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  1. Heat.

  2. Heat. Heat.

  3. Hallelujah.

  4. together.

  5. Hallelujah.

  6. Amen.

  7. Hallelujah.

  8. Heat. Heat.

  9. Hallelujah.

  10. Good morning.

  11. >> Welcome to worship at Christ Church.

  12. Good morning to everyone worshiping with

  13. us online. So glad you could join us

  14. this morning. If you're worshiping here

  15. in the sanctuary, I want to encourage

  16. you to please fill out your connect

  17. card. We'd love to know who's worshiping

  18. with us this morning. On that connect

  19. card is also a place for you to fill out

  20. your prayer concerns. So, if you could

  21. do that, you'll have an opportunity to

  22. bring that forward a little bit later on

  23. in the service. If you're worshiping

  24. with us online, you could scan the QR

  25. code and you can register your

  26. attendance and fill out your prayer

  27. concern and give uh that way. It is a

  28. blessing to be able to come together and

  29. worship the Lord together. And I invite

  30. you now to rise physically or

  31. spiritually. Join us for our opening

  32. hymn, hymn number 166 in our blue

  33. himnel. All praise to thee for thou o

  34. king divine. Let us worship together.

  35. Heat. Heat.

  36. Heat

  37. up

  38. here.

  39. Heat.

  40. Heat. Heat.

  41. Heat.

  42. Heat. Heat.

  43. Heat

  44. up here.

  45. I invite you to join me for our call to

  46. worship and act of praise. On this

  47. transfiguration Sunday, we gather on the

  48. mountaintop with Jesus, wondering what

  49. we will encounter.

  50. >> Come to God's glory revealed.

  51. >> We witness the revelation of Christ

  52. divinely made plain before us.

  53. We come to witness God's glory.

  54. >> We remember that God's glory is not

  55. about spectacle but truth. Not about

  56. show but about love made real among us.

  57. >> God's glory.

  58. >> We follow Jesus down from the

  59. mountaintop into the valleys. As God g

  60. as God's glory goes before us and behind

  61. us.

  62. Glory to you. Thank be to God. Amen.

  63. Glory

  64. to the Lord.

  65. Heat. Heat.

  66. His

  67. ever shall be

  68. with

  69. amen.

  70. Amen.

  71. >> Please be seated.

  72. Well, good morning again. It's a

  73. pleasure to be with you here at Christ

  74. United Methodist Church on this

  75. Transfiguration Sunday.

  76. I was wondering what Transfiguration

  77. Sunday really meant. And I I had to do a

  78. little homework on it and do a little

  79. research. And what I learned is there's

  80. no good answer. Um what I have learned

  81. is that various Christian denominations

  82. celebrate the transfiguration on

  83. different days. Now, we know what the

  84. transfiguration is all about. It's the

  85. revelation of Jesus' divine glory. So we

  86. we get that. But how do we celebrate it?

  87. Well, the Catholics, the Eastern

  88. Orthodox, and a number of other

  89. denominations celebrated on a fixed day,

  90. on a fixed calendar, which they

  91. celebrated on August 6th. We Methodists

  92. and the the Presbyterians and the

  93. Lutherans, we go a different way, and we

  94. we celebrate the transfiguration on a

  95. movable day, a movable calendar. So we

  96. we define it by the last Sunday of the

  97. the Epiphany, which leads us to the

  98. Sunday immediately preceding uh Ash

  99. Wednesday, which is geared to Easter,

  100. which is based upon the vernal equinox

  101. and the rotation of the sun and the

  102. earth. Uh so there you have it. You

  103. know, sometimes we just have to believe

  104. that the leaders of the church are

  105. telling us the right day and faith is a

  106. good thing, right?

  107. Well, as we prepare to share in a prayer

  108. of confession, remember that following

  109. the prayer, we will take a moment for

  110. silent confession and reflection,

  111. let us also remember that Christ came to

  112. us to show us how to live in peace and

  113. in love.

  114. Now, let us come before him and confess

  115. that which we have done which is

  116. contrary to his peaceful kingdom on this

  117. earth. Please join me in our prayer of

  118. confession.

  119. How patient you are with us, living

  120. creator. How hard we find to put up with

  121. the foolishness of others. In humility,

  122. you become one of us. And we keep

  123. wanting everything to be about us. You

  124. model a life of meekness in service to

  125. others. And we are convinced life is all

  126. about power and success.

  127. All creation sings of your kindness

  128. while we hurl angry words at those we

  129. say we care about. Yet rather than

  130. becoming frustrated with us, you

  131. continue to forgive us. Clothe us with

  132. your love, we pray, so we might be more

  133. compassionate toward others. Touch us

  134. with your grace so we might become more

  135. gentle people. Fill us with that peace

  136. which longs to reside in our hearts even

  137. as we seek to continue our journey with

  138. Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior.

