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A Call to a Contented Life: God’s Providence and Your Present Moment, 8/2/26

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  1. Today we're going to turn again, if you would

  2. have your Bibles turned with me, to the book

  3. of 1 Corinthians chapter 7, looking at verses

    1 Corinthians 7 chapter mention

  4. 17 through 24. The title of the sermon today

  5. is, A Call to a Contented Life. God's providence

  6. in your present moment. A call to a contented

  7. life. Begin reading in verse 17. Was anyone called

  8. while uncircumcised? Let him not be circumcised.

  9. Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is

  10. nothing. But keeping the commandments of God

  11. is what matters. Let each one remain in the same

  12. calling in which he was called. Were you called

  13. while a slave? Do not be concerned about it.

  14. But if you can be made free, rather use it. For

  15. he who is called in the Lord while a slave is

  16. the Lord's freedman. Likewise, he who is called

  17. while free is Christ's slave. You were bought

  18. at a price. Do not become slaves of men. Brethren,

  19. let each one remain with God in that state in

  20. which he was called. Let's pray together. Father,

  21. thank you for this word. We pray, Lord, that

  22. you would lead us as I expound upon it, Lord.

  23. Pray that you would give me the right words to

  24. say, the right interpretation, Lord. Clear up

  25. any perplexities, Lord. And we pray most of all

  26. that you would speak to us, Lord, that you would

  27. lead us, that you would convict us where we need

  28. convicted, and then encourage us, Lord, where

  29. we need encouraged. We pray that in all, you

  30. would receive all praise and glory. We ask in

  31. Jesus' name. Amen. So in the midst of Paul's

  32. teachings on marriage, on divorce, mixed marriages,

  33. and singleness in chapter 7, Paul here makes

  34. a short diversion to further consider the issue

  35. of calling and contentment in the particular

  36. life situation that Christian believers find

  37. themselves in. Now the immediate context is the

  38. peculiar situation of a believing spouse married

  39. to an unbeliever and the possibility of separation

  40. or divorce. versus staying in the marriage. And

  41. Paul gave instructions about that in the prior

  42. verses. Paul says, but if the unbeliever departs,

  43. let him depart. A brother or a sister is not

  44. under bondage in such cases. But God has called

  45. you to peace. For how do you know, O wife, whether

  46. you will save your husband? Or how do you know,

  47. O husband, whether you will save your wife? And

  48. then he comes to this passage. There is a common

  49. temptation to man to look at life through the

  50. lens of if only. If only my spouse was a Christian

  51. believer, or if only I would have done this,

  52. or if I would have done that, or if I had only

  53. not committed that sin, or would have done that

  54. good thing. Even further down the rabbit hole

  55. are thoughts like, if only I had married that

  56. person instead of the one that I did, or if only

  57. that eloquent or caring pastor could be my pastor,

  58. or if only I could just have the gifts and calling

  59. that this person has. Maybe you think, if only

  60. I'd lived at whatever idealistic time in your

  61. mind you think. Maybe that's colonial times or

  62. Victorian times or the time of the early church

  63. or when Jesus lived on the earth. Maybe you wish

  64. that you would have different physical characteristics

  65. and were taller or shorter or lighter in weight

  66. or had different parents. Discontentment often

  67. comes in three or more forms. One is circumstantial.

  68. If only this circumstance would change, then

  69. everything would be all right or I could do this.

  70. Or surroundings. If only the people around me

  71. were different. Or the other circumstances. Or

  72. the other surroundings. We might wish that our

  73. country were different. Or our politics would

  74. be better. Or our work, that we could do something

  75. else. Or if only we didn't have the family that

  76. we did. Or if only our family would be in this

  77. particular way. Maybe, depending on... On where

  78. you live or the difficulty of racial characteristics,

  79. you might wish that you were a different race

  80. or that the people in your church were different.

  81. Or thirdly, this discontentment might take place

  82. with nostalgic depression. If only I had lived

  83. somewhere else or had been born in a different

  84. time. Now the key to a satisfied and a fulfilled

  85. life is this, as Paul tells Timothy in 1 Timothy

    1 Timothy 6:6

  86. 6, verse 6. with contentment is great gain. And

  87. Paul is going to teach on this in our passage

  88. today. But before I begin... I must answer a

  89. question that will likely come up in your mind

  90. very quickly as we go through this. In fact,

  91. it might even shout at you. A question that could

  92. stop you from hearing the word of God in this

  93. passage. And that question is this. Is Paul saying

  94. here, does the word of God mean that we cannot

  95. change anything in our lives for the better?

