Sermon
Rick Warren - Set Free From Me - The Invisible War Pt.3
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Good morning, Saddleback. My favorite time of the year, the summertime.
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You guys all look pan, rested, ready for whatever. Take
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out your message notes. This summer we're doing two major
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series back to back. One of them is a case
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doing a series on Choose Joy. And this week on Tuesday,
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we literally had thousands of women involved in that in
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the morning and the evening. And how many of you
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were there at look at that. That's great and we
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had a great, great study and actually a couple thousand
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women watched online. Now, guys, you may say, well I
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need joy too, Well, I'll tell you here's how you
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can cheat and get into the women's study. Watch it online.
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That's what I did. I watched Kay teach on Choose
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Joy last Tuesday, and I was sitting there taking notes, going, man,
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I wish I had said that. And now now you
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understand my secret weapon where I get all my good
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material is actually or my wife. So ladies, you can
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join on Tuesdays Tuesday morning or Tuesday evening with thousands
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of other women here at Saddleback and study Choose Joy.
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And then on the weekend I'm doing a major series
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on the Invisible War. And what I told you in
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the first two sessions, is that the Bible teaches that
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you have three enemies that are trying to mess up
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your life. They want to defeat your family, They want
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to defeat your life, They want to steal your soul.
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They want to keep you from having joy and purpose
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and meaning here in life. And these three enemies come
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against you as kind of triple team and you know
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tag team wrestling or you know double team take down
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things like that. And the Bible calls these three enemies
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that you have the world, the flesh, and the devil.
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The world comes around you, Satan comes against you, and
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the battle with you is within you. And this summer
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we're going to go in detail into each of these
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three enemies, because if you don't know who the enemy is,
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you can never win the battle, and you're going to
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go through life defeated. Most of your life. Now we're
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beginning with your biggest enemy. And your biggest enemy is
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not Satan, it's not the world, it's you. You are
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your biggest problem. And as I said last week, I said,
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you know, when you want to run away from your problems,
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you want to go to Cancun. The problem is you
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take you with you, and all of that internal stuff
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is inside you. Now. What we looked at last week
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as we began studying the battle inside you, is that
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you really do have two natures. If you are a believer,
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you have your old nature. What's once to do, what's fun,
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what's once to do, what's convenient, not necessarily the right thing,
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the best thing, or even what's good for you. A
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lot of things you want to do are actually self
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destructive to you. And you know for a certain fact
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that there are things you know you would be good
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for you, be healthy for you, and you don't do them.
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I know that there are things that are bad for you,
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that are unhealthy for you, that mess up your life,
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and you still do them anyway. And last week we
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looked at this great Testimony of Romans, chapter seven, where
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Paul says, you know what, I can't figure myself out.
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All my best intentions aren't good enough. He says, I
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want to do the right thing, but I don't. And
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I don't want to do the wrong thing, but I do.
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And that is the story of you, and it is
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the story of me. You know far more than you're
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actually doing. If you were actually able to practice all
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the good things you know to do, you'd be a
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lot more successful in life. But it's not just knowing it,
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it's getting yourself to do it. And there's this battle
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because we have a natural resistance inside of us that
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wants to do what's easy, what's convenient, what's quick, rather
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than what's right and what's best. In fact, our entire
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nation is in a financial crisis because of this tendency
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of human nature to have an inability to delay gratification.
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We want it, and we want it now, whether we
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can afford it or not. So we go out and
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we charge it even though we can't ford it. And
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the government's been doing that for years, and now we
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have a financial crisis that teeters on the brink of
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collapse because all because the ability of buying things we
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don't need with money we don't have to impress people
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we don't like, and thinking we can have it all.
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Let me just tell you right now, you can't have
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it all. That is a myth that advertisers will tell
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you can't have it all. Life is about choices. You
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have to make choices in life and go, Okay, what's
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the best for me, what's right for me? What does
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God want for me, and so best intentions are not
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good enough. And the truth is the battle for you
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inside you. Much of your unhappiness, in fact, I would
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say it this way, most of your unhappiness in life,
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Most of your unhappiness in life is because you listen
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to you instead of God. And when you do that,
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you tell your self stuff all the time that isn't true.
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Just because you have a thought doesn't mean it's accurate,
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doesn't mean it's true, doesn't mean it's correct. A lot
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of things you think of are not right, they're not correct.
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A lot of things I think of aren't right, aren't correct.
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In fact, a lot of things I think are actually
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lying to myself. Rationalizing where we tell rational lies to ourself. Now,
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what I want us to do this weekend is look
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at how to overcome the six weapons of self destruction.
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Now you've heard of the weapons of mass destruction, but
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I want to talk to you about what the Bible
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teaches about the weapons of self destruction. There are things
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that you do to yourself all the time that dammage you,
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that hurts you, that cause you to self destruct, that
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cause you enormous stress, enormous pain, enormous unhappiness and unneeded
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pressure in your life. And then I'm going to show
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you from God's word in Romans chapter eight, how the
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Bible tells us that the spirit of God living within
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you can give you the antidote to every one of
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these weapons. Now, before we even get into the text,
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I want you to write these seven things down. It's
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not on your outline, so you're just gonna have to
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write it somewhere, scribble it over on the side. These
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are the seven weapons of self destruction. You can talk
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to any psychologist and they'll tell you that these are
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the seven things that mess up people's lives more than
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anything else. And we're going to look at the cure
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for these weapons of self destruction. The first weapon of
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self destruction is shame. Shame. You cannot be happy and
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feel ashamed at the same time. When you feel ashamed,
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when you feel guilty, when you feel regrets, that just
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robs all your happiness. God doesn't want you to walk
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around feeling guilty. God doesn't want you walking around feeling exhamed.
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God doesn't want you walking around with regrets. In fact,
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that's why I send Jesus on the cross to die
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for all of your sins, but shame is the first
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number one destroyer of happiness. The second weapon of self
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destruction is uncontrolled thoughts. If you don't learn how to
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control your thoughts, your thoughts will ruin your life because
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you say to stuff to yourself that causes unhappiness, causes grief,
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causes pressure. You must learn how to control your thoughts.
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The third weapon of self destruction is compulsions. Compulsions are
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those inner drives, inner desires. You can call them less
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you can call them habits, you can call them impulses,
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but they are those things in your life you feel like,
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I felt like I just had to do it, even
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though you knew it was wrong. I just had to
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do it. And those compulsions. You got to learn how
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to deal with those and how to fight that weapon
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of self destruction, because if you do things by your compulsions,
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you'll mess up your life. The fourth weapon of self
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destruction is fear, and fear is an enormous destroyer of happiness,
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of potential, of God's purpose for your life. It will
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limit your life. You got to learn how to master
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your fears. The fifth weapon of self destruction is hopelessness.
