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The Wisdom of an Excellent Spirit | Proverbs 17:27-28 | Pastor Matt Nettesheim
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Sister Duckie, take your Bibles, turn with me
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to the book of Proverbs chapter number 17. Proverbs
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chapter number 17, oh, this is gonna be helpful
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tonight. Very, very, very, very, very helpful.
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helpful to me. I know it's going to be helpful
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to many of you. We went on the Minute Boys camping
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trip and I got up there and I was encouraging
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the men, a proverb a day, a proverb a day will
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help you in a great way. And I explained my process,
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you know, on the 17th you read Proverbs chapter
Proverbs 17 chapter mention
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17. On the 16th of the month you read Proverbs
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chapter number 16. And one thing I have recently
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done is before I read the proverb a day, I asked
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the Lord, I said, Lord, Give me something in
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here that I can use today. I need something.
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I know I'm gonna go through life. I'm gonna go
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through difficulties today. I need wisdom today.
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I need wisdom, oh, but I need wisdom today. Yesterday,
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oh my, I was reading the Proverbs today, Proverbs
Proverbs 16 chapter mention
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chapter 16, and I got to Proverbs 16 verse 32.
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He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty.
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and he that ruleth his spirit, then he that taketh
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the city, ruleth spirit. So that was my verse
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for yesterday. Yesterday I had a verse, and I
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knew that probably the Lord's gonna do something
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for me, but yesterday afternoon, I got a phone
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call, and I answered the phone. This is Pastor
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Matt Nettis. I'm Chesapeake Baptist Church. And
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it was a man from India, a pastor from India.
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And if you ever have phone calls from India or
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across the world, it comes in and go. It's like
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it's there and then it's not there. And it's
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there and it's not there. And it's there. And
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the conversation, I'm trying my best to listen
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to this pastor from India. He's Indian. It's
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broken English. I'm trying to understand. But
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as the conversation went, I struggled very mildly
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and I kept saying, I'm sorry, I didn't understand
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what you said. And the guy was very excited that
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he actually was talking to me. And so, you know,
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15 minutes into there, it was just, I felt bad
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because I kept saying, I can't understand you.
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You cut off. And eventually I said, could you
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send me an email? I'll give you my email. You
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send me what you're talking about. And he broke
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and said, okay. And so I spelled my last name,
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N -E -T -T -E -S -H, but it cut in and out. And
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so he came back and he started spelling it S
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-H -I -N. And I'm like, no, no, no, no, no, no.
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And I'm going through, I think I told him 10
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times my email and he still had it wrong. So
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finally I said, can I just have your email address?
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And it was like 15 minutes. Now, I don't know
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about you, but the situation was frustrating.
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You ever been through a frustrating situation?
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Anybody else okay? And during that conversation,
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I know God wanted me to be Christ -like, treat
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this man from India with respect, with kindness,
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not to get flustered right there, but I was struggling.
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But the proverb they, he that ruleeth his spirit,
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then he that taketh a city right there. And I
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remember that proverb today, and I was able to
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rule and really be able to control my spirit
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as I talked to him. That proverb helped me in
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a great way. Okay, okay. So you get to today.
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Today is Proverbs chapter 17. I began to read
Proverbs 17 chapter mention
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the proverb and before I read it I said, God.
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Give me something here today that I can use.
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And I got to Proverbs chapter number 17, verse
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27. And as you're there, if you'll stand with
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me for the reading of God's word. Proverbs chapter
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17, verse 27. And we'll read verses 27 and 28
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together. Ready? Let's read them together. He
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that hath knowledge spareth his words. and a
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man of understanding is of an excellent spirit.
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Stop right there real quick. He that hath knowledge
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spareth his words. I know some of you said, praise
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God, that means it's a short sermon today. I
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could see it in your eyes. No, that's not the
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phrase. That's not the phrase. That's not the
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phrase. But we'll read it again. Let's read that
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verse again. He that hath knowledge spareth his
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words and a man of understanding is of an excellent
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spirit. Verse 28. even a fool when he holdeth
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this peace is counted wise, and he that shutteth
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his lips is esteemed a man of understanding."
