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Spiritual Growth: Gentleness

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  7. Week number eight in our series that I've entitled

  8. Spiritual Growth. Spiritual Growth. Now, if today's

  9. your first time with us in this series, it's

  10. okay, because there's going to be plenty of background

  11. information to get you up to speed. That's just

  12. the way we do it. We don't leave you in the dark,

  13. all right? But if you would like more information

  14. after today, all the other messages, the first

  15. seven messages are available on our podcast.

  16. All you have to do is search Elation Church anywhere

  17. you listen to podcasts, and you can get this

  18. whole series or any other series The last two

  19. and a half years, I guess, we've had every service

  20. on our podcast. So let's dive right in. 1 Corinthians

    1 Corinthians 2:14

  21. 2, verse 14 says this. The natural man does not

  22. receive the things of the Spirit of God, for

  23. they are foolishness to him. Nor can he know

  24. them, because they are spiritually discerned.

  25. Everybody say natural man. Let's go to chapter

  26. 3, verses 1 through 3. And I, brethren, could

  27. not speak to you as spiritual people, but as

  28. to carnal, as to babes in Christ. I fed you with

  29. milk and not with solid food. For until now you

  30. were not able to receive it. And even now you

  31. are still not able. For you are still carnal.

  32. For where there are envy, strife, and divisions

  33. among you, are you not carnal and behaving like

  34. mere men? We could even replace that mere with

  35. natural, like in the first verse that we read.

  36. So these verses tell us that there's ultimately

  37. three types of people. Three types of people.

  38. The first one is a natural person. Everybody

  39. say natural. This is a person who is not born

  40. again. They're not a believer. They're not a

  41. follower of Christ. We were all like that at

  42. one point. Without Christ. And if that's where

  43. you are, all you have to go by or live by is

  44. what seems right to you. What seems right in

  45. your own eyes. Whatever feels good. Surely you've

  46. heard the phrase, if it feels good, do it. Just

  47. living by what feels good or by what seems right.

  48. Because they don't know, the Bible says in the

  49. verse that we read, they don't understand spiritual

  50. things because they're spiritually discerned.

  51. Then we see the next type of person. A carnal

  52. person. Everybody say carnal. Now a carnal person

  53. is a Christian. Because Paul is speaking to the

  54. Corinthian believers, and he's calling some of

  55. them carnal, or the majority of them carnal.

  56. They're just living according to their flesh,

  57. just like the natural people. You can't tell

  58. any difference between a natural man and a carnal

  59. Christian. Can't tell any difference. That's

  60. sad, right? This person is born again, but they're

  61. immature. They live their lives on a childhood

  62. level spiritually because they don't feed on

  63. the Word of God or grow. So that's a carnal person.

  64. Everybody say carnal. And then the third type

  65. of person is a spiritual person. Everybody say

  66. spiritual. A spiritual person is a Christian

  67. who is led by the Spirit of God through the Word

  68. of God. This is a growing Christian. I'm not

  69. saying it's a Christian who has arrived, because

  70. none of us have arrived. We all have room for

  71. improvement. Look at the person beside you and

  72. say, I have room for improvement. Don't tell

  73. them they have room for improvement. Tell them

  74. I have room for improvement. But it's a person

  75. who desires to know God, desires to follow God.

  76. It's a person who loves the Word of God. It's

  77. a person who walks in the Spirit and they're

  78. led by the Holy Spirit. This is a spiritual person.

  79. So we see those three types of people. One is

  80. natural. A person who does not know God. One

  81. is carnal. A person who is a Christian, but you

  82. can't tell it. And then we have spiritual. Who

  83. do you want to be? Or who are you? Where does

  84. this spiritual growth occur? Where does it occur?

  85. How does it occur? 1 Thessalonians 5 .23. Tells

  86. us something about ourselves. Now may the God

  87. of peace make you holy. Everybody say set apart.

  88. Everybody say different. May the God of peace

  89. make you holy in every way. Now listen carefully.

