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Rick Warren - Winning the Battle Inside Me — Part Three

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  1. Today on Daily Hope with Pastor Rick Warren, we continue

  2. in our riveting journey through the series The Invisible War.

  3. In it will explore the.

  4. Unseen world of good and evil and see how it

  5. impacts our day to day existence. Join us for eye

  6. opening biblical insights into the spiritual dimensions that influence our

  7. lives in ways we never imagined. Right now, here's Pastor

  8. Rick Warren with the final part of a message called

  9. winning the Battle inside Me.

  10. Second preliminary step to ending the battle going on inside

  11. of you and winning the battle, I must detect and

  12. disarm the lie I'm believing. I must detect and disarm.

  13. The lie that I'm believing.

  14. You need to understand that the number one way Satan

  15. messes up your life is by suggesting lies to you

  16. or to get you to lie to yourself. And that's

  17. the number one way you mess up your own life

  18. is lying to yourself. Every time you expose and challenge

  19. a lie that you've listened to in your mind, you're

  20. going to be further set free every time you sin.

  21. You might write this down. In fact, look at this verse.

  22. The Bible says, if we claim to be without sin,

  23. we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.

  24. Now.

  25. He's saying there that sin causes us to deceive ourselves,

  26. and deception causes us to sin. Now, we all tell

  27. ourselves lies all the time, all the time. In fact,

  28. one of the big lies that you tell yourself is

  29. this one. It's not really a problem. Oh really, yeah,

  30. it's not really a problem. My finances, they're not really

  31. a problem. Our sex life, it's not really a problem.

  32. My kids.

  33. It's not really a problem. My work, not really my temper,

  34. my foul mouth, my thought life, my little secret habit

  35. over here in the corner.

  36. It's not really a problem. Who are you kidding?

  37. The Bible says, if we claim to be without sin,

  38. we deceive ourselves, and.

  39. The truth is not in us.

  40. So let me just ask you this real blunt question,

  41. is somebody who loves you, what are you pretending isn't

  42. a problem in your life? What are you pretending not

  43. to know? What are you pretending isn't a problem in

  44. your marriage? Isn't a problem in your personality? And you

  45. don't want to admit it. The Bible tells us that

  46. if I'm going to win this battle, I have to

  47. stop lying to myself, and I've got to stop listening

  48. to Satan's lives. And I want you to write down

  49. a couple important things. We'll go into these in deeper

  50. detail in following weeks. Behind every self defeating act is

  51. a lie I have believed. Behind every self defeating act

  52. is a lie that I have believed. Either I lie

  53. to myself or or I let Satan lie to me.

  54. You see, we have an amazing.

  55. Ability to lie to ourselves and to convince ourselves of

  56. things that aren't true. Look at this verse up here

  57. on the screen Jeremiah seventeen to nine. The heart is

  58. deceitful above all things and beyond cure.

  59. Who can understand it? What does it mean?

  60. The heart is deceitful? We have an amazing ability to

  61. lie to ourselves. The biggest liar you know is you,

  62. And the person you lie to the most is yourself.

  63. The person I lie to the most is myself. I

  64. tell myself things are right when they're not right. I

  65. tell myself things are okay when they're not okay. I

  66. often tell myself things are not okay when they are okay.

  67. And you do this all the time, and we rationalize

  68. and we minimize and we make excuses and we tolerate

  69. things in ourys going.

  70. It's no big deal. It's no big deal.

  71. And if you're going to get free and if you're

  72. going to have victory in this number two, write this down.

  73. To stop defeating myself, I must stop deceiving myself. To

  74. stop defeating myself, all those self defeating things in my

  75. life that.

  76. I don't like about me that I'd like to change.

  77. To stop defeating myself, I have to stop deceiving myself.

  78. I must become a person of the truth. I stop denying,

  79. I stop rationalizing, stop minimize. Is going to stop excusing

  80. and stop tolerating.

  81. Again. Let me ask you a very blunt question.

  82. What self destructive behavior in your life are you putting

  83. up with? And you know it's bad for you, and

  84. you know it's gonna cut years off your life, and

  85. you know it's going to hurt you in the long run,

  86. and you know it may red destroy a relationship.

  87. But you justify it. What is the truth?

  88. You need to admit? This is the second step to

  89. winning the battle. Jesus said this next verse. When you

  90. know the truth, the truth.

  91. Will what But first it will make you miserable.

  92. The truth makes you miserable as long as you deny it.

  93. The truth does not free you until you admit it.

  94. As long as you deny the.

  95. Truth, it doesn't help you. In fact, it just makes

  96. you mad. The truth makes you mad, and the truth

  97. makes you miserable. It is only when you are humble

  98. enough to admit it.