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And that last little bit, an excellent spirit,
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an excellent spirit. And I said, okay, that's
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the verse for today. Today, I wanna make sure
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that I have an excellent spirit. So early in
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the morning, and I got up at a little bit after
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five this morning, read that, started studying
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that and thinking, I said, man, that's not only
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good for me, that's really good for the church.
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The wisdom of an excellent spirit, the wisdom
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of an excellent, I need it. Trust me, we all
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need it. Before we go any further, let's go to
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the Lord in prayer. Dear Father in heaven, we
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love you. And it's a good truth, I needed this
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today. And boy, I know without a doubt, many
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of the people here, are in need of this, Lord.
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I pray that you help us to think about that word
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excellent. We work at that and think about that
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word spirit. We put them together and Lord, then
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we make some decisions in our life. I pray that
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you help me, help us all to decrease, help us
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all to have years to hear and please guide us
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and direct us in Jesus' name, amen. You may be
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seated. An excellent spirit, say that with me.
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An excellent spirit. Now, an excellent spirit,
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what is the word? excellent means. What does
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the word excellent mean? Excellent is above common,
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better than ordinary, and you could say of great
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worth. So the word excellent means better than
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common. It describes something that stands out
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because of a quality or worth. It's above common,
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better than ordinary. Okay, amen? Better than
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ordinary, excellent, went to the store. week
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and a half ago two weeks ago and went in there
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and I found these wagyu hamburgers they were
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just hamburgers and they were discounted they
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were it was great and I said wagyu hamburger
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this is great and fried my wife fried them up
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and I don't know if you ever had a wagyu burger
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but a wagyu it's a special breed of cow Some
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would say that that cow has been massaged. I
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think it's a myth. But that wagyu has a higher
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quality of beef known for its rich flavoring,
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marbling. And I wouldn't know, but man alive.
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I ate that wagyu burger. Glory be to God. Hallelujah.
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Another word for that would be excellent. It
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was above ordinary, better than ordinary, above
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common wagyu burger. Glory be to God. Hallelujah.
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Somebody say amen. I'll move on. Okay, good,
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good. Excellent, above common. Now, we get to
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think about this, an excellent spirit. And think
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about that word spirit. Say spirit with me. Spirit.
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The word spirit has to do with your inner attitude.
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Okay, your inner attitude. We might say somebody
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when you're around them, he has a good spirit.
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And what we're saying is he has a good inner
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attitude. By the way, she said the right thing.
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but she did it in the wrong spirit. You ever
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heard that? She said the right thing. Sometimes
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you can say the right thing, but you have a bad
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inner spirit or bad attitude about it, bad spirit
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about it. You ever heard this? This home has
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a sweet spirit in that home, or the church, Chesapeake
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Baptist, has a good spirit about it. What we're
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saying is that the word spirit has to do with
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your inner attitude. And it's not just about
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what we do outwardly. Boy, it's about what's
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going on inwardly. The spirit is something that
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happens inward. An excellent spirit. Spirit is
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the inward attitude that shapes how a person
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thinks, how he speaks, how he reacts, how he
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carries himself or she carries himself. And the
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inner condition, by the way, the inner condition
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of you eventually comes out. and it shows in
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how we speak and the way we act and the way we
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respond. So you put those two together, an excellent
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spirit, it's an above common, better than ordinary
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inner attitude that shapes how we think, speak,
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react, and respond. So an excellent spirit, think
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about it, an excellent spirit is above common,
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it's better than ordinary, it's wagoo. Why goo?
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Inward attitude that shapes how we think, speak,
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act. Notice in that, look at Proverbs chapter
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17 verse 27, he that hath knowledge spareth his
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words. And a man of understanding is of an excellent
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spirit. A man of understanding, even a fool when
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he holdeth his peace is counted wise, and he
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that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding.
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So right away, the Bible connects an excellent
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spirit with understanding, with restraint and
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wisdom. So the wisdom of an excellent spirit.
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We're not talking about somebody who is naturally
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outgoing. So when we say excellent spirit, it's
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not talking about, well, he has a big personality
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or somebody who's impressive or somebody who's
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polished, educated, or talented. It's not talking
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about it. It's talking the inward person. No
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matter your personality, you have an or an extraordinary,
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not an ordinary, above ordinary attitude. The
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husband, a husband ought to have an excellent
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spirit. A wife should have an excellent spirit.
