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Self-Control: Controlling Your Words

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  1. Sharing good news of great joy to all people.

  2. Elation Church. Week number five. Everybody say

  3. week number five. Go ahead and say it. Week number

  4. five in our series on self -control. Self -control.

  5. Have you learned anything from the series on

  6. self -control? You know, I didn't realize how

  7. important self -control was. to every area of

  8. my spiritual life. I mean, I knew it was important.

  9. Before this study, though, I didn't realize how

  10. important it was. It's very important. Self -control

  11. is very important if you want to live a spiritual

  12. life, a godly life. Self -control is going to

  13. play a vital part. 2 Peter 1, verses 3 through

    2 Peter 1:3–8

  14. 8. By his divine power, God has given us everything

  15. we need for living a godly life. Do you know

  16. that? It doesn't say by his divine power, God

  17. will give us everything we need, does it? Hello?

  18. Y 'all gonna have to wake up. I won't throw water

  19. on you if you fall asleep. I'm just kidding.

  20. It doesn't say God will. Since God has already

  21. given us everything we need for living a godly

  22. life. Somebody say, it's already mine. Everything

  23. you need for living a godly life, it's already

  24. yours. We have received all of this, how? By

  25. coming to know him in salvation. By coming to

  26. know him, the one who called us to himself by

  27. means of his marvelous glory and excellence.

  28. And because of his glory and excellence, he has

  29. given us great and precious promises. Look at

  30. the person beside you and say, I have some promises

  31. from God. Come on, move your lips. Don't just

  32. say it in your head, say it with your mouth.

  33. I have some promises from God. You do. Now, here's

  34. the deal. It's going to be up to you whether

  35. those promises are applied to your life or not.

  36. He has given us great and precious promises.

  37. These promises that he's given us, these are

  38. the promises that enable you to share his divine

  39. nature and escape the world's corruption caused

  40. by human. Who needs some escape every once in

  41. a while? Right? I think we all do. But God's

  42. promises enable us to share his divine nature

  43. and escape the world's corruption caused by human

  44. desires. That's why it's messed up the world

  45. is human desires. It all started back in the

  46. garden, right? That's when sin entered. It's

  47. human desires. Not godly desires, but human desires

  48. messed it all up. In view of all this, in view

  49. of what? He's given us everything we need to

  50. live a godly life. He's given us great and precious

  51. promises, right? So in light of all that, in

  52. view of all that, make every effort to respond.

  53. To God's promises. Everybody say, I have to respond.

  54. It's up to you whether you respond to God's promises

  55. or not. Respond to God's promises. Here's how

  56. you need to respond. Supplement your faith. Well,

  57. it's by faith that we're going to take hold of

  58. any and all of God's promises, right? So he expects

  59. us to already know this by the time we get to

  60. here. It's going to take faith. You're going

  61. to have to hear it. You're going to have to believe

  62. it. You're going to have to act on it. You're

  63. going to have to put your words in agreement

  64. with it. That's faith. But supplement your faith

  65. with a generous provision of moral excellence.

  66. supplement your faith with a generous provision

  67. of moral excellence and moral excellence with

  68. knowledge. You know what that means? We're going

  69. to have to spend some time in the Word. Right?

  70. We can't live sloppy lives, and we've got to

  71. spend some time in the Word. We've got to add

  72. that to our faith. And knowledge, here it is,

  73. with self -control. Everybody say self -control.

  74. Y 'all need to smile. You need to have self -control

  75. to smile so that I can preach better today because

  76. you're smiling. Knowledge with self -control

  77. and self -control with patient endurance. How

  78. many of you know if you're going to live by faith,

  79. you're going to have to have some patient endurance?

  80. And patient endurance with godliness. And godliness

  81. with brotherly affection. And brotherly affection

  82. with love for everyone. Not just within the family

  83. of God. But we're called to even love the people

  84. who are hard to love. Has anybody ever... ran

  85. into somebody that was hard to love before. I

  86. don't know if I have enough hands to hold up.

  87. I mean, I don't have enough fingers to hold up

  88. to tell you about the people that I've ran into

  89. that might be just a little bit hard to love.

