Sermon
A Call to a Contented Life: God’s Providence and Your Present Moment, 8/2/26
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Today we're going to turn again, if you would
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have your Bibles turned with me, to the book
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of 1 Corinthians chapter 7, looking at verses
1 Corinthians 7 chapter mention
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17 through 24. The title of the sermon today
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is, A Call to a Contented Life. God's providence
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in your present moment. A call to a contented
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life. Begin reading in verse 17. Was anyone called
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while uncircumcised? Let him not be circumcised.
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Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is
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nothing. But keeping the commandments of God
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is what matters. Let each one remain in the same
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calling in which he was called. Were you called
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while a slave? Do not be concerned about it.
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But if you can be made free, rather use it. For
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he who is called in the Lord while a slave is
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the Lord's freedman. Likewise, he who is called
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while free is Christ's slave. You were bought
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at a price. Do not become slaves of men. Brethren,
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let each one remain with God in that state in
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which he was called. Let's pray together. Father,
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thank you for this word. We pray, Lord, that
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you would lead us as I expound upon it, Lord.
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Pray that you would give me the right words to
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say, the right interpretation, Lord. Clear up
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any perplexities, Lord. And we pray most of all
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that you would speak to us, Lord, that you would
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lead us, that you would convict us where we need
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convicted, and then encourage us, Lord, where
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we need encouraged. We pray that in all, you
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would receive all praise and glory. We ask in
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Jesus' name. Amen. So in the midst of Paul's
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teachings on marriage, on divorce, mixed marriages,
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and singleness in chapter 7, Paul here makes
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a short diversion to further consider the issue
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of calling and contentment in the particular
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life situation that Christian believers find
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themselves in. Now the immediate context is the
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peculiar situation of a believing spouse married
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to an unbeliever and the possibility of separation
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or divorce. versus staying in the marriage. And
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Paul gave instructions about that in the prior
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verses. Paul says, but if the unbeliever departs,
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let him depart. A brother or a sister is not
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under bondage in such cases. But God has called
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you to peace. For how do you know, O wife, whether
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you will save your husband? Or how do you know,
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O husband, whether you will save your wife? And
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then he comes to this passage. There is a common
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temptation to man to look at life through the
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lens of if only. If only my spouse was a Christian
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believer, or if only I would have done this,
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or if I would have done that, or if I had only
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not committed that sin, or would have done that
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good thing. Even further down the rabbit hole
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are thoughts like, if only I had married that
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person instead of the one that I did, or if only
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that eloquent or caring pastor could be my pastor,
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or if only I could just have the gifts and calling
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that this person has. Maybe you think, if only
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I'd lived at whatever idealistic time in your
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mind you think. Maybe that's colonial times or
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Victorian times or the time of the early church
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or when Jesus lived on the earth. Maybe you wish
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that you would have different physical characteristics
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and were taller or shorter or lighter in weight
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or had different parents. Discontentment often
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comes in three or more forms. One is circumstantial.
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If only this circumstance would change, then
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everything would be all right or I could do this.
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Or surroundings. If only the people around me
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were different. Or the other circumstances. Or
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the other surroundings. We might wish that our
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country were different. Or our politics would
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be better. Or our work, that we could do something
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else. Or if only we didn't have the family that
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we did. Or if only our family would be in this
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particular way. Maybe, depending on... On where
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you live or the difficulty of racial characteristics,
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you might wish that you were a different race
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or that the people in your church were different.
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Or thirdly, this discontentment might take place
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with nostalgic depression. If only I had lived
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somewhere else or had been born in a different
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time. Now the key to a satisfied and a fulfilled
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life is this, as Paul tells Timothy in 1 Timothy
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6, verse 6. with contentment is great gain. And
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Paul is going to teach on this in our passage
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today. But before I begin... I must answer a
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question that will likely come up in your mind
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very quickly as we go through this. In fact,
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it might even shout at you. A question that could
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stop you from hearing the word of God in this
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passage. And that question is this. Is Paul saying
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here, does the word of God mean that we cannot
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change anything in our lives for the better?
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That we cannot find another job or move somewhere
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else or improve our circumstances? And the answer
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is very simple. By no means. God has given us
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great freedom to make moves or to change circumstances
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or to have ambition and to pursue things. But
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all of that can be done while still maintaining
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a strong reserve and well of contentment. John
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Calvin puts this so well. He says, Paul is only
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seeking to check those impulses. uncontrolled
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by reason, which drive men thither and hither,
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so that they are confused by their own restlessness.