  90. And may your whole spirit and soul and body be

  91. kept blameless. until our Lord Jesus Christ comes

  92. again. So in this verse, we see that we are a

  93. three -part being. Three parts. It's right here.

  94. It's easy. You can just see it. Now, you are

  95. a spirit. A lot of people never realize this.

  96. But we are spirit beings. We are. We're created

  97. in the image of God. And God is spirit. We are

  98. spirit beings. That's what separates you and

  99. me from every other living thing on this earth.

  100. Every other breathing thing on this earth. You

  101. know, I love my grandpuppy, but my grandpuppy

  102. is not a spirit being. She's not a spirit. People

  103. are spirits created in the image of God. That's

  104. who you are. But we're not born knowing that.

  105. Because our spirit is not alive unto God, because

  106. in the Garden of Eden, God said, if you disobey,

  107. If you eat of the tree of the knowledge of good

  108. and evil, you will surely die. And that's what

  109. happened. It was a spiritual death. A spiritual

  110. death that separated humanity from being connected

  111. to God. Alive unto God is probably a better word.

  112. At that point, Adam and Eve were no longer alive

  113. unto God, and they ran and hid themselves. So

  114. you are a spirit. Everybody say, I am a spirit.

  115. Everybody say, I have a soul. And I live in a

  116. body. So our spirit has salvation. Our spirit

  117. comes alive unto God. That's what we mean when

  118. we say we're born again. Because our spirit was

  119. not alive unto God and then at salvation our

  120. spirit becomes alive unto God and we are born

  121. again. We are united with Christ. And the Holy

  122. Spirit moves us at salvation. He moves us. from

  123. being immersed in sin to being immersed in Christ.

  124. And at that point, at the point of salvation,

  125. some people have a hard time receiving this,

  126. but it's very scriptural. I can show you a lot

  127. of verses, but that's not what I'm preaching

  128. today. If you come to Alation Church a lot, you

  129. know that I preach about this a lot. Raise your

  130. hand, raise your hand. We preach about this a

  131. lot. So I can't preach this whole message, but...

  132. You, at the point of salvation, you put on the

  133. righteousness of God in Christ Jesus. You become

  134. completely righteous. You cannot be any more

  135. righteous than at the point when you are born

  136. again. You do not grow in righteousness. If you

  137. say, but Dean, I need to grow in righteousness,

  138. that means that you're going to attempt in the

  139. flesh to be more right with God than Jesus is.

  140. Does anybody want to attempt that? To be more

  141. right with God than Jesus? Because we're clothed

  142. in His righteousness. His righteousness. We've

  143. taken off our righteousness like a dirty garment.

  144. And we put on Christ's righteousness. And every

  145. time God looks at us, He sees Jesus. He sees

  146. the sacrifice that Jesus made for you and for

  147. me on the cross. We are righteous. We are complete.

  148. Everything that the Bible says that we have in

  149. Christ or we are in Christ, all those things

  150. are ours at the point of salvation. So your spirit

  151. is complete and you are a spirit. But you have

  152. a soul. Now our soul is comprised of three things

  153. as well. Our soul is our mind, our will, and

  154. our emotions. Let's break it down. Our soul is

  155. our thought life, our desires, and our feelings.

  156. Now how many of you know that when you got saved,

  157. none of that got saved? Hello? The day I got

  158. saved, my thought life was not perfectly holy.

  159. You know, it didn't just whoo. My desires didn't

  160. just completely change to where I don't have

  161. any desires that aren't holy desires anymore.

  162. My feelings. I didn't automatically not let negative

  163. feelings control me anymore. All those things

  164. need some work. And that's where spiritual growth

  165. concern is. That's where it happens. That's where

  166. it takes place, is in your soul. Spiritual growth

  167. takes place in your thought life, in your desire

  168. life, in your feeling life. That's where spiritual

  169. growth takes place. That's where it takes place.