  139. Amen. Now hear and believe and accept

  140. these words of assurance.

  141. In these moments, let God's peace dwell

  142. in your hearts. For God gives us hope,

  143. gives us peace, and gives us new life in

  144. the forgiveness of God's grace. Thanks

  145. be to God.

  146. God has renewed and restored us,

  147. offering us forgiveness and love. Share

  148. that forgiveness and love with everyone

  149. as we take a moment in this time of

  150. worship to share the peace of Christ.

  151. Whether you're worshiping here in this

  152. lovely sanctuary or worshiping at home

  153. or elsewhere online, wherever you're

  154. worshiping, lift up your neighbors in

  155. prayer with the words, "The peace of the

  156. Lord be with you." Knowing that as we

  157. worship together, we are indeed and in

  158. fact united in Christ. Please stand and

  159. share the peace of Christ with each

  160. other.

  161. Good morning.

  162. Please be seated.

  163. Invite you to draw your attention to the

  164. entrance to the sanctuary. You could

  165. either turn around or take a look at the

  166. screen. We are blessed to be able to

  167. celebrate a baptism this morning.

  168. Brothers and sisters in Christ, through

  169. the sacrament of baptism, we are

  170. initiated into Christ's holy church. We

  171. are incorporated into God's mighty acts

  172. of salvation and given new birth through

  173. water and the spirit. All this is God's

  174. gift offered to us without price. To

  175. today I present Spencer Elizabeth Tomsh

  176. for baptism.

  177. On behalf of the whole church I ask you,

  178. do you renounce the spiritual forces of

  179. wickedness, reject the evil of this

  180. world, and repent of your sin? If so,

  181. please respond. We do.

  182. >> We do. Do you accept the freedom and

  183. power God gives you to resist evil,

  184. injustice, and oppression in whatever

  185. forms they present themselves? If so,

  186. please respond, "We do. We do."

  187. >> Do you confess Jesus Christ as your

  188. savior? Put your whole trust in his

  189. grace and promise to serve him as your

  190. Lord in union with the church, which

  191. Christ has opened to people of all ages,

  192. nations, and races. If so, please

  193. respond, "We do.

  194. >> We do." And will you nurture this child

  195. in Christ's holy church that by your

  196. teaching and example she may be guided

  197. to accept God's grace for herself to

  198. profess her faith faith openly and to

  199. lead a Christian life? If so, please

  200. respond. We will.

  201. >> We will.

  202. >> And you as Christ's body, the church,

  203. reaffirm both your rejection of sin and

  204. your commitment to Christ. If so, please

  205. respond. We do.

  206. >> I invite you to join me as we pray a

  207. prayer of thanksgiving over the water.

  208. Eternal God, when nothing existed but

  209. chaos, you swept across the dark waters

  210. and brought forth light. In the days of

  211. Noah, you saved those on the ark through

  212. water. After the flood, you said in the

  213. clouds a rainbow. When you saw your

  214. people as slaves in Egypt, you led them

  215. to freedom through the sea. Their

  216. children you brought through the Jordan

  217. to the land which you promised. In the

  218. fullness of time, you n you you you sent

  219. Jesus, nurtured in the water of a womb.

  220. He was baptized by John and anointed by

  221. your spirit. He called his disciples to

  222. share in the baptism of his death and

  223. resurrection and to make disciples of

  224. all nations. Pour out your holy spirit

  225. and bless this gift of water and she who

  226. receives it to wash away her sin and

  227. clothe her in righteousness throughout

  228. her life that dying and being raised

  229. with Christ, she may share in his final

  230. victory. Amen.

  231. What name is given to this child?

  232. >> Spencer Elizabeth Thompson. Come here,

  233. sweetie. How are you? Hi,

  234. Spencer Elizabeth Tomshet. I baptize you

  235. in the name of the Father,

  236. in the name of the Son,

  237. and in the name of the Holy Spirit.

  238. May the Holy Spirit work within you that

  239. being baptized by water and spirit, you

  240. may be a faithful disciple of Jesus

  241. Christ. Amen.

  242. Want to go meet everybody?

  243. You all have a part to play in this as

  244. well. Will you nurture one another in

  245. the Christian faith and life and include

  246. Spencer Elizabeth now before you in your

  247. care? If so, please respond. With God's

  248. help, we proclaim the good news and live

  249. according to the example of Christ. We

  250. will surround Spencer Elizabeth with a

  251. community of love and forgiveness that

  252. she may grow in her trust of God and be

  253. found faithful in her service to others.