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Ever the insightful and shepherding pastor, Calvin
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puts his finger right on the thing that was troubling
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the Corinthians regarding marriage, regarding
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gifts, and other matters, and this so often troubles
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us as well, and that is our restlessness. Our
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restlessness, that stirring of the heart, the
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complaining and the murmuring, or that drive
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which is unsettled, it is disturbed, dissatisfied,
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discontented, and not at peace. Just like the
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restless waves of the sea roaring within, or
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like Solomon describes in Ecclesiastes when he
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says, therefore I hated life. Because the work
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that was done under the sun was distressing to
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me. For all is vanity and grasping of the wind.
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Grasping of the wind. Go out to the 20 and 30
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and 40 mile an hour winds that we had last night.
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And try to grasp it. And you cannot. And that
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is how he felt about life. Restlessness. Restlessness
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is a scourge that will steal your joy. It will
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diminish your enjoyment of life. And it will
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leave you dissatisfied and empty. Always seeking
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the next best thing and never able to find it.
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Just like that mythical pot of gold at the end
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of a rainbow. The answer to godly contentment
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and the ceasing of restlessness is found in our
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passage today. And Paul emphasizes it most emphatically.
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He repeats himself three times in these eight
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verses. Three times. So let's hear the word of
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God as he expounds it. The governing principle
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of this passage is walk in the calling that God
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has assigned to you. And this is in verse 17.
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As God has distributed to each one, as the Lord
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has called each one, so let him walk. And so
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I ordain, Paul says, in all the churches. Let's
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break this apart. God has distributed This is
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stated by this very matter -of -fact statement.
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God has distributed to every man as the Lord
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has called anyone, and so we are to walk. Now
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Paul, on his journey from Berea to Corinth, stopped
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by the city of Athens. And he went to a central
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place in the city. It was called the Areopagus.
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And it was the public place where the city council
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would meet and where notable speakers would come
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and would expound or propound new ideas. And
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there he was preaching to the Epicurean and the
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Stoic philosophers. And he made this very profound
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statement. He said, God, who made the world and
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everything in it, since he is Lord of heaven
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and earth, does not dwell in temples made with
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hands. Nor is he worshipped with men's hands,
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as though he needed anything, since he gives
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to all life, breath, and all things. And then
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hear this. And he has made from one blood every
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nation of men to dwell on all the face of the
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earth and has determined their pre -appointed
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times. And the boundaries of their dwellings.
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Their times and their dwellings. God gave you
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life. He gave you breath. He gave you all things.
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And determined in his own sovereign inscrutable
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will. That you would be here today. That you
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would live in this particular time. in the United
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States of America, in the home where you dwell,
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with the parents that you have, and the children
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that you have born. This is all by the hand of
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Almighty God, who has appointed it so. This is
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the doctrine of God's providence, which is brought
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to life in our passage today. For the principle
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in this passage is not only about marriage, what
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came before, the immediate context. No, this
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principle applies to every area of life. And
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Paul then is going to go on and deal with two
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circumstances that were very pertinent to the
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Corinthians. The circumstances of circumcision
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and slavery. We're going to consider that in
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a moment. Then he says the Lord has called each
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one. So this distribution from God includes a
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call from the Lord. Now here's a question. Is
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Paul, is this passage referring to God's call
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of salvation? Or is he speaking of our vocation,
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the particular gifts and opportunities that are
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given to us? Paul does not say specifically,
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but I think he's referring to both. It seems
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like the first part of the passage is speaking
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of God's call of salvation. But then Paul also
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tells us to remain in the same calling in verse
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20, which would indicate the life situation and
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the vocation that we have. So let's consider
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each one. God has called us, first of all, by
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the gospel to salvation and to sanctification.
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Paul tells the Thessalonians in 2 Thessalonians
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2, verse 13 to 15, he says, But we are bound
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to give thanks to God always for you, brethren
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beloved of the Lord, Because God from the beginning
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chose you for salvation. Through sanctification.
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By the spirit and belief of the truth. To which
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he called you by our gospel. For the obtaining
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of the glory of our Lord Jesus Christ. Therefore
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brethren stand fast. And hold the traditions
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which you were taught, whether by word or our
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apostle. So as we consider this call to salvation,
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Paul is emphasizing here how that God chose you
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for your salvation. You did not initially choose
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God. Rather, you responded to him because he
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chose you for salvation and he called you by
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his name. gospel for the obtaining of glory.
