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Rick Warren - Radical Gratitude – Part Two
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Hello, and welcome to Pastor Rick's Daily Hope. This is
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the Bible teaching ministry of Rick Warren. Hey, We're so
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glad you've joined us today. We're continuing a powerful series
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called radicalis Developing Spiritual Roots. And in this series, Rick
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will show you how to grow deep in your faith,
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stay grounded in God's word, and become everything He created
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you to be. And now here's part two of a
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message called radical gratitude.
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What is the definition of radical gratitude? Well, turn your
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outline over and the Bible tells us of first Thesalonians
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five eighteen. This is the definition of radical gratitude. He's
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not talking about just saying well, I'm thankful for my
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parents or my family. Anybody can do that. I'm thankful
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for pumpkin pie. Anybody can say that I'm thankful for
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freedom and health. Anybody can say that. Takes no intelligence,
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no character, no faith to be grateful for the good
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things in your life. Radical gratitude is this one Thesalonians
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five eighteen. Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is
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God's will for you in Christ Jesus. That's radical gratitude.
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In all circumstances. Give thanks for this is God's will
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for you in Christ Jesus. Now, friends, this is such
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an important verse. I want to tear it apart word
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by word. Here First, it says give thanks. That means gratitude.
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It means appreciation, It means recognition, it means praise. It
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means given credit to people where credit is due. In everything,
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give thanks. By the way, the phrase gift thanks here
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in the Greek word is the word eucharistaas Actually if
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ukuli stayo yukari stayal is the word.
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We get eucharist from.
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Has anybody ever heard this word eucharist? Eucharist is one
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of the words that we call the Lord's supper. It's
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called communion, it's called the lord Lord's supper, it's called
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the Eucharist. What does that mean? That's the Greek word
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that simply means give thanks. And when we take the
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Lord's Supper together, we're giving thanks to God for his salvation,
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for his forgiveness, for our home in heaven, and all
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of these things. We're just giving thanks. Now it says
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give thanks in circle the word in, and then it
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says all circle the word all. Now first notice, give
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thanks in all circumstances. It does not say give thanks
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for all circumstances. Big difference doesn't say four. It says
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in you don't have to be thankful for the bad
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in your life. You don't have to be thankful for evil.
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And there's a lot of evil in the world. If
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a little girl gets kidnapped and molested and killed, you
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don't ever have to be thankful for that. If a
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woman gets raped, you don't ever have to be thankful
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for that. When a car by a drunk plows into
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somebody and a family dies, you don't have to be
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thankful for that. The Bible does not say be thankful
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for all evil. There's a lot of evil that would
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make God a sicko. Everything that happens in the world
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is not God's will, because well it must be God's
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will blowney. Most of the times God's will is not done,
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My will is done. That's why we're to pray Thy
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will be done on earth as it is in heaven,
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because in heaven God's will is always done, and on
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earth God's will is rarely done. So don't blame God
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for all the evil in the world. And you certainly
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don't have to thank God for it. He doesn't say
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thank God for it, he says thank God in it.
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Why can I thank God in every circumstance. Well, there's
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a number of reasons. One, I know God is in control.
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I know God can bring good out of evil. I
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know even the stupid mistakes I make, God can turn
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it around. I know that I'm not gonna have to
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live on earth forever. I know I'm gonna go to
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Heaven one day. I know I can't lose my salvation.
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I know that no matter what happens, God isn't gonna
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stop loving me. I could think of one hundred things
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that I can be thankful for in the circumstance, even
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when the circumstance stinks. It doesn't say for everything. It
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says in now, It says in all things now. That
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word there all circumstances all. The Greek word is the
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word poss and posse means any all everything, anyone, all
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the time, anywhere, everywhere, the whole thing. It means no exception,
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no excuses, no exemptions. God expects you to be grateful
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in every circumstance. That's called radical gratitude. Anybody can be
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grateful for the nice presence somebody just gave you. But
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to be grateful in all circumstances is radical gratitude. In
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give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will
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for you. In Christ Jesus, people say, I need to
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know God's will.
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There it is.
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What God wants me to do with my life. There
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it is in everything. Give thanks. This is God's will
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for you. He say, What am I supposed to do
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in the next decade. Am I supposed to get a
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new job. Am I supposed to go to school? Am
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I supposed to get married? Am I supposed to move overseas?