  99. Yeah, this is really what I am.

  100. And yeah, this is really what I do, and yeah

  101. this is really a compulsion, an addiction, a habit, a

  102. problem in my marriage, in my life, or whatever. When

  103. you admit the truth, then it sets you free. It

  104. doesn't set you free until you admit it. We'll come

  105. back to this in future weeks. I delete or detect

  106. and disarm the lie that I'm believing. The Bible says

  107. Satan is the father of lies. All he can do

  108. is lie to you. It's the only way can influence

  109. is you can suggest lies that Jesus said, I am

  110. the truth. You got to decide whether you're going to

  111. listen to God's truth or the world's lies, or Satan's

  112. lives or your own lives. Number Three, The third thing

  113. I need to do to get started in overcoming this

  114. battle is I must declare my struggle to another. Declare

  115. my struggle what I'm struggling with to another. I'm struggling

  116. with my mouth. I'm struggling with my mind. I'm struggling

  117. with my memory. I'm struggling with my behavior. I'm struggling

  118. with my secret addiction.

  119. I'm struggling with and and you.

  120. The Bible says we just share it. Sharing, revealing your

  121. feeling is the beginning of healing. Now, if all you

  122. want to do is be forgiven, you just admit it

  123. to God. But if you want to change and you

  124. want to be healed and you want to be different,

  125. God says you're gonna have to admit it to one

  126. other person. You don't have to admit it to everybody.

  127. Just all you need to do is have one person

  128. who's gonna love you unconditionally, accept it, pray for you.

  129. They're going to be an accountability partner. They're gonna be

  130. a uh you know, nobody goes into battle fight in

  131. a war by themselves. You go with the team, You

  132. go with a platoon. You need a battle buddy. You

  133. need one person in your life that your gut level

  134. honestly frank with, and you can share that with and

  135. if it's not your husband or your wife, then if

  136. you're a woman, you need to get another woman to

  137. share it with. If you're a guy, you need to

  138. get another guy to share it with.

  139. You.

  140. Go look, I just need to tell you I'm struggling

  141. with this. And by doing that, the relief valve is

  142. opened and the pressure is off, and.

  143. The boogeyman isn't as big as you thought he was.

  144. Now the Bible claims this James five point sixteen. Confess

  145. your sins to each other and pray for each other

  146. so that God can heal you. When a believing person prays,

  147. great things happen. Now he says, confess it, not to God.

  148. It says, confess to each other and pray for each other,

  149. and then you'll be healed. Now we've talked about this

  150. verse dozens and dozens of times. Here settle back, So

  151. I want us to memorize this verse today, just the

  152. first part of it. So look up here on the

  153. screen James five sixteen. Remember the hardest part is to

  154. remember the address where the verse is in the Bible.

  155. So you always say the address at the beginning and

  156. at the end of the verse, and you'll memorize the

  157. verse by saying it aloud over and over. You don't

  158. remember something by saying it silently. You only memorize it

  159. by saying it aloud. So you write it on a

  160. card and then you read it over and over till

  161. you get it down. So let's say this together, James

  162. five sixteen. Confess your sins to each other and pray

  163. for each other, so God can heal you. And where

  164. is that verse found? James five sixteen? Now today our

  165. memory verses what verse James five sixteen? And what does

  166. James five sixteen say? Confess your sins to each other

  167. and pray for.

  168. Each other so God can heal you?

  169. James five sixteen.

  170. I want you to write that down in a card,

  171. and I want you to say it every day this week.

  172. Revealing your feeling is the beginning of healing. Confess your

  173. sins to each other and pray for each other, so

  174. God can heal you. Now, one last version will close.

  175. Galatians five sixteen says this, live according to your new

  176. life in the Holy Spirit. Circle that phrase in the

  177. Holy Spirit. Live your according to your new life in

  178. the Holy Spirit. Then you won't do what your sinful

  179. nature craves. Now The difference between Roman seven, which is

  180. a picture of total defeat, and the picture of Romans eight,

  181. which is a picture of a man or woman in total.

  182. Victory, is this word spirit.

  183. In Roman seven, the phrase holy Spirit is never mentioned,

  184. not one instead forty one times. We have I, me,

  185. my myself, mind, all these personal pronouns. It's all about me,

  186. it's not about the spirit. In Romans chapter eight, the

  187. word spirit is mentioned nineteen times.

  188. And that's the difference.

  189. Is whether you are going by my spirit are going

  190. by the Holy Spirit to empower me. An example, let's

  191. say you and I go down to the lagoon of

  192. this afternoon and we're walking on the beach and I

  193. see a dead seagull, and the seagull has only been

  194. dead less than a minute, still warm. And I pick

  195. up this dead seagull. Now it's still got the same muscles, bones, feathers,

  196. wings that it had a minute earlier. But I pick

  197. up that dead seagull and I throw it up into

  198. the air, and what happens It comes right back down.