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This is quite a statement. Now this is what is
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generally called the doctrine of election. That
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is the gracious choosing of people to be saved
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in Christ. And they are given faith. They are
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justified and sanctified and glorified. For this
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call is according to God's purpose for you. Paul
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expands on this in Romans. Romans chapter 8 verse
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28 and 30. He says, and we know that all things
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work together for good to those who love God.
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God get this to those who are the called they
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are the called according to his purpose for whom
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he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed
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to the image of his son that he might be the
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firstborn among many brethren moreover whom he
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predestined Those he also called. Again, we see
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this call that comes here. Whom he called, these
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he also justified. And whom he justified, these
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he also glorified. Now there are many other scriptures
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that could attest to this glorious fact. But
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I'm not going to take the time to develop this
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further. Simply the point here is that there
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is a call to salvation that comes from God. And
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it quickens the dead and makes them come alive.
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And they trust in him and believe in him and
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they have faith. and walk it out and work it
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out. So, in this passage... God's call to salvation
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is definitely the backdrop, but this call, this
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text then also refers to God's call more particularly
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to you in how you work it out, how you walk it
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out. That is working out your salvation, but
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also experiencing his call in your vocation.
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That is the calling that you have to the earthly
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condition or your station in life, the life situation.
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including your ordinary occupations and roles.
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God gave you the gifts that you have, the opportunities
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that you have, the abilities you have, even determined
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the sex that you are and the abilities that he
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created you with. I cannot help it that I will
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never be able to bear a child because I am not
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a woman. God made me a man. And to you women
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who are here, God gave you that gift. It comes
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from him and was determined by him. Paul then
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says, so let him walk. Walk according to this
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call. So every person is to walk according to
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God's distribution. That's his providence. And
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also according to the Lord's call in salvation
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and in vocation. To walk here is to make one's
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way. It is to progress in life, to make due use
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of opportunities that God sovereignly brings
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your way. It is to regulate your life so that
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you conduct yourself in a way that makes use
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of the gifts and the abilities that God has given
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to you to work it out. The purpose of this is
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that God is glorified in your walk and with your
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gifts. Peter says, as each one has received a
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gift, minister it to one another as good stewards
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of the manifold grace of God. If anyone speaks,
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let him speak as the oracles of God. If anyone
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ministers, let him do it as the ability which
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God supplies, that in all things God may be glorified
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through Jesus Christ, to whom belongs the glory
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and the dominion forever and ever. Amen. That's
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in 1 Peter 4, verse 10 and 11. Thus, Paul in
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Romans chapter 12, he says, of the gifts differing
Romans 12 chapter mention
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according to the grace that is given us, let
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us use them. Romans 12 verse 6. We find the same
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truth in the parable of the talents that Jesus
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gave, as well as many other illustrations in
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the word of God. So this truth is not unique
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to the Corinthians. It is universal to all of
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us. Now we know that, but Paul already makes
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a special point of it. He says, I command this.
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In all of the churches, I'm telling all the churches
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wherever I go, this self -same thing, this very
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thing, they are to abide in God's call and God's
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distribution. There are times when God pours
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out special gifts on people. They might become
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famous or maybe renowned. Perhaps they have great
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responsibilities or weighty decisions. Maybe
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they have the responsibility of nations or of
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churches or of denominations or of worldwide
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business that lie on their shoulders. God poured
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out His Spirit in unique ways on the Apostle
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Paul and the other apostles. Unique things that
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no one else has had like it. He's done so, he's
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poured out his spirit on great men of the past
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and the present. But by the same spirit, he calls
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most Christians to live a normal Christian life.
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A normal Christian life. God calls husbands to
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faithfully love their wives. Wives to love and
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reverence her husband. to care for the children,
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to do the many normal tasks of life. Some might
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say, well, this sounds almost boring. I want
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to do something great for God. I want to be noble,
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something that is renowned. No, to most everybody,
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you do the normal things of life that God has
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given to you. Love your wife, love your husband,
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care for them. The fact that God calls most Christians
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to exactly this kind of life. For this is the
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active and faithful walking with God in the place
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that he has set before you. You get up in the
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morning and sometime during the day you read
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the word of God and you pray or you minister
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to your children and to your wife or to your
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husband. If you're a husband and a father, you
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love your wife and you pray with her or you wash
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her in the word. You minister to your household
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and you lead them well and then you work diligently
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at your job. You show hospitality as God gives
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you opportunity. You pray for others. You attempt
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to shepherd well those whom God has placed in
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your care. You seek to be a wise steward of your
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finances and you build relationships with the
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hope of furthering Christ's kingdom and making
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disciples. And wise with a few difference you
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do likewise in fulfilling your calling and responsibilities.
