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Rick Warren - God's Mercy and My Failures—Part Four

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  1. Hello, and thanks for joining us today on Pastor Rick's

  2. Daily Hope. This is the Bible teaching ministry of Rick Warren,

  3. and today we are continuing in a series called the

  4. Miracle of Mercy. Rick will show us how God's mercy

  5. can lift your guilt, heal your wounds, and transform.

  6. The way you live.

  7. And now the final part of a message called God's

  8. Mercy and My Failures number four.

  9. When we failed, he shows us mercy when we're down.

  10. He shows us his mercy when we're down. He doesn't

  11. beat us up, he doesn't pile on, he doesn't add

  12. to our guilt. He doesn't add scorn and shame and

  13. a scolding. He saves us. And when you have failed,

  14. he doesn't just come in and go let me tell

  15. you how bad you've done. No, he shows mercy when

  16. we're down. And there's a beautiful example of this. It's tender.

  17. It's a very tender example in John chapter twenty one.

  18. Here's the story. This is a couple weeks after the resurrection.

  19. So it's about like now, we're two weeks after Easter,

  20. So right about now, two weeks after Easter. You know,

  21. I told you Jesus was around for forty more days,

  22. it says. Two weeks later, Jesus appeared again to the

  23. disciples beside the Sea of Galilee. Seven of the disciples

  24. were there, and Simon Peter said they hadn't seen Jesus yet.

  25. Simon Peter said, I'm going fishing. Friends, that's a statement

  26. of depression. I'm going fishing. Okay, Peter's gone. I haven't

  27. recovered from this trauma. It's only two weeks out since

  28. my biggest failure in life. All I'm going to do.

  29. All I need to do is go back and do

  30. what I used to do before I've started following Jesus

  31. three and a half years ago. I was a professional fisherman.

  32. I'm going to go back all things I know how

  33. to do, Just go fishing. I'm down, I'm discouraged, I'm

  34. not feeling good. I'm going fishing. Anybody want to go

  35. with me? And the other guys go, sure, we'll go

  36. with you. So Peter said, I'm going fishing. We'll come

  37. to They all said. So. They went out of the boat,

  38. but even though they fished all night, they caught nothing.

  39. He ever felt like that. I've been looking for a

  40. job for how many months? I've fished all night. I've

  41. caught nothing. I've been looking to get married for so long.

  42. I've fished all night, I've caught nothing. I've been waiting

  43. for this ship to come in. I fished all night.

  44. I've gotten This is called a failure. These are professional fishermen.

  45. If anybody should catch fish, it's professional fishermen. We fished

  46. all night, We've caught nothing. This is a failure. They

  47. got another failure in their life. Now, at dawn, the

  48. disciples saw a man standing on the shore, but they

  49. couldn't see that it was Jesus, and he called out.

  50. Jesus called out, friends, have you caught any fish? Not

  51. a thing? They replied, At least they're honest about their failure.

  52. Then Jesus said, throw out your net on the right

  53. side of the boat and you'll get plenty of fish.

  54. So they did what Jesus said to do, and they

  55. instantly caught so many fish they couldn't even draw in

  56. the net because it was so full of fish. Now,

  57. you may have fished all night and caught nothing, but

  58. God can do more in five minutes in your life

  59. than you can do in fifty years of planning. They

  60. had fished all night and caught nothing. You've been planning

  61. this dream of years for so long, and it just

  62. has gone nowhere. Well, it says, when they did what

  63. Jesus said to do, they caught more than they could

  64. possibly handle. God can do more in your life in

  65. a few seconds. If you'll just obey him, then you

  66. can do on your own schemes and plants. Caught all

  67. these fish, and it was just so full a fish.

  68. Then John, one of the disciples, said to Peter, it's

  69. the Lord. Well done. Okay, okay. All of a sudden,

  70. we followed this guy's advice from shore. We don't really know.

  71. Maybe he saw something we saw. So we throw it

  72. over and we catch all these fish, and John goes,

  73. it's the Lord. Now. I love what happens next when

  74. Peter realized that he put on his tunic for he

  75. had stripped for work. Now get this, Peter is fishing

  76. butt naked. They've been fishing all night. He's out with

  77. the guys. He's not showing off or anything. He's not working

  78. on a tan obviously because they're fishing at night. He

  79. just doesn't want to get his clothes dirty, have to

  80. take it into the laundromat so while they're out fishing,

  81. he doesn't want to smell. He takes his robe off.

