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Spiritual Growth: Patience

Elation Church

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  7. Welcome to week number four in our series that

  8. we've entitled Spiritual Growth. Everybody say

  9. spiritual growth. Let's jump right in. 1 Corinthians

  10. 2 .14 tells us this. The natural man does not

  11. receive the things of the Spirit of God, for

  12. they are foolishness to him, nor can he know

  13. them because they are spiritually discerned.

  14. So the things of God are foolishness to the natural

  15. man because the things of God, are only spiritually

  16. discerned. 1 Corinthians 3 verses 1 through 3

    1 Corinthians 3:1–3

  17. says this, And I, brethren, could not speak to

  18. you as spiritual people, but as to carnal, as

  19. to babes in Christ. I fed you with milk and not

  20. with solid food, for until now you were not able

  21. to receive it. And even now you are still not

  22. able, for you are still carnal. For where there

  23. are envy, strife, and divisions among you, are

  24. you not carnal and behaving like mere men? So

  25. in these texts out of 1 Corinthians, we find

  26. that there are three types of people. Three types

  27. of people. And that pretty much covers every

  28. person in the world. There are only three types

  29. or categories of people. One is natural. Everybody

  30. say natural. A natural person is someone who

  31. is not in a relationship with Christ. Someone

  32. who is not born again. Someone who is not renewed.

  33. And all they have to live by is, we could say,

  34. their soul. That'll make more sense in a minute.

  35. Just their flesh and their soul. That's the only

  36. thing they have to direct them. This is a person

  37. without Christ they live by just what feels good.

  38. They live by what seems right in their own eyes.

  39. That's the natural person. The next person is

  40. a carnal person. Everybody say carnal. Now, Paul

  41. is talking to believers in Corinth when he says,

  42. I want to talk to you like you're spiritual people,

  43. but you're just carnal. So I still just have

  44. to give you a little bit of milk, and you might

  45. even throw that up every once in a while. So

  46. a carnal person is a Christian, but they're still

  47. living like a natural person. There's been no

  48. transformation, no change in their life. They're

  49. immature. They live on a childhood level because

  50. they will not feed on the Word of God and grow.

  51. They're more concerned about the natural than

  52. they are the eternal. Or their only concern is

  53. the natural. And then we see spiritual people.

  54. Everybody say spiritual. A spiritual person is

  55. a Christian who is led by the Spirit of God.

  56. The Bible tells us that we're supposed to walk

  57. in the Spirit, be led by the Spirit, follow the

  58. Spirit's leading, follow God. So it's Christians

  59. who are led by the Spirit through the Word of

  60. God. A spiritual person is growing. Now, we never

  61. arrive. None of us have made it to a spiritual

  62. level where we don't need to grow anymore. This

  63. is a process. Everybody say a process. So a spiritual

  64. person is one who is growing, one who is regularly

  65. receiving the Word of God, one who is walking

  66. and being led by the Spirit, walking in the Spirit

  67. and being led by the Spirit. So three types of

  68. people. I want to ask you, where does spiritual

  69. growth occur? Where does it come from? Where

  70. does it happen? 1 Thessalonians 5 .23 tells us

  71. something about people. We looked at their three

  72. categories of people. Now we see that people

  73. are made up of three different components. 1

  74. Thessalonians 5, 23. Now may the God of peace

  75. make you holy. That means set apart. May the

  76. God of peace make you set apart in every way.

  77. And may your whole spirit and soul and body be

  78. kept blameless until our Lord Jesus Christ comes

  79. again. So we see that we are three -part. Unlike

  80. every other living thing in the world, we are

  81. three -part beings. Three -part beings. We are

  82. a spirit. Everybody say, I am a spirit. That's

  83. who you are. You have a soul. And you live in

  84. a body. We are spirits. You might say, what do

  85. you mean? What is a spirit? Well, God is a spirit,

  86. and the Bible says that God created us in His

  87. image. So there are different classes of beings,

  88. living things in this world. And there are different

  89. kingdoms for the different living things, right?