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Hopelessness keeps you from keeping on. When you start to
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feel hopeless about anything, you get discouraged and want to
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give up. If you feel hopeless about your marriage, if
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you feel hopeless about ever getting married, if you feel
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hopeless about your finances, or you feel hopeless about your health.
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Hopelessness is a self destructive weapon that you use on you,
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and when you turn it inward, it robs you of
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God's plan for your life. Number six. Bitterness is a
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huge weapon of self destruction because life is unfair and
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we don't all get the same thing, and life is
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broken and we're stuck, and some people get better than you,
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and you get jealous and you get envious, and some
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people hurt you. You can either get better or bitter,
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And bitterness is a cancer that will eat you alive
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and will It's a poison that will eat you on
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the inside. You never hurt other people with your bitterness
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like you hurt yourself. You always hurt you the most.
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It is a self destructive emotion. There is no value
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to bitterness in your life. There's no value to holding
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onto a grudge. All it does is make you miserable.
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And the seventh weapon of self destruction is insecurity. You
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gotta deal with this one because if you don't learn
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how to deal with insecurity in your life, it's going
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to cause you to do foolish things. When you're insecure
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and you're trying to show everybody else as you're very confident,
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you'll say stupid things, you'll do stupid things, you'll pose
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And the only people impressed by posers are other posers. Okay,
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everybody sees through it. The only people are impressed by
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fakes are other fakes. So you know, when you're insecure,
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you can't hide it. You have to deal with it. Now.
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The classic passage on dealing with these weapons of self
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destruction is Roman seven and Romans eight. If you miss
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the last two weeks, you need to run, not walk,
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out to the patio and buy the CDs from the
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last two weeks so you'll be caught up, or you
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need to watch them online on MP three's or on video.
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But Roman seven explains what these seven things do in
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your life, and Romans eight gives us the answer. Now.
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At the end of Romans seven, Paul says, this look
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up here on the screen. He's outlined the battle going
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on inside himself, and he says What a miserable person
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I am? Hecaes, I'm miserable. You know, as I said,
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all those things I want to do that I know
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are good, I end up not doing, and all those
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things that I don't want to do, I end up doing,
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and I'm really messing up my life. What a miserable
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person I am. I've tried everything and nothing helps. I mean,
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I've watched Oprah, I've been to Tony Robbins seminar, I've read
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a Doctor phil book. You know, I've done all these
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different things. He has. None of this stuff really works
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and getting me into shape? He says, who will free
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me from this life? Dominated by saying now, he doesn't
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say what will free me? Because the answer to you,
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the problem inside you, the mess ups in your life
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that you'd like to change. The answer is not a pill.
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It's not a program, it's not a book, it's not
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a it's not a seminar, it's not hypnosis. The answer
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is a person. It is Jesus Christ and his spirit
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inside you. And Romans eight is the answer to Romans seven,
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that the spirit of God inside you gives you the
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antidote to all seven of these negative emotions. Now what
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I want us to look at this weekend is how
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can I be free from me? How can I be
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set free from me? And the way we're gonna look
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at this is the truths of Romans eight. I have
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put them in a practical way of listing seven mental
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habits that you need to do that will help you
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apply the truth of Romans chapter eight. And so we're
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gonna look at these seven mental habits that explain the
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great truths of Romans eight. Romans eight is the greatest
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chapter in the Bible. In my opinion, it's the greatest chapter.
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They once stood to study of of Bible scholars and said,
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if you could only have one chapter of the Bible
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and on a desert island, which one would you take?
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And about ninety percent of them said I'd take Romans eight.
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So this is a very strong passage. You need to
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take a lot of notes today. Number one. The first
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step in being set free from me is this, I
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must remind myself daily what Jesus did for me. That's
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the starting point. I got to remind myself every day
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of what Jesus did for me. What is salvation? What
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are the benefits of it? You see, we have a
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lot of people who saved you don't act like it.
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They run around all the time filled with shame and
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uncontrolled thoughts and compulsions and fear and bitterness and insecurity.
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And they're believers, but they're not set free from me.
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And the first step is you've got to remind yourself
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what Jesus actually did for you. And this is how
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the Holy Spirit sets me free from shame. Let's look
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at these verses Romans eight one to four. First, he says,
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so now there is no condemnation for those who belong
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to Jesus Christ. And let me stop there before we
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go any further. No condemnation means God doesn't judge you
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for all the things you've done wrong, if you've trusted Christ,
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because Jesus took all that judgment on the cross. He
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doesn't have to judge you. Because Jesus was judged. He
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doesn't have to condemn you. Because Jesus took your condemnation,
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He took your wrap, he paid your penalty, he did
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your time for you. Now, the Bible says that if
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I'm a believer, I belong to Christ. Look at that verse.
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There is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ
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Jesus circle the phrase belong to Christ Jesus. This old
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passage is talking about people who've given their life to Jesus.
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This doesn't apply to you if you haven't made that
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decision yet. But if you've received Christ into your life,
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the Bible says you're under no condemnation. I means God
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doesn't get mad at you when you sin. Did you
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hear that God does not get mad at you when
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you sin if you belong to Jesus Christ, because he's
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already taken the payment. Now, notice it doesn't say that
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after I become a Christian, I won't sin, You're still
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gonna sin. It doesn't say I'm not gonna make mistakes.
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You're still gonna make mistakes. It doesn't say I'm not
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gonna fail and look stupid. You're gonna fail and look stupid.
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It just says you're under no condemnation. In other words,
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you don't have to walk around with shame. You don't
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have to walk around with guilt, because when Jesus Christ
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died on the cross, he not only paid for all
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of the sins you committed last week, last year, and
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your entire life he committed. He's already paid for the
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sins that you're gonna commit tomorrow, next week, and the
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rest of your life. They're already paid for. That's good news.
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That is good news. No condemnation means there is no
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reason for a Christian to walk around in shame because
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I stop and I remind myself Jesus paid for all
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of my sins. He already knew before I was born,
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every sin I was going to do, and he paid
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for it. Now, the next part of that verse says,
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for the power of the life giving spirit, that's the
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Holy Spirit. God's Spirit has freed you through Christ Jesus
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from the power of sin that leads to death. And
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what does that verse means? The second thing I remember
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is that because I'm a believer and I have Jesus,
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I have a new power in my life, greater than willpower.
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You see, before you became a Christian, the only thing
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you had to use against your bad habits was sheer willpower.
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And how long does that work? Now? Very long, he says,
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Now there's a new power in you. Unfortunately, a lot
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of Christians are still simply relying on willpower to change.
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They've never figured out how to connect into spiritual power,
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into the power of the Holy Spirit, into the power
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of Jesus inside you. He says, there's a new power
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in you. There's a new sheriff in town. And when
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you want to change things in your life, it's not
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just if it's to be, it's up to me. It's
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not just my own willpower. It is God's power in me.