  82. He's laid it over on the side of the boat.

  83. They're all standing there. He's fishing naked. John goes, it's

  84. the lord's as When Peter realized that he put on

  85. his tunic fridge strip for work, jumped in the water

  86. and swam ashore, leaving the others in the boat to

  87. pull the loaded net to shore, for they were only

  88. out about three hundred feet now. When they got to shore,

  89. they saw that Jesus was cooking fish and bread over

  90. a charcoal fire. He's got a barbecue going on here. Okay,

  91. now Jesus can cook. I'd like to see that show

  92. on the Food channel. Yea chopped Jesus won again. We

  93. liked this meal better, okay. So Jesus, he's got a

  94. little barbecue going on here at the side of the

  95. Lake of Galilee. He's cooking fish and bread over a

  96. charcoal fire. Now, Jesus says, bring some of the fish

  97. that you just caught, graciously, not mentioning the fact that

  98. they would have never caught him without him, that they

  99. had caught nothing on their own. So Peter goes back

  100. aboard and dragged the net ashore, and it was filled

  101. with one hundred and fifty three large fish. And yet

  102. the net had not torn. Now that's another miracle, because

  103. if you know anything about the Bible, you know that

  104. they were constantly mending their nets because they were always breaking. Fact,

  105. when Jesus met them three and a half years earlier,

  106. they were out mending their nets. Now, Jesus says, now,

  107. come and have some breakfast. Jesus said, you deserve a

  108. break break today. I've got these little fish mcmuffins for

  109. you for breakfast. Fresh bread, fresh fish, freshman muffins, a

  110. little special sauce on the side. Here. Okay, come on,

  111. we're gonna have breakfast, Jesus said. Now they were sure

  112. it really was the Lord. Then Jesus served them circle

  113. that phrase. Then Jesus served them he's being kind, he's

  114. being loving, he's been merciful. He's cooked them breakfast. Then

  115. Jesus served them the bread and the fish. Now, this

  116. was the third time that Jesus had appeared to his

  117. disciples since he had been raised from the dead, and

  118. there were many other times after this. And now that's

  119. a beautiful tender story of the mercy of God. Let

  120. me ask you, let me put it in context. Let's

  121. talk about you. Let's say you just went through your

  122. worst day of your life as Jesus is arrested, tortured,

  123. and murdered. You've gone through the worst day of your life,

  124. and your best friend deserts you, doesn't show up, and

  125. more than that, denies you and pretends like they don't

  126. even know you. Two weeks later, would you cook them

  127. a nice breakfast? No, you wouldn't. That's mercy. That's mercy.

  128. He's showing how much he loves him even after their

  129. betrayal and denial. He cooks some breakfast you wouldn't cook

  130. somebody who just betrayed you, and you probably spit in

  131. the food if you did love good back at them.

  132. That's mercy. You see, God's mercy towards you is not

  133. dependent upon your performance. The Bible says it like this

  134. Lamentations three, twenty two and twenty three. The steadfast love

  135. of the Lord never ceases. In other words, it never stops.

  136. It never ends. The steadfast love. It's unchanging, it's never exhausted.

  137. God never gets tired of loving you. The steadfast love

  138. of the Lord never ceases. His mercy. Mercy's never come

  139. to an end. God's never gonna say, Okay, I've had

  140. enough of your farres. That's enough forgiveness nine thousand times,

  141. not nine thousand and one. Okay, that's just one too many.

  142. I've had enough. His mercies never come to an end.

  143. It says his mercies are new every morning. You got

  144. the same old sins, but He's got new mercy for

  145. you every single morning. And that says, great is your faithfulness.

  146. God is faithful to you in his mercy. No matter

  147. what you do. Do you realize how faithful God's mercy

  148. is to you, Let me show you one of the

  149. most amazing verses in the entire Bible. Look up here

  150. on the screen Tewody two thirteen. If we are unfaithful,

  151. he God remains faithful, for he cannot deny himself. God

  152. cannot deny himself. God cannot be unfaithful. And even when

  153. you're unfaithful, He will be faithful. You may give up

  154. on God, He's never going to give up on you.