  90. Anybody remember this in your biology class?

  91. There's the plant kingdom and there's the animal

  92. kingdom. But where the biology teacher falls

  93. off the truck is he leaves out the other kingdom

  94. because there's a spiritual kingdom. The thing

  95. that makes us different from any other animal

  96. Alive in the earth today. The thing that makes

  97. us different is that we are spirit beings. We're

  98. spirit beings. So, we're three parts. Our spirit

  99. comes alive at salvation. Comes alive. Has anybody

  100. ever heard of the phrase born again? That's when

  101. your spirit comes alive. That's when... during

  102. the process of salvation taking place in your

  103. life, that's when the Holy Spirit moves you from

  104. being immersed in sin to being immersed in Christ.

  105. That's when we come alive. Our spirit is now,

  106. at that point, your spirit is alive to God. Alive

  107. unto God. Because you are separated from God

  108. because of your sin. Spiritual death. Remember

  109. in the garden when God says, hey, Adam, don't

  110. eat from that tree. Because the day that you

  111. eat of it, you will surely die. Now, did his

  112. heart quit beating? Did he fall to the ground?

  113. Did he die when he ate that fruit? No, but he

  114. died spiritually. And then the process of physical

  115. death began at that point. And he ultimately

  116. died physically too, but he died spiritually

  117. because his spirit was no longer connected to

  118. God like it was when he would just walk with

  119. God in the cool of the day. So our spirit becomes

  120. alive. Our spirit man becomes alive at salvation.

  121. Our spirit is united with Christ. And guess what?

  122. At that point, we are clothed in the righteousness

  123. of God in Christ Jesus because of Jesus' work

  124. on the cross. Your spirit is complete. Your spirit

  125. is completely righteous and right standing with

  126. God. You can't grow in righteousness. You can't.

  127. You are righteous if you are in Christ. Not based

  128. on your performance, but based on what Jesus

  129. did on the cross. You're righteous and complete.

  130. But your soul... It's going to have to have some

  131. work. Right? This is your soul. Your soul is

  132. comprised of your mind, your will, and your emotions.

  133. Your mind is your thought life. How many of you

  134. know when you came to Christ, all of a sudden,

  135. all your thoughts didn't completely change and

  136. become holy and righteous, right? Chances are

  137. you've had some thoughts today that aren't very

  138. holy and righteous, especially... if you were

  139. in your car coming here in the traffic. So your

  140. soul is your mind, your thought life, your will,

  141. which is your desires. We all have desires, right?

  142. It's our emotions. It's our feelings. That's

  143. our soul. It's comprised of that, your mind,

  144. your will, and emotions. Now, the difference

  145. between a carnal Christian and a spiritual Christian

  146. Christian is the spiritual growth of the soul

  147. or the lack thereof. Should I say that again?

  148. Because some of you are looking at me like blank

  149. -faced. If you listen better, I will preach faster.

  150. That's just the way it is. I didn't do all this

  151. work just to tell the wall about it. I want your

  152. life to be transformed with the Word of God.

  153. The difference between a carnal person and a

  154. spiritual person is the spiritual growth of the

  155. soul or the lack of spiritual growth of the soul.

  156. Your thought life, your desires, your feelings.

  157. Spiritual maturity is not measured by how long

  158. you've been a Christian. Now, physical growth

  159. just happens with time, right? Maxton's growing

  160. up. Lawson's growing up. Physical growth just

  161. happens over time. But spiritual growth, you

  162. could be a Christian for 50 years and still be

  163. carnal and an infant. It doesn't just happen.

  164. You have to participate with the process. Spiritual

  165. maturity is not measured by how loud you worship.

  166. It's not measured by how much scripture you know.

  167. I mean, I could pass a mic around and ask you

  168. how many Bible verses you know, and just because

  169. you're the one in here that knows more Bible

  170. verses than everybody else, it doesn't mean that

  171. you're the most spiritual person in the room.

  172. It means you've got some spiritual intellect.

  173. Some of the meanest people in the world have

  174. a lot of spiritual intellect. Has anybody ever

  175. met some real mean people that had a lot of spiritual

  176. intellect? So how do we know? How do we measure

  177. spiritual growth, spiritual maturity? How is

  178. it measured? Jesus said in Luke 6, 43 and 44,

  179. He says, A good tree does not bear bad fruit,

  180. nor does a bad tree bear good fruit. For every

  181. tree is known by its own fruit. So, spiritual

  182. maturity is measured by spiritual fruit. Spiritual

  183. growth is measured by spiritual fruit. And here's

  184. the deal. It needs to be constantly increasing.