  170. The difference between a carnal and a spiritual

  171. believer is the spiritual growth or lack thereof

  172. in the soul. That's the difference. That's the

  173. difference. And I'm going to share some other

  174. things with you. Spiritual maturity is not measured

  175. by how long you've been a Christian. I've been

  176. a Christian 51 years and 3 weeks. That doesn't

  177. mean I'm spiritual. It's not about how long you've

  178. been a Christian. It's not about how often you

  179. attend worship services. I mean, if there was

  180. a plaque in heaven for attending worship services,

  181. I'm going to get a big plaque. Because for 20

  182. years, I averaged over 200... Well, maybe not

  183. all 20 years, but... One year, I went to over

  184. 280 church services in one year. That's more

  185. than some people do in 10 years. Thousands and

  186. thousands and thousands. That doesn't mean that

  187. I'm spiritual. Being spiritual is not measured

  188. by how much scripture you can quote. Has anybody

  189. ever met some really mean people who could quote

  190. some Scripture? Well, Paul called the Corinthians

  191. carnal because they were envy and strife and

  192. division. That's the fruit of being carnal. So

  193. it don't matter how much Scripture you can quote.

  194. Now listen to me. I believe it's very important

  195. to know Scripture. I believe it's very important

  196. to come together with other believers to worship

  197. God. I believe it's very important to be a Christ

  198. follower, to come to know Him. That's the ultimate

  199. important thing that can happen in anyone's life.

  200. But none of those things mean that you are spiritually

  201. mature. None of them. Jesus gave us some insight.

  202. Luke 6, verses 43 and 44. He says this, A good

    Luke 6:43

  203. tree does not bear bad fruit, nor does a bad

  204. tree bear good fruit. For every tree is known

  205. by its own fruit. So this whole series is about

  206. spiritual fruit being the marker of spiritual

  207. maturity. That's what it really is. How much

  208. spiritual fruit is evident in your life? How

  209. much spiritual fruit is growing, constantly growing

  210. in your life? That'll tell each one of us how

  211. spiritual we are. Because spiritual growth is

  212. measured by spiritual fruit, constantly increasing

  213. and always evidenced in our life. Now this is

  214. a series in self -examination. No one needs to

  215. think, boy, I wish this relative was here. I

  216. wish this neighbor was here because they really

  217. need to hear it. Have you ever sat in church

  218. and said, boy, I wish this person was here because

  219. they really needed the message today? Well, here's

  220. the deal. God knew that they weren't going to

  221. be here and God knew you were going to be here.

  222. So we are obviously the people who need to hear

  223. it. Because we are the people who are here. It's

  224. self -examination. Don't look at the person beside

  225. you. We're all a work in progress. We're all

  226. at different positions in this race. But we're

  227. all a work in progress. None of us have arrived.

  228. Galatians 5, 22 and 23. We finally made it to

  229. verse 23. Seven weeks. Eight weeks. This is week

  230. eight. Because we have one more. But the fruit

  231. of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience,

  232. kindness, goodness, faithfulness, and gentleness.

  233. We're going to stop at gentleness this week.

  234. A doorway in your house, like when you were growing

  235. up or when you were raising your children, did

  236. you have a doorway that you would mark how tall

  237. the child was? Maybe right down their age. And

  238. you gauged their growth. I'm here today to tell

  239. you that if you want to gauge your level of spiritual

  240. maturity or gauge your level of spiritual growth,

  241. what's your love life look like? I'm not talking

  242. about your boyfriend or girlfriend or husband

  243. or wife. I'm talking about your love walk with

  244. everyone. Not just the people in your house.

  245. The people who are not easy to love that you

  246. come in contact with. How's your love walk? How

  247. is your joy? What's your level of joy? If you're

  248. here today and you say, well, you know what?

  249. Life's just beating me up and beating me down.

  250. I don't have any joy. That's because you're trying

  251. to find joy in the wrong place. Because the joy

  252. of the Lord is your strength. It's your strength.