  90. We have to add love to our faith because faith

  91. works. Through love. If we miss the love element,

  92. then our faith is not going to work. Let's keep

  93. going. Verse 8. The more you grow like this,

  94. the more productive and useful you will be in

  95. your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. Who

  96. wants to be productive? Who wants to be useful?

  97. I do. Well, supplement your faith with a generous

  98. provision of all those things, and we're focusing

  99. in on self -control to be more productive and

  100. useful. Now, self -control, that's a Greek word.

  101. New Testament was written in Greek. Enkrateia.

  102. Enkrateia. I think that's close. It's a compound

  103. word. In means in the sphere of and kratos means

  104. dominion or mastery. So this word self -control

  105. means dominion within or self -control. It means

  106. that we have self -control over what is in us.

  107. Self -control over our thoughts. We talked a

  108. week about that. Self -control over our feelings.

  109. Self -control over our actions. Self -control.

  110. 1 Corinthians 9 .24 says this, Don't you realize

  111. that in a race everyone runs, but only one person

  112. gets the prize? So run to win. The Holy Spirit

  113. through Paul often talked about our Christian

  114. life being like a race. It's not a sprint. It's

  115. a marathon. It's a marathon. Look to the person

  116. beside you and say, run to win. If you're not

  117. talking to the person beside you, say, I'm running

  118. to win. So run to win. Listen, all athletes are

  119. disciplined. Guess what? It doesn't say self

  120. -control here. But it's the exact same Greek

  121. word. All athletes are disciplined. They exercise

  122. self -control. Everybody say self -control. Self

  123. -control in their training. They do it to win

  124. a prize that will fade away. But we do it for

  125. an eternal prize. So I run with purpose in every

  126. step. I'm just letting it sit there a minute.

  127. Everybody say, I run with purpose. See, we're

  128. not just running. We're running with purpose

  129. in our spiritual life. I run with purpose in

  130. every step. I'm not just shadowboxing. This isn't

  131. practice. I'm not just shadowboxing. I discipline

  132. my body. like an athlete, training it to do what

  133. it should do. Everybody say self -control. Self

  134. -control is essential. In that verse, we see

  135. that self -control is essential to living with

  136. purpose and living in victory. Is there anybody

  137. in the room who's more than a conqueror? Through

  138. Christ who strengthens them. Somebody say, I

  139. am. Self -control is essential. And Galatians

  140. 5 .22 says this, but the Holy Spirit, God the

  141. Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our

  142. lives. Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness,

  143. goodness. faithfulness, gentleness, and self

  144. -control. This is good news. It's good news.

  145. It's good news because the fruit of the Spirit

  146. is all those things that I said, but it's also

  147. self -control. That's good news because that

  148. lets us know that we have a helper. We're not

  149. on our own. People who are not in Christ, they're

  150. just on their own. Trying to apply self -control

  151. the best they can. But we have a helper. And

  152. if we will acknowledge him, he will empower us

  153. to have self -control. But we have to acknowledge

  154. him. Y 'all quit smiling on me. Gotta keep smiling.

  155. Self -control is, these are some word studies

  156. that we found working on the introduction. Self

  157. -control means it's proceeding out from within

  158. oneself, but it's not by oneself when it's self

  159. -control according to the word of God. Self -control

  160. is true mastery from within, and it can only

  161. be accomplished by the power of the Lord. He's

  162. living in us. He will empower us. Self -control

  163. is not just about abstaining from something or

  164. abstaining from excess. Sometimes we look at

  165. self -control that way. Well, if I have self

  166. -control, I won't do this and I won't do that

  167. and I won't say this and I won't say that and

  168. I won't have this attitude. Hello? Sometimes

  169. it's just about the negative. But self -control

  170. is for the positive too. It's not just abstaining,

  171. but it involves a positive mastery and direction

  172. of one's energies and desires towards godly purposes.