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I have been given a power greater than willpower. We're
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going to look at this more in the next versus.
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Then the next thing. It says, the law of Moses
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could not save us because of our sinful nature. Now laws,
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keeping God's laws cannot save you. Guy says, well, I
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know I'm going to heaven. You say, how do you know?
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It's because I keep the Ten Commandments. I say, name them.
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You don't not only not keep the ten commandments. You
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couldn't even name all of them. If I ask you
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to stand up right now, you couldn't even How can
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you keep them if you don't even know them all?
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By the way, keeping laws never works, why, it says,
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because of our sinful nature. Laws simply work on outside behavior.
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They don't work on inside change. They don't change you
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on the inside. For instance, if I were to bring
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a pig out here, a big sow that had been
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rolling around in the mud and the dirt and eating garbage,
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and it stinks to high heaven, and say what is this?
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You'd say, it's a pig. Now, I take that pig
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backstage and I run it through a couple of car washes,
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and then I put it in a bathtub, and I
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have bath salts and perfumed soap SuDS, and I get
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it all cleaned up, and I brushed the you know,
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their teeth, the pig's teeth. And then I sprinkle some
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food food juice on it, you know, some corral number five,
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you know that would be appropriate for a pig. Okay,
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And I rub it down with oil of olet so
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its skin is just silky, silk soft. And then I
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tie a ribbon around its neck, and I put a
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bonnet on it. And I put some eyeshadow and fake
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eyelashes on this pig. And I put a dress on it.
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And then I put some lipstick on this pig. And
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I bring this pig out and I say, now, what
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is it? Still a pig? Okay? You may have spiffed
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up the outside, but the nature has remained unchanged. And
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this is what happens with self help programs is that
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we spiff up the outside and we my sheer will
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powers say I'm gonna take a bath, I'm gonna get
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on some new clothes, I'm gonna change my behavior, and
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all the outside looks different, but inside it's still the
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same nature. If you're gonna have radical change, transforming change
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in your life, it's got to change your nature, and
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only God can do that. No self help program can
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change your heart, which, by the way, is why I'm
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not a politician. I have zero faith in politics or
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laws to change human behavior. Why because it's just fixing
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the outside. You can pass a law that says nobody
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will be a bigot or a racist. Is that going
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to change anybody's heart. No, Only Jesus can change that heart.
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And I have seen people come to Christ and they
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change from a racist into a compassionate person, and from
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a bigot into a loving person. Only Jesus can change that.
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If I thought you could change human behavior by laws,
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I'd be a politician, but there's no track record that
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it actually changes people. Only God can change the inside, which,
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by the way, is why we don't spend so much
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time promoting all political laws. You know, there are some
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Christians who think they're going to make the world a
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better place just by creating a law. Will people just
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break it? I mean they want a law against this
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and a law against this sin, and the law against
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this sin, and the law against this sin and the
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law against this sin. And they think that's going to
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change people. No, people just going to break the law.
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You do. God has given all kinds of laws in
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his word, and you don't obey those, and you break
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them all the time. See. One of the things we
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know here at Saddleback is you don't expect somebody to
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act like a believer until he is one, because he
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doesn't have the power to change. He doesn't have the
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ability to change. So passing a law that says everybody
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is going to be moral or everybody's going to do this,
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that doesn't change. That's fit, that's cleaning up the pig.
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It doesn't change our nature. God put into effect notice here,
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so God knew that laws couldn't save us. But God
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put into effect a different plan to save us. He
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sent his own son in a human body like ours,
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except that ours are sinful. God destroyed sins control over
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us by giving his son as a sacrifice for our sins.
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In other words, he gave us the power to make
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those changes, to forgive us and the changes. And then
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it said he did this, Jesus died on the cross
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so that the requirement of the law would be fully
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accomplished for us. Circle the phrase for us. What is
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he saying there? That Jesus not only paid for all
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your sins, he did all the right things for you,
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those of us who no longer follow our sinful nature
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but instead follow the spirit. Now, if you really are
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serious about changing your life for the better, you got
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to start where God tells you to start. And God
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says you don't start with your behavior, your actions, and
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you don't start with your feelings your emotions. You start
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with your mind. The battle for you to be set
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free from me starts in changing your mind. Be renewed,
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be transformed by the renewing of your mind. The Bible
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teaches very clearly that the way we act is determined
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by the way we feel, and the way we feel
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is determined by the way we think. For instance, if
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I'm acting depressed, it's because I feel depressed. And if
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I'm feeling depressed. It's because I'm thinking depressed thoughts. And
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if I want to get over my depression, I don't
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force myself to change my behavior. That doesn't work. And
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I don't force myself to change my feelings. You can't
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change a feeling. You cannot force a feeling. A guy says,
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you know, I don't love my wife anymore. So I said, well, okay,
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what are you going to do about it? Well, I'm
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just going to force myself to feel that I love her.
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How will that work? It doesn't work. You can't force
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a feeling. It's like telling the crying kid, Now I
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command you to be happy. I try it, daddy, you
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try it. You cannot force a feeling. In fact, when
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you try to force a feeling, everybody knows you're faking it.
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You can't force a feeling. You can't fight that feeling anymore.
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If you laughed at that, you're really old. Okay, you
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are really really old. Okay. Now, what you do is
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you change the way you think. And if you change
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the way you think, that's going to change the way
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you feel and it will change the way you act.
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So if you do, you know, I don't have any
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feelings for my wife anymore. You can act your way
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into a feeling, and you can think your way into feeling,
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but you can't feel your way into feeling. If you
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start acting loving towards your wife and you start thinking
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loving thoughts toward you, right, I'm gonna tell you what,
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the feelings will come back. They will return. You act
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your way into a feeling and you think your way
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into feeling, but you don't feel your way into feeling. Now,
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the good thing about this is that now that you're
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a Christian, you have the Holy Spirit inside of you,
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and so you can ask him to help you put
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good thoughts in your mind. So now you're not just
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on your own. You're not just out here trying to
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think up stuff by yourself. And what would be a
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good thing for me to think about? You can say,
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Holy Spirit, put good thoughts in my mind. That's the
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second thing we learned from Romans eight. Write this down
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number two. The second mental habit to defeat the weapons
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of self destruction is I ask the Holy Spirit to
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give me better thoughts. I ask the Holy Spirit to
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give me better thoughts. And if you ask him to
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give you better thoughts, do you think he will? Of course,
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he will. Of course, he's going to give you better thoughts.