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And so the apostle speaks and commands in all
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the churches. So important is this to Paul as
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he is teaching that he repeats this command twice
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more. Verse 20, let each one remain in the same
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calling in which he was called. And then again
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in verse 24, brethren, let each one remain with
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God in that state in which he was called. One
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would think he's really driving this point home.
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But then he gives two illustrations. We're going
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to look at both of them. The first illustration
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is that of circumcision versus uncircumcision.
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He says, was anyone called while circumcised?
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Let him not become uncircumcised. Was anyone
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called while uncircumcised? Let him not be circumcised.
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Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is
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nothing, but the keeping of the commandments
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of God is what matters. So he says, was anyone
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called while circumcised? Let him not become
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uncircumcised. Now one might ask, how does one
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become uncircumcised? After all, historically
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though, in the time of the New Testament writings,
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there was a surgical procedure that attempted
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this. Because all Jews were circumcised, and
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because of the way, the lifestyle that they lived
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with the bathhouses and the gymnasiums and races.
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One state of being circumcised or uncircumcised
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was rather obvious sometimes. So what happened
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is that Hellenistic Jews, who were Jewish people
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in the ancient times, who spoke the Greek language
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and lived outside of Judea in a kind of adopted
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Greek culture, they then would undergo a procedure
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to make them appear uncircumcised. And so this
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is why Paul would say this is actually a fact
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here. They wanted not to be obviously Jewish.
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But on the other hand, there were some who were
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teaching that Christians should become Jews and
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they should be circumcised. This actually was
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the thing that sparked the very first great church
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council in Acts chapter 15 and verse 1. And certain
Acts 15 chapter mention
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men came down from Judea and taught the brethren,
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unless you are circumcised, you cannot be saved.
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And again, chapter 15, verse 5. Some of the sect
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of the Pharisees who believed rose up saying
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it is necessary to circumcise them and to command
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them to keep the law of Moses. And so the apostles
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and the elders came together to consider this
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matter. And they concluded that no, this is not
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necessary for them to be circumcised. They can
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remain Gentiles. This is the big issue in the
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early church, especially as it progressed from
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initially being primarily Jewish. Until the Gentiles
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were grafted in and then the gospel permeated
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Gentile society and the Christian faith became
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much more cosmopolitan, much more widespread
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and less distinctively Jewish. Paul then says
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this, he makes this very shocking statement.
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Circumcision is nothing and uncircumcision is
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nothing. So he illustrates God's calling in this
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way. If you're a Jew, don't seek to become a
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Gentile. If you're a Gentile, Don't become a
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Jew. External markers like this do not enhance
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or diminish one's standing before God. Neither
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seeking circumcision nor seeking to reverse it
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carries spiritual weight. Instead, what really
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matters is the keeping of the commandments of
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God. That is, obedience to God's law and word
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in the whole Bible as progressively revealed
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from Old Testament to New Testament and flowing
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from the new identity in Christ. We see this
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so clearly and yet it was such a big thing. It's
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this restlessness again that I described earlier.
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Oh, if only I would be this way. To the Hellenistic
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Jew is only if I could be a Gentile and act like
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them and be like them. So I'm going to do what
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I can so that I can fit in. Or the other way
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around. No, it didn't matter. He says, it is
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nothing. Of course, Paul repeats this to the
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Galatians in chapter 6, verse 15. He says, for
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in Christ Jesus, neither circumcision nor uncircumcision
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avails anything but a new creation. And as many
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as walk according to this rule, peace and mercy
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be upon them and upon the Israel of God. Now
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we can certainly take this and apply it to other
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areas in our life as well. Things that might
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really matter. For example, we could talk about
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the issues of race. Some might wish, oh, I would
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be more acceptable to God if I were this particular
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race or that particular race or whatever it is.
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And yet we're all created in the image of God.
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And so again, it is nothing. Be thankful for
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where you were born. Be thankful for the blessings
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and the privileges that you have that God has
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specifically granted to you. But don't sweat
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it. Don't long to be, oh, if only I were this
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or that. No, you trust in the Lord that he has
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made you in the way that he has. And so also
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it was with circumcision and uncircumcision.