  254. We will pray for her that she may be a

  255. true disciple who will walk in a way

  256. that leads to life. Amen. Would you help

  257. me welcome Spencer into our church

  258. family.

  259. We have a group of ladies that made this

  260. for her and prayed over it for her.

  261. Congratulations.

  262. >> Thank you so much.

  263. >> Thanks for letting me be a part of it.

  264. Today's scripture reading is from the

  265. New Testament. It actually comes from

  266. two different books of the New

  267. Testament. We'll be reading passages

  268. from Philippians and from Colossians.

  269. Both of those books are part of the the

  270. grouping of books that the theologians

  271. frequently call the prison epistles.

  272. They were thought to be written by Paul

  273. while likely imprisoned in Rome uh

  274. between 60 and 62 AD or common era CE if

  275. you so choose. In any event, we'll be

  276. reading Philippians uh 2:es 1-1 and

  277. Colossians 3:es 12-14.

  278. Hear now these words from the New

  279. Testament.

  280. Therefore, if you have any encouragement

  281. from being united with Christ, if any

  282. comfort from his love, if any common

  283. sharing in the spirit, if any tenderness

  284. and compassion, then make my joy

  285. complete by being like-minded, having

  286. the same love, being one in spirit and

  287. of one mind. Do nothing out of selfish

  288. ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in

  289. humility, value all others above

  290. yourselves, not looking to your own

  291. interests, but each of you to the

  292. interests of the others. In your

  293. relationships with one another, have the

  294. same mindset as Christ Jesus, who being

  295. in very nature God, did not consider

  296. equality with God something to be used

  297. to his own advantage. Rather, he made

  298. himself nothing by taking the very

  299. nature of a servant, being made in human

  300. likeness. And being found in appearance

  301. as a man, he humbled himself by becoming

  302. obedient to death, even death on a

  303. cross. Therefore, God exalted him to the

  304. highest place and gave him the name that

  305. is above every name. that at the name of

  306. Jesus, every knee should bow in heaven

  307. and on earth and under the earth, and

  308. every tongue acknowledge that Jesus

  309. Christ is Lord to the glory of God the

  310. Father. Therefore, as God's chosen

  311. people, holy and dearly loved, clothe

  312. yourselves with compassion, kindness,

  313. humility, gentleness, and patience. Bear

  314. with each other and forgive one another.

  315. If any of you has a grievance against

  316. someone, forgive as the Lord forgave

  317. you. And over all these virtues, put on

  318. love which binds them all together in

  319. perfect unity. Hear what the spirit is

  320. saying to the church.

  321. >> Thanks be to God.

  322. >> So before I jump into this week's

  323. sermon, I just want to say a big thank

  324. you to our scouts that have helped us

  325. pass out bulletins and greet all of you.

  326. You've came in this morning as part of

  327. Scout Sunday. So when you head out, if

  328. you see them, make sure you thank them

  329. for their willingness to serve and help

  330. us uh in worship this morning. Well,

  331. over the past several weeks, we have

  332. been talking about real relationships

  333. and from all walks of life, from

  334. marriage to parent child uh to

  335. friendships to work relationships to

  336. relationships inside the church. And

  337. we've learned that real relationships

  338. are not always ideal. They're not just

  339. the kind of relationships that work when

  340. everyone is calm and rested and and

  341. getting, you know, their own way. Uh

  342. that they take work. Real relationships

  343. take work. And we've talked about some

  344. of those things that happen inside real

  345. relationships that people tend not to

  346. talk about. Things like tension and

  347. misunderstanding and disappointment and

  348. moments where love feels more like a uh

  349. more costly than it does convenient. And

  350. we've talked about how we are built for

  351. connection and we're looking for a love

  352. that lasts. And we've learned how to

  353. fight right. And on this Valentine's Day

  354. weekend as we close our real

  355. relationship series, we ask one final

  356. question. Not just how do relationships

  357. work, but what are they meant to

  358. reflect? Because relationships are never

  359. neutral. Relationships are always

  360. forming us into something. And it and

  361. the Christian vision of real

  362. relationships is our relationships are

  363. meant to reflect Christ. Not perfectly,

  364. but visibly, not flawlessly, but

  365. faithfully. Because if Christ is in us,

  366. it changes how we relate to others.

  367. Amen. I mean, that's what it's all

  368. about. Paul opens Philippians 2 with a

  369. series of statements that sound almost

  370. conditional, but they're not actually

  371. conditional. are actually assumptions

  372. that Paul has. Paul isn't wondering if

  373. these things are true of the church.