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That's a prayer he's going to answer. I ask the
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Holy Spirit to give me better thoughts. This is the
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second key to permanent change your life. Now, this is
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what it says in the next two verses, Verses five
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and six of Romans eight. Those who live according to
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the sinful nature have their mindset on what the nature
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that nature desires. But those who live in accordance with
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the Spirit have their mindset on what the Spirit desires. Now,
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there's two kinds of mindsets circle the mindsets. There's the
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mindset of your old nature, and there's the mindset of
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the Holy Spirit. There's the mindset of the way I
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normally think about my life, and there's the mindset of
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how the Spirit sees my life. Which one's gonna be
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true the one that the Spirit says. So I have
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to choose between these mindsets. Am I gonna set my
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mind on the way I normally think about my life?
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Am I gonna set my mind on the way God
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thinks about my life? Now there's a big difference in
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choosing these mindsets, because if you choose one, you're gonna
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get one response and if you choose the other, that
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you're going to get another. And the next part of
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the verse tells us what that is. The mind of
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sinful man is what that means. It's self destructive. Thoughts
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that you come up with yourself are going to tend
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to be self destructive. The mind of sinful man is death.
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But the mind controlled by the spirit is what life
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and peace. Okay, I don't normally do this, but how
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many of you would like to have life and peace
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this summer? Yeah, me too, I would like to have
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life and peace of summer. And it's all about the
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mindset you choose. The economy may not change, it probably won't.
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Your problems probably won't change those ones that are persistent,
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but your mindset can change. And that's the difference between
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a life of self destruction or a life of life
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and peace. Now, this is the Holy Spirit's answer to
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uncontrolled thoughts. What I do is I ask the Holy
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Spirit to give me better thoughts. And this is the
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principle of replacement. I want you to write this word down, replacement.
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The principle of replacement is anytime you want to change
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something in your life and you're serious about changing it,
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you don't resist it, you replace it. When you got
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something negative in your life, you don't resist it, you
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replace it. You say, I want to stop smoking, you
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don't smoke. I don't want to stop smoking. I want
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to stop smoking. I want to stop smoking. It's like
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the frog and towd together, that story we read last week.
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I don't want to eat a cookie and I just
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ate one. I don't want to eat a cookie and
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I just ate one. I don't want to eat a cooking. No,
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because the whole time you're focusing on what you don't
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want and whatever if you focus on, gets your attention.
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Whatever gets your attention gets you. That's why, if you
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want to break any bad habit in your life, the
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key is not to resist it, but to refocus. Whatever
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you resist persists because you keep focusing on it. Now.
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It's it's like if I'm flipping TV channels and all
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of a sudden there's something on TV that I don't
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really want to watch or I shouldn't watch. I don't
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sit there and go I don't want to watch it.
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I don't want to watch it. I don't want to
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watch I just flip the channel, I replace it, and
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the moment I replace it. It's gone. It has no
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grip on me anymore. So. I mean, if you're standing
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in an airport bookstore and they've got all these girly magazines,
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and you're standing in front of you saying, I don't
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want to look at them. I don't want to look
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at them. Up, what do you do? Well, you don't
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stand there. You walk away, Okay, you slam the door
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if you want, don't want to get stung by the bees.
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You just get away from them and you replace it
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with something else. Now, let's say I had a big, fat,
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juicy doughnut sitting right here, Okay, I mean, and it's
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hot and the glaze is just kind of dripping off
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the side. Now I'm on the Daniel Plan, okay. And
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as I told you last week, our church has lost
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over two hundred thousand pounds together, which is amazing. And
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it's not too late to join us. We still got
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half a year more. It's a one year program, and
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you could go to Danielplan dot com and join up
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and get your numbers and get all the doctor's help
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and stuff like that. Now, if it's sitting here, I
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don't go. I don't want that donut. I really really,
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I'm just smelling it. Oh baby, old baby, that yeasty smell.
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Oh wow, No, what do I do? I just look
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over it down to you guys, And the moment I
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see you guys, I've lost. It's lost its grip on
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me because my tension has changed. Now. As long as
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I resist the donut, it hadn't work. But the moment
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I refocus on something else, I don't even think about
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it anymore. Does that make sense? Okay? So I ask
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the Holy Spirit to give me better thoughts to replace
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the negative ones in my mind. Now, you choose what
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you dwell on. Satan gives you ideas. As are called temptations.
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Holy Spirit gives you ideas. Those are called inspiration. You
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get ideas. But the truth is you choose what you
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focus on. But now now that you're a believer, you
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have a helper and you can say, Holy Spirit, I
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invite you to give me your ideas. And a lot
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of times the Holy Spirit, the God's Spirit will say
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to me, hey, Rick, why don't you think about this instead?
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Good idea and I just change my thoughts. Now I
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would encourage you to invite the Holy Spirit to have
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free access to your mind. You say, God, you have
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put your spirit in side of me. I give you
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free access to my mind twenty four hours a day.
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I invite you to suggest good thoughts. Why Because they'll
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always be the truth, They'll always be right, they'll always
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be helpful, they'll always be pure. Those are the things
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we are to think on. So you invite the Holy
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Spirit to put thoughts in your mind? Why? Because those
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who live according to sinful nature have their mindset on
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one thing, but those who live according to the Spirit
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have their mindset on another. And the mindset that I
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normally have leads to self destruction, and the mindset that
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God's Spirit gives me leads to peace. And I want
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peace in my life. So, and that's why I said,
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you know earlier, we don't expect unbelievers to act like
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believers until they are. They don't have the power. Look
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at the next verse. The sinful mind is hostile to God.
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It does not submit to God's law, nor can it
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do so. It can't even do it. Those controlled by
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sinful nature cannot please God. So why do you work
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on passing the law when they don't have the ability
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to change it? To change Only God can change it.
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Change comes from the inside out. Third principle, Third mental
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habit You're going to need to develop to apply the
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truths of Roman's aid in your life, and that is this,
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I realize I have a new ability to say no.
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I need to remind myself. I need to remember on
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a daily basis. I need to realize that now that
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I'm a believer, I have a new ability to say
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no to the things that are self destructive in my life.
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Now this is very important because before you became a believer,
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all you had was will power, and you lost most
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of those bad habits because lost to most of them
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because you don't willpower wears out. It's not enough. But now,
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with the Spirit in your life, you have a new
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ability to say no, a new power, and you need
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to learn how to tap into that power. I don't
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know about you, but I could admit pretty honestly that
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before I had the Holy Spirit in my life, there
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were some things I just couldn't say no to. I
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didn't have the ability to say no to them. And
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you can call them compulsions, you can call them habits.
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You can call them urges, you can call them lusts,
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you can call them impulses. You can call them your
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old nature. But the truth is there were some things
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in my life I just couldn't say no to. I
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had no ability to say no because I didn't have.
