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  1. Hello, and welcome to Pastor Rick's Daily Hope. This is

  2. the Bible teaching ministry of Rick Warren. Hey, We're so

  3. glad you've joined us today. We're continuing a powerful series

  4. called radicalis Developing Spiritual Roots. And in this series, Rick

  5. will show you how to grow deep in your faith,

  6. stay grounded in God's word, and become everything He created

  7. you to be. And now here's part two of a

  8. message called radical gratitude.

  9. What is the definition of radical gratitude? Well, turn your

  10. outline over and the Bible tells us of first Thesalonians

  11. five eighteen. This is the definition of radical gratitude. He's

  12. not talking about just saying well, I'm thankful for my

  13. parents or my family. Anybody can do that. I'm thankful

  14. for pumpkin pie. Anybody can say that I'm thankful for

  15. freedom and health. Anybody can say that. Takes no intelligence,

  16. no character, no faith to be grateful for the good

  17. things in your life. Radical gratitude is this one Thesalonians

  18. five eighteen. Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is

  19. God's will for you in Christ Jesus. That's radical gratitude.

  20. In all circumstances. Give thanks for this is God's will

  21. for you in Christ Jesus. Now, friends, this is such

  22. an important verse. I want to tear it apart word

  23. by word. Here First, it says give thanks. That means gratitude.

  24. It means appreciation, It means recognition, it means praise. It

  25. means given credit to people where credit is due. In everything,

  26. give thanks. By the way, the phrase gift thanks here

  27. in the Greek word is the word eucharistaas Actually if

  28. ukuli stayo yukari stayal is the word.

  29. We get eucharist from.

  30. Has anybody ever heard this word eucharist? Eucharist is one

  31. of the words that we call the Lord's supper. It's

  32. called communion, it's called the lord Lord's supper, it's called

  33. the Eucharist. What does that mean? That's the Greek word

  34. that simply means give thanks. And when we take the

  35. Lord's Supper together, we're giving thanks to God for his salvation,

  36. for his forgiveness, for our home in heaven, and all

  37. of these things. We're just giving thanks. Now it says

  38. give thanks in circle the word in, and then it

  39. says all circle the word all. Now first notice, give

  40. thanks in all circumstances. It does not say give thanks

  41. for all circumstances. Big difference doesn't say four. It says

  42. in you don't have to be thankful for the bad

  43. in your life. You don't have to be thankful for evil.

  44. And there's a lot of evil in the world. If

  45. a little girl gets kidnapped and molested and killed, you

  46. don't ever have to be thankful for that. If a

  47. woman gets raped, you don't ever have to be thankful

  48. for that. When a car by a drunk plows into

  49. somebody and a family dies, you don't have to be

  50. thankful for that. The Bible does not say be thankful

  51. for all evil. There's a lot of evil that would

  52. make God a sicko. Everything that happens in the world

  53. is not God's will, because well it must be God's

  54. will blowney. Most of the times God's will is not done,

  55. My will is done. That's why we're to pray Thy

  56. will be done on earth as it is in heaven,

  57. because in heaven God's will is always done, and on

  58. earth God's will is rarely done. So don't blame God

  59. for all the evil in the world. And you certainly

  60. don't have to thank God for it. He doesn't say

  61. thank God for it, he says thank God in it.

  62. Why can I thank God in every circumstance. Well, there's

  63. a number of reasons. One, I know God is in control.