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The second illustration that Paul uses, Is that
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of slavery or freedom? Verses 21 to 23. He says,
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Let each one remain in the same calling in which
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he was called. Were you called while a slave?
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Do not be concerned about it. But you can be
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made free, if you can be made free. Rather, use
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it. For he who is called in the Lord while a
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slave is the Lord's freedman. Likewise, he who
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is called while free is Christ's slave. You were
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bought with a price. Do not become slaves of
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men. So Paul addresses here slavery and freedom
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as another illustration. Again, this was very
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real. Slavery being quite commonplace in the
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Roman and the Greek empires. Many slaves had
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come to be part of the Christian church. Now
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some of the slavery was horrific. Chained gangs
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working in mines with beatings and minimal food.
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short life expectancies only to be replaced again
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as soon as they were dead. Large farms and ranches
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used chained field gangs. Runaways were hunted,
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and recaptured slaves could be branded on their
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faces or on their foreheads, or they could be
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collared or flogged or even crucified. Galley
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slaves were rowers chained to benches in the
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ships and driven by the whip with high mortality
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from exhaustion. and disease and battle. Some
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of the slaves were trained as gladiators. Sexual
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exploitation was a feature of the slave system.
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But some slaves were also trusted slaves where
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they worked as secretaries or teachers or accountants
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or even doctors. And yet, Paul says, were you
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called while a slave? Don't be concerned about
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it. Do not be anxious about your social status.
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Even in slavery, there could be contentment without
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the restlessness. However, if there was a possibility
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of freedom, he encouraged them to take it, that
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they should, if possible, to take it. Alistair
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Begg gives this illustration and he says, some
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slaves could buy their freedom. They were able
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to work side jobs, give a percentage to the owner,
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and then they would deposit the rest at the temple.
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Once the market rate for the slave was deposited,
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then the slave would take the master to the temple.
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The master then would receive the money from
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the temple, and the slave would become free from
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the master, but a slave to the God, to the God
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of the temple. In essence then, buying his freedom.
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By becoming a slave of the God, they became free.
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Well, Paul uses this thing that was happening
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there, and he shows how this works spiritually
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with Christ. That is, he who is called in the
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Lord while a slave is the Lord's freedman. Likewise,
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he who is called while free is Christ's slave.
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We respond to Christ. We are under his authority,
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yes. But slavery to Christ actually brings great
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freedom. Great freedom. Freedom in Christ was
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not dependent on their circumstances of being
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a slave or of getting their freedom. This was
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indeed revolutionary teaching, and it set the
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slaves free to serve the Lord with a cheerful
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heart, even while serving their masters, but
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also to make use of the opportunities for freedom
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as they came. Slaves were full members of the
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Christian church. Sometimes they would actually
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worship together with their masters, with other
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free people. There are many, many of the epistles
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have references and instructions to slaves and
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to servants as well as masters. Ephesians 6 verse
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5, bond servants be obedient to those who are
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your masters according to the flesh with fear
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and trembling and sincerity of heart is unto
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Christ. And then verse 9, and you masters do
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the same things to them. Giving up threatening,
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knowing that your own master also is in heaven
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and there's no partiality with him. Same in Colossians
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chapter 3 verse 22. Bond servants, obey in all
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things your masters according to the flesh, not
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with eye service as men pleasers, but in sincerity
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of heart, fearing God. And then chapter 4 verse
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1. Masters, give your bond servants what is just
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and fair, knowing that you also have a master
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in heaven. Things like this were repeated in
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1 Timothy chapter 6, verse 1 and 2, in Titus
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chapter 2, verse 9 and 10, and in 1 Peter 2,
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verse 18. Paul makes the point here that you
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were bought with a price. That is the precious
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blood of Christ, verse 23. This points back to
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his statement in chapter 6, verse 20 of 1 Corinthians.
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You were bought at a price, therefore glorify
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God in your body and in your spirit, which are
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God's. Therefore, even if you are a slave, refuse
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to become enslaved to human masters or human
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system in a way that compromises loyalty to the
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Lord. For again, there is neither Jew nor Greek,
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there is neither slave nor free, there is neither
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male nor female, for you are all one in Christ
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Jesus. He says, do not care about or be concerned
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about it, but then use freedom if you can. And
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then again emphasizes, let each remain with God
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in that state in which he was called. And this
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is the final restatement in verse 24. The command
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is personal and communal. Brethren, I speak to
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you, brethren. But here he gives the key qualifier,
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and that is with God. Let each one remain with
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God. If we're going to learn to be content. And
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to quiet that restlessness within us, we must
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be with God. Where we have committed our way
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to Him, and we will trust Him that He will help
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us to either accept the circumstances or to bring
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about something else in His own good time. But
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this is hard. I know. You're in a difficult circumstance.