  374. Paul is assuming they are true of the

  375. church. He says, "If you have any

  376. encouragement from being united with

  377. Christ, if any comfort from his love, if

  378. any common sharing of the spirit, if any

  379. tenderness or compassion, this is Paul's

  380. way of saying if Christ really lives in

  381. us, if the spirit of God is actually

  382. shaping us, if the love of God has truly

  383. reached our heart, then something has

  384. got to look different in the way we

  385. relate to other people." You see,

  386. Christian meant Christian love and faith

  387. was never meant to be just a private

  388. belief or an internal uh uh comfort that

  389. we have. It was never meant to be just

  390. about what we think in our mind or feel

  391. in our heart. From the very beginning,

  392. faith in Christ is meant to be poured

  393. out in our tone, in our posture, in our

  394. patience, in how we treat one another,

  395. especially when relationships get

  396. strained. Now, Paul's logic is simple,

  397. but it's very piercing. He says, "We

  398. can't claim to have a life of Christ

  399. living in us and leave our relationships

  400. unchanged." Paul continues by saying,

  401. "Then make my joy complete by being

  402. like-minded, having the same love, being

  403. one in spirit, and of one mind." Now,

  404. that line can sound pretty intimidating

  405. if we misunderstand it.

  406. Excuse

  407. me. Sorry.

  408. Paul is not calling for uniformity here.

  409. He's not demanding that everyone thinks

  410. the same way, votes the same way, views

  411. the same issue from the same angle all

  412. the time. And he's certainly not asking

  413. us as a church to avoid conflict or to

  414. suppress any kind of disagreement. What

  415. Paul is calling for here is something

  416. actually deeper than agreement. He's

  417. calling for alignment. It's not about

  418. sness. It's not about agreeing on every

  419. issue. It's not about pretending that

  420. tension doesn't exist. It is about a

  421. shared direction. Paul is saying if

  422. Christ truly lives in us, then even when

  423. we see things differently, we keep

  424. moving towards the center. And that

  425. center is not comfort. It's not control.

  426. It is not winning the argument. That

  427. center is Christ. So to be like-minded

  428. doesn't mean that we all think the same

  429. way. It means that we let the mind of

  430. Christ shape how we think about one

  431. another. It means before we speak,

  432. before we react, before we withdraw,

  433. before we defend ourselves, we got to

  434. ask a deeper question. What does

  435. faithfulness to Christ look like in this

  436. situation? That is why Paul put

  437. likeminded with having the same love.

  438. Not the same opinion, not the same

  439. preferences, but the same love. Love

  440. that is patient when it would be easier

  441. for us to be short. Love that stays

  442. engaged when it would be simpler for us

  443. to just pull away. Love that listens

  444. before it labels. Love that seeks

  445. understanding instead of leverage. And

  446. then Paul says, "And being one in spirit

  447. and of one mind." You see, that doesn't

  448. erase differences. It actually redeems

  449. the differences. We might not always

  450. agree, but we are committed to the same

  451. spirit, the same Lord, and the same

  452. story that God is writing for every

  453. single one of us. Which means there are

  454. some lines that we just refuse to cross.

  455. Like we won't weaponize our words. We

  456. don't reduce people to positions.

  457. We don't treat disagreement as betrayal

  458. and we don't let frustration give us

  459. permission to stop loving well. Because

  460. if Christ is truly the center, the goal

  461. is no longer being right. The goal is

  462. being faithful. And faithfulness often

  463. looks like staying at the table a lot

  464. longer than we would want to. It looks

  465. like listening instead of defending.

  466. choosing humility where where pride

  467. feels justified. You see, Paul is Paul's

  468. inviting the church into a shared

  469. commitment with each other. Even when

  470. things get hard, even when we

  471. misunderstand each other, even when our

  472. emotions are high, Christ is still the

  473. center. Not our comfort, not our ego,

  474. not our need to win. Christ. And when

  475. Christ is the center, relationships stop

  476. being places where we need to prove

  477. ourselves and they start being places

  478. where Christ is being revealed. Because

  479. if Christ is in us, it does not just

  480. change what we believe. It changes how

  481. we relate to others. We experience a

  482. relational shift from self to others.

  483. Listen to what Paul says. Do nothing out

  484. of selfish ambition or vain conceit.

  485. Rather, in humility, value others above

  486. yourselves.

  487. You know, that sentence confronts almost

  488. everything our culture teaches us about

  489. relationships. I mean, we are trained

  490. often times without even realizing it to

  491. protect ourselves, to keep score, to win

  492. arguments, to make sure we're not giving

  493. more than we're receiving. But Paul

  494. doesn't deny our needs, but he refuses

  495. to let our self-interest be the

  496. organizing principle of our

  497. relationships. He says, "Not looking to

  498. your own interest, but each of you to

  499. the interest of others." Now, this is

  500. not about becoming a doormat. This is

  501. not about letting people just walk all

  502. over you and cause you harm. But it is

  503. about becoming Christshaped.