  64. I know God can bring good out of evil. I

  65. know even the stupid mistakes I make, God can turn

  66. it around. I know that I'm not gonna have to

  67. live on earth forever. I know I'm gonna go to

  68. Heaven one day. I know I can't lose my salvation.

  69. I know that no matter what happens, God isn't gonna

  70. stop loving me. I could think of one hundred things

  71. that I can be thankful for in the circumstance, even

  72. when the circumstance stinks. It doesn't say for everything. It

  73. says in now, It says in all things now. That

  74. word there all circumstances all. The Greek word is the

  75. word poss and posse means any all everything, anyone, all

  76. the time, anywhere, everywhere, the whole thing. It means no exception,

  77. no excuses, no exemptions. God expects you to be grateful

  78. in every circumstance. That's called radical gratitude. Anybody can be

  79. grateful for the nice presence somebody just gave you. But

  80. to be grateful in all circumstances is radical gratitude. In

  81. give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will

  82. for you. In Christ Jesus, people say, I need to

  83. know God's will.

  84. There it is.

  85. What God wants me to do with my life. There

  86. it is in everything. Give thanks. This is God's will

  87. for you. He say, What am I supposed to do

  88. in the next decade. Am I supposed to get a

  89. new job. Am I supposed to go to school? Am

  90. I supposed to get married? Am I supposed to move overseas?

  91. What am I supposed to do? God says, I'll tell

  92. you number two when you start doing number one. Okay,

  93. all those other number twos will work on those three, four, five, six,

  94. But first let's work on this one. I want you

  95. to in everything learn to give thanks for this is

  96. My will for you. Once you got that one done,

  97. we'll start talking about number two, three, four, five, and six.

  98. This is clear. In everything, give thanks. This is God's

  99. will for you.

  100. Now? Why why is that true?

  101. Why is it always God's will no matter what happens

  102. in my life, that I am to give thanks not

  103. for the circumstances. But in the circumstance, why is that

  104. God's will?

  105. Reasons?

  106. You might write these down number one, because it honors God.

  107. Gratitude honors God. Anytime you thank anyone, you honor them.

  108. For instance, if I say to my wife, Honey, I

  109. am so grateful for that great Thanksgiving dinner you made,

  110. I have just honored my wife. When I say to

  111. her mom, Mom, I want to thank you for having

  112. ka so I could marry her, I am honoring her.

  113. When I say to you, thank you for opening the

  114. door for me, or thank you for coming to another service,

  115. or thank you, But what I am honoring you. Anytime

  116. you express gratitude, you honor that person. The Bible says

  117. this about God giving thanks is a sacrifice that truly

  118. honors me. When you sacrifice your giving thanks, what are

  119. you sacrificing your time, your money, your thought? It takes

  120. time to think of things to be grateful for. Now,

  121. my life likes for me to say thank you for

  122. the things she does for me. But if that's all

  123. I ever did, she'd begin to wonder does.

  124. He really love me?

  125. Or does he just love me for the things I

  126. do for him? At some point I have to start

  127. moving to the higher level of thanksgiving, which is not

  128. just thanking my wife for what she does, but thanking

  129. my wife for who she is. That's a higher level

  130. of thanksgiving. If my kids came to me and the

  131. only time they thank me is when I give them

  132. an allowance, I begin to wonder do they love me

  133. or do they just love the money. Now, if all

  134. you do is thank God, God, thank you for letting

  135. me get into this class. God, thank you for giving

  136. me this food. Thank you God for the things you

  137. do for me, God starts going, do you really love

  138. me or do you just love the things I do

  139. for you? You need to learn to thank God not

  140. just for what he does, but who he is.

  141. God.

  142. I thank you that you're smarter than me. I thank

  143. you that your wisdom is greater. I thank you that

  144. you know it'll make me happy more than I do.

  145. God.

  146. I thank you that you're consistent when I'm inconsistent. I

  147. thank you for your love. I thank you for your mercy.

  148. I thank you God that you're always fair. I thank

  149. you that even when I don't understand it, you have

  150. my best interest at heart.

  151. That's thanking God for who.

  152. He is and you need to get beyond the thank

  153. you God for food, to thank you God for who

  154. you are. That's taking your roots deeper. It honors God.