  96. That we cannot find another job or move somewhere

  97. else or improve our circumstances? And the answer

  98. is very simple. By no means. God has given us

  99. great freedom to make moves or to change circumstances

  100. or to have ambition and to pursue things. But

  101. all of that can be done while still maintaining

  102. a strong reserve and well of contentment. John

  103. Calvin puts this so well. He says, Paul is only

  104. seeking to check those impulses. uncontrolled

  105. by reason, which drive men thither and hither,

  106. so that they are confused by their own restlessness.

  107. Ever the insightful and shepherding pastor, Calvin

  108. puts his finger right on the thing that was troubling

  109. the Corinthians regarding marriage, regarding

  110. gifts, and other matters, and this so often troubles

  111. us as well, and that is our restlessness. Our

  112. restlessness, that stirring of the heart, the

  113. complaining and the murmuring, or that drive

  114. which is unsettled, it is disturbed, dissatisfied,

  115. discontented, and not at peace. Just like the

  116. restless waves of the sea roaring within, or

  117. like Solomon describes in Ecclesiastes when he

  118. says, therefore I hated life. Because the work

  119. that was done under the sun was distressing to

  120. me. For all is vanity and grasping of the wind.

  121. Grasping of the wind. Go out to the 20 and 30

  122. and 40 mile an hour winds that we had last night.

  123. And try to grasp it. And you cannot. And that

  124. is how he felt about life. Restlessness. Restlessness

  125. is a scourge that will steal your joy. It will

  126. diminish your enjoyment of life. And it will

  127. leave you dissatisfied and empty. Always seeking

  128. the next best thing and never able to find it.

  129. Just like that mythical pot of gold at the end

  130. of a rainbow. The answer to godly contentment

  131. and the ceasing of restlessness is found in our

  132. passage today. And Paul emphasizes it most emphatically.

  133. He repeats himself three times in these eight

  134. verses. Three times. So let's hear the word of

  135. God as he expounds it. The governing principle

  136. of this passage is walk in the calling that God

  137. has assigned to you. And this is in verse 17.

  138. As God has distributed to each one, as the Lord

  139. has called each one, so let him walk. And so

  140. I ordain, Paul says, in all the churches. Let's

  141. break this apart. God has distributed This is

  142. stated by this very matter -of -fact statement.

  143. God has distributed to every man as the Lord

  144. has called anyone, and so we are to walk. Now

  145. Paul, on his journey from Berea to Corinth, stopped

  146. by the city of Athens. And he went to a central

  147. place in the city. It was called the Areopagus.

  148. And it was the public place where the city council

  149. would meet and where notable speakers would come

  150. and would expound or propound new ideas. And

  151. there he was preaching to the Epicurean and the

  152. Stoic philosophers. And he made this very profound

  153. statement. He said, God, who made the world and

  154. everything in it, since he is Lord of heaven

  155. and earth, does not dwell in temples made with

  156. hands. Nor is he worshipped with men's hands,

  157. as though he needed anything, since he gives

  158. to all life, breath, and all things. And then

  159. hear this. And he has made from one blood every

  160. nation of men to dwell on all the face of the

  161. earth and has determined their pre -appointed

  162. times. And the boundaries of their dwellings.

  163. Their times and their dwellings. God gave you

  164. life. He gave you breath. He gave you all things.

  165. And determined in his own sovereign inscrutable

  166. will. That you would be here today. That you

  167. would live in this particular time. in the United

  168. States of America, in the home where you dwell,

  169. with the parents that you have, and the children

  170. that you have born. This is all by the hand of

  171. Almighty God, who has appointed it so. This is

  172. the doctrine of God's providence, which is brought

  173. to life in our passage today. For the principle

  174. in this passage is not only about marriage, what

  175. came before, the immediate context. No, this

  176. principle applies to every area of life. And

  177. Paul then is going to go on and deal with two

  178. circumstances that were very pertinent to the

  179. Corinthians. The circumstances of circumcision

  180. and slavery. We're going to consider that in

  181. a moment. Then he says the Lord has called each

  182. one. So this distribution from God includes a

  183. call from the Lord. Now here's a question. Is

  184. Paul, is this passage referring to God's call

  185. of salvation? Or is he speaking of our vocation,

  186. the particular gifts and opportunities that are

  187. given to us? Paul does not say specifically,

  188. but I think he's referring to both. It seems

  189. like the first part of the passage is speaking

  190. of God's call of salvation. But then Paul also

  191. tells us to remain in the same calling in verse

  192. 20, which would indicate the life situation and

  193. the vocation that we have. So let's consider

  194. each one. God has called us, first of all, by

  195. the gospel to salvation and to sanctification.