  173. Everybody say focus. And we talked about this

  174. every week. And we need to know this. We can't

  175. control everything around us. We can't. We can't

  176. control everyone around us. How many of you have

  177. tried to control everything around you before

  178. and you figured out you can't do that? Have you

  179. tried to control everybody around you? Am I the

  180. only one? Figured out you can't do that. Here's

  181. the deal. Only you can control you. You can have

  182. self -control God wants you to have self -control

  183. he empowers you to have self -control Today we're

  184. going to talk about controlling our words Controlling

  185. our words How many of you know it takes a lot

  186. of self -control to control what comes out of

  187. your mouth James says this, James 3, 7, people

  188. can tame all kinds of animals, birds, reptiles,

  189. fish, but no one can tame the tongue. It is restless

  190. and evil and full of deadly poison. Has anybody

  191. ever said something before and you said, yeah,

  192. that was pretty evil what came out of my mouth.

  193. That was like poison. I mean, you know. And you

  194. wish. See, sometimes after we get those words

  195. out there, we wish that we would have never got

  196. them out there, but we can't pull them back in.

  197. Because what has been said has been said. And

  198. I just want to remind you. Everything that you

  199. see in creation was created by words. Right?

  200. It's created by words. It's held together by

  201. God's word. Now, James said, you can't do it.

  202. No one can tame the tongue. But what Jesus said

  203. was, humanly speaking, it's impossible. But with

  204. God, everything is possible. With God. Somebody

  205. say with God. With God. And we just looked at

  206. that. We're with God. If we're in Christ, we're

  207. with God. We have a helper who's going to help

  208. us. The way to have self -control over your words

  209. is to acknowledge the Holy Spirit and partner

  210. with Him. If we acknowledge God more than we

  211. acknowledge God, I'm not talking about just at

  212. church, because we all come to church and we

  213. all acknowledge God while we're at church, right?

  214. I mean, that's why we're here. We're acknowledging

  215. God. But what about after church is over? What

  216. about on Monday morning? What about on Saturday

  217. night? Are we acknowledging God? And if we were

  218. acknowledging Him like He wants us to, because

  219. we're supposed to live our lives walking in the

  220. Spirit. We're supposed to be led by the Spirit.

  221. We need to be acknowledging Him. And if we acknowledged

  222. him, we would have more power in our lives. I

  223. really wanted that amen right then. So I guess

  224. I'll just have to amen myself. James 3, let's

  225. continue reading. We can make a large horse go

  226. wherever we want by means of a small bit in his

  227. mouth. And a small rudder makes a huge ship turn

  228. wherever the pilot chooses to go. Even though

  229. the winds are strong. In the same way, everybody

  230. say just like that. In the same way, because

  231. James was not just talking about ships and horses.

  232. He was talking about tongues. In the same way,

  233. the tongue is a small thing. So just like A rudder

  234. steers a ship and a bit in a horse's mouth steers

  235. the horse. Your words determine the direction

  236. and destination of your life. Does anybody remember

  237. hearing anything like this in like November and

  238. December? Has anybody mastered it since then?

  239. Still work on it just a little bit? Right? The

  240. rudder on the ship determines the direction of

  241. the ship. The bit in the horse's mouth, it's

  242. like a steering wheel for the horse. I'm going

  243. to bring up an old illustration, a six -month

  244. -old illustration, because some of you were not

  245. here when I said it. If you want to go to New

  246. York, You cannot drive south and get there. Somebody

  247. go, wow. That's wisdom. Right? If you want to

  248. go to New York, you're not going to get there.

  249. You'll never get there if you drive south. Never.

  250. If you drive south, depending on the roads that

  251. you hit, you'll wind up in Key West. It's about

  252. as far south as you can get. Unless you're over

  253. above Texas and you can get, you know, maybe

  254. you can pick up a road and wind up in the bottom

  255. of South America. But you'll never get to New

  256. York. You're like, so? Listen, if your words

  257. steer your life, You'll never reach where God

  258. wants you to be and where God's best. You'll

  259. never reach God's best if your words are in the

  260. opposite direction of what God has said. You

  261. got to get your words in agreement with his words

  262. to wind up with the life that you want to live.

  263. Because you'll never get there. without steering

  264. in that direction. And how do you steer? Somebody

  265. help me. How do you steer your life? How do you

  266. determine which direction you're going in? Thank

  267. you. It's going to happen through your words.