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All I had was willpower. Now now I have God's power,
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and he gives me the ability to say no. Look
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at this verse up here on the screen. Galatians five
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point sixteen says this, let the Spirit direct your lives,
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and you will not satisfy the desires of the old
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human nature. Now, if I let the Spirit live through me,
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does it say I won't have those desires? Is that
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what it said? No, it says I won't what I
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won't satisfy those desires? I won't satisfy those desires. In
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other words, do I still have the same desires I
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had before as a Christian? Yes? Do I still have
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the same temptations? Yes? Do I still have the same
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urges and compulsions? Yes? Do I fulfill them? No? Why?
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Because I have a new power inside of me, and
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it's not just will power anymore. Now I've heard people say,
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but why should I limit any desire in my life
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that seems natural? Why should I rein it in if
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it seems if it's a natural desire. Friends, Not everything
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natural is good for you. I mean, I might naturally
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want to punch you in the nose. That doesn't mean
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I should do it. I have a lot of natural
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desires that I need to not fulfill. For instance, sometimes
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I have a natural desire to cuss people out on
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the freeway. Does it mean I should just do it? No.
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Just because it's natural doesn't mean it's good. Arsenic is natural,
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but you drink it and it'll kill you. A lot
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of natural things are poison. So just because it says
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natural doesn't mean it's good. There are things in my
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old nature that are very natural for me to do,
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but they're self destructive. I mean, people say, well, if
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I feel this way, why shouldn't I give into it?
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Because that's called maturity. Maturity is when you do the
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right thing, not what you feel like doing, because what
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you feel like doing isn't always the best for you,
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the best for somebody else, God's will or whatever. If
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everybody just did what they naturally feel like doing, nobody
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go to work tomorrow morning. Nobody would go to work.
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If everybody did what they naturally feel like doing, you know,
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you know, every girl would be pregnant. Long before she
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got married. You got to realize that I have a
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new ability to say no. Now this is the good
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news of Romans chapter eight. Look at the next verse,
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verse nine. But he says, you are not controlled by
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your sinful nature. You are now controlled by the spirit
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if you have the spirit of God living in you.
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Anybody who does not have the Spirit of God living
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in them does not belong to Christ. And let me
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stop here and explain this. Some people mistakenly think that
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you get God kind of piece meal, that Jesus comes
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into your life at one point in your life, and
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then maybe a little bit later, the Holy Spirit comes
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into your life, and then maybe a little bit later,
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you get the Father into your life. No, God is
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a trinity three and one. When you got Jesus, you
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got all of God. God doesn't come into your life
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piece meal. When Jesus comes into your life, the Spirit
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comes into your life. When Jesus comes in your life,
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the Father comes into your life. When the Father comes
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into your life, the Spirit in Jesus come into your life.
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You can't separate him. You can't divide them up like
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a piece of pie. So the moment you gave your
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life to Christ, Jesus. Christ put his self in your life,
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in his spirit, the spirit of God, the spirit of
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the Father, the spirit of Jesus. It is the Holy Spirit.
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So you don't get God a little bit at a time.
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Does that make sense? Okay, God, the Holy Spirit doesn't
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come in in the later point. He comes in and
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you get all of God when you give your life
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to Christ. Now the question is does he have all
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of you and the rest of your life. You're going
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to be given more and more of your life life
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to him, and then the more you give, the more
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power you have. But he says, because I have this,
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I now have a new ability to say no. Look
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at the next verse. So, dear brothers, you have no
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obligation anymore to your old sinful nature to do what
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it begs you to do. This is how God sets
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me free from my compulsions. Before, when I have felt
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compulsed to do something, compelled to do something, I didn't
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have anything except willpower to stop myself. Now I've got
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a new power inside me, and I don't have any
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obligation anymore to listen to my old nature. Now I've
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heard people tell me, oh, I can't tell me. People
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who have had an affair, committed adultery. Who told me
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I couldn't stop myself. I couldn't help myself. I just
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had to do it. I just felt compelled to do it. Well,
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now you have a new help to stop you. And
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when somebody says I'm a Christian, but I couldn't stop myself,
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they're lying. They're lying because they si the fleet didn't
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call on the power that was there available to them,
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and they didn't rely on the Holy Spirit in that
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moment of temptation compulsions. You know you can ruin an
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entire life with one second of compulsion. Just go ask
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a bunch of the politicians had scandals this last year,
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spent decades building a reputation, and in a moment of compulsion,
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lost it all. Stupid, stupid, stupid. But I have a
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new power, a new ability to say no. Number four,
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the fourth mental habit I need to develop if I
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want to change my life is I need to turn
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my thoughts to God. Whenever I'm afraid. That's the fourth
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antidote to these weapons of self destruction. I remind myself
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every day what Jesus did for me. I asked the
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Holy Spirit to give me better thoughts. I realize I
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now have a new ability to say no. And then
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I turned my thoughts to God whenever I'm afraid. Whenever
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I'm afraid, And this is how God spirit sets me
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free from me with the attitude of fear. Romans eight.
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Look at the next verses, verses fourteen to sixteen. For
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the spirit God gives you does not make you slaves
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and cause you to be afraid. Instead, the spirit makes
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you God's children. And by the Spirit's power, we cry
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out to God Father, my father. This is actually the
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Aramaic word abba. Abba is not the group. It means daddy, papa.
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You know, it's dad dad. It's the most basic intimate
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form of father, Daddy, Daddy, my daddy. We cry out
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to God Daddy, my daddy, Papa, my papa. Ahba my Abba.
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God's spirit joins himself to our spirits to declare that
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we are God's children. Now, when I was a kid,
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I wasn't very fearful at all. I really had almost
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no fears as a child and was pretty reckless and
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had a lot of fun growing up. But sometimes as
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a young child at night, if I heard something that
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was kind of scary and I was afraid, I would
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always cry out to my father. I'd say Daddy, Daddy,
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and he could hear me from my room in our house,
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and my dad would come and see me. Now, when
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I was afraid, I never called out for my mom.
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And the reason why is I knew my dad was stronger. Now,
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my dad wasn't a big guy, but he was very
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strong because he was a hard worker, and I knew
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he could take on anybody. And so I'd say Daddy.
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Whenever I was afraid, I would cry out to Daddy.
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This is exactly what God tells you to do when
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you're afraid. Stop focusing on fear. Start focusing on your father.
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That's the antidote. Stop focusing on your fear. Start focusing
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on your father. Now, he says, the antidote to fear
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is two things. First, he says, the spirit that God
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has given you doesn't make you slaves, make you afraid,
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but he makes you God's children. Whenever you are afraid,
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the first thing you need to do is remember this
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whose family you're a part of. I'm a son of God.
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I'm a daughter of God. I'm a child of God.
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I'm in the family, and families take care of each other,
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and there's family protection. Now, Let's say you grew up
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in Chicago or New York City and your family was
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a part of the family okay, the mafia family. Okay.
