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Rick Warren - How Much You Matter to God - When Jesus Comes to Dinner Pt.2

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  1. Good morning, saddleback. It's good to see you. I want

  2. to say hi to all ten of our campuses, and

  3. all of you in the different venues, and those of

  4. you outside, and those of you who are watching online.

  5. We're glad to have you part if you take out

  6. your message notes. Last week we began a new series

  7. I'm calling When Jesus Comes to Dinner, and it's just

  8. a little miniseries we're doing in a couple weeks before Easter.

  9. You see, it was the dinners with sinners that God

  10. Jesus in trouble. The religious people of Jesus Day just

  11. couldn't stand Jesus. They're really so righteous folks. They didn't

  12. like him because he hung out with all the wrong people.

  13. He was always going to dinners with sinners. He was

  14. always partying with people they didn't like, people that they

  15. didn't think he should be hanging out with, and it

  16. ticked off the church goers. Last week, Pastor Buddy did

  17. the first message in the series. We looked at when

  18. Jesus had dinner with a prostitute and a pharis. Now

  19. that's the opposite extremes, the very self righteous and the

  20. very unrighteous. That would have been an interesting conversation. I'm

  21. sure this week we're gonna look at when Jesus goes

  22. to dinner with a corrupt government official that everybody in

  23. town hated. Next week, which is a week before Easter,

  24. we're going to actually look at the Passover. We're going

  25. to do the passover here on stage, we're going to

  26. have communion, and by the way, next Sunday evening we're

  27. going to show the passion in the refinery. So we're

  28. going to take it in order. The passover a service

  29. and then communion and then Jesus' death on the cross.

  30. And I hope you want to bring a friend to that.

  31. But when Jesus did the passover, the most important dinner

  32. of his life, the Lord Supper, he invites a bunch

  33. of rednecks. I mean, that's exactly what the disciples were.

  34. They weren't exactly sophisticated people. They came from Galilee. Galilee

  35. was Hicckville. These people were country umpkins. They watched reruns

  36. of Hehaw. I mean, they were illiterate. They were very

  37. rough hewn men. And Jesus does not gather for his

  38. world changing group a bunch of intellectual, very sophisticated people,

  39. he gets a bunch of illiterate country Hicks and has

  40. dinner with them, you know, I can you know, in

  41. my life I have received a fair amount of criticism

  42. from bloggers and things like that for people that I

  43. have tried to befriend. Now, as an evangelist, I spend

  44. much of my time with people who totally disagree with me.

  45. But does that make sense? I mean, if you have

  46. the gift of sharing the good news, you don't just

  47. share it with people who already understand it. So I

  48. spend much of my time talking to people who totally

  49. disagree with me, and I would disagree with them, and

  50. I have you know, they've written all kinds of things

  51. about you know, Rick Warren has at dinner with this

  52. religious group for that religious group, or he's had dinner

  53. with you know, atheists or Gaze or worst of all, liberals,

  54. you know. And I mean that's like the highest sin

  55. of alls, that's the impardonable one, okay, liberals. And and

  56. you know, as if you know, well, then that means

  57. I agree with everything everybody I've ever had dinner with, well,

  58. of course not. Can you imagine if Jesus we're alive today,

  59. what the bloggers was to say about Jesus having dinner

  60. with a prostitute or a corrupt government official or all

  61. the other quote sinners. He hung out with lepers. These

  62. were the off cast of society that nobody wanted to

  63. hang out with. It be black people who have aids today,

  64. who people are. I'm afraid I might get it, so

  65. I want to get away as far away as possible.

  66. And you know, Jesus his answer to all of this

  67. was always, Hey, the well don't need a doctor. It's

  68. the sick people who need a doctor. And Jesus says

  69. many times several times he actually says, I didn't come

  70. for the righteous. I came for the unrighteous. I didn't

  71. come for the saved. I came for the loss. I

  72. didn't come for people who think they've got it all

  73. together and don't need to be saved. I came to

  74. save people who realize they're broken, they don't have it

  75. all together. The things don't always work in life. Frankly,

  76. people who think they don't need to be saved, I

  77. don't have any time for. But I came to be

  78. with people who know they need help. I came for

  79. the insecure. Now, the truth is I've learned this after

  80. thirty years of pastoring. Everybody is insecure. Everybody in this room,

  81. everybody's listening is insecure. He said, Oh no, I'm not insecure.

  82. Oh really, Let me have thirty minutes with you and

  83. I'll uncover you're hidding the insecurities. I'm to do it quite quickly.

  84. I'm very good at discovering what people's insecurities are. It's

  85. the reason why people don't get help before things got

  86. it really bad in their life. If your marriage is

  87. tanking and going down and you don't get counseling, or

  88. your business is tanking and you don't get help, or

  89. you got a relationship problem with your parents or your

  90. kids and you don't get help and you don't get counseling.

  91. And why do people are afraid to go to a

  92. counsel because of insecurity? What if that counselor reveals something

  93. to me that I can't handle and he points out

  94. a truth about myself that I don't really want to know.

  95. That's called insecurity. And it's the reason why people wait

  96. until it's too late to get help in an area

  97. of their life. It's because of their own insecurity. What

  98. can they uncover that I can't handle. Now. The truth is,

  99. one of your deepest needs in life is to feel secure.

  100. One of your deepest needs in life is to feel valued,

  101. to feel valuable, to feel like your life matters, that

  102. it counts, that it's significant, that you're not just a sipher,

  103. that you're not just some kind of zero in life.

  104. You want your life to matter. You want your life

  105. to have value and significance. And as a result, you're

  106. constantly doing two things, evaluating and comparing. And you do

  107. it all the time. You do it consciously and you unconsciously.

  108. You're evaluating yourself and you're comparing yourself to other people.

  109. And we compare everything. It's an indoor national favorite pastime

  110. of Americans. And the problem is the four ways that

  111. we judge our value are all furious. They're all false,

  112. they're all phony, they're all fake. How the world tells

  113. you you determine your value is one hundred percent wrong.