  199. Why because the life is going out of it. It

  200. is not the muscle, it is not the bones, it

  201. is not the wings, It is not the feathers. That

  202. makes a seagull fly. It is the life that God

  203. puts into it. And when the life, when the spirit

  204. is out of that bird, it ain't flying.

  205. It's still got all it's all the same equipment, but

  206. it's not going to fly.

  207. You have the equipment to live a successful, victorious life,

  208. but it's not worth anything if you don't have the

  209. spirit powering you to do it.

  210. You cannot do it on your own.

  211. If there's anything I want you to understand this week

  212. as we start this very long series on spiritual warfare

  213. and understanding the deeper things of God and getting to

  214. know Him better, is willpower doesn't work. It's like throwing

  215. a dead bird in the air. It's got all the equipment,

  216. but it can't fly without the spirit of God in it,

  217. without the life that God puts in it. And you

  218. can go out and have all the best intentions and

  219. make all the promises to yourself which you have broken

  220. over and over and over because you cannot do it

  221. on your own. You cannot be like Christ. You have

  222. to let Christ live through you. We'll be talking about

  223. that in the days ahead. And what the spirit does

  224. is two things the spirit does for me the Holy

  225. Spirit does for me the things I cannot do on

  226. my own.

  227. I don't have that power.

  228. And second, he fulfills in me what God desires to

  229. do in my life. Now, resolutions are good, they're a

  230. good start, but they'll only get you so far. Then

  231. you've got to have spirit power in your life.

  232. That's power. Heads.

  233. Now, all of our best intentions are not good enough.

  234. The alcoholic who says I'll never take another drink, and

  235. the violent person who says I'll never lose my temper again,

  236. and person controlled by porn who says I'm gonna I'm

  237. never gonna look at it again is going to fail.

  238. How many promises to yourself have you broken?

  239. A lot?

  240. The only way to win this battle against the first enemy,

  241. the old nature, is.

  242. To let the Holy Spirit do it.

  243. Now, you're never going to get to the victory of

  244. chapter eight until you experience the frustration of chapter seven

  245. and you finally realize you can't live the Christian life

  246. on your own power.

  247. So what's your problem?

  248. Temper, impatience, self control, being honest, fought life, pride, laziness,

  249. self centeredness. You know, every one of us have our

  250. skeletons in the closet. The problem is that skeletons don't

  251. stay in the closet, and you want to do the

  252. right thing, but you end up doing wrong, and that's frustrating.

  253. So it may as well be honest and say it

  254. isn't working.

  255. Me trying to flap my wings against gravity is like

  256. me trying to live a life that's good on.

  257. My own power.

  258. God has given you a new nature if you've invited

  259. Christ into your life. But we are still sinners after

  260. we believe, and there is that battle between the two dogs.

  261. Some of you really feel defeated today and you say,

  262. I feel like giving up. And my answer to you

  263. is good, give up. Stop trying to do it on

  264. your own. You cannot be Jesus Christ. Nobody can be

  265. Jesus like Jesus can, and He can live through you

  266. if you will let his spirit empower you with new

  267. life and it will lift you, lift you up out

  268. of the cycle of sin. I want you to pray

  269. this prayer right now. Dear God, you know the confusion

  270. in my life.

  271. You know the frustration I feel.

  272. You know the guilt and the shame, You know the

  273. compulsions and habits and addictions, and you know how many

  274. times I've made promises to myself and to you that

  275. I haven't kept. Today I realize that I have two

  276. natures inside of me, and they are at war. I

  277. ask you to use this series to help.

  278. Me have victory.

  279. Deepen my understanding of what Jesus Christ has done for me,

  280. show me how to let go and how to let

  281. your spirit live through me.

  282. And this week, help me.

  283. To challenge the lies that Satan puts in my mind,

  284. and to challenge the lies that I tell myself, to

  285. detect them and to disarm them, to stop deceiving myself.

  286. I want to know the truth about me, and I

  287. want it to set me free and help me to

  288. have the courage to declare my struggle to one other person,

  289. a battle buddy, a co worker, a friend in arms

  290. fighting their battle too, and may I be offer unconditional

  291. love and receive it. Help me to confess my sins

  292. to others and pray for others so that God may

  293. heal me and help me to live according to your

  294. new life in the Holy Spirit. If you've never invited

  295. Jesus into your life for the first time, you don't

  296. have any resources.

  297. You need to say Jesus Christ, come into my life

  298. right now, live in me.

  299. I don't understand it all, but I want to learn

  300. to trust you, love you, follow you, and most important,

  301. let you live through me by your spirit.

  302. I pray this in your name. Amen.

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