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Rick Warren - You Can Change

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  1. Your past is past. Did you do some dumb things? Yes,

  2. but you can't change that. You are a product of

  3. your past, but you are not a prisoner of your past.

  4. About a couple hours ago, as I was finishing up

  5. this weekend's message, my computer just froze and I lost

  6. the entire teaching notes. I mean, they could not be

  7. recovered I could figure out. And it was about a

  8. thirty minute period of panic whor I thought, Hmm, I

  9. wonder are we going to just sing a bunch of

  10. extra verses of songs this week? Because all that I

  11. had planned to say and speak on was gone. Fortunately,

  12. the maestro of workarounds, R. J. Hughes on our staff,

  13. figured out how to save at least a third of

  14. the message. I had to reformate it before hmat that part,

  15. but he got me at least a third of the

  16. message back, and I immediately gave him a one million

  17. dollar raise. But you know what, my computer had been

  18. sluggish for some time and it finally just stopped working.

  19. And you know you've had this happen on yours, where

  20. you know, too many programs start conflicting with each other

  21. and you get too many error messages clogging up of

  22. the system and the machine, and eventually it just froze.

  23. And at that point there was only one possible thing

  24. I could do. Hit the reset button. Okay, reboot. My

  25. computer needed a clean memory, and my computer memory needed

  26. a fresh start, new ram and all of that, and

  27. so sometimes you just have to hit restart. Now. Of

  28. course people are like that, and we all live very

  29. complicated lives. Your life is complicated, mind is and there

  30. are a lot of different programs running in your mind

  31. and in your body and running all around you in

  32. your brain, and you can quickly find yourself on overload.

  33. Everybody agree with that, okay, and you feel like, okay,

  34. I'm getting sluggished because there's too much trying to go

  35. on at one time, and your brain starts sending you

  36. error messages in your mind. And what you need is

  37. a life reboot. You need a refresh, you need a

  38. reset of your life. Well, that's exactly what Jesus Christ

  39. came to do. He was sent to Earth to offer

  40. you a fresh start. If you were to ask me

  41. to summarize what our church has been doing for forty

  42. three years, forty three easters, now I would summarize the

  43. goal of Saddleback Church in two words, changed lives. That's

  44. what we're all about. Change lives. Okay, we're not about

  45. how big we are. We're not about how flashy we are.

  46. We're not about buildings, we're not about music, we're not

  47. about the sermon. We're about change lives. We are in

  48. the transformation of life business. If you want to know

  49. what makes your pastor run, I am addicted to change lives.

  50. And all I have to do is here about one person

  51. who gave their lives to Christ, or one marriage put

  52. back together, or one kid gets off drugs, or somebody's

  53. life was turned around and somebody got a new lease

  54. on life. That just keeps me going. It really really does.

  55. When we hear people become what God has always intended

  56. them to be. That's the purpose of the church. Now,

  57. this kind of transformation where people's lives are radically changed,

  58. it's called a lot of different things. It's called salvation.

  59. When you step across the line, it's called sanctification. When

  60. you keep on growing and changing, it's called conversion. It's

  61. called starting over. It's called being born again. Is called

  62. getting a fresh start, having a life reset, et cetera,

  63. et cetera. And in the history of our church, hundreds

  64. of thousands of people have experienced this personal reset of

  65. their lives. Most of you could tell a story how

  66. your life has been changed by Jesus Christ. I was

  67. going this way, now I go this way. Doesn't mean

  68. you're perfect, but it means that your life was radically

  69. altered in the direction this past week. I always receive

  70. a lot of letters after Easter, and I received many

  71. letters from the thirty eight thousand people who came to

  72. Easter Saddleback Service last weekend. And I want to begin

  73. by just reading you one of those letters, because I

  74. think it expresses where I want us to go in

  75. this new series. A Dear Pastor, Rick, I've known about

  76. Saddleback Church for maybe fifteen years, and I was always

  77. curious about why it attracted so many people. But I

  78. had never attended a service until a friend invited me

  79. to last week's Easter service, so I went out of curiosity. Honestly,

  80. I was not prepared for what I experienced. Everyone was

  81. smiling and so happy and joyful and welcoming, and the

  82. love on their faces immediately put me at ease. Although

  83. I had never been in church, but when the people

  84. started singing with all their hearts, tears instantly started flowing

  85. from my eyes. I didn't know any of the songs,

  86. but the way that people sang them scunned me. Do

  87. you realize that when you sing a church, you're a

  88. witness to everybody else You're preaching a sermon when you sing,

  89. When you sing from the heart, it's saying God is

  90. real to me? So I said, their love on their

  91. faces put me to ease. But when they began started

  92. singing with all their heart, tears instantly flowed from my face.