  253. No matter what's going on around you, you can

  254. have the joy of the Lord. You can walk in the

  255. joy of the Lord. As a matter of fact, the kingdom

  256. of God is about righteousness, peace, and joy

  257. in the Holy Spirit. And if our encounter with

  258. God, relationship with God, if our church life,

  259. if we're going to call it that, doesn't include

  260. peace and joy, we're searching after the wrong

  261. things. We're emphasizing the wrong things. Because

  262. we have to understand that we are the righteousness

  263. of God in Christ Jesus. My righteousness doesn't

  264. depend on my ability to perform. And we walk

  265. in the peace of God, and we walk in the joy of

  266. the Holy Spirit. If those things aren't there,

  267. let's back up and get those things before we

  268. move forward. Because it's the fruit of the Spirit,

  269. too. The fruit of the Spirit is love and joy

  270. and peace. Peace. It's a fruit of the Holy Spirit.

  271. And then we get to the ones that make us a little

  272. uncomfortable. Patience. Patience. Patience.

  273. It's a fruit of the Spirit. Kindness. Goodness.

  274. And then we saw when we looked up the word, it's

  275. faith and faithfulness last week. Faith and faithfulness.

  276. Because the majority of the times that word shows

  277. up in the Greek, it's just translated faith.

  278. And then today, we're going to talk about gentleness.

  279. Gentleness. Everybody say gentleness. Here's

  280. the Greek word, praoutes. And here's what it

  281. means. It means gentleness. It means meekness.

  282. It means mildness. It means humility. I'm going

  283. to say that again. Gentleness, meekness, mildness,

  284. and humility. Let's talk about it. Because when

  285. most people hear the word gentle, they immediately

  286. think, ah, it's weak. If a person is gentle,

  287. then they're weak. They're passive. They're timid.

  288. Maybe they're fearful. But this word in the Bible

  289. is not weakness. Gentleness is strength under

  290. control. It takes more strength to be gentle

  291. than it does to fly off. It takes more strength.

  292. Jesus was gentle. And powerful. At the same time.

  293. Hello? He was never weak. We can't say that Jesus

  294. was weak. But he said of himself that he was

  295. gentle. Gentleness is gentle strength. This comes

  296. from Helps Word Study. Gentle strength which

  297. expresses power with reserve and gentleness.

  298. I like that. Just copied and pasted it right

  299. out of a concordance. Gentle strength, which

  300. expresses power with reserve and gentleness.

  301. Gentleness reflects the character of Jesus. Matthew

  302. 11, 28 and 29. You've probably memorized this

  303. verse. You've probably quoted this verse. But

  304. sometimes when we read through a Bible verse,

  305. we'll miss some important parts until the Holy

  306. Spirit illuminates them for us. Then Jesus said,

  307. come to me, all of you who are weary and carry

  308. heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take

  309. my yoke upon you. Let me teach you. Listen to

  310. what he says. Because I am humble and gentle

  311. at heart. And you will find rest for your soul.

  312. You will find rest in your thought life. You'll

  313. find rest in your desires. They won't control

  314. you. Desires that are not of God won't control

  315. you. You'll find rest in your emotions. And your

  316. feelings. You can find rest. Now Jesus could

  317. be real harsh. And he could tell you what you're

  318. doing wrong. And tell you, you better straighten

  319. up. But that's not gentleness. That's not gentleness.

  320. We looked at it in kindness. verse. It just popped

  321. in my head. It's the kindness of God that leads

  322. people to repentance. He's gentle. He is humble

  323. and gentle at heart. And make sure you get a

  324. hold of this. The creator of the universe who

  325. spoke everything into existence, the king of

  326. all kings and the Lord of all lords, the one

  327. with all authority on heaven and earth, described

  328. His own heart as being gentle. My heart is humble.

  329. I am humble and gentle at heart, Jesus said.

  330. Gentleness is being humbly patient. Gentleness

  331. is not being quick to react when you are provoked.

  332. How quick are you to act when you are provoked?

  333. Gentleness is not being quick to react when you're

  334. provoked. One of the clearest evidences of spiritual

  335. growth is learning how to deal with people in

  336. the right spirit. If we don't deal with people

  337. correctly, we're not very spiritually mature.