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And maybe sometimes what can even make it harder
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is you're in this circumstance because of your
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own sin. And so now you're having to deal with
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the consequences of that sin. And you know, God's
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providence still is at work in you despite that
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sin. So what's so amazing about God's providence
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is that he's still watching over you and he's
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guiding your life even though you're experiencing
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the results of your sin. God does this. in an
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amazing and marvelous way. We must remain with
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God. Remaining is not some stoic endurance, but
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it's remaining in fellowship with God in the
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place that he has assigned, because external
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change is secondary, but abiding communion with
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God in the present calling is primary. Now this
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is very important to note. The three verses here
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that emphasize this command do not mean, Just
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a passive resignation. Oh, well, what can be?
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I just have to accept it. What will be, will
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be, or que sera, sera. No, it's not that. The
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verses emphasizing this command do not mean mere
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passive resignation, but rather an active, faithful
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walking with God in the place that he has set
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for you, accepting his will in the matter. It's
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an active and a faithful walking with God, an
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active trust, walking with the Lord in obedience
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to his word. Let's consider just a few applications
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here as I bring this to a close. Where is your
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calling and how do you fulfill it? In almost
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every case, it's right here where you are right
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now. It's what's right before you. It's where
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God has assigned to you. Now, sometimes God will
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lead you in a different direction. It might be
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now or it also might be several years down the
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road. And that's okay. You don't need to figure
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it out right now. God uses the journey to shape
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you in ways that you can't even imagine. So then
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we must ask, what does ordinary faithfulness
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look like in your life right now? What does it
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look like? Through ordinary, or even one might
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say boring, faithfulness that establishes deep
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roots. It's a multi -generational vision. Something
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that is long -lasting. faithfulness to God's
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calling for you. It might seem so commonplace
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to regularly work at your job or to care for
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your household, to show up on time at church
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week after week after week, to minister to those
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whom God has placed around you. And all of that
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can seem kind of humdrum sometimes if you compare
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that with some exciting new venture or you read
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a story about this work that this... person did
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is renowned person and how God worked in an incredible
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way. And you think, what am I missing? No, the
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majority of life is doing the ordinary duties
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before God and loving one another and putting
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down deep roots and being faithful in every area
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that God has called you to. Ordinary faithfulness
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that establishes deep roots. So in light of that,
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here's my counsel. Before you act on your desire
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to change your circumstances, be much in prayer
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about it. Don't be reactionary, but rather proactive.
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What is God teaching me through this difficulty,
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or this affliction, or even this unpleasantness?
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Am I seeking a change of circumstance because
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I believe that it's the right thing for me to
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do before God? Or is it because... I just want
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to get out of this circumstance because I don't
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like it and it's uncomfortable. My learning to
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serve Christ faithfully right where he has placed
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me. Before you make big decisions, seek wise
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counsel and take your time before making a major
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move. Husbands, seek the counsel of your wife
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and whenever possible, be in agreement together
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before making a major decision. especially one
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that will affect your family. Remember 1 Peter
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3 verse 7. Husbands, likewise, dwell with your
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wives with understanding, giving honor to the
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wife as to the weaker vessel and as being heirs
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together of the grace of life that your prayers
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may not be hindered. Remember the old adage,
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the grass is greener on the other side of the
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fence. And that simply means that something can
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look so advantageous. Especially because it would
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get me out of this uncomfortable situation that
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I'm in right now. But so often we are enamored
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with it and we fail to see the downsides or the
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other things that will happen. This principle
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is not a ban on all change. Paul here allows
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freedom to the slave if available. Later he permits
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remarriage for widows. But it's a guard against
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the notion that a change in one's marital or
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social or religious status is necessary for greater
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holiness and usefulness. God has you right here,
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right now. Trust in Him. Look to Him. And be
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satisfied and chase away the restlessness with
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contentment that God has you right where He wants
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you right now. And if the Lord opens up other
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doors in the future, then you will look back
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and rejoice at what you have learned during this
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time. So let's pray. Our Father, we thank you.