  196. Paul tells the Thessalonians in 2 Thessalonians

    2 Thessalonians 2:13–15

  197. 2, verse 13 to 15, he says, But we are bound

  198. to give thanks to God always for you, brethren

  199. beloved of the Lord, Because God from the beginning

  200. chose you for salvation. Through sanctification.

  201. By the spirit and belief of the truth. To which

  202. he called you by our gospel. For the obtaining

  203. of the glory of our Lord Jesus Christ. Therefore

  204. brethren stand fast. And hold the traditions

  205. which you were taught, whether by word or our

  206. apostle. So as we consider this call to salvation,

  207. Paul is emphasizing here how that God chose you

  208. for your salvation. You did not initially choose

  209. God. Rather, you responded to him because he

  210. chose you for salvation and he called you by

  211. his name. gospel for the obtaining of glory.

  212. This is quite a statement. Now this is what is

  213. generally called the doctrine of election. That

  214. is the gracious choosing of people to be saved

  215. in Christ. And they are given faith. They are

  216. justified and sanctified and glorified. For this

  217. call is according to God's purpose for you. Paul

  218. expands on this in Romans. Romans chapter 8 verse

    Romans 8:28

  219. 28 and 30. He says, and we know that all things

  220. work together for good to those who love God.

  221. God get this to those who are the called they

  222. are the called according to his purpose for whom

  223. he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed

  224. to the image of his son that he might be the

  225. firstborn among many brethren moreover whom he

  226. predestined Those he also called. Again, we see

  227. this call that comes here. Whom he called, these

  228. he also justified. And whom he justified, these

  229. he also glorified. Now there are many other scriptures

  230. that could attest to this glorious fact. But

  231. I'm not going to take the time to develop this

  232. further. Simply the point here is that there

  233. is a call to salvation that comes from God. And

  234. it quickens the dead and makes them come alive.

  235. And they trust in him and believe in him and

  236. they have faith. and walk it out and work it

  237. out. So, in this passage... God's call to salvation

  238. is definitely the backdrop, but this call, this

  239. text then also refers to God's call more particularly

  240. to you in how you work it out, how you walk it

  241. out. That is working out your salvation, but

  242. also experiencing his call in your vocation.

  243. That is the calling that you have to the earthly

  244. condition or your station in life, the life situation.

  245. including your ordinary occupations and roles.

  246. God gave you the gifts that you have, the opportunities

  247. that you have, the abilities you have, even determined

  248. the sex that you are and the abilities that he

  249. created you with. I cannot help it that I will

  250. never be able to bear a child because I am not

  251. a woman. God made me a man. And to you women

  252. who are here, God gave you that gift. It comes

  253. from him and was determined by him. Paul then

  254. says, so let him walk. Walk according to this

  255. call. So every person is to walk according to

  256. God's distribution. That's his providence. And

  257. also according to the Lord's call in salvation

  258. and in vocation. To walk here is to make one's

  259. way. It is to progress in life, to make due use

  260. of opportunities that God sovereignly brings

  261. your way. It is to regulate your life so that

  262. you conduct yourself in a way that makes use

  263. of the gifts and the abilities that God has given

  264. to you to work it out. The purpose of this is

  265. that God is glorified in your walk and with your

  266. gifts. Peter says, as each one has received a

  267. gift, minister it to one another as good stewards

  268. of the manifold grace of God. If anyone speaks,

  269. let him speak as the oracles of God. If anyone

  270. ministers, let him do it as the ability which

  271. God supplies, that in all things God may be glorified

  272. through Jesus Christ, to whom belongs the glory

  273. and the dominion forever and ever. Amen. That's

  274. in 1 Peter 4, verse 10 and 11. Thus, Paul in

    1 Peter 4:10

  275. Romans chapter 12, he says, of the gifts differing

    Romans 12 chapter mention

  276. according to the grace that is given us, let

  277. us use them. Romans 12 verse 6. We find the same

    Romans 12:6

  278. truth in the parable of the talents that Jesus

  279. gave, as well as many other illustrations in

  280. the word of God. So this truth is not unique

  281. to the Corinthians. It is universal to all of

  282. us. Now we know that, but Paul already makes

  283. a special point of it. He says, I command this.