  504. Humility is not thinking less of

  505. yourself. It is thinking of yourself

  506. less. And when humility enters a

  507. relationship, everything changes. How we

  508. listen, how we speak, how we disagree,

  509. even how we forgive. And the model we're

  510. given to follow is Jesus.

  511. Because Paul knows that that kind of

  512. love sounds idealistic and oftentimes

  513. unrealistic, especially when we are in

  514. relationships that feel strained or

  515. trust has been wounded. So he doesn't

  516. just give the church a theory. He gives

  517. us a person to actually look at. He says

  518. in your relationships with one another,

  519. have the same mindset as Christ Jesus.

  520. Now that sentence is doing a whole lot

  521. of work. Paul doesn't say try harder to

  522. be nice. He doesn't say avoid conflict

  523. at all cost. He doesn't even tell us

  524. that we should love people in a in a

  525. more general way. He says think the way

  526. Jesus thinks when you're with each

  527. other. So if we want to know what

  528. relationships shaped by Christ actually

  529. look like. We don't start with

  530. techniques or rules. We start by looking

  531. at Jesus. And then Paul pulls back the

  532. curtain of what Jesus actually believes

  533. and stands for. He says, "Who being in

  534. very nature God, did not consider

  535. equality with God as something to be

  536. used for his own advantage." You see,

  537. Jesus had power, but he didn't cling to

  538. it. He had authority, but he did not

  539. leverage it to protect himself. He had

  540. status, but he refused to use it as a

  541. shield or a weapon. Jesus never asked,

  542. "What can I get away with?" or "How do I

  543. maintain control here?" or "How do I

  544. make sure I come out on top?" Instead,

  545. Paul says, "Rather, he made himself

  546. nothing, taking the very nature of a

  547. servant." Now, that phrase does not mean

  548. that Jesus became weak or insignificant.

  549. It means he chose downward mobility. He

  550. willingly stepped out of privilege in

  551. heaven and into proximity by coming here

  552. to earth. He moved towards people rather

  553. than standing above people. Jesus didn't

  554. enter a relationship saying, "What am I

  555. owed? What do I deserve for everything

  556. I've done? Who needs to acknowledge my

  557. authority? Instead, he said, "How can I

  558. love? How can I serve?

  559. How can I bring life to this

  560. relationship?" And then Paul takes it

  561. all the way to the cross. He says, "He

  562. humbled himself by becoming obedient to

  563. death, even death on a cross."

  564. That is not symbolic humility. That is

  565. costly obedience.

  566. That is the kind of love that absorbs

  567. pain instead of passing pain along. You

  568. see, the cross is the clearest picture

  569. of what love looks like when Jesus is at

  570. the center. Not dominance, not control,

  571. not emotional withdrawal, not quiet uh

  572. resentment, but self-giving love,

  573. choosing faithfulness even if it cost us

  574. deeply. And remember, we never look at a

  575. person who Jesus didn't die for. And

  576. that is what it means to love like

  577. Jesus. The question is, do we love like

  578. that? Because if that is the mindset of

  579. Christ,

  580. then relationships shaped by Christ will

  581. feel a lot more like surrender than they

  582. feel like victory. They will involve us

  583. letting go of the need to win, of us

  584. requiring to lay down our right to be

  585. understood first.

  586. They will ask us to trust God when

  587. outcomes are beyond our control. But the

  588. cross also reminds us that surrendering

  589. Christ was never wasted. Because the

  590. same Jesus that humbled himself was also

  591. the one that God raised up. Because a

  592. love that looks like Jesus may feel

  593. costly right in the moment, but it's the

  594. same love that God used to bring

  595. resurrection and healing and new life.

  596. And that is the model that we are called

  597. to follow.

  598. So why is it so difficult? Well, let's

  599. be honest. Even though that love is

  600. beautiful, it's also hard because our

  601. patience wears thin. Our kindness runs

  602. out, forgiveness feels unfair, and

  603. humility feels risky. Which is why Paul

  604. doesn't just give us a vision. He gives

  605. us some daily practices to follow.

  606. Practices that will help us have a

  607. Christlike character. In Paul, in

  608. Colossians 3, Paul shifts the language.

  609. He says, "Therefore, as God's chosen

  610. people, holy and dearly loved." You see,

  611. that phrase is really important. We

  612. often read over that portion of that

  613. passage. But that phrase is important

  614. because it shows us before we receive

  615. any instruction about what we are

  616. supposed to do, God gives us an

  617. identity. You see, we don't love Jesus

  618. in order to earn God's love. We love

  619. like Jesus because God already loves us.