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And you're walking down the street as a kid, okay,
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and somebody starts to assault you and you stop me.
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He says, oh, wait, just a minute. Do you know
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who I am? Do you know who I am? My
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father is Guido, and Guido works for Bruno, and Bruno
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is the Copo de capo de Capo de capo. He
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will make you an offer you can't refuse. Are you
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sure you want to touch me? Because I'm in the family.
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And Guy says, well, on second thought, you can have
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your money back because the family protects you. Now, when
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you start to be afraid, God says the first thing.
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He says, wait a minute, do you know who my
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father is? My father is the creator of the universe.
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My father is God. I'm a child of God. I'm
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in the family. God takes care of you kids. And
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then I cry out to Father, Father, would you take
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care of this fear for me? Will you handle this
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one for me and my heaven? The Father says, of course,
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I'll handle it. For me, go back to sleep. You
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don't have to worry about it. I'll take care of you.
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When you were afraid, you remember whose family you're in.
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You're a child of God. You're not a slave. You're
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a child of God and he's going to take care
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of you. And second you call out to your father. Now,
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what are you most afraid of? What are you most
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afraid of? These days? You know the number one fear
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people have. I know all the studies people say it's
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the fear of speaking in front of others, It's the
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fear of heights, or you know, the fear of new
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social situations. Actually, what I've found is a pastor talking
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to people for thirty years. The number one fear people
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have is the fear of being out of control. And
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when you feel your life is out of control, it
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creates enormous fear in your life. And the longer you
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feel it's out of control, you start thinking I'm out
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of control, and then you start thinking maybe I'm losing
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my mind, and you start feary, maybe I'm going crazy,
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maybe I'm going insane. You've all felt this at different
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times in your life, so don't act like so self righteous.
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Everybody I think I'm losing my mind. I think I'm
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going crazy. I'm afraid I'm going nuts. Now, let me
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just put you at ease. You're not going crazy because
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crazy people don't fear that. Crazy people are very happy
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to be crazy and don't care. The very fact that
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you are afraid you're going crazy means you're rational, so
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you're not You're not going crazy. The fear that you're
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going crazy shows that you're very very rational. Crazy people
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aren't afraid of being crazy. So I want everybody to
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say this. I'm broken, but I'm not crazy. Okay, let's
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say it a lout together. I'm broken, but I'm not crazy.
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Let's say it again. I'm broken, but I'm not crazy. Now,
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some of you are afraid to say it, so let's
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say it again. Okay, ready, I'm broken, but I'm not crazy.
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Everybody's broken. I'm broken, you're broken. The person sitting next
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to you is broken. We're all. Nothing is perfect in
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this world. But you're not crazy. Now. The Bible says
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that we should not be afraid, but we turned to God.
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I remember one time in northern California. It's the year
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I got married. At the end of the year, that
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I got married thirty six years ago, my health broke
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and I began to develop a fear that it's never
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going to go away, that my life is over shoot.
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My life hadn't even started. I hadn't even started, but
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I was afraid, this is the end of my life.
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I'm never going to mount anything. Nothing's going to happen
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in my life. God isn't going to use me. I'm
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going to be an invalid my entire life, and on
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and on and on. And I was filled with these fears,
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and so we took a month off from work and
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Kay and I went to northern California, where my parents
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lived out in the country in the redwoods. And while
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we were there, one day, I got up in the
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morning and I was so depressed because these fears were
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just clawing at my mind all the time. And the
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phone rang and my mom picked it up and she
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handed it to Kay and the man said, is this
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where Rick Warren is staying? And they said, yes, Can
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I talk to him? She said yes, She hands me
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the phone. This guy says, Rick, we've never met. I
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don't know you, you don't know me. I'm calling from
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San Diego. But I heard that you were going through
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a tough time, and I just want to give you
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a verse, and it is this, God is two Timothy
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one seven. God has not given us a spirit of fear,
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but a spirit of power and love and self control.
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And he hung up that verse changed my life. Here
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it is on the screen. For the spirit that God
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has given us does not make us fearful or timid. Instead,
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his spirit fills us with power, love and self control.
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Now get this, The more controlled you are by the
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Holy Spirit, the more self control you've got to have,
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you're going to have, you're going to have. Now get this.
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A lot of people are afraid of the Holy Spirit.
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It's like, I don't want to be filled with the spirit.
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Fill the spirit. That'll turn me into some nut. I'm
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gonna be some religious fanatic. I'm gonna be like some
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of those people on TV saying, babe, you know, out
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foul spirit a nicotine, you know, and I'm gonna be
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falling over backwards and I'm gonna be you know, I'm
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gonna lose control. Actually it's the exact opposite. The more
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you have of the Holy Spirit, the more self controlled
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you are. In fact, God does not give us it says,
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a spirit of fear. So if you are afraid, that's
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not from God. That fear is not from God. When
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God's Spirit comes into your life, you're filled with love.
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I want that you're filled with power. I want that
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you're filled with self control. I want that. Okay, Holy Spirit,
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I want all you got film me. It doesn't make
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me some nut case. It makes me more human, It
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makes me more natural, It makes me more loving, It
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makes me more in self controlled, mastered by the Master.
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I can master anything. Throw it at me, handle it.
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Why because I can do all things through Christ, who
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strengthens me. So the spirit in me doesn't make me
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a lunatic or religious nut. To be filled with the
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spirit makes me more self controlled. And believe me, brother,
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you need more self control. The more spirit controlled I am,
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the more self controlled I am. Number five, the three more.
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Let's move these real quickly. The fifth thing we learned
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from Romans eight is about the antidote the hopelessness, and
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that's verses seventeen and eighteen. And the habit I want
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you to learn to develop is to focus on the
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long term, not the short term. Focus on the long term,
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not the short term. You know, there's a very famous
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study done by Harvard University, very very famous study that
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found out that figured out that the more long term
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you're thinking is the more successful you're going to be
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in life. The shorter term you're thinking is the more
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failure you're going to be in life. People who fail
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at life have short term thinking. They're only thinking about today.
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They're only thing about here and now, the only thing
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about what feels good to me right now. But the
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longer term you think, the more successful you'll be in life.
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In fact, the longest term thinkers are those who are
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most successful in life. Now, as a Christian, we can
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win this one hands down because when we think in
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terms of long term thinking, we call it eternity, because
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we're not just thinking about life here on this earth.
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We're not thinking about forty fifty years ahead. We're thinking
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about trillions and trillions and trillions of years ahead. And
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living in light of eternity is the key to being
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the most successful you could possibly be thinking in long term. Now,
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when you think in long term, you're able to handle
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short term pain a whole lot better. You're able to
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handle short term losses, short term failures, short term hindrances
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because you're thinking long term. Here at Saddleback, we went
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fifteen years without a building. A lot of pastors would
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have given up not having a building for fifteen years.