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What am I supposed to do? God says, I'll tell
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you number two when you start doing number one. Okay,
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all those other number twos will work on those three, four, five, six,
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But first let's work on this one. I want you
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to in everything learn to give thanks for this is
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My will for you. Once you got that one done,
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we'll start talking about number two, three, four, five, and six.
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This is clear. In everything, give thanks. This is God's
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will for you.
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Now? Why why is that true?
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Why is it always God's will no matter what happens
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in my life, that I am to give thanks not
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for the circumstances. But in the circumstance, why is that
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God's will?
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Reasons?
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You might write these down number one, because it honors God.
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Gratitude honors God. Anytime you thank anyone, you honor them.
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For instance, if I say to my wife, Honey, I
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am so grateful for that great Thanksgiving dinner you made,
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I have just honored my wife. When I say to
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her mom, Mom, I want to thank you for having
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ka so I could marry her, I am honoring her.
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When I say to you, thank you for opening the
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door for me, or thank you for coming to another service,
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or thank you, But what I am honoring you. Anytime
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you express gratitude, you honor that person. The Bible says
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this about God giving thanks is a sacrifice that truly
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honors me. When you sacrifice your giving thanks, what are
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you sacrificing your time, your money, your thought? It takes
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time to think of things to be grateful for. Now,
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my life likes for me to say thank you for
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the things she does for me. But if that's all
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I ever did, she'd begin to wonder does.
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He really love me?
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Or does he just love me for the things I
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do for him? At some point I have to start
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moving to the higher level of thanksgiving, which is not
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just thanking my wife for what she does, but thanking
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my wife for who she is. That's a higher level
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of thanksgiving. If my kids came to me and the
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only time they thank me is when I give them
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an allowance, I begin to wonder do they love me
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or do they just love the money. Now, if all
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you do is thank God, God, thank you for letting
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me get into this class. God, thank you for giving
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me this food. Thank you God for the things you
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do for me, God starts going, do you really love
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me or do you just love the things I do
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for you? You need to learn to thank God not
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just for what he does, but who he is.
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God.
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I thank you that you're smarter than me. I thank
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you that your wisdom is greater. I thank you that
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you know it'll make me happy more than I do.
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God.
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I thank you that you're consistent when I'm inconsistent. I
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thank you for your love. I thank you for your mercy.
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I thank you God that you're always fair. I thank
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you that even when I don't understand it, you have
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my best interest at heart.
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That's thanking God for who.
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He is and you need to get beyond the thank
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you God for food, to thank you God for who
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you are. That's taking your roots deeper. It honors God.
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Develop the attitude of gratitude. Doctors have shown in many
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many reports that gratitude is the healthiest human emotion. That
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the more grateful you are in life, the healthier will
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be actually physically, it's good for your physical health. The
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more ungrateful you are in life, the more it actually
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affects your health. Gratitude is good for your health. It's
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good for your heart. And if you say, God, I'm
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not going to put my feet on the ground in
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the morning, I'm gonna sit on the edge of my
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bed and before I do anything else, I'm gonna stop
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say thank you. And I would say, just start this week.
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Every day, sit on the side of your bed and
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think of ten things to thank God for before you
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get out of bed. It'll change your attitude. It'll change
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your day. The first five minutes of your day sets
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your mood for the rest of the day. And if
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you start it with gratitude, you'll be healthier, you'll be happier,
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you'll be closer to God. Your deep roots will be
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going deeper. He just start saying, God, let me just
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think of who you are, what you've done, how much
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you've done for me. And I make a list and
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I think of ten things, and I think of ten
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more things.
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Give thanks. It honors God.
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The second thing it does is why is God's gratitude
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God's will? Because it creates fellowship. It creates fellowship. What
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I mean by that it builds relationships. Gratitude always builds
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deeper relationships between you and other people, not just between
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you and God, but between you and other people. Now, listen,
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whoever you want to get closer to, start expressing gratitude
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to that person, and you'll get closer. If you've started
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moving away from your husband or your wife, you know
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what you need to do. You need to start doing
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what you did during dating. Express gratitude. Start writing little
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kind notes, making calls during the day, do the things
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you did at first. The reason you've lost that love
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and feeling is because you've stopped doing the things that
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created that love and feeling early on. And you take
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each other for granted, and you want to rebuild that
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relationship with a friend, with a parent, with a spouse,
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with people in your small group, whoever you want to
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get closer to start spending more time expressing gratitude to them.