  268. There are things that you should say, and there

  269. are things that you shouldn't say. Right? The

  270. tongue, Proverbs 18, 21, the tongue can bring

  271. death or life. Those who love to talk will reap

  272. the consequences. As a response to that verse,

  273. you can say, oh, no, or you can say, hallelujah.

  274. Isn't that what it says? Your tongue can bring

  275. life or death. Those who love to talk will reap

  276. the consequences. So if my tongue is in agreement

  277. with God, if my words are in agreement with God,

  278. God is life, right? And if my tongue is in agreement

  279. with him, my tongue is going to bring me life,

  280. the life of God. If my tongue is always speaking

  281. death and my tongue is always negative, you know

  282. what? It's going to bring me death. The more

  283. we talk, the more we're going to reap. 1 Peter

  284. 3 .10 Does anyone want to enjoy life? Four of

  285. us. If you want to enjoy life and see many happy

  286. days, keep your tongue From speaking evil. So

  287. your words have a lot to do with whether you

  288. enjoy your life and whether you have happy days.

  289. If you wake up dreading to go to work and dreading,

  290. just everything's just, oh, it's just terrible.

  291. People I work with are terrible. My boss is terrible.

  292. The hours are terrible. The work is terrible.

  293. Guess what? You're not going to have happy days.

  294. didn't write this. I didn't write it. Seems like

  295. to me if you want to enjoy your life and have

  296. happy days is up to self -control over your words.

  297. This is the day the Lord has made. I'm going

  298. to rejoice. And be glad in it. Instead of bread

  299. and Monday. Come on. Somebody say oh me or amen

  300. or something. Proverbs 21 verse 23. Watch your

    Proverbs 21:23

  301. tongue and keep your mouth shut and you will

  302. stay out of trouble. I mean, do we want to rip

  303. this verse out of the Bible? Do we want to rip

  304. this page out? Or do we want to look at it and

  305. say, okay, God, you're talking to me. I'm going

  306. to respond to your promise. I'm going to respond

  307. to your word in a positive way. Because that

  308. verse is telling me that most of the trouble

  309. that I face began with my words. Hebrews 10,

  310. 23. Let us hold tightly without wavering to the

  311. hope we affirm. That phrase, hope we affirm,

  312. is homologia. And here's what it means. It means

  313. confession. It means profession. It means what's

  314. coming out of your mouth. Hold tightly without

  315. wavering to your words that are set with the

  316. hope of God's promise. We can word it that way.

  317. For God can be trusted to keep his promise. So

  318. our words need to be in agreement with him. And

  319. that's part of taking hold of his promise. Hold

  320. tight to the right kind of words. That's what

  321. this is telling us. Hold tightly. Don't waver.

  322. Don't speak in accordance with the promise of

  323. God and then say about how terrible it is. And

  324. then, oh, wait a minute, wait a minute. Don't

  325. go back and forth all the time. Everybody say

  326. this. This will change my life. It will. Going

  327. to look at a story. Familiar story, probably,

  328. to most of the people. Joshua 6, starting with

  329. verse 1. Now Jericho was securely shut up because

  330. of the children of Israel. None went out, none

  331. came in. How many of you are familiar with the

  332. story of God's people coming out of slavery in

  333. Egypt and they went to the promised land? Well,

  334. all the adults except two that came out of Egypt

  335. never made it to the promised land. They died

  336. in the wilderness. It was only their kids and

  337. the younger ones that actually made it to the

  338. promised land. And I'm going to go ahead and

  339. tell you the main reason they didn't make it

  340. was because of their words. They were always

  341. complaining. God was doing miracles and they

  342. were complaining. And then we looked at it in

  343. this series about controlling our thoughts. God

  344. had given them a promise, and when they got there,

  345. they sent in spies, and all 12 spies saw the

  346. same thing with their eyes. But 10 of them came

  347. back with defeated thoughts and defeated words.

  348. Two of them came. With thoughts and words that

  349. held tightly to the promise of God. Those are

  350. the only two that made it into the promised land.

  351. The two, that their thoughts and their words,

  352. they had self -control over their thoughts and

  353. their words. They were the only two that made

  354. it to the land flowing with milk and honey. The

  355. only two. The other ten, along with most of the

  356. adults, Hey Moses, why did you bring us out here

  357. so that we could just die in the wilderness?