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Saddleback groot over ten thousand people before we built this building.
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But it didn't bother me because I was thinking long
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term of in spending my entire life as a pastor
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of one church. So fifteen years, so what that's just
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fifteen years. I was thinking long term. And while you're
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thinking about today and this week for your life as
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your pastor who loves you, I'm always thinking ahead for
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your life. I'm thinking about what are you going to
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be at the end of the year, What are you
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going to be at the end of five years, What
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are you going to be at the end of ten years.
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It's called decade of destiny, and that's why I'm thinking
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about how to help you become all God wants you
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to be. I'm doing some long term thinking for your
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life and going where do I need to take you
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so that you'll be what you want to be and
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what God wants you to be in ten years. Most
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people aren't thinking that. The whole society teaches you to
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think short term, and we'll look at that when we
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get to the world. Now. Romans Chapter eight, verses seventeen
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and eighteen talks about focusing on the long term, and
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it talks about the promises of God the next few verses.
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Since we are his children, we will possess circle the
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word will. That's a promise that's in the future. It's
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not now. Doesn't say we do possess, we will. It's
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long term. Since we are his children, we will possess
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the blessings He keeps for his family, and we will
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also possess this is really cool. We will also possess
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with Christ what God has kept for him. Did you
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know that The Bible says that when you get to heaven,
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you're going to get rewarded. You will be rewarded for
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how well you did with what you were given. What
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did you do with your time? What did you do
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with your money? What did you do with your influence?
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What did you do with your talents, your time, your talents,
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your treasure. This is called the stewardship of life. And
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God has put stuff in your hands, and your steward
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of you're going to be evaluated on that in heaven
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and your rewards will be based on that, and you're
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going to be rewarded. But not only that. The Bible
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says you're going to be rewarded not just for how
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well a steward you were. You're going to be rewarded
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for what Jesus did. Did you know that? Look at
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that verse again, it says, and also we will possess
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with Christ what God has kept for him. Did you
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know that? The Bible says that in heaven we are
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going to co reign with Christ. We're going to be
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heirs with Christ from the Father. We're going to co
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reign with Christ. The easiest way for me to explain
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that is, imagine in heaven this giant theater sign, like
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a big Vegas sign that's flashing that says, now starring
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for eternity Jesus Christ, co starring your name. That's what
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it means to share in Christ's glory. You're going to
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do that in heaven. So you need to focus not
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on your little pity, petty pain right now, but on
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the long term benefits of doing the right thing and
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sharing in glory forever. Notice it says the rest of
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that verse, for if we share Christ's suffering, we will
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also share his glory. I consider that what we suffer
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at this present time cannot be compared, in other words,
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of small potatoes, with all the glory that is going
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to be revealed in us. To us, he said, Yeah,
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you know what, it's not always easy living for Christ.
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It's not always easy doing the right thing. It's not
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always easy making the moral decision. But the benefit long
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term is going to far outlast the pain. You need
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to focus long term, not short term. Now practical example,
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Daniel plan. Daniel Plan means you put up with short
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term pain and exercise and eating and things like that
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for long term benefits, and you don't give up. Same
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thing with Bible study, same thing with witnessing, same thing
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with tithing giving of your money. You put up with
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short term pain for long term benefit. Focus on the
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long term. Not sure if you're focusing all in short term.
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There's a one word for it. It's foolish. It's foolish.
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If you're a college student, I beg you to not
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focus on the here and now, the parties and the
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fund and all that stuff, but focus on the long
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term where you want to be. Number six. The sixth
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habit is to remind myself that God is good and
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in control. This is an application of what the Bible
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teaches in Romans chapter eight. This is how God sets
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us free from the self destructive weapon of bitterness. Remind
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myself that God is good and in control, and you
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are mean to remind yourself of that over and over
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and over and over and over every single day. Now,
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I don't have time to get into this, but in
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verses nineteen to twenty five of Romans chapter eight, Paul
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describes how sin has damaged the world. If I got
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into this, the sermon would be twice as long. We
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don't have time to get into it, so let me
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just summarize. In verses nineteen to twenty five, Paul says,
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everything in the world is broken. Everything in the world
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has lost its original purpose. Everything in the world is suffering.
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Everything in the world is in pain, and everything in
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the world is frustrated because Sin broke it all down.
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Everything is frustrated. The fact, look at this verse on
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the screen, verse twenty. Everything created is subject to frustration,
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waiting to be liberated, set free from me, waiting to
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be liberated from its bondage to decay. All of creation
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groans in pain, like childbirth, and we groan inwardly. We're going,
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oh man, this is tough. This is hard, this is difficult.
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Why is life so hard? Says the environment is groaning.
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I think earthquakes, and I think you know, hurricanes, and
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I think all the wacky weathers. There is the environment
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groaning because it's broken. And we grown in pain because
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relationships are broken. And later you're going to find out
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that this Holy Spirit groans in pain for you. There
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are three growns in this chapter. Now. He says that
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the result of living in a broken world is pain,
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and the result of pain is bitterness. And that's a
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self destructive weapon. When I look out and I go,
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he's got a nicer house than I do, she's got
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a better job than I do. How come her kids
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are like that? How come my? And you start comparing
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and you start getting envious and you start getting jealous,
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and then people hurt you and you get bitter and
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you get grudges and you get resentful. That's a pain
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that's going to eat you up. You got to learn
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how to deal with that weapon of self destruction. And
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the way you do it is remind yourself that God
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is good and in control that God is good, is
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in control. The result of living in a broken world
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is pain, and the result of pain is bitterness. And
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as a result, we get bitter inside and we start
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getting resentful and lea fair life is unfair? Well, yeah,
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what else is new? Life is unfair? It's because it's broken.
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But the Bible says in Romans eight that there are
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four things you need to remember to get over bitterness.
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Now listen, pain in your life is not optional. But
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misery is pain in your life is You're going to
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have pain in your life. It's called life. Suffering in
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your life is not optional. You're going to suffer. Misery is.
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Moaning is optional. Bitterness is optional, and you overcome bitterness
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by remembering four magnificent truths. In Romans eight, Verse twenty
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six and twenty seven says this, the Holy Spirit is
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praying for me. You write write that down. The Holy
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Spirit is praying for me. That helps me overcome bitterness
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because no matter what I'm going through, I know God's
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on my side. He's praying for me. It says here
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the Spirit helps us with our weakness. And we don't
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know how to pray as we should, but the Spirit
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himself speaks to God for us. God's praying to himself.
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He's talking to himself about you. He said, how does
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God talk to himself? Oh, you don't ever do that.
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You talk to yourself all the time. When God talks
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to himself about you, that's called prayer. Okay. The Spirit
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of God, it says, prays for us and even begs
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God for us with deep feelings that words cannot explain.