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A pastor should have an excellent spirit. A teenager
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should have an excellent spirit. A Sunday school
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teacher ought to have an excellent spirit. A
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servant of God, a Christian ought to have an
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excellent spirit. Now, I remember reading an
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autobiography of a preacher from really the 1960s
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and 70s, 80s. And I remember his autobiography.
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He read the Bible through every month, like cover
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to cover. And you read about this man. He had
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a church in Florida. and very knowledgeable.
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But if you ever read any of the books that he
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wrote, he wrote a lot of books, but you read
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the books, he was known for being a Bible knowledge,
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but he had a conference. And the conference was
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called the Bad Attitude Baptist Conference. And
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so he had truth, but he didn't have an excellent
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spirit. And what would show from that is his
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two divorces. got divorced from his wife, first
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wife, his second wife right there, and had problem
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with his people skills. He may have had truth,
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but he did not have an excellent spirit. So what
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kind of spirit do we have? What kind of spirit
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do you have? Think about this church. What kind
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of spirit does this church have? Out in public,
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what type of spirit do we have? Do we have a
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spirit that is, you begin to think about it like
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I said, above common, better in order, an inward
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attitude that shapes how we think, speak, act,
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and respond? Now, go with me to the book of Daniel,
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if you will. Daniel chapter number five. Daniel
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chapter number five. Okay, as you're turning
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to Daniel chapter five. All church, I want to
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have an excellent spirit. I want to have wisdom
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and understanding where my attitude, yes, I have
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the truth. I have the truth. I want to have a
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good attitude. I want to have a good spirit inside
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of me with the way I say things. how I respond
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to things, and my everyday interpersonal relationships
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right there. Daniel chapter number five. Oh,
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this is absolutely an amazing truth. Look at
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verse number one. Belshazzar the king made a
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great feast to a thousand of his lords and drank
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wine before the thousand. Okay, remember this
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is the Babylonian captivity. Daniel was carried
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off into captivity and he's serving King Belshazzar.
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Verse three. then brought the golden vessels
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that were taken out of the temple of the house
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of God, which was at Jerusalem. So they take
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the golden vessels that they had robbed from
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the temple in Jerusalem that they brought to
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Babylon. Look at verse number four. They drank
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wine and praised the gods of gold. That's wicked.
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We say that, amen, that's wicked. You understand,
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that's not good. Look at verse number five. in
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the same hour came forth fingers, fingers of
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a man's hand and wrote over against the candlestick
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above upon the plaster of the wall of the king's
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palace. Okay, verse six. Then the king's countenance
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was changed and his thoughts troubled him. Now
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watch this, verse six. So that the joints of
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his loins were loosed and his knees smote one
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against another. I can't do it, but I just imagine
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Belshazzar, ah! I just wish I could do that.
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Some of you will show me how to do that after
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the service right there, but he was scared half
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to death. This hand came out. Look at verse number
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eight. Then came in all the king's wise men,
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but they could not read the writing. Okay, verse
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nine. Then was King Belshazzar greatly troubled.
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Okay, verse 10. Now the queen by reason of the
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words of the king and his lords came into the
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banquet house and the king spake. And look at
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verse 12, for as much as an excellent spirit,
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verse 12, for as much as an excellent spirit,
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for as much as on what? And knowledge and understanding,
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interpreting. She's talking about Daniel. She
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says, I know somebody can help you. It's just
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Daniel. He has an excellent spirit. He has knowledge
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and understanding right there. Daniel. had above
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common, better than ordinary, inward attitude
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that shaped how he thought, how he spoke, how
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he reacted, how he responded. This is vitally
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important. He wasn't in a good situation. He
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was in a faraway land, in captivity, in a pagan
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land with wickedness all around him, yet he had
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an excellent spirit. Next chapter, look at chapter
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number six. This is a little bit later, Daniel
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the lion's den. I'll just, verse number three,
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just go to three. Then this Daniel was preferred
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above the presidents and princes. Why? Because
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on what? An excellent spirit was in him. And
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so Daniel, once again, he carried on with that
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above. Common better than ordinary inward attitude
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that shaped how he thought how he spoke how he
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reacted how he responded He wasn't he wasn't
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merely promoted because he was gifted and talented
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He was preferred because he had an excellence
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or something about Daniel that was different.