  284. In all of the churches, I'm telling all the churches

  285. wherever I go, this self -same thing, this very

  286. thing, they are to abide in God's call and God's

  287. distribution. There are times when God pours

  288. out special gifts on people. They might become

  289. famous or maybe renowned. Perhaps they have great

  290. responsibilities or weighty decisions. Maybe

  291. they have the responsibility of nations or of

  292. churches or of denominations or of worldwide

  293. business that lie on their shoulders. God poured

  294. out His Spirit in unique ways on the Apostle

  295. Paul and the other apostles. Unique things that

  296. no one else has had like it. He's done so, he's

  297. poured out his spirit on great men of the past

  298. and the present. But by the same spirit, he calls

  299. most Christians to live a normal Christian life.

  300. A normal Christian life. God calls husbands to

  301. faithfully love their wives. Wives to love and

  302. reverence her husband. to care for the children,

  303. to do the many normal tasks of life. Some might

  304. say, well, this sounds almost boring. I want

  305. to do something great for God. I want to be noble,

  306. something that is renowned. No, to most everybody,

  307. you do the normal things of life that God has

  308. given to you. Love your wife, love your husband,

  309. care for them. The fact that God calls most Christians

  310. to exactly this kind of life. For this is the

  311. active and faithful walking with God in the place

  312. that he has set before you. You get up in the

  313. morning and sometime during the day you read

  314. the word of God and you pray or you minister

  315. to your children and to your wife or to your

  316. husband. If you're a husband and a father, you

  317. love your wife and you pray with her or you wash

  318. her in the word. You minister to your household

  319. and you lead them well and then you work diligently

  320. at your job. You show hospitality as God gives

  321. you opportunity. You pray for others. You attempt

  322. to shepherd well those whom God has placed in

  323. your care. You seek to be a wise steward of your

  324. finances and you build relationships with the

  325. hope of furthering Christ's kingdom and making

  326. disciples. And wise with a few difference you

  327. do likewise in fulfilling your calling and responsibilities.

  328. And so the apostle speaks and commands in all

  329. the churches. So important is this to Paul as

  330. he is teaching that he repeats this command twice

  331. more. Verse 20, let each one remain in the same

  332. calling in which he was called. And then again

  333. in verse 24, brethren, let each one remain with

  334. God in that state in which he was called. One

  335. would think he's really driving this point home.

  336. But then he gives two illustrations. We're going

  337. to look at both of them. The first illustration

  338. is that of circumcision versus uncircumcision.

  339. He says, was anyone called while circumcised?

  340. Let him not become uncircumcised. Was anyone

  341. called while uncircumcised? Let him not be circumcised.

  342. Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is

  343. nothing, but the keeping of the commandments

  344. of God is what matters. So he says, was anyone

  345. called while circumcised? Let him not become

  346. uncircumcised. Now one might ask, how does one

  347. become uncircumcised? After all, historically

  348. though, in the time of the New Testament writings,

  349. there was a surgical procedure that attempted

  350. this. Because all Jews were circumcised, and

  351. because of the way, the lifestyle that they lived

  352. with the bathhouses and the gymnasiums and races.

  353. One state of being circumcised or uncircumcised

  354. was rather obvious sometimes. So what happened

  355. is that Hellenistic Jews, who were Jewish people

  356. in the ancient times, who spoke the Greek language

  357. and lived outside of Judea in a kind of adopted

  358. Greek culture, they then would undergo a procedure

  359. to make them appear uncircumcised. And so this

  360. is why Paul would say this is actually a fact

  361. here. They wanted not to be obviously Jewish.