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God sees what's in our hearts, and the spirit speaks
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to God for his people in the way that God wants.
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So when you're no matter what you're going through, the
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first thing, he goes, you know what, right now, the
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Holy Spirit is praying for me. That's cool. Second thing,
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God is using it all for good. That second thing,
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I remember, God is using everything in my life for good.
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It's not all good good, but he's using it all
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for good. The next verse says this, and we know
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that in all things God works for the good of
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those who love Him who've been called according to his purpose.
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It's not all good, but God is using it all
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for good. God is greater than my problems. God is
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greater than my enemies. God is greater than my critics
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and God is using it all for good in my life.
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Number three, God wants me to succeed. Did you know that?
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Did you know that God wants you to succeed. He
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doesn't want you to fail in your life. He wants
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you to succeed in your life. God is not against
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you if you're a Christian, if you're a believer, God
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is for you. The Bible says in verse thirty one,
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So what can we say against such wonderful things, about
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such wonderful things, all the stuff we've talked about, What
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do we say about all these wonderful things? If God
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is for us, who can be against us? Remember, I'm
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in the family. My father is God, and so God
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wants me to succeed. And finally, number four, God will
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give me what I need. When I'm feeling blue and
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when I'm feeling bitter, I need to rememb mind myself
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that God is good, He's in control, his spirit is
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praying for me. He's using everything for good in my life.
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He wants me to succeed, and He's going to give
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me what I need Verse thirty two. Since God did
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not spare even his own son, but gave him up
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for us, all won't God give us. Won't God who
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gave us Christ give us everything else? Wow? He said,
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If God loves you enough to let Jesus die on
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the cross for you, don't you think he loves you
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enough to help you with your debt? Don't you think
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he cares enough to help you with your health? Elth
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don't you think he cares about you when your face
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breaks out? There is nothing in your life that God
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doesn't care about. I threw that one in because it
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seems so ridiculous. There is nothing in your life that
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God doesn't care about. You got set upset tummy. God
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cares about it. He knows every hair on your head.
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God will give me what I need. If God didn't
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spare his sun to solve my biggest problem, everything else
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is small potatoes. It's all minor to him. There is
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no big problem in your life. They're all small problems
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to God. Now, finally we come to the last habit
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you need to develop. These are all mental habits. You
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need to take this home, write it down, put it
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on your windshield, of that windshield so you can't see
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it right, Put it on your mirror and you in
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your bathroom. Put it on your refrigerator. Put it on
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your visor in your car. So every day you can
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remind yourself to practice these habits that defeat the habits
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of self destruction. And the seventh habit destroys the seventh enemy,
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which is insecurity. Now, the fact is, when you feel insecure,
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it really messes up your life. And the worst fear
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that we have in insecurity is the rejection. Many of
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you have experienced rejection. You felt it from your parents.
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Why can't you be like your sister or your brother?
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You felt rejected by kids on the playground and they
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made fun of you and they made up names. You
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felt rejected by a boyfriend or a girlfriend. Maybe you've
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been rejected by a spouse. And nothing hurts more than rejection.
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But one thing I can tell you this is God's
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never going to reject you. And the seventh habit is
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this trust that God will never stop loving me. Trust
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that God will never never stop loving me. I'm in
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the family. He cannot not love his family. He will
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never stop loving me Romans eight thirty eight and thirty
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nine in the chapter Now, I'm convinced that nothing ever
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can ever separate us from His love. Death can't life can't.
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The angels can't, demons can't. Satan can't separate you from God.
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Our fears for today are worries about tomorrow. Even the
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powers of hell can't keep God's love away. Whether we're
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high above the sky or in the deepest ocean, nothing
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in all creation will ever be able to separate us
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from the love of God that is revealed in Christ.
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Jesus our Lord. I may lose a lot of things
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in life, but I'll never lose my salvation. You can't
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lose it because nothing. Once you're in God's hand. He's
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not letting go of you. You may want to let go,
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but He's not letting go of you. You cannot lose
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your salvation. Now, my question is this, do you belong
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to Christ? Because none of these things are true in
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your life unless you belong to Christ. Do you have
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the Holy Spirit in your life? You say, well, I
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don't know. Well let's make certain of it right now.
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That's bow our heads and I'm going to pray a
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prayer as we close, and I'm going to ask you
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to pray it. Say this in your heart, Dear Jesus Christ,
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thank you for all that you did for me. Thank
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you that there's no condemnation in my life. For all
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the sin I've done, you took that condemnation. Thank you
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that you did what the law couldn't do. Thank you
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that you destroyed sins control. Thank you that you accomplished
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the law in my life. And my righteousness is nothing,
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but your righteousness is what ticket I get into heaven on.
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Help me to never forget what you did for me.
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And when I feel ashamed me, remember what you did
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on the cross for me, Holy Spirit, I ask you
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to give me better thoughts. I want to switch mindsets.
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I don't want the mindset of self destruction. I want
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the mindset of life and peace. I don't want to
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think my old ways. I want to think your new ways.
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I invite you to put thoughts in my mind all
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the time, for they are the truth. And help me
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to remember and realize that I have a new ability
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to say no. Lord. I used to just have willpower,
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but now I've got spirit power. I'm not obligated to
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give into those compulsions anymore. That if I ask you
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for help, you'll help me and give me the strength
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to say no. Thank you, that no temptation is too strong,
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and when I'm afraid. Help me to turn my thoughts
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to you. Help me to reme remember that I'm your child,
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and help me to cry out to you, Father, Daddy,
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I'm afraid to focus on my father, not my fears.
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And help me to focus on the long term, not
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the short term. You know the pain in my life,
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you know the suffering. I want you to use it
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for good and I want you to use it for
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your glory. And I want to look and focus long
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term on eternity, not just to hearing now. I want
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to do the right thing, not the easy thing. And
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when I start to get bitter and I feel life
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is unfair, and when I feel hurt, help me to
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remember that you God are good and you're in control,
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that you are praying for me. Thank you for doing that,
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that you are working all things for good. Thank you
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for doing that. That you are for me, not against me.
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Thank you for that, And that you didn't spare Jesus
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and so you'll give us whatever we need. Thank you
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for that. Most of all, I thank you that you
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will never let go of me, You'll never stop loving me,
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you'll never reject me. Thank you that I cannot lose
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my salvation, No matter what else I lose on this planet,
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that you will never stop loving me. If you've never
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invited Jesus Christ in your heart, Jesus say, I want
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you to be my lord, my savior. I want you
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to be the manager of my life. I don't understand
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it all, but I want to trust in you completely.
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Thank you for your grace to me. I want to
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love you for the rest of my life, and I
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ask you to accept me into your family by faith.
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In your name, I pray Amen.