  338. Because see, spiritual maturity doesn't have

  339. a whole lot to do with a church service going

  340. on. It has to do with life. And how the Word

  341. of God is applied in your everyday life. Because

  342. we can all sit here. Here's something that I've

  343. realized during this series. I am a whole lot,

  344. I think, let me get this right. I think that

  345. I'm a whole lot more spiritual than I actually

  346. am. And I dare say I'm not the only one in the

  347. room. Because when we think of how spiritual

  348. we are, we start forming a list, right? I got

  349. this, I do this, I do that. Ask yourself how

  350. spiritual you are when you're driving down 27

  351. or I -4. Because that's where you're going to

  352. find out how spiritual you are. When somebody

  353. does something to offend you, you're going to

  354. quickly see how spiritual you are when you have

  355. the opportunity to be offended. See, immature

  356. people, immature people, they're the ones who

  357. respond harshly. They're the ones who react quickly.

  358. They're the ones who speak recklessly. They're

  359. the ones who handle everybody very carelessly.

  360. That's spiritual immaturity. I mean, if this

  361. isn't going to show up in our lives, we're just

  362. wasting our time. It's got to show up in our

  363. lives. I mean, I can't tell you how long I thought

  364. if I just went to church every Sunday, I'm doing

  365. good. And it had no impact on the way I lived

  366. or what I said or how I acted. I mean, I was

  367. a preacher's kid. But it wasn't making a difference

  368. in my life. You can go to church all your life

  369. and think that you're very spiritual, but if...

  370. If it doesn't come out in the way you deal with

  371. people, you're just immaterial. You're just carnal.

  372. And you might say, how dare you talk to me that

  373. directly? Well, I'm just trying to shake you

  374. a little bit so that you can wake up. Because

  375. we all need to wake up at some point. I would

  376. say I was a Christian... 10, 15 years going to

  377. church three times a week before it started really

  378. connecting with my life. And I began to move.

  379. I mean, 15 years, that's a long time. Gentleness.

  380. We don't like this word. Being gentle is being

  381. submissive and compliant. Another word for being

  382. submissive and compliant is being tamed. So a

  383. gentle person is a tamed person. And some of

  384. you are going, what in the world? Well, let me

  385. introduce you to Calvin. That's Calvin on his

  386. knees. And that's Honey beside him. When I was

  387. in Myrtle Beach for nine years, Calvin and Honey

  388. would preach one Sunday a year. And Honey did

  389. most of the preaching. Because we had an American

  390. Heart Association horse event where I was a chaplain.

  391. And he's a cowboy preacher. Calvin is. But Honey

  392. would pretty much present the whole message every

  393. year. And Calvin would just interpret Honey's

  394. message. Because if he didn't interpret it, people

  395. could come up with their own interpretation.

  396. That was the most trained horse I've ever seen.

  397. I mean, there would be 300, 350 people in the

  398. room. And the honey would just... Honey was completely

  399. obedient and completely tamed. Calvin would tie

  400. her up in a rope and just walk. I mean, you know,

  401. what horse likes to be tied up in a rope? I mean,

  402. it's feet. Just tied up, his neck tied down to

  403. her feet. What horse likes that? He would just

  404. look a certain way and the horse would do what

  405. he wanted the horse to do just by the way he

  406. looked at the horse or maybe some little sound

  407. he made with his mouth. I mean, she was completely

  408. obedient and completely tamed. How many of you

  409. know a horse? is big enough and strong enough

  410. to do what it wants to do. I'll never forget

  411. in a full gallop on a horse and it decided it

  412. didn't want me on its back anymore. And it just

  413. put on the brakes and lowered its head and I

  414. went tumbling. I'll never forget the trail horse

  415. who's supposed to be tamed and obedient, just

  416. follow the tail of the horse in front of it,

  417. but not mine. It had been raining and my horse

  418. refused to walk through a mud puddle. And it

  419. took me up a mountain into a cedar tree. Even

  420. though I had its nose on its left shoulder, it

  421. kept climbing up the mountain to the right. Horses

  422. can be dangerous. Have you ever seen a wild horse?