  620. And then Paul says, "Clothe yourselves

  621. with compassion and kindness and

  622. humility and gentleness and patience."

  623. That word clothe means these are not

  624. feelings we wait for. These are choices

  625. that we make. How many of you would

  626. agree that sometimes it's easy to show

  627. compassion to somebody, right? How many

  628. of you would also agree that sometimes

  629. compassion feels like putting on a stiff

  630. jacket that we don't want to put on, but

  631. we put it on anyway because we know we

  632. need to. Paul then says, "Bear with each

  633. other and forgive one another if any of

  634. you has a grievance against someone." To

  635. bear with someone means staying present.

  636. It means refusing to reduce that person

  637. to their worst moment. Choosing

  638. faithfulness over frustration.

  639. And then the standard that we all strive

  640. for, forgive as the Lord forgave you,

  641. not because the other person deserves

  642. it, but because we've already received

  643. it. So that's what we should show

  644. others. And then Paul says, "On top of

  645. all of these virtues, put on love, which

  646. binds them all together in perfect

  647. unity." You see, love's the glue. Love's

  648. the coat over everything else. Because

  649. without love, patience really just

  650. becomes tolerance. Without love,

  651. humility becomes indifference.

  652. Without love, forgiveness becomes

  653. avoidance. But with love, relationships

  654. begin to reflect Jesus. So what does

  655. that look like for us in real life?

  656. Because this kind of love is not meant

  657. to just live in theory. It shouldn't

  658. just only stay in sermons or Bible

  659. studies or in our thought process. It

  660. needs to show up in our ordinary

  661. moments, in conversations that catch us

  662. off guard, in disagreements that hit a

  663. nerve, in relationships where old

  664. patterns are easy and new patterns we

  665. don't want to do because it's often

  666. costly.

  667. It looks like listening. When everything

  668. inside us wants to interrupt, not

  669. because we don't have a point, but

  670. because the other person matters more

  671. than us proving our point. It looks like

  672. staying curious instead of defensive,

  673. asking, "Help me understand why you're

  674. thinking this way or what you're feeling

  675. instead of immediately explaining while

  676. why they are wrong and we are right." It

  677. looks like telling the truth without

  678. trying to wound. speaking honestly

  679. without using our words as weapons.

  680. It looks like choosing repair over being

  681. right. Letting go of the satisfaction of

  682. winning the argument in order to protect

  683. the relationship. Recognizing that being

  684. right can still cost us something we

  685. were never meant to lose.

  686. And it looks like absorbing pain instead

  687. of passing pain on. interrupting that

  688. cycle where hurt

  689. creates more hurt. Deciding that the

  690. pain stops with us, even if that feels

  691. unfair.

  692. And in all of those moments, it really

  693. comes down to us asking ourselves one

  694. quiet, spiritually led question in real

  695. time as we're trying to navigate our

  696. relationships.

  697. How can I reflect Jesus here?

  698. Not how do I protect myself, not how do

  699. I make them understand, not how do I

  700. come out looking good, but how do I

  701. remain faithful in this moment? Because

  702. following Jesus does not mean we avoid

  703. tension. It means we face tension

  704. differently. It means we show up slower

  705. and softer and more intentional. We

  706. choose humility when pride feels

  707. justified. We choose grace when distance

  708. feels easier.

  709. And unfortunately, most of the time when

  710. we do this, no one's going to applaud

  711. it. There's not going to be some big

  712. dramatic moment. And it's not usually

  713. going to provide instant resolution, but

  714. over time, that kind of love does

  715. something pretty powerful. It builds

  716. trust. It creates safety. And it keeps

  717. relationships open where they could so

  718. easily close. That is what it looks like

  719. to not just believe in Christ, but to

  720. live it out in our daily relationships.

  721. You see, at Christ Church, our mission

  722. is building inclusive community sharing

  723. Christ transforming love. That mission

  724. does not rise and fall on our programs.

  725. That mission does not rise and fall on

  726. our branding. That mission does not rise

  727. and fall on our schedule.

  728. That mission rises and falls on our

  729. relationships

  730. because the clearest picture that most

  731. people will ever have of who Jesus is is

  732. how we as Christians treat one another,

  733. especially when life gets hard. So, as

  734. we close this series, here's the

  735. challenge.

  736. Who is God inviting us to see in a new

  737. way? Not as a problem to fix, but as a

  738. person to love. Where is the spirit

  739. asking us to put on compassion and

  740. kindness and patience and humility even

  741. if it feels unnatural or unfair?

  742. And what would it look like to release

  743. control? Let go of the need to win and

  744. trust God with the outcome. Because real

  745. relationships that reflect Jesus,

  746. they're not built by perfect people.

