If you think about it, God didn't have to make,

  167. and I'm being legitimately serious, God didn't

  168. have to make our world in color. 100%. I understand

  169. where you're going with this. There are animals

  170. that you have rods and cones in your eyes. The

  171. cones are how you see color. The rods are how

  172. you see black and white. There are animals that

  173. live perfectly functional lives. I think maybe

  174. dogs are some of them. I've heard dogs. That

  175. they see in black and white. God didn't have

  176. to make color. God chose to make color as part

  177. of his creative expression. God didn't have to

  178. make taste. There are plenty of other organisms

  179. in this world that either don't have a tongue

  180. or don't taste or any of these things. They are

  181. ways of enjoying his goodness and his creativity.

  182. Those can be spiritual things. I think that's

  183. part of eating and drinking to the glory of God.

  184. I think it's in 1st or 2nd Corinthians where

  185. we actually can engage in worship by enjoying

  186. good things. I noticed this in some church traditions

  187. where renouncing things just for the sake of

  188. renouncing them is spiritualized. The historical

  189. word for that is asceticism. Not anesthetism

  190. or aesthetics, but asceticism. Yes. But they

  191. renounced everything like, that is good, I don't

  192. want it. That is good, I don't want it. That

  193. is good, I don't want it. One of the ways that

  194. we enjoy God is enjoying the good things that

  195. he's given us, including homemade ice cream.

  196. Amen and a -women, as you would say. I've never

  197. said that before. I'm pretty sure you have. Luke

  198. 14, 25 through 33. Let's get into the text, Sean.

  199. Oh, man. You know what? Yeah, let's get into

  200. it. So this is June 8th's passage from the Pursuing

  201. Jesus devotional. And the title, that the Bible

  202. I was using gives this section is called The

  203. Cost of Following Jesus. Yep. And there's a couple

  204. things that I want to point out. First off, here's

  205. the very first thing I noticed. So it starts

  206. in Luke 14, verse 25, as you said, and literally

    Luke 14:25

  207. one of the first few words, right? It says, now

  208. great crowds were traveling with him. Now that's

  209. interesting to me. Okay. Right? Because Jesus...

  210. Sometimes when we picture Jesus because of Sunday

  211. school lessons or whatever, a lot of times I

  212. feel like people just picture 12 dudes just chugging

  213. along with him and just walking along. And there

  214. was times when it was just him and his close

  215. disciples or the apostles. And that's actually

  216. something funny that I'm going to get off on

  217. a tangent on real quick because I was talking

  218. to my students the other day, and there was some

  219. of them, and they were like, so Jesus had 12

  220. disciples? And I was like... Kind of, you know,

  221. and I had to explain to them that, you know,

  222. we interchanged the word disciple and apostle

  223. a lot just because of our culture and how we

  224. refer to these guys. But I had to let them know,

  225. like, no, there was 12 apostles. There was 12

  226. dudes that were set aside for a specific purpose,

  227. for a specific ministry. But Jesus had multiple

  228. disciples and disciples, but also just people

  229. that followed him because he did cool stuff.

  230. And he had many faithful disciples outside of

  231. the 12. I think it's Luke 8 that talks about

  232. the three ladies that followed him that bankrolled

  233. his ministry, which is a crazy thing. I had never

  234. read that until recently. But maybe it's in Mark

  235. when he sends out the 72. Yeah, exactly. He gives

  236. them authority to cast out demons and to heal.

  237. We talked about that 18 podcasts ago. But Jesus

  238. had many disciples. He had 12 apostles. It's

  239. just a good, healthy reminder as we interchange

  240. terminology in our modern context through preaching

  241. and teaching and things. Just remember, no, there

  242. was a lot of disciples. Yeah. But here. There's

  243. a specific word used, and it's not disciples.

  244. Okay. It's crowds. Yeah. And so a lot of times

  245. when you look at the Gospels, you're going to

  246. see different terminology used to describe the

  247. people that are following Jesus or that are around

  248. Jesus at the time of whatever's taking place.

  249. Whenever it refers to crowds, that means that

  250. there are people with him. One, there are disciples

  251. there. Yep. However many, we don't know, but

  252. there's disciples. But that means there's people

  253. that are following him at this moment that have

  254. become awestruck by maybe we could call it the

  255. entertainment of Jesus. Or just interested. The

  256. miracles. Like he's doing stuff and they're like,

  257. that was cool. I want to keep seeing more of

  258. this, right? Or even just a seeking understanding

  259. of like, how did this happen? I need to understand

  260. more. But understanding that, now reading the

  261. passage to see what he's about to say. is very

  262. interesting. For sure. Especially in our modern

  263. church context. So we'll get to that in a second.