  358. We're just going to die in the wilderness. We

  359. might as well go back to Egypt and be slaves.

  360. At least we've got onions with our food in Egypt.

  361. I'd rather be a slave with onions than to be

  362. free. But their words, over and over and over

  363. and over and over again, they said, well, why'd

  364. you bring us out here just to die in the wilderness?

  365. Power of life and death is in your words. They

  366. got what they said. Caleb and Joshua, Got what

  367. they said. Because they said, you know what?

  368. God promised us this land. Yeah, there's some

  369. giants. Yeah, there's going to be some battles.

  370. But God's on our side. We've seen what God can

  371. do. Hello? Can anybody in the room say, I've

  372. seen what God can do. I look back over some situations

  373. in my life that it looked like I was, it was

  374. hopeless and helpless. But I've seen what God

  375. can do. Now, Joshua is leading them into the

  376. promised land. And the first city that they face

  377. is Jericho. It's a walled city. Now, it's not

  378. just a little cement block or stone wall around

  379. Jericho. They actually had chariot races on top

  380. of the wall around Jericho and people had houses.

  381. It was like apartments in the wall. That's where

  382. Rahab lived, in the wall. And they would have

  383. chariots around the outside of the city. It was

  384. a huge fortified city. Now Jericho was shut up

  385. because of the children of Israel. We find out

  386. from Rahab they've been shaking in their boots

  387. for 40 years because they heard what God had

  388. done to the Egyptian army at the Red Sea. And

  389. they're like, oh no. God's on their side. They

  390. have victory against every nation and people

  391. that they face. They had victory over and over

  392. and over again. And now they're here. So Joshua

  393. was securely shut up because the children of

  394. Israel, none went out, none came in. Here's the

  395. deal. Jericho stood between God's people and

  396. God's promise. I want to ask you a question.

  397. What's standing today between you And God's promise

  398. that you've seen in the word. God's promise for

  399. you personally. God's promise for your family.

  400. God's promise. What is standing between you and

  401. God's promise? It was Jericho for God's people.

  402. Big, huge, fortified, walled city. It's on lockdown.

  403. We could call it a fortress or a stronghold.

  404. It's a fortified place. It's held safely. Everybody

  405. say strongholds. Here's the deal. Strongholds

  406. can be good or bad. Most of the time when we

  407. talk about strongholds, we talk about bad strongholds.

  408. But did you know that there could be some good

  409. strongholds? Good stronghold is a position that

  410. has been built up in your mind and in your heart

  411. that stands for God and God's promises and God's

  412. word. And you're just confident. Just like I've

  413. shared the story before. I'll never be at another

  414. place in my life. Now, I have been in places.

  415. I have been in this place before, but I will

  416. never be at the point in my life. where I say,

  417. God, where are you? Why did you leave me here?

  418. I'll never do that again. Because of my experience

  419. and encounter with God, I know because of his

  420. promise and because of that experience that I

  421. had with, I know that he will never leave me

  422. or forsake me. He's not going to turn his back

  423. on me. He's always here. I mean, that's his name.

  424. We talked about the names of God. One of God's

  425. names is I am here. Yahweh Shammah. I am here.

  426. So that's a positive stronghold in my life. So

  427. you can have some fortresses and some strongholds

  428. of faith in your life. As a matter of fact, every

  429. single one of us need to develop some faith strongholds

  430. in our lives. No matter what we see, no matter

  431. what we think, no matter what we feel, we stand

  432. in agreement with God. Strongholds could be good

  433. or bad. Strongholds can be on the outside like

  434. Jericho or they can be on the inside. Every single

  435. one of us, I believe, deal with this. I haven't

  436. arrived in every area of my life. I'm still in

  437. the process. Yeah, I'm the preacher, and I'm

  438. still in the process just like you. Okay? There

  439. may be some things that I am victorious in. There

  440. may be some different things that you're victorious

  441. in, but we're all in the process. Strongholds

  442. can be on the outside or the inside. Here's some

  443. bad ones that we all have to deal with. You're

  444. not alone. Bad thought patterns. Negative emotions.