  362. But on the other hand, there were some who were

  363. teaching that Christians should become Jews and

  364. they should be circumcised. This actually was

  365. the thing that sparked the very first great church

  366. council in Acts chapter 15 and verse 1. And certain

    Acts 15 chapter mention

  367. men came down from Judea and taught the brethren,

  368. unless you are circumcised, you cannot be saved.

  369. And again, chapter 15, verse 5. Some of the sect

  370. of the Pharisees who believed rose up saying

  371. it is necessary to circumcise them and to command

  372. them to keep the law of Moses. And so the apostles

  373. and the elders came together to consider this

  374. matter. And they concluded that no, this is not

  375. necessary for them to be circumcised. They can

  376. remain Gentiles. This is the big issue in the

  377. early church, especially as it progressed from

  378. initially being primarily Jewish. Until the Gentiles

  379. were grafted in and then the gospel permeated

  380. Gentile society and the Christian faith became

  381. much more cosmopolitan, much more widespread

  382. and less distinctively Jewish. Paul then says

  383. this, he makes this very shocking statement.

  384. Circumcision is nothing and uncircumcision is

  385. nothing. So he illustrates God's calling in this

  386. way. If you're a Jew, don't seek to become a

  387. Gentile. If you're a Gentile, Don't become a

  388. Jew. External markers like this do not enhance

  389. or diminish one's standing before God. Neither

  390. seeking circumcision nor seeking to reverse it

  391. carries spiritual weight. Instead, what really

  392. matters is the keeping of the commandments of

  393. God. That is, obedience to God's law and word

  394. in the whole Bible as progressively revealed

  395. from Old Testament to New Testament and flowing

  396. from the new identity in Christ. We see this

  397. so clearly and yet it was such a big thing. It's

  398. this restlessness again that I described earlier.

  399. Oh, if only I would be this way. To the Hellenistic

  400. Jew is only if I could be a Gentile and act like

  401. them and be like them. So I'm going to do what

  402. I can so that I can fit in. Or the other way

  403. around. No, it didn't matter. He says, it is

  404. nothing. Of course, Paul repeats this to the

  405. Galatians in chapter 6, verse 15. He says, for

  406. in Christ Jesus, neither circumcision nor uncircumcision

  407. avails anything but a new creation. And as many

  408. as walk according to this rule, peace and mercy

  409. be upon them and upon the Israel of God. Now

  410. we can certainly take this and apply it to other

  411. areas in our life as well. Things that might

  412. really matter. For example, we could talk about

  413. the issues of race. Some might wish, oh, I would

  414. be more acceptable to God if I were this particular

  415. race or that particular race or whatever it is.

  416. And yet we're all created in the image of God.

  417. And so again, it is nothing. Be thankful for

  418. where you were born. Be thankful for the blessings

  419. and the privileges that you have that God has

  420. specifically granted to you. But don't sweat

  421. it. Don't long to be, oh, if only I were this

  422. or that. No, you trust in the Lord that he has

  423. made you in the way that he has. And so also

  424. it was with circumcision and uncircumcision.

  425. The second illustration that Paul uses, Is that

  426. of slavery or freedom? Verses 21 to 23. He says,

  427. Let each one remain in the same calling in which

  428. he was called. Were you called while a slave?

  429. Do not be concerned about it. But you can be

  430. made free, if you can be made free. Rather, use

  431. it. For he who is called in the Lord while a

  432. slave is the Lord's freedman. Likewise, he who

  433. is called while free is Christ's slave. You were

  434. bought with a price. Do not become slaves of

  435. men. So Paul addresses here slavery and freedom

  436. as another illustration. Again, this was very

  437. real. Slavery being quite commonplace in the

  438. Roman and the Greek empires. Many slaves had

  439. come to be part of the Christian church. Now

  440. some of the slavery was horrific. Chained gangs

  441. working in mines with beatings and minimal food.

  442. short life expectancies only to be replaced again

  443. as soon as they were dead. Large farms and ranches

  444. used chained field gangs. Runaways were hunted,

  445. and recaptured slaves could be branded on their

  446. faces or on their foreheads, or they could be

  447. collared or flogged or even crucified. Galley

  448. slaves were rowers chained to benches in the

  449. ships and driven by the whip with high mortality

  450. from exhaustion. and disease and battle. Some

  451. of the slaves were trained as gladiators. Sexual

  452. exploitation was a feature of the slave system.