  264. But let me just read. Let me read the words in

  265. red, if you will, and start in verse 26 and see

  266. what he does when he turns around, looks at the

  267. crowd, and then immediately turning around, looking

  268. at the crowd, says this. Verse 26. If anyone

  269. comes to me and does not hate his own father

  270. and mother, wife and child, brothers and sisters,

  271. yes, even his own life, he cannot be my disciple.

  272. All right, let's just pause there. That's enough

  273. for now. Pardon? I mean, just imagine you're

  274. one of the crowds, not the disciple. You're the

  275. interested. Like I said, multiple reasons you're

  276. there. You could be very interested in wanting

  277. to seek and learn more, or you could be just

  278. following because you have no other thing else

  279. to do in your life, and you're just following.

  280. Like, whatever. I don't know. We don't know the

  281. reasons, but it is a crowd of people. Correct.

  282. And Jesus sees a crowd of people following him

  283. and drops one of the most crazy lines in Scripture,

  284. you know, and just says, hey. You really want

  285. to follow me? All right, cool. Hate your family,

  286. hate all this, hate all this, hate all this.

  287. And we know from looking, this is why it's important

  288. to look at Scripture, even the Gospels, as a

  289. total story. Yeah. Right? Because this could

  290. very easily be taken out of context. Yeah, this

  291. is one of the passages that people struggle with.

  292. They do, because they read just this. they'll

  293. have someone on TikTok say, hey, go read that

  294. one verse. And look, it's words in red. You see

  295. what Jesus just said there? Oh my gosh, is that

  296. the Jesus you want to follow? And they'll call

  297. it a contradiction too because of the Ten Commandments.

  298. Honor your father and mother that it may go well

  299. with you and your days be long. Right. But when

  300. we look even at this entire story and we look

  301. at the other parables that he's about to share,

  302. that's what he's doing. He's giving an example

  303. of the cost of discipleship. And he's showing

  304. like, hey, if you really want to follow me, if

  305. you want to, I mean, you've got to be willing

  306. to lay down your life for me is ultimately where

  307. he's eventually going to go with this. And it's

  308. showing that in comparison. To the love that

  309. you have for your family, the love that even

  310. you have for your wife. That was one of the things

  311. that as you get deeper into Christian culture,

  312. you forget some of the things that you say and

  313. how wild they are. Because one of the things

  314. that I say and that I truly believe is that my

  315. relationship with the Lord is more important

  316. than the relationship with my wife. And me saying

  317. that within the church walls, people are like,

  318. amen, right? Yeah, we get it. But people outside

  319. the church don't understand that. Well, how could

  320. they? Exactly. Because they're like, whoa, hold

  321. on. That's pinnacle relationship right there.

  322. That's a very intimate relationship, and all

  323. of a sudden you're saying that there's another

  324. relationship more important to that? Right. And

  325. so I think that's also one of the things that

  326. as we... as we Christianese so much stuff, and

  327. as we speak within our Christian circles, it's

  328. important to remember that sometimes we say things

  329. and people don't understand what we're saying,

  330. because just because we're used to it doesn't

  331. mean... I mean, going back to the vocabulary

  332. of Norwood and the culture questions, there's

  333. things that we do within our Christian culture

  334. that look really weird on the outside. And it's

  335. kind of one of those things, but I love... And

  336. it's true, and my wife will say the same thing.

  337. And it is. And the reason we say that, the reason

  338. that I say that my relationship with Jesus is

  339. more important than my wife and the reason that

  340. my wife will say the relationship with Jesus

  341. is more important than me is because we have

  342. fully realized within our 19 years of marriage

  343. that we've gone through that the closer we are

  344. to Jesus separately and then the closer we are

  345. to Jesus together, the better we are together.