  114. So let me just mention them, because I want you

  115. to understand that your value is not based on what

  116. the world says about just what God says about you. Now,

  117. there are four things that the world tells you you

  118. need to look at if you want to know how

  119. valuable you are, you might write these down. The first

  120. way we judge our wealth are our worth is by

  121. our appearance, and that is how do I look? And

  122. we think, you know, if I look good, then I

  123. must be good. And if I don't look so good,

  124. then I must not be so valuable, I must not

  125. be important. And our society has an entire industry that

  126. is built on the idea that your value is based

  127. on your appearance. It's called Hollywood, and Hollywood says, if

  128. you really are ravishing, you're stunning, you're really gorgeous, you're

  129. really handsome, then you're really worth a lot. But if

  130. you're not so hot, then you're not. Oh I'm a

  131. poet and I don't know it. Now. The problem with

  132. this is there aren't that many really stunning people in

  133. the world. I mean, most of us are just normal,

  134. average looking people. In fact, everybody around you is normal

  135. average except you. You're stunning and you know it. But

  136. you are the only person in this room that actually

  137. really is stunning. All the rest of us are just

  138. kind of normal looking. Okay, we're just normal people with

  139. normal looks. Now, if you only have high value in

  140. your life, by being super attractive. That leaves most of

  141. us out, and the Bible says that's not what you

  142. valuate yourself on. The second false way to evaluate your

  143. worth is not appearance, but by affluence, and affluence is

  144. what do I own? And that's the myth of materialism

  145. that says if I have a lot of things, then

  146. I must be worth a lot. That if I have

  147. a lot of values, then my personal value is a lot.

  148. But if I'm poor or I'm broke, then I'm not

  149. worth much as a person. Now I've told you many

  150. times never connect your self worth with your net worth,

  151. because if you connect your self worth with your net worth,

  152. the recession will cause depression. And I have seen that many,

  153. many times. I've seen a lot of people who when

  154. their business hits the toilet, then their personal feeling about

  155. themselves hits the toilet. And when they tank in their portfolio,

  156. then they tank and how good they feel about themselves?

  157. And I'm just not a very good provider, and on

  158. and on and on. Your value and your valuables have

  159. nothing to do with each other. Your self worth and

  160. your net worth have nothing to do with each other.

  161. The greatest things in life as I've said many times,

  162. are not things. But the world tells you you got

  163. a lot of money, you got a lot of stuff,

  164. then you are really a valuable person. Not true. The

  165. third thing that we judge our worth on is achievement,

  166. and that is what have I accomplished? And if I

  167. get a lot of things done, then I feel good

  168. about myself. And if I reach a lot of goals,

  169. then I feel good about myself. And if I get promoted,

  170. or I win, or I get an honor, and I

  171. have accomplished a certain thing, then I must feel good.

  172. And this is what creates workoholism, and it drives us

  173. because we want to feel good about ourselves, so we're

  174. trying to achieve to prove that we are worthwhile. The

  175. fourth is approval, and approval basing your worth on approval

  176. says how well am I liked? And if I'm liked

  177. a lot, then I must be worth a lot. And

  178. if I'm only liked a little, then I'm worth a little.

  179. And if I'm not liked by anybody, then I'm worthless.

  180. That's just not true. Some of you have spent your

  181. entire life trying to gain the approval of somebody who's

  182. never going to give it. And if you haven't got

  183. your parents' approval by now, I'm sorry you're not going

  184. to get it. But here's the point. You don't need

  185. it to be happy. Your happiness is not dependent upon

  186. the approval of other people. If you build your worth

  187. on what other people think of you, then you are

  188. going to be devastated every time you get criticized, and

  189. it's gonna hurt like the dickens. And you're going to

  190. tend to always be going around saying what will other

  191. people think? And if you're always asking that question, what

  192. do other people think? You're already a slave to the

  193. approval of other people. You've got to learn to trust

  194. what God says about you. Now it is true. Psychological

  195. studies have shown that you tend to base how you

  196. feel about you on what you think the most important

  197. person in your life thinks about you. That's where you

  198. get most of your self esteem, what you think the

  199. most important person in your life thinks about you. So

  200. I highly recommend you make the most important person in

  201. your life Jesus Christ, because he's going to tell you

  202. the truth, and he's going to love you unconditionally, and

  203. he's not going to say I love you if I

  204. love you, if I love you, if I love you,

  205. if I love you, if you love me, I love you,

  206. if or I love you, because that's conditional love. Jesus

  207. says I love you peeriod. In fact, you can't make

  208. me stop loving you. Now. The problem with these four things,

  209. appearance and affluence and achievement and approval, is that they

  210. are are all unstable, unreliable sources of security. I mean,

  211. let's just go down the list. Our beauty fades. Anybody

  212. want to give a testimony on that. Okay, our beauty fads.

  213. And if you think you're not looking so great, now

  214. wait ten years. Okay, all right, okay, unless you're like

  215. me on the Daniel plan, and in ten years, I'm

  216. not half the man I used to be. All right,

  217. Beauty fades. Possessions wear out, Okay, successes are surpassed. No

  218. matter what goal you reach, somebody is going to break

  219. your record and you're going to feel bad. Then if

  220. your self esteem is built on that, and other people

  221. are going to reject you no matter what you do,

  222. some people just aren't going to like you. That's their problem,

  223. not yours. The only solid foundation for self esteem for

  224. feeling good about you is understanding how much you matter

  225. to God. That's what we're going to look at today,

  226. how much you matter to God. And if you get

  227. what we're going to look at today, it'll change your life.

  228. And it will set you free from the expectations of others,

  229. from the grip of materialism, from the pressure of workaholism,

  230. from the need to have to improve and always look

  231. your best. And every time when you see yourself as

  232. God sees you, it transforms you. Now, a great example

  233. of this is a guy in the Bible named Zachias,

  234. and his story is in Luke chapter nineteen. If you

  235. have a Bible, you can turn to Luke nineteen. It's

  236. there on your outline. You can read the verses with

  237. me also on the screen. Now, Jesus is going through

  238. a town called Jericho, and of course, large crowds are

  239. following Jesus wherever he goes. He's walking through these cities

  240. and crowds are following him everywhere. And there's a guy

  241. in this town named Zachias, who is the most hated

  242. man in the city. And the Bible tells us this

  243. story Luke nineteen. Jesus was going through the city of Jericho,

  244. and a man was there named Zachius, and he was

  245. the chief tax collector, and he was wealthy. Now he

  246. wanted to see who Jesus was, but he was too short,

  247. too short to see above the crowd. So he ran

  248. ahead of the place where Jesus would come, and he

  249. climbed a sycamore tree so he could see him. Now,

  250. when Jesus is walking through. When Jesus comes to that place,

  251. and then there was this sycamore tree, he stops and says.