  453. But some slaves were also trusted slaves where

  454. they worked as secretaries or teachers or accountants

  455. or even doctors. And yet, Paul says, were you

  456. called while a slave? Don't be concerned about

  457. it. Do not be anxious about your social status.

  458. Even in slavery, there could be contentment without

  459. the restlessness. However, if there was a possibility

  460. of freedom, he encouraged them to take it, that

  461. they should, if possible, to take it. Alistair

  462. Begg gives this illustration and he says, some

  463. slaves could buy their freedom. They were able

  464. to work side jobs, give a percentage to the owner,

  465. and then they would deposit the rest at the temple.

  466. Once the market rate for the slave was deposited,

  467. then the slave would take the master to the temple.

  468. The master then would receive the money from

  469. the temple, and the slave would become free from

  470. the master, but a slave to the God, to the God

  471. of the temple. In essence then, buying his freedom.

  472. By becoming a slave of the God, they became free.

  473. Well, Paul uses this thing that was happening

  474. there, and he shows how this works spiritually

  475. with Christ. That is, he who is called in the

  476. Lord while a slave is the Lord's freedman. Likewise,

  477. he who is called while free is Christ's slave.

  478. We respond to Christ. We are under his authority,

  479. yes. But slavery to Christ actually brings great

  480. freedom. Great freedom. Freedom in Christ was

  481. not dependent on their circumstances of being

  482. a slave or of getting their freedom. This was

  483. indeed revolutionary teaching, and it set the

  484. slaves free to serve the Lord with a cheerful

  485. heart, even while serving their masters, but

  486. also to make use of the opportunities for freedom

  487. as they came. Slaves were full members of the

  488. Christian church. Sometimes they would actually

  489. worship together with their masters, with other

  490. free people. There are many, many of the epistles

  491. have references and instructions to slaves and

  492. to servants as well as masters. Ephesians 6 verse

    Ephesians 6:5

  493. 5, bond servants be obedient to those who are

  494. your masters according to the flesh with fear

  495. and trembling and sincerity of heart is unto

  496. Christ. And then verse 9, and you masters do

  497. the same things to them. Giving up threatening,

  498. knowing that your own master also is in heaven

  499. and there's no partiality with him. Same in Colossians

    Colossians 3:22

  500. chapter 3 verse 22. Bond servants, obey in all

  501. things your masters according to the flesh, not

  502. with eye service as men pleasers, but in sincerity

  503. of heart, fearing God. And then chapter 4 verse

  504. 1. Masters, give your bond servants what is just

  505. and fair, knowing that you also have a master

  506. in heaven. Things like this were repeated in

  507. 1 Timothy chapter 6, verse 1 and 2, in Titus

    1 Timothy 6:1 Titus 2:9

  508. chapter 2, verse 9 and 10, and in 1 Peter 2,

    1 Peter 2:18

  509. verse 18. Paul makes the point here that you

  510. were bought with a price. That is the precious

  511. blood of Christ, verse 23. This points back to

  512. his statement in chapter 6, verse 20 of 1 Corinthians.

  513. You were bought at a price, therefore glorify

  514. God in your body and in your spirit, which are

  515. God's. Therefore, even if you are a slave, refuse

  516. to become enslaved to human masters or human

  517. system in a way that compromises loyalty to the

  518. Lord. For again, there is neither Jew nor Greek,

  519. there is neither slave nor free, there is neither

  520. male nor female, for you are all one in Christ

  521. Jesus. He says, do not care about or be concerned

  522. about it, but then use freedom if you can. And

  523. then again emphasizes, let each remain with God

  524. in that state in which he was called. And this

  525. is the final restatement in verse 24. The command

  526. is personal and communal. Brethren, I speak to

  527. you, brethren. But here he gives the key qualifier,

  528. and that is with God. Let each one remain with

  529. God. If we're going to learn to be content. And

  530. to quiet that restlessness within us, we must

  531. be with God. Where we have committed our way

  532. to Him, and we will trust Him that He will help

  533. us to either accept the circumstances or to bring

  534. about something else in His own good time. But

  535. this is hard. I know. You're in a difficult circumstance.