  346. Yeah. I mean, I've heard that described as a

  347. triangle, right? You're both moving towards Jesus,

  348. and as you move towards Jesus, you move closer

  349. to yourself, or to each other, rather. And it's

  350. one of those things that it is, I think it's

  351. hard to grasp. Until you experience it. And then

  352. you realize, oh, I understand what they were

  353. saying now. You can see the concept, and I think

  354. you can have a knowledge of it, of a knowledge

  355. understanding of that concept of growing closer.

  356. But then when you really do it, and you really

  357. make that a part of your marriage life, it's

  358. like, oh, wow. I didn't realize that our marriage

  359. could get this much better. I wonder, though,

  360. doesn't that... premise also apply to the other

  361. areas of our lives though. I mean, so as we are

  362. following Jesus and pursuing Jesus, the other

  363. areas of our lives change too. I mean, like if

  364. you're working in the church or out of the church,

  365. you're a better employee in some ways. You're

  366. more honest. You're more willing to show grace

  367. and mercy to people. You're willing to own up

  368. to your wrongs because you recognize that you're

  369. a sinful human being. the more that you pursue

  370. Jesus. And so I think that premise is more evident

  371. in marriage because conflict is more obvious

  372. in marriage. You live with the person you're

  373. fighting with. There is no escape. I think that's

  374. real though. One of the other things about this

  375. verse 25 that is interesting to me, because I

  376. was reading up on this and... The Greek and Hebrew

  377. here for the word hate is different than the

  378. hate that we have in the English language. Ooh,

  379. let's hear about this. I won't be able to say

  380. the Hebrew words or the Greek words, but this

  381. is a callback to when the book of Hebrews says

  382. that God hated Esau but loved Jacob. The Hebrew

  383. here doesn't indicate what we would indicate

  384. as hate and love. It refers to... it refers to

  385. dramatic choice. And so Jesus isn't saying, man,

  386. I got to hate my dad, or you got to hate your

  387. mom, or you got to hate your wife or your kids,

  388. your brothers, because elsewhere in scripture,

  389. we know it says love one another. Fathers don't

  390. provoke your kids to anger. Husbands love your

  391. wives as Christ loved the church, but it's a

  392. question of priority. Yeah. how do I see my marriage

  393. compared to this? How do I see my family compared

  394. to this? How do I see my obedience to my parents

  395. compared to this? Because if we love any of those

  396. things more than Jesus, those become the gods

  397. in our lives. And when there's a conflict between

  398. what God wants me to do and what my idealized

  399. relationship with my parents, my idealized kids.

  400. or my idealized marriage, when that conflict

  401. comes, it's idolatry if we choose our family

  402. over that. But through Jesus, we can love those

  403. things in their right place. Yeah. Because they

  404. are dramatically important. And the roles of

  405. marriage, the roles of fatherhood and motherhood,

  406. the roles of being faithful, honorable children

  407. are all designed by God. And so I think that,

  408. and obviously, Jesus sets up each of these stories

  409. for a purpose. So he just laid the foundation,

  410. right? He laid the foundation of, okay, this

  411. is what a relationship with me looks like. And

  412. then he really goes into a story of truly...

  413. talking about counting the cost, right? So verse

  414. 28, he says, for which of you wanting to build

  415. a tower does not first sit down and calculate

  416. the cost to see if he has had enough to complete

  417. it. Otherwise, after he has laid the foundation

  418. and cannot finish it, all the onlookers will

  419. begin to ridicule him saying, this man started

  420. to build and wasn't able to finish. And so once

  421. again, you've got this language with the crowd

  422. present. Very important context of who he's speaking

  423. to. And he's letting these guys know, hey, this

  424. is what this relationship is going to look like.

  425. And also, are you really willing to commit that?

  426. Think about what I'm saying. Think about the

  427. cost. Are you willing to go that far? And I think

  428. that's so important. And once again, going to

  429. our modern American Christian context, many times

  430. we, even if it's like... Especially within the

  431. SBC circles, we like to bash on prosperity gospel.

  432. It is what it is. And I'm not saying I agree

  433. with prosperity gospel, but it's just one of

  434. those easy targets within our church culture.

  435. But at the same time, I feel like there's those

  436. little pieces of like, well, if I come to Jesus,

  437. my life's going to be better. That happens within

  438. even our church context. Yeah. We think all of

  439. our problems are going to be solved. You know,

  440. you hear like, oh, come to Jesus and everything's

  441. going to be good. Everything's going to be right.