  185. The fruit of the Spirit needs to be constantly

  186. increasing in each one of our lives if we are

  187. going to be spiritual people. Constantly increasing.

  188. The fruit of the Spirit needs to be evidenced

  189. in our life every day. If we're spiritual people,

  190. there should be some spiritual fruit. Can I get

  191. an oh me or an amen or something? If there's

  192. no spiritual fruit, then all you have is carnal.

  193. And just to clarify, this is a series in self

  194. -examination. What we're talking about in this

  195. series isn't so that you can go around and judge

  196. everybody else in your household or at your workplace

  197. or at school. I mean, that's not why we're doing

  198. this. We're taking an honest look at ourselves

  199. and seeing that we need to come up higher. I

  200. hate to burst your bubble, but everybody in this

  201. room needs to come up higher than you are today.

  202. You need to come up higher. We always need to

  203. be coming up higher. Always. We have not arrived.

  204. We are all a work in progress. Now, we're all

  205. on a different place in the progress line, but

  206. hopefully we're all in that line and we're all

  207. moving in the right direction. Galatians 5, 22

  208. and 23. It says this, the fruit of the Spirit

  209. is love. That was week number one. Joy was week

  210. number two. Peace was week number three. And

  211. guess what we're talking about today? Patience.

  212. I'm glad some of you are smiling. Some of you

  213. are frowning. We're talking about patience today.

  214. Patience is a fruit of the Spirit. And it should

  215. always, in a spiritual person, it should... Patience

  216. should always be increasing. Patience should

  217. always be evidenced in our lives. Here's the

  218. word. Here's the Greek word. It's translated

  219. patience or long -suffering. Everybody say long

  220. -suffering. Depending on which version of Scripture

  221. that you're using. Here's the Greek word. Akrothumia.

  222. Anyway, that's my attempt. You can attempt it

  223. yourself. But that's the Koine Greek word, and

  224. it's a compound word. It's two words put together,

  225. and it's the word long and passion. Long and

  226. passion. It's translated patience, long -suffering,

  227. fortitude. That's a fruit of the Spirit that

  228. should be evident. In our lives. Also found out

  229. through studying that it's a quality of God.

  230. I mean, I knew that, but it's better when you

  231. hear from somebody else, not just me. But it's

  232. a quality of God. It's part of God's character.

  233. It's part of who God is. God is patient. And

  234. then to expand those definitions, I found that

  235. it means waiting sufficient time before expressing.

  236. Anger. It means steadfastness and staying power.

  237. Then these are my input words down at the bottom.

  238. Not short -fused. Not short -fused. Listen, not

  239. quick to an emotional response. Not quick to

  240. give up. I remember when I was young and we were

  241. playing and somebody would get their feelings

  242. hurt because they weren't good playing. And all

  243. of a sudden they'd get mad and they'd say, I'm

  244. going to take my ball and go home. Because you

  245. didn't let me win. Or you tackled me or whatever.

  246. I'm going to take my ball and go home. It's quick

  247. to give up. We need to be convicted. Right? We

  248. need to be challenged. It's part of who God is.

  249. Let's listen to God introducing himself. Exodus

  250. 34, 5 and 6. Introducing himself. It says, the

  251. Lord came down in a cloud and stood there with

  252. him. And he, God, called out his own name. Yahweh.

  253. The Lord passed in front of Moses, calling out,

  254. Yahweh, the Lord, the God of compassion and mercy.

  255. I am slow to anger. This is God introducing himself.

  256. He could have said a whole lot of things to introduce

  257. himself, right? But he introduces himself by

  258. saying, I am slow to anger and filled with unfailing

  259. love and faithfulness. This is God introducing

  260. himself to Moses. Then in Romans 2, 4, we see

  261. this. Don't you see how wonderfully kind, tolerant,

  262. and patient God is with you? And you didn't even

  263. smile. Look at your life. Look at what you've

  264. deserved. Look at the mess that you've made so

  265. many times. How many of you are thankful that

  266. God is wonderfully kind, He's tolerant, and He's

  267. patient? I'm so thankful that God is a patient

  268. God and that He is patient with me and He's not

  269. quick to give me what I deserve all the time.

  270. Hallelujah. Listen. Has anybody ever told you,

  271. now don't be praying for patience? Has anybody

  272. heard that? Has anybody prayed it? Now don't

  273. be praying for patience. Don't be praying for

  274. patience. Because if you pray for patience, you're

  275. going to have some opportunities to be patient.