  155. Develop the attitude of gratitude. Doctors have shown in many

  156. many reports that gratitude is the healthiest human emotion. That

  157. the more grateful you are in life, the healthier will

  158. be actually physically, it's good for your physical health. The

  159. more ungrateful you are in life, the more it actually

  160. affects your health. Gratitude is good for your health. It's

  161. good for your heart. And if you say, God, I'm

  162. not going to put my feet on the ground in

  163. the morning, I'm gonna sit on the edge of my

  164. bed and before I do anything else, I'm gonna stop

  165. say thank you. And I would say, just start this week.

  166. Every day, sit on the side of your bed and

  167. think of ten things to thank God for before you

  168. get out of bed. It'll change your attitude. It'll change

  169. your day. The first five minutes of your day sets

  170. your mood for the rest of the day. And if

  171. you start it with gratitude, you'll be healthier, you'll be happier,

  172. you'll be closer to God. Your deep roots will be

  173. going deeper. He just start saying, God, let me just

  174. think of who you are, what you've done, how much

  175. you've done for me. And I make a list and

  176. I think of ten things, and I think of ten

  177. more things.

  178. Give thanks. It honors God.

  179. The second thing it does is why is God's gratitude

  180. God's will? Because it creates fellowship. It creates fellowship. What

  181. I mean by that it builds relationships. Gratitude always builds

  182. deeper relationships between you and other people, not just between

  183. you and God, but between you and other people. Now, listen,

  184. whoever you want to get closer to, start expressing gratitude

  185. to that person, and you'll get closer. If you've started

  186. moving away from your husband or your wife, you know

  187. what you need to do. You need to start doing

  188. what you did during dating. Express gratitude. Start writing little

  189. kind notes, making calls during the day, do the things

  190. you did at first. The reason you've lost that love

  191. and feeling is because you've stopped doing the things that

  192. created that love and feeling early on. And you take

  193. each other for granted, and you want to rebuild that

  194. relationship with a friend, with a parent, with a spouse,

  195. with people in your small group, whoever you want to

  196. get closer to start spending more time expressing gratitude to them.

  197. You want to build your small group. Don't just go

  198. to a small group during the week. Text them, email them,

  199. call them, write them. See you know, I'm grateful for you,

  200. and here's why I'm grateful. And you'll find that the

  201. more grateful you are for your group, the more your group.

  202. Will coalesce together.

  203. The Bible says this, encourage one another and build each

  204. other up. So I will encourage you to be more

  205. intentional in expressing gratitude to the people in your small

  206. group this week. Write some notes, you know, send some

  207. text or emails, and just tell people how grateful you are.

  208. It brings you closer together. Number three.

  209. The third reason why it's God's will for you to

  210. be radically grateful is it develops faith. It develops my faith. Now,

  211. how does gratitude develop my faith? Well, it happens when

  212. times are tough, when things don't make sense, when you

  213. can't figure it out, when your prayers are unanswered, when

  214. everything is going the way you didn't want it to go,

  215. and yet you thank God in that circumstances. God, I

  216. know You're in control. I know you love me, and

  217. I know you can bring good out of this, and

  218. I'm just thanking you. I'm not thankful for this situation.

  219. I just got fired, but I'm thankful in the situation

  220. that you're bigger than my problem and you can turn

  221. off one faucet and turn on another just as easily,

  222. and I'm thanking you for that. That is an evidence

  223. of trust. And when you learn anybody can thank God

  224. for good things, but if you can thank God even

  225. in the bad things, your faith grows and your roots

  226. go deeper.

  227. It's also an evidence of humility.

  228. You see when you thank God in a situation you

  229. don't understand, you're saying God, I don't understand this, but

  230. I'm humble enough to know I'm.

  231. Not God and you are.

  232. And I trust you, and I'm humble enough to admit

  233. it that you know what's best for me. Now, there's

  234. a guy in the Bible named Hubakuk, and I always

  235. like to bring these guys from the little books the

  236. Old Testament end because one day you're going to get

  237. to heaven and the back is going to come up

  238. to you and say, hey, how'd you like my book?