  442. And there is a portion of that because of our

  443. heart and because of how much we love him. But

  444. that doesn't mean we're not going to go through

  445. hard times. Well, that's workspace faith. Yes.

  446. At the end of the day, that is transactional.

  447. You give me what I need, so I give you what you

  448. need. I do the right thing enough of the time

  449. for you to bless me. I've got a dear friend of

  450. mine who's wrestling with that right now. I don't

  451. think he listens to this podcast, but I'm not

  452. going to drop his name. But he's had some really

  453. hard things happen over the past couple of years.

  454. Dude lost his mom. He was in the hospital for

  455. a couple of months. And he's like, why would

  456. God let this happen even though I've been so

  457. faithful? And it's hard because the principle

  458. we see in this text, Jesus has a lot of ands,

  459. right? Going back to 26. Does not hate his father

  460. and mother and wife and children and brothers

  461. and sisters. Yes, even his own life. The price

  462. of discipleship involves our relationships with

  463. our family, but the pinnacle of the price of

  464. discipleship is our own lives. And so setting

  465. those in Jesus' hands is really hard, particularly

  466. when we go through hard things in his hands.

  467. Yeah, man, that's a really good thought. I'm

  468. glad you added that little bit on there. That's

  469. good for us to think about. There is a cost.

  470. There is a cost. There is a cost to following

  471. Jesus. And that's something that we need to be

  472. aware of. That the closer you get to Jesus, the

  473. more you're going to see that cost. But the first

  474. cost has been paid and will continue to be paid.

  475. Yeah. Like Jesus paid the first cost for us.

  476. With his lifeblood and his perfect life, he conquered

  477. sin and death. And so as we are... What did you

  478. say? Bearing our own cross? Yeah. Jesus took

  479. the first cross and in a very real sense is still

  480. bearing that cross with us and for us and in

  481. us and through us. Jesus paid that cost for us,

  482. and he continues to work in us. Because, I mean,

  483. like, man, I don't know about you, I think that

  484. he's the one who gives us the strength to die

  485. to ourselves. That is not in my nature. And I

  486. think that it is... Not in human nature. I'm

  487. hoping that problem is not generic just to Ben

  488. Smith. Because Jesus paid that cost, we can say,

  489. Lord, I love you more than the rest of these

  490. things. Will you help me love you more than the

  491. rest of these things? And so this is kind of

  492. getting to the point of what I believe is this

  493. passage, because when I look at my life and I

  494. look at things that maybe I have missed out on,

  495. We'll say that in quotes, right? Because of my

  496. love for Jesus, there has been sacrifices in

  497. my life. Because I care more about following

  498. Jesus than fulfilling whatever those things are.

  499. But I don't care, right? So there's been a cost.

  500. There's been things, and it was more obvious.

  501. The cost was more obvious when I was younger.

  502. when I was farther away from Jesus, when I was

  503. beginning to leave my worldly life and I was

  504. beginning to follow Jesus because as my desires

  505. were changing, there's still that inkling of

  506. going back that we all deal with, that we all

  507. wrestle with. But the closer I get to Jesus,

  508. the more those desires have changed and more

  509. they are fulfilled in my relationship with Him.

  510. I just had a conversation with a dude this morning

  511. at the gym. It was a guy that has gone to our

  512. church. He still says he goes to our church,

  513. but he hasn't been in months. That kind of situation.

  514. And his life just fell apart. I mean, just stuff

  515. was happening, stuff was happening. And you could

  516. see how broken he was. And he says, you know,

  517. I ran back to smoking. I've been dealing with

  518. my anxiety because I went back to smoking. And

  519. you could see him wrestling and knowing that

  520. it was not the right choice, not the right thing

  521. to run to. But to see just him just having an

  522. honest moment in the parking lot of Planet Fitness

  523. was interesting. Praise God for it. Absolutely.

  524. Because you know what he's doing. Yes. Even in

  525. that conversation, dude's counting the cost.

  526. Yes. That internal battle of weighing. what do

  527. I do with the circumstances that I've been presented

  528. with, the things that I'm wrestling with? I mean,

  529. that's verse 33. Therefore, if any one of you

  530. who does not renounce all he has cannot be my

  531. disciple. And once again, I've heard that said,

  532. like give everything up, live a life of abject

  533. poverty, all those things. And maybe there is

  534. some... That is the call that Jesus puts on.