  93. I didn't know any of the songs, but the way

  94. the people sang them stunned me. I could feel God

  95. for the first time in my life. I didn't understand it,

  96. but I instantly realized that I had been missing out

  97. on something that I desperately needed. So long before I

  98. even got to speak, She's or he, whoever this is,

  99. got moved. Then you Rick spoke about God's love and

  100. God's purposes and how God wants everybody in his family.

  101. I took get all in with great wonder, and at

  102. the close of that service, when you let everybody in

  103. a prayer, I prayed it too. And while I was

  104. saying those words, the tears returned, and I felt overwhelmed

  105. by God's love for me. Okay, Pastor Rick, Pastor Rick,

  106. I don't know what the next steps should be, but

  107. I do know this. The direction of my life was

  108. reset in that moment. So please help me now to

  109. know what to do next. Now, what caught my attention

  110. in that particular letter was the word reset. I've told

  111. you that I've been going up to northern California to

  112. a clinic near Stanford University where a team of doctors

  113. has been trying to study the constant pain in my

  114. body and figure out how to cure it. And at

  115. the first meeting with these doctors, I asked the head doctor,

  116. the lead doctor, and there were seven of them in

  117. the room, what is exactly what is it you're exactly

  118. trying to accomplish in me and in my body? And

  119. he replied very quickly, Rick, we intend to reset your health,

  120. and we intend to reset it using a number of

  121. different biological tools they weren't even available ten years ago.

  122. And I thought, fantastic, that's great. I'm all in for

  123. a biological reset. And while you're at it, can you

  124. make me thirty years younger and give me Brad Pitt's

  125. face while you're at it. A year ago, you may

  126. remember that I actually did a message on this theme reset.

  127. It was right after we started back on meeting publicly.

  128. We were meeting outside with COVID and we just started

  129. meeting and all the COVID restrictions, And I told you

  130. that God was not interested post the pandemic for you

  131. to simply resume your old way of life. He didn't

  132. care about your resuming your old way of life, going

  133. back to your old ways. He wanted you instead to

  134. reset your life in a whole new direction. I want

  135. to come back to that theme, and this weekend I'm

  136. starting a new short series that I'm simply calling resetting

  137. my life. Now. The Dictionary definition of the word reset,

  138. pull out your message notes. Go ahead and pull them

  139. all out, and at the top of your message notes,

  140. the Dictionary defines reset as the opportunity to make a

  141. fresh new start, to begin again. Now, that's something that

  142. Jesus specializes in a fresh new start and beginning again.

  143. And the Bible gives us in scripture a lot of themes,

  144. many many theme verses that we're going to look in

  145. this series to talk about a fresh new start and

  146. a resetting of your life. But let me just give

  147. you one of them today. It's at the top of

  148. your message notes. There. The first verse Esians four twenty

  149. two to twenty four talks about the resetting of your life.

  150. It says this, you've learned the truth that is in Jesus,

  151. Jesa that I am the truth. So in regard to

  152. your former way of life, you talk about what you

  153. were before you were a Christian, before you met Christ,

  154. before you were born again, before you open your heart

  155. to His love. Regarding your former way of life, put

  156. off your old self health and be made new in

  157. the attitude of your mind, and put on your new self,

  158. created to be like God, truly good and holy. Now

  159. I want you to circle the phrase put off and

  160. the word phrase put on. Okay, God says that once

  161. you've invited Jesus into your life and you put your

  162. trust in Him, there is a process of growth and change,

  163. and God resets your life in a certain way. And

  164. just like changing clothes, there are some clothes you take

  165. off old ones, dirty ones, holy ones that are messed up,

  166. and then you put on a new set of clothes.

  167. So you take off some and you put on some others.

  168. He said, This is part of the process of God

  169. resetting your life. Now today we're not going to talk

  170. about the steps to resetting your life. There's a lot

  171. of them, and we're going to look at them in

  172. the weeks ahead, and you don't want to miss any

  173. of it. But instead I want to give you what

  174. to call the preliminaries. There are four things you need

  175. to do to get ready to have your life completely transformed.

  176. These are four prerequisites, four preliminaries that have to happen

  177. in your life. If all of a sudden you're going

  178. to become the woman you want to become, the man

  179. you want to become, the person God created you to be.