  747. They're built by people that keep

  748. choosing love again and again and again

  749. and again. Let's pray. Lord, we're so

  750. grateful that you love us

  751. just because. Not because of what we do

  752. or don't do, not because of what we say

  753. or don't say, not because we're perfect.

  754. Not because we make mistakes, but

  755. because

  756. you choose to love us.

  757. Help us to accept that love

  758. because it will change our life. And

  759. then help us to show that love in the

  760. relationships that we are in and in the

  761. relationships that you will continue to

  762. give us an opportunity to start. Because

  763. without that kind of love, our

  764. relationships are doomed to fail. But

  765. with that kind of love,

  766. you can do things that we can't even

  767. imagine. Thank you for loving us and

  768. thank you for giving us what we need to

  769. love others. We ask all this in your

  770. son's name. And everyone said, "Amen."

  771. >> Oh, Mark's really tall.

  772. Here we go. down to regular sized

  773. people. Good morning. I'm Pastor Pat.

  774. I'm always happy to be here with my

  775. church family. As we enter into this

  776. prayer time, I remind you of your

  777. connection card that's inside your

  778. program today. Take time to fill those

  779. out. We are a praying church. We have

  780. pastors and staff that pray. We have a

  781. intercessory prayer team. We take prayer

  782. very seriously. If you're at home, you

  783. can go to christumc.net

  784. and enter your prayer that way. or if

  785. you're digital, which I'm not, you can

  786. uh scan the QR code and enter it that

  787. way. But we do take it very seriously

  788. here at Christ Church. During the prayer

  789. hymn, the prayer rails will be open. If

  790. you want to, you can come up and kneel

  791. here. You can bring the prayer cards up

  792. and put them in the basket.

  793. At this time, I would ask that you

  794. stand. And our prayer hymn is number

  795. 168. At the name of Jesus, please stand

  796. in body or spirit.

  797. every knee shall bow.

  798. Every tongue confessing

  799. your glory

  800. is the father's pleasure.

  801. We should call him Lord

  802. who from the beginning was a mighty

  803. word

  804. for a season

  805. to receive our name

  806. from the saf.

  807. The leading glory

  808. to the

  809. glory and victorious

  810. death

  811. of tries.

  812. to join

  813. with the glory of the perfect

  814. in your voice and

  815. you

  816. all that is the Lord.

  817. All that is our true

  818. int.

  819. Please be seated.

  820. As we enter into prayer, one of the

  821. things that struck me in Chris's message

  822. today was he willingly stepped out of

  823. privilege in heaven. Think about that as

  824. we go into prayer.

  825. Lord Jesus, I thank you for your

  826. presence right here in this room. I

  827. thank you for giving us a safe space

  828. that we can come in and worship you.

  829. Lord, I thank you for knowing each one

  830. of us by name. Knowing each one of us

  831. were going to be here today to hear your

  832. message.

  833. Lord, I thank you for creating us to be

  834. the people that you wanted us to be.

  835. Lord, we seek that real relationship

  836. that our relationship with you would

  837. reflect uh to so many others. Let that

  838. love of a God spill from us to those

  839. that you put in our path.

  840. Lord, I lift up all of the prayer

  841. requests and the joys that we have on

  842. our lips, on our hearts. I lift those up

  843. to you now. Lord,

  844. fill us with that love like Jesus. Lord,

  845. I ask that you fill us with patience,

  846. fill us with kindness,

  847. fill us with humility,

  848. and Lord, fill us with forgiveness.

  849. Lord, at times that we don't know what's

  850. going to happen, we thank you that what

  851. is happening is right here and right

  852. now, and that we can stand with you.

  853. You also taught us to pray, Lord. In one

  854. voice we offer to you. Our Father, who

  855. art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy

  856. kingdom come, thy will be done on earth

  857. as it is in heaven. Give us this day our

  858. daily bread. And forgive us our

  859. trespasses

  860. as we forgive those who trespassed

  861. against us. and lead us not into

  862. temptation, but deliver us from evil.

  863. For thine is the kingdom, and the power,

  864. and the glory forever. Amen.

  865. Well, as the ushers are preparing to

  866. receive our tithes and offerings, I just

  867. want to share a couple of announcements.

  868. If you haven't yet got your pancake

  869. breakfast breakfast tickets uh for the

  870. Bethl Park Upper Stair Rotary breakfast

  871. on March 7th, you can pick those up in

  872. the community square following worship.