  155. That's the mercy of God. You may be unfaithful to God,

  156. He's never going to be unfaithful to you. Now. The

  157. last point is the greatest miracle of mercy of it all,

  158. and it is this. He not only believes in us,

  159. praise for us, shows us mercy when we're down, doesn't

  160. get upset about it, not shocked. Number five, He uses

  161. our failures to build his church. God actually uses our

  162. failures to build his church. Jesus had told Peter, Peter,

  163. when you have turned back to me, strengthen and build

  164. up your brothers. He's talking about the brothers and sisters

  165. in Christ, the family of God, the Church. Use your

  166. failure to strengthen and build up others. Here's the rest

  167. of that story. There on the beach at Galilee, Verse

  168. fifteen John twenty one, after breakfast, Jesus asked. Jesus said

  169. to Simon, Peter, Simon, son of John, do you love

  170. me more than these? Now? This is echoing back a

  171. statement where at the Last Supper Peter said, I love

  172. you more than all of these, and I would never

  173. never deny you. Everybody else right, but I would never

  174. do that. He said, Simon, do you love me more

  175. than these? Yes? Lord, you know I love you. Peter replied,

  176. Then feed my lambs, Jesus said, my flock, that's the church,

  177. the flock of God, the Church. Then feed my lambs,

  178. Jesus said. Then Jesus repeated the question, Peter, do you

  179. love me? Do you love me? Peter said, yes, Lord, yes, Lord,

  180. you know you know I love you. Then take care

  181. of my sheep. Jesus said, I want you to care

  182. about my family, the flock, the body of Christ, the Church.

  183. Take care of my sheep. Then Jesus asked the same

  184. question one more time, Peter, do you love me? And

  185. Peter was grieved that Jesus asked the question a third time.

  186. So he said, and I could hear the exasperation in

  187. his voice. Lord, Lord, you know I love you. You know everything,

  188. and you know that I love you. And Jesus replied,

  189. then feed my sheep. The way you show your love

  190. for God is by helping other people in the family

  191. of God. Why did Jesus ask this question three times?

  192. Do you love me? He was giving Peter the opportunity

  193. to make up for three denials. I will never deny you.

  194. I will never deny you. I will never deny you.

  195. And he did one, two, three times, and so he said,

  196. do you love me? Do you love me? Do you

  197. love me. Yes Lord, Yes, Lord, Yes Lord. Then feed

  198. my sheep, and let's go back to the beginning. Both

  199. Judas and Peter friends of Jesus. Both of them committed

  200. the same sin. They both denied Christ, exact same sin,

  201. just different experiences. They turned their back on him in

  202. a time of need. Judas became a trader. Peter became

  203. a teacher. Feed my sheep. Judas became a trader. Peter

  204. became a teacher. What are you going to become from

  205. your failure? What are you going to allow the failures

  206. in your life to make you traitor or a teacher?

  207. It's your choice. The fact is God is building his

  208. church on people who failed. God has only used failed

  209. people because there aren't any non failures in life. And

  210. in Matthew sixteen eighteen, Jesus said this, Now, I say

  211. to you that you are Peter, and upon this rock

  212. I will build my church and the powers of Hell

  213. will not conquer it. Now, some of you know this

  214. is actually a play on word in the original Greek manuscripts,

  215. because the word Peter is the word petros and the

  216. word rock is the word petra. They're very different. He

  217. said you are Peter, Petros. But you're going to be Petra,

  218. the rock on which I'm in my mercy gonna build

  219. on the faith, your faith and on your failures. Petros

  220. Peter literally means a stone. It means a small rock.

  221. It means a pebble. So so Peter really was a pebble.

  222. He was a stone. That's his name. Stone rocks in

  223. a pebble. Petra means a giant rock, a boulder. It

  224. can mean a cliff of rock, it can be a

  225. mountain of granite. It's a rock at Gibraltar. Rock that's

  226. a Petra. And Jesus is saying to this guy who's

  227. just had this enormous failure just a few days earlier. Yeah,

  228. you've been unstable, you've been foot in mouth, you've been impulsive,

  229. you've denied me, you've been a little stone. But you're

  230. gonna be a rock at Gibraltar because of my mercy

  231. and pasted and we're going to go on and I'm

  232. going to build my church on your failures. God wants

  233. to build his church on your your failures. He wants

  234. to use you the same way he used Peter. So

  235. let me end with two questions. Number one, what failure

  236. have you had that God wants to use in this church.

  237. What failure have you had that God wants to use

  238. to build his church. If you've had a failed business,

  239. you should be helping businessmen because you know what it's

  240. like to have a failed business. If you've had a bankruptcy,

  241. you should be helping people who are going through bankruptcy.