  180. From the very start, there's some things you have to

  181. do preliminary wise, before you even start taking the reset steps. Now,

  182. what I want us to do this weekend, as I said,

  183. is look at the four preliminaries preparation steps for God

  184. to do a major rehaul, a major revamping, a rebooting,

  185. a resetting, a recharging or renewing of your life. And

  186. here are the four things you have to do to

  187. get ready for a reset. Number one, start asking God

  188. to do something new in me. I start asking God

  189. to do something new in me. And you don't just

  190. ask him once. You show that you mean business by

  191. asking him more than once, by repeatedly bringing your request

  192. to God. You know, any parent knows that when at

  193. Christmas time a child says, I want this for Christmas,

  194. if they only mentioned it one time, they don't really

  195. want it. They have to say it three or four times,

  196. And he goes, Now, this is the difference between a

  197. whim and a genuine want. Okay, And God says, are

  198. you serious about changing your life? Are you serious about

  199. being a different guy, a different gal, a man of God,

  200. a woman of God? Are you serious about breaking some

  201. of those bad habits in your life? I need you

  202. to tell me. Now, you might wonder, is it okay

  203. for me to ask God to do something new in

  204. my life? God, I wants you to do something new,

  205. something fresh, something different, something unique in my life. Can

  206. you do that? Yes? In fact, it's in the job

  207. description of Jesus Christ first verse there under that point,

  208. Revelation twenty one, and Jesus says, I am making everything old. Now,

  209. that's all he says, is it? I'm making everything boring.

  210. I'm making everything the same. No, he said, I'm making

  211. everything what new? This is what he does. Jesus transforms life.

  212. So if you're tired of your old way of living,

  213. this is the guy you come to. I make everything new. Now.

  214. A good prayer that you could pray is the one

  215. that David prayed in Psalm fifty one and Psalm fifty one.

  216. He asked God's to create a new heart in him,

  217. create a clean spirit, do some new work in him.

  218. And in Psalm fifty one, verse ten. I love this verse,

  219. particularly in the message paraphrase where David says, this, God,

  220. make a fresh start in me. I like that. Shape

  221. a genesis week from the chaos in my life. You

  222. need this verse, make a fresh start in me, shape

  223. a new creation from the chaos of my life. You

  224. might want to write that on a little card and

  225. put it on your refrigerator and memorize that verse this week. Now.

  226. It's not only a good prayer to be the start

  227. of asking God to do something new in your life,

  228. but it's also significant even more when you realize that

  229. David wrote this after stealing another man's wife and having

  230. the man the husband murdered. We've got a little bit

  231. different context now. David has created two of the top

  232. sins up there, adultery and murder, and he's saying, God,

  233. I need you to make a fresh start in me

  234. shape of Genesis week, in the chaos of my life.

  235. What that implies is really quite good news. And what

  236. it implies is that you are never too far gone

  237. for God's grace, for God's forgiveness. You can't do a

  238. bad enough thing that God's gonna say, eh, time out.

  239. You don't get any more chances. This is a message

  240. of grace, God, do something new in me. I have

  241. so messed it up, so screwed up my life, so

  242. meet to fiasco of everything. And I've done this sin

  243. and this one and this one and this one, this one.

  244. But I need a fresh start. I don't care what

  245. you've done, I don't care who you've done it with,

  246. and I don't care how long you've done it. You

  247. can get a fresh start and a life reset starting

  248. today if you'll come to God. And the first preliminary

  249. is to just say, God, I need a fresh start.

  250. I'm carrying too much baggage, I'm carrying too much sin,

  251. I'm carrying too much guild. I'm carrying too many regrets. Listen,

  252. your past is past, it's over. Did you do some

  253. dumb things? Yes, but you can't change that. You are

  254. a product of your past. But you are not a

  255. prisoner of your past. You might write that one down.

  256. In fact, you might tweet that one. Rick says, you're

  257. a product of your past. You have been shaped by

  258. the good and the bad and the ugly things in

  259. your life, but you're not a prisoner of it. You

  260. can change. That's the gospel. That's the good news. That's

  261. what Christianity is all about. There can be pushing the

  262. reset button and I get a second chance, I get

  263. a new life, I get it born again, I get

  264. new freedom. And I can get a second chance on

  265. a third chance, and on and on. Now, here's what

  266. God says about your past. Are you listening, Isaiah forty three,

  267. verse eighteen and nineteen. Here's what God says about your past.

  268. Forget the former things and do not dwell on the past,

  269. whether it's good or bad. Instead, God says, look at

  270. the new things I'm going to do. They're already starting

  271. to happen. Can you see what I've begun to do.

  272. God says, I don't want you to constantly look at

  273. it in the rearview mirror. If you're always looking in

  274. the rearview mirror, you're going to crack up while you're driving.

  275. The only way you can drive effectively is look to

  276. the future. Not look what's behind you, but look to

  277. the future. All of the rest of your life is

  278. of the future, not in the past. As I said,

  279. your past is past, so don't dwell on it. Start

  280. asking God to do something new in me. Do you

  281. know why nothing's happening new in your life right now

  282. because you're not asking Look at the next verse James,

  283. Chapters four, Verse two. You do not have what you

  284. want because you don't what ask God for it. Circle

  285. that start on. You don't have it because you don't

  286. ask for it. Have you ever asked God for a

  287. reset in your life? God, I need a fresh start.

  288. I've blown it. I've made a big mistake mistakes plural,

  289. and I need a fresh start. I need a new start,

  290. I need a revamping. I need to reboot my life.

  291. This is the first preparation step. You're going to have

  292. to start asking God, God, I want you to do

  293. something new in my life, and I pray that. In

  294. the weeks ahead, during this series, you're going to be

  295. praying this prayer every day, and I want you to

  296. pray it every day this week. I want you to

  297. when you think about it, go God, would you do

  298. something new in my life? Would you do something fresh

  299. in my life? Would you give me a fresh start?

  300. Would you give me a renewed energy, renewed spirit, renewed

  301. hope and heart. The first step in preparation is to

  302. ask God for a reset. Here's the second thing in preparation.

  303. These are preliminaries. PenPoint specifically what I want changed in me.

  304. That's the second thing you do. If you want to

  305. get a brand new start in life. Penpoints specifically what

  306. I want changed in me. Nothing becomes transforming until it

  307. becomes specific. You don't just say God, I want you

  308. to change me, and God's gonna say specifically, what do

  309. you have in mind? Change? What? What do you want changed? Okay,

  310. you can't change your generality, So don't just say God,

  311. change me. Don't say change. You have to clarify. You

  312. have to identify. You have to decide where you want

  313. to be different as a man or as a woman.

  314. Where do I want to be different? You see, you

  315. cannot solve any problem obviously to first you identify it

  316. as a problem. Do you know the problems in your life?

  317. Are you just still in denial about them all? You

  318. got to identify the problems in your life. You've got

  319. to clarify the problems in your life. You've got to

  320. admit that they are problems in your life. Oh no,

  321. I'm not really in debt. Oh no, I'm not really

  322. habitually procrastinating whatever. No I don't need help in an area, Well,

  323. then you'll be helpless. Now. The more specific you are

  324. about what you want God to change in your life,

  325. the easier it's going to be God for God to

  326. do it and to help you, and to do it faster. Now,

  327. what I've done on your message notes is the created

  328. a little checklist to jog your memory. Where do I

  329. need help? What would I like to change in my life?

  330. What are the things in my life, relationships or whatever

  331. that I'm dissatisfied with. I'm just not cooking them on

  332. all burners. I'm not on all the cylinders. So I

  333. want to do this is worth it for us to

  334. take some time right now in this service. This may

  335. be one of the most important things you do this

  336. week is to take this personal inventory right now. The

  337. Bible says in Second Corinthian, Chapter thirteen, verse five, look

  338. closely at yourself. Let mean, do a little self examination,

  339. test yourselves to see if you're really living in the faith. Okay,

  340. So here, here are you know, a dozen or so areas.

  341. Let's look at these. What where do I need a reset?

  342. What would I like God to change in my life

  343. to give me a fresh start? How about in my

  344. connection to God? So well, how do I know if

  345. I need a reset? There? Has there ever been a

  346. time in your life when you felt closer to God

  347. than you do right now? If the answer is yes,

  348. you need to reset, You need to reboot, you need

  349. a reconnection. So you need to check that box. Yes,

  350. if you say I've never been closer to God than

  351. I'm right now, you don't need to check that one.

  352. You're copasthetic, You're okay. How about do I need a

  353. reset in my health and body like the doctors are

  354. trying to do with me right now? Do you need

  355. help in your metabolism, in some area of your chronic

  356. illness or something? You mean, I could ask God about that.

  357. Of course you can do. I need a reset in

  358. my priorities. Are your priorities out of whack and things

  359. that really aren't important all of a sudden, you're spending

  360. all your time doing those, and the things that are

  361. really important you're not doing those. That's your I need

  362. a reset in my priorities. Okay, check that one. How

  363. about a relationship. Do you have a relationship boyfriend, girlfriend

  364. friend or whatever, and you're going it's stagnating or it

  365. may be deteriorating. Do I need a reset in that relationship?

  366. How About in your energy level? He said, I'm finding

  367. it going lower and lower. Do I need to restart there?

  368. How About in your career? In my career or in

  369. my job. If you're out of work right now, you

  370. need to restart. If you just got laid off or fired,

  371. you're out of work, you need to restart there. How

  372. About in my thought life? I'm having thoughts that I

  373. don't like. I can't control them. They scare me. They're

  374. the wrong kind of thoughts. I shouldn't have these kind

  375. of thoughts and they bother me. Check that. Do I

  376. need to reset in my marriage? No marriage ever stands

  377. still at every point in your marriage, you're either growing

  378. closer together or you're drifting further apart. No marriage just

  379. stands still. So if you're not growing closer together, you're

  380. drifting apart. And maybe you need to reset in your marriage.

  381. I need to refall in love. I've had to refall

  382. in love with my life, my wife many many times

  383. in almost forty seven years of marriage. You just have

  384. to re up and recommit. How About in your routines?

  385. Are your routines out of whack? You know, the routine

  386. I'm in right now, started during COVID is not helping

  387. me and I need to change my routine. I need

  388. to reset there. Maybe you need to check that one.

  389. Or how about habits? Do I need to replace some

  390. bad habits with some good habits? How About in my parenting?

  391. Some of you need to reset in your parenting and

  392. right now you've got to. You need to reset a

  393. relationship with one of your kids. They'd be into maybe

  394. an adult child, but you're out of whack with them

  395. and you need to reset in that relationship. You check

  396. that one. How About in my time and my schedule?

  397. Have you figured out that it's easier to fill your

  398. schedule than to fulfill your schedule. Have you discovered that

  399. it's easier to get in to something rather than to

  400. get out of it. It's easier to commit than to

  401. actually fulfill. And you said, my time's out of control,

  402. my schedules out of control. I'm always pressured, I'm always

  403. late whatever you check out, and I need to reset there?

  404. How about in your self confidence? See? Why would I

  405. need to reset my self confidence? Well, if you've just

  406. experienced a major rejection, you probably do. If you've been

  407. rejected at work, Have you been rejected by a friend,

  408. or a parent or a lover, You've been rejected by

  409. your spouse or somebody. Anytime you have rejection, your self

  410. confidence takes a hit and you say, I need to

  411. reset that Lord in my life? How about finances? Am

  412. I in denial about all the death that I'm in

  413. I'm just pretending it's not really there? Or do I

  414. need a reset in my dream? Now? What we're going

  415. to do this? I told you this week is just

  416. an introduction. In the weeks ahead, we are going to

  417. cover many of the areas in detail, So I don't

  418. want you to miss any of the messages in this

  419. series on uh, you know, resetting my life, because this

  420. is news you can use now before we move on,

  421. there is I need to say a word to a

  422. special group of you, and that is the few of

  423. you who just now as I went through that list

  424. did not check a single box. Really, you're that perfect.

  425. You're in such denial you couldn't even find a single

  426. box to check. Hello, you out of touch with you

  427. must be Jesus, you're so perfect. Why don't you come

  428. up here and just take over and you start teaching,

  429. because I would certainly act to learn from somebody who's perfect.

  430. You can't find a single thing that you said, yeah,

  431. I need help in that area. If not you, you're

  432. it's a desperate time for you. The most desperate thing

  433. is you're out of touch with the reality in your life.

  434. And the Bible says the heart's deceitful, which means you

  435. lie to yourself more than you lie to anybody else.

  436. And for those of you who didn't check a single box,

  437. this is what God says to you. Next verse Romans

  438. twelve three. Do not think you are better than you

  439. really are. Decide what you really are by the amount

  440. of faith that God has given you. So I want

  441. to highly recommend, even if you use false humility, go

  442. back and check a few things, because trust me, you're

  443. not perfect. Trust me, there's things on that list that

  444. need a reset in your life. And if you don't

  445. understand that, you really are out of touch with your

  446. own self. Because nobody's perfect. We're all flawed. We know

  447. that God knows that, and actually you know it. But

  448. you're just trying to tell yourself something different. You rationalize.

  449. You know what rationalized means. You tell yourself rational lies.

  450. You tell yourself in your mind what your heart is

  451. telling you is wrong in your mindset, It's okay, it's

  452. not now this weekend, we're just identifying the four preliminary

  453. steps to prepare you for a personal life reset. And

  454. everybody needs a reset at different stages in their lives.

  455. You're gonna need several of them in your lifetime. Step

  456. one preliminary start asking God to do something new in

  457. your life. Step two pinpoints specifically what you want God

  458. to change in your life now. The third step of

  459. preparation is this, find some people to support my reset.

  460. Find some people to support my reset. You're not gonna

  461. get better on your own. You're not gonna get reset

  462. by yourself. If you could, you would have, But you can't,

  463. so you won't. It's not it doesn't work. God has

  464. wired the universe and wired us that we need each other,

  465. that we're better together. As Alice said, that we only

  466. get healing, we only get health, we only get changed,

  467. and we only get real growth in relationship to other people.

  468. Now this is pretty self explanatory. We talk about this

  469. all atom because Saddleback is a church of small groups,

  470. over seven thousand small groups meeting in one hundred and

  471. ninety six cities of southern California. Ecclesiastes four, verse twelve

  472. says this, a person standing alone can be attacked and defeated,

  473. but two can stand back to back and conquer, and

  474. there three are even better. For a triple braided cord

  475. is not easily broken. There are some things in your

  476. life you need to conquer about you, but you're never

  477. going to conquer them by yourself. Revealing your feeling is

  478. the beginning of healing other people involved. Now, you don't

  479. need a bunch of people in your reset plan, in

  480. your recovery plan, in your reboot plan of your life,

  481. but you do need a few I'm talking two or

  482. three or four people. If you're in a small group,

  483. that's that's a good group to start with right there.

  484. If you're not in Celebrate Recovery, you can join Celebrate Recovery.

  485. But you're gonna need some friends. You don't need a lot,

  486. You just need some people who are gonna back you

  487. when you start working on some major changes in your life.

  488. Anybody who's ever done an exercise program or a diet

  489. program knows it works better with a buddy. Everybody needs

  490. a body. Okay, you can tweet that too. Everybody needs

  491. a buddy. You need somebody. It is not good for

  492. men to be alone. God says, we need people in

  493. our lives to help us grow. And so you're gonna

  494. either have to get in a group if you're not

  495. in a group, or you're gonna have to We'll help

  496. you form group. Because to get the most out of

  497. this series, it's not something you just listen to and

  498. go home and you do. It's something that you're going

  499. to need other people in your life working with you.

  500. Just as Alice talked about the importance of that ur

  501. please ask you four keen. If one person falls, another

  502. can reach out and help. But people who are alone

  503. when they fall, are in real trouble. You are going

  504. to fall. Count on it in your reset program for

  505. your life. You're gonna make mistakes, you're gonna stumble. There

  506. are gonna be days you feel like giving up. You

  507. say it's not worth it. It is worth it, and

  508. that's when you need other people that when you fall,

  509. they help you up. And he said, I don't even

  510. know if I believe in God right now. That's when

  511. you need people who say that's okay, we'll believe God

  512. for you right now. Everybody needs stretch your bearers in

  513. their life. So when you're going through major pain, they

  514. can carry you, and then when they're in pain, you

  515. can carry them. That's what family is all about. That's

  516. what the church families all So write this down. Community

  517. is God's antidote to discouragement, to defeat, and to failure.

  518. If you're discouraged, if you feel defeated, if you feel

  519. like a failure, I can tell you right now, you're

  520. not in community. You're not in true quantity, a true community,

  521. true relationship of friendship. Now, God says this about us

  522. because we're as Christians. Romans twelve, verse five since we

  523. are one body in Christ, we belong to each other,

  524. and each of us needs all the others. Did you

  525. know that you belong to me and I belong to you,

  526. and we need each other. And actually, your relationship to

  527. the other people in God's family is going to all

  528. outlast your family relationships, your your sports relationships, your work relationships,

  529. because these are going to go last forever. Okay, there

  530. are people out there who I know who are white,

  531. six foot two tall American males, and yet I have

  532. more in common with Alice because she's my sister in Christ,

  533. and I'm more committed to her than I am to

  534. somebody who looks like me, thinks like me, and votes

  535. like me. Does that make sense? Because that relationship between

  536. me and Alice, she's my sister. We're gonna be in habit,

  537. and if somebody hurts her, I should care because I'm

  538. her brother. Now, Hebrews ten twenty five says this, let

  539. us not give up the habit of meeting together. Instead,

  540. let us encourage one another. The problem with COVID is

  541. COVID was a group killer, and I was a fellowship killer.

  542. Every church in America right now is in rebuilding phase

  543. because a lot of people just got out of the

  544. habit of going to their group or going to service

  545. and things like that, and so we've got to rebuild.

  546. But the bottom is we build better together. Don't try

  547. to do a major life reset on your own, because

  548. you're going to fail. Okay, I'm just guarantee it. You're

  549. not going to stick with it. You need other people

  550. in your life. God wired it that we need others.

  551. Why because it requires humility. The Bible says God resists

  552. the proud and gives grace to the humble. The proud

  553. think they can do everything on their own. I don't

  554. need anybody else to help me. That's called pride, and

  555. that's why you're in the mess you're in right now

  556. and why you can't get out of it while you're stuck.

  557. Humility says I need God and I need other people.

  558. I need brothers and sisters in my life. Now here's

  559. the fourth preliminary step. Let's just get the set up

  560. for the whole series. Number four. Eliminate anything unhelpful or

  561. unhealthy in my life. Eliminate anything unhelpful or unhealthy in

  562. my life. Now you know what we're talking about here.

  563. If you've ever gone on a diet, you know, the

  564. first thing you do is you go to your kitchen

  565. and you start throwing away all the junk food so

  566. you're not tempted by it. You clean out your cabinet,

  567. and you clean out your refrigerator of all the stuff.

  568. You know, I really don't want to be eating nut

  569. and you clean that out, and you clean out the

  570. junk food because you know you can't get healthy until

  571. you do. But what about the junk food you put

  572. in your mind? Maybe you need to cancel your cable

  573. subscription for a few months, or maybe you need to

  574. do a media fast and stay off of social media

  575. for two or three months. I'm certain your mood would improve.

  576. You'd feel less stressed, you'd feel less in competition with

  577. everybody else, and you'd feel your joy would come up

  578. a whole lot higher. So here's what the Bible says

  579. about eliminating anything unhelpful and unhealthy Hebrews twelve to one.

  580. We should remove in anything from our lives that would

  581. get in the way and the sins that hold us back.

  582. Anything that gets in the way or sins that hold

  583. us back Hebrews twelve one and two. In the CEV

  584. version says this, we must get rid of everything that

  585. slows down our progress, especially those sins that just won't

  586. let go, and you know what they are in your life.

  587. We must be determined to run the race that ahead

  588. of us, and we must keep our eyes on Jesus,

  589. who leads us. So here's the big question, here's the

  590. fourth question. Write this down. What do I need to

  591. get rid of or let go of? What do I

  592. need to get rid of or let go of? If

  593. I'm going to have a major reset in my life,

  594. I'm going to become the man God always intended me

  595. to be. I'm going to become the woman God always

  596. intended me to be. What do I need to let

  597. go of? What do I need to get rid of?

  598. Maybe a relationship that's out of whack. You know, if

  599. you say, well, I'm trying to help them come to Christ,

  600. that's a good thing. But if I come up here

  601. to the edge and I'm trying to lift you up

  602. and you're trying to bring me down, who's going to win?

  603. There's no question. Okay, it's more likely that that friend's

  604. going to bring you down then you bring them up.

  605. It's just the law of gravity. And so That doesn't

  606. mean you don't love them pray for them. But you

  607. can't be friends with people who are going in a

  608. different direction than the reset you want to make in

  609. your life. Colossians chapter three, verse seven to ten talks

  610. about in order to prepare for the new me, I'm

  611. going to have to change some attitudes too. Now this

  612. is easier said than none. We'll go into it in

  613. detail in Weeks Ahead and Colossians three seven to ten.

  614. It says this you used to live. You used to live.

  615. It's your former life according to the selfish desires. In

  616. other words, I just did what's best for me, forget

  617. anybody else. They just do what's best for me. When

  618. your life was dominated by them, by their selfish desires.

  619. But now now that you're Christian, you must get rid

  620. of all these things. And he gives an example anger,

  621. hot temper, hating others, even those of a different political party.

  622. No insults, Well, that just ruled out much of the internet.

  623. No filthy talk. Must never come out of your lips

  624. and stop lining each other. For you have put off

  625. your old self and its habits, and you've put on

  626. your new self. That's called a life reset. Now it's

  627. interesting since recovering this in a series. The word reset

  628. is only used one time in Hebrew. In the entire Bible.

  629. The word reset has only used one time in the

  630. entire Bible, and it's an example where God is giving

  631. a word of encouragement to the people of Israel. Their

  632. nation had been ransacked and defeated in a huge war

  633. by a superior army the Empire of Babylon, and Babylon

  634. had come into Israel, taken over the entire country, taken

  635. almost all of the citizens as prisoners of war, and

  636. moved them back to Babylon for seventy years where they

  637. lived as prisoner of war. And they ransacked and destroyed

  638. the capital Jerusalem. And all this time God had not

  639. forgotten them. And when they turned back to him, God says,

  640. I've got a word for you, because this is the

  641. end of a chapter of your life, but it's not

  642. the end of the story. And I'll tell that to

  643. you too. What you're going through right now may be

  644. the end of a chapter in your life, but it's

  645. not the end of the story. And to the discouraged

  646. people of Israel captive in Babylon, God says this Isaiah

  647. fifty four Firse ten eleven. The mountains may shake and

  648. the hills may crumble. In other words, everything may be

  649. falling apart in your life. It's all coming apart of

  650. the seams earthquake time. The mountains may shake and the

  651. hills may crumble. But my unfeeling love for you will

  652. never be shaken. Circle that never be shaken. Everything else

  653. can come apart. You may lose all kinds of You're

  654. not gonna ever go lose my love, and my promise

  655. of peace will never change, says the Lord who has

  656. compassion on you, and then he turns us promise to Jerusalem,

  657. the city that had been destroyed. Oh Jerusalem, you suffering

  658. storm ravaged city, needing comfort. Maybe you feel like that,

  659. suffering storm ravage, needing comfort. I will rebuild you with

  660. priceless jewels, and I will reset your foundations with sapphires.

  661. Now that's a metaphor. Okay, this is where the only

  662. time the word reset is used in the Hebrew scriptures.

  663. I'll reset your foundation with sapphires, he said, I'm going

  664. to build it back. This is on the end of

  665. the story. We're going to rebuild this Israel, rebuild Jerusalem.

  666. To its glory, only this time. I'm not going to

  667. build a foundation on sand. I'm not going to build

  668. a foundation on clay. I'm not even going to build

  669. a foundation on cement. I'm going to build it on

  670. precious jewels. The next verse, he mentions rubies, rubies, and sapphires.

  671. Why do you use that for a foundation, because they're indestructible.

  672. Other stuff will decay, other stuff will rot, other stuff

  673. will rust. But precious jewels, sapphires are expensive, Rubies are expensive,

  674. or ruby can be up to one point two million

  675. dollars a carrot for the There was a ruby soul

  676. recently for a thirty cart ruby for over thirty two

  677. million dollars. Okay, and God says, I'm going to use

  678. this stuff for your foundation. Sapphires why they can't be destroyed.

  679. They're indestructible. They last forever. He said, I'm going to

  680. put a foundation under you that's going to stay and

  681. stick for a long long time. That's what God wants

  682. to do in your life. He wants to build a

  683. new foundation to reset the foundation of your life. But

  684. you got to be in on it. You got to

  685. say I'm in and you start praying, God, do something

  686. new in my life. Do something fresh in my life,

  687. do something great, do something unusual in my life. God

  688. would say to you what he told Job. Look at

  689. the next verse, Job eleven. He says, God told Job,

  690. who had been through a lot. Put your heart right,

  691. reach out to God. Get rid of evil and wrong

  692. for your home, Get rid of that, get those porno

  693. magazines off out of your house, on your computer. Then

  694. face the world again, firm and courageous. Then he says,

  695. if you'll do these things, then he says, all your

  696. troubles will fade from your memory like floods that are past,

  697. and remember no more. It's like water under the bridge.

  698. Nobody's going to remember it. Your life will be brighter

  699. than the sunshine at noon, and you're going to live

  700. secure and full of hope. Oh you guys, as your

  701. pastor the guy who prays for you all the time,

  702. I want you to have that kind of life. I

  703. want you to live secure and full of hope. I

  704. want your days to be brighter than noonday sun. What

  705. do you do? What he says there, Put your heart right,

  706. reach out to God, get rid of the junk in

  707. your he home. Then face the world a being. Now

  708. most of you know the Lord. You've already stepped across

  709. the line. But there may be some people here who

  710. haven't quite yet opened their life to Christ. And so

  711. the last verse is for you, which says this, here's

  712. what happens when you open your life to Jesus. Said Jesus,

  713. I don't understand it all, but I'm asking it to

  714. come into my life two Corinthians five seventeen. The Bible

  715. says this, when somebody becomes a Christian, he becomes a

  716. brand new person inside. That's a reset. He's not the

  717. same anymore. A new life has begun. And it doesn't

  718. matter what's been in your past, no matter how ashamed

  719. or sick, or weird or sinful or what, doesn't matter

  720. what it is regrets in your life. He goes, you're

  721. a new person. And if you die, after you've given

  722. your life to Christ, you go to have it. And

  723. you say, now, Lord, about that sin I committed four

  724. years ago? He said, what's it? And what are you

  725. talking about? It's forgiven, it's forgotten, it's wiped out. You're

  726. a new person. You're not the same anymore. That's called

  727. a life reset. That's power. Heads. So let's start this

  728. journey together. Friends, why don't you just pray this prayer?

  729. Start us saying God, I'm asking you to do something

  730. new in me starting this week. Lord, you say you

  731. make everything new. I'm asking you to make a fresh

  732. start in me, shape a genesis week from the chaos

  733. in my life. Say Lord, help me to forget the

  734. former things and look at the new thing you're going

  735. to do in my life. It's already starting to happen.

  736. Help me to see it. I'm asking you to do

  737. something new and fresh in my life starting this week.

  738. And then say Lord, I want you to help me

  739. specifically pinpoint what needs to be changed, to go over

  740. that list again and think of anything else, to look

  741. closely at my life and figure out what's out of

  742. whack and what needs to change. I want to stop

  743. living in denial. I don't want to think that I'm

  744. better than I really am. And then, Lord, help me

  745. to find some people who will support me and as

  746. I'm working on this life reset that they will be encouragers,

  747. not discouragers. Help me to realize that community is the

  748. antidote to discouragement and defeat and failure. Help me to

  749. realize that we belong together and I need others in

  750. my life. And then, Father, I ask you to help

  751. me to eliminate anything unhelpful or unhealthy. To do cleaning.

  752. How spring cleaning in my mind, in my body, in

  753. my relationships, spring cleaning in every area of my life.

  754. Show me what I need to get rid of or

  755. what I need to let go of in order to

  756. prepare for the new me. God, I'm asking you to

  757. reset my life, put me on a new start, afresh beginning.

  758. And if you've never invited Christ in your life, said

  759. Jesus Christ, come in. I open my heart as best

  760. I know how, put your spirit of love in me.

  761. I want to learn to love you and trust you,

  762. and I ask you to accept me into your family.

  763. In your name, I pray Amen,