  276. So patience is probably not the fruit that most

  277. people pray for. I mean, we pray for love. We

  278. pray for joy. We pray for peace. Those first

  279. three that we're talking about, we're always

  280. praying for that, right? But are we always praying

  281. for patience? Probably not the one that most

  282. people are praying for. Patience is developed

  283. in process. Everybody say process. And especially

  284. today, we live in a culture that hates process.

  285. We want instant answers. We want instant results.

  286. We want instant success. We want instant change.

  287. We don't like process very much. Patience being

  288. developed in you. The fruit of patience. That's

  289. a process. It's a process. Patience does several

  290. things. The first thing patience does is it keeps

  291. us from reacting fleshly. Carnally. Keeps us

  292. from being ugly. Patience keeps you from reacting

  293. fleshly. Has anyone ever reacted fleshly before?

  294. Hold up your hand. If your hand's not up, you're

  295. lying right now. James 1, verses 2 -4 My brethren,

    James 1:2–4

  296. count it all joy when you fall into various trials.

  297. So the Holy Spirit is telling us through James,

  298. when we're having a bad moment or a bad day,

  299. we're supposed to count it all joy. Count it

  300. all joy. Because you know something. My brethren,

  301. count it all joy when you fall into various trials,

  302. knowing something, knowing that the testing of

  303. your faith produces patience. But let patience

  304. have its perfect work, that you may be perfect

  305. and complete, lacking nothing. Do we need to

  306. call the ambulance or is this spiritual chest

  307. pains? Spiritual chest pains, okay. Listen, one

  308. of the clearest ways to see the level of your

  309. spiritual maturity is by looking at your reactions.

  310. How do you react? How do you react? A spiritual

  311. person reacts differently than a carnal person.

  312. Spiritually immature people react impulsively.

  313. They are quickly angered. They are quickly offended.

  314. They are quickly discouraged. And they are quick

  315. to make emotional decisions. And if that describes

  316. us, we know that we need to come up higher. Patience,

  317. listen, patience slows you down in a situation,

  318. right? Patience is what slows you down and gives

  319. the Holy Spirit room to govern your responses.

  320. Look at the person beside you and say, sometimes

  321. it's good to take a breath. Just take a breath.

  322. Don't respond. Take a breath. Has anyone ever

  323. responded in such a way that you look back at

  324. it and say, boy, I wish I wouldn't have responded

  325. that way? Take a breath. This fruit of patience

  326. is what's going to slow you down and give the

  327. Holy Spirit room to govern your response. James

  328. 1, 19 -20 says this, Understand, my dear brothers

  329. and sisters, you must all... Everybody say all.

  330. Everybody say, that means me. Understand this,

  331. my brothers and sisters, you must all be quick

  332. to listen, slow to speak, And slow to get angry.

  333. Human anger does not produce the righteousness

  334. God desires. Proverbs 14, 29. If you're not encouraged

  335. yet, listen to this one. People with understanding

  336. control their anger. A hot temper shows great

  337. foolishness. Great foolishness and spiritual

  338. maturity are on opposite ends of the spectrum,

  339. don't you think so? Patience is something you

  340. often admire in the driver behind you who lets

  341. you merge into traffic in front of them. So you

  342. get, you're like, wow, that person has patience.

  343. They're going to do the zipper and they're going

  344. to let me merge in front of them. They're even

  345. doing it before I cut on my blinker and start

  346. throwing the nose of my car in front of them

  347. like they're going to hit me or let me in, one

  348. or the other. This is a very patient person.

  349. I admire their patience. So we admire it in the

  350. driver behind us who lets us in, but we don't

  351. admire patience for the one who's in front of

  352. us. Who wants to get in front of us. Then patience

  353. doesn't work anymore. Because I saw you drive

  354. past everybody. You knew you were supposed to

  355. get in line. Now you drive all the way to the

  356. very end. And then you're going to cut in front

  357. of me. There's been a sign for a quarter of a

  358. mile telling you to get in this lane. I'm not

  359. letting you in. Hello? That road coming out of

  360. Disney, man, when it's loaded up. You're trying

  361. to get on I -4. Right there is Celebration. And

  362. you've been sitting in line, and all these people

  363. just in that left lane, they just run by, and

  364. then they do a U -turn and come back and turn

  365. right in front of you, and you're just sitting

  366. way back there, and you're saying... I experience

  367. it all the time. But how do I react? How do I

  368. react? There's this lady in Walmart, and she

  369. had her little girl with her, and her little

  370. girl was just out of control. Have you been in

  371. a store with a child that's just out of control?