  873. Uh all the proceeds go to our prime time

  874. adult daycare uh to do the work that

  875. they continue to do. This Wednesday is

  876. Ash Wednesday in the beginning of Lent.

  877. It's hard to believe that it's here

  878. already, but we will be offering open

  879. communion in ashes from 11:00 in the

  880. morning till 6:00 p.m. here in the

  881. sanctuary. You can come at any time to

  882. receive communion and ashes or you can

  883. wait and come to the service at 7:00 on

  884. Wednesday evening uh and also receive

  885. communion and ashes in that service. We

  886. still will be having our Wednesday night

  887. dinner. It is a waffle bar. So, make

  888. sure you sign up for that. You have to

  889. sign up for the dinner. And if you have

  890. kids, you can sign them up for Christ

  891. kids because they're going to learn all

  892. about Lent while we're in the Ash

  893. Wednesday service. So, we want to

  894. encourage you uh to do that as well. I

  895. also want to encourage you to check up

  896. check out our news page at

  897. christumc.net/news.

  898. It shows everything going on and gives

  899. you an opportunity to sign up for those

  900. things that you need to sign up for

  901. whether it be Wednesday dinner or

  902. helping serve at our fish fries that

  903. start this Friday. You can sign up for

  904. any and all of those things there. So,

  905. please do that. Every week we try to

  906. share a story about how your generosity

  907. makes a difference in the life of this

  908. church. And this week I want to share a

  909. story with you about our Wade in the

  910. Water Capital campaign that we started

  911. in August of last year. The goal with

  912. that campaign was to pay off a line of

  913. credit, pay off a loan that we had with

  914. the bank, and build a contingency fund

  915. to take care of this building as it

  916. continues to age. I wanted to report

  917. back because one of the biggest goals

  918. was to pay off as much as we could on

  919. that loan before the interest rate

  920. changed in February. I'm here to tell

  921. you that since August, you have been

  922. able to pay off $187,000

  923. line of credit and pay off $422,000

  924. of principal towards that loan for a

  925. total of $69,000

  926. before that interest rate changed. That

  927. is awesome. And I want to say thank you

  928. for your generosity because it allows us

  929. to continue to do the work that God has

  930. called us to do with a building and also

  931. in ministry. And I invite you to join me

  932. as we pray for our offering this

  933. morning. Lord, we are so grateful for

  934. all that you have given to us. And now,

  935. as we give back to you a portion of what

  936. has been given to us, we ask that you

  937. would take it and use it and multiply it

  938. for the work that needs to continue in

  939. this world. We ask all of this in your

  940. son's name. And everyone said, "Amen."

  941. Ushers, would you come?

  942. Heat. Heat.

  943. be

  944. Praise.

  945. Praise our name we praise.

  946. Praise.

  947. Praise thy name we praise.

  948. Praise.

  949. Praise thy name we praise. Praise,

  950. praise,

  951. praise. I make praise.

  952. Immortal,

  953. invisible,

  954. God only

  955. in light in accessible

  956. from our eyes.

  957. most blessed, most glorious,

  958. the ancient of days. Alm mighty,

  959. victorious,

  960. thy great name we praise,

  961. unresting,

  962. unhingy

  963. and silent as light.

  964. for walking nor wasting. Thou rulest in

  965. might.

  966. Thy justice

  967. like mountains, thy soaring above, thy

  968. clouds which are mountains of goodness

  969. and love.

  970. To all life,

  971. to the great and small

  972. in All life,

  973. the true life of

  974. wee.

  975. Praise,

  976. praise thy name we praise.

  977. Praise,

  978. praise thy name we praise.

  979. Great father of glory,

  980. your father of light,

  981. thy angels

  982. adore thee, all willing their sight.

  983. Oh, praise thee.

  984. Oh, help us to see it is only the

  985. splender

  986. of white.

  987. Hear my soul. In this

  988. alm mighty

  989. victorious

  990. name

  991. we praise.

  992. We praise.

  993. Praise

  994. the name. We praise.

  995. We praise.

  996. Praise.

  997. Thy name we praise.

  998. Praise

  999. God.

  1000. Blessings,

  1001. Lord.

  1002. Praise the creatures here.

  1003. Praise God.

  1004. Praise for the son.

  1005. I invite you to remain standing as we

  1006. share in our sending hymn. Hymn number

  1007. 73, O Worship the King.

  1008. Worship

  1009. the king of glory

  1010. Heat. Heat.

  1011. Hey,

  1012. heat.

  1013. Heat. Heat.

  1014. Heat.

  1015. Oh,

  1016. heat,

  1017. heat.

  1018. As we go from this place, may we receive

  1019. that love that God has offered to us.

  1020. And then may we show that love to the

  1021. people that God puts in front of us.

  1022. Amen.

  1023. >> Go in God's love.

  1024. Heat.

  1025. Heat. Heat.