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What was different an excellent spirit? It wasn't
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that he was I believe he was gifted but it was
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an excellent spirit. How he reacted, how he responded.
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This is the story of the Daniel and the lion's
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den. You remember a little bit later you'll see
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that he gets rejected, you might say. What does
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he do? He goes to the Lord in prayer. It's an
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amazing thing. Daniel had something better than
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Taled. He had an excellent spirit. And what I
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want to say, young folks. young teenagers, young
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ladies, young married couples. Oh, one thing
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that'll help you in a great way is to learn to
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have an excellent spirit. Your circumstance,
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we worry so much about our circumstances, but
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a excellent spirit will help you in any circumstances
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you go through. And so, I wanna go through this.
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Go to Daniel chapter one, real quick. Daniel
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chapter one. Wanna show you a couple of things.
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Daniel shows what an excellent spirit looks like
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in real life. So I want to just go through a
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little bit about the life of Daniel and show
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you what an excellent spirit looks like. Look
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at verse number eight. But Daniel purposed in
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his heart that he would not defile himself with
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a portion of the king's meat, nor with the wine
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which he drank. Okay. Ah, yowzers. This is challenging.
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One thing that he did, he purposed in his heart
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He had an excellent spirit. He was told to do
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something that was against his Bible -believing
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Christianity, his convictions, okay? But God
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tells us that the excellent spirit, he had these
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Bible -believing convictions, but the way he
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handled himself with people was wise. It wasn't
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with a bad attitude. You understand the difference?
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I have my convictions. And by the way, convictions
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are good. Bible -believing convictions are great.
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but so often Bible -believing Christians have
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a bad attitude with their convictions. And so
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we have to have the balance of Bible -believing
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Christianity convictions, but we have to have
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it with the right spirit, an excellent spirit.
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Convictions are not wrong. Bible -believing Christianity
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is right, but sometimes we have such a bad attitude
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in our Bible -believing convictions, and it's
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wrong. So keep the convictions. Don't change
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the conviction. Never change the Bible belief.
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By the way, just quick reference, I'm not gonna
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lie. Christianity is changing a whole lot. A
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lot, a lot. Just say amen. But the Bible hasn't.
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So we're Bible believers. So the world may change.
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Worldly Christianity is constantly changing,
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but we Bible believers, and really in our church,
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there's probably a couple areas that people get
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out of whack about. First of all, the King James
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Bible. Well, the King James Bible's the word
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of God, and I'm not changing away from that.
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Now, I'm gonna have a good attitude, I'm gonna
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understand, but I just believe the King James
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Bible's the word of God. Music, music, wow, wow,
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wow, music is very influential. I wrote a book.
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two years ago, and I never published it, but
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a book on the history of music, biblical Christianity,
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and I don't need to work on it, but why we use
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the type of music we use here at the church,
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and wow, so few people even understand that issue
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today. Now, people come in every Sunday and they're
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like, whoa, where did this church come from?
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And they're speaking typically of the music that
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we use in the church, psalms, hymns, spiritual
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songs. Now, we're gonna keep those. It's a biblical
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conviction. but I'm going to have a good attitude
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and excellent spirit with that. Modesty and dress,
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holy meckles. You wanna get people wound up and
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you start talking about gender distinction and
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people really get out of whack. Now I'm not changing
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from that. I believe that God made a woman a
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woman and a man a man. I believe that with all
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my heart. I understand the world is different
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today. But the world, man alive, they accept
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homosexuality, transgenderism, they accept a
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whole lot of things. I'm gonna stick to the Bible
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beliefs that men ought to be men and women ought
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to be women. but I'm also gonna have an excellent
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spirit about that. And so there's the balance.
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Don't kick out the convictions, but have an excellent
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spirit inside of those convictions. Now, go on,
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if you will, with me to Daniel chapter number
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two. Look with me at verse number 30. I'm gonna
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go to fourth gear. That means I'm speeding up.