  239. And I don't want you to look like a dude.

  240. It's like, oh, oh, mister Becker guy didn't even know

  241. you were in the Bible, So I want to make

  242. sure you.

  243. Know who these guys are. So you need to get

  244. to heaven.

  245. You're not embarrassed, and you could say, oh, you know,

  246. I really liked what you said in chapter three, abacky,

  247. that was good.

  248. That was really good. Okay.

  249. And here's what a backack said. He was going through

  250. tough times. And he says, you know, even though the

  251. fig trees have no fruit, and no grapes are growing

  252. on the vine, and even though the olive crop failed,

  253. and even though the fields produced no grain. In other words,

  254. I'm going through recession. My business is in the tank.

  255. And even though the sheep are all dying and the

  256. cattle stalls are empty. In other words, he said, my

  257. portfolio has hit the skids. My four oh one K

  258. has become a one oh one k. He goes, even

  259. though all this is happening, I will still, I will still,

  260. I will still be.

  261. Joyful and glad.

  262. Why now, he's not thanking God for all the bad

  263. things that have gone wrong, not for those things. He's saying,

  264. what's his cause of gratitude? I will be joyful and

  265. glad because here's the cause. The Lord is my savior.

  266. Everything else thinks in life. But I can be grateful

  267. because the Lord is my savior. He will pull me out,

  268. He'll bring me through this, He'll help me out. I'm

  269. not on my own. I'm not by myself. He hadn't

  270. left me abandoned. I'm not an orphan, He's saying, I

  271. will still give thanks to God. That is the ultimate

  272. test of faith. Can you thank God when life stinks.

  273. That's the test of whether you're a shallow Christian or

  274. a deep one, whether you've got spiritual roots or you're

  275. just superficial. Can you think God God even when life stinks,

  276. when everything's going wrong, He says, if I'm going through

  277. tough times, what I need to do is not look

  278. at what's lost. I need to look at what's left.

  279. I need to look at what's left, and I need

  280. to be grateful for that. And no matter how bad

  281. things are in my life, there's always always thousands of

  282. things I can be grateful for. And no matter how

  283. bad things are in my life, there's always always the

  284. fact that I can be thankful to God just for

  285. being God, and that he has promised to see me

  286. through these situations, to help me out, to strengthen me,

  287. to care for me, to do miracles, to answer prayers.

  288. He's always promised, even when things don't go my way,

  289. that he can work it for good in my life.

  290. And so ultimately the plan is in action. That is faith.

  291. God's will is gradical gratitude in all things, give things why.

  292. It honors God, It creates fellowship, It develops faith Number.

  293. Four, It serves others.

  294. Radical gratitude, the attitude of gratitude that says, I'm just

  295. going to walk through life being grateful in every situation,

  296. no matter what, times of plenty, times of tightness, good, bad, right, wrong, whatever,

  297. I'm just going to be grateful in every situation. He says,

  298. that actually serves others. It becomes a ministry. Did you

  299. know we've talked about this many times that every Christian,

  300. every believer, is a minister. You are a minister, you

  301. have a ministry. You're not a pastor, but every Christian

  302. is a minister. What does that mean? It means we

  303. are to serve other people. We're saved to serve, and

  304. you can have a ministry called the ministry of appreciation.

  305. Do you know what the word appreciation means. Well, if

  306. you've ever bought a car, you know the meaning of depreciation. Okay,

  307. the moment you drive it off the lot, it's worth

  308. less than you paid for it. Even if it's brand new,

  309. you take it back, it's worthless. Depreciation it means to

  310. decrease in value. If you've ever bought a house, you

  311. know the meaning of both appreciation and depreciation. You've see

  312. the value go up, and you have seen the value

  313. go down. To appreciate means to raise in value. And

  314. this is a ministry. When you appreciate your husband, you

  315. raise his value. When you appreciate your wife, you raise

  316. her value. When you appreciate your kids, you raise their value.