  445. Bitterness. Sometimes rage. Fear. Worry. That

  446. even builds to anxiety. Those are strongholds

  447. that we all deal with on the inside. I want you

  448. to smile. And I want you to say, I can have victory.

  449. Victory is mine in Christ. I can be victorious.

  450. The Lord said to Joshua, see, I have given Jericho

  451. into your hand. You see a big walled city. You

  452. see soldiers all the way around the top of it,

  453. holding their spears and their shields. And God

  454. says, hey, Joshua, look, I've given it to you.

  455. I've given it into your hand. It's king, the

  456. mighty men of valor. I've given it to you. Joshua

  457. could have said, but God, I don't see it. I see

  458. soldiers. I see strongholds. I see fortification.

  459. I don't see it being mine. See, I have given

  460. Jericho into your hand. That Hebrew word in the

  461. Old Testament, see. means to advise yourself.

  462. Don't just say, look with your eyes. See, when

  463. we read the word see, we say, oh, God just wants

  464. him to look at it. Just look at the walls of

  465. Jericho. That's not what God said. God said,

  466. hey, Joshua, advise yourself. I've given you,

  467. Jericho. You need to advise yourself that I have

  468. given it to you. Thank you for getting excited.

  469. There's some things in your life that God is

  470. saying, hey, advise yourself. I've given you

  471. this promise. Go ahead and advise yourself that

  472. it's yours. Just go ahead and get happy about

  473. it. Hey, Joshua, advise yourself that I've given

  474. Jericho into your hand, their kings, all their

  475. army. I've given them into your hands. You need

  476. to start saying that. Talk to yourself. Hey,

  477. I've given it to you. God's given it to me, and

  478. I'm going to get happy about it. I'm going to

  479. joyfully look on it. That's the definition of

  480. the word. God is saying, go ahead and get happy

  481. about it because I've given it to you. many of

  482. us look at a promise in the word of God and we

  483. say, well, I wish I could have that. I'm miserable.

  484. I don't see how, I can't even see a life without

  485. fear. I can't see a life without worry. I can't

  486. see a life without anxiety. I can't see a life

  487. of victory. And God is saying, advise yourself

  488. and go ahead and get happy about it. Because

  489. I'm faithful and I made you a promise. And if

  490. you'll take hold of my promise, hey, you might

  491. need some patient endurance. Remember we talked

  492. about patient endurance. You might need some

  493. patient endurance, but go ahead and get happy

  494. about it. Advise yourself. Speak positively about

  495. it. Look joyfully on the promise. Before you

  496. have the promise. Verse 3. You shall march around

  497. the city. All you men of war. You shall go all

  498. around the city at once. Or once. This you shall

  499. do for six days. And seven priests shall bear

  500. seven trumpets of ram's horns before the ark.

  501. But the seventh day, you shall march around the

  502. city seven times. And then we had some instructions.

  503. That was God telling Joshua what to do and how

  504. to lead the people. And then when Joshua is telling

  505. the people, he says this, you shall not shout.

  506. or make any noise with your voice, nor shall

  507. a word proceed out of your mouth. Six days. Over

  508. a million people. Hello? How many of you think

  509. a million people could walk around a city, and

  510. never say a word. No noises, no shouts, no words.

  511. Would that be difficult for you to do? That's

  512. what God told them. That's what He told them.

  513. Why do you think He told them that? Just use

  514. your, Glorified imagination. Does anybody have

  515. a glorified imagination? Use your glorified imagination.

  516. Why did God tell them to be quiet, not say a

  517. word? Because they're walking around Jericho,

  518. they see the soldiers. How many of you think

  519. it would be easy to say, why are we walking around

  520. it? It's kind of stupid. You know, just walking.

  521. I mean, they're looking at us like we're crazy.

  522. We're just marching around the city. Six days?

  523. Why would we walk around? Why are we doing this

  524. for six days? This don't make any sense. This

  525. isn't going to accomplish anything. Walking around?

  526. And then on the seventh day, they said, okay,

  527. guys, we're going to walk around it seven times

  528. today, not just one. Don't say a word. Walking

  529. around. I want to tell you something. Maybe you're...

  530. You're not at the point to speak the promises

  531. of God before you see them. But that doesn't

  532. mean that you can quit speaking death. You got

  533. to quit speaking death. You got to quit complaining.