  423. Have you seen movies about a wild horse and somebody

  424. has to break that horse? It can be very dangerous.

  425. A trained horse can possess incredible power,

  426. but strength becomes useful only when it comes

  427. under control. I'm going to say that again. Strength

  428. only becomes useful when it comes under control.

  429. An untrained horse can become destructive. A

  430. person who's not gentle is a person who can be

  431. very destructive. A person who is gentle is a

  432. strong person, but they're under the control

  433. of the Holy Spirit, under control of God. Gentleness

  434. is not weakness, it's power under control. Gentleness

  435. is evidence that the Holy Spirit is governing

  436. your emotions, governing your speech, and governing

  437. your interactions. That's what gentleness is.

  438. And each one of us will know that spiritual growth

  439. is happening when our reactions soften up a little

  440. bit. When our words become wiser. When our anger

  441. slows down. When our response becomes calmer.

  442. When our treatment of other people reflects how

  443. Jesus would treat them more consistently. That's

  444. when spiritual growth is happening. We're not

  445. going to immediately jump to the ultimate of

  446. this in one service. I wish I could just get

  447. everybody up here and pray for you and everybody

  448. would leave. with the gentleness of God. But

  449. that's not the way it works. It's not the way

  450. it works. It's going to take some effort on your

  451. part. It's going to take some surrender on your

  452. part. It's going to take some work on your part.

  453. Without gentleness, listen, without gentleness,

  454. every inconvenience becomes a conflict. Every

  455. disagreement creates division. Every frustration

  456. becomes explosive. When we don't have this spiritual

  457. fruit evident in our lives, our lives are about

  458. conflict, division, and explosive emotions. Gentleness.

  459. absorbs the pressure of life. How many of you

  460. have pressure sometimes? How many of you face

  461. a little bit of pressure in this life? Well,

  462. gentleness is the fruit of the Spirit in us that

  463. absorbs this pressure that comes against us.

  464. It slows our reactions, it softens our responses,

  465. and it protects our relationships. Gentleness

  466. does. Sign of spiritual growth is when you stop

  467. reacting to every situation impulsively. Look

  468. to the person beside you and tell them, slow

  469. down. Slow down. Slow, where does it go? Slow

  470. your roll. Slow down. Gentleness is something

  471. we need to chase after. Everybody say chase after.

  472. 1 Timothy 6, 11. It says this, pursue righteousness

  473. and a godly life along with faith, love, perseverance,

  474. and gentleness. So gentleness should be something

  475. on our radar that we want in our lives, that

  476. we're going to chase after. When we find out

  477. about it, we're going to chase after gentleness.

  478. It's also something that we're going to have

  479. to put on. Everybody say put on. Colossians 3

  480. .12 says this, Since God chose you to be the

  481. holy set -apart people He loves, you must. Don't

  482. say this would be a good idea if you feel like

  483. it. Does it? No, it says we have to. We must.

  484. You must clothe yourselves with tender heart

  485. and mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness. And

  486. patience. Don't leave your bedroom without putting

  487. it on. Don't leave your bedroom without putting

  488. on these things. Every day. We have to put them

  489. on. And then gentleness is something we have

  490. to act in. James 3 verse 13 says this, if you're

    James 3:13

  491. wise and understand God's ways, prove it. By

  492. living an honorable life, doing good works with

  493. the humility, same word, even though it's translated

  494. humility right here. Depending on what version

  495. you're reading, it could be humility, it could

  496. be meekness, it could be gentleness, but it's

  497. the same word. Doing good works with the gentleness

  498. that comes from wisdom. Does anyone want to be

  499. wise? A wise person acts doing good works with

  500. gentleness. Boy, it got quiet in here. What did

  501. Jesus have to say about meekness, gentleness,

  502. and humility? Here's that same word again. Everybody

  503. say same word. Same word is found in the Beatitudes.