  536. And maybe sometimes what can even make it harder

  537. is you're in this circumstance because of your

  538. own sin. And so now you're having to deal with

  539. the consequences of that sin. And you know, God's

  540. providence still is at work in you despite that

  541. sin. So what's so amazing about God's providence

  542. is that he's still watching over you and he's

  543. guiding your life even though you're experiencing

  544. the results of your sin. God does this. in an

  545. amazing and marvelous way. We must remain with

  546. God. Remaining is not some stoic endurance, but

  547. it's remaining in fellowship with God in the

  548. place that he has assigned, because external

  549. change is secondary, but abiding communion with

  550. God in the present calling is primary. Now this

  551. is very important to note. The three verses here

  552. that emphasize this command do not mean, Just

  553. a passive resignation. Oh, well, what can be?

  554. I just have to accept it. What will be, will

  555. be, or que sera, sera. No, it's not that. The

  556. verses emphasizing this command do not mean mere

  557. passive resignation, but rather an active, faithful

  558. walking with God in the place that he has set

  559. for you, accepting his will in the matter. It's

  560. an active and a faithful walking with God, an

  561. active trust, walking with the Lord in obedience

  562. to his word. Let's consider just a few applications

  563. here as I bring this to a close. Where is your

  564. calling and how do you fulfill it? In almost

  565. every case, it's right here where you are right

  566. now. It's what's right before you. It's where

  567. God has assigned to you. Now, sometimes God will

  568. lead you in a different direction. It might be

  569. now or it also might be several years down the

  570. road. And that's okay. You don't need to figure

  571. it out right now. God uses the journey to shape

  572. you in ways that you can't even imagine. So then

  573. we must ask, what does ordinary faithfulness

  574. look like in your life right now? What does it

  575. look like? Through ordinary, or even one might

  576. say boring, faithfulness that establishes deep

  577. roots. It's a multi -generational vision. Something

  578. that is long -lasting. faithfulness to God's

  579. calling for you. It might seem so commonplace

  580. to regularly work at your job or to care for

  581. your household, to show up on time at church

  582. week after week after week, to minister to those

  583. whom God has placed around you. And all of that

  584. can seem kind of humdrum sometimes if you compare

  585. that with some exciting new venture or you read

  586. a story about this work that this... person did

  587. is renowned person and how God worked in an incredible

  588. way. And you think, what am I missing? No, the

  589. majority of life is doing the ordinary duties

  590. before God and loving one another and putting

  591. down deep roots and being faithful in every area

  592. that God has called you to. Ordinary faithfulness

  593. that establishes deep roots. So in light of that,

  594. here's my counsel. Before you act on your desire

  595. to change your circumstances, be much in prayer

  596. about it. Don't be reactionary, but rather proactive.

  597. What is God teaching me through this difficulty,

  598. or this affliction, or even this unpleasantness?

  599. Am I seeking a change of circumstance because

  600. I believe that it's the right thing for me to

  601. do before God? Or is it because... I just want

  602. to get out of this circumstance because I don't

  603. like it and it's uncomfortable. My learning to

  604. serve Christ faithfully right where he has placed

  605. me. Before you make big decisions, seek wise

  606. counsel and take your time before making a major

  607. move. Husbands, seek the counsel of your wife

  608. and whenever possible, be in agreement together

  609. before making a major decision. especially one

  610. that will affect your family. Remember 1 Peter

    1 Peter 3:7

  611. 3 verse 7. Husbands, likewise, dwell with your

  612. wives with understanding, giving honor to the

  613. wife as to the weaker vessel and as being heirs

  614. together of the grace of life that your prayers

  615. may not be hindered. Remember the old adage,

  616. the grass is greener on the other side of the

  617. fence. And that simply means that something can

  618. look so advantageous. Especially because it would

  619. get me out of this uncomfortable situation that

  620. I'm in right now. But so often we are enamored

  621. with it and we fail to see the downsides or the

  622. other things that will happen. This principle

  623. is not a ban on all change. Paul here allows

  624. freedom to the slave if available. Later he permits

  625. remarriage for widows. But it's a guard against

  626. the notion that a change in one's marital or

  627. social or religious status is necessary for greater

  628. holiness and usefulness. God has you right here,

  629. right now. Trust in Him. Look to Him. And be

  630. satisfied and chase away the restlessness with

  631. contentment that God has you right where He wants

  632. you right now. And if the Lord opens up other

  633. doors in the future, then you will look back

  634. and rejoice at what you have learned during this

  635. time. So let's pray. Our Father, we thank you.