  534. You got to quit dreading. You got to quit. Just

  535. talking words of worry and lack and anger and

  536. fear. Because all you're doing is you're fortifying

  537. the negative stronghold in your life. Take self

  538. -control to keep your mouth shut sometimes. Thank

  539. you for laughing. Three people laughed. How many

  540. of you would say, I just don't have a filter.

  541. I just don't have a filter. And just whatever

  542. pops in your brain comes out your mouth. Here's

  543. the deal. That's simply just a lack of self -control.

  544. I'm not trying to be mean. I'm trying to help

  545. you. Now, you can get mad or you can get glad.

  546. Glad that somebody wants to help you. It's time

  547. for us to get to the point where we don't say,

  548. oh, I just don't have a filter. No, what you

  549. don't have is self -control. That's what you

  550. don't have. You have a helper. Here's the deal.

  551. You need self -control to keep from fortifying

  552. your negative inner strongholds with your words.

  553. You need self -control. I see people writing,

  554. so I'm leaving it up here. I saw you go. Last

  555. time because I switched it too fast. You didn't

  556. get to write it. I didn't talk about it. It's

  557. all good. It's all good. I'll show it to you

  558. after you're done if you miss them. We need self

  559. -control. Self -control to keep from fortifying

  560. our negative inner strongholds with our words.

  561. If we want to enjoy our life. And have some happy

  562. days. Still people writing. Got to go. I'll show

  563. it to you after we're done. Here's why. Because

  564. most of us, when we... face a challenging situation

  565. in our lives, we start going, this is crazy.

  566. Look at this problem that's right here in front

  567. of me. Just take a look. If we talk to somebody

  568. else, we say, look at this problem. Look at my

  569. problem. Let me tell you about my problem. This

  570. is crazy. I can't handle it. I can't do it. I

  571. just can't. I'll never be able to do this. You

  572. fill in the blank. You fill in the dot, dot,

  573. dot. This is impossible. Has anybody said these

  574. phrases before? Has anybody said any of them

  575. this past week? Anybody say any of these before

  576. you even came to church today? Yeah. Filter.

  577. That's what they did. Six times around Jericho

  578. on the seventh day, they're marching the seventh

  579. time, and then here's what happened. The seventh

  580. day you shall march around the city seven times

  581. and the priests shall blow the trumpets. It shall

  582. come to pass when they make a long blast with

  583. the ram's horn. What's going to come to pass?

  584. When you hear the sound of the trumpet, all the

  585. people, you've been quiet now for seven days.

  586. All the people shall shout with a great shout.

  587. Here's the deal. They had to shout when nothing

  588. looked different than it had for seven days.

  589. Same city. same fortress, same walls, same guards,

  590. army on the top. Same thing. They're seeing the

  591. same thing that they've seen the whole time.

  592. They hadn't been able to say anything. Now they're

  593. going to shout. Nothing has changed. Here's the

  594. deal. It's so easy. Everybody say so easy. It's

  595. so easy to shout and praise God after the promise

  596. is fulfilled. So easy. Oh, God's a good God.