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You want to build your small group. Don't just go
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to a small group during the week. Text them, email them,
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call them, write them. See you know, I'm grateful for you,
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and here's why I'm grateful. And you'll find that the
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more grateful you are for your group, the more your group.
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Will coalesce together.
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The Bible says this, encourage one another and build each
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other up. So I will encourage you to be more
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intentional in expressing gratitude to the people in your small
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group this week. Write some notes, you know, send some
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text or emails, and just tell people how grateful you are.
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It brings you closer together. Number three.
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The third reason why it's God's will for you to
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be radically grateful is it develops faith. It develops my faith. Now,
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how does gratitude develop my faith? Well, it happens when
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times are tough, when things don't make sense, when you
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can't figure it out, when your prayers are unanswered, when
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everything is going the way you didn't want it to go,
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and yet you thank God in that circumstances. God, I
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know You're in control. I know you love me, and
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I know you can bring good out of this, and
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I'm just thanking you. I'm not thankful for this situation.
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I just got fired, but I'm thankful in the situation
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that you're bigger than my problem and you can turn
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off one faucet and turn on another just as easily,
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and I'm thanking you for that. That is an evidence
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of trust. And when you learn anybody can thank God
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for good things, but if you can thank God even
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in the bad things, your faith grows and your roots
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go deeper.
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It's also an evidence of humility.
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You see when you thank God in a situation you
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don't understand, you're saying God, I don't understand this, but
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I'm humble enough to know I'm.
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Not God and you are.
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And I trust you, and I'm humble enough to admit
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it that you know what's best for me. Now, there's
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a guy in the Bible named Hubakuk, and I always
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like to bring these guys from the little books the
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Old Testament end because one day you're going to get
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to heaven and the back is going to come up
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to you and say, hey, how'd you like my book?
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And I don't want you to look like a dude.
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It's like, oh, oh, mister Becker guy didn't even know
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you were in the Bible, So I want to make
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sure you.
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Know who these guys are. So you need to get
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to heaven.
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You're not embarrassed, and you could say, oh, you know,
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I really liked what you said in chapter three, abacky,
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that was good.
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That was really good. Okay.
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And here's what a backack said. He was going through
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tough times. And he says, you know, even though the
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fig trees have no fruit, and no grapes are growing
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on the vine, and even though the olive crop failed,
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and even though the fields produced no grain. In other words,
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I'm going through recession. My business is in the tank.
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And even though the sheep are all dying and the
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cattle stalls are empty. In other words, he said, my
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portfolio has hit the skids. My four oh one K
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has become a one oh one k. He goes, even
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though all this is happening, I will still, I will still,
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I will still be.
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Joyful and glad.
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Why now, he's not thanking God for all the bad
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things that have gone wrong, not for those things. He's saying,
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what's his cause of gratitude? I will be joyful and
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glad because here's the cause. The Lord is my savior.
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Everything else thinks in life. But I can be grateful
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because the Lord is my savior. He will pull me out,
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He'll bring me through this, He'll help me out. I'm
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not on my own. I'm not by myself. He hadn't
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left me abandoned. I'm not an orphan, He's saying, I
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will still give thanks to God. That is the ultimate
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test of faith. Can you thank God when life stinks.
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That's the test of whether you're a shallow Christian or
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a deep one, whether you've got spiritual roots or you're
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just superficial. Can you think God God even when life stinks,
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when everything's going wrong, He says, if I'm going through
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tough times, what I need to do is not look
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at what's lost. I need to look at what's left.
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I need to look at what's left, and I need
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to be grateful for that. And no matter how bad
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things are in my life, there's always always thousands of
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things I can be grateful for. And no matter how
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bad things are in my life, there's always always the
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fact that I can be thankful to God just for
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being God, and that he has promised to see me
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through these situations, to help me out, to strengthen me,
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to care for me, to do miracles, to answer prayers.
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He's always promised, even when things don't go my way,
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that he can work it for good in my life.
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And so ultimately the plan is in action. That is faith.
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God's will is gradical gratitude in all things, give things why.
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It honors God, It creates fellowship, It develops faith Number.
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Four, It serves others.