  252. He looked up, and he he said to Zachias, Zachius,

  253. hurry and come down. I must stay at your house today.

  254. Zachias came down quickly, and he welcomed him gladly. Now,

  255. now all the people who saw this, they began to complain,

  256. Jesus is having dinner with the sinner. Jesus is staying

  257. with a sinner. But Zachiah stood and said to the Lord,

  258. this is at his house. I will give half of

  259. my possessions to the poor, and if I have cheated anyone,

  260. I will pay them back four times as much. And

  261. Jesus says to him, Salvation has come to this house today.

  262. This man is a true son of Abraham. In other words,

  263. he's the real deal. He's in with us and I,

  264. the son of Man, have come to seek and save

  265. people like him who were lost. This is an amazing story, now, Zachias,

  266. of the four ways that we judge our value, this

  267. guy has struck out on three of them. Okay, he's

  268. struck out. He is wealthy because of his corruption, but

  269. he has struck out in three different ways. In the

  270. first place, Zakias doesn't like his appearance. The Bible tells

  271. us he was short. In fact, he was so short

  272. he couldn't see above the crowd, and he was shorter

  273. than everybody else in the city. In fact, tradition tells

  274. us that Zakias was the shortest man in the city

  275. of Jericho. In fact, the Greek word here for short,

  276. describes the body of an underdeveloped child. This man is

  277. not just short, like a lot of people short. He

  278. is abnormally short. He's a little person, probably dwarfed. He's

  279. abnormally short, an undeveloped, fully develop body. Now because of that,

  280. he's probably teased and ridiculed his entire life about his height.

  281. Can kids be cruel and ruthless on the playground, Oh

  282. you can remember it. Kids can be meaner than adults,

  283. and on the patio they can say all kinds of

  284. mean things about the way you look, or the way

  285. you dress, or what you did. And probably Zachias's entire

  286. life was given hurtful, cruel nicknames, and he learns real

  287. quickly don't worry about the opinions of other people, because

  288. he was constantly made fun of. He didn't like his appearance.

  289. He's abnormally short, stunted, he falls short second. Zachias was

  290. not liked by anybody else, so the approval factor is zero.

  291. In fact, he was the chief tax collector, and that

  292. means he's hated by everybody. Now, tax collectors are never

  293. popular people. I mean, you don't just call up the

  294. irs and say come over for dinner and do an audit. Okay,

  295. that's not it's something you normally normally want to do.

  296. But in those days it was even worse because the

  297. Roman tax system was one hundred percent corrupt to the

  298. core in the first place. In order to become a

  299. tax collector, you had to bribe an official to get

  300. that job, because once you got it, you were going

  301. to make an all a lot of money. But you

  302. had to bribe an official to become a tax collector,

  303. so you had to be dishonest justs to get the job. Then,

  304. in the Roman tax collection system, Rome didn't care how

  305. much you collected as long as they got their percentage,

  306. and you could collect two, three, four, five, up to

  307. ten times as much as Rome required and keep it

  308. all for yourself. So really, a tax collector in this

  309. days is more like a mafia extortionist. He can come

  310. to your house and say you're gonna pay me this

  311. amount of money when Rome's only said this much, and

  312. he said this much, and if you don't do it,

  313. I'm going to throw you in jail. I'm going to

  314. make you an offer you can't refuse, and you will

  315. pay tribute to me. So everybody hated the tax collectors

  316. because not only did they represent Rome, which was the

  317. invading country of Israel, and they were under subjugation by

  318. a foreign country, so they hated Rome. But second, the

  319. Roman tax collector was corrupt, and you knew that that

  320. guy was going to get rich off of you by

  321. being dishonest, and you couldn't stop him. He could extort

  322. all he wanted to from you. Now for a Roman.

  323. For a Jew, which Zachias is, to become a Roman

  324. tax collector is like treason. It's like going over to

  325. the enemy's side. No who self respecting Jew would ever

  326. become a Roman tax collector. It was unthinkable, without a doubt.

  327. Zachias was disowned by his family because no family is

  328. going to have a son who represents Rome in the

  329. most corrupt area of taxes. So he's disowned by his family.

  330. In fact, in those days, you were barred from going

  331. to worship if you worked for Rome. You could not

  332. go to the Jewish synagogue because they believed you had

  333. sold out. In fact, Jewish law in that day meant

  334. that the Roman anybody who was a tax collector for

  335. Rome that wasn't considered in the same class as a murderer.

  336. So he is not a popular This is the most hated,

  337. unpopular man in the entire city of Jerusalem. So he

  338. not only has an appearance problem, he's got an approval problem.

  339. He's not doing good. And worst of all, notice it

  340. says he was the chief tax collector, which means this

  341. is the guy on top who runs the whole scam.

  342. You couldn't pick a more hated person in the city

  343. of Jericho that Jesus stops to talk to and invite

  344. himself to dinner. Now, not only Isachius, he doesn't like

  345. his appearance and he has no approval. He's hated by everybody.

  346. But Zacchius doesn't like himself self. How do we know that?

  347. Because he's not a proud of his achievements. He's got

  348. all this wealth, but he got it by stealing from people,

  349. from extorting it from people. You cannot be happy and

  350. guilty at the same time. You cannot give up your

  351. integrity and have harmony and happiness in your life. He

  352. knew he'd ripped off people. He knew that all his

  353. success was achieved by cheating others. So he lost all

  354. his self respect and he didn't like his life. And

  355. he's got a lot of money. He's got a lot

  356. of money, but he's a very lonely, very unhappy man.