  504. Matthew 5, 5 says this. God blesses those who

  505. are gentle, humble, meek. God blesses those who

  506. are gentle. Same word. For they will inherit

  507. the whole earth. What a promise. It's not only

  508. a sign of spiritual maturity, it comes with an

  509. added blessing. That's the blessing, right? God

  510. blesses who? Those who are gentle. Extra blessing.

  511. What is the blessing? They will inherit the whole

  512. earth. When you study those words, here's what

  513. you come up with. You're going to be blessed

  514. with having a comfortable, undisturbed enjoyment.

  515. in yourself, your friends, and your God. Does

  516. that sound like something that's worth having?

  517. To have comfortable, undisturbed enjoyment? What

  518. does meekness, gentleness, and humility look

  519. like? What does that look like? In everyday life.

  520. What does that look like on Monday at work? What

  521. does that look like on Tuesday driving down I

  522. -4? It means that you're not easily offended

  523. or angered. Is that a description of your life?

  524. You're not easily offended or angered? If gentleness

  525. is there and growing, yeah, that's going to be

  526. what your life looks like. Staying calm when

  527. others are outraged. I'm just letting this sit

  528. in. I've got something else to say. I'm just

  529. letting you think about it a little bit. It's

  530. a whole lot easier to get outraged when somebody

  531. else is getting outraged. When somebody else

  532. is ramping up, it's easy for you to just jump

  533. on the bandwagon to ramp up with them. Hello?

  534. If somebody's screaming at you, it's a whole

  535. lot easier to scream back. Hello? But gentleness,

  536. if that spiritual fruit is evident in your life,

  537. you're the one who stays calm and tries to diffuse

  538. the situation calmly. Gentleness addresses issues

  539. when it's necessary, but gentleness does it calmly.

  540. Everybody say calmly. Not emotionally. Not emotionally.

  541. Gentleness quietly submits to God and His Word.

  542. That's what gentleness looks like. And the goal

  543. of this whole series... The goal of spiritual

  544. fruit and spiritual growth is for you and me

  545. to become more like Jesus. The reason why a lot

  546. of people don't want to go to church today is

  547. because they've been before. They met a lot of

  548. people who weren't like Jesus. And they say they

  549. don't want anything to do with it anymore. That's

  550. sad. That's sad. I'm glad that you're here today

  551. because everybody in this room has been hurt

  552. or offended at some point. I don't believe anybody

  553. can be alive in this room and go to church that

  554. you didn't have an opportunity to be offended.

  555. But you overcame that. Because your relationship

  556. with God was more important than being offended.

  557. I'm talking now more to the people who are watching

  558. on Facebook and YouTube. Your relationship with

  559. God should be of greater importance than any

  560. offense from your past. And I said it. The goal

  561. of spiritual growth is to become more like Jesus.

  562. And here's what we've learned during the series.

  563. Fruit grows naturally where a healthy connection

  564. exists. Jesus said, I'm the vine. You're the

  565. branches. And he said, if you will abide in me.