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Radical gratitude, the attitude of gratitude that says, I'm just
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going to walk through life being grateful in every situation,
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no matter what, times of plenty, times of tightness, good, bad, right, wrong, whatever,
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I'm just going to be grateful in every situation. He says,
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that actually serves others. It becomes a ministry. Did you
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know we've talked about this many times that every Christian,
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every believer, is a minister. You are a minister, you
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have a ministry. You're not a pastor, but every Christian
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is a minister. What does that mean? It means we
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are to serve other people. We're saved to serve, and
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you can have a ministry called the ministry of appreciation.
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Do you know what the word appreciation means. Well, if
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you've ever bought a car, you know the meaning of depreciation. Okay,
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the moment you drive it off the lot, it's worth
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less than you paid for it. Even if it's brand new,
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you take it back, it's worthless. Depreciation it means to
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decrease in value. If you've ever bought a house, you
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know the meaning of both appreciation and depreciation. You've see
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the value go up, and you have seen the value
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go down. To appreciate means to raise in value. And
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this is a ministry. When you appreciate your husband, you
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raise his value. When you appreciate your wife, you raise
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her value. When you appreciate your kids, you raise their value.
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When you appreciate your coworkers, your staff, the people you
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work with in the office, you raise their value to
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you and to the company. When you appreciate your boss,
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you raise her value or his value. The ministry of
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appreciation raises the value of people. And that's why God
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says radical gratitude is a ministry. He and just go
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around making a ministry out of raising the value of
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people simply by appreciating them, going around, and you know
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One of the things I've discovered is that everybody in
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life needs massive doses of encouragement. I've never met anybody says,
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oh no, I don't need a compliment. I have too many.
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Please stop, please really, please, please stop. I'm too affirmed.
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Please don't don't give me anymore.
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You have an unqualified need to be affirmed, to be loved,
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to be appreciated to people express gratitude for and you can,
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and so does everybody else. And if you want to
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be used of God, here's a little secret. Affirm everybody.
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Appreciate everybody, show gratitude to everybody. You know, the team
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that I travel with that we have a little pack
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that we're just going to leave a trail of gratitude
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wherever we go in the world, and we're going to
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express appreciation to the people that everybody else ignores. And
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so we make it a little game. We make sure
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that the maid services who are fixing the sheets in
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the in the motel, or the taxi driver or the
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bellman or the clerk or the ticket agent, that we
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express appreciation to them in the middle of their busy day.
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That we're not going to have contact with any person
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on the road without saying thank you. And I'm pretty
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good at it. But Steve, he is a pro. He's
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almost embarrassingly good at it, you know. I mean, he's
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just he is so good at expressing appreciation to people.
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I'm in awe of the guy how he does it
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on the phone and stuff like that. And I'm just
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and I have to be honest with you that we
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have actually missed planes because we were still busy thanking people.
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The nice thing about it is the people we think
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then help us get on the next plane.
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You know.
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I was gone for two weeks. I was a week
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in Africa and in Europe, then a week in Europe,
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and one day we were on one day I was
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speaking to pastors and we had breakfast in Brussels and
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lunch in Paris and dinner in Vienna and all in
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the same day. And I'm speaking to these groups of
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pastors and We're just leaving a little trail of people
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everywhere we go. It was so funny because in Vienna
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I was sitting in a taxi and an elderly lady,
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seventy nine year old woman, seventy nine year old woman
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and her husband coming knock on the window.
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I roll the window down.
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She goes, I'm a fan friend of yours on Facebook.
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I said, tell me your story. She says, well, I'm Romanian.
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I'm going now wait a minute, a Romanian eighty nine
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year old woman in Paris watching me on Facebook. It's
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a new world, friends, we got a radical change here.
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This is a radical and so it.
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Helps other people. In fact, the Bible says this, do
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not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouth.
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In other words, that's critical, complaining, negative, cynical, sarcastic, always
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putting other people down. Don't let that kind of stuff
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come out.
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Of your mouth.
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But only the only thing that should come out of
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your mouth is what is helpful for building others up.
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He says, you tell you need to talk, not what
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builds you up, but what builds others up according to
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their needs. That it may benefit not you, but those
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who listen. That's called the ministry of affirmation. So why
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is gratitude radical? Gratitude in every situation always God's will.
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It honors God, It creates fellowship, It brings you closer
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to people. It develops faith, particularly shows your trust in
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God in tough times. It serves other people and then
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there's a fifth one.
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It is a witness.
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It is a witness to unbelievers. The best way to
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share your faith with other people is a start with gratitude.
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You know what I'm grateful for about you? That'll blow
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their mind. Wow.
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