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But as for me, the secret. Now, he interpreted
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a dream. But as for me, Daniel says, but as for
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me, this secret. is not revealed to me for any
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wisdom that I have, more than any living, but
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for their sakes. That shall make known the interpretation
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of the King, and that thou mightest know the
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thoughts of thy heart. Now, if you follow along
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with me right there, Daniel was humble. What
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an excellent spirit in his response right there.
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Had nothing to, he didn't have pride. He wasn't
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haughty right there. When God revealed Nebuchadnezzar's
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dream to Daniel, Daniel didn't strut around and
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act like he was something special. He gave God
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the glory. And an excellent spirit is not living
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for himself. He's living for the glory of God.
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In other words, an excellent spirit, we have
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to realize our flesh desires the credit. Our
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flesh wants recognition. Our flesh wants applause.
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And the flesh wants people to know how much we
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know and how much I did. but an excellent spirit,
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hey listen to God, be the glory. You understand
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that that's important? Okay, go to this next
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one if you will. Go to Daniel chapter six again.
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Daniel chapter six, and remember it talks about
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an excellent spirit in verse number three, but
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verse number four is chapter six, verse four.
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Then the presidents and princes sought to find
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occasion against Daniel concerning the kingdom,
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but they could find none occasion nor fault for
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as much as he was faithful. He was what? Neither
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was there any error or fault found in him. And
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what is that? That's a testimony. The enemies
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looked for, you might say dirt, but they couldn't
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find anything. Why? He was faithfully at a testimony.
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An excellent spirit is not looking to be lazy
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or dishonest or inconsistent, but an excellent
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spirit, whether somebody's watching or somebody's
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not watching, they know the Lord's watching and
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they're gonna have an excellent spirit because
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it's the right thing. And I wanna encourage us.
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not just have a public persona of an excellent
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spirit, but let's go home and have an excellent
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spirit. Let's have an excellent spirit when we
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wake up. Let's have an excellent spirit when
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we get that phone call from the man in India.
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That's a hard one, but let's try our best to
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have an excellent spirit. Oh, boy, let's move
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on. Verse number 10, chapter six, verse number
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10. Now when Daniel knew that the writing was
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signed, He went into his house and his windows
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being open in his chamber toward Jerusalem, he
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kneeled upon his knees three times a day and
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prayed. And you know, this is important. He's
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in a predicament. You pray, you die. Basically
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what it was. We're gonna throw you in the lion's
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den. But his life was based on just doing right,
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an excellent spirit. And he didn't rely on his
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circumstances. He relied on the Lord, and that's
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what prayer is. God, you're gonna have to do
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something. Lord, you're my only hope, and he
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prayed to the Lord. An excellent spirit in Daniel
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came from a consistent walk with God. Okay, go
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back to chapter number 17, Proverbs chapter 17.
Proverbs 17 chapter mention
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I'm going to fifth gear now, and wow. Remember,
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an excellent spirit. It's above common, better
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than ordinary, inward attitude, an inward attitude
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that comes out. It shapes how we think, how we
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speak, how we react, how we respond. You ever
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been there? I've had trouble with an excellent
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spirit in my life. Anybody else ever struggle
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with that? I play basketball. And it's, I don't
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know, it's something about basketball. And I've
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really worked on it. I think I've done good overall
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since last Thanksgiving. Now, that's good for
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me. It's been a life -long struggle, but I've
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been really working on my attitude. I've been
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working on my excellent spirit, but it's a struggle.
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And boy, it gets lonely up here. It gets very
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lonely up here. It gets lonely right here. Okay,
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here we go. Proverbs 17, he that hath knowledge
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spareth his words. Verse 28, even a fool, when
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he holdeth his peace, is counted wise. and he
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that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding.
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So, he that hath knowledge spareth his word.
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Doesn't mean a knowledgeable man, okay, think
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about it like this. A knowledgeable man, somebody
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who has knowledge, that's what it says, he that
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hath knowledge, somebody who has knowledge, knowledge,
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okay? Sometimes people have knowledge, but does
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not mean you have to say everything you know.