  372. sometimes forgetting to buy groceries, she would

  373. have to take Jeffrey home two or three times,

  374. go all the way home from the grocery store and

  375. have a lecture and a lesson before they would

  376. go back to the grocery store and eventually get

  377. their groceries. But there's a lady in Walmart

  378. where her little girl is just out of control.

  379. So the lady keeps saying very quietly and gently.

  380. She keeps saying, keep calm, Susie. Keep calm,

  381. Susie. Susie, keep calm. Well, the lady behind

  382. her heard her saying that, and as they exited

  383. Walmart, the lady just wanted to encourage her.

  384. She wanted to encourage this lady. She's saying,

  385. you know, your daughter was acting up, but you

  386. just did an amazing job by speaking calmly and

  387. gently to her and just saying, okay, okay, Susie,

  388. keep calm. It's going to be all right, Susie,

  389. keep calm. And the lady looked at her and said,

  390. my daughter's name's not Susie, my name's Susie.

  391. I've been talking to myself. Reminding myself

  392. to keep calm. Long -suffering is self -restraint

  393. in the face of being provoked. Long -suffering

  394. or patience does not hastily retaliate or want

  395. to promptly punish this fruit of the Spirit that

  396. we're talking about today. Colossians 3, verses

    Colossians 3:12–13

  397. 12 through 13. Since God chose you to be the

  398. holy people He loves, everybody say this, I am

  399. the holy people that God loves. Since God chose

  400. you to be the holy people He loves, you must

  401. clothe yourselves with tender heart and mercy,

  402. kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.

  403. That should be a description of who we are. When

  404. we are in Christ. It says this in verse 13. Make

  405. allowance for each other's faults. Forgive anyone

  406. who offends you. How many of you know we all

  407. have opportunity to be offended every day? When

  408. we're in Christ, we're supposed to quickly forgive

  409. anyone who offends us. Remember, the Lord forgave

  410. you. So you must forgive others. The Bible even

  411. goes on to say we're supposed to forgive others

  412. like Christ forgave us. Here's something else

  413. about patience. Patience is not quick to lose

  414. hope or give up. I'll say it again. Patience

  415. is not quick to lose hope or to give up. Hebrews

  416. 10, 35 and 36. It says this, so do not throw

  417. away this confident trust in the Lord. Don't

  418. throw it away. Don't throw away this confident

  419. trust in the Lord. Remember, the great reward

  420. it brings you. Confident trust brings you something.

  421. Confident trust is another way of saying faith.

  422. It's another way of saying hope. That brings

  423. us something. And then he goes on to say, don't

  424. give that away. Don't give away your confident

  425. trust. Don't give away your faith. Don't give

  426. away your hope. Remember that God keeps His promises.

  427. I believe what he's saying. Remember. And patient

  428. endurance is what you need now. When you feel

  429. like giving up hope, you need some patient endurance.

  430. That's what you need now. So that you will continue

  431. to do God's will. Then you will receive all that

  432. He has promised. Because if you give away your

  433. hope and your faith and your confident trust,

  434. you won't receive it. So you need some patient

  435. endurance. Listen, nobody walks into a gym one

  436. time and leaves completely transformed. You can't

  437. just go to the gym one day and say, wow, now

  438. I am physically fit because I spent two hours

  439. in the gym. I'm done. I never have to go back

  440. to the gym. I never have to work out again the

  441. rest of my life because I went to the gym. Strength

  442. develops through repeated resistance. spiritually,

  443. patience grows when faith continues through resistance.

  444. The Bible is filled with great and precious promises

  445. from God. The Bible tells us who we are in Christ

  446. and what we have in Christ. All those things

  447. are available to us. But all of those things,

  448. you're going to face some opposition and resistance

  449. to obtain those things. You need patience. Patience

  450. needs to grow so that you can hold on to hope,

  451. hold on to faith during those difficult times.

  452. Galatians 6, 9. So let's not get tired of doing

  453. what's good. At just the right time, we will

  454. reap a harvest of blessing if we do not give

  455. up. Patience is not giving up. Not giving up.