  357. He's miserable and he feels pretty hopeless about his life.

  358. But on one single day, his life does a one

  359. to eighty and in one snap of a finger, bam,

  360. his life is transformed. What happens Jesus shows up. Jesus

  361. is walking through Jericho that day, and of all the

  362. people he stops to talk to, and of all the

  363. people he pays attention to, and of all the people

  364. he invites himself to their home, he chooses the most unloved,

  365. the most disrespected, the most evil, the most unappreciated person

  366. in the entire city, a guy named Zachias. Now he's

  367. walking through town, and when he comes to the tree

  368. that Zachias is in, he stops. He looks up and

  369. he says, Zachias, I want you to come down now.

  370. This story teaches us four truths about how much you

  371. matter to God. You need to write these down. Four

  372. truths about how much you matter to God. Number one,

  373. The first thing we learn is that no matter how

  374. small I feel, Jesus notices me. No matter how small

  375. I feel, Jesus notices me. Now, as I said, Zachias

  376. is very wealthy, but he's very lonely. And so when

  377. he comes he hears Jesus's come the city. He wants

  378. to see him, but being so short, he can't get

  379. a glimpse. So he does two things that no Middle

  380. Eastern wealthy man would ever do. First thing, he runs.

  381. He runs ahead of the crowd. Now, in those days,

  382. running was for slaves. No wealthy, self respecting Middle Eastern

  383. man would run. But Zachias doesn't care. He runs ahead

  384. of the crowd and he finds a tree, a sycamore tree,

  385. and he climbs up in a tree. Second thing he does,

  386. he climbs up in a tree. No self respecting Middle

  387. Eastern businessman would climb up in a tree. That's what

  388. you have a slave do. By the way, if you

  389. want to ever see a sycamore tree, go over here

  390. to the Ministry Center, because we planted one. Because outside

  391. of that building are fifty seven different elements to teach

  392. Bible stories to our kids. And they planted a sycamore

  393. tree when they built that building so they could teach

  394. this story. And there're actually fifty seven different elements around

  395. that building that teach different stories from the Bible. So

  396. we have a sycamore tree here on this property. Now

  397. he's shocking. He's just hoping for a glimpse of Jesus.

  398. But Jesus does something even more shocking, and the Bible

  399. says this verse three, and Luke nineteen Zaccheas was too short.

  400. But when he climbs up in a tree. But when

  401. Jesus got to the tree, he looked up. Now he

  402. stops at Zachieus's tree, and in a packed crowd, he pauses,

  403. and of all the people in the crowd that he

  404. notices and pays attention to, he notices Zechias. Can you

  405. imagine how this guy's heart started racing? Boo boo boo

  406. boo boom. All of a sudden, he thinks, I'm just

  407. going to get a glimpse of this guy, And all

  408. of a sudden, Jesus stops at my tree, looks up

  409. at me and calls me my name, hello, And he's thinking,

  410. Jesus is noticing me, and he's totally focused on me,

  411. And so everybody in the crowd is totally focused on me.

  412. He's not looking at anybody else. I'm little, I'm short,

  413. I'm overlooked, I'm insignificant. But Jesus is paying attention to me. Now,

  414. why did Jesus stop at that particular tree and look up?

  415. Because he knew exactly where Zachius was. Now, let me

  416. just say this, I don't know what you're going through

  417. right now. You may feel like you're up a tree. Financially,

  418. you may feel like you're out on a limb relationally.

  419. You may feel like you're in a hole spiritually and

  420. nobody even knows you're there. But God knows where you are,

  421. and he's paying attention to you, and he notices you.

  422. He's always had his eye on you. That's because you

  423. matter to God. There has never been a moment of

  424. your life when God took his eye off of you.

  425. When you get to heaven one day, if you've trusted

  426. in Christ, there's not going to be a time because, oh,

  427. God says, oh, I didn't see that one happen in

  428. your life. He saw you take your first breath, he

  429. heard you scream your first scream. He saw you being

  430. formed in your mother's womb. Why because he made you.

  431. God fought you up. You wouldn't exist if God hadn't

  432. thought of you first, and he wanted you alive. And

  433. He's watched every second of your life, the good, the bad,

  434. and the ugly. You may feel you're all alone right now.

  435. You may feel that what you're going through God's a

  436. million miles away. Well, you're dead wrong. God is paying intimate,

  437. close attention and just as much as a year before

  438. Zachieas even decided to go to that tree, God knew

  439. he'd be there. God knows where you are right now.

  440. He knows where you're going to be in the next hour.

  441. He knows where you're going to be next month. He

  442. knows where you're going to be next year. He knows

  443. where you're going to be on the last day of

  444. your life and the last breast you're going to take.

  445. Why Because God is not limited by time. God does

  446. not live on the earth, which rotates in a twenty

  447. four hour cycle around the sun, so he's not limited

  448. by time. God can see the past, the present, and

  449. the future all at once, and he knows it all,

  450. and he never takes his eye off you. And just

  451. as much as a thousand years before this happened, God

  452. knew Zachias would be in that tree at that moment.

  453. I want to tell you, God knows where you are

  454. in this and he's seen everything that happens to you.

  455. He's seen every word of abuse that has been said

  456. to you that hurt, and he heard it. He saw

  457. every unkind act that's ever been done to you, and

  458. he grieved when it happened. No hurt has ever been

  459. hidden from him. He saw Zachius every mean thing that

  460. was said to him on the playground about his size

  461. when he was growing up. And God, no matter what

  462. you're going through, has not forgotten you, no matter how small,

  463. how insignificant I feel. Jesus notices me. Look at this

  464. verse Luke, Chapter twelve. The Bible says, God never overlooks

  465. a single sparrow. How many sparrows you think they're in

  466. the world, How many birds you think they're in the world.

  467. The Bible says, God notices every bird and everything they're doing,

  468. every time. And he says he pays even greater attention

  469. to you, down to the last detail. God knows more

  470. about your life than you do, even numbering the hairs

  471. on your head. Do you know what the greatest expression

  472. of love is. It's not given somebody flowers. The greatest

  473. expression of love is not buying somebody a box of chocolates.