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Okay, you have knowledge, but sometimes you don't
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have to say it. You don't always have to give
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your opinion. You don't always have to win the
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argument. You don't always have to correct every
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detail. You don't always have to have the lost
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word. And an excellent spirit has the wisdom
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to be very careful with his words. And so holdeth
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his peace, verse 28. He that shutteth his lips.
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Sometimes the wisest thing you can say is nothing.
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Okay, sometimes silence, you think silence is
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not weakness. Silence is often wisdom. And there
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are times when speaking's right, yes. Correction
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is needed, truth needs to be declared. But there's
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a time an excellent spirit knows that not every
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thought needs to be, you could say, a sentence.
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Now, I'm gonna go through there as you mark these
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down. Proverbs 29 verse 10 says, a fool uttereth
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all his mind, but a wise man keepeth it in till
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afterwards. A fool just lays it out, well, it's
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on my mind. Whatever comes out of my mind, I'm
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just gonna say it out is. But a wise man puts
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the brakes on. He has rule over himself. He knows
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how to wait. He knows how to pray. He knows how
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to be patient. He knows how to think before he
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speaks. And that's part of an excellent spirit,
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okay? Let's work on this. Before I speak, think
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about this, before I speak, I gotta say, is it
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true? Is this necessary? Is this the right time?
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Is this the right spirit? Is this what God would
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have me to say? And so sometimes an excellent
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spirit is being careful with your words. And
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am I speaking because God wants me to or because
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my flesh wants me to? Now this is a very, I don't
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even like using the word real sermon for me because
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it is something I have to work on. Anybody else?
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Okay, please, I mean, this is getting lonely
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up here. I need some help right here. Okay, an
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excellent spirit. An excellent spirit is different.
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Just don't turn there. Ecclesiastes chapter seven,
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verse nine. There's the word, be not hasty in
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thy spirit to be angry. Don't be hasty in the
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inward spirit, the inward attitude to have an
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angry spirit. The Bible shows us that people
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have the wrong spirit in them sometimes. A hasty
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spirit, you might say. Some people are quick
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to anger. And they don't take much to set them
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off. You know, it's a look or a comment. And
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recently, my family, we watched, I think, 30
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minutes of road, not rage necessarily, but road
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accidents. And you watch some of those accidents
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with this one guy on the highway. And it's got
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the dash cam. And this person comes up. and just
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rams the person right in front of him on purpose.
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And he's like drives by and he's shaking, he's
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angry. And I think that was brother, who was
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that? Hey brother Frank, you shouldn't have done
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that. You shouldn't have done that. You shouldn't
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have done that, I think it was wrong. But it
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doesn't take much. So hasty in spirit, but an
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excellent spirit is not easily stirred. Okay,
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Proverbs 16 verse 18. Pride goeth before destruction,
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and a haughty spirit, haughty spirit, say haughty.
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Haughty. Haughty is sort of prideful. And you
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look at pride. Pride says, I deserve better.
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I should have been recognized. Nobody's gonna
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tell me what to do. I'm always right. They do
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not appreciate me. But an excellent spirit, an
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excellent spirit's different. An excellent spirit
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can serve without being seen. An excellent spirit
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can be corrected without falling apart. An excellent
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spirit can rejoice when somebody else is blessed.
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And an excellent spirit can give God the glory
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he deserves. So Proverbs 25 verse 28, he that
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hath no rule over his own. Spirit, he that hath
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no rule, he that hath no rule over his own spirit,
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his inward self, his inward out, is like a city
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that is broken down without walls. Back in the
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day, a city without walls, woo, man alive. They
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could be attacked and plundered by the enemy,
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but with no rule over your own spirit. Well,
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that's just the way I am. I fly off the handle.
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Well, okay, you can do that, but you don't have
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an excellent spirit. You have no rule over your
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own spirit. And so it's a powerful picture. And
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God says that somebody who does not rule his
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own spirit is like that city. You know, don't
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allow, okay, look at this. Hebrews chapter 12
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verse 15 says like this, looking diligently,
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lest any man fail of the grace of God, lest any
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root of bitterness. And there's a bitter spirit.