  566. He didn't say if you'll come visit me every Sunday

  567. morning for an hour and a half. He said, if you

  568. abide in me, my word will abide in you. Your

  569. life's going to produce a lot of fruit. A lot

  570. of fruit. You'll be fruitful if you abide in

  571. Him. Gentleness is also a fruit of the Holy Spirit.

  572. The Holy Spirit takes hold of the things of God,

  573. the things that God has for us. He's the one

  574. who takes hold of those things. In previous weeks,

  575. I've read verses and, you know, I just... I'd

  576. stand here and preach two or three hours, but

  577. you wouldn't sit there that long. Listen, the

  578. Holy Spirit, the Bible tells us this. He's the

  579. one. He's the God. He is God who takes hold of

  580. all the things of God, all the promises of God,

  581. all the provisions of God, all the character

  582. of God. He takes hold of those things, and then

  583. He's the one who declares them to us. He's the

  584. one who makes. These promises come alive on the

  585. inside of us. Have you ever read a Bible verse,

  586. and you might have read it for the hundredth

  587. time, and then all of a sudden, something just

  588. comes alive out of that verse. And it's like,

  589. that's the Holy Spirit illuminating that in our

  590. hearts. That's what He does. He takes the Word

  591. of God, the promises of God, the blessings of

  592. God. He declares them to us. He intensifies them.

  593. He makes them known to us. He is God. And the

  594. person of the Godhead who connects us, because

  595. He's in us, He connects us to the things of God.

  596. So this is what it comes down to. Spiritual growth

  597. is not about more self -dedication. Nobody in

  598. this room can say, I'm going to be more gentle

  599. this week. I'm going to take hold of my life

  600. and I'm just going to be gentle because the preacher

  601. told me that Jesus is gentle and I need to be

  602. more like Jesus. So I'm just going to do all

  603. I can to be gentle. That's going to lead to frustration.

  604. Because you can't live the Christian life in

  605. the flesh. You can't do it. Just go ahead and

  606. surrender it up and say, I can't do it. But if

  607. I'm connected with Jesus and I'm acknowledging

  608. Him, and if I'm acknowledging the indwelling

  609. presence of the Holy Spirit, God is with me.

  610. If I'm acknowledging Him and then something happens

  611. where I have the opportunity to be angry or offended

  612. or hurt, When that opportunity comes, if I just

  613. say, Holy Spirit, I don't have it in me to deal

  614. with this myself. But thank you for being in

  615. me. Thank you for working in me. Work through

  616. me. Because I'm about to bust. But instead of

  617. busting, I'm going to look to you. Because you

  618. are my helper. You are my comforter. You are

  619. my guide. I don't want to say anything that you

  620. don't want me to say right now. Spiritual growth

  621. is not about more self -dedication, self -determination,

  622. more self -effort. It's about abiding more in

  623. Christ. Abiding more is kind of an odd... It's

  624. like just abiding in Christ. That's like your

  625. address. That's where you live. You live. Not

  626. visiting. Not visiting on Sunday morning or visiting

  627. when you read the Bible for 10 minutes. Okay,

  628. God, that's all the time I've got for you. Now

  629. I'm going to go ahead about my own life, God.

  630. No, abiding in Christ. Acknowledging that God

  631. is with you and God is in you. Acknowledging

  632. His indwelling presence. Walking with Him. That

  633. means we're doing life with God. That's where

  634. the disconnect is. We've got to do life with

  635. God. There's not a moment in our day that we're

  636. not acknowledging God. I mean, if Jesus was in

  637. the car with you, would you drive any different?

  638. If Jesus was eating with you at the restaurant

  639. and you wasn't getting the best service, Would

  640. you act different? If Jesus was in a room and

  641. you had the opportunity to be offended, would

  642. you take it? Get this. He's closer than that.

  643. God is in you. If you're a Christian, God is

  644. in you. He's always there. Always. But we have

  645. to acknowledge the indwelling presence of God.

  646. Just acknowledging Him will steer us towards

  647. all of these fruit that we've been looking at.

  648. They'll be more natural. Because we're flowing

  649. with Him and He's flowing through us. We're walking

  650. in the Spirit. We're yielding to His leading.

  651. He's always leading. We're not always following.

  652. Listen. If you feel beat up right now because

  653. I'm saying these things, I don't believe you

  654. being beat up is coming from me or my words.

  655. You being beat up is coming from the accuser

  656. of the brethren who's saying, yeah, you are a

  657. sorry Christian. You can't... Do it. You're just

  658. a piece of work. You're not gentle. If that's

  659. what you're hearing in your mind right now, you

  660. shouldn't be. Because the Holy Spirit is trying

  661. to talk to you and He's saying, you know, let's

  662. face it where we are, but Let's move on up. Let's

  663. move on up. This is what I have for you. This

  664. is the life that I've provided for you that I

  665. want for you. Come on. He's like, come on, let's

  666. go. Let's go together. Let's come on up. That's

  667. the correct mindset. When the Word of God begins

  668. to confront you, He's confronting you because

  669. He wants you to come on up. The measure of your

  670. gentleness, the measure of your meekness, your

  671. mildness, your humility is a good measure of

  672. your spiritual maturity. This online worship

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