  456. And patience, like we talked about, is evidence

  457. of spiritual growth. Romans 5, verses 3 and 4.

    Romans 5:3

  458. We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems

  459. and trials. Kind of sounds like the other verse.

  460. Count it all joy. Right? Somebody smile. We can

  461. rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials.

  462. Has anyone ever ran into problems and trials?

  463. Some of you are living an amazing flowerbed life

  464. because you didn't acknowledge that you've ever

  465. had any hardship or any problems ever come. Don't

  466. make me start pointing at you and telling you

  467. the problems that I personally know that you

  468. have encountered, that you have shared with me.

  469. Don't make me start calling you out. We can rejoice

  470. too when we run into problems and trials, for

  471. we know something. Again, just like that other

  472. verse. We know that they help us develop endurance,

  473. and endurance develops strength of character.

  474. Everybody say patience. Patience produces character.

  475. And this is something very important. Character

  476. sustains what gifts alone cannot. Gifts are just

  477. gifts. And God gives gifts and talents. God gives

  478. those things. But how many of you know that people

  479. who have been just amazingly gifted, but then

  480. their character didn't hold up their gift? Can

  481. you think of just one person? Patience produces

  482. character, and character sustains what gifts

  483. alone cannot sustain. One of the clearest signs

  484. of spiritual growth is not that your problems

  485. are going to disappear. It's that your stability

  486. is going to increase. Are y 'all done? I'm not

  487. sure if you're done or not by looking at your

  488. face. See, I don't just preach to the back wall.

  489. I'm looking at your expressions. I think some

  490. of you just went on a coffee break. You're all

  491. righty? Sometimes I know it's because you're

  492. just thinking really hard. You're like... One

  493. of the clearest signs of spiritual growth, who

  494. wants to grow spiritually? Who wants to be a

  495. spiritual person instead of a carnal person?

  496. One of the clearest signs of spiritual growth

  497. is not that problems disappear, it's that your

  498. stability is going to increase in the middle

  499. of the problem. Did you know that a spiritual

  500. mature person doesn't have to live... In the

  501. highs and the lows and the highs and the lows

  502. and the highs and the lows every day of your

  503. life? Woo! Woo! Has anybody in the room ever

  504. spent a day doing woo? Except me. You're just

  505. like, wow, this is wonderful. Oh, this is terrible.

  506. You go from the height of joy to the depths of

  507. depression all in 30 minutes. Spiritual growth

  508. is evidenced in stability. That your emotions

  509. are not on a roller coaster ride all day, every

  510. day. Hallelujah. You know that you're growing,

  511. not arrived, but you know that you're growing

  512. spiritually when you don't panic as quickly as

  513. you used to. When you don't become offended as

  514. easily as you used to. You don't just give up

  515. and quit when you get frustrated. You don't emotionally

  516. collapse under pressure. You remain faithful,

  517. more faithful through the processes of life.

  518. All those are evidence that you're growing. See,

  519. we should be able to look at our lives and say,

  520. you know what, I'm not where I want to be and

  521. I'm not where I need to be, but I sure am a long

  522. way from where I used to be. Somebody? I am thankful.

  523. I'm not where I want to be, but I thank God that

  524. I'm not where I used to be. I can see that I'm

  525. coming up. I need to come up a whole lot more,

  526. but I can see in my life where I have come up

  527. a little bit. Patience is rooted in the very

  528. nature of God. Throughout Scripture, we see that

  529. God is merciful. God is long -suffering. God

  530. is patient with people. Now, you might can look

  531. at some things in the Old Testament where God

  532. has been patient for 400, 500 years. For 10 generations.

  533. And then all of a sudden, that's, you know, there's

  534. judgment that comes. God is patient. You can't

  535. say that God isn't patient. 2 Peter 3, 9. It

  536. says this, the Lord isn't really being slow about

  537. His promise, as some people think. I want to

  538. put this in a framework of your thinking. Somebody's

  539. done something to you. Somebody's hurt you or

  540. disappointed you. And all of a sudden, you're

  541. at the point where it's like, vengeance is mine,

  542. says the Lord. God, defend me. You can read some

  543. of this in Psalms if you want to. God's going

  544. to get them. God, get them. They hurt me. You

  545. saw them hurt me. I didn't respond. But God,

  546. I want you to respond quickly in my defense.

  547. Everybody in here is too spiritual to ever be

  548. there, right? Listen, the Lord isn't really being

  549. slow about His promise, as some people think.