  535. I think there's some truth there, but yeah, but

  536. continue. But what I think it really is, is be

  537. willing to renounce whatever he asks of you,

  538. whether that is easy or hard for you. If there's

  539. something that you're not willing to give up

  540. for Jesus, you really need to check your heart

  541. on what that thing is. Well, that's idolatry.

  542. It is heart, love, and worship in a different

  543. direction. And worship can look a million different

  544. ways standing with your hands raised on a Sunday.

  545. It looks like what you give with your time. It

  546. looks like what you give with your money. It

  547. looks like what occupies your space. It looks

  548. like what occupies your mind. And that's why

  549. it looks so different for each person. Yes. Because

  550. we each have those things that we enjoy that

  551. are not... are in and of themselves, not sinful

  552. things, but they could be things that if they

  553. could, they could, they have the possibility

  554. of holding a higher place. Um, and they don't

  555. have to be physical things, but just hold a higher

  556. place than God. And that's like, okay, as you

  557. said, that thing has turned into idolatry. Yes.

  558. And it has turned into idolatry for you. And

  559. that's where we get into the area of like not

  560. causing a brother or sister to stumble. Right.

  561. Because there can be something that's completely

  562. fine. And maybe even like we talked at the very

  563. beginning, like, like I'm glorifying God through,

  564. through enjoying and enjoying and thanking him

  565. for it, that for another brother, it might be

  566. really hard. Yeah. So, I mean, let's go back

  567. to what the, I mean, the very first movie we

  568. mentioned at the very beginning, good morning,

  569. Vietnam. I don't even remember what that movie

  570. is rated. Right. And that's why, I mean, I had

  571. to put caveats on there, be like, okay, it. been

  572. more than five years since I've watched this

  573. movie. I might've been in a different spiritual

  574. mindset when I watched this movie. I think it

  575. was cool. I think it was a good movie, but like,

  576. there might be someone that this listening to

  577. this podcast, that's a brother in Christ that

  578. just watched this yesterday and was like, Oh,

  579. I should not have watched that. And then they

  580. get on here and hear their pastor being like,

  581. yeah, you should go watch that movie. It's like,

  582. well, hold on. You know, that's what I'm saying.

  583. Like there's, and then There's going to be these

  584. things that, you know, say there's a certain

  585. thing that's mentioned in that movie that's a

  586. really big struggle for someone. Like, I'm not

  587. trying to hurt their spiritual life. But that's

  588. what, like, we want to make sure that we are

  589. glorifying the Lord in everything we're doing.

  590. Absolutely. Absolutely. There's one other contrast

  591. I want to point out in this text. Yeah. From

  592. 25 to 33. So you had highlighted the difference

  593. between a disciple and the crowds. Yes. Right?

  594. So 25. Now great crowds accompanied him. We're

  595. firmly in the, there are some faithful, there

  596. are some curious, there are some whatever, right?

  597. Crowds. 33, Jesus says, if any of you who does

  598. not renounce all he has cannot be my disciple.

  599. That's right. And discipleship, and I'm not necessarily

  600. talking about like the you or me sitting down

  601. with a younger believer. But the discipleship

  602. is a process that we all undergo of learning

  603. about Jesus. There's a pastor I respect who refers

  604. to it as the way of Jesus. He always capitalizes

  605. the W. I like the way it looks on paper. Discipleship

  606. is a process. I don't know. I feel like when

  607. we say, oh yeah, we're disciples of Jesus, we

  608. treat it as a synonym for I've been saved. Yeah,

  609. I see what you're saying. Like I have been made

  610. a disciple and the discipleship process is done.

  611. Look at me. I'm a disciple. I can wear the disciple

  612. name tag. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

  613. Once you become a Christian, you begin the discipleship

  614. process. So I have a really cool illustration

  615. that I use with my students with this exact concept.

  616. So I kind of even dropped a hint about this on

  617. Sunday in my sermon when I talked about the word

  618. sanctification. Right? Because there's a difference,

  619. because I wanted to make sure that people were

  620. clear, because we talked about how salvation

  621. is through grace alone. Correct. Right? Like,

  622. that is just a universal concept in Christianity.