  242. If you've had a failed marriage, you should be helping

  243. people save their marriages. If you've had an abortion, you

  244. should be helping women who are struggling with that decision

  245. right now. If you've had a failure in any other

  246. area of your life, if you've had an addiction, you

  247. should be helping people who haven't have that addiction. God

  248. wants to use your failures to build his church. Don't

  249. waste your failures. Last week we talked about not wasting

  250. your pain, and I said, you're gonna have pain, don't

  251. waste it. If you've been abused, use it to help

  252. people who've been abused. If you've been raped or molested,

  253. use it to help people who've been raped or molested.

  254. If you've been abandoned or betrayed, help people who have

  255. been abandoned or betrayed, and on and on. God wants

  256. to take your greatest failure and turn it into your

  257. greatest success. God wants to take your greatest hurt and

  258. turn it into your greatest ministry. Chuck Colson went to

  259. prison and then founded Prison Fellowship, an enormous ministry that

  260. helps prisoners all around the world. What failure, dous God

  261. want to use in your life? The second question, are

  262. you going to respond to your failure like Judas or

  263. like Peter? Now that's your choice. Judas had a break down,

  264. Peter had to break through. Judas gave up. Peter looked up.

  265. Judas rejected the mercy of God. Peter accepted the mercy

  266. of God. Judas lived in condemnation. Peter lived in celebration

  267. of the mercy of God. Judas ended up taking his

  268. life in despair. Peter ended up living his life on purpose.

  269. It's all your choice, And just fifty days after Peter's

  270. biggest failure, God chose him. Peter, that guy, the screw up,

  271. the mess up, the guy who denied Jesus in his

  272. deepest hour of pain. He chose Peter to be the

  273. guy to preach on the day of Pentecost. On the

  274. first day of the Christian Church and three thousand people

  275. were saved in baptized. That is the mercy of God.

  276. And it wasn't like a year after the failure. It's

  277. fifty days after he screwed up. He's standing in front

  278. of everybody preaching on Pentecost at the birth of the

  279. Christian Church. That is the mercy of God. That's power heads.

  280. Would you pray this prayer God. I've had a lot

  281. of failures in my life, and like Peter, I've overestimated

  282. my strength. And I said I'd never do that, but

  283. I did, and I feared the disapproved of other people.

  284. And I've been quiet, and I've been a coward, and

  285. I've denied you when I could have spoken up for

  286. you at work, when I could have told other people

  287. about your love, and I was more worried about their disapproval.

  288. And I've fallen into that trap. And Lord, of course,

  289. many many times I've spoken without thinking, and my tongue

  290. has gotten me in a lot of trouble. I want

  291. to do the right things that Peter did. I don't

  292. want to brush it aside and rationalize my failures. I

  293. want to grieve them. And I'm coming to you saying Lord,

  294. my heart's broken and I'm sorry, and I have a

  295. contrite spirit, and I'm a little more humble than I

  296. used to be. And I'm coming to you with a

  297. repentant heart saying I'm sorry and forgear me for the

  298. times that I've isolated myself and tried to handle everything

  299. on my own and not want people to know about

  300. my pain. Help me to let my small group support me,

  301. Help me to build that social that support network. Now,

  302. to get in a small group now before the next

  303. crisis comes. And then, most of all, Lord, I cast

  304. myself on your mercy, and like that giant boulder, I

  305. just let it go. I just drop it. And today

  306. I'm dropping my anxiety. I'm dropping my insecurity. I'm dropping

  307. my fears, the regrets, the shames, all of the things

  308. that Satan pulls that trigger on and whips me around with.

  309. I cast myself on your mercy. I don't deserve your

  310. forgiveness or your grace, but you are a forgiving God

  311. and you love to show mercy. Thank you that you're

  312. not shocked by my failures. Thank you that you're praying

  313. for me right now. Thank you Jesus that you believe

  314. in me, that you know my name, that you give

  315. me encouragement, not discouragement. Thank you that you show me

  316. mercy and you fix me breakfast when I'm down. Thank

  317. you that your mercy's never come to an end, that

  318. they're new every morning, not even tomorrow morning. You'll have

  319. new mercy for me. You are a faithful God. Great

  320. is your faithfulness. And God wants you to use my

  321. failures to build your church. I don't want to be

  322. a trader. I want to be a teacher. And I

  323. want you to turn this little stone into a rock

  324. of Gibraltar. And I humbly ask this in Jesus' name.

  325. Amen, Hey, did you know that the number one attribute

  326. of God in scripture is his mercy? It is and

  327. he wants to be merciful too. Jesus said, blessed are

  328. the merciful, for they will be shown mercy Matthew five, p.

  329. Seven.

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