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You ever have somebody that's inside their inward
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spirit is not excellent, but they're bitter.
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and somebody poisoned them, or they were poisoned
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at one time, their spirit, and everything that
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comes out, they have a hard time with trust,
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and they have a hard time with attitude, and
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they have a hard time with this. There's a bitter
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spirit about them, and it's not a great way to
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live. Bitterness, by the way, I don't wanna skip
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over this, but bitterness, if you get bitter,
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bitter, it changes how you hear preaching. It
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changes how you view people. Bitterness changes
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how you respond to leadership. Bitterness changes
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how you treat your family. Bitterness changes
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the spirit of your home. By the way, pastors
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get bitter. They get angry and all of a sudden
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all these people are preaching at you. They get
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angry at the people that are out there and he
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begins to think everybody out there hates the
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preacher. And boy, have you ever met a bitter
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pastor? It's a miserable, bitter wife or a bitter
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husband, and it's death. It's death. But have
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an excellent spirit, amen. Okay, this is the
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end of it. How can I have an excellent spirit?
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Ask that. Okay, this is really quick. This is
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seventh gear, okay? Walk with God. Walk with
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God. Daniel prayed as he did a four time. He
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had to walk with God. So one thing that'll help
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you have an extra spirit, make sure you walk
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with God. Have a walk with God. Go to God. But
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one thing that'll help your bitterness, the Lord's
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Prayer, forgive us our debts. Forgive us, Lord,
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forgive me. Forgive us our debts and we forgive
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our debtors. A day doesn't go by without forgiving
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people who've wronged you. The answer is not
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to get rid of people that wrong you. The answer
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is us forgiving them. Not allowing that bitterness
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inside of us. Okay, rule your mouth. He that
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hath knowledge spareth his word. So walk with
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God. Learn to rule your mouth. Stay humble, only
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by pride cometh contention. Number four, be faithful
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in the little things. Daniel's enemies couldn't
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find a fault with him. So be faithful to the
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little things. Be on time. Keep your word. Just
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do your job. Serve without drama. Be kind at
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home. Be honest in business. Be faithful in church.
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Do right, even if nobody claps. God sees little
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things. Then number five, respond right when
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you're under pressure. When you're under pressure,
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you ever get under pressure? Okay, how many of
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you ever get pressured? Okay, I hope so. I get
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pressure, pressure, pressure, pressure. You're
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a councilman for the wonderful city of Chesapeake.
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No pressure. None whatsoever. But inside the
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pressure, if you're controlled by God, you can
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have an excellent spirit. You should have an
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excellent spirit. You represent the king. Mom,
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mom, have an excellent spirit. Dad, have an excellent
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spirit. Now here's the thought. What are you
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gonna choose? There are some here this evening
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that you have an excellent spirit. Praise God.
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I believe probably, in that section, 90 % of
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you. This section right here, 92%. Let me see
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right here, 99%. Ugh. Okay, there's hope, though.
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There's hope. There's hope, bro. But we'll get
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it right. But if you have an excellent, keep
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going. But if you struggle with that, I wanna
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beg you, go to God in prayer and think about
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it. Say, God, help me to have an excellent, above
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-ordinary inner attitude. that affects how I
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respond, how I talk, how I interact with people,
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help me to have an excellent spirit. And by the
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way, seek and ye shall find. God wants you to
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have it and boy, you can have an excellent spirit.
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Dear Father in heaven, we love you. It's hot
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in here tonight. I thank you for the attentiveness
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of your people. And I pray, I have no doubt,
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I needed the reminder, Lord. And I pray that
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you help me to be a father that has an excellent
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spirit, a husband that has an excellent spirit,
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a pastor that has an excellent spirit, just a
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Christian, an everyday Christian that has an
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excellent spirit. And I pray that you help somebody
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here without a doubt, there are some that have
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been struggling and have even struggled today.
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Help them to not live that way, help them to
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learn to walk with you. helping to learn to give
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you the glory, helping to learn that they can
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have an excellent spirit where they can control
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what they say and give them wisdom in doing so.
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We love you. Thank you for today. In Jesus' name,
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amen. Stand with me if you will.