  550. No, He's being patient. He's being patient. For

  551. my sake. He's being patient for your sake. He's

  552. being patient for their sake. You know why? He

  553. doesn't want anyone to be destroyed. He wants

  554. everyone to repent. He's patient. Is anybody

  555. in the room glad that He was patient with you

  556. to give you time to repent and come to Christ?

  557. Because He had every right to take me out. He

  558. had every right not to show me mercy. He would

  559. have been just in not showing me mercy. It goes

  560. on to say in verse 15, it's the Lord's patience

  561. that gives people time to be saved. It's His

  562. patience. And patience is the fruit of the Holy

  563. Spirit. Stay with me, I'm about done. Since God

  564. is long -suffering and since God is patient,

  565. it should make perfect sense to us as His children,

  566. shouldn't it? That He would desire to cultivate

  567. and manifest this same characteristic that's

  568. His in His people, just like love, just like

  569. joy, just like peace. Just like His patience.

  570. He wants to cultivate that in us. John 16, 13

  571. through 15. But when He, the Spirit of truth

  572. comes. Everybody say spiritual fruit. But when

  573. He, the Spirit of truth comes, He will guide

  574. you into all truth. He will not speak on His

  575. own. He will speak only what He hears. And He

  576. will tell you what is yet to come. He will glorify

  577. me, Jesus said, because it is from me that he,

  578. the Spirit, will receive what he will make known

  579. to you. All that belongs to the Father. Somebody

  580. say all. All that belongs to the Father is mine,

  581. Jesus said. That is why I said the Spirit, the

  582. Holy Spirit, will receive from me what he will

  583. make known to you. The Holy Spirit. God the Holy

  584. Spirit takes hold of the things that God has

  585. for us. And He declares them to us. He intensifies

  586. them to us. He makes them known to us. That's

  587. why patience is a fruit of the Holy Spirit. Because

  588. it's the Holy Spirit who connects us. To the

  589. patience that God has for us and wants to cultivate

  590. in us and develop in us. See, you can sit through

  591. this message and you can say, you know what?

  592. I need to be more dedicated. I need to be more

  593. determined. I need to put in a lot more effort.

  594. If I'm going to have patience, boy, I've just

  595. got to stoke it up and I've got to produce it

  596. in myself. I've got to work on it. I've got some

  597. things I need to work on. Listen, spiritual growth

  598. is not about more self -dedication. It's not

  599. about more self -determination. It's not about

  600. more self -effort. It's about more acknowledging.

  601. It's about more abiding. It's about more walking.

  602. It's about more yielding. That's how this fruit

  603. is going to be developed. Not through your personal

  604. effort and your personal striving. It's the fruit

  605. of the Spirit. If this fruit is not evidenced

  606. and growing daily in our lives, it means that

  607. we're spending our day just not even acknowledging

  608. that the Holy Spirit is in us. Don't you know

  609. that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit

  610. who is in you? We're not acknowledging that God

  611. is here. In our everyday lives, God is here.

  612. If you're in Christ, God's in you. We have to

  613. acknowledge Him. We have to consult Him. He knows

  614. everything about everything. And we're trying

  615. to check with chat to see what we need to do.

  616. We need to be checking with the Holy Ghost. He

  617. knows everything. He knows the next step. He

  618. knows the next response. It's about more acknowledging.

  619. It's about more abiding. It's about not just

  620. visiting God during a devotion time or visiting

  621. God on Sunday morning. It's about living with

  622. God, abiding in Christ. He's the... He's the

  623. vine. We're the branches. When we stay connected,

  624. what did Jesus say? We'll bear fruit through

  625. the connection. So there needs to be more abiding.

  626. There needs to be more walking. You might say,

  627. well, Dean, I can't just stay in my house and

  628. pray all day. I got a job. I've got to do stuff.

  629. I've got to clean my house. I've got to walk

  630. the dog. I've got to... You fill in the blank.

  631. Whatever you got to do. Well, while you're doing

  632. those things, you can still walk with God. Hello?

  633. You can walk with God. Acknowledging and walking

  634. and yielding. This online worship experience

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