  623. Salvation is through grace alone. However, the

  624. reason people talk about works so much is because

  625. it is evidence through the sanctification process,

  626. right? So, but here's... Are you a math guy?

  627. Geometry. Do you remember geometry? Yes, I do.

  628. I love geometry. Dude, so you remember? I liked

  629. simple geometry. When I was just given an X coordinate

  630. and a Y coordinate, and I put it on a map. When

  631. they were giving you a shape with four sides,

  632. and they're like, what is that? And you're like,

  633. it's a square. That was the geometry I was good

  634. at. When he started to have to learn sine and

  635. cosine and things like that, and he started to

  636. get into trigonometry geometry, no, I'm out.

  637. Your boy is gone. I remember liking that, but

  638. I don't remember anything that I learned in that

  639. class. Well, good for you. I'm going back to

  640. the simple part of geometry. In fact, I'm going

  641. back to elementary school geometry, which is

  642. why this illustration works so well. Here we

  643. go. So do you remember that when you're plotting

  644. points on a graph and there's two different points,

  645. they had different terminology. And so like a

  646. line has a dot, a dot, and there's a line going

  647. between it. Yes. Right? Dot to dot. That's a

  648. line. right? There's another terminology called

  649. array. Yeah. All my students are familiar with

  650. this terminology because like I said, elementary

  651. school, whatever. And so array, there's a dot,

  652. there is a definitive starting point, but the

  653. line never ends. That is sanctification. Absolutely.

  654. That is salvation. There is a time in your life.

  655. Now, here's something very important that I need

  656. to say to people like me. Okay. I don't have

  657. a date. Yeah. I don't know the day I was saved.

  658. Some people, some pastors, that'll trip them

  659. up. If you don't know the time and the day that

  660. you gave your life to Jesus, you need to check

  661. your heart. Dude, even my salvation was a process.

  662. Right. Because I didn't grow up in church, but

  663. I started going to church as a teenager. I thought

  664. I made the decision at 13, but I did not get

  665. saved at 13. The Lord started working on my heart

  666. at 13. And sometime between 13 and 18, the Lord

  667. Jesus. absolutely transformed my life. You want

  668. to know who else's salvation was a process? Yeah.

  669. Peter. 100%. Yeah. Yeah. And, oh, I don't know,

  670. Paul. Yeah. Like, that's, I get the, yeah. So

  671. I want to be clear, even though I'm using that

  672. term point, that's definitive on a graph, like,

  673. for some of you, that doesn't necessarily mean

  674. there's a date, time, location. Yeah, yeah. Now,

  675. for some people, It is very much a pinpoint.

  676. But so a ray, you've got the point, and then

  677. it goes on forever. You see, the point is salvation.

  678. The ray, the line that goes on forever is sanctification.

  679. We are getting closer to Jesus for the rest of

  680. our life. We absolutely are. And in that, I completely

  681. understand the ray example. All I'll say is this,

  682. man, there is a end. That line keeps going on,

  683. and it is a ray, but that third of those terms,

  684. sanctification, justification, sanctification,

  685. glorification. We are going to get to land, and

  686. that one's symbolized by an arrow going in both

  687. directions with magnitude, baby! It's a quote

  688. from Despicable Me. vector vector i was like

  689. he's orange he wears glasses and i was like trying

  690. to remember his name and i was just lost man

  691. that that one's gonna fall flat tonight we steal

  692. the moon tonight we steal the moon It is a good

  693. movie. It is a good movie. We've been movie heavy

  694. today. A little bit. A little bit. It was a movie

  695. sandwich, if you will. A movie sandwich. We began

  696. with movies. We had the beginning bread and the

  697. ending bread and a whole lot of pursuing Jesus

  698. in the middle. I love it. You know, that's what

  699. we're here for, pursuing Jesus. Talking about

  700. real things like movies. And sandwiches. And

  701. sandwiches. And pursuing Jesus in, through, and

  702. sometimes around those things. I have been Ben

  703. Smith. I have still been Sean Griffin. And this

  704. has been Pursuing Jesus. We will catch you guys

  705. next week. Love y 'all. See y 'all next week.

  706. Pursuing Jesus is a ministry of Memorial Baptist

  707. Church in Norwood, North Carolina. To learn more

  708. about our church, please visit memorial4norwood

  709. .com.