  597. Let me tell you about what God did. Oh, I was

  598. in this shape, and then now look and see what

  599. God did. We can get happy, and we want to testify,

  600. and we're like, yeah. But when we're staring

  601. at the stronghold, We want to say, I'll never

  602. make it. Look to the person beside you and say,

  603. he's preaching good, whether you're getting it

  604. or not. He's preaching pretty good. He's preaching

  605. pretty good. Shout with a great shout. After

  606. you shout, then the wall of the city will fall

  607. down flat and the people shall go up, every man

  608. straight before him. They were instructed to

  609. shout before anything happened. Now get this,

  610. that word shout is ruah in Hebrew. It's the same

  611. word that is used to shout praise and thanksgiving

  612. to God. That's a way that we praise God is by

  613. shouting. It's a shout of war. It's a shout of

  614. victory. It's a shout of joy. Same word. It's

  615. not a different word for praise. Sometimes in

  616. your English Bible, it'll just say the word praise,

  617. but it's actually this same word. It was just

  618. translated in our English Bible as praise instead

  619. of shout, sometimes when you read it. Like in

  620. Psalm 47 .1. Clap your hands, all you peoples.

  621. Shout to God with a voice of triumph. For the

  622. Lord Most High is awesome. He's the great king

  623. over all the earth. Same word. Same word. Shout

  624. to God with a voice of triumph. It takes self

  625. -control to shout and rejoice when you don't

  626. feel like shouting and rejoicing. I'm going to

  627. say it again. It takes self -control to shout

  628. and rejoice when you don't feel like it. You

  629. just say, listen here. Go stand in front of a

  630. mirror and grab yourself by the ear and say,

  631. listen here. We have a promise from God. And

  632. we're going to shout and rejoice even while we're

  633. staring at the... That might be hard for me sometimes.

  634. Even though we're staring at the problem, we're

  635. going to shout and rejoice because we have a

  636. promise. Take self -control to shout and rejoice

  637. as if you already have victory before you have

  638. victory. And that's what God said his people

  639. had to do in Jericho. And the Old Testament is

  640. written for you. It's not just a history book.

  641. It's written for us to see how we can interact

  642. with God and how we can know him, how we can

  643. take hold of his promise, the promised land.

  644. I mean, it's like we learn things. how spiritual

  645. things work. We learn things. I'm about done.

  646. I want to ask you a question. Does anybody in

  647. the room have a promise from God based on His

  648. Word, not just some imagination in your mind,

  649. but you have a promise from God based on His

  650. Word and you're patiently Waiting to see it fulfilled.

  651. Is anybody? If not, you need to go get one. Everybody

  652. in the room should be holding on to a promise

  653. from God that he has made. You haven't seen it

  654. manifest in your life yet, but you're holding

  655. on to it. Here's the deal. How would you celebrate?

  656. How would you rejoice? How would you shout? How

  657. would you praise God? If that promise was fulfilled

  658. in your life right now. How would you respond?

  659. Would anybody get happy? Would anybody start

  660. praising God? Would anybody get excited? Might

  661. even jump up and down a little bit and shout

  662. a little bit. Would anybody get happy? This is

  663. only one of many patterns, but... We see this

  664. pattern at Jericho. Get this, maybe, maybe, if

  665. you would celebrate and rejoice and shout and

  666. praise God as if it's already happened in your

  667. life, maybe that's what's holding it back. I'm

  668. just saying. There's more than one pattern. But

  669. this is definitely one of them. Could this be

  670. what's holding you back? Look at me. How are

  671. you going to respond to God's Word? Every week,

  672. We receive God's word. Here's the question. How

  673. will we respond to it? Because if we don't respond

  674. to it, listen, if you don't respond to God's

  675. word, it's not going to make a difference in

  676. your life. But if you will respond to God's word,

  677. it'll make a difference in your life. So many

  678. times God is waiting on our response and our

  679. response never comes. Because we're just like,

  680. well, I was a good person. I went to church this

  681. week. I'll go back next week and I'll get me

  682. something else. To not respond to. Wow. I responded

  683. to God's word last week and I can't wait to get

  684. back next week to dig in and get a word from

  685. God and respond again. Instead of. How do you

  686. want your life to be? You want your life like

  687. this? Or do you want your life like this? It

  688. has everything to do with your response. Here

  689. we go. Let's wrap it up. I think this is it for

  690. self -control. We could keep preaching on self

  691. -control, but some of you are already like, hmm,

  692. not self -control again. My toes are still hurting

  693. from last week. supplement your faith with a

  694. generous provision of self -control to be productive

  695. and useful. Self -control is essential for you

  696. to live with purpose and live in victory. Listen,

  697. we have a helper. If you acknowledge him, the

  698. Holy Spirit will empower you to have self -control.

  699. Over every area of your life, he will empower

  700. you to have self -control. If you will acknowledge

  701. him, when you come up to that point where you're

  702. seeing the stronghold or the fortress or you're

  703. seeing the problem, if you'll acknowledge the

  704. Holy Spirit and listen to him, he'll empower

  705. you to have self -control. So that your actions,

  706. your thoughts, your words, your desires will

  707. align with him. He'll help you. He'll help you.

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