  317. When you appreciate your coworkers, your staff, the people you

  318. work with in the office, you raise their value to

  319. you and to the company. When you appreciate your boss,

  320. you raise her value or his value. The ministry of

  321. appreciation raises the value of people. And that's why God

  322. says radical gratitude is a ministry. He and just go

  323. around making a ministry out of raising the value of

  324. people simply by appreciating them, going around, and you know

  325. One of the things I've discovered is that everybody in

  326. life needs massive doses of encouragement. I've never met anybody says,

  327. oh no, I don't need a compliment. I have too many.

  328. Please stop, please really, please, please stop. I'm too affirmed.

  329. Please don't don't give me anymore.

  330. You have an unqualified need to be affirmed, to be loved,

  331. to be appreciated to people express gratitude for and you can,

  332. and so does everybody else. And if you want to

  333. be used of God, here's a little secret. Affirm everybody.

  334. Appreciate everybody, show gratitude to everybody. You know, the team

  335. that I travel with that we have a little pack

  336. that we're just going to leave a trail of gratitude

  337. wherever we go in the world, and we're going to

  338. express appreciation to the people that everybody else ignores. And

  339. so we make it a little game. We make sure

  340. that the maid services who are fixing the sheets in

  341. the in the motel, or the taxi driver or the

  342. bellman or the clerk or the ticket agent, that we

  343. express appreciation to them in the middle of their busy day.

  344. That we're not going to have contact with any person

  345. on the road without saying thank you. And I'm pretty

  346. good at it. But Steve, he is a pro. He's

  347. almost embarrassingly good at it, you know. I mean, he's

  348. just he is so good at expressing appreciation to people.

  349. I'm in awe of the guy how he does it

  350. on the phone and stuff like that. And I'm just

  351. and I have to be honest with you that we

  352. have actually missed planes because we were still busy thanking people.

  353. The nice thing about it is the people we think

  354. then help us get on the next plane.

  355. You know.

  356. I was gone for two weeks. I was a week

  357. in Africa and in Europe, then a week in Europe,

  358. and one day we were on one day I was

  359. speaking to pastors and we had breakfast in Brussels and

  360. lunch in Paris and dinner in Vienna and all in

  361. the same day. And I'm speaking to these groups of

  362. pastors and We're just leaving a little trail of people

  363. everywhere we go. It was so funny because in Vienna

  364. I was sitting in a taxi and an elderly lady,

  365. seventy nine year old woman, seventy nine year old woman

  366. and her husband coming knock on the window.

  367. I roll the window down.

  368. She goes, I'm a fan friend of yours on Facebook.

  369. I said, tell me your story. She says, well, I'm Romanian.

  370. I'm going now wait a minute, a Romanian eighty nine

  371. year old woman in Paris watching me on Facebook. It's

  372. a new world, friends, we got a radical change here.

  373. This is a radical and so it.

  374. Helps other people. In fact, the Bible says this, do

  375. not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouth.

  376. In other words, that's critical, complaining, negative, cynical, sarcastic, always

  377. putting other people down. Don't let that kind of stuff

  378. come out.

  379. Of your mouth.

  380. But only the only thing that should come out of

  381. your mouth is what is helpful for building others up.

  382. He says, you tell you need to talk, not what

  383. builds you up, but what builds others up according to

  384. their needs. That it may benefit not you, but those

  385. who listen. That's called the ministry of affirmation. So why

  386. is gratitude radical? Gratitude in every situation always God's will.

  387. It honors God, It creates fellowship, It brings you closer

  388. to people. It develops faith, particularly shows your trust in

  389. God in tough times. It serves other people and then

  390. there's a fifth one.

  391. It is a witness.

  392. It is a witness to unbelievers. The best way to

  393. share your faith with other people is a start with gratitude.

  394. You know what I'm grateful for about you? That'll blow

  395. their mind. Wow.

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