  474. The greatest expression of love is not given them a

  475. gift card to Best Buy. The greatest expression of love

  476. is attention. It's attention paying attention, because when you pay

  477. attention to somebody, you're giving them your time, and your

  478. time is your life, and you're never going to get

  479. that time back. You were giving them a part of

  480. your life. And when you pay attention to somebody and

  481. you look them in the eyes, that child, that husband,

  482. that wife, that friend, and you pay attention to them,

  483. you were saying you matter to me. It is the

  484. greatest gift. Some of you grew up with parents who

  485. thought that what you needed were things. Kids don't need things.

  486. They need attention. After Easter, I'm going to do a

  487. three week series on parenting, and one of the keys

  488. to great parenting is simply showing up and paying attention.

  489. That's what they need. They need attention. Little kids, They're

  490. obvious about their need for it. They crave attention. Watch me, daddy,

  491. Watch me, daddy. And for the rest of your life

  492. you're going to be saying, watch me, daddy. You're still

  493. saying it today. Watch me everybody by the kind of

  494. car I drive. Watch me everybody by the kind of

  495. clothes I wear. Watch me everybody by the way I

  496. manicure my front lawn. Watch me everybody by how I

  497. make myself stand out. You crave attention. It is a

  498. fundamental human need. You crave attention. And there are people

  499. all around you, the people you work with, they're starving

  500. for attention. Your next door neighbors and the people around you.

  501. They're starving for attention. And if you want to be

  502. like Jesus, you pay attention. You show up and you

  503. pay attention, and you be there when they need you.

  504. There are people all around you dying to be noticed.

  505. Most of you do not realize the awesome attention that

  506. God is paying to you every single second of your life.

  507. Why because you matter to God. Number two, not only

  508. no matter how small I feel, Jesus notices me. The

  509. second thing we learned is that no matter who ignores me,

  510. Jesus knows me. No matter who ignores me, Jesus knows me.

  511. That this is more than noticing. He doesn't just notice

  512. you as one in six billion people. He doesn't just

  513. notice you. He knows you, and he calls Zachias by name. Now,

  514. all of his life, Zachias has been ridiculed and rejected. First,

  515. as a young person, he's ridiculed and rejected for his size.

  516. He's not as tall as everybody else. His appearance and

  517. his physical handicap cause him to be the subject of

  518. some mean spirited things. But then when he gets older,

  519. he's ridiculed and rejected for his dishonesty, and his corruption.

  520. Now you could only imagine the kind of gossip and

  521. the kind of verbal abuse that this guy probably receives

  522. daily for being a Jew who sold out to the

  523. Romans and is ripping off his own people for his

  524. own benefit. And he is being ignored by everybody. But

  525. Jesus has another surprise, and the second part of this verse,

  526. Jesus looked up at Zachius and called him by name.

  527. He knows me and just noticed me. He knows me, Zachius,

  528. he said, Now, imagine the shock. He knows my name.

  529. How did he know? How did Jesus know the same reason.

  530. Jesus knows your name because he made you, He created you.

  531. He's God. That's why he knows your name. Because God

  532. knows your name. Now, I want to tell you this,

  533. God not only knows where you are, He knows who

  534. you are. He not only knows what you're going through

  535. right now and knows it better than you do. He

  536. knows why you're going through it, and he knows how

  537. you feel about it, even when you don't even know

  538. how you feel about it. He knows you inside and out.

  539. He knows you. He doesn't just notice. He cares about you. Personally,

  540. because God is not an impersonal force. Now Jesus is

  541. walking through the city of Jericho. A crowd is following him.

  542. He stops at this tree and he looks up and

  543. he sees the most hated guy in the community. And

  544. he not only stops and notices him, he calls him

  545. out by name, Zacheus, Come down, I'm going to your

  546. house today. I'm going to have a party at your house.

  547. He knows his name. Now this shocks everybody. First the

  548. fact that Jesus, How does Jesus know this guy's name? Okay,

  549. but in a packed crowd, he's noticing him. But not

  550. only that, how does he know his name? The second

  551. shock is the meaning of the name. Do you know

  552. what Zacheus means? It means pure one, pure one. Now

  553. that's the last thing Zachias was. He's anything but pure.

  554. He's mister corruption personified. And Jesus looks up at him

  555. and says, hey, pure one. It probably been decades since

  556. anybody had ever called him by his real name. They're

  557. probably call him Zachius every other name in the book, okay,

  558. every other despised scoundrel. He's a crook, he's anything but pure.

  559. They're using all kinds of derogatory names and behind his back,

  560. but Jesus calls him by his real name. What is

  561. he doing here? He is affirming his potential rather than

  562. pointing out his past. Now follow me on this. I

  563. told you in a few weeks we're going to do

  564. a series on parenting. And by the way, you may

  565. be eighty years old, but you're still a parent. Your

  566. kids may be sixty, but you'll be a parent your

  567. entire life, all right, So this is a parenting series,

  568. not just for young couples, it's for everybody. One of

  569. the principles of parenting is treat your kids the way

  570. you want them to be, not the way they are.

  571. Don't label them, help them see what they can become.

  572. When you say you're just what are you doing only

  573. reinforcing the past. Don't tell it like it is, Tell

  574. it like it can be. Guys, if you want your

  575. wife to treat you like a king, you treat her

  576. like a queen. You treat people the way you want

  577. them to be, and then they tend to measure up

  578. to your expectations. Jesus looks at zach Chias, and he

  579. doesn't point out his flaws. He says, hey, pure one,

  580. come on down now follow me on this. The reason

  581. your friends are afraid to come to Christ and the

  582. reason why you are afraid to get close to Jesus

  583. is you think if I get close to Jesus, He's

  584. going to scold me. He's going to nag me, and

  585. he's going to tell me and remind me of all

  586. the things I've done wrong in my life. Wrong. Jesus

  587. goes to the biggest center in town in the people's view,

  588. and he doesn't say, Oh, Zachius, let me give you

  589. one hundred things you've done wrong in the last three weeks. No,

  590. he looks up at it and he says, hey, pure one,

  591. let's go party. What's going on here? He is treating Jesus.

  592. He's treating Zachias the way he wants him to be treated.

  593. He said, I know you, I made you, I know

  594. your potential. I'm not looking at your sin. I'm looking

  595. at what I made you to be, and I made

  596. you to be a pure one. They can't forget him.

  597. Look at this next verse, this verse out of Isaiah.

  598. God says, can a mother forget her nursing child? Can

  599. she feel no love? For a child she has born.

  600. The answer is obviously no. If you're nursing a baby,

  601. there's no way. If you're nursing a baby, you're gonna

  602. forget that baby. It's impossible. If you're nursing a baby,

  603. you cannot forget a baby. But he says, even if

  604. that were possible, God says, I would never forget you. See,

  605. I have engraved your name on the palms of my

  606. hand when Jesus Christ was crucified on the cross. And

  607. I'm gonna look at this next Sunday night, when we

  608. look at the passion again. They nailed nails through his hands.

  609. Those created scars, and God says, I have engraved you

  610. on the palms of my hands. This is how much

  611. I love you. When you get to heaven, there aren't

  612. gonna be any scars in heaven. You're not gonna have

  613. any imperfections or any scars in heaven. The only person

  614. with scars in heaven will be Jesus. For the rest

  615. of eternity, we could see how much he loved us.

  616. I have engraved you on the palms of my hand.

  617. Look at the scars on my brow from the crown

  618. of thorns. Look at the spear scar in my side.

  619. Look at the nails in my hand, the nails in

  620. my feet. These are the scars that say this is

  621. how much I love you. I call this God's tattoo. Verse.

  622. God says, there's no way I could ever forget how

  623. much I love you. I've engraved you on the palms

  624. of my hand. You see, in spite of Jesus' sin,

  625. in spite of his zachie as the sin, Jesus affirms him.

  626. You see, God has created you. You're his custom creation.

  627. He made you. You weren't mass produced when he formed you.

  628. He uniquely formed you for a purpose, and he knows

  629. that purpose for your life. And he didn't use an

  630. assembly line. And he lovingly crafted you. And he knows

  631. your name, and he's impressed you on the palms of

  632. his hands. I like to say say it this way.

  633. God has your picture in his wallet. Do you realize

  634. that you're not number one billion, four hundred and eighty six,

  635. two hundred and eighty two whatever. God has your picture

  636. in his wallet. He made you to love you, and

  637. there's never been a moment of your life that he

  638. didn't love you, that he didn't see notice, and that

  639. he didn't know what's going on in your life. Some

  640. of you have had some pretty tough shots in life,

  641. and you've had some pretty mean things said about you,

  642. and you can still remember the names you've been called, names,

  643. you've been called by your dad, names you've been called

  644. by your mom, names you've been called by people on

  645. the playground or at school, and you've been the braun

  646. of verbal abuse, and you can still record the recall

  647. the words. And so you have a pretty hard time

  648. feeling good about you. But I want you to remember this.

  649. Even though all those other people called you, all those

  650. other names, you'll never amount to anything. Why can't you

  651. be like your brother or your sister. You're gonna failure,

  652. You're gonna end up in prison, on on and on

  653. and on, and all those things that people said about you,

  654. and all the names they called you. You're dumb, you're uncoordinated,

  655. you're a clutch. You don't matter, And all of that

  656. doesn't really matter, because what matters is not the names

  657. they've called you, but the fact that he knows your

  658. name and he says, pure one. I see in you

  659. what I made you to be, and I've never given

  660. up on that, no matter how insignificant I feel, Jesus

  661. notices me. And no matter how uh you know, things

  662. go wrong in my life and people ignore me, Jesus

  663. knows me. Number three, this is a bigger one. No

  664. matter what I've done, Jesus wants me. WHOA No matter

  665. what I've done, Jesus wants me now. Zachiah's appearance made

  666. him feel insecure and lonely inferior. Zachias's accusers made him

  667. feel bitter and resentful. He's pretty mad at society, but

  668. Zakius's sins made him feel guilty and ashamed. So Jesus

  669. does the most shocking thing of all. He invites himself

  670. to Zachius's home. He doesn't wait for an invitation, he

  671. takes the initiative and invites himself to the worst guy's

  672. home in the city of Jericho Luke nineteen. Jesus looked

  673. up and Zakia has called him by names. Had Zachias

  674. come down quickly for I'm going to be a guest

  675. in your home today? Do you think that was a shocker? Now?

  676. Jesus knows that Zachius would be filled with guilt and

  677. shame and would never think himself worthy enough to have

  678. Jesus in his Homechs wouldn't even consider inviting Jesus to

  679. come to his house, and goes, man, I'm a sinner,

  680. I'm no good man. I'm a cheat. I'm not worthy

  681. of having a relationship with Jesus. I'm not good enough

  682. to have a relationship with Jesus. I've done too many

  683. bad things. I don't deserve to have him in my home.

  684. So Jesus takes the initiative, and he looks up and

  685. he says, Zach, Keus, come on down. How long do

  686. you think it took him to get out of that tree.

  687. I think he probably did it in record time. I

  688. think he slid down the tree. I think you're saying,

  689. I don't care if I get splinters in my butt.

  690. I'm hitting the ground as fast as I can because

  691. I'm been invited. I've been invited by Jesus to take

  692. him to my house. Blew his mind. Now, the fact is,

  693. you're ashamed of a lot of things you've done in

  694. your life. How do I know that? Because you're a

  695. human being. We've all done things that we're ashamed of.

  696. I've done things that I'm ashamed of. The Bible says

  697. all have sinned and fallen short. He's not the only

  698. short guy. We've all fallen short. I fall short as

  699. a parent, I fall short as a husband, I fall

  700. short as a pastor. I fall short as a person.

  701. I don't measure up to my standards, much less God's

  702. perfect standards. And neither do you. You don't keep all

  703. your promises, you don't measure up to all your standards.

  704. You fall short. Why because all have sinned, everybody. I

  705. had a pastor friend who's teaching on that verse. One time.

  706. He says, thank God, he forgives all our falling shorts,

  707. and yes, if your shorts fall, he forgives those two.

  708. You've done a lot of things you're ashamed of. You've

  709. had plenty of time to hurt people with your own

  710. personal brand of selfishness. And we all have our own

  711. personal brand of selfishness. You hurt people in your selfish way,

  712. and I hurt people in my selfish way, and everybody

  713. has their own personal brand. But it's all the same.

  714. But you know what, Jesus is more interested in changing

  715. you than condemning you. He said, I didn't come to

  716. condemn the world. I came to save it. Says that

  717. in John three, if you want to be like Jesus Christ,

  718. then don't go out condemning the world. Jesus said, I

  719. didn't come to condemn the world. I came to save it.

  720. And I decided about thirty years ago I wanted to

  721. have a ministry like Jesus. I didn't come to condemn

  722. the world. I came to save it, Which means I

  723. don't spend any of my time condemning culture. Why because

  724. Jesus didn't. He said, I didn't come to condemn the world.

  725. I came to save it. You see, most Christians spend

  726. all their time either condemning the world saying how badly

  727. society sucks, and then be looking for a political salution

  728. to figure out how to get rid of the suckiness.

  729. Neither of those work. Spending all your time condemning society

  730. won't change it and looking for a political answer to

  731. solve the solve problems society won't change it either. God

  732. so loved the world, he didn't send a politician. Okay,

  733. why because you can't change people's hearts by laws. No

  734. law will turn a bigot into somebody who loves all

  735. the races. Only Jesus can get rid of racism in

  736. your heart. Only Jesus can get rid of selfishness in

  737. your heart. No law is going to turn people who

  738. are selfish and unselfish people. Jesus said, I didn't come

  739. to condemn the world. I came to save it. And

  740. so no matter what I've done, Jesus wants me, and

  741. he wants you to know him, and he wants you

  742. to love him because he loves you, and he wants

  743. you to know how much you love him. You remember

  744. the story of the prodigal son, the kid who tells

  745. his father, Dad, give me my half of the inheritance,

  746. and he splits and he goes to the sunside strip

  747. in Jerusalem, and he spends all of his money on wine,

  748. women and song, mostly women, and he ends up feeding

  749. pigs and a pig sty and finally realizes this doesn't work,

  750. so he goes home to his dad with a humble

  751. attitude and smelling of the pig sty. The father runs

  752. out to greet his younger son and he grabs him

  753. in a big bear hug, says, my son has come home.

  754. Let's have a party. He doesn't say to his son.

  755. A son go in get a bath, get shaved, put

  756. on some clean clothes, get rid of that stinking pig smell,

  757. and then I'll give you a bear hug. No, he says,

  758. I love you just the way you are. Jesus loves

  759. you just the way you are, but he loves you

  760. too much to let you stay that way, so he's

  761. going to help you change. Many of you are. Remember

  762. a story I told years ago when I went and

  763. visited a prison where we had to celebrate recovery church

  764. purpose driven Celebrate Recovery church up in a maximum security

  765. prison in northern California called Sierra Prison, six thousand maximum

  766. security prisoners, and they had invited me to come speak

  767. on the prison yard and it was about the size

  768. of a football field, about six thousand prisoners. I mean,

  769. that was everywhere. And I got out to speak, and

  770. I wanted to get everybody's attention. So I pulled a

  771. fifty dollars bill out of my wallet and I held

  772. it up and I said, is there anybody here who'd

  773. liked this fifty dollars bill? Six thousand hands went up.

  774. I crumpled it all up in my hand, and I said,

  775. anybody still want this fifty dollars bill. Six thousand hands

  776. went up. I took that fifty dollars bill and I

  777. tore it and I put little pears all through it.

  778. I said, anybody still want it? Every hand went up.

  779. I took that fifty dollars bill and I threw it

  780. in the dirt and I spit on it, and I

  781. took my foot and I crushed it into the ground

  782. and I held it up and I said, anybody still

  783. want it? Every hand went up. And then I said, this, guys,

  784. a lot of you, this is what your daddy did

  785. to you. Your daddy said you're worthless, your crud, your crap,

  786. you're nothing. You're never going to mount to anything. You're

  787. going to end up in prison or die. And then

  788. your dad walked out on you, and you were left

  789. to be raised by your mom. And you've been hit

  790. on and spit on and crushed into the ground, but

  791. you have not lost one cent of your original value.

  792. To God, I don't really care what you've done. I

  793. don't care who you've done it with or how long

  794. you've done it. What the matters is not where you've been,

  795. but what direction your feet are headed today. And Jesus

  796. says no matter what you've done, Zachias, I want you.

  797. I want to party with you. I want to have

  798. a relationship with you. I want to go to your

  799. house and have dinner. I want a relationship with you.

  800. And God says that to you. That's how much you

  801. matter to God. Yes you've blown it, Yes you have.

  802. And the starting point of salvation is when you swallow

  803. your pride and admit I need help. I need a savior.

  804. I need God in my life. God doesn't save prideful people,

  805. he says, humble, not arrogant people, people who say I

  806. need your help. I've made mistakes. I've blown it. I've

  807. done wrong, I've sinned, and I need to try and

  808. go your way. And you've made a lot of mistakes

  809. in your life, but you have not lost one cent

  810. of your value to the creator who made you. And

  811. Jesus wants a relationship with you. He wants to come

  812. to your house and have dinner. In fact, here's what

  813. he says the next verse. I stand at the door,

  814. the door of your life. I stand at the door,

  815. and I knock, and if you hear my voice and

  816. open the door, I will come in and eat with you,

  817. and you with me. There's one other great truth number four.

  818. No matter what others say about me, Jesus affirms me.

  819. No matter what others say, Jesus affirms me. They may

  820. call me this name or that, they may criticize this,

  821. or that, they may misjudge this or that, But what

  822. matters is that Jesus affirms me. Now, when Jesus goes

  823. and he pays attention to the biggest sinner in town,

  824. the most hated man that everybody despises, and he says,

  825. I want to go to your house. I want a

  826. relationship with you. Jesus did the unthinkable, and the reaction

  827. is swift, and it is immediate. The cat crowd goes nuts.

  828. And in verse seven, all the people saw this, this

  829. interaction between Jesus and Zachias, and they began to complain.

  830. Jesus is having dinner with a sinner. Jesus is staying

  831. with a sinner. And what's his reaction to that? What

  832. does he do? He defends this guy in the front.

  833. He defends this guy to the religious, selfrighteous people. Next

  834. verse Jesus says, this man is a true son of Abraham.

  835. Does that mean he hadn't said no? He just said

  836. he's one of us. He's going to be in my family.

  837. And if you hear my voice, he says, and I,

  838. the Son of Man, have come to seek and to

  839. save people like him who were lost. He affirms him,

  840. he defends him, he protects him. Jesus always did that

  841. in the face of criticism from religious people. Now you

  842. may have been coming to sattle Back for weeks or

  843. months or men, maybe even years, and you've never really

  844. opened your life to Christ. You know about him, but

  845. you've never said yes. Today's your day. Because think about this,

  846. knowing the fact that Jesus sees everything in my life

  847. that he made me. He notices me, he knows my name,

  848. he cares about me, and no matter what I've done,

  849. he wants me, and he wants a relationship with me.

  850. How should I respond to Jesus the same way Zachias did?

  851. Look at the next verse, verse six, So, Zach, he

  852. has came down at once. He didn't wait, he didn't delay,

  853. didn't put it off. So let me get every week

  854. to think about it. He came down at once and

  855. received him with joy? Have you received Jesus with joy?

  856. I love the message? Translation says zach He has scrambled

  857. out of the tree. He opened his heart and his

  858. life immediately to follow me. On this the logic on

  859. this with a god who loves you this much, with

  860. a god who loved he created you, he made you,

  861. he saves you. He's engraved you on the palms of

  862. his hands. He wants a relationship with you in spite

  863. of all your rebellion. Can you name one logical, rational,

  864. intelligent reason for saying no to your creator? If you

  865. can think of any logical, rational, intelligent reason for saying

  866. no to the God who made you, loves you, saves you,

  867. wants you in a relationship. If you could think of

  868. one a good reasons, stand up and tell us right now,

  869. because I can't think of one. In fact, to reject

  870. this is stupid, It's insane. It is the most irrational

  871. thing to do, to say I reject the creator who

  872. loves me that much. It is the only sane approach

  873. to life. And notice the change in Zachias is immediate.

  874. The next verse, Zachius, after he's shown this love and grace,

  875. he says to the Lord Lord, I'll give half of

  876. my possessions to the poor. And if I've cheated anybody

  877. I'll give back four times as much. Now I want

  878. you to circle the phrase i'll give. He says it twice,

  879. I'll give, and I'll give now the moment Zachiah says

  880. that he was converted, he was saved the moment he says,

  881. I'll give you say, how do you know? That's his conversion?

  882. Because the most selfish man in the city became the

  883. most generous man like that, and only Jesus can do that.

  884. All of a sudden, he's going, how can I help

  885. the poor? How can I help other people? How can

  886. I pay back the people I've ripped off and cheated?

  887. Only Jesus can change a totally self centered, selfish it's

  888. all about me, and I don't care who I have

  889. to put down to get a lot of money and

  890. who have to climb over in order to get to

  891. the top. Only Jesus can change that. And have a

  892. guy who's going, it's all about me too, How can

  893. I help other people? That's his conversion. How do you

  894. know when you've really met Christ, I'll tell you how

  895. you know. Attitude toward giving changes. Yep, you become generous.

  896. All of a sudden, you go, it's not about me.

  897. I want to give back. How can I help people?

  898. How can I help my neighbors? How can I help

  899. the poor? How can I help my family? How can

  900. I help the people around me? How can I help

  901. people who don't know about Jesus? All of a sudden,

  902. you become generous, You become like Christ. He because a

  903. public demonstration of his change. Jesus asked us to make

  904. a public demonstration of our change. You know what it's

  905. called today, baptism. Baptism says I want the whole world

  906. to know that I'm changing on the inside, that He's

  907. changing me, that I want to be a different person.

  908. I want Christ in my life. If you've never been baptized,

  909. I can't think of a better time than Easter season.

  910. And we're going to today after the service baptize and

  911. in all of our different campuses. If you can't be

  912. baptized at a pull out a card and say I

  913. want to be baptized, and we'll make an appointment because

  914. you need to do this during the Easter season. Now.

  915. I don't know what you're going through, Lisette. You may

  916. feel like you're out on a limb relationally or financially

  917. or physically. You may feel like you're up a tree

  918. and I invite you to jump out of a tree

  919. and into the loving arms of the Savior who made you.

  920. That's power. Heads, But you pray this prayer, Dear God,

  921. to say it in your mind, Dear God, Man, I

  922. have tried to find my worth on all the false ways.

  923. I've judged my value on how I look, my appearance,

  924. and on what I own my affluence. And I've tried

  925. to support my value on what I've done, my achievement

  926. and it makes me overwork, and on how well I'm liked.

  927. And I've really, in many ways lived for the approval

  928. of other people. Thank you for this story of Zacchias.

  929. Thank you that no matter how small and insignificant I feel, Jesus,

  930. you notice me everything in my life. Thank you. No

  931. matter who ignores me, you know my name, and you

  932. have engraved me on the palms of your hand. You've

  933. got my picture in your wallet. Wow. Thank you Jesus.

  934. No matter what I've done, you want me. You want

  935. to come to my house. You want a relationship, not

  936. a religion, a relationship with me. And thank you that

  937. no matter what other people say about me, you affirm me.

  938. When people complain about me. You say this is my child.

  939. Write Today, I do the most logical, rational thing. I

  940. surrender to your love. I invite you into my heart

  941. and my life and my mind. I want to learn

  942. to trust you. Please start making the changes in me.

  943. Thank you for not being ashamed of me. I don't

  944. want to be ashamed of you. If I need to

  945. be baptized, I want to be baptized to show my

  946. joy in your name. I pray Amen,