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Rick Warren - Maximizing Your Strengths - Part One

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  1. Hey, everyone, thanks for joining us today on Pastor Rick's

  2. Daily Hope.

  3. This is the place.

  4. Where Rick Warren brings you uplifting messages from God's Word

  5. every day to help you grow deeper in faith and

  6. live a life with purpose. Today we're continuing in a

  7. powerful series called Toolbox for Life. In this series, Rick

  8. teaches us four essential skills that you need to succeed

  9. wherever God has placed you, whether it's at home, at work,

  10. at school, or in your community. These are tools that

  11. every follower of Jesus absolutely needs. Okay, and let's get

  12. right to Pastor Rick with part one of a message

  13. called Maximizing Your Strengths.

  14. Our series theme is the verse out of the Bible

  15. Ecclesiastes ten to ten. It's one of my life versus.

  16. It's here on the screen. The Bible says, if the

  17. axe is dull and its edge is unsharpened, more strength.

  18. In other words, you've got a dull axe. It takes

  19. more energy to cut the wood. He's saying, work smarter,

  20. not harder. If the axe is dull and its edges unsharpened,

  21. more strength that's needed. But skill will bring success. It's

  22. not enough just to want to be successful in your

  23. life and your marriage and your career, in your schooling.

  24. Desire is not enough.

  25. Determination is not enough, dedication is not enough.

  26. Prayer is not enough.

  27. The Bible says skill will bring success, and until you

  28. learn those skills, you cannot succeed in life. And the

  29. more skillful you become, the more successful you'll be. Now,

  30. part of my job as your pastor is to coach

  31. you in life skills. That's one of the things that

  32. I do is to help you learn the skills of

  33. life to make you more successful, because I want you

  34. to succeed in every area of your life. Now, this week,

  35. I'm want to look at the Thurge skill, which is

  36. how to maximize your strengths you as time goes on

  37. in your life. I need to do less of what

  38. you're not good at and need to do more of

  39. what you are good at, what God wired you to do,

  40. what God shaped or formed or created or designed you

  41. to do. And we're gonna look at that in detail today.

  42. Now we've got an entire class on this called Class

  43. three OHO one Discovering My Shape. But this has to

  44. do with the fact that God made you unique. And

  45. the Bible says that God has uniquely wired you up

  46. for a purpose. He's designed you. He has shaped you

  47. for a purpose. The Bible says this Jeremiah chapter one,

  48. before I shaped you in the womb. This is God

  49. talking before I shaped you in the womb. I knew

  50. all about you before you saw the light of day

  51. in the words took your first breath as a baby.

  52. I already, he says, had holy plans for you. Now

  53. I want you to circle the word shaped. Before I

  54. shaped you in the womb, I knew all about you,

  55. and before you saw the light of day, I had

  56. holy plans for you. Did you know that God determined

  57. your life in advancing and he shaped you in advanced

  58. And by the way, this is why abortion is wrong.

  59. It's short circuits God's plan. God's plan for your life

  60. doesn't start the moment you take a breath. God plans

  61. for your life started the moment he thought you up

  62. and decided to use the DNA of your parents to

  63. create you. And it short circuits God's mind. God's plan

  64. for your life didn't start the moment you were born.

  65. It started before you were born. And the Bible says,

  66. he said, I shaped you in your mother's womb. Now

  67. Your shape reveals your purpose in life. If you want

  68. to know what you're here on earth for, you got

  69. to look at your shape. In architecture, we have a

  70. phrase that says a form follows function.

  71. You may have heard this term.

  72. And if you go and you want a building built,

  73. and you tell an architect I want to build a building,

  74. he will say first or she will say, tell me

  75. what you want to do with it? What's the function?

  76. And then form follows function. For instance, the building here

  77. at Lake Forest wearing right now was the function of

  78. it is to hold a large crowd, and so it

  79. was shaped. It was formed to fulfill a function. In architecture,

  80. form follows function, but with human beings it's the exact opposite.

  81. Function follows form. In other words, if you want to

  82. know what your function is a life, what you're supposed

  83. to do with your life, you got to look intently

  84. and deeply at how God wired you. And that's what

  85. we're going to look at this morning. Your shape reveals

  86. your purpose. I mean, anybody here have gills, no, so

  87. you weren't made to swim underwater without a scuba tank.

  88. Anybody here got wings? No, And that's why you takes

  89. a machine to help you fly. You weren't shaped for

  90. those things. Now, the Bible says, very repeated that God

  91. planned every day of your life, even before you were born.

  92. You are not an accident. Your parents may not have

  93. planned you. I've told you this many times, which but

  94. God did. And it doesn't matter whether they were good, bad,

  95. or indifferent parents, or you've never even knew your parents.

  96. God knew that they had just the exact DNA twenty

  97. three thousand chromosomes each that would create you. And God

  98. is more interested in making you than he was in

  99. their parenting skills. And God wanted you alive, and nobody

  100. else could have made you you, so He used even flawed,

  101. imperfect people.

  102. To make you.

  103. Now the next verse some on one thirty nine, I

  104. want you, as I read this aloud, to circle all

  105. of the verbs.

  106. Okay, let me read it to you. Here's on screen.

  107. You Lord made my whole being circle. The word made

  108. You formed me circle, formed in my mother's body. I

  109. praise you because you made me. There's another maid in

  110. an amazing, in a wonderful way, you saw, he saw.

  111. There's a verb you saw my borns being formed. There's

  112. another verb. As I took shape. There's another in my

  113. mother's body. When I was put together, circle put together.

  114. When I was put together, there in your mother's womb,

  115. you saw my body as it was formed. All the

  116. days planned planned for me were written in your book

  117. before I was one day old. Now I want you

  118. to write underneath that verse. God was intimately involved in

  119. my birth. He made you, he formed you, he shaped you,

  120. he planned you, he saw you. This is not something

  121. where God just said, oh, another baby's been born. No,

  122. God was intimately involved in your personal birth. He saw you,

  123. he made you, he planned you, he created you, he

  124. formed you, he shaped you.

  125. God was intimately involved.

  126. Now, notice in that verse he says, I've planned every

  127. day of your life. We don't get to choose the

  128. day of our birth, and we don't get to choose

  129. the day of our death. It's God's timing. Today there

  130. are many people trying to choose the day of.

  131. Their own death. That's called playing God.

  132. We don't get to choose when we're born, and we

  133. don't get to choose when we die, and when we do,

  134. we're trying to play God. God is God, and you're

  135. not now. Nearly thirty years ago, those who've been around

  136. for any length of time At saddle back, No, I

  137. came up with a little crosstick shape, five things that

  138. describe how God shaped you, why you are you, what

  139. makes you you? And to kick us off in today's message,

  140. Pastor Tommy, who is our three to Zho one ministry

  141. pastor who teaches the class now shaped for significance, is

  142. going to come and talk about shape.

  143. So let's give Tommy a warm welcome.

  144. So how has God shaped you? The yes stands for

  145. spiritual gifts. It stands for spiritual gifts. The moment you

  146. became a believer, God gave you some spiritual gifts. And

  147. spiritual gifts are supernatural abilities that God gives each of

  148. us through the Holy Spirit. At the moment of conversion,

  149. at the moment that Jesus comes into our hearts, the

  150. Holy Spirit enters in. We receive different kind of talents

  151. and special abilities and multiple spiritual gifts in the moment

  152. that we become a believer. Look at what First Corinthians

  153. seven to seven says, each one has his own gift

  154. from God. One has this gift, another has that. Now,

  155. these spiritual gifts that are given by God are not

  156. for your benefit, but they're for the benefit of others.

  157. These gifts are to be used to minister to the

  158. Body of Christ. They are to be used to build

  159. up to the church, to advance the.

  160. Kingdom of God. And we're given.

  161. These gifts so that we can be a blessing to

  162. other people, that our lives and how God has made

  163. us could help other people.

  164. And it's to show God's workmanship and his handiwork and

  165. his power in our lives.

  166. Now, some of you have spiritual gifts, but you don't

  167. even know you have them. And one of the reasons

  168. you don't know that you have them is because you've

  169. never actually taken a look at them. You've never unwrapped

  170. the package that God has given to you. Imagine receiving

  171. a beautifully wrapped gift and then you receive that gift,

  172. but you just put on a shelf and you just

  173. stare at it. Imagine how the gift giver would feel

  174. knowing that you've taken this gift that they've given and

  175. you haven't done anything with it. Well, God has given

  176. you these amazing spiritual gifts inside of you, and he

  177. wants you to unwrap those. We say, well, Tommy that's great,

  178. but how do I unwrap them? Well, the easiest way

  179. and the most beneficial way to unwrap them is to

  180. start serving in ministry. You discover your gifts and what

  181. God has put inside of you by getting out and

  182. serving and trying different ministries. And you'll try a ministry

  183. and it might work for you, and it's like, oh,

  184. I think this maybe me.

  185. I'm not sure. Some may not work for you, but

  186. the ones that.

  187. You're most fruitful at encourage others, encourage you and say, man,

  188. this really looks like who you are. You're doing a

  189. great job. That is where your spiritual gift is at.

  190. It's easier to discover your gift through ministry than it

  191. is to discover your gift or ministry through your gift,

  192. and so God wants you to be able to use those.

  193. Gifts for him.

  194. Now, I want to be honest with you, there's some of.

  195. You here that actually don't have any spiritual gifts.

  196. And the reason you don't have any spiritual gifts is

  197. because you've never asked Jesus into your life. You've never

  198. stepped across the line, you never tried to establish a

  199. relationship with God through his son Jesus.

  200. But the moment that you do that, the moment that you.

  201. Ask Jesus into your heart, he changes everything about you.

  202. But he also gives you gifts, these spiritual gifts. Now,

  203. every believer has at least one gift that they receive.

  204. I've never met a believer who doesn't who only has one.

  205. Most every believerrival woman always has multiple gifts. So the age,

  206. the age stands for heart. It stands for heart. This

  207. is your motivations, your interests. This is your passion, the

  208. core of who you are.

  209. Deep down inside. This is what gets you up in

  210. the morning. This is what keeps you up late at

  211. night thinking about it. This is what turns your crank.

  212. The things that you love.

  213. And we've got all different kinds of passions, all different

  214. kinds of loves in our lives, and they're all for

  215. different reasons. Some of you absolutely love football, like this

  216. is your season, this is your time. You love football.

  217. You're all up in what everything the NFL is doing.

  218. Some of you love sports, some of you love love love,

  219. I mean just love running. You could run for miles.

  220. I don't understand this at all, you know, Tommy, don't run.

  221. I just don't I don't and I don't get it.

  222. If we have to evacuate the building, I'm gonna die

  223. and go to heaven. I you know I'm gonna get out, maybe,

  224. but I'm gonna be the last one to get out.

  225. There's nothing wrong with that.

  226. Though.

  227. You got different passions. Some of you love cooking, some

  228. of you love painting. Some of you love to do

  229. business and shop and fix things and repair things. Some

  230. of you love video games, some of you love numbers.

  231. I don't understand that one either. You've got different passions

  232. and different things that you love. They make up who

  233. you are, and they're all wonderful. Have you ever noticed

  234. that there's some things that really interest you? I mean

  235. you really into it, and then there's other things that

  236. just bore you to tears and thirty minutes feels like

  237. thirty years, and you're like, are.

  238. We ever gonna get out of word? This is terrible?

  239. Have you ever noticed there's some things that really excites

  240. you and other things you could just care less about? Well?

  241. Where did that come from?

  242. It came from the fact that God put inside of

  243. you an innate desire, an innate passion for certain things,

  244. things that interest you, and God put those passions in

  245. your heart for you to enjoy them and for his benefit.

  246. Why do you do this?

  247. Because He wants you to be you only you can

  248. be you, and he wants you to be you.

  249. And my heart is the real me inside.

  250. Now you may not have known this, but every single

  251. one of us have a unique heart beat. Just like

  252. you have a unique thumb print or a fingerprints, a

  253. unique EyePrint, you have a unique heart beat, a unique emotion,

  254. a heartbeat that God put inside of you, and that

  255. person inside of you in who you are. God wants

  256. that to come out because that's the real you, those

  257. real passions. He doesn't want you to be ashamed of

  258. those real passions you have. The person you're sitting next

  259. to you more than likely doesn't necessarily have the same

  260. passions that you do.

  261. And that's totally okay.

  262. Look at what Proverbs four twenty three says, guard your heart,

  263. for it is.

  264. The wellspring of life.

  265. We need to guard our heart for many reasons. But

  266. let me give you one of the reasons why we

  267. need to guard our heart.

  268. Because there are people.

  269. In this world that will look at your passions and

  270. look at your dreams, and they'll want to dismiss them,

  271. don't want to belittle them. They'll want to deny them.

  272. They might even try to destroy them. And God doesn't

  273. want that for you. God wants the real you to

  274. be able to stand up and to step up in

  275. ministry and to serve him. Satan wants to destroy your passions.

  276. Satan wants to whisper things in your ears of like, oh,

  277. why should you care about that? That doesn't matter.

  278. He wants to destroy and he wants to distract you

  279. from them. So the Bible says you have to guard

  280. your heart.

  281. Now, if we all had the same heart, if we

  282. all had the same passions and desires, there's a lot

  283. of things.

  284. That wouldn't get done in the world, right.

  285. I mean, so thank God that we all have different

  286. things that we love, different things that get us going.

  287. I mean, thank God.

  288. People love repairing things, repairing cars, and people love teaching kids.

  289. Those are all different things that God can use for

  290. his glory and his kingdom.

  291. Now, the A stands for abilities, stands for abilities, and

  292. those are the natural abilities. These are the natural abilities

  293. that you were given the moment you were born. And

  294. everybody gets some natural abilities. Look at what Romans twelve

  295. six tells us God has given each of us the

  296. ability to do certain things. Well, I want you to

  297. underline certain things well. In this verse, God doesn't say

  298. I gave you the ability to do everything. Well, he said,

  299. I've given you the ability to do certain things.

  300. Well.

  301. There's a book called the twenty one Outrageous Lies We

  302. Tell our Kids.

  303. Now.

  304. In this book, it talks about all these different lies

  305. that we tell them. For example, this is a lie

  306. that we tell our kids.

  307. Just tell me the truth. I promise you won't get

  308. in trouble, right, Like I mean, I've told I've been

  309. so careful, I've to tell my kids.

  310. I tell my kids that, and in my mind, I'm like, Okay,

  311. no matter what comes out of their mouth, I am,

  312. they're not going to get in trouble. I just want

  313. to know the truth. But that's a lie we tell them.

  314. Here's another lie we tell our kids. We tell our

  315. kids you can be anything that you want to be

  316. in this world.

  317. It's true. We tell our kids that.

  318. Now here's the problem, though, we kind of perpetuate that

  319. lie out in their lives and they think they can

  320. be anything. Case in point, how many of you ever

  321. seen American idol.

  322. Somebody has lied to those people. They have not.

  323. Every time I watch the show, I'm like, where are

  324. their friends? Where are the people that love them to

  325. tell them that, like they can't sing, they don't know

  326. they can sing. We also perpetuate the lie inside of

  327. ourselves that we think can do anything. I mean, there

  328. was for a long time there. I want to be

  329. an NBA basketball player. The problem is I got a

  330. two inch vertical leap.

  331. That's it. And I don't like to run. So I

  332. got a problem that's.

  333. Not gonna work for me because it's not who God

  334. made me to be. So instead of telling your kids,

  335. or even instead of telling yourself you can be anything

  336. that you want to be, telling yourself the truth of

  337. what God says, and here's what God says. He says,

  338. you can be anything, absolutely anything that I created.

  339. You to be. That's what I tell my kids.

  340. I said, you can be anything, absolutely anything that God

  341. created you to be.

  342. Say this out loud with.

  343. Me, say I can be anything, absolutely anything that God

  344. created me to be. That's the truth, and.

  345. It doesn't matter about age.

  346. David was a teenager when he took on the Giant

  347. and killed him.

  348. Joshua said, you know what, I.

  349. Want to take that mountain, the final stronghold in the

  350. Promised Land, in his eighties, and he did it. He

  351. was fighting to the front of the line as an

  352. elderly man, saying we're going to the mountain.

  353. We're going to take it.

  354. When God is in it and God has created you

  355. to be who he's made you to be, and you

  356. embrace it, you can do anything. So sometimes the greatest thing,

  357. the greatest discovery, you can make, is finding out what

  358. you can't do in order for you to concentrate on

  359. what you can do. Because all of us are different.

  360. Some of you are really good with numbers. Man, you

  361. breeze through math. I mean you can do everything, geometry, calculus,

  362. You're just good with it. Others you, when you think

  363. of numbers, you're like, look, not me, I'm not doing it.

  364. Some of you are really good with words. Some of

  365. you are really good with people. Some of you are

  366. not really good with people. Some of you are really

  367. good with the animals. Some of you might have a

  368. natural athletic ability, and some of you might be really uncoordinated.

  369. You hurt yourself and you hurt other people. When you're

  370. out there. It's not good.

  371. Some of you might have a be an artist and

  372. you love to create, or you might be mechanically you

  373. have mechanical abilities in or you can create software.

  374. And I love that I am all these people.

  375. I feel like I had a mechanical bypass as a

  376. child when I was born. My brain just doesn't work

  377. that way. But some of you do amazing as architects.

  378. Some of you are teachers and hair stylists and makeup

  379. design artists and video production. You're born with leadership skills

  380. and leadership abilities, so you have music abilities. You're able

  381. to take an instrument and just a very short amount

  382. of time learn how to play it and develop that skill.

  383. Some of you, God gave this incredible ability to sing,

  384. and you have.

  385. A beautiful voice.

  386. The fact is that all these different kinds of abilities

  387. God wants to use for his glory and his kingdom,

  388. and he will to build up his church and to

  389. further the work here on this planet. Now, PEA stands

  390. for personality. We have spiritual gifts, we have heart, we

  391. have abilities.

  392. And then PA is.

  393. The fact that God has given us all a unique personality,

  394. and some of you have more unique personalities than others.

  395. Don't elbow anybody.

  396. Now.

  397. Psychologists tell us that there are sixteen unique personality types,

  398. but within those sixteen unique personality types, there are hundreds,

  399. if not thousands, of variations based on environment, based on

  400. passions and education, based on the experiences.

  401. That you have.

  402. The fact is God loves variety, and probably none of

  403. us can really figure out anyways our personalities because they

  404. all were a combination. We're a blend of all these things,

  405. our family of origin that make up you. And when

  406. you have the Holy Spirit in your life, it's difficult

  407. to categorize it because God is constantly redeeming every aspect

  408. of who you are. He's redeeming your personality, He's redeeming

  409. those experience, the things.

  410. In your life that you've struggled. He's redeeming all these things.

  411. So let's take a quick personality quiz just for fun.

  412. So for you, some of you, when it comes to

  413. say swimming, for example, some of you like to just

  414. cannonball in your plungers, you jump in, and some of

  415. you just like to wait to the pool. You can

  416. just want to stick your baby toe in the pool

  417. just to see how this thing is. Okay, So how

  418. many of you say you jump into the pool head first.

  419. You don't even think about it. You're diving in.

  420. Okay. How many of you.

  421. Say, no, I like to wait in the pool. I

  422. like to check it out. I'll just stick my toe

  423. in there. Okay, all right?

  424. What about playing games?

  425. How many of you say, you know what, I'm a

  426. I'm a high risk person.

  427. I like to I like to play for stakes. It

  428. doesn't matter who's in the room.

  429. I mean, I could love them, baby, but if we're

  430. playing a game, they're going down.

  431. That's just who they are.

  432. How many of you say that's you, right, okay, you're

  433. highly competitive in there. How many of you would say, no, No,

  434. we're playing a game.

  435. It's good.

  436. You know, I'll play for pennies. I'm okay with that.

  437. It's just about having fun. Okay, all right, that's good now.

  438. How many of you, when it comes to to uh

  439. to organization, would say, I love to be organized.

  440. How many would you say that?

  441. How many of you would say organization just really cramps

  442. my style a little bit?

  443. How many would it's just not me. The pile is organized,

  444. and that's good enough for me.

  445. Right, it's there, I know where it's at. I can

  446. find it. I don't need a system.

  447. That's you.

  448. Okay, good now. How many of you say I absolutely

  449. love routine. I love routine. It's just I love the organization.

  450. I love to plan everything out. I plan my vacations out.

  451. I can tell you when you every moment. Okay, raise

  452. your hand. Let me see you rag your cans.

  453. Be proud. You're kind of a little bit bree proud

  454. right here. Okay.

  455. How many of you say, no, man, I just like

  456. to live by the seat of my pants.

  457. I'm good, I'm good, okay, all right now.

  458. How many of you, when it comes to decisions, say

  459. I like to think things through. I don't like to

  460. make rational decisions, like to think things through?

  461. Raise your hands. How many of you say, I live

  462. by my gut, in my feelings. Raise your hands. Okay,

  463. all right. How many of your morning people raise your hands?

  464. Your morning because it's morning. I'm here. Yeah, I'm excited,

  465. it's morning already. How many of you are night people?

  466. You're night ouls. God bless you for making it here today. Okay,

  467. we're glad that you're here.

  468. All right right.

  469. How many of you married the opposite person?

  470. Yeah, just shows God has got a sense of humor.

  471. Doesn't he. I mean, really, now.

  472. How many of you would say I'm not good in

  473. the morning and I'm not good at night, but I

  474. am fantastic at lunch.

  475. How many of you out there that's me? That's me.

  476. I don't even know if God exists before six am.

  477. I'm told that he does, but I'm not sure because

  478. I've never experienced before. Now, how many of you would

  479. say I am an outgoing, extroverted kind of person.

  480. Raise your hand, all right?

  481. How many of you say, nope, I'm more shy and

  482. more introverted.

  483. You raise your hands now.

  484. And the true introverts actually didn't raise their hands in

  485. that moment.

  486. But for those of you, we know you're there, We

  487. love you.

  488. The point is this that God uses different personalities to

  489. work in the world and do all kinds of things.

  490. One Corinthians twelve to six says God works through different

  491. people in different ways. And the fact is God can

  492. use introverts just as much as he uses extroverts, and

  493. he does.

  494. God can use.

  495. Super organize people just as much as he uses people who.

  496. Are disorganized, and he does.

  497. God can use people that love routines and people that

  498. love just to be adventurous and fly by this their pants,

  499. and he does. God uses all of these things that

  500. he has made you to be for his glory and

  501. his kingdom when you surrender and place them in God's

  502. hands and accept who God's made you to be.

  503. Pastor Rick's gonna come up and talk about the email.

  504. You know, when Tommy was talking about how God puts

  505. opposites together, I was thinking about, you know, when you

  506. before you get married, opposites attract, and then after you

  507. get married, opposites attack because what interested you in your

  508. spouse was they were different from you. Oh that's so

  509. cute the way she does that. Oh that's so I

  510. really like the way he does that. Six months into

  511. the marriage, you going, excuse me, could you be a

  512. little bit more like me?

  513. You know?

  514. And what started off as interesting is now an irritation. Now,

  515. for those of you who are unmarried and you would

  516. like to be married, I want to just tell you

  517. a little secret. You cannot change a person's personality.

  518. You can change their character.

  519. Their character can change, but you can't change their personality.

  520. You know, I've done thousands of weddings and there's an

  521. order to the wedding, and you know, the bride walks

  522. down the aisle and then she stands at the altar

  523. and then they do the hymn, And many brides after

  524. the wedding think that's the same process. I'll alter him.

  525. It ain't gonna happen, all right, You just you know,

  526. don't think you know. I have a project here and

  527. it's you. Character can change. Your fundamental personality will not

  528. change over your lifetime, and you just need to understand it.

  529. So the five things that make you u s spiritual gifts.

  530. What am I gifted to do?

  531. Heart?

  532. What do I love to do? Abilities? What am I

  533. naturally good at? Personality? Who do I like to do

  534. it with? And how do I to do it? Routine,

  535. variety together in a group, by myself. And then the

  536. e in shape that shapes your life for your purpose

  537. is experiences. And of course God uses all kinds of

  538. experiences in your life. Now, the first experiences he uses

  539. to shape you are your family experiences, good ones and

  540. bad ones. God can use them both for good in

  541. your life, even the bad ones. If you'll give him

  542. all of the pieces and he'll use family experiences to

  543. shape you. He will use educational experiences to shape you

  544. in school and I'm talking about both good and bad.

  545. If I would ask you to raise your hand and

  546. I would just say how many of you were hurt

  547. in school, every single hand would go up. Everybody has

  548. been hurt in school by something somebody said to you,

  549. or something somebody did to you, or a comment a

  550. teacher made.

  551. It's just part of life.

  552. You're going to be hurt, and like God can even

  553. use that to shape you. Spiritual gifts and herd ability,

  554. personal and experiences, vocational experiences, your job, spiritual experiences, church retreat,

  555. Bible studies, a quiet time of the Lord. But the

  556. number one kind of experience that God uses to shape

  557. you for your purpose in life. I hate to tell

  558. you this, painful experiences. More than anything else in life.

  559. God uses painful experiences in your life to get your

  560. attention and to shape you. God whispers to us in pleasure,

  561. he shouts to us in pain. Pain is God's megaphone.

  562. I can't tell how many people I've heard are go

  563. in this direction until all of a sudden they got

  564. in pain, and now they're going in a different direction.

  565. We don't change when we see the light. We change

  566. when we feel the heat. And so God even uses

  567. pain for good in your life. He doesn't have to

  568. cause it. There's plenty of pain in the world, but

  569. he can bring it for good.

  570. Let me show you a couple verses.

  571. Deuteronomy eleven, verse two says, remember what you have learn

  572. learned about the Lord through your experiences circle the word

  573. experience experiences with him. God wants you to learn from

  574. your experiences not to be bitter, but to be better.

  575. And Romans eight twenty eight says, all circle the word,

  576. all all that happens that means the good and the bad,

  577. every part of it, all that happens to us is

  578. working for our good if we love God. Now, this

  579. is a conditional promise. Everything is not good in the world.

  580. We know.

  581. It doesn't even say that not everything is good. Cancer

  582. is not good, rape is not good, terrorism is not good,

  583. evil is not good, Suicide is not good. There are

  584. a lot of bad things in the world that are

  585. not good. And the Bible doesn't say it's all good.

  586. It says all things that happen to us are working

  587. for our good, not for everybody. Everything is not working

  588. for good in the life of everybody. It's only working

  589. for good in the life of those who love God

  590. and give him all the pieces. Say God, can you

  591. bring good out of bad? Can you turn a crucifixion

  592. into a resurrection? Can you turn darkness into light? Can

  593. you turn evil into good? Can you do something with

  594. the mess in my life? Even my bad decisions?

  595. God?

  596. Say yes, I can do that. Now, it says. The

  597. key is it's working together. It's got to be mixed in.

  598. I could go to my kitchen this afternoon and pull

  599. out a can of crisco and start eating it.

  600. It wouldn't taste good.

  601. I could crack a couple of raw eggs and eat it.

  602. That wouldn't taste good.

  603. I could take a thing of salt start pouring it down.

  604. It would be very bitter.

  605. I could take some flour and I could eat the

  606. raw flour and it would be very dry. I could

  607. even take some vanilla and drink it pure vanilla, and

  608. it would be bitter. But I can put that in

  609. the mix and it becomes a cake.

  610. I'm hungry. Okay, that's all the sermon you need. Let's

  611. go out the lines.

  612. Okay, right here we go, Here we go, And the

  613. fact is there are the point is there individual events

  614. in your life that are bitter to your taste.

  615. You know what I'm talking about.

  616. But in the mix, God can make a cake. Does

  617. that make sense? God can bring good out of bad?

  618. And it's even some of the most tasty stuff is

  619. when you put sweet and bitter together, and salty and

  620. sweet and you know, you know, vinegar with this, and

  621. you go, wait a minute, how's that? It's in the mix?

  622. All things are working together if we love God in

  623. our experiences. Now, this is your shape. What I want

  624. to spend the rest of our time on is how

  625. do you maximize your shape? And you got to do

  626. four things? Write these down. The first thing I have

  627. to do to maximize my strengths to become.

  628. What God made me to be.

  629. The first thing is obviously discover it. I've got to

  630. discuss my shape. You can't use a gift that you

  631. haven't discovered. You can't use a personality you don't understand.

  632. You can't grow on your experiences if you haven't discovered them.

  633. So until you start discovering your shape, you're gonna live

  634. what I call a forur F life frustration, fear, fatigue

  635. and failure. Frustration, fear, fatigue and failure. If you have

  636. in your life a sense of frustration or fear, or

  637. fatigue or failure. It means you are not operating in

  638. your shape. You're not in the Jay zone, the joy zone.

  639. You're not being what God made you to be. You

  640. may be in a job that's totally ignoring the way

  641. God shaped you, and you've got frustration, fear, fatigue, and failure.

  642. It's like fitting a square peg in a round hole.

  643. It doesn't fit.

  644. Such a great message from Pastor Rick today, and I

  645. hope you were just as encouraged as I was. You know,

  646. the truth is, desire